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{ "description": "refusing to support prostitution", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to support prostitution?
Okay, so my friend and I have been friends for about 17 years, since freshmen year of high school. We don't see each other often due to my demanding work schedule that often requires travel, and the fact that she's a bit of a free spirit wanderer. She currently lives about 3 hours away from me. She texts me on Wednesd...
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{ "description": "during this exchange with my long distance girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA During this exchange with my long distance girlfriend?
This may seem trivial for some folks but this is so out of the ordinary for me and my girlfriend that I had to ask. I (23M) am in an intense graduate school program while my girlfriend (21F) is finishing her last year of college, and for 2 years we have been happily together and I do not see that changing anytime soon....
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{ "description": "not wanting people to wrap my presents", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting people to wrap my presents?
I apologize if this ended up being too many words! This came up between my fiance and I over her wrapping presents for me but my sentiments apply to everyone generally. My fiance had asked me about what kind of paper I wanted my presents to be wrapped in this past Christmas and I told her I've always thought it was w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my only aunt after 11 years", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to see my only aunt after 11 years?
my aunt cut contact with my mom (her sister) after their brother died in an accident in 2008. it deeply affected everyone, including my mom, but her sister immediately started creating complications due to not being happy with his will. more or less, she didn't feel like she was getting much from it- and blamed my mom ...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my BFF a few days after her wedding", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for cutting ties with my BFF a few days after her wedding?
I come from a very broken home. I had a best friend (I'll call K) who I had been close to since Jr. High and had been friends with since pre-school. When things were getting bad, I would go to her house. I started going there every weekend, and even stayed during week days. I felt part of the family, I even saw K's mom...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to continue giving me head", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to continue giving me head?
Throwaway because my boyfriend is an avid redditor. I'm just hoping he doesn't browse this subreddit. My boyfriend loves giving head. I'm not exactly sure why, but he's said before that he enjoys the act of giving (as well as receiving, of course). I'm not one to complain, he's also pretty good at it too. However, I...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my girlfriend after she told me she has an emergency fund from before we started dating 3 years ago", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at my girlfriend after she told me she has an emergency fund from before we started dating 3 years ago?
Bear with me. It's not about the money. We have been together for 3 years, the last 2 living together. We've always struggled for money but we always make it work. Right now we are trying to get pregnant but after a year we are running some fertility tests and it doesn't look good, so we have started to talk about ou...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my gf for talking to another guy", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting angry at my gf for talking to another guy?
Let me know if this isn’t the exactly right place, but I figured the discourse fit and I’d like another point of view. So my gf a year and a half has become friends with a lot of her coworkers which is a great thing. However, I found it strange just how much she talks to one coworker specifically. This coworker texts...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my girlfriend won't stand up to her parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for getting mad that my girlfriend won't stand up to her parents?
Context: I'm 28, she's 22. I live on my own, she lives with her parents. Her parents are immigrants from mexico so they are "old school" (their words) when in comes to parenting. They are roughly in their 50s. So a while ago I moved away for school when we were 5 months into our relationship. We've been doing long dis...
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{ "description": "reporting my neighbors to code enforcement", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I reported my neighbors to code enforcement?
So the back story is that I live in southern Louisiana and walk my dog down the alley between blocks behind my house. I have noticed that some dudes are trying to weekend warrior renovate one of the houses on the next block over. They are doing a slow and very crappy job. They have neglected tons of the property, the p...
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{ "description": "not forgiving my inlaws", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not forgiving my inlaws?
Shortly after I got to know the family of my bf , I witnessed his brothers GF doing something inapprobiate. I did not tell anybody, but spoke to her. She was scared that I would talk about it but I promised I would not. Instead of waiting and seeing that I stick to my word, she tried to bully me out of the family by s...
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{ "description": "causing my partner to fail on his paper", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for causing my partner to fail on his paper
For this assignment we were each expected to write our own papers reflecting on a mock counselling session where we take turns being recorded as the counsellor. During class there was a limited amount of counselling rooms, so we ended up not being able to go. During the next class period I asked my partner if we cou...
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{ "description": "throwing scalding coffee on customer who threw lager can at me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for throwing scalding coffee on customer who threw lager can at me
I do a bit of part time work at the weekends cash in hand for a family friend who runs a food trailer in town and have been doing it for a few months now. Isn't much but it gives me something worthwhile to do on top of my fulltime weekday job. We have a lot of regulars and a few weird types that sometimes come ...
