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{ "description": "wanting to make my own food", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to make my own food?
For some context, I am 18 years old, going to college in the fall, and am getting back into cooking. My late grandma, god rest her soul, was a home ec teacher, and started teaching me how to cook and bake at a young age. Therefore, I have a big appreciation for food. After she died a few years ago, I kinda stopped cook...
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{ "description": "not visiting my grandparents because my grandmother is an indoor chain smoker", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t visit my grandparents because my grandmother is an indoor chain smoker
The story starts about a year and a half ago when I was out of state for work. My wife 3 month old daughter were going to visit my family out of state on their way to visiting me on my work trip. A couple of days before the trip my mom tells my wife that during her visit they are going to visit my grandparents. My gran...
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{ "description": "not considering myself an abuser", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not considering myself an abuser
A few months ago I broke up with my partner of two years. Lets call him Greg. It was not a smooth break up (as most go) and was sudden as I had begun to realize that I was not happy with the relationship. I started to notice reasons why we were not compatible and that we would fight a lot. I told my partner (Greg) th...
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{ "description": "being jealous of my SIL", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being jealous of my SIL??
I have been with my husband for 13 years, we have 2 beautiful children. We live near my family but about an hour away from my husbands family, so we usually see them on holidays or weekends stopovers. I used to have a good relationship with my mother in law, she has 5 sons and I was her “first daughter”. Things got sli...
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WIBTA if my housemate covered the whole cost for carpet cleaning
This is my first post here so I apologise for any mistakes. My boyfriend, my good friend, and myself moved to a new house about 3 weeks ago. We have all lived together for about 2-3 years in the past so when we needed to move out of our old place we all thought it just seemed kind logical to all move together. I got ...
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{ "description": "kicking a colleague from my seat in front of ceo", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for kicking a colleague from my seat in front of CEO?
So here's the story. I used to work at a kind of a new IT startup that struggled with some organizational issues. Recently a new CEO was hired and he arranged a meeting with everyone in a room where we all work. When I came to the meeting, I asked my superior colleague to get out of my table in a strict manner and he d...
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{ "description": "completely losing interest in her, and planning to stop talking to her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for completely losing interest in her, and planning to stop talking to her
So, me and a girl we can call Trish have had this on/off thing for close to a year. It's a weird ass relationship, and it's obvious to everyone, even complete strangers that she is really, really into me, like beyond a crush or wanting to hook up. I do like her company in small doses, but if I have to interact with h...
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{ "description": "retelling the story about how I gave my friends boyfriend a handjob", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for retelling the story about how I gave my friends boyfriend a handjob?
18 year old gay guy here. I was at a party not too long ago. I was blackout drunk. I wake up the next day with a vague memory of touching a penis. I check my mystory (Mystory on snapchat is basically a timeline where when you put out something EVERYONE in your friend list can see it) where my friend and her boyfriend t...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend the last New Years Eve of college with my friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to spend the last New Years Eve of college with my friends
Ok so this girl and I haven't been dating very long (less than a month, but we talked for a bit before), and she just asked if I wanted to spend New Years with her instead in some remote remote location, so it'd just be the two of us. Any other day I'd love to go camping with her, but, as seniors, this may be my last c...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that people who believe star signs define them are deluded", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my friend that people who believe star signs define them are deluded?
So she's super into star signs and I told her that in my mind people who believe the stars alignments define them are deluded. She exploded at me saying that at me can believe whatever they want, which I also believe 100%, she made it seem like I was the asshole, am I?
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{ "description": "being as \"proud\" of my husband as he is of me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being as “proud” of my husband as he is of me?
Throw away account because reasons. On mobile, forgive the format. Tl/dr at the end. Background: I’m a grad student, I work, and I’m the “on-call” parent for our four month old. I do a lot of work from home, so I can divide my attention, for the most part, between everything. Sometimes, I need a hand when I have big ...
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{ "description": "telling my father that he embarrasses me in front of the people at my school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for telling my father that he embarrasses me in front of the people at my school?
To give context: I’m a teenage girl and I go to a pretty judgemental private Catholic school where all the “popular” girls all secretly hate each other, and their families are pretty well off. These girls go to cotillion classes and all that jazz. The school is probably 80% white, 10% Vietnamese, 5% hispanic, and 5% o...
