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"description": "wanting to move to a different state before having kids",
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} | AITA for wanting to move to a different state before having kids? | So my fiancé (29M) and I (26F) have been dating for almost eight years. When I was 19 I moved out of my parents’ house on the West Coast of the US where I grew up, to the East Coast to be with him. Since then we have always talked about moving somewhere warmer because even though he grew up out here on the East Coast h... | HISTORICAL | {
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77oy2lP5YnjA1Yta5LPCGtp1Ws3Ns3lO | arbhwt | {
"description": "resenting my mother for needing financial support",
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} | AITA For resenting my mother for needing financial support? | TLDR; My mother (54F) lives in my brother's (29M) house rent free, sits around all day, and refuses to get a job. Recently denied disability. They can't keep paying for her and need help. My wife (31F) and I (32M) are financially stable but are feeling resentful about having to support her.
Throwaway and first time p... | HISTORICAL | {
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rkFusDmQEkP8Oeov6oqbCTyinuDZDxlC | a3u489 | {
"description": "not taking my septum piercing out",
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} | AITA for not taking my septum piercing out? | I come from a somewhat conservative household but it’s more my mom than my father. I’m currently 20 years old but at 16, I asked my mother if I could get my septum pierced at 18. She basically mocked me for it and said no (which, to be fair sounds like what most moms would say). I ended up saving Christmas money until... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "distrusting my roommate in charge of the gas bill",
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} | AITA for distrusting my roommate in charge of the gas bill? | Background: I live with two other people. Utilities and gas are charged to the entire apartment instead of each tenant. When I first moved in, someone needed to put the gas bill in their name, and another needed to put the utilities bill in their name (electricity, ac, etc. are separate from gas). Of course the utiliti... | HISTORICAL | {
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tguS8aEh7mXoRdVdniEGjLcVCoExVOxp | ar621i | {
"description": "not wanting to visit my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to visit my girlfriend? | Myself and this girl have been dating for 10 months now. We’ve been distance for the majority of it as she graduated college a year earlier than I did. We now live 6 hours apart and distance is much tougher on her than it is for me. She gets anxious if I don’t let her know what I’m doing. This is mostly if I’m around o... | HISTORICAL | {
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DmWozBYLRLOPCabnsZdePMyw7NRLtTxF | a4rg4c | {
"description": "being angry about Christmas plans",
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} | AITA for being angry about Christmas plans | I come from a big family, my siblings and I are all in our 30s and have partners. Every other year we all celebrate Christmas together by getting together Christmas eve through to Boxing day. I am married and have a 4 year old dog, and a 6 week old baby. My dog is well behaved and has always attended Christmas with no ... | HISTORICAL | {
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FD49UI3oSwirBV6buw2C1twuJOg01fya | ae4pok | {
"description": "telling my gf about my mental health / sexual issues",
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} | AITA For telling my gf about my mental health / sexual issues? | So for the better part of my life I've had admittedly strange tastes and behaviors. It started off I believe by watching violent movies, and then I drifted into reading comics with a lot of gore, then finally into comics dedicated to extreme torture and internet snuff films.
Basically a snuff film is a video of someo... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "having sex with my best friends ex",
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} | AITA for having sex with my best friends ex? | This is more complicated then the title suggests. My best friend of 6 years broke up with his now ex around 4 months ago. They dated for about 2 and a half years.
They didn’t end on super bad terms he just knew that he didn’t want to be with her anymore. He told me he had fallen out of love with her and really didn’t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "leaving my best friend's bday because of a girl",
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} | AITA for leaving my best friend's bday because of a girl? | My best friend made a BBQ for his birthday. I found out the day before that he had invited a girl who he didn't know (only knew her by Discord). He knew her and I had gone on a date, kissed, and that then proceeded to ghost me, which affected me very negatively. When I told him (before the BBQ) that her presence bother... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to skip my brother's wedding",
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} | AITA for wanting to skip my brother's wedding? | In a nutshell, we have struggled to get along our entire lives and are polar opposites. We live very different lifestyles. I am married with 2 kids, typical poor middle class and have a lot of debt. On the other hand, he is 40, makes six figures and is just now deciding to settle down. He has always been selfish and un... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not messaging my gf for a week",
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} | AITA For not messaging my GF for a week. | So last summer in August me and a few of my friends decided to go on a little trip, no where big and we didn't leave the country. We booked the trip about 6 months in advance so we could make sure to get off work and have the time for the holiday.
It was a nice resort location with 2 houses for me and my friends on th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "trying to talk to an acquaintance about assumptions I'd had about them",
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} | AITA for trying to talk to an acquaintance about assumptions I'd had about them? | As the title states. I had an acquaintance I've known for years. I've never really gotten along with this person, for many reasons, but always tried to be nice.
This person is VERY peculiar. They don't like being asked 'How are you?' and become very easily upset by little things, such as giving them advice when they r... | HISTORICAL | {
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MfTBT6v29vlRZ3PegmKU7IrwY7g3EJF0 | an0eeb | {
"description": "not telling a subordinate that his wife made a pass at me at a corporate party",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For not telling a subordinate that his wife made a pass at me at a corporate party? | I am a low level supervisor at a fairly large business that routinely organizes parties for local offices. We had an in office super bowl party complete with drinking and snacks and a massive tv.
