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{ "description": "asking my roommate to pay half of the pet deposit that I paid for my dog", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my roommate to pay half of the pet deposit that I paid for my dog
So backstory: I moved into this apartment 2 months ago with my roommate. I brought along my dog and I paid $250 in deposit money for her (which is required by our landlord for each animal). 3 weeks ago, my roommate decided he also wanted a dog and brought one home. But he doesn’t plan to register the dog with the landl...
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{ "description": "getting more angry when my husband tells me to relax", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting more angry when my husband tells me to relax?
Ok, so I've had a rough 18 or so hours. Last night right before bed I got told that my sister, her husband and my 5 week old niece had been in an accident on the highway (thankfully everyone looks to be ok). They live 3500km away so I was pretty torn up that I couldn't be there for them, and the fact that I have my o...
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{ "description": "not inviting my lonely friends over for the holidays", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't invite my lonely friends over for the holidays?
I'm really torn about this one. One of my friends is this guy who lives somewhat by himself, and the other is 19 who JUST moved to my city. I've introduced them to each other and they seem to have their own budding friendship. I live with my parents, and they are very big on NOT being hosts for the holidays as they l...
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{ "description": "constantly leaving my so at night for alone time", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for constantly leaving my SO at night for alone time?
I'm a cocktail of mental illness -- depression and insomnia being the factors in this specific issue. I still do function well enough in life, but I feel like I put an incredible amount of stress on my SO. Often, I cannot sleep, so I tend to head off on my own at unusual times in the night. My outings are nothing even...
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{ "description": "lying to my wife", "pronormative_score": 87, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for lying to my wife?
A couple weeks ago I posted this to a different subreddit: Every day we drive to work together since we work fairly close to each other, this used to lead to a lot of arguments about her being late. I wake up at 6:30 to get ready, ‘she gets up at 6:45’ but she loves the snooze button on her alarm clock. We leave at 7:...
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{ "description": "cutting off my drug addicted best friend? he died", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For cutting off my drug addicted best friend? He died.
So I had this friend that was heavy into drugs. He went to rehab and nothing changed, his mother did everything she could and I did too. I had frequent interventions with him discussing his worrisome behaviour (some heated and some cool/collected). Regardless, nothing worked. Personally, I'm very aware that I am the a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to or spend time with my mom", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to or spend time with my mom?
Don’t get me wrong, I love my mom but ai can only take her in doses or else I feel like I’m going to snap. Things she does that really tick me off include: - exaggerating, including white lies and bragging to family and others when I can hear, (and know the lies she is saying) - controlling my schedule for the day - us...
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{ "description": "being angry at my mother in law in front of my children", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being angry at my mother in law in front of my children
This happened several months ago. Sorry for language problems as English isn't my first language. My wife, our three children and myself own a house with a garden. In the garden, there are two bungalows that, while owned by me and my wife, my parents-in-law have "life estate". They have the right to live there and use...
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{ "description": "leaving a bad comment on my teacher's video when I was mad at her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving a bad comment on my teacher’s video when I was mad at her?
At my credit card, my teacher wrote the bad things about me. He said, "I only do business to my own opinion and I'm giving other students a little more chance to answer the answer." My teacher did not have to teach me as much as I did in that craft and learned that I was so bad and then I wrote about my parents. He has...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give up my life just so my wife can go back to work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for not wanting to give up my life just so my wife can go back to work?
My wife and I are both in our early 30s. My wife quit her job two years ago when we had our twins. I’ve always been the primary earner in our household (I work in a high-paying field, while my wife didn’t even attend college), so it wasn’t a big transition. A year ago, we started the process of relocating to a rural ar...
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{ "description": "getting mad about my girlfriend excluding me from her friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad about my girlfriend excluding me from her friends?
Sorry about the formatting, im on mobile. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months now. I’d say its pretty healthy in most ways. My friends get along well with her and we all hang out often. However, I have hardly hung out with her friends. I wanna say I have hung out with her friends about 5 times ...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to cut off my mom?
For context into the situation, I'm an 18 y/o AFAB living in the yeehaw state. Texas is all I've ever known. In May, I'll be moving out to California to live with my boyfriend of four years. We have plans to get an apartment and just live life. However, one of the things that I've been conflicted about is my mother. ...
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AITA stopped talking to friends
Alright this is probably the stupidest thing to ever happen my dear redditers, so I'll jump right into it. ​ So this started about a year ago, since my long time friends started doing nothing with me but make fun of me, so I stopped liking hanging out with them. I still hung out with them though because I...
