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{ "description": "withholding damaging info I received in private", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I withheld damaging info I received in private?
To (hopefully) keep things simple, i’ll refer to the main actors as “J” “X” “Y” and “Z”. My goal is to give you a no spin version of the story. I’ll be around for any clarification and updates if necessary. Context: Z used to date Y, who now dates X. Z and X know each other but aren’t friends (read: don’t know eac...
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{ "description": "sending my friend medical marijuana from my state to his state (where it's not legalized at all) and using \"Arthur Morgan\" for the fake return address info and insisting that the name had nothing to do with it getting compromised", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending my friend medical marijuana from my state to his state (where it's not legalized at all) and using "Arthur Morgan" for the fake return address info and insisting that the name had nothing to do with it getting compromised?
Throwaway account. My friend paid me $50 to send him an order from my local dispensary. There was about $350 worth of product in the package - flowers, concentrate, and edibles. It was my first time, but I had been convinced that if we did everything right, there wouldn't be any issues. I used USPS, made sure nothing s...
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{ "description": "turning down my long-time boyfriend's proposal", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for turning down my long-time boyfriend's proposal?
My boyfriend (25) and I (21) have been together for 3.5 years now. We met in university, he was my university tour guide and I was a potential applicant. Long story short we got together and lived together all throughout my university years up to present day. We have had our ups and downs like most couples, but I becau...
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{ "description": "letting an old lady fall down", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting an old lady fall down?
So I was at the end of the line for a Mcdonalds in a food court. The line was very long and my back was close to a table. I had my headphones on and was looking ahead when an old lady started pushing behind me. I quickly assumed that she wanted to get in line so I squeezed myself as close as I could to the guy in front...
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{ "description": "continuing to be friends with someone who falsely accused my closer friend of something serious", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for continuing to be friends with someone who falsely accused my closer friend of something serious?
I'll spare some details, but basically this girl that I have a completely non romantic relationship with falsely accused one of my best friends of something. She and I are not the best of friends, it's usually just me helping with school work. She and I have always been kind with each other. I feel like I'm going behin...
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{ "description": "being bothered that my so combined Christmas and birthday gift", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being bothered that my SO combined Christmas and birthday gift?
My birthday is around Christmastime and as long as I can remember, family members have always given me "combined" presents. This means that my brother and I basically get the same thing for Christmas and my brother gets another present for his birthday as it is in the summertime. As I am not struggling financially nor ...
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{ "description": "calling out red flags with men as I see them based on my past experiences", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out red flags with men as I see them based on my past experiences?
Hi y'all, I made a throwaway for this. I'm a 29F, and I would like to know am I the asshole for having high expectations and trying to communicate that before things get serious? Am I the asshole for being super sensitive to red flags that have consistently popped up from my own experience? I have been single now for ...
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{ "description": "telling my mother on my brother after a recent suicide attempt", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my mother on my brother after a recent suicide attempt.
So a bit of a backstory. My brother attempted suicide this past summer. He is battling depression and at the time drug and alcohol addiction. He went to a mental health facility and then rehab to get cleaned up and get his life back on track. This affected all of us as a family and that if something like this happens a...
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{ "description": "yelling at my ex for throwing shade at me on her instagram", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at my ex for throwing shade at me on her instagram?
I dated this girl in the color guard. Her and i had a pretty decent relationship but then she randomly broke up with me. I was sad for a little bit but I healed fast because the relationship didn’t last long. Then a couple weeks ago when I offered her my percussion books and a pair of drum sticks since she was thinking...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my friend with cancer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting upset with my friend with cancer?
Backstory: My friend was diagnosed with an immune-system cancer about a year ago and had been through all the standard cancer treatment stuff. Just before the new year, he finished his chemo and radiation and was back to getting in shape and regrowing hair and what not. In the past, he would interject in conversations ...
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{ "description": "letting my brother walk his broken bike under the rain", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for letting my brother walk his broken bike under the rain
My 16-years-old brother goes to school by a motorbike and it has been broken from last saturday, suddenly, it worked again on sunday early morning but i still told him to go fix it. He had the whole sunday yesterday( i got some places to be then so i told him to find a garage to fix it). I'm sure i gave him enough mone...
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{ "description": "seeing a video of this guy video taping himself giving sandwiches to homeless people and commenting that he was vain", "pronormative_score": 243, "contranormative_score": 243 }
AITA - I saw a video of this guy video taping himself giving sandwiches to homeless people and I commented that he was vain
Yesterday online I saw a post titled “My First ever LinkedIn Video. Me giving out sandwiches to the poor.” I thought this was incredibly vain so I commented “It was nice of you to do this but I’ve never been able to understand why people feel the need to video tape and post themselves doing something nice. Doesn’t th...