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AITA/AWTA: friend accuses us of being horrible friends for leaving her at a bar after she decided to stay and her later ending up at the hospital
All right sit down this is a bit of a long one. First of all a little bit of set up: I have a friend group that has 6 (used be 7 before this incident) people in it. We‘re all f 21/22 and know each other through school (been this friend group since we were 12). Another mutual friend of ours who used to be in our friend...
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{ "description": "calling ICE on my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for calling ICE on my neighbor?
So this guy on my street keeps chickens in his backyard. Every morning between 5-6am they are so fucking loud. After enough nights of lost sleep I went to his house to try and see if there was any way to keep them quiet. Now this guy doesn't speak any english so he had one of his kids translate for me. He was very dism...
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{ "description": "getting upset that girlfriend talked about selling \"suggestive\" pics to some dude online", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that girlfriend talked about selling "suggestive" pics to some dude online
so for context: my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now and we have a very good relationship (despite being ldr), open communication, very clear boundaries and just supporting each other well - i am very happy in this relationship. my girlfriend is quite religious and not really an overtly sexual per...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she has big boobs", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend she has big boobs?
I'm a guy and was hanging out at a friends house. She and I were watching some show on tv and were also just talking about random things. She asked me if I thought she had big boobs. I laughed a little because I didn't feel comfortable answering something like that but I decided to say it. I said of course you have big...
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{ "description": "trying to haggle with a seller on Craigslist", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to haggle with a seller on Craigslist?
So I'm posting here because a seller on Craigslist told me I was an asshole for wasting his time, and I'm really not sure if I'm an asshole or not. ​ I grew up in a area where haggling was normal. I moved to a big American city now. I want to have a fish tank in my home, so I started looking online for ta...
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{ "description": "changing seats on tube because of the person next to me", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for changing seats on tube because of the person next to me?
I’m sitting on the tube, waiting for it to depart to work this morning. Then a guy sits next to me but he smells quite badly and I become uncomfortable. So I get up and move to the standing area in the tube. I look back and although he doesn’t look like a homeless, his outfit and looks are not in a good condition eithe...
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{ "description": "trying to enforce the rules in a religious retreat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for trying to enforce the rules in a religious retreat?
Hi, I am a senior in high school. My school offers a retreat that has has been very productive for many kids, including me. I had already gone once and decided that I would go again as a leader. One of the main rules is that the students can't bring any type of electronics, such as phones or computers. As a leader, we ...
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{ "description": "wishing my parents weren't together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wishing my parents weren't together?
Before you freak out, hear me out. My mom is a sweet woman, very kind yet stern, and a good mother. My father on the other hand is rude, abusive and just a selfish, horrible person. I could be biased but, it's how he is. My father messes with my mother mentally. He has physically and mentally abused two of my brother...
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{ "description": "hating my \"surprise\" party", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for hating my “surprise” party?
*This is a throwaway account yada yada. If I’m declared an asshole I’ll be sure to apologize as soon as he gets home.* Background: My [23] boyfriend is notorious amongst our friend group to take party planning pretty seriously. He’s thrown at least 2-4 parties per friend costing around $300-$500 a piece. I’m the pola...
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{ "description": "recoiling at my mom for making a racist joke in an asian restaurant", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for recoiling at my mom for making a racist joke in an Asian restaurant?
Last week, my family went to a Vietnamese pho restaurant with my older sister, who lives in a seperate house. As we were finishing, we were talking about whether or not we were gonna get dessert. Someone suggested a local chain that had drinks like bubble tea. Someone mentioned that they didn't like going there, becaus...
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{ "description": "turning the tables on my gf", "pronormative_score": 330, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for turning the tables on my gf?
My gf has an ex that she talks to all the time, which I dont really mind. He lives a few hours away and they dont talk often, mainly about things back home, mutual friends, etc. There is a girl I work with, let's call her A. A is very nice, and she and I have been friends since I started working at the place I do. I u...
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{ "description": "asking for days off that only I can work and then quiting after they were given to me and taken away", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for days off that only i can work and then quiting after they were given to me and taken away
So I work at a restaurant 6 days out of the week. I work so much because I'm the only person who can host in the morning, and expo on Friday and Saturday nights so that leaves Sunday as my only day off every week. When I first started working there I only worked 3-4 days a week, but as they got short of staff they...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk with my mother since our fight", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk with my mother since our fight?
This happened a few years ago. In short, my grandmother showed me the legal and medical documents that said why I was taken from my mother for a time when I was very little. (Negligence that resulted in abuse.) I asked my mother about it and she blew up at me simply for asking. The convo (to a tee because I can't stop ...
