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j23CJSXwpRzWw1BvCsFurFMHauKu7W55 | b32ymu | {
"description": "telling my friend's parents about her relationship as revenge",
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} | AITA for telling my friend's parents about her relationship as revenge? | One of my friends has been dating this guy from her church for almost two and a half years without telling her parents. We live in a very small christian town and her parents are incredibly religious, so they wouldn't approve of her dating anyone, nevermind her current bf. He's 22, and she's 17. The age of consent here... | HISTORICAL | {
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rdt9sxJAiEnUAKmTkfnRVJiT5fpCIGC9 | aphod9 | {
"description": "turning the neighbors in for having dogs",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA for turning the neighbors in for having dogs? | Context: I live in some townhomes that are independently owned, but many are owned and rented out. We rent and the people next door rent as well (from different landlords). The HOA rules state that no dogs are allowed. We got an exception because I have a ten pound, very well-behaved dog. He barks when someone knocks o... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
pw6BSniDuvaQeg8LvIr6iAvQor4k1UJ8 | anb1xn | {
"description": "not wanting a traditional wedding",
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} | AITA for not wanting a traditional wedding? | TL/DR at bottom
My fiancé and I got engaged back in August. He gave me my dream proposal in my favorite place and totally surprised me. It was perfect.
I’ll admit I definitely had engagement fever and was dying for him to pop the question.
He is my best friend and my favorite person.
Now that we are engaged its all ver... | HISTORICAL | {
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3lTmmbJDlrMPeEW9dZxIoEK0lptZjVOs | b358s1 | {
"description": "wanting to be distant with my parents/family",
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} | AITA If I want to be distant with my parents/family? | 2 years ago my dad was being investigated for CP possession. 3 months from now he will be going to prison leaving my mom to fend for herself. She's financially able to take care of herself, but she still wants to live with me.
I don't want her to live with me because:
1. I am a 3 minute walk away. That's really the c... | HISTORICAL | {
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LTOc1xr7NTsW0naRCEzzRum1apPrg1Ov | al1pi0 | {
"description": "not telling my girlfriend the name of an old friend",
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} | AITA for not telling my girlfriend the name of an old friend | Early yesterday morning I got a friend request from an old buddy of mine. We’d been friends for years, and were quite close. He and I had a brief (no sex) fling (I was having one of my first manic episodes, and, with also being borderline, it’s not like it was that meaningful), which ultimately ended with an event I d... | HISTORICAL | {
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lYONb0vFDiPgOeGtSmbaxTRsp0tpp3kP | atvvn9 | {
"description": "never learning my friend's name",
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} | AITA for never learning my friend's name? | This is probably the most awkward experience I've ever had. When I was in my third year of university, I became friends with a girl in one of my tutorials. We would often sit together in class, get coffee afterwards, all that kind of stuff. We mostly just talked about our class but it was still nice and she was lovely.... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
QzEKqChiu3uMVl32CEqQyhRFTOmaRNOO | aowlkf | {
"description": "making a Michaels employee process a return",
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} | AITA for making a Michaels employee process a return? | I went to grab some polka dot stickers for my girlfriend's 4yo cousin's bedroom. I bought two boxes of 40 stickers, and one of the boxes was defective and only had one of the four sheets. So I went back to the location I purchased it in, but they were out, but validated inventory from another location across town.
So... | HISTORICAL | {
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hZu5OxxGq6ZpAjoEPurf6raeTEAyKdD7 | 9yto5x | {
"description": "blocking my family on Instagram",
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} | AITA for blocking my family on Instagram? | Sorry if I go a little overboard with context. I am a 20 year old young adult. My immediate family lives 40 minutes away, any other family lives in a different part of the country.
I am not close to any of my family really, especially the ones that live away. I've never known them too well, I don't feel a connection... | HISTORICAL | {
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1MC8FsZg3c83ywPmeJepyAT7GqQhQyvs | aghwlb | {
"description": "wanting to breakup withy g of almost 2 years because she's gone cold",
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} | AITA for wanting to breakup with (m27)y g(f31) of almost 2 years because she’s gone cold? | Our relationship hasn’t been perfect but I was deeply in love with her. We had not been intimate in quite a while.Recently, I was late getting to her to take her daughter to school and then getting her from work as well. I work overnight, had started taking online classes, as well as working out, and was just exhaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
ZNLY0mWZwy95I1Nu3uXG2gJI2U8ijYJo | abwmrp | {
"description": "accidentally locking my father's cat in a room without food or drinking for 2 days",
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} | AITA I accidentally locked my father's cat in a room without food or drink for 2 days. | I graciously told my father that I would feed his parrot while he was gone for a couple days. I didn't ask for payment. I considered it a family favor.
He laid out instructions in text form on what and how to feed the parrot, and he even followed up a couple days later asking if I had gone over. I told him I would go... | HISTORICAL | {
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xzg8fZHHODuEFe6GFpH5eNcqigQPSUOm | alk7qe | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to take off his shirt",
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} | AITA if I want my boyfriend to take off his shirt? | We have been together for almost 7 months. He refuses to remove his button-up shirt on this Uber ride when I want him to because I have to give him his sweater, and I would like to see, anyway. He usually takes of his shirt when we fuck or whatever, but he doesn’t want to right now. Am I the asshole?
Thanks for readin... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
CDQRHfHyccZFbvxVKW6Y8xvfnD2QR3QB | asduub | {
"description": "not wanting to give up my job? because GF is depressed",
"pronormative_score": 24,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA For not wanting to give up my job? Because GF is depressed. | So my GF (30F) and me (31M) have been together for over 12 years now, and for most of her time with me she has suffered from depression on and off and has been manifesting itself in different ways every time.