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{ "description": "ditching a messy group", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ditching a messy group?
My school has an east coast trip where we visit major monuments in Washington DC and other areas. Like any other school trip we can choose groups, the people in your group basically do everything with you. One of my friends whom i will call Kyle wanted to be in a group with me. I said yes and we were set. We had to hav...
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{ "description": "thinking my brother should play video games in his room", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking my brother should play video games in his room?
I (23f) am not really a video game person so I'll admit I don't really know anything about the kind of games my brother (21M) plays (things like WOW, DOTA, League). But it makes me very uncomfortable when my brother is constantly screaming, swearing, banging on things, saying things like "go fuck your mom" or worse in ...
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{ "description": "removing a friend's access to my Google account without letting her know", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for removing a friend's access to my Google account without letting her know.
I have a few friends that I share account info with for my accounts like Netflix and Google Play Music. Yesterday night, one of my friends (K) texted me and asked me if I was still listening to music as Google Music only allows a couple of people to stream at the same time before starting to kick people off. I told h...
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{ "description": "not attending my fathers funeral because I never had a relationship with him", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not attending my fathers funeral because I never had a relationship with him
Some family drama for context. My father has ‘abandoned’ me twice. Once when I was three after an argument with my mother (they had broken up long before I was even born), and a second time when I was 14 after being in contact with him for a year (he suddenly stopped calling or texting me). My mother happens to be d...
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{ "description": "thinking my husband should have gotten more recognition for a beer he created and brewed at a local brewery", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my husband should have gotten more recognition for a beer he created and brewed at a local brewery?
Genuinely asking because I'm really not sure. My husband entered a home brewing contest a year ago, and won in a category with his rendition of a smoked beer. Local commercial brewers were in attendance as judges, and one approached him to tell him how awesome his beer/recipe was, and told him he'd like to brew it wi...
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{ "description": "telling my gf that she wasn't traumatized", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for telling my gf that she wasn't traumatized?
My gf recently had a huge blowout with her boss which led to her getting fired on the spot. They argued on and off for probably 6+ hours and from the sounds of it it was a very uncomfortable conversation where her boss did a lot of ranting and she felt that she couldn't get her point across. The argument was over a pre...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to stop helping me when I didn't ask for it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom to stop helping me when I didn't ask for it.
For example yesterday my pointed out my acne has been doing worst, and pointed out to me and tried to give me advice for it, but it just annoyed me. Because i never asked her for advice on my acne. ive been really stressed and the last thing i needed to hear was "your face looks worst" Another time she told me my boo...
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AITA Didn't go on a date because I knew what she was like?
One of my girl (friends) asked me on a date this Friday after watching captain marvel with a couple of friends. I said no and she laughed and asked if I was serious, I told her yeah and she asked why. I responded with well you never seem to take any relationships seriously and I don't want to waste my time on something...
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{ "description": "intiating sexual conduct with someone who I knew was recently out of a breakup", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for intiating sexual conduct with someone who I knew was recently out of a breakup
I know, the title looks bad, and this sentence as well. For a while I didn't think I was but I am warming up to the fact that I may be an asshole. Here's the breakdown. \*Girl in relationship for two years with Ex \*Girl breaks up with Ex because he's a prick, still lives with him \*A couple months later I invi...
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{ "description": "lying about my service dog's name", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For lying about my service dog’s name?
Okay hear me out first please! I have a service puppy in training and she is a corgi. See my post history for pictures of her. She’s adorable but still young so she can get distracted easily but I am owner training her with the help of a professional. Now she is for both psychiatric and internal health reasons but whe...
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{ "description": "demanding to eat out of KFC's garbage can", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITAH for demanding to eat out of KFC's Garbage Can?
I was at a KFC/Taco Bell and it was exceptionally busy, there was a line out the door. While I was waiting in line apparently an elderly man grabbed an order that was not his and left. Around the same time that it was my turn to order the elderly man's order came to the counter. A guy grabbed it and took maybe two step...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to get a job now that the kids are old enough", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my husband to get a job now that the kids are old enough
I and my husband have been married for 17 years (42f &40m). We have two kids(16f & 12f). We decided that my husband would take care of the kids since I have a higher paying job and childcare is way too expensive here. He has been doing so since the birth of our first daughter. But now, the kids are old enoug...
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{ "description": "not wanting a long distance relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a long distance relationship?
