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"description": "accidentally exposing my bestfriend's cheating to her husband",
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} | AITA for accidentally exposing my bestfriend's cheating to her husband? | Pretext: my bestfriend and her husband got married this September 28th, and has been messing around with an ex since mid October.
I only came to learn any of this somewhat recently (January ish)
My best friend, her husband, my husband and I are all friends and hang out fairly frequently. One day I get a message from h... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
5J1iXjhQ7VGKirOrMyv7hfKP4ZJ7KBvd | 9v24g8 | {
"description": "leaving a server because of a prank and then rejoining",
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} | AITA for leaving a server because of a prank and then rejoining? | So I was a mod on this discord server, Which I am not going to say the name of. There was a lot of drama but most of it didn't involve me so I really didn't care. I just doing my job and making sure that everyone follows the rules. But one time I decided to host a competition of some sort and the owner gave me permiss... | HISTORICAL | {
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BZoof7B8a2rJXrozuIy7wRcZ8ymLWiv4 | akjteh | {
"description": "asking my mom to drop my friend off when she was picking me up",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for asking my mom to drop my friend off when she was picking me up? | Basically, I go to school in a major city and I come back to visit my parents like once every month or two. We don’t really get along so I don’t like to come
back often. But some high school friends were in our hometown this weekend for a birthday and I decided to come back.
I don’t drive because a. I have never need... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | RIGHT |
sNQ4g2tVjNtJdnNZjWgznmwFUURgK87W | anxcq0 | {
"description": "leaving my mother to go on a ski trip",
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} | WIBTA if I left my mother to go on a ski trip? | Alright, so some backstory. About 5 days ago, my mother was given surgery to remove a vaginal cyst the size of a football, which may have been benign cancer, but there was an incision that cut across her stomach area to remove the cyst. This incision made it impossible to get up or lay down from or to a resting state w... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
8SyGfNDFeouGc8iJz3YulNI4Bi7lSjC6 | 9tei7z | {
"description": "taking my roommates parking spot",
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} | AITA for taking my roommates parking spot? | Okay so I’ve been living with these two friends of mine for about 3 months and we’ve had only a few issues but one of the main ones is parking.
Parking in our appartment complex is absolutely terrible. Every unit (except maybe one bedroom units?) Is allowed 3 parking spots. One covered and marked right by the stairway... | HISTORICAL | {
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SZDQw3UGjsEPwC6HCJtXfnicLQJnHmX8 | b1lwfp | {
"description": "cutting off my best friend on my birthday",
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} | WIBTA if I cut off my best friend on my birthday. | So tonight is my birthday "party". I have only 2 friends and we were going out for drinks.
My best friend just told me that she can't go out because she doesn't have any money.
She lives off the money her dad gives her and he gave her like $300 on monday. She paid her phone and yesterday went shopping and blew out th... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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hJ4YaPHcmntAyPHxd8aA0BV4ihkyQ9f7 | av8u86 | {
"description": "keeping the heat on in my classroom when my TA is hot",
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} | AITA for keeping the heat on in my classroom when my TA is hot? | i’m the kind of person that’s always cold, so if he asked, id probably turn it off. but he walks in first thing in the morning, says something like “wow you must be cold today!” and just turns it off without asking. so I started telling him not to and leaving the heat on as much as I can, just to prove i’m the teacher ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
shdPkjbPj94BpXxcVwGQh4bjA0qZMwoF | a25kft | {
"description": "wanting to kick my uncle out",
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} | AITA for wanting to kick my uncle out?!?! | So as of right now my uncle lives with us and works with me at Amazon I’m Tier 3 he’s is Tier 1
He has put me in position to have to report him to my manager for doing things involving associates.
The latest incident is the most serious and after the investigation he will be fired most likely if he isn’t I would be ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hW64Ixo0is5yJsEThiR7pyJTwIHR3Rwz | akotdf | {
"description": "being mad at my friends parents",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being mad at my friends parents? | Take note that all the stuff below that I've done, I have been punished for already.
​
So last year, I was that one kid that tried (and succeeded) to hack the school laptops. Anyway, my best friend, we'll call him Omar, wanted to play together. I managed to remove a bunch of the restrictions on the compute... | HISTORICAL | {
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94scdKgIH2vDJKi1VuhhA6dNbVEwPqVF | afora3 | {
"description": "not reaching out to a hiring manager for my friend",
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} | AITA for not reaching out to a hiring manager for my friend? | Hi Reddit,
Going to try to keep this as short yet detailed as possible.
I have a friend of around 16 years. We had been best friends for most of that time, yet recently have kind of hit a bit of a lull. This has definitely been my fault though, as I have admittedly not made as much effort as I could have over the rec... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z1JOsFKKPz2kjyXfMtDY6gxkaOfXZOa8 | adn1km | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend's best friend's husband that his wife is cheating on her",
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend's best friend's husband that his wife is cheating on her? | Mouthful of a title, sorry -
​
My (25m) girlfriend (25f) had a brief break where she slept with her best friend (23f), who is married. This in itself is bad, and it eventually was found out whilst the two girls were drunk one night trying to convince the husband and I to have an orgy. He went ballistic, w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Uem4QrUvxvQ1OAy3ywSCwA7QfeA9nTxq | b7dp7y | {
"description": "wanting to do something else without my friends",
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} | AITA for wanting to do something else without my friends? | So my friends and I have a chat group of 5 people where two of them live in another city. Those two messaged us on Wednesday saying hey we’re coming to your town on Friday to sunday. Does anyone have any place to sleep for us? I responded "yeah ofcourse, and we’ll have to make sure we go out for drinks while you’re dow... | HISTORICAL | {
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zlwaBEYACn5lmR4BGT9mPK3mhKjac8yl | azun13 | {
"description": "taking this guys bucket at a construction site",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for taking this guys bucket at a construction site? | This happened last year, and I keep going back to it because I feel I could've handled this differently.
