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{ "description": "telling my roommate to stop snoozing his alram", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommate to stop snoozing his alram
I'm in college, and share a room with a roommate. Since the second semester has begun he has to get up earlier than me. I am fine with him having an alarm, because he has get up somehow. However, for the past couple mornings he has been snoozing his alarm about 5 times before he gets up. Today I asked if he could se...
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{ "description": "refusing to see most of my biological family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to see most of my biological family?
So, I’ll start with my father. He left me with my mom when I was 3 months old, and left my mother struggling financially. Since then, I’ve seen him a total of maybe 10 times. Mainly around holidays, because I always wanted to see him when I was younger. As I’ve grown and changed, I realized that if he wanted to see me,...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with this girl", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with this girl?
Okay so some context. I am in the mentor leadership thingy st my school so basically I get assigned to help some 9th graders. So it was our first day in classrooms to help them and I was helping my mentees. Two girls come in. Knowing them they weren't good at math. So they did the best they could to help some kids but ...
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{ "description": "requesting credit on my meme", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for requesting credit on my meme
I recently made a meme that blew up on reddit. My friend showed it to me today posted by an Instagram meme account. I obviously got mad as no credit was given. I dmed this meme accounts owner and as a joke which I am pretty sure it was obv I said I'll contact Instagram and I'll take legal actions against you. I asked f...
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{ "description": "letting a company know one of their employees is scamming people and using them as safe-bait", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I let a company know one of their employees is scamming people and using them as safe-bait.
**This is long but TLDR a guy tried to scam me and used the company he works at to make himself sound more legit, WIBTA if I let them know.** I posted a bunch of items on FB marketplace and some guy offered to buy them all from me about a week after the post went up. Initially I was weirded out but I figured they're d...
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{ "description": "using the accessible bathroom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for using the accessible bathroom?
I work in a big centre full of restaurants, all of which share the same same set of bathrooms, like you would find in a shopping centre or mall. The toilets are in a long hallway in the corner of the building, with the accessible cubicle closest to the entrance, followed by a parent's room, the ladies room, and finall...
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{ "description": "hating my brothers girlfriend for contacting our lost family", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my brothers girlfriend for contacting our lost family?
Long story short, my father's side of the family has always been a mystery to my brother and I.. We haven't really tried looking too hard into things because our father was kind of an alcoholic rolling stone. My brother and this girl have been dating for about 3 and a half years.. One day she gets a wild idea to go tra...
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{ "description": "being upset with my mom about taking me on a cruise when I have class/work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with my mom about taking me on a cruise when I have class/work?
My family goes on a cruise every year, and it’s usually filled with alcohol induced drama. When my mom invited me to go a few months ago I told her I may not want to go because of the semester I had planned. She surprised me with the trip for Christmas, and I had to scramble to request time off from work. When she gave...
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{ "description": "not letting my mother see my son more", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my mother see my son more?
So my wife and I have been struggling with some behavior/sleep issues with our 4yo. My mother lives about 2 hours away and wants to do sleep overs with him. Problem is every time she has an opportunity she undermimes our parenting by not following his/our bed time schedule. She is completely dismissive of us and our co...
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{ "description": "arguing with my fiance to seek help from a professor about her internship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my fiance to seek help from a professor about her internship?
For background: My fiance and I are both currently in our student teaching semester of our Education degree. My fiance has been placed to intern with a K-4 Elementary Music teacher. Her internship teacher has been very forward about the fact that he wanted an intern so that he wouldn't have to do his job. He immediat...
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{ "description": "making fun of someone's micropenis", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for making fun of someone's micropenis?
1st on mobile so sorry for the format and I am not trying to be a karma whore I swear So this happened a day ago, and I was playing with some of my friends from around the world and we don't know each other personally. One of my friends said he wanted to share something that had happened to him at his work. Appar...
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{ "description": "being unsupportive of my best friend's pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being unsupportive of my best friend's pregnancy?
My friend had 3 positive dollar store pregnancy tests and was on birth control. If it's true, she's only 4-5 weeks along. She has one child already and is really struggling financially. I have bought her groceries on multiple occasions and pay for her to eat every time we go out. She took the tests because she believ...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to back off", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my roommate to back off?
This is on mobile so sorry for formatting. I'm a junior at my university and I live with a roommate in an apartment provided by our school just across the street. We have lived together since August. We don't talk much at all but so far we've gotten along just fine with no issues that I'm aware of (i.e. If he asks me...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that she shouldn't be naked in front of the kids she's babysitting", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that she shouldn’t be naked in front of the kids she’s babysitting?