There's this guy who, I'll admit, I kind of have feelings for. However, he lives almost 2,000 miles away from me, which means that we'd (probably) never be able to meet up in real life. I think he's awesome and everything, but I don't want my first relationship to be a long distance one. He seems so upset whenever I re...
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{ "description": "dating a younger person", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 15 }
WIBTA If I Dated a Younger Person?
Hi, I made a throwaway account for obvious reasons. I'm a girl, I'm 19 years old. And there's this other girl...she's just fantastic. She's so much fun to be around, she's cute, she's funny, we have so much in common. And I think she might like me back a little. The only problem is...she's fifteen. Well, she's about to...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend for a test", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my friend for a test?
I have a friend who asked me if I have ever heard of the Rice Purity Test (for those unaware google it and read through the questions) If you don't feel like googling it, it's just a 100 question quiz about things you've done that pertain to sex, intimacy, drugs, police and alcohol. Well this friend is aware that I...
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{ "description": "making fun of someone who used to bully me in High School", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making fun of someone who used to bully me in High School?
I'm off work for a week and thought it would be a great chance to go and visit some family. I hopped on the charter bus and as soon as I did, I heard an eruption of laughter coming from the back of the bus. I look up only to find the girl who used to bully me in high school, staring directly at me, and laughing to her ...
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{ "description": "thriving on \"I told you so?\"", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thriving on "I told you so?"
This AITA story covers many years. My wife was rear-ended at a red light a while back. It was pretty bad - the woman that hit her was going 45-50 mph. My old lady had to have a few vertebrae fused, and is still having issues. On top of that, she has MS so everything is exponentially worse. Regardless, she won a se...
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{ "description": "not wanting giving my canceled date a second chance", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting giving my canceled date a second chance?
So this happened last night. For starters, I (18 f) have never went on a date. I had pretty strict parents in high school and do to cultural reasons I wasn’t allowed to date until college. So I meet this guy on a dating app who seems super nice. We texted for a while and then he ends up asked me out on a date for valen...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for sleeping with my interest", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for sleeping with my interest?
As the title says, a friend of mine slept with my special interest. He even knew that I had an interest in them beforehand. Yet, they tried to keep it a secret from me. I assume I would be because I wasn't in a relationship with her, so I cannot be too mad about their actions. I continue to hold a grudge. Also, seco...
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{ "description": "getting upset when my boyfriend stays out much later than originally planned and doesn't let me know", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset when my boyfriend stays out much later than originally planned and doesn’t let me know?
I have OCD and one of my main fears is that someone I love will be in a car accident. He knows how I feel and sometimes texts me to say he will be home late, or is staying on a friend’s couch if he had alcohol and can’t drive home. He regularly loses track of time and doesn’t let me know. We fight ove this regularly. ...
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{ "description": "visiting my sister/niece for only an hour", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for visiting my sister/niece for only an hour?
My sister and baby niece (her daughter) live in Seattle while I live in SF. Luckily for us, I go to Seattle for work every few weeks. Literally every single time since my niece has been born, I make a point to go visit them. Whether its sticking around for the weekend or just popping by. I've never missed them on a si...
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{ "description": "turning down booze at my birthday", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for turning down booze at my birthday?
So a few months ago it was my birthday and I've never fancied big parties, instead we went on a bit of a pub crawl around my hometown. ​ Bit of context; when my girlfriend and I go out, she normally gets drunk first, and it's become a bit of a running joke among our friends that I never get drunk because I...
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{ "description": "ruining my twins relationship with my mom", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ruining my twins relationship with my mom
Backstory- My mom was a single mother and she worked a lot. I have a brother with Downs Syndrome who is 4 years older than me. I grew up being forced to take care of him, feeding him, changing his diapers from when I was 7 years old, watching him all day at the expense of me having a life. My mom also showed very littl...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my mom's friend's college graduation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my mom's friend's college graduation?
Just to keep this short. I'll just list the factors that play in: My 7th grade graduation is directly then. My mom is over all a bad person I don't know this man at all We live in Ohio, he lives in California.4 day one-way commute on car.
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{ "description": "being bitter that my friends are frustrated at me while playing Smash Bros", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being bitter that my friends are frustrated at me while playing Smash Bros?
I’ll try to keep it brief. I’ve played video games my whole life, and playing them with friends is the best way I consider to experience them. I’ve had a friend group since leaving HS of about 8 people, and we play Smash very frequently, which is probably my best game as I’ve sunk many hours into it. To be realistic,...
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{ "description": "telling my landlord that his son can't live with me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I tell my landlord that his son can't live with me?
