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{ "description": "believeing that my friend was wrong to post a picture with another girl on his 2 year anniversary with his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for believeing that my friend was wrong to post a picture with another girl on his 2 year anniversary with his girlfriend?
So the problem is exactly as it's above. My friend thought it was a good idea to post a picture of him and his friend H (who is incidentally my girlfriend, but I know he has no ill intentions) with a cheesy romantic caption (a joke, according to him), on the day of his 2 year anniversary with his girlfriend, M. Accordi...
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{ "description": "saying my friend's OC looks like a character from a show", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying my friend’s OC looks like a character from a show?
Last night on Discord, my friend (who we will call C) posted his OCs on my server. My friend (We’ll call him B) said that C shouldn’t have OCs since he’s not an artist and it doesn’t make sense (C used an app to make the characters). That’s neither here nor there, though. I said that he reminds me of Saiko (from the ...
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{ "description": "talking to my friends boyfriend even though he's said to me it makes her jealous", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for talking to my friends boyfriend even though he’s said to me it makes her jealous?
Quick backstory: I met a these two on an online game (overwatch) we joked around in english till they said something that made me realize we all live in the same country. Weird coincidence that they just lived ca. 1,5 hours away from me. Few months after I met them, when we still weren’t really close but still talking,...
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{ "description": "being honest and telling my girlfriend that she gained a couple pounds", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being honest and telling my girlfriend that she gained a couple pounds?
For context: My girlfriend is beautiful not overweight or fat in the slightest, but recently her work schedule has changed which has had a negative effect on her diet/gym schedule. We were having a couple drinks last night when she asked me if she looked any different, I asked her if she wanted an honest answer an...
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{ "description": "inviting my aunt (who is divorced from my uncle) to my baby shower", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for inviting my aunt (who is divorced from my uncle) to my baby shower?
My aunt and uncle broke up over a year ago now. She cheated and as a result they split up. He is now engaged to a new women, but my mom thinks that it is still inappropriate to invite my aunt to the baby shower. My aunt and I have always had a close relationship, even more so than my uncle and I. The baby shower will b...
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{ "description": "being visibly frustrated when playing something with my sister when I'd rather do something else", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being visibly frustrated when playing something with my sister when I'd rather do something else?
She wants me to play some high school magic roleplay game on Roblox and I feel obligated to spend time with her but I literally can't make it 10 minutes without being overwhelmed with boredom. It's like the only thing she wants to do, I've tried to suggest other stuff.
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to show interest in my interests", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to show interest in my interests?
I am an allround easy going person and like showing interest in the hobbies my girlfriend is doing or what she is studying. I also tried out some her hobbies with her. But she shows no interest in the things I tell about the courses Im following or the hobby she doesn't really care about. Am I the asshole for asking he...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship I believed was bad for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ending a friendship I believed was bad for me?
I (22F) met a girl, we’ll call her Kate two years ago at my old workplace. Kate is 27, and due to spending a lot of time in hospital as a child, did not have many friends throughout school. I enjoyed that she was a bit of a weirdo like me. I became friendly with her, until she started saying some pretty awful shit to m...
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{ "description": "keeping a blacklist of my friends", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Keeping a blacklist of my friends
AITA? Basically my folks raised me to treat people right. Give everyone the benefit of the doubt. And to share. Was born in 85 and my family owned and lived in a trailer park. My mother also babysat full time. I was basically in a herd of kids all of my childhood and learned to get along with everyone. I'm 33 no...
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{ "description": "being excited to study abroad next year while in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being excited to study abroad next year while in a relationship?
My (18M) girlfriend (18F) of almost three years, and I got into a heated argument today. I’ve been planning on studying abroad for a semester next year for some time. Today when I brought it up, she got upset with me. She said I’m insensitive for wanting to leave her for approximately 5 months. She said that if I value...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my mom?
So, basically my mom likes popping my pimples and stuff like that (I hate it) well, I've been trying to get her into anime and asked if she wanted to watch an episode with me, which she reluctantly agreed. She said she'd do it IF I let her pop some pimples (which, as she's lied about this before, she'd probably get WAY...
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AITA for how I responded to a lowballer?
I'll make this quick. I have a honda for sale with over 300k miles on it. It's not fancy but it runs. I put it up for $900 on a Facebook group. Someone commented and the exchange went like this: Him: $50 Me: Don't you have something better to do with your time Him: Is that a yes? Me: It's quite clearly a "f...
