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{ "description": "refusing to be my best man's best man", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for refusing to be my best man's best man?
I met "A" through mutual friends about 10 years ago, and we became very close. He was the best man in my wedding and we had a lot of shared interests and passions. So eventually A’s wife left him, after a long period of steadily increasing toxicity in their marriage. Ten weeks later, A moved in with “M,” the new woman...
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{ "description": "not telling my tinder \"date\" I had my period before meeting her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my tinder "date" I had my period before meeting her?
AITA here? Ok, so, I have really been sitting here thinking on this one because I genuinely don't know if i'm in the wrong. I actually created an account just to tell this story here and get opinions lol. I don't have any negative feelings towards the people in this story, in fact I really enjoyed meeting them and did...
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{ "description": "lying to a family of 4 I need of help", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to a family of 4 i need of help
I was at Kroger today at night and a family of 4 looked well but then tell me they were waiting for the father's boss to come and give him his paycheck but they say the boss never showed then asked if I can give them a ride to their motel 20 mins away (said they are getting an apartment when the check came in) . Then I...
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{ "description": "wanting to walk while going into labor", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to walk while going into labor?
I'm 38 weeks and 4 days (full term) on baby #4. There's just barely 11 months between our last two kids and I'm freaking tired and sore. My pregnancy has been rough the last 2 months. The baby was breech up to 37 weeks and when he finally flipped the unexpected pressure caused me to end up with several hemorrhoids tha...
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{ "description": "leaving au pair host family suddenly", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving au pair host family suddenly?
I au paired for 5 months for a pretty nice family. We had our issues, but they didn’t abuse me and I can honestly say that they weren’t the reason i wanted to leave. I realize I may come off like such a drama queen, but the reason I left was because I felt my mental health declining due to being stuck in the house for ...
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{ "description": "ending a 13 year friendship because they called me disgusting for asking for money after helping them out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a 13 year friendship because they called me disgusting for asking for money after helping them out?
This all started around November 2018 when this friend of mine called me out and asked me to tell her the details of my mental health issues (I have aspergers). It was messy night of me crying and her literally making me tell her everything "that's wrong" with me. Of course I didn't speak to her for a while after that....
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{ "description": "not spending time with my family at Christmas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not spending time with my family at Christmas?
Every year my immediate family makes an effort to have a Christmas with both sides of our family, this event on my Dad's side involves traveling about seven hours by car and staying in a small town and spending time with an uncomfortably large number of relatives that I don't really know well. I decided I'm not going ...
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{ "description": "telling a charity worker to go away in rather more explicit terms", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a charity worker to go away in rather more explicit terms?
I’m not in the best financial position as it is, but people seem to insist on pushing you to give them money even when you tell them you can’t afford it. I mean, I just literally told the guy I am living paycheck to paycheck and can’t afford to buy myself a coffee this month let alone donate on a monthly basis to the c...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriend an attention whore", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for calling my girlfriend an attention whore
It sounds horrible but it wasn't that bad. I didn't necessarily call her an attention whore, I told her to stop acting like one. She has some friends that are extremely into politics. I just find them stupid and ignorant. Politics is all about making one group of people seem worse than your group of people. It's so ann...
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{ "description": "telling my friend's wife that dude is spending like 8 hours a day playing hentai games on steam", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my friend's wife that dude is spending like 8 hours a day playing hentai games on steam?
Crushing steam to play tales of Maj'nag or whatever, some rogue-like I have played for fifty million years because I'm old as dirt and never beat it because I'm bad at video games - I come across my friend mashing out some hentai games. At first, I was like "Heh, what a goof" but it suddenly got werid because one game...
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{ "description": "telling 2 friends they need to get jobs", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told 2 friends they need to get jobs?
So my group of friends consists of me and 4 other people. 2 of those friends are brothers. The are almost 30 and have never had a job. They still live with their dad in a camper on their family's property. Their dad is in his late 60's and recently was let go from his job. We have a game night every Friday. They are ...
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{ "description": "refusing to step down from being president of a club after I was just elected", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to step down from being president of a club after I was just elected?
Let me start this by introducing all the parties. C and CH are the current co presidents, A my newly elected co-President who ran alongside with me. C and I have been on extremely shaky grounds since December, however, our relationship with each other has improved significantly since them to the point where I would hav...