I'm a man in my early 30s and I live in a duplex. I have the top portion and my landlord lives in the bottom portion. We each have a roommate since our portions of the duplex have two bedrooms. Plus, my landlord is in the process of paying off this duplex so it's his to own. My roommate is rarely here because he works...
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{ "description": "wanting a divorce when my husband and parents don't want me to", "pronormative_score": 42, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting a divorce when my husband and parents don’t want me to
My husband (38m) and I (35f)have been together for 10+years, married for 7. We have 2 kids, 8yo & 4yo. In the marriage I have always been the breadwinner & financially supported the family. We’ve faced many challenges over the years including him cheating on me before we were married, and then me feeling as t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hangout and avoiding my \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hangout and avoiding my "friend"?
It's a long story, but I'll keep it short. So pretty much there's this girl I've known for a few years now. (let's call her R) R is super extroverted and she always comes over to my house, uninvited, and just chills around. I am a total introvert, so having R around is a bit stressful, especially when I really want to...
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{ "description": "wearing a hoodie with Miles Morales' spider-suit pattern on it, even though I'm white", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wearing a hoodie with Miles Morales' Spider-suit pattern on it, even though I'm white?
Title. Had some kids in class yell at me about it. Kinda sucks tho, I paid $40 for the hoodie. ;3;
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AITA weird relationship between my wife and her co worker
My wife and I have been going through a bit of a rough patch for the last few months, mostly because I am often traveling for work and she feels lonely. The excessive traveling will be over in May and I was hoping our issues would get better then, but now we have a conflict that is longer lasting. My wife has become v...
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{ "description": "quitting my job as a women's track&field coach because of false allegations made by one parent (now dropped)? I feel like I'm letting down multiple kids for the fault of one person", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting my job as a women's track&field coach because of false allegations made by one parent (now dropped)? I feel like I'm letting down multiple kids for the fault of one person.
To keep things vague because there's a high change some of you here may recognize me if you live in my county, but I've worked part-time as a high school track & field coach (esp with the women's teams). I've worked there for about 7 years now and have a great record of bringing the girls teams to regionals and eve...
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{ "description": "not giving money to a charity", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving money to a charity
At my school it is forced to "donate" (i put it in quotations because how can it be a donation if its forced) to a charity which i will not name. They expect 1 dollar a day for 8 weeks so around $40 although not many people donate at all. A lot of the students just say take it out of my school fees as i go to a semi pr...
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{ "description": "refusing to date or befriend anyone on the Autism spectrum", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for refusing to date or befriend anyone on the Autism spectrum?
I'm 31 (F), and in the past I've had several very serious relationships, a few of them involved people on the spectrum with Aspergers. To make several very long stories short, none of these relationships worked out. In the beginning they felt like a perfect fitting puzzle piece, only to have it become emotionally para...
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{ "description": "letting my dogs bark", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For letting my dogs bark?
We moved into our new home three years ago. We bought it specifically for the completely fenced in, large backyard because we have five dogs and I have a toddler I don't want to take outside 5+ times a day. I only have two neighbors since I am on a corner lot, and neither have fences for their dogs. ​ Both...
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{ "description": "hating loud eaters", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating loud eaters?
Do you know these people? They simply can't eat quietly. Slurping, loud chewing, followed by the occasional cough or a short hrumph. I've got some particulary loud eaters in my family and i have now gotten to the point where i have to leave the room, whenever the dinner is prone for loud eating (soup, pasta etc...). Or...
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{ "description": "making a girl cry after she made fun of my weight and my mother", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a girl cry after she made fun of my weight and my mother?
So a couple of years ago when I was in middle school, this girl would constantly make fun of me for being overweight and wearing dresses all the time. I could mostly take the weight comments and never retailate even if it did overwhelm me at times to the point where I had to go home crying. Anyways. So one day she mad...
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{ "description": "not wanting my picture taken", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting My Picture Taken?
This happened just a few minutes ago but it's seriously bothering me because I feel bad about it?? Basically my braces just came off and as I was walking to the lobby, a woman who works there asked if I wanted my picture taken for the Facebook page. I instantly said no and my guardian kept telling me I should, as well ...
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{ "description": "finally managing to reach out to my old best friend, leaving my girlfriend alone for a weekend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA when I finally managed to reach out to my old best friend, leaving my girlfriend alone for a weekend?
So, from the title alone this would be pointless. I had one friend in my life, one who actually cares for me, who picked me up from the floor, and helped me get back up. But because of work we didn't really speak for 2 years now, because we didn't have time at all. And roughly around that timespan, I and my girlfriend ...