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{ "description": "selling a Christmas gift given to me by my mum", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for selling a Christmas gift given to me by my mum
My mum got me some sick Bose earbuds for Christmas, however I didn’t get to opening the Christmas gift till recently (reason being was that I was having major exams, and I didn’t want to get distracted by any of the gifts). As you can imagine, I was stoked, however, when I tried it one one of my ear had an extra cartil...
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AITA went to an Elton John concert and got yelled at and harassed for standing and dancing during “dance” songs
So my friend and I went to an Elton John concert last night and the older people behind us started tugging on my friends jacket when we stood up and started screaming and dancing when he came out on stage with his opening song”Bennie and the Jets”. So my friend turns around and is leaning over her chair saying “come ...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to not allow my fil in the delivery room", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for asking my wife to not allow my FIL in the delivery room?
This will be her second child and ours first together. Previously she had my MIL and FIL in the delivery room and mentioned she wants the same again. To be transparent I do not like my FIL at all. He has anger issues, verbally abused my wife as a child, and rarely takes his medication. He has said on multiple occas...
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{ "description": "sticking up for my best friend after he cheated on his wife", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sticking up for my best friend after he cheated on his wife.
I've known my best friend Jon for about a decade and he's been married to May for 4 years. We're all 27. May is my wife's best friend. So really we're all a tight friend group but I feel much closer to Jon and my wife is much closer to May. I don't dislike her at all, but if I had a gun and had to shoot one of them....
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{ "description": "flipping out on a girl when she asked for my help after ghosting me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flipping out on a girl when she asked for my help after ghosting me?
Tl;dr at the bottom, long time lurker first time poster, I’m on mobile etc etc I’ve been feeling really about about how I treated this girl recently and I’m turning to reddit for advice. We had known each other for over a year and had started talking pretty consistently for roughly 6 months. I was in high school at th...
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{ "description": "telling my ex 'no' to hanging out with friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my ex 'no' to hanging out with friends
TLDR: My ex wanted to go to a movie with his friends. I told him no. He kept pushing because I'd be awake all night resetting my sleep schedule so I could watch her. This led to an argument. AITA? ;; My ex and I are not together, but we cohabit and coparent. I'm in the process of looking for my own place and figuring...
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{ "description": "reporting my former best friend to the IRS for tax evasion", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for reporting my former best friend to the IRS for tax evasion
Me and my best friend had a falling out over him saying some pretty insulting things about my girlfriend of 3 years. He also got married to this girl he’d been seeing for only 3 months and I told him that probably wasn’t the best idea and he should wait, which he took offense to and only ended up escalating our tension...
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{ "description": "not liking my stepdaughter", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not liking my stepdaughter
AITA? June 1st, ’15, my bf of 6 weeks had a heart attack (I had known him for 3 yrs at that point). We were living in Central America and just getting him to the first hospital for a diagnosis was a crazy trip (he was diagnosed there as having a massive heart attack) . Then he had to be transported through the Central ...
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{ "description": "not desiring marriage with my so of 10 years", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for not desiring marriage with my SO of 10 years?
Posting on my throwaway because I don't want to risk this getting found by my SO. A little backstory which may or may not be relevant to your judgment. Every single member of my extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) has had at least one divorce. My own mother married three times, each marriage ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend cause he didnt want me to facetime him good night", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend cause he didnt want me to facetime him good night
So my boyfriend and i always facetime each other good night, even if its for 5 minutes. We were in a group call w another friend and i was doing homework and i got pretty mad at myself because my research paper was really bad and i spent all day on it. i was getting really agitated with myself so i sorta “stormed out ...
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{ "description": "agreeing with my girlfriend about losing some attraction to her due to weight gain", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for agreeing with my girlfriend about losing some attraction to her due to weight gain
Bit long so skip to the tl:dr if you want. So me (22) and my gf (21) were chilling in the living room watching TV and she initiated sex - recently I had lost attraction to her because of her weight gain so I just wasn't in the mood for it at that moment. The loss of attraction was because she wouldn't make an honest ...
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AITA: Post-breakup friends group
When I was with my ex, she got me involved with a social group. It was not the first contact I had with the group, but it was the first time I started learning who people in the group were, and becoming a part of it. In fact, I was introduced to my ex by a member of the group I had met elsewhere. Over the course of abo...
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{ "description": "getting my ex's car repo'd", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I got my ex’s car repo’d.