One of my good friends is a part time babysitter and she had to look after some kids over the weekend. Yesterday as I was driving home I did a quick stop at their place (I needed to give her something). The family is very wealthy so they have maids and w/e. I knocked on the door and the housekeeper opened who told me ...
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{ "description": "not cheering my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not cheering my friend?
I know the title sounds bad but read my post please p.s.- sorry for grammer or spelling mistakes, english isnt my first language. ​ So i will start by saying that my friend is a kind of girl who says that she will fail a test and then gets a high grade in the same test. Every time there is some sort of ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mum on the street", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at my mum on the street?
Some background, I'm 23 and I've been in Park City for the past 3 months, really cold and stuff. I've come to NY for a family vacation where it's significantly less cold. We came out of the hotel with my dad, mum and brothers, I had a thermal shirt, a regular shirt and a light jacket. She went on and on in the span of...
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{ "description": "calling the city in to enforce code on my neighbor? without talking to them first", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I call the city in to enforce code on my neighbor? Without talking to them first?
I moved into a house in a rural, small-but-growing city two years ago. The back yard of our house abutted a lot in the center of the block where the owners kept some junk cars and stuff. It's a rural area, so whatever, that's how people roll here. Over the past two years, the way they've been using their property has g...
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{ "description": "kneeing an autistic kid in school", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kneeing an autistic kid in school?
read before downvoting. This was quite some years ago in 6th grade and this situation still bothers me. Basically I was friends with an kid that had autism. I don't remember what kind of autism he had, he just couldn't register stuff right and he kind of had a lack of respect and no boundary for what he said. But I ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a Guy who depends on me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Breaking up With a Guy Who Depends on Me
Long story short, I've been in a relationship with a guy for about three years. We're engaged, but, as we keep going along, I feel myself loathing the idea of spending the rest of my life with him. There are several reasons why I don't like the relationship - he can be a bit bipolar, he can be hypocritical, he's condes...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to bring her dog to my house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to bring her dog to my house
For a bit of context: My wife and I adopted a small dog (~10lbs). When we first went to visit my mom and family I brought the dog to stay with us, which my mom was okay with (at least, she didn't offer any protest about the situation). The dog has come with us (almost) every time we have visited mom without any protest...
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{ "description": "not taking my ex back", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my ex back?
Our relationship was very one sided and she started flirting with another guy while we were still together. She texted me yesterday asking for a second chance and that she’d change (I already talked to her about the whole thing before and she didn’t change) and my response was a “I don’t want to put myself through that...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have a wedding because of my fiancée's family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to have a wedding because of my fiancée's family?
Forgive me if this sounds like a typical elopement story. I recently got engaged to the love of my life. Everything between us couldn't be better and we're best friends. We have no problem being open and honest with each other and talk regularly about what bothers us in the world. The relationship I have with her fam...
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{ "description": "eating chocolate in front on my healthy eating colleagues", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AiTA for eating chocolate in front on my healthy eating colleagues
They are both complaining about me eating chocolate in front of them as it de motivates them front continuing there recent healthy eating binge. I however feel it is unfair that I should have to leave the communion area to eat my snack. THe argument is that I have to leave the room to get the snack Anyway.
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{ "description": "not liking when people post the same image on separate subreddits", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For not liking when people post the same image on separate subreddits
I follow multiple "meme" subreddits such as r/dankmeme r/memes r/deepfriedmemes etc. and sometimes I see the same person posting the same meme or picture. I usually call them out and usually greeted with the same excuse: that they are trying to get more people to see it. I can kind of see them wanting to get more expos...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with wife who was on Instagram after a heartfelt and expensive valentines", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA because I am annoyed with wife who was on Instagram after a heartfelt and expensive valentines.
I did the valentines thing, roses, chocolates, a long heartfelt card, and expensive dinner. After we got home from valentines dinner I laid my head on her lap while she began eating the chocolates I had bought for her. My wife knows I hate fighting for attention against Instagram, she’s usually snaps at me for calli...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my mother's \"discipline\"", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disagreeing with my mother’s “discipline”?
I have 6 siblings, their ages are 23, 19, 15, 13, 9 and 6. My mother has at one point in time spanked us. However, these spanks consist of using a cooking spoon (sometimes even a belt or brush). She will spank us multiple times, all while we scream out in pain and beg her to stop. What do we do as children to get the...