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{ "description": "requesting a refund for storage I cannot use", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting a refund for storage I cannot use?
Hi, Due to a short-notice relocation I recently rented a storage unit at a local storage business. Before I rented the unit I called the hotline and asked about storing motorcycles in an indoor unit. I was given the OK, but I figured this was bogus so I went ahead and visited in person. Turns out you cannot store mot...
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{ "description": "criticizing my friend's cooking and telling her \"it doesn't matter anyway\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for criticizing my friend's cooking and telling her "it doesn't matter anyway"?
Yesterday a few people in my class (including my friend, who I'll call A) brought in some christmas-themed baked goods and since we weren't doing anything that day we got to eat them all then vote on whose food was the best. After we had all eaten, I told a friend - not the one mentioned in the title - that A's yule lo...
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{ "description": "taking on private lesson students", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking on private lesson students?
Ok so this story is about figure skating, the most overcomplicated sport of all time, so bear with me. I’ve coached at this ice rink for 2.5 years, but I’ve been helping teach since I was 12, and have been a fully licenced coach since I was 16. All in all about 11 years experience. I’m 22, this is relevant to the stor...
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{ "description": "letting my dog pee on an outdoor plant pot", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for letting my dog pee on an outdoor plant pot?
I just walked my dog in my neighborhood and he paused to pee on a wooden planter outside a shut store (its 7pm). A woman smoking two doors down started giving out to me, asking why I was letting my dog do that. I said “it’s raining out” but she didn’t see my reasoning. This isn’t the first time this has happened arou...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have much of a relationship with my mom's side of the family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to have much of a relationship with my mom’s side of the family?
Thank you for any and all advice! I’ve felt guilty about this for years and wanted to know if my feelings are justified or not. For background, my mother passed away when I was eight years old and my siblings and I were raised by my dad alone until I was in college, when he married again. Everything is great with my ...
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{ "description": "flying business class and let the rest of the family fly economy", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For flying Business class and let the rest of the family fly economy?
I live in Europe with half of the family, the other half lives in the US. My cousin is getting married on Hawaii and invited everyone to attend the wedding. From my country to Hawaii is around 27hours travelling. I want to fly business class since that offers a lot of comfort for such a long trip but the rest of my ...
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{ "description": "meeting up with only 1 friend, didn't invite the other and for not being sympathetic to left out friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for meeting up with only 1 friend, didn’t invite the other and for not being sympathetic to left out friend?
I admit title does make me sound like the asshole. The 3 of us have been friends for years. A year ago my friend (I’ll call her Sally) got a boyfriend. She’s gone AWOL since then, we’ve met up about 5 times over the last year which is very different to how often we used to see each other. On a frequent basis she said s...
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{ "description": "wanting to dye my hair", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to dye my hair?
Around the middle of last year, my brother proposed to his girlfriend of 3 years. She said yes and they’re getting married this summer (yay I’m excited for them :D). Over the holidays I went to visit them (they live in a different state than I do) and we went bridesmaid dress shopping. Naturally, we were talking about ...
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AITA loser brother New father
AITA Tl;Dr called my brother a bunch of horrible names and two days later his baby is born and I don't feel welcome or what I should do. So my brother who has had problems with Marijuana such as having no job or money somehow still managed to smoke daily, had been going through some rough times. He was in an 8 year ...
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{ "description": "being angry about a friend ghosting me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry about a friend ghosting me?
The title probably makes this sound a bit odd but here goes... My best friend and I are very close but we butt heads often for that reason. In May he introduced me to his other friend, we’ll call him Andrew. Andrew and I hit it off and started hanging out. I was kinda into him but wanted to play out being friends befo...
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{ "description": "making my best friend move out without notice after she told me she doesn't like me anymore", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for making my best friend move out without notice after she told me she doesn't like me anymore?
To clarify, it's my house and she hasn't signed any form of lease agreement. A couple weeks ago I confronted her, saying I had been getting the vibe that she doesn't like me anymore. She admitted she had been feeling that way. I was hurt but didn't press her further, telling myself she must have just felt like that fo...
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{ "description": "telling my partner that I need more space from her", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my partner that I need more space from her?
Ive been with my (24m) current partner (23f) for close to 6 years now and I love her to pieces, shes extremely sweet and bubbly. Kindest person Ive ever met. To get to the point, one drawback she has is she loves spending time with me, all the time, and never gets bored or tired of it. Which Ive always found very ...
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{ "description": "getting internet and keeping the password from my live-in boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I got internet and kept the password from my live-in boyfriend?
