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AITA if I don’t my best friend back 600$?
Around a year and some months ago (around October) from today my best friend had borrowed my car and and had accidentally reversed into one of those green cable/internet cones that sit on some lawns between houses and it had unfortunately broken one of the latches that holds the bumper securely to the rear end of the c...
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{ "description": "forgetting to wish my father a happy new year", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forgetting to wish my father a happy new year
I was in the midst of travelling to a nearby city by plane, my flight was at 9pm on the 31st of december. The flight was delayed and I ended up landing 10 minutes before the new year. I didn't even realise it was 2019 until I was in the taxi. I went straight to sleep and the next morning I woke up to an angry phone cal...
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{ "description": "feeling sexual pressure", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Wibta for feeling sexual pressure?
WIBTA? Background: So I have a bit of a messy mental state around sex. I have a history of just giving partners whatever they want sexually so they won't be sad and some of them have definitely taken advantage of that fact. But I'm working on it and I need an outside perspective on this one. Anyway I have been tryin...
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{ "description": "laughing at my ex losing her job due to reasons out of her control", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for laughing at my ex losing her job due to reasons out of her control?
For some background, I absolutely despise my ex, and that is not an understatement in any way, shape, or form. Our relationship culminated in us both hitting rock bottom mentally, and despite my best efforts and it being nearly 2 years since we broke up, I still haven't found a way to move on from everything that trans...
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{ "description": "highlighting that I am carrying my colleague in front of the rest of the team", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for highlighting that I am carrying my colleague in front of the rest of the team ?
Some back story, I'm a chef in a large and very demanding corporate kitchen that serves up to 3000 meals a day. We were on section together today and she arrived 20 mins later than me (yet on time) I had already got several jobs going( 2 soups for 150 covers each chicken and mushroom pie for 200 mash in the steamer ...
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{ "description": "not showing up to a performance", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not showing up to a performance?
In fifth grade our school made us do this dance class once a week (we had gym, art, etc all once a week). I didn't enjoy it but did it since it was mandatory. At the end of the year there was a performance where the parents and stuff would get to see it but I didn't want to go so I didn't show up. The show wasn't part ...
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{ "description": "complaining about me and my boyfriend's lack of sex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for complaining about me and my boyfriend's lack of sex?
Throwaway account cause I don't feel comfortabke posting this on my own account. I'm 110% sure that I'm gonna marry my boyfriend. We're extremely compatible and we both never felt so in love before. But the one thing we don't exactly click is the sex. I have quite a high sex drive. 6 times per week would be the good l...
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{ "description": "beating my sister ex-boyfriend that punch her in the face", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i beat my sister ex-boyfriend that punch her in the face?
I am 19 years old male, my sister 15 and her ex boyfriend 17, today I was lying in my room watching Netflix when I started to hear a noise of someone crying, It was my sister, she was talking to a friend of hers thru the phone, I could not hear perfectly because the sound of the television was quite loud, but I could h...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mother at my wedding because she is still with my abuser", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for NOT wanting my mother at my wedding because she is still with my abuser?!
A little bit of backstory; My mother kicked me out at 14 & I had to move in with my nan. I was a very troubled teen due to the ( sexual ) abuse I got from my stepdad, It was too the point that I wanted to be as many miles away as possible and I ended up leaving my nans at 16 and moved 40 mins away. At 19 I got preg...
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{ "description": "taking my neighbour's cat to a shelter", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my neighbour's cat to a shelter?
I live in an apartment building a block away from a busy street. Our building is pet friendly or at least when we moved in two years ago it was. A few nights ago around 10pm my boyfriend found a friendly black cat in the parking lot who was meowing and it actually followed him in the building. Neither of us had ever s...
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{ "description": "not picking my gf up from the airport", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not picking my GF up from the airport?
My girlfriend called me "really annoying", "rude" then eventually "selfish" for not picking her up from the airport. She has been angry about it all day. ​ She was travelling for work (travel expenses such as taxis from airports covered) and was away for one day, the airport is about 6 miles/20 minutes fr...
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{ "description": "looking when gf's friend asked if her cousin is cute", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for looking when gf's friend asked if her cousin is cute?
I was with my gf and her friend so they started talking when her friend pulls out her phone and asks if her cousin is cute. I looked and I didn't think anything of it till gf is upset later and tells me that she asked her not to do that, and her friend's response was "well it's not my fault your man can't keep his eyes...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend an in-game item", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not giving my friend an in-game item?