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{ "description": "consentually \"copying\" homework and getting graded for it", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for consentually "copying" homework and getting graded for it?
When I was still in school, I was getting really good grades without doing much for it. I barely studied for it and forgot my homework all the time. One day during break, a girl in my friend group, Laura, started talking about our native language class homework and I realised that I had forgotten to do it again. I aske...
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{ "description": "not being attracted to Dark Women", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Not Being Attracted to Dark Women?
I'm M22 and this girl in one of my classes asked me out the other day (I know extremely surprising), but I turned her down. Basically because I'm not into dark skin girls even though I'm a POC myself but fair skinned. Not saying there's anything better about fair skin girls or people but I'm just attracted to them more...
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{ "description": "not believing in love", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not believing in love?
I’m not saying people don’t love each other, I know many people that are in love but mostly couples who are over 25. And of course I love my friends and family, but I’m not sure if I believe in romantic love.. at least for myself. I’m a 19F, I’ve been in one extremely brief relationship with a friend that ended cause ...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend to distance herself from her other \"best friend?\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my best friend to distance herself from her other “best friend?”
I’ll refer to my best friend as “M” and her other best friend as “V”. M and I are extremely close. She’s always there for me when I’m struggling as I’m always there for her. M and I are really similar in personality, we’re both extremely empathetic and selfless because we had similar childhoods where we had to take o...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to stop eating off my plate", "pronormative_score": 181, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Asking My Wife To Stop Eating Off My Plate?
Let me explain myself before you offer judgement please. This is driving me absolutely insane and turned into a fight for the first time last night. My wife does this thing where, when we go out to eat, she'll eat off my plate if we order different things. I'm very protective of my food (insert Friends reference here...
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{ "description": "ditching my transphobic friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ditching my transphobic friend?
I recently came out as a trans girl, and because I go to an all-boys school, it was a big gossip item for a few days. One of my friends was basically telling the class how it was justified to refer to me as 'it' and it would be my fault if I got offended. This made me mad. He eventually apologised after ranting about '...
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{ "description": "breaking up", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AItA for breaking up?
I was in a relationship with this amazing girl. She was careing and genuinely nice. I was very happy to have here in my live. And she was rearly the first *real* love. But suddenly something changed with here. I tried to figure out what happened but she wouldn't tell my and all her friends told me she was akting normal...
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{ "description": "calling animal control to come get a stray dog", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling animal control to come get a stray dog
Hi all! This evening I was driving home and saw a stray pit bull eating trash at the dumpster at my townhouse. I happened to have a slip lead dog leash in my car, so I figured I’d stop and see if I could get the dog. She was super friendly and came right over to me when I bent down. I walked around the area for a bit...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a surprise engagement party 8 hours away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a surprise engagement party 8 hours away?
So one of my GF’s good friends from work is going to get engaged to on New Year’s Eve. Her boyfriend sent an invite to my GF and some of the girl’s other friends asking them to try to be there when they get back from the hike where he’s going to pop the question. Thing is, the park is about an 8 hour drive, and we’d ...
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{ "description": "considering ending friendships for hiding something from me when I specifically asked otherwise", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for considering ending friendships for hiding something from me when I specifically asked otherwise?
Gonna skip several years of backstory and feelings and details because I want to keep this brief and vague for obvious reasons. Long story short, I was badly harmed by a mutual friend of ours years ago and one of my best friends helped me through it and is intimately familiar with how much this attack almost spiraled ...
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{ "description": "not jumping at my mum's every command just because she broke her elbow", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not jumping at my mum's every command just because she broke her elbow?
I do feel like this needs some context, sorry if it turns out longwinded! My mum broke her elbow about 3 weeks ago and since then I've been doing everything for her. I even sleep in her bed, just in case something's up at night (I have gotten up in the middle of the night a lot, without ever complaining. Even though I...
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{ "description": "telling my friend not to let her young sons around her abusive stepfather which triggered a public panic attack", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend not to let her young sons around her abusive stepfather which triggered a public panic attack?
Some background: - This is referencing myself and 3 friends. We are all moms in our early to mid 30s with young children. - One friend has previously shared with us her history of abuse, both sexual and verbal, from her stepfather, as well as the extent of enabling that took place with her mother. She has a very ...