Im 22, he's 25. My boyfriend is a porn ADDICT. Last time we had internet I paid the $100 every month and he hardly left the bathroom, it began to affect his mood (made him depressed, angry, withdrawn and extremely draining to be around) affect his job and he hardly touched me for about 6 months. It fully destroyed our ...
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{ "description": "telling my mum, that I don't care about my brothers coma", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my mum, that I don't care about my brothers coma?
(I'm on mobile so sorry in advance) I must add a bit of an backstory so you might understand my reason: Me and my older brother are 1 1/2 years apart, He was 18 back then, I was 17. We had a good relationship as kids but as time passed, we grew apart. He turned out to be - what I consider - bad. He smoked, he took mar...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my boyfriend?
This past Valentine's Day, I was conversing with my boyfriend, and we ended up on the topic of this super gross old stalker that I had. (Super romantic, right?) I detailed how this person threatened me, stalked me and a friend, and hit me. After telling this story, my boyfriend went very quiet and I asked him what was ...
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{ "description": "calling my brother a faggot", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for calling my brother a faggot?
We had an argument about my mom having psychosis. He kept saying that she's sick and she needs help. But, he listened to nothing I was saying about her being on medication and being fully capable when she's not having an episode. He wants to send her off to a mental hospital. We kept arguing and he called her crazy so ...
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{ "description": "yelling at someone who yelled at my dog", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For yelling at someone who yelled at my dog?
So my dog is generally very well behaved. On occasion he will bark at someone outside our apartment if he is uncomfortable with what they're doing (usually yelling or loitering by our door too long). The other day I was walking my dog and someone comes around the corner yelling at his phone and walks straight towards ...
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{ "description": "laughing about a boy's disgrace", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for laughing about a boy's disgrace
So, this is not exactly about me, is about my best friend. She, let's call her May, has been in a relationship with a guy (let's call him Josh) for over a year. The first few months went pretty well, they seemed pretty happy and everything went cool. After the third month, he started behaving really strange. Josh start...
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{ "description": "not giving my husband a baby right now", "pronormative_score": 670, "contranormative_score": 80 }
AITA for not giving my husband a baby right now
So we've been married for just shy of 3 years now and my husband is really getting on my case to have a baby. To give you readers a sense of "getting on my case" I mean like asking for a deadline on when to start trying and questinioning me on going back to school because that means that babies might be delayed. I've ...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from certain relatives, and by extension, their innocent kids", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distancing myself from certain relatives, and by extension, their innocent kids?
TLDR: AITA for avoiding my problematic relatives, and as a consequence erasing their young kids from my life too? Brief rundown: cousin's family have always been difficult, but it's exploded in recent years to the extent that I physically cannot be around them for any length of time. I refuse to visit them (they liv...
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AITA if my boyfriend has cheated on me several times, and I forgave him, but I start to see red every time I see he's liked another girl's photo?
I'm not the jealous type, never have been. Women are beautiful creatures. But now that my boyfriend's infidelities have been exposed, my heart is crushed every time I see his likes on Instagram or facebook. I know everyone will say I should leave him, but that's simply not an option for me right now as things are much ...
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{ "description": "cutting my long term friend out of my life for staying in an abusive relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for cutting my long term friend out of my life for staying in an abusive relationship?
Using a throw away account. My friend and I, let’s name him Mike, have been friends for roughly 6 years. I consider him a best friend, and vice versa. He’s been like a brother to me. He’s had a persistent crush on this girl, we’ll call her Aleena, and has gone above and beyond for her and has done things such as drive...
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{ "description": "skipping my friend's party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I skip my friend's party?
Throwaway account for the usual reasons. My friend is having a big birthday party at the end of the month. We go to the same university, but she's an undergrad, and I'm a law student. Because of that difference, my finals start a week before hers do. Her party is before her finals, but during mine. She changed the da...
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{ "description": "holding up a train to recover stolen glasses", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for holding up a train to recover stolen glasses?
I work/run a pub in a small town. I was working a Saturday night when four guys in their 20’s came in and ordered 4 pints of red stripe. They went out for a cigarette then I saw them walking to the train station, which is opposite the pub with their glasses. Usually I might not have bothered because it was busy, but we...
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{ "description": "trying to express my sexuality", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to express my sexuality?
First off, I'm a transwoman, I came out to my friends almost a year ago. I have never really been the sort of trans person to be really "in your face" about my sexuality, most people wouldn't even figure it out unless I told them directly. I dress how I want, usually jeans and a edgy jumper with one of the bands I like...
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{ "description": "asking roommate to clean their mess", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking roommate to clean their mess?
