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{ "description": "not caring about the death of someone I don't know", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA For Not Caring About the Death of Someone I Don’t Know?
Someone at my school died today but I had no clue he existed until he died. A few of my friends knew him and flipped shit when I told it how I saw it. I said “it happens, people die all the time” as a simple fact. This brought everyone against me as a person who disrespects the dead and a complete asshole. All I did wa...
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{ "description": "not letting kids into my room", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting kids into my room?
It was during the party we had for the 4th of July last year. My family and I had just moved into a new house, so my extended family were curious to see the house. And this is the first house we've lived in that had a second floor so it was exciting for everyone, especially all the small children running around the hou...
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{ "description": "being upset at my mother for calling my girlfriend disabled", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my mother for calling my girlfriend disabled
To preface, I am a 30 yo male who lives with his parents going to school on my GI bill. So I recently started seeing a new girl (24). Facebook official for about a month. She's is extremely shy, has the biggest heart in the world, works very hard and takes things easy. I have really high hopes for the relationship. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my sister-in-law an expensive gift", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to give my sister-in-law an expensive gift
My husband and I are disagreeing over this. We're having a kid soon and justified some expensive baby purchases for the short newborn phase by saying we'd sell them afterwards. We looked up resale prices on a couple different sites, then bought items that are nice and have decent resale value. All in all, we expect aro...
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{ "description": "getting angry at the leasing office staff for trying to evict us over an innocent slip-up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at the leasing office staff for trying to evict us over an innocent slip-up
So my partner and I have lived at this apartment complex for about 1.5 years now. We were traveling for the holidays and got back on Jan 1, the day rent was due, but as a completely innocent slip-up forgot to pay rent. This was totally our fault, and when I was at work the next day I saw an email reminding me that the ...
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to including my wife's last name and to use our son's actual last names", "pronormative_score": 197, "contranormative_score": 70 }
AITA for wanting my parents to including my wife's last name and to use our son's actual last names?
So, when my wife and I got married she wanted to keep her last name for personal reasons. I had no issue with this and, as far as I knew, neither did my parents. Our two sons have both our last names hyphenated. However, when we receive anything from one of my parents (they are divorced so it's separately) it will be a...
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{ "description": "wanting my dead dads hunting knife that's rightfully mine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my dead dads hunting knife that’s rightfully mine?
AITA for wanting my dead dad’s hunting knife? Over a year ago, my father passed away quite suddenly in a car accident. My two sisters(34 and 22) and I (23) were informed of his death and immediately went to the sheriffs department in the city where his body was being held in a freezer until our choice of a funeral ho...
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{ "description": "trying to postpone my family's visit", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to postpone my family's visit?
I moved to another state 6 months ago. My family have the conditions to visit me but they never came. They say it's easier for me to go there and see everybody. I was upset because it's my first time living by myself and I wanted to show them my apartment. I gave up trying to make they come 1 month ago. Last week I we...
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{ "description": "refusing to return an item after the seller publicly calls me out on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to return an item after the seller publicly calls me out on Facebook?
Hey Reddit! I casually collect Funko Pops, which if you don't know, are tiny bobble head vinyl figures that come in a box. I posted an ad with a picture up to a Facebook BST group looking to sell or trade some of mine. This guy, let's call him Bob, messages me on them, offering to trade a rarer one for some of mine. ...
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{ "description": "refusing to tip", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for refusing to tip?
This happened a couple of years ago, but I still get divided responses when it comes up. TL;DR Waitress persistently made same stupid joke, so I didn't tip on my meal. I was working out of town, which meant \~14 hour days and a lot of fast food. One day for dinner we went to a TGIFriday's for something slightly bette...
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{ "description": "discouraging my friends who have roughly $280,000 of debt from buying a house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for discouraging my friends who have roughly $280,000 of debt from buying a house?
A little background: my friends are a couple, and are both 22, and fresh out of college. The house in question is in town East Jesus Nowhere, about an hour commute from both their jobs. So my friends who me and my SO have known since middle school want to buy a house. Specifically the house owned by female friend's gr...
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{ "description": "ditching a meet-up with my friends after we scheduled it for a while because I fell sick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ditching a meet-up with my friends after we scheduled it for a while because I fell sick?
Context: I have a tabletop group that I meet up with occasionally depending on the schedules of everyone involved. We haven’t been able to meet for quite a while and were planning to do so this weekend. Unfortunately, one of our friends was overseas and I had prior commitments so we tried to arrange it in the evening, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play a competitive game with people who don't have a microphone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play a competitive game with people who don’t have a microphone?