So, here's what happened. I was playing a game with Friend 1 and Friend 2. Friend 1 finds two rare items while fishing (both the same item), and Friend 2 is INSTANTLY asking for them to give to an NPC. Friend 1 is saying no, but Friend 2 is repeating her question and repeatedly getting louder. Friend 1 begins saying "w...
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{ "description": "saying I'm overwhelmed at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying I’m overwhelmed at work?
I started my new job the beginning of January. I was shown a lot rather quickly - how to certify things, receive goods in, write folders, make travelers, print drawings, get information off customer websites, and do shipment paperwork. Last week on Tuesday I was very overwhelmed. I almost quit on the spot. Supplies...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend of 6 years over a series of text blowups", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I cut off a friend of 6 years over a series of text blowups?
I've been pining over this situation for about a month now. I've made a decision, but wanted outside input before I do anything rash. My friend, let's call him Matt, of 6 years is transitioning from female to male. His testosterone shots have been making him more and more belligerent and explosive. So, on February ...
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{ "description": "being cold towards my friends given the circumstances which they started dating each other under", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being cold towards my friends given the circumstances which they started dating each other under?
I have this group of online friends which are around my age (17~18) who I met around November of last year. We all live in the same country. Recently, two of the members of the group, R and T, started dating each other. R is a very shy and insecure boy. He's never been in a relationship before. T is a troubled girl who...
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{ "description": "refusing to help cheat on a test", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to help cheat on a test?
**TL;DR: I've historically bent over backwards to help my best friend succeed at college, she asks me to help her cheat on an open note test by means of her disability accommodations, I refuse, she gets angry AITA?** Sorry for the length, not really sure if this much background is necessary, but it does help paint a p...
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{ "description": "wanting my mom to pay for hulu in part because she originally didn't want it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for wanting my mom to pay for hulu in part because she originally didn't want it
Disclaimers: 13 years old, and on mobile So, for the past few months, our family pirated off our friend's Hulu account, which I didn't enjoy but my mom said our friend was fine with it so I went along with it. Turns out our friend did care, because she changed her password recently. I was kinda relieved that I wasn't...
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{ "description": "ignoring a friend who borrowed money from me but didn't give it back for 2 weeks", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For ignoring a friend who borrowed money from me but didn't give it back for 2 weeks
This story needs a little backstory. ​ Last month a very close friend of mine messaged me asking if he could borrow money since he was moving out of his parents home and had to pay some college fees. Since this was a very good friend, I lended him around 250 euros (Which is a lot for me since I'm just a st...
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{ "description": "standing up for a girl that was being hit on Valentines day? am I sexist", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for standing up for a girl that was being hit on Valentines day? Am I sexist?
This happened on Valentine day's but I only found out about the reaction this morning. We all go to school in a fairly large college town. ​ I went out with some friends to a couple bars late at night, and my roommate/friend invited some of his friends to tag along with us. One of them is this girl that I...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my downstairs neighbors party", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA i called the cops on my downstairs neighbors party.
AITA i called the cops on my downstairs neighbors party. Am I the asshole for never trying to go down there and talk? I work at 6 am I don't want to have to try to deal with 10 drunk college kids.
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{ "description": "driving exactly the speed limit in the left lane during a heavy rainstorm", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for driving exactly the speed limit in the left lane during a heavy rainstorm?
Title says it all pretty much. My commute home is entirely on local roads and has mostly left turns.
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{ "description": "getting mad at my bf for pushing me away", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my BF for pushing me away?
I haven't talked to my BF for a couple of days now and keep rethinking this situation, thus decided to ask y'all AITA. Back story: this past Saturday I was having a beer with my close friend at a bar next to both our homes. My BF of two years was out working on a project with his colleagues till around 11 PM that nigh...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend that we're getting \"divorced\"", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my best friend that we're getting "divorced"?
So the other day, i was in the gym with my friend and we were sparring each other and he hit a slightly painful blow on my back and i lost my balance and fell over. For no reason at all, i just yelled "Ok that's it WE'RE GETTING A DIVORCE" At him. He looked at me furiously then ran out of the gym. I thought it was a jo...
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{ "description": "leading on a gay man and not telling him our \"hookup\" was just an experiment for me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leading on a gay man and not telling him our “hookup” was just an experiment for me?
