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{ "description": "dating younger women and refusing to date women my own age", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for dating younger women and refusing to date women my own age (30s)?
I (32M) swear I saw a similar post to this here, I've been looking for it ever since but can't find it. I refuse to date women my own age and in their 30s for a similar reason to that post I saw. In my youth (late teens/early 20s) I wasn't very sexually active even though I *wanted* to be, and it did a bit of a number...
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{ "description": "worrying my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for worrying my friends
I sometimes get really sad/empty and I reach out to my friends for help. I know this worries them but I need help.
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{ "description": "not giving up a subway seat so two people could sit together", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving up a subway seat so two people could sit together?
I take the subway to commute to and from work every day. This happened earlier this week and it's been bugging me ever since. As the train comes to a stop, people generally stand on either side of the door to make room for people coming off the train. I was standing closest to the door on one side and this woman was o...
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{ "description": "fake-punching a guy because he's been willingly annoying since 2 years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for fake-punching a guy because he's been willingly annoying since 2 years ?
TL;DR : A guy in my school class likes to let the trash bin make a lot of noise squeaking since 2 years, already tell him that's really annoying for my ears, doesn't care, so today, I simulate a punch in his belly, didn't like it and I've been reprimanded by the teacher because I shouldn't be violent or show violence i...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to change her drinking habits", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to change her drinking habits?
I (22M) have been dating her (21F) for a few months now and we are students at a pretty large college in the United States. Let me start off by saying that she’s not an alcoholic, she only goes out 1-3 times a week which is a pretty normal amount for a social outgoing person in college. However, whenever we do go out s...
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{ "description": "never going to work parties", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never going to work parties?
My colleaugues have a monthly party or meal, it usually is expensive (around £40, plus food and drinks on top) and I never go. Mostly because I love my partner of 5 years and want to spend my free time hanging out with her, but partly because I think my colleaugues are gross. There's only about 15 in my office, but 3...
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{ "description": "having dinners with my ex and son without including my current girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 169, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for having dinners with my ex and son without including my current girlfriend?
My son is six. His mother has custody, but we have a good relationship and as long as I give her notice I can see my son whenever. We also do a once a week or once every other week dinner somewhere just the three of us depending on our schedules. I’ve been dating my current girlfriend for about four months. She d...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to wait to eat, bathe, etc when I have a problem", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA if I want my girlfriend to wait to eat, bathe, etc when I have a problem?
Today I started to talk to my girlfriend about a problem I was having when she said "I gotta go eat with my family now. I'll be back later." She expects me to put my life on hold for all of her small problems but when one comes up with me, she suddenly goes quiet. I'm convinced she didn't really need to eat and she was...
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{ "description": "constantly asking my mom to give the money she owes me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for constantly asking my mom to give the money she owes me
So lets start from the beginning. My school has a once every school year business simulation where the high school comes up with a business and executes it in school grounds. Our class decided for our business to be a diner. We all worked hard together for 3 days in a row and we ended up being the most successful. Our ...
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{ "description": "being flaky with my ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being flaky with my ex?
I broke up with my partner a little over a month ago, at the beginning of December. The break-up wasn't mutual, but it was civil. We vaguely talked about wanting to stay friends, but wanting to see how we progressed apart. And we did hang out as "friends" not long after, cause we'd bought tickets to my favorite band qu...
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{ "description": "wanting my family member to put down a crippled, old, failing dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if i want my family member to put down a crippled, old, failing dog?
CW: guns <- at home euthanasia brief mention Bg: the dog, let's call her Lass, is 14. Small-medium size puppy mill dog. She has severe hip dysplasia and can no longer stand or walk on her own. She has become incontinent, repeatedly gets infected with tapeworms, and day in day out nobody in the family pays attention...
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{ "description": "cutting my twin sister out of my life", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut my twin sister out of my life?
So there is a lot of context here and back story but I really want people to be well informed so sorry for the long post. My twin sister is kind if a nightmare. I love her dearly and she is my best friend but she is the most self absorbed person I have ever met. During our teens she was beyond horrible to me but th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my bestfriends boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my bestfriends boyfriend.