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{ "description": "moving the switch", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving the switch
I’m trying to keep it under the word limit. I just bought a switch two days ago after we lost the first one in a house fire. The moment I get it all set up with the games back on and downloaded, my bfs little sister wanted to play it. Long story short she played way more than I did, always wanting to be first to play...
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{ "description": "keeping customer service on the phone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping customer service on the phone
Writing this for a friend: I’m a small business owner who has a pretty dope site with a ton of small (tasteful) style features. Of course it gets complicated when designing the site which I take a very hands on approach alongside freelance developers. I don’t mind paying for what I want and to make it look amazing (th...
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{ "description": "lying to my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying to my parents
So my parents forced me to get a degree in a course that I was not remotely fond of. I tried to tell them about it several times but they always throw a fit and I didn't know what to do so I just sucked it up and played along. But it hurting me mentally too much and I couldn't take it so I just quit the uni and applied...
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{ "description": "telling my dad his dog is not my responsibility", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my dad his dog is not my responsibility?
This might be long. Okay so my dad used to worked overseas he came back home a few months ago and less than a month before his trip he tells me he's bringing a French bulldog with him I didn't know about it. Now the landlord said no to dogs but his cool so he allowed. So I should mention that my partner and I shared a ...
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{ "description": "telling my parents that my sister had a boyfriend though my sister pleaded me not to", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for telling my parents that my sister had a boyfriend though my sister pleaded me not to
This happened a year ago, my sister had been seeing this guy for a few months. She had to do this in secrecy because my parents wouldn't approve. When I found out that she was seeing this boy, she pleaded me not to tell my parents, and initially I agreed. But a few days later, I realized that having a boyfriend was a ...
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{ "description": "banging my Ex's sister", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for banging my Ex's sister?
So I was engaged to my Ex and was with her for 5 and a bit years. I was always close to her family, but mostly her sister, who has 3 children (all of which call me uncle to this day). The relationship deteriorated after I found out she was cheating on me with multiple people, I tried to reconcile (bad decision on my pa...
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{ "description": "asking a girl if I could sit next to her", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a girl if I could sit next to her.
TL;DR at the bottom. We (90 kids) are on our way back from a geography excursion, and we are catching public transport (bus) back to school. Half of us got on the first bus and even with our group being split up, surprise, seating was a bit of an issue. Luckily it was the middle of the day and the bus was nearly empty...
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{ "description": "getting a thermostat that locks my roommate out", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA for getting a thermostat that locks my roommate out?
So me(24/F) and my roommate, let's call him G(27/m), have recently moved in together. We were not very good friends beforehand- but since we moved in together, he has been trying to be my best friend. I state this because it feels like it makes him feel like he can get away with more things and cross more boundaries th...
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{ "description": "holding a 3 year grudge against my aunt", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for holding a 3 year grudge against my aunt?
I’ve never posted to reddit so sorry if it’s not formatted correctly or has any other problems but I recently found this subreddit and I want to know others people’s opinions on this situation. My grandma had lived with my family throughout my whole life and she was a big parental role for me and my siblings. She was ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for gaining weight when we agreed to get healthier", "pronormative_score": 342, "contranormative_score": 69 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for gaining weight when we agreed to get healthier.
My ex-girlfriend was overweight and I was an average, but not fit, guy. On one date we both said to that we should become healthier. So we set goals to exercise more and to improve our diets. We don’t live nearby so we wouldn’t go to the same gyms. I started going to the gym almost every day. I really wanted to becom...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to uninvited his sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to uninvited his sister?
I just want to start by saying I really like my boyfriends sister, she’s really cool so that’s not the problem. My boyfriend and I have been trying to plan a date night for a few weeks now but it has always been postponed because somethings come up. Now this Saturday finally worked and it was also great because it’s v...
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{ "description": "not liking when English is lisped/slurred/muddled", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not liking when English is lisped/slurred/muddled?
My best friend likes KPOP a lot. With the recent League of Legends opening ceremony, they released a song sung by a KPOP band, but also sung by a made up band of LoL champions. (KDA) I told my friend that I was finding myself really liking that song, but the parts in english where they have a VERY strong accent throw m...
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{ "description": "agreeing with my friend's parents on an argument", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for agreeing with my friend's parents on an argument?
So I have to go home early today from a weekend stay at my bestie's place. His mom is feeling sick and his dad has to sleep early for work. So only his dad can take me home early. So there's an argument for a compromise to let me go home a little later. Like 30 min. His dad won't budge, I understand and agree with hi...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to stop using my bank card to move money", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mother to stop using my bank card to move money?