Okay, we all know roommate situations suck. I have two roommates and one of them left the bath tub filled with 2-3 inches of dirty water and tons of pubes. I went to take a shower around 10:45 p.m. to discover the mess and no one else in the apartment. There have been a lot of issues with roommates clogging drains...
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{ "description": "telling my full blooded mexican relatives they will never be white", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for telling my full blooded mexican relatives they will never be white?
Obligatory: I am on mobile, and I'm sorry for the awful formatting, though I will try my best. I am half white, and half mexican. I am also very close with my mexican relatives, but I have one gripe with my older cousins. Recently, one of my cousins ordered a 23andMe kit, and she was going on and on about how "she's ...
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{ "description": "setting my asshole boss up for a fall", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for setting my asshole boss up for a fall?
My boss is an asshole. Universally disliked, known for not being able to make a strategic decision to save her life and basically killing any decent idea that comes her way. I have been working on a side project to innovate our service with a colleague from another department who has a direct line up to the CEO who h...
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{ "description": "expecting my gf to be able to do simple math", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for expecting my GF (27) to be able to do simple math?
Apologies for any formatting issues, mobile user here, also spelling isn’t my strong suit. Long-ish post, TLDR right here for convenience TLDR: gf and I arguing, tell her +/- numbers under ten is something she should be able to do, calls me an ass, am I? I’d like to preface this by saying a persons education is not ...
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{ "description": "wanting to give up on my dad", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to give up on my dad?
My dad has been battling dementia and has been very stubborn about it. He has gotten lost, gains mysterious injuries and has given tons of money to alcoholics without prioritizing himself. He also lies to me about going to the doctor and taking medication. I have been taking care of both his and my rent, bills and t...
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{ "description": "getting more stuff than my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Getting more Stuff than my boyfriend?
So we got Diablo about 2 weeks ago. I decided to be a wizard class, he decided to be a crusader with the idea that I would essentially be a glass cannon and he would tank. Well we beat it once on normal and towards the end he kept complaining that I was getting more drops than him. We decided it must be because I was P...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to a friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped talking to a friend?
On mobile to please excuse typos/grammar. Etc... I'm (28F) thinking of cutting off one of my best friends (30F). I've known her for about 10 years now and when we first met we instantly clicked. She's an amazingly sweet girl but I'm at my wits end. She works as a nurse and I run a small business so we're both ver...
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{ "description": "not letting my husband watch the birth", "pronormative_score": 157, "contranormative_score": 24 }
WIBTA if I didn't let my husband watch the birth?
I recently found out I'm pregnant. We're over the moon about it. Only thing is, I really don't want my husband watching the birth. I told him he can be in the room, hold my hand, hear the baby's first cry, but I do NOT want him front and center staring up my crotch. He is incredibly offended by this. He says this is so...
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{ "description": "making my sisters friends pissed and leave", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my sisters friends pissed and leave?
Hello, this is my first post here and I'll be writing on mobile, sorry if my English and grammar isnt the best. A little backstory - I am very passionate about lizards and I own a small one. She is a tiny rankins dragon, only 8 inches long and 20 grams of weight, super tiny. Now I usually dont let people hold and pe...
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{ "description": "acting like myself around my friends, even if that means I'm a depressed emotional wreck", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I acted like myself around my friends, even if that means I’m a depressed emotional wreck?
Using a throwaway in case my friends see this. Also sorry for the format. This is my first post on here and I’m on mobile. A bit of background: Me and my friends have recently talked about “being ourselves” meaning we stop trying to appeal to each other and just do you. I’m actually cool with that idea, except “myself...
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{ "description": "deleting family member on social media because of post", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deleting family member on social media because of post ?
Hey guys, this has kind of been swirling around my brain for a bit, and I decided to post. My family member and I got into an argument back in Feb, we had not spoken and she posted a photo that said "I went to sign my dog up for welfare. they said he's not eligible. I said he's lazy, unemployed, and doesn't know his...
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{ "description": "asking my fiance to donate less to charity", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking my Fiance to donate less to charity?
For context, we are both college students on a pretty tight budget. We have a collective food system and fiscally split groceries between four people total. My Fiance was out of work for a while and so I covered their part of groceries and utilities while they found another job. Not a big deal, that's what you do for l...
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{ "description": "potentially sabotaging my former bosses business because of health risks within the building", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I potentially sabotaged my former bosses business because of health risks within the building
I worked part time at a fun center (local arcade sorta thing) and the things I've seen there are honestly worrying to me. I have since been fired because I have been repeatedly "tired" from football. This was a few months ago and I have since been job searching. The problems arose on the 3rd day of the job. I was trai...