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AITA For Late Night Bar Conversations and Expressing My Opinions
So I typically don't go to the bar, but a couple nights ago one of my friends invited me out to meet up with them. When I got to the bar, I got a few drinks and caught up with a few people I hadn't seen since high school. All was good, nothing but your typical night out. But then, my friend's girlfriend brought up ...
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{ "description": "resigning before Christmas and during our companies busiest period in 5 years", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resigning before Christmas and during our companies busiest period in 5 years
I work in an industry that has been in a downturn the last few years. Ive been with them for 10+ years but I'm burnt out and have had enough. I still enjoy what I do at times but between the corporate shit and lack of resources I'm over it. I've been looking for new opportunities the last 12 months but it's a small in...
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{ "description": "telling basically talling my wife that her mother is digging a whole and needs to lie in it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for telling basically talling my wife that her mother is digging a whole and needs to lie in it?
My wife's mother is legitimate crazy. Ever since my wife and her siblings moved out her mother has been directing all of this crazy at her father. She accuses him of cheating and will try to pull her kids into it by sending them "proof" that she found which is usually an email sent by her or something like that. She go...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend apply for a (potentially) bad job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend apply for a (potentially) bad job?
Okay, so my boyfriend, C, worked at a starbucks at our local grocery store about a year ago, and he HATED it. One of his friends at the time, J, was the one that actually recommended the job. It turned out horribly because they had no management, people were quitting left and right, J refused to work more than one nigh...
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{ "description": "telling the negative \"me\" to go away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling the negative "me" to go away?
I know how this might sound, but please hear me out. Recently I have sometimes been having conversations with myself. I talk out loud and the other "me" responds in my head/thoughts. Basically what happened was we got into an argument and I got really mad so I shouted for him to just leave and go away. Since this occ...
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{ "description": "telling my coworker to stop eating my food", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my coworker to stop eating my food ?
A little background. I'm a hairdresser , and in my profession , breaks are not always promised. When I do get a few spare minutes throughout my day, I can really only spare enough time to quickly shove some food in my mouth and go . We each have a tiny cubby with our name on it to put our snacks / cutlery/ etc in. I l...
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AITA? my parents removed my room's door and blocked my window?
I live with my mother, father, twin bro, adopted bro. ​ So, i am 16, i will try to be neutral and tell the whole story. I used to go out late at night 1 am 2 am, since last year. My bf is 19, i will go to his house and sometimes theres a party or if not we just chill, drink and smoke, etc ​ M...
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{ "description": "asking for my money back", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for my money back
Hello Reddit. I need some “outsiders point of view” on this situation. A little back story. Last week, a friend messaged me asking if I was at the university. I wasn’t! He asked whether I’d be there today and that he wanted a favour. Since he got blocked out of his bank transfer system, he needed to transfer 50€...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my ex's girlfriend's ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with my ex’s girlfriend’s ex?
I was married for 15 years, and we had been together since we were 19. The last few years of our marriage weren’t great. We had gotten to the point where we would actively avoid each other when the kids weren’t around. When he (let’s call him Mike) told me he wanted to separate he swore that he wasn’t seeing anyb...
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{ "description": "not talking to my mom after fighting about a ring", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not talking to my mom after fighting about a ring
Backstory: My parents are divorce and absolutely hate each other. The divorce was a shit show and they often put me in the middle. In the divorce agreement that both parents signed it states that I would inherit the wedding ring from the marriage. So now, I am in college and living in my own place away from my parent...
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{ "description": "\"cancelling\" plans on him", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for “cancelling” plans on him?
I was dating someone for about 2 months and everything was great up until this moment. We had planned to hang out on a Friday night. He was going to come over and just hang out and watch a new episode of a show we love. I got home and texted him what time worked for him and he said he wanted to hang out around 9:30 but...
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{ "description": "telling my wife that she looks good bigger", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my wife that she looks good bigger?
When I first met my wife she was thin, pretty thin. Now after a few kids and years have gone by I'd say she's gained about 40 lbs? The thing is, she isn't obese or close to it (I would not be attracted to that). She was too thin, but it didn't really matter to me that much. Anyway, she hates her current weight. She t...