Sorry, I’m not quite sure how else to word the title. Essentially, the situation is this; A few days ago I left my debit card on the kitchen counter overnight. The morning after, I came downstairs to find it was gone, but I figured it was probably just my mum or my dad tidying up. Later that day, I went into my bankin...
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{ "description": "expecting the shuttle bus I called for to pick us up", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for expecting the shuttle bus I called for to pick us up?
Family flew into major southern US metro area on a Friday afternoon. Hotel is booked well in advance, in particular since they have a free shuttle from the airport. Days in advance, I call the front desk to confirm how to summon the shuttle. "Call when you've collected your bags and we'll get you." Cool, right? Fl...
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{ "description": "not renewing my traineeship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't renew my traineeship ?
Hello, first of all sorry I'm writing this on my phone and English is not my native language. Anyway, first some backstory, I was diagnosed with depression during my highschool which led me to not get my diploma two years in a row, went from 70/80kilos to 120/130 and spending all my time living at night and sleeping 1...
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{ "description": "prioritizing my career over my husband's career", "pronormative_score": 74, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for prioritizing my career over my husband’s career
Throwaway because I don’t want this tied to my main account. My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 2 years. I am a lawyer. He is in grad school. Before I went to law school, I asked my husband where he thought he wanted to live and raise a family. I enrolled in law school in the state tha...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my friend?
AITA for being mad at my friend? So last night was my birthday and me and some friends got together to celebrate, we met at friend 2's place to pre-game a little. One of my friends (friend 1) was from out of town, who I hadn't seen in while and while we were walking up to the bar I offered to get everyone's tab. I'm ...
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{ "description": "talking to someone's date at a party", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to someone's date at a party?
One of my mom’s co-workers throws a big party every year at his house. He invited me (through my mother) since I was in town last weekend. I am 22 and everyone else at the party ranged in age from 25-65. I didn’t really know anyone there and my mom’s (new) co-worker’s date didn’t either. The co-worker/girlfriend, who...
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{ "description": "saying no to my girlfriend after she asked that I make her my new dog's godmother instead of my friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying no to my girlfriend after she asked that I make her my new dog's godmother instead of my friend?
I've been dating this girl for a short while, and she knows that I'm getting a dog soon. What she didn't know is that I'm travelling with another close female friend of mine who's also going to be the puppy's "godmother". This has been planned for several months already. Today I told her about that, and she said that ...
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{ "description": "not letting my sister use my phone charger when in a hurry", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my sister use my phone charger when in a hurry?
My sister, as much as I love her, sucks at taking care of her tech stuff. Her laptop is filthy and barely works, her phone has many scratches, and she has had dozens of phone chargers, because she either brakes them or looses them. A few months there was a little drama over her buying a 20$ phone charger with my dad’s ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my aunty for letting randoms hold my baby", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my aunty for letting randoms hold my baby?
Evening all, First post and im on mobile! Lets jump right in. Tl:dr at the bottom. This weekend just gone my husband and i were at a family gathering celebrating a cousins birthday! We arrive and of course, all my aunties immediately surround us and want to cuddle/ hold my 9month old as we havent seen any of them for ...
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{ "description": "taking personal beliefs and ideology into consideration when I hire new people for my small business", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For taking personal beliefs and ideology into consideration when I hire new people for my small business?
Just to prove this isnt a troll or a bait post im leaving my political affiliation and the rejected workers political affiliation up to the imagination. I have a small (6 full time employees) business that is looking to create 3 new positions for the new year. Ive interviewed seven candidates (out of 30 applicants) fo...
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{ "description": "being upset at my mum for asking me to buy her a gift on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my mum for asking me to buy her a gift on my birthday.
My mom is normally a very good mom. Today is my birthday, she gave me 20 euro on my birthday and I'm really grateful. But about 30 minutes after she gave me my gift, she said she wants me to buy her a gift because "it's the day she as a mother gave birth to me." I suggested that that's what mother's day is for. She dis...
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{ "description": "asking my housemate to clean up her dog's mess", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my housemate to clean up her dog's mess?
TL;DR on bottom I'm going to do my best to tell this story as impartially as possible. Some background info: I live in an apartment and share a room with two other dudes (one of which I'll call "M"), and the apartment is occupied by only one other housemate aside from us. For her sake, I'll call her "Q." Q has a dog t...
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{ "description": "not following my mom back to my grandma's house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t follow my mom back to my grandma’s house?
