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{ "description": "accidentally ignoring guy at gym", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally ignoring guy at gym?
This happened earlier this week. I was working out at the gym with my brother and a couple of our friends. For context, we have known and worked out with these guys for years. Anyways, as I’m finishing a set, a guy that I have spoken to in the gym many times before walks up to me and we start talking. While we are chat...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to prom", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to go to prom
Title sums it up pretty well, but I will give a little context nonetheless. I (17m) am a introvert. I don’t like dances, parties or anything of that sort, hence why I don’t want to go to prom. I just like to hang around and do my own thing. I think prom is not really worth much and it’s not really that big of a deal ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to prom with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not wanting to go to prom with my girlfriend?
We're both juniors in high school and this is the first prom we've been allowed to go to. I really don't want go because I don't like crowds or dancing, but my girlfriend has wanted to go since she was a little girl, so I'm being forced to go to make her happy. I've complained a lot about going, saying it won't be fun ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed because my girlfriend sleeps about 70% of the time I see her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being annoyed because my girlfriend sleeps about 70% of the time I see her?
My girlfriend of about a year sleeps pretty much most of the time I go to see her. She has thyroid disease and I’m pretty sure that makes her sleep more, but it just kinda irks me whenever I go over and she sleeps. I haven’t said anything to her about it, I haven’t called her out on it because that would be really inse...
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{ "description": "driving all the way down to the end of a merge lane", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA if I drive all the way down to the end of a merge lane?
Say it's heavy traffic and the lane I'm in is ending. Am I wrong for driving to the end of that lane in order to get a little further ahead even though I may have passed up opportunities to merge in a little further back? My gut says I am the asshole, but technically I'm not doing anything illegal or out of line, rig...
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{ "description": "trying to drive my asshole coworker crazy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For trying to drive my asshole coworker crazy?
Im 22, hes 47, we both work the same position in an office together selling insurance. He arrives to work late constantly, holding up everyones work. Im talking an hour late somedays. Ive had to stay late multiple times to cover his fuck ups. He purposely starts needless political arguments that put the office on edge...
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{ "description": "yelling at a noisy family at the movies", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for yelling at a noisy family at the movies?
A couple of weeks ago, a few of my friends and I went to see the Lego Movie 2 in theaters. Almost as soon as the movie started, a row or two in front of me a young child, maybe 3 years old judging by his voice, began screaming. His Parents shushed him and calmed him down, which was a relief. About 5 minutes later he s...
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AITA bridesmaid vs bride
This is an old friend (10+ years) and she was a bridesmaid at my wedding. She is one of those rare self centered people that actually have good hearts, but are handicapped by their complete lack of awareness for the needs of others. She's getting married in July and asked me to be a bridesmaid. I expected that this wou...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to pay for her meal", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my friend to pay for her meal
This has been bothering me for a few months now I've been friends with this girl from high school through most of university, we eventually drifted apart a little bit before she graduated. We run into each other on the street a couple years later while walking dogs and she says its been a while we should catch up, i ...
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{ "description": "not eating food past its expiration date", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not eating food past its expiration date?
Sounds like a typical validation post, but hear me out. My boyfriend and I have the same conflict about many different types of food. I have a much lower limit to what I still eat or what I throw out. Example: We had a loaf of bread that had a tiny bit of mold on it. My boyfriend persists we should only cut it out an...
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{ "description": "telling my friends upfront that I won't be bringing back gifts from my travel", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends upfront that I won't be bringing back gifts from my travel?
I am going to a foreign country to have a medical procedure done because even with the cost of travel, room, and food it's cheaper there. This won't have me bedridden so I do have the physical capacity to shop for gifts. ​ A lot of my friends have expressed interest in that country previously. When I told...
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{ "description": "expecting help", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for expecting help?
Background - married 10+ years, 8 year old child. This pattern has been on repeat for a while. We both work full time. I do morning drop off, she picks up after school. I do 100% of the cooking, most of the cleaning, helping with homework. Overall, easily 75% of the normal required household stuff is on me. I...
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{ "description": "going abroad as a group without one member because he had tests he needed to retake", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going abroad as a group without one member because he had tests he needed to retake?
So I'm in this sticky situation in which we as a group went abroad without 1 of the group (we are 5) because that one person had tests he didn't do well on during the exam period and therefore needed to retake during the very short between-semeter break we have. So that's the bottom line. Furthermore, one of us asked ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend for how she sleeps while on her period", "pronormative_score": 78, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset with my girlfriend for how she sleeps while on her period?
