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AITA or is my boyfriend overly conservative about clothing/nudity?
My boyfriend (42M) and I (27F) have been dating for 3 years. Wonderful relationship, no problems except for what I'm about to describe, love of my life as far as I'm concerned. BF is sensitive about my cleavage/underwear accidentally showing in public. He gets visibly upset and angry if something slips/shows (no abuse...
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{ "description": "not being around my recovering addict friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I can't be around my recovering addict friend
Needed to vent because I *feel* like the asshole, but I can't do it, i just can't. Also, sorry for the length. TLDR: My friend goes through phases where he's around constantly and is the biggest part of my life, followed by periods where he nearly overdoses on drugs and isolates himself. This pattern is breaking my h...
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{ "description": "not letting a uniformed service member sit in my assigned seat on a plane", "pronormative_score": 332, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting a uniformed service member sit in my assigned seat on a plane?
My wife and I were taking an early morning flight out for a mini vacation. As we were about to sit at our assigned seats, we saw a service member in uniform sitting in my wife’s window seat (I had the middle). Since it was the first flight out, we wanted to get a little sleep, but my wife really can’t sleep on a plan...
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{ "description": "thinking this girl is flirting with my boyfriend in front of me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking this girl is flirting with my boyfriend in front of me?
Friday night I (22f) am going out with my boyfriend (25f) and his friends (23-25) 2 “couples” join us and some single guys. So night is going well and we come back home to play a game. This girl who is “dating” my boyfriends best friend is very buddy buddy with my boyfriend (this is my first time meeting her and heari...
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AITA [M22] in this situation with my (possibly ex) friend [M22] and his girlfriend [M20]
Thomas and I met about a couple years ago in college. We hit it off great, shared a bunch of interests, just got along really well. He used to bring his girlfriend Erin around a lot and her and I started becoming friendly too and he had no problem with that. A few weeks into knowing her, Erin told me that she had chea...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my birthday present back", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to give my birthday present back?
For my birthday, my brother bought me tickets to see Britney Spears in Las Vegas, and paid for my portion of a hotel room (I was going with 3 friends). Due to family problems, Britney canceled all of her Vegas shows. Since the show was canceled, my friends and I decided to cancel our trip. I get that Vegas is fun any...
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{ "description": "calling psychological services on my roommate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling psychological services on my roommate?
​ There's a lot here, we'll skip the intro and start with me finding out that my college roommate, D, had cheated on his longterm girlfriend, L, for over a year. I eventually reached a breaking point and told L everything I knew. ​ L calls D shortly after, and D asks me to leave the room for so...
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{ "description": "not inviting a friend of a friend to a party", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I didnt invite a friend of a friend to a party
So me and my group of friends are all fairly avid stoners and I'm having a party for 4.20 this year I'm inviting a few people round, about 6 or so. My best friend currently is very good friends with a person I haven't respected or liked for a long time, let's call this person jack and my best friend joseph. I don't l...
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{ "description": "expecting my bf to spend the night with me", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my bf [20m] to spend the night with me?
Long story short, it’s my dads birthday today and he unfortunately passed away a few years back. He was someone I was super close with and my closest family member so it really hurt when he passed. I paid for me and my bf to have takeaway and said we should do something together like watch a film, play our Nintendo Swi...
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{ "description": "thinking my wife should workout or am I policing her activities", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for thinking my wife should workout or am I policing her activities?
I’ve been married for 2 years. My wife doesn’t do anything. I mean she doesn’t do shit. She sits down at work all day. She sits down in front of her iPad all evening. On the weekends she Netflix’s or iPads from Friday night to Monday morning. She doesn’t want to go to sport events, museums, parks, travel, camping and...
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{ "description": "asking my fiance where her shoe broke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my fiance where her shoe broke?
My fiance has several pairs of identical wedges that she has to regularly repair with shoe glue. I've kind of given her a little bit of hard time about before, and tried to suggest a different shoe model but have since dropped it since she really likes them. Today she told me planned to throw away a pair and after loo...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that my other friend was talking about her behind her back", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my friend that my other friend was talking about her behind her back?
One of my friends that I have in class with me, we’ll call her M, was talking about her dungeons and dragon’s campaign she was playing with a few other friends from our school. M then starts to complain about how my other friend (L) is bad at the game and how L interrupts the dungeon master all the time. Later on I s...
