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{ "description": "making a joke post then getting spammed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making a joke post then getting spammed.
So I like a medium sized Youtuber. This guy as a SubReddit and has been making posts and doing stuff on it. Now I saw a post asking for a Discord (which he said he didn’t want to do) and he commented saying not to do it. Now I was inspired to make a joke, so I commented that eh should get a PornHub account. Pretty simp...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my depressed friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my depressed friend?
TLDR: depressed friend flaked out on every meet up I tried to arrange with the whole friend group for a year and then told me that I'm not enough of a priority to hang out with I've had a small circle of close friends since high school, only 4 of us in total and we've had a pretty fun 4 years together, but its been 4...
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{ "description": "posting a Drunk Snapchat Selfie with 2 girls", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Posting a Drunk Snapchat Selfie With 2 Girls?
So I [19M] just got out of a 2 year relationship [19F] about 3 weeks ago. The breakup was a mutual decision and it seemed like a very mature and adult seperating. Over the past few weeks I've started to move on and I have gotten back out there, so to speak. Anyway, my roommate had a little get together in our dorm room...
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{ "description": "offering a bit of green", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for offering a bit of green?
Not a serious post- just surprised by some reactions! Went out to a popular bar this weekend with two of my good friends. More of college crowd focused on getting f**k’d up rather than just hanging out but still fun. Went outside and smoked half a spliff and didn’t need any more. Saw a group of guys and offered them a ...
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{ "description": "accidentally causing a fight", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for accidentally causing a fight
So yesterday was was the last day of school before spring break started and I (15m) decided to skip last period with my friends (15f, 15f, 15m, 15m) (I know not the smartest decision but we weren't doing anything anyway and I had no friends in that class) anyway towards the end of the period I go towards the gate cause...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with her anymore after she kissed me", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with her anymore after she kissed me?
So I've recently found out a friend I've had since high school is 1. gay and 2. has a crush on me. I literally had no idea until yesterday when I was chilling at her place like we do sometimes after class. We were sitting next to each other on the couch watching a movie and she was leaning her head on my shoulder (I th...
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{ "description": "exercising authority in a roleplay forum", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for exercising authority in a roleplay forum
For a bit of context, I was bored one day and joined this roleplaying forum that's attached to a browser webgame. So I started a fantasy roleplay where I basically acted as the DM, describing how the world would react to a character and their actions. This was going on for a few days and I had a good 5 people who poste...
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{ "description": "wishing my boyfriend stayed home and took care of me instead of going to the casino", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wishing my boyfriend stayed home and took care of me instead of going to the casino?
My boyfriend gets colds often. Every single time I'm by his side making him food, getting him medicine, and making sure he's comfortable. We have been together for two years, and have lived together for most of it. In those two years I have not once gotten sick, until now. In the middle of my bartending shift this ...
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{ "description": "getting a kitty when my boyfriend is allergic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for getting a kitty when my boyfriend is allergic?
I am looking at adopting a kitty for my daughter and I. We both love cats, and after losing our twin brother cats in a freak accident two years ago, I really would like to introduce another little murder-mittens into our home. HOWEVER, my boyfriend is allergic to felines. Not deathly allergic, but enough to be uncomfo...
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AITA Roommates
Hello! So I am curious regarding my present situation. First, over break I built my own computer. I am relatively a budget student and rely on myself for most, so I chose to not invest in a WiFi card since I knew my dorms had Ethernet. For reference of the rooms, they’re fairly small, about 10’ by 14’. When I ca...
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{ "description": "not liking my uncle staying at our house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita if I don’t like my uncle staying at our house
My uncle is a schizophrenic jobless person with a huge ego, but that’s not what defines him. What defines him is that he is a chain smoker. He told his sob story and my mother allowed him to stay at our place. He always makes his room smell like cigarettes and he brings his piece of shit friends. He does not like me , ...
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{ "description": "ignoring hints for money from a new coworker", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring hints for money from a new coworker?
I work construction, and most of us live paycheck to paycheck, so it's not unheard of to have someone falling short before payday. I've loaned money before, and it usually ends up in disappointment, so--as a rule--I don't loan money. I'll give up a dollar or two, if you're short, or even share my lunch (I won't eat in ...