Throwaway, because my friend knows my other account. I’ll try to give as much context as I can and excuse the formatting, I’m on mobile. So my best friend[19] met this man [35] fresh out of high school when she was still 17 and he was 33 at the time. She told me about him, how he was sweet and caring, but I wasn’t so...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut contact with the guy who has a crush on me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for wanting to cut contact with the guy who has a crush on me?
tl;dr at the bottom. I've posted the first half of this before (see post history), but this time, I have additional info. I'm [18F] one of two girls in a seven person group. One of the guys, who we'll call David [18M], treats me differently from the other guys and the girl in our group in ways I won't elaborate on,...
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{ "description": "ignoring my dad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my dad?
Formating on mobile, engilish is my first language just bad at writing and spelling. For my whole life ive been nerdy and focus on school and not sports. My dad was the complete opposite, he was sporty, average/below average grades. He always wanted a athletic son. He says I have all the best things in an athlete, i'm...
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{ "description": "being furious that my landlords/boyfriend's parents come by every weekend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being furious that my landlords/boyfriend's parents come by EVERY weekend
My boyfriend and I are 'house sitting' his parents house while they're on a mission (Mormons) but we pay rent monthly. They're living less than an hour away for their assignment. Now we've been here for 3 months out of the 25 months they're away. They're giving us a great deal on rent and all but they come by every.si...
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{ "description": "telling a mom and her kids to be quiet during Beauty and the Beast", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a mom and her kids to be quiet during Beauty and the Beast?
So obviously this happened a long time ago and I always wondered if I was the asshole. Having loved the animated Beauty and the Beast when I was a kid, I was really looking forward to seeing the live action movie with Emma Watson. We lived in a small, rural town at the time with no theater so we drove an hour and a h...
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{ "description": "ditching my best friend's farewell party because of my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I ditch my best friend's farewell party because of my girlfriend?
My best friend will be moving to another country for at least 3 years to take his master's degree. He told us he is not sure when he will be able to go back because he also planning to get a job there to support his studies and eventually build a life (we are not demanding anything of him, especially just to visit us)....
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{ "description": "not being able to stand my autistic coworker", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not being able to stand my autistic coworker?
I work at a tech company that recently established an "Autism at work" program. The company made a huge push to hire autistic folks as an "untapped talent", which I totally get and think that it's a great initiative. "Johnny" was hired onto our team as a QA tester through this program. The only experience with compute...
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{ "description": "flirting with a girl in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for flirting with a girl in a relationship?
I'm not sure if it constitutes flirting and where the line is, so read on and let me know. There is a girl I really started to like. So I started talking to her, we got closer. She was very friendly, and I thought she was interested too. This wasn't within a large time span. Maybe three weeks overall. At some point, ...
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{ "description": "not collecting my 16 year old daughter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not collecting my 16 year old daughter?
I have two daughters with my ex. I have them both 2-3 days a week. This is reasonably flexible and they can come and stay more or less if they please. They are both of an age where they want to see their friends etc...I don't get much notice of change and I'm fine with that. On one of the days that I DON'T have my eld...
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{ "description": "posting an amazon wishlist on the event page for my daughter's first birthday", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I posted an amazon wishlist on the event page for my daughter's first birthday?
I don't want anyone to feel like they HAVE to get her anything, but if people do happen to want to bring her a gift, I really just don't want her to get a bunch of stuff she doesn't need. I don't mean for that to sound ungrateful or shitty or anything. But she has a lot of toys already and she really doesn't need 50 st...
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{ "description": "telling my dad's girlfriend I never wanted to see her again", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my dad's girlfriend I never wanted to see her again.
You will have to excuse the formatting I am doing this on mobile and it's my first post. Now this 'story' is a bit old but sometimes I still get caught up in wondering if I was an asshole or not and I figured I should get some unbiased views from the am I the asshole community. Now, my (f17) parents got divorced when ...
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{ "description": "not taking my friends shift because I was high", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not taking my friends shift because I was high
Look I’ll get to the point, my friend who trained me on my job asked me to take his shift today because he’s feeling incredibly sick, and I trust him. Today is my day off, so I decided to smoke. But I just got done smoking a bit before he texted me and since this is only like my fourth time getting high. I do NOT wanna...