Just a few hours back, my grandma fainted due to hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and was admitted to the hospital. My mom wants to book a flight back to see her and ask me to come together but I’m hesitating due to the fact that I don’t want to interact with my aunts. Backstory: Every single time I go back to my grandm...
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{ "description": "not paying for a ticket for my long distance relationship", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying for a ticket for my long distance relationship
Hi guys, I just want to know if I am an ashole. Momentarily I live in another country then I was born in...I have lived in this country for 8 years. For 6.5 of those years I was not able to work or even save. Since a year ago I got a new resident permit to work legally. finally I can work save etc. A few months ago I ...
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{ "description": "cutting off contact with a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off contact with a friend.
•In Middle school for context I guess •Hear me out here. A few mounts ago me and a few of my friends finished a 100+ slide show on WW2 for my teacher that I started as a fun side project a few years ago that we did but edited it for the teacher. Earlier one of my friends suggested that we add transitions and animation...
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{ "description": "not caring about my dad", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring about my dad
My relationship with my father has always been a strained one. He was verbally ans physically abusive to my mom, and because if that I didn't even meet him until I was 12. Things were fine until I was 16. At 16 I was going through my goth phase, Tripp pants where high on my list. My dad got me them for Christmas, but...
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{ "description": "telling my in law that I hope she crashes her car", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my in law that I hope she crashes her car?
Okay, before you hate me, here is some context. A while back I was the final say in whether or not my in law could move in with us. I was okay with it but cautious. It didn't end up working out because she threw a tantrum in front of my toddler, blatantly disrespected me and my position as a wife, and admitted to lea...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriends brother a chubbier version of her other brother", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for calling my girlfriends brother a chubbier version of her other brother?
So a bit of context: I had never met my girlfriend’s brother before although I had met her other one who was quite thin. One day, she had been FaceTime-ing him and decided to introduce me. The first thing I said when I saw him was “Hey! You look like a chubbier version of Michael!”. Obviously, I mentioned it as a joke ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to clean after being on away vacation", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to clean after being on away vacation?
So my housemates and I have a weekly chore chart where we switch off doing household chores. It’s super chill and helps us keep our common areas clean. However, I have been gone for almost two weeks and my housemates told me that I still need to do my chores from the two weeks I wasn’t there. I don’t think it’s fair be...
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{ "description": "using a clean dish when my sister was washing dirty dishes", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for using a clean dish when my sister was washing dirty dishes?
Cast Me: XYZai Sister: Sandra (not her real name) So I care home from school today and I wanted to clean out this candy container, which is this paste like candy thats terrible at first but then it’s sweet. I’m in the 9th grade and she’s in 7th, which means she gets home an hour and 20 minutes before I do, She’s als...
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{ "description": "closing the door on a salesman", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for closing the door on a salesman?
At about 7 this evening the doorbell rings. I answer it and see a guy with a clipboard and a jacket for a cable/internet provider. I am 100% confident I will not get cable or change ISPs so I simply say 'Im not interested thanks' and close the door. He started to say something as I was closing the door. I will say th...
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AITA? Didn't do anything for valentines day....
So, me and my girl are in a bit of a transitionary period right now. Waiting for a date to start our new life. Til then we're coasting by, relaxing. Anyway, this valentines day we spent it travelling back to my parents house for a family party, we said we wouldn't do anything special. Today I let her put on a m...
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{ "description": "considering breaking up with my girlfriend because she is annoying", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for considering breaking up with my girlfriend because she is annoying?
We're both female. I'm her first real girlfriend. We've been together for 4 months. Here's my list of reasons/things that annoy me. * she throws her clothes all over the floor in every room. * she doesn't rinse her dirty dishes. * she constantly mentions her Male ex, saying he had a big dick, that they would've had b...
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{ "description": "deciding to ask strangers to fund a pet adoption", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA if I decide to ask strangers to fund a pet adoption
I’m lonely and depressed and I go to school full time. I’ve always wanted to adopt a pet but my family can not afford it. Recently I’ve been debating whether or not it would be okay if I started a gofundme or something to try and raise enough money to adopt and care for a pet. I don’t know if I’m being selfish by askin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a destination wedding", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a destination wedding?
So my girlfriend just got an invite for her best friend's sister's wedding. Normally I'd say sure we can go, but the issue is it's a destination wedding, in Greece, in either June or July. Flights are 1000 dollars each, which is more than my car is worth and the cost of 2 months rent. I say we shouldn't go because it w...