Early in our relationship she wanted to become a teacher, I expressed my concern that It's mentally challengin... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 24,
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} | RIGHT |
2PtslTakbkET2JYK7iWTuY62fUqFtDvv | b26lz1 | {
"description": "wanting to go to the nearby elementary school and ask them to turn down the speaker system that is echoing throughout the neighborhood or to at least stop shouting into the mic",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | Aita for wanting to go to the nearby elementary school and ask them to turn down the speaker system that is echoing throughout the neighborhood or to at least stop shouting into the mic | I live about point 3 miles from a elementary school and they seem to be having a event this morning and normally their events and the class bell does not bother me but I am trying to get better while I am currently sick so I need all the sleep I can get and I am debating going over to the school to ask them to turn it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
HtkpHUupzL3zqgVJbQzd41kj9pVzxsYh | anupw5 | {
"description": "not wanting to go on another double date",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for not wanting to go on another double date? | TLDR: Me(27F) and my SO(27M) went on a double date and it was just okay, he thinks we should try again I think it’s not gonna change anything. AITA for not wanting to go on another date with them?
So me (27F) and my SO (27M) went on a double date on Saturday with his coworker (25F) and her fiancé (26M). This was our ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
iMhM8dfa78hgITmAy7Gj90Q3y3YCabb7 | arvkxx | {
"description": "not engaging in small talk over text",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for not engaging in small talk over text | Sigh. How to start? I consider myself a socially competent person; many might even describe me as "thoughtful." Despite remembering birthdays and volunteering to chat up all the elderly relatives at family functions, the one type of small talk I can't stand are rhetorical greetings. (best example I can find linked belo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
nLIF6pj63xSqlNHXhdbiHocc9UfKrlHv | b93q36 | {
"description": "bringing it up to my boyfriend that he hasn't bought me a birthday gift",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for bringing it up to my boyfriend that he hasn’t bought me a birthday gift? | Together about 6 months, long distance. His birthday was a week before mine and we celebrated by meeting in Vegas. I got him a nice watch and a card. We had a great time!
I asked him for a card at the least, and told him the gift itself doesn’t really matter to me (it doesn’t). My birthday was about 2 weeks ago and he... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
opFkuq0fTI0v5SSWlGZ3M8xZHMv028uk | ar93bq | null | AITA - S/O (m) has ‘let himself go’. | My partner (57 m)has progressively let himself go. He’s put in easily 40kg (~80lb) over the last few years, started smoking and goes around in bleach stained shorts and t-shirts with holes all over them.
I’ve gently spoke to him about it, I am worried about his health, and says ‘I’m trying’, then continues to over ea... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
hGFrA2wbNez0vY5dZzeZpSDF1mARfKtE | acod0s | {
"description": "not wanting to enable my grandparents hurting themselves",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to enable my grandparents hurting themselves | Am I the asshole? For the past year, my grandparents have gone downhill. They truly need 24/7 care. But my grandfather is too prideful and stubborn to change thier situation. They don't want to move somewhere with assisted living. Thier insurance would cover a 24/7 nurse, but they say they don't want a stranger in thie... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
MatVIhEz0okyGBYyBa5pcwF9Kod4P0m4 | anieof | {
"description": "calling a club owner a \"short little leprechaun\" and telling him that he would never find a girlfriend after not taking down a Facebook photo of me",
"pronormative_score": 27,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for calling a club owner a “short little leprechaun” and telling him that he would never find a girlfriend after not taking down a Facebook photo of me? | throwaway because some work colleagues know my real account.
Last weekend I (22F) went to a club with a few of my best friends. My friends all look absolutely gorgeous and get approached by men a lot. I’m going to be completely honest and say that I’m definitely not as attractive. I’m not overweight, but I’m definitel... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 27,
"EVERYBODY": 16,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 27,
"WRONG": 19
} | RIGHT |
RdRicITJyMyw1dQgM57idtF7dOSN2NAo | a8rjri | {
"description": "threatening to cut my parents off if my mother tells my father something personal to me",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for threatening to cut my parents off if my mother tells my father something personal to me? | So to set the stage, I am FTM transgender, but I'm not out yet, except for to my best friend. My mother is a social worker that works with kids and teens, so naturally, she has always been very accepting of me, and I know that whatever I do, she will support me. However, my father is the opposite. He is a frequently un... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Ooa8Z2cxolVmaD3HYDip7rMQLJyK63so | av26n3 | {
"description": "taking advantage of a free lunch",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for taking advantage of a free lunch? | I go to a fairly small private US college. The food isn't bad by any means, and in fact I like it for the most part.
Come lunch time yesterday I order my typical Italian sandwich and go to the cooler to grab a drink. I set my sandwich down for a second when the wrapper unfolded. Lo and behold, [one of these little guy... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
SPaYcp9ZD9k6aaS7eCCMdNOMvQoJ3VwP | a1b6ff | {
"description": "cutting off a friend who won't stop talking about her sex life",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for cutting off a friend who won’t stop talking about her sex life? | I’ve been friends with this girl, let’s call her Gina, for nearly 20 years now but over the past 5 it’s become increasingly difficult.
I can never have a conversation with her without her bringing up sex or her own sexual experiences or suggesting it to me.
A good friend of ours died a few weeks ago tragically. I inv... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ZoXHP9UDtcktTzsg8cBtF2YU0dQDXP5x | adv28g | {
"description": "bringing a date to Social Function that included a Guy I used to date",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For Bringing A Date To Social Function That Included A Guy I Used To Date? | So back in Sept 2018 I started hanging out with this guy and we went on a couple dates. It was ok but I wasn't feeling the chemistry. I suggested that we stay friends as I did enjoy his company even if I didn't feel anything romantically. He shot me down on this, which I guess in retrospect wasn't too surprising but wh... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
nmyyHPZyvm87rLFdS1gg629T9NbDuDxY | ay2shf | {
"description": "postponing my alarm",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for postponing my alarm? | I'll just get straight into it.
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At some point during the day, my SO informed me that (s)he had to wake up at 7 AM for class. I said that I was also planning to get up at 7 AM because I wanted to start my day early, although I didn't have to. Later, we watched an episode of GoT together. Afterwards, my SO... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
902NJEThbLb7wJaf2OyqZFcYjYzE2zoc | ao43q9 | {
"description": "canceling my husband's party",
"pronormative_score": 16,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for canceling my husband’s party? | My husband has been planning a party at our home for about three weeks now, scheduled for today.