I’m on mobile so sorry if anything is a little funky. Me and my friend got into a stupid argument about this. We both play competitive video games that are almost always better when people can speak to each other. Like, making call outs, giving the team information, it’s all faster and more efficient than typing into ...
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{ "description": "asking my pregnant gf for a dna test", "pronormative_score": 142, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for asking my pregnant gf for a dna test?
I’m freaking out. Totally unplanned pregnancy. Gf and I have an open relationship. It’s definitely possible that it’s not my kid. She said she tracks her cycle and knows it’s my baby. Whatever that means. To be honest I’m not ready for this at all. I want a dna test. I don’t know how to bring it up to her th...
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{ "description": "declining my former boss's request to give tips to my replacement", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I declined my former boss’s request to give tips to my replacement
I worked for a company for 4 years and for the last two years reported to a VP of Finance. I left the company because I received an external offer and they decided not to counter offer. It’s now been about 4 months since I left and I got a LinkedIn message from my old boss along the lines of “would you be willing to h...
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{ "description": "being mad at my best friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my best friend
Me and my bff have been through a lot together. A few extremely heated fights but I love her to death and would do anything for her. We go to a really small high school and are only freshman who are trying to stay out of drama. 2 nights ago I got sent a dick pic on snap chat by some boy in my class. I didn't want it,...
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{ "description": "being happy when my roommate is not in the room", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being happy when my roommate is not in the room?
It’s nothing personal, I just really don’t like having a roommate. She’s a nice girl and she minds her business but I feel like I never have any privacy. She’s always in our dorm room. If she goes out to eat, she’ll take it to go and eat it in the room. She “studies” in the room but every time I look over she’s just on...
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{ "description": "taking my friend's hero on Overwatch", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking my friend’s hero on Overwatch?
I will be using simple terms so that people who aren’t familiar with the game will still get the gist of what is going on. I’m from a much higher level than my friend, but made a second account to play with them. I play an off-tank on my main account. (Think of it as off-white vs white. Same class, different roles.) ...
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{ "description": "kicking a dog in defense", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking a dog in defense?
Some background. I'm 14 years old, and have had my dog since it was 3 months old. We go on the same walking path ever since I got him, and nothing like this ever happened to us. This happened a few days ago. I went out for a walk with my 2 friends and my dog (which is a 1.5 year old German shepherd), like we usually...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of my sisters cat", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of my sisters cat?
Basically my sister adopted a cat last year when she was living with her boyfriend. They broke up so she had to move back home with myself and my mom and took the cat with her. Now she’s planning on moving out and doesn’t want to take the cat with her as it’s hard to find an apartment that will allow cats. I told her ...
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{ "description": "trying to provide a different point of view when my girlfriend just wanted to vent", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA trying to provide a different point of view when my girlfriend just wanted to vent
My girlfriend was at her parents place today having dinner. Her sister and the sister's boyfriend were also present. My girlfriend was watching Queer eye on TV with her mom when they sister's boyfriend made a comment about there only being 2 genders (male and female) and that their goal is to procreate. My girlfriend t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my dad when I saw him in a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my dad when I saw him in a restaurant
There’s a lot of background info needed here but I’m going to try and make it as short as possible for everyone’s sake. Basically my parents got divorced a looong time ago and when my dad got remarried he made the mistake of marrying a huge bitch who after 8-9 years of living with me decided she didn’t want me in the p...
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{ "description": "expecting my wife to deal with the repairs after busting up the car", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for expecting my wife to deal with the repairs after busting up the car?
The other day my wife had a minor scrape in the car park (car vs wall) and it left quite a few deep scratches along the back passenger side of the car. My first reaction was to be pretty pissed, because it's a relatively new car and was previously in great condition. I was careful not to show my frustration though when...
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{ "description": "refusing to bring a vital piece of a project for teammates", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to bring a vital piece of a project for teammates?
I'm currently trying to reflect, and looking at my past, i have a alot of things i want to see in a new light. This happened about 1 and a half years ago. At the time i was in the middle of a volunteer project. So, at the start of this year-long project, we were assigned teams which were supposed to stick together an...
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{ "description": "cutting my best friend out for not asking how I am after having a baby", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 19 }
WIBTA for cutting my best friend out for not asking how I am after having a baby?