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{ "description": "scheduling my day off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for scheduling my day off
This has been around a week from beginning to end today and I would like your everyones input. My uncle called me from abroad last week to tell me the schedule for him and his daughter to arrive back home. I am house sitting for them. He told me his flight would be leaving at "5" the upcoming week on the phone and I t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to write a note for kindness week", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to write a note for kindness week
This happened today, in the last period of the day. I'm a junior in high school. ​ My last period of the day is English, which is usually quite passive. The AITA pertains to about the last 15 minutes of class. Everything is going, as usual, we did a quizlet group practice test thing. (basically kahoot but ...
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{ "description": "acting bratty towards my dad over his family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For acting bratty towards my dad over his family?
Firstly, I just want to mention this will be a very petty post. I've (20F) always had issues with my dad's elder sisters acting catty/bitchy towards me. This has been happening at least since I was 8. It's actually fairly common in my culture for the women in a family to act nasty towards the female in-laws. My dad's m...
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{ "description": "being pissed with my gf for abandoning me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for being pissed with my GF for abandoning me?
Throwaway. I \[30M\] am in the weeds with my GF \[27F\] and need some external validation/asswhuping. Long story short we have been dating for 5 years, we met online and she moved to my city after college, have been living together for 4 years. I love this girl and think I could marry her some day, but I do not have m...
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{ "description": "not getting my brother food", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting my brother food
So I was on my way home after a biology test I studied my ass off for. I was with my dad, and I wanted to reward myself, since I felt like I did well. Usually, when anybody is out of the house, we’d call my older brother (he has autism) and ask if he wants any. I wasn’t really thinking about it, and just picked up fo...
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{ "description": "being mad at my parents for deleting some of my steam games", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad at my parents for deleting some of my steam games
I play about 5 hours a day of video games and my parents think I'm addicted so they made it so I have to play one hour on one hour off they also think that video games cause violence so they are deleting cs go. They also won't me play air soft because it has toy guns
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{ "description": "flying home to see my family while my wife and kids stay home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for flying home to see my family while my wife and kids stay home?
Both of our families live in Texas, and we currently live in rural California with our two kids. I'm the only one who works, and bring in about $50,000 a year. My dad is financially well off and has flown me out for week-long visits a small handful of times over the past three years. I'm going again in January because ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my partner to continue a friendship with someone who wants to sleep with her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my partner to continue a friendship with someone who wants to sleep with her?
My partner has been struggling to make friends lately and recently became friends with a coworker of mine who happens to be a lesbian. The coworker became very flirty both verbally and physically within a week of them hanging out and when asked to back off simply held off for a few days then came back at full force, my...
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{ "description": "calling my wife a leech", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA For calling my wife a leech?
I (27F) have been working for our entire relationship. She (27F too) was supposed to get her degree in the first 4 years, and get a decent job to support me to look for a better career. She didn’t. Instead she has been unemployed majority of the time with a few minimum wage jobs that she hardly showed up to. I understo...
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{ "description": "cutting off ties with my aunts", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off ties with my aunts
I just recently cut off ties with my one of my aunts because I lent her money and she didn't return it by the date she promises. A little backstory, mom use to constantly "borrow" money from me as I was growing up and earning money. She usually returns 100-200 than try to play it off saying she has it tough raising u...
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{ "description": "dancing with my (male) friend in front of my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dancing with my (male) friend in front of my boyfriend?
Basically I went out last night to a small club with my (f21) boyfriend (m21) and his brother, his brothers girlfriend and a few of his friends. I saw one of my friends (m23), who I’ve known for 4+ years and have always been super close with, who I used to go clubbing with regularly back before I met my bf. I asked him...
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{ "description": "breaking the Cinnabon code", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking the Cinnabon code?
So when I was on vacation with some friends, we would wager Cinnabons on bets instead of money because we thought it was funny. One night when we're playing mini golf, I was getting cocky and then went down big and was getting visibly frustrated. Out of pity and too cheer me up, my friend bet that I wouldn't hit the im...
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{ "description": "accepting food delivery directly to my office", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accepting food delivery directly to my office?
I have about 15 years of work experience and am paid well, and while not management I am in a high level skilled position. I sometimes order lunch if I'm busy or if it's snowing out or some such. Maybe 1-2 times a week. I work on the 41st floor, and the delivery person ends up leaving the order with the reception do...
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{ "description": "intentionally ignoring my co-worker", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for intentionally ignoring my co-worker?
So here's some backstory: First and foremost, this person is incredibly nice and a big part of me feels incredibly guilty for intentionally avoiding them; however, I feel like this person has become a distraction and is not respecting some basic boundaries... I'm a fairly introverted person. I come to work, sit at my...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have financial entanglements with my alcoholic sister's baby daddy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to have financial entanglements with my alcoholic sister's baby daddy?
