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{ "description": "accusing someone of purposely trying to hurt me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accusing someone of purposely trying to hurt me?
So we played soccer for PE today. It's all good. I'm good at soccer. I wear glasses and I need them for PE. I'm practically blind without them I think I'm minus 4 and my parents don't want me to get contact lenses for some reason. Anyways there is this one dude in my class that really does not like me and finds a way t...
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{ "description": "inviting a friend to a concert where (she knows) her ex is performing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I invite a friend to a concert where (she knows) her ex is performing?
I'm leaving for Marines boot camp in about a month, and this concert is likely the last I'll perform at for a long time, and the last time I'll get to see my friend (F). However, her ex, who for simplicity we'll just call X, also is in the band. They broke up recently because for he has never been emotionally supportiv...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriends hypocrisy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For getting mad at my girlfriends hypocrisy?
Okay so I’m gonna start this off by saying me [18] and my girlfriend [17] have been together 6 months and I am not gonna do anything drastic like break up. My girlfriend used to do a decent amount of drugs at parties like a year before we started dating. Since we’ve been dating she’s been very anti drug with me, I have...
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{ "description": "keeping up a neighbour playing video games", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping up a neighbour playing video games?
This isn’t really an issue anymore, but I was recently reminded of this situation and thought I’d ask what you all think. A while back my neighbours moved out, and a new old (~60) woman moved in alone. Soon after this time, since it was in the holidays, she told me that I had been keeping her up late at night for the ...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to leave though there is majority desire in the house for this to happen", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my roommate to leave though there is majority desire in the house for this to happen?
I'm in a house of 4, and one of the two girls, Betty (fake name), has been the following: Socially not being a comfortable presence in the room Moments of crying downstairs uncontrollably due to a high level of stress and depression Certain moments of lashing out at us due to her own personal issues Not accepting ...
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{ "description": "taking 10 minutes in the locker room shower", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking 10 minutes in the locker room shower?
I work at a small hospital with a shower in the OR locker room. About 3 women actually use the shower: I run to work, another woman bikes to work, and another woman goes to the gym before work. Bike lady starts work at 7 and is often done before me and gym lady arrive. I work at 7:50 but I also do my makeup and meditat...
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{ "description": "ghosting my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting my friend?
Jess and I have been friends for years and I have always got a sense of insecurity from her. She would often try to put me down to bring herself up. For example, she would insult my weight in front of other people. I am super skinny and she’s a bigger girl. So, there would always be these snide comments every now and...
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{ "description": "telling my woke friend I don't agree with them regarding digital blackface and not altering my behavior", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I tell my woke friend I don't agree with them regarding digital blackface and not altering my behavior?
Hi, I am using a throwaway account because I am active on a few subreddits that I know I'd get huge backlash from this opinion. Some background, I have a friend that I went to school with, who is black and is extremely politically active with social justice. We became friends by happenstance because I was playing a gam...
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AITA Best friend didn’t invite me to outing she wanted me to help plan
If this helps, my best friend and I are both 22 and have been friends for ten years. Let’s call her Kate. Kate met this guy on bumble, who after a couple dates or hangouts, they both mutually agreed they were better as friends more than anything. Since he’s new to town and doesn’t know a lot of people, she wanted to ...
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{ "description": "getting upset my gf always says she's sad but never says why", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset my gf always says she’s sad but never says why?
Some background I have gone through a lot of hard times over the past five years with the death of a parent and another with cancer and just general anxiety. My gf always seems to get sad or upset most days of the week. Sometimes it’s small things like issues at work or her friends ignoring her. I never compare our...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my bf for grieving", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my bf for grieving?
I (24) have been with my bf (30) for 3 months and we both live in a country neither of us are from. Recently his grandmother, who has been sick for while, took a turn for the worst. He went back to his home country to visit her last week and he knows she will die soon. A year ago he saw his godmother die from cancer ...
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{ "description": "talking about athletes with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for talking about athletes with my boyfriend?
So this was in my last relationship with my now ex boyfriend. I enjoy watching sports, hockey and soccer in particular. He hates my hockey team, which may be part of his bitterness, but Idk. We did not talk about sports too often, but I was talking about my teams, I would mention my two favorite players. It's just tha...
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{ "description": "wanting to split a referral bonus with my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to split a referral bonus with my friend?
In January, I was looking for a job and decided to apply to a local supermarket. After applying, I had learned that one of my close friends had started working there 2 weeks prior. I was already hired when my friend tells me about a referral program where if I worked 3 months at the supermarket, the person who referred...