This is a pretty long story so I’ll try and make it short. Girlfriend of three years, things are cool til she cheats and we take a break. After awhile and a lot of talking, we get back together. Three months in, she loses her job and is doing grubhub and uber, but barely because she is kind of lazy and won’t do any...
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AITA for how I say things when I feel relationship insecurities
Firstly, I know I have insecurities stemming from mental disorders and I'm thankful for my girlfriend in that she has been a trooper in being patient. I have been doing my best to work on it while at the same time trying to voice concerns before they turn into broken record in my head. I have been told the way I go abo...
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{ "description": "getting mad about my roommate's April fools day prank of spreading rotten eggs all over my bed", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad about my roommate’s April fools day prank of spreading rotten eggs all over my bed?
My roommate and I have been prancing each other for a few years, (ie , I fed him Haribo sugar free hummus, he put Carolina reapers in my soup once). This year, when I got back home from classes, I found that he sprinkled weeks old eggs all over my bed, causing my room to become uninhabitable. Am I the asshole for deman...
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{ "description": "being upset with my friend for not inviting me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being upset with my friend for not inviting me?
During this winter, a friend of mine and I talked about how we both love playing volleyball and we should go play when it gets warmer on several occasions. Last week, I saw her playing with other people from school on her Ig story, she actually had called me that day to see me at school but I was already at home, so s...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at someone who only talks about how they're a good person", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being annoyed at someone who only talks about how they’re a good person
I met someone who seems to have a messiah complex. Every conversation with him turns into how much they help people, and they brag about how much he does help. One time they texted me just to say he’s tired because he’s been fixing the relationship of a couple and talked about how good he is at helping. It’s getting an...
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{ "description": "not taking a drifter in my truck", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not taking a drifter in my truck?
I am a truck driver and literally just try to do my thing and get my cargo's delivered on time. A while back I was driving through a wooded area and a woman ran out in front of my truck. She said 'help me someone is after me'. I told her to hop in (the doors were locked) and when she moved out of the way of the truck...
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{ "description": "refusing to drive my gf to the airport", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to drive my GF to the airport?
Me and my gf live together. She is going on a work trip out of state. She leaves Sunday and returns Wednesday. We were talking about her travel plans as I was anticipating I would be driving her to the airport. The airport is about 75mins from our home. She told me her flight back on Wednesday would arrive at 4:00p...
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{ "description": "wishing that the family I'm staying with would have their dinner conversation in language I can understand so I can contribute to the conversation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wishing that the family I'm staying with would have their dinner conversation in language I can understand so I can contribute to the conversation?
They're pretty strong in English, and my friend is fluent. Right now I'm just sitting at the table smiling and nodding while it's 90% Arabic. I would never actually ask this though, or I'd seem rude and unaccepting.
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{ "description": "not carrying the shopping all the way to the kitchen", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not carrying the shopping all the way to the kitchen?
A bit of quick backstory. I am in high school and my mum is in late 50's. She picks me up from school but once a week, she goes shopping before she comes and picks me up. When we get home, I help her to carry all (Or most) of the shopping upstairs to the kitchen for her. This time however, instead of quickly dumping m...
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{ "description": "yelling at my barber for not cutting my hair how I want it cut", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for yelling at my barber for not cutting my hair how i want it cut
Alright so today I wanted to get a taper and trim but he cut it all the way and when he was done i yelled at him but still gave him 15 dollars hes been cuting my hair for 4 years and we know each other very well but my hair was 5 inches and he cut it to .5 inches it looks nice but im black and it will probly take 6 mon...
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{ "description": "wanting to discuss his cheating while he's in the psych hospital", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to discuss his cheating while he's in the psych hospital?
Long story short: We're married. He stopped taking antidepressants 2 weeks ago because he forgot to pick them up. He's been cheating for 2+ mos. I find out. He says he wants us both & he loves her too. I tell him to chose & he chooses me. He says he's sorry. I say I don't know if I can trust him (not the fir...
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{ "description": "lying about my feelings? I feel horrible", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying about my feelings? I feel horrible.
After weeks, I went back to school today. I was confident and truly wanted to be brave and act as if everything is ok. I still have some scars on my face and neck (my parents beat me with a wire). ​ when I entered class, every one began to ask me about my scars, I told them that I my father accidently hit...
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{ "description": "almost getting my host family's expensive bike stolen because I did not know how to properly lock a bike", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for almost getting my host family's expensive bike stolen because I did not know how to properly lock a bike.