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{ "description": "letting my college-aged son and his friends drink on their winter break trip", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for letting my college-aged son and his friends drink on their winter break trip?
I live in a fairly rural area. I actually have a small farm on my property. My son’s mom and I divorced when he was young. He generally spends vacations with me, even though he doesn’t really have to anymore since he’s 18 (almost 19) now. This is his first year in college and his first winter break. He asked me if he...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex who I still live with", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for ignoring my ex who I still live with?
Our 2 year relationship was great, but recently we drifted apart and realised we wanted different things. Neither of us can afford to move out at the moment so we decided to just be respectful and try to get through the next month or so as easily as possible. At first it was weird, we would still go out to eat togeth...
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{ "description": "preferring to call limes \"lemons\"", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for preferring to call limes "lemons"
I'm a Hispanic attending college with predominantly white students and I room with 3 people in an apartment, all white and are some of my close college friends. Occasionally when I'm making food, I purchase the materials to make a meal, tacos, and I always pick up some fresh "limes" to add flavor. I finish cooking and...
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{ "description": "blowing up on a friend in my gaming group", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blowing up on a friend in my gaming group?
Hello there, So for some Background, my gaming group consists of 2 other friends I've known since high school. We've been playing games for a while now. They are around 2-3 years younger than myself, me being 24 them being 21-22. They are engaged to each other and the argument happened with Friend 1's fiance who I'll ...
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to do more", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For wanting my wife to do more?
Background: I am a law student and work. My wife works two days a week, takes online community college classes, and stays home with our baby the rest of the time. So I have a lot of my plate. Generally, Monday-Thursday I leave at 6AM and get home between 8-9PM. When I get home I usually need to do dishes so I can mak...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated with my girlfriend's friends at a party", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting frustrated with my girlfriend’s friends at a party?
Earlier this month my girlfriend asked me to go to a party with her that I knew I wouldn’t be comfortable at. However I agreed to go to make her happy and she said we’d be there for just two hours, to kinda meet me half way. Jump to Friday, we go to the party. I knew drinking was obviously going to be apart of it, an...
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{ "description": "telling my parents about my childhood trauma", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my parents about my childhood trauma? (TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse)
Hey all, sorry if the answer seems obvious, but I'm kinda tangled up in thoughts here and would love some advice. So I (22F) recently came to the realization that my brother (24M) molested me several times when I was between the ages of 10 and 13. Currently, the only other person who knows is my boyfriend, since we st...
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{ "description": "not telling my son that he has uncles", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I don't tell my son that he has uncles?
I'm a 30-year-old and I have three brothers between the ages of 25-50. I'm expecting my first child this year, and I'm not sure if I want him to grow up knowing he has three uncles who probably want nothing to do with him or me. ​ My brothers have always been distant and over the years they have made them...
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{ "description": "verbally retaliating against my girlfriend's friend", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for verbally retaliating against my girlfriend's friend?
I recently came out of a pretty serious depression during which time I put on weight. I'm in the gym and making good progress to get back to where I was but am still noticeably larger than I was. During this time I wasn't as social and as a result it's been awhile since I had been out on group activities that included ...
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{ "description": "not picking up baby formula for my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not picking up baby formula for my neighbor
So I posted recently about my annoyance with helping my neighbor when grocery shopping. This question is about the same neighbor lol. ​ I had a few times helped her out by taking a return to walmart for her or something like that. She has a husband but these types of errands typically fall to her and she w...
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{ "description": "walking out of my dishwashing job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For walking out of my dishwashing job
I’ve been working as the only dishwasher for a year. I have to come in and wash the previous shift’s dishes then keep up with the flow of dishes for my shift without a machine mind you, we only have a 3 compartment sink. There has been countless promises on promoting me to a different position in the kitchen or working...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to stop being immature and to stop talking to me about anime", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA after telling my brother to stop being immature and to stop talking to me about anime
For some background my brother is turning 19 in a few months and is in this senior year of high school, and I few months ago a turned 15 and am a freshman, I'm also a lesbian which becomes important later. For over a year I have been telling my brother that I dont like anime, and that I don't like talking about video ...
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{ "description": "insisting on refund from my tutor for unused hours", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for insisting on refund from my tutor for unused hours
Earlier this year I decided to attempt this exam for a certification that would help me in my career. I’ve never been a great student, and I made it through college by paying for tutoring whenever things got really bad. It worked often. Just having someone around that’s there only to push me was effective. Studying fo...