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{ "description": "telling off my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling off my sister?
This holiday season, I cussed out one of my sisters. Now the family and a couple in-laws are telling me what to do, and I disagree. I’m too biased and clouded in frustration to judge. To provide a better background, I will objectively provide information as I can recall it, in no particular order. Please save your ju...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do anything for my deceased father's birthday", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to do anything for my deceased father's birthday?
*My father passed away in November of 2017. It was a peaceful death, it was in his sleep and in his own bed, in his own home. His birthday is today (5th of February.)* ​ **TL;DR**: My Dad passed away in 2017, today was his birthday. I didn't wanna do anything, Aunt insisted I did and to stop being selfish....
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{ "description": "having a key", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for having a key
Today my girlfriend and I were supposed to spend the day together after her classes. I was going to drive her to school and wait for her to get out. While we were leaving she had me park by our apartment and give her my keys so she could run inside real quick. On my keyring is a handcuff key that I've had on there for ...
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{ "description": "reminding my gf about the meals I paid for", "pronormative_score": 268, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for reminding my gf about the meals I paid for?
My gf and I have been dating for half a year. In that time, I've paid for most of our meals and drinks. I've paid for all our tickets to events, random snacks and ride shares which really add up. I know this because I use an app to budget what I spend so I don't go over. I usually don't mind paying but once in a while...
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{ "description": "looking for my wallet at the park by myself", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for looking for my wallet at the park by myself?
So this afternoon I stopped by the neighborhood park to play some Pokémon GO when all of a sudden I realized I can’t feel my wallet. I panic since I had a hundred bucks cash in it along with my debit and credit cards. I start retracing my steps and at this point I’ve put my phone away and I’m looking down at the ground...
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{ "description": "asking the tattoo artist to adjust the stensil to the right", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking the tattoo artist to adjust the stensil to the right?
I recently went to this parlour to get my very first tattoo. So we go over the legal stuff, everything is dandy, he seems like a down to earth guy. When I go at the appointment and show him reference pictures he tells me ''No worries, I can get this sorted" He shows me a couple of sketches and everything looks good. ...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my bipolar, fetishistic husband of 28 years", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to leave my bipolar, fetishistic husband of 28 years?
My husband (54) and I (55)have been together for 28years. He has bipolar, epilepsy, and a spanking fetish. He has said that is the only thing that turns him on. When we married 28years ago, I was just beginning to deal with my own traumatic experiences with my drunk dad and my narcissistic mom. Throw in that my you...
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{ "description": "wanting to not waste food", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to not waste food?
At least, that is how it started... We are moving house. I had been clearing the kitchen over the last few days, taking it slow, we have time and it is one of the last tasks, but getting it done while also using the space... She comes in this morning starts clearing in there, says she is going to throw away food that...
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{ "description": "ruining the day because of a petty argument", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for ruining the day because of a petty argument?
So some quick context: I and two of my friends, who I will call friend A and friend B, are three weeks away from our college finals. Since all three of us are gamers and we usually play together, we agreed that we wouldn't play together during the day to avoid procastination. This morning friend A sent us a message, ...
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{ "description": "pestering some mods", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pestering some mods?
And by pestering mods I mean I made 3 posts within 24 hours. Backstory: So I recently posted a comment on r/lgbt about thanking a post reminding everyone to vote democratic. So I thanked them and assured them that I would be voting republican now due to the post. That part I know I'm being an asshole, don't worry. B...
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{ "description": "not wanting to financially support my friend's short film", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to financially support my friend's short film?
My friend is a 1st-year film major who has wrote the script for a short movie (\~30 min.) that he is planning on shooting over the summer. I am a 2nd-year student at a different university. I am not a film major, but I am a film buff. I have already committed myself to help with the movie when we come home during th...
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{ "description": "did'ting pay my ex's legal fees", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I did't pay my ex's legal fees?
Basically in December of 2018 my partner at the time and I were pulled over my the police when they found two bongs in my car. My ex (with literally no prompt from me whatsoever) took the blame and ended up being arrested. I felt absolutely horrible about it and said that I would be willing to assist with some of the c...
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AITA for what letting a girl know what people thought about her
On mobile so sorry for format and typos Reposting because it was deleted So i used to like this girl 4 years back. Anyways i liked her for about 3 years(means story ends 1 year back) and during the whole time my friends told me that she was slutty and slept around and stuff like that. They told me she does drugs (ta...