So I am an Aupair in Germany from the Texas and the family I work for is having me use one of their very expensive bikes (almost $2000) to get around. I haven't used bikes much before because my hometown was unbikeable and unwalkable. The most my bike has cost was around $150 from Target and we always left ours out bec...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriend on a seemingly rude comment that she made", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my girlfriend on a seemingly rude comment that she made?
So, I've been seeing this person for over a month and I've noticed several red flags in terms of her laughing AT me when I say something dumb and brushing me off in favor of friends. Last night, we had plans to see each other at 7:30 PM. When I showed up at her place, she was talking on the phone with her friend. After...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for ripping a dollar", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for ripping a dollar.
Context: I wan in vlass with my friend. I gave him a dollar as a joke for his pencil. I asked him to give it back and i gave him a new pencil plus his old one. He refused to give it back. I got mad at him and ttied to get the money back, but he would not give me it. After fighting about the dollar, it ripped. After it...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "using his stuff after he told me not to", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for using his stuff after he told me not to?
Roommate and I had a deal, we take turns buying crates of water and we share each other's water that way. Recently there's been some drama and he told me not to grab anything from him anymore. I ignored him and kept doing it anyways because it was our deal from the beginning. Earlier this morning he sent me this threat...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "blocking my cousin off all social media", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for blocking my cousin off all social media?
So I have a really rocky relationship with my mom. She left when I was 6, married another guy and moved to a different country and left me with my dad. As you can probably tell, this messed me up for a long time and I’m only now starting to get over it (i’m 20 now). I don’t want to have anything to do with my mom, she...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "being sarcastic to my class monitor", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being sarcastic to my class monitor?
So today my class have a Geography exam. And I saw that everyone who sit nearby me were all cheating in the exam by using small sheets of paper that contain the exam's answer. Cause none learn Grography properly in my class. Our class monitor. At the beginning of the exam, shouted loudly : "NO CHEATING GUYS, EVERYONE...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "raising my kid vegan", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for raising my kid vegan?
I'm a 23 year old mom to a five year old daughter. I've been vegan for ten years, so when I became a single mom at 18 i decided I'd raise my daughter vegan too, because that's how I eat and the sort of morals I'd like my daughter to have in the future if it's what she chooses. Of course, I make sure with my doctor that...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking the parent seated behind me on a plane to make their kid stop kicking, and refusing to adjust my seat tilt", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking the parent seated behind me on a plane to make their kid stop kicking, and refusing to adjust my seat tilt?
I was on an overnight international flight in coach. I lean my seat back to try and rest (can't sleep well on planes). After a while I start feeling kicks in the back of my seat. I turn around. Me: excuse me, your child is kicking me. Child's dad: could you lean your seat up? She doesn't have enough leg room...
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{ "description": "not doing something my girlfriend asked me to do quickly enough", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I didn't do something my girlfriend asked me to do quickly enough?
My (33m) girlfriend (39f) bought a Groupon for an activity and asked me to book a day for it. Due to the nature of the Groupon and our respective schedules, the only day we'd be able to attend the event is a Friday. She sent me an email confirmation of the event on a Thursday, and we both knew the next day wouldn't ...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay home for new years", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to stay home for New Years
Been living together for over 9 years. Every year for New Years we are obligated to go to church for New year and be with his family, never mine. And every year after church he will leave me at home to go party with his friends. AITA for asking to stay home this year just us two?
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{ "description": "getting my cousin what she wanted instead of what her mom told me to buy her", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I get my cousin what she wanted instead of what her mom told me to buy her?
I tried to post before but I did it wrong so apologies, still fairly new to reddit. Anyways, my cousin is turning 15 in 2 weeks, she is very much like me and LOVES everything I love, specially music and style. My family isn’t into the stuff we are into, a couple of months ago my cousin asked her mom for a Queen (the ...
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{ "description": "leaving when we were supposed to meet up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving when we were supposed to meet up?
Recently my cousin hooked me up with a friend of hers. I met him giving her a ride to her group and he seemed very nice. After not talking for a week or two she gave him my number and he texted me. We got along okay and decided to meet up while he was at work. He works as a security guard at a hotel at night so ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at aunt for leaving child at my house during my birthday", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting mad at aunt for leaving child at my house during my birthday
FIYI this is a short story. It was my birthday a week ago (turned 17) and was planning to have a birthday my. For context we invited my aunt and a few other people to my birthday. So I was waiting for my guests until ... the aunt came she left off her spawn of a child at my house saying she was going to come back after...
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AITA Family and I move away from hometown of 10 years, and now i want to go back.
