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"description": "dating my best friend's sister",
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} | AITA for dating my best friend's sister? | So I recently began dating someone I have had feelings for for a very long time. We've both liked each other since highschool but it has always been the wrong place or the wrong time. The problem is her brother is a very close friend and he doesn't seem to be okay with it. He hasn't come out and said it but he barely e... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not trying 100% in school",
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} | AITA for not trying 100% in school? | So I'm currently in grade 10 with +90% in high school and everyday I get home from school, my father asks me what I learned. I usually say nothing because the material isn't noteworthy or just because I actually didn't learn anything. Anyways, my father goes on a rant and keep telling me how I'm gifted and how I should... | HISTORICAL | {
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9nXU5Celsax9toRfEII8Xzhwm54CLid8 | atrdsz | {
"description": "showering late at night next to a sensitive sleeper's room",
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} | AITA for showering late at night next to a sensitive sleeper’s room? | My roommate is pretty sensitive to a lot of things - noise, dirt, things being out of place, etc. I moved in recently. He is generally a pretty nice and reasonable person, but I definitely feel like I walk around eggshells on him because he is definitely not one to not express when something is not how he likes it- wh... | HISTORICAL | {
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wucf7fZ4KuP04osUP7NBsWlhxJq2kuUf | akwewy | {
"description": "having thoughts of breaking up with my gf, but only when she's on her period",
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} | AITA for having thoughts of breaking up with my GF, but only when she's on her period? | Fairly self-explanatory title
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Backstory: Every time she gets her period she gets really emotionally needy. Like if I'm not with her 24/7 then she gets really sad. She also gets annoyed by EVERYTHING. She'll go on facebook and read someone's profile and they're too extroverted for her so she gets annoyed... | HISTORICAL | {
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B1lEZ9AdDHNjGt7jNkshh3FkHWrL5m2t | b2g97c | {
"description": "blabbing about a buddy's lies to his GF",
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} | AITA for blabbing about a buddy's lies to his GF? | Throwaway, because reasons. Also, mobile. Apologies if needed.
Situation is complicated, but I'll try to be as to the point as I can. Buddy of mine (let's call him Arthur) has been dating this girl (let's call her Carol) for a few years now, sorta on and off as they have their ups and downs. One big down they have is... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "quitting a play because they cast my sister and I as a couple",
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} | WIBTA for quitting a play because they cast my sister and I as a couple | Backstory: I auditioned last week for my middle/high school’s production of High School Musical. I felt really good about my audition, I sang really well for once, and I thought that my line reads were good. I was really hoping I’d get a Troy or Chad.
Good news: I got Chad
Bad News: My sister got Taylor, the characte... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to share a hotel room with a coworker",
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} | AITA for not wanting to share a hotel room with a coworker? | I'm a light sleeper and I'm sitting in bed not getting any rest tonight dealing with snoring and farting to put it bluntly. I'm probably checking out and going to stay at a friend's house nearby but I'm wondering how accepted this practice is in companies? I'm 44 and coworker is older, I have a decent sort of IT relate... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "moving someone else's laundry when their clothes were sitting in the machine",
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} | AITA for moving someone else's laundry when their clothes were sitting in the machine? | Title. I am sitting here waiting to put my laundry in the 1 washing machine we have at my building. There is a load in the wash that has been done for \~30 minutes, and I have stuff to do with the rest of my day. Is it a violation of personal space or privacy to move someone's laundry over to the dryer, to open the spo... | HISTORICAL | {
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Zx5jpDi186F8HoiMvf5k1xCntmIVRBO0 | a0ik2l | {
"description": "calling a girl in my class fat",
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} | AITA for calling a girl in my class fat? | A bit of back story: I'm a guy. There's a girl in my class you keeps whining about her being fat and that its a "disease". Everybody knows its not fucking true cause she eats half the fucking cafeteria on breaks. She got called out a few days ago for eating too much and she still wont it go. Today she was having anothe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
Nmbe7zBwSonMQrDig3ySD0p5aSuVIjje | 9u5fxp | {
"description": "picking fights and arguing on the internet",
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} | AITA for picking fights and arguing on the Internet? | Let me just start by saying that I know perfectly well that arguing in the internet is stupid and rarely results in both parties reaching an understanding.
That being said, I love picking fights with people that I disagree with. Most of the time, I don’t even care about the issue, I just want to argue my point until I... | HISTORICAL | {
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dKtWvW7GC0YysydEX6v95Dt8IlsJXJqQ | a0zmwk | {
"description": "Shit talking Ex friends",
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} | AITA for Shit Talking Ex Friends |
I'm gonna rewrite this as short and sweet as I can
A few months ago I lost my best friend after a long and close relationship, over..I dont even know..so I'll go over a timeline of sorts. (Names changed for privacy)
___________
- Me and best friend(Bill) belong to an outfit of friends, important ones that'll com... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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dFXcmrUzxDCAxnfi86swcUrKXqdwVv3X | anc5i5 | {
"description": "not believing I'm in the wrong",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not believing I'm in the wrong? | I wrote a huge post and realized I was giving too much info, I'll try and keep this short.
AITA for not thinking I'm in the wrong? I have very few friends, and so I try to hang out with them as much as possible. Unfortunately, a lot of their schedules are mixed and hard to pin down.