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{ "description": "demanding my gf, who has never lived on her own, to live on her own first before I move in with her", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for demanding my gf, who has never lived on her own, to live on her own first before I move in with her?
context. gf and I have been going at it for almost a year, and the idea of moving in together came up. but she has never lived on her own, and she doesn't understand concepts like 'first and last month rent is due at signing'. AITA for then demanding she learn to live on her own first before I move in with her?
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my vegan girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 259, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my vegan girlfriend?
Bit of background: I have been with my current girlfriend for 2 years, she's vegan but she doesn't mind that much if I eat meat when I'm out, just won't kiss me for a few hours after... She's also ok if I order takeaway with meat on. However the issue is that a couple of weeks ago we were talking about moving in toge...
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{ "description": "having trust issues", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having trust issues?
So my boyfriend and I have always had trust issues. There’s several reasons why but I’ll give the big reason why. When we started dating he had a best friend who was always around him. She bought him things, made him food, texted goodnight/good morning I love you everyday, ate lunch with just the two of them everyday...
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{ "description": "pranking my Friend's car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA For Pranking My Friend's Car
So, for background information, me and my friend are both Juniors in highschool(17 y/o). We live in an upper middle class area in the US and most of the kids around here get there parents old cars or get brand new ones however, my friend and i both bought our cars with our own money. Mine is a way crappier model (2006 ...
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{ "description": "not cleaning up my roommate's cat's shit", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not cleaning up my roommate’s cat’s shit?
Today I came home to a giant shit underneath my bathroom rug. One of my roommate’s cats shit in my bathroom and buried it under the bath-side rug. It was a large hand and a half full and wet as hell. As soon as he saw the mess, he said “have fun, I’m not cleaning that up”. His argument is that if I kept my bathroom doo...
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{ "description": "telling my husband he was acting immature", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my husband he was acting immature?
While celebrating our NYE at a friends party, their couch unexpectedly broke. Now friend has a 9 year old son and after hearing my husband suggest putting a cinder clock under the couch for a temporary fix, he ran outside to get one. As soon as he comes back in with the cinder block he decides he’s going to fix the pro...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a girl after she said she wanted to wait for sex", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with a girl after she said she wanted to wait for sex?
I met this girl on tinder a couple months ago, and we started dating. About a week into dating, she tells me that last April she was sexually adsaulted, and that it messed her up, so I tried comforting her. She told me she wasn't comfortable around guys, aside from her ex that she was still best friends with, and at th...
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{ "description": "faking being sick to get out of a concert when my friend bought my ticket", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for faking being sick to get out of a concert when my friend bought my ticket?
Long story short, a few months ago my friend bought me a ticket to an artist I don’t like so I could go with her to the concert. I did NOT ask her to get me the ticket, but she kind of insisted. She told me it would be an early X-mas present (this was in November) and to not worry about it, that it would be fun blah bl...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to stop looking through unsecured cameras", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to stop looking through unsecured cameras?
Throwaway, she doesn't use this subreddit but she knows my account name so I don't want to risk it. On mobile, plz don't burn me for formatting. TLDR at the bottom. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, lived together for a year. She's been great, we fight sometimes but only about small stuff like m...
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{ "description": "scamming a pedophile out of money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for scamming a pedophile out of money?
So I (17F) posted a girl on my Instagram story asking my followers if anyone knew where she got her jeans. The girl is very popular on Instagram and is over 18 but looks a few years younger. This guy swipes up on the post and says “cute young teen 😍” and I just ignore it because I’m used to seeing weirdos on Instagram...
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{ "description": "being very annoyed by my brothers \"OCD\" to the point that I react adversely", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being very annoyed by my brothers "OCD" to the point that I react adversely?
He doesn't have real OCD, he's just ultra picky about things. He calls it his "OCD" so that's why I'm using the term here. Here are some examples of when this has become an issue: - Putting the plastic sealers over our windows. First he just asked if I washed off the trim on the window I was working on, I said of cour...
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{ "description": "telling my housemate to move his giant pot of food out of the shared fridge or make it take up less space", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my housemate to move his giant pot of food out of the shared fridge or make it take up less space?
For reference, we're 5 people sharing 1 fridge/freezer, and no one shares necessities like milk or eggs (much to my chagrin just for spatial economy reasons but that's a losing battle). Fridge space is at a huge premium, even despite several of us having mini-fridges to keep stuff like personal drinks or leftovers. T...
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{ "description": "not assisting another passenger with her luggage", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not assisting another passenger with her luggage?