(Using a throwaway account for obvious reasons, also I’m on mobile so apologies) (Tl:Dr at the bottom) This is something I’ve always wanted to know, figured I’d finally get it off my chest... So rewind about 4 years. I was in San Francisco.on business but I have family out there so visit them while I’m there. I, of...
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AITA - Fiancee wont admit she has a child
Hi All, ​ So 13 years ago my fiancee had a baby she gave up for an open adoption. She sees her daughter every 2 months and is facebook friends with the adoptive parents and she has a great relationship with the family. Anyhow, we recently got engaged which means family invitations are going out. However...
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{ "description": "wanting to get my neighbors car towed", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to get my neighbors car towed?
I live in a subdivision where you are not allowed to park in the street. Typically I do not mind when people do, except for this one vehicle parked in the same spot for over a month. It looks like it was in an accident and has out of state plates. If the car wasn’t parked right on a tight bend this wouldn’t be an issue...
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{ "description": "checking things about a girl on facebook to know her better", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for checking things about a girl on facebook to know her better ?
Start to know me: So this happened about 2-3 years ago and i still can't get over it, i come from a family of alcoholic's and im really sensitive, im scared of lots of thing im scared of being left alone and I'm still having therapy sessions because of my family, right now im scared of you guys because you might think ...
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{ "description": "being unable to attend family gathering", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being unable to attend family gathering?
Throwaway. Sorry for bad format. 20 year old male working full-time and living at home with mom, step mom, and step brother. ​ This weekend my family wanted to see if I could come with them to a party for my step-mom's cousin. I said yes but then after getting to work and seeing my schedule I saw I would...
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{ "description": "warning a vulnerable person to stay away from my ex", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I warn a vulnerable person to stay away from my ex?
Throwaway account, to avoid a potential shit show from reddit-using friends. Bit of context about my relationship with my ex and with the vulnerable person (VP): I was with my ex for just shy of 5 years, and for the first year or so, everything was amazing! However over time he became controlling financially, expected...
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{ "description": "not fully siding with my wife against my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 54 }
AITAH for not fully siding with my Wife against my Dad?
My Wife has always had an issue with my Dad, and it's worth mentioning she's had an issue with older men ever since her parents split when she was much younger, and has trust issues with her own Father - various events that have left her with generalized anxiety. We've been together around 13 years, married for 5, and...
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{ "description": "ghosting my mom on her birthday because of my depression", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For ghosting my mom on her birthday because of my depression
From the title you all probably made up your minds and I dont really blame you. Its possible youre right. The fight after the fact put me in defense mode so im making this post to see what others think. Ive been depressed for two months. Eating very little. Not shaving or showering much. I quit my job and have been li...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boss over a scheduling miscommunication", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my boss over a scheduling miscommunication
Today is my day off and I live a solid half an hour away from the place that I work. A week ago I agreed to doing an 8am to 5pm shift on this Friday and next Friday, as well as coming in early on Monday to help out. It’s mostly because of the overtime pay since I’m a full time employee and I could use the extra money. ...
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{ "description": "giving my girlfriend a photo album filled with pictures of her for our anniversary", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 96 }
AITA For giving my girlfriend a photo album filled with pictures of her for our anniversary?
My girlfriend (23f) and I (24m) just had our 2 month anniversary this past saturday and it was....less than ideal. I am an amatuer photographer. Its a hobby of mine and I love capturing parts of the world, just freezing beautiful things in time so they can be preserved forever. And my gf is beautiful, so I figured why...
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{ "description": "not wanting to rewatch the same old Christmas movies again this year", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to rewatch the same old Christmas movies again this year?
My wife enjoys the tradition of watching all of her favorite Christmas movies every year which is fine for her but I find them so boring now. I work long hours 6 days a week and the last thing I want to do is waste my evening, let alone my few days off rewatching the same old shit. She says that I don't have a nosta...
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{ "description": "being embarrassed by my uncultured family", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for being embarrassed by my uncultured family?
No one in my family has any money they don't travel, they eat garbage fast food, they don't read books etc. All they really do is work and watch TV. They are also very close minded about anything that is not "real" like spiritual things. I'm not a pseud but I like talking about philosophy, metaphysics, art and classic ...
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{ "description": "posting a picture of a glitched thing in a game and getting tons of questions why I use hacks", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA when I posted a picture of a glitched thing in a game and got tons of questions why I use hacks?
I made a post on the Terraria subreddit on mobile asking why my face looked like a painting. I was looking in a chest on an all-items world. Shortly after, a bunch of other redditors asked me why I used cheats. I kept explaining it to everyone over and over, and one guy apologised after swearing at me in their comment,...