TL;DR - Had my bucket stolen, I took this guys bucket, he got mad and wanted to fight me, we threw some punches.
Last year I worked in concrete inspections. I have to take samples of concrete with a bucket and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
ed1ESxMl1zPDgFOaw3rbWT7mNM8gtGA8 | apq7ij | {
"description": "being upset that my gf danced with someone in front of me",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for being upset that my (23m) gf (23f) danced with someone in front of me? | So my gf and I have been together for 18 months, but she has cheated on me in the past (7 months ago), and so honestly I get jealous easily. We fight about it on occasion, with her being upset that I’m still jealous after 7 months without incident and me requesting that she show compassion and love when I feel anxious ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 15
} | WRONG |
KcTPuAFBgYoHBYOzk6Qgp66R5wxTytdu | as0tvs | {
"description": "lying to my parents and telling them I'm infertile",
"pronormative_score": 68,
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} | WIBTA if I lie to my parents and tell them I’m infertile? | I (F) have tokophobia, a phobia which makes childbirth almost impossible for me. I have no desire to get pregnant because I’m terrified of the pregnancy process, childbirth, pain, and the effects on my body post childbirth. I’m also emotionally sensitive and am susceptible to severe depression and anxiety, which I inhe... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 68,
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} | RIGHT |
RmMSni47Aq5vyIwYABvdBwMzOUErrpNX | annp4n | {
"description": "being concerned about one of my roommate's cat",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being concerned about one of my roommate's cat? | So i have a couple of roommates, one I've lived with I'll call N, and the other who I'll call K. They both have cats. N's cat was a taken in stray that has FIV. We recently took it to the doctor and confirmed that.
K's cat does not have FIV or shots because they can't afford them I guess? They also live in a trailer ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
MYgMeJt4z61qPDQprLzBlpgwReGxmjCL | b85pcz | {
"description": "telling a chinese-american she doesn't look american",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling a Chinese-American she doesn't look American? | Throwaway because this happened with a coworker.
​
I am a tall white man (6'4") and think that I look stereotypically "American." I'm big and broad and have blue eyes and I don't speak anything other than English. I was talking with a coworker who is Chinese-American (I know she was born in the US and obvi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 52
} | WRONG |
5nzlL0H8Lsw1IyZGOHWJvteOFFoSjjvI | akjqls | {
"description": "telling my GF's friends about how they're tearing us apart",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA since I told my GF's friends about how they're tearing us apart? | Dear Redditors, am I the asshole since I told my GF's friends about how they're tearing our relationship apart?
So a little backstory which is really important. My GF, GF for short and her Ex, Ex for short used to date. Obviously. Long story short he was the asshole. No doubt about it. Her friends had been warning her... | HISTORICAL | {
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m510y7hOcZkVIdeunYaz8VwNgoITxqNC | aicz4b | null | AITA Am I too impatient? | TL;DR Is four months of dating too fast to want a relationship or am I too impatient. Should I have stayed his friend or was it the right dicition to try and move on?
I'm a dude and I was talking to a dude. So we recently got back together after like 4 or 5 later. Initially we got together as like a hookup dating thin... | HISTORICAL | {
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LgN9FurWwpslyWLp2v1dnyDyG4ESAibp | b8fy74 | {
"description": "feeling more of a connection to one dog and not the other",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITAH for feeling more of a connection to one dog and not the other | Hey everyone, this might be terrible in some peoples eyes, but maybe not in others, please don’t attack me if you feel strongly about what I am going to ask here, although honest opinions are very welcome.
So my girlfriend and I have two dogs, a Shitzu named Ella and a Carolina Dog named Nena. I took in Ella from my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 3,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
ilPyDh4KP6k7zru1xh4ROyzoHthjqxsb | aoxozq | {
"description": "doing laundry at my boyfriend's apartment",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for doing laundry at my boyfriend's apartment | My boyfriend lives in an apartment added on to a one family house. The laundry is in the mudroom basement and it's shared. My apartment doesn't have a washer and dryer so my options for washing clothes are laundromat or boyfriend's place. His house is in the country so it's very obvious when I show up on the weekend a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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rrT1WP9TbyhZZF7VUL1kBwYhaInnOnKY | b2sbnm | {
"description": "reporting my ex for fraud",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | WIBTA if i reported my ex for fraud? | Standard on my phone so sorry for typos etc introduction
I'm in Australia and for those that aren't familiar we have Centrelink which I guess is like welfare. My ex works 5-6 days a week, getting $800+ which Centrelink does not know about and the pay gets put into his bank without having to pay tax as well, he's also ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Ms7yAHcIbZNVQcYXag8MxJzDnEWMmDbM | ae9aep | {
"description": "not wanting to drive my girlfriend to class all the time",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to drive my girlfriend to class all the time? | So me and my gf live together and currently in college. Long story short, she had a real bad car accident two years ago and doesn't want to drive in college. Honestly, she doesn't want to drive at all. She has arthritis and despite her job being across the street, she asks me to pick her up.