TLDR: Scroll to "yesterday" at the bottom ​ Timeline: 3 years ago: My sister, her boyfriend, and their 2 sons (ages 5 and 2) were living in section 8 apartment in North Carolina, due to both of them having zero credit, and both being irresponsible people. They never cleaned the apartment, which lead to te...
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{ "description": "downloading tinder to sleep with girls because the guy I'm currently talking to is more interesting in freestyling and mansplaining than having sex with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for downloading tinder to sleep with girls because the guy I’m currently talking to is more interesting in freestyling and mansplaining than having sex with me
The guy I’m seeing is great for the most part, but sometimes he gets in these moods that make it hard for me to even be around him. He gets upset and it really makes me question being with him. That being said tonight we went to a movie and came back home and I expected (or hoped) for sex. Instead he began mansplainin...
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{ "description": "kicking my daughter and her son out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for kicking my daughter and her son out?
DISCLAIMER: This is for my dad to hopefully show him that he’s not the asshole in this situation. And I’ll write from the viewpoint of him to make it easier for everyone to understand. (May be biased as I believe he is NTA but just want some others viewpoints) To begin, my daughter has not been the best person, alway...
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AITA? Or just honest?
An acquaintance of mine is ending her 26 year marriage to her husband due to him cheating. She has grown children. Now, she wants to foster children. Am I the ASSHOLE for 1) asking if she is doing this because she actually wants to or if it's 2) to prove to her ex husband that she's a good person. She is still clear...
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{ "description": "leaving a discord server quietly after feeling belittled", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a discord server quietly after feeling belittled?
So, I join this discord server about a particularly niche subject at random. I introduce myself and so on, try to be civil, etc. The conversation gets going, I try to fit in, I just casually share my opinion about things, and this person, who happens to be the server owner and me get into a discussion. I normally have...
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{ "description": "eating raw onion when my boyfriend really dislikes the taste", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for eating raw onion when my boyfriend really dislikes the taste?
So, obviously I am not a total asshole, but my boyfriend and I (dating for around 1 year) can't agree on it, so curious what this subs finds of it. We often cook together when we spend time together (2/3 days a week), and while cooking, I enjoy to snack a few raw union bits. My boyfriend however really dislikes the tas...
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{ "description": "avoiding conversation and ignoring a person", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for avoiding conversation and ignoring a person
I am a student (22M) at my university where one of the guy (32M) who works there has become quite a friend of mine. We used to talk about stuffs as a part of casual conversation and somewhat he seemed like a good person. But lately all he can talk about is sex. Yes! he playfully asks sometimes why I am single for which...
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AITA, father cancelled last minute
Me and my ex have two kids together aged 16 and 11. I had an important work trip over the weekend since it was his weekend and I expected him to have the children. His relationship with our children is fairly good and he's usually amazing about picking up the kids on time. He called me as I was packing for work that...
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{ "description": "unintentionally making a friend feel fat", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for unintentionally making a friend feel fat?
Throwaway because I don't want people to associate this with me. ​ This happened a bit ago, but I feel very morally conflicted about this, so I want to share it here, so the internet can decide how I should feel about it. ​ I'll provide background. I'm 21/M, in college, and my primary friend g...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my dad for eating a pudding I made", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my dad for eating a pudding I made
I made a Panne Cotta with jello and left it to sit overnight in the refrigerator. When I woke up I found that my dad had eaten it. I got mad at him since he knew I had made it yet he ate it for himself anyway. I called him a jerk and he got really mad at me. He told me to leave the house and not come home( I was
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{ "description": "asking for/about his Xbox", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking for/about his Xbox?
Okay, so please hear me out on this. I have this FWB I’ve been spending a lot of time with lately. On a whim (a fucking stupid whim), I sold my Xbox. I thought it was dominating my life. Well, it’s been weeks. I miss it so much. I have nothing to do at home. I just sit on my phone or stare at the wall. I rant about i...
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{ "description": "snapping at my family over a joke", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For snapping at my family over a joke
A few days ago, I snapped at my mum and my sister. Not like, a small snide comment. I, for lack of a better term, erupted. It all started in 4th grade when I was diagnosed with anxiety, specifically, around the concept of death. I literally couldn't be in the dark because it would make me imagine how permanent death is...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with the differently abled kid in my class", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with the differently abled kid in my class?