So I tried to invite one of my f... | HISTORICAL | {
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QhTr5fufUqBinUfqNMp1B9d7zCKJddMS | b4kpvg | {
"description": "not allowing my sister to bring her daughter to my apartment",
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} | AITA For Not Allowing My Sister To Bring Her Daughter To My Apartment? | My sister has a 7-year-old daughter who is always asking to come to my apartment because she knows I collect dolls and stuffed animals. She has been begging more recently because she was told that I have a "giant Princess Peach" in my living room. (It's a 5'9" mannequin dressed up as Princess Peach.) My sister is tell... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
8RPcVrHuCPjA5jbgRTz3ypnKOiRcXdV2 | acygxn | {
"description": "not wanting my MIL in my home while I'm in labor",
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} | AITA for not wanting my MIL in my home while I'm in labor? | burner account because I know I know people who've read these, at least in the past, but here's the story--
My husband(41M) and I(34F) are expecting our first child in March, and after a lot of research and discussion, we've decided to have a home birth and only go to a hospital in case of emergency. My MIL(65F) has b... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
qenITQnYHcltAhAYAlZYe4trzRqIEnz5 | ba3zvb | {
"description": "agreeing with my friends that my wife is fat",
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} | AITA for agreeing with my friends that my wife is fat? | I love my wife, but she is not small. I mean she is only about 5 feet tall, but she's 140lbs, which is pretty big for someone her height. She's curvy, yes, but has a floppy stomach and flab on her arms and thighs, etc.
Let me be clear: I have never cared that this is the case. I love her. I'm attracted to her. She ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | WRONG |
Xo1rhnpwTel5UHF58WpgCcoyDNd8WhX3 | 9yaqub | {
"description": "wanting to keep my gun in the house",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for wanting to keep my gun in the house? | I moved in with my girlfriend a few months ago and she has made it pretty clear she doesn't like guns. I took her shooting to see if she would warm up to it but after firing one shot she was in tears and I felt horrible for even trying.
The only time I'm ever able to go shooting is when I drive 2-3 hours to my brothe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
jlIaFFu8J4TA5kIKJ5FmCcdau9SZ1UuX | auxvb9 | {
"description": "driving extra slow when they tailgated",
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} | AITA for driving extra slow when they tailgated? | (Sorry for the english, it's not my mother tongue)
So, it was late and dark outside. I was driving in my old Passat Variant that is very long and I am relatively short (1,64m), therefore I can only see well what's behind me through the back mirror that is up to 3 meters away.
This Person behind me has been tailgating ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
u5BDp2YFs7qYYsecIWgNAWMoloVYPDu3 | alb5ol | {
"description": "almost always telling my younger brother off for being messy and generally gross",
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} | AITA for almost always telling my younger brother (13) off for being messy and generally gross. | My brother is messy. He doesn’t flush the toilet, he never hangs up his towels, he never brushes his teeth, he always leaves the shower messy and he had a nosebleed a day ago and he left his nose blood all over the sink, mirror and a little bit on the tiles & he left his bloody tissues next to the sink. I only noti... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
qhJxEOusUkU0B9iqlzVIcQ4lfGONCFNg | aroccz | {
"description": "wanting to ditch my friends",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to ditch my friends | So hey, first post ever. Neat. Also, long post incoming
Some context: I'm a high school senior (17F) and have been friends with a group of people since I was a sophomore. I kinda made the friend group and it expanded until junior year. I used to really really love and appreciate all of these people (I still do mostly)... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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kAMCOnPG9Q1qWHcuXnoEaKJBM10D1CgA | atxudv | {
"description": "hitting on chicks the day after a break up",
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} | AITA for hitting on chicks the day after a break up? | My ex-girlfriend was pretty emotionally abusive and mentally unstable. She broke up with me and urged me to find a healthy girl to be with, whether it's her in a few months or someone else. So I made a Tinder, and got to it. Ex and I are good friends, and we're gonna try to do that "we'll still be friends thing". I was... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
zz0AFjMDJFMQyWLCf1NMwAVfRMPSjdtT | ask1wb | {
"description": "using a black character in NBA2K19",
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} | AITA for using a black character in NBA2K19? | I used an African American character in the 2K career mode just because many people in the game mode do and I didn't simply want to recreate myself for the game mode. Then my brother said it was "like blackface". I did not mean to offend anyone or be racially insensitive. Am I the asshole in this situation? | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 11,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
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} | RIGHT |
y4ZsKSwlZ0gTEXeRyN96wMpjg8k5Fa1E | b7s1be | {
"description": "not inviting a friend when I hung out with another friend group",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not inviting a friend when I hung out with another friend group? | This happened a long time ago in college, but I've been thinking about it lately.
I changed high schools junior year and met a friend senior year (let's call her Ann) that ended up going to the same college as me. Before that, I had gone to a small K-12 (we'll call it Nerd Academy) where most of us had been there sinc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
cwGXEPRS9Zu2zNrtcqshzXJDfN2hUc68 | b3vy6p | {
"description": "telling DH that I will not let his mom pick her grandmother name",
"pronormative_score": 205,
"contranormative_score": 10
} | AITA because I told DH that I will not let his mom pick her grandmother name. | First time poster so sorry if I'm not doing this right.
AITA because my MIL wants our future children to call her mommy(mil name) and me be mommy(my first name). I told my DH that I am not ok with that at all and if I can be my own kids mommy then I'm just not having kids. He thinks its not a bog deal and thinks I'm ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 205,
"WRONG": 10
} | RIGHT |
Kchh3EVGIDKyuKt5ez4SVQml1OR7SJvz | 9yomf3 | {
"description": "not letting my friends shave my head",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not letting my friends shave my head? | Hello Redditors!
In my country, after finishing high school, everyone takes an entrance exam in order to get into an university. And there’s this kind of a “tradition” in my country where the boys who manage to get approved get their heads shaved.
