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"description": "resenting my brother for making fun of my deformity when we were children",
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} | AITA For resenting my brother for making fun of my deformity when we were children? | I am now 29. My older half brother is 33.
When i was very young I was burned very badly on my face and arms and chest. I cant grow hair on parts of my head, my ear is curved, and my eye is sort of droopy. The other scars on my arms and chest i can cover up.
I was very shy growing up because of this. I didnt have any... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "screaming at my mother in this situation",
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} | AITA am I the asshole for screaming at my mother in this situation? | tl;dr at the bottom.
So, currently I'm having lots of problems at school. I'm failing several subjects, overall pretty bad grades and deadlines and test dates are busting my ass. After being the "good kid" with perfect grades, attendance and politeness when I was younger, I'm not used to having to study.
So now I have ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not reciprocating an invitation",
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} | AITA for not reciprocating an invitation | My daughter is turning 10 this week (yay, double digits). The party site has a strict cap of 11 kids for parties. We invited 9 plus her sister, and one declined. No big deal-- down to 10 girls. Still a fun party.
We got a text last night from a mom we don't really know saying that her daughter heard about my daughter... | HISTORICAL | {
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VOwl7Vy4TkujaGKSGDeAFptmRmcgYFsR | a4q69k | {
"description": "thinking my wife needs to grow up",
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} | AITA for thinking my wife needs to grow up? | So there's a lot of story but I'll start with the TL;DR: I came out as transgender (mtf) and my wife came out as pansexual. Her very Mormon family flipped out. Her sister blocked me on Facebook making my wife angry because we're a package deal. Her sister refused to acknowledge my pronouns until recently. A bunch more ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not going to my family reunion because my mom won't allow my boyfriend and I to sleep in the same bed/room",
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} | WIBTA if I didn't go to my family reunion because my mom won't allow my boyfriend and I to sleep in the same bed/room? | Both my boyfriend (39M) and I (27F) were raised very religiously, although in different religions, and are no longer practicing or have any desire to rejoin. We do not look back fondly on that time of our lives to put it lightly. We have lived together for almost a year (dating for almost 2) and definitely plan to get ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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si5Q7b2m7xwIeoibN1cfxpBLW1lxKqyu | ahm5lr | null | AITA because my ex-girlfriend blocked me on everything? | I’ll try and be as objective as possible but basically my ex and I have been broken up for nearly 6 months now after a 3 year relationship, the last 7 months of it was long distance (different states).
We broke things off almost mutually and it was a very smooth break up and we were still keeping in touch every now and... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "putting a time limit on a relationship",
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} | AITA for putting a time limit on a relationship? | Back in college, I was a senior and met a sophomore. I went to college 9 hours away and had no intention of staying in that area after I finished. I made it clear to her that I was going home after I graduate and that I dont believe in long distance relationships. At that point we didnt do anything, maybe one kiss and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jpQ9k72v0edxwYfF2HVrQvz4LxeBQja5 | b2cepb | {
"description": "telling a guy that a friend was flirting with to back off",
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} | AITA for telling a guy that a friend was flirting with to back off? | Mobile post
My friend was in a four year relationship with her bf, R, who she met around the same time as me. R and I spent a lot of time together because of her and I thought he was a great guy. He was very good to her, and I respected him a lot for treating my friend the way everyone wants their friends to be treat... | HISTORICAL | {
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7vXzbTvjvArvYnNJAelKLqF2qUhTBnfQ | akt8ny | {
"description": "being semi-responsible of breaking my friend's phone",
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} | AITA for being semi-responsible of breaking my friend's phone? | Me and my friend were both out casually riding our bikes last summer. He wanted to show me a funny video on his newly bought Samsung S8. He took it out of his pocket and tried to find it still riding, no hands on the handlebars. I was riding right in front of him when he told me to stop so he can show me. I braked and... | HISTORICAL | {
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WNgNnTlPNDNSgpamLaUyYiPfOWcYeCKb | b7rmc6 | {
"description": "not attending a party with my gf",
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} | AITA for not attending a party with my GF? | My girlfriend texted me at 3 pm yesterday to ask me if I could attend one of her friends birthday party which she RSVP for a month ago but did not remember until her friend texted about car pooling. The party was being held at 5 pm and it was 3 pm when she got the text. First of all, I should say that both my girlfrien... | HISTORICAL | {
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0xZTPAOYCPpuKjqzAHIdIzmT3n5f6Ysg | ac8hmm | {
"description": "trying to get my bf to understand",
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} | AITA for trying to get my bf to understand | AITA, basically, my bf wants to meet up with this girl , they say they are just freinds , and I'm okay with that , I get jealous really easy , after he cheated on his ex with someone , it makes you think they could cheat on you , and I was told he cheated on me with his friend ( she said that they were drunk , and they... | HISTORICAL | {
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IlVb3kJw1mQU9rIRF7XQZz5ZCHS5HorE | az9kfr | {
"description": "asking a friend to compensate me for the bonus he caused me to lose",
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} | WIBTA if I asked a friend to compensate me for the bonus he caused me to lose? | About 2 months ago a a friend of mine was working for Doordash and I was working for Postmates. He convinced me to switch to Doordash because of a promotion. After I completed 150 deliveries within the 60 day limit, he would receive a $1500 bonus and I would receive a $100 bonus. We agreed that I would be getting kinda... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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uDFxsDpBdBYQNia2f0mUe4HGqSU2uNPD | awti1d | {
"description": "lying to get out of going to my gf's improv comedy meeting",
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} | AITA for lying to get out of going to my gf’s improv comedy meeting? | Gf does improv comedy with a group. I’ve went to their shows several times to show my support. The problem is that it’s never funny. It’s usually just awkward and dull skits. I have to fake laugh through the whole thing and then hang out with her group mates after and lie about how much I enjoyed it.
I like that... | HISTORICAL | {
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EHBrF2NQMyx6eFZ6zmDX2RovCRmzslQ4 | ayj4oy | {
"description": "having reflexes",
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} | AITA for having reflexes? | So, my aunts came to visit me on my birthday and we all got in a ordinary conversation, hugged each other and then went to the kitchen where my mom was washing some dishes.
