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{ "description": "cutting ties with my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting ties with my friend?
​ AITA for cutting ties with my friend? A year back I lent some money to my friend when he was going out of town and he promised to return within few weeks. After few weeks he returned back to town, I asked him money back because I had to pay someone money. When I asked him to return my money explaining th...
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{ "description": "'leading' a girl on", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for 'leading' a girl on?
First time poster here, this has been on my mind for a while For context, I (24m) am gay, and a very affectionate and open person, and I tell my friends that I love them all the time. A quick "bye, love you" when they have to go, or sometimes during the day if they're having a rough time. It's really normal in my frie...
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{ "description": "not feeling excited for my friends who are engaged, getting married, and having kids", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not feeling excited for my friends who are engaged, getting married, and having kids?
For context we're all in the age range of 19 - 21. I think if we were older it wouldn't bother me as much and I'd be able to feel excited for them. It started with with two friends of mine I met in high school getting engaged to each other at 19 and 20 almost a year ago. They were together for maybe a year and a half ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my best friend for choosing her bf over me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my best friend for choosing her bf over me
Right this person is my best friend (let's call her Casper) and I love her to bits but there has been a few concerns about our friendship. For some context Casper rarely ever sees me she is always at her bfs house (who is an ass) and I usually see her like 3/4 days a month 5 if I'm lucky. Before she went with him I s...
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AITA My wife never spends time with me, laughs and jokes about it with guy friends on her gaming.
My wife plays a lot of WOW / League, we have been married 6 years, and have two young kids. My wife has pretty hardcore refuse to work syndrome and makes minimal effort to try and get a job even though we are constantly struggling to make it every month. Lately, I have been trying to bring us closer, as we have been d...
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AITA: I (30M) have decided that my SO (30F) and I should start using birth control after being together for over a year and not using it in the past.
AITA? We have hit some very rough patches and I'm going through my own stuff with addiction and trying to stay sober. I don't know what I would do with a child at this point and I am questioning the relationship a little bit. I'm especially now extremely weary of what life would be like if I had a kid with some one tha...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to break up with her new boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend to break up with her new boyfriend?
Me and this girl, who we'll call Lexi, have been good friends for a few years. We're both 16. Recently, though, I've developed a crush on her, and was wondering how to handle it. The other night she was gonna come over to hang out, like usual. However, a week before that day, I'd had arm surgery, and for the pain the...
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{ "description": "pressing my concern", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pressing my concern?
I was dating a person for five weeks and it was going great. There was one time where I mentioned how I thought it was odd he wanted to know all these details about me. He was wanting to know all the details like what I ate, where I was, he would carry out a topic in great detail like what a book was about that I was...
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{ "description": "unknowingly creeping a girl out and making her uncomfortable, thinking we were friends", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for unknowingly creeping a girl out and making her uncomfortable, thinking we were friends?
So, last semester, I (17M) was in choir with a girl (16F) and she and I became good friends (or so I thought). She would always give me big hugs every time I saw her. When I told her she was super nice, she reciprocated. I was starting to have a crush on her. I asked for her number and Snap and got them both. Once, I s...
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep at my friends place", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to sleep at my friends place?
My girlfriend drove me and my mates to a music concert probably 2 hours away from our home town, however she brought a friend of hers who we will call “Meg”. Meg is a bit of a character, whom both me and my girlfriend agree is bitch from time to time. After the concert my girlfriend drove us back to our home town (2 ...
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AITA: Friend’s boyfriend cheated on her with me, but she immediately forgave him and went straight to blocking me.
So, one of my best friends just recently discovered her boyfriend has cheated on her multiple times with at least 3 different girls, and I was one of them. Now, before you jump to obviously I’m the asshole; this happened years ago (they’ve been together for 4-5 years now, and this happened 3 years ago) AND *I didn’t ...
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{ "description": "giving bad feedback about my clinic supervisor behind their back", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving bad feedback about my clinic supervisor behind their back?
My university class and I are in our second week of clinic. On orientation week our new supervisor said we’re all just here to learn and there’s no wrong answer etc, but from the very first day of class she has been passive aggressive and makes you feel stupid when you are asking/answering questions. For example when a...
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{ "description": "lying to my diasbled classmate to get away from her birtday party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to my diasbled classmate to get away from her birtday party?
So some info: -On mobile -First post on sub -English is not my first language So I have a classmatein high school with Tourret Syndrome. She is kind, sweet, nice and shy. Well on first sight. I understand that people with disabilty act weird sometimes and that is not their foult but still SHE IS FREAKING ME O...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from a friend of mine over \"small\" issues", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distancing myself from a friend of mine over "small" issues?