Me and all of my friends already scored enough to get to colle... | HISTORICAL | {
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6xdsnnZf4F5RhpMHC4xK05hzQS7jQnVm | aptamz | {
"description": "wanting to split up with my so because my physical attraction to her has diminished, and being honest if she asks why? this woman is otherwise perfect (career, stable, caring, etc.) I'm a solid 8/10 overall, I don't think my standards are too high, I know looks fade, etc",
"pronormative_score": 2,... | AITA for wanting to split up with my SO because my physical attraction to her has diminished, and being honest if she asks why? This woman is otherwise perfect (career, stable, caring, etc.) I’m a solid 8/10 overall, I don’t think my standards are too high, I know looks fade, etc.. | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG | |
AxIh42kGPngusfp5AcI1VTBaSywB129M | a4w8mp | {
"description": "not respecting my parents religion",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA not respecting my parents religion | I got into an argument with my mom of the existing of god. She didn't accept that I'm an atheist and decided that my opinion dosent matter. To annoy me even more she put around my room some religious posters ETC. I ripped all of them and threw them away.. who's the asshole here? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
tPE0ACK6p35CkgXK4iCBYOxaFBv1tEEb | ah0je8 | {
"description": "I leaving town anyways",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if I I left town anyways? | So I'm in this dilemma where I want to leave for the weekend to visit my boyfriend and his family, and maybe have some fun before the semester starts. I've been working at my internship since the new year, and it's been going well. So initially, I asked my Dad if I could take a trip to MA (the state), and he said no. T... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
pUmxNSalrN10UzDZbLTstYGBCQ0rE8Nd | ba3l9l | {
"description": "refusing to share my late fiancée life insurance payout with her parents",
"pronormative_score": 44,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA If I refused to share my late fiancée life insurance payout with her parents | My fiancée tragically passed away a few months back. I'm currently in the process of sorting various matters out. Two of these are the Mortgage and Life Insurance.
I should firstly make it clear that because we weren't married and had no children I am not next of kin, her parents are.
I discovered today that because... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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pfqVGl9lpH6NXn4aEzfpjQcp7nvgxoIt | 9uwmzs | {
"description": "telling this guy to fuck off",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling this guy to fuck off? | I was in a vehicle collision this morning (no one was injured). My car was a mess. Hood bent up 45 degrees, the bumper falling off... I’m behind the wheel in the center turn lane with my head buried in my hands in disbelief.
Cue the guy on the moped getting off and crossing 3 lanes of traffic on foot to tap on my wind... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
9pSyR56cYjUxISV9CLUzZ8uP7wlEyeDy | 9twes0 | {
"description": "sometimes wanting alone time from my girlfriend to do things I want, or just be alone",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for sometimes wanting alone time from my girlfriend to do things i want, or just be alone? | I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Me and my girlfriend spend essentially all of our free time together and do everything together. Recently I've been wanting to do things like go back to my suite (we're both in college) and just play some video games, hang out with my other friends, or just chill alone. But every time I menti... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
AKYzmLieshNxGce5J5SiwDETr150d38u | b5y8jz | {
"description": "yelling at my mom about how she treats me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA For yelling at my mom about how she treats me? | So my family is strange in the ways. My parents are split and my mom who is single works for most of the day. Because of this I come on my school bus to my grandparents who are very kind and caring. I spend more time with them in their house then my moms (doesn’t mean I love her less). Now here’s the thing I’ve been no... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
kxykg7P38KdueKlAL3BiVn2ZBMPj3nKT | avlpg1 | {
"description": "trashing my coworkers mugs and dishes when they leave it soaking in the community sink",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for trashing my coworkers mugs and dishes when they leave it soaking in the community sink? | At work we have a kitchenette and at the end of the day, my coworkers leave their dishes/mugs filled with oatmeal and other things left to soak. We even have a sign that states “Do not leave personal belongings in the kitchenette. We are not responsible for lost items”. I stay at work pretty late so I see the night ja... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
yMkrRoOIBG2BttyKWegSFCXBJh3xglqR | b9klsd | {
"description": "cancelling a trip away with my friends",
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} | AITA for cancelling a trip away with my friends? | Last year around November me and three other friends who I have been on holiday with before (4 days in Edinburgh ) agreed we would all go to reading festival together. It will be camping accommodation so no hotel expenses and train tickets have not been sorted. Basically cancelling would add no expense or financial con... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
gpiqdxo1xVSPOibdTayLTlXhByYxHUFr | 9zllsr | {
"description": "not paying this $11.50",
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} | AITA for not paying this $11.50? | The night before Thanksgiving I got a text at 11pm from an unknown number (UN). We had no previous text history in my phone.
UN: “Hey so I'm moving out of [address] and they want me to pay this fuckin "cleaning fee" - your prorated share for the 4 months you were here is gonna come out to 11.50, can you venmo me?
I l... | HISTORICAL | {
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F8pmu1jOFqG2MT0coP7xwd7hmt7KBXE8 | a59kdg | {
"description": "being confused why my gf wants one of my hoodies",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being confused why my gf wants one of my hoodies? | So my gf has been asking me if she can steal one of my hoodies and it kinda confused me cuz like its my clothes but like maybe she want it so she can be like " hey girls this is my mans cloths" idk AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
cZwJ8ul0LIuXQqybio1Z732JJkhYgSnf | b393hd | {
"description": "letting my dog shit on my neighbours driveway",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for letting my dog shit on my neighbours driveway? | When I was coming back to my house from walking my dogs, one of my dogs squatted on my neighbours driveway to poop. I tried to stop him but naturally a dog will go where they want to.
Of course I picked it up but am I the asshole if I let it happen? My neighbour sadly saw it happen, she didn't look too happy. | HISTORICAL | {
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NcoAxAhmrozzL1vzc30RGCJvCuIS6lx6 | b14bpm | {
"description": "telling a girl that unfortunate incidents in her life were \"karma\"",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling a girl that unfortunate incidents in her life were "karma"? | So yesterday, I get a random message from a number saying "Hey, how's life? :) if you even remember me haha".