I can’t tell if this is hormones or rational so I thought I’d come to you lovely people for advice. I had a baby last weekend, my first and he is perfect. My best friend is the first person we told. She didn’t seem excited so I figured it was shock and she’d come around. She was there for me some during the pregnan...
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AITA Got into argument with mother over purchase
Just to start off I'm on my mobile phone as my computer is down so I apologize for the formatting. But me and my mom go into an argument about what happened a day ago about what I said. We was in a store looking around and I saw some items I wanted that were a little pricey. I figured I have the money I could go ahead ...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend to shut up about her eating disorder", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my best friend to shut up about her eating disorder?
I (17F) have had very bad food issues since I was 8 years old. I had binge eating disorder, which transitioned to anorexia, which has now transitioned to bulimia. I've gone on the pill recently and the fact that puking after you've had it renders it useless has kept me from purging some of my meals, which is very help...
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{ "description": "not telling my \"depressed\", pregnant sister all the lovely things her boyfriend thinks she needs to hear", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my "depressed", pregnant sister all the lovely things her boyfriend thinks she needs to hear?
I grew up in a society where it was taught that you should bend over backwards for any family at any cost. As an adult, I learned about abuse and mental and emotional health and I soon realized that everyone was wrong about having to break your back for family at any and all costs. For a few years I have maintained a h...
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{ "description": "not giving up my seat at the DMV office to this man and his family", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving up my seat at the DMV office to this man and his family?
I'm at the DMV to get my out-of-state car registered. I finish my application and I am waiting for my number on the screen. ​ I see this couple watching their son((<1 yr probably) play. At this time when I chose to take a seat, there were multiple open seats (even consecutive ones) , but I saw that the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be a step-parent", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to be a step-parent?
Hi reddit. I’m in a situation that just has me feeling shitty all around. So basically, some background. My boyfriend may be a father in a couple days. It’s a long story but before i knew him, 9 months ago, his “ex,” got pregnant, but she doesn’t know who the dad is because although she has one child already that’s ar...
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{ "description": "'kicking' my boyfiend out of my student house and effectively leaving him homeless", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for 'kicking' my (21F) boyfiend (M27) out of my student house and effectively leaving him homeless?
Well, some are calling me an asshole for this, but I am not sure. My boyfriend and I have been together for one month officially, and in that time he got kicked out of his friends house, to which I said he could stay at my house, honeymoon phase and all. He also lost his bank card, so he was staying with me rent and ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend
Didn't really know how to condense a good title of this situation so sorry for the vague-ness of the title above. ​ Anyways, to try to keep things short and to the point me and my boyfriend have been dating long distance for a little under 1.5 years now. We both go to colleges on opposite sides of the US. ...
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{ "description": "having an old man's car towed in the middle of winter", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having an old man's car towed in the middle of winter?
I live in the city and on my street you can only park on one side from 9AM to 4PM. They have that rule because snow plows can't drive down it if there are cars on both sides. I saw a plow come through and reverse when it got to this one car that was parked on the wrong side around 1PM. It belongs to an old man who...
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{ "description": "accidentaly punching my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for accidentaly punching my friend
Ok so im 12 and around this age EVERYONE is having their birthdays in dance club and its a fun time.At the time of the story (which is 2 days ago) it was the weekend and there were 2 birthdays and i went to both. F1- best friend 1, F2-best friend 2 Ok so we are all coming back home together after the first birthday...
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{ "description": "not wanting to buy food that I will not eat", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to buy food that I will not eat?
I currently live with three others in an apartment and have done so for the past four months. I genuinely believed before the fall semester started that I would be cooking fairly often. Unfortunately, laziness led to me eating out for almost every meal. As time went on, I would stop going on grocery runs because I lite...
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{ "description": "leaving the guild", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving the guild?
I was a member of a guild in an mmo. The leader was a huge piece of shit for a number of reasons, of which I don't have time to go into detail here. Anyway the leader pulled some shit and it caused an exodus of players from the guild. Most of which, were my close friends. But one member, the leader's wife, was an incr...
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{ "description": "not allowing cousins to grow up together", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I dont allow cousins to grow up together
A little bit of background, my sister and her husband are both narcissists, we havent been close in years. Only catch up a few times a year in family situations, and usually try to keep the peace. Have so many stories about their behaviour, but that's for another time. She has recently given birth to their first chil...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend her study habits are terrible", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my best friend her study habits are terrible?