Ok so a little overall context before I start the story: Everyone involved here is in their mid teens so hormones, puberty and all might play into this. I am also going to use made up names because I really dont feel comfortable with sharing our real names. English also isnt my first language so I apologize in advance ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be there for my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be there for my friend
I’ve been “best friends” with a girl for a few years now. At first our relationship was fun filled and we were both there for each other in times of need. We are both diagnosed with bipolar disorder so we struggle with a lot of the same mental health issues. We’ve also both had a history of bad experiences and made bad...
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{ "description": "living in a way my parents would disapprove of while they pay for my education", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for living in a way my parents would disapprove of while they pay for my education?
I am 18/F. I am about to start university abroad and my parents are paying for it. They are conservative, south Indian people who would be appalled by sex outside of marriage, queer people and anything outside the norms of the country we live in. I am bisexual, I have a boyfriend who is not Indian, am sexually ac...
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{ "description": "not supoorting my mother in her MLM (multi-level-marketing) scheme", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not supoorting my mother in her MLM (Multi-level-marketing) scheme?
My mom has been in Arbonne (MLM) for about 2-2 1/2 years now and I have never really been supportive of it. There have been a few times where we argue over it cause I think that she puts way too much time into it and is neglecting some of her responsibilities as a parent. I also think she is putting way too much unwarr...
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{ "description": "not agreeing to drive my friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not agreeing to drive my friend?
I have a friend that lives on average 30 minutes away from me. Whenever we hang out I usually drive to her place to pick her up and always drop her off (even if we're just hanging out at my place). Until recently I didn't mind doing this for her as she doesn't drive because she doesn't have her license. A couple week...
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{ "description": "messaging someone (I'm not supposed to) because they're trying to apologize..only to realize it was my gf's friend setting me up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA: Messaging someone (I'm not supposed to) because they're trying to apologize..only to realize it was my gf's friend setting me up.
To preface, I had a best friend, call her Sarah. A girl best friend who I'm sure you all can follow the train of events to realize she had friend-zoned me. We were good friends for about 4-5 years. That's enough of that, I never spoke about my feeling to her nor her to me. It was something of an agreement. I lied to my...
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{ "description": "not wanting to try prolong my life with chemo", "pronormative_score": 74, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to try prolong my life with chemo?
So I'm 23 and I got diagnosed with incurable ovarian cancer a couple months ago. Basically the whole body is fucked, it's stage four, it's in my lungs and all over my chest and even if it went into remission, it would 100% come back. I tried a chemo regime which was "light" so didn't impact my life that much and that d...
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{ "description": "calling someone out at the gym for not re-racking their weights", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling someone out at the gym for not re-racking their weights?
This happened at the gym today. For some context, my gym has three floors with most upper body equipment, some squat racks, and cardio machines on the top floor, some more machines, mat space, and bathrooms on the second floor, and free weights and leg machines and a boxing room on the bottom floor. I was working o...
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awwadc
{ "description": "quitting my job without warning", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting my job without warning?
For six months, I worked as a server (waitress) at a nursing home. The first three months were great. My co-workers didn't like me (turns out my CO habit of sarcasm was not taken well in Indiana), but they weren't rude. Th he fourth month, an old employee who was fired got rehired. This place has a quick turnaround i...
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{ "description": "considering leaving my bf is he doesn't propose by the end of the year", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for considering leaving my bf is he doesn't propose by the end of the year?
Bf and I have been together for nearly 6 years and have lived together for the majority of that time. Things have been going well for the most part, though like most couples we've had our rough patches. Very early on we made it clear to each other that entering into a serious relationship meant our goal was marriage an...
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{ "description": "talking to my friend about his gf getting involved with our decision to split the cost of a meal", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to my friend about his gf getting involved with our decision to split the cost of a meal
To give context my friend is one of my closest friends and we have a great friendship. Me, him and his gf all go out to eat all the time. We usually do not share on any appetizers but ME and HIM (his gf had her own meal) decided to do so this time. When we were eating we both barely at much of the appetizer but I ate a...
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{ "description": "wanting to go back home (where I live w/ my boyfriend) on valentines day just a few days after my mum has broken up with partner of 16 years", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go back home (where I [24f] live w/ my boyfriend) on valentines day just a few days after my mum has broken up with partner of 16 years?