So my girlfriend lives with me, and on the average month has a 2-3 bad days of cramps and she's through, but every few months, it's a solid week of begging for death and a red-running Niagara Falls. Now, I understand all women get this for the most part, it's a part of nature. Hell, theoretically 1 in 8 people are havi...
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{ "description": "ruining someone's filming", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for ruining someone's filming?
I was walking back home today when someone with a camera was filming a video of sorts on the pavement. As I was walking one person somewhat rudely gestured at me to walk on the road for a few meters (essentially used her hands to aggressively point to the road) so I can go around the filming. This pissed me off as 1. T...
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{ "description": "not listening to my mother's motivational tapes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not listening to my mother’s motivational tapes
In the last few years my mother has become increasingly invested in spirituality, and I totally support her methods for finding guidance and happiness. In fact, I’ve even participated in a few of her practices, like visiting a spiritual leader. Other times I’m not interested, or think what she’s doing is bogus, but I’v...
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{ "description": "telling the person sitting in front of me on an airplane not to recline their seat because it's only an hour flight", "pronormative_score": 100, "contranormative_score": 129 }
AITA for telling the person sitting in front of me on an airplane not to recline their seat because it’s only an hour flight?
I’m 6’5 and travel a lot for work. I’m constantly flying and usually am able to get emergency exit seats but this flight was full. I had a 55 minute flight on one of those little planes that you take a ramp and stairs to get into. The seats are small and my legs don’t fit as it is, plane is full, and 5 minutes into tak...
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{ "description": "getting my neighbor put on administrative leave and almost fired after she slept with me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting my neighbor put on administrative leave and almost fired after she slept with me?
Okay so this happened 4 years ago and honestly I still don't know if what I did was right. I was getting my mental health services from an organization called RVS in Middletown CT and my upstairs neighbor in my apartment complex I was living in worked on the same campus but a different organization called CVH in a de...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship over selfish actions and things I find rapey", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For ending a friendship over selfish actions and things I find rapey?
Ok so me and my friend became friends when I was in 10th grade and he was in 9th grade. We had gotten along quite well and grew close, but I have graduated recently and moved away 2 and a half hours away. Well we had planned for me to pick him up, and him come down and our mutual friends would come later and we'd go to...
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{ "description": "calling someone a dick for not wanting to befriend me unless I have sex with him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling someone a dick for not wanting to befriend me unless i have sex with him?
For context, I am in an open relationship with my partner. A few months back I was looking into hooking up with someone I met off tinder, we can call him Tyler. I gave him my phone number. We chatted a bit and he said that he would be okay with a friendship or a FWB situation. Okay, cool. I start making plans to meet ...
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{ "description": "saying Taiwan is a country to my chinese roommate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying Taiwan is a country to my Chinese roommate?
Yesterday, me and my roommate were playing a game called h*ow many countries can you name* and we were getting pretty into it. It went back and forth, mano y mano. He would name one, then I would name one. It was intense to say the least. We were getting into the nitty gritty, some countries I'm sure many of you have...
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{ "description": "not working", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not working?
Long story short, I needed to take time off work because of my depression, anxiety, and a bit of a breakdown stemming from death in the family and a miscarriage. It's been a few months, but I can comfortably do so because I have about $35k in savings. My boyfriend is mad at me for taking time off work, "sleeping all da...
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{ "description": "choosing rainbow road", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for choosing rainbow road?
My girlfriend is pretty bad at Mario Kart. We've been playing for about a month. I chose 50cc rainbow road, she got last place and now she's mad. AITA?
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{ "description": "taking advantage of free tacos from Apple Bees", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking advantage of free tacos from Apple Bees?
There was a piece of paper on the table at Apple Bees that said if the waitress doesn’t offer a gift card you get free tacos. The waitress didn’t offer a gift card, so I told her this and she seemed really sad and the manager was walking by and she seemed disappointed as well. I asked our waitress if she would get ding...
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{ "description": "no longer concerning myself with my mother's lifestyle", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer concerning myself with my mother's lifestyle?
My SO isn't calling me TA for this but decided to discuss my mom with me. My mom turns 52 this year. My whole life my mom has been obese, if not morbidly. Her diet is soda, sweet tea, chips, candy, and fast food. She lives in a dirty house where her dogs all pee and poop everywhere. Smokes at least half a pack a day....
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{ "description": "going off on my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for going off on my girlfriend?