My best friend and roommate in college (senior year) is a dedicated student who spends basically all of her free time studying. Sometimes it gets on my nerves because she'll act like I'm being inconsiderate when I ask if she has time to watch a movie or something, like how could she ever take a few hours to chill. She ...
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{ "description": "choosing to be with a friend group that I can relate more then the friend group that I have longer history with", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to be with a friend group that I can relate more then the friend group that I have longer history with?
I recently me a new group of friends at college that are all in my major, have the same interest as me, like to go out, and same skin color as me (which I find important since i am black snd go to a PWI). My previous friend group pretty much was the opposite of all these things except shared interest. My question is, ...
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{ "description": "laughing at a sign that's meant to be a joke", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for laughing at a sign that's meant to be a joke
I went over a friend's house last week who is openly gay and we joke around with each other all the time. I noticed he had a new sign in his room that's said "when it hurts too much to stand, kneel". I then pointed it out and thought it had something to do with giving a blowjob. He just laughed at it and didn't say any...
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{ "description": "telling my husband to go no-contact with his former Bff", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my husband to go no-contact with his former Bff
So no ones really mad bc my husband is an awesome and understanding man, but I don’t know if I’m wrong for encouraging him to leave this guy. F - friend H - Husband. So F has a history of being a general not-so-good person. He often lies and cheats others to get what he wants. Ex. Lying about wanting a relationship wi...
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{ "description": "not liking my sister's birthday gift", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not liking my sister's birthday gift?
So a few years ago my sister (S) bought me a DVD set of a TV show called Gargoyles for my birthday. I used to be a fan of the show when I was a teenager, but interest faded as I got older. I went on Facebook to thank her and the conversation went something like this: **Me**: Hey, just got your gift in the mail. I appr...
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{ "description": "calling out my \"friends\" for having get together memorializing a friend who was murdered", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out my "friends" for having get together memorializing a friend who was murdered
Okay so the title probably makes me sound like a huge asshole. However my best friend was murdered 2 years ago on January 10th by another mutual friend, whom he lived with, over drugs and money. His body was not discovered for two days, January 12th. For the past two years my "friends" have decided to "honor" him by t...
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AITA: invited friend to move in and live rent free in exchange for cleaning. Didn't like her reaction
So I posted earlier about a separate thing and some of this question background was in it. A lot of people ignored the question I was asking and responded to this issue instead, in ways that I hadnt realized that I might have been an asshole. So posting this to ask if I am. The previous thread is https://www.reddit.com...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for proposing with his mother's ring", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 109 }
AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring?
First I just want to say that I'm not the kind of person who demands expensive gifts but we do gift each other a lot of things. I and my boyfriend have been together for 10 years. We live together, and we have a 4yo daughter. I was waiting forever for him to propose. So I was really excited when my sister told me that...
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{ "description": "thinking people advertising their business by using their race as part of the description is weird", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking people advertising their business by using their race as part of the description is WEIRD?
Genuinely want some opinions as I’m confused about what i really feel about this. So i was on instagram a lot recently and came across 8 business pages in the past 5 days that, along with listing their opening hours, specialisation, and other information, they also added “Black owned”. I thought about why a customer ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at the girl who says my name wrong", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting mad at the girl who says my name wrong?
So I’m of Hispanic descent and my name reflects that. It’s a 4 syllable name and has a heavy accent and rolled “r”s. This makes it very difficult for English speakers to say correctly. To get around this I go by a nickname. My nicknames, while certainly unique, is only 2 syllables and requires no accents or special pro...
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{ "description": "running away from my family and trying to cut contact", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for running away from my family and trying to cut contact?
So I've been abused for almost all my life by my family, living in the Middle East. I was born and raised there. I've run away about 2 and a half months ago to live with my boyfriend and his family, who are now almost my family in-law since we're now engaged. My mom has stalked me and his family, threatening us and s...
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{ "description": "ending my friendship with one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending my friendship with one of my friends?
I had known a guy for about a year through various programs and summer camps and had become really good friends. We shared multiple interests and hobbies so we naturally got along. Here’s the part where it went downhill. So we both go to a summer camp every year, that’s where I met him. So a year after meeting him, we...
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{ "description": "hating the way my friend acts", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for hating the way my friend acts?
One of my friends has been pissing me off lately. It's mostly the way she acts. She talks about her depression and anxiety way too often, incorporating the topic into random conversations. She also is very clingy and.. affectionate? In a way. She tends to be touchy. She also talks as though she knows more than everyone...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be dumped on anytime I enter a room", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be dumped on anytime I enter a room?