The past week, however, our house has also been pretty mess. I work full time, he currently does not work, so I asked him to clean it up and told him that I wasn’t comfortable with the place for company. I also told him t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 16,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 16,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
V0icSkQHVOfx8SJNUZSdi3jS6GIDNcCX | av51q0 | {
"description": "getting mad at my gf when my only tv remote charger is lent to our neighbor and then lent to another neighbor without asking me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting mad at my GF when my only TV remote charger is lent to our neighbor and then lent to another neighbor without asking me? | We have mostly gotten rid of Apple products in our house (they aren't what they used to be) so we only have the one charger which I use to charge our Apple TV remote. The remote has died and that's when I found out my girlfriend lent the charger to our neighbor.
This is fine but then I found out that my neighbor has ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Q2hyjxMYEwiYAa8X4kLZOfmbykbLerdW | aygshj | {
"description": "overlapping romantic relationships",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for overlapping romantic relationships? | **TL;DR The end of my last relationship overlapped with the beginning of my current relationship. Girlfriend wasn't happy about it.**
I got into a dispute with my girlfriend 'May' a few days ago. I apologized and things seem to be fine now, but I still am left with a feeling of uneasiness about the whole thing.
She l... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 15
} | WRONG |
SwODjJONvhN58QwyFNpK3ktSC81ntpvU | ab3drs | {
"description": "calling a sick girl out",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling a sick girl out? | Okay. So this situation has been over for a while but I’m in need of some outside perspective as it’s still stuck on my mind.
Months ago I was dating a wonderful person that I loved very much and in that time he bought up that his female friend at the time once lead him on before dating his best friend. It made me un... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
TwMnkrpC2ueTMXgyBgb7N43ZUc2DoDVf | ah0747 | {
"description": "telling a homeless man to go back to the train tracks before I put him there",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for telling a homeless man to go back to the train tracks before I put him there? | Context:
I am a 6'0 male I workout a little. Never been real scared of confrontation.
I live in a mid-sized southern city. Southern hospitality is big here and so is treating others with respect. Despite it being the south the city is very open-minded and accepting.
Our city has a VERY LARGE homeless population es... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
4Arhakb2HERgKhKW5CuF9h9P4MvamV5R | at01a3 | null | AITA Mother Punishing For Lying | (English isn't my first language so pardon the grammar)
So this requires a little backstory, my whole life I've dealt with parental issues. Thankfully now, at 16 I have gained some independence. I understand I have more freedom than my other peers but I feel it was mostly out of necessity. I have been working si... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
CHKT7P2qW7td6AR2ps8n4K0KLgHA8TgX | aymrjt | {
"description": "not recycling for money",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I don't recycle for money? | My roommate wants us to start recycling our cans at the local grocery store that has a machine where you can dump in cans and get points on a debit card thing for the grocery store. His idea is that we use the money as a slush fund for cleaning supplies. Frankly I don't it's worth the effort for a few reasons. We have ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
qPw6a18V3x3Gsuphslg1ar8bfOtRPKhm | a606xy | {
"description": "rejecting a game someone bought me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for rejecting a game someone bought me? | On mobile, so please forgive any formatting problems. Also rarely post threads.
Best friend in the world and I are avid gamers. Known each other 18 years. Over half our lives. I own a gaming PC, XBone, PS4, and a Switch. I only use the consoles for exclusives, and PC for anything/everything else that has a PC release... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
7WwLmJR10VbpahDwg3G9fO4vLHPwBvyU | ai3ky8 | {
"description": "speaking my mind about a disabled person I know to my boss",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I speak my mind about a disabled person I know to my boss? | This looks bad...
I probably am...
,
There is this person we will call Robin. Who was on team with me and my co-worker. Sadly, they have a cognitive disability which makes them difficult to cooperate with, they tend to say things, socially unacceptable, which to a point you can sympathize with but to another point y... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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3cYyPpseHXn9giWcws5RZZ0kAqvbLwnr | b27qs6 | {
"description": "not visiting my best friends first",
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} | AITA for not visiting my best friends first? | I recently returned from a 3 month trip and my friends wanted to see me right away. I have 2 groups of friends that I mainly go out with (a group of girls and the other of boys) and they don't get along, but I tried to prioritize my girlfriends this time because i feel closer to them. So we tried to plan spending an ... | HISTORICAL | {
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WUgQFiSU6BpmAQbMbS8JRUBIsMtr2hWf | a3se8l | null | AITA for what my friend texted my now-ex? | Backstory; A few months ago, my (now ex) out of nowhere told me she wanted to take a break, to focus on herself and school, and that she didn't want us to text for a few weeks. I was hurt by this, we had been dating for about 10 months. Time had gone by, with little talk between us. After a month of not texting nor tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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kJAK0AI9XkLbkTTr2QsA5tTFws7QZIoB | abfctd | {
"description": "refusing to buy fireworks for a party at my house",
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} | AITA for refusing to buy fireworks for a party at my house? | Originally me and my friends were going to have a New Years party at one of our friends house but that got cancelled due to family coming over to his or something.
I mentioned to my friend (let’s call him Jay) that my house might be free since I thought my house was going to be free since parents were going to my aunt... | HISTORICAL | {
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BmuQj2JTYd8gvj5orwM2LFdbWBu8sc7Z | b0f7w2 | {
"description": "telling my sister I would not donate a kidney to her",
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} | AITA for telling my sister I would not donate a kidney to her? | Excuse format and grammar. No native on the phone. TLDR at the end.
I would like to preface this by saying that I have a very good relationship with my sister. However our family has a history of kidney problems so we were discussing what would happen if we ever needed a kidney.
As she has type 0+ she can receive a d... | HISTORICAL | {
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dF6d8pLn0IVNxqrPUlQ0FhpdZK42Vli2 | ad0zky | {
"description": "not telling my girlfriend about a previous sex partner",
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} | AITA not telling my girlfriend about a previous sex partner? | I had a fwb that I would have casual sex with regularly, but I decided that I wanted a relationship and she couldn't give that to me. I met with an ex-girlfriend and we decided that we wanted to get back together, so I stopped the fwb. I didn't tell her about the fwb but, at the same time, she never asked me about pr... | HISTORICAL | {
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9ArfDl5K0Kl6iQ2CarBnj2Ra0fcw0bbu | b9dxwa | {
"description": "telling my overweight coworker to go on a diet",
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} | AITA for telling my overweight coworker to go on a diet? | My coworker, Annie, is a very nice person. However, this niceness is just on the surface- she does things that are just awful sometimes, that show her true colors. This is just one example, but I'm afraid I may have taken things too far.
