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{ "description": "insisting I get my area back", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insisting I get my area back?
I work in an somewhat of an open shop where we maintain medical equipment. There are several computer stations around in this room which we use to process paperwork or work on smaller items where we have tools and some random desk items (sticky notes, pens, stapler etc) handy. Each person in my shop pretty much has cla...
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{ "description": "forgetting about where my Ex lived in her childhood", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Forgetting About Where My Ex Lived In Her Childhood?
(Sorry about formatting on mobile) Title says it all my ex told me that she lived in Colorado when she was a wee lass. We were together for two months and I know that she never said that during the relationship. She may have said it when we first met two years ago. It started out from her saying she lived in Colorad...
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{ "description": "not telling my ex I'm seeing someone new", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not telling my ex I'm seeing someone new?
My last relationship was awful. My boyfriend jumped into things before he was over his ex, and spent months doing some pretty sketchy things with her. Eventually I gave him an ultimatum: cut his ex off and commit to a relationship with me, or I was leaving. He agreed to cut her off, and we discussed specific terms like...
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{ "description": "deciding not to attend a friend's bbq last minute", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for deciding not to attend a friend's bbq last minute?
So for a about a week my friend has been planning a bbq, I was looking forward to it. A day before the bbq it was mentioned in our group text chain that we should plan some activity for the bbq. It was decided that multiple people were going to bring backgammon boards and that we'd be playing backgammon for the 3-4 h...
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{ "description": "telling interested parties the baby name", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling interested parties the baby name?
So I work in a school and a teacher went on paternity leave (we will call him Bill). . **Background on Bill (feel free to skip)** Strike 1 Bill has previously acted in ways that have unnerved me. When I started at the school he made inappropriate comments about the students (like that the girls' chairs 'would be we...
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{ "description": "being angry my husband left my dog with people who previously lost her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry my husband left my dog with people who previously lost her
Two years ago, right after my husband and I had adopted our dog, we left her to stay with his parents for a night. I wrote up detailed instructions and also told them verbally that it was very important she was not left out in the yard because there was a gap in the fence she had wiggled through the previous day when I...
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{ "description": "being annoyed my inlaws have overstayed their welcome", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed my inlaws have overstayed their welcome?
My partner's parents have been visting from overseas. They stayed with us for three weeks, left for a trip over Christmas and are staying with us another week before flying back home. We live in a one-bedroom apartment and they are sleeping on a mattress on our living room floor. They clean up after themselves, help ...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend for a dick pic", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend for a dick pic?
My bf and I are long distance. This might be TMI, but when we're not together, sometimes we have phone sex. He regularly asks me to send nudes and videos, and I'll give them to him even if I'm not in the mood myself. The last time he sent me a dick pic was 6 months ago. Today he asked me if I wanted to have phone sex a...
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{ "description": "yelling at my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at my brother.
So it's been a few weeks since the incident, but I am a navy wife with a deployed husband and 8 month old twin daughters. I sometimes only eat one meal a day because that all I have time for. My brother is 23 living at home keeps claiming he's going to join the air force. He is mildly autistic as well. I went to go vi...
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AITA: Group of girls yelled at me on the street and I screamed back
They were drunk and yelled some choice words at a friend and me because of the sweater he was wearing from his uni. They basically insulted his school and called him a bitch etc as they walked by, typical college rivalry. I had a couple of drinks as well, so I screamed back at the top of my lungs "FUCK YOU CUNTS" as t...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend not to overshare intimate details", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my Girlfriend not to overshare intimate details?
There is a lot of detail about this that I can go into if it’s necessary. But the short version is that I have asked my girlfriend that she not share certain topics about me to her friends. I don’t want to be the controlling boyfriend, and I want to encourage her use her friends as support since her parents have never ...
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{ "description": "ceasing contact with a friend after she got back with her husband", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ceasing contact with a friend after she got back with her husband?
Sorry for any formatting issues I'm on mobile. I have a friend that I've been close with for close to a decade. We met in high-school and have been close ever since. Two years ago she met a guy that we had gone to school with that was a few years older. He had a failed marriage and twin daughters that were a few months...
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{ "description": "cancelling being the best man at my dad's wedding", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I cancel being the best man at my dad’s wedding
First time poster here. 24 y/o male. My dad got engaged about a year ago and shortly after, he asked if I would be his best man. I accepted because we were on relatively good terms at that time. Short background is that he has been verbally abusive, manipulative, and has been in generally just a down right bad fathe...