There's a kid on a wheelchair in my class. He's a sweet guy, we spoke a few times because I only helped carry his bag to class. After that, he started sending me really long texts, appreciating what I did, and I would respond to them politely Until it became super annoying. I'm a reserved person, I don't befriend th...
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{ "description": "breaking a kids Airsoft gun", "pronormative_score": 205, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for breaking a kids Airsoft gun
I was walking home from school about two weeks ago when I noticed two kids in my neighboorhood shooting at a dog with an airsoft gun. The dog was trapped in a garden where the owner of the dog had set up a small fence around so the dog could run free, but not escape. These kids kept shooting at the dog, so I told them...
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{ "description": "wanting my mum to give me her tax statement for my benefits claim", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting my mum to give me her tax statement for my benefits claim?
So for some context: my boyfriend (almost 19m) and I (18f) fell into some issues surrounding drugs the latter half of 2018 - hard drugs such as methamphetamine and heroin. Two days before Christmas my mum searched my room (something she has never done before to my knowledge) and found needles etc. She flipped out, proc...
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{ "description": "ignoring my boyfriend after saying I'm done multiple times to him during an argument", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For ignoring my boyfriend after saying I’m done multiple times to him during an argument
So my boyfriend he has very low self esteem issues and for the 50th time in the last two months we’ve had a fight on how he’s not ugly and all that shit Well half the time is just him shitting on himself and me saying “ok” cause anything I say it’s immediate met with “lol I’m fucking ugly” Today was the last straw, c...
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{ "description": "ruining a girl's scholarship after she called me a \"bitch ass beaner\"", "pronormative_score": 68, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for ruining a girl's scholarship after she called me a "bitch ass beaner"
So im in an area where there's a lot of rednecks, latinos and blacks. The latinos and the blacks here don't really like each other and there's gang violence and usually the rednecks aren't too fond of them either but they mostly keep to them selves. Unfortunately this spills out into school and everyone hangs out with ...
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{ "description": "waiting in my car in a busy/packed parking strip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for waiting in my car in a busy/packed parking strip?
More context is of course needed bc my title is a little strange. I have a hair appointment in a salon that’s located in the busy part of my cities downtown area. I finally found a space after driving around for half an hour and I park. I’m only a quarter of a block away from the salon and the parking meter doesn’t cha...
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AITA: My girlfriend is feeling resentment because I make more than her
Okay so the background is my girlfriend and I have been together several years. Around 2.5 years ago I started my first job out of college in sales. Recently during a national conference I was recognized for my performance in the company, and I texted my girlfriend right away to tell her what happened. I said a few thi...
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{ "description": "getting mad when my boyfriend drinks", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad when my boyfriend drinks?
I know, the title makes it seem like I'm an asshole, but hear me out. I'm 21F, he's 25M. Every single time my boyfriend drinks, he gets wildly and usually blackout drunk. Every. Single. Time. Used to happen every week multiple times a week, now it's like 2-3 a month. The night always starts out with him saying, "I'm j...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my depressed, abusive mother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to leave my depressed, abusive mother
Ok so since I was around 6, my parents have been divorced. For you to get more context, I will say that my dad proposed a divorce settlement involving child custody for my brother and I, who gets the house, etc. It was a reasonable offer, but my mother refused it and demanded full custody and many other unreasonable th...
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AITA for this fight with my childhood friend?
I’m 18(m) & my friend is 16 (she’ll be Jenny). I’ve known Jenny since she was 4 & I was 6, & she’s been like my sister since then. We grew up together & eventually I moved 5 hours away, so her family & I have made many trips to visit each other over the last 2 years. Last year she came to visit me a...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick out one of my roommates", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to kick out one of my roommates?
ok so a bit of back story real quick; me and my buddy lets call him "Conner" have known each other for 9 years and have been roommates for 4 years. last march we moved into a new apartment, closer to my job and his collage, and since it's a bit more expensive and we have an extra room now Conner asked if his friend who...
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{ "description": "making my ex feel guilty for cheating on on me constantly", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my ex feel guilty for cheating on on me constantly?
I know , dumb. And I know, very common. 4 year relationship, we're both in our early 20's. Basically got dumped, badly. like he initiated sex and than immediately dumped kind of badly. Absolutely humiliated. Got told right after I've been lied to about how close he'd been with a coworker. All the physical and emotiona...
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{ "description": "being upset because of having to pay for my sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset because of having to pay for my sister?