Annie is about 250 pounds, I believe. She has a daughter in high school who, thr... | HISTORICAL | {
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F5or3QbV0QfgBxA1Fec3YZXsYAikreU3 | a5fjgh | {
"description": "not wanting to be around my boyfriend's sister and her bad habits",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be around my boyfriend's sister and her bad habits? | Long story short, my boyfriend and I used to heavily abuse drugs and most of our drug use together was done with his sister who is still to this day using....a lot.
During our time spent getting high we did reckless things and even had an ongoing war between the three of us, her against my boyfriend and I. A stupid war... | HISTORICAL | {
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2upFmj37nU44U6Ww1eoVjuDk1lTxXKLP | aphga5 | {
"description": "calling everyone in the service industry \"sir\" or \"maam\"",
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} | AITA for calling everyone in the service industry "sir" or "maam"? | Am I the asshole for calling every waiter, barman, cashier, etc, sir ou madam (not in English but in the language of my country), even when they are visibly younger than me?
​
It's a habit I think I picked up from my parents, and it didn't use to be a problem when everyone I said it to was older than me, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5Np2pNM2KhLw81tZ86qoUJSyYhmu8ZD5 | ahelaq | {
"description": "spelling my girlfriends name wrong",
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} | AITA for spelling my girlfriends name wrong? | Ok so I got a calligraphy pen recently and have been practicing with it. I have terrible handwriting so I have been using the small amount of free time I have while doing other things like watching youtube, playing games, or cleaning and cooking to practice on whatever I have available. Things like post it notes, lette... | HISTORICAL | {
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d18aaEBwgOr1z3OL0SfGPmqhC8N08tdE | 9y8a48 | {
"description": "honking at slow drivers",
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} | AITA for honking at slow drivers | Disclaimer: I really don’t care if someone is going even 5 mph below the speed limit, but anything greater is irritating and a safety issue.
So whenever I get on the highway to go to school about an hour away, I come across tens upon tens of extremely slow drivers. To get a sense of how slow they go, I will be in a 7... | HISTORICAL | {
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kQHoUUdXijrGmcc90qRXQ9B02a9QAZmW | b1vth8 | {
"description": "not wanting to draw for free anymore",
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} | AITA For not wanting to draw for free anymore? | So I would say I’m half decent at art, compared to others my age. So as a joke a friend asked me to draw Undertale hentai (DON’T JUDGE ME WE’RE IN 7TH GRADE) and I thought it was funny so I agreed. He offered 20 kr (around 3 dollars) and the price would rise depending on how good it turned out. So I was almost finished... | HISTORICAL | {
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5RXxT1l2G69bcJdIyunPsWtNH509jTMY | atdacj | {
"description": "confessing to my wife I didn't fully like her x-mas gift to me",
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} | AITA for confessing to my wife I didn't fully like her X-mas gift to me? | During dinner prep/ I was tidying the kitchen, with my wife and our kids. I went to put a coffee cup away, that has my oldest kids hand print and my youngest kids footprint. On the other side say "Worlds #1 Okayest Dad". She said she was offended that I never use it. I confessed while I loved the food/hand print, the m... | HISTORICAL | {
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hgeZmWSEKExXs2dEHXmrb0VfiJrkZ67S | aksx2o | {
"description": "refusing to pay an old debt",
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} | AITA for refusing to pay an old debt? | So this happened about 8 years ago and still has ripples of tension in the family.
My great-grandmother gifted me her old car. The car was a bit of a lemon, had several things wrong with it, but I was very appreciative. I put several thousand dollars of repairs into that car over many years. Eventually, it was gett... | HISTORICAL | {
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heRT3VHm1xcwlSwcpEnurCuHoLFJ38oI | ba9p3y | {
"description": "not taking things further",
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In other w... | HISTORICAL | {
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uZ5mbIDzvClHPIz6H6PfBUS2Y3O6Ancf | ask20q | {
"description": "telling my parents to stop threatening to give my cat away",
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} | AITA for telling my parents to stop threatening to give my cat away? | This feels ridiculous, but bear with me. I really love this cat.
I am a college student. I live in a college-owned apartment and as a result cannot have a pet, but my family as a whole considers the family cat to belong to me and my sister. Following the age-old tradition, when we were kids my parents allowed us to br... | HISTORICAL | {
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H05qPfCFGOAuakAMYKtQF6LuZOKG46Nk | b6go1z | {
"description": "inviting my so on holiday",
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} | AITA for inviting my SO on holiday? | ​
My best friend has wanted to go on vacation with me for a long time, and we finally planned to go this summer together. My friend will already be in that country for a few weeks due to other reasons, but I will join later on to travel together and eventually fly home together. At the same time my SO asked... | HISTORICAL | {
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6c9EavYUz73UnizZOtjndhHza4W1ylqu | aoz32k | {
"description": "telling my gf to stop talking to her ex and asking her to stop going over to his house alone",
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} | AITA for telling my gf to stop talking to her ex and asking her to stop going over to his house alone. | Okay so hear me out I used to be in a polyamorous relationship with my current gf, well soon the other dude she was with (a friend of mine) broke up with her for like the fifth time and by this point both her and I where done with the polygamy thing so I told her that if she gets back with him that we would be over. W... | HISTORICAL | {
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pMszc2JEWsGjGU618vV6DReqmtqQ1eeb | aru0cj | {
"description": "screaming at my dad and vowing to never open up to him again",
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} | AITA for screaming at my dad and vowing to never open up to him again? | This happened a while ago, but it's eating me inside.
I have a dog shit relationship with my parents (my mom especially). Mom is abusive and neglectful, Dad is borderline abusive and is neglectful. I'm an adult now and I don't live with them anymore, so the bad stuff all happened when I was living under their roof. Si... | HISTORICAL | {
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qXNjhxWq5SEbfC2iiyaIr2giiurHV1XN | azcq86 | {
"description": "not giving mom pics of myself in military uniform",
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} | AITA for not giving mom pics of myself in military uniform? | I won't give my mother pictures of myself in uniform. I'm sure she's proud of me and and she could show off the way moms do but the pictures themselves aren't the issue. I got upset about her demand for them and I haven't been able to swallow my pride and give in to her.