Follow up AITA to this https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/b6oy4m/aita_for_being_honest/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app So my girlfriend and I had an argument over this, with her saying that I don’t love her unconditionally, and she said “None of our friends would even care if I disappeared” ...
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{ "description": "not telling my ex's fiance he cheated with me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA if I didn't tell my ex's fiance he cheated with me?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. When I was in college, my ex boyfriend and I slept together. (probably 4-5 times) He was my first, and I will and always have had love for him. He was in a relationship of about 2 years at that point. He never told her about what happened for "fear she would hurt herself." Fast forward t...
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{ "description": "giving a guy my number in the process of seperating", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving a guy my number in the process of seperating?
My ex bf of 10 years and I are currently seperating and saving up money so I can move out in June. This is something that he initiated and wants and has no plans of changing his mind or working it out. We are still being intimate together. He decided to look through my phone after I came home late from work and saw a...
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{ "description": "not hanging out with my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not hanging out with my friend?
So my friend I work completely different schedules, my weekend is Monday through Wednesday and her weekend is Friday through Sunday. I managed to get a Friday off for working on a Tuesday, but it I tore my shoulder pretty recently (as in within the week). She wanted to go out and get drinks, but I suggested we just g...
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{ "description": "not funding my boyfriend's flight", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not funding my boyfriend’s flight?
We have been together for 1 year in total, and half of which we are in long distance relationship between Europe and Asia, from July 2018 until now. We met in university but I (23F) have graduated to work back home in Asia and he (20M)’s still studying. I have visited him once in December during Christmas and we have ...
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{ "description": "cutting an autistic friend out of my life", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting an autistic friend out of my life?
I've been friends on and off with someone , let's call him Mike for 10 years or so. We have a shared interest in gaming and often get together with other friends. Mike unfortunately has a tendency to have outburst when he loses games or someone plays a game a way he doesn't approve of. One time I invited a new friend...
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{ "description": "not caring about my ex and her newborn", "pronormative_score": 59, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not caring about my ex and her newborn?
I'm keeping this short. We dated for alittle over a year and in that time I developed deep feelings for her. A year ago we broke up because I found out she was cheating on me. I admit it took a toll on me but we decided to stay "friends" mostly because we work together. She ended up staying with the other guy and go...
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{ "description": "bad parking after a snowstorm", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bad parking after a snowstorm?
Hi all, first time here. I was on my way to work, it’s a public parking space where employees park as well. I couldn’t see the lines due to being covered by the snow. But I was only a few minutes away from clocking in so I wasn’t trying to be late, I found a car in a spot in front of me, my goal was to park my car i...
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{ "description": "wanting half my GF's bet winnings", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting half my GF's bet winnings?
Some time ago, during the recent Counter-Strike GO major tournament, my girlfriend and I thought it would be fun to place a few bets on the games. We talked about sharing the wager 50/50. I said to her, that we shouldn't bet more than we could afford to lose, and she agreed. We agreed upon betting 10$ each, so 20$ tota...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend I never loved him", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 94 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend I never loved him?
I thought we were in love with each other. We never fought or argued and just genuinely loved being around each other. At least that's what I thought. Until he sat me down and told me that he was dumping me. I was so shocked and the last thing I wanted to do, was let him know I was hurt. So I acted relieved. That confu...
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AITA who is supporting one friend over another?
Last summer two of my friends, lets call one Simon and the other Greg, had a falling out. I never really new the details about the falling out, except that Simon was the one who wronged Greg. Now I do need to mention that Simon is my best friend, and has been the last 20 years , while Greg always mainly has been Si...
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{ "description": "walking out on my friends at the store", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for walking out on my friends at the store?
I'll try my best to keep this as short and unbiased as possible. So I spent the night with my two friends the other day. I thought we were just gonna hang out and go home the next morning, so I brought pajamas to wear and nothing else. Something to know about me, I have really bad social anxiety and I'm incredibly...
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auem85
{ "description": "calling my mom a drunk", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for calling my mom a drunk.
Hey, im 15 and i live with my mother, father, brother, and grandmother(who is visiting). This happend yesterday night and its really bothering me. I had just gotten back from a hockey game and i was very tired. I took a bowl and filled it with stew that my mother had made. Hands weak i dropped it on my way to the ta...
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{ "description": "going on a 2-week long trip with my two best female friends and missing my bf's 30th birthday and his dad's first days of radiation for cancer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I go on a 2-week long trip with my two best female friends and miss my bf’s 30th birthday and his dad’s first days of radiation for cancer?