Well school started for he... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
CfKQbxTdREBf5E0b9PAuELS9TXMDXQJN | ab8fex | {
"description": "wanting to get my ex fired",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 18
} | AITA for wanting to get my ex fired? | Long story short, I recently got out of an extremely abusive relationship with someone who has been diagnosed with mental health issues but continually blamed me for their problems. My ex boyfriend, continuously belittled, hurt me, put me down, and called me names (slut, whore, fat- knowing I have an eating disorder, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 21,
"EVERYBODY": 10,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
"WRONG": 18
} | RIGHT |
UNxOMOpS0B2tSpcBJE2hX7ZQmNPYKsi7 | 9xrl0e | {
"description": "ending a friendship with a girl who joked about my anxiety/depression not being as severe as hers",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for ending a friendship with a girl who joked about my anxiety/depression not being as severe as hers? | So I’ve known this girl ever since I started school, things have kind of been on and off the whole time and I was in the middle of an awful period so I reached out to her for help. She basically laughed in my face because ‘I wasn’t as strong as she was’ so after that I cut all contact with her and she found any way pos... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
iTTey90H5R1rOUSejLzI7mm0zVpKjBKE | 9urm9e | {
"description": "reporting a cheater in college",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for reporting a cheater in college | This should be short and to the point, and I don't want to give away any personal details like our school or major. I use to be cool with this guy at a university i attend. we have the same major so we occasionally get into the same classes and would sit next to each other. He gets good grades and comes across and very... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
RSD3U8YkID5EwPcODOta3l15Zv2Xnv2h | ah79qc | {
"description": "packing up my stbx-roommate's things",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I packed up my STBX-roommate's things? | My soon to be ex-roommate is moving out by the end of the month. They have taken the bulk of their things to their new rental but they have left some odds and ends behind. I would like to put the things they left behind that I have found while reorganizing (things that were in cabinets or left behind in the bathroom) i... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 1
} | WRONG |
cWdePdUhfcg8Kg44XAqkfead8pm9joMz | azvf7o | {
"description": "cutting contact with my mother until she cuts contract with my abusive ex",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for cutting contact with my mother until she cuts contract with my abusive ex? | My ex boyfriend from when I was in my early twenties was a raging alcoholic. He was jealous, awful, short tempered and a serial cheater. He was my first boyfriend after I had come out and I dealt with it because I was young and in uni and didn't know better. After we broke up it got so bad that I had almost got a restr... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
bJ2UojJ5kNuISIEaR1FWoBVTNvwpGiFk | 9wtjbd | null | AITA? Weird situation, please advise! | Hi guys! I have an interesting statement and was wondering if I could get some insight.
To preface, the members involved in this situation are my grandmother (who does not like me and I currently live with to help out as she's getting older) and a friend I have had since middle school. My grandmother is kind of awful ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Hlbkq2abGjXGSLju5CykhsbUtU1NR2kF | b1sdg4 | {
"description": "being open about my mental health at work",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being open about my mental health at work? | I used to work a corporate job, so I know standards of conduct. You don’t show weakness. You keep certain things private.
Coming out of a severe bout of depression that cost me my previous career, I decided not to live that way anymore. I wasn’t fooling anyone.
I have serious damage to my memory, my ability to multi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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} | RIGHT |
yFYV3rSW7mxdmtC6WeaZZa20MNduYPTx | aoqwcb | {
"description": "submitting a report for a class without adding another student's name",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I submitted a report for a class without adding another student's name | I'm in my master's, and one of the tasks for a class was to create a program and also write a report of about 10 pages about the subject treated with the program and the program itself.
Everyone in class had to work in groups of 2, I found myself with someone who had been lazy all year. About a week after this class h... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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E5aL2PujolrD1UPmBBERpNEfwp5hDGD4 | af5zg8 | {
"description": "calling out a customer",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for calling out a customer? | So this happened today, this entitled asshole always lurk outside a store I work at, haggling customers to give him change of their purchases, some would give him out of pity, and some would say they paid with card. So a cute girl enters the store and put 2 ramen noodles, they're 35c each and 3 for $1, so I told her an... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
s7m8DY5Q5kIDVxfNUAXqj4uZHhdpZT01 | b8kl7j | {
"description": "posting on FB about my father's death",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for posting on FB about my father's death? | I found out yesterday from my mom that my father had passed. It was sudden and he was only 49, but I don't know the details. I was the last family member she contacted. She told me it was basically "open" now.
I loved this man. He and I lived a year in the States together after he lost his job and his marriage fell ap... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
kfp2BtiYkv2EW5sehONN1qjqPmir0hjl | akxsnj | {
"description": "telling people to not sit with me",
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} | WIBTA if I told people to not sit with me? | The library at the university I attend opens at 8 AM every weekday. There are som lovely couches that I like to sit in to study. There are two couches around a table, room for 6 people in total but only for 4 if we´re to sit comfortably i.e. to actually have som space to write and not bump elbows. The culture here is l... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Ah2DtKCpXgEYv4ZT4BftIOG5rpSyeRnB | afqi6x | {
"description": "calling my boyfriend tonight",
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} | AITA For Calling My Boyfriend Tonight? | My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months. We text and talk on the phone every day and see each other a couple of times a week.
​
Yesterday he texted me later in the day and said he was going to a concert with a friend. I told him that sounded awesome and I hoped he had fun. I finished up w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being annoyed that my parents let my vegan son try cheese and for not letting him try animal products",
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} | AITA for being annoyed that my parents let my vegan son try cheese and for not letting him try animal products? | I have a 4 year old son who I’ve raised vegan since birth. I raise him this way for health and moral reasons. I’ve talked to him about why we don’t eat meat, he loves animals and agrees that animals are our friends and we don’t want to kill them when we can eat other stuff. My son is happy and healthy but of course it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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MnFF1ORQ6G6cFFQh0ggUeWHVNTV1OY5X | asqhnp | {
"description": "leaving a job right after recovering a failed server",
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} | AITA for leaving a job right after recovering a failed server? | I started a new job as IT Director for a small company (130 employees) 6 weeks ago. Going into the job, I had my projects outlined and prioritized. Priority number 1 was to get everything off of a server with a failing drive. This server hosted email and files. The server ended up crashing when I started migrating ever... | HISTORICAL | {
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IpfXZImi3PGYL90uhJLAR768lgamP5fr | ab1ou4 | {
"description": "slapping my sister because she got intimate with our mom's bf",
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} | AITA for slapping my sister because she got intimate with our mom's BF? | Hello guys,
I've been in one hell of a situation for the past week and I've already explained my entire situation in great detail on a post in another sub, if anybody wants to know more about it pls check my history, it would be much appreciated.