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{ "description": "walking away from my crying mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for walking away from my crying mother?
My mother, who was looking for the bagels in the kitchen, asked my brother who had noise cancelling headphones on where they were. He told her they were in the freezer, to which she responded 'what?', causing him to speak louder and respond again. She responded 'what?' again causing him to raise his voice and repeat in...
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{ "description": "refusing to give my sister food because I offered to buy her some", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I refused to give my sister food because I offered to buy her some.
Bad mobile formatting let's move on So this happened yesterday and was wondering if I was the asshole. It was late and We couldn't be assed to cook. So we drove over there. No idea why she tagged along but I figured she might Change her mind. We got there (30 minute drive) and I asked her You hungry? I'll pay. And ...
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{ "description": "throwing my SIL a Baby Shower", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for throwing my SIL a Baby Shower?
My husband has a brother and a sister. His sister and I have never gotten along, let's call her Amanda. His brother is a fantastic guy and a close friend, let's call him James. Amanda is exceptionally entitled and often rude. We have known each other for 20 years, and have managed a civil relationship. My husband ...
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{ "description": "confronting my roommate about who does the dishes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for confronting my roommate about who does the dishes?
Backstory: My lifelong friend and I (both 24M) recently moved in together after some life changes on my end. I (verbally) agreed to do the dishes as he hates it and I have (or had) no issue with them. This was fine for a few months, no problems. Recently I've been dining out a lot or just not been at home often and the...
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{ "description": "going off on my gf when she called me a bad pet owner", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for going off on my GF when she called me a bad pet owner?
So to start off my girlfriend and I share a dog. I work at a police department and saved him from the pound as a puppy despite living in a no-pets property. I pay for his food, vet bills, and half of his toys and equipment like leashes. My girlfriend is in college and works part time. I pay for her meals when we are t...
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{ "description": "questioning my po", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning my PO?
So I'm on probation for Flagrant No support. Which is lack of child support payments adding up to a certain amount of debt. I didn't flake on payments and end up behind like a deadbeat but I won't get into what happened as it's neither here nor there right now. The context is that I have to report to my PO once a month...
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{ "description": "wanting privacy or respect", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting privacy or respect?
So, quick preface, I'm 17, a senior in high school. I'm also posting on mobile, so the formatting will probably be lacking. Anyways, this morning I woke up and checked my email on my desktop, where my dad, who works from home, heard me and asked me what I'm doing. I casually replied with "Nothing", and he got upset th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to walk my roommates dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to walk my roommates dog?
My longtime friend (who happens to be my roommate) owns a dog that he seldom gives attention to due to waking up late and working a full time job. AITA for not wanting to walk him and take care of him (he’s been asking more than usual lately) due to me being a busy full time college student who works as well? This wa...
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{ "description": "getting mad at friend who I doesn't have time for me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at friend who I doesn't have time for me?
So I met this (male, 25) colleague around 6 months ago. I'm a 20 yo woman. We started getting close, but he told me from the beginning he wasn't looking for a relationship with me. I was totally fine with that, and still am. As we started getting closer, he told me a story of how he was betrayed by someone who he imme...
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{ "description": "being mad my dad planned my future for me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for being mad my dad planned my future for me
Currently, I'm 16 and going through my EMT-B course to become a Emergency Medical Technician. It's what I've wanted to do for years now and I've made this very clear to friends and family. I've actually made a good plan for myself and what I'll do after high school, I'm very excited to get out into the world. My dad wa...
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{ "description": "wanting to propose in a spot that a close friend is claiming as \"her place\"", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to propose in a spot that a close friend is claiming as "her place"?
Back in high School a close friend of mine (We'll call her Julie) showed me a cool spot in our small town that is very secluded and beautiful. With her permission, I took my girlfriend to the spot and we had a beautiful night stargazing. This became an important place to me and my girlfriend. It's now about 3 years ...
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{ "description": "texting my flatmate to be quiet at 2:30 am", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for texting my flatmate to be quiet at 2:30 am?