Over the last few months, I’ve been crawling out of a bad episode of depression with overwhelming anxiety. Recently diagnosed with bipolar and have started new medication. On top of that, I have had a bunch of health problems that have landed me in the hospital, urgent care, and weekly visits to my primary doctor. It’s...
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ahcndt
{ "description": "pointing out a menorah to a jewish girl while we were going out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pointing out a menorah to a jewish girl while we were going out?
This title doesn't make much sense, I know. ​ I make this thread despite the situation having happened a while ago (1-2 months). ​ I was going out with a girl on Sunday, and the day before was Hanukkah. ​ Now, I didn't know that jews celebrated hanukkah by parading in cars custom...
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9thv56
{ "description": "disapproving of my boyfriend's female friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disapproving of my [25F] boyfriend’s [26M] female friendship?
Alright guys, I keep wavering back and forth between feeling in the right about this one and feeling like an asshole. Basic info: we’ve only been dating 5 months, he’s been friends with this girl for years. She currently lives in a different state than us. So I’d like to think I’m the type of person who’s okay with m...
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{ "description": "not accepting last minute invitations from my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting last minute invitations from my friend?
Obligatory mobile warning Tldr at the bottom Basically I recently got into a relationship, have been spending a huge amount of time with him and his flatmates, they're awesome and understand to plan things in advance so everyone is free and don't make other plans. At the same time my best friend from out of town move...
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{ "description": "yelling at my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Yelling At My Friend?
So some much needed context: My friend came over one night to just chill and nerd out about DnD, movies, and the 2020 election. Everything was perfectly fine until he wanted go go home. He had smoked a bit of weed and though he wasn't baked outside of his mind, he was a little high. I insisted he eat some grilled s...
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{ "description": "being kicked out of Hometown Buffet's", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being kicked out of Hometown Buffet’s (Ryan’s?)
A little backstory: I visit this location every Friday night with my family and we all eat. A lot. Last time, the manger told us we had hit our limit but we informed him that the agreement is “all you can eat.” I was on my 9th plate when he came up to me, we had probably been there for about three hours. He was nice a...
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{ "description": "thinking its a little unfair that my mom wants to kick me out even though I'm 18", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking its a little unfair that my mom wants to kick me out even though I'm 18?
Obviously you it's legal but given the circumstances I don't think I just don't think it's fair idk. Like yeah obviously it's legal, but if I get kicked out I'm garaunteed homeless. My mom has always been really physical and emotional abusive so it's caused A LOT of mental health issues. She never agreed to therapy...
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asztt9
{ "description": "dating a lesbian", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dating a lesbian?
So a while ago there was this girl that I knew that I decided I should date (this was before she came out) and we went on a couple of dates and everything was fine but out of no where she broke up with me for a couple of generic reasons like “we didn’t really connect” or “you didn’t really talk to me”. So I was like t...
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a8osu5
{ "description": "telling my parents something my brother told me in confidence", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i told my parents something my brother told me in confidence?
To preface I'm a 21M student and he's 19. Further background: my brother is the nicest guy in the world, but that's a double edged sword because hes a humongous fucking pushover.My brother has lived in an apartment for the better part of this year with his two bum ass friends, neither of whom work much or pay really an...
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{ "description": "making my 16yr old son get a job before he was allowed to start his drivers ed course", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITAH For making my 16yr old son get a job before he was allowed to start his drivers ed course?
Let me start by saying, I feel very strongly that it is my job as a parent to make sure I am helping my children become a positive contribution to society. Back story. My son is 16 when he decides he’s ready to start his driving course. Most of you know, this can be a lengthy process. But, I was sensing some procras...
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{ "description": "embroidering my heartbreak", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I embroidered my heartbreak?
My ex recently broke up with me to “work on himself for us” and a week later had the married woman I asked him to stop talking to while we were together (because their relationship was inappropriate I’m not the only one who saw this) to which he agreed, staying at his place. I blocked him on everything because I can’...
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{ "description": "not telling someone I was uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling someone I was uncomfortable?
I know the title makes it sound obvious but please read all this mess. All of this lasted a time frame of 10 years, I think that's probably important When I was in 4th grade I "dated" this guy. It was really more like we were friends, but I didn't like how he tried making me go to parties and tried getting me to kiss ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share personal information with my MIL", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to share personal information with my MIL?
For context, my new wife and I have been dating for 8+ years. We just got married this past weekend. Her mom was super helpful during the wedding planning, including taking over a bunch of things that neither my wife nor I were willing to handle/plan. She was also a little overbearing, a sentiment my wife shares, and v...