Sorry if the nature of this post might go off-topic and if it isn't appropriate for this sub. I'm also on mobile so apologies for poor formatting. Basically, my mum broke up with her long-term partner a couple of days ago. It is a nasty, hurtful break up and I feel it is my fault as I told her about some abuse I had e...
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{ "description": "ugly crying after unwrapping a Christmas gift from my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ugly crying after unwrapping a Christmas gift from my boyfriend?
Through my adulthood, I’ve gone through depressive episodes. Christmas would be when my depression would be at its worst, stemming from some terrible memories from childhood. I would still be functional and generally no one would ever know I was dealing with depression. This happened 10+ years ago. My boyfriend at th...
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{ "description": "ignoring a friend with depression", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ignoring a friend with depression?
Alright so I'm new to this but having read a lot of these posts decided to post mine. A little backstory me and this friend met back in highschool I moved, he stayed, then later moved to live with his sister and her boyfriend or fiancee(not sure which one). His parents were alcoholics to the point where they went out ...
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{ "description": "refusing to walk my girlfriend home alone", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to walk my girlfriend home alone?
Two years ago, I was walking home through my neighbourhood with my friend at about midnight. We were approached by a group of nine guys who surrounded us, and before I know it I was on the ground, blood everywhere, completely dazed and confused, having the living sh*t kicked out of me by myself as my friend managed to ...
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{ "description": "playing strip pong with my friend's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for playing strip pong with my friend’s girlfriend?
I’m in college and this happened about two Halloween’s ago, but I thought I’d still share the story. So there were a bunch of Halloween parties going on the weekend before Halloween and me and two other buddies decided to go to this really big one that a friend of ours was throwing. Before we went, we pregamed at some...
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{ "description": "waking up my roommates at 3am", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for waking up my roommates at 3am?
After going out for the Super Bowl, me and my roommate got back a bit drunk. I live with him and his wife, who'd already gone to bed so we say our goodnights and all that and everything should be normal. Well next thing I know it's 1:30am and I gotta shower and use the bathroom but it's locked. No problem, I just wai...
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arn35r
{ "description": "locking my door when Im changing clothes", "pronormative_score": 74, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for locking my door when Im changing clothes?
My step-dad keeps opening my door for no reason and its been pretty annoying. I always close my ( not lock it) door when I am changing clothes. I was changing my clothes today and my stepdad opens my door for no reason (he did not peek inside, he just opened the door while he was walking to his bedroom from the guest r...
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{ "description": "ending a possible good friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Ending a Possible Good Friendship?
This is my first time posting something on reddit. I have a friend and we've been friends for a couple of months (almost one year). We have a lot of things in common like classes, music, articles we read on our free time; sometimes we study together and we always talk about things about classes. We text almost every d...
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{ "description": "not personally coming out to my cousin", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not personally coming out to my cousin
So this happened awhile ago but it often plays on my mind once in awhile. On the day of coming out as gay I didn't plan to come out, but my brother caught me watching porn and he saw what I was watching (he already knew I was gay though and totally supportive of it). So I decided to rip the band aid off and officially ...
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{ "description": "not introducing my gf to my mother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not introducing my GF to my mother?
I know this sounds bizarre. Why haven’t you introduced her? Are you ashamed? I know, I know. Let me explain. Short(ish) life story: So growing up I’ve had a shaky relationship with my mother. Sometimes she’s my best friend and sometimes I fear her existence. Household was her, myself, and two siblings. Sister’s Dad wa...
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{ "description": "trading a cheap Walmart bike to my aunt, who has a bike that is mine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I trade a cheap Walmart bike to my aunt, Who has a bike that is mine?
A bit of context. I lived outside of my home country for about five years, during those five years my dad lent to my aunt, his sister, a mountain bike that he built for me when I was younger, let's just say that it was, and still is, a really good bike. More than anything my connection with the bike is sentimental, in ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my friend?
Backstory: I studied at a university in the south far from home and haven’t visited since graduation (about a year ago). Of course I made a ton of friends and I miss them all, but this is about my best friend from college. Long story short - I am now working full time at a 10-12 hour/day stressful yet rewarding job. ...
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{ "description": "not allowing my son to go to church with his friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 79, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not allowing my son to go to church with his friend anymore?
Hello everyone. Throwaway for privacy, and my husband will be reading these responses as well. Our son Jake has been best friends with Sam for four years. They are both 15 years old. About three years ago Sam's parents asked us if we would be alright with Jake going to church with them on Sunday so that our boys coul...
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{ "description": "telling a guy to stop following us around", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA telling a guy to stop following us around.