Two week before a flight, I was diagnosed with a herniated disc. Since then, I have been avoiding lifting anything, no matter how heavy or light it may be. I had already settled into my aisle seat (everyone else was as well), when one of the last passengers boarded. The passenger was a female, and she was being assiste...
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{ "description": "not listening to a complaint I got at work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I didn’t listen to a complaint I got at work?
I work at a place that doubles as a grocery store and pizza/sandwich place. On the weekends I prep the food for when we open later in the night. Since our store is so small we have to go next door to the university kitchen and use the equipment over there. It’s a nightmare I have to live every week for about 4 hours....
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{ "description": "forcing employer to carry workman's comp insurance", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for forcing employer to carry workman's comp insurance
So......I work for my In-laws doing fabrication, electrical, climbing ladders, and utilizing 50' bucket truck. They decided to start the process of closing the business. They let Workman's comp insurance lapse and got a fine, I guess, and decided to pay the fine and not renew. I am still working for them for 2 more mon...
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{ "description": "defending my freinds", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for defending my freinds?
Me and a large group of friends were hanging out (about 15 of us and we were high school age at the time) and there was this one girl who thought she was all that. She grabbed a wash cloth and started whipping everyone like it was a high school dudes locker room. I was generally the peacekeeper of the group cause I was...
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{ "description": "wanting my sisters to come to both the family reunion and my wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my sisters to come to both the family reunion and my wedding?
Background history: I’ve already been married once, this is my second. I used to be Mormon, but am now no longer. Both my sister have a lot of kids, one of them with a 1 year old. Sisters lives near Seattle, I’m in eugene oregon. ( 6-8 hour drive, depending on traffic) The extended family plan a reunion for the en...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend that he works with an ex of mine? I worry that telling him will distract him in his work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my boyfriend that he works with an ex of mine? I worry that telling him will distract him in his work.
Basically, my boyfriend of 3 years just started his residency as a surgeon this past summer and works in a hospital in the next town over. I had an appointment in that town last month and got to visit him at work for the first time. While waiting for my bf to come meet me at reception, I happened to see my ex (from 5+ ...
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{ "description": "stomping extremely loud to get my downstairs neighbors to turn their music down", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for stomping extremely loud to get my downstairs neighbors to turn their music down?
Throwaway because I don’t know if they have a Reddit and don’t want to risk it. My downstairs neighbor is a DJ or something music related and is frequently playing music very loudly, with bass boosted speakers I might add. Normally, me and my girlfriend really don’t care about the noise. Live and let live, you know. ...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "laughing at a disabled kids rap during my schools talent show", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For laughing at a disabled kids rap during my schools talent show?
So my school was doing this talent show thing yesterday and I laughed at a disabled kids rap song when he made a bar about spitting windex because his bars were so clean, I thought he was just messing around and having fun so I let out a bit of a chuckle and apparently a lot of people didn’t take that the right way. So...
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{ "description": "saying my girlfriend will give her son anxiety", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for saying my girlfriend will give her son anxiety?
Some background information: my girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half. She has a son who is just over 2 years old. I love him like my own and hope I can replace the dad that abandoned him and his mom. We have plans for me to legally adopt him once we graduate college and get married. Ba...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "scaring a girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for scaring a girl?
First post here, apologies if I'm doing something wrong. A few years ago, I (20m, at the time) was at a my buddy's frat house for New year's Eve. He is a friend from high school, so this party was at an unfamiliar college. There were about 150 people there. Besides my buddy, I didn't know a soul there. I was DDing, s...
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend for \"I have your balls in my purse\" jokes", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my girlfriend for “I have your balls in my purse” jokes?
My girlfriend and I have a super-chill relationship. Lately she’s started making jokes around my friends where she has my balls in her bag. Which, I believe, is a fine joke to make fun of gender norms etc. But it’s getting under my skin because I actually do most (all) the cleaning and I do all the cooking. I come ho...
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{ "description": "telling ex roommate no she cannot have the couch", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling ex roommate no she cannot have the couch?
A little background first. All people involved are late 20s to early 30s. Roommate D is the only male. Roommate A (for asshole) and B lived together for 1 year before we all moved into a townhouse together. Six months in, Roommate B elopes, moves out and leaves behind a couch that her family gave her. Roommate C repla...
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{ "description": "stranding malicious ex with her child", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 96 }
AITA for stranding malicious ex with her child?
Six years ago I (30M now) had a relationship with this girl (29F now) for about seven months that didn't really work out. I'm not going to pin all the blame on her, but I know she was toxic and a negative influence in my life. I wasn't the best of boyfriends either, so I like to think we weren't the best match and spli...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "expecting my friend to refuel the car after they have used it", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my friend to refuel the car after they have used it?
