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{ "description": "telling an ex-friend her boyfriend is cheating on her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling an ex-friend her boyfriend is cheating on her?
I'll try to be as concise as I can, it's not that long of a story but there's a lot of backstory. I apologize in advance for spelling mistakes (english is not my first language) and for formatting (I'm on mobile). tl;dr at the end I have this group of friends and we are all pretty close since we were 15-16 (I'm in my ...
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{ "description": "saying something that caused a fight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying something that caused a fight?
I really hate that I even have to ask, given how small I thought this was. At this point it has come up multiple times and I just need another perspective on it. This happened a couple weeks ago. I'm drinking with my friend Brittany and Drake. We're all having a nice time just sitting and shooting the shit. To give s...
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{ "description": "getting upset at some friends for making a mistake and feeling that they didn't do a good job to make up for it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for getting upset at some friends for making a mistake and feeling that they didn't do a good job to make up for it?
A couple of weekends ago, I went to go visit some friends from a college club. Ever since I graduated and started working last summer, I haven't been able to spend time with this group (most are still in school), so I was really happy to get invited to hang out. Now, I live about an hour and a half away from the univer...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my neighbor because their cat was outside", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the cops on my neighbor because their cat was outside?
Came home around 7:30 and I saw my neighbors cat outside wanting to get in. Look outside occasionally and the cat is still outside. I go over and knock on their door three hours later but no one answers. So I call the police to check up on the house to see if they’re alive and everything. Officer comes over and I tell ...
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{ "description": "not talking to a friend who always ends up talking to my boyfriends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not talking to a friend who always ends up talking to my boyfriends
# update: she just write some weird messages to the ig of my exhusband ,claimin that i lie to him ,of course she do from a fake account, he showed me the screenshots, she literally begin to bullshit me ​ ​ I(f26) used to have a friend(f24) for years, I had previously felt somewhat uncomfortabl...
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{ "description": "turning my brother away in the rain", "pronormative_score": 118, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for turning my brother away in the rain?
Earlier this week my brother asked me to cook him and his girlfriend lunch. In the run up to Christmas I'm always really broke and really busy, so I initially told him I didn't think I could do it, then felt bad, juggled some shit and arranged it with him for today. We're pretty casual about these things so I phoned ...
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{ "description": "not paying my plumber", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not paying my plumber?
This happened a few years ago but I still worry about if I was an asshole here or not. There had been an influx of new subcontractors in my area due to a booming construction industry in our somewhat small town. One plumber in particular I had become acquainted with was one of these guys. He had come from across the ...
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AITA - My boyfriend was lying down while I was unclogging the toilet
AITA Hello people! I usually lurk here, but this Saturday something happened and I really need to know who is right in this situation, as my boyfriend (together 4 years, living together) claims he did nothing wrong and that I’m TA while I think the complete opposite. So, our toilet clogged, after he had some mild st...
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AITA Socially anxious autistic helping persistent old women across a road
This has hung on my mind because after rethinking the situation on my way to collage, i did kinda leave her in the dust and I feel really bad, since she seemed like a lonely person, I'd understand if I was an asshole. While I was waiting on a bus to collage, an old women with a cane came up behind me and asked me to h...
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{ "description": "not cheering, or really caring, that a wheelchair-bound student athlete competed against physically able runners", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not cheering, or really caring, that a wheelchair-bound student athlete competed against physically able runners/
It was a 100m dash in a regular team event (not special or handi-capable or whatever), with seven running-runners and one in a wheelchair. Everyone cheered and applauded for that student in particular, but I thought it was saccharine and phony. AITA? (Note: I'm disabled, myself, though not in a wheelchair)
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{ "description": "reporting my roommate for having her boyfriend stay over every single night ? lengthy post but really need to hear other people's opinions", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I report my roommate for having her boyfriend stay over every single night ? Lengthy post but really need to hear other people’s opinions.
I (19f) live in a tiny 3 bedroom apartment with 2 other girls (both 20). In October 2018 one of my room mates, we will call her Kayla, reported me to the manager of our apartment complex for having my boyfriend at the time sleep over almost every single night. This really infuriated me at the time because my ex and I n...
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{ "description": "smoking on a gifted couch", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for smoking on a gifted couch?
So, one of my friends, gifted us some couches for our garage, where hang out, and smoke(weed only). Before we had couches, there’s a corner of the garage, with some chairs, where we would smoke. So my friend who gave us the couches, he had a friend who had to go back home, they’re both from Oman. So he was given the ...