When I was in college in the UK (16 years old) their was this one kid who just followed me and my friendship group around everywhere. We would walk 20 minutes away and he would follow us and just say really shitty jokes e.g. That woman is as fat as your mum. For the first two months of college I was cool with it and n...
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{ "description": "not supporting my sisters \"body positivity\" posted all over my social media and family to see", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not supporting my sisters “body positivity” posted all over my social media and family to see?
My sister has always been the type to preach “body positivity” because of her life long struggle with an eating disorder. I’m all about her being able to express herself and be creative however she wants, unless it means posting your nudes for your entire family to see. I don’t mind it as much as the rest of my family ...
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{ "description": "being angry at my sister for not attending our fathers funeral because of his criminal history", "pronormative_score": 146, "contranormative_score": 488 }
AITA For being angry at my sister for not attending our fathers funeral because of his criminal history.
My father died right before new years. He passed away from natural causes while incarcerated and serving a life sentence. His next parole hearing was in less than a year but he suffered from lung cancer (smoker) and he also had a hip injury last october which at 70 can lead to complications. My father was a provider t...
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{ "description": "asking the person I'm babysitting for more", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask the person I'm babysitting for more
Hey, background, babysitting my friends youngest brother (I'm 18f as well as friend) baby is 15 months old. She said it would be from 8-3 all week. 200$ for the whole week. (Roughly 5.75 an hour) I am slightly disabled due to fibromyalgia and CFS. I am also a student on our reading week (week off execpt for night class...
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{ "description": "taking a vacation without my fiancee", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I took a vacation without my fiancee?
Sorry if this sounds like an /r/relationships post, but I'll try and get to the point quickly. My SO and I are recently engaged (both are 22), and we will be getting married next year in the summer. I've been interested in the solo traveling style for a while now, but I really haven't been able to attempt it because ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to upload pictures of my child on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to upload pictures of my child on Instagram?
My girlfriend is pregnant and she’s really excited. A lot of her friends have kids and they take hundreds of selfies with them and upload videos of them playing and talking everyday. This seems harmless but it’s always left a bad taste in my mouth. My girlfriend said it’s like a modern photo album, I said “it’s not, ...
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{ "description": "taking a homeless person's dog", "pronormative_score": 57, "contranormative_score": 129 }
AITA for taking a homeless person’s dog?
I know the title sounds awful but please read the full story. Every time I walk to my gym I see this cute little dog looking miserable. The dog (it’s a she) is sometimes with her owner, a homeless guy in his 40s, but most of the time she gets tied to a pole and left there for hours. I wanted to report this to authoriti...
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{ "description": "giving out false information to idiots", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for giving out false information to idiots?
So at my uni the grades are curved quite harshly. the worse 50% always fails. The strong shall eat the weak and so on. Because of this I made the effort to collect some "meta knowledge." I found out who writes the test, what may come up on the test and what they will most likely not ask (the means I used are entirely l...
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{ "description": "stopping a gaming session with my friend after he repeatedly made fun of me for being \"too dumb\" to remember all the words", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stopping a gaming session with my friend after he repeatedly made fun of me for being "too dumb" to remember all the words?
I [girl] started playing CoD with him when it came out some weeks ago, which was my first ever first person shooter, and he had played nearly all previous CoD games. He was really helpful as a teacher, but all the time he either made fun of me for asking stuff (e.g. today I asked what a K9 is, and he wouldn't stop ma...
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{ "description": "wearing town name/university clothes when I did not go to the university", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wearing town name/university clothes when I did not go to the university?
My hometown is home to one of the country's top universities, and the university has the same name as the town. I accumulated a few items while living there that say "(Town)" on them. Some of them I did buy at the university store, but I don't have anything that actually says "(Town) University." I should also note tha...
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{ "description": "expecting my sister to do extra chores, even when she's sick", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for expecting my sister to do extra chores, even when she's sick?
Just a rant to get things off my chest more than anything, TLDR at the bottom. ​ I live in a house with my dad, my sister, my little brother, and our dogs. I've been living her for over five years, she moved in with us about a year and a half ago. I love her, but she is a lot to handle. Since the beginnin...
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{ "description": "not correcting the new Gamestop cashier's mistake", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not correcting the new Gamestop cashier's mistake
So earlier tonight I made a trip to gamestop to trade in a game for store credit and take advantage of this buy 2 pre-owned games get 1 free deal they currently have going on. I got $20 store credit and the games I planned to buy were $40 and $25 respectively. This should have made my purchase around $45 total and incl...