I suffer from an anxiety disorder and getting too many things going on my face is one of the triggers, like when you have bugs flying towards yo... | HISTORICAL | {
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UPqblqCjOypq98tbeeYSbrQyTDckoReH | a1kv1y | {
"description": "trying to cheapen Christmas for my Family",
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} | AITA for trying to cheapen Christmas for my Family? | Recently, my parents have elected to spend more money on Christmas and fun events as my dad just got another job (was unemployed for about 2 years). When I say a new job, he is a marketing executive, and my mom is a teacher, so when unemployed we are lower-middle class where as when he is employed we are upper-middle. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hH0ik3SSypsw9AUbeYQFQD451MQfgLQU | b3y777 | {
"description": "faking a trip to avoid being forced to work on my day off",
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} | AITA for faking a trip to avoid being forced to work on my day off? | So I work part time true to mental health issues after an assault. Normally I’m supposed to work Wednesday thru Friday and then every other Saturday. Twice this month my manager asked me to cover a Tuesday morning as well and to be nice and helpful I did.
Then she scheduled me for another Tuesday without asking becau... | HISTORICAL | {
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tvy9wF241LNRuMJYLg7GStH30C2qEYZP | anh8f4 | {
"description": "not eating at regular intervals",
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} | AITA for not eating at regular intervals? | I'll start it off with this. I'm not a meals person, and I've never been one. Sure, I'll sit down with family to eat a lunch, or any other scheduled meal, but on my own I rarely ever sit down for a real meal. I still live with my parents, but I'm in college and have a part time job. This puts me on my own schedule 70-8... | HISTORICAL | {
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wU5CosFITH0hOZwQmp7Ns6FvnieFl8FX | anb55j | {
"description": "refusing my landlords hospitality",
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} | AITA for refusing my landlords hospitality? | I'm writing on mobile so sorry in advance for poor formatting
So this happened yesterday and I walked just walked home from school to find out my mom locked the door. (I don't have a spare key)
So I went to my landlord to ask if they had a spare key, which they didn't.
But they offered to let me stay for awhile. Bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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kJMXsztffiSzqKRNqzgVyCiUOFdVSYml | an0e6m | {
"description": "asking my neighbor what's the problem when he goes into my front yard kinda rushing",
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} | AITA for asking my neighbor what's the problem when he goes into my front yard kinda rushing? | So a little bg info, I was sitting in my room when I saw my neighbor entering my front yard and leaving the gate open. We keep a dog out and he knows very well that we don't leave the gate open so it doesn't escape. And next he goes in a direction that usually no one goes to and he got out of my sight. So I get out of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1GUcrZ2xCOeVE5IAyTSeukayPHMvSphJ | ba2d64 | {
"description": "refusing to let my sisters kids use my stuff",
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} | AITA if I refuse to let my sisters kids use my stuff? | So I've moved out of my mum and dad's now, but I still have a few things left in my old bedroom. A few toys, but mainly a load of (pretty much mint condition) books I've collected over the years. The plan being that when I have a bit more of my own space I can move these things over with me.
I'm a bit of a book worm... | HISTORICAL | {
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lrEoUgDVAVVXp1TvlzyT7SlrfLZ6CINL | 9v6dbh | {
"description": "getting pissed off that my roomate doesn't close the Door when he goes to Pee",
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} | AITA If I'm Getting Pissed Off that My Roomate Doesn't Close the Door when He Goes to Pee | Me and my college roomate who have been friends for 9 years recently got into a dispute. For some reason, he always pees with the door open. (Our room has a personal bathroom) I personally this is nasty as hell as I don't want to accidentally walk in seeing his dick. Not to my surprise I walk into our room and see ... | HISTORICAL | {
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W0L4DrFOJ5uxalfAzP461CwHTrYIodiH | b64z2z | {
"description": "making out with my friend",
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} | AITA for making out with my friend? | Reddit, I need some advice and have no-one I can talk to about this.
I met this girl and we hit it off and became close. Turns out we’re both a bit fucked up from things in our past and I guess we bonded over that.
One night out I made out with a guy I know and then ended up making out with her later that night. We tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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DpuZQvexFax9Tcy5V0xpOm3LjAYMl6ME | b974g9 | {
"description": "not aplogising to my parents",
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} | AITA for not aplogising to my parents? | About a week ago my parents, my girlfriend, and I were driving home from a college tour. It was late and we had been in the car for about 4 hours so I was already pretty irritated. So my dad brings up the fact that my flight instructor has just offered me a time in the morning at 7:30. He asked me if I could make and I... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z2TeXEJ8fwtXEwccwRjgRLV7sydCKh11 | azjcd4 | {
"description": "being upset that my bf invited a friend to stay for the weekend without talking to me first",
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} | AITA for being upset that my bf invited a friend to stay for the weekend without talking to me first? | I was really excited for next weekend. One of my best friends (I'll call her Dee) is coming to visit me, and we're going to another close friend's (Omar) birthday party. I haven't seen Dee in almost 6 months and we've been planning this weekend since January. She is also really good friends with Omar and he is really l... | HISTORICAL | {
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u1tc9c5AYeNBtfsXcnDyNz4VjSSYkl8p | a01hjw | {
"description": "breaking car window when I see dogs left in car",
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} | AITA for breaking car window when I see dogs left in car? | I had a debate with my friend and he said I am the asshole for breaking about a dozen car windows this summer where people had dogs in their cars on hot days, primarily at a gas station. He says I should have just warned the driver because I saw them leave the dog there in almost every case except two. Here’s an exampl... | HISTORICAL | {
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JuxyO8GvIE5z4BJ1phxLM69e9WLyh7XJ | b5vz3e | {
"description": "wanting my Neighbor's Dogs put down",
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} | AITAH For Wanting My Neighbor's Dogs Put Down | So every since I've moved to Texas, my neighbors has never really talked to us or even acknowledged us. She has 2 big dogs that she keeps in her fenced house. However, she does a shit job at keeping locked. The dogs get out often, resulting with them going onto my property and shiting in my back yard. One of them bit m... | HISTORICAL | {
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BSc307lWb8RUs7fOQkWeG0rkveWwOW5b | abpl56 | {
"description": "not taking my son out of karate",
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} | AITA for not taking my son out of karate? | So last January I put my son in karate. They were running a special $1 for 6 weeks and I thought it sounded fun. My son absolutely loved it (he’s 9) so after the 6 week I decided to keep him in it for $169 a month.