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{ "description": "going crazy on my boyfriend when he ditched me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for going crazy on my boyfriend when he ditched me?
It happened today and I am still fuming. Basically, we were supposed to meet yesterday for dinner but my bf had some work to clear so we decided to meet the next day (today). However, halfway through yesterday, when he went to meet his friend even though he had work to do because he wanted to get some news about his ...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with a furry in my dnd campaign", "pronormative_score": 42, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for being uncomfortable with a furry in my dnd campaign?
Yes, you read that right. I've been running a dnd campaign since the beginning of last semester with some friends of mine at University. Unfortunately, some of those friends couldn't be here with us this semester, so we were looking for people to replace them so we could have a reasonable number of people for the camp...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriends dog living with us", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriends dog living with us?
Hello - throwaway because my boyfriend is an active redditor. Also, apologies in advance because this will be long. Some background relevant to the story: My boyfriend and I are both 20, still living with our parents. My boyfriend was gifted a puppy by his mother almost a year and a half ago. He loves this dog **to ...
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{ "description": "being upset that I'm being excluded from parties as a \"mature\" student\"", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being upset that I'm being excluded from parties as a "mature" student".
Obvious throwaway because my SO knows my reddit account. I've been through some tough times and used to fuck around a lot. I drive a truck, but I wanted something more. It was tough, but at 31 I decided to finally go back to school. I'm what they call a "mature student". Everyone is a lot younger, but it wasn't a big...
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{ "description": "refusing to catch a hostile horse in his closed stable", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to catch a hostile horse in his closed stable?
i go to college to work with 40+ horses once a week and we have a gelding naked bramble who’s pretty high-spirited. (an umbrella term. he kicks and nips often.) i was supposed to catch him but he turned his back on me and pinned his ears which is a clear warning that he could kick, so i left the stable. my classmates ...
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AITA
I’m an amputee and some days I need my wheelchair. I’ve reached out to management over the issue of cars reaching over the sidewalk but no change yet. Am I the asshole here? Am I asking too much? [Example](https://imgur.com/gallery/RtPISvg)
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{ "description": "taking a $50 tip from a disabled customer", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a $50 tip from a disabled customer?
So I work for a popular chain of grocery stores as an Online Shopper, (people order their shit on the website, and we walk through the store picking it all out, and then take it out to the customers car when they arrive to pick it up.) Now, technically according to store policy, we aren’t supposed to accept tips from c...
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{ "description": "ruining someone's first High School choice", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for ruining someone’s first High School choice
There’s this person at my school who I used to be good friends with. He was really nice and funny and then summer vacation happens and I don’t get to see him. Next year rolls around and we don’t talk as much but still friends. It was all good till a few weeks ago. He just started being a jerk to me. I don’t know why I ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do the fantasy portion (Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy) of holidays/events with my kids", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not wanting to do the fantasy portion (Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy) of holidays/events with my kids?
My wife and I just had a son a month ago and with Easter coming up she was talking about taking him to see the Easter Bunny and get pictures. It got me thinking that I don’t really care about the Easter Bunny or other holiday stuff we tell kids. I still want to celebrate all the holidays. I want my kids to come down...
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{ "description": "getting back together with my boyfriend, but really only because I found out my dad has pancreatic cancer is dying and I need some semblance of stability", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for getting back together with my boyfriend, but really only because I found out my dad has pancreatic cancer is dying and I need some semblance of stability?
Hello AITA, I am using a throwaway because I feel like this isn't going to go very well from me but my life is falling apart and I feel like no one will be honest with me because they feel like I'm on the edge. I am, but please give it to me strait. As such, I will be very honest about what I've done. 5 weeks ago I b...
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{ "description": "walking out on my job", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for walking out on my job?
This is probably a dumb question but I thought I'd get some feedback for it anyway. I recently quit my God awful job as a dishwasher at a chain restaurant. I had only been there for a month, and I was already despising every day I had to be there. In the time I was there, two people had started and immediately quit, ...
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{ "description": "my classmate getting suspended", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for my classmate getting suspended?
This happened in my college. I was filling out a form and some of the details required for the form was with the college. It's on a sheet. On of my classmates took a picture of this sheet and uploaded it on the group chat. I was filling out the form and I was using this picture she sent because the physical sheet was u...
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{ "description": "hiding the pans from my roommate", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hiding the pans from my roommate?
I've lived with my roommate (who is also family) for 2 years. I've asked him over and over again, stop using my pans if you are going to leave them in the sink for days. I have specific sized pans for the things I want to cook, and he continuously leaves them in the sink for me to wash when I need to use them. He won't...