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{ "description": "telling my potential roommate that her boyfriend is not allowed in our house", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell my potential roommate that her boyfriend is not allowed in our house?
My best friend is in a very emotionally and physically abusive relationship. Her boyfriend has drained pretty much all of her money. They just got kicked out of the house they were staying in and she asked me if she could move in with me and my boyfriend until they find a place. Sure, no problem. I did tell her however...
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{ "description": "going to dinner with the guy my acquaintance was talking to", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to dinner with the guy my acquaintance was talking to?
Going to try to shorten this, but basically I've (24 F) had a crush on this guy in one of my classes (24 M) for a while now. Turns out one of my acquaintances (22 F) (we're in the same major and we've taken multiple classes together but I don't know her out of class and for some reason I've always got the vibe she does...
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{ "description": "no longer being friendly with my coworker after having to listen to him talk about his issues", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer being friendly with my coworker after having to listen to him talk about his issues.
I've been at my job for a little over a year, and for the first couple months one of my co workers and I were relatively friendly. Exchanging pleasantries and asking about each others weekends. Not to the extent that another co worker and I are friends and always joking around, but friendly enough. After a couple more...
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{ "description": "blocking an online gamer buddy who got clingy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for blocking an online gamer buddy who got clingy?
I met a nice person online randomly while playing a game. We hit if off and starting online gaming together regularly. You could say a friendship starting developing. However, after a few weeks red flags started showing up. This person started acting like we were best friends. They wanting support after a “hard day...
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{ "description": "wanting period sex", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting period sex? (20F)
So I love my boyfriend (21M), and we have great chemistry in bed. I’m a very physical person with a high libido and most of the month we both perfectly fulfill each other’s needs. On my period, sometimes I’m hornier and sex can help me with my cramps, but my man doesn’t like getting his dick up in that. We’ve tried it ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my so when being told to shave", "pronormative_score": 96, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for getting angry at my SO when being told to shave?
Hi, I (28M) have been with my SO (28F) for 3 years and we have a great solid relationship. At the moment it's long distance (relevant) but we'll be reunited soon. However, as with all relationships, we have our disagreements. ​ There is one thing, however, that causes more discontent than I think it shoul...
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{ "description": "not allowing my roommate's mother to stay with us", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not allowing my roommate's mother to stay with us?
I live in small 2-bedroom apartment in a very large & expensive city. I often sublet the spare bedroom to people who come to town for extended stays. I provide them with everything they need bedroom-wise...bed, nightstand, dresser, TV, linens, and of course they are welcome to use any of the amenities I have in the...
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{ "description": "betting crazy amounts in a game of Poker with friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for betting crazy amounts in a game of Poker with friends?
So my friends and I were playing a casual game of poker during a gathering, but they set the rules so that the maximum bet was five dollars. But after a short while I felt that the game was totally pointless because there no way to make a person fold. Nobody cared about 5 dollars so the game just became everybody wi...
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{ "description": "moving out of my parent's house on a month's notice", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving out of my parent’s house on a month’s notice?
My fiancé and I lived with my parents to save money. After about a year we had enough to furnish an apartment without going into our house funds. At this time we knew the lease on the house was up at the end of the next month. There had been drama with my fiancé and my mom so everything lined up for us to move out. I t...
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{ "description": "ditching out on family last minute", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ditching out on family last minute?
Things that you should know about me that are relevant to the question. 1. I have anxiety and depression. Both have been diagnosed by a doctor and I take medication. 2. My brother is a marine and he is back home on leave before he deploys for a couple of years. 3. My brother, sisters, and I went through a lot of ...
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AITA for apparently flirting with a gay guy
From the beginning let me just say that I'm straight, nervous around women, and am still not sure what constitutes as flirting, but while I was talking and joking with this guy at a bar, and before he left he leaned in for a kiss and I pulled away and said that I'm straight, and he was all saying I was flirting with hi...
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{ "description": "cutting my mother out of our lives at least temporarily", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting my mother out of our lives at least temporarily?
Almost two months ago my husband and I took in my best friends children after she unfortunately passed away from stage 4 cancer. We had been best friends since elementary school and I felt so honored that she left us as their next of kin. We took them in, filed for legal guardianship and are now working on adopting th...
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{ "description": "wanting to rehome or euthanize our cat", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to rehome or euthanize our cat?
Disclaimer: I love my cat very much and I'm struggling to find the right solution so please don't be too hard on me My wife and I adopted a cat from a shelter last year and unfortunately it turns out she has a spinal injury that causes issues when she squats, mainly a loss of sensation back there. This leads to con...