I don't recognize the number right away, but on my end there is a conversation to scroll up to from two years ago. Turns out she was someone I matched with on tinder, and chatted and exchanged numbers and made... | HISTORICAL | {
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sHxYKOd1sEXo67SJsTf1GCu9yZ06wrfT | ana0uy | {
"description": "sending an email to someone saying that I forgive him",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I sent an email to someone saying that I forgive him? | So last year, what happened was I had a tussle with a guy I was co-TAing with. He's one of those guys who doesn't take kindly not being the one in a position of seniority. Because the main lab coordinator is my advisor, I'm the direct point of contact. So sometimes I will update the co-TAs with something my advisor men... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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geOp9WjVx7KUMGkV9uDPElgguUPrNy08 | 9ugl44 | {
"description": "breaking up with my ex due to my health issues",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For breaking up with my ex due to my health issues. | This happened two years ago and it still bothers me today. I was friends with this really sweet and beautiful girl. We were together for a year and a half. It was a small but amazing relationship and throughout this whole time I was at my all time low, nothing made me happy I was always gloomy and had constant suicidal... | HISTORICAL | {
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ydzOFx2tL1qv3EluobhnjfwwJEC1E1ZK | b46zc8 | {
"description": "being mad at my \"friend\" for not paying me for a logo I made",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being mad at my “friend” for not paying me for a logo I made? | So let’s start from the beginning. This kid is a known shit head and no one likes him for various reasons. Like plenty of reasons cause he’s a douche bag. Our amazing web design teacher made an assignment that was “create a logo // thumbnail for said friends YouTube channel. We will have an impartial judge choose the w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "taking another job with a way higher pay, 3-4 months after getting hired at my current workplace",
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} | WIBTA if i took another job with a way higher pay, 3-4 months after getting hired at my current workplace? | Greetings everyone. Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Forgive me if it turns out a bit long.
So, a bit of background.3 years ago I decided Im gonna change my career and become a programmer. after attending a coding bootcamp my friend told me i can join her startup (startup was based in USA and she is a senior developer ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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oFeKoENDXxwhdiGKR8IoL5WatAOYm01O | aflq8d | {
"description": "taking back my Dad's cigars",
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} | AITA For Taking Back My Dad’s Cigars? | My dad is a big cigar guy. Cigar aficionado magazine, smokes one or two a week, and knows his stuff.
During family gatherings like Christmas and weddings he always makes a point to take out a box of cigars for all the guys to smoke. I have about a dozen male family members that all come outside to smoke and everyone e... | HISTORICAL | {
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3HRCnS3OKD4kw9eOmF2fjHoqaFo9tRhy | b94tbi | {
"description": "telling my coworker he stinks",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if I told my coworker he stinks? | So I am a new maintenance technician. A year of experience and progressing very quickly. Got a new job recently with a traveling company doing repair in industrial environments.
At this new job there is a guy who has been doing this for a long time, but hea kinda dumb. He is a nice guy though. The problem is that he s... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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w0GIRhHyj7kfoJzpxsGbFB0sKHyFOJTV | asgq3e | {
"description": "saying no to my manager",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for saying no to my manager? | I started my first job 2 months ago, and although it's very demanding I was doing very well, making very few mistakes, and fixing them promptly. I was also getting lots of complement from my manager and his bosses.
Probably because I was doing a very good job my manager asked me to start doing a co-worker that wasn't... | HISTORICAL | {
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YdjGKcexbccpttd4ezj6rWBcgdrWHD0I | akso8m | {
"description": "having a mental ultimatum for my bf",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for having a mental ultimatum for my BF? | Last night we celebrated our 6th anniversary. We went to dinner at Olive Garden because my boyfriend claimed he made reservations at a nice restaurant in the Downtown area, but turns out he forgot and they were booked up so we ended up at Olive Garden, whatever, not a big deal, tbh I read into and thought we were redoi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
xsSIwCWUKVIBmNRycGQZDaWDneZg7RQd | alp2ti | {
"description": "getting my novel published",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | WIBTA (to my friend) if I got my novel published | My friend (F50) retired early a couple years ago and decided to write a novel. She considers writing to be her passion, but never really sticks to any one thing. She did write her novel, but then decided to self-publish because she didn't want to handle multiple rejections from big publishing companies. She paid about ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
fiYmLi05nVHJ7tr0TDwTS1tWcCk7bZoh | akk8ii | {
"description": "coming home from working and eating without asking my so if he's hungry",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA For coming home from working and eating without asking my SO if he’s hungry? | My fiancé and I have been together for 10 years, living together for 6. So today I come home from a 10 hour shift and I’m hungry. After I do some quick cleaning and put our 2 year old son to bed I decide to eat. I heat up a plate of food, while he is sitting in the kitchen. We go sit down in the living room to watch Ne... | HISTORICAL | {
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6k7AbXouShgjApshsjqKXpyyF2ExUeyR | a5dozo | {
"description": "telling my friends that their friend is abusive to her boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA for telling my friends that their friend is abusive to her boyfriend | My buddy is in a really fucked up abusive relationship, I’m honestly worried he might commit suicide because he’s so depressed and posting things on Twitter that really scare me. His GF doesn’t hit him but she’s psychologically a manipulative beast from hell that eats souls etc etc. The backstory isn’t really important... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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aPxfkFQaTG2Jr2NOAtQpt95f2D4mLV8Q | aouepi | {
"description": "wanting proof of my boyfriend's seemingly outlandish stories about his past after two years of dating",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for wanting proof of my (29F) boyfriend’s (33M) seemingly outlandish stories about his past after two years of dating? | Okay, let me start off by saying that I love him, and I have no concerns as to whether or not he’s a good person. We are both single parents and I see the way he treats his son, as well as mine, and I know that he’s a solid guy deep down. Here’s the problem:
In the last two years of dating, he’s told me some pretty ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
T0dpXA6ILay8QWELycyJM5S9Dgk3Rifb | a3xlnc | {
"description": "not wanting to spend time outside of work with work colleagues because I see enough of them at work",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not wanting to spend time outside of work with work colleagues because I see enough of them at work. | They're not bad people. Just not my type. Anyone else feel this way about work? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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T3aMMGSmAbxxDfzxVjFbH6LSziQ2PsW7 | b6v3cj | {
"description": "throwing away paints",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for throwing away paints | Backroad I’m an Irish second year student (end of American middle school)
T: teacher
Me: moi
Ok so I am a hardworking student mabye not the most talented but I do my best but this teacher constantly gets mad at me for no reason and I just wanted to know who is me the wrong ok here we go
She constantly barrates every... | HISTORICAL | {
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vOJQK5TBDAgm6dJSspqnilthBfwFYkeB | azmnuj | {
"description": "getting mad at my 'friend' for calling me racist",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting mad at my ‘friend’ for calling me racist? | Ok so some backstory here. I’ve had my dream wedding planned since I was very little. I want my gown to be a light green ball gown with a sweet heart neckline. I took inspiration from Princess Tiana’s dress from The Princess and the Frog.