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{ "description": "getting pissed off by a couple of parents lack of attentiveness", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting pissed off by a couple of parents lack of attentiveness
Let me just say that in NO WAY do I blame the child in this situation. I exclusively blame the parents for not paying attention to their child. At the Thanksgiving party my family had yesterday, their was a couple of our relatives who, like always, brought their child who is mentally challenged ( I'm not sure exactl...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend after he went out with some friends", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend after he went out with some friends?
Hear me out. My boyfriend (25M) and I (23F) are currently in a long-distance relationship. We’ve been together for four years, but for the past year I had to move to another state to finish my final year of college while he works at his full-time job. It’s been alright so far as I see him every few months, but as wi...
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{ "description": "telling best friend she shouldn't have more kids", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling best friend she shouldn’t have more kids
TLDR at bottom This happened about 4 or 5 years ago but browsing through this sub I was reminded of it. This is my first post so I apologize if it’s formatted or written out bad. I hadn’t seen a couple best friends for a couple years as I had moved across the country but I moved back. We were all early 20s female. ...
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{ "description": "treating my drug addicted friend ba", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for treating my drug addicted friend ba?
One of my long time friends bill (not his real name) all the sudden begins smoking pot and drinking, which is fine, IMO that stuff is harmless in the long term. But as time goes on, weed turns in to opioids, LSD, adderall, lean, all of this stuff. Now you may ask where is his parents through all this? They don’t care. ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that tying someone is not ok", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend that tying someone is not ok
A friend of mine showed me pictures of her 4 yo nephew tied up and he had duct tape around his mouth too, we got into an argument because I say it's not ok to do something like this to a kid and she says it's ok because they are his family and did it as a joke. Who is the asshole Reddit??-
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{ "description": "trying to educate a antivaxxer and a potential flat earther", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to educate a antivaxxer and a potential flat earther?
So this starts with a random question from me: "Do you believe in Vaccines?" Her:no Me:No?! Her:no ....(some irrelevant stuff) Me: Do you realise that we will have another Black Plague outbreak because of you? Her: Yeah but Vaccines kill people! Me: (facepalms internally) Why would they kill people?? Her: Because docto...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to cut the umbilical already and stop letting his parents control every aspect of his life", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend to cut the umbilical already and stop letting his parents control every aspect of his life?
One of my best friends (friends for 18 years) still has to ask his mom if it’s okay to come chill at my house. He has to have dinner with his parents every single night before he can go hang out. His parents get angry with him if he forgets to text them that he made it to his destination okay, even if it’s a 5 minute d...
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{ "description": "taking my boyfriend home when he was way too drunk", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my boyfriend home when he was way too drunk?
Hey guys. First time posting here. I’m also on mobile so sorry for any formatting errors. I got home about an hour ago from a club in my city. It was my friend’s 19th birthday (the legal age in my country) and a bunch of friends and myself were all going to go out to a club to celebrate. My boyfriend basically lives...
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{ "description": "not saying \"I love you\" back", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying “I love you” back?
So first things first I’ve been dating my amazing boyfriend since November of last year but we didn’t make it official up until January of this year. We had a rocky start and I even posted in r/relationships about it, lol. I’m glad to say that we’ve been going strong ever since! Now, my friends found my previous...
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{ "description": "continuing to date my boyfriend even though I'm asexual", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for continuing to date my boyfriend even though I’m asexual?
My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We get along great, support each other, and love each other. Our relationship is perfect in every aspect but sexual. I did not know I was asexual when we started dating, I just thought I was a late bloomer. My boyfriend was patiently waiting for me to make the fir...
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{ "description": "not wanting to abort my sick baby", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for not wanting to abort my sick baby?
Hi, this is throwaway account. My husband (35) and I (33f) have been married for about 3 years, we've been together 6 years total and we have always wanted kids. My husband is half Italian and he has a chronic anemia that is frequent within his ethnic group; it's called Thalassemia minor and it is the mild type, he so...
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{ "description": "thinking my best friend is gay", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my best friend is gay?
We've been friends since we were seven. He's always been extremely flamboyant and feminine. I didn't start thinking he was gay until we got to middle school. He really acts very gay, not even just in personality. I remember in 8th grade there was an incident where he kissed a substitute teacher who was male. So, I've g...
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{ "description": "bringing up something a friend said that bothered me even after they admitted it was wrong", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for bringing up something a friend said that bothered me even after they admitted it was wrong?
So today one of my friends (25m) was doing a triathalon and it was his first one. My boyfriend and I went to the race to support him at the finish line. Upon us walking in, I said in half-jest to my boyfriend that our friend would be pissed he was coming in behind women participants. I said this cause our friend can ...
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{ "description": "my partner cheating on their girlfriend with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for my partner cheating on their girlfriend with me?