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{ "description": "rejecting my moms dying wish to see me before she passes away", "pronormative_score": 147, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for rejecting my moms dying wish to see me before she passes away?
Here is the background of the situation, me and my mom never had a good relationship to start off. Around the age of 14, my mom and dad had a nasty divorce that ultimately split the family in half. I have 4 sisters, 2 older and 2 younger and I am the only son. My sisters left with my mom and I decided to stay with my d...
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artusi
{ "description": "disputing rather than paying a debt over a clerical mistake", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disputing rather than paying a debt over a clerical mistake?
Maybe I'm in the wrong place, I don't post to Reddit often. Sorry for any formatting issues and all that. Back story: years ago I had an account with Verizon wireless. At one point I called them to cancel the account which, as far as I was aware, was not under contract. They cancelled the account for me and then sent ...
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aynd88
{ "description": "calling a friends Fiance 'Weak Fiance'", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For calling a friends Fiance 'Weak Fiance' ?
I have a friend who I usually speak to, and his fiance usually gives me hate on a daily basis whenever my friend mentions me. ​ Today, I had told him he had a 'Weak Fiance' and he flipped, he said that was an Insult. ​ Afterwords, the reason why he flipped was because a past i did not know of ...
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{ "description": "deciding not to be in my best-friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if I decided not to be in my best-friend’s wedding?
I’ve been friends with him for 15 years—let’s call him “T.” Well, T was the first friend I made when I moved to NC from NY and he proposed to his girlfriend a few months ago. Of course I’m excited for him and, naturally, he asked me to be one of the groomsman in his wedding. I said yes, but I’m having hesitations and ...
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{ "description": "staying in an all-men club while my wife is against it", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for staying in an all-men club while my wife is against it?
My coworkers introduced me to an all-men club, which is basically for finding friends as an adult as well as networking. I like meeting my new friends (being 30-ish finding new friends outside work is hard), however my wife is furious. She is a strong defender of women's rights and thinks that if they (=the club) conti...
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AITA Confrontation with housemates
I rarely post on Reddit , let alone on this particular subreddit but this massive argument i just had is making me question myself since most of the house is in unision about me being otp. So i get into bed at around 1:30 am and struggle to get into sleep since my skin condition decided to really flare up tonight ...
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{ "description": "blocking my stalker in my city", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I block my stalker in my city?
So last July, I lived in China in Shanghai. Browsing tinder I found a canadian born chinese and we started talking, she was travelling china with her family. After a few weeks chit chatting, more as friends, she was a city away so I decided to meet her. She was alone as her friends went to Beijing so we had the time to...
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admsli
{ "description": "being upset that my colleagues grandmother died", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my colleagues grandmother died?
Firstly I’m not upset that her family member died. My grievance is with my employer. At my job (Shitty company) for the last year and a half I’ve routinely covered for colleagues who call in sick, have family troubles and when my supervisors are short in other areas they ask me to do two peoples job. This means I’m ...
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{ "description": "chastising my girlfriend about not taking her hospital visit seriously", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for chastising my girlfriend about not taking her hospital visit seriously?
My (24 yo) girlfriend has been having stomach issues for the past year. I have begged her to go see some kind of medical help, but didnt push because she's afraid of needles and the issue only came around once a month or so. This is prior to us dating. Now that we are dating, her stomach issues have become several time...
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auub5r
{ "description": "wanting to keep this dog", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to keep this dog?
So to start this story off, I’ve been fostering this beautiful Great Dane dog for over a year now. It was only suppose to be 2days then changed 6 six weeks. Now here we at 1 year later. Now this doggo was my mother’s fiancés dog. My mother kicked the dog out after she got sick and starting puking and pooping everywhe...
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{ "description": "being pissed that my ex told his family/friends about my suicide attempt", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed that my ex told his family/friends about my suicide attempt?
It's been a few years since we were together, but I've just been wondering if I am right to think that it was kinda shitty/selfish of him that he told both his parents and a few of his friends when I had to be hospitalized for a suicide attempt. I understand if he needed someone to talk to - but I really didn't want so...
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{ "description": "sticking up for an ex instead of my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 405, "contranormative_score": 121 }
AITA for sticking up for an ex instead of my girlfriend?
Throwaway. My girlfriend are in a huge/ potentially relationship ending argument. I need to know if ITA. I’m in a very LDR with basically the girl of my dreams. Absolutely beautiful, smart, driven. Things have been great despite being a several hour plane ride away from each other. She came to town, and I was so pu...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for the food I don't eat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for the food I don't eat.