I have 2 older daughters 11 and 13 (and a 2 y/o). Neither of the girls seemed to really care that he was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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dI8iQ0dMaRdOZGUNEtXkwbtnUcZd6veq | agv9qh | {
"description": "staying with my gf",
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} | AITA for staying with my GF | I met my now GF through a mutual friend on this friends birthday. She wanted me to get to know her because she thought we would be a good match despite only knowing me for a short period of time. This girl and I were both pretty drunk when she introduced us. We had a long conversation and got along well, but I had the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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td9oQnHQ6PEvaRVaMjcl0BJPw6hM34dI | am0rxe | {
"description": "being upset that my girlfriend is texting exes daily or trying to make plans to meet up with them",
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} | AITA for being upset that my girlfriend is texting exes daily or trying to make plans to meet up with them? | Ok a little backstory. So I met this girl on tinder in October, things didn't work and she started dating someone new. Nothing horrible. She texted me around New Years and we started dating.
Now shortly into the relationship she mentioned that when she thinks the relationship is going to end poorly, she'll look at oth... | HISTORICAL | {
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T8MmUIN7U3YJ1He8gewGXLnrmuZToPjj | a6qs7y | {
"description": "inviting model girl friends over for a 4 way like my boyfriend asked, making a rule that there would be no fucking without me in the room, and getting upset that he not only disappeared with one of the women for hours, but got mad at me for trying to come in and join a couple of times",
"pronormat... | AITA for inviting model girl friends over for a 4 way like my boyfriend asked, making a rule that there would be no fucking without me in the room, and getting upset that he not only disappeared with one of the women for hours, but got mad at me for trying to come in and join a couple of times? | AITA? Hi, as the title implies, I set up a really fun sounding four way for my boyfriend (54m) and I (34f). We have been together for two years. He is wealthy and I like to treat him like a king because he takes care of me in other ways. He mentioned a few weeks ago that he’d like another woman to join us. He expressed... | HISTORICAL | {
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mWd1YJaXR3xXStU7o8pgN9vj77atFK8X | 9xwgfj | {
"description": "living my life at normal human hours",
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} | AITA if i live my life at normal human hours | So throughout the school year, my roommate and I have discovered me have different sleeping patterns. I sleep like a human, she sleeps like a vampire. She's coming in at 5 am which makes NO SENSE bc she's got class from 9-3 every other day, meaning she'll only get sto sleep like 4 hours before her day starts. But whate... | HISTORICAL | {
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AgGP0hzt6YH5mH3RAvAVYOWBQLOILcMS | anjhbv | {
"description": "not wanting to get my hair and nails done for my mom's wedding at a salon and just do it myself",
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} | AITA for not wanting to get my hair and nails done for my mom's wedding at a salon and just do it myself? | So my mom is getting married on V day next week.. she asked me what I was going to do to my hair. I told her I wanted to do it myself and had a certain style in mind. She insisted that I go to the Dominicans and have them wash, blow dry, and straighten it. I wasnt really wanting to do that because my hair is slightly d... | HISTORICAL | {
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b8ou3JXxKL1SmVVrko5RFTvaPAfZol6v | b9tcjx | {
"description": "not wanting to go to a little kids party for one of my moms friends just because my mom didn't want to \"go alone\"",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to a little kids party for one of my moms friends just because my mom didn’t want to “go alone”? | I hope the title isn’t too confusing to read, but just in case it is, let me make it make sense lol. Basically one of my moms friends came into town from SD, we’ll call the friend, R. R’s daughter was having a birthday party at some kiddy place and I guess my mom, brother, and I were invited lol. Now here’s the thing, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not walking into the launch room just because it was 3 minutes till class started",
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} | AITA for not walking into the launch room just because it was 3 minutes till class started | I was at school this morning and when we get there, either bus or car, we have to wait till 7:30 before class starts, students stand outside the launch room every day, I was standing outside the launch room like the other students were and she was telling everyone to go sit in the launch room. I told her it was 3 minut... | HISTORICAL | {
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qRA5YUeFkepFP1A0BZYdjjU3JjyBVPat | agi0zg | {
"description": "telling my whole school that a certain club is untrustworthy",
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} | AITA for telling my whole school that a certain club is untrustworthy? | I'm a new content editor at one of my university's publications, let's call it *The Owl*. It's not widely read, but every once in a while an article blows up and the whole school will see it. Before I was really involved in that I was a member of my school's Student Union.
The Union is a very new club, I was one of th... | HISTORICAL | {
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blnBrzNZxJ8pLGlZaObUdkjBn9BHxofZ | awtff0 | {
"description": "not helping my sister with housework",
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} | AITA For not helping my sister with housework? | Okay, so I live with my mum and two younger sisters and this weekend, Mum took a girly weekend holiday to Dublin. The house was kind of a mess when she left, so she told us to split to chores between us.
My middle sister was working both afternoons and evenings, leaving my youngest sister and I to pull part of her wei... | HISTORICAL | {
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tDVA7Lft2Psz1Lp4Ftuy7Ja1CuiPf0MM | axg6z1 | {
"description": "not calling my mom repeatedly after I called her once and she didn't answer",
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} | AITA for not calling my mom repeatedly after I called her once and she didn't answer? | Ok, so I normally call my mom whenever I get home from school right when I walk through the door. Sometimes she doesn't answer and she'll call back and say she was busy or something like that. It normally only takes her 30 minutes or so to call back and today I knew she was at work so I figured she was extra busy.