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{ "description": "fighting with my mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fighting with my Mother?
I'm 23 and provided full time care for my 3 year old sister I am essentially her parent 90% percent of the time. I also have a 12 year old brother and a 10 year old sister whom I cook for as well. My Step-father is the provider for the family, he works construction 6 days a week for about 10 Hrs . My mom goes to th...
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{ "description": "not accepting my brother's apology", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting my brother's apology?
I'm a 17 y/o male. My brother is 32(let's call him James). Ever since James moved in two years ago, he's been manipulating and verbally abusing me to fit his image of what I should be. Last month when he found out I dont agree with his views, he yelled at me and called me slurs(yikes). About a week ago James blamed it...
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{ "description": "screaming at a homeless guy to leave me alone", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for screaming at a homeless guy to leave me alone?
So as the title says, I literally screamed at a homeless guy to leave me alone. Am I The Asshole for doing this? I went out today for lunch and went to my local Subway. When I pulled into the parking lot, the guy was standing in the middle of said parking lot, so I had to maneuver around him in order to park in a pa...
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{ "description": "stating to an ex-friend that I'm not disposable or a means to pass time by", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for stating to an ex-friend that I'm not disposable or a means to pass time by?
I had been having a gut feeling something was up with one friend I had. Our partners use to work together, but due to my partner being made redundant it was harder to hang out. After we tried to organise a few times to hang out, and both parties were caught up, I put it down to a busy time of year (school holidays, I...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend that she is the love of my life", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend that she is the love of my life
Some time ago, my girlfriend of 1 year and me went out for dinner and drinks afterwards and had a wonderful time. While sitting there with our beers, she asked me to tell her something really beautiful, so i did exactly that, that i love her with all my heart and how i love having her etc. I can directly tell in her re...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take out a loan to pay for rent", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to take out a loan to pay for rent.
My girlfriend and I have been together for over three years now. She has a full time job and is able to pay her rent, however I am still in college and make less than $250 per week, and so I am staying with family close by. She has to move soon and we've been planning on getting a place together, however the only way I...
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{ "description": "not being friendly to my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being friendly to my neighbor?
A little about my personality and why I'm like this-- I'm an introverted, socially anxious person and going to work and dealing with coworkers alone is enough to completely exhaust me. I have a couple of close friends I talk to at least once a week, and I live with my boyfriend, but other than that, socializing, especi...
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{ "description": "not talking to a girl as much after she said she wasnt into me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to a girl as much after she said she wasnt into me?
I was interested in this girl. We have a couple of classes together and spent a lot of time together. Long story short, she isn't into me. We're still friends but lately I haven't been as proactive as I use to be. Am I being an asshole?
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{ "description": "leaving my drunk date at a hotel", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for leaving my drunk date at a hotel?
So I was thinking about making an alternate account to post this, but I’m just going to live up to it even if I am the asshole...tl;dr at bottom. A couple weeks ago, I attended a winter masquerade with a couple of friends and a girl (woman) I met on Bumble, a mobile dating app. The masquerade was a very elegant and c...
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{ "description": "writing an essay proving my teacher wrong", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for writing an essay proving my teacher wrong
Recently my 10th grade English class read through lord of the flies, and at the very beginning we held a vote, between piggy, Ralph, Jack, and Simon, to determine who we thought was the best chief. The first time we elected I picked Jack. And was almost unanimously ousted by the Simon crowd. Then we held a second ele...
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{ "description": "not giving up my chair on a packed cafeteria table for allowing a group to sit together", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if I dont give up my chair on a packed cafeteria table for allowing a group to sit together.
I was in a cafeteria and it was packed. I went with my colleagues to have lunch and after scrounging for a big enough place to fit all of us, we found one where just one guy was sitting in the corner. So we sat there and the table got full. We got joined by another of our colleague and since it was full, he had to get ...
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{ "description": "not letting my downstairs neighbor in after he got locked out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't let my downstairs neighbor in after he got locked out
I live in an apartment that is basically a house divided into 3 apartments, with only one main entrance that leads to the apartments. One of the guys who lives downstairs always forgets his keys when he leaves, like 3-4 times a week I get a call to come let him in. This isn't usually a big deal as I'm home a lot of the...
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{ "description": "asking my husband not to play video games one night", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my husband not to play video games one night?
Some background info is that my husband (33 M) works A LOT, like well over 100 hours/ week and plays computer/video games about 1-3 times per week for about an hour at a time depending on that week. Last night, I, (28 F), was having a particularly difficult day with our children and just life stuff and at about 10 pm...