I separated from my wife 2 years ago. I kept ki... | HISTORICAL | {
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4UiOAB8bQiu67s50pHRAWOpyKBBQEzNt | 9yzgzv | {
"description": "wanting proof my boyfriend has changed",
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} | AITA for wanting proof my boyfriend has changed? | The past year with my boyfriend has had major ups and downs. We are long distance and in different countries. In August we were going to move in together, but we got in a huge fight and I called the whole thing off. We have a long history of him calling me a cheater (never cheated) and I felt wildly unhappy moving to a... | HISTORICAL | {
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cpPjsVevXs0RHxByZMArOEVE9CtKCQG5 | a5kwtt | null | AITA For My Lack of Empathy | Throwaway Account because I don’t want to be bombarded. I’ve been struggling, for lack of a better word, with this sentiment that is inside of me. After determining if I’m the Asshole, I may post additional details in Change My View in order to get more viewpoints. Feel free to attempt to change my view as well.
Back... | HISTORICAL | {
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fI9PMHCmwFedCoVbPqiwoqv1nh83nqWx | 9w4xhj | {
"description": "laughing at a 'suicide attempt'",
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} | AITA For laughing at a 'suicide attempt'? | Using my throwaway because I'm pretty sure I'm about to be roasted.
I had a long distance boyfriend. We were on and off for a couple of years from ages 15-17. Yes. It's as cringey as it sounds. He was a year or so older than me and we were cringe.
The relationship was blatantly toxic. I couldn't hang out with guy f... | HISTORICAL | {
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RJsLPoFhr1QU2FywLAxIwX6NbTktW5g9 | b6sgeb | {
"description": "'threatening' to end a close friendship with said friend being severely depressed",
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} | AITA for 'threatening' to end a close friendship with said friend being severely depressed | We've been close friends for 4 years. During that time we both hit our lowest with depression and he was one of my strongest anchors during it (I relied heavily on my friends as they were my main support). We both got better, I left school for the rest of the year to 'survive' and recovered within approx. 6 months (no ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jb2CtWonDLqcMPLuBi3TxpWwA6JyKRNf | a13vm1 | {
"description": "not wanting to be around my gf when she's sick",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA I don't want to be around my gf when she's sick | I do want my gf to feel comforted and taken care of. I've done it successfully some times. My gf likes to be in control and hates being needy. So I understand being sick really sucks for her.
Today was rough. She says she's hungry so I make her something go eat. She doesn't like it and gets up to make something for h... | HISTORICAL | {
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TvOjvXcaHhXZrSOgxDZXFpeIh7tWWWGh | auqeia | {
"description": "refusing to go dinner with my friends",
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} | AITA for refusing to go dinner with my friends? | Okay, so, at my university I've been best friends with this guy and girl (call them Joseph and Bea) for about 4 years now. We've done plenty of stuff together, had a lot of drunken and high moments, etc. All that stuff.
2 years ago I got a girlfriend (lets call her Lucy), and as time came to tell it, she was a very to... | HISTORICAL | {
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AoFRwSuY3QF5YuD2rHtGzkBHWUe6QzHJ | a94n7t | {
"description": "cutting off my friend, two times in a row? sorry if this is really stupid it's just after everything I'm not even sure if I'm being an asshole or if I'm justified in behaving this way...everything's just really, really confusing and painful",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for cutting off my friend, two times in a row? Sorry if this is really stupid it's just after everything I'm not even sure if I'm being an asshole or if I'm justified in behaving this way...everything's just really, really confusing and painful. | \*\*THIS IS REALLY LONG IM SORRY\*\*
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TL;DR: Friend is abused. Me too. Friend has meltdowns where he gets mad if you dont make him feel better, accuses you of lying/hating him/talking behind his back. Says its due to his abuse. 1st fight, he lied about a friend's words to him and tried pressuring me into ... | HISTORICAL | {
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l1dsy5DfytjFqqUkio1kFqpnKe32VDGe | aftnyt | {
"description": "not knowing if I should have to trust in boyfriend or not",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not knowing if I should have to trust in boyfriend or not? |
(First of all forgive me for my bad grammar, English is not my first language)
things started a few months ago, my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend sent me a message to tell me that my boyfriend had been unfaithful to me, that they had kissed and she felt very bad about it, at first I hesitate but knowing that he had cheated... | HISTORICAL | {
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HQGn3ZI3avwH7jvvv9AAU1MCPe3w6KuC | b64cu1 | {
"description": "going through a yellow light",
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} | AITA for going through a yellow light | While driving to work i came up to a busy intersection. As i enter the intersection the light turns yellow. If i were to have stopped i would be slamming on my brakes and potentially getting hit from behind. Having this in mind, i continued to the otherside as there was room. At the same time im part way through the in... | HISTORICAL | {
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QGFOqbaFJMgX4T18DX7bj3CUpwiYZXr9 | ab9cnr | {
"description": "not wanting my ex of a week to bring the guy she left me for to my friend group's NYE Party",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting my ex of a week to bring the guy she left me for to my friend group’s NYE Party? | For lack of a better term, she’s not my ex, but we dated exclusively for 3 months. And we’ll call her Sadie. Sadie ended things with me a week ago citing that she didn’t have time for a relationship and also felt very cynical about them. Sadie wanted to remain friends. We are supposed to go to my close friend’s NYE par... | HISTORICAL | {
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mGB1NuZ5u5cxmNntGxpUbQYy0vj4716G | 9x5pt8 | {
"description": "saying \"what gives\" to my now ex as to why she felt the way she did",
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} | AITA for saying "what gives" to my now ex as to why she felt the way she did. (More context below) | So I met this girl at a dance and we really clicked. We started talking over text for about a week and then I finally asked her out (I asked her on Monday and the date was the next Sunday) For the first week of us dating, everything was perfect. Then after one week of us dating we kissed for the first time (nothing muc... | HISTORICAL | {
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ujjmQeEGuQbgnwRejLeo1ndl8kiR6u5f | adwxny | {
"description": "telling my roommate with 2 months notice that I'm going to move out, then after he bought a house to live in, change my mind and getting a new roommate",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for telling my roommate with 2 months notice that I'm going to move out, then after he bought a house to live in, change my mind and getting a new roommate? | My friend Dave and I are both 29 and have known each other since we were in elementary school, we've lived together the past 3 years. We had discussed whether or not we'd be renewing for a 4th and I wasn't sure because it depended on if things were going well with my girl. He's not happy about it because he doesn't wan... | HISTORICAL | {
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YK9KWrV7zstCIUfojDJSsymWbQWVYTXW | avv6cv | null | AITA Nightmare Father In Law | I stayed at my wife's folks house for 6 months whilst we renovated a property to move in to. In doing so didn't realise that I was inadvertently handing my paracitic father in law an unlimited pass to drop in unannounced and expect dinner on the table most nights!