Wel... | HISTORICAL | {
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F9tr2G7KiUvvgEjW8zCOJALtpxzk7DLK | b6747i | {
"description": "not wanting to learn to drive after my parents paid for lessons",
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} | AITA for not wanting to learn to drive after my parents paid for lessons? | I recently started learning to drive. Lessons are paid for by my parents and they encouraged me to start in the first place. They paid for the first 5 lessons at once to get a discount and I just finished the 4th. I thought I wanted to learn to drive but after these lessons I realise I am not good at it. I keep making ... | HISTORICAL | {
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AgNMa2yHPziUX6n7aZjlv76f10YdoTAQ | asujnf | {
"description": "not letting my roommate get a dog",
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} | AITA for not letting my roommate get a dog? | Let me start this by saying that I love dogs, and I’ve always wanted my own for a long time. My roommate and I started living together in August, and things started out great. We have known each other since we were kids, and always got along very well. But these past few months she has stopped cleaning up after hersel... | HISTORICAL | {
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nyWlqK4ojm418j4GygHwRfa3ThkmVCBN | b7u38m | {
"description": "arguing with my mom",
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} | AITA for arguing with my mom | My mom told me i would be babysitting sunday and i asked her if im getting payed this time. Last time i babysat these kids i was payed with a box of pizza and a bag of chips. I didnt say anything because i thought it would be a one time thing but my mom wanted me to do it again for free. It is the weekend and the last ... | HISTORICAL | {
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LOg4UuQcD0CDZM5jeOQ6sK22j2WFSfAa | b7i685 | {
"description": "teaching my 7 year old daughter how to play blackjack",
"pronormative_score": 112,
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} | AITA for teaching my 7 year old daughter how to play blackjack? | My daughter got a deck of cards as a party favor and asked me to teach her some card games that I know, so I showed her how to play black jack. We weren’t gambling, but used money to help reinforce how the game is played.
My wife walks in on us playing and flips out. Her reaction was as if I had taught her how to rol... | HISTORICAL | {
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IqntD9ka5svO70fwcrsA8EyPxc8cdmmB | avm71x | {
"description": "deciding last-minute that I'd rather attend a new friend's bachelorette party instead of my cousin's wedding",
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} | AITA for deciding last-minute that I’d rather attend a new friend’s bachelorette party instead of my cousin’s wedding? | So I left my mom and dad’s house last night in a big old pissy huff because of an argument that we had on this subject and I’m still angry mainly because I can’t figure out how I feel about this.
I’ve known about my cousin’s wedding for about six months now and my mom and dad went and got my immediate family plane tic... | HISTORICAL | {
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7UyqcehvhiqeEf7BITXvQ9kOTaYvn3g6 | aom3z7 | {
"description": "asking my new roomates for money to fix plumbing that didnt have issues until after they arrived? AITA for asking a wife and husband to split the rent equally 33/33/33 not 50/50",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for asking my new roomates for money to fix plumbing that didnt have issues until after they arrived? AITA for asking a wife and husband to split the rent equally 33/33/33 not 50/50? | I recently bought my new co worker from out of state lunch, and offered him to stay in an extra room at my place for $500 a month to avoid hotel costs. He declined because he wanted to find a place his wife could move into with him as well. However, since money was tight while starting a new job, he asked if he could s... | HISTORICAL | {
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2GDNJSngXNUCVyfGhaePM87VKKa9HVa7 | b8a19f | {
"description": "returning dog to shelter",
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} | WIBTA for returning dog to shelter | I have been looking for a dog for about a month. This past weekend I saw a dog that was very friendly and cat safe. He seemed perfect. I was looking to foster a dog from the animal shelter, but they happened to have a sale for $15 dogs for that day only. In the rush of the moment I adopted a dog.
I could see that he ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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iY5J729LfKhSk5CdQOyzZPN6yfeceK2s | ab4b0r | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend it's stupid he has to get his parents permission for everything",
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} | AITA: for telling my boyfriend it’s stupid he has to get his parents permission for everything | I have been planning to get an apartment this summer after my semester at college is done, I don’t really have a choice because both of my parents have decided to move out of state so I don’t have a home to stay at. I asked my boyfriend of almost 4 years if he was interested in being roommates with me and he said he wo... | HISTORICAL | {
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kSy9d1a88pGp1XPTjfgGjf4TEN7H2pQ0 | akd5ah | {
"description": "trying to help a girl who was obviously very uncomfortable in her current situation",
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} | AITA For trying to help a girl who was obviously very uncomfortable in her current situation? | So I am in my university's dinning hall and my friends and I (all female) are eating lunch and this girl sits down up the table from us. All is well until this guy comes up and starts talking her head off but she's just nodding and looks very uncomfortable.
Now let me tell you about this guy. He is known to do this k... | HISTORICAL | {
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8BVtIeqboX2iEkNCuEI0hsLdyFqO1b4U | asixqj | {
"description": "saying \"that's fine, that's your belief\" to my antivaxx parents trying to convince me that vaccines are bad? apparently I was condescending",
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} | AITA for saying "That's fine, that's your belief" to my antivaxx parents trying to convince me that vaccines are bad? Apparently I was condescending? | The short story is, I'm 17, unvaccinated and made the mistake of bringing up wanting to be vaccinated to my parents (who usually support pretty much every free thinking descision I make) which was met with much hostility. After things had cooled down, my mum tried to prove to me that nobody dies of measles without some... | HISTORICAL | {
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dOsAptaJCV3dyWE9ns3BPK3aIu5jCMfE | 9uxpua | {
"description": "not wanting my wife to be artificially inseminated",
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} | AITA for not wanting my wife to be artificially inseminated? | I can’t have kids.
I’d always looked forward to having kids of my own, and it devastated me to find out that I can’t. I honestly felt like the biggest failure in the world, and I felt awful because my wife also has always wanted kids. I’ve thrown up the idea of adopting, which she likes, but she also wants to experien... | HISTORICAL | {
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7CMnQ3G55xEE6fXJJMZfXlCHSU8HkNWy | abpx2w | {
"description": "letting my mental health issues make me a burden",
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} | AITA for letting my mental health issues make me a burden | This Christmas season I(23NB) have been visiting the family home, and so has all my siblings. This year we were a lot of people in a very small space. It has been very stressful for everyone, and I have wanted to help out my fair share around the house and with cooking, but I have not been able to do much at all.