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{ "description": "cutting my mom out of my life", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my mom out of my life?
Now I have always felt like the least liked child when it comes to my mom. My parents went through a bad divorce a few months after I got born, and my mom ended up getting full custody of me, with no timeplan or anything. ​ Now although I don't know if I'm the cause of the divorce, I feel like I am and my...
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{ "description": "being mad at my bf going out with the girl who recently confessed to him and made clear that she's sooo horny for him, wants to fuck him very BADLY, the girl who asked him (more than couple of times) if he'd really be loyal to his gf etc", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: [UPDATE] ...for being mad at my bf going out with the girl who recently confessed to him and made clear that she's sooo horny for him, wants to fuck him VERY BADLY, the girl who asked him (more than couple of times) if he'd REALLY be loyal to his gf etc.????
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a5afjv/aita_for_wanting_my_f18_bf_m21_to_cook_so_i_can/?utm_source=reddit-android Not much to say here again. He's going out with her and a few friends of his (this evening apparently) and I'm just asking myself if I'm being overly jealous here?? I feel *dead uncomfortab...
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{ "description": "flushing the toilet on someone who was being sick", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for flushing the toilet on someone who was being sick.
At school the other day I was in the cubicle and could hear someone vomiting into the toilet bowl. I could see that their head was in the basin and so I climbed up onto the stall pulled their toilet chain (so they got flushed with sick) and then ran out of the toilet. I heard a “what the fuck” exclamation but I was alr...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to wear headphones", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking my roommate to wear headphones
For the past 4 nights my roommate has been playing music on his phone. I do not like the music and he usually plays it until 1 or 2 am. We usually go to sleep around 9pm. This morning I asked him that if he was going to continue playing his music he should wear headphones. He told me that he isn't playing it loud and I...
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{ "description": "not wanting my best friends friend staying with us for a weekend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my best friends friend staying with us for a weekend
This is probably a very mild story here but I really gotta get this off my chest. ​ So in April my best friend of two years and I are going to a convention together, and we got a hotel in my name. The hotel is very expensive and we're paying fairly. About a couple weeks ago my best friend asked if their f...
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{ "description": "not living at home/instantly giving my parents money as I am becoming financially independent", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not living at home/instantly giving my parents money as I am becoming financially independent?
Context: I grew up very much low-income in LA and the only reason I am financially independent as I am is because of my parents helping me so much financially/emotionally and what have you. Anywho, I went to college on a scholarship and ended up getting a job that I didn’t expect to pay me this much as I have no experi...
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{ "description": "not letting my wife take our 5yr son to work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not letting my wife take our 5yr son to work?
My wife is a veterinarian and started at a new practice a couple months ago. This practice is much larger with a more formal structure than the one she left (left a one owner practice and went to a mid sized corporate group). Today was her day off, except she had to attend a doctor's meeting in the late afternoon. Thes...
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{ "description": "calling out from my interview today", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH if I call out from my interview today?
I’m just getting a squeamish feeling about this job. First, they contacted me about this job, said it was one type of role then when I interviewed yesterday, they said it was a different type of role. Okay, so maybe potato, patahto. Then, they tell me it’s all commission based, door to door sales, but they train me to ...
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{ "description": "not going back to my job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not going back to my job?
I have a crappy retail job and it has started to give me real angst to go there. ​ The management is nasty to staff and overall, I feel crappy when I'm there. Morale is in the pooper. ​ Can I just stop going? Do we really need to prolong the charade for two more weeks due to some old fashioned...
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{ "description": "cancelling an orgy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling an orgy?
So some background information. I am a gay male in my 20’s living in NYC. A few days ago I met this guy on grindr and went to his apartment and hooked up with him. He told me that he was interested in doing a group thing because he’s never done it before. I said that I could host one because I have my own apartment so...
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{ "description": "not working during an unpaid break", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not working during an unpaid break?
I work at UPS and as you can imagine it’s peak season. Often times the belt will back up due to the sheer number of packages. We will get a set number of breaks due to how long we’ve been working. Today since it was rather long we had two breaks. However one was an unpaid break. Now I know in my state it’s the employer...
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{ "description": "leaving my ex 10 days before university restarted, knowing full well that we'd be seeing each other everyday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my ex 10 days before university restarted, knowing full well that we'd be seeing each other everyday ?
***TL;DR***: I left my ex over skype, 700km away from her, 10 days before school started knowing well that we'd see each other everyday at school. I couldnt do it anymore. I work summers full time, 12 days work, 2 day weekend, 4 months. It is a very physically demanding job. As the summer goes on, she gets more ...