Im not a huge sports fan but i showed up anyway. I have twelve people under me and most brought a date. Plus my bosses and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
2Rj61oV7NdNHDeppcqPUwAVXp08H200k | 9tvsri | {
"description": "getting upset with my wife for constant worrying",
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} | AITA For getting upset with my wife for constant worrying? | I'm just beyond frustrated at this point with it. I've talked to her about it and she swears she's improving but nothing has changed. For months now I get phone calls where she's freaking out and asking if I'm alright. She calls and ask where I am, that I said I'd be home ages ago, etc. But she does this at 10:20 when ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fDNjffvDlZHILIyg53t2427tnvBMdqpM | am72ll | {
"description": "accidentally short paying a poor man",
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} | AITA I accidentally short payed a poor man | This might not sound like a huge deal, but I feel awful. For context, I’m in Colombia with my parents (in grade 11 but doing school online). Anyway, we were going into the metro station and there was a man selling bottled drinks from a cart, which advertised the price of 1500 pesos (just over 50 cents in USD). This ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lhJOwu470ryJvVGj2Z716sKKq84s934i | b2ulr2 | {
"description": "being honest with my gf about not wanting a long distance relationship",
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} | AITA for being honest with my gf about not wanting a long distance relationship? | My gf has talked about joining the army like her mother since I’ve known her. I think it’s great if she does it and I would be proud of her as a person. I however like my job and wouldn’t leave it. I’m also not interested in a long distance relationship. So if she does join up it would end the relationship.
We ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 17,
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} | RIGHT |
H0ZNRiAQGkzGgHJxxPbu9RXIKLOPgtRR | af2q8h | {
"description": "not wanting to help my friend pick stuff up from the store",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to help my friend pick stuff up from the store? | About 6 months ago a friend and his wife asked if I wanted to share a place with them, as they were moving back into town. I was looking into getting out of my current living situation so I said yes.
My issue is my friend asks me a lot to get stuff from the store for him. Usually that would be fine every now again, bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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gzuN1B5qsGS94gcNlZdc1uZUKbroebgf | ar60kv | {
"description": "regularly studying in a coffee shop for 3-5 hours",
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} | AITA for regularly studying in a coffee shop for 3-5 hours? | I work as an actuary, so I need to spend a ton of time studying for exams. There’s a coffee shop near my office that I like to go to after work, probably 2-4 days per week, where I buy a drink and then sit with my laptop, wearing headphones, working on math problems for the material I’m learning. It’s a pretty big cafe... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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71YIt6jlggDyaBZKKSqgfMyzZLgq6uNM | alruby | {
"description": "getting upset that my wife won't try playing video games with me",
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} | AITA For getting upset that my wife won't try playing video games with me? | Ok, so a little background. My wife and I have been married for just over 7 years. From the day we met, she has known that I enjoy playing video games. I am definitely a casual gamer, but when a game comes out that I enjoy, I usually play it multiple hours a night until I either beat it or get bored of it. We have 3 ki... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
u951rSqfdkRLQPnF9gTFlFads69NMhaK | aqo1k5 | {
"description": "watching a movie alone because my girlfriend said she didn't want to watch it",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for watching a movie alone because my girlfriend said she didn't want to watch it? | We always watch movies together but one time I wanted to see a film and asked her if she wants to watch it with me. I asked her several times and she never said yes. So I watched it alone and now she is mad. AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
QFq35xa1ZUFcDhiI45LdD32lEdmns57X | 9tgh2i | {
"description": "eating something in front of my friends in the wrong way",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA when I ate something in front of my friends in the wrong way? | It all started when I brought some candy to school because I thought it would be a good idea to bring a snack, but I couldn’t have been more wrong. Because the first piece of chocolate I took out was a Kit-Kat so in a hurry to eat it before class starts I bit the chocolate wafer brick in the middle thinking nobody woul... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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RstCIKc2LVCUgfkfCtjgoi7d6N9bpRdh | aqfysb | null | AITA - I called my nephew a future psychopath, I also constantly joked about him being obsessed with fire. Even though I told my little brother not to. | **tldr at the bottom**
He's ten, so I never say any of this to his face. It's just that he has mental problems and he has little to no empathy and he's always beating up his little sister (not literally, it's in a ten year old way, steps on her feet, pokes her ribs, etc.). I know it's offensive to call him a little p... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
J0VwLG548roZMZ3lGe4s4kTKqjCjA5zD | a9scys | {
"description": "admitting to my gf that I don't have faith in our 3-year relationship when got asked by her",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA (m26) for admitting to my gf (f24) that I don’t have faith in our 3-year relationship when got asked by her? | We both acknowledged how sad and scared we would feel when thinking about the worst. I guess we are on the verge of a breakup and just feel really bad thinking of how it’s going to hurt the other person.
Also, we just got back together a few months ago after 3 months of being temporarily single mainly because we could... | HISTORICAL | {
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cHRmjm0XvJaUgpxRTSGIEXi2EBc45jc7 | b5yy0d | {
"description": "evaluating my relationship after feeling jealous",
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} | AITA for evaluating my relationship after feeling jealous? | First I need to provide some context.
Before meeting Monica, she used to date a mutual friend, Paul. Nothing official, just one or two dates but I know a lot of chemistry was going on there because of what she told me. When I met her we used to date, but nothing official as well. I saw other girls and she also had soc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
XZfKv3MHAgCYKNhbpptzSUTULNo4HNjh | a2rf4f | {
"description": "purposely ditching the parents Im supposed to babysit for",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA if I purposely ditch the parents im supposed to babysit for? | Quick backstory I help babysit for a "friend" since I have free time. They have 3 kids and they are the sweetest sometimes. I've been doing this since August and known them since May. On occasion I would babysit for 2 hours and the parents would stay out for 3 hours. They wouldn't pay me for the extra hour but that did... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
1Khg3naPbwhTbXN4SDheCkjZu5a6TLLe | a4xp1w | {
"description": "wanting to pick my own Netflix profile icon",
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} | AITA if I want to pick my own Netflix profile icon? | I'll keep this brief because tbh this is ridiculous. I have shared a Netflix account with my best friend for years. He also has his parents on the account. A couple of years ago he got a new girlfriend (who I am not 100% a fan of) who is now also on the account now that they live together. A while ago netflix added mor... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
El1JDfYnN9N8FlqIWnzQmbNq8TxWN1GU | awfqrg | {
"description": "not paying back money spent getting me into rehab",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for not paying back money spent getting me into rehab? |
I admit I’m the world's biggest asshole at the start of this train-wreck.