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{ "description": "kicking the shit out of a guy who beat up my sister", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking the shit out of a guy who beat up my sister
My sister is severely autistic (15 yrs old) and was being bullied by a 13 yr old. At the time I was 12 and when my sister came home bloody my mom asked what happened I was at the time “friends” with the kid so I kicked him like 8 times and he fell and I knocked out a tooth
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{ "description": "thinking of complaining to my school about a bad geometry teacher", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking of complaining to my school about a bad geometry teacher?
I’m a sophomore in high school, and I’m taking my second semester of geometry. After taking my first semester class with this teacher and barely passing, I’m over having to cram and put all my effort into it. My teachers fairly old, and while she’s really sweet, I’ve literally heard nothing from people except “oh yea...
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{ "description": "wanting to go NC withaunt", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to go NC withaunt?
I have two aunts on my dads side and both are sort of old fashioned but the older of the two takes it to an extreme. When I was friends with her on FB I would constantly see homophobic or transphobic posts on her feed and then after I came out as queer were some posts about “accepting gay family” sprinkled in. She woul...
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{ "description": "not speeching at my grandaunt's funeral", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not speeching at my grandaunt’s funeral?
So a couple of days ago my grandaunt (the sister of my grandma) passed away at 98 years of age. My mom is shattered, since she has always been very close to her aunt and visited her about 3 times per week. So the past couple of days have been very rough and emotional for her. Me (24F) and my brother (23M) on the other...
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{ "description": "not investing enough time into my relationship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not investing enough time into my relationship
Hey Reddit, this will be a kind of long post and on mobile so i hope it won't be too bad to read because of formatting and stuff. So I(m20) currently am in a tricky situation involving my girlfriend(f20). We used to be in the same class at college, but now she studies at the local University and I do my military serv...
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{ "description": "stepping back my relationship and explaining that I'm not ready to say 'I love you'", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for stepping back my relationship and explaining that I'm not ready to say 'I Love You' (After saying it already).
First time I've ever posted something like this so bear with me! So for context my (long-distance) girlfriend and I have only been going out for a little over 3 weeks and today marks the first time we've really disagreed over anything and I think it's a little OTT. I really like her a lot but the relationship has move...
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{ "description": "telling a friend that I like her even though she already rejected me once", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling a friend that I like her even though she already rejected me once?
I have this long time friend, known her for around 7 or so years now. The last two years, we've become neighboors so we hung out a lot. Sometimes with a group, sometimes just the two of us. Because of the oftenness of spending time with her, I've developed this crush. So a few months back, I told her I liked her an...
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{ "description": "yelling at this guy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for yelling at this guy?
I was walking out of a Best Buy towards my car when I notice this guy standing right by my driver side door. I couldn't see what he was doing but I could see that his hands were raised to my window level, so he was clearly doing something to my car. I don't know how much it matters, but I have PTSD, so I naturally ge...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be around my boyfriend's bestfriends/roommates ever again", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be around my boyfriend's bestfriends/roommates ever again?
AITA for never wanting to see these people again? I know I sound like a bitch but hear me out. My boyfriend lives with his 5 best friends. They are all very close and share a lot of their lives with one another. I have a form of OCD called Dermatillomania that makes me compulsively pick my zits until they scab- gross...
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{ "description": "saying I dont want to go on a vacation with my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying i dont want to go on a vacation with my family
Im 20 years old and live at home. But i pay amd have a little room and help around. But some days ago my mother called me and my sister to tell us she had planned and bought tickets for botj of us and her boyfriend. The thing is she didnt tell us about and i have an insane fear of planes plus ocd for dirtt stuff. So i ...
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{ "description": "not giving her clothes that don't fit me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not giving her clothes that don’t fit me?
Okay so let me start this off by saying that I am not super skinny I’m a medium in most stores large in some. Recently I’ve started following youtube diys of transforming clothes and such. And Sometimes I’ll even buy a 3x large tee and have my mom bring it in a few sizes so that it hits me at my knees. I was in my lo...
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{ "description": "letting this girl down", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for letting this girl down
First time posting on Reddit. I'd have never imagined this being my first post but I'm really conflicted about this one. I'm on holiday somewhere in South America. The first day here, I met a girl working in a coffee shop. I didn't notice her at first but then she asked me where I was from. This ended up in a really l...
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{ "description": "not being upfront that I don't have allergies", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being upfront that I don't have allergies?