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{ "description": "kicking my friend out of my house when he was drunk", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my friend out of my house when he was drunk?
I had a close friend live with me over the summer (verbally agreed for 3 months). He didn’t pay rent but he brought food over nearly every day from his parents’ restaurant where he worked, and donated a 100 dollars for groceries one month. He always enjoyed the party scene and was a bit of a slob to be honest, (I live ...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate to buy me new vegetables", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my roommate to buy me new vegetables?
Posting this before going to bed, so will answer any replies in the morning. So for the last three or so days my roommate has been coming down with what seems to be the flu. He’s been parked in the living room on the couch in nothing but sweat pants the entire time (which I’m not really fond of as I feel like he shou...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for finishing the last of my ice cream", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for finishing the last of my ice cream?
My boyfriend and I became roommates 7 months ago back when we were still just friends. We have been dating for the last 3 months. Over the months, he has continuously finished my food without asking. I have brought it up multiple times because it bothered me and I asked him to stop. We grocery shop together and split t...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad to walk me down the aisle", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my dad to walk me down the aisle?
My dad has, on occasion, expressed excitement about me getting married in the distant future. He wants to “give his little girl away” and it’s a big deal for him, as I’m the only daughter he has. However, I am sure that I do not want him to walk me down the aisle for a number of reasons, and I’ve felt this way for abou...
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{ "description": "getting my girlfriend in trouble from her curfew", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting my girlfriend in trouble from her curfew?
Background. I've been seeing this girl for a few months now, gone on a few dates and never had an issue with how late she's gotten home. Her parents are pretty strict and don't like me so they gave her a curfew to be home, roughly around 9. Of course I know this because I have strict parents myself but they seem to tru...
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{ "description": "spending time with my best friend's ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spending time with my best friend’s ex?
I recently moved to a new city and don’t know anyone here except for my best friend’s ex who also moved at the same time. (Lets call bf A and ex O). I’ve met up with the ex O a few times as we are both the only people we already knew in the city. I’d like to cultivate the friendship with O but AITA for not being a loya...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my friend?
So we're all in our mid to late 20s. My buddy and his family are very wealthy where as I live paycheck to paycheck. We will hang out at his place with no plans to go out to eat but somehow we will be running an errand and end up at a restaurant because his wife or sister are hungry. He used to pay for all of us to go a...
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{ "description": "quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting my job?
I took Job 1 because it paid a lot better than Job 2 and I didn't know what I wanted to do in life, even though I love Job 2 and everyone there and ended up staying there with one shift a week just because. When I got hired at Job 1, I was told it was an amazing company and I'd be hired part-time as a trial, but get 4...
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{ "description": "asking for my loaned money back", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for asking for my loaned money back?
When I met my husband he owned his own small contracting business and was making $4,500/mo for his takehome. I was and still am unemployed, but I get a trust fund stipend every month for $3,000. I think it was about a year into our relationship that his company started to lose traction and he decided to sell his projec...
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{ "description": "not liking my foster dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not liking my foster dog?
Recently I have agreed to take care of a dog that was abandoned by her previous owners for unknown reasons. She's still pretty young, barely above a year old, displaying puppy-like behaviours. She's very cute looking, she has those eyes like that cat from Shrek - you just can't refuse her anything when she looks at yo...
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{ "description": "being upset at my friend for dating my ex", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for being upset at my friend for dating my ex
A year ago we broke up. She moved out of my place. I had a buddy of mine over the day she did it so I had some support when she left. When she left she back right into his car and damaged the bumper. A year later he finally contacts her to get it fixed. Apparently they started to hangout after. Yesterday he messaged m...
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{ "description": "cooking for myself", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cooking for myself
I live with two roommates. Because of my schedule and training, I often eat at unusual times and thus cook for myself (I would ask them if they want some as well, but I know the answer from experience). Recently they and another common friend got mad about it saying I was being wasteful and egoistic. The thing is, I pa...
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{ "description": "inviting my ex-wife to my birthday party", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for inviting my ex-wife to my birthday party?
My ex-wife and I mostly get along ok. We split custody and after a mess at the beginning we both decided to be really strict about sticking to who has Ely and when. It just keeps the peace. This year my birthday comes up on one of her weeks. I really can’t imagine not spending it without him, he’s the most importa...
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{ "description": "yelling at my dad over a unwashed plate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for yelling at my dad over a unwashed plate
Sorry about bad formatting I’m on mobile. This is an alt account as they know about my main. This just happened a week ago and I’m still mad about it. So I am an 18 year old(in grade 12) and have an older brother use and a younger sister. My dad is lazy. He’s been unemployed for five years and doesn’t both to find w...