Posting on a throwaway so I don't get called an SJW lol. This happened a couple years ago, wondering about it now. So, I was in a long-distance open relationship with who we'll call Taylor (they're non-binary so going with a gender neutral name). It didn't work out and honestly I don't really remember why, we just stop...
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{ "description": "taking out a bank loan instead of borrowing money from my inlaws", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking out a bank loan instead of borrowing money from my inlaws?
My wife and I are a married couple in our 30s with two young children. I am the sole income earner and although I make a good living (approximately 150k annually) overspending and some unexpected expenses have put us in a bit of a tight spot. We need to come up with some money that we don't have in a relatively short p...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend my birthday with my girlfriend this year", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to spend my birthday with my girlfriend this year?
My girlfriend brought up a trip she was planning with her club (college club) to go down to another city 6 hours away to teach kids in school for the weekend. This trip happened to land on the day of my birthday. I felt really sad about not being able to spend my birthday with her because we're in a long distance relat...
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{ "description": "walking out of a family Christmas party because my mother's new abusive husband (who I was told would not be present) showed up", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I walk out of a family Christmas party because my mother's new abusive husband (who I was told would not be present) showed up?
Some brief backstory for context: my mom divorced her ex-husband for being emotionally abusive. She remarried this guy, who turned out to be this *super* paranoid and psychologically abusive / controlling conspiracy theorist who has worked very hard to cut her off from our entire family over the last few years. My mom ...
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{ "description": "reporting a classmate for cheating", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for reporting a classmate for cheating?
Hi, I'm in a snapchat precalculus group chat with some classmates, and every now and then this same person sends pictures of the test/quizzes. So, I really like this teacher and I don't like how he's being undermined like this, so would I be the asshole if I reported the cheater?
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{ "description": "not wanting to date a girl who stayed with someone constantly cheating on her and living off of her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to date a girl who stayed with someone constantly cheating on her and living off of her?
I (26m) met a cool girl (24f) and things were going great. So I have a history of attracting damaged women. One of my exes was a side chick for a year and the other stayed with a guy for two years who she constantly caught cheating, both ended horribly and I was miserable. I honestly am trying to avoid girls who have t...
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AITA? Didn’t receive what I ordered even after emails, and I can’t help but feel guilty for making them ‘re’send it
I need some closure on this: I ordered an item in July from a company that says it usually takes 6-8 weeks to complete. In December (about the 20th) I got the email that it had been completed but never received a message about the shipping of it, so I emailed their support to ask when it would ship. They said that the...
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{ "description": "not having any photos of me for my parents to make into a digital scrapbook", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
aita for not having any photos of me for my parents to make into a digital scrapbook.
So from the age of about 5 I've never liked my photo being taken, I would throw tantrums and would threaten people if they tried to take a photo of me. one example was when 7 year old me locked myself in the middle of winter outside on the deck because dad wanted a family photo, I stayed there for 20 minutes telling d...
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{ "description": "telling a friend their boyfriend is smoking again", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For telling a friend their boyfriend is smoking again
As the title says I recently told a friend that their BF, whom I'm also good friends with, picked up the habit again. I thought it was a good idea at the time to tell my friend since the BF promised he'd never do it again. Smoking was something my friend was not ok with but I think I should've just kept my mouth shut. ...
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{ "description": "reporting a steward for pressuring me to swap seats on an airplane", "pronormative_score": 123, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for reporting a steward for pressuring me to swap seats on an airplane?
Shortly after boarding for a 2 1/2 hour flight home, I was approached by a steward who asked me if would mind swapping seats with another passenger. I asked where his seat was, and he told me that it was about 8 rows back and a middle seat. I told him that I'd prefer not to, since I was in an aisle seat and had paid ...
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{ "description": "snapping at a classmate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snapping at a classmate?
I started at a new school at the beginning of this school year and it has mostly been nice. But something happened and I have felt so bad about it ever since... So in math class we were split up in pairs (or buddies as they said) and all was well... for half a lesson. The guy I was put with had no drive to study for ...
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{ "description": "lying to my mum about applying for jobs", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to my mum about applying for jobs?
Some background info. I have recently graduated from university and was lucky enough to get a graduate job, pretty decent wage and an ideal location. I went to loads of job interviews before I got it, completely fed up with them so my plan is to stay at this job for a few years, gain some experience and maybe move on...
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OTHER
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AITA for: Ghosting her after lying as to why she missed the date.