I suf... | HISTORICAL | {
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hUKZXLJafAGh9Rv5L44FYF9WcuJET196 | b31k15 | {
"description": "\"stealing\" the girl my friend likes",
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} | AITA for "stealing" the girl my friend likes? | OK, so this is a complicated story, but i'll try to keep it short. So, my friend has this girl he likes who I'll call G (Girl) to keep her identity safe, but my friend liked her, and they went to a Tim Horton's, and the girl, who is my ex-neighbor, invited me to tag along as she thought my friend liked her. So we went ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ooc1OaVPXPc2DIb8ypfaIqSz2hfA6rGl | b5wr6y | {
"description": "snapping at my teacher",
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} | AITA for snapping at my teacher? | (Obligatory apology for posting on mobile)
Ok, for context, this is not just a normal teacher. I go to a highschool where you have a "major" and you take some classes pertaining to that major . All of these classes are taught by the major teacher. So I've had this teacher for 2 classes last semester and 2 this semeste... | HISTORICAL | {
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g52a8j1kSA1BKMi28nZTfLCuI1n2L29q | agpq11 | {
"description": "calling my friend out for his poor financial sense",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for calling my friend out for his poor financial sense? | A friend of mine is terrible with money. In the worst way. To put it simply, he, while jobless and getting money from his grandmothers inheritance, spent 1,000 dollars on a gorilla because "Harambe". Thats well and good, I could give a shit what he decides to blow money on when it doesn't effect me. We're a tight group... | HISTORICAL | {
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0apd5yAY29Zmxi5fHEWwaIyUeoGf8dGw | ag1ndh | {
"description": "calling out the ball hog",
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} | AITA for calling out the ball hog? | Went to play volleyball with some college friends. I didn’t know one of them, and the entire game he’s playing as if he’s the only one on the team, even though it’s 6 on 6. He’s chasing the ball no matter where it goes, even if he’s nowhere near it. Rushing in front of everyone to hit the ball first, not watching where... | HISTORICAL | {
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qACJME64BbZ2mhkcbzLGycrfDD2Acb0e | a76wjv | {
"description": "replying to a snide remark with one of my own",
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} | AITA for replying to a snide remark with one of my own? | I was at the designated smoking area of my employer, enjoying a cigarette. This area is WELL away from the building, off the property entirely.
I have no idea why, but one lady made a point to walk all the way over to me and say “you know smoking is bad for you” with the utmost condescension.
I have no idea why I d... | HISTORICAL | {
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SHGjLGNpUvbSbtNEcB0326S0lMwBmsPT | a0zpwq | {
"description": "being upset that a waitress spilt coffee all over me at a work event, as an intern",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being upset that a waitress spilt coffee all over me at a work event, as an intern? | tl;dr: Waitress spilt coffee all over me and drenched all of my shirt at a work brunch. I have anger management problems but did my best staying calm - so all I did was vent to my coworkers about it while the waitress was gone. I told a full-timer I expected compensation of some sort for her actions since I shouldn't h... | HISTORICAL | {
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aFqL0CicFfXHrUVNXxfoMyHgpGwChDVV | b14q68 | {
"description": "refusing to go to a large event with an old friend I literally just made up with",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for refusing to go to a large event with an old friend I literally just made up with? | I've had this friend for a while, who we'll call J, but then I did something horrible (but I don't think that's important or relevant and I don't feel comfortable talking about it) but recently she found me and forgave me completely (this was \~1yr later) and we've been talking for a few days and we've been becoming re... | HISTORICAL | {
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XhaPnlM48Kh4zDMhdrm3stLLLV9TaWhz | aot2ez | {
"description": "not renting out to a small family",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not renting out to a small family | AITA for not renting out my apartment to single moms with a kid because it is too small?
I have recently put up my own 1 bedroom apartment for rent in a bigger European city and have been reading through various application. A few of these answers comes from single mothers that have a young child that wishes to rent m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
qA3NDseDdz3rvlRV6cG00GFMd3ssAQzv | 9ywibv | {
"description": "joking around with my mother, but our maid got offended",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for joking around with my mother, but our maid got offended? | Well, she’s not really our maid(let’s call her that for simplicity), but my mom pays her to come help clean around the house and whatnot. Anyway, the other day I was walking downstairs and my mom was talking to me, and was telling me how the maid is her good friend. So I jokingly said to my mom, “she only likes you bec... | HISTORICAL | {
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mZUICB2L2vcIIRM52i8ar2ag7oIrl1bg | anhw1b | {
"description": "being mad that my birthday gift was sex",
"pronormative_score": 588,
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} | AITA for being mad that my birthday gift was sex? | On my gf's birthday I gave her a necklace that I spent $400 on. I wasn't expecting her to spend the same as me, but I was expecting something.
Here's how it went down. After dinner she asked me if I was ready for my gift, I said yes and she started giving me oral. She doesn't like giving oral and I'm ok with it. S... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 25
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 588,
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} | RIGHT |
2xTZKMCYN3tWwSKXUthDvEBARBhdcyen | apfg7x | {
"description": "wanting to change my legal name",
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} | AITA: for wanting to change my legal name (Long-ish) | ok so TLDR: I want to change my name but my parents aren't supportive of the decision since they said they chose it 7 years before I was born. I am trans but I haven't told them cause when i try to they clearly show they are not supportive. Quoting my mum "if I find a binder in your room I will cut it up and burn it." ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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f9iqa6yDK2Pek5dfxN3zEgC1ZTryViIa | akv3u6 | {
"description": "having rejecting unprotected sex with my girlfriend, even though I've done it before",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for having rejecting unprotected sex with my girlfriend, even though I’ve done it before? | I have had an on and off relationship with a girl I knew since I was a sophomore in high school. She’s quirky, and has a really high sex drive ever since I knew her. We had a few sexual encounters before in high school, but nothing out of the ordinary and it was always with protection.