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{ "description": "accidentally seeing my girlfriend shaving her face", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for accidentally seeing my girlfriend shaving her face?
So, my girlfriend and I woke up late this morning and were running around hurrying to get ready for work. She had to leave 30 minutes before me so I let her go ahead and use the bathroom first. After holding it for 10 minutes I hear the sink running and figure she was brushing her teeth and wouldn't mind if I went a...
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{ "description": "suggesting my boyfriend go on welfare", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suggesting my boyfriend go on welfare?
Throwaway for obvious reasons, please be patient with me as this is my first time posting on reddit. For the past 9 months, my boyfriend's family has been going through some financial difficulty. It affects my boyfriend negatively because he is used to a luxury lifestyle. I have tried to be sensitive to their situatio...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move to accommodate my roomate's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to move to accommodate my roomate's girlfriend?
Hi everyone. My first roommate (20, M, we'll call him R) wants us to move out of our tiny townhome into a bigger place so his girlfriend can live with us. Currently it's just the three of us, me (20, F), and another roommate (20, M, let's call him J). Our place is great, it's less than a mile away from the university w...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell my cousins they have a sister who was given up for adoption", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to tell my cousins they have a sister who was given up for adoption?
Ten or so years a go. A girl contacted my now passed Grandma and identified her self as the child my Aunt and Uncle put up for adoption back in the 70s. She wanted to meet her birth Mom and Dad but my uncle refused because he's was a big CEO and didn't want people to find out. He is now retired and still won't have an...
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{ "description": "not letting my mum and brother feed my dragon", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my mum and brother feed my dragon
So for a little context I have a bearded dragon called Smaug (she's a girl btw) and I've only had her for a year, she's around about 4 years old now and I'm deathly protective of her. I live with my mum and my brother who is around the same age as me, I have another brother who is younger though (he's 8) and he doesn...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mother's \"not\" boyfriend at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mother’s “not” boyfriend at my wedding?
So I am getting married in April 2019 and it’s been challenging with the invite list because all the parents (my fiancé and my parents are divorced so it’s like 4 families instead of 2) have lists of people who they wanted to invite. Normal right? Now my mother is going to be divorcing my step-father. No papers drawn ...
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{ "description": "not telling a friend about a secret", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling a friend about a secret?
I told one of my newer friends a secret. She (the one I didn't tell) immediately wanted to know. I told her I didn't want to tell her, as I had told her big secrets about me, and people have overheard her telling it to other people. She got upset and left the room. Am I the Asshole?
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{ "description": "not letting my friend copy my notes", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not letting my friend copy my notes?
I’m in HS and take all honors and an AP class. My friend “A” that I’ve known for about three years now also takes the same class. I have an A and he has a C in the AP class. Last night he came to me for notes and said “Cmon man it’ll be the first and last time”. I’m all for helping my friends but I don’t like giving ou...
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{ "description": "not wanting people to donate to his fundraiser", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting people to donate to his fundraiser?
Hey AITA, This post should honestly be cross posted with r/antiMLM as well, but I don't really know how to use reddit to its full extent. So a bit of a background, an old friend from high school just posted a facebook fundraiser in attempts to try to raise $15k CAD for the remainder of his college education. Prior to ...
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{ "description": "not flushing my half dead fish", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not flushing my half dead fish?
I will admit this is a bit of a weird one. A bit different, too. So a couple weeks back, we had a hella lot of snow and cold from where I'm from, and my poor little blue beta fish was swimming on his side. A couple days into the snow and ice, he moved maybe once a day and wasn't eating. After the storm he began to re...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get back with a girl I broke up with because of \"distance,\" even now that she wants to move closer to me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to get back with a girl I broke up with because of “distance,” even now that she wants to move closer to me?
Alternate account for privacy reasons. There’s a bit to unpack here, but the details are important. There will be a TL;DR at the end. I’m currently a college freshman. In April I began dating a girl I went to high school with. I knew this girl and I would go separate ways after graduation but I underestimated how m...
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WIBTA My friend's question
So without going into too much detail last summer I had very painful surgery. I basically had 2 metal bars put into my chest (nuss bars if you want to google it) and had to stay in hospital for like a week afterwards Eventually when school started in August I got sick and went back into hospital (too complicated to fu...