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{ "description": "not taking the food I ordered and leaving this nasty review after they refused to give me all of it", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not taking the food I ordered and leaving this nasty review after they refused to give me all of it?
Their website kept refusing my coupon for free lava cakes with a medium or large pizza and made me buy a large to get the coupon to work, so I called in. This review I left summarizes my experience perfectly (I didn’t pay beforehand). This is exactly what happened below and the review I left Worst experience ever. Nev...
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AITA all i want is my cat back am i the asshole??
Context: My father passed away, and it was just me and him, no other siblings, no mother, heart breaking. 11months later me and my gf decided to take a trip across the USA for a month so I’m not home depressed as it had been coming up to a year since I lost my dad. Anyway, I've had a cat since I was 5, I’m now 2...
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{ "description": "having my sister visit", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having my sister visit?
So Am I the asshole? Because when my roommate's sister came back from overseas she found herself pregnant. I agreed that I will keep quiet about it. But I guess I didn't realize it signed me up for not having my family around me. Mind you my family is three hours away, and my sister is wanting to come stay with me for ...
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{ "description": "asking a tennis player to learn with the Coach before playing with us", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a tennis player to learn with the Coach before playing with us
Earlier today me and a few friends were playing tennis on our schools tennis team. When one of our friends who decided that day he was going to join tennis team. He had no expressed interest in any sport before hand so we encouraged him to try it out. He came to play and we we're playing a full game of tennis. He aske...
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{ "description": "asking a woman when the baby was due when she wasn't actually pregnant", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for asking a woman when the baby was due when she wasn’t actually pregnant?
So I’m on the train. Normal morning commute to work. Luckily it’s not as crowded as normal so I get a seat and an empty seat next to me. At the next stop a woman gets on and sits next to me. It seemed to me like she was struggling to sit in a comfortable way and she her stomach was very round and protruding out of her ...
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{ "description": "getting Annoyed my neighbour for Multiple Problems such as being forced to take his delivery and Deal with bad airbnb guests", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Getting Annoyed My Neighbour For Multiple Problems Such As Being Forced To Take His Delivery and Deal With Bad AirBnB Guests
I have been living in a small apartment for quite some time now close to 17 years with my parents. The apartment is made up of only two flats. One of which I live in. The second flat was empty for the first 10 years, however, someone moved in. He was quite nice for the first few years, very supportive but after a while...
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{ "description": "refusing to give my ex his sweatshirt back", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for refusing to give my ex his sweatshirt back?
2 years ago, I was in high school and dated a guy we’ll call F. It happened as a result of us being in the same friend group and was never very serious. I broke up with him after a month because he was manipulative and tried to get me to choose him over my friends. Towards the end of our relationship, F wanted me to we...
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{ "description": "still wanting to go see friends when my wife has broken her hand", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for still wanting to go see friends when my wife has broken her hand?
My wife tripped this morning and broke her hand. I drove her to the ER, sat with her for a while, then went and stocked up on microwave food and soda for when she would come home. And then I relocated our dog to her sister's place since I am going to have to work late because of the wasted morning and tomorrow I'll be ...
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{ "description": "making the pizza delivery guys come up the stairs to my door", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For making the pizza delivery guys come up the stairs to my door?
I order from a nearby chain pizzeria pretty often. A bit about where I live: ​ My apartment is a "standalone" apartment on a street corner i.e. not part of an apartment complex, on the second floor above a store. There's a small outside staircase on the side street, about 10-12 steps. This staircase leads ...
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{ "description": "naming our group \"lonely bitch\" and then making all members leave except one", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for naming our group "lonely bitch" and then making all members leave except one?
This happened last Wednesday, we are 6 best friends (me and 5 others), one of them, let's call him (Z), didn't even wave when he saw us sitting together, and continued talking to a group of girls he was already sitting with, so we thought as a comeback, we'll just do a harmless joke(my idea), so we named our WhatsApp g...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "calling my little brother a Nazi in a holocaust museum", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my little brother a Nazi in a holocaust museum
he will likely see this as an avid reddit user, in which case, hey little bro! i’ll start by saying that my comment wasn’t unfounded, he’s said some stuff which really borders on racism. he is twelve, and uses lots of dog whistles and racist memes, and doesn’t seem to grasp the full context of what he says, and doesn...