We went to different colleges an... | HISTORICAL | {
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jVnqDPcFuVMNzhudAqjZ7NK72yXWOCxw | ap1mhg | {
"description": "getting mad at my gf for telling people how much money I make",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For Getting Mad at my GF For Telling People How Much Money I Make? | I'm M25, she's F24 and we've been together for about a year now. I make about \~250k per year and she makes around 45k and at the start of our relationship she would tell her friends how much she makes etc and it was annoying as they would be all up in my business and I just wanted her to respect my privacy. So she sto... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
yk9CrXRP5LWhIetV64tKlNSM8yKJNZix | aw0345 | {
"description": "not responding to my girlfriend for two hours while she was texting me",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not responding to my girlfriend for two hours while she was texting me? | I'll keep this short and to the point.
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Basically, we had just spent 3 hours together on a date and an hour after I got home I told her I was playing video games. I spent the next two hours playing video games and working on homework before I even checked my phone. However, I did know that she was textin... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
azZJHX3MW8sKoHIT707Xc7kF7XIiX74r | aq3mhk | {
"description": "going to the bar without my chronically late friend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For going to the bar without my chronically late friend? | Every weekend, I and a group of friends go out to the bar. One friend, who I will call "J" is always late. Literally always. And not just like 20 minutes. Like 4 hours. He also lives right across from the house we meet at before we go.
How it usually goes is we ( including J) agree on a time. Say 7. We all go to one ... | HISTORICAL | {
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o0D97B4M2nCxK29wQvfGa6CriPo2gD8L | 9zfw1l | {
"description": "being irritated with my so for getting in the way of me trying to do my job",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being irritated with my SO for getting in the way of me trying to do my job? | Get home late one night with my SO from a party to find a stranger lying on the road outside our house with a couple of passersby stood over him. Went to investigate as I work I'm a doctor and I have an ethical obligation to help and there is a guy who is obviously intoxicated lying down trying to have a sleep with a c... | HISTORICAL | {
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wqUFIXJ6eszHLx2zq7lwesRBDaR08Vgt | b3y3v2 | null | AITA because before I get pregnant I want to discuss what we would do if our embryo tests positive for Downs Syndrome? | My parents told me matter of factly that BEFORE we get pregnant, my partner and I should talk about what we would do if tests come back positive for downs syndrome and other serious birth defects (aka would we keep it or not?).
disclaimer- I think people who have Downs syndrome can and do live full lives and I fully s... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ba5Lg4qphy1SVWGRxoJB8KB2tkzhIX6r | aqijsf | {
"description": "not wanting to reunite with a someone after psych institute discharge",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not wanting to reunite with a someone after psych institute discharge | I was never good friends with this girl (we are both 17) but my friends were always trying to be closer with her.
There was always something off about her and I never really trusted or liked her but I acted like it for my friends sake.
Last year she randomly disappeared and we didn’t hear from her for a while before... | HISTORICAL | {
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FqDYERHe0zhZN6LePZX8D2qw1DjlWjY2 | arlf7c | {
"description": "seeking closure with a 'friend' who believes I tried to manipulate him",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for seeking closure with a 'friend' who believes I tried to manipulate him? | I'm gay and around March last year began getting close with a bisexual friend of mine. By 'close' I mean platonically so. I did have feelings for him but he didn't feel the same way. We spent a lot of time together, spoke a lot, and seemed to think very highly of each other.
I got a big red flag when he tried to make... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "making husband throw away pictures of him and his ex",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for making husband throw away pictures of him and his ex? | To;dr - I made my husband throw away pictures of him and his ex girlfriend.
My husband and I have been married for 4 years now. We have two beautiful boys aged 3 and 2. I was 6 months pregnant when we got married because our first son was a complete accident. For the most part we’re very happy. He’s affectionate, hon... | HISTORICAL | {
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E4Ou9hCiN32lpbH5d6A5wMzSiiGkWVhf | a8c2c3 | {
"description": "separating a kitten from his sisters",
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} | WIBTA for separating a kitten from his sisters? | Earlier this year, a feral cat gave birth in my parents' shed. We adopted the three kittens once they were old enough to not need their mother's milk, and I helped take care of them. I moved out of my parent's house recently, and I really miss the kittens. But my landlord says I can only have one pet in my appartment. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ENesvThGyQgsAJLZzpTRtMHMm7ZzkNkP | b1759z | null | AITA? Boyfriend took me out for pizza and then surprised me with a gym membership and I got upset | A little back story, I’ve struggled with eating disorders all my life and right now I’m at my heaviest weight ever (140, I’m 5’0 so it’s not sexy). My boyfriend knows I have these issues and basically shames me for having them. Sometimes he compares me the other women who have successfully completed a weight loss journ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NJakZYiWCABaNLVB5sMp7GqVyyEy1nj4 | b00ynn | {
"description": "not letting a mother join her 13 year old in a change room",
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} | AITA for not letting a mother join her 13 year old in a change room? | This just happened. Also I don’t apologize for the formatting because half of us are on mobile and I think we can all agree as long as you can tell a story, it doesn’t matter ;)
I work at a Canadian skateboard clothing company. We have started to become very popular with kids ranging from 7-16 years old. This of cour... | HISTORICAL | {
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cdNSPX0aGLMyPIY00T9mLIFPaqHNEdkz | aw0sy1 | {
"description": "telling my husband I dont want to get things for him while his mom and him are mad at each other",
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} | AITA for telling my husband I dont want to get things for him while his mom and him are mad at each other? | We are living with our inlaws for a couple months while we square away stuff with purchasing a house. My husband and his mom are fire and gasoline and just the smallest thing gets them arguing. It makes situations incredibly tense and awkward and I'm counting the days till we close on the house.
Today, they got into... | HISTORICAL | {
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QqcFBYbE88ExqjqalfavygMM337IUzr4 | b3qyq9 | {
"description": "being uneasy with husbands secret friend",
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} | AITA for being uneasy with husbands secret friend. | So a little background.
Husband and I are in our 30s. 3 kids. high school sweethearts. Our relationship has its ups and downs but overall I cant complain.