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AITA: Mom insulting and dismissive of my birthday wishes
So, my mom and I have had sort of an on/off relationship and lacked closeness over the years; partly because of the fact that I'm in school and an hour away from her, but also just because I have chosen intentionally to distance myself from her. Anyways our relationship seems to have been getting better; she calls mor...
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{ "description": "kicking my \"ex\" out after finding out she slept with my friend in my living room", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my "ex" out after finding out she slept with my friend in my living room?
So a little background on this girl, who for this story we'll call Sarah. I met Sarah back at the beginning of October, about two weeks after my long term girlfriend had broken up with me. We started hanging out, and I thought she was really cute but she was a huge druggy, bouncing from place to place cause she got kic...
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{ "description": "moving a stranger's bag on a train", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For moving a stranger's bag on a train?
This happened a few years ago, but I just remembered it. Me and my family were going on holiday so we were all in a bit of a grumpy mood from the preparation. When we got on the train my family managed to find seats next to each other, but I couldn't sit with them because the whole carriage was full. Apart from, that ...
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AITA kids parent is angry at me
Im a swimming teacher and was taking someone else's class while they were off work sick so I thought I was doing good. One of the classes had a new kid in it(I had no idea she was new) and the kid kept on misbehaving also wouldn't respond to me anytime I shouted her name and was being really sassy to me and saying she...
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{ "description": "wanting to buy a car with part of our taxes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to buy a car with part of our taxes?
My husband and I just got our taxes back today. Without going into specifics we got a good chunk of change back after working hard all year and claiming our 4 kids. We have a stack of old and current bills to pay which I agree, must come first. On top of that we just moved and owe for this house. My husband is all stre...
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{ "description": "giving my siblings half-assed Xmas gifts", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I give my siblings half-assed Xmas gifts?
I work with a large retail chain that does what any large retail chain would sensibly do and stay open on Thanksgiving. All associates who work Thanksgiving Day receive an extra 15% off of their next purchase as well as their current 10% employee discount, stacking to make a total savings of 25%. While I personally do ...
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{ "description": "often making three meals at home", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: We often make three meals at home.
This is kind of piggy-backing on the locked thread from the other day of the guy whose fiance won't eat his cooking. [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/af3x7l/aita\_for\_being\_upset\_when\_my\_fiance\_wont\_eat\_my/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/af3x7l/aita_for_being_upset_when_my_fia...
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{ "description": "reneging on my sister offer to be her babies godfather", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA (42m) for reneging on my sister (35f) offer to be her babies godfather.
First off my sister is a bit crazy. I think she has some sociopathic tendencies. She one of those people that will do anything to make her self look better then you and she fights with and talks shit about everyone. For example she get arrested for drunk drive and blames the cops for catching her. She drank and smoked ...
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{ "description": "not liking a guy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking a guy?
This was a while ago, but I still get blamed for it. So, a long story short: I met a guy and we became great friends. We had the same interests and we liked the same things so we had a lot to talk about, and I barely have any friends so I was very happy with this! We later decide to become “fuck buddies” as you call it...
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{ "description": "telling alcoholic so she has a drinking problem", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling alcoholic SO she has a drinking problem?
(Sorry throw-way account) Yesterday evening she got upset with me. It happens to her a lot lately. When she' s been drinking, she now gets upset over pretty much anything. She was giving me hell for not letting her know that in two months time our kids had a day off from school and I had decided I would take the da...
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{ "description": "asking my personal trainer to stop working out during our sessions", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my personal trainer to stop working out during our sessions?
Non-native English speaker and first-time poster, so bear with me please. I've started training 3x/week with a personal trainer, as I desperately want to lose weight. This has been going extremely well, even with my nervousness beforehand. We get along well and I really felt like I was improving. We even became friends...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone and then they badmouth me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone and then they badmouth me?
This happend a while ago and I belive it has been resolved, but sometimes I still wonder if I was truly in the wrong. Let me paint a picture, of two girls, good friends, talk 24/7 and are known friends. Let's call my friend... Katie. Katie and I were friends for around three years, but around the beginning of last ye...
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{ "description": "going after students in my university to join my faith-based organization", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 75 }
AITA for going after students in my university to join my Faith-based organization?
I go to university in the US and am part of a Faith-based organization in which we do stuff ranging from Bible study to soccer games. Since we do not have too many people in our group, we are always on the look out for more. Many people join us for soccer or playing board games but not many of them are interested in st...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that I can't be friends with her anymore because she's somewhat suicidal", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my friend that I can’t be friends with her anymore because she’s somewhat suicidal?