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AITA Coworker wants to invite her child 3 to 4 years old to happy hour.
Last five minutes before I leave work I have the urge to do happy hour. As I'm leaving I see my coworker (friend more or less) and I ask her if shed like to join my friend and I. I am aware she has a child whom I've met before. Nice kid as far as they go. I also know she gets one day out of the week to herself. Hoping ...
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{ "description": "losing faith in my coworker", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for losing faith in my coworker?
So a little backstory: I was the first one to join my current team at work close to 2 years ago and we recently added 2 new members about 3 months ago, one external resource and one who moved internally from another group. Let's call the one who joined externally Sam - this one is about her. To give some context, I am...
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AITA: Stop answering my mom’s phone calls after the 15th phone call
I’m currently a high school student and ever since I’ve gotten my car, I’ve been going out a little bit more often. When I’m at my friend’s house or out at the mall, my mom would call me at least 20+ times (not an exaggeration, I’ve counted) over the span of 5 hours. Every time she calls me, it’s just the same question...
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{ "description": "regecting a promposal", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for regecting a promposal
Backstory: I am a 16yo female in the 11th grade and am the current editor of our school yearbook. I like anime and video games, so I don't get asked on dates. Good. I do not like D because he turns off my computer, "forgets" to do important tasks, and messes with my stuff while making short jokes. I am 5'0 and 98lbs. ...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my husband didn't clean up his fish mess to my standards", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that my husband didn't clean up his fish mess to my standards?
My husband is in general a great guy. We both have times where we should be nicer to each other. Today he went fishing, which is really great because fishing is his chance to really have some time for himself. He has caught a fish before, but he usually doesn't. Today he got two really large, very heavy fish. He broug...
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{ "description": "not knowing my sisters login", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not knowing my sisters login
okay so about three years ago my sister asked me to help her make a discord account. so she told me what to do and i did it. and she used the account and then the year after discord logs her out so she tries to log back in and could not do it. so then she asks me for help and honestly i was stumped. i made sure all the...
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{ "description": "trying to distance myself from a \"friend\" by blocking/ghosting them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to distance myself from a “friend” by blocking/ghosting them?
A person at work, let’s call them Larry, was introduced to me so that I could share some tips and be a quasi mentor to the new guy. I saw a guy that was close in age and thought, “ok cool, maybe this could turn into an unfiltered work friendship” (I didn’t have any such relationships at this job). At first, we did shar...
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{ "description": "not doing a kid's homework or are the parents in denial about her skills", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not doing a kid’s homework or are the parents in denial about her skills?
I hope this post fits in here I’ve had this tutoring job since December. My job was to help a girl around the age of 11-12 with her homework. I was not a teacher, just someone there to assist her if she ran into problems. Well it turns out she really struggled -a lot in all of her classes, and I practically had to tel...
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{ "description": "setting expectations for husband's early retirement", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for setting expectations for husband's early retirement?
Husband and I are both in our early thirties and fortunate enough to be in a financially comfortable place where we can quit our jobs in the next year. My husband works 12 hour shifts, 4 days a week and I work a regular 9-5. I recently sold some intellectual property and made mid-7 figures off of it. This puts in a pla...
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{ "description": "misinterpreting her text", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for misinterpreting her text
Hi, first time poster, long time lurker, sorry beforehand for any mistakes, there's a **TL:DR** included below, also English isn’t my first language either. I (30M|Agnostic Jew) was introduced to this lady (30F|7th Day Adventist), and we had great chemistry from the start. We went on a lunch date, but she kept pushing...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to post photos of me on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to post photos of me on Instagram?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I started noticing that he would often post photos of his friends and family on Instagram but never of me. I've met his friends and some of his family members, so I don't think he's trying to hide me from them or from someone else. We had a conversation where he w...
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{ "description": "resenting that my children see their mom as a hero", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for resenting that my children see their mom as a hero?
My ex wife is a perennial fuck up. She’s been to jail on numerous occasions, had several affairs, lost more jobs than I’ve ever had, and currently lives with her mother. I was a single dad for three years to three children, years where I learned to braid hair so I could care for my daughter. I’ve remarried, and my wife...
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{ "RIGHT": 55, "WRONG": 34 }
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{ "description": "remaining somewhat unattached from my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for remaining somewhat unattached from my dad?