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{ "description": "stopping the sale of a house to my brothers childhood friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA I stopped the sale of a house to my brothers childhood friend
Before stopping the sale, I called my brother early in the morning to angrily ask him what was going on. Here is why I did it. I had been trying to sell the house for several months for my mom (my dad had died several years earlier). My mom & dad had lived in this house & had good memories of it from visits a...
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{ "description": "thinking it's unfair that my grieving friend gets free passes for assignments while I didn't with a concussion", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for thinking it’s unfair that my grieving friend gets free passes for assignments while I didn’t with a concussion?
I had a concussion a few months back. it was a moderate one, and even though I had a hard time processing information and got headaches when in bright light or reading, I was expected to keep up in my classes. I got to turn in things a little late, but there were some things my AP english teacher said I *had* to turn i...
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{ "description": "choosing my car over our apartment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Choosing my car over our apartment?
So quick and Dirty, I lost my Job Fell behind on my Car note and my car nearly got Repossessed. My SO and I were living together and also wouldn't be able to cover rent and have to leave within a month. I Was offered two choices by family pay for the car note until I could handle it and come live with them or Pay my r...
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{ "description": "making my Boyfriend quit smoking", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA For Making My Boyfriend Quit Smoking
First time poster. When my (26F) boyfriend (24M) and I first met (before we started dating) I knew he was a smoker. My biggest line in the sand with dating was always "I will never date a smoker". Well, wouldn't I be damned that I fell in love with that guy. When we started dating I made it really well known that this ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my husband to talk about nude beaches with other women", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my husband to talk about nude beaches with other women
Throwaway (Can you believe there's already a "nudebeachthrowaway"?) My husband (38) and I (37)have been married 12 years and we have 4 kids. There's this mom from my kids school that was texting my husband over the spring, they were chatting and having play dates with our kids. (I had been acquaintances with her for m...
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{ "description": "telling my friend he'd never get rich from multi level marketing schemes", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend he’d never get rich from multi level marketing schemes?
My friend and I have know each other for several years and he is now in his early thirties. Years ago, he decided not to finish his university education, which has unfortunately accumulated a lot of student loan debt for the classes he did take. He has since then been trapped in a low-paying job with bad prospects, whi...
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{ "description": "calling my dad out for treating me like a housewife after he got divorced", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my dad out for treating me like a housewife after he got divorced?
Ok so I’m gonna lay some ground work, so even before my parents got divorced I was always the kid who ended up helping clean the kitchen after dinner the most but since my parents have been separated since September 2017 my dad sorta treats me like a housewife and not a newly 14 year old girl. For background, I live wi...
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{ "description": "not meeting my family members for lunch", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not meeting my family members for lunch?
Some context: I've had a medical problem for over a month, which I'm not dealing with properly and is very noticeable, but is not harmful or painful to me. And usually once a month, me and a few family members meet for lunch at random restaurants during our work breaks. To the story: Today was one of the days where w...
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{ "description": "charging a subletter my entire rent", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for charging a subletter my entire rent?
I recently moved into a new apartment. The housemate I was subletting from was apparently involved in an ongoing court case with our landlord due to not having paid rent in *several months*. He didn't tell me or our other housemates this, and a week after I got here an eviction notice was posted on our apartment. To ma...
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{ "description": "not contributing to my friend's parking ticket", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not contributing to my friend's parking ticket?
My car is in the shop this week. I need to go to the local shopping centre to do some banking, visit the post office, dry cleaning etc. I asked my friend (who lives 5 mins away from me) to drive me down there. My friend needed to buy a set of headphones so it worked out. ​ The shops have 2 hr free park...
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{ "description": "being needy", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being needy?
I don’t know what else to title this. That’s really what it feels like. I (15f) recently injured myself during Taekwondo and long story short, I partially tore a ligament in my foot and am confined to a boot and crutches for six to eight weeks. I cannot put any pressure on this foot at all, to the extent that the only...
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AITA for how I handled a good friend's meltdown last night
Quick background: I live with three other room mates in an apartment. They've been my friends for between three and eleven years (we're all early twenties). Oldest friend, 'Beth', is my friend of eleven years. She's been through a lot because of emotionally abusive and narcissistic parents. I helped her move out two ye...
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AITA My MOH has been MIA and now this
This is complicated to explain, but my maid of honor (MOH) while has always been slightly self-centered but always well meaning got jealous I invited a different friend to my shower when she herself couldn't attend. So really, let me give some insight and tell me, AITA? My wedding planning had been mostly pretty chill...