This happened about a year ago. I went to my friends (L) beach birthday party and met her friend we'll call her "R". Now R and I hit it off immediately and spent most of the time at the party chatting w/ each other. By the end of the party we (whole group) agreed to meet at L's house (so I didn't ask for her number ...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend after he called my housemate because he (mistakenly) believed I was very depressed", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for ignoring my friend after he called my housemate because he (mistakenly) believed I was very depressed?
**TLDR: I made a bad joke over text that sounded like I was depressed and about to do something serious. I tried to clear it up. My best friend thought I had a plan in place anyways and called my housemate. I haven't spoken to him since, and now I don't know if I can be friends with him.** About 2 weeks ago, I was tex...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting to be pregnant anymore", "pronormative_score": 137, "contranormative_score": 65 }
AITA for not wanting to be pregnant anymore?
Nothing is wrong with the baby. The baby is perfectly healthy. But I am not. I am 19 weeks into this pregnancy and have spent 80% of my day EVERY DAY (since a few days after I found out) vomiting my guts out. We have spent thousands of dollars in emergency room fees because I haven't been able to keep food or water dow...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "rescinding financial help to my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I rescinded financial help to my Dad?
My dad is an honest, hardworking guy, but has always been financially unstable, running his own business with employees. I'm 27 (only child) and he has never asked me for help until now. Last week he called me very upset and told me that he only had $300 in his account and needed help to pay bills. (He also has no CC ...
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NOBODY
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "asking out my sisters friend out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA (16M) for asking out my sisters(16F) friend out.
Okay frist I'm one third of triplets we the 3 of us have the same friend group in school we sit at the same lunch table at school we talk to the same people at school and we basically share our friends well thier is this one girl in our friend group that I have had a crush on since freshmen year ... so last year. Altho...
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "farting in front of people on on the train", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For farting in front of people on on the train.
I was on the train when I suddenly needed to let one rip and the people around me gave me nasty looks. I mean we all do it, it’s a bodily function. AITA?
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "upsetting my friend after calling her out for her hypocrisy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for upsetting my friend after calling her out for her hypocrisy?
So this is my first time posting on this sub-reddit, or any sub-reddit in general, so sorry if this hasn't been done correctly. If this doesn't belong on this sub-reddit please tell me and I'll take it down. I also have a feeling that this may come off as one-sided as I'm not the best at being neutral but I'll try my b...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "getting a bully expelled because we had a fight", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a bully expelled because we had a fight.
Full warning I am on mobile and from the UK so please don't expect to much as I am also a first time poster. So background info I still go to highschool, but the one I go to is a bit rowdy because they except everyone who applies. The bully (we'll call him DB) has only one strike left before being expelled and hates ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 19, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 19, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not wanting to leave the room when I fart", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 17 }
aita for not wanting to leave the room when I fart?
i’ve had stomach issues for YEARS. when I fart, it smells BAD. even I can admit it’s putrid. it smells like nair. but farting helps my stomach feel better so I don’t want to hold it in. my family is sick of me farting and stinking out rooms. they say the smell makes them gag. so they think I should get up and go to the...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 17 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "towing people from my paid parking spot", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for towing people from my paid parking spot?
At my old apartment complex I used to pay $30 a month for a good spot in the parking lot. The actual sign said “paid parking [my name] violators will be towed”. I remember coming home from a long shift at work and the parking lot was full and someone was parked in my spot. I was pretty pissed and didn’t want to risk pa...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 23, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "suggesting that my grandfather should know that he has alzheimer and parkinson, and that euthanasia is an option if he so wants it", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suggesting that my grandfather should know that he has alzheimer and parkinson, and that euthanasia is an option if he so wants it?
Recently my family found out that my grandfather has a combination of alzheimers and parkinson in a relatively advanced state. The doctor says that he might be lucid for a year if he's lucky and that he will start loosing memory, free movement, speech and may even forget how to eat or go to the bathroom. My grandfather...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "asking my dad to stop talking to my ex husband or cutting him (my Dad) out of my life", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I asked my Dad to stop talking to my ex husband or I will cut him (my Dad) out of my life?
My Dad and I have never really been the closest, but I absolutely do love him and he is my father and I cannot imagine a life with him not in it. That being said, he talks to my ex husband more than he talks to me. My ex husband and I had a very tumultuous marriage which resulted in a nasty divorce. We still have to ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "interfering with my friend's pedophilic type relastionship", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for interfering with my friend's pedophilic type relastionship?
I have a 17yr old friend, let's call him James, who's dating a 12 year old girl named Ally. (Not real name) Whenever I bring up her age, he uses the usual excuse. "Our love is true, you're just jealous" And when I tell him I have no reason to be jealous, he ignores me. One day, he told me how age is just a number, and ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 60, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "wanting a divorce", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a divorce ?