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{ "description": "being attracted to my friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being attracted to my friends?
I'll make this short (and apologies for bad grammar/punctuation) cast - Me (Jim), Julia, Alex, Sam(who wasn't my friend. she was invited by Alex) these aren't our real names and for context, were all about 15-16 The cast and I were joking around and talking about crushes one night over FaceTime and whatnot when Julia...
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{ "description": "coming out to my friend", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for coming out to my friend?
I know, I know, weird question. I was texting friend and he told me he was was gay. I thought it was a good opportunity to tell him I was bisexual, and he fucking blew up at me, saying I was lying to take attention away from him. All of our friends agree with him. So, am I the asshole here?
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{ "description": "going to a restaurant my friends wanted to go to a few days before we we all supposed to go", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to a restaurant my friends wanted to go to a few days before we we all supposed to go.
Sorry, this is on mobile. Let me preface this a little bit. Me and my brother hardly ever hang out. He lives in another state, and we don’t really talk much online, but whenever we get together to hang out we always have a great time. He came home for the holidays this week. On Tuesday, me, my brother, my mom, and my...
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{ "description": "being pissed at the girl who ruined our choir concert recording", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being pissed at the girl who ruined our choir concert recording?
Let's start with a preface. When someone ruins something you love, you get pissed off at them, right? I do. (TLDR at bottom) ​ I sing in a choir at my community college. Let's call it Apples Community College, or ACC. I am in the most basic Choir I class offered, as it sounded like fun. I have since become...
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{ "description": "refusing to give back my school laptop", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to give back my school laptop?
So to start with background here: I am currently a first year college student studying information technology, and recently I had to pull money out of my school account to buy a laptop that was compatible with my computer programs for school (so a PC, not a mac, which is what I had) I am incredibly lucky to have two ...
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{ "description": "bringing condoms for an oral-only hookup", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for bringing condoms for an oral-only hookup?
*Context:* After talking with a girl for a few weeks, we mutually decided to get sexual. We explicitly agreed to only give each other oral for the first time and save penetration for a later time. Both of our schedules were busy so we actually scheduled the oral-only session for last night (this also made both of us a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to eat my brother's pies", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to eat my brother's pies
Am I the asshole for not wanting to eat my brother's pies and desserts because he used butter and not a vegan sub? I feel like the internet hates vegans but hear me out. Every Saturday I go home, to moms, for dinner. (My mom is a vegetarian) and my brother lives with my mom. He's recently gotten into baking, which is...
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{ "description": "expecting that he works at my father's deli until he finds other work", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for expecting that he works at my father’s deli until he finds other work?
My boyfriend lost his job in January. He was working tech support. He’s been looking for something similar to what he was doing, but he’s still out of work. He had to borrow money from his family to cover his half of rent/bills. My father owns a deli and has offered him full time work until he finds another tech ...
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{ "description": "avoiding my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding my friend?
I have this friend who is the chatty, gossipy type and she texts me a lot to talk but I'm starting to get frustrated by *what* she wants to talk about. It's always either a sad topic about her not feeling like she has a social life or it's about her non-existent sex life. By now we've had the same conversations tens o...
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{ "description": "refusing to eat food someone made/bought for me", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I refused to eat food someone made/bought for me
Background: I used to be extremely overweight and it was due to a massive junk food addiction. I've been fixing it the past few years and now I am down to a normal weight range. In doing so, I developed an aversion to junk food like a former alcoholic would to beer. I track everything and don't cheat because I know if ...
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{ "description": "sending a complaint/feedback to the car dealership that serviced my car because their employee sent me a friend request on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I sent a complaint/feedback to the car dealership that serviced my car because their employee sent me a friend request on Facebook?
I got my car serviced at my usual [brand] dealership yesterday. They offer to drop you off/pick you up from somewhere while your car is being serviced. I've had them drop me/pick me up from my house at least two or three times before without issue. In the past the guy who drove me was older (past middle-age? married wi...
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{ "description": "insisting my ex call our daughter before 9:30 pm & putting a limit the number of times he calls when there's no answer", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insisting my ex call our daughter before 9:30 pm & putting a limit the number of times he calls when there’s no answer?
Obviously, I am divorced from my ex-husband. We have been separated since 2009 but the divorce wasn’t final until 2017. We have two children together a boy who is almost 25 and a girl who is 14. Our son is married with a child and is in charge of whatever contact with his father he has. Our daughter, on the other...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give birth in fear of having a child with special needs", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to give birth in fear of having a child with special needs?