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{ "description": "being ashamed of my boyfriend for being fat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 49 }
AITA for being ashamed of my boyfriend for being fat.
We have been together for over a year. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy (at least to me) and he always prioritize his well-being ahead of mine. Always picking my preferred food places, bringing me to places I feel like going and always keeping me entertained. I am in rather good shape and he's overweight. Personally, ...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to contact me less", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for asking my mother to contact me less
About a year and a half ago I moved nine hours away from my hometown for school. My mother, understandably, contacted me a lot to make sure I was alright and eating enough. In the beginning this that fine because I didn’t have any friends and contact with anybody was nice for me. Of course as I settled into life I sch...
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{ "description": "holding a coworker accountable", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for holding a coworker accountable?
I work in a public safety career, and as such I legally cannot leave my post until my relief comes in. The usual rule of thumb for people who work this job is "if you're not early, you are late". A few coworkers of mine were regularly showing up to work 5, 10 minutes late. I told my supervisor (didn't name any names, j...
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{ "description": "still wanting to take a job halfway around the world", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for still wanting to take a job halfway around the world?
Not sure if this should be posted here or /r/relationships but here goes: My boyfriend and I have been together now for 8 years, having lived together for almost 5 years. Recently, I had received a contract/job offer that would require relocation. It's not my 'dream job' per se but definitely a solid stepping stone t...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend how to treat something he bought me", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend how to treat something he bought me?
Recently my boyfriend bought me a revlover I've been looking at getting, we both grew up around guns. I grew up around rifles, he handguns. I can't tell you all about rifles, but I know how to clean one and how to handle one safely. My boyfriend is getting annoyed with me because I've told him to quit dry firing it b...
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{ "description": "just starting walking away from my friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I just started walking away from my friends?
So the best way to describe my group of friends at the moment, would probably be a shit show. One of them has dropped out of school, started dating this girl who told him if he wasn't employed in a month, she's dumping him. She also likes taking him to parties and clubs, where they can take a bunch of shit, and app...
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{ "description": "telling my daughter her husband should get a job to pay me back an $1,800 loan I gave them", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling my daughter her husband should get a job to pay me back an $1,800 loan I gave them?
My daughter and her husband borrowed $1,800 from me to pay bills. The deal was, they would pay me back at $100/ month “ when they could”. Her husband was supposed to find a job and assist her with the payments. He keeps getting minimum wage jobs and quitting for various reasons, always claiming to be a victim of raci...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf over her sleeping in bed (with no physical contact) with someone who fancies her", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf over her sleeping in bed (with no physical contact) with someone who fancies her?
Well, this one has a lot of details but please bear with me! So me and my GF met around 18 months ago, she was about to immigrate to Israel from Russia. In Israel this process (for Jews only) comes with a lot of benefits, among others you get a yearlong program to help you settle in better (learning the language,...
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{ "description": "asking my cousin why hasn't he moved out yet", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - For asking my cousin why hasn't he moved out yet?
(New account) English is my third language (be gentle) sorry for errors, typos, and grammar. ​ A little bit of a back story; My mom and I live together. One day my mom tells me that my cousin will stay with us for two months. My moms room has been converted into a place for her hobbies, while the other ro...
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{ "description": "telling my daycare provider I'll report her to the IRS", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - For telling my daycare provider I'll report her to the IRS.
First timer here! My wife and I have had this nanny/daycare provider for the past year. She would occasionally come to our house to watch the kids but most of the time we dropped them off at her home. At the time of our childcare arrangement we spoke about all the normal stuff i.e. payment, drop off, and also tax rep...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend Christmas with my sister's boyfriends kids", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my sister's boyfriends kids?
I have two sisters who are each divorced with 4 kids. This year both sisters started new relationships with men who have children from previous marriages. I'm sincerely happy for them, but hate how they're pressuring me to treat their new boyfriends and their kids like family. I met my older sister's BF & kiddos ...
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{ "description": "arguing with a youth pastor over his instagram post about abortion", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with a youth pastor over his instagram post about abortion?
Earlier this week the pastor at a church my little sister attends posted a post on his Instagram, which a majority of the followers are under 18, which compared the new abortion bill in New York to the Holocaust. (I wasn't arguing whether or not abortion is correct or not as that is a completely different debate all to...
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{ "description": "telling off a mutual \"friend\" for comments my GF deemed inappropriate", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For telling off a mutual "friend" for comments my GF deemed inappropriate?