We've been together for almost 10 years. Both in mid 30's. We got engaged and married right after college so we were both young, around 24. I was the main provider for 9 of these last 10 years for various reasons ( she wanted to get another Bachelor Degree, another Master, extended Maternity for almost 3 years ) and ...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "snapping at my daughter grandmother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For snapping at my daughter grandmother?
So backstory. The grandmother has guardianship of my daughter. Her mother abandoned her when she was 5 and she never put me on the birth certificate so she could scam the system and get WIC. At age 7 she showed back up in her life. Now around 3 or 4 years ago the mother tried to get custody back. The grandmother...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
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AITA at work for falling into depression
Since I had this afair with this girl from work, that i had a crush on for half year and fall mad in love and it went on like a month. I have been trying everything to keep her because i thought she is a good and nice person. Only to find out that she had other afairs and talk bad about me had me totally destroyed. So...
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "asking my maid of honor to wear a certain dress to cover up her tattoos for my wedding", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for asking my maid of honor to wear a certain dress to cover up her tattoos for my wedding?
I asked my maid of honor to wear a specific kind of dress to cover up her tattoos for my wedding and she kind of freaked out and called some shallow and made me feel really bad for it. I have nothing against tattoos or her tattoos specifically at all I just feel like they draw a lot of attention in pictures or just in ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 11 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my dad I hate him", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my dad I hate him
So it all started when I was playing a game with my friends and my dad walks into my room drunk.He sits down and says “get off I’m going to play on your red dead account and kill your horse and get a massive bounty” and I said “no play on your own account and sure you can” We argued like this and then he saw the game ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "saying I didn't want my son to have autism", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for saying I didn't want my son to have autism?
I was chatting to my mate at work yesterday about autism and how he was diagnosed in his mid-twenties with it, as I was surprised he was on the spectrum as he seems completely normal. As we was chatting I mentioned that when my son was about 1.5 years old I was worried that he might have had autism. My mate suddenly go...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 36, "WRONG": 13 }
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{ "description": "not wanting people to use my property without permission", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting people to use my property without permission?
I'm living in my grandfather's old house which has a large pond. I'm guessing he used to allow people to come fish on this property, but he died years ago and I don't know who any of these people are, and no one has so much as knocked on the door to ask permission to fish or even introduced themselves to me. Now that t...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 14, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 11, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 25, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "deciding not to have dinner with my parents anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deciding not to have dinner with my parents anymore?
Right now I'm bawling my eyes out so I'm sorry if this is all over the place. It's been a weird day. ​ My family is Jewish. My parents and I live close to each other. Occasionally we will have dinner at their place. It's never at my place because I'm "too messy" and I don't want to hear it, and also my...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "feeling no sympathy and blocking an old friend who tried to kill herself? parents upset at me", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling no sympathy and blocking an old friend who tried to kill herself? Parents upset at me.
I am 19 and the girl in question is 21. We have known each other since I was 8 years old, and she used to be my best friend. I know she hasn’t had the best life and I am sympathetic on that part. Her parents were dead beat drug addicts, however her and her two sisters were adopted by their grandparents pretty early o...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 36, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "telling a guy to go back to where he came from", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a guy to go back to where he came from?
So I live in Arkansas and I work for a large retail company. I was running self checkout when a man came to one of the u-scans. He starts to ring up his groceries and than calls me over. I ask him what the issue is and he explains that he just filled out for our store loyalty card and his phone number isn't pulling up ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "leaving my headlights turned on when pulling into an apartment parking lot", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my headlights turned on when pulling into an apartment parking lot
AITA for refusing to turn off the headlights before pulling into an apartment parking lot at night? My sister always stops to turn off her headlights before pulling into a parking spot. I think it's unnecessary. I've lived on ground floor units and headlights weren't a big deal as I had blinds. If people didn't want ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 8, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "asking my wife to ask my mother in law to apologize to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for asking my wife to ask my mother in law to apologize to me
Am I the asshole for asking my mother in law to apologize to me for barging in our bedroom middle of the night and pushing me off to bed during our little argument with my wife? ​ Little back story: My wife got cold Thursday night and she did not go to work on Friday to relax at home. She had nail appointm...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 10 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "laughing about my mom's hit and run", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for laughing about my mom's hit and run?