I don't use my car that often because I take the train to work and offered it to my flatmate to use whenever he needed it. But the few times when I went to go and use my car, I noticed that the fuel gauge level was really low. The first few times, I thought he forgot and refuelled without saying anything, but eventuall...
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{ "description": "a stranger getting their items stolen", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for a stranger getting their items stolen?
So I was in the library one day and sat next to this group made up of 3 girls. It was the only remaining seat at the library as it was packed (due to finals week). While I was working, the 3 girls asked me to watch over their items as they would go on a break for around 5-10 minutes. I said sure and continued on worki...
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{ "description": "not eating she specialty at a \"world famous\" restaurant and just getting what sounded good? my fiancé just yelled at me for 30 minutes over it", "pronormative_score": 47, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not eating she specialty at a “world famous” restaurant and just getting what sounded good? My fiancé just yelled at me for 30 minutes over it.
I’ll keep this quick but because I’m trying to avoid him I make no promises. We are on a road trip and came up to a town with a “world famous” restaurant (on Anthony Bourdain is how we found it). It has a when you eat at “Jays diner” you have to eat the grilled oysters...you just do! Thing on the menu. To be honest I ...
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{ "description": "telling my \"support teachers\" how I actually felt about them when they asked", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my "support teachers" how I actually felt about them when they asked?
So a bit of background info: I have Tourette's and Anxiety, am currently in the process of an assessment for autism and very likely have OCD if it's not autism. Go to the very end if you just want want this post is asking for, but the rest makes it easier to understand why I said what I did. My Tourette's have gotten...
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{ "description": "stopping sleeping with my FWB and backing out of a threesome", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: I stopped sleeping with my FWB and backed out of a threesome
So I made a friend, we were pretty close. He was there for me after a bad break up and told me he literally wanted to be a distraction. So we started sleeping together and planned to have a threesome. We spent a lot of time together, went to New York and I even joined a band with him. He convinced me to start playing g...
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AITA BC My roommate is overly helpful and I never want anything from her, and now I’m just sick of her company?
Hi y’all! So just wondering if I’m an asshole for not being kind to my roommate/friend. She is CONSTANTLY apologizing about shit that isn’t in her control, and if anything bad is happening to me or someone around her, she becomes this busy body offering food and services. She has really bad eating habits, and as a pe...
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{ "description": "choosing wrong", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing wrong?
I have a girlfriend who’s really sweet. I also have a hobby that keeps me going. Gives me something to look forward to. And it happens every Friday night right after I get off work. I’ve been having a lot of depression lately and I was looking forward to going today. But my girlfriend is now mad because I “don’t choos...
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{ "description": "for changing my personality when speaking to a transgender", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for for changing my personality when speaking to a transgender?
So I started working in a warehouse with over 100 employees about a month ago. I pretty much talk and chitchat with everyone. This one girl was seemed more shy and reserved compared to other people. When I tried to smile at her or nod, I could never get any eye contact. I didn’t think much of it, until my co worker t...
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{ "description": "talking behind my friends back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for talking behind my friends back?
A little bit of background— I’ve been in a day treatment therapy program for the last few months, and got out about a month and a half ago. Needless to say, the transition back to school was rough, and I got the feeling that my friends didn’t like me as much as they did before I left. I’ve been feeling more and more li...
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EVERYBODY
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{ "description": "telling my sister her music taste sucks because she made me cry", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my sister her music taste sucks because she made me cry?
Throwaway account. My sister (17F) and I (19F) usually joke a lot but I feel like she should know if she crosses a line. Or maybe she wanted to see me upset. I don’t know. I’m a lesbian and I’ve been out to my family for a while. Though, sister is the one who outed me to my parents without my OK and sometimes makes r...
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{ "description": "deleting screenshots of my little sister's Gacha Studio Story", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for deleting screenshots of my little sister's Gacha Studio Story?
I had this little sister who got into the trend of making Gacha Studio Stories which are extremely cringey. The screenshots appeared on my phone because we shared the Apple ID and I decided to delete those screenshots which means they didn't appear on her phone. She cried and I kinda wanna know if I'm really wrong
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{ "description": "throwing someone's food out of the work freezer", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I threw someone's food out of the work freezer?
On mobile etc. This fish has been sitting there for weeks. It doesn't smell, but I just checked the dates on it, an it should have been used by 9/28 of last year. It's still in it's packaging from wherever they bought it, but hasn't moved in months (apparently). Now, the thing is, there's an ok amount of room in ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed with a homeless guy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting annoyed with a homeless guy?