The short version:
Me[21M], my sister [18F] and our mom [45F] live to... | HISTORICAL | {
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eqTCM8VpA1a7XTAnt8aX6qiveY8JjIcw | avdqo8 | {
"description": "leaving the company",
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} | AITA for leaving the company ? | Hi all, I am leaving my current company tomorrow. I am leaving after just 1 year in my current team. The team leader does not like it very much that I am leaving. He was very professional about it past weeks, but has been making jokes about me leaving so early. In the country, i am working in, it is not so common to le... | HISTORICAL | {
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xs5g5pJBLwyHzNmuVspLKNahWHQcJ7p0 | 9v0aet | {
"description": "wanting payment to tutor my brother",
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} | AITA for wanting payment to tutor my brother? | Parents wanted me to tutor my brother (17) for school and my dad expects it entirely for free, without question.
I get that he’s my brother and I would do it for free except for times where I’m busy as well. But my dad thinks I’m greedy and don’t care about ‘family’ because I’m talking about money..
Am I the asshole... | HISTORICAL | {
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8qCh7VgGKGZipYdCGAFvLTzSnNdUmFUY | adfesv | {
"description": "physically stopping my uncle from punching his 18 YO son",
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} | AITA for physically stopping my uncle from punching his 18 YO son? | I will try to summarize a very dramatic family fight, the kind of which has **never** occurred before. My family went out to a really nice restaurant but the food and experience ended up being a disaster. Many things were sold out, drinks were terrible, food was very very late etc. Anyways, they comp'd the entire meal,... | HISTORICAL | {
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sfOfvW5QIjvKKTstIGM0I3ZoVzE0S4TU | a0imqr | {
"description": "taking advantage of a small loophole when ordering my coffee",
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} | AITA for taking advantage of a small loophole when ordering my coffee? | I know it's a relatively small thing, but when I order my iced coffee's in the morning before work, instead of ordering the largest size with room for cream, I order the medium size and ask for it in the large cup. This saves me roughly 40 cents each time I order it, and I feel like I get the odd judgmental look from t... | HISTORICAL | {
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k5lgt0ioaq7l8uju0NGHojwsjQlVOHkb | b58cpr | {
"description": "being into my friends sister and so asking him to be my roommate",
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So this whole thing started about a year and a half ago and came to a head recently.
So at my Uni we have this program where Secondary students can come on campus for a night or two and see what it's like there.
Well around a year ago this guy stayed on campus wit I'mh my best friend and with tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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wnuMgW723USAxrYmi0L0jBk88kIXfcUc | a7sgtq | {
"description": "hanging out with my friends ex",
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} | AITA for hanging out with my friends ex | So my friend broke up with his girlfriend about a month and a half ago(maybe a little longer). They were dating for about a year.I’ve known the girl and have been friends with her for about 2 years now. I started dating this girl who is best friends with the girl who dumped my friend. Their breakup has been really mess... | HISTORICAL | {
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FZUlSgDnfXRLFKRGEYB9VMWzyHqsyMTh | afln2h | {
"description": "getting into an argument in public",
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} | AITA for getting into an argument in public | So I’m out eating with my mom and her boyfriend. In a therapy session about a month ago, i confided that I harbor resentment towards my mom for having me because of how depressed I constantly am. I told her about this in a safe and private environment.
Over lunch, the topic of gift giving comes up casually. I mention ... | HISTORICAL | {
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EDuOVGmGOOMIdug4J4NihY9klACYFb0T | ai2588 | {
"description": "leaving my girlfriend for getting an abortion",
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} | WIBTA for leaving my girlfriend for getting an abortion? | M27 F28, both graduated and have stable jobs. Been together 7 years.
So, long story short, I am pro-life.
When we learned that she was pregnant(around two weeks ago), I immediately resolved to be there for her and support her through every stage of the pregnancy.
Then, two weeks later, she tells me she wants an ab... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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AeyW75zmJrlb686hI3HKH2f3KJlqX8Sk | awe1uc | {
"description": "not allowing my in-laws to treat my cat like he is theirs",
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} | AITA for not allowing my in-laws to treat my cat like he is theirs? | I have a cat who is turning three in July. I got him when he was a baby, only a few months old, by running into him on the street. He immediately seemed to decide I was his human, and refused to leave my lap for several days.
When I got him in to a vet to get him neutered and checked out because he was not eating rig... | HISTORICAL | {
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j0TYVzitSJP5ObIxxzSP4KYOLLSkHbf3 | axq4f4 | {
"description": "asking my aunt and her wife to move out of my apartment",
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} | WIBTA for asking my aunt and her wife to move out of my apartment? | Hi - sorry this is such a long story. Including a TL;DR at the end. Right now I am 31 weeks pregnant, due at the beginning of May. The apartment my husband and I live in is a three bedroom, but it is small- very small rooms and one bedroom is an office/storage space really. The apartment belonged to my grandparents, it... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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5Ump8fmnQfmTxE1Uj32iGHFKKkQK75tS | awdy6z | {
"description": "telling a trans coworker about some rumours and things I've overheard our manager say about him",
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} | WIBTA if I told a trans coworker about some rumours and things I've overheard our manager say about him? | So, I work at a restaurant, and one of my coworkers (a host/cashier) is a senior in high school who is trans. Let's call him Aaron. I didn't know it at first, but he became comfortable enough with some of us to share this, and his new journey with hormone injections and the like.
Now, I don't know if Aaron persona... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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hnR4ahMYS72SGaZ3ImLkRslbDX3pt1JL | a5idj0 | {
"description": "leaving my friends due to almost everyone taking me as a joke",
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} | AITA for leaving my friends due to almost everyone taking me as a joke? | I recently came out as transgender to everyone in real life. It was the first time I’ve ever done that despite knowing for over half-a-decade. It absolutely flopped. Everyone took it as a joke or simply thinks it’s an attention seeking device. So I have a few people on Snapchat who encouraged me to come out and open up... | HISTORICAL | {
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aF9lnC6jlXR2W5vtmSDUBAzptJRGSzrd | aou7s8 | {
"description": "not caring if my ex-wife will not get her medication paid for by the state",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AITA for not caring if my ex-wife will not get her medication paid for by the state? | AITA for not caring if my ex-wife will not get her medication paid for by the state?