My mom got into a hit and run last night. She was fine, and there was very minor damage to her car. However, she still wanted to file a claim and wanted my help looking at her dashcam footage (she’s not very good with technology). So, we look at the footage and with the looping mechanism of the dash cam, it seemed tha...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "leaving a love confession unanswered", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving a love confession unanswered?
Here goes nothing. I’m a 25f working a retail job where there’s a LOT of people employed. SO many people that I feel I’m meeting new people everyday and also forgetting someone exists for months. I’m the kind of friendly that will chat and laugh with anyone, honestly. From stage right enters Paul. I’ve known Paul s...
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 12, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 16, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "telling my brother to mind his own business", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my (29/M) brother (32/M) to mind his own business?
So, to preface this let me just say that me and my brother have always been very close and he's always looked out for me which I greatly appreciate, but we just had a big fight due to my girlfriend (29/F) Nicole. I was telling my brother that nicole and I recently started doing the whole open relationship thing, and I ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 6, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 4, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 10 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "cancelling plans with my friends on a moments notice", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling plans with my friends on a moments notice?
Apologies in advance for formatting I'm on mobile This weekend one of my buddies who moved out of state came to visit, he and I had planned with the rest of our friends to go and eat lunch then play a session of DnD. (something we all enjoy) Well on Saturday I went to the restaurant a little early because we would be ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "being upset my mum won't babysit if I want to do something for me and have fun", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being upset my mum won’t babysit if I want to do something for me and have fun
I bought quite expensive tickets to a festival after my mum confirmed she would watch my son for 24 hours. She now says she has plans to see friends and can’t do it. I have managed to sell my ticket but I’m gutted, I haven’t danced since I got pregnant nearly four years ago & I’d already bought an outfit etc... I’v...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 10 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "calling out people's white lies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for calling out people’s white lies?
I notice that some people often tell lies, to make themselves look superior or to absolve themselves of blame. WIBTA if I called them out on their lies? Examples: * My neighbour claimed that their house cost $200K more than it actually did. This information is so easy to find on the internet and we did our research w...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to tell me what's up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my gf to tell me what's up?
For clarification, my gf and I are both highschool age. For a couple weeks now, she's been a little distant, but nothing really major. Recently (about a week ago), she disclosed the existence of some "issues" to me, and she asked me to not do some things because of those issues. Things like not calling myself her dadd...
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{ "description": "being angry with a coworker for hooking up with someone we work with, after she broke things off with me because she doesn't want to be with coworkers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being angry with a coworker for hooking up with someone we work with, after she broke things off with me because she doesn’t want to be with coworkers?
I had a mild hook up with a girl I work with a year ago. Afterwards I suggested trying to start a relationship, but she turned it down saying the reason is she doesn’t want to be with someone she works with. Life went on, we’re pretty good friends, but I still have a slight romantic interest. Fast forward to now, we ...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 4 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "faking an australian Accent with my good friend for 2 years", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA For Faking An Australian Accent With My Good Friend For 2 Years?
So I visited my homie that I knew forever at his college and he introduced me to his roommate. We thought it'd be funny if I pretended to be from Australia the whole weekend I was there, since I have a good accent, and we'd be hanging out with his roommate that weekend as well. Everything was good and we had a good tim...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 15, "WRONG": 16 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "assuming I'd be able to still get free art from one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for assuming I'd be able to still get free art from one of my friends (Honestly I think I am the asshole)
So, I have this friend, let's call them D. D and I have been friends for 2 years, and that mostly is because we're into the same fandoms and stuff. Once a week, they let me request a sketch for them to draw of something or someone. All was well. Until the commissions attacked. One day, the excitedly told me that s...
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AUTHOR
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AITA? Woman said “We couldn’t do something, and I responded with “We? I can do it..” and jumped up and did it.
I volunteer for a community theater group. I painted a bunch of wooden boxes for the kids to sit on and use as props. We keep them in the closet. They are stacked up, and pretty heavy, but nothing I can’t handle. I painted them and loaded them into the closet. Rehearsal starts and the boxes aren’t out. I ask the othe...
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{ "description": "not taking my girlfriend's side", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my girlfriend's side?
Ok, a bit of a backstory here. I (25M) have a female friend that I've known since highschool. In my opinion, we keep really appropriate boundaries and mainly just chitchat about music, memes, etc. I did my best to make my relationship with said female friend to my girlfriend (27F) very transparent. Showed her conversat...
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{ "description": "regarding wedding invitations", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA regarding wedding invitations
Would it be rude to extend an invitation to people who I originally had to cut from the list? I invited about 155 people to my wedding (in 50 days). A good number of people have declined.