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{ "description": "getting fed up with one or two of my roommates", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting fed up with one or two of my roommates?
Let me give you the short version of it. Here's what I've done that would make me the asshole: -Forgotten to replace the toilet paper maybe once or twice last semester. -Left a few dishes on the counter of the kitchen. -Forgotten a slight mess I'd made in the kitchen once last semester. -Accidentally broke a bottle o...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl after she scared my friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a girl after she scared my friend
I met a girl on Tinder. We talked a lot and it turned out we had lectures in the same building, so one day we decided I'd wait for her and we'd met in person. The meeting was meh. Turned out she could meet me only because she was supposed to get some documents from doctor and right after that she needed to go home. It...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "reporting a noise complaint against my hearing impaired neighbor", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I reported a noise complaint against my hearing impaired neighbor?
I know that sounds bad and that's why I'm here. For the last few months, my fiancé and I have lived in a small apartment complex. To begin with, the place isn't built great so the walls are thin, but we only have this issue with one neighbor. Usually it's music or tv and it is loud. I mean like we can hear every word...
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OTHER
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AITA for the way I went about pointing out someone's mistake?
I am the sort of person who, if I make a mistake, I want someone to tell me so I can correct it. I understand that some people are sensitive to this, so when I do say something I try to be nice about it and maybe say it in a "joking" fashion. This was what I was attempting when I posted [this](http://imgur.com/6B7daO8)...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "submitting an extra credit question and being told it was inappropriate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for submitting an extra credit question and being told it was inappropriate
I am a freshman in college and am currently enrolled in a seminar class. The teacher has offered extra credit in the form of a question submission via email. The teacher's first email goes as All, This Monday’s class period will have faculty as guest panelists. They will be there to answer any questions you may...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "ghosting my ex gf who accused me of rape on reddit", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ghosting my ex gf who accused me of rape on reddit?
Yeah I know this is a mess. Basically my long distance gf (I'm 20 now she's 19) accused me of rape on some advice forum on Reddit. I know ghosting isn't generally okay but I got seriously pissed off at what she wrote about me. She made it seem like I was the bad guy, telling everyone how I was being too rough with her ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 4 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not calling my sister & nephew on their birthdays", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not calling my sister & nephew on their birthdays?
My sister and I have a very combative relationship. She's in her 40s and has never had success in her career. It's not entirely her fault, but she takes it out on other people. I'm younger and things have gone better for me, but she thinks that I can help her in ways that I can't. Years ago my intern (a woman) was...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting my wife to book a hotel by herself for a night away", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for not wanting my wife to book a hotel by herself for a night away?
Hello Reddit, ​ So my wife is pregnant and is in her third trimester. She has recently been complaining about how stressed she is and how she needs a break. She says she needs a night away in a hotel by herself. ​ I find the night away in a hotel by herself to be strange, especially seeing tha...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 27 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "stepping away from a friendship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for stepping away from a friendship?
Hi guys, I’m 22F. I’ve been fighting depression and after being gone for 2 months (as in no social media, no gaming, etc) because of the death of my mom, I came back to find some shitty things. I realized that a friend, we will call her B, blocked me on every social media platform. I talked to others and from what I’v...
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{ "description": "getting rude with my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting rude with my mom
Here me out okay. So I[15F] have some event coming up where I need to wear something all black. I decided to ask my mom[36F] for a jumpsuit of hers to wear (we are relatively the same size with her being slightly bigger than me) The entire time she complain about me using it for whatever reason and told me I was going...
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{ "description": "accidentally breaking my friends tv", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for accidentally breaking my friends TV?
So before I start this was a very minor event that happened and I will admit that the entire thing sounds EXTREMELY childish. So I am very ticklish (this is important to the story) like insanely ticklish. Anyways, I was playing video games on the couch with 2 of my best friends. One of those two friends and his fian...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "suggesting to my co-workers that I am unable to have children", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for suggesting to my co-workers that I am unable to have children?
At work, I'm in a department with eight people. I am the only person on the team without children and I'm the youngest by about five years (I'm a woman and almost 30). They all are very family-oriented and I like to stay at home with my fiance and play video games. We don't want children at all, and I have an IUD that ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "suggesting a cheaper date for my now ex-girlfriend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA-For suggesting a cheaper date for my now ex-girlfriend’s birthday?
I will now supply some context. I’m a 21M, who is in college and paying for my own college. I had been with my now ex for 3 years. So day before her birthday she suggests we go to an expensive restaurant. So I suggest we go somewhere cheaper because we can use that money for when we go on our vacation the next week.(wh...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to bring her dogs over to my apartment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to bring her dogs over to my apartment?