I don't mean to sound ungrateful, am I the asshole for... | HISTORICAL | {
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oGrYHHe7vY8eEylhqxc8dEa5iypvTO5p | ahnl7l | {
"description": "interfering in professor's lecture when he starts telling offensive jokes",
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} | WIBTA for interfering in professor's lecture when he starts telling offensive jokes? | One of our college professors, among others, likes to joke when lecturing. Unfortunately, some of his jokes are quite disrespectful (i.e. "Ultrasound is emitted by women who get their whims denied") - and, unlike other joke types, these also don't bring anything useful to the lecture. I've tried telling him about it se... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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qnTVXhWRTtejxhgtneTtNM2bBnvFC1zK | b3ujn6 | {
"description": "telling my so to not worry me so much with her nightmares",
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} | AITA for telling my SO to not worry me so much with her nightmares. | So last night I was playing video games with my friend over discord while my SO was asleep on our bed behind me. Suddenly I start to hear her make what sounds like faint hyperventalating noises. I leave the teamspeak with my friend and jump over to her to see if she's okay. Her eyes were wide open and she and she appea... | HISTORICAL | {
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2iOSbCopfTKHdTEWiohoDK0h1TZ3hvKV | a5dzpo | {
"description": "not grieving the loss of my cat",
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} | AITA for not grieving the loss of my cat? | I just want to start this by saying: I was the that discovered my cat passed earlier today, and I did cry about it at first, but I composed myself quicker than I anticipated.
I feel like a massive a**hole, because this cat was apart of my family for 15 years, and even after all that time I feel pretty okay with it all... | HISTORICAL | {
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GEOsp0aZaVf2R1BOm7ZmlQK8FK4rapVo | ad2jnb | {
"description": "being upset at my ex when he he asked me why did I stay with him",
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} | AITA for being upset at my ex when he he asked me why did I stay with him? | Sorry for the long post.
I met my ex in a vidoe class in university and we were project partners for the entire class. We hit it off and we liked a lot of the same things. When he asked me out, I said yes because I had a crush on him then. We dated throughout the summer even though we were about 4 hours apart (He went... | HISTORICAL | {
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xK160DdXOVChQBXGKocr5F5IpSow5b4e | b7subt | null | AITA because my kid makes noise? | For the past 2 years I’ve lived with my husband in a multi family dwelling. We brought our baby home almost a year ago.
The building is a larger house that has been sectioned off into 3 entirely separate suites, all with separate entrances. My family lives on the mainfloor. Last summer a middle aged, child free coupl... | HISTORICAL | {
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zq8i3PZGUUfrS8EhTbLhFIwCcGXZxvig | aserez | {
"description": "not bothering to keep a friendship",
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} | AITA for not bothering to keep a friendship? | When I was like 15 (now 19M) I had a small crush on a girl from the other class. Kind of nerdy and shy, but didn't get to know her then. Fast forward 2 years and we end up in the same class. Im usually shy too, but after a garbage fire of a year I kind of stopped caring so I thought i should get to know her at some poi... | HISTORICAL | {
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nQsOodnAK2gGsZwPB1PJ6DfShSey2Mbl | b59ody | {
"description": "not giving my friend a lift",
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} | AITA By not giving my friend a lift? | So me and this specific friend arent too close, but he asks me frequently to give him a ride. He often uses the excuse of hooking a brother up and doing him a favor. He hasn't returned these favors in any ways or given gas money. So this morning he is apparently sick and wanted a lift to the doctors appointment, I refu... | HISTORICAL | {
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AMy2Y7x6JGW2VMrecokpRyi0OMCnLGn1 | afo07o | null | AITA | TLDR at bottom
So my dad (late 40's) and I (15) are talking about times to wake up on the weekend. I say to sleep in until I wake up on my own. He days ten is the latest anyone should sleep in. He says, "Well I think that 10 o'clock is enough so that's what time you need to wake up. I say calling him a person by sayi... | HISTORICAL | {
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kMgdzPo14udq8Oh6tXdx3UZr2I7yC1sa | b03397 | {
"description": "protecting my cousin from a potential predator",
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} | WIBTA for protecting my cousin from a potential predator? | Throwaway account for obvious reasons. I’m on mobile so there may be formatting issues.
So I’ll start with some background. My cousin and I have been very close for about 2-3 years now. She is 16. We talk on the phone every night for at least an hour, usually more. She’s my best friend.