I was telling my friend all about the forest themed wedding plans with dark brow... | HISTORICAL | {
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RgkTKi7GY42DJ1xqzvNVcsX1Uo2cS03U | a28ue7 | {
"description": "filing a noise complaint, then confronting those people for playing loud music late on a saturday",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for filing a noise complaint, then confronting those people for playing loud music late on a saturday? | Alright so, I typically don't give a flying titshit about other people but it was kinda different last night. I suffer from insomnia and i get angry when im lacking sleep (which is why i got a punching bag in the backyard), I wanted to sleep just because the night before i had anxiety before my MRI scan and couldnt sle... | HISTORICAL | {
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Si3rQgpgKyyCDqpR06q3JgqEr9txcoVV | awpq3d | {
"description": "turning a really nice guy down for a second date because of my own insecurities",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for turning a really nice guy down for a second date because of my own insecurities? | So, a few months ago I had been talking to this guy on a dating app for a while when he asked to meet in person for dinner. I didn’t have any qualms about him per se, but I instantly felt anxious about the whole situation (first date in a long time, and first date ever with someone I had never met, let alone off a dati... | HISTORICAL | {
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p03qemlxKP7AQ6kv5yK2tTzvVm4x8y0S | a5cfrj | {
"description": "asking my grieving brother to stop using photo of deceased relative online",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if I ask my grieving brother to stop using photo of deceased relative online? | One of my close relatives passed away recently and it all happened quite suddenly. I will be the first to admit that I haven't really started processing it and I don't really think I'm grieving properly just yet. I'm not in denial, I know she has gone but I'm still in shock and I don't know how to feel.
However a lot... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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wtAQCFxVJJjocbmE8ON7SjGDDNlCtWU0 | b13q2u | {
"description": "being friends with my ex's sister",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being friends with my ex's sister? | So a few years ago I met my ex and her (1 year younger) sister. My ex was close with her sister and we all ended up being part of the same group of friends and would regularly hang out together. This lasted about 2 years until I broke up with my ex, however we had an 'its complicated' breakup that lasted another couple... | HISTORICAL | {
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zaTRQtXNGeeRSAsLObHDdgx58pHKEp0D | abg8wm | {
"description": "pitying the poor",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for pitying the poor? | My mom was telling me how I shouldn’t feel bad for this one lady at my church. She works 50 hours a week at the Wendy’s late night shift and my mom (btw we’re wealthy) was telling me how it was this lady’s choice so we shouldn’t pity her or feel bad for her bc it’s rude. I was just suggesting like bringing something fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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ScTMINJfNHjvICJHkV8o12tpwkbEV9wT | b3oe61 | {
"description": "telling a person, who's had their feelings hurt by a person, that it's probably happening because they won't stop complaining online and very obviously vaguebooking",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | WIBTA, if I tell a person, who's had their feelings hurt by a person, that it's probably happening because they won't stop complaining online and very obviously vaguebooking? | I have a friend we will call Karen. (This is a throwaway to protect the innocent.) Karen is divorced. Karen lost primary custody of her kids for unrelated issues, but her second spouse is gone while Karen's first husband, Mike, is happy with his new wife and having custody of the kids he had with Karen.
Karen is cons... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
9V0xCbm2GW09N8by7eEtXQHsgSI2mX7V | api0aj | {
"description": "not helping out at my job today even though I'm available",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for not helping out at my job today even though I’m available? | I just started at a new job and while I want to make a good impression, I also don’t want to lay the ground work for them to start taking advantage of me. I’m not on the schedule yet so I was told I would receive a call last night regarding me working today. I did not receive a call and assumed I wasn’t needed, I staye... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 12,
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LB9RLUMw5QjYplEePpXBG5EvJiFjI4h6 | b1ywsp | {
"description": "having a gay best friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for having a gay best friend |
please read before making judgment
so at uni we have a LGBT group.
I've been going for a few months and love it.
yesterday I mentioned that I had a gay best friend, but I added that both me and him play up the stereotype when we hang out.
so he is super gay and I'm super lesbian.
we've been doing it for years a... | HISTORICAL | {
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TFgDZ4c2RHoUAw1qcPjAucFpoXLL1t0g | ag94i4 | {
"description": "not giving up alcohol completely when living with a recovering addict",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not giving up alcohol completely when living with a recovering addict? | My (38f) husband (41m) has suffered with alcoholism and addiction for a number of years. He entered rehab last year and has since been clean. It's not been easy, for either of us, but I am extremely proud of him for his hard work.
I stopped drinking in our home when it became apparent he had problems with alcohol. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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N6hebUJANoRdBqmBtTRrNWip9rajOoHI | aqzf44 | {
"description": "telling a girl how I felt when she had something come up when we were supposed to go out on a date",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | Aita for telling a girl how I felt when she had something come up when we were supposed to go out on a date | So I have this girl added on Snapchat that lives a couple towns away from me, she was very nice and we talk everyday, we had a 9 day Snapchat streak, because we talked everyday. So I work overnight, and she works in the afternoon so as far as seeing each other goes we barely can, but we both were off yesterday which wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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mHRcUBrlcxGWBZY1XPIu10AqFb9uRdqC | agb1e4 | {
"description": "moving on too quickly",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for moving on too quickly? | Last Saturday my girlfriend (well call her J) decided to break up with me, the breakup obviously wasn't pleasant, but it was by no means nasty. We had been together about 4 months and were pretty serious about each other. We would spend practically all day together and text into the early morning. Later that saturday J... | HISTORICAL | {
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FNRf3K4GKrL8fOENxgDEy3T5wtKhCZEn | b96xhv | {
"description": "thinking my co-worker/classmate perpetuated a sexual harassment claim",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA if I think my co-worker/classmate perpetuated a sexual harassment claim? | Without giving away too many details, I am a grad student at a large university. Occasionally, I attend university sponsored recruiting events. In this situation, the event was at a bar.