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{ "description": "refusing to get my girlfriend anything for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for refusing to get my girlfriend anything for Christmas?
I hate all holidays. She loves them. Normally I just give something to her but this year she broke one of my chairs accidentally. She paid to get it fixed herself but I think that's not the same thing. Christmas is her favorite holiday. That's the only reason I'm asking.
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{ "description": "making by bf feel guilty on Valentines Day", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making by bf feel guilty on Valentines Day?
I’m the consummate lurker. Sorry if this (first) post turns out so long and unreadable. ​ Sorry if this is better suited to relationships, but I’m so worried whether I’ve been the asshole or not. If that’s the verdict, I’ll be making changes / amends. I’m torn between wanting to be accommodating and realis...
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{ "description": "no longer trying with my Mormon mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For No Longer Trying With My Mormon Mom
My mom and I have always had a very rough relationship, and my dad and I even worse, considering he was rather abusive growing up. After moving out, I got mixed up in some drugs, and trapped in an abusive relationship for two years. My mom credited it to me leaving the Mormon Church. I then met my husband, who at the...
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{ "description": "interrupting a speech", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for interrupting a speech?
Background: I am in college and in a debate society. We meet weekly and debate interesting topics. It’s very formal and was established 150 years ago, so it has a lot of traditions. One of those traditions is speaking in seniority. Today, I went to our weekly debate society meeting, and I decided I wanted to speak on...
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{ "description": "not letting my \"friend\" cheat off me on a test", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not letting my “friend” cheat off me on a test?
Right now I am a senior in high school. I am a pretty good student and I try to help my friends out as much as possible when it comes to schoolwork. This year, I have started branching out and talking to people I haven’t typically talked to. One of these people, let’s call him Joe, has become pretty close with me. We h...
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{ "description": "valuing my self and wanting this guy to try harder", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for valuing my self and wanting this guy to try harder?
I'm 24yo finished my studies, already landed a high paying career making 120k a year. Not to be full of myself but people have told me I'm attractive. Anyway there's this guy I see around often and we always have googly eyes for each other. We chat briefly and the banter is just completely natural. He seems soo genui...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I can't support her since she's chosen to continue to date an abusive, dangerous asshole", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend I can't support her since she's chosen to continue to date an abusive, dangerous asshole?
Background: When I (30F) met my friend (37F), we'll call her Liz, last year, she was married and taking care of her two twin 7 year old boys. Last December (2017) she met a cop, we'll call him Asshole, who kept driving by her house during the day the play with her kids and soon started hitting on her which lead to an ...
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{ "description": "throwing out old food", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for throwing out old food?
Obligatory "I'm on mobile, please forgive the formatting" statement. So, every friday, my father brings my close family in for dinner to cap off the weekday. He personally cooks the food, and takes great pride in it, which we all appreciate. I live with him, so I mostly have to deal with the aftermath because he refus...
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{ "description": "not sharing my pen at the doctor's office", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not sharing my pen at the doctor’s office?
Today I went to the doctor’s office to fill out a repeat prescription form. The front desk has the usual pamphlets (stop smoking, the dangers of diabetes etc.) laid out and a pen in a stand for patients to use. I have used this office for a number of years, so I am well aware that the patient pen often disappears fro...
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{ "description": "dismantling my treehouse over land disputes", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For dismantling my Treehouse over land disputes?
Background: (This happened when me and my cousin were 14 & 15) One day me and my cousin had the idea of building a tree house, one problem, we didn't have a tree. The tree on our plot of land was a sickly pine that was nowhere near able to hold 100+ pounds of wood. But, we had a next door neighbor, she was an ama...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend for the \"whole\" present for my 30. birthday instead of just a description", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend for the "whole" present for my 30. Birthday instead of just a description?
This happened a few Minutes ago, so I'm still upset, sorry for any spelling mistakes, english also isn't my first language. I just became 30., its around 00.30 where I live. My girlfriend came over and startet cute singing at 00.00 and gratulated me. After some Time of hugging, she startet to explain that something di...
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{ "description": "being resentful of my BF", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being resentful of my BF?
For background, my BF and I live with my grandparents, mom, and my little bro. I work full time and he recently started working full time as well. About a month ago I had my wisdom teeth extracted and I got a really bad cold at the same time. I felt like I was completely out of commission for about 10 days. I slept m...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my wife for wanting to cut our vacation short", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset with my wife for wanting to cut our vacation short.