My sister and I are on a holiday abroad, and we’re taking turns paying for meals we have together. Today we were planning to meet up and go somewhere together after my mourning tour ends. I met her at a cafe and she’s already had lunch. When the waiter brought the bill, she told me to pay for it. I was so surprised I d...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend for someone else", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I left my girlfriend for someone else?
Apologies for poor formatting. I've been dating someone for a little over four months (Let's call her Jess) and it's all been going great. Recently I've started talking to another girl (Mary), first as friends only (75% of my friends are girls, so I didn't think anything of it.) Turns out Mary has a huge crush on m...
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{ "description": "petting a strangers dog in a park", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for petting a strangers dog in a park?
This happened a number of years ago. My college held a Relay For Life event where different groups from the campus and the community had a 24 hour walk-athon to raise money for breast cancer. I went with my college volunteer group. One an individual belonging to the group camped right next to us had puppy that was tied...
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{ "description": "not showing up to a friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not showing up to a friend’s wedding?
I’m on mobile so apologies for the formatting. This girl and I have known each-other since pre-school or maybe even earlier. We are now 22. We fell out when I started going to a different school, and then got back into touch when we were both teenagers thanks to Facebook. We started talking every once in a while, and...
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{ "description": "not cooking for my 'vegan' husband", "pronormative_score": 418, "contranormative_score": 127 }
AITA for not cooking for my ‘vegan’ husband
So this is a throw away account and I’m on mobile. The usual. Me (33F) and my husband (39M) So I’m a SAHM for our 4 kids (11M) (9F) (5F) (4M)it was only 2 years ago I was able to start staying with them full time when my husband got promoted. Even though we can afford for me to stay home we still do have to budget...
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AITA for a defective dog vomiting?
Hello. This all happened a while ago. It just plays on me a lot as I am fragile and don't like when people call me an asshole. I have a friend, whom we shall call A, who works at a cafe. One day, some old guy (J) comes in to the cafe with a dog and says that he has been sleeping on the streets for a few nights in Pari...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend his brothers girlfriend was talking majorly negatively about him behind his back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend his brothers girlfriend was talking majorly negatively about him behind his back?
So I’ve been dating my boyfriend (Let’s call him Ryan) for 2 years almost. His brother’s girlfriend (let’s call her Michelle) I’ve never been close friends with. I’ve been kind to her in general these past year or so but I don’t know her personally at all and quite frankly never cared to. She’s been dating Ryan’s broth...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate/best friend who is (currently) an unemployed single mom of 3 to find another place to live", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my roommate/best friend who is (currently) an unemployed single mom of 3 to find another place to live?
Almost 4 years ago my best friend was a stay at home mom of 3 (1 girl 2 boys) when her ex-husband forced her and the children out of the marital house. With little money and no place to go (her family lives too far for her to legally move the children away from dad) I let her and the children move in with me on a verb...
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{ "description": "pushing my friends away after they hung out without me and didn't make an attempt to reach out to me when I didn't show up", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for pushing my friends away after they hung out without me and didn’t make an attempt to reach out to me when I didn’t show up?
A little bit of backstory: I had a small group of friends in high school (I was 16 at the time). They were always getting in fights with each other and I was always the one getting both sides of the story to resolve it. One day two of them were ganging up on me because a guy they both had a crush on had a crush on me a...
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{ "description": "cutting people out of my life when they don't live near me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cutting people out of my life when they don't live near me?
When someone doesn't live in the same city as I do, to the point where I can regularly spend time with them in person, I mostly stop hanging out with them and interacting with them over digital messaging platforms. I've had a few friends call me out on this, saying that I don't respond to their messages and text b...
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{ "description": "ignoring my fiancee", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA if I ignore my fiancee?
or starters, I'm a male in his mid twenties and until today I was engaged to a woman also in her mid twenties. We have been through a lot but lately she has been belittling me and not handling her expectations. Back during Christmas she left me while we visited my dad's side of my family. A week later we made up and...
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{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend for telling her friend something I said about her", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for telling her friend something I said about her?
Basically my girlfriend of 4 months and I were talking about a friend of hers and she asked me if I thought she was pretty. I always stay honest when she asks these questions because I trust her to not be irrational. So I very bluntly say no and my gf laughs and I start laughing too then I say “yeah she kinda looks lik...
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{ "description": "reporting three different posts attacking a cloth pad seller on the book of faces", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting three different posts attacking a cloth pad seller on the book of faces?