First of all my dad hasn’t done anything horrific like he hasn’t abandoned me or anything. But when I was younger I never felt good enough for him. He seemed to have a preconceived idea of what I would be and what my interests would be and I was very different to that. He was also an alcoholic so wasn’t always able to ...
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{ "description": "asking my stoner best friend not to get high when we hang out anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I ask my stoner best friend not to get high when we hang out anymore
I recently concluded that I have a moderate problem with drinking and drugging. I’ve got two weeks sober and am using AA and other tools. My best friend has been a daily weed smoker for years. We generally hang out once a week and marijuana use has always been a staple of our hangout sessions. Last night I hung out...
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{ "description": "not caring about my friend who got sexually harassed after she made everyone think I was a liar", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not caring about my friend who got sexually harassed after she made everyone think I was a liar
It's pretty long but please bear with me. About 6 weeks ago, I had a male friend (A) who I would usually take a bus with to home from school since I was unfamiliar with the direction in America ( I moved here 11 months ago and my sister stopped driving me a while back). He was kind, but we weren't close. The only t...
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{ "description": "confronting my mother about my 12 yr old brother being given shots", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for confronting my mother about my 12 yr old brother being given shots?
This situation all unfolded last night while I was at dinner with my mom, half brother, boyfriend and my boyfriend’s mom. As a side conversation my brother mentions to me that our Uncle had given him shots at his wedding a few months ago. This was huge news to me as I wasn’t present during the wedding due to being st...
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{ "description": "sharing a tactic for arguing with a person trying to look very badass", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I share a tactic for arguing with a person trying to look very badass?
[this post ](https://www.reddit.com/r/iamverybadass/comments/abzq3a/guess_im_a_scared_loser_repost_due_to_a_goof_i_did/?st=JQG4S1I1&sh=e7dfa195) reached the front page so most of you have seen it. But I use the fact that you don’t have a counterpoint/ reasoning against my point as another reason to agree with me or...
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{ "description": "getting my ex-roommate put on probation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting my ex-roommate put on probation?
Sorry if formatting is weird very solemn do I make posts on reddit. I would also like to TW for sexual harassment so if anyone's sensitive to that please be warned. ​ So this is a really long story that starts in August I'm going to try to keep it short but here I go. I'm a first year in university and m...
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{ "description": "leaving my family vaca early because of my BIL", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving my family vaca early because of my BIL?
AITA? My (28F) sister’s (31F) husband (31M) and I have a difficult relationship. When my sister and he started dating about 12 years ago he came on a family trip and got in the middle of a fight between my sister and me. After she struck me he put himself between her and me and being teenagers she continued to mock me ...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend?
so baisically at the end of last year my girlfreind just stopped replying my messages, and on the 17th of january, she texted me saying that for the past month that she'd been feeling really bad and her mental health had gone down the drain, I told her that I'm always going to be there for her and she should always b...
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{ "description": "saying we should put down our dog", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for saying we should put down our dog?
Would it be wrong of me to recommend putting our 18 year old blind, deaf, incontinent, newly diabetic shih-zu who has been with me since the beginning. Don’t get me wrong, I love him to death, but I just feel his quality of life has taken such a down turn in recent months and I hate seeing him in the pain he is in.
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{ "description": "not telling my Father that my Maternal Aunt died", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I Don't Tell My Father That My Maternal Aunt Died
Background: my parents are divorced because my father was an abusive, cheating AH. Mom's sister hated him for putting my mom through all of that, but tolerated him for the sake of us kids. Post divorce, I think she spoke with him 3 times, only at family functions. Said aunt passed away this morning. It's been interest...
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{ "description": "throwing away my roommates dinner", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for throwing away my roommates dinner
Keeping the kitchen and living room clean in my apartment with my roommates has always been a struggle. During my first few months of living here I would wash all the dishes just to keep the kitchen clean, however that was hopeless because they would just take advantage of me washing the dishes and leave all their stuf...
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{ "description": "being really annoyed with my \"friend\" for thinking everyone has a crush on her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being really annoyed with my "friend" for thinking everyone has a crush on her?
This is probably one of the stupidest posts on here but hear me out. So I have this "friend" (let's call her A) and she constantly complains to me about how everyone likes her, or lists all the people who supposedly do - which, I'm 95% sure they don't, some of them even have girlfriends that are our friends -, or tell...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not buying anything for my 19 year old brothers birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because i did not buy anything for my 19 year old brothers birthday?