So this story begins at 6AM while I am getting ready for work and I hear my GF let out multiple sounds of exasperation and after prompting shows me and Instagram message from said perpetrator...at 0236 in the morning. The gist of the message, (I will include the full Imgur link at the bottom for the full effect), was t...
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{ "description": "having little emotion to my grandmother dying", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having little emotion to my grandmother dying?
(22, female) Ever since I was a child, my grandmother has never really been a nice person to me. She has always been very hypocritical and judgemental. She talks badly about children a lot. Not even bad kids, just regular children. She is one of those "children are to be seen and not heard." Her first born child was bo...
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{ "description": "leaving a passive aggressive note for my coworkers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving a passive aggressive note for my coworkers?
First, I’m on mobile so sorry about formatting. Now for some background: I work at a drugstore that also has a photo department. About 3 months ago my schedule became very consistent, which puts me on the register/photo department for all my shifts. Because of this, my manager put me in charge of ordering all of our ...
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{ "description": "telling a clingy, \"humble\" narcissist that I want to be left alone, even when he has health issues", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a clingy, "humble" narcissist that I want to be left alone, even when he has health issues?
I have, for a short while, been semi-friends with a person on Discord. He consistently reiterates that he is attracted to me, despite the fact that I have told him I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful person. He constantly tells me to play Runescape with him, and when I try to tell him that I don't want to...
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AITA : Stopped offering help
Okay so here goes... ​ I was having a night out and drinking and i met this woman in her 40s, bit of an alcoholic and a junkie. I ended up continuing the night with her and some other guys at one of their's apartment after the bars closed down. We had a nice rest of the evening, chatted for a couple hour...
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{ "description": "tearing strips off my colleague", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for tearing strips off my colleague?
I walked in to the tea room in my workplace today to find two colleagues who I generally get on very well with, who are married, in the middle of a conversation regarding outlandish workplace pregnancy rumours that had them in stitches. Almost as soon as I entered the room, they added me into the joke, laughing that ...
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{ "description": "checking out other (animated) girls with my boyfriend next to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for checking out other (animated) girls with my boyfriend next to me?
So I'm a bisexual female. Mostly, especially in media, I'm more likely to comment on a girls body because I think girls bodies are more interesting and beautiful. Romantically, I have a slight preferance toward guys. Me and my now ex boyfriend would sometimes watch movies or play video games together. There are times...
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{ "description": "dumping girls if they don't have a Career or go to School", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Dumping Girls If They Don't Have A Career or Go to School?
I'm M22, graduated last year and I'm on track to make 75k this year. I like to think of myself of having my shit together so I want to be with a girl that does as well. In my mind that means having a job that leads to a career/advancement or going to school to better herself. I don't care if they live with their parent...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my mom for stealing", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting ties with my mom for stealing?
Hi everybody, apologies in advance for formatting - not on mobile, I've just never been good at it. My mom has a history of doing really shady things and then coming up with decent reasons when she gets caught. When I was growing up, she'd take money out of my piggy bank every now and then claim that it was going towa...
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{ "description": "pulling out of a group project at the last minute", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For pulling out of a group project at the last minute?
For the past month or so in school we had to come up with an idea for a product and make it and pitch it ( tomorrow 5th March ). I usually like to take responsibility so I’ve done most of the work for our group along side a lot of other projects during that month so I was really caught up in schoolwork etc. I worked ...
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{ "description": "calling local non emergency pd on a sketchy situation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA to call local non emergency pd on a sketchy situation?
I'll try to make this short. The apartment next to me has a single mom, teen-preteen (12 or 13) girl and a boy who's probably about 8. More often than not all you hear coming from the apartment is either the mom or the daughter (sometimes both) SCREAMING. Screaming at each other, screaming at the little boy. Yes it...
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{ "description": "not liking to talk about past sexual relationships", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking to talk about past sexual relationships?
I've been dating this girl for around 3 months and she's on multiple occasions brought up things she used to do sexually with ex boyfriends. I understand that everyone has a past but I've told her a few times that I really don't like talking about things like that as it makes me insecure but she kept doing it. One day ...
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{ "description": "telling my now ex gf that I had sex with another girl", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my now ex gf that I had sex with another girl?
The title already makes me seem like a major cunt but hold on. Throw-away acc btw. A few weeks ago I broke up with gf and this specific moment came to mind. On our first date as an actual couple, we were talking while she was sitting on my lap. We were making out and talking about life when she starts to talk about he...