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{ "description": "not gating my cat upstairs since my allergic roommate moved in", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for not gating my cat upstairs since my allergic roommate moved in?
I've rented a 5-bedroom, 2-story house with 4 roommates since July 2018. I'm the only person on the lease and have paid for the deposit ($500 of which is a non-refundable pet deposit), in full personally. My roommates venmo rent to me each month which I then send to our landlord. Since we moved in, my cat has been a ro...
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AITA am I being petty or am I in the right?
So I recently got hired at a retirement home that also has an assisted living as a separate building. I am a EMT/SECURITY here. So let me list off some of the duties here. I get here and pass out "flyers." Some nights we dont have them and some we do. And they go on the retirees appt door. Just as info for certain thin...
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{ "description": "forcing my cousin to stop vaping", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for forcing my cousin to stop vaping?
He lives with us after being kicked out from his house after he hurt his back in the army and had to go home. He doesn't pay rent but he has a job, and frequently works overtime, up to 9 or 10 hours. From what I have seen online he has a TAPHOO 80W, and he can not conceal it in his hands because it's about the size of ...
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{ "description": "expecting my old friend to hang out with me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting my old friend to hang out with me?
Hey guys, I made an alt to ask this question because said friends know about my real account. I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years. We are best friends and very very close. I ended up leaving the college we met at to study at home and I live about 7 hours away depending on the drive. I announced this wee...
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{ "description": "not wanting to buy my GF an IPhone higher than the IPhone 6 for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to buy my GF an IPhone higher than the IPhone 6 for Christmas?
I feel like an absolute retard because this is the lamest post I've ever made in my life, but my girlfriend has been hinting to me that she wants a new phone for her very first Christmas (her Iphone 5 is 6 years old and fucked). Just to preface, she's by no means gold digger, we always pay for one and other when we go...
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{ "description": "not getting my wife's approval over a social media post", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AiTA for not getting my wife's approval over a social media post?
So some context I am a dentist and I'm trying to me more active on social media and so I once a week ask a question. This week was "Why shouldn't we kiss new born babies on the lips?" Side note wife is 8 month pregnant and doesn't realise how hormonal she is Reason is lower immunity and spread of viruses etc... Issu...
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{ "description": "emailing my teacher about her actions", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I emailed my teacher about her actions
This week in school we got to chose classes for junior year. I signed up for a few AP classes because I am already in accel classes and these would be the next step in the line of the curriculum. I also ended up not signing up for drama 3, and instead, chose to have a free period to study because of my AP classes. So c...
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{ "description": "not watching my friend's YouTube videos", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not watching my friend's YouTube videos?
So recently my friend has been really wanting me to watch his videos but I don't want to because everything he uploads either isn't interesting to me or I've already seen the game he's playing. I asked him what he's doing today and he said "Watching my videos with (other friend) because you know.... He actually watches...
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{ "description": "blowing off my girlfriend and her parents for lunch", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for blowing off my girlfriend and her parents for lunch?
My girlfriend has a tendency to take her emotions out on me when she has stressors outside of our relationship. It’s something that has bothered me for a long time, and we’ve had many discussions and a few fights about it. Recently she’s been extremely stressed again about returning back to school, and today is the day...
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{ "description": "not letting it go", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting it go?
After years of dealing with depression and self-hatred, which I still have issues with, I've come to a point in my life where I find making friends to be difficult and therefore, pointless. I do have a few friends, and one of them is where this question stems from. Now, hes friends with this girl that I...Utterly hat...
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{ "description": "not caring about family heirlooms", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring about family heirlooms?
I'm not very sentimental at all. The other day my mother called wanting to give me some quilts that her grandmother made, I told her that I don't want them, and she got really upset. I don't think it's a big deal, they mean nothing to me, I would end up just giving them away.
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{ "description": "deleting my Younger Sister's YouTube Account after years of annoyance", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For Deleting my Younger Sister's YouTube Account after years of Annoyance?
So some background: My relationship with my younger Sister is thin, she is so fucking annoying and petty, she harasses me (You're Fat, You're an Idiot etc). This had happen for Quite some time. She even told my Father (Divorced) that I Hit her, which is fucking wrong, who does that but, Also Blames things my Older Brot...
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{ "description": "calling a nine-year old a brat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for calling a nine-year old a brat
Hi guys, first time post on here. Stepdad: Chris Step-granddaughter: Therese Younger Brother: Seth This just happened today. I am a 18-year old college student and I am at my house for Spring Break and I was told by Chris that I'd have to do the dishes because I didn't cook as Seth did. I was fine with this fact as t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my sister over a paper", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For getting mad at my sister over a paper?