So, background is my sister has severe special needs that cause her to need constant care & it will be like that for the rest of her life. The other day I told my mom I didn’t want to give birth to kids in fear of them being special needs, and she lowkey freaked out saying how it wasn’t genetic and how it shouldn’...
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{ "description": "reserving a seat for my girlfriend at the library", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AItA for reserving a seat for my girlfriend at the library?
Hey there, so, just a couple of hours ago I got into a little argument with a fellow student about a workdesk in our university's library. It's a common place to study for a lot of students as it's very quiet and most of the literature that we need is concentrated there. There's six "seats" or workdesks per large tabl...
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{ "description": "telling my uncle off for his wife's behavior", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my uncle off for his wife’s behavior?
My aunt and uncle (60s) normally visit once I week. I(F22) live with and take care of my grandma. I haven’t been able to stand my aunts behavior anymore. They live about 30 minutes away and they’ll call asking if they can come over and show up about 5 minutes later. After they arrive my aunt comes in doesn’t even ackno...
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{ "description": "not dating a girl because she used to be an escort", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not dating a girl because she used to be an escort?
During my first year of university I met a girl. She was a friend of my flatmate and we got closer and began hanging out, I had feelings for her but she had a boyfriend at the time so I squashed my feelings away. As we got closer she trusted me enough to tell me that she works as an escort, and thats how she's funding...
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{ "description": "not doing more around the house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not doing more around the house?
I (22m) live with my dad; my sister (18F) is away at college. My dad is a great: he's smart, a hard worker, and pushes me to be my best. He had a hard life and hates his job, and suffers from pretty bad depression, but he always gets his work done. His depression definitely has a negative effect on me, and I think I su...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girl for not caring about someone's death", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my girl for not caring about someone’s death?
On mobile. A week ago me(23m) and my girl(22f) went to a pretty popular/local shopping mall that had an indoor Target. Upon arrival there was a huge crowd gathering , i asked “whats going on” and a teenager heard what i asked and said there is a guy choking to death! Me being in active duty military automatically think...
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{ "description": "asking my partner to pay more of the bills", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my partner to pay more of the bills?
Recently, my partner received two large promotions and makes about 3x as much as I do. I am a student, about to finish my degree and work on top of that. He pays a little extra in rent (only a couple hundred dollars) and pays for our dinners sometimes, but other than that we split everything down the middle. Grocerie...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf to better our situation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for wanting my bf to better our situation?
We've been dating for 8 month. I moved in about 5 months ago. It's a studio apt and I absolutely hate it. It's one big room with a small kitchen and small bathroom. When I moved in I had the understanding that once his lease was up we would move into a bigger place. He completely threw the rug underneath me at t...
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{ "description": "not saving a spot on a trip for a friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not saving a spot on a trip for a friend?.
Throwaway account as subject follows my main account. A friend of mine and I have a weekend golf trip planned for August for the second year in a row. Last year we had 8 guys total (and a great time) and this year based on interest from numerous other friends and acquaintances we increased the number of spots we plan...
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{ "description": "buying expensive antiques at a yardsale for a cheap price because the owner had no idea of its value", "pronormative_score": 115, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for buying expensive antiques at a yardsale for a cheap price because the owner had no idea of its value?
So my neighbor is having a yardsale and he inherited a bunch of antiques from his dead parents. I never really liked this guy as he catcalls my girlfriend and makes rude comments about my other neighbors and is constantly blasting loud music in the middle of the night keeping us up even after us repeatedly telling him ...
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{ "description": "\"stealing\" a lady's stuff", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for “stealing” a lady’s stuff
So I was at the bus stop today and I realized that this lady that had a bunch of bags with her, left without taking one. By the time I realized that she was gone. I am not a particularly financially stable kid, so I decided to take a pack of multi grains out of her bag. Next thing I know, she came back about 10 minute...
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{ "description": "saying nigga around my black friend who clarified he was okay with it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for saying nigga around my black friend who clarified he was okay with it?
Essentially I was hanging out with my black friend and this white chick who we will call bravo, so we were just chatting and he was talking about this girl he pulled, I said that's my nigga and bravo immediatley went ballistic on my ass, saying how I can't say that and I deeply offended black friend. He just shrugged a...
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{ "description": "whistleblowing a store I used to work at on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for whistleblowing a store I used to work at on Facebook?