The co-worker in question is very active in the feminism community. She always seems to be in situations where a guy is acting cree... | HISTORICAL | {
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upKWiqExEAcVcd1eWAv3CaqnBgcrtGzq | akksr9 | {
"description": "not wanting to get back with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA I don’t want to get back with my ex | I’m 15 ,had a long distance gf (few months )younger over the summer.We got "frisky" did stuff.She became controlling and I broke things of.Later in the year around Christmas break I asked out her cousin who does live around me.She asked if I still had feelings for ex(no) and how I broke up with her.I made up an excuse ... | HISTORICAL | {
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bZxWFmb57Bd7Wxr75KZ2iD1q1jBPaYJu | b4k7bm | {
"description": "undermining our \"Success Sharing\"",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for undermining our "Success Sharing" | I work part time for a large, orange, home improvement retailer. I get dental and flexible hours so the work isn't too bad; Other than the fact that "Success sharing" has been brought up like a hundred times in my last dozen shifts.
Having some business sense I know that Our SS payments will be under $15 a month and... | HISTORICAL | {
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CdoUfaPGhqe1vF86AwVvzfk63OyA8ZEA | a2fi95 | {
"description": "wanting to go to my great-grandma's funeral",
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} | AITA: for Wanting to go to my great-grandma's funeral? | My great-grandma has sadly passed away a few days ago. I've missed a lot of school this year and her funeral is tomorrow. I really wanted to go but my parents are not willing to take me. I feel selfish for being frustrated and bothering my parents during a rough time, but I really love my great grandma and want to go t... | HISTORICAL | {
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lPJYvb6c7rJTVAK1fqmMlhl3FLT2peQF | av62iw | {
"description": "wanting my dad to break up and kick out his gf",
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} | AITA for wanting my dad to break up and kick out his gf? | My dad and his current gf fight a lot. He doesn’t have any feelings for her but doesn’t want to breakup with her and seem like the bad guy since she has nowhere to go (her parents and daughter lost their homes in the fires in Paradise). She’s constantly lying about stuff and making my father pay for her car payments, i... | HISTORICAL | {
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KgbvjgO2WFp0vhbcc3rK09EbdNZrtWWE | aar4gu | {
"description": "not attending my friends new year party due to that someone who I do not want to be in the same room is attending",
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} | AITA for not attending my friends new year party due to that someone who I do not want to be in the same room is attending? | I got accused being asshole for that but I really do not agree with any of them. They say that they wanna celebrate with me, so I should go there.
The dude who throws the party does not care and invited both of us.
The one I do not want to communicate, knows that I do not want that kind of social interaction and als... | HISTORICAL | {
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l8MTCZzc9j6yCA3BT55W6lZT0GvFj0sp | akcoql | {
"description": "not wanting to forgive my former friends",
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Me, A and B have been really close friends since we were young. Primary school, perhaps. I trusted them with all my heart and told them all my secrets, and they did the same thing to me. Grade 5 comes, and suddenly we’re not in the same class. I was all alone, while A and B... | HISTORICAL | {
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pqmmcAhxeX3m8NnKKuXyShJ7Q3FFAqvq | a8ftj1 | {
"description": "getting mad at my friend when he smokes weed I partly paid for",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my friend when he smokes weed I partly paid for? | Me and my friends are young and we don’t have much money for weed. We usually buy a dab pen because it’s a lot more convenient. We all pay about 15 dollars (4 of us). We leave the pen at my friends house who sometimes invites his other “friends” and they rip that dab. It makes me mad because I think my friend is gettin... | HISTORICAL | {
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zvc9vdbQhkh6nJ7smErieQUAWFpFYf7c | b83oy2 | {
"description": "spilling coffee on my so's sheets",
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} | AITA for spilling coffee on my SO's sheets? | I was sat up in bed with a fresh mug of coffee while my SO was lying next to me. I was holding the mug tightly with both hands resting in my lap with the covers directly beneath me and I hadn't spilled a drop. Suddenly, my SO decided to roll over in bed, taking the covers with her leaving me powerless to stop the mug m... | HISTORICAL | {
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LO0IOVUzoFfKZvo7CRARFpACWZkpBHxG | a9ktpw | {
"description": "not letting a girl run off drunk",
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} | AITA for not letting a girl run off drunk | So I have a friend, let me preface that she is only a friend & I never had anything malicious planned (she did drunkingly kiss me, but I stopped that immediately).
So she and I booked a hotel room for the night given that we’re both alone and away from family & didn’t want to spend Christmas Eve alone, there w... | HISTORICAL | {
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TJQmXU9jBS1PLAe4bu9QjclmMZLPUMfR | a9abct | {
"description": "questioning my brother's choice to invite some of his wife's 'friends' for a surprise party for his wife",
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} | AITA for questioning my brother's choice to invite some of his wife's 'friends' for a surprise party for his wife? | So my brother decided to have a surprise get together for his wife and enlisted my help in setting everything up. My brother mentions to me the day of, he's inviting his wife's 'best friends' in his words who I know are clearly not. A little context. My brother's wife is partially white while 90% percent of his friends... | HISTORICAL | {
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3HyZDs47RWYkpDJnmp6zeZZwY0gzWU1t | airwhv | {
"description": "telling my friend my salary",
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} | AITA for telling my friend my salary | First time posting, because I need unbiased opinion.
Few months ago I was applying for a job, that would start after my graduation. My first real job after uni.
I got the positive answer and waited for them to send my details of the job offer inc. the salary.