I’ve recently moved into my first apartment, by myself. I have one doggo who never has an issue with having accidents in the house. However, whenever my gf brings her two dogs over inevitably there’s poop and pee SOMEWHERE in my apartment. I’m sick of it. She refuses to use negative reinforcement with her dogs (so IMO ...
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{ "description": "getting an emotional support animal letter through an online service", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I got an emotional support animal letter through an online service?
My boyfriend (22M) and I (22F) recently moved into an apartment together. In doing so, I moved out of my parents’ house. I have anxiety and regularly (especially in the evening) experience rapid heart rate, shortness of breath, lightheadedness, feeling of a “pit” in my stomach, fatigue, etc. This happens more frequent...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "having a crush on my coworker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for having a crush on my coworker?
Okay so I'm married and I have a crush on my coworker. Here's a little back story of my marriage: we have been together almost 3 years, got engaged after 7 months, married after about a year and a half. For our entire relationship, he's had crappy jobs and I've talked to him multiple times about trying to find somethin...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "turning someone down cause they have HSV2", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for turning someone down cause they have HSV2?
I responded to a dating ad on here a few weeks ago. I gave some info about myself and they said something to the effect of "just so you know I have HSV2". I told them sorry(this won't work for me) and wished them luck. They responded with "omg". This to me was a clear dig at me with the implication being that I'm a j...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "using Amazon prices as price match at Brick and Mortar stores", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for using Amazon prices as price match at Brick and Mortar stores?
I often will price match at stores like Best Buy and not feel as bad because they are a national chain. But, I have also done this at locally owned stores without considering the ramifications. ​ Now, I'm all sure you have seen stores closing in your hometown such as I have. Is my price matching practice ...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "telling my wife I will go do laps with her at night, and only going once in 3 days", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my wife I will go do laps with her at night, and only going once in 3 days?
Okay so my wife is overweight and I tried to get her to do something about it. She said she wanted to go swimming and do laps so I agreed happily even stating "I'll do whatever you want I dont care I just want to help". Well I didnt think she meant at 9 15 to 10pm ! And its 20 mins away o yeah n I have to be up at 5 am...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "trying to knock my friend down a peg for becoming an EMT", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for trying to knock my friend down a peg for becoming an EMT?
I've had this friend since first grade and since being out of high school, she has decided to become an EMT. She been only been in the program for a few months (since August 2018) but since even before the program started has being posting these boastful (i.e. prideful and almost arrogant) snap stories anywhere between...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 17 }
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{ "description": "not inviting my brother to a trip I'm taking with my girlfriend and parents", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not inviting my brother to a trip I'm taking with my girlfriend and parents?
My girlfriend is German so last year we took a trip to visit her family there. Last year, it seemed like my dad really wanted to go too. So, this year I invited him and my mom to come with. Both my parents are in their 50s and this is the first vacation in years that my dad has taken where it's not about taking kids...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "refusing to let the father of my child get involved if he refuses to pay child support", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to let the father of my child get involved IF he refuses to pay child support ?
This is a throw away account. I told my ex if he is not willing to pitch in his share financially, he cannot see our child. He makes twice as I do. He still pursues his hobbies. I've pretty much given up mine to make ends meet. And no, neither me nor my son are citizens of a country or residing in a country that...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriend spoiled", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for calling my girlfriend spoiled?
(Mobile formatting sorry) My girlfriend and I are both seniors in high school. Today she got a letter from a small, state university. The letter said she received a substantial scholarship that would cover all expenses, as well as allow her to study abroad for free. I was so excited for her, but she didn’t really care....
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 19 }
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{ "description": "leaving my friend when we made plans", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for leaving my friend when we made plans?
Ok so backstory, I only have 1friend, very popular. We are both in the same high school but she lives far from the school and I don't so she takes the bus and I walk. Sometimes she invites me over to her place and today was one of those days We left the school while talking to this other girl (also popular) I am back...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "arguing with a woman who took my spot in line", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with a woman who took my spot in line?
This happened about 5 years ago when I was 16 but has always bothered me. I was at an amusement park with my cousin who is a few years younger than me. She had had a problem with her ticket so we went to go stand in line to see guest services outside the entrace to the park. We're in a line with about 15 people in tota...
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{ "description": "telling my co worker that she is a hypocrite for not letting me have a day off", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my co worker that she is a hypocrite for not letting me have a day off.