So this happened over the weekend. My wife and I were travelling and we stopped at one of our favorite places to eat. On our way out I was approached by a homeless individual. He asked me if I could help him as he hadn't eaten in days and likely wouldn't again if I didn't do something. I told him that while I didn'...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit for me friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit for me friend anymore?
I've known my best friend, Ashley (fake name, obv), about 17 years. Her oldest son and my son are also best friends. I started a new relationship over the summer, and I also moved an hour away around the same time. Since I moved, we have been slowly growing apart. Last March, I kept her older son for a week while she ...
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{ "description": "using roomie's aluminum foil", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
Aita for using roomie’s aluminum foil?
Roomie always uses my things without asking like paper plates and pasta sauce even though she has her own. It’s very weird and she never asks. I am fed up so I have started using her things and she walked in on me using her aluminum foil and seemed like she was in a mood but didn’t say anything. Aita for assuming that ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my family?
**My Background** So, about a year ago, me and my SO decided to move across the state (roughly 4 hours) to take up what we thought was a good opportunity. I had, at the time, been wanting to get into real estate as a career, and the place I moved was kind of touristy and up-and-coming. So my thoughts were that I had t...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend sell the tickets", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my friend sell the tickets
So a few months back I bought 4 tickets to a concert that I knew would sell out and the tickets would then resell for a stupidly large amount. I didn't have anyone too go with so I asked my friend if he wanted to come with me and bring his girlfriend however I said to him that if he wasn't going to go to the concert th...
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{ "description": "notifying the tutor about rampant cheating", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for notifying the tutor about rampant cheating.
Ok let’s start with some context. So we’ve had this language text response task. We were given a letter and had to write a response in 60 minutes in class. Last week we drafted a text for the tutor and got it back. Our aim was to replicate this in the response today. However when the tutor failed to show up to the test...
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{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "worrying about lack of protection", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for worrying about lack of protection?
I am 18, in college and I'm in a healthy relationship with my girlfriend in college too, 2 years going, but I'm worried that failure to protect properly during sex will get her pregnant and I'd have to be a father. Her argument: She's already on birth control, and she doesn't want me to use a condom because it's not p...
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{ "RIGHT": 28, "WRONG": 1 }
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AITA Friend takes tip that not his, accuses me of ruining friendship.
My friend got me a job as a valet with his resort. We have been friends for 3 or 4 years. My friend is the bell supervisor. Today at the end of my shift my night auditor asked me if I got the tip he left for me this morning in a sealed envelope on my manager's desk. I replied "no." I went to my managers desk and did no...
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{ "description": "creating a group chat for just my 3 sisters (30's) and I without our parents included (we have a full family one already) because they kept omitting/ not telling us about being unwell", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For creating a group chat for just my 3 sisters (30's) and I (24f) without our parents included (we have a full family one already) because they kept omitting/ not telling us about being unwell.
So this all started when I woke up with messages saying my dad had just come out of surgery and my mum was suspected of having a cancerous mass. I live across the other side of the world from my family, and my main source of contact is WhatsApp. My sister's were as surprised as I was and in fact, we were all very ups...
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AITA Mom tries to give my brother ky sister's ice cream that I paid for
So last night my sister wanted some ice cream. I wanted some too so I offered to pay for it, I gave her a 20 and she left. She came back around an hour later and gave me my ice cream and we both put ours in the freezer to save for later. Now today, at like 2pm, my brother goes in the freezer and sees my sister's ice ...
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AITA for this train seat exchange?
I am a quite socially awkward guy, especially with strangers and have been dwelling on this a while now. I was on a packed full long train journey in the UK and sat in an unreserved aisle seat. Next to me in the window seat was a woman sat in a reserved seat which wasn’t hers (I know this because it was reserved from a...
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WIBTA If I, a male, asked a trans man out on a date?
So, there’s this person in my class named Felix who identifies as male. We’re in a vocational school so he’s adolescent age, if a bit younger than me (i’m 19, i’d wager Felix is around 18 at the youngest). Despite the fact I use the correct pronouns for him, I still find him attractive, in the same way I find women (an...
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AITA for being mad at being stood up due to the guy alledgedly being in the hospital?
I met a cute guy on grindr and decided we should meet up. He is 20 and I'm 17 (and he knew that). Any way I say we should meet up the saturday at 14:00 he said sure but he would give a time nearer to saturday. D-day comes and he still hasn't sent a time and isn't reading my messages. He finally responds at night tellin...