I get it, you're going through a lot, but I am too and the world doesn't revolve around you. AITA for just not wanting to be vented to, dumped on, etc immediately upon entering a room? I don't do anything, I simply exist in space and it feels like I'm supposed to hold everyone's emotions. How do I voice this in a con...
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{ "description": "yelling at a girl for taunting my dog", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for yelling at a girl for taunting my dog
First off, I'd like to apologize for possible bad grammar, for I am on mobile. My birthday was a couple weeks ago and I was allowed to throw a party for the first time since I was 10. My parents put a 10 person limit on attendees; I thought it was fine since I don't have many friends anyway. However, while inviting m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a Disney world trip my mum paid for", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to go on a Disney world trip my mum paid for
My mum and dad have a rental property in Florida which they visit regularly to do repairs and upkeep. I've been lucky enough to go to Florida about 14 times in my life. My mum is addicted to Disney world and goes on about how she wants me, my girlfriend and my brother to go constantly. She even saved up the money to pa...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my boyfriend for being mean and judgemental", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting angry at my boyfriend for being mean and judgemental?
I initially wrote a very long backstory, but realised that you probably didn't want to read that much, so I tried summarizing it. Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 1 year and 2 months. Half long distance half not. Started out not long distance. After the first three weeks of us dating, I cheated on ...
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{ "description": "I get annoying when going through this job application process only to get this email in response 3 weeks later", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I get annoyed when going through this job application process only to get this email in response 3 weeks later??
Backstory: I have been talking to a business offering a job for 1 month now. Had the Skype interview on October _________________________ MY EMAIL 3 WEEKS AFTER THE SKYPE INTERVIEW (it went very well btw): Hi (HR worker), Is there any update on the position? I sent an email last Monday and I am not sure if you rec...
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{ "description": "resenting having to cancel my holiday to look after my grandchildren", "pronormative_score": 62, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for resenting having to cancel my holiday to look after my grandchildren?
My daughter and two young grandchildren live in my home with my husband and me. I have given them the larger part of the house and my husband and I live in the granny flat. I don't charge rent and pay for all the food. My husband takes the children to school and picks them up to save my daughter any childcare fees. My...
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{ "description": "wanting my party to speak quieter/not swear so loud in public", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my party to speak quieter/not swear so loud in public?
I find whenever I'm out in public with a group of people, I'm always asking people to talk quieter and not shout swear words for everyone in the restaurant to hear. Maybe it seems louder to me and no one else can hear it but it feels more considerate to keep our conversations only within earshot of the table. I feel li...
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AITA, Girl hates hates me because i decided to get back with my ex
Hey so I'll try and give much detail as possible. So back in October I had been single for about a month after leaving a relationship of one year. It was a fairly mutual breakup and we stayed on good terms. This was about the time I met R, i met her at a Halloween party and we hit it off fairly well. For the next coupl...
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AITA Started dating peer's Girlfriend shorty after breakup. However, people have started making threats without knowing the full story.
So, the drama started not long ago. I started getting close with, at the time a peers girlfriend. I started having feelings for the girl in question. I did not act upon my feelings. After a few weeks she had broken up with her boyfriend. Shortly after, I found out she had feelings for me as well through one of her fr...
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{ "description": "not wanting my moms boyfriend to sleepover while I'm having a sleepover", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my moms boyfriend to sleepover while I’m having a sleepover?
*PLEASE READ* Backstory: It has always been my mother and I for as long as I can remember, my father was abusive. August 2018, she started dating him and every weekend since they’ve seen each other. It’s come to the point, where he sleeps over two nights a week. ( of course when I asked her not have him overnight my r...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut out one of my best friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut out one of my best friends?
Before getting into this I want to say that I love my best friend with all of my heart and it truly is hurting me to do this so I need to know if I'm doing the right thing. I met her 5 years ago when we were on the high school drill team together, she was a freshman and I was a sophomore so there's already a small ag...
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{ "description": "not making my friend leave my apartment once the guy he was replacing decided he didn't want to leave", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making my friend leave my apartment once the guy he was replacing decided he didn't want to leave?
I'm currently in college and living in a 5 person apartment with friends that I have known for multiple years. We have a co-op program at our college so we have to change who is living in the apartment based on who leaves each semester. One of my friends, John, decided last semester that he was going to get a co-op out...
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{ "description": "banning and blocking this girl", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for banning and blocking this girl?