So a little background I work at a movie theater that is on the brink of shutting down. This is a mixture off poor pay and management. Now I don’t hate any of my co workers but it feels like I am sometimes put with the worse ones because I do my job. So today I decided to take a mental health day to deal with some stre...
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{ "description": "telling someone out the blue I don't like them", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I told someone out the blue I don't like them?
I have a “friend” in my friend group that just makes my blood boil, all of us kind of just tolerate him but I am really not a fan. We made a plan for a trip this weekend and he asked about it. I told him we already booked it and that we aren’t allowed to have guests. He blew up and this is all just a culmination of ev...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "being angry with my mom", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being angry with my Mom
I dated a girl "F" for 2 years. We had gotten close and my family really took a liking to her. My mom, specifically, got along well with her and they frequently texted and chatted on facebook. ​ Flash forward toward the end of our relationship. We weren't too attracted to each other anymore and the nail in...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "breaking them up", "pronormative_score": 88, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking them up?
My daughter is 16 years old dating a 17 year old boy, they attend the same high school and have been dating for over 3 years. I've never had an issue with their relationship and have always been very happy for the both of them, he's stayed here multiple times, she's stayed at his home multiple times, he eats dinner wit...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 88, "WRONG": 4 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not tipping", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not tipping?
I went to go eat some all you can eat Korean BBQ with my friends after we finished a tedious group project to celebrate (highschool). After waiting for some time, the waiter finally takes our order for our first round. We noticed that he hadn't brought us any water. We don't mind because you have to ask for water in Ca...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 14, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "moving my roommates things", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving my roommates things
A bit of context before I dive in, my roommate and I share a two-bedroom apartment with a small common space with a kitchen and living room. The apartment is pre-furnished with everything anyone could need. My roommate was leasing their room a year before I started leasing mine. According to our neighbors the person ...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my family when they went to Logan's Candies without me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting pissed at my family when they went to Logan's Candies without me?
My friends and I have wanted to go the Old Spaghetti Factory for a while, and my mom planned with their parents for us to go today. I was totally okay with that. My sister just got back from college yesterday night and I didn't go to the airport with my family to get her because I was in the middle of baking cookies w...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "getting angry at people when they talk too much about completely irrelevant things", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting angry at people when they talk too much about completely irrelevant things?
I'm not sure why this pisses me off so much, but it does. People that just make either random remarks or just tell people everything they do before or after they do it for no contextual reason, just bug tf out of me.
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "wanting one of my friends to ghost the guy who's been ghosting her for 2 months now that he's stopped", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting one of my friends to ghost the guy who’s been ghosting her for 2 months now that he’s stopped?
A girlfriend of mine has been seeing this guy for about 3-4 months. All was well the first 2 months, then he started ghosting her. So she started to become disinterested once she started to deal with the rejection, about a week ago, she said she was happy that it was over and she wouldn’t have to worry about it anymore...
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{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "wanting to be warned about my BF drawing nude life drawings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to be warned about my BF drawing nude life drawings?
u/FederalPoet 's post nude painting reminded me of this, which I guess I haven't finished processing! To tell the short version of the backstory, my BF had made out with another girl while I was in the other room doing dishes. (And the night before at the club we were at and had cuddled with her the whole night also ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 6 }
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AITA: Roommate requests we all use scent-free items.
This is kind of a dumb situation. A bit of context: I live in an apartment with two other people, one of which has a scent allergy (aversion?) and thus it’s a “fragrance free home.” What this meant was no scented laundry detergent, no dryer sheets, air fresheners, etc. I was not told this by the landlord until I had ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give someone my number after I asked them for their number and they instead asked for mine and didn't give me theirs", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA For not wanting to give someone my number AFTER I asked them for their number and they instead asked for mine and didn't give me theirs?
Sometimes I meet people (whether in a dating, social, or work setting) and I asked for their numbers to keep in touch. Instead of giving me their number, some people ask me for mine which makes me feel weird because I'm the one who asked first - just give me you number. I feel like they're being difficult or just sneak...
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{ "description": "not giving my professor's email to my classmate who had incurred absence because of medical reasons", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITAH for not giving my professor's email to my classmate who had incurred absence because of medical reasons?
Im taking a class in which I am the beadle so all inquries are sent to me and I give them to my professor. I have a classmate who was a late enrollee. But she just missed one class because of that late enrollment. Anyways she never went to class. She had not even had the chance to submit a class card(for attendance) be...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend is blowing me off for his parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset that my boyfriend is blowing me off for his parents?