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{ "description": "being the only person with an issue with class stacking in D&D", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being the only person with an issue with class stacking in D&D
Ill get strait into it: I recently joined a roll20 game after being stuck as the forever dm for 3 years, its a paid game which I was curious about & the 40/month cost wasn't a big deal. First session is great I get to channel 3 years of wanting to play into this dragonborn barbarian & my SO seeing how excited ...
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AITA TwoXchromasomes removed my comment
Basically there was this post on TwoXchromasomes talking about how an in celebration threatened to kill women. So I commented not all incels are like this. I learned that from based shaman. Based shaman is this really popular YouTuber who makes videos on various subjects one of them being incels, and going throug...
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{ "description": "wanting my brother to spend some of his first paycheck covering the dry cleaning expenses of a very expensive garmit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my brother to spend some of his first paycheck covering the dry cleaning expenses of a very expensive garmit?
Sorry for formatting, on mobile. First and foremost, my brother (20) is on the autism spectrum. He doesn’t understand boundaries, societal customs, or (significantly here) monetary value (meaning that just because our dad can afford to get him a 99 cent song doesn’t mean it’s affordable to spend $60 on a video game). H...
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{ "description": "honking at and flashing my lights at a person doing 50-60km/h in a 90km/h zone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for honking at and flashing my lights at a person doing 50-60km/h in a 90km/h zone?
For the peeps who use imperial: the person was doing 31-37mph in a 55mph zone. ​ Some context: I live in Australia and was night driving down a rural-ish road, where there is only one lane each way. ​ Also, I do understand the 90km/h is a speed *limit*. However, when someone does 30-40, it bec...
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{ "description": "not talking to a transphobic friend", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not talking to a transphobic friend?
First, I’d like to apologize for any mistakes, English is not my first language. ​ Background information: I’m a transgender man. I met some LGBT-friendly people I got close with during my first year of university and everything was going pretty well between us. I introduced them to a guy in our course I ...
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{ "description": "telling a classmate I don't consider him a friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling a classmate I don't consider him a friend?
In 7th grade there was this kid (let's call him G) that I had two periods with every semester (3 if you count recess, but I don't since I spent the majority of 7th grade recess in the library playing computer games). G and I made a couple jokes together, occasionally talked if we were next to each other or worked on a ...
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{ "description": "feeling like I'm being guilt tripped and wanting this situation to change", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling like I’m being guilt tripped and wanting this situation to change?
I’m am a 20 year old student who also works part time. My grandma on my Dad’s side is divorced and lives alone, but seems to have a pretty good social life (Bowls, language classes ect). I don’t have this problem with the other grandparents, but they’re all married. Basically every time I talk to her, she will ask fo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend the weekend with my husband's ex wife", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend the weekend with my husband’s ex wife?
Our granddaughter’s Birthday is this weekend and my stepdaughter is planning a big party. We received invitations a month ago and confirmed we were coming. We usually stay with them or our other daughter. We got a call last night that we would need to find other arrangements because our son-in-law’s parents are staying...
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{ "description": "being upset about this interaction with my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being upset about this interaction with my neighbor?
I (P) recently had a text exchange with a neighbor (M) who thinks that I am being "accusatory". H is the mother of two young girls, one of which is R, who are visiting. Am I being an unreasonable asshole? Here is the text exchange: ​ Me: Hi M, Please drive up and down our driveway more slowly. The girl...
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{ "description": "trying to be a decent parent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to be a decent parent?
Very Long, TLDR at bottom Last week I (26) took my son (3) to the library with my girlfriend. Everything was fine at first, dropped off the books and toys and headed to the kids section. However as we are looking for books my son decided he would rather run around the library and be chased by me. This is cute normall...
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{ "description": "not wanting my ex to go to a school I was considering", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not wanting my ex to go to a school I was considering?
Bit of backstory: I am 19F, ex is 20M. We went to the same university last year after having started dating senior year of HS. I had decided to go to [school A] before my ex did. At the time, yes, we were crazy about each other. By the end of the year we were broken up, he had withdrawn from school A and so had I. He...
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{ "description": "asking my siblings if they got sick/have green poop from their parents party on Monday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I ask my siblings if they got sick/have green poop from their parents party on Monday?
So my sister and brother in law drove me an hour to their parents house for the college championship football game. Their parents spent a good amount of money on making food and had the game on. They offered good hospitality as well. My brother in laws mother spent hours making the food and is super nice. But ever si...
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