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{ "description": "feeling bitter about my sister's pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 48, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling bitter about my sister's pregnancy?
Ok here goes. My sister has two children. Each time she had a baby she caused a huge commotion in the family. Creating stringent rules for being near her children, expecting availability for full day babysitting only on her terms, stipulating specific presents to be purchased for her children and downright punishing an...
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{ "description": "making it \"obvious\" to my in-laws that I hate living with them", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making it “obvious” to my in-laws that I hate living with them?
When I got pregnant, my mother-in-law (MIL) suggested we move in with them until the baby is a few months old, since we needed to find a new place anyway. They have 2 full-time caretakers to take care of her parents, so it’ll be great having them around in case of emergencies & they can help care for the baby later...
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{ "description": "asking my close friend how she can love her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my close friend how she can love her boyfriend?
They've been together for a few of years and during that time they've had some nasty fights (they fight often, but their nasty ones are maybe once every 1-2 months). Like nasty to the point where me and our other close friends are shocked that he hasn't beaten the shit out of her yet. He's nasty, violent, rude, an assh...
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{ "description": "having a second friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having a second friend?
All the usual apologies for this being my first post and being on mobile. I have always been a shy person, and whilst I can make friends quite easily with people I find maintaining friendships difficult, and therefore I only had one friend from the age of 7 to 25. I decided at 25 that I wanted to go to uni so I enro...
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{ "description": "rolling my eyes when a kid ran into me at the gym", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For rolling my eyes when a kid ran into me at the gym?
These 2 little kids always run around the locker rooms, check-in area, basically when ever I see them they're running around chasing each other. Pretty damn annoying consider it's a gym. Today they were doing their usual antics, with their father paying absolutely no mind to what they're doing. I was heading out of ...
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{ "description": "using part of a Nazi uniform in my content", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for using part of a Nazi uniform in my content?
Hello folks. I'm an active member of r/DDLC. (Doki Doki Literature Club, a visual novel from 2017, you should play it, it's good) I've always been fond of Germany and it's history, and I create videos combining the two when I have the time. Recently I made a video animation of Panzerlied, a tanker's song from WW2. I...
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{ "description": "interacting with niece/nephew in authoritative manner", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for interacting with niece/nephew in authoritative manner?
Context: Husband and I (34) live with his parents, as do his brother's family (brother (27), wife (28), daughter (3) son (1)). Parents and BIL family on main floor, husband and I in basement. Busy, cramped household. Argument from brother and his wife: I have no right to interact with my niece and nephew in an authori...
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{ "description": "putting out the cheap toilet paper when we have parties", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for putting out the cheap toilet paper when we have parties?
This is not my normal account and my first post so please excuse any etiquette errors. So when we have parties for 15 to 20 people or more I put away the ‘good stuff’ and put out the single ply. We supply food and drinks and I understand that this is probably a weird place to draw the line but I thought more people di...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my friend's sister", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sleeping with my friend's sister?
*Non-native speaker and first time OP therefore sorry for any misunderstanding in advance.* ​ I have a very close friend of the opposite sex and I went to her to take care of her since I hear she was sick. After that another friend of ours came. We were not like brother 'till death like him but we had some...
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{ "description": "not waiting to get a ticket stamped and just paying the extra cost", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not waiting to get a ticket stamped and just paying the extra cost?
First post here and this might be kind of stupid and minute but my wife and I were coming back from a trip across the border. We live in California and were in Tijuana to get regular dental work done and possibly get an updated prescription for her glasses. The eyeglass place closes at 8pm and I drop her off at the pla...
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{ "description": "wanting my so to come to family dinner celebrations", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my SO to come to family dinner celebrations?
My family tends to go to dinner to celebrate family accomplishments, birthdays, anniversaries, etc. When we go, my parents pay. My sister (24) has been bringing her boyfriend to these dinners for 8 years. I (21) want my boyfriend (22) to come to these dinners as well, but... he refuses to come sometimes, citing a lack ...
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{ "description": "not telling my gf I'm going to a friend's concert", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not telling my gf I'm going to a friend's concert?
Well this happened a few hours ago. Today I spent most of my day with my gf (From 9 am until 5 pm) When I left, I told her that I was going to spend most of my time at home. But that was a mistake because later I went to my friend's (F) concert where she was going to play the Violin.(Actually I didn't want to go to tha...