So about 8 years ago I found out hubby had an affair for 2 years. i suspected something was going on but decided to not investigate further because I was pregnant... | HISTORICAL | {
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AlGllHXB3AmVV7zkm4kLOkc9zSxhTq7X | a4c31s | {
"description": "ghosting my Mum after not being invited to the family christmas 'thing'",
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} | AITA For ghosting my Mum after not being invited to the family christmas 'thing'? | Background info:
I'm in my first year of uni and haven't been back home to see my mum since the start of the semester (but will be going back next week and we have weekly video calls. I don't particularly mind the extended family but i limit my appearances to 4 times a year.
Main:
About an hour ago my mother message... | HISTORICAL | {
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9kvjlhUhBe8RahRgx9BscNSIH7PQm1vZ | 9tfqg8 | {
"description": "spiking my girlfriend with water",
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} | AITA for spiking my girlfriend with water | My girlfriend was way past drunk and every time she asked for a drink I bought her water | HISTORICAL | {
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MSr4YwpiDIjRCgECLAb8zF2ldT3t4xmf | amgenc | {
"description": "yelling at my mother after she talked shit about my father",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for yelling at my mother after she talked shit about my father | Alright context time. My mothers relationship with my father has never been the greatest. They got divorced about a year ago, and almost every time I bring up our father, she always talks shit about him. Its like she thinks he is as bad as Stalin. Every time I ask why she never gives a direct answer, but all I can make... | HISTORICAL | {
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4mZK3XSRE1bH8izeANi92mQpFsRYzz5J | b6ldek | {
"description": "not visiting my grandmother on her death bed despite her request",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not visiting my grandmother on her death bed despite her request ? | My mom called me, she said my grandmother, who's in her eighties, has had a major stroke and is hospitalized. The doctor told her my grandmother probably only has few days left to live. She's conscious but a bit incoherent, and apparently asked if she could see me because I was her first grandchild and that has always ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
Atdw0CJT9z4WL2gGJqUOKu8MUXMG3FPT | b3zwes | {
"description": "not wanting to be my niece's first communion sponsor",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For not wanting to be my niece's first communion sponsor | So I am an Atheist but pretty much my whole family is Catholic . They have known im an Atheist for years now and forced me to do my first communion and confirmation (with in the last 2 years). They never go to church but are only taking my niece for her first communion to show the rest of the family they are "good cat... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
kf9RDjP3f0OT1juXRNgFUZ6do5tDMiEy | a7rm77 | {
"description": "getting excited when I do well in tests and kind of upset for when I do badly",
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} | AITA for getting excited when I do well in tests and kind of upset for when I do badly. | Some context to this is that I’m not quite top of the class but I’m probably one of the smartest females in my year at school.
In chemistry I got really annoyed at myself for not getting my target grade in an end of topic test in like October. I had never gotten lower than that before in chemistry and it made me real... | HISTORICAL | {
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HsMCsQQQj7dKsiaMLnSeSWC79xf7J6VH | awjxrx | {
"description": "probably getting a young mental health tech fired",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for probably getting a young mental health tech fired | Okay so this happened 2-3 years ago and I still don't know if I was in the wrong.
First a bit of back story, I struggle with mental health issues and have since I was 11 and I'm a trans woman meaning I identify as a woman. (This is important)
I was in an inpatient psychiatric ward and this tech who couldn't be more t... | HISTORICAL | {
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xgAni3fW6gbfDo5LkfPZNV4muWN7g44M | 9vn7hw | {
"description": "not caring about a former friend's mental health",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not caring about a former friend's mental health? | My former friend of six years lied to me about something very important that had to do with my relationship with my boyfriend, and I apologized to my BF about believing my friend over him, and I cut my friend outta my life but now my boyfriend has forgiven him and is now hanging out with him in the past couple of mon... | HISTORICAL | {
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cbK2ZEGL8P97udxV7CbOWGyP0T7hfzSR | afe1jr | {
"description": "all ditching this guy at once",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA (+Friends) for all ditching this guy at once? | So me and my friend group is pretty large, but close knit. It's a odd group, it's mostly odd misfits just kind of mashed together, but we are generally all very close, think of it like an old western gang, that all stick together, through everything, despite everyone being from radically different walks of life, and su... | HISTORICAL | {
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68aPT6XXFAoeIbz5UNCi1KjwnG5VQQbP | b3evio | {
"description": "not wanting to date someone with mental health issues (like depression) and stay friends instead",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for not wanting to date someone with mental health issues (like depression) and stay friends instead? | I'm having a crisis and I can't think straight, so I'm consulting everyone here.
Initially I thought I could do it. Really. I had all the determination in the world to support her and believe I could. I also suffer with mental health issues and I don't know whether it's right to put mine first. Everything I hear her ... | HISTORICAL | {
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kuYgECyMUBK9rPCyrcXwd9siNkUK4CkP | 9zsdgo | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because I didn't like his body",
"pronormative_score": 26,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because I didn't like his body? | Ok. So I recently broke ties with my boyfriend of a couple months because I didn't like his body type.
We were together for about three months, and on a whim (he was probably a little tipsy, honestly) he sent a naked photo of himself. If I'm being honest, I didn't really like what I saw. I knew he was a overweight, b... | HISTORICAL | {
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BptkgpmfwtpfCnm3Ret2BNWktLsQvQ8g | b00ysg | {
"description": "not wanting a close relationship with my mom",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting a close relationship with my mom? | My mom basically wants me to be her best friend. She tells me all of her most intimate thoughts and feelings. She wants me to do the same, and if I don’t volunteer, she will ask again and again. If that doesn’t work, she’ll overshare and then guilt trip me into levelling with her. At least that’s what it feels like – b... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
6yXzuCFkE9OGf2J919ZM15VrsFessSWc | ad9ycy | {
"description": "making a girl cry by calling her fat when she was roasting me for being skinny",
"pronormative_score": 915,
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} | AITA for making a girl cry by calling her fat when she was roasting me for being skinny? | Context: So a couple of girls in my college friend group have a roommate called “Jan”. I am acquainted with her and we never really had any problems, we actually made quite a good beer pong duo. I’m a tall and lanky guy at 6’1 and 155lbs. Jan is a white chick on the heavier-side.