We used to be good friends. Now we share an apartment with two rooms with thin walls and there is a conflict brewing. Yesterday I had a pretty long day. Wake up at 8:00, commute to work, work, commute back, do some uni work and arrive home at midnight. At this point I would just take a shower and go to sleep because I...
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister to be the maid of honor at my ex-boyfriend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my sister to be the maid of honor at my ex-boyfriend's wedding?
I dated a guy for \~2.5-3 years and we have been done for 4-5 years. Here is just a small bit of what went down: He cheated on me MULTIPLE times. I forgave and tried to forget and he went and did it again. When confronting him to ask why, he said it was because I "wasn't a woman enough" for not sucking his dick every ...
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{ "description": "bringing my own food when my gf cooks for me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bringing my own food when my gf cooks for me?
So this post is inspired by the current top post on this sub. I have a fairly similar situation and figured I will put mine out there. So I have been dating this girl for a few months and for the most part things have been going really well, except for our dietary differences. I grew up hunting and fishing with a me...
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{ "description": "not tipping", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For not tipping?
Went to this chain restaurant resto/bar last night with this girl I'm seeing and we got seated and the waitress comes over and hands her a normal menu and me a fucking kids menu with a big smile on her face, I looked at the menu and was like ahhh can I get a normal menu and she said something like hahahah hold on and m...
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{ "description": "yelling \"f*g\" at a fictional character", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling "f*g" at a fictional character.
a friend (gay male) and I (gay female) love Rocky Horror Picture Show, a cult classic movie musical. Every year on Halloween we go watch screenings of it. one thing to note, during screenings, the audience are allowed to scream and make loud vulgar jokes. We are having a good old time calling the characters sluts and ...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "claiming a package that was accidentally delivered to a house shared with roommates that had my name on it", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for claiming a package that was accidentally delivered to a house shared with roommates that had my name on it?
Some context, late last year I moved into a house with 2 other roommates and we decided to purchase a TV for the living room and we split the cost 3 ways. We found a model we liked and I ordered it under my Amazon Prime because it was discounted. We agreed whenever we move out or whatever we would sell the TV and split...
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{ "description": "telling my close friend that I'm getting an abortion", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I tell my close friend that I'm getting an abortion?
The title is pretty self-explanatory. I'm currently pregnant at a really bad point in my life. Adoption isn't an option for a number of reasons. While my husband has been 100% supportive, I'm definitely seeking out a female perspective. Husband is fine with whatever I decide (in terms of telling friends/family for supp...
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{ "description": "taking someone's \"reserved\" parking space", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I took someone’s “reserved” parking space?
Hi there- first time posting on this sub, on mobile so excuse whatever formatting errors pop up. Okay so first off- I live in Boston, I have a car, it is currently winter, last night it snowed about a foot. I parked my car in a garage overnight so I thought there would be a parking ban and my neighborhood is all stre...
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{ "description": "accusing my parents of not parenting correctly", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accusing my parents of not parenting correctly?
I’ll try to keep this short and sweet. Bit of background: I have a sister with a mental illness called misophonia. Basically, you know when someone chews really loud and you get annoyed by it? Imagine that on a much larger scale. It’s like Tourette’s from what I understand, when she hears one of her trigger sounds she...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
aita for getting mad at my mom?
this one is kinda tmi. you’ve been warned. so, i have two dogs. i love them both but recently they’ve developed a habit of getting into trash cans in bathrooms. mostly they get into mine, and there’s nothing much there for them anyway. but today, they didn’t only get into mine, but my parents’ as well (we have sepa...
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{ "description": "insisting that he showed after work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for insisting that he showed after work?
Bf and I live together. He works a lot and when he comes home he’s so smelly. I don’t know why, but his sweat smells like cat pee. I told him to shower when he gets home from work and he usually does. Tonight though he gave me attitude about it. He said he was tired. Then told me I don’t smell so great myself s...
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{ "description": "telling my father to shut up about my education", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my father to shut up about my education?
This happened almost 1 1/2 years back. It was the last time i had free willed contact with my dad. After my mum and dad broke up, me and mum had to move out the house and into a flat. No problem. But what is a problem is the fact that my dad never paid full child support, send me to Grandma and Pa every time i was su...