So I am a bit steamed right now. I belong to a cloth pad/diaper anti-scammer group on the book of faces. I log in today to see a post marked with just a name and continued number four. So I look through the comment section to see wtf is going on. Turns out the first post is the seller herself making a post after being...
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{ "description": "telling a friend/dj why I really didnt want to go to his shows", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told a friend/dj why I really didnt want to go to his shows?
o there is a local dj duo who are in my town. They seem like cool people and their music is alright. Theyre best friends and are well known in my area for djing. I am friends with one of the DJs (B) and he asks me to go to his shows regularly. The issue is I used to be involved with the other DJ's little brother (M). ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that her contracting HIV was a punishment for her sins", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for telling my friend that her contracting HIV was a punishment for her sins?
One of my friends recently found out that she has HIV. I have told her that while I can help support her she needs to accept that her promiscuity caused her to contract the virus and that it is a punishment in a way from God (I didn't use those exact terms). I said that she is lucky that HIV is more treatable these da...
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{ "description": "refusing to sleep with my boyfriend's dogs", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for refusing to sleep with my boyfriend’s dogs?
I recently moved in with my boyfriend (after dating about a year). The problem is that he has two large labs that sleep in his bed every night. Now, I like dogs. But I probably don’t qualify as a dog person by Reddit standards. Anyway, sharing a bed with them is too much for me. The hair, drool, etc is just not want I ...
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{ "description": "refusing to say \"I love you\" to my partner", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for refusing to say "i love you" to my partner?
TL:DR at the bottom I've been really down recently due to stress of school, family and just life in general, especially after the NZ terrorist attack (being religious myself it hit close to home), so my mind is not going to be thinking of my partner (MP) as a priority at this time. MP keeps telling me they love me wh...
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{ "description": "talking to my boyfriend about our issues on my blacony", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for talking to my boyfriend about our issues on my blacony?
This happened this morning. My boyfriend [M/20] and I [F/19] have been having some issues lately. Last night I was feeling hurt about something that happened and needed to talk with him about it. His mom drove him to my house this morning so he could drop something off to me. I wanted to talk to him about last night,...
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{ "description": "hurting someone's feelings I care about out of spite", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hurting someone’s feelings I care about out of spite?
AITA I will admit off the bat that what I did I believe would be considered an asshole or even a true scumbag move. But let’s have you all decide. Over the past year I’ve been having a relationship with a girl we will call her g for short, has issues with substance abuse. Both legal and illegal. The illegal being opioi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my girlfriend out for dinner on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to take my girlfriend out for dinner on her birthday?
So my girlfriends birthday is today. We are both at work, but texting back and forth. She hints to me over text that she wants me to come pick her up and take her out to dinner tonight. I then tried to figure timing since we currently are an hour apart (she stays at my place on weekends and her place during the week si...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see a scary movie with my gf", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to see a scary movie with my GF?
To preface, I have never liked scary movies for as long as I've lived. I have never wanted to or sought out a horror movie/TV show, it's just never been a genre I enjoy. Anytime movie favorites are a topic, I rarely go out of my way to say I hate horror films, but if asked I always say I'm not a fan. My GF, on the othe...
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{ "description": "wanting my roomate to do dishes that aren't his", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For wanting my roomate to do dishes that aren't his?
Me and my roomates all have a shared cleaning roster, and one of those areas in the kitchen, where its expected to clean the oven/ stove. We all are expected to do our own dishes, but if we have friends around who have a glass of water or a small bit of food and the dish is left out, it is expected that whoever is on k...
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{ "description": "exploiting a loophole my university created", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for exploiting a loophole my university created?
I'm finishing an exchange program soon and hence moving out of the dorm I lived in for the past year. However, I recently discovered through my roommate who moved out earlier that the rent payment system here is so bad that the university staff in charge of the student dorms actually have no way of checking whether yo...
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{ "description": "calling a guy racist after he said he would have sex with a black woman, but wouldn't date one", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling a guy racist after he said he would have sex with a black woman, but wouldn't date one?
I'm a young black woman who was at a bar/club last weekend with friends (all races and genders). Everything was fine and we got into a conversation with another group that was there. They were asking each other about their "type" and what they look for in a girl, etc. One of the guys (half white / half latino) sai...
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{ "description": "cleaning out mum's pantry", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cleaning out mum’s pantry?
I’m housesitting for my parents for a few months, so I thought I’d do them a favour and clean and reorganise the pantry. Their pantry is huge and overflowing - you can’t find anything, so mum will buy double-ups of everything because she doesn’t realise she already it. There was stuff in there from 2003. There was ro...