I planned a trip to a Caribbean island for my wife and 4 year old. Organized and booked the whole thing (checking with my wife to make sure she was ok with it). Flights, car rentals, VRBO, etc. 3 days into the trip I came down with what ended up being diagnosed some sort of virus when I got home. I was down and out...
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{ "description": "getting a nose ring", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for getting a nose ring
My parents absolutely adore and support everything I do, and I cant thank them enough, except for me getting a nose ring. I am a 20 year old Male college student studying to become a music teacher. The place I work at finally allows piercings so I said fuck it and went out and got a nose ring. Everyone in my school l...
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{ "description": "getting with my boyfriends best friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I got with my boyfriends best friend
Ok, let me break this down... this is a long one sorry ... I was with my former boyfriend, lets call him A for two years. The last year of those two years we were long distance (he dropped out of university and moved home) and his family weren't too keen on the whole long distance thing. By the end we were seeing each...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for removing me off her Insta", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for removing me off her Insta
This is a Repost as my first post was labeled INFO. So I'm in a relatively new relationship. We've been dating for about 3 months. A few weeks ago, I was added to her Instagram bio and I was posted to her account. She did this out of her own volition. I didn't ask for this but it made me happy I guess. At least seeing...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate's gf to leave our apartment", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my roommate’s GF to leave our apartment
My roommate and I have been living together for the past few months. I’ve been friends him for a few years now and he’s a great dude, very relaxed and easy-going which is part of the reason I decided to find a place with him. Another part of moving in with him is we have different work schedules, which would allow us t...
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{ "description": "kidnapping my neighbors cat for almost killing my two cats", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for kidnapping my neighbors cat for almost killing my two cats?
Title might make me a little bit of an asshole without any context to the story, but here it is. ​ This happened a good 5 years ago, when i made this account actually and I'm guessing it's going to be my throwaway from now on. However, i think about this from time to time and wonder if i was the asshole in...
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{ "description": "hating my sister", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hating my sister?
So trough most of my life my sister got lots more attention from my parents than me. I have worked for my grades finishing primary and secondary school at the top of my class(while getting bullied for existing and literally spat on in class). My sister was always got bad grades and was mean to me. One time when i was y...
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{ "description": "pushing someone away who was trying to help me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for pushing someone away who was trying to help me?
I know the answer is probably going to be YTA. So, I’m a 19 year old guy and I’ve had a difficult couple of years due to lots of anger problems and lashing out and shit. I’ve lost a lot of people due to the consequences of this. Anyway, somebody was really trying to help me get past this and change the bad parts of my...
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{ "description": "joining the military against my parents wishes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I joined the military against my parents wishes
Sorry for formatting I’m doing this on mobile. I want to give everyone a full background as to what’s going on so they can get the fairest view on this as possible. This starts in August of last year when I (16m) am on summer break. My parents decide to take away both my brother and my owns phones away for the rest of...
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{ "description": "wanting to eat cake", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to eat cake?
So, there's this shop that sells delicious, delicious cake, and earlier I bought one, thinking I would share it with my flatmates. Thing is...none of them are here right now. I could eat the whole cake and they would not even know about it. Would I be an asshole if I did?
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend because he didn't talk to his friend about the friend's inappropriate behavior", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend because he didn’t talk to his friend about the friend’s inappropriate behavior?
I sent out a group message on Facebook to have my boyfriends - let’s call him Frank - and my friends to meet us at his favorite bar for his birthday. He didn’t know I was inviting anyone and thought it was just him and I going out for a few drinks to celebrate. He is surprised and everyone is having fun, about an hou...
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{ "description": "not defending a guy that was going to/being beaten up on the streets", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not defending a guy that was going to/being beaten up on the streets?
A bit of context: As a hobby Iam a sport fencer, that means I get to stab people with non-stabby swords for fun. I chose this sport mainly because to "fence" means to defend yourself or other people, and I always stood up for helping others. This is why iam having a small breakdown. I Droped my brother with one of hi...
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{ "description": "dismissing guy in my class", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dismissing guy in my class?
AITA. So a guy in my class (community college) immediately attached himself to me. I was a bit surprised but open to making a new friend. However during that first class he talked constantly and made Some slightly rude comments about the teacher so I decided to sit elsewhere in the future. When he saw that I didn’t sit...