At the beginning of the scho... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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AY84i5tK1bwFFypkNzyzjBtFbdfU7VYh | b4a6ju | null | AITA and my mother for hating our freeloading aunt and cousin. | For the past 27 years, my mother and father have taken in my aunt and cousin. My parents own a three flat with a smaller 4th flat. My aunt and cousin live the 4th flat. They pay absolutely no rent, utilities, and meals included. They moved in around the same time I was born. In the early years my aunt was helpful arou... | HISTORICAL | {
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o8zLonQeU6yARyLFFrm9IaYUYl2ZSUUE | atvlg3 | {
"description": "not wanting my boyfriend's dog in the bed",
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} | AITA for not wanting my boyfriend’s dog in the bed? | I love my boyfriend and I love his dog, but she’s a large pit bull and has no grasp on personal space. I have asked him several times if we could buy her a nice dog bed and he claims she won’t sleep on it, but I never get a decent nights sleep when I stay over. She’s either right in between us and I have no room at all... | HISTORICAL | {
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gwMlnts9lQ7Qhpjj6G9oP5o7k404Q1EL | axfrqy | {
"description": "asking a short guy for the legroom he wasn't using",
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} | AITA for asking a short guy for the legroom he wasn't using? | So today I had to take a 4 hour flight. I am a 6 foot tall woman, so airline flights are usually not very comfortable. When I booked my ticket I paid extra for the roomier seats, but unfortunately the seat I really wanted was already taken. So I decided to go with the seat next to it. For reference, [I wanted seat 12F,... | HISTORICAL | {
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HybKJdlseI4msaKJyyRogQ9ntFInyZ7W | akm7et | {
"description": "asking my coworker to message the group when he'll be late for the bus",
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} | AITA for asking my coworker to message the group when he’ll be late for the bus? | So I’m working overseas and the company provides transportation to work. Lately there have been a couple issues regarding this.
A couple weeks ago, Coworker A let the driver know he wouldn’t be joining us on the bus. The driver got our names confused and thought he meant me, so they left without me. Coworker B likes ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZINUUpJADQroRQI09wwuD3MTSPGjspXx | aqet2k | {
"description": "getting the dog groomed on my wife's birthday",
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} | AITA for getting the dog groomed on my wife's birthday? | As can be told from the title, I'm married and we have a dog.
He's a long-haired breed and needs to be trimmed regularly, and also a rescue who's been through some trauma. As a result, while he's lovely with us, he's quite difficult when it comes to strangers. After searching, we found a 'dog salon' that specialises in... | HISTORICAL | {
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ML0z56ohZrhNZfauVC0AYCyXtSIGYykn | 9ymp0t | {
"description": "not being friends with someone who constantly made me feel sad and stressed",
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} | AITA - For not being friends with someone who constantly made me feel sad and stressed? | So in freshman year in my high school, I made a friend named "julie". We were best friends for 4 years. Now I do wanna say that she was usaully deppressed and sometimes suicidal and she would vent to me about her problems. Now what she would say would make me feel sad. Not that any of the things she vented about would ... | HISTORICAL | {
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i39ktVmpF3XPV7OrHJIX2RUMZlFgnU5N | a392ku | {
"description": "asking my wife to see a mental health professional after she repeatedly asked me not to",
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} | AITA for asking my wife to see a mental health professional after she repeatedly asked me not to | Some background. We are both in our late twenties. She is from an east Asian culture.
My wife recently graduated with a PhD in an engineering field that isn't doing great economically. She has been self-studying and participated in a well-known bootcamp to change careers into a better paying, higher security job in th... | HISTORICAL | {
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yFt1tDCXEzzSsCnt4UMz2s32aymblcGm | abdo6m | {
"description": "wanting to instill a fear of flying into my 5 and 2 year old daughters",
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} | AITA if I want to instill a fear of flying into my 5 and 2 year old daughters? | That’s it, self explanatory, I am deathly afraid of planes and flying and being in the air. In my head I find planes to be so dangerous even though I know they are not. The way I see it if there is issues when you’re in the air you’re probably going to die if the plane crashes. I see it as not worth the risk.
AITA if ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9ZhIU6BUPljedrR9nhdQwn880C7tjyOZ | a5ch1s | {
"description": "quitting my job that is already short handed",
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} | AITA for quitting my job that is already short handed? | I started a job at a high-end grocery store in September and it’s been an absolute nightmare.
1. My coworkers are cruel. Incessant gossiping even when I made it clear I was uncomfortable (told me about miscarriages, divorces and inner dramatics). They guilt trip everyone about time-off, back handed comments and the w... | HISTORICAL | {
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lgEWhfVENc36odMPI7PnKCWqLHfzULmN | atqtw7 | {
"description": "playing Dungeons and dragons",
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} | AITA for playing Dungeons and Dragons? | I have been playing in a Dungeons and Dragons campaign for almost a year at this point. The group originally started as a bunch of strangers who met on Meetup. It was a pirate themed dark and gritty campaign, and we swashed and buckled our ways to glory and adventure. I even convinced my sister, long time closet nerd, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lpGeo9b2oQeSUpwvT420y5NKColBF3uU | b3j3qk | {
"description": "being bothered the sex schedule",
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} | AITA for being bothered the sex schedule? | This is a weird situation that I’m not quite sure how to handle. I’ve never dealt with anything quite like it.
My gf isn’t as much of a sexual person as I am. Sometimes it’s frustrating, but I always respect it when she’s not feeling it. She’s come up with the weirdest solution though. She got a calendar and ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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oUFnEFwbyKz9gSE7e7hhns5FUq0yS6et | arcwtl | {
"description": "bringing in an abandoned cat",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for bringing in an abandoned cat? | Okay so this was a while back but there was my neighbors who had a baby. They kicked out their cat and left it to die. I was tired of seeing such a sweety in so much pain so i brought him to the only cat shelter i trusted. I paid for his vaccinations and everything. They then called me the next day saying he has been s... | HISTORICAL | {
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vTDKj14o2TFrSLKy2NqmuWdJyMGhx949 | a4q0sf | {
"description": "backing out of my buddy's wedding",
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} | AITA for backing out of my buddy’s wedding? | About eight months ago my friend and his fiancé asked my wife and I to be in their wedding party. At the time, my wife was pregnant but since the wedding is in April she would have already had the baby. We ended up having a miscarriage, and after taking some time to get each other through it we’re back for round two.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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AjDjE4wWeR9O4k9qJHRuf9tuHDQzXI99 | 9xv50x | {
"description": "being pissed about being passed up for promotion because I'm not female or a minorty",
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} | AITA for being pissed about being passed up for promotion because I'm not female or a minorty? | I was just passed up for 2 different promotions. When I pressed the bossman making the decisions he said "Look, we have this initiative to promote more women and people of color. If you were either, you would have been promoted a long time ago."