I'm smelling enough shit in comment fields to check under my shoe here. I don't eat almonds. I'm not allergic, but I don't eat them. Long story short, I used to eat them during something that landed me with PTSD that Automoderator doesn't approve of. Yes, I'm in therapy but there are more pressing issues than getting ...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "apologizing to someone face to face for cheating on them a long time ago", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If I apologize to someone face to face for cheating on them a long time ago?
I am an asshole for cheating, I realize that and am incredibly remorseful of having done that. About half a year ago, I cheated on someone, and after that we never really talked again. The cut was abrupt, and very much something I deserved. Before high school ends, I would like to reach out to her and apologize. Wo...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to stop looking at Instagram while I'm around", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if i asked my husband to stop looking at Instagram while I'm around?
For some context he almost exclusively follows big assed "models" who wear the bare minimum clothing so as to be within community standards. I'm fine with him doing this, but since it's practically porn I'd rather he didn't do it around me or other people. I would never pull up pornhub on my phone and look at men naked...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick up the bar tab", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to pick up the bar tab?
A group of friends and I were at a restaurant tonight. There were five of us total. After we were seated we all ordered a drink and looked over the menu. After we placed our orders we all sat around making small talk over the chips and salsa (it was a Mexican restaurant) that were provided to us. I felt like the mood...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she cant get a tattoo", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she cant get a tattoo? (Please read the context below)
AITA? My girlfriend (20) has always talked about getting tattoos (she doesn't have any). She's out with some friends, and I get a text saying she's in a parlor about to get a tattoo. I call her and ask her not to. She doesn't, and mentions she been planning this for a while. If she would have told me beforehand I woul...
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AITA Workplace Harassment Training
We had workplace harassment training a while back with a heavy focus on sexual harassment. All of the examples of harassment involved a woman getting harassed by a man or men. A male raised their hand asking why there were no examples of women harassing men. This caused an uproar of men complaining about this. Everyone...
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{ "description": "refusing to work mondays", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to work Mondays?
Some background, I work in a small store that is part of a major industry. It's half retail and half physical labor, and recently we got a new Manager here at the store. Let's call him M, and besides M and myself we have one other full time employee, I am part time *just* below full time. Basically I work enough hours ...
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{ "description": "no longer liking my brother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for no longer liking my brother?
My brother is 19 going on 20 and is not employed, enrolled in any schools/training. Through out highschool all he did was smoke weed and bring stress to our family, he’s never shown ambition to do anything great. After highschool he tried to go to community college, and went for one semester before dropping out. Our pa...
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{ "description": "telling a student to quit complaining about an a", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling a student to quit complaining about an A
I've been a High School English III teacher for a few years and haven't had any problems until this year. I have my classes do a project called Poetry Out Loud right before the holiday break. The whole thing is about memorizing a poem with 30+ lines and reciting it with emotion after around two months of preparation. T...
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AITAH? Don't want to use cabin as a free hotel
So I was gifted the family cabin. Unfortunately before I was my brother lived there with his family and absolutely TRASHED it. Broken windows, floor ruined from not cleaning up after their car, cabin and yard filled with their abandoned furniture (now ruined by the elements). I tried my best to clean up after him. I r...
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{ "description": "taking my graphics card back from my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking my graphics card back from my brother?
A few weeks ago, a friend updated their computer with a newer GPU (Graphics Processing Unit), and they gave me their old one so I could work on building my own computer. I had some other parts, but long story short my new computer didn't work, and I put the GPU back into it's packaging. My current PC isn't built for ...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "dumping my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For dumping my girlfriend
I had been with my girlfriend for almost 8 months, but we have known eachother for years, as we grew up together. Throughout her life she's had massive problems with depression and anxiety. When we were friends, that is to say before we dated, she and I never argued. We were pretty good friends and talked frequently, ...
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{ "description": "\"breaking up\" the family over a lottery ticket", "pronormative_score": 59, "contranormative_score": 191 }
AITA for "breaking up" the family over a lottery ticket?
Yesterday was my little brother's birthday, so my mom organized a little party only including our direct family and her brother's. My sister has been very distant from the family ever since she left home for university. However, whenever she does come home for someone's birthday or Christmas, she always drops off a cou...
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{ "description": "not wanting my daughter to get a nose job", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for not wanting my daughter to get a nose job
My ex and I are supposed to make medical decisions together and split the cost. My ex recently informed me that my daughter needed a nose job for a “deviated septum.” I think it’s absurd to get cosmetic surgery for a kid in high school. Her nose is big but it’s not ridiculous looking or anything. My ex made me come to ...