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{ "description": "suspecting that my girlfriends coworker is flirting with her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for suspecting that my girlfriends coworker is flirting with her?
So, my girlfriend works at a small restaurant. There are 3 employees there, plus two owner/managers. One of the two employees is a friend of mine, he actually got my girlfriend the job there. We'll call him Travis, because his name is Travis. The other employee, we'll call Todd, because his name is not Todd. For as ...
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{ "description": "not caring if my parents take my sister's dog to the pound", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring if my parents take my sister's dog to the pound.
Before the 4th dog, we had 3 dogs, dogs 1 and 2 are both old and on their last lag. I take care and love all of these dogs. They had been my dogs for my childhood and teenage years. I groomed them, played with them, fed them, they slept in my bed. But dog 1 eventually died, I had cared for him during his last days and ...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to still over even though she and her mom had an argument that put her in a bad mood", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I wanted my gf to still over even though she and her mom had an argument that put her in a bad mood.
So the title is self explanatory. My gf was supposed to come over to chill with me tonight and as I was about to get in the car and let her know I was leaving, she then tells me her and her mother have had an argument and she doesn't want to come over in a bad mood. I said I did not mind if she was in a bad mood I just...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my ex?
My ex broke up with me a few months ago on good terms. I stayed in our shared friend group and hung out with them a few times including her once or twice. Everything was fine until she started to treat everyone poorly and become an overall negative person. Just recently I decided I had enough with her and left the grou...
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{ "description": "telling my dad if he tells my mum something related to my mental health I'll cut him out of my life", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my dad if he tells my mum something related to my mental health I’ll cut him out of my life?
So I’m feeling pretty down and don’t see the point in life or happiness, I expressed this today to my father after a fight and he’s pretty distressed, he said he’d tell my mum (parents are divorced but still communicate) I said that if he did I would cut him out of my life forever I don’t want my mum to know as she i...
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{ "description": "buying a house in an underserved hispanic community", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA (or we, wife and I) for buying a house in an underserved Hispanic community?
Will keep this very short but can add INFO if needed. Wife and I came into some nice inheritance in mid 2018. We decided that we are going to use the money to see the world and live in exotic places while trying to get our dream careers going (me: writer, she: clothing designer). We also wanted to live in underserved c...
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{ "description": "thinking my mom is taking advantage of me emotionally and financially with our living situation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my mom is taking advantage of me emotionally and financially with our living situation?
So: I live in New England right now because bullshit and I'm now living with my mom and it fucking sucks. We pay 900 for a 2 bedroom apartment and I pay 400 except I have to sleep in the living room. On an air mattress. To give context most rooms in this city to rent are roughly the 300-600 range. My Mom and I are c...
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{ "description": "arguing with my teacher", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for arguing with my teacher?
Today I (17M) was in physics when my teacher gave us the rest of the period (about 45 minutes) for free time because many of the students had test that day. We had just gotten back from spring break so I had no test and no homework to do so I got on my phone. The teacher told me to put it away and so I explained I had ...
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{ "description": "having sex with someone else", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
Aita for having sex with someone else
So me and my ex have been on and off since august. Two weeks ago he broke up with me and then we got back together last week, then he wouldn't talk to me at all, but he told me that when i break up with him for good, i am gonna be a hoe. So then i broke up with him a week ago bc he wouldn't talk to me. Last night i had...
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AITA fo refusing to stay in the same hotel room as a trans coworker?
I work in a mainly female industry (modeling). I have a group of friends from my agency who I hang out with backstage and at shows and stuff like that. There’s one girl in my agency who I’ve known for some time, and she came out as trans about a month ago. Meaning she revealed that she was born a male but now identifie...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be intimate with my boyfriend when he's smoked pot", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be intimate with my boyfriend when he's smoked pot?
Preface this with: I live in Canada, weed is legal. I do smoke on rare occasion, for example when on a night out with a bunch of friends or other social events. Max once or twice a month. I'm not anti-weed. I live with my boyfriend, we have lived together for a year and are in our mid-twenties. I work as a biologist, ...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to move out?
AITA: Okay y’all, this will be a long one, but there’s a lot of pieces to the puzzle. I’ll include a TLDR at the end for the folks that need it. So, I moved in with my best friend (22M) about a year ago. Upon moving in, we agreed that we were going to keep the house clean, as I am a clean person, and my roommate knows...
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{ "description": "yelling at my boyfriend when he laughed at me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For Yelling At My Boyfriend When He Laughed At Me?