My 19 year old older brother used to bully me when we were kids and he got away with it, In high school he managed to steal my girlfriend and now he steals money from my wallet when i'm around him and set it on like a table or something. So last week his 19th birthday came so of course everybody was buying stuff and ru...
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{ "description": "leaving a note on a shared bag of cookies", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving a note on a shared bag of cookies?
My stepdad sometimes buys everyone a small bag of cookies from the supermarket and leaves them on the kitchen counter. They come in a little brown resealable bag. It’s important to reseal the bag, because otherwise the cookies get stale. The problem is that I often find the bag open. I know it’s not me, since I’ve bee...
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{ "description": "getting the same tattoo as my friend", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for getting the same tattoo as my friend?
So there’s this song that I really love, and in it there’s a line that I’ve been obsessed with since I first heard it. I told myself that I would get it tattooed one day. I just never had the money, until now. Well a few months ago I met this girl who I quickly formed a friendship with. She was my first friend in this...
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{ "RIGHT": 19, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "offering a single mom help with her kids", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I offered a single mom help with her kids?
Right off the title it sounds like I’m an asshole lol. But hear me out, also this is my first post and on mobile so hope nothing formats weird Anyways, I’m a 20 year old male going to college in a big college town. I’ve been in the same apartment complex for a year or year and a half. It’s a 2 bedroom townhouse style...
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{ "description": "resenting my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resenting my mom?
My mom was raised by her grandparents and always had a close relationship with them. So when I was 5 we moved into their house so my mom could help take care of them in their old age. By the time I was around 12 both of my great grandparents were diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. My great grandpa passed away before he got to...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "attacking an autistic kid", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for attacking an autistic kid?
more like Who Is The Asshole (WITA), as it was a friend who asked me. So a fight happened today. My best friend, lets call him Little, went head to head with an autistic kid today. We made a holographic pyramid in a different class for end of year fun, and this period we were chilling doing maths problems. Around the ...
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{ "description": "not involving my fiancé's mom in wedding planning", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not involving my fiancé’s mom in wedding planning
Throwaway, but I lurk here. I posted about this in r/justnomil, but I wanted to post here to get some different opinions. I’m (30F) getting married to my fiancé (30M) in the fall. We’re both very independent people and are paying for this wedding on our own. I already have my dress, and we have the venue, colors, and ...
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{ "description": "selling the football tickets I had bought for my (now) ex boyfriend after he told me to sell them", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for selling the football tickets I had bought for my (now) ex boyfriend after he told me to sell them?
Way back in Sept I bought my now ex bf tickets to the Baltimore vs LAC this past weekend, to be part bday present, part Xmas present. He’s a huge Baltimore fan. He often can’t afford to buy himself food, much less tickets to a game. So I knew it would be a hit. In Nov I found out he had been lying to me about his ...
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{ "description": "ending my friendship with my best friend because she likes my stepbrother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ending my friendship with my best friend because she likes my stepbrother?
My stepbrother and I have a very bad relationship. I don't want to go into details, but please understand I did cause some of the conflicts, and that it is not an entirely one sided ordeal. But basically, my stepbrother is extraordinarily hateful towards me, and has gone out of his way to act very childish towards me. ...
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{ "description": "asking my bf not to go on holiday", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for asking my BF not to go on holiday?
Me (F32) and my BF(M32) have been together 4 years. Every year, his parents book a week long holiday in June, for my BF, his son, and the parents. I've never been invited and I'm okay with it of course because I always want to encourage him to go and spend time with his family. I should also note that his parents have ...
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AITA for telling the hosts of our D&D game that their baby is an issue?
I've been a part if a grop of adults that get together to play DND every week for about 3 years now. We've mostly had our games at the home of a married couple that we are all friends with. They go out of their way to rearrange their basement for us to play, and they have a large supply of game paraphernalia and minis ...
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{ "description": "completely ignoring my father and resenting him for what he did to me as a child", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for completely ignoring my father and resenting him for what he did to me as a child?
Growing up my father was an alcoholic, he was also physically and verbally abusive. He would call me stupid and retarded every day. He would tell me things like "you're so retarded were gonna make you wear a helmet to school" or when I would cry he would say "you're acting like a girl you pussy." One time at dinner I...
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{ "description": "not going on a date with my sick girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going on a date with my sick girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 8 months has had weekend plans for about a week. Time with friends, a meeting in the city, etc. We get together every day after work/ school, and have the weekends together too. I love her, so seeing her every day is not a problem for me, its a blessing. But this weekend knowing she would be busy, I ma...