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{ "description": "always getting mad at my mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for always getting mad at my mom?
I kind of have a bit of tension between my mom and I, which I think stems from her leaving the house at a young age, making my dad have to take care of us on his own, always arguing with my dad and having an affair before the divorce and just general chaos happening every time she comes to visit the family every six mo...
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{ "description": "expecting my friend to play in tournaments with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for expecting my friend to play in tournaments with me?
For a few years now, I've been playing in co-ed tennis tournaments with a friend of mine; however, since she's gotten a boyfriend, he's been asking her to play in the tournaments and she's been playing with him instead. I'm the one who introduced her to the venue and the tournaments and we've been playing together long...
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{ "description": "stealing money from my Father in Laws wallet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for stealing money from my Father in Laws wallet?
3 years ago, I loaned my father in law $100. He said he would pay me back and never did. I brought it up a couple times and he said he was still “working on it.” To this day, he hasn’t offered to pay me. The other night we were visiting with him and he left the room with his wallet laid on the table. I immediately op...
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{ "description": "texting my boss about my bad coworkers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for texting my boss about my bad coworkers?
I want to keep this short and sweet, but if it seems I need to add more I will. I’m an assistant karate teacher and my bosses are out of town for the week. Me and the other assistants are running all the classes. The past two days two of my coworkers have been coming in late, complaining about how much they hate the ...
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{ "description": "keeping my warm-up as a trophy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I keep my warm-up as a trophy?
For people who don't know, a warm up is a waterproof jacket like [this](https://www.swimoutlet.com/warm-ups-c13570/) that competitive swimmers wear during swim meets to keep from getting cold. When my swim team was participating in the league meet, my coach required that everyone wear warm ups branded with the team's n...
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{ "description": "questioning where an Instagram page gets their content from", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for questioning where an Instagram page gets their content from?
I follow a few retro Instagram pages where people will post old ads, commercials, VHS tapes, etc of old retro style nostalgic things. I also follow the Nostalgia page on Reddit where a popular post in the last week has been a picture of the green basket strawberries used to come in. On the Instagram page someone po...
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{ "description": "upsetting with my fiance for selling her house and sharing the money with her siblings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for upsetting with my fiance for selling her house and sharing the money with her siblings
Her mother passed away recently and in the will, she clearly states that my fiance alone will get her whole house while her other children only get a small amount of money each. This is because when she was sick about one year ago, only my fiance stayed and took care of her while her other children only visit her once ...
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{ "description": "saying no to my housemate when he asked me to wash up the saucepan that he made pasta in, because he let me eat some of it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying no to my housemate when he asked me to wash up the saucepan that he made pasta in, because he let me eat some of it?
So this is a pretty simple one I suppose, petty as it is. I come home and my housemate tells me I can have the rest of this pasta dish he's made. There's only a very small amount remaining; the size of the pan suggests to me that he's made a lot. I thank him and proceed to finish off most of it, but I still leave a bi...
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{ "description": "jokingly referring to myself as my boyfriend's \"Lolita?\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for jokingly referring to myself as my boyfriend’s “Lolita?”
For context, there is a little bit of an age gap between me and my boyfriend, and that was the basis for the joke. I am 17 and my boyfriend is 22. In the past, he seemed fine with jokes made by friends about him being a pedophile for dating me because I look several years younger than I am. Also, it would technically...
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{ "description": "not really helping", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really helping.
I have just got back from a course, so it's time for the some of the other guys on my team to go and do it. A part of the course is administrative, you have to make a profile and organize your travel in the work system. It's a bit awkward, but decent instructions are provided and when I did it I was able to figure it ...
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{ "description": "wanting/trying to contact my ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting/trying to contact my ex?
About 10 years ago, right after I had gotten married, I got really scared of my life and blew it up. I left my wife and 1 yr old son. I became friends in an online community with a Canadian girl who was supportive and understanding of what I was going through. She confided in me that her relationship was on the rocks,...
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{ "description": "knowing about a rape and not reporting it", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for knowing about a rape and not reporting it
When I was younger a friend confessed that he had raped someone. He thought of confessing but I talked him out of it. I told him it isn’t worth losing his career over. Then I told him that the general population are scum and that he would destroy his life. The statue of limitations has now passed but I have instructed ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my sister gets more opportunities than me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being upset that my sister gets more opportunities than me?