This is more of an online problem but one that's been going on for almost a year now. Throwaway because my main is recognizable. And sorry for potential formatting, mobile. So there was this girl on this Discord server who was okay way in the beginning (two years ago). She made a few odd comments here and there, and e...
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{ "description": "not tipping my ppstmates driver", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not tipping my ppstmates driver?
I know it sounds bad but hear me out. Obligatory apology for being on mobile. So I live in a fairly small apartment complex that has one entrance and one road. When you enter th one road will loop around the entire complex and spit you out the same way you came in. In the comments section for extra delivery instru...
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{ "description": "ghosting a penpal with mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a penpal with mental health issues?
Little bit of background, joined a site maybe July last year? Putting up an ad with my email wanting to learn more about worldwide cultures and just generally find it interesting meeting new people. I stopped using it around September because I just ended up getting weird requests from older men which wasn’t what I was...
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{ "description": "not participating in a lock down drill", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not participating in a lock down drill?
Today, my college had a lock down drill. They didn't tell us what time the drill would be, just that it would be today. I hate lock down drills with a dying passion. I hate being herded like cattle to a room with no windows that I can't escape. I hate feeling like i'm in elementary school again. I think lock down drill...
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{ "description": "airing an abuser's \"dirty laundry\" so their partner could see it", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for airing an abuser’s “dirty laundry” so their partner could see it? (NSFW)
Throwaway for privacy. This is an old story from when I was in a friends-with-benefits relationship with a guy who turned out to be an abusive prick, but he’s not the one in the title. I’ll call him A. The title refers to his ex-girlfriend. I’ll call her B. (I’m a guy, btw.) Backstory: The way I got involved with my...
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{ "description": "splitting the cost of dates", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for splitting the cost of dates?
My girlfriend and I recently got into a huge argument about paying for dates. She thinks that because I make more money I should pay for all of our dates and I think that because we do things that are usually free or cheap, like under $20 per person, that we should split the bill. She thinks this is stupid and called ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get to know my half siblings", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to get to know my half siblings?
I’ve never met my father, he and my mom split when she was pregnant. I tried to get to know him when I was around 13. I got his address off one of the child support checks that was mailed and wrote this long letter to him asking about him and telling him about myself. After that the mail started coming from a female...
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AITA for how I(23f) reacted to him(24m) kissing a another girl (19f)?
Sorry cause I'm writing this on mobile format. So a little back story here, I've been having a 'thing' with this guy, I'll refer to him as J, we met in a town in north west Australia and we are both backpackers. We ended up in a hostel romance and feelings on my end got pretty Intense, however he ended up going back t...
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{ "description": "proposing to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for proposing to my girlfriend?
Obligatory backstory and other information: I love my girlfriend, she loves me and our families love each other, etc. She has sent me photos of engagement rings in the past, taken me to jewelry stores, called me hubby, etc, essentially hinting that she wants me to propose. With that said, I had been planning to propose...
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{ "description": "checking myself into the ER and letting down my coworkers", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I checked myself into the ER and let down my coworkers?
I work in retail and am scheduled every day until Xmas eve. I am confident that no one will be able to cover my shifts and my store will have to seek outside help from another store in our district, which still may not be enough. If I am hospitalized I could and probably should get fired for leaving during the holiday ...
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{ "description": "telling my friends they're spoiled", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For telling my friends they're spoiled?
Hey there, just needed a possible grilling if I'm in the wrong. So my friends at school (high school) are honestly some of my favorite people, but honestly a lot of times they can be annoying and condescending, and some of them act so spoiled I want to tell them off so badly. Now, I understand that people are in diff...
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{ "description": "pretending Im catholic around my religious family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pretending im catholic around my religious family.
Since i was a child i knew i had no interest in this religion. The concept of it all was weird to me. I knew about all the stories and rituals but it seemed all childish ironically coming from a child. I would always ask "why am i doing this, why does god say these things, why, why, why" i wanted more answer but there ...
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{ "description": "making sure my group members don't get credit for a project they didn't do", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for making sure my group members don’t get credit for a project they didn’t do?
Hi guys, gals, and everyone inbetween. So, I go to college at the same university I teach at (I’m a SpEd teacher now, going to school to get officially licensed to be a Spanish professor). I have a project due tonight at midnight. I wrote 3/4 of it, and did all the research because no one in my group has responded. W...
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{ "description": "telling my friend not to come visit", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend not to come visit?