Im a 17m Backstory: Im kind of bad at making friends. When i was younger i had my face shoved into the percy jackson series or minecraft. It wasnt really until my sophomore year of highschool when i really started to branch out. I got my first job and got my license. I went out to movies (infinity war opening night) an...
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{ "description": "refusing to speak to my dying mother", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to speak to my dying mother?
I'm writing this on a throwaway bc I'm pretty sure my main account is pretty easy to trace back to me, which I'd rather not happen. Also I'm on mobile so apologies for any formatting mistakes. TLDR at the end. I'm one of seven kids, and my mum walked out on the family shortly after my youngest sister was born 18 yea...
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{ "description": "no longer going to Family functions", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For No Longer Going To Family Functions
For context, my parents divorced when I was young. My mom had a few partners, all of which were frankly terrible. One in particular she was with for a decade, and he was verbally and physically abusive. She's with someone who's decent now, but the relationship is still strained from my childhood. My Dad re-married to a...
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{ "description": "ditching a project partner and doing the whole thing individually", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ditched a project partner and did the whole thing individually?
Super quick WIBTA because this project is due in 9 hours -- eek! We're terrible students for just starting it now, I know. It's a very simple project that's only one page long and consists of 10 sentences in French (it's a very, very basic 100-level course for people who have just started to learn the language). We wer...
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{ "description": "telling my fuck buddy that shes not a \"girlfriend\" type to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA For telling my fuck buddy that shes not a "girlfriend" type to me.
This happened a little over a week ago. I've been seeing a woman I met on tinder for casual sex. This has been going on and off, for five months. She is not my girlfriend, and she knows that. I am not her boyfriend. I see other women besides her. Early on, she kept trying to lead us into a relationship by asking me to...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend over a parking issue", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend over a parking issue?
My friend and I went out last night to meet our usual friends. I usually pick him up and drop him off whenever we go anywhere because his car is broken. I dont mind it, he lives close by anyway. Not once have I asked him to pay for gas or pay for anything of mine. This time I asked for gas money because I was borrowing...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend?
We’ve been together for about 10 months now and things started going downhill at about 6. I’m still pretty young (high school) and I don’t believe there are “serious relationships” at my age So a quick backstory. The night before of this I was going through a really bad breakdown so I decided to text him. He skipped o...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of my dad?
My dad is 53 and has had numerous injuries over his life. Sometimes I get stuck having to take care of him. In the past it didn’t bother me as much, but he has had a really bad back for s long time and still insists on doing things like riding mountain bikes which can result in even bigger issues. He mainly rides r...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from a depressed friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Distancing Myself From A Depressed Friend?
I’ve know my friend [F15] four three years now and have in the past year been distancing myself. I love her, but she gets me really down. To start off, let’s call her Jen. She’s always struggled with mental health and depression, but has gotten worse with time. She goes to the psychologist, but doesn’t have much suppo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends anymore
Just so you know, I only really have three friends. I don't really want to be friends with any of them anymore. The first friend is someone I used to smoke weed with all the time. Ever since I stopped smoking, we barely hang out. He recently started to get into cocaine, and has become very toxic, angry, and critical. W...
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{ "description": "telling my parents about a lady who tried to drive me home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents about a lady who tried to drive me home (I’ll explain why I might be)
I was walking home from my high school today at around 3:30. After a mile or so I had to cross a few intersections. After I crossed the second light, I see a small white sedan parked in the grass on the side of a busy street. There is no spot for cars there she pulled off the road on some grass. The persons window was ...
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{ "description": "confronting seat-stealers and ruining the opening for others", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For confronting seat-stealers and ruining the opening for others?
Was having an awful day, but excited for that night’s premiere of Pacific Rim. I had reserved seats on the largest screen in my city. Picked up my friends, and rush to the theatre. Parking is a bitch, so we end up entering the theatre just as the movie is starting. I don’t know about you, but the beginning of Pacif...
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{ "description": "being upset that my bf was mad at me for leaving our door unlocked", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my bf was mad at me for leaving our door unlocked?
Tl;dr My bf won't talk to me after I became hurt that he was frustrated with me for leaving our front door unlocked. It's been two hours. AITA? You all do such good work here, so maybe you can help me out in seeing this situation clearly. The details: My bf (of five years and we're both early 30s) had a rough da...
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{ "description": "wanting to rearrange a date night", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to rearrange a date night?