I started working at a popular high street coffee shop in the UK last Monday with a supervisor role. On Saturday I rang the area manager to give my immediate termination of my contract. I also contacted the HSE and the local council because of practices that went on in that store which aren’t acceptable and put the pub...
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{ "description": "feeling like my girlfriend and mother crossed a boundary", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling like my girlfriend and mother crossed a boundary?
Sorry for any mistakes, I'm on my phone and not a native English speaker. Also sorry if some information is irrelevant. The case is, I have high-functioning autism. However, it's on the border of not being autism, so nobody except my really close family and girlfriend notice. My mother really wishes to help me, and ...
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{ "description": "not paying for things I'm not going to receive", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not paying for things I'm not going to receive?
**Hoo boy, this is a long one.** Around the end of September time, my girlfriend and I wanted a dog. My Dad told me that his friend was breeding Shar Pei puppies. We went to the breeder, asked him how much he would want for one of the puppies. He said £800. I said £800 was a bit too much to give all at once with it ...
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{ "description": "tolerating my husbands childishness", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for tolerating my husbands childishness?
Yesterday evening my husband did a home work out and asked me to make his protein shake. He asked me to make it in a beer mug. Let’s take note, I was working on something at that time. I still got up and made it and made it in his work out mug , not a beer mug. He got pissed at that. And then he opened it and spilt it ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that I take more moral guidance from this subreddit than I do from her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that I take more moral guidance from this subreddit than I do from her?
I (17m) just told my gf (18f) about an argument I had with my mom about vaccines. She has turned anti-vax after her friend showed her this fb group that she trusts now over hundreds of years of research. Gf told me that she understands but I must respect my mother's opinion I then told her that she's wrong I said red...
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{ "description": "asking GF to loose weight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA: For Asking GF to loose weight?
So I've been with my gf for 4 years. When we first began dating she was pretty slim. Now my issue is not really the weight, but the lifestyle that comes with it. She tends to not do much on her time off work. Now she does work a lot but her work isn't always physical. I sometimes bring it up and she tends to get mad an...
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "letting my depressed friend spend Valentine's day alone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my depressed friend spend Valentine’s Day alone ?
This year all but one of my friends will have a date for Valentine’s Day. This friend always gets depressed around the holidays because he doesn’t have a girlfriend to spend them with. He texted us basically pleading with us to hangout with him and not let him spend Valentine’s Day alone. I’ve already made plans with m...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to a girl when she was depressed because it was making me depressed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stopping talking to a girl when she was depressed because it was making me depressed.
Bit of Backstory here, this random girl who I had never met before got given my snapchat by some people I had met on a drunken night out. Anyway, I have never been one to just ignore people who seem genuine and nice so I thought that I would go along with it and initiation conversation with the girl. We spoke quite a l...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a doctor for removing me from the waiting list twice", "pronormative_score": 71, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a doctor for removing me from the waiting list twice?
I am an 18 year old male with severe sleep apnea. I recently found out why it took over 10 months to get my sleep apnea tests done. (I have almost two minute breathing pauses) Apparently this one doctor removed me twice from the waiting list because i was 17 at the time and no 17 year old can have sleep apnea accordin...
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{ "description": "not wanting a brand new car", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting a brand new car?
Let me start by saying I realize how ridiculous this is and I know I am going to catch a lot of flak about it. I feel trapped though. I need a different car. My old one is falling apart. I likely need my father to cosign with me. I am okay with this because it gives me the chance to prove myself to both creditors an...
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{ "description": "still being angry at my mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for still being angry at my mom?
So my mom and I have a... complicated relationship. When I was a kid I was her favorite child and it was pretty obvious. We would watch Gilmore girls together, she loved to take me shopping with her, she called me her “mini-me”, and never failed to point out how we were exactly alike. As I grew up, I became my own per...
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{ "description": "pulling a \"if you loved me you'd [blank]\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I Pulled a "If you loved me you'd [blank]"
I know, upon reading the title, the answer would be that yes, I'm the asshole, but let me explain. TLDR: A very close friend of mine, who has said they love me, and would want to date in the future, consistently ghosts me when she's back in town and makes little effort to communicate or hang out. I want to say "If you...
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{ "description": "going to the resident manager because my housemate's girlfriend keeps smoking weed in the apartment", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going to the resident manager because my housemate's girlfriend keeps smoking weed in the apartment?
Firstly, I normally wouldn't have an issue with it but there are certain circumstances this time. Also worth noting, smoking is prohibited in and at my apartment complex. ​ It's finals week right now and I had my last final today that happened to be for the class I've been struggling in all quarter. All of...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit my ucle's dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit my ucle's dog?