For reasons, I will skip the part on why I started using drugs.
At the end of it all, after about ten months, I lost my home and all my possessions except those that could fit in my car. My wife had taken my two children, a l... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
wgJKZA41Y9hXYb5prXSUoRYRL758WlDL | aint4a | {
"description": "not letting a kid play with my Gameboy Classic",
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} | AITA for not letting a kid play with my Gameboy Classic | So as a backstory: I'm not living at home anymore so on weekends I usually take the train home, which is a five-hour drive. Every Friday I'm driving with a neighbor and her son (I will be calling him Tom, he's about 8-9 at that time) as they visit their parents/grandparents on the weekend who live in the same town as m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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Ao4q1WvXxNCbM2E410Ltrx0D9euGhfRX | ahfcky | {
"description": "not wanting to reverse my vasectomy",
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} | AITA for not wanting to reverse my Vasectomy? |
Hi Guys!
I have a weird relationship, 12 years, 10 married. Iv'e been a stay at home dad now for 10 years. I used to have a career, wasn't amazing made a livable wage for a 20 something. But it just wasn't enough to pay the bills so after her maternity leave I tried to get a big raise and failed. The wife had a bet... | HISTORICAL | {
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FP25FEUl5qCpG8rTqkRNnij6uDtlOjpf | b1lakv | {
"description": "not wanting to share a squat rack with my friend",
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} | AITA if i dont want to share a squat rack with my friend? | So I come to the gym, I warm up, and I see 1 of 3 squat racks are empty. One of the squat racks is taken up by my friend, so I decided to work out at the squat rack next to him. My friend, we will call him A, goes to the bathroom or something and leaves his stuff at his rack. So just when I start my set, a guy comes up... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to invite my mom to my wedding",
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} | AITA for not wanting to invite my mom to my wedding? | Hi Reddit,
So let me start by saying that my fiancee and I are engaged, and have been since like mid-November. We're getting set up to have our wedding in July. We just sent out our save-the-dates a couple of weeks ago, and my mother did not make the list of people we've sent these to.
I've had a pretty rocky relatio... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "entering general partnership with my father",
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} | AITA for entering general partnership with my father? | Backstory, Im a 29 Y/O residential, new construction builder and practicing general contractor. I recently entered into a general partnership (I know dumb) with my father (was I dumb?) with the scope of remodeling a house that was purchased for a reasonable price... that could be sold for a reasonable price. Prior to m... | HISTORICAL | {
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vf49Ab8t4g01bLKFY20OtqzBEm99iYd6 | al5mjw | {
"description": "not paying for a customer's scratches we caused on a vehicle due to it being covered with some snow",
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} | AITA for not paying for a customer's scratches we caused on a vehicle due to it being covered with some snow? | This happened a few hours ago. I manage and oversee a small car wash chain in the Midwest US. A customer came in with a brand new vehicle covered in snow (clearly left outside the night prior to their carwash), and after going through the wash, came out with ridged scratches (mind you, not scuff marks, which we normall... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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BfnponsSKxFNk9PL9HtRbWURmynKpQGm | b47u78 | {
"description": "possibly leading a guy on",
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} | AITA for possibly leading a guy on? | Last year, a close friend of mine asked me out and I (16f) rejected him. No bs about wanting to preserve our friendship. I just wasn't interested. It was awkward for a while and we started talking again. Since we were in the same friend group, we couldn't avoid each other. He asked me out again recently and I rejected ... | HISTORICAL | {
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V4UFuyvMSX1f76NnxBajRhV7OsYftXPY | adomm2 | {
"description": "wanting to hire a nanny despite the fact that I'm sahm",
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} | AITA for wanting to hire a nanny despite the fact that I’m SAHM? | So for the record I don’t really think I’m an asshole for wanting this but my husband certainly does. Looking for opinions.
We have a 2 year old daughter whos become quite the handful in the past year. I’ve stayed home since she was born and lately I’ve been asking hubby about hiring a part time nanny so I can get a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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K7Xakgu9Vs8F3Ey3jQ2aWugdOWub7eSL | 9yndac | {
"description": "not changing my mindnand being stubborn",
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} | AITA For not changing my mindnand being stubborn? | Sorry if this is more of a /r/relationships post. To start off, Me and my (ex) girlfriend of a year recently broke up over how I feel our relationship should be. I had felt like I had been putting considerably more effort into the relationship because I had been the only one to make attempts to see her. To give some b... | HISTORICAL | {
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2BMZpAiQrOjcIkF15OKv6iRcVrnDOGY7 | b8mpit | {
"description": "using my former Companies Open-source Code to compete with them",
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} | AITA For Using My Former Companies Open-Source Code to Compete With Them? | I'll start with this: I'm not under any NDA, non-compete, or other legally-binding agreement that prohibits me from doing what I'm doing. Also, all the software I'm using is open-source, except for the parts I developed in the past few months, and the open-source pieces are really the valuable portions of the software... | HISTORICAL | {
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idbcSwAwX07kpiTLnaZQvKTQZ5vHpedY | b6o9um | {
"description": "calling security on a mall employee",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for calling security on a mall employee? | This happened many years ago, but I still question if I did the right thing.
I worked retail in a mall when I was in my late teens, early twenties. I was in the store alone and was closing up for the night. Luckily, one of the first things I would do was lower the gate before doing the rest of my duties. There wasn’t... | HISTORICAL | {
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PnrHM8Z6I44OGRyU3r4jetAhOsVX65no | alp1t2 | {
"description": "keeping guns in my vehicle that were discovered by my nosey coworkers",
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} | AITA For keeping guns in my vehicle that were discovered by my nosey coworkers? | This happened monday, fresh off the weekend and its been annoying me ever since. I am being treated like im in the wrong in this situation so lets see what you guys think.