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{ "description": "telling the slow guy at the dump not to help me with my trash", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling the slow guy at the dump not to help me with my trash?
Background: I live in an isolated rural community without trash service. The dump attendant is a large(!) man with some type of cognitive injury or disability. I haven't lived here long and I am one of the youngest adult members of the community. The first time I went up there, the guy made it a point to tell me I wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to cook dinner after a 14 hour shift", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to cook dinner after a 14 hour shift.
So I'm a door engineer. I install and repair automatic doors. I just did a 14+ hour day. 9:30am - 11:30pm. Four repairs and two or of hours installations for a bank in London. I drive 3 hours home and for some fucked up reason my girlfriend has gone hungry today like an infant. It's past midnight here in the UK and ...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to be quiet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my roommate to be quiet
So my roommate just broke up with her boyfriend of four years. It was a pretty serious relationship - like they spoke in terms of "WHEN we get married...". I get it. Rough situation. However, my roommate chooses to cope with this in the most irritating ways. She sits in the room all day and night popping bubble wrap, ...
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{ "description": "exposing a kid's theft right next to his mother", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for exposing a kid's theft right next to his mother?
Posting from mobile. My phone is the asshole if there are any issues. I am 19 years old and working in my family's store for this situation. My role is usually restocking and "loss prevention" when not restocking. I spotted a child, probably around 8 years old, who took a pack of fidget spinner (not my choice to have...
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{ "description": "leaving a date with a really nice guy because I ran into an old flame (maybe the old flame) or is all fair I love and war", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for leaving a date with a really nice guy because I ran into an old flame (maybe THE old flame) or is all fair I love and war?
Ever have one of those day's where your life has been comfortably regular and then all of the sudden you wake up and everything is pure chaos and it's terrifying and wonderful at the same time? That's where I'm at right now. I could go on dramatically and bore everyone so I will try and keep this simple. Three years ...
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{ "description": "ghosting my roommate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting my roommate?
This happened a few years ago, and I'm not sure how I should have handled it. I agreed to live with one of my friends during our last year of college and our relationship soured. He would throw temper tantrums for no reason. He would get really angry at me and say really hurtful things. Normally this would happen aft...
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{ "description": "not wanting my so to take a nap", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my SO to take a nap?
I apologise for the clickbait-ish title. Well this is happening right now, so excuse me for being a bit incoherent. Also, posting from mobile so I'm sorry in advance for any formatting trouble or typos. Finally, English is not my mother tongue, sooooo lower your expectations. So, my SO (27F) and me (28M) have been ...
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{ "description": "not trusting my friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not trusting my friends anymore?
So I don't know how long this text will be, but I really wanted to get this clear. Last week I gave my birthday party (17M) I invited around 25 people of whom I knew 22 people drank. I said there will be beer and wine and it will be enough to enjoy from it the whole night. I don't have anything against liquor, I know...
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{ "description": "picking up money off the floor", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for picking up money off the floor.
I went into an auto parts store to look for parts for my car and on my way out I found $20 near the entrance. I didn't think much of it and picked it up thinking it could've been anyone's. As I was walking further away the shop attendant stopped me and asked if I picked up anything. I told him I picked up a $20 note an...
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{ "description": "thinking about ending my arranged engagement to this girl/wanting too", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking about ending my arranged engagement to this girl/wanting too?
My parents have invested... a lot of money into this. Her family has sacrificed too. Here's the deal, I'm 21 years old and I'm set to marry this girl in a little over a month. For some reason, my mind set about this has is effecting me more than I would think. In my culture, we really aren't allowed to date (middle e...
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AITA For being upset that spouse does not tell me what time he will be home?
My husband works technically a 9-5 shift but in truth he is usually home between 5:30 and 8 in the evening. He never lets me know when I’m the nearly 3 hour window he will arrive home. Before having children I never cared much but now arranging dinner and picking up the kids from the sitter on days that I work is annoy...
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{ "description": "being resentful of my dad supporting my brother's mental health crisis", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being resentful of my dad supporting my brother's mental health crisis
So when I was a teenager (from the age of about 16 til I was 19 or 20) I had extremely poor mental health. Way beyond teenage angst, I was suicidally depressed and so anxious that I couldn't order coffee in a coffee shop or even go into a resturant without a full anxiety attack. I still suffer from moderate anxiety and...