I'll try to be concise. I can't trust my own feelings anymore so need some help knowing if I am indeed just being an asshole here. Arranges to go for a meal with my SO tonight, then to go for a few drinks in my local pub for her to meet a few of my friends. Tten back to mine to stay over for the first time (spent last...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to board my car while I'm gone for 5 days", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to board my car while I’m gone for 5 days?
So for background on my cat: I’m in college but still live at home with my mom which means this is also where my cat lives. We have had him for about 16 years since he was a kitten, my parents are divorced but he has always stayed with my mom. He’s got this stomach thing so he’s prone to throwing up if you feed him wro...
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{ "description": "yelling at my classmates at a restaurant after a class hike", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling at my classmates at a restaurant after a class hike?
Hi. I’m 15 and today my class went for a hike at a park in an unspecified location. After the hike, we went to a pizza joint to have lunch. After we had ordered, 2 of my classmates, who were cousins, we’ll call them C1 and C2, were punching and pushing each other around. I had calmly told them to stop multiple times, a...
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{ "description": "not wanting my place of work to pass out free tickets to the circus", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my place of work to pass out free tickets to the circus?
Garden Bros. Shrine circus - they come to town every year, and like clockwork, every year they send us a bunch of free tickets to set out for our guests. I set them out every year and only a couple get taken. I just want to toss them in the trash. I just can’t get past the animal cruelty and especially the reputat...
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{ "description": "moving to a place that my mom hates just because it reminds her of my dad", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I moved to a place that my mom hates just because it reminds her of my dad?
I'm 18 and I live on my own currently. I've been wanting to leave this state for a long time because it's not for me and I have disliked it since we moved here, and my mom fully supports that. She says she "wants me to do what makes me happy" and that she'll love me no matter what. My dad was an asshole to her and he...
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{ "description": "dumping the give taking bin at work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: i dumped the give take bin at work
I work in an elementary school cafeteria. We have a bin with ice packs that the kids can put any unused milk or juice in as they are dumping their trays. At the end of the serve its my job to take care of that bin. (Among other things) my boss wants the contents saved in case someone wants it later, Be it one of my c...
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{ "description": "telling my husband I don't have orgasms", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling my husband I don’t have orgasms?
Hi. I’m a 24 y/o female married to a 25 y/o man. I haven’t had an orgasm in six months. It was October the last time I can remember. Most days my husband and I have sex I’m used to not getting off but today I was feeling extra frustrated so I asked him “When’s the last time you had an orgasm?” He immediately said...
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AITA for not silence my daughter’s faith?
My family are Brahmins. We believe that violence towards animals is wrong. My children and I live in a Western country for three years, my husband for longer. The children attend public school. ​ Friday, I receive a letter from my daughter’s kindergarten teacher about my daughter’s behavior at canteen....
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{ "description": "wanting to give back my adopted son", "pronormative_score": 168, "contranormative_score": 65 }
AITA because I want to give back my adopted son?
When my husband and I found out that I’m infertile we decided that we would still have children somehow. Given my medical issues, in vitro wasn’t really an option. My husband wanted to try surrogacy but in the end I pointed out that there are so many unwanted children in the world that perhaps adoption was the most sel...
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{ "description": "telling my friend my opinion on her engagement", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my friend my opinion on her engagement?
I have a close friend, who has been dating this guy for about a year. They just recently moved in together and it's not all smooth sailing. Without going into too much personal detail, let's say there are some valid concerns she has about his behavior; in my opinion, he needs to address that to be a better boyfriend. ...
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{ "description": "resenting my boyfriend's mental health", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resenting my boyfriend's mental health?
My boyfriend and I both have a history of depression/anxiety. We have three roommates. I had finally gotten out of a really bad year-long depression/anxiety spell. Nobody tried to help me out, and anytime I brought it up it was swept under the rug/the subject was changed. Occasionally my friends and boyfriend would s...
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{ "description": "lying to my friend about not being in an abusive relationship with her brother and then ending the friendship because she was related to him", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying to my friend about not being in an abusive relationship with her brother and then ending the friendship because she was related to him?
So awhile back, I met this guy while working at a local Red Lobster. As his waitress, we had small conversations but it was obvious that he was flirting with me. I'm not gonna lie, he was pretty cute so I decided to flirt back. He even left me a $30 tip with his number written on a small piece of paper. Now normally I'...
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{ "description": "being on the phone for 3 hours of a 10 hour bus trip", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 62 }
AITA? I was on the phone for 3 hours of a 10 hour bus trip
Some notes: - this bus fare was $60 for an adult and $33 for a child (me) while a plane ticket usually averages $80 but are frequentl on sale for $60. Reason why I chose to take a bus is because I paid for the trip and I don’t get paid very much from work to afford the luxury to fly just as yet. - I’m 17 years old and...