So, I have a female Yorkshire, she's an old bitter. She doesn't like kids, she doesn't like other dogs, but she's pretty laid back, she's cuddly and cute. My uncle also has an Yorkshire, a male young one. He's super fun and cute. But my dog absolutely hates him. He runs and chasses her around all day, she gets really ...
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AITA?
There will be a TLDR at the end. Today when my girlfriend got home with my car I moved it to the garage like I always do when freezing rain is in the forecast. My neighbors are another young couple (20-24) and up to this point have been really cool with us and talked to us to try to resolve issues before going to the ...
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{ "description": "not telling my aunt that her husband have a second family in another country", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my aunt that her husband have a second family in another country
The situation is a bit more complicated, sorry in advance for my English as it is not my first language. I’m currently living with my aunt and uncle. My aunt is a very sweet and genuine person, I think of her as my second mom because she took care of me and letting me live with her without paying rent (I’m studying ab...
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{ "description": "wanting to put Poo-Pourri in my dad's Christmas stocking this year", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I want to put Poo-Pourri in my dad’s Christmas stocking this year?
Pretty self explanatory. My dad absolutely destroys the bathroom on a regular basis, causing it to emanate through the rest of the house. It’s beyond nauseating and, if guests are over, embarrassing. Well, dad being dad, thinks this is absolutely hilarious. And, since he has no sense of smell, adamantly refuses to use ...
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{ "description": "giving my roommate a curfew", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For giving my roommate a curfew?
I’m a freshman in college and I have one roommate and we share one room. We are friendly but each have our own friend groups and interests. We are both night owls but I guess I’m a little different because I don’t stay out late or come back to the room later than 11/12 on weekdays. On the other hand, she will sometime...
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{ "description": "giving my so a marriage ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for giving my SO a marriage ultimatum?
First time poster.... let me know if I mess something up. I'll try to make a long story as short as possible, but I've been told I can't tell a short story. So my SO (42M) and I (41F) were high school sweethearts that broke up, married other people, got divorced, and rekindled our relationship. There was a 15 year...
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{ "description": "going back for a second round of revenge", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going back for a second round of revenge?
I’m going to preface this by saying it’s not something I’ve done yet, but something I am considering doing. I met this fellow a few years ago. I’m going to call him Dave. Dave was a friend of a friend but eventually become a close enough friend of mine. I got a girlfriend. She cheated on me with him, and I found that ...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "being pissed that my ex is dating my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being pissed that my ex is dating my friend?
So around 2 weeks ago my girlfriend of nearly 3 years broke up with me. When we broke up she told me that she wanted to be alone because were going off to college next year. I accepted the breakup and tried to be friends with her, sitting next to her in class and talking to her in only that class. Around a week ago I ...
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{ "description": "treating my GF the same way she treats me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA: For Treating My GF The Same Way She Treats Me?
Background: I had to deploy recently for a month to a place that is a 15 hour difference in time from my home station. I am AD military Air force. The place they sent me was a big waste of time and all around stressful. To make a long story short, while i was deployed three times I had to tell my GF off due to her bein...
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{ "description": "telling my coworker it's unhealthy to be fat", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA For telling my coworker it’s unhealthy to be fat?
For context I’m a web developer who sits across from a Database developer. We work remotely a lot but today we were both in the office. In November I was 5’10 at almost 300lbs. I started fasting, then dieting, and a bit of exercise. Right now I’m 240lbs, so still overweight but I’ve lost 60 pounds. I tell said Data...
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{ "description": "trying to keep family Hep c free", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to keep family Hep C free?
Every family has that one member who isn't exactly there. My (half) sister-in-law is a selfish, manipulative, thieving, drug addict that has lived her life fast and loose and has a history of aggression and violence which has gotten her locked up several times. She has never provided anything good since I have been ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give up my parking space", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to give up my parking space?
Okay, so, this is currently happening, still trying to figure out what I’m going to do. I live in a large apartment complex, and parking is a little scarce. I currently have a grade-A primo spot (right next to the building I live in). I prefer this spot, and the few around it, because I have an infant who comes with ...
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{ "description": "starting a fight after my brother told a woman our parents were away", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for starting a fight after my brother told a woman our parents were away?
Title, I've never posted anything here but. Me and my twin brother have just turned 18, but we're both on the small side. Our parents have gone away on a trip for a few days for their anniversary so it's just us in the house. A woman we didn't recognize called to the door and asked if our parents were home to fill out...