I drive a 2018 Range Rover with plenty of interior space. As such I keep three guns in my vehicle at all times. I keep a Glock 19 in my glove box, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nxbtxP0RkLT8O05pZwSfKF20BZb9REWR | 9x55zb | {
"description": "not letting my friend use my controller for mario kart",
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} | AITA For not letting my friend use my controller for mario kart? | I usually bring my Nintendo Switch to my school's lunch room to play Mario kart with some of my friends but there is one guy who I give my controller to play and when I get it back it is covered in a mix of slushy and grease. I told him he may use my controller but I do not want anything on it he said I won't get anyth... | HISTORICAL | {
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yMepxa7vCyjIWyQGr32gJw2Itl84CPNs | aub14w | {
"description": "telling an embarrassing story about my gf",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | WIBTA if I told an embarrassing story about my gf? | My gf keeps telling her friends everything about our relationship. I had thought there were some limits to this, but word got back to me from my friend who is dating one of her friends that my gf was mocking me about a really embarrassing sexual incident that happened.
I was so humiliated. We have the same group ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Cj0iNUVlEPWblyb43ZLI5i6MjoGQFYtJ | b0t9od | {
"description": "complaining about my Dad's obnoxiously loud omg soup eating and food chewing",
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} | AITA for complaining about my Dad’s obnoxiously loud omg soup eating and food chewing? | My dad chews his food with his mouth open and slurps his soup. The rest of my family gives me shit for complaining about it. He chews like this almost everyday. | HISTORICAL | {
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3L5CJPYMnptv6FElw10273yyBx2vQc4e | b20nij | {
"description": "disliking my boyfriend's female best friend",
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} | AITA for disliking my boyfriend’s female best friend? | TLDR; at end
(1) It begins with my last boyfriend. While I was dating him, she flirted w him in his Insta dms. We broke up, I thought I’d never have a problem with her again. Well, she happens to be close friends with my current bf.
(2)I figure this out about a month in and tell him abt it and he says to try being f... | HISTORICAL | {
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tHfYjVuLsGENYnAumKrqTirT1u9rELWY | acyrhb | {
"description": "wanting a \"suicidal\" friend out of my life",
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} | AITA for wanting a "suicidal" friend out of my life? | I've got a friend (D) who I've known for ~15 years and he's the type of guy to get a girlfriend then change his whole life for her. His last relationship was 2 years long and she broke up with him just before Christmas.
During their relationship I rarely saw him, the last time was about May. I'd text him weekly askin... | HISTORICAL | {
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htag3QVfFAYTz3ucBKf80KAQDH3SiZkP | b3h84y | {
"description": "not wanting sex as much as my so",
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} | AITA for not wanting sex as much as my SO? | Of course, long story. I will work to keep it brief. Using a throwaway.
I (26M) am with the woman I want to be with for the rest of my life (26F). We’ve been together for a year now, we just moved in together. It’s been great, I absolutely love and adore her.
That being said, she’s definitely more sexually experien... | HISTORICAL | {
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o78hOnwWJXb6OOP9WYw7DcELGa7jl2ze | ant4vx | {
"description": "getting mad at my english teacher over video games",
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} | AITA for getting mad at my English teacher over video games? | My school has a system where every week, we have one period were you're allowed to go to any teacher's class and do anything, work or not, as long as you abide by that teacher's rules. Of course, some people spend time working, and some spend time cooling off and taking a bit of a rest from the hectic rest of the day, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KNSES6LPOwgpxBZiFwWyQKqluc1ULSZv | b3gvu9 | {
"description": "getting mad when my wife makes plans for us without talking with me",
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} | AITA for getting mad when my wife makes plans for us without talking with me? | Over the past 4 months, my wife has started this habit of making plans without talking to me until after the fact. It's gone from volunteering me to do manual labor for her friends to making full blown travel plans for the both of us to go visit her brother three states away. Just the other day, she did it again by mak... | HISTORICAL | {
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6eXzHkzBVCUT2ZYAPsgquADEx3h3DNlB | b7tbvn | {
"description": "asking to use my wife's tootbrush",
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} | AITA for asking to use my wife's tootbrush? | Background: Last weekend, my wife [F46] and I [M45] went out of town to attend an significant extended family milestone. As such, we were staying in a hotel.
We arrived at the hotel, checked in and took a nap. At 5:30 p.m. we started getting ready for the dinner which started at 6.
As I was getting ready, I realized ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gpqRfEKWYVXdVHisovfRzuxClYGgjJm0 | b4mljl | {
"description": "stopping my friend from using my netflix subscription because he refuses to pay her share",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | WIBTA if I stopped my friend from using my netflix subscription because he refuses to pay her share | me and my friends decided to share a netflix account. We've agreed that we would divide it between us and since I brought up the idea it would be under my bank card. A month later, i let everyone know a few days before that it was time for them to send their share. Apart from that one friend, everyone else had sent the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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gTzebyGLAfVs5bURKFKmUvJRBC7FrrKW | apimcu | {
"description": "telling MY CHILDLESS CO WORKER to mind her own business",
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} | AITA FOR TELLING MY CHILDLESS CO WORKER TO MIND HER OWN BUSINESS. | Hi. I am a mom of a nine month old boy who I love and cherish but is lactose intolerant. Mu husband and I felt bad because we didnt know until 2 months after all the long nights and crying that his tummy was sensitive. I have a co worker who we will call Jill that is going to school to be a nurse but works full time. H... | HISTORICAL | {
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QkFVyYAtrutC5txMA64zVXeLAwyF4XMz | aihlqr | {
"description": "talking to a girl about her ex",
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} | AITA for talking to a girl about her ex? | So I was at the bar this past weekend when I met a girl from the town next to me. We had some regional sports teams between our high school so I knew quite a few people that she was friends with.