I game online often, it's one of the hobbies I'm most passionate about. I have a lot of fun, but I'm also serious about it and I try to move up the ranks competitively primarily in fighting games. My boyfriend isn't a gamer, I tried to get him into it early in our relationship but he said I took it too seriously, so mo...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend is spending a lot of time with his friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting upset that my boyfriend is spending a lot of time with his friends
My boyfriend is an artist and often hangs out with his friends and I don’t mind. Last night they had a session and they all slept over one of the other artist house so he didn’t come home until 10:30 am. I am upset because a) he told me to wait up for him and b) it’s hard sleeping without him. To make things worse ...
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{ "description": "breaking up after she wanted to go on hold", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up after she wanted to go on hold
The title explains most of it already but i'm a little torn. ​ Alright so this happened in November of 2018, at the time we were in a relationship for about 2 months (doesn't seem like a lot but i have severe abandonment issues and get clingy fast (tryna fix that one) ) at this time i haven't seen her for...
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{ "description": "not wanting to keep my cat confined for 4 days while there's a baby visiting", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to keep my cat confined for 4 days while there’s a baby visiting?
My roommate’s sister is staying with us during the weekends in January for work. Originally it was supposed to just be one weekend, but it turned into every weekend, and my roommate never asked me if it was okay or even told me the plan until I asked him. They are really loud together, and his sister sleeps all day in ...
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{ "description": "feeling like my brother in law is spoiled and my mother in law indulges him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I feel like my brother in law is spoiled and my mother in law indulges him?
Ok- to try and make a long story short... My husband has three older sisters and a younger brother. His younger brother has always been indulged, his Mom even let him father a child after suffering a TBI (he was driving drunk, he’s had the TBI for about 12 years now) and he only has the mental capacity of a 13 year old...
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{ "description": "judging my sister and friends in different life stages", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for judging my sister and friends in different life stages?
Throwaway. I am 21F and graduated from college last fall. My sister is 24 and also graduated last fall from a more prestigious university on a full scholarship. I busted my ass to graduate early and reduce the cost of my education. I went to college out of state, in school I had multiple internships and a campus job. O...
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{ "description": "not wanting a child to go on a high school band trip that costs more than I would spend on a vacation for the 5 of us", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a child to go on a high school band trip that costs more than I would spend on a vacation for the 5 of us?
We live in a moderately affluent school district where there are some families that are well off. The High school is good- good academics, great arts programs. I make a good amount, but due to poor decisions in the past, am living paycheck to paycheck. Almost the standard in the US I think these days- a couple thous...
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{ "description": "using a girlfriend who cheated on me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for using a girlfriend who cheated on me?
My girlfriend cheated and even though I was heartbroken, I hid it and tried to forgive her. I made it seem as though even though I was hurt, I would still want to be with her. After she thought things got back to normal I would just lust and want to have sex all the time. AITA for doing this?
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{ "description": "refusing to give my little brother money that has been left for me", "pronormative_score": 132, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to give my little brother money that has been left for me
About 15 years ago my grandma died and left myself and my older sister a sum of money each (around $15k each to help us start up once we graduate college and get a deposit down on some place to live). We aren’t allowed to touch it until we are 25/graduate as is set out in her will. Since then, My mom remarried and ha...
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{ "description": "paiding for a lawyer behind my husbands back after he said we couldn't afford it", "pronormative_score": 66, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA if I paid for a lawyer behind my husbands back after he said we couldn’t afford it
My daughter, who is 19, is trying to get a restraining order against her ex. The whole situation is a mess, but basically the ex has challenged it so they have to have an actual hearing. He has hired a lawyer that sent her a list of questions to answer. These questions basically all centered around her consenting to be...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a girl when in a relationship \"break\"", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sleeping with a girl when in a relationship "break"?
so im a 22 year old guy, i met a very sweet girl about 10 months ago and have been dating for the past 8 months. About 2 months ago we got in a fight and she told me she wanted a break and just pretty much ghosted me. she wouldnt answer calls or texts for about 7 or so weeks. I thought it had just ended between us beca...
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{ "description": "telling my friend he shouldn't have a cat if he intends to get it declawed", "pronormative_score": 109, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I tell my friend he shouldn’t have a cat if he intends to get it declawed.
My friend posted in our group chat that he is wanting to get a cat but he couldn’t the other day because the rescue he went to requires he sign papers stating he won’t declaw the little guy if he adopts him, and he fully intends to declaw ((abuse)) his cat with this procedure. I know it’s just my opinion and everythi...