I am currently on holiday with friends. At the moment we stay at an accomodation where we need to cook for ourselves. Before we went on holdiays we already went to buy the necessary things we would need and I would say if you just want to eat something or fridge is always filled with something to eat. I am a simple ...
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{ "description": "asking my gf about her past relationship", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I ask my gf about her past relationship?
I want to ask my girlfriend about her past relationship and why she broke up with her ex. We’ve been dating for five months now and I want to know how her previous relationship was with her ex. Will I be the asshole if I ask this personal question?
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{ "description": "telling my sick sister she still needs to clean up after herself", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my sick sister she still needs to clean up after herself?
My sister is visiting for the holidays and we went on a trip to see some extended family, which included kids. She works in a sterile environment with adults so her immune system is pretty weak. She came down with a pretty bad nasal something from interacting with the kids and now that we're back home, she's basically ...
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{ "description": "ignoring phone on my day off, not going to cover a \"sick\" co-workers shift", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Ignoring phone on my day off, not going to cover a “sick” co-workers shift.
I could use the hours but why should I come in on my day off just because this shitty corporation gave me 33 hours in 5 days this week. They got a huge tax cut thanks to Donald Trump but still try to cut down on labor whenever they can, sending people home early when it’s not busy etc, and haven’t given any raises or b...
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{ "description": "not kissing my so when she has a cold sore", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not kissing my SO when she has a cold sore?
I am in a long-distance relationship (soon to not be long-distance). My SO occasionally gets cold sores when I am visiting, and I have told her repeatedly that I do not want to kiss her when she has them, as I do not want the virus. Whenever this occurs, she gets very upset and we get into a fight. I try to explain my...
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{ "description": "not answering my friend's calls and eventually yelling at him to stop calling me and having a grudge against him for something that happened years ago", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not answering my friend’s calls and eventually yelling at him to stop calling me and having a grudge against him for something that happened years ago?
(The calling part: I have this friend who I’ll call Carl for now. Me and Carl met years ago and became best friends after finding out we were interested in a lot of the same things. Ever since we’ve met we would talk about how we would want to sleep over each others house when we eventually were able to sleep over each...
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9wfyn8
{ "description": "asking my so to cut online contact with her ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my SO to cut online contact with her ex?
I've been with my SO for about 6 months, started dating shortly after she broke up with her ex of 3 years (he cheated on her countless times). Me and her are currently long distance for school. ​ When we first began dating she informed me that they were still friends, and are both in the same friends group...
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{ "description": "yelling at my kid for refusing to go to a sleepover", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 45 }
AITA if I yelled at my kid for refusing to go to a sleepover?
My close friend (we'll call him S) asked if her daughter (we'll call her M), who doesn't go out that often, could have a sleepover with my teenage daughter (we'll call her J), who also doesn't go out that often. Seven years ago, J and M were good friends, but they drifted apart after we moved. But since we've come back...
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AITA from discouraging our family friends from coming over and visiting my mom who just had surgery?
My mom had head surgery and one of our family friends called her and said they were going to be in town (for another event) and wanted to drop by after. When she said she just had surgery.. “we want to see how you’re doing”. My mom is kind of a pushover, especially when it comes to saying no to people so I sent the...
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{ "description": "not wanting my MIL's boyfriend staying at my house when I am not there. I have two young daughters", "pronormative_score": 53, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting my MIL’s boyfriend staying at my house when I am not there. I have two young daughters.
So I am married with 2 little girls aged 4 and 2. I work abroad and spend a month away at a time so the MIL stays at my house to help with the kids. She recently got a new boyfriend who is an ex alcoholic and according to my wife a pretty nice guy. The problem is that when I go to work he has been coming over and basic...
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{ "description": "smiling when my father said he hates me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I smiled when my father said he hates me.
My father has been acting rude towards me for the past 4 years for absolutely no apparent reason he finds almost any reason to yell and scream at me. He's rude to almost anybody he thinks he is better than (which is a lot of people). I can't stand him for this and it brings me to the point where I am no longer emotiona...
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{ "description": "moving in with my girlfriend and not working despite living here for several weeks", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Moving in with my girlfriend and not working despite living here for several weeks?
To elaborate, I am 17 years old but am turning 18 this month and I’ve already graduated high school so my mother decided since I’m about to be 18 and my girlfriend and I already have a house she’d let me move. The original plan was for me to get a job right away and so that’s what I did. The problem is the restaurant...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be nice to an Ex-bully", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be nice to an Ex-bully.