I was discussing the process and the offer with my frien... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not showing up to work",
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About a month ago I approached my manager with concerns regarding my work schedule, as it had started to affect my performance in school. Being a senior in college is tough enough as-is, but I had been working between 30-35 hours a week and it was putting a serious strain on my ability to get work done and wake up for... | HISTORICAL | {
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6AmhB0oGd0Rhx3f2wMdDut9jH91x8aiJ | 9yiwfv | {
"description": "smacking my friend when he interrupted me",
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} | AITA for smacking my friend when he interrupted me | Backstory: my friend is very liberal and I am very conservative. Despite our differences we get along great. However when we get into arguments about politics, he loves to interrupt and use fallacies to back up his claims and it’s exhausting to call him out on it every time he interjects.
So we had a particularly hot... | HISTORICAL | {
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LK9DRijCbsEPwcfSadYiSQZl4OqL91k7 | b4qcth | {
"description": "letting my Parents parent my sister",
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} | AITA For Letting My Parents Parent My Sister | My sister, Grace, has autism. She's high functioning, but severely lacks in social skills and self awareness. She is prone to meltdowns, has difficulty taking accountability for her wrongdoings, and gets frustrated easily - making schoolwork a nearly impossible feat. Since I spent the most time with her, I started to f... | HISTORICAL | {
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kEkCflzOzD6YO7I0umg6ayRt9BFzS5gj | ab3r9t | {
"description": "honking at someone blocking me in a parking lot",
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} | AITA for honking at someone blocking me in a parking lot? | Hello all,
Today I was leaving a parking lot that was fairly crowded and tiny. There was an Escalade competely blocking my path as I was trying to leave. A full family was saying goodbye.
There was no room to back up and they were completely blocking the path, for something that I felt could have been done insi... | HISTORICAL | {
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6YebmAXMT38LyIaLFOkDIYCPPjFDC7wm | 9vjp9l | {
"description": "moving back to my hometown to escape what I consider an abusive relationship",
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So about 2 and a half years ago I reconnected with a girl I met online from canada that really seemed to click with me, we shared alot of personal interests, links, etc. She was in this on off thing with another guy and living with an abusive father. She sends me a nude whi... | HISTORICAL | {
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jIvG8FRCcbLdEnXAxSBEI0AtTnYFw1Dc | aymkr0 | {
"description": "rejecting a gift my girlfriend was making for me",
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} | AITA for rejecting a gift my girlfriend was making for me? | Before you judge me, here’s some context to the situation
I have been sick with a cold for two days, and I haven’t been able to see my gf of 4 months in that period of time. I’ve also been feeling a bit down because of my cold, and that caused me to be a bit cranky, especially today.
My gf and I have both made it cle... | HISTORICAL | {
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eaK70Ok1y7yAyJTU4vTnNZYDS6rAgtHy | b32h6v | {
"description": "reconnecting with absent?? father",
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} | AITA For reconnecting with absent?? father?? | AITA: This may not be the right feed, please redirect me if I have posted wrong. I am a grown, married, employed and a self supported 39 year old, just getting that out there to start with. When I was in grade school my parents divorced, it was not amicable. My father had an affair and left, we had little contact and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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07Uo2eDgdPlWAEQCdkkaGqVEKHlHUUDS | b91ame | {
"description": "telling my coworker to stop singing at work",
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} | AITA for telling my coworker to stop singing at work? | Ok so here it goes, I(20m) work at Starbucks closing down the store about 4-5 days a week. Now there’s this other dude there let’s call him Ben(19m), who used to work at the nektars juice bar next door to us. When he got hired we all thought “awesome, someone who’s already been working making drinks should fit right in... | HISTORICAL | {
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v8XRnhutohZCSKdJTgaoQri0rgjlu4Ix | au2yy0 | {
"description": "joking about my female friend and this new guy",
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} | AITA for joking about my female friend and this new guy? | I have this female friend of mine (N) who likes to tell people about this guy (K) and I have a thing with each other in front of him and I. The thing is we were actually in a discreet friends with benefits relationship and we went apart, but we were still friends.
The only person ever I told about my secret relation... | HISTORICAL | {
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iifK4bVKz2qrrN7JttKSuWNsMqjEYzyx | aludor | null | AITA : guy keeps on annoying, mildly threatening and in general harassing me about my favorite card game, and I one day had enough, so I punched him. | Alright, this has been going on for quite awhile, I'm into Yu-Gi-Oh, and said guy is a hardcore pokemon fan. every day when he sees me he shouts out YGO is trash and usually a direct insult to me, which I would generally respond to rudely too. one day when me and my friend (who is also a fan, of course.) were playing a... | HISTORICAL | {
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fTGYFpF3tXvQsod5I8HUPPXP0ZIyBNNZ | avua1k | {
"description": "ordering pizza at an upscale italian chain",
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} | AITA ordering pizza at an upscale Italian chain? | I promise this isn’t a shitpost.
Last weekend, my SO (21M) and I (21F) were taken out to dinner by an older family member of his. This was at a semi-upscale chain restaurant, not Olive Garden but very similar. After looking over the menu, I decided to order a $12 personal sized pizza. Wood fired pizza is one of my fa... | HISTORICAL | {
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KRezViji4w6oP5bW0pBK88X25qinLzLp | a2c70v | {
"description": "calling out a moderator for deleting every single persons reply because his got negative reviews",
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} | AITA for calling out a moderator for deleting every single persons reply because his got negative reviews ? | A moderator gave horrible incorrect advice. They were down voted by everyone who's seen the post, in return they removed everyone's advice.
I repeated my advice after seeing it deleted and also called out the moderator for doing so.
They banned me for 30 days off the subreddit and in my ban report, stated how calli... | HISTORICAL | {
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14oY6YRj9Fyj4yoQMPtthdqXHAVa55AL | b73t6k | {
"description": "not letting my best friend stay with my wife and I while he's going through a divorce",
"pronormative_score": 39,
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} | WIBTA if I didn’t let my best friend stay with my wife and I while he’s going through a divorce? | Best friend and I (both early 30s) have been basically brothers for 20+ years, and him and his wife were together for seven years and married for four. This last year he got a new job which made him very conceited and would go out every weekend with his new workmates who are all...quite misogynistic. I definitely notic... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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sEvDBeEsrY0It6KotipKR7sVJA5iKBcz | 9z7cpg | {
"description": "not wanting a second date with a woman who lied about being trans",
"pronormative_score": 40,
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} | AITA for not wanting a second date with a woman who lied about being trans? | Sorry about the wall of text.