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{ "description": "leaving a 1 star public review for a local restaurant", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving a 1 star public review for a local restaurant?
I apologize, this is quite long, there is a TL:DR at the end. ​ There is this local restaurant in my city (located in Europe) that market itself as healthy, environmental friendly and serves organic food. I never went there, but I ordered some times and all the food came packed in plastic. &#x200...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sit by people who smell like smoke", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sit by people who smell like smoke?
This is somewhat short. In lecture hall today, I walked into a row of seats, and sat down in a chair with an opening on either side (I like to have space). Promptly after someone walked past and the smell of smoke was pretty strong. They sat down in the seat next to me on the left. I didn’t want to go through lecture s...
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{ "description": "offending someone who I've known for 1 week", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for offending someone who I've known for 1 week?
I've known this girl for a week that I met off tinder, and we went on a date and had fun. A few days later we were talking about my friend who is currently in an abusive relationship it came up and we went down that rabbit hole. One of the important facts is that my friend will use he doesn't want to be single as an ex...
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{ "description": "breaking up my two Friends, who were both clearly unhappy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Breaking Up My Two Friends, Who Were Both Clearly Unhappy?
I have these two friends, both males, that were dating for around 2 years, they moved in together (about 1 year into the relationship) and decided to try be as independent as possible and not ask for much financial help from family or friends. Fast forward about half a year after they moved in together and they are bo...
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{ "description": "taking my dog to the park", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking my dog to the park?
Backstory: I have a super reactive doggy, were working on it, but she gets very anxious around new dogs and people and shows it by barking and growling hysterically. Obviously once that interaction is up all she wants to do is play and be pet. The story: I take her on a walk, trying out a new harness that helps react...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend due to her alleged mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a friend due to her alleged mental health issues?
Here's the story. I (F) met this girl at college last semester. Let's call her Dani. I began talking to her because she started hanging out with some of my friends, after they met her at some student organization. Dani seemed nice, witty, smart, and was fun to hang out with. After a week or so, she added me on Facebook...
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{ "description": "getting uncomfortable around downsyndrome people", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting uncomfortable around downsyndrome people
I know it sounds horrible but ever since I was young if I was ever around any downsyndrome people I'd be really on edge and uncomfortable and would try to refrain from interacting with them, I've gotten a bit better with it that I've talked to a few but still quite uncomfortable to a point where I just want to leave th...
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{ "description": "not really caring about a friend's engagement", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not really caring about a friend’s engagement?
My friend has been living with her boyfriend for 5+ years, they have dogs and cats and are a cute little family. Well they got engaged, which came as a total surprise to me, as neither of them have ever indicated (around me at least) that marriage was something they ever wanted. They’ve really seemed just happy with wh...
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{ "description": "hanging up abruptly on my cousin", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For hanging up abruptly on my cousin?
The other day, I was talking with cousin over the phone about Smash Bros, and he was very vocal about how much he hated it. He talked about how toxic the community was, how bad the game mechanics were, and then he expanded how bad games have become so bad because there's so easy and shorter than before since unlike wit...
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{ "description": "giving ultimatums", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving ultimatums?
My boyfriend was caught cheating and after the fact he was caught texting his friend asking her for sex and telling her how much he wanted her body. I understand he was on drugs at the time and that doesnt excuse it but I told him the only way for me to be able to move past this is if he completely cuts her out from hi...
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{ "description": "cussing out my mother for 'buying' an Xbox from my cousin", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cussing out my mother for ‘buying’ an Xbox from my cousin
Today my cousin texted our family group chat to ask if anyone was able to help him come up with 800 more dollars so he would be able to purchase his first vehicle. Instantly the majority of our family replied and said they wouldn’t be able to help for whatever reason, but my mother, my auntie and I were able to give hi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to touch my husband? NSFW", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for not wanting to touch my husband? NSFW
I like to surprise my husband with massages and it being Valentines day soon, I figured hed appreciate one. I was in a BST group on Facebook and someone recommended one that we hadnt used before and it was a running a Valentine's day special - so I thought, what the hey? Dropped him off at the parlor, me and our kids...
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{ "description": "not wanting to watch my friends kid again", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to watch my friends kid again?
Yesterday I struggled through the work day and afterschool activities with a migraine. I havent had on in quite awhile so it really took me off guard and I did not handle it well. As I tossed and turned trying to sleep last night I realized the migraine is most definitely stress related. I then tossed and turned in my ...