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{ "description": "thinking my MIL is insensitive about possible miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Thinking My MIL Is Insensitive About Possible Miscarriage?
Last fall, I suffered a miscarriage. It was a really low, depressing time right before the holidays for myself and my husband. We have one daughter who is healthy and amazing, but I have polycystic ovarian syndrome so pregnancy and fertility hasn't always been "easy" for me. After the miscarriage, which occurred betwe...
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{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend for handing the tip to the waiter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for handing the tip to the waiter?
Every time we go out for a meal she insists on handing the tip to the waiter and quoting 'This is for you'. We're both students so generally we can't afford to leave a huge tip and I feel embarrassed and cringe when the waiter awkwardly accepts. When I confronted her about this she got mad at me and said she doesn't tr...
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{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend said that it \"wouldn't work out\" if I was shorter than I currently am now", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for being upset that my girlfriend said that it “wouldn’t work out” if I was shorter than I currently am now?
My girlfriend and I met a year and a half ago through a dating app and at he time she joked that I had just made the cutoff in regards to what she is looking for in height since she set 6’0” as her minimum and I happen to be 6’1”. She also happens to be fairly tall (5’10”). Since we have been dating she would periodi...
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl that was flirting with me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a girl that was flirting with me?
About a month ago there was this event where we got to meet people from different parts of the country. After the event I got a message on a messaging app from a girl from the convention. I ignored it because i didn't really want more people to chat to. About a day goes by and i thought of talking to the girl. So afte...
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{ "description": "clocking out when I told my boss I would", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for clocking out when i told my boss i would?
I know the title sounds like NTA so now lets get into the gray area, the way we cut people at my job (valet) is not by when we’re scheduled but by how many cars are in the lot (10 cars per person) i switched shifts with somebody who was supposed to leave at 4 (and absolutely would have left at 4g because i had somethin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my time with shared kids", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my time with shared kids?
A little backstory, my Ex left me about a year and a half ago, we have two children together and she came with two children already. Her eldest decided to remain with me, while her son recently decided to move in with her. The issue I have is she has spent the past year and a half living however she wants, I usually ha...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my boyfriend for not getting me something to eat fast enough when I'm sick", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend for not getting me something to eat fast enough when I’m sick?
AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend for not taking better care of me when I’m sick. So I’ve been sick for two days and still not feeling better. I really didn’t want much, just something to eat although it did require a trip to the grocery store. If I could, I would have gone to the store myself but it’s snowing out...
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep at night while my wife and grandma take care of the newborn", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to sleep at night while my wife and grandma take care of the newborn?
My wife has accused me of not doing my part because I’ve been more or less sleeping through the night. Ok that sounds bad but hear me out here. My mother-in-law flew in from out of the country specifically to help us out with the newborn. Mother in law has more than pulled her weight; she cleans the house, she’ll make ...
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{ "description": "spamming a friend about a D&D game", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spamming a friend about a D&D game?
Me and a couple friends played a D&D game regularly. I was more like a couple of one-shots we did. But there were many times when I (the DM) would prepare a whole session, read stuff on the internet to create the one shot, and overall take a few hours preparing it. And then the player whose house we played in woul...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my mother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to attend my mother's wedding?
This one comes with a story. I grew up with an awesome Dad. Here, i'll be using my dead nickname, Maddie. He loved me regardless of anything, when i told him i was gay (age 10, i just knew...) He told me he, and my mother, were Bisexual. He had diabetes and he got a wound on his foot two or three years ago. His foot ...
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{ "description": "not lending my sister our car", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not lending my sister our car?
OK SO BACKSTORY: I just got my drivers license a week ago and I really like using it. So my sister left for college and she is back for Thanksgiving break. When she left I inherited the car from her but its technically our car. My mom is at home and my Dad is retired so that means we have an extra 2 cars she could driv...
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{ "description": "commenting on a customers order so they would tip for once", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I commented on a customers order so they would tip for once?
Reading the title now it kind of sounds really bad LOL. TL;DR customer is on the 3rd floor, no elevator available, always places large orders and never tips. I want to make a comment next time I deliver so he would start tipping. My work delivers for multiple restaurants kind of like Postmates / Uber eats. Us driv...
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{ "description": "telling my sister she's not doing a good job raising her son", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my sister she’s not doing a good job raising her son?