​
Backstory: Wife and I divorced now 16 years. She got sick and had an organ transplant about 15 years ago and needs medication daily. Limited by income, she has to rely on state aid to pay her medication. She lives with h... | HISTORICAL | {
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HiEHSeterc9gqmYB2nN3OMqZlbSXnpo1 | b71o9a | {
"description": "being sarcastic with my husband",
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} | AITA for being sarcastic with my husband? | A year ago I got pregnant and my husband started second guessing me on things assuming all of my decisions were because I was hormonal/emotional. For example - he would ask what I want for dinner and I’d say I want Chinese. He would say “are you sure you REALLY want Chinese”. He would do it to the point I would change ... | HISTORICAL | {
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sbLPCBJziQ3oDinBJcGTeIKXRoNvvhAY | b577gd | {
"description": "saying my bf has no right to dictate who I tell about my abortion",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for saying my bf has no right to dictate who I tell about my abortion? | two years ago, my bf and I were in a LDR. I had an IUD in place and don’t use other contraception. I visited him and when I came back home my period was late, find out I’m pregnant because the IUD has moved, I’m not ready to have a child, I get an abortion.
My parents bring me to the clinic, my boyfriend is unable to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rGEvGeyTWoLrGBuKnNXxjHA6nt3kBF4C | aoby74 | {
"description": "making an art-related Facebook request",
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} | AITA for making an art-related Facebook request? | Some time ago, I reconnected with a friend from high school (class of 1994) via Facebook. In the intervening years, I developed (pun not intended) an interest in photography, and started taking tentative steps to see if I had any talent, posting a few of my shots for my friends to judge. Obviously, the verdict was yes,... | HISTORICAL | {
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0TG2VxXi2ZWYNhPgJRZbcWqSgTmydGj5 | b0eeog | {
"description": "pushing my friend into breaking up with her boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for pushing my friend into breaking up with her boyfriend? | This story can go on for fuckin hours but I'll shortin it.
​
My friend (25F) lets call her M and her boyfriend (27M) lets call him D, have been dating on and off for one year. M has a child and has always been hung up on one of our mutual friends (M 28) lets call him S, and has cheated on D 3 times with S... | HISTORICAL | {
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Bs34Q9PCYdOxgk3YFvnzCKCG5Q83oMNw | b8khoy | {
"description": "not asking my husband for March Madness advice",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not asking my husband for March Madness advice | A little background- I am not really at all into sports and my husband's life absolutely revolves around sports. I will watch sports and even enjoy going to a game. I actually play recreational softball and that's how we met. But outside of my husband, I do not actively watch sports or talk about sports or look up spor... | HISTORICAL | {
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F1Nd3srTh8xgE3anPhud77NxfNBYgF2Z | b2inh5 | null | AITA | First time posting.
A former friend of mine always did stupid things and never take responsibility for them. E.g. On New Years she was on medication that you shouldn't drink with (she knew this) but continued to get incredibly drunk. She got pissed at my friends and I over her friend leavi g without telling her. Slapp... | HISTORICAL | {
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L9VHRmFt054GsmKwP1cWjhJ849ZUF94W | a48h04 | {
"description": "not wanting to share the first thing that came to mind with my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not wanting to share the first thing that came to mind with my boyfriend? | My boyfriend and I were having a fun night together before he leaves on a trip. We were dancing around our living room when he stops and looks at me and asks if I’d ever had braces as a kid. I told him no and he smirks and says that he can tell because my teeth are crooked.
He says this in a joking manner but I still... | HISTORICAL | {
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Eld7te8c3tAjiVitSSWJpwL82kqR1KXB | aeqnsv | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend she was being rude",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend she was being rude? | Here is the story:
My girlfriend, my mother and I were riding together to go to a restaurant. This particular restaurant is about 40 minutes away. My mother and I were having a conversation, it was a conversation that my girlfriend could totally have joined in on. My mother and my girlfriend are comfortable around eac... | HISTORICAL | {
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fwru4IHsOyPD6Kq4vjuHCNZtLnAXx4ml | 9va15l | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend I don't want her to see her friends",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend I don’t want her to see her friends? | Disclaimer: Apologies for any poor grammar, I’m not to good with writing.
Me and my girlfriend work in different cities, so we only see each other on weekends. For the first few months of our relationship I would see her every weekend, however she increasingly started organising to see other friends. I am completely f... | HISTORICAL | {
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doZe4gjBsC1lQTQD48awLCybGWQfH5wW | a4d1qx | {
"description": "threatening to kick my sibling out of my house",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for threatening to kick my sibling out of my house? | Throwaway for reasons.
I'm 38M and I have one sibling who is 20. My sibling is my half-sibling, and we have never been particularly close, mostly due to the age gap, but I love them all the same. I live in a large city and own a condo that I used to share with my ex until we split up and she moved out 1.5 years ago. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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sKKvTZivaqMAe0vAj1C6wmFzBnRrqRSp | atf0r4 | {
"description": "fucking an Old Friend's ex",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For Fucking an Old Friend's Ex? | I'll just tell the story from the beginning.
So last year, my senior year of HS, I became pretty good friends with a guy, let's call him Tom, who had a girlfriend, let's call her Jill. The two had been dating for about a year and were really close, and I got close with Tom since he was really good friends with my best... | HISTORICAL | {
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NAYqPzNVhqqj2vviyJOjVYXKpSkvQnjJ | avr2i6 | {
"description": "getting annoyed when my husband constantly grabs my boobs",
"pronormative_score": 34,
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} | AITA for getting annoyed when my husband constantly grabs my boobs | I was chilling last night playing video games. Husband comes over and grabs my boob like it’s playdoh...for like 5 minutes. I suggested if he wanted to turn me on, there are pots that needed scrubbing. He got mad and walked away mumbling. Was an ass the rest of the night.