When I mentioned this one I guy I knew her face glowed and she said how they’re close friends and used to date for a littl... | HISTORICAL | {
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9hDv2Hbizat3VWFe895ZdUXooXof835v | alu08d | {
"description": "being due on my SIL's wedding date",
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} | AITA for being due on my SIL's wedding date? | She doesn't know yet, but I suspect it won't go well. Her brother and I have been married for a while and have been trying for some time now. Her and I don't have a good relationship, i suspect she's going to think I did it on purpose (I didn't). Due date is a day before my SIL's wedding. I am worried she's going to... | HISTORICAL | {
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8JITjOBGvb76bzehBOortyvwqipvGfde | aioiwd | {
"description": "having \"expectations\" at a work event",
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} | AITA for having "expectations" at a work event? | When my office hosts anything, there is typically breakfast, lunch, snacks, coffee etc. When we got to our Arkansas office, it's very bare bones. They don't even have GUEST MUGS (you're supposed to bring your own mug). At our training yesterday (full day) there was snacks, no water, no coffee. Our lunch was a box lunch... | HISTORICAL | {
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iMLMKk45pFCWFXEcI0awAo8gUpo8XQ64 | a2k0yf | {
"description": "being pissed at my friend who insisted I should pay for a product he accedentally bought on my account",
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} | AITA for being pissed at my friend who insisted I should pay for a product he accedentally bought on my account? | So, basically, me and my friend decided to both buy BFV to play together. Since he often borrows my account to play my games, he was accedentally logged into my account when he purchased BFV.
Now, here is the issue: I was planing on buying the game with USD to save ~10 USD in my local currency vs. purchasing in euros ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4f5nmC9632DBRLoRRBtQOIpInNmWMXrB | axcjs9 | {
"description": "changing the wifi password",
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} | AITA for changing the wifi password | I have a less than great roommate situation. He doesn't help pay the internet bill, and is short on rent again. I changed the wifi password after paying the entire bill myself. Am I the asshole for doing this? I mean, the internet is in my name and I paid the full bill when he didn't pay me.
Part of me feels like an a... | HISTORICAL | {
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z2mIC2QoJqyWtjO8a2irUW1UqUeED1wE | b2ea0w | {
"description": "confronting my friend for not responding to my text",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for confronting my friend for not responding to my text? | I texted my friend because I had a fight with my dad and I wanted to talk to someone about it. She was on vacation at the time so I didn't expect her to respond to me immediately, or to respond in depth. I wouldn't have bothered her while she was on vacation normally but I just felt really upset after that fight and wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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6W2rMjY0OoPcN77yFSHKIR37VRZRsEkv | aeageq | {
"description": "not making exceptions for my friend",
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} | AITA for not making exceptions for my friend? | Throwaway because they know my reddit.
I'll try to keep this short. Basically I have a friend, who I've known for a few years, that is serially unreliable. He's constantly late to things, he tends to cancel plans at the last minute, changes plans last minute, etc.
Usually I put up with this because I attribute it to... | HISTORICAL | {
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j5Io61jOmnQdB5zz7KfCVK7Ge5wD3znB | audbs1 | {
"description": "shouting at my uncle threatening to call the cops because of the way his kids treated my cat",
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} | AITA for shouting at my uncle threatening to call the cops because of the way his kids treated my cat? | Yesterday I got into a shouting match with my uncle when he and his kids were at my apartment to pick up computer parts.
For some background info, my uncle's family has a cat too and they basically treat it like an action figure. They got it declawed because it kept scratching the kids, and then took it back to get de... | HISTORICAL | {
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c1CZ3b6gbpAfQYOzJT1mumsVhT0BSmOg | ap2gy0 | {
"description": "being vocal about my friend treating my other friend wrong",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for being vocal about my friend treating my other friend wrong? | Let's say friend who did wrong was A. And other friend was B.
It was B's b-day party and all they wanted to do was play board games and watch a movie. We were at a place where they didn't sell alcohol and A with another person said they're going for a smoke. We waited, with the game ready to play for 40 mins. We later... | HISTORICAL | {
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IltXXCQJnmSij2pJy26R2lt31pHm89Jz | ar6mvx | {
"description": "not properly checking on a classmate after a night of drinking",
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} | AITA for not properly checking on a classmate after a night of drinking | I met this girl in college about a week ago and we got along pretty well, we went out drinking last night with about 10 others in our class. I went home first and messaged her when I got home in our group chat since she told me to tell her when I got home (I had quite a few drinks). When I messaged her she told me she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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oKxOchEMZXpS0qhOmqb084HNHheRaNkq | aytatz | {
"description": "breaking up one of my girlfriends friendships for being blamed for soenthing I didn't do",
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} | AITA for breaking up one of my girlfriends friendships for being blamed for soenthing I didn't do | My girlfriends friend, I will call her des, and my girlfriend (will call gf) kind of had a falling out recently and my gf kind of keeps bringing up that it is my fault (which it is partially but we will get into that).
Before we get into this I want to discuss a little about des. Des is a student that dropped out of nu... | HISTORICAL | {
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qkA3qdMzwj54Gu8br0sDCb3kV07axtZe | 9vhzu3 | {
"description": "taking all of my things when moving out",
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} | WIBTA if I took all of my things when moving out? | My roommate is a friend of mine who I have been living with for about 7 months. It’s been a little rocky over the past few months. Nothing major, but she’s loud (answers all phone calls on speaker, turns tv up all the way even when she knows I’m trying to sleep and can hear it, etc) and doesn’t really respect my space ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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0WckWHzyDVpPtddVvu4x60Bbb3aUHlSZ | a9drdp | {
"description": "hating having my family hug, kiss or touch me",
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} | AITA I hate having my family hug, kiss or touch me. | Ever since I was little I have always hated being touched by family member and about just anyone. I like to reciprocate feelings when I want. It’s the holidays now and my whole family is mad I didn’t hug them nor did I let them kiss my cheek. My mom specially gets mad about it saying I’m ungrateful. I feel uncomforta... | HISTORICAL | {
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DGSBEKu5OmpH1UK5EalooqnetRJySaat | b7j03p | {
"description": "trying to suggest on /r/casualuk that someone looks like Barry from eastenders",
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} | AITA for trying to suggest on /r/CasualUK that someone looks like Barry from Eastenders? | I thought it was a light-hearted post.