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{ "description": "asking to pick up food which would make time for having sex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If i asked to pick up food which would make time for having sex
It’s not what you’re thinking. I don’t expect sex for food. And sorry for the formatting, on mobile. The other day my SO were getting hot an heavy making out but we didn’t have time, and asked if we could do it later tonight after her exam. But we also have a bus to catch. So the window is about 2 hours between the of...
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{ "description": "telling the fandom newcomer their headcanon idea isn't new", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling the fandom newcomer their headcanon idea isn't new?
I am member of a character fandom that exists for several years at this moment. There were several discussions to it, but after some time most of them were defined. One of these discussions was about giving a certain name to a character who doesn't have one; the fandom has soon come with a fitting name, had some time b...
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AITA Pretty obviously I was an asshole, but would you laugh if your kid peppersprayed themself
Gf and mom were talking about how she hides her pepperspray keychain from a kid she babysits. And I said i'd laugh if a kid did that. I'd help and everything it just seems like it'd be a r/KidsAreFuckingStupid thing. The only reason I'm so interested in something that happened yesterday afternoon is because I'm tryin...
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{ "description": "fighting with my mom constantly", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fighting with my mom constantly?
Constantly is probably an exaggeration but let me explain: So I (M/18) have a pretty explosive personality when I'm with my family. I am very friendly but I often say things that are a bit over the line and I rarely back down because when I see myself in the right ill stand by that. Sometimes there's something I do/s...
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{ "description": "my roommate wanting to move out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for my roommate wanting to move out
Some backstory, about a year ago our roommate moves in with my fiancé and myself. Met him from Craig’s list seemed cool shared a lot of the same interests as us. We had a generous price for the room and utilities, about 40% of the total rent and utilities, and since he was struggling getting hours at work he really wan...
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{ "description": "not backing my mate over an insta account", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not backing my mate over an insta account
Basically me and a group of mates had an insta account which we’d just post stupid stuff on. Then I had a falling out with them which weren’t that serious but I just weren’t so close with them and they told me to get rid of the account which I did but I still remembered the password. Then they posted a pic of one of ...
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{ "description": "not driving an hour and a half on christmas to get sushi with family", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not driving an hour and a half on christmas to get sushi with family?
Part of my family lives four hours away, the other part lives about seven. I got a call today, three days before Christmas saying I have to meet them in Orlando to get sushi on Christmas at lunch time. I have been begging for a plan for two weeks on whether we were going to meet up and I've been blown off so I accept...
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{ "description": "leaving during a 9 hour shift in work in which there is no coverage", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTAH if I left during a 9 hour shift in work in which there is no coverage?
So (21F) i work in this bakery that’s for some reason so severally understaffed today. Saturdays happen to be our busiest days we usually have two people working so that someone isn’t stuck there from open to close for 9 hours. Well one of the girls called out to go to a coworkers husbands funeral from her old job an...
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{ "description": "lying to my s/o that I have PCOS so I don't have to take contraceptives", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for lying to my s/o that I have PCOS so I don't have to take contraceptives
Before I start this I should probably highlight for people that may not know that PCOS is an ovarian disorder that reduces fertility because of an absence of regular periods. So ever since I started my period it has been incredibly irregular (I can go up to 5 months without one). This has been going on for a couple o...
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{ "description": "being sick of a stressed out co-worker", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being sick of a stressed out co-worker?
Long story, but I'll try to make it shorter. I work with a woman who legitimately is going through a very rough time right now. Single mom, no child support, car crapped out on her. I do understand why she's stressed. My issue is her attitude, and all the things she does/doesn't do that make her life harder. She is c...
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{ "description": "refusing to give up my seat to a pregnant woman on the bus", "pronormative_score": 124, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for refusing to give up my seat to a pregnant woman on the bus?
So this happened some hours ago but I'm still thinking about it. Today I had a very important test and I wanted to be sure to arrive early and study some more at school so I went out to take the bus one and a half hour before the test. Unfortunately it seems that this morning was particularly busy because it took ONE H...
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{ "description": "not visiting my grandpa often", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting my grandpa often?
So here’s the thing, my grandpa is pretty old (around 75 I believe, not really sure). He lives in a nursing home and has been over the years getting some pretty serious Alzheimer’s and Dementia. I’m a junior in college, pretty busy as a music major. When I DO get some free weekends (which isn’t very often), I go home t...