We are not newlyweds. Been married 22 ... | HISTORICAL | {
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yl93Iten0iRoOPAD7pqFNnlhkhlsYwfW | afh8zn | {
"description": "wanting my girlfriend to not sneak me around her apartment",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for wanting my girlfriend to not sneak me around her apartment? | So my gf of a year and I live in separate apartments and we stay at each other’s place from time to time. More recently however we have been staying at my place exclusively because I had a falling out with one of her roommates. I can provide more details in the comments if anyone cares but essentially it ended with two... | HISTORICAL | {
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YMQxC2k48aLyY8jBD0y0WB7VO0Cf3N6P | a0gv2p | {
"description": "thinking my girlfriend is incapable of anything",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for thinking my girlfriend is incapable of anything? | We've been in a relationship of two years and never had a big fight before this.
Both of us just started uni. So, seeing each other is very rare. Although she does occasionally ask me, if I have time, but I really have to learn a lot (I do engineering and she does biology, slavic language and a bit of a side job). She... | HISTORICAL | {
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BKFH6kkwPGfJL6lHIPTntF0Rqm2SPHrs | b4ic6g | {
"description": "being annoyed at my partner",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for being annoyed at my partner | For the past few months I’ve been working towards a really important deadline for university it’s my final thesis and basically for the past month I’ve not left the house unless it was for going to work. I’ve literally been waking up at 8am and writing my thesis till I have food in the evening.
My deadline is in a wee... | HISTORICAL | {
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k9xINBPNRGRINOcISwGqMVtncYJ0PvOs | a6t7k5 | {
"description": "asking my friends to split towing fees",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for asking my friends to split towing fees? | So the other night my friend tells me that a mutual friends of our is having a birthday party. I say that I'm down to go and hes excited since now he wont have to pay for an uber. I take him, his girlfriend, and another friend to the apartment.
Now I have never been here before the other 3 have. I ask where to go once... | HISTORICAL | {
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70V8u3bpRBV2OlKqNUElsJROs7dSKaNW | ai12c5 | {
"description": "cutting off friends after someone spit on me",
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} | AITA For cutting off friends after someone spit on me? | so I was at my friends house yesterday, chilling and enjoying a movie.
​
my friend B.. has a known tempter, getting into fights regularly at bars, storming off and generally being childish, he has a very short fuse. we generally kinda banter back and forth and give each other little remarks here and there ... | HISTORICAL | {
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UuaQp8TMroRP4vMpv93P1BA97FC5AGft | adyvfe | {
"description": "labeling a happy hour as \"invite only\" and \"secret\" using my work email",
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} | AITA for labeling a happy hour as “invite only” and “secret” using my work email? | I sent a tongue in cheek email to a few coworkers that I’m close with proposing a “secret” “invite only” aka no bosses happy hour. It was really meant as a joke. But I just found out it was posted publicly on an office Outlook calendar!!! It was only up for about 2 minutes before my coworker deleted it, but I am concer... | HISTORICAL | {
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mFxgYKBd0Dq1Fu9M5P3BL41cus6Ae4DU | abqlqy | {
"description": "not wanting to be in a relationship with a black person",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be in a relationship with a black person? | I'm white and have always imagined having a wife and kids. I guess without realizing it, I've always imagined that my wife and kids would be white people.
I'm worried about my integration into their family, and their's into mine, because I was raised in a household where racism and making fun of other races for jokes ... | HISTORICAL | {
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as9QKvXKgdrYnP67Eql12vDCEf11fhbz | b2tqbl | {
"description": "thinking that a girl that texts about her boobs being big doesn't necessarily want me/like me",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for thinking that a girl that texts about her boobs being big doesn't necessarily want me/like me? | A few months ago, we met this girl with my gf, both thinking she's kinda cute, but not really doing anything about it. We just like to discuss if other girls are cute and stuff.
We both chatted on facebook with her sometimes (seperately ofc) but one evening I texted with her way more, opening up a bit in a friendly wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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EgN0sqodJZbtRbxsqW6LiH61AYrFVr91 | ay0wg7 | {
"description": "not telling my boss immediately about a promotion I got",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not telling my boss immediately about a promotion I got? | So basically I've worked at my current job for 4 years (since I was 22 years old), and within the last few months I have started to have issues: toxic pseudo-maternal relationship with my boss, constant micromanaging, and progressive loss of responsibility that led to constant boredom. In a month I also went through a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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zVOBrXDr8TP9z2qyERSJiLr2OOUd3Eql | a4z9qr | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my friends house because it is filthy",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to my friends house because it is filthy | She keeps inviting me and getting agitated that I won’t come over but her house is out of control. She has three kids and a few animals so it’s always been kind of messy but never this bad.