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{ "description": "not helping my boyfriend clean today", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my boyfriend clean today?
Ok, so long story short, my boyfriend lives with me, he's autistic, and it's taken some work to just get him able to live on his own. That said I love him and am willing to put in that work because I know what it's like to suddenly be an adult and realize you neither want to be, nor do you really know how. That said c...
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{ "description": "insisting that my parents not look at my passwords when I'm typing them in", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insisting that my parents not look at my passwords when I'm typing them in?
I am quite concerned about my privacy especially in relation to technology, my parents are not. This has caused quite a few disagreements between us, and the biggest issue they have with me is that I hide or turn away from them whenever I enter my password in their presence. It's not that I don't trust them so much as...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hangout with my bestfriend's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if i dont want to hangout with my bestfriend’s boyfriend?
Sorry if it looks weird, first time posting and posting on mobile. AITA for not wanting to hangout with my bestfriend’s boyfriend? He’s mentally abusive and i don’t want to be around that type of person. For background on how he’s mentally abusive, he’s come to her house in the middle of the night and has taken picture...
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{ "description": "telling my sister it's for the best", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for telling my sister it’s for the best?
My sister and I don’t have the same dad. Her dad was brain dead for an extended period of time. He’s in a coma and they decided to take him off life support. I sent her a text to try to show my support. I told her it’s for the best. I mean he was brain dead. He’s in a coma. I was just trying to make her feel b...
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{ "description": "not letting my GF hang out with another dude while I'm on vacation", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for not letting my GF hang out with another dude while I'm on vacation?
For some backstory, my GF and the dude she wants to hang out with, who we'll call Blake, used to talk to each other and were super close the summer of 2018. They would always hangout and were still in the talking phase. A couple months later, she's no longer interested in him and that's when me and here start to talk. ...
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{ "description": "going off on a Kroger employee", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going off on a Kroger employee
Context: girlfriend got her wisdom teeth taken out, so we go to Kroger because we need to get soft foods and her prescription, we do this to try and hit two birds with one stone and get her home and resting as fast as possible rather than going to a pharmacy and then a grocery store. While there my girlfriend starts fe...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf of 7 months", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf of 7 months?
My girlfriend and I had been dating for a while and she really liked me and to her it must have seemed out of the blue for me to start talking about breaking up. In the beginning I really did like her but as it neared the end of our relationship I became less interested in her romantically. Obviously I still care a...
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{ "description": "pointing out their itinerary is full of tourist traps", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for pointing out their itinerary is full of tourist traps?
I've been talking to someone from Indonesia who wants to have her dream trip to Europe this summer. I live in the Netherlands myself and that's one of the countries she wants to visit. She sent me her itinerary and I noticed it's filled with tourist traps. These places no local would ever visit because only stupid tour...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my mom's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my mom’s boyfriend?
There’s a lot of backstory to this. Over the last 30 years, my mother has been married and divorced 5 times. Every time, she rushed into it and hardly knew the guy, and things blew up within a year or two. The last 2 marriages were in my teen years, and both husbands were abusive. In both cases, she let a guy that I ha...
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{ "description": "snitching on a coworker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for snitching on a coworker
So to give a little background, I am working 2 jobs while getting ready for my wedding (woot woot) one of them is a kitchen job that is my main job and then I work at a gas station/subway on the side. This story will take place at the gas station. I try and stay out of everything, I try to just be a good worker and ke...
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{ "description": "not cleaning the equipment I use at my work's gym", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not cleaning the equipment I use at my work's gym?
The building I work in has a small gym. Its nothing fancy; there are a few treadmills and ellipticals, a weight rack, some weight machines, etc. It is a pretty basic spot, and its not widely used; It is free and open to anyone who works in the building, but as far as I can tell, traffic is really limited to like 15-20 ...
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{ "description": "flipping out over spaghetti", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for flipping out over spaghetti
This just happened. My brother and I live together. Almost everything we split 50/50. Our place has two refrigerators, one in the kitchen (the main one) and another in the basement. I'm trying very hard to lose weight and the best way that works for me is to not see any sugary junk food around, otherwise it haunts ...
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{ "description": "being frustrated with a friend for constantly bailing on dnd for poor time management skills and for his attitude", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being frustrated with a friend for constantly bailing on DnD for poor time management skills and for his attitude?