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{ "description": "not trusting the chef", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For not trusting the chef
I went to dinner with some friends and we all wanted burgers. I asked a well done but the waitress warned me that the chef doesn't do that. In my opinion if a chef can't make a simple well done he's not the best chef so I wanted something else. I then asked for something that that chef doesn't cook and picked out of th...
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AITA: My Boyfriend talks about his ex. A LOT.
For the past two years we've been long distance, but before that we lived like 5 minutes from each other, and about a month ago I moved in with him after I got kicked out. He had told me that he *hadn't* been dating someone (we had a semi-open relationship), and then when I moved in I found out he *had* been and lied ...
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{ "description": "bringing up dirt on my sister after she put dog shit in my boyfriend's bed", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bringing up dirt on my sister after she put dog shit in my boyfriend’s bed?
Over the holidays, I (20F) brought my boyfriend (27M) to stay for two weeks with my family. I have two sisters, 16 and 18. Everything was going well, boyfriend was polite with everyone but spent more time with 18yo sister since they have more in common, and 16yo sister can be loud, hypersensitive, and frankly a pill, a...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my mum", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my mum?
AITA for getting annoyed at my mum? She’s couching on everything and I’m getting annoyed that I’m constantly having to wash my hands and clean up after everything. This was supposed to be a holiday, but it’s turned into a very stressful visit. I’m back to work tomorrow and can’t afford to be sick. Wondering how to c...
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WIBTA for breakingbup with someone based on looks?
FULL DUSCLOSURE: this is a hypothetical situation that I thought of earlier. I've never been in a relationship, and probably won't be any time soon... I'm 14 (nearly 15, please don't judge! :D) and I was wondering if I would be the asshole in this situation. Say I was dating a girl and she was great, just a few imper...
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{ "description": "for giving my so an ultimatum about sending money back home to her family", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for for giving my SO an ultimatum about sending money back home to her family?
For some background, we live in Canada. I am white and she is Filipino, but is not permanent resident of Canada and working on her citizenship. We are both in our early 30's, live together, and plan to marry. ​ Here is the issue, she is always sending money back home to her mother and sisters (Mother in he...
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{ "description": "making my teacher shrill out of nowhere", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my teacher shrill out of nowhere?
Before i begin, some background info about this teacher: She's only taught us for 2 months, & though i feel she does care for the wellbeing of our class, she can come across rather passive-aggressive & anal. Yesterday, we were having a discussion in class. My friend (R) had raised her hand to ask a question th...
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AITA for the main reason holding me (28M) back from proposing to my girlfriend (23F) of 4 years is that I’m not attracted to her body?
Greetings internet judges. Your Honors, my case is this: My gf has gained 40-60lbs over the course of our relationship. She eats healthy small portions and exercised daily with the rare cheat day. But she kept gaining weight. She had her thyroid checked and was prescribed Synthroid. We have been dating since college ...
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{ "description": "not answering my phone at a fan event", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - Not answering my phone at a fan event
This happened back in January 2017 and I still end up thinking about it from time to time. So in my area, we have a bar that's become quite popular for bands or other artists to come to do shows or screenings of their work. One of the artists to come for an event is a filmmaker I look up to and I consider to be a per...
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{ "description": "being angry with my girlfriend and her friend over the way they treated my friend", "pronormative_score": 198, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being angry with my girlfriend and her friend over the way they treated my friend?
My girlfriend and I both have friends that we thought would be a good match for each other. We’ve been talking them up to each other for a little bit now and made plans for the four of us to meet up at a bar last night. It was supposed to just be a casual hangout kind of thing, not a date. When we do meet up my gir...
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{ "description": "applying for a job to compete with a friend who is struggling to find work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for applying for a job to compete with a friend who is struggling to find work?
A friend and I both recently graduated from college and we've been talking about how difficult it is to find a job. A couple of weeks ago, I got an offer for a part-time job in my field, while my friend's been struggling to land interviews. Feeling kind of bad for him, because he's always complaining about paying rent ...
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{ "description": "muting my special needs coworker on a business call", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for muting my special needs coworker on a business call?
A guy I work with is special needs. In any case, I just started a new job and this guy works in my department. Every single meeting I’m in with him, which is thankfully infrequent, is completely derailed because he personally answers any question asked and devolves into conversation about irellavant details. The pro...
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{ "description": "being upset with my wife about a death in our family", "pronormative_score": 48, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my wife about a death in our family?
To make a long story short, my uncle who also happens to be my godfather ended a 4 year long battle with melanoma this on Friday morning. I’m in the military and took emergency leave the prior weekend once I learned he was in hospice care, because not only is he my uncle, he’s my godfather, my dads identical twin, and...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend go with my ex to prom", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not letting my friend go with my ex to prom?