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{ "description": "asking compensation for something that was lost", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking compensation for something that was lost?
Okay, so I was caught using a rubik’s cube in class (which was not allowed) then the teacher confiscated it then gave it to an administrator. This administrator promised me I get it back march (at the end of the year) but now march is about to end and she can’t find it and suspects someone took it from her office (the ...
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{ "description": "letting my gf believed I only cheated once when it was actually multiple times", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for letting my gf believed I only cheated once when it was actually multiple times?
So I (27M) was dating this girl (25F) for about a year or so, and I really loved her. I was really struggling with drugs & alcohol, and one night while under the influence I slept with someone else. It actually happened several times over a few weeks. I didn't tell her right away, but when she did find out she told...
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AITA New Years Eve plans
So its my last year living in Europe before heading back to the states and really want to go to Amsterdam for NYE instead of staying local. The issue is my GF has to work on NYE and wouldn't be able to make the trip being its 6 hours away. Would I be an asshole to go to Amsterdam with some friends instead of staying lo...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend and ending the friendship because of how much time he spends on schoolwork", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend and ending the friendship because of how much time he spends on schoolwork?
To make this easier, I’ll come up with a name, let’s just call him Jim. He’s an online friend the same age as me, and we’re both from Britain, and this year our year group has some really “important” exams. Thing is, my friend seems to be studying or doing homework *all the time*, he has maybe an hour free time ev...
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{ "description": "asking the pizza delivery guy go back for a soda", "pronormative_score": 114, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking the pizza delivery guy go back for a soda?
The other day I ordered a couple pizzas, some pasta, and a 20oz soda for me and my siblings..The delivery came and I got everything except for the soda was missing. I was really craving that soda so I was a bit annoyed and called back the place to let them know it was missing. I asked for them to drive back the one so...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over her keeping x-rated photos of her and her ex", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her keeping x-rated photos of her and her ex?
My girlfriend and I have been together for one year. We were really close friends for two years, however she had a boyfriend during that time who she, according to her, felt stuck with and was neither emotionally, physically or mentally attracted to anymore. She ended up leaving him for me, constantly assuring me that ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my dad", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help my dad?
Obligatory, this is a throwaway. I have been avoiding my dad at all costs. He calls almost 3 times a week and sometimes more.  The reason I avoid him is because I think I've been hurt enough by him. I have a difficult relationship with him. He was Jekyll and Hyde growing up. He rarely physically hit me, but he had no...
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{ "description": "asking my mom to bring me pizza when she flies in", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my mom to bring me pizza when she flies in?
My mom is coming to help me out towards the end of my pregnancy. She'll be here on Monday. Today we were talking about my hometown's pizza that I love and can't get anywhere else, and I just really decided that I'd like some and asked her to bring it. She wasn't mad, but was laughing hilariously and told me no, bec...
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{ "description": "taking a job only as a stopgap until the job I want opens", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I took a job only as a stopgap until the job I want opens?
Background: I work for myself, but contract work has dried up and I have been effectively unemployed and living off my savings for the last 18 months. I interviewed for Job 1, and am super-enthused about it. They made me an offer, which I'm very happy with, but the job won't start for 90 days or more. I interviewed...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at my ex for sending me presents with a note saying \"early Valentine's day present\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed off at my ex for sending me presents with a note saying "early Valentine's day present"
So me and my ex recently had broken up. Within the last month or so. I told him from the very beginning when he asked if we could still be friends, that I needed space and I needed time to get over him. He begged me not to block him and that he would not message me. Well that was a damn lie. He's been in contact with ...
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{ "description": "complaining to my apartment building that it takes them too long to check-in packages to the mail room", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I complained to my apartment building that it takes them too long to check-in packages to the mail room?
I'm probably just really impatient, but if I pay for same-day shipping on Amazon if starts to get frustrating. Basically all packages get dropped off to the front desk of my apartment building when they are delivered. They are then checked in by the one front desk employee into the system and placed into a mail room. ...
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{ "description": "refusing to acknowledge my boyfriends two best friends or allow them around our child", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to acknowledge my boyfriends two best friends or allow them around our child?
Backstory: I’m 5 months pregnant. S/O and I are extremely happy and excited, although a little insecure because we don’t have much money and we just aren’t as stable as people would like. He has two roommates who are married and ever since they found out I was pregnant, they’ve been downright mean to me. They say they ...