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{ "description": "not wanting an airbnb next door", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting an AirBnB next door?
Hi all, So we own and live in a townhouse in a capital city in Australia. It’s a lot of multiple townhouses in a row, with them on the end and us next door. We are the only one connected to the property that the owner wants to set up as an AirBnB. We have a strata arrangement but no official body corporate. They didn’...
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{ "description": "bringing food from a different restaurant into another restaurant", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for bringing food from a different restaurant into another restaurant?
Hey team, Last night, I went to a concert with my girlfriend and her parents. After finding parking, my girlfriend and her mother went into a Panera Bread to get a meal before the show started. I ran to a gyro place next door to grab a bite to-go. I get my food and go back to the Panera to eat with the fam. As I beg...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at a classmate who is bugging me for help", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed off at a classmate who is bugging me for help?
So this all started for me at the beginning of the current school semester. I'm in a kinesiology course that requires knowledge of high school physics and calculus, and being that I did well in those two subjects in high school, I'm cruising through the course. Meanwhile, there's a classmate of mine who is struggling...
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{ "description": "telling my brother's gf to take it easy with the ringing of the phone as it was annoying me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For telling my brother's GF to take it easy with the ringing of the phone as it was annoying me?
So last evening my brother came home and went to use the bathroom but he left his phone in the TV room where I was chilling. The phone started to ringing, it was on vibrate on a wooden surface, and it kept buzzing. non. stop. This went on for a very long time while he was away. It rang, no answer, immediate redial. ...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend for making plans on the day we agreed to meet", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry at my friend for making plans on the day we agreed to meet?
I study abroad and go home every 4-7 months to see friends/family at home. I'm going home for christmas in 2 weeks and a few friends agreed to meet before christmas, but we couldn't get the exact date just yet, but friday was the most likely and everyone was aware of it. Now that friday was finalized one of my friends ...
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{ "description": "telling my gf who I live with that my days off arent for her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my gf (28) who i live with that my days off arent for her.
I've been living with my gf for about 5 months now. She works 6:30am - 3pm Sunday only and works from home the rest of the week. She also takes care of her two boys (7 & 4) full time. I (33) work 5 days a week 4pm - 4:30am. I come home, shower and sleep till around 11:30am then I do a few things around the house,...
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{ "description": "keeping airpods I found in school", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for keeping airpods I found in school?
I found a pair of airpods and their charger in the hallway, so I picked them up and kept them. I couldn't immediately find who owned them after asking around, so I think I'm just going to keep them. My school has a lost and found I could turn them into, AITA for just keeping them?
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{ "description": "not wanting to let my roommate back in our dorm", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to let my roommate back in our dorm?
Here’s some context. I’m a freshman in college, living in a first year dorm with one roommate. Let’s call her R. A few weeks ago, R went on a trip overseas to visit her boyfriend. She told all of our friends several weeks before that she was going, but she didn’t tell me until two days before she left. (Everyone else ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone who puts no effort into the friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone who puts no effort into the friendship?
I'll start form the beginning. So back in 8th grade I met my current friend group. We'd all been friends before, but we never really hung out with each other a lot before. So this group consists of 4 of us, who we'll call Erin, Laura, Cassie, and me, Lillie. So I'd known Erin since kindergarten and Laura since 3rd grad...
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{ "description": "asking my boss to pay for my tow fee of $290", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i ask my boss to pay for my tow fee of $290?
I am a pet sitter and my boss told me to park in a resticted parking area but to leave a note that I’d be back in 30 minutes. I followed her instructions and my car was towed within the half hour I was servicing the client. I want to ask my boss if the company will pay for my tow fee, bc it is simply her fault. Thought...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being mad at my friend?
Just to get this out of the way, I've known this guy for 5 years, I met him through my boyfriend. This guy is my boyfriend's best friend, they've known each other for around 15 years now. I'll call him D. So D met this girl G a couple of months ago while she was travelling to our city, they hung out for a few weeks and...
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{ "description": "not cleaning my friends kitchen table", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not cleaning my friends kitchen table.
My best friend and I always hang out at his place since I live with my parents and he doenst have a car and has his own place (It takes me 10 min to drive but it takes him 45 min by bus). Since he doens't have a console I always bring my playstation, which is a hassle with all the wires and set up and shit but he's the...
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{ "description": "wanting to slowly cut my husband's best friend out of our lives", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 95 }
AITA for wanting to slowly cut my husband's best friend out of our lives?