Alright, so this requires a little backstory. I’m changing names for privacy reasons + using a throwaway. I’ve been friends with Bella since I was 7 years old. We met in second grade and played soccer together. We were close, but not insanely close. In middle school, she moved to a different state, so I lost contact ...
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{ "description": "not compromising on a grow box for seedlings", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Not compromising on a grow box for seedlings.
So here’s the deal. I like hot stuff. I wanted to make my own salsa, hot sauce, pepper flakes, and powders. I research any and everything extensively before I do something. Well I bought some seeds that my wife was well aware of. I got some jalapeños, Carolina reapers ext. I germinated them no problems. My wife didn’t ...
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{ "description": "making my housemates buy me new headphones", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for making my housemates buy me new headphones?
TLDR; my headphones went missing - I am pretty sure one of my housemates took them and is not telling me, so I messaged them all and told them that the four of them will be splitting the cost of new headphones for me. They ain't happy. ​ So I (20F) live with four other female housemates - Sally, Rachel, Ka...
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{ "description": "wanting to have sex with my gf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for wanting to have sex with my GF?
Throwaway because I don’t wanna be harassed on main. Context: my girlfriend of almost 3 years is on the pill and it does something to her that makes sex hurt, I’ve tried to get her off of it but she enjoys not having a period, but because of this we haven’t had sex in months. I value sex in a relationship, I think it...
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{ "description": "acting weird and down around my gf and friends due to insecurities", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for acting weird and down around my gf and friends due to insecurities?
So, this is happening as I write, I might add stuff as this all plays out. Basically, me, my gf, and two other friends did a huge walk and now we're at the beach. In the begining I said that I'd look out for their stuff in the sand due to the fact I didn't want to enter the water, since I'm very very very insecure abou...
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{ "description": "not wanting to buy my family Christmas presents", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to buy my family Christmas presents?
AITA for not buying my family Christmas presents? I have 2 nephews and 2 nieces and my family is basically forcing me to buy presents for them. I'm a single guy in my mid 30s. I always help my family with anything and everything they ever ask for. I just don't like the idea of Christmas gift giving. In today's culture ...
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{ "description": "wanting to take a massage course to feel my coworker´s body", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for wanting to take a massage course to feel my coworker´s body?
Mmmmkay. Throwaway here for obvious reasons. I am a bisexual woman on my thirties. I´ve had more experience in sleeping with men than women, maybe in a 70% vs 30% ratio. I tend to accumulate a lot of stress due daily life, work, lids, etc, so one thing I really enjoy is having a massage all over my back , neck and ar...
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{ "description": "not driving my roommate an hour away", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not driving my roommate an hour away
I'll keep this short and sweet, this just happened like 5 minutes ago when she got off work but essentially she's wanting me to drive her an hour away because she wants to hook up with some guy who can't drive to come get here where we live. She's my girlfriend's friend who has been staying with us a few months and whe...
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{ "description": "not wanting to fill in for my friend for a Prom assembly", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to fill in for my friend for a Prom Assembly?
So my friend broke his arm doing something stupid the week before promenade. We are both on student council and he made Promenade royalty. Because he can no longer do the promenade royalty assembly, my peers and our advisor told me that I was to fill in for him. They did this without discussing it with me, and just tol...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to put her cat down", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to put her cat down
Alright so titles pretty loaded so please read the post and then call me an asshole after. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and things were going awesome until recently. She has this cat, and it's just old and in terrible condition. They picked it up as a stray so exact age is unknown but vet ...
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AITA? Husband says I gave his "dream present" to my sister instead
My husband took me to an auction where people were bidding on various items. We wandered around before the bidding, looking at what would be sold. Through my husband's job he had $300 worth of credit that had to be spent before the end of the year, otherwise he would lose it. It had to be spent at this auction since ...
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AITA for be mad at my friend for being racist?
So we live in a very racist small town. I have VERY dark humor so I make offensive jokes but never serious. My friend and I make these jokes a lot together. And recently he has been making them more frequently and I asked if he was serious about these jokes. He said yes. I got mad at him and so now we are not talki...
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{ "description": "asking my professor why she's always late to class", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my professor why she's always late to class?
Throughout the semester in one of my classes, my professor will often arrive to class a few minutes late. She may even arrive 5, or maybe even 8 minutes late to class (granted, that was one time). Despite this, she felt compelled to mark several students absent, including me presumably, for her seeing us on our phones ...
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