So... I've been planning on having my friend - lets call him Gary - come up to visit me in the city where I attend my university. He's been asking if he can come up for about a month and I've been telling him I'd love to have him come up. I said we'd play smash bros. and go to D&D club which happens every other Tue...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go on a camping trip with her male friend alone", "pronormative_score": 77, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go on a camping trip with her male friend alone?
My girlfriend Emily and I are both 26 and have been together for 4 years now. Her best friend is a guy named Mark she met in highschool and they hang out all the time which isn't a problem. However yesterday my girlfriend and Mark and a few other friends made plans to go camping out in the middle of nowhere because th...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend's dad he doesn't care about his son", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my best friend’s dad he doesn’t care about his son?
Hi, so me (18M) and my best friend we’ll call K (17M) have been friends since about first grade. We’re now seniors in high school and for the past couple of years we’ve been playing video games with his dad we’ll call P (48M). P has always been a hard-ass but that’s his personality and stuff and I understand it. It’s ...
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{ "description": "cutting off contact with a girl who rejected me/ possibly lead me on", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off contact with a girl who rejected me/ possibly lead me on?
This happened a while ago, and since then I've thought a lot about it and can't figure out for myself if what I did was right or wrong, as I dont know if it was me being mad I got rejected or her really leading me on. I was friends with this girl after she broke up with someone I knew (who I am friends with now, but w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my mom money", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to give my mom money?
(Throwaway acc because my younger sister knows my real acc) So im 18 and on social assistance as well as disability(cant get a job because I have severe anxiety) and get $1000 every month. $250 of that goes to my mom as rent since she cant pay bills without it(she is in huge amounts of debt and struggles to pay bills ...
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{ "description": "not loving my dad", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not loving my dad?
...yeah. I’d like to warn that this post contains details about physical punishment and the resulting affects of that on me. Context: I’m a teen, living with parents and sister. I’m diagnosed with low spectrum autism. I hate to divide autistic people by functionality, but it is worth mentioning for this story that I ...
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{ "description": "wanting to look at a car accident", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to look at a car accident?
I was on my way home when i saw a car accident (no people hurt, just car damaged) besides my bus stop. I really wanted to go over there to look at the damage. Completely out of curiosity, not schadenfreude. AITA for wanting to look?
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{ "description": "asking sister to use nail polish elsewhere", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking sister to use nail polish elsewhere?
She’s using nail polish to decorate her crafts. Her work station is in the same room as my computer, and I really don’t want to breathe the fumes in because they’re literally toxic and just not pleasant to breathe in. I would move, but my computer is a desktop and I would have to lug the entire thing (including the des...
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{ "description": "being a little upset that he won't talk to me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being a little upset that he won't talk to me.
I'm going to start this off by saying that, I already feel like I am partially in the wrong, but I'm not really sure about another part (I'll explain this more in the story). Also it makes me feel really sick to write this because of our age difference, but even though I do like him that way, I really love him as a pe...
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{ "description": "keeping to myself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping to myself?
Okay, Im a 19 year old college student that lives with my mother. My mother has recently broken up with my stepfather after they had a huge fallout and after a huge episode, my mother kicked him out. Regardless, it's been a few days after and now I'm going through this cycle of my mom grieving the relationship and com...
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{ "description": "not extending a specific invitation to two nieces for an annual family event that everyone is invited to", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - For not extending a specific invitation to two nieces for an annual family event that everyone is invited to?
Every year, on the last day of March, we gather as a family to celebrate my father-in-law’s life at a specific restaurant. He passed away many years ago, and that was his favorite place to eat. My mother-in-law foots the bill as part of the celebration and everyone in the family that can attend is always welcome. Somet...
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{ "description": "not helping my classmate in math", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my classmate in math?
This post might be a bit long. Here’s some background: I (15F) am currently taking algebra 2 and am one of 3 people in my class that actually understands or passes anything. A lot of the time, the teacher will go over a lesson and we will have to work in our assigned groups to solve a couple problems based on the ...
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{ "description": "not going to work sooner", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to work sooner?
Hello! I’m not a native speaker, so sorry for eventual mistakes. Also I’m writing this on my phone. A little background - me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year now. When we started dating, he was working very irrlegularly, worked for one company for a month, got fired, worked at a different p...