14M (about to be 15) To get it i will tell you something about my school On my school if you don’t do a homework you get an extra opportunity to do it (note that the homework would have a value less than 60) if you don’t do it either you get on detention until you do it correctly, this all happens on weekends The teac...
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{ "description": "not storing our dog's toothbrush with ours", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not storing our dog’s toothbrush with ours?
After a visit to the vet my wife was instructed to brush our dog’s teeth to prevent plaque buildup. This seemed a little extreme to me, but I wasn’t going to interfere. That evening I went to go brush my teeth only to find a third toothbrush in our holder... our dogs! This was too much for me. Dog’s have different ba...
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{ "description": "telling someone I cut myself again", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling someone I cut myself again?
AITA for telling someone I cut myself again? Me and a friend got into an argument, as a joke, about whether or not i am a terrible person. As i said, this was a joke. She asked me why I thought that I was a terrible person, and so I said that I cut myself again. (Self harm does not make you a terrible person. This was ...
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{ "description": "feeding my (ex-boyfriend) carrot", "pronormative_score": 362, "contranormative_score": 111 }
AITA for feeding my (ex-boyfriend) carrot
We have broken up now. But my ex boyfriend(22) was the pickiest eater. And I mean absolutely refused to eat certain foods. For example , he loves pesto, but he does not know what it’s made out of, because it’s green and he won’t like it after he knows what it’s made out of (basil). He has no allergies and he is diabe...
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{ "description": "getting fed up with my wife's insecurities", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting fed up with my wife's insecurities?
So my wife and I are both gym nuts, we also live 650 miles away currently (she's in school I'm in the military) so working out and fitness is a huge connection for us. Anyway I have experianced much better gains than her because I'm a dude, have become educated with my workouts, and have a strict meal plan. She ha...
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{ "description": "suggesting my wife we put off big plans( having a baby and buying a home ) till we are financially stable", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for suggesting my wife we put off big plans( having a baby and buying a home ) till we are financially stable
Me (32m) and wife (31m) got married about 8 months back. We have good enough savings if compared to our country's standards. Past two months my wife has been pestering me to buy a house and have a baby. I wasn't okay with both but thought let me at least look at some homes to get an idea. As I started looking at apar...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a woman who had a bf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for hooking up with a woman who had a bf?
Before the obvious answer, this has been a big debate among my friends since it happened. This happened over 10 years ago while I was in college. At a party a woman and I were talking and this is where detail is very important before passing judgment. SHE was flirting with me after about an hour of just talking. And by...
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{ "description": "being upset about my boyfriend spending money on toys when he's thousands of dollars in debt", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset about my boyfriend spending money on toys when he's thousands of dollars in debt?
I'm sorry this is long. I'm on mobile and it doesn't tell me how many characters I've used.>!!< He has over $15,000 in credit card debt. I moved in with him so I could help pay bills and he'd have some extra money to help pay off his debt. I gave up a nice, affordable duplex that accepts pets, which is very hard ...
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{ "description": "trying to play with my Legos with the lights on", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For trying to play with my Legos with the lights on?
My sister is constantly harassing me, my little sister. She might be watching videos on the Computer with the lights off, I come in, not knowing she is in there, and turn the lights on to play with my LEGOs. She then gets super pissed and accuses me of trying to kick her out. I tell her that I just wanted to play with ...
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AITA: Don't care if my kid gets into a less-desirable dorm for freshman year at college
17 yo son is awaiting the acceptance letter from his preferred university, but the letter has not yet arrived. The first day of dorm registration starts day after tomorrow. He expresses anxiety that because the university acceptance letter has not been delivered, he cannot be one of the first registrants for preferred ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that her boyfriend is using polyamory as an excuse to talk to more than one girl", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that her boyfriend is using polyamory as an excuse to talk to more than one girl?
Okay so my friend (17F) has been talking to this guy (idk how old, around the same age). They’ve been subtly flirting as friends for about two months now. Recently it’s escalated and became obvious that they’ve liked each other for a while. They’ve been flirting more and it’s on a sexual side now. One thing he said w...
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{ "description": "journaling about the unlikely continuation of my relationship and how I felt about another girl", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for journaling about the unlikely continuation of my relationship and how I felt about another girl?
So this happened about a year ago, but I'm still not sure who is in the wrong. For reference, I had been with my then girlfriend for around 6 months at this point. I am a big proponent of self-reflection and I journal quite a lot. I write down whatever I am feeling at that moment, and therefore consider my journal ...
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