She moved her boyfriend in who never helps clean about a year ago. She had told me when she first started seeing him just how di... | HISTORICAL | {
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V1zf2gEMQ3oHEVByOs0mQQtQHYNylVUo | afwuws | {
"description": "discussing my relationship and sex life with my friends",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for discussing my relationship and sex life with my friends? | The other day a couple work friends and I (both female, as am I) were talking and we got on the subject of sex. I mentioned that my boyfriend and I don’t have it often and that he doesn’t give oral because he doesn’t like it. I didn’t bash him for either, I had just mentioned it. One of the girls I was talking to told ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 17,
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 21
} | WRONG |
KEF86Pjc7TDuiJavwze482UDF2ePn4NY | 9tw5gm | {
"description": "leaving my fiance after surgrey",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for leaving my fiance after surgrey | My fiance has been having issues with a kidney stone the past week or so. She was admitted to the hospital for pain and not being able to urinate. They put in a stint yesterday morning and was supposed to be discharged later that evening. She was having some nausea after surgery so they kept her overnight to keep flui... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
X6gF9N2CMn7wca5Jgg5bNLUzsxp3usCK | aa3lp1 | {
"description": "ordering what I want",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for ordering what I want? | Last night was my extendeds family last night in town. So, my mom and I took them out to dinner at this nice restaurant downtown. I offered to my mom that I would pay for dinner because she has already done so much for us this break. Btw, my mom and I are the only ones who live here. It's an East coastal town that rhym... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
UNgOmfjO3NZLLPr6W3wUBHXw8nwU2f8X | abfi6o | {
"description": "pushing my mum after an arguement",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for pushing my mum after an arguement | So, a lot of times over small things like being in mid game when foods gets done and i ask to finish the game she has fully screamed at me, got in my face and I've always tried to stay calm and have other than 2 times where I shouted back, but one time a year ago same situation as I stated at the start except she came ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
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nK0AebCZ9EA4h3UHiumiZXZ2o8UKXodo | a75xiy | {
"description": "being upset about receiving a celebratory gift for starting a new job",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being upset about receiving a celebratory gift for starting a new job. | Little backstory... My boyfriend and I have been in a rocky relationship since we started dating (together 1 year this month). Some really disturbing things happened in our relationship last week, to where I was so depressed I couldn’t leave the house. So honestly this has me wondering if I am just being a huge b*tch. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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u4PFhdayr45nO54qvI8d95ComPOzxKtp | at9hn9 | {
"description": "stringing someone along",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA- stringing someone along? | There's a woman my age (young adult) Samantha who I met through a hobby we both shared, over time I learnt she was in a bad relationship (not abusive- but toxic and co-dependent). I encouraged Samantha to separate as it was affecting her mental health.
They split and she moved out, she's been suffering since; through ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
BCjI3dz8pSh4G8kp0mT37BDKPaf1HZdf | b9yolq | {
"description": "accepting a minority scholarship when I'm mostly white",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for accepting a minority scholarship when I’m mostly white? | I go to a state college which charges a lot of money for tuition. So much money, in fact, that my (pretty large) family would not be able to afford the full price of attendance. Luckily, I was able to earn two scholarships that, when combined, amount to around half the price of tuition.
Here's the thing though-about o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 13,
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} | RIGHT |
WgNDA7fJyrFHxy8TgHwuSIk9PCeCIWsO | b1neeo | {
"description": "quitting my job without notice",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | WIBTA If I quit my job without notice. | I work a fairly normal part time job, but we recently got a new boss who hates me and has been trying to fire me.
Earlier this week, he apparently changed the schedule to have me work closing shift tonight (I check the schedules when they come out and this shift wasn’t on it). He also did did not notify me that he ad... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 3
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RkTqHeZz07HSo0HMhe020tuMy3Moe4zF | aml6pb | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriends dog to sleep in another room",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting my boyfriends dog to sleep in another room? | Okay so a little context, my SO and I have been planning that I move into his house and even though I love his dog (her name is Bella, she is an adorable long haired Border collie btw) I am very allergic to her.
She sleeps on my boyfriends bed every night. I’ve seen how much dog hair is left on the bed in the morning ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
cyOUWUaL0HRi90VSAyNjX1vc4dZsMmKA | avo4de | null | AITA Older brother is loud on discord late into the night | So for background late year I spent a year abroad away from my family as an exchange student. During this time my room was cleaned out (a story for another time), as well as my brother getting a computer setup, mic and all, against the wall shared with my room. He also started college last year, I'm still a senior in h... | HISTORICAL | {
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WbJO2bNJ2pRZnuMT8mFQusjzy7Y6tUNI | ay5k87 | {
"description": "refusing to watch over my dad's (and childhood) dog during his vacation",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for refusing to watch over my dad's (and childhood) dog during his vacation? | I LOVE this dog. We have had her for over a decade and I love her to bits. I’ve always been willing to take care of her, but she has also always been extremely anxious and it’s only worsening with age. (she’s turning 11 this year) Back in the days, I could watch over her for as long as needed and she would be more tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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RB1Tb1T6mNeeAcYIMjqnEuDLen3s0iG9 | ay4rjd | {
"description": "not forgiving a friend for cutting me off because his SO told him to",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not forgiving a friend for cutting me off because his SO told him to? | A friend I hadn't talked to for a few months texted me to say that we hadn't been talking because his girlfriend was jealous of me. During the months he didn't want to talk me, his girlfriend texted me and made me promise that nothing would happen (romantically/etc) between us. My friend and I had dated for about a wee... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
WvhDXEwHX15IzzcXVEpFqVZ0P7OOqbwu | b2r9dt | {
"description": "asking my friend if we could move onto something else in our RP",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA If i Asked my Friend if we Could Move onto Something Else in Our RP? | (sorry if this is poorly worded or some things are explained unclearly and i also apologize for spelling errors i overlooked)
​
Backstory
Me (12F) and my Internet Friend (16F) Have an Ongoing RP on Discord. It's Been Going on Since Around September/November 2018, It's Somewhat of an Anthology RP Since we ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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kWdrXnVkeugCdESfGhJau29nOC5GVNfQ | acya25 | {
"description": "refusing to stop calling my mom and dad hun? I call everyone else in my life hun cause it's easy and simple",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 10
} | AITA for refusing to stop calling my mom and dad hun? I call everyone else in my life hun cause it's easy and simple. | I call everyone in my life hun, my significant other, my pets, my in laws, strangers, and my parents. Am I the asshole for refusing to stop calling my mother hun? She told me everyone was retrainable when I told her I couldn't stop calling just her hun. Told me it was disrespectful to call her it. I dont get it as to m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
bnnfYR25VatCcFide4jSM9tBlbTV9cJh | axtp5v | {
"description": "rating my Uber driver 1 star",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for rating my Uber driver 1 star? | I was at a train station and needed to get to a house I've never been to before that was about a 20 minute walk as opposed to a 5 minute drive. Decided to get an Uber because I was wearing new shoes that had already given me blisters and wanted to avoid walking and making them worse. The Uber driver dropped me off and ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
t4uDdHwuPOQdkb1qWLHsdBTjt85y3Gyk | apbx1m | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my friend's wedding as a guest after she kicked me out of the bridal party",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for not wanting to go to my friend’s wedding as a guest after she kicked me out of the bridal party | My best friend (T) and I have been friends for over ten years. In that time I have lost both of my parents, most recently my mom very unexpectedly.