Disclaimer: Every person mentioned here, including myself, are second-year college students (19-20), and as the title says, this involves Dungeons and Dragons, so if you need me to explain any of the DnD jargon, I can happily explain (though hopefully the sentiment is apparent without too many definitions). Also, writ...
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{ "description": "calling my best friend out when he gets demanding or gives me crap that isn't warranted in my opinion", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my best friend out when he gets demanding or gives me crap that isn’t warranted in my opinion?
TL:DR at bottom So my best friend (20M, let’s call him Mike) and I are about a 2 hour drive away from each other because we go to different colleges. We see each other about once a month during school and much more during the summer. He recently met my new friends from college and Mike is CONVINCED they’re assholes, h...
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AITA over being mad at girlfriend for how valentines day turned out?
So I \[25\]M have been dating my girlfriend \[24\]F for about 9 months, and am currently visiting her for valentines day for a week as I live 4 hours away. Today she had work whilst I was just chilling in her apartment complex and surprised her with flowers and chocolate. After she got home we went out to get pizza and...
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{ "description": "turning my lamp on to get dressed while my roommates are still sleeping", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for turning my lamp on to get dressed while my roommates are still sleeping?
I live in a small dorm room with two others. I have a class three days a week at 8am, so I get up at 7am to brush my teeth/wash my face/get dressed etc. Today was the first day of my new class schedule, so I woke up at 7am, left the room to brush my teeth and wash my face, came back and turned on the lamp in my desk. B...
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{ "description": "finding these comments about interracial relationships made towards my girlfriend and I a bit creepy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding these comments about interracial relationships made towards my girlfriend and I a bit creepy?
My girlfriend is black/Arabic and I am Caucasian. We love each other very much but some of her friends seem a bit weird they keep saying about how her and I will have 'beautiful babies' that will be a 'lovely color'. I am not thinking of children at the moment that will be something much later down the line but I fi...
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{ "description": "not tipping walkout food", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping walkout food?
The title pretty much says it. I called in an order to a restaurant and I walked in, picked it up, and just payed the bill. I didn't tip, just Cus, and I've been thinking about it since. I feel really guilty cus I know people work for tips or whatever, but what am I supposed to tip if I don't even interact with a serve...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend that I would maybe leave him if he started smoking pot again", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend that I would maybe leave him if he started smoking pot again?
For starters, I’m in a state where pot is still illegal. That’s a big one for me. Secondly, I’ve never smoked. I grew up being taught how terrible it was, and how it was a drug, and you just don’t do it. I’ve formed into that thinking and believing it. I hate the smell of it. I hate the stories of “oh we were so fuckin...
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{ "description": "needing to talk to a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for needing to talk to a friend?
To be up front about this, I’m still frustrated by this situation. Due to this, I’m genuinely not sure whose at fault here. Context: I’ve been friends with this girl for a little over a year now. We met at the local community college. She’s becoming one of my closest friends. We agreed If either of us needed to talk ...
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{ "description": "asking my if my new girlfriend would shave *down there the first time I went down on her/saw her naked", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for asking my if my new girlfriend would shave *down there the first time I went down on her/saw her naked?
So a little bit of backstory, I guess. Me and my girlfriend of about two days had made out a couple times before we started dating but nothing too far because I wanted to wait until we were actually dating until anything more happened. So after a couple of days into our relationship I finally made a move and went down ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my young children to go to bible school", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my young children to go to bible school?
Long story short: my grandmother, who raised me, wants to put my children in bible school for the summer. I went to bible school every summer but I was sexually assaulted at bible school one year (as a child) and outcasted because of it. I’m now an atheists who just wants to not force religion on my kids, especially so...
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{ "description": "saying a bad joke to female friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For saying a bad joke to female friend.
So this 'friend' is a girl thats constantly saying that I am short and skinny for like 4 months in school.So this time when she told me I an little and skinny I told her-It was enough for your sister.She started crying and swearing and running to the bathroom and I turned out to be an asshole in everyones eyes.
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{ "description": "refusing to live in the same apartament building as my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to live in the same apartament building as my parents?
Sorry if the formatting is messed up, I'm writing this on my phone. Also, It's gonna be long, because I wanna be as accurate as possible - so saddle on for the ride. For context, I am a 27 years old PhD student, and I work 2 jobs( some days I work 11+ hours). Money is not tight, yet not that glamorous either. My fathe...
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