I did not express \*any\* political opinion.
I've instead now posted to [/r/unitedkingdom](https://www.reddit.com/r/unitedkingdom) so you can see what I mean:
[https://www.reddit.com/r/unitedkingdom/comments/b7hfbc/why\_is\_barry\_from\_eastenders\_sat\_behind\_oliver/](https:/... | HISTORICAL | {
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EDWXyDy8jWXMj03mvFWNc6pP3tgx9AGg | b93x0e | {
"description": "telling the counselor",
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} | WIBTA if I told the counselor? | Blah blah first time poster, mobile, yeah.
[School]
Backstory:
The one in question (Not me, who will be referred to as Other) :
Other is the sort of type that makes trouble, yelling things like "d^#^," "f$>$&%," etc. From what I personally see, nothing agressive, just kind of sketchy things. (Yes, ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rl3qh3mFJrGnZsz1wn3Gjig0K0Q8afPp | b0al3k | {
"description": "wanting to cut ties with this guy",
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} | AITA for wanting to cut ties with this guy? | So pretty much the school is forcing us to be friends
Backstory: me and my friends made a team for the “low” people pretty much people who don’t get the respect they deserve and this team is only allowing people with manned and those who do not swear but when you keep making a lot of annoying things then you are going... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "freaking out at someone for not paying us when we helped them move",
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} | AITA for freaking out at someone for not paying us when we helped them move? | I’ll keep this short. I wouldn’t call this person and their family a friend to me but they are friends with my family. Hope that makes sense. Anyway they recently bought a house and needed help moving. Me, my brother and two of our friends should have said no when they weren’t even packed! But they said they would pay ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Njne6ucA4MuZ6SJwiCZp0IKjfI2bAjPx | a10tho | {
"description": "getting mad at my dad for touching my back",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my dad for touching my back | I used to be completely fine with a pat on the back or a hug, but in the past 2-3 years I just started hating it. It's gotten to the point where I cringe away from almost anyone (with a few exceptions like my ex-girlfriend while we were together or my doctor). It's not great and I should probably get therapy for it, bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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OSxaavLALD4AakOliq6jRr8qhMYpQ2vW | a1f0eo | {
"description": "saying that a mildly offensive joke is basically harmless",
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} | AITA for saying that a mildly offensive joke is basically harmless? | I present to you one of the strangest interactions I have ever had on this site. Over at r/banned, someone recounts a story of being banned from r/aww for making an offensive joke. The joke was mildly funny, at best. Another user comes along and basically accuses the joke-poster of being a bully. I pointed out that the... | HISTORICAL | {
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chm9c2DBC9kzTkt4qNVRpgfI8sDGq4SC | ah28ri | {
"description": "yelling at a guy who was texting while driving through a YMCA parking lot",
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} | AITA for yelling at a guy who was texting while driving through a YMCA parking lot? | I was loading my kids up into my van when this guy drove by, staring down at his phone, barely glancing up at all. I finished securing my kids and left them with my SO and ran after the guy (who was still looking down) yelling, "Get off your phone, moron!" I stood there, yelling at him, waiting for him to notice me. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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T0wK4eWdVBGELTN9bCx16IhubrsKnsTc | atekei | {
"description": "not wanting to see my dad or ask him for money",
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} | AITA for not wanting to see my dad or ask him for money? | So to start off, my parents divorced when I was two and I was put in the care of my grandparents from my dad’s side. Growing up, I’ve come to realized that my father had always lived off of my grandparents well into his 40’s.
He met my stepmom back in 2008 and remarried around that time. I lived with them for a while... | HISTORICAL | {
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j5B293LHyQ97X8TsgctnpqRvZRTEmYp2 | 9tps75 | {
"description": "blowing up my friends minecraft creation",
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} | AITA for blowing up my friends minecraft creation? | my friend made a roller coaster and i put tnt below him while he was building it and then lit it up and he hasnt spoken to me in a week | HISTORICAL | {
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QGMqJzNpwRkC3zadM75EGBxqvnAnGgRQ | ad4va4 | {
"description": "refusing to accept the pronouns of someone after they told me I should be raped",
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so I got a messgae today from a random insta account telling me I could make some improvements to my page.
I asked them what improvements, and they said that I should take the pro guns and mra off my bio. (please don't call me a asshole for my vews it's not the point ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nO2wePbTIRhonk9xqpVVZTZSwvzuF3Ja | aoodas | {
"description": "not purposely ignoring my boyfriend after he had a bad day",
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} | AITA for not purposely ignoring my boyfriend after he had a bad day? | My boyfriend and I are in college. Today, he was expecting to get his math test back. He knew he didn’t do very well on it and was nervous about it. We had been texting all morning waiting for him to get his grade. I tried to be encouraging and let him know that even if he did do bad on the test, everything would be ok... | HISTORICAL | {
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idsvkDE4h4s5O6aHEghhuxeQuSQwl8rm | ajep1g | {
"description": "being angry at my housemate waking me up",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for being angry at my housemate waking me up? | Four of us live together, one is never there, one sleeps early and gets up early, and myself and the other (we'll call him Chris) are total night owls, rarely falling asleep before 3 AM, and usually waking up after midday. I am mega strict about noise after midnight, because I think its incredibly rude to keep someone ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lBIpJfHdi4XEb5pFnOyVGmbOKT8adfKH | 9vdr6a | {
"description": "giving up after trying to let someone in for several seconds when driving? people were starting to angrily pass me and I gave the other driver a good 10 seconds. of course, the other driver realized I'd been letting them in and tried to go the exact second I moved",
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"con... | AITA for giving up after trying to let someone in for several seconds when driving? People were starting to angrily pass me and I gave the other driver a good 10 seconds. Of course, the other driver realized I’d been letting them in and tried to go the exact second I moved. | First and foremost: this did not result in a traffic accident. It didn’t even result in any honking or gestures. I still feel crappy about it though.