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{ "description": "thinking my wife doesn't deserve part of my tax return", "pronormative_score": 150, "contranormative_score": 146 }
AITA for thinking my wife doesn’t deserve part of my tax return
I work about 60-65 hours a week M-F, normally getting to work before 4 am. It’s a very physically demanding job and I’ll normally lift and move 18-20,000 lbs per day. My wife doesn’t work. She stays at home taking care of our two year old. Thing is she also doesn’t do much housework, as the house is always a mess unle...
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{ "description": "getting back in touch with my brothers ex girlfriend and trying to be friends again", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting back in touch with my brothers ex girlfriend and trying to be friends again?
My younger brother (22M) and his ex girlfriend (20F) ~ let’s call her Hannah ~ dated on and off for 2+ years. During their time together, we became relatively close. I’ve never bothered trying to become friends with previous girlfriends before because they never got to the point of being *serious* with each other, bu...
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{ "description": "leaving a note on my neighbor's car asking them to park better", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I leave a note on my neighbor's car asking them to park better?
I live in a small apartment complex with assigned parking spaces in a carport in the alley behind our building. The alley is narrow, and I struggle to back in to my spot (I have an end spot with the carport wall on one side and a couple of metal columns on the other, and because there's a Dumpster in the alley, I can o...
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{ "description": "hiring a sex worker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 15 }
WIBTA if I hired a sex worker
Let me start out by saying that I love my girlfriend deeply, I’m very attracted to her and I don’t want to hurt her. We’ve been together five years and she’s literally my best friend. We live together in a smallish house and her family are a very big part of our daily lives. For example her parents and siblings (wit...
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{ "description": "kicking a player from my D&D campaign for lying to me, as the dm", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking a player from my D&D campaign for lying to me, as the DM?
So small background, I'm a fairly new DM & I run a small homebrew D&D campaign online. It's run on a discord server with a fair few people on it, one of which is the target of this story. I was quite new at the time, and very nervous. It was the 10th session of the campaign, and in the last session, we...
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{ "description": "telling my gf not to text my dad through my phone", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my gf not to text my dad through my phone
My girlfriend of ten months doesn't have the greatest liking to my dad. My dad hasn't told me about some stuff he's doing in his life recently (getting remarried, etc). Today my girlfriend grabbed my phone and started typing all this stuff to him that I rely didn't want to say to him because to be honest, I don't care ...
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{ "description": "quitting my job and leaving my boss to work by himself", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for quitting my job and leaving my boss to work by himself?
So a little bit of backstory: I'm young (19 M), working my first full time job as a bricklaying apprentice coming straight out of high-school after I graduated. I'm about a year into the apprenticeship, and I'm beginning to not enjoy it. I work with two other people, my boss (53 M) and a 4th year apprentice (23 M). Th...
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{ "description": "asking my roommates girlfriend and child to move out", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my roommates girlfriend and child to move out?
This all happened months ago while I was in graduate school. I was living with a buddy (let’s call him John) of mine in a 3-bedroom apartment and we had a spare room. A fellow graduate student needed a place to stay and asked me if I knew anywhere for him to stay and I extended the offer that I had an extra room if he ...
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{ "description": "taking a nap instead", "pronormative_score": 59, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for taking a nap instead?
So, recently my boss has been getting pissy recently about some employees taking "extended lunch breaks" as well as leaving work up to an hour early. Our lunch break is already pretty long, an hour and a half, and we and our work hours are 8 hours in total including the break. So, I totally understand where he is comin...
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{ "description": "taking a 29yo's virginity and then breaking up with him", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking a 29yo's virginity and then breaking up with him?
This happened ~1.5 yrs ago. I had known this guy for years. He was my older brothers best friend since middle school, a long time family friend. The guy, Tom, was 29 at the time. I had just turned 20. My brother and wife(Alan/MegaBitch) came to town to visit our mom. Tom came to hangout as he did whenever Alan came to...
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AITA. Course tutor is lying again to get me off the course due to a personal vendetta and now I want her job.
AITA. Okay so abit of backstory I (18m) have anxiety and depression diagnosed since I was 14 years old and now I am on my second year of my IT course and the first year is handled by a separate tutor than the last two years, so J is the first year head of course and R is the second/third year head. Last year we had R ...
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{ "description": "being pretty happy about the dead bum that got found behind where I work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA I'm pretty happy about the dead bum that got found behind where I work
The guy has been a homeless drug addict for years and has been a pain in the ass. Breaking Windows to steal car batteries, throwing trash all over the parking lot, breaking more car windows... this guy broke a fuck ton of windows. Customers aren't to happy when they drop a car off to get worked on and some drug addict ...
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