I know you’ve probably already concluded that i’m the asshole but let me give you same context. I’ve been friends with this girl for over 6 years. We’re not as close as we once were but i’ll say she’s a good friend of mine. Sarah tweets a lot of depressed shit. And yeah we’re young and wanting to die is now kind of ...
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{ "description": "putting my roommates things in a box", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for putting my roommates things in a box?
Lease is up at the end of the month, he hates us, we hate him, I just avoid him, he trash talks us/about us to our friends. He put his figurines (halo mostly, a few random things like star wars and what not) all over our bookshelf in the living room. We hand made this bookshelf and we have our books on it, he put them...
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{ "description": "hating my brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my brother?
Ok, so I'm a 14 yo boy and my brother is 19 yo. Through out my childhood, me and my brother were always fighting. He was always an ass and I was always a snitch ( not anymore), but we were children, it was always common for siblings to fight. We would always disagree on a lot of things but as a kid, he was still my bro...
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{ "description": "throwing my Ex-Roomates dishes out", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Throwing my Ex-Roomates Dishes Out?
On mobile, I'll try my best. At the end of 2018, my old roommate moved out. He decided to go to a different college. He was a really messy guy and didn't clean up after himself, especially in the kitchen. The day he was supposed to leave, the sink was completely full of his dirty dishes. Like completely full. He had m...
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{ "description": "shouting at my Dad's gf", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for shouting at my Dad's gf?
My brother(M17) and I(F14) recently moved from Hamburg to Munich to live with my dad. This was planned since 2016.My dad's gf also moved in with him even though they've only known each other for 3 months by the time he asked her. DGF is an extreme clean freak and has shouted at us multiple times for not being clean e...
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{ "description": "reporting my prior place of employment to health department/food inspector", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for reporting my prior place of employment to health department/food inspector?
I worked at this place for a few months over the previous summer. I’m considering reporting them to some type of food inspector because I feel that since I worked there and have been aware of some things, I’m partly responsible. Some background: Place is a small business that specializes in whole foods and ingredients...
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{ "description": "asking the guy behind me politely to quieten his increasingly drunk \"date\" so I could hear the band on stage over her drunken ramblings", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking the guy behind me politely to quieten his increasingly drunk "date" so I could hear the band on stage over her drunken ramblings?
So a few months ago I had an altercation at a concert and I've been wondering about how others would have reacted/if I might be a bit of an asshole here as well so here's the story. Usual apologies for formatting on mobile, etc. It's Slash and Myles Kennedy in Denver CO on a Wednesday night so there are a lot of peopl...
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{ "description": "wanting to break connections with an autistic friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to break connections with an autistic friend?
A few years ago I was friends with an autistic kid a year or so older than me, but he was held back so we were in the same grade, and I didn’t really like him, but he was troubled so I felt sympathy for him and hung out with him because no one else would. I even got him a FNAF stuffed animal for his birthday. Last year...
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{ "description": "refusing to share a bed with a coworker at a mandatory conference", "pronormative_score": 115, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to share a bed with a coworker at a mandatory conference?
i just graduated from college and i’ve been working as a receptionist . i’ve decided it’s time to get serious and find a career. i interviewed at 10 places and a few offers before accepting a new job. i was so excited to not work weekends anymore, getting off at 5 everyday, earning a little more money to pay off my s...
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{ "description": "being upset with my girl because she thinks I'm cheating", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my girl because she thinks I’m cheating.
So my girl and I have dates for five years and lately our relationship has been great. However, she’s had trust issues with me from the jump to where even if provided with no evidence she will act towards me like it actually happened. It upsets me because she cheated when we were first started dating and I’ve had plen...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get married to my girlfriend for not having enough sex in our relationship", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to get married to my girlfriend for not having enough sex in our relationship?
This is my first time posting here so forgive me if I mess anything up. Im doing my best to follow every rule that you guys have. So onto the issue at hand: I met my current girlfriend when we were in college (about 5ish years ago). We started out as fuck-buddies to blow off some steam in-between classes. We both had...
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{ "description": "talking to my friend about them joining the military", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I talked to my friend about them joining the military?
So today a friend of mine told me and our other friends that she talked to the local army recruiter and intends to join the armed forces of the United States of America. She has some time before she can join because she needs to study for the exams and get in better shape first. When I heard the news, I nearly turned ...
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