I was driving home when I attempted to let someone in. It’s a busy road and there’s no traffic lights for the side streets so it’s a complete nightmare to wait for some... | HISTORICAL | {
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IaMrlrn6z9nGDXZefCAQ6OGw8jXQo3pZ | b2es0m | {
"description": "finding some peoples' very presence irritating",
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} | AITA for finding some peoples' very presence irritating? | This has been on my mind for a long time now. Now before you guys ask, I don't act on these feelings. It's just all inside me. I think that I cannot do anything about it since, well, some were even my friends. As to what exactly this irritation entails, most of the time is feels as follows:
a. Oftentimes just hearing... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "ending it with my personal trainer when I still have 4 paid for sessions left",
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} | WIBTA if I end it with my personal trainer when I still have 4 paid for sessions left? | Last fall when I moved to a new city, I joined a new gym and decided to get a personal trainer. Our initial session went really well, so I decided to take the leap and buy her 10x package (yes yes, my mistake).
Fast forward a few months, I have 4 sessions left (I was sick for like a month and there’s been holidays in ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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uIHY5ort4cdY3Rp8aONAQDf01yhHaops | au8idr | {
"description": "not changing my seat in a train",
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} | AITA for not changing my seat in a train? | Okay so this was a while ago but I just discovered this sub and had a rather long discussion with a friend of mine about it:
I was sitting on a train in one of those seating groups with 2 pairs of chairs facing each other. Of those four seats 3 were occupied.
PIC for reference: [https://imgur.com/MBbJr8G](https://im... | HISTORICAL | {
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IBQjJu3ucYbtoJPv3sQ9IQg3dBajnGlw | b1ivu3 | {
"description": "stopping being the friend of a very lonely person",
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} | AITA for stopping being the friend of a very lonely person. | Before you hate me I just would like to make clear I haven’t done this and wondering if I did would be an asshole.
I go to a school right now and I am thirteen years old. I just joined a new school in September 2017. The school year starts off with a trip to this day camp where kids go and meet each other. Getting n... | HISTORICAL | {
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AbS6JClJfRK3WyoYZtfdSi8WIgpO8dx4 | b0nf0i | null | AITA for the Way I Acted Before/After my GF Broke Up With Me? | It all started one morning in February. I spent the night at my girlfriends dorm (we’re in college) and during the night I woke up because I heard her having trouble sleep. Her back hurt, and she needed more space on the bed. At this point in the night it was snowing, and I was dead tired— I could not drive home. So I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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g36JJ234ayl10QjnPrdc0KaCO2eJlUVp | 9zbq2n | {
"description": "not buying \"pet safe\" rock salt",
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} | AITA for not buying "pet safe" rock salt? | So, as in many places recently, my area had it's first real snowfall of the season last week. So I was out shoveling, and when I was done I put out salt on the sidewalk, as city laws say I'm responsible for that. As I'm doing this, a guy walks up to me and asks me if it's pet safe rock salt. It's not, and I tell him as... | HISTORICAL | {
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gayuPpa14gb2s2DqMNqzU5qGDVTwktX4 | b3h2jy | {
"description": "not compromising",
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} | AITA for not compromising? | Hello, this is my first post on Reddit, so I'm not sure if I'm doing this correctly. Criticism and honest feedback is greatly appreciated, because I really don't know the right answer to this dilemma.
My boyfriend and I have been talking about our different values on sex for a while now. I want to have sex after marri... | HISTORICAL | {
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0p0DVnjbGEzxI66Qg2cyGDfTbfIdVrmJ | adahxs | {
"description": "wanting to keep my window open",
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} | AITA for wanting to keep my window open? | So I’ve (F17) been really sick lately. One part of it is a really bad cough and shortness of breath. My mother and her boyfriend smoke basically nonstop. Because of this, I wanted to leave my bedroom window open so I can get some fresh air. My room is on a completely different floor than them, so it wouldn’t even bothe... | HISTORICAL | {
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AM3972tMEcRPF3l0yYmVNX0dRLnS5WC1 | 9vyht2 | {
"description": "being fed up with my girlfriends mental illness",
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} | AITA for being fed up with my girlfriends mental Illness | I'm a 16M and my girlfriend is a 17F. This is my first legit relationship.
So basically the deal is I'm sick of my girlfriend not taking care of her mental Illness. It seems like every other day there is some kind of new problem, or she's all of a sudden got an urge to cut, or she just feels bad for no reason. I unde... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to provide an ex with pics of my insurance card when I gave her a copy of the card at the beginning of January",
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} | AITA: for not wanting to provide an ex with pics of my insurance card when I gave her a copy of the card at the beginning of January? | My ex wife wanted pics of my insurance card so she could "sort something out with medicaid" for medication for my daughter(she is on an antidepressant currently). I gave her a duplicate card at the beginning of the year. She is now claiming I don't care about my children because I won't give her a pic of it. I did pro... | HISTORICAL | {
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Qm6t83T5cZB9dGfQwYJCHJbrACJp0kWM | asgwo2 | {
"description": "lying to my dh about going to the dr",
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} | AITA for lying to my dh about going to the dr | Well, today I lied to my DH about going to the dr because he feels i shouldnt take my anxiety medication and my prozac. I had post partum depression for 2 years, snd still struggle at times, I also have debilitating anxiety. I can not do normal things that I should have no issue doing because of my anxiety. I'm so aggr... | HISTORICAL | {
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KlO9h95BDFRfOoUsuAuPwaIy6rC68SLJ | a3rv3h | {
"description": "going and got vaccinating against the wishes of my (anti-vaxx) parents",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | WIBTA if I went and got vaccinated against the wishes of my (anti-vaxx) parents? | Some context.