My nephew will soon be eight. He’s rude, violent, and apparently now a thief. She was over here today with him and he stole this little decorative gem thing out of its holder that my girlfriend keeps on the end table. I texted her to let her know and she got defensive right off the bat. In her eyes he can do no w...
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{ "description": "wanting to not invite everyone invited to my wedding reception to my wedding ceremony", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to not invite everyone invited to my wedding reception to my wedding ceremony
My fiancé and I don’t like the whole show and drama of weddings, nor do we like attention. We want to celebrate with our loved ones and have a good time, but avoid putting ourselves in a position where our wedding becomes what other people want. We’re having a private ceremony with close family and friends, and a recep...
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{ "description": "calling child protective services on my deadbeat dad", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I called child protective services on my deadbeat dad?
To keep it short, my dad is a gambling addictand drug addict with anger issues. He's had 3 kids with a woman eight years ago. The woman is also a piece of work. Smoked throughout all pregnancies, also a drug addict and disappears for hours throughout the day. To give insight into the situation, I once heard the young...
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{ "description": "calling my boss out on his racism", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my boss out on his racism?
I was hired to work as press relations officer at a company that prides itself on having only 'native people working with their native market'. I am from a third world country and I speak four languages very fluently, one of them being English, even if it is not my native language. I was initially hired to work with ...
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{ "description": "choosing to go to night school even though it conflicts with my work schedule", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to go to night school even though it conflicts with my work schedule?
This is going to be long. TLDR at the bottom, apologies cause I’m on mobile. Some background before I get started. I work long hours, around 7:30 to 6, 4 days a week, then a half shift on Saturday. There is only one other girl who works the job I do and works close to the same hours. I’ll also say this is the daughte...
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{ "description": "never staying the night at my partners place", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For never staying the night at my partners place?
My girlfriend (18f) and I (20m) have been together for three years now and she spends roughly 2-3 nights a week at my house where I haven’t spent 1 night at her place in the whole three years. My reasoning is because I am such a conditional sleeper and I honestly can’t stand her bed/bedroom. She asks me often to stay t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my best friend because she canceled a sleepover", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my best friend because she canceled a sleepover?
This happened yesterday, as my best friend asked me a week before if I wanted to sleep at hers this weekend I said yes and Friday (a day before) she told me after school (even if during school she said she’s excited for our sleepover) that she isn’t in the mood to have a sleepover and that it sucks for me but I should ...
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AITA – Purchase Discrepancy Between Reddit Buyer/Seller
I need your guidance. At a high level I made a purchase from another Redditor, and when it arrived, the package didn't seem to be what was agreed to. ​ The discrepancy is a measly $10-15, but the challenge I have is that I've been accused of trying to hustle and con the seller of this fee, so I wanted to ...
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{ "description": "being frustrated at being given a job I didnt apply for", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated at being given a job I didnt apply for?
Sorry for the VERY long read. But i feel like i need to say everything and get it off my chest. Im not going to sugarcoat anything but instead present everything about myself in the most negative way possible to try and present a non biased review. This has been bothering me for months and has tbh has been making me q...
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{ "description": "stopping a hate speech motion at a company board", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for stopping a hate speech motion at a company board?
I serve on the board of a quite major company. There was a motion to implement new disciplinary measures for 'hate speech'. Although I am a gay agnostic/atheist I voted against the measures because I thought they would penalise religious and particularly Christian employees and associates. I also feel it is not my plac...
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{ "description": "telling management on my coworker for spreading lies after I dated her best friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling management on my coworker for spreading lies after I dated her best friend (also a co worker)?
Okay sort of a long story, also new account because my original has my real name as the username (stupid I know). SO, I’ve been working at this customer service job for almost three years now. I started talking to this guy let’s call Joe, who I worked with. After a few months working there he and I started dating. We d...
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{ "description": "excluding my friend who has Asperger's", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I excluded my friend who has Asperger's
I have this friend called Tom, he was diagnosed with very, very mild Asperger's at a young age. To people who don't know about it, he seems like a very talkative person, and likable too. It is only after knowing him for a while that you pick up some of the traits. Tom likes to figet a lot, which is perfectly fine and ...
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AITA My college phone number was one digit off of the local Best Buy's number
At California Baptist University in Riverside, CA I lived in the on campus apartments. The apartment had a landline phone. Nobody used it because cell phones... On occasion the phone would ring. Probably once every fortnight or so we would get a call. I'd pick up the phone and say "Thank you for calling Best Buy, th...
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