My boyfriend (N) and I are young, he still lives with his parents (he’s 17, I’m 18). He spends a lot of time with his family, especially recently, which is understandable because of the holidays. They’re going to the mountains on the 29th for a week, and a few days ago we made plans to go to this festival on the 28th (...
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{ "description": "not having sex with Girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA : For not having sex with Girlfriend
Ok so recently My girlfriend has been pretty pissed at me because I don’t have sex with her. She has been asking me for like two weeks but I have so much stress from work and I’m helping my cousin train for some cross country event. I just don’t have the energy for that. Well according to her that’s unfair for her beca...
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{ "description": "not taking homecoming pictures off my instagram of my sister and her ex per her new boyfriend's request", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking homecoming pictures off my instagram of my sister and her ex per her new boyfriend's request?
First I'm gonna provide some context. About two years ago I met this guy named Sean, and after about 6 months of knowing each other we became very good friends. So much so that when homecoming rolled around during our sophomore year we decided to go together (I was still identifying as female) as friends. We went in a ...
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{ "description": "not believing my housemate's mental health issue should get her out of cleaning", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not believing my housemate's mental health issue should get her out of cleaning?
A while ago I agreed to move in with a friend who worked out of town, and unbeknownst to me at the time, this friend's girlfriend decided to let her lease run out and move in too. Since the very start she has been disgusting. All of the stuff she moved in with was caked and covered in dirt, hair and grease and she dump...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a guy by (accidentally) lying to him", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with a guy by (accidentally) lying to him.
On mobile so apologies ahead of time for any formatting issues. Sort of a long story. Alright, to preface, I’m a 20 year old female, and I haven’t had a lot of relationship experience. I dated a girl for around 2-3 years in highschool-freshman year of college and that’s it. I didn’t and for the most part still don’t f...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my family for constantly talking about my younger brothers engagement and not about mine while I am also engaged", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with my family for constantly talking about my younger brothers engagement and not about mine while I am also engaged?
TL:DR My brother is essentially marrying someone that my family has never met and has not set a wedding date, and yet my family constantly talks about it and almost never brings up my engagement/wedding that ii only 4 months away. ​ Hey all, I'll try to give some context to better understand the situation....
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{ "description": "telling my brother to F*** off and destroying the plant vase in my house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling my brother to F*** Off and destroying the plant vase in my house?
So I have a Chemistry test on Monday and I need to study for it. I go into my room and my brother is blasting music at full volume and I tell him to please use headphones so I can concentrate. We share a room unfortunatetly. Can't study in the kitchen because my sister is doing her stuff and it's usually very cold ther...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay utilities", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to pay utilities?
I’ll try my best to keep this nice & short- but I need honestly here it has been absolutely deceiving me nuts the past two weeks There’s 4 of us, we live in an off campus apartment complex. It’s not the nicest place ever but it’s a step up from the dorms so that’s nice- plus it’s all students. We all “rent by the ...
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AITA about sons girlfriend
So my son and his girlfriend are high school aged and have been dating for over a year. At first when she came over I tried to have polite conversation about her, school, her family, etc. She interrupts a lot, tells pretty grandiose lies about how much money her family has and the things she buys them and even when you...
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{ "description": "being annoyed after I ghosted my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being annoyed after I ghosted my friend?
Recently I've been struggling with my mental health. I've taken time out of University to try to deal with it so I'm staying at home with my parents right now. I only have one friend here and we've been friends for over ten years and because I'm home we've been hanging out a bit. Never loads because I can't cope with t...
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{ "description": "wanting a promotion", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a promotion?
I work in a service department that has an operations manager overseeing 5 team managers. Each manager has a team of service engineers at varying skill levels (I'm at the top level which is seen as an assistant manager and service engineer in one) My manager is about 2 years away from retirement and has been mentori...
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{ "description": "threatening my dad with theft", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for threatening my dad with theft
My dad and I are polar opposites as in he likes to go out and run in the park and I would much rather play onto my Xbox and he doesn’t like that. When I was 8 we got into a argument and he ended up breaking my Xbox 360 I told every one that year for Christmas how much I wanted a new gaming console and my grandma neede...
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{ "description": "asking my friend not bring his gf to social gatherings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend not bring his gf to social gatherings
I have known a good friend for more than 15 years. We are both in our thirties and have professional and high-stress jobs. When we meet every 6 months (he lives in Australia), we talk about our jobs. We talk about the details to the long term issues of where to work. We also act like fools at times - mocking each other...