The bossman is fairly new to our department and has 4 managers under him.... | HISTORICAL | {
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8Wl1sj770XWeGqMYWpAOIxjxDwplnHnm | aqk2v7 | {
"description": "inconveniencing my group of friends by having someone in our social circle blocked",
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} | AITA for inconveniencing my group of friends by having someone in our social circle blocked? | Lengthy post, TL;DR is at the bottom.
For context, none of us have ever actually met the person that I have blocked because he lives across the country and was introduced to us through online gaming by a mutual friend. I’ll refer to him as David. I have never considered him a friend. The rest of the group consists of... | HISTORICAL | {
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RJYB0cFgT23EJuCQVjpiT0KXBVOAsVuk | aphjaq | {
"description": "not telling my wife about things that happened on my stag weekend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not telling my wife about things that happened on my stag weekend? | My wife was at a friends at the weekend and the friends husband got too drunk and told my wife about the incident on my stag weekend, 18 months ago, about us both being caught by a doorman taking coke in the toilet of a nightclub. (He conveniently left out the part about him taking drugs)
The doorman couldn’t have bee... | HISTORICAL | {
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2G9VivCIzVoQYFmf7oSUgmN7jufO9hKF | as5ww0 | {
"description": "not wanting to play with my younger brother anymore",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not wanting to play with my younger brother anymore? | For a little bit of background, I'm 15, my half-brother is 10. My parents split up when I was a year old. I live with my dad throughout the week and stay at my mom's on weekends. About a year or two after that she married my step father (kind of a douchebag but I guess it could be worse). Anyways, my half brother ... | HISTORICAL | {
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vR7u4wmVnjXEjf2MXxiV9lFMsX26u9d5 | aqjabe | {
"description": "not wanting clothes for my kid obtained by a lie",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not wanting clothes for my kid obtained by a lie? | On mobile so apologies. Also this happened during Christmas. Gift exchange along 4 families; two of which I see as my sisters but one, J, has a very needy childish friend who demanded to be part. We get our assignments and J's friend is to get something for us. My daughter ends up with come Old Navy clothes but on the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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22Od9NAKXVdJg3jacEYTf4gaojHPiHGt | a1klle | {
"description": "answering obvious scam calls and cussing out the would be scammers for as long as they will let me",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | AITA for answering obvious scam calls and cussing out the would be scammers for as long as they will let me? | I know it isn’t productive and won’t actually stop the calls. If I make these people’s day even slightly shittier for preying on the ignorant and elderly it’s worth it for me. | HISTORICAL | {
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zFrMjSrnuOcqv6jXfZFXf1Unxq9ZLP3A | ai57hb | {
"description": "not finding black girls attractive",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA For not finding Black girls attractive? | I'M NOT TRYING TO RACE BAIT OR LIE OR ANYTHING HERE I PROMISE.
For some context here I'm 22 and half brown (indian)/half white my best friend knows I'm single and open to meeting some girls right now and she asked if I was down to go on a blind date with her friend. I said sure let me see a pic but she said no she wan... | HISTORICAL | {
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Py4NAqlOstvm5NPBo9K70cupdCUREMmo | azeh7m | {
"description": "punching someone who smacked me in the head and grabbed my shirt",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for punching someone who smacked me in the head and grabbed my shirt | This happened last night while on a date with a girl I was seeing.
It was around the 10th time we've had a date and we decided to visit a new Bar/Restaurant in our area. We went in and the place was very busy, but the bar itself had some space so we decided on that. I am a Detroit Red Wings fan (NHL Hockey team), and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YQYNNUAyVCEqc0gkhs1v0jGaGH7jG7sN | b6kwb4 | {
"description": "reporting the grocery cashier for always shit-talking at customers in another language",
"pronormative_score": 97,
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} | AITA if I report the grocery cashier for always shit-talking at customers in another language? | I'm Korean fully bilingual in English and Korean, but I look Japanese and I live in an area known for Japanese population.
I have been going to a neighborhood Korean grocery store every week for almost a year, and I am certain all the employees think I'm Japanese because they always speak English to me and never in Ko... | HISTORICAL | {
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aWA7d7LmW0sDkd1yYPPdg20RvMjIhsTw | as6tgq | {
"description": "being angry my partner didn't disclose that his family disliked my breed of dog",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being angry my partner didn’t disclose that his family disliked my breed of dog? | So here’s the situation. My partner (M/29) and I (F/31) have been looking into adopting a dog for awhile. Last week we found an adorable sweetheart of a pit bull, 3 year old female. She came home with us on trial and was so well behaved. We wanted our family and friends to meet her as part of the trial. Everyone loved ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KuS37bBevGCvnhrvRQcjW5KbytuKJIRN | b7ko06 | {
"description": "ghosting my mom 3 years ago",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for ghosting my mom 3 years ago? | Not brief backstory: I'm the youngest of four, and the only girl. My brother's are 5 -8 years older. When I was 10 my family moved to another town my mom told my dad he wasn't going to be moving in with us. We lived in a very rural town and my dad moved to a nearby city.
At that time my brothers were in their late tee... | HISTORICAL | {
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jJCI1bxw9odAW3742QdDQOS7b9gd3oeC | b9eyfq | {
"description": "hanging up on my dad when he really needs someone right now",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for hanging up on my dad when he really needs someone right now? | Bit of a back story,
​
My parents are immigrants, and can barely speak the language here regardless of being in the country for 30+ years.
I was severely abused as a child (beaten to the point of hospitalization on a couple occasions). I took these beatings often times for myself and to protect my little ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gWauR74zuzhURLcTnemgIB1Tv75KYWW1 | aq84b8 | {
"description": "telling a guy I've been dating for about a month that I'd rather work on Valentine's Day than hang out with him, even after finding out his elaborate and romantic plan",
"pronormative_score": 55,
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} | AITA for telling a guy I've been dating for about a month that I'd rather work on Valentine's Day than hang out with him, even after finding out his elaborate and romantic plan? | I met "Jeremy" about a month ago on Tinder. We had a nice first date and agreed to see each other again and in the last month I've seen him maybe 2-3 times a week. It's definitely not a "fireworks at first sight" situation but I like him and it's one of those relationships that are great for what they are, and MAYBE th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 55,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
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