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{ "description": "not letting it go", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not letting it go?
This is going to have to have some explanation. Bear with me. Throwaway because he might find this. Marked as NSFW because I'm not sure if mentioning nude art of someone is nsfw or not. Might be. I've known this guy for years. He's been home-schooled most of his life and is slightly autistic, which have both combi...
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{ "description": "trying ruining this guys whole school future for stealing 60", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If I tried ruining this guys whole school future for stealing 60+$
There’s lots of pointless information so that’s why I’m gonna keep this short Guy in my class (he’s a junior I’m a senior (highschool) ) stole my wallet took all my money (nothing else) and hid it at the bottom of a trash can in the boys restroom under all the paper towels. I have my suspicions on the culprit but am...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend that I took days off work so I can relax and play video games", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend that I took days off work so I can relax and play video games?
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my friend pay his ticket", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help my friend pay his ticket?
Okay so my friends and i were coming home and it was 1am and he noticed there was a car behind us and started speeding and ran two stop signs and that car ended up behind a cop. The ticket ended up being 162 and he’s trying to make me and the 2 other friends that were there pay 30 and he is asking for money for people ...
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{ "description": "confronting my professor about his mistake", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for confronting my professor about his mistake?
I am in graduate school. I was discussing the testing accommodations process with my professor. He sent me an email asking me to meet him after class to talk about it. When I got to class today, he said: “you were supposed to come before class” and sounded mad. I told him I must have misunderstood because I thought he ...
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{ "description": "using the school newspaper to promote my politics", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using the school newspaper to promote my politics?
So recently a spot opened up for the politics section in my school's newspaper section. I'm a freshman, so when I joined newspaper at the beginning of the year, I was banished to the *food* section, where I was probably supposed to languish for 2 or 3 years. But one of the writers for the politics section moved schools...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend pee'd my bed", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I think my friend pee'd my bed
So my good friend x and i both go to college together. It's the second semester and we're both apart of the same group of friends, he's also my favorite smoking buddy. I'd say we are pretty close. x and i go out to smoke (x has been smoking me out because I'm pretty broke). We smoked two bowls and came back in. When w...
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{ "description": "going into a stall if other people are waiting, when those other people didn't check to see if the door was unlocked", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I went into a stall if other people are waiting, when those other people didn't check to see if the door was unlocked?
Long title, but that's basically the entirety of it. Our work bathroom has 4 stalls (3 reg, one handicapped). They actually have doors and no gaps, so if the door is closed, there's no way to visually determine if someone is in it. People will frequently leave the stall after using it and close the door behind it, whic...
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{ "description": "charging my school $9.51/hr (PHP500/hr cuz Philippines) for prom night's sound system", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for charging my school $9.51/hr (PHP500/hr cuz Philippines) for prom night's sound system?
So here's the context. Our high school's Junior Student Council (JSC) came to me asking if I'd like to help them set up our school's 3rd prom night. Having the equipment (i.e speakers, mixer, cables, etc..), I said sure, but for a price. JSC agreed to put the rate of $9.51/hr (PHP500/hr) for my equipment and I thre...
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{ "description": "telling my bestfriend's ex that they're now dating the person the ex wasn't supposed to worry about", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my bestfriend’s ex that they’re now dating the person the ex wasn’t supposed to worry about?
There’s a lot more context to fit into that question though. Let’s call the bestfriend C, new GF, L, and the ex J. C and L used to hook up and currently go to the same university. C and J had been hooking up for a while as well and eventually it became a relationship, albeit an open one where they could hook up with o...
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{ "description": "playing a prank on my brothers for christmas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I play a prank on my brothers for christmas
With christmas coming up i got to wrap presents. My favorite part of christmas aside from watching my younger brothers open them. This year with the discount of xboxs we got them an xbox. As I joke I wrote the gift receptient as 9 and older. (My brothers are 8 and wont be nine till April). I'm going to let them open it...
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{ "description": "explicitly telling ny friend to come with me to a party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for explicitly telling ny friend to come with me to a party.
This happened today. For some context I am 16M and my friend is 15M.My school has compulsory Saturday science school for all year 11s and it finished at 1. I was planning on going to the cinema and am on my to the party right now. My friend asked me to come and I told him it's not my party and I shouldn't bring people ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my grandparent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I didn't want to meet my grandparent?
My dad died drom Glioblastoma when I was 14, it was a tough time for me and my brother. During this time we learned a lot about his childhood and how his father was abusive. He would regularly hit his mother, cheat on her, he was an alcoholic, he'd hit him and his sister, lock them in rooms, scream at them for no rea...