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AITA - Crazy Ex Break Up
I dated a woman ("GF") for about 6 months and can honestly say she was the craziest I've ever dated. Given her craziness, I was thinking of breaking up with her. Unfortunately, on the HOT/CRAZY scale, she was definitely above the line. I’m only human. A big group of friends and I were going to a college football game ...
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AITA - Girlfriend and I had a pretty bad fight last light. Might be single tomorrow.
So last night we celebrated Valentine's Day. I moved my work schedule around so that I'd be off yesterday evening and today so we could sleep in together, which is a rare treat for us. While I was about to get off work around 3 pm, she was at the bar getting drinks with her friend. I tell her I'm leaving work and s...
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{ "description": "starting to dislike my best friend because she has changed a lot over the past year", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for starting to dislike my best friend because she has changed a lot over the past year?
I’m sorry for any mistakes, I’m not from an english speakibg country. Me and Zoe(not her real name) have been best friends since 10th grade with another girl, Ana. Me and Zoe moved to another city for college( different colleges but in the same city) and we’re actually roomates, while Ana went to college in another c...
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{ "description": "only typing something while my lab partners physically write", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for only typing something while my lab partners physically write
So, for context I have Dsygraphia, a learning disability that effects handwriting, and in my research class we're working on building a product in groups and have to record progress in a log book shared by our group. Now because even paragraphs are exhausting and painful to write I mostly type my progress, print, sign,...
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{ "description": "messaging some girl on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 17 }
WIBTA If I Messaged Some Girl On Facebook
So today I was standing on the train and saw this most beautiful girl. I'm taller than her and saw over her shoulder her facebook. I was thinking of what to say when we were on the train but I got nervous and before I could act she was gone. I feel like an idiot because I should've said something and yet I have facebo...
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{ "description": "thinking this guy wanted to mug be", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking this guy wanted to mug be?
So I'm walking down a road on the pavement vape in one hand looking at my phone in the other. A chap goes past me, short hair almost skinhead, 40s, smelling like he bathed in aftershave. He looks down at my phone as he passes. I look at my bag and realise my wallet is at the top in a easily grabbed manner and tuck it ...
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{ "description": "not being ready when my mum asked", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not being ready when my mum asked?
This happened today and I’m still confused about whether or not I’ve actually done anything wrong. This morning, I was supposed to go back to university about 2 hours away from my hometown. My mum asked me to be fully packed by 10am because she had a race to get to, and she wanted to leave in enough time. She comes t...
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{ "description": "having sex with a widow after her husbands been dead for two months", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For having sex with a widow after her husbands been dead for two months?
Im a twenty two year old male who works at a car dealership as a sales coordinator (the title makes it sound more glamorous than it is). One of the saleswomen is a thirty six year old woman who ive grown close too over several years (ive been here since i was 19). She is amazingly sexy, even for an older woman. She an...
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{ "description": "calling my sister out for procrastinating", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my sister out for procrastinating
So throw away cause I dont need the fight if she finds out. My sister is a single mother. She has two kids. She dated drug addicts and got kids and debt. We all try and help her out as much as we can. I am out of work and I end up watching her kids from time to time. It's not to bad it's usually only on days ...
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{ "description": "pointing out to my boyfriend he went back on what he said", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pointing out to my boyfriend he went back on what he said?
My boyfriend has a cousin who has always been a bit cold towards me. Don’t know why. I have never done anything to her. She’s a lot more warm with other significant other’s of the family. I’ve talked to my boyfriend about this and he generally agrees with me. I don’t dislike her, but I also can’t really say she’s my fa...
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{ "description": "wanting to play video games a couple hours every day after work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to play video games a couple hours every day after work?
My wife complains that we never hang out at home together. I usually play a couple hours of video games everyday while she watches Netflix. I'm not a big TV watcher and usually read at work, so if I have nothing to do at home, I play something on my ps4. She is constantly complaining that we never hang out at home tog...
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{ "description": "talking to the manager about a creepy guy in a coffee shop", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I talked to the manager about a creepy guy in a coffee shop?
There’s a local coffee shop I often attend to do homework on weekends. I’m often there for several hours at a time. There’s a man who comes in there and is usually there most of the day. He sits down, orders a coffee, and just stares at the wall. I think he might be high but I don’t know for sure. He bounces his legs a...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend that his bad sleeping habits are affecting me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tell my boyfriend that his bad sleeping habits are affecting me?