Some background: I'm a 25 year old bisexual cisgender woman. I've been out for about 8 years now and have been actively involved in the local LGBTQIA+ community. While I've never been in a serious relationship with a trans person, I've had friendships and casual sexual encounters with bot... | HISTORICAL | {
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I6fTE4nZnJviw7TWCc4ZQbljSdNZ3t9l | anu9gk | {
"description": "surrendering my old roommates cat",
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} | AITA for surrendering my old roommates cat? | Not technically my roommate, but my girlfriends old roommate found a kitten on the side of the road in July of 2018 and decided to adopt him.
Since then, my girlfriend and I have moved in together and she no longer lives with this particular roommate. Her old roommate is technically homeless (sleeping on a friends co... | HISTORICAL | {
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5AxFrcut93QOKKf8Ks8x6DHrmDxm8aOP | aprdyt | {
"description": "telling my boss that my coworker is leaving",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my boss that my coworker is leaving? | I work in midsize Company with about 70 employees. I am working with my direct coworker seperatly from the others in our company and we are sharing the workload only between the two of us. No one else in the company is "capable" of doing our jobs, atleast not on the spot and without a few month of training.
Now to the... | HISTORICAL | {
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4vLvycKbbT1fotLuEMWsnwRwwemNhYwj | aljxz5 | {
"description": "forgetting things my girlfriend has told me and asking about them again",
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} | AITA for forgetting things my girlfriend has told me and asking about them again? | My girlfriend will tell me something (like "I can't go to the gym for a week") and then a few days later we'll be talking and I'll ask her if she's going to the gym that day. Instead of just being like, naw brah, she'll say something like "you're stressing me out, I already told you I won't be going to the gym for a we... | HISTORICAL | {
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em6LnBTF2Ho9koSYZXGO5s2Xvp5NcPvV | b6xp4k | {
"description": "not talking to my parents because they are using me... but being ?! maybe I'm the bitch... tell me please",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA I not talking to my parents because they are using me... but are they?! Maybe I'm the bitch... tell me please! | I stopped talking to my mom 4 years ago and recently stopped talking to my dad. I stopped talking to my mom because she would lie about me. For example, my mom and my dad separated and my mom called me trying to get me to extort my dad for money (for her). When I refused, she threatened to call the cops on me for fraud... | HISTORICAL | {
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bSgI4mRl2683IYwpLicGBDoK9cPiBcQ3 | at5w7e | {
"description": "making my ex Fiancee and her kids leave",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for making my ex Fiancee and her kids leave? | So for the past 1.5 years my fiancee and her kids (50% of the time) have lived with me, I have supported, supplied and paid all bills but lately I'm just getting called an asshole for it, literally. Finally after a week of fighting, she said "maybe you should start sleeping downstairs, until we find a place to move" to... | HISTORICAL | {
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n4CHpCJ4KxtGxLUmvxxMw0VlK1KYLzem | aivcsr | {
"description": "not wanting to identify as gay",
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} | AITA for not wanting to identify as gay? | Hi everyone.
Before I start, let me just say that I am not trying to be homophobic/transphobic. I am incredibly new to this and it's very difficult for me to keep the hang of it. If i do make a mistake, please correct me. I want to learn. i don't know if my age has to do with anything but I am a sophomore in high sch... | HISTORICAL | {
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HliZXSWaMWDUxGylhH0PQ1O04k8FTXyz | b8c08p | {
"description": "making another noise complaint about my upstairs neighbour",
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} | WIBTA if I make another noise complaint about my upstairs neighbour? | So I live in an apartment building, I have neighbours above, below, and on two sides of me. The guy above me moved in a week or so ago and since then he has been on and off playing really loud music.
Like, I’m 20. I understand why you would want to play loud music but ffs this is an apartment building and if I can ma... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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eBovufLXknwGjgxGDzhc6XL9dpkr8lIS | b1b2i3 | {
"description": "getting upset and leaving my gf's apartment for celebrating finishing most of my work",
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} | AITA for getting upset and leaving my gf's apartment for celebrating finishing most of my work | Hello,
This is my first time posting. Please don't get mad if I break rules that I do not know about.
A little bit of background:
My gf (29f) and I (34m) work for the same employer at the same location and we have similar work load. After work, I usually go over to her place before I head home. Another piece of in... | HISTORICAL | {
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42dfd6CPa9yZ2yp0jGmXDnqRtoqWWFwh | b01nyw | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my wife's friends because of the subject matter? NSFW",
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my wife's friends because of the subject matter? NSFW | I guess like everything a little backstory and context helps. I have been with my wife for 3 years now I love my wife, she is with out a doubt "the one".
She has a group of friends that she grew up with and went to middle and high school with and she still has remained good friends with a lot of them. I think they ar... | HISTORICAL | {
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bTykLR7BxGaq8w1uBRvzGOMRZ7TQnxMO | az7ody | {
"description": "not feeling grief",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not feeling grief? | My grandmother died today she's been sick for months now so everyone knows it was coming soon. My sister called me today to tell me and she was crying and all that. But me I don't even feel sad. Honestly I kind of feel happy that she no longer has to deal with her illness. But I don't know. Listening to my sister cry ... | HISTORICAL | {
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olXwLPyprwQ0hK2OCrTADZdKY2LQzj8s | b6hbyv | {
"description": "telling a guy on my pickup team to shut the fuck up",
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} | AITA for telling a guy on my pickup team to Shut the fuck up | So I’m in college and once a week I play pickup hoops for a couple hours in the gym with a bunch of guys from college, there’s always some familiar faces every week where we sort out teams and play 5 on 5.
Now there’s a guy there regularly (let’s call him Ben) that takes the games way to seriously. He acts like the te... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
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