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{ "description": "washing my cat's bowls in the kitchen sink", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for washing my cat's bowls in the kitchen sink?
My housemate says she doesn't feel comfortable using the kitchen sink cos she knows I wash my cat's food bowls in it. I got a different sponge to wash them with and thought that was a good compromise but she still wasn't appeased. I don't see what the problem is if I'm using detergent, not leaving any trace of cat food...
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{ "description": "not being interested", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being interested?
I recently got a nice surprise by way of finding out I have living relatives. Two brothers I never knew about and a mother I haven't seen in 40 years. I've talked to my brothers a bit and it's been equal parts amazing and awkward. That is up until the other night. My youngest brother and I were both given to our respe...
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{ "description": "telling my gf to leave her friend at a hotel/casino", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my GF to leave her friend at a hotel/casino?
My GF and I just got woken up to her friend blowing up her phone for a ride home. Her friend met some random at a bar earlier and took off to the casino with him. Her friend does this kind of thing all the time, and she has no license or car. This was my one night this week to be home with my gf cuz of our work schedu...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 17, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not shoveling my sidewalk", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not shoveling my sidewalk?
Every year it snows and my neighbors have been very good at shoveling the sidewalk on front of their houses. I used to do it too but noticed we almost never failed to get freezing rain right afterwards, creating slippery sidewalks and dangerous walking conditions. This year it snowed again and I'm the only one who di...
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{ "description": "demanding they deliver the correct order", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I demand they deliver the correct order?
Just ordered 2 veggies subs and a large salad. Subs were supposed to be one with oil on the side and the other with mayo. Both have oil all right on it. It wouldn’t be a big deal but we won’t eat them until later so the bun will be soaked and uneatable by then. It also wouldn’t be a big deal if they were cheap but it w...
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{ "description": "moving on 'quickly' from my ex-boyfriend who passed 3 weeks ago", "pronormative_score": 162, "contranormative_score": 244 }
AITA for moving on 'quickly' from my ex-boyfriend who passed 3 weeks ago?
My boyfriend of a year passed away 3 weeks ago after a car accident. I was really close with him and his family, and he was close with mine. We were going to live together in the fall next semester. We shared a friend group as he was friends with all of my current friends before me, so they all like him too. When I w...
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{ "RIGHT": 162, "WRONG": 244 }
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{ "description": "being mad my friend made plans", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad my friend made plans
So I asked my best friend, J, if we could hang out on Thursday (today) on Tuesday. We get out early and the library is late open so it the best day for us to hang. She tells me she had kind of made plans with A, another friend of hers and she’s not sure if she’ll come. I like A a lot and I didn’t have a problem with it...
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{ "description": "constantly ignoring my potentially psychologically ill friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for constantly ignoring my potentially psychologically ill friend?
I moved to NZ about 14 months ago, when i first touched down an old friend (who moved here quite some time ago) offered to collect me from the airport. As she was one of the reasons I wanted to visit and had also insisted I crash at hers, I gladly accepted her offer, especially after a 28 hour flight. She was three hou...
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{ "description": "not paying my friend to be in my short films", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for not paying my friend to be in my short films?
Ever since I was in middle school, I've made short films because I have a passion for film-making and I've asked some of my friends to help act in them. We always had a fun time doing it, no matter how bad the movie ended up being. One friend in particular, Zack, has been one of my go-to actors and we've never had any ...
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{ "description": "waking my friend up with a glass of water", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for waking my friend up with a glass of water?
Some friends and I were drinking, and one of them left for bed and said "wake me up with water in 15 minutes". We had previously planned to go out later, so I assumed he meant to use water to wake him up so he'd be ready to go, which I did. I later learned that he wanted me to bring him a bottle of water to drink. To b...
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{ "description": "rehoming my gf's dog", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I rehome my gf’s dog?
Two months ago the gf got a dog. I didn’t want to, I told her outright it would be on her to take care of it. She hasn’t been. She never takes him out. Literally to the point of him shitting by the back door that I usually take him out. I’ve been doing all the work for him. Feeding, watering, walking, playing. ...
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{ "description": "not giving my boyfriend head", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t give my boyfriend head?
Ok so I’m a virgin and I’m positive I want to lose my virginity to him but he wants to try doing all kinds of things like embarrassing sex positions and stuff. He says he wants to give me head but I don’t want him to one because I feels it’s unsanitary for me and him and I’m just embarrassed to try such a thing. I don’...