So the title pretty much sums it up but let me give you some context. ​ So lets call this guys Kevin. Kevin was just a general jerk but most of the time he wasn't that bad but he could choose when he wanted to be a major asshole. He would always find something to make fun of about me whether it was my ha...
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{ "description": "blocking my stressful but sick friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my stressful but sick friend?
Throwaway. Some background on me: I grew up in a very strict household and I am very motivated by being good and staying away from people's anger. As a result, I do have some codependent traits, loads of anxiety and self-worth issues, and somewhat more difficulty than normal with setting boundaries. I've been working o...
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{ "description": "being mad at my brother for not paying me my $20 back for half a year", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For being mad at my brother(17) for not paying me my $20 back for half a year??
Bit of backstory ~ About half a year ago my brother needed 20 dollars to buy our mom a bday gift. I had some money and lent it to him, making it obvious that I wanted it back soon because we don’t get very much money often. Anyway we all just got $20, and he refused to pay me back and spent it all so we couldn’t even...
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{ "description": "telling a man he can't use our out of order public restroom, or employee restroom", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a man he can't use our out of order public restroom, or employee restroom?
I'm gonna be totally transparent here. I work in retail, surprise. And yesterday a man came in with his daughter who was probably 4-6, I'm not entirely sure. Now the reason our restrooms aren't public. We have two restrooms in our building. One for employees, one for customers. The customer one has been infamous...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be there for a self-destructive friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Not Wanting to be There for a Self-Destructive Friend
tl;dr Friend is on a self-destructive path. I threaten to not be there if he doesn’t go get help. I have a friend, and I’m one of his best friends if not his best friend. Recently, he has been talking to me about his issues and feelings because his LDR ex-girlfriend and him broke up over communication issues. Without...
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{ "description": "inviting my friend's ex to my party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inviting my friend's ex to my party?
So a friend of mine used to date this guy a few years ago. Since the breakup they've had their grievance have since seemingly made up and even hang out together as friends (note: she even said this explicitly in the past). Even when she asks me to go out for dinner or whatever she'll say "I invited [ex]" and I dont thi...
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{ "description": "deciding to not sell a car to a woman who didn't show up on time", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deciding to not sell a car to a woman who didn't show up on time?
Not the most thrilling AITA story, but I am kind of feeling conflicted. Late last year my Mother in law wanted to sell her car, so we posted it for sale on Facebook. We had a lot of people enquire, and wanting to look, but not until the next day. Anyway, it was around 9pm and this woman asked if she paid in cash, woul...
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{ "description": "being mad at my best friend for dating my ex", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Being Mad At My Best Friend For Dating My Ex?
Hello guys! There’s a lot to unpack here, I’ll leave a TL;DR at the bottom. Before I start, I’d like to say I really don’t believe in having “dibs” or like, owning people, but it’s a complicated situation I have been friends with this girl for a few years, and while she’s younger than me, she’s my closest girl friend...
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{ "description": "telling my mentally ill friend her drug use is making things worse", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mentally ill friend her drug use is making things worse?
So I've had a turbulent friendship with a girl that shares some of my mental health diagnoses for a couple of years. She doesn't work due to illness (+her parents are loaded and she inherited a lot of money ) and spends a lot of her time partying and doing drugs like k and Molly. I used to do both very occasionally and...
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{ "description": "telling my overweight friend that she needs to take a higher dose of Plan B", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I told my overweight friend that she needs to take a higher dose of Plan B?
Hey all, first time posting My best friend has been seeing a guy for a bit now. They get along really well and today she lost her virginity to him. Problem is, they had unprotected sex and he did the deed inside her. She said she plans on buying Plan B in the morning. I remember reading studies about how BMI affe...
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{ "description": "being mad at my parents", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my parents?
I recently got waitlisted by 6 schools in the US. I did get into a UK school with a full scholarship, but I still cared about the US side of things. I was thrilled when I came home today and my mom told me she just got an email from the Admissions office at my top choice. She told me they had a place for me there and h...
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{ "description": "thinking of my ex gf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For thinking of my ex GF
Obvioulsy some context: My Ex (23f) of 5 years split up with me (24m) at the beginning of summer last year. Being my only relationship ever, and it coming completely out of the blue, it devastated me. I ended up spending all the savings that i had saved to by a house with said Ex on holidays with my friends and drinki...
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{ "description": "telling my grandma to stop bringing me clothes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told my grandma to stop bringing me clothes?