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{ "description": "cutting off my dad over a dog", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my dad over a dog
Throwaway because I have family who know my Reddit account. So for some backstory, my father was incredibly emotionally abusive to me as a child. He hit me on occasion, often as "punishment" but usually for very minor things you probably shouldn't hit your kid over. The primary abuse however was constantly attacking m...
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{ "description": "reporting a person who hit my car in the work parking lot to hr", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting a person who hit my car in the work parking lot to HR?
TLDR: guy hit me while I was parked, does a lot of damage, leaves his name and number. I ask 4 times for his license plate number, get a different excuse every time. Report incident to HR. Guy gets fired the next day. AITA for reporting it? So I’m working at a large construction site, and the parking situation is not ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to let this guy park", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to let this guy park?
Okay I know this sounds shitty but hear me out. This guy pulls into the parking lot, I'm behind him, there's FOUR cars behind me. The parking lot is L shaped. We pulled in at the top of the L then this guy, as the FOURTH person is barely able to pull in, starts reversing. That put us about 2/3 of the way to the meeting...
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{ "description": "giving up on relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving up on relationship?
My fiancé and I have been together over five years. Our wedding is planned for later this year and things are getting close. Over the past year or so, the relationship has grown stagnant and we are both unhappy. We also both love each other...but hope is nearly gone. We've done couples counseling before to various lev...
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{ "description": "not greeting my girlfriend once she enters the flat after work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for not greeting my girlfriend once she enters the flat after work?
Me and my girlfriend live together. We spend almost all the time with each other. We separate at around 9 in the morning. I come home earlier than her, and then sit in front of my computer learning some stuff or playing chess. Once she enters the flat, it sometimes takes some time for me to stop paying attention to my ...
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{ "description": "not letting people go ahead of me at the movie theatre", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting people go ahead of me at the movie theatre?
Okay so this may seem like a really small issue, but it’s caused a lot of tension between my girlfriend and me. I always tend to double check places before I leave them to make sure I didn’t lose anything, and the movie theatre being dark and all makes it a significant place for anxiety. My girlfriend and I went to th...
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{ "description": "cancelling a party because I'm not feeling well", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cancelling a party because I’m not feeling well?
I binged 3 days in a row. I wasn’t feeling well. So I decided to cancel the party that was due in two days time. Also I had a party the other day and I have two dogs; which can’t stop barking at new people. So was I the asshole for cancelling said party?
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{ "description": "making my GF sleep on the couch", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my GF sleep on the couch
My girlfriend and I recently moved in together. Before moving in with my gf I was a frequent pot smoker. However I had to give it up when I moved because our apartment is no smoking. Last night I smoked a blunt at a friends place. Afterwards on my way home my nose started to really bother me. It hurt badly and by the...
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{ "description": "yelling at boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at boyfriend?
So I live in the PNW and we’ve recently been hit with a lot of snow and icy roads. I was hanging out with my bf and was really hesitant about being on the roads for any longer than we had to be. He insisted he’s a great driver in these conditions but that didn’t help my worrying go away. While we were driving he intent...
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{ "description": "breaking a friendship for what someone said to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking a friendship for what someone said to me?
This happen at the start of December 2018, so fairly recent. I quite enjoy badminton and so does this person I used to be friends with, let's call Kevin. So I currently am struggling with anxiety and major depressive disorders and have been self harming but I'm seeing professionals and am on medication for it and thing...
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AITA? Partner didn't tell me about her triggers before having sex
There's no conceivable way to describe this that isn't awkward as hell, so I'll just get right into it. I was hooking up with a girl that I've recently started seeing; we're having sex and I used my fingers to grip her hair - not, you know, pulling it (which I think would be a weird thing to do without testing the wate...
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{ "description": "allowing my racist colleague to tamper with the meat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for allowing my racist colleague to tamper with the meat?
My fathers best friend got me a job in a grocery shop to work with him behind the meat counter last week, I am very grateful for this as i'm planning to go to university after my A-Levels and need the money. However i'm shocked to discover that not only is he racist, but he also takes this to the next level by tamperin...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my friend since the school shooting", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting ties with my friend since the school shooting?
A while ago (years) my school was the victim of a shooting. I was absent from school that day (I was ill) and avoided the incident completely. One of my friends was injured in it and a close relative of his was killed. Although we were best friends at the time, he has always commentated that he finds it odd I was absen...
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{ "description": "not seeing my kid this weekend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not seeing my kid this weekend?