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{ "description": "not drinking with my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not drinking with my friend?
So I (F22) and my best friend (M22) have know each other for about three years & usually get along really well. We met at college, and I just graduated while he is not graduating for a few more months. This is relevant because at our university, which is located in the Midwest of the U.S., drinking & going out ...
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{ "description": "going \"shopping\" at the lost and found table", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going "shopping" at the lost and found table?
My younger kids go to the area boys & girls club after school. In the front lobby there's a large table over flowing with lost items, some nice stuff too. Underarmor and Nike hoodies, coats, shirts, sometimes shoes and bookbags. It sits there for weeks without the owners ever finding their stuff, to the point where...
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{ "description": "accidentally breaking my brother's bed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally breaking my brother’s bed?
So once I accidentally sat on my brother’s bed a little too hard and I broke a board. I felt bad and my brother proceeded to yell at me and insult me. He branch up other times in past about times that I broke stuff and I felt bad. Later he forbid me from sitting on his bed even though I tried to explain to him that it ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend who sometimes hangs out with a guy she broke up with me over because she thought he could be her better", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad at my girlfriend who sometimes hangs out with a guy she broke up with me over because she thought he could be her better?
To keep a long story short - Gf has sex with him before we started dating - went for gfs best friend instead - we start dating while guy and her best friend are still together - they break up and gf and guy start talking (about 3-4 months into relationship) - they hang out a few times no red flags - About 6 months in ...
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{ "description": "preventing my roommate from getting a new dog to replace her dead one", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for preventing my roommate from getting a new dog to replace her dead one?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Hey guys, so I live in a 2-bedroom apartment with my two roommates, we'll call them Emily and Jane. We're all seniors in college and have been living in this apartment for about a year and a half now. This past summer Emily decided to get an emotional support animal after her bu...
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{ "description": "dating my best friend's ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for dating my best friend's ex?
So I introduced my best friend (Let’s call him Chris) to a lady who I met at college after I became quick friends with her, She’ll be called Emma. Their relationship was a bit rocky and only lasted a couple of months after Emma broke it off with Chris and about a few month late, she revealed her feelings for me. As m...
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{ "description": "telling his girlfriend what he did", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA If I Told His Girlfriend What he did
First off we need some backstory, I am a quiet kid that usually does not stand up from himself. In my ELA class and Advisory I have a kid in my class that is really just a jerk, not a bully, but not a nice kid. This dude is pretty messed up and does not really do his work in class. We will call him K, because his name ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for getting angry at my girlfriend
Tl;dr: GF went out with her friends. She then sent me videos of her dancing with two guys at someone's house. I got angry. Sorry if I get a bit incomprehensible, I've got quite a lot of drinks in my system. I'll give you a bit of backstory: I've been with my girlfriend for a half a year. We knew each other for a few...
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{ "description": "telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes?
Backstory: My mother bought me Minecraft (so I can play with my friends as other games were starting to get boring) and in return, I'm supposed to wash the dishes for a month. We have a dishwasher so I just rinse off any mess and put them in which makes it easier. More backstory: My family is getting this rule out whe...
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AITA for, well, I'm not quite sure
I was walking from my class to the cafe for a 15 minute break in the middle of a lesson with two people, lets call them K and Phil. In the first part of the lesson I was walking from, there was a commotion outside in the corridor in which there was some shouting and a stomping. I was sat close to the door and tried to ...
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{ "description": "making a girl cry even though she was picking on me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I made a girl cry even though she was picking on me
Quick story My friend and I were sitting eating our lunch when he tells me to scoot over to the girls side so I did. Then there was the girl who called me transgender and I wasn’t gonna let this slide through so I tell her “no ur dad” (I am horrible at comebacks) but turns out her dad was dead. She almost cried and he...
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{ "description": "not paying my ex directly for our daughter's braces", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying my ex directly for our daughter's braces??
My ex and I have been divorced for over ten years and he has had custody of the kids for the last six years. I pay child support, and an never late and routinely pick up the tab for additional clothes and sports fees and other outings. Two years ago my ex took me to court to get more child support, but he didn't figu...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my boyfriend all my passwords", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to give my boyfriend all my passwords?