I also experienced a serious head trauma which took me about 18 months to recover. I am currently in an IOP for depression because the depression was made worse from the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
gAZUFBq2Hq20lV2hDw8Ss8VRlKKayjKR | ao36se | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend not to go to a concert",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend not to go to a concert? | A couple of months ago, my girlfriend made an impulse purchase for a concert ticket taking place in a different state (two hours by plane).
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We're currently strapped for cash so this already was a strange move but I didn't think much of it because it wasn't too much and flights can be cheap there and she ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
QqEXei0eX6Yvg801zQ0XJ7nMGDZBW3gL | anq1wd | {
"description": "beating up a rude kid",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for beating up a rude kid? | This was from some years ago, so im not 100% sure on the details, but this is basically what happened.
I was at a summer camp with my brother, who is 2 years younger then me, when a older kid came over to us. He looked at my brothers face and started laughing. He has a hole in over his lip (Im sorry, i dont know what ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
Ehyl3HqX06nQfpcybtBTkdCOE1KWeTFF | b2i2wp | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend she is working herself out",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For telling my girlfriend she is working herself out? | A bit of background: my girlfriend is a university student who gives private lessons to support herself and make a bit of money. For various reasons, she failed some exams and now she needs to catch up. She really wants to be done by the end of September, but she needs to take a lot of exams, and after that she wants t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
3xoDpAceXiVFQMtKFk1aJOZ9IqF9Ii5T | b6ayr1 | {
"description": "expecting my brother's teacher to reimburse him for a hoodie she confiscated and lost",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITAH for expecting my brother's teacher to reimburse him for a hoodie she confiscated and lost? | This happened 3 weeks ago, but I barely talked to the teacher today because of several reasons: 1) My brother hesitated on telling me because he was told he could get it back that same Friday. 2) I can only go Mondays and Wednesdays. 3) She was absent last Monday I went. And 4) We had spring break.
So my middle-schoole... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 7
} | RIGHT |
Q8pr63CBIPytkUPg8amqcxyvpjoCv4Pc | ai5vkk | {
"description": "yelling at my room-mate with anxiety disorder",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for yelling at my room-mate with anxiety disorder? | First time poster here, English is my second language, I hope I'll be able to explain the situation correctly! It's a long story, so here i go!
Background : I (20M) am living with four other room-mates at my old mother's house. Since she wasn't able to sell it, she rented it to me and my friends (one guy and two g... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 3,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
4J6IwPMpeg6GwmZMFrUSPHcilTP6D7rd | b3k0zq | {
"description": "getting annoyed that my GF eats tue entire apple, seeds and all",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for getting annoyed that my GF eats tue entire apple, seeds and all? | So, I know this seems minor, but am I the asshole for thinking it's weird that my gf eats the entire apple. The seeds are poisonious, mildly, and the effects can be cumulative over time. I pointed this out to her, she agreed the findings were valid and yet continues to eat the entire apple, saying that it is "fine". I ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 6,
"INFO": 1
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
ovRJgkEWaD71nXazpe1DBjxa1iLxaojK | b8ekb0 | {
"description": "enforcing our bathroom policies",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 28
} | AITA for enforcing our bathroom policies? | One of the businesses we run is a fast-food business. Bathrooms are segregated into M/F, each can accomodate 3 people at the same time. A self proclaimed transwoman (definitely looks male except for long hair and overt makeup) insisted on going to the F bathroom. I stopped the person insisting that it's our policy that... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 27,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 28
} | WRONG |
I35dSt5rSZlbQPlVTQ0ejUeTioF0KYpY | b38s7p | {
"description": "arguing with my teacher about an unfair test date",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for arguing with my teacher about an unfair test date? | In my AP Government class, we have s test scheduled for Thursday. The tests are based off the AP tests, which are carefully timed. Our class period on thursday is a little different than normal, it is only 50 minutes compared to the normal 1 and 1/2 hours. The test he assigned is going to take an hour of actual test ta... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
mKDSE1Stuqa1wcxEghKPtk0mgj0RxXaa | b8b83g | {
"description": "not sharing the Wifi",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Not Sharing The Wifi | Backstory: Not sure what is relevant so I'll try and provide as much information as possible. I live with my girlfriend in a modified 2-story house. We live in the upstairs area and we have a couple gents living below us. Our landlord is my gf's grandma. The guy we lived above previously to the new tenants was an big a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
D0876NehphsiKrsQ1taC6joS3gkJXu81 | add52r | {
"description": "lying to my girlfriend that I got home safely",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for lying to my girlfriend that I got home safely? | Just got smacked by a massive windstorm here in the PNW. My girlfriend always asks me to text her when I get home that I got home safely. Problem is I dont have cell service at home due to not having power. I'm sitting in a parking lot about 30 minutes away from home (very edge of my cell service coverage currently). W... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
245wHT8eIsVVRyf9TIlLFAfFiq2ULAzl | b6ud06 | {
"description": "withdrawing my request for someone to be my bridesmaid",
"pronormative_score": 23,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | WIBTA to withdraw my request for someone to be my bridesmaid? | Now, I know it sounds bad, but please hear me out.
Me (26, f) and my fiancé (27, m) are getting married soon. We are having a relatively small bridal party of 5 bridesmaids/groomsmen each. For my bridesmaids, I chose two of my best friends, my two sisters, and fiancé’s sister, Sarah* (21, f). I only asked Sarah basica... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 23,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 23,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
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