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{ "description": "suggesting a girl move in with me after a week together, and now don't feel the same way", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for suggesting a girl move in with me after a week together, and now don't feel the same way
So as a back story, I met a girl whilst I was on a holiday, and we hit it off, I'll refer to her as "P" She was on holiday with her mum (I'm six years older than P, who finished school two years earlier) and to put it simply, her Mum just wasn't a good person. First, her mum tried to make a move on me, I kindly turned...
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AITA? Broke up with Ex and now he wants his expensive gifts back.
So like the title states I (21F) broke up with an Ex (27m) because I didn’t feel any more chemistry between us. I’ve been going through a rough patch and while he was very supportive it turned out that he wasn’t quite what I wanted in my life anymore. Well now he wants the things back that he purchased for me, includ...
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{ "description": "sending (what I thought was wholesome) meme", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For sending (what I thought was wholesome) meme.
[The Meme in question](https://www.reddit.com/r/me_irl/comments/atkr9b/me_irl/) A friend of mine has been going through a rough time recently and since then our friendship has gone cold (I don't know why it just feels like he is being more harsh to me recently) So I decided to text him this meme because I thought it w...
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{ "description": "decapitating a lizard", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for decapitating a lizard?
This was about 3 years ago and it still goes threw my head sometimes. The men in my family take a fishing retreat every year in May. My brother (23) brought a slingshot with us on our morning outing in case he got bored. sure enough about an hour into fishing he starts grabbing rocks and firing at the trees behind us, ...
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{ "description": "ending a 7 year relationship over how they spoke about my mother", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ending a 7 year relationship over how they spoke about my mother?
They never got along, which was weird since all my other partners and friends loved my mother. Their personalities never clicked and it lend to passive aggression, neither could give a good reason. I sat both down a year in and told them if they both loved me they didn't have to like eachother but did need to be civil ...
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{ "description": "thinking my housemates should share and work together", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For thinking my housemates should share and work together?
This morning, I walked to the store with clenched cheeks and a broken toe. I woke up for work having to take a shit and theres no TP in the bathroom. A typical situation for most I think, but I live in a house with 6 people including myself. When I buy things for the house: TP, food, garbage bags, etc. I put them in...
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{ "description": "having salacious monkey sex with my roommates longtime crush", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for having salacious monkey sex with my roommates longtime crush?
Harken gang! I’ll get right to it. My roommates (who are active in the queer poly kink community) have a friend who crashes here a lot- let’s call them Halibut. This halibut and I have gotten pretty close; we play chess together, garden, they’re teaching me sign and generally have a pretty good repor. One of my roomie...
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{ "description": "wanting my mom out of my life", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my mom out of my life?
It's worth mentioning I'm a 23 year old male and my mother is medicated bipolar with borderline personality disorder. In August I was living at home and everything was seemingly fine. All until my mom stopped smoking weed (which she has been for 15 years straight). My guess is her medication that she ended up with w...
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{ "description": "distracting my classmate by browsing on my computer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA by distracting my classmate by browsing on my computer?
Kind of a minor thing, but I really can’t tell if I’m the asshole or not. I’m not a morning person, so usually in my morning (college) class I like to browse some reddit and stuff like that since a lot of it is review for me anyways and you need to come to class to turn in homework. I introduce myself to the guy I’m...
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{ "description": "telling my in laws to quit shaming my three year old or are they the assholes for ignoring me afterward", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my in laws to quit shaming my three year old or are they the assholes for ignoring me afterward?
 I had an amicable relationship with my in laws of 5 years then I saw them discipline my then 3-year-old in a way I did not like. While they were watching my two daughters (3 and 1), the older girl threatened to hit her little sister with a block when she knocked her tower down. My in laws response was to say they did...
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{ "description": "wanting to go on a trip even if my girlfriend can't go", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to go on a trip even if my girlfriend can't go?
I have been with my girlfriend for almost 6 years. We go on plenty of trips together. My sister lives in Alaska and recently invited me to come up their and go fishing with her and her boyfriends family for 10 days because she knows that I have always wanted to do that. This trip is going to take place in the late summ...
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AITA? Ex Girlfriend got drunk in my living room and I yelled at her
AITA This post requires a bit of background info, so bear with me... My ex (20F) and I (20M) broke up over the summer and it was pretty rough. We ended on very bad terms. It was made especially rough that my best friend and roommate (21M) is still very good friends with her. At this point I'm trying to be her friend a...
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