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{ "description": "getting offended that a new person in our friend group did not follow me back on Instagram and subsequently decided to unfollow them", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for getting offended that a new person in our friend group did not follow me back on Instagram and subsequently decided to unfollow them?
A friend in our friend group started dating someone and we welcomed her with open arms. The first night we all hung out, they stayed at my house and we all had coffee and ate breakfast together the next day. My friend and her relationship seems like it’s getting serious, so I want us all to be friends. I don’t really ...
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{ "description": "telling my future MIL that she can't see her future grandchildren", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling my future MIL that she can't see her future grandchildren?
Recent events have made me question my choice to give my girlfriend's mother an ultimatum regarding her future rights to see her as-of-yet unborn grandchildren. My girlfriend is currently saddled with over $15,000 in *her mother's debt* that was put in credit cards/student loans under my girlfriend's name, and she is i...
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{ "description": "taking my video games when I moved out", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for taking my video games when I moved out?
I’ve (19M) been living at my parents house for a long time. During that time, I’ve bought a lot of consoles and video games. I have a little brother (12M) who plays with those video games a lot to. Recently, I moved out into my own apartment with my girlfriend and I took all the video games that were mine. The problem...
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{ "description": "allowing men to stay with me in a hotel room I already said other women in my program could also stay in", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for allowing men to stay with me (f) in a hotel room I already said other women in my program could also stay in (allowing everyone to stay)?
I am going to a conference related to what I am studying in graduate school. I am lucky enough that I could get a hotel room on site at the conference. The hotel allows me to have up to 6 people in the room so I offered space to other students in my cohort for free as I know that there are a lot of financial limitation...
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{ "description": "tattooing my boyfriend while he was sleeping", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for tattooing my boyfriend while he was sleeping?
My boyfriend of 2 years has been talking about getting another tattoo for a long time now, specifically a small cursive name of his mother. We haven’t had the money recently since we live pretty much paycheck to paycheck, even if the tattoo is cheap it still could hurt us in the long run later. So I decided to tatt...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my friend for self-diagnosing", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being annoyed at my friend for self-diagnosing?
As a general rule, I hate people who self-diagnose themselves with mental illnesses. But my friend says that she has anxiety, despite never having been diagnosed with it. According to her, the reason she doesn't have a diagnosis is because her anxiety is preventing her from asking her parents if she can see a therapis...
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{ "description": "trolling Americans while on holiday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for trolling Americans while on holiday?
I'm on holiday in Portland Oregon by myself for 4 weeks to see my cousins. My cousins are 17M, 18F and 12M. So there really is not much to do here or see. And my uncle won't take me to other states in the US, so I have just been causing havoc when I can. For example, when my cousin (17M) introduced me to his group o...
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{ "description": "not tipping", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Tipping?
I am a firmer believer in tipping. I tip every time I go out to restaurants or bars, regardless of service. I understand that some people are just having a bad day and they aren't intentionally giving poor service. However, I don't ever tip when I pick up a pizza from pizza Hut. I know everyone there is paid an hourly ...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship with an autistic kid", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I end a friendship with an autistic kid?
It all started the beginning of this school year. I was new at the school and I was sitting at lunch. This kid came up to me and shook my hand. I thought, okay yea that's a little weird. I found out later that literally no one liked him and I wondered why. Soon I found out why. He has a hell of a temper and will start ...
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{ "description": "not helping my boyfriend with college applications", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my boyfriend with college applications?
Just throwing it out there, he's 17 and I just turned 18, we're both seniors in highschool and I'm stressing out big time about college applications. I have a 2.3 GPA (not good I know), but I still have a decent amount of colleges that are reasonable for me to apply to. However, my boyfriend is in the same boat as me, ...
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{ "description": "banning my son's friend from our house", "pronormative_score": 82, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for banning my son’s friend from our house?
Towards the end of last fall my 16 year old son started bringing a friend over to our house. He’s a nice enough kid, but over the course of this winter he’s basically inserted himself into our family. Now he comes over every day after school and spends the night frequently on weekends. He only has his mother in h...
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{ "description": "asking my friends/family to unfriend my ex on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for asking my friends/family to unfriend my ex on Facebook?
For context, I was married for about 5 years, no kids, now divorced for about a year and a half. It was a pretty peaceful split all things considered. A few of my important friends and family members are still Facebook friends with my ex. I don’t have Facebook, but these friends and family make posts about me and my...
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