I am 18 years old. My mother is an anti-vaxxer and thinks that vaccines gave me autism (which I do have), that there was some whistleblower dude in the CDC calling out “Big Pharma’s” “bullshit”, and that apparently you can cure cancer just by going on a diet and using cannabis oil. I’m not so sure about ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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WnOWnxszhxJEKTJXXRFnTkGlv2Vxqefo | a70d0j | {
"description": "not properly asking permission for marriage from my future father-in-law",
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} | AITA for not properly asking permission for marriage from my future father-in-law? | My girlfriend and I had been dating for over 5 years, and I was ready to propose to her. She had mentioned offhandedly a year or so ago that it would mean a lot to her father (let's call him Will) if I was to ask for her hand in marriage. I think that this is a really old-fashioned tradition - why am I asking for permi... | HISTORICAL | {
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DsiyBLiVnbtEpEu4bTbTgf2PofZDExOr | a3vv1d | {
"description": "cutting off my racist relative",
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} | AITA for cutting off my racist relative? | I have a distant cousin (my maternal great aunt’s granddaughter) who is close to my age. We grew up in the same city, but we are not especially close. She has a long history of drug issues and has been arrested for various petty offences. Her kids have different fathers, and she is in an on-again, off-again relationshi... | HISTORICAL | {
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3kq8x1HPgEWHL3Y5JXsbKp0iBV3I3PWd | b64qja | {
"description": "making my text notifications private",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AIta For making my text notifications private | I recently switched my phone to vibrate only, so that texts do not show up on my screen, mainly because I leave my phone on my desk at work and didn’t want personal/private stuff popping up. I didn’t tell my significant other as it’s my phone and my preferences (it’s still unlocked and at any point they could use it, g... | HISTORICAL | {
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GL9oM7RtqNsjGHVLspORPKpQzZ7Jtwot | 9x81lu | {
"description": "telling my parents I don't forgive them for threatening my education",
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} | WIBTA if I told my parents I don't forgive them for threatening my education? | **TL;DR:** Had an abusive rs, parents knew how bad it was for me, found out that I planned to keep talking to her sparsely after I wanted to hurt myself, threatened my belongings and college education if I talked to her. I want them to know how much they hurt me.
This'll sound a bit convoluted at the start, but bear ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "suggesting our Adult child get their nails done",
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} | AITA Am I the Asshole for Suggesting Our Adult Child Get Their Nails Done? |
## AITA
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## Am I the Asshole for Suggesting Our Adult Child Get Their Nails Done?
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Am I the asshole for telling my wife she can take our adult daughter to get her nails and toes done instead of me? We go once a month or more for a pedicure and manicure. This month our middle child was having a tough time an... | HISTORICAL | {
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Rn979LNHWrDPzaAzAijmB5WYI7u2IYaP | ad7gb7 | {
"description": "not thinking misgendering someone is the same as using a racial slur? long story but worth the read",
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} | AITA for not thinking misgendering someone is the same as using a racial slur? Long story but worth the read. | There’s a recent meme that’s been blowing up on the internet lately of a transgender women who goes into GameStop and the cashier says sir instead of mam, which the transgender female doesn’t like. She (he) decides to kick stuff around (games), yell and demand that the cashier call him a her. In a customer service sett... | HISTORICAL | {
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JFYk7SVZ8SnPdc5yKm9nWfdNIDXC9yco | a678m4 | {
"description": "feeling like my friend ripped off my drawings",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for feeling like my friend ripped off my drawings? | About a month ago I showed my friend/roommate a drawing I did in high school. Literally the next day I saw basically a copy of it on a scrap piece of paper on the floor and felt weirded out by it but didn’t know what to say. Then they started posted / tagging the art and I felt ripped off and spent a week wondering ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2N4k1UbHnxHShmH0Gza16PRAn0ARKXW7 | ah73uy | {
"description": "thinking about hurting people despite never acting on it",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For thinking about hurting people despite never acting on it. | Tinder date asked me after the fact where I learned to have sex that rough. I tend to bite, spank, and grab during sex. She was into it but I guess she never met someone as "aggressive" as me.
I just tell her that it comes naturally to me. That Ive thought about that stuff a lot, ever since I was young. She asks me mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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IYNpMnFnIL7nv5D9lnt49HVkKpBDExat | b8ir5r | {
"description": "costing my family 350 dollars",
"pronormative_score": 60,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For costing my family 350 dollars? | So I am currently on an overseas holiday. My parents installed a data plan with roaming on their phones and my sisters, but not mine. They didn’t tell me they didn’t on mine however, so I naturally assumed they had. When we arrived, I used my 4G for a little while, before turning off my mobile data. After that, I made ... | HISTORICAL | {
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x5PxRY6qApJg2RoqMnuQ1lU4uHxjw6CX | ays9jc | {
"description": "getting upset at my teacher over International Women's day",
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} | AITA for getting upset at my teacher over International Women’s Day? | So today was International Women’s Day, which is a pretty big deal at my school. Most of the students, including the boys (including me), showed their support for feminism and the empowerment of women. However, at the end of school day, my teacher (female) was handing out “International Women’s Day” pins and wristbands... | HISTORICAL | {
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V7YsrauWas3RoZoB8lbvJhQcV4xhZEqp | a9tl6p | {
"description": "not getting my friends an access key to my apartments gym",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not getting my friends an access key to my apartments gym? | A little background info: This pertains to some of my closest friends. People I've known and spent time with since I was in middle school. I also have a hard time saying no to them because I know if I needed something they're going to be there for me no matter what.
On to the relevant information:
I recently moved into... | HISTORICAL | {
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T8CCc9yrRKTucBw0QlMpm8Swfggf6Z0D | b9012u | {
"description": "telling people to stop complaining when they do favors for me",
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"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for telling people to stop complaining when they do favors for me? | Okay, this totally sounds like I'm being a dick, but let me explain. A lot of the time I'll ask my friends for favors. Pour me a glass of water since you're in the kitchen, drive me to school, etc. I'll ask, and then sometimes they'll go, "UGGGGHHHH, fine. Can't you do it yourself?"
"You don't have to do it," I say. "... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 18,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
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