Throwaway to be safe... I would be among the first to vouch for Best Friend’s character. I'm not shy about the fact that he is an exceptionally kindhearted, giving, compassionate man. But I'm also not shy about the fact that none of those traits have stopped my disdain for him from growing. My husband and I have bee...
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{ "description": "wanting my mom to leave me alone during a gathering", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my mom to leave me alone during a gathering?
Disclaimer: This post is a copy from r/Rant I posted a few minutes agoand therefore it’s structured as a rant...nonetheless, it’s accurate and hopefully not too biased. It was also edited a little, but I thought I should ask if i’m being the bad kid here. Start of post: I don’t know why my mom has such a huge issue...
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{ "description": "not taking my coworker home who lives less than a minute from me", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not taking my coworker home who lives less than a minute from me?
A woman at my job (over 30 y/o) has asked politely twice for me (16 y/o) to give her a ride home, and I've said yes both times, knowing if my mother knew shed be pissed and say no. But one day I told her I will not take her home anymore. A week or so later she nearly begged for me to take her because she has to walk, i...
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{ "description": "buying my homeless brother a one way bus ticket to Florida instead of taking him into my home (Chicago area). it was my full intention to get rid of him", "pronormative_score": 595, "contranormative_score": 125 }
AITA for buying my homeless brother a one way bus ticket to Florida instead of taking him into my home (Chicago area). It was my full intention to get rid of him.
Hello r/aita. Throwaway for what I hope are obvious reasons. This post is the product of years of family drama that basically all center around my brother. He was raised as the true "golden child" of the family, much to the detriment of my and my sister. We were a very upper middle class family and my brother was the...
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{ "description": "choosing hoe before bro", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for choosing hoe before bro?
My friend and I were at a small kickback (maybe about 15 people or fewer there total). The kickback was hosted by a girl I had a crush on and had been talking to. Let's call my friend Emily and let's call the host Natalie. Emily knew pretty much everyone at the kickback (she also knew Natalie and was probably closer to...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my boyfriend tries to control what I can eat", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad that my boyfriend tries to control what I can eat
I am 19 (F) and I have dealt with an eating disorder for about 7 years now, it's gotten much better and while I don't consider myself recovered I am a healthy weight now, still slightly on the thinner side. I feel this is important to mention because Im very sensitive to comments on what I'm eating or comments on my ap...
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{ "description": "not wanting to open up and talk to my friend when I'm going through a depression", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting to open up and talk to my friend when I’m going through a depression?
I broke up with a girl that I really liked a month ago. My long distance friend (she moved away) is someone who I had constant communication with for a long time. At some points I think she developed feelings for me. But I never reciprocated or she never spoke up about them. We speak mostly on Snapchat now. To get...
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{ "description": "being making my bf feel like he has to change to make our relationship work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being making my bf(22M) feel like he has to change to make our relationship work?
Throwaway because my bf is on Reddit literally 24/7. Our relationship has been relatively smooth. Every month we’d have big arguments that stems from something smaller. Usually it ends it him saying he’ll try to be better. This time, it was because I was ghosted by a client and can’t get enough money to buy plane tic...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play softball", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play softball?
i’m already doing the school musical which takes up 3 days of a week. each practice takes 3 hours then i have to do homework, and i have a sexuality club on fridays. for a person that did nothing for a while, this already feels like a lot to me. i used to play softball last year, but i got tired of going and said i di...
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{ "description": "being 'rich' but my boyfriend isn't, paying for things", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA: I am 'rich' but my boyfriend isn't, do I pay for things?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now, we had a few little breaks and ups and downs but we've never cheated on each other, and so far he is my first and only. He is loyal and doesn't lie and has been there since the beginning. We both started out poor, but now I have $20,000 saved up in my bank and he ...
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{ "description": "refusing to go out with my co-workers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I refuse to go out with my co-workers (which i also consider my friends)?
So I (29F) have been working for almost 2 years for my current company. I've befriended some of my co-workers, and I hold them dear. We get along good, sometimes i get made fun of, but i don't see that as a big deal since in my country this is a big part of the culture and I don't really mind. They're unconditional and...
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{ "description": "\"letting\" my parents fund my alcoholism", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for “letting” my parents fund my alcoholism?
It’s gotten bad. Like, /really/ bad. I know I’m an alcoholic, my parents also know, and are as well. My dad brings me a box of wine (20 glasses worth) home every three days. Says nothing about it, until he’s five beers and three shots of whiskey (he’s a big guy) into the night. He tells me he doesn’t want to see me...
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EVERYBODY
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