Quick background, I'm a 20 y/o white male from a middle class background from UK. When I was growing up my family had very little money but we lived in an expensive area (house was a dump that took years to make decent). A few years ago my mother and father divorced and my mother quickly remarried to a cash rich guy (a...
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{ "description": "wanting to be reminded of my nephews birthday", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for wanting to be reminded of my nephews birthday?
My nephew turned six and I didn’t remember his birthday, but neither did any of us. My sister sent a group message to the whole family the day afterwards essentially saying that because we all forgot he went to bed feeling unloved and she’s disappointed in us. Then, she refused to answer any of our calls. I just feel...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my mom about my dad and his new fíance", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my mom about my dad and his new fíance?
I’m 21f in university. Less than a year ago, my parents got a divorce after a 25 year long relationship. It definitely effected my relationship with both of my parents. I still love my dad, but we aren’t as close anymore and probably never will be. However, I enjoy really spending time with my dad. My relationship wi...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship over how they acted during and after my birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship over how they acted during and after my birthday?
I had a friend, was a good guy for the most part and he helped me through some stuff in the past, the only thing was he was lazy or not sober most of the time we would hang out but I didn't mind too much.My birthday was coming up and he offered to use their house so we can drink. I was reluctant because this friend is ...
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{ "description": "being unhappy with how my parents are treating their cat", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being unhappy with how my parents are treating their cat?
Visiting my parents over Christmastime. They have a cat, quite timid and doesn't like most other cats. Over the past few months (not long since I moved away from home) they've been letting in and feeding another cat from a house a few streets away. Since I've been back our cat has been hiding, skulking about the house...
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{ "description": "letting a friend smoke with me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting a friend smoke with me?
Back story. We've been friends for years and we're the same age. When I met them they were super religious, church twice every week, formal clothes everywhere, super mild mannered. You get the idea. But when they found out that I don't go to church, they stopped going. They saw me wearing "street clothes" everywhere an...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my dad's relationship with my ex step-siblings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed at my dad’s relationship with my ex step-siblings?
Context: My parents separated when I was young and was spared from the “angry divorced parent drama”. That said, my dad and I struggled with a healthy relationship when I was younger for I often took a backseat to his girlfriends. After some therapy and the both of us growing up a bit (in different ways) we hit our str...
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{ "description": "making plans to see my nieces and nephews without my brothers permission", "pronormative_score": 116, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For making plans to see my nieces and nephews without my brothers permission?
My brother is a 40-year-old unemployed male who left the mother of his four children for another woman. He has no arrangements to provide for the children, no structured child support, and doesn’t seem have any ambition to work towards a better future for his children. The mother of his children has made a lot of mist...
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{ "description": "telling my GF I'm not okay with her hiding me and acting single", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my GF I'm not okay with her hiding me and acting single?
For some context we started dating twoish years ago, broke up after 8 months because it got really toxic and got back together 5 months after. 8 or so months again after us getting back together I find out, that shes going on dates with her exs behind my back and actively flirting with them. I decide to end it, beca...
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{ "description": "giving away a gift I didnt want", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving away a gift i didnt want.
this was like 7 years ago. i was 16 my mom and a family friend is a music teacher, i start going to his house to play some instruments, i like the flute very much. i was fairly good with the guitar but i didn't like it. i say to me mother that i didn't like the guitar. next day she buys me a guitar. i absolutely hate t...
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{ "description": "paying with Paypal", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for paying with Paypal?
The title doesn't describe the situation too well, because I dont know what title would. Anyway to my story. Two or three years ago I wanted to commission some art for some OC's. An artist contacts me and we start talking about payment and what I wanted. A price is agreed upon and I message him asking if PayPal is wha...
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{ "description": "demanding to a time and not settling for a maybe", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for demanding to a time and not settling for a maybe?
My friend and I went on a trip and upon returning I was going to stay a few days with my other friend. The first friend was invited, and had been invited for two weeks, but ended up not wanting to stay. They decided to drive two hours home using my car, under the supposition that they had to come back and do the round...
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{ "description": "thinking that my sister might not actually be gay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For thinking that my sister might not actually be gay?
I think she might just be trying to fit in with a group that she might not belong in... She only started to identify as bisexual after spending a couple months on tumblr. After dating a boy, and realizing she wasn’t attracted to him she started to identify as gay. AITA?
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend do what she wants", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriend do what she wants?
I have no idea if this is the correct reddit for this, so if there are any issues, I’m happy to take this down. I feel like before I jump into the main event, I should give some background. I’ve been with my girlfriend for just over a year now, and she is my first ever girlfriend. All that to say I have very very lit...