He told me today he wanted all my passwords to social media “just to take a look” which I felt like was a huge invasion of privacy. I told him I have no problem showing you if for some reason you want to see something but giving all my passwords was too much. Yes, we are in a relationship and don’t/shouldn’t have secre...
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{ "description": "offering a stripper a job", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 81 }
AITA for offering a stripper a job
My friends dragged me out to a strip club because I’ve never been to one. They rented me a private booth with a stripper for an hour and she started giving me a lap dance. She could tell I was uncomfortable so we ended up just sitting and talking because I didn’t want to continue. I asked about her life and she mentio...
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{ "description": "telling my mom I have cut myself in the leg over a stupid argument about food", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I tell my mom I have cut myself in the leg over a stupid argument about food?
I’m 14f for reference. She doesn’t provide food, only bread because that’s the easiest. It’s not like we are poor. I could get up and buy my own food, but I’m too weak and I’ll probably break down in the supermarket bc I hate being around people. She knows I have injured myself before on purpose in the past. She sent...
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{ "description": "\"ruining\" my brothers water bottle", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for "ruining" my brothers water bottle?
This Christmas, my brother got a brand new, pretty high quality and expensive water bottle. He had been needing one for weeks after his last one (two?) broke. Today, I was carrying around a jacket string that had fallen out of the jacket, and his new water bottle was sitting on our kitchen counter. As a joke, I asked "...
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{ "description": "never wanting to donate blood again", "pronormative_score": 100, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for never wanting to donate blood again?
On impulse a little less than 3 years ago, I donated blood. It went perfectly fine and they gave me some snacks after so I was happy. After some time, I started receiving calls to donate more blood. Soon, these calls became daily. Every single day between 12-1pm, I receive a call from a random number telling me that ...
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{ "description": "pulling the fire alarm at midnight", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for pulling the fire alarm at midnight?
*(Disclaimer: Technically I did not "pull" it. It was one of [these things](https://images.by.prom.st/77608428_w640_h640_pozharnaya-signalizatsiya.jpg) with a button. Also, English is not my native language.)* I live in a large apartment building. One night last year, some genius three floors below me decided to have ...
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{ "description": "making my sister cry", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for making my sister cry?
I was at an early family Christmas party and there weren't many seats at the house. Everyone ended up having to share seats with each other. My sister happened to be sitting with me and I thought I could make a quick joke about her taking up too much space and that we would just laugh it off. I started off by saying,...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play D&D with an annoying roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play D&D with an annoying roommate?
A bit of context. I am traveling in Australia at the moment and have been staying at a hostel in Melbourne for the last few months. Recently I managed to start a group playing Dungeons and Dragons, which is one of my passions. I taught a group of seven people how to play and we're running through a short campaign. I ha...
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{ "description": "not sleeping with my GF the night before my grandfathers heart surgery", "pronormative_score": 138, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sleeping with my GF the night before my grandfathers heart surgery?
So some context for you guys. My grandparents took me in when I was younger after my mum abandoned me. They gave me a home, fed and clothed me, and encouraged me to strive for a higher education. My father was never really in my life. So they not only saved me from possible homelessness, but they also became even more ...
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{ "description": "not making a move on her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not making a move on her?
So, maybe this is a weird-ass question, IDK, but last weekend I spent a pretty great day with a girl I know. We really connected, and all through the day she was giving me hints that I unfortunately was too dumb or too shy to pick up on at the time. In hindsight she was being really obvious, and I like her too, but I d...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my brother's new baby mama", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my brother's new baby mama?
There is a lot of backstory and context to establish here, so if you don’t have time feel free to skip to the bottom.   My brother has been in a ton of relationships since middle school and me being the adoring little sister, I’ve tried to be buddy-buddy with all of them. Sometimes they weren’t around long enough for ...
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{ "description": "not listening to my (ex) gf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not listening to my (ex) gf?
So, first of all im on mobile, now that thats out of the way lets begin This story starts just at the begining of the school year in september. I was 16 and had never been in a relationship before. I was (and still am) bad with social skills and have a hard time making friends irl. But online is where i shine. So in s...
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{ "description": "being upset at my girlfriend for leaving me alone at her house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my girlfriend for leaving me alone at her house?
So today my girlfriend invited me over to her place to chill with her while she got high on a psychedelic, just to like chill. I currently don't have a car or cell phone, so the plan originally was that she drop me off in the morning at my mom's place, and then my mom drop me back off at her place around 4 or 5 this af...
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