Some background: my daughter has recently developed the dreaded "stranger danger" phase, so she's currently petrified of my grandparents. They got pissy about this, so I told them they needed to make more of an effort to actually keep plans and get to know her instead of just for the holidays. Anywho, they've been ma...
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{ "description": "not accompanying my girlfriend with severe social anxiety on an errand", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not accompanying my girlfriend with severe social anxiety on an errand?
My girlfriend of about a year has crippling social anxiety. If we go out, it would not be uncommon for her to nervously shake or to shutdown completely. It breaks my heart to see her struggle with it. She is sometimes incapable of completing the simplest everyday tasks if it requires her leaving the house on her own. ...
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AITAH if I opt-out of worrying for my hospitalized cat?
Hello all! Let me start off by saying I love my cat very much. He's my little boy. Much to my husband and I's horror, he's taken a turn for the worse. He's currently in surgery getting a blood transfusion. The vets don't know what it is and all we can do is hope he comes out of it and that we can bring him home again...
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{ "description": "still wanting pictures of me and my ex", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for still wanting pictures of me and my ex?
My girlfriend of just over a year and I just moved in together, yesterday we were sitting on the couch when one of those Facebook memory notifications popped up, it was a photo of me, my college friends and my ex on a spring break trip we took like 6 years ago. Me and this ex dated for two years of college and three y...
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{ "description": "questioning my supervisor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning my Supervisor
Alright so we had a change in ownership last year and basically nobody likes these owners. They came in and changed everything, arguably for the worst. A rumor popped up that they were subtly trying to push the older employees out (ones who were there before the ownership change) by messing with their hours, ignoring o...
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{ "description": "calling out a friend at work for being lazy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out a friend at work for being lazy?
I work in a restaurant, and have been in this industry for almost 8 years. I recently got promoted to management ( I haven’t been sent to my training yet however so am still technically not a manager in the store I work for) I work with a woman, let’s call her Lily. Lily and I have worked at the same restaurant for 3...
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{ "description": "ignoring what my wife has to say against me wanting to keep Boxing", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring what my wife has to say against me wanting to keep Boxing?
So I absolutely love boxing and it's the only thing that got me out of a depressional bind I was in before I met my wife. I've been boxing for ~4-5 years now, and am only an amateur. Not really any plans on going pro as its just my favorite sport and hobby. So before I got into boxing I got my drivers license suspe...
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{ "description": "being sick and not doing the dishes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Being sick and not doing the dishes
This is my first post ever here so I don’t know if this is kinda a weak one or not A little backstory to understand everything: I’m a kid still going to school. My parents got divorced in 2013. Both my mom and my dad have found new lovers. I hate my dads girlfriend and I like my moms boyfriend. I always go home to my ...
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{ "description": "not expecting to pay as an invited guest", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not expecting to pay as an invited guest?
A couple of my roomates/best friends from college live in a nearby city. I'm in medical school, so I'm quite stingy with cash. One of my old roomates is also in medical school, but with a substantial scholarship and the other roommate has a nice paying job (like 60-70k). Earlier this month they asked me to come up and ...
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{ "description": "wanting to see a movie a different time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to see a movie a different time?
Okay so I'll keep it short. Me and my friend are both not 18 yet, and he is staying over at my house. We wanted to see a movie, which we would originally see at 15:30, but I thought it would be better to see it at 18:45, so we could still have a free day, instead of this over 2-hour movie taking up a big chunk of our ...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I'll make her \"bark like a dog\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my wife I'll make her "bark like a dog"?
Alright hear me out. Due to my previous posts/comments, I'm sure I already know the answer, but this is different. Well, different-ish. My wife asked me to run to the store to get diapers and wipes. She told me earlier, but I forgot. We still had a few left, but we don't like gambling like that. When she brought it u...
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{ "description": "getting me and my GF Yelled at the movies", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Getting Me and My GF Yelled at the Movies
So I went on a date with my girlfriend to the movies. We sat next to this family of 4 (wife, 2 daughters, and husband). During the movie we occasionally laughed at the funny scenes and kissed a bit during the romantic scenes. After the movie ended we were about to leave, then the husband of the family gets up and appro...
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{ "description": "still not liking my step brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for still not liking my step brother?
There's a lot of family drama history but the background is that I left my mom (parent's divorced) to live with my father and it created a lot of problems for her and my step brother. He had some issues before, but it created some more problems for him and it created issues for her. I came back several years ago becaus...
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