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{ "description": "not supporting my mom's pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not supporting my mom's Pregnancy?
So, I'm 15 and my youngest brother is 8. My mom is 35 and she just got married to her husband(39) this last December(2018). She remarried just recently after a divorce and my 2 brothers that are 9 and 8 are hers and my old stepdad's children. Now, about 2 months after my mom and her new husband got married, we found ou...
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{ "description": "coming home at 5am", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for coming home at 5am?
Here’s a little background: I (19M) live with my parents whom were fairly strict and worrisome concerning their children. My dad works long hours so a lot of the time it’s me, my siblings and my mom. As I started to stay out later my mom would always stay up unless we were all home. This particular night I went to v...
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{ "description": "wanting my grandfather to undergo an act of euthanasia", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my grandfather to undergo an act of euthanasia?
My Grandfather is close to the 90 year mark, and he sure is burnt out. We visit him a couple times a year, and his currently 80 year old wife is still as excited and energetic as always. I can't say the same for my grandfather. Since about a year ago, he's been saying that he's done living, and wouldn't hesitate to be...
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{ "description": "making an observation about Gender Pronouns", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making an observation about Gender Pronouns
I was talking with a friend of mine about something that I saw on Reddit today which turned into me being "defensive" and basically being told I was being as asshole. I was reading a thread today on global warming here on Reddit and someone had made a comment about global warming not being as serious an issue as scien...
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{ "description": "getting mad at this girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at this girl?
Me and this girl had feelings for eachother. She constantly suggested sexual stuff (and I more than happily accepted). A month in I told her I wanted to make this an official relationship. She said she couldn’t commit because she didn’t want it to turn out how her last relationship ended and was “terrified of breaking ...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "wanting my father to pay me back", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my father to pay me back?
A little backstory: The other month we had some relatives over and my cousin has recently picked up violin. She is 8 years old as of current. I have a childhood violin that I used to play but I eventually moved to guitar and stayed with it. Im currently in college and havent played my violin in over 3 years. Ive been l...
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{ "RIGHT": 16, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not buying my infant nephew a Christmas gift", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not buying my infant nephew a Christmas gift?
My brother and his wife have three kids, ages 3 years, 18 months, and 2 months old. We bought gifts for the oldest two, but did not buy a gift for the two month old. Gifts happened yesterday. Woke up to a text from our mother, saying we should have bought something and essentially we weren’t valuing and loving the t...
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{ "description": "getting upset/annoyed with my boyfriend for staying up until 5am", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting upset/annoyed with my boyfriend for staying up until 5am?
This might sound stupid, but it's annoying me to no end and causing problems and tension in our relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we don't technically live together but I stay at his apartment every night. We spend a lot of time together and hang out, but he will stay up until 5am drin...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "recording a woman not picking up her dog poop behind my apartment building and sending it to the leasing office, which is going to get her a lease violation on her record", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I recorded a woman not picking up her dog poop behind my apartment building and sending it to the leasing office, which is going to get her a lease violation on her record?
Multiple different owners have been walking their dogs behind my building because it’s on of only a couple where the back is facing a tall fence (golf course behind it) and is completely hidden from view of the leasing office. They let their dogs poop everywhere and leave it there. They’re doing this like ten feet from...
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{ "description": "being mad at my dad", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being mad at my dad
So i got home from school early (finals week) and noticed my dad is home early. My uncle is in from out of town for his birthday and christmas. He tells me that my dad is taking him to eat to a nearby town. So im all thinking that it will be a relatively short thing, like as in we eat lunch and come back. Anyway while ...
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{ "description": "shouting \"put your phones down!\" to fellow parents in the audience at my little daughter's school concert", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for shouting “PUT YOUR PHONES DOWN!” to fellow parents in the audience at my little daughter’s school concert?
My daughter (4) had her school concert this morning. The kids have prepared their play for weeks, 45 minutes of show with more than 100 preschoolers, a “big thing”. There is space for about 200 parents in the sports hall, a flat floor (not a cinema), the kids play elevated on a stage, but naturally the view isn’t that...
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{ "description": "getting into an argument with my friend's mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting into an argument with my friend’s mom?
A little backstory: my friend M and her sister S were put up for adoption by their biological mom. Her mom had been adopted by this old lady, so the old lady adopted her two kids. A year later, the mom got pregnant again with a son and kept him for awhile. She had two more kids, both girls, after that and kept them. Fa...
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