(Posting in mobile, sorry for format) My husband is split from his ex wife, they have a kid (age 7) together. We have an unofficial schedule where we have them every weekend and she has them during the week (she doesn’t work, we both work). My partner and I are going on holiday next week and have had this booked for...
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{ "description": "telling someone how awful they're YouTube channel is", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling someone how awful they’re YouTube channel is
Basically there’s a kid at my school who has a YouTube channel and some of the content on his channel is just objectively awful e.g 3 part series on his family washing their car , 25 part series on opening his Lego advent calendar, an interview with his uncle Anyway I was sitting by him in a lesson and asked him wat ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be codependent with my girlfriend as freshmen in College", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be codependent with my girlfriend as freshmen in College?
So my background is that I'm currently a high school senior (17M) and my girlfriend (17) is also a high school senior and here's the problem I have with our plan; So we are both going to FSU (I applied and I want to go because FSU was my #1 choice and it has nothing to do with where my girlfriend was going as she was ...
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{ "description": "getting my ex girlfriend fired", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting my ex girlfriend fired?
We dated for a year and something and worked together in the kitchen of a restaurant before the restaurant had to relocate. We broke up on good terms before the restaurant opened. Because I know the owners, I wanted a part time job to get some money for stuff and rely less on my parents. The owners asked her to come wo...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend sleeping out", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my girlfriend sleeping out.
Recently got back together with my ex, Not a bad breakup I just needed time for school. I trust her and she's trusts me and we're just getting back into the swing of things. Today she decided to stay out at her friend's which is fine by me. I call about 3 hours later and she's at her ex boyfriends house. (some backgrou...
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{ "description": "reporting someone who didn't give me back my underwear", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for reporting someone who didn’t give me back my underwear?
This happened rather recently to me and I’m still sorta freaked out and angry about it. I live on an Air Force base in the barracks. Each floor of the building I live in has a washing and dryer room with around 5 to 6 washers and dryers a piece. Early this morning after I got off of work, I stripped everything off my...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend for the way he talks and games out with a girl I'm crushing on", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad at my friend for the way he talks and games out with a girl I'm crushing on?
[20 M]y friend's mother was running for city council in our city, and I was helping her with the campaign. One of the girls volunteering was great. Intelligent, funny, incredibly sweet, and very pretty. I've never been great with women, and my buddy is as encouraging as one should be. At one point, he asked why I liked...
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{ "description": "saying \"GGEZ\" after some online games", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for saying "GGEZ" after some online games?
The title says it all, really. Throughout various games I play, I sometimes drop a "GGEZ ('good game, easy' for those unfamiliar with games)" after a win (not necessarily an easy win either) when I feel like having some light online banter (these games can be competitive or casual). I myself always thought it was harml...
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{ "description": "calling out my friend for being too passive aggressive to a girl we both don't like", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my friend for being too passive aggressive to a girl we both don't like
For quick context: during social science class in the beginning of the school year (July specifically) our topic was about Marcos and Martial Law in the Philippines (google for more info cause its a lot, tl;dr wont do it justice). It's a very sensitive topic for many, but most of the class was able to discuss it in a c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my boyfriend after sex", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my boyfriend after sex?
My boyfriend (20m) and I (20f) have been dating for a little over a year and we’ve had sex a couple of times. Last night we were hanging out with some friends at my place and it was hitting 2am, so I wanted to go to sleep soon and started to wind down the get together. My boyfriend insisted that I come back with him s...
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{ "description": "getting snapping at my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting snapping at my friend
So me and one of my best friends are hanging out. I made us one of those small party pizzas I had in my freezer. I split it in half, 4 slices. Two for each. We start eating and he finishes eating two slices as I finish the first. So then he goes for the third slice and asks "is it cool if I have the third one?" Which ...
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{ "description": "bowling 'date'", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Bowling ‘Date’
i was back home on break from school and yesterday was my last day and my friend who’s a girl asked me if we wanted to hang out and i said yes (i think she likes me and has for a long time but i don’t feel that way about her) we decided to go bowling and i asked if i could bring my little brother because i wanted to ...
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{ "description": "talking about video games with my son and his teammates when video game discussion has been banned by their team", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking about video games with my son and his teammates when video game discussion has been banned by their team
My 10 year old son plays house league hockey and has so for many years, but this year his team (manager and coaches) have forbid them from speaking about video games in the dressing room, during tournaments, and pretty much anytime they are around the team. This happened at the beginning of the year where they also for...
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