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{ "description": "buying expensive stuff in front of my poor roommates", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for buying expensive stuff in front of my poor roommates?
I will start this off by saying I'm in no way rich myself. I don't own iPhones and Airpods, I dont own a car etc. I'm a normal college student with an above average weekly budget. My roommates on the other hand have a lot less money per week than me, and because of that they constantly call me an idiot for wasting my m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move to my husband's hometown after his dad passed away", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to move to my husband's hometown after his dad passed away?
We've lived away from his family our entire relationship, to varying degrees. The closest we've ever lived was a 2 hour flight. Generally, we were about a non-direct 4-7 hour flight away. However, about a year ago, due to a career move on my husband's part and a desire to be near my family, we moved across the country....
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{ "description": "not wanting my dog to stay at my inlaws whilst we are on holiday", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my dog to stay at my inlaws whilst we are on holiday?
Me (24/f) and my partner (26/m) have been together for around four years now. We own our own home together and have a dog that we jointly take care of but dogs details (vets, microchip etc) are in my name. ​ Family History: My partner has always had a rocky relationship with his parents and in particular ...
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{ "description": "getting Angry at my cousin for planning my wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Getting Angry At My Cousin For Planning My Wedding?
Throwaway account. TL;DR at the beginning. Will put spoiler tags. ​ TL;DR: >!My whole family is mad at me for yelling at my cousin after she tried to take over my wedding. I also said my fiancé, whom she is in love with, would never love her. No one is letting me see her and apologize. AITA?!< &...
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{ "description": "not inviting my sisters' boyfriend to my birthday party", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not inviting my sisters' boyfriend to my birthday party?
So, this was a while ago and all my friends told me that I'm not the asshole, while my family seemed pretty much in consensus that I totally am, so I thought I'd just ask you people. Here's the story. I decided to celebrate my birthday for the first time in about 5 years. Nothing fancy just some of my closest friends ...
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{ "description": "not accepting a pizza if I had ordered it 3 hours ago", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting a pizza if I had ordered it 3 hours ago?
Title. My sister wants to know if she's an asshole for ordering the pizza and not accepting/not paying. She asked for pizza 8:25pm and it arrived 11:40pm. What would you do?
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{ "description": "abruptly ending this friendship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for abruptly ending this friendship?
In late high school I made friends with a dude one year my senior. We were friends for a year, year and a half, maybe? The context of this friendship: I needed a reason to get out of my house and away from my borderline-abusive sister, and he needed some company as his family grew busy and were rarely home. Though w...
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{ "description": "taking my soda revenge", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my soda revenge?
So I just recently found this subreddit and figured I would share my story from a couple of years ago. I was in the cinema with some friends watching Super Bowl. Patriots vs Falcons. We had booked our seats several weeks prior in order to get the best possible seats just below the walking area, so we could just jump d...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to stop talking shit about our section members/his girlfriend's friends and making him cry", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend to stop talking shit about our section members/his girlfriend’s friends and making him cry?
Backstory: I have a friend named Dylan. He came to our school and he plays percussion with me. He has a brother who is basically a legend in our band with how good he is at marimba(he’s even in a professional indoor drumline), so he tries to act a lot like him and he tries to better than everyone else. Normally that wo...
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{ "description": "blocking a guy I was confused about", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a guy I was confused about?
TDLR; I didn't ask him his intentions with me sooner & it confused me. I don't know if I'm blowing this out of proportion or what I matched with him on Tinder almost 2 months ago. Tbh I didn't intend to catch any feelings, since I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship a few months prior The first date...
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{ "description": "passing out and falling asleep as soon as done with sex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for passing out and falling asleep as soon as done with sex
*Trigger warning: Sex talk* My wife and I have had this discussion for a while now. We’ve been together for 5 years now. We’ve been intimate since month 6 of dating and it was a shock to her since the very first time as I did at one point fall asleep during the point of “climax”. At least 95.5% of the time after inte...
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{ "description": "chasing down kids who destroyed a stereo in my road", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for chasing down kids who destroyed a stereo in my road?
Ten days ago seven or eight middle-school/early high-school kids came down my street and destroyed a boombox/cd-player in front of my house and ran off. I went out and collected the pieces, but they were long gone. Today (ten days later) I see the same group. I grab a trash bag and hop in my car (the stereo is still i...
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