Hello! So first I want to say that English isn't my first language and also this is my first post on here so feel free of correcting my grammar. Okay now my boyfriend and I have been living together for about a year and a half. I'm a person that enjoys sleeping but he seems like not having to sleep (always staying up ...
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{ "description": "challenging a disabled mans behaviour", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for challenging a disabled mans behaviour?
I work in a public building as a receptionist/ cashier. We have a large number of disabled visitors on a daily basis, both physical and mentally disabled people, some with some without carers. We have several regulars who come in on the same days and times every week. For the past 2 years there has been one guy who's b...
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{ "description": "not getting off of the toilet for my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting off of the toilet for my mom.
This probably belongs here?? Idk where else this post would fit. This is my first time posting anywhere. The gist of what happened: I entered to bathroom, locked the door and sat on the toilet to use it. Less than 10 seconds later my mom knocks on the door and tells me to open the door since she needed to get a comb....
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{ "description": "hating my parent's for constantly making me watch my 2yo autistic brother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my parent's for constantly making me watch my 2yo autistic brother?
This is going to be a long one, so please grab a snack and get ready. Before I go into detail, I want to tell you some background information. A few months ago my brother (we'll call him B) was diagnosed with level 3 ASD. For those of you who don't know, level 3 is the most severe, but each case is different. He's a...
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{ "description": "waking my roommates up for a snack", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for waking my roommates up for a snack?
I currently live in a two bedroom apartment with two roommates (married couple). For a number of reasons, right now we are temporarily all sleeping in one room. I usually eat a late-night snack around 10 PM or so but regardless, I usually wake up around 2 or 3 AM pretty hungry. The way our situation works (again for a ...
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{ "description": "not not wanting to rub my girlfriend's neck constantly", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not not wanting to rub my girlfriend's neck constantly?
Using a throwaway because Im scared of my judgement lol. My girlfriend has had an issue with her neck since we started dating. She calls it a "neck pop" where if she moves the wrong way, she'll tweak a muscle. I dont doubt she has a problem, she goes to a physical therapist for it and apparently she told my girlfriend...
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{ "description": "wanting my fiances dog to be rehomed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my fiances dog to be rehomed?
When we met, he had a very young cattle dog (25kg) and I had 3 small, senior dogs (5,6,8kg) that I rescued from abuse over the last several years. His dog always played a bit rough with the smaller ones and I pointed it out but he did little to change it. So I did research, used the reddit dogs forum, gave him a huge ...
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{ "description": "wanting to call in sick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to call in sick?
I just got a seasonal job for the holidays (I should mention it’s retail). I’ll only be with them for three months or so, but I need the extra money. When I went in for the initial onboarding process, I informed my new manager that I would need to call a few days off—I did the math, and it was a total of 6 days. Two a...
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{ "description": "breaking up because my Girlfriend had an abortion", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Breaking Up Because my Girlfriend had an Abortion?
I am pro life. I believe that abortion is taking away the life of another human. That being said, I don't think people who have abortions are bad people. I understand that they do not view an unborn child as a human life, and thus are not affected by abortion in the same way that I am. My girlfriend and I had been tog...
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{ "description": "ignoring a homeless person", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ignoring a homeless person?
So I am a poor working class guy that lives in a poor working class neighborhood. And it over the last 8 or so years has become overrun with homeless people. There are people pan handling at every light, in front of every convenience store and liquor store. I never have cash on me and I am pretty damn poor myself. I do...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay at home for college", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to stay at home for college?
Hi Reddit! So I’m 18f and I’m a senior in high school right now. I’ve applied to a bunch of colleges and gotten accepted to a few that I really like (re: a tiny little college I got to visit and fell in love with and is also relatively cheap to go to on scholarship), but I DIDN’T apply for our local public university. ...
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{ "description": "spending new years with my family instead of my gf on her bday eve", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spending new years with my family instead of my GF on her bday eve?
Hi everyone, Over the last few days i have tried to organise what I will be doing for new years eve. As it's my GFs birthday on the 1st I left the decision upto her. We currently live separately and both live at home with our parents, we are both an hour travel from eachother (not much I know). This year she wante...
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{ "description": "always bringing my own snacks into the movie theater", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for always bringing my own snacks into the movie theater?
I think it’s sort of the standard that outside food and drinks aren’t allowed in theaters since most of the revenue comes from the food. Still, my girlfriend and I almost always bring some snacks and drinks in her purse into the theater. Growing up, this was pretty normal among my friends but I’m starting to wonder if...
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