Recently, we had a watch party at Jan... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 915,
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} | RIGHT |
4vw4Bnt5PGsJnBLGSJlnx9BHmOGk3kE0 | azo0ek | {
"description": "being frustrated that my mom smokes",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being frustrated that my mom smokes? | Just to clarify, I have no problem with people smoking. I used to smoke, most of my friends and family smoke, I don’t care.
The problem with my mom is that she is so fucking hypocritical about it. First of all, she says that she isn’t a smoker even tho every single time she sees family (1-3 times a week) she repeatedl... | HISTORICAL | {
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YJX4grt8tcrry40raILnrdPOF5MiY8g3 | a6ic31 | {
"description": "wanting to take my 3-year-old on a 7-hour round trip to visit my boyfriend's mom for her birthday",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for wanting to take my 3-year-old on a 7-hour round trip to visit my boyfriend’s mom for her birthday? | He thinks it’s unfair to her to make her sit in the car that long and that since we will only be there for a couple hours, it’s not rewarding enough for her to justify making her sit in a car that long. I think she should be able to go. I feel like I’m being left out and punished for having a child, like I’m not allowe... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
qXl3l0dnv9tn0eiRwy8lEBhjcoU0bgw5 | asbmip | {
"description": "card counting in a \"friendly\" game of Egyptian",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for card counting in a “friendly” game of Egyptian? | Before school started, I was playing Egyptian Rat Screw with a friend of my sister. (We’re pretty much friends because I roll with Sis’ group) Friend was trash talking everyone about her skills with the game the day before. Anyways, it’s a popular game with lots of different names and rule variations. I brought my deck... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
pesY3rroxxGm7MYu72NKR1XQDiDyyhsW | b5f3gt | {
"description": "turning my ex in for not paying child support",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I turn my ex in for not paying child support? | My ex doesn’t pay her child support. She can afford to, she just doesn’t. She has monthly contempt hearings where she claims she’s disabled and works limited hours. She convinced her doctor too so the court’s hands are tied. She also has a fraudulent claim open with SSI.
She works for herself and her clients pay cash... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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pPAsS0eaixjQEbqjTLgo06wbficzcEOF | b3sscg | {
"description": "using my kitchen in the morning",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for using my kitchen in the morning? | I’ve lived with two roommates for 2.5 years. Aside from them not helping with housekeeping, things have been generally fine. Until this morning. The beef is between me and my roommate who I’ll call Ada.
I am a full time law student, and my schedule makes it impossible for me to hold down a part time job. I live on... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
tnUWsQvZoMKr5GgggueBFvMedBIeME2K | albxyk | {
"description": "not wanting to be around/ interact with people with mental disabilities? please read",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be around/ interact with people with mental disabilities? Please read! | My apologies for the limited title - I wasn’t sure how to explain my dilemma in such a short phrase, so please keep reading. An important clarification: I have absolutely nothing against people with mental disabilities (other than some internalized prejudice I’m sure I have) and fully support them interacting freely wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
k7JhC1zl0PFVekDDISnKHXn3Kxf7pJfx | b60vn8 | {
"description": "not wanting my roommate to move my laundry",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting my roommate to move my laundry? | For some context: My roommate [25F] and I [27F] have lived together for a few years now. Overall it's a nice arrangement, despite the fact that she has some rather inconsiderate living habits. I let it slide bc it's no biggie in the long run. One of the perks of our place is a washer and dryer in unit, though it is in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
VKiDmMr3FZpmTj9DbFgI29oUU25DUUjg | ag0tfv | {
"description": "telling my ex I wouldn't care if she killed herself",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA if I tell my ex I wouldn't care if she killed herself? | Sorry, kinda bait title. Here's the full story of my ex and I to get some context on why I said this:
November 2017, I started dating this 17 year old girl (I was 15 at the time). Everything was decent enough up to two months in. Late January 2018, I went over to her house for a cuddle movie night type of thing, and I... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
kUtGGrV34Ssc5KxUy70jk7x0xDkO9mbY | ak8oif | {
"description": "asking for more money, for being asked to work longer shifts",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for asking for more money, for being asked to work longer shifts? | Ok, this happened a few hours ago. Quick breakdown, I am a freelance audio engineer, I work for a handful of clubs and production companies in NY. I get an hourly rate for this particular company, which a 5 hour gig is the standard, not including the time to and from the gig. A couple of months ago is accidentally dou... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 3,
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E2s5CH7fwU5rv3EBaDRCZsRpn1XVsPWa | 9w6i8t | null | AITA for been pissed off with my now ex girlfriend because I worked unpaid to see her more despite her not asking me to? | Me and my now ex Girlfriend lived over an hour away, we would always say how we wished we could see each other more so I spoke to my boss about getting more holiday, we came to an agreement that if I did some hours unpaid I could have the holiday I wanted (I work for a small construction firm)
I didn’t tell her becaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
i8OkoHJM4mhVerz48k5tgXmW4R5AfQUG | aqbs39 | {
"description": "wanting to attend my best friend's (wife's) baby shower",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to attend my best friend's (wife's) baby shower? | My friend (S) and his wife (L) (I don't say friends because L and I unfortunately just don't know eachother very well. We get on just fine, but aren't super close.) are having a baby, and they posted an open invitation on Facebook to their baby shower on Sunday. The invite said everyone is invited to come and celebrate... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
UhcUvBVrvXHcDoUCuwBIIA1I7YLqJbLF | azzunr | {
"description": "not going home with a drag queen after letting them buy me free drinks",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for not going home with a drag queen after letting them buy me free drinks? | So I’m a heteroflexible dude who mostly fucks women but introduces a man every once in awhile. I also hang out at my cities resident gay club a lot because I like dancing and it’s the only club in town not filled with frat bros (college town).
Anyway I got really plastered and spent awhile making out with a drag queen... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
EQoQltNfMQekAZHuWkNd9RBgarR9U4hF | aable6 | {
"description": "not making a charity that I promised for",
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} | WIBTA for not making a charity that i promised for | hey
i live in turkey. about a 30min. ago a friend of mine send me a charity message. it was for refugees from east turkistan,china i suppose, who is struggling about affording their taxes, basic needs such as food, cloth and stuff. i saw that and jump it nosedive, reason i didnt check who was operating the charity, i ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
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