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{ "description": "not letting someone back into our group of friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting someone back into our group of friends?
So I (22F) have a group of friends, we all share a group chat and hang out together. One of the guys, we'll call him Jack (26M) used to hang out with us a lot. Him and I got close and would text a lot about different things, a lot of which was gossip about the group. A few months ago, he asked me if I wanted to hang ou...
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{ "description": "just wanting to write for fun and avoid anonymous criticism", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for just wanting to write for fun and avoid anonymous criticism?
For context: I have been writing a (fantasy) story for some years just for fun. Some months ago, an anonymous user told me that they had read the prologue and listed some things that were, in their opinion, "objectively" wrong with the story, although there was no possible way that the list was accurate, since it portr...
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{ "description": "not bailing my friend out of jail", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not bailing my friend out of jail?
I've had this friend since I was in second grade. We always had things in common and played with Transformers and Legos together, etc. I'm in my early 20s now and so is he and we managed to stay in contact and hang out occasionally in these recent years. He has a wife and a young daughter that I'm sure he loves dearly....
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AITA for not wearng a bra?
This is a pretty weird topic, hear me out! Love to get some fellow ladies input on this! I'm 17, for reference. Barely A-cup. I'm plain-looking and quite tomboyish - very studious and not interested in fashion or dating at all. ​ Here's the argument: My parents believe bras are a form of underwear and ...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend for the sake of my own mental health even though hers was worse", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend for the sake of my own mental health even though hers was worse?
Okay, so me and my ex were dating for 6 months before things got shaky. She was prone to self harming and had done it many times in the past,and everytime that hurt me because I couldn't bear losing her. I was very stressed out by all her mixed emotions and possible bipolar, and I really couldn't cope with it. I tried ...
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{ "description": "singing while I walk in public", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for singing while I walk in public?
I enjoy singing while I walk. Unfortunately, I'm nowhere near the level of wealthy that would allow me to walk in a private area and sing without anyone else present. I don't own my own home, and am currently living with roommates to cut costs for a planned future move. I am self-conscious enough that I won't do it at ...
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{ "description": "deleting mine and my former friend's shared Instagram account", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deleting mine and my former friend's shared Instagram account?
So for some backstory, my friend got mad at me calling him out for lying about someone in which he lied and said the other person talked bad about him behind his back. The other person of coure did not and we had proof but he targeted me. I recently found out he changed the password on our shared Instagram account in w...
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{ "description": "being driven insane by my partners eating noises", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being driven insane by my partners eating noises?
I've been with my partner for 5 year-ish off and on and care for him an incredible amount. We love to adventure and go to new restaurants and cook together as much as we can! When it gets to eating time though, I sometime have to stop and take a breath so that I wont walk away. He doesn't chew with his mouth closed, ...
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{ "description": "refusing to apologize to my sister after saying hurtful things to her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for refusing to apologize to my sister after saying hurtful things to her?
Me and my sister have had a rocky relationship for a while. She suffers from BPD, a mental illness that can make healthy relationships tough. In the past I tried to sympathize with her in any way that I could, although recently it’s gotten much worse. I recently graduated and moved back in with our parents (temporari...
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{ "description": "making a kid who cut me off pay for my coffees", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for making a kid who cut me off pay for my coffees?
I'm comfortable with my actions in this situation just curious what others think. I was driving down a road going about 40kph, I had two full ice coffees in my passenger seat sitting in a tray (my cup holders are broken). I even remember thinking to myself what a disaster it would be if they spilt. As im driving do...
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{ "description": "lying to my wife", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 58 }
AITA for lying to my wife?
Hopefully this is not as cut and dry as it may seem. A couple years ago a female coworker (we’ll call her Liz) started dating another girl. Up until this point, Liz was straight. Apparently Liz eventually found out that her girlfriend had been lying to her and had been doing some pretty shady (and illegal) stuff. Liz w...
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{ "description": "not throwing everyone at work a birthday at work and possibly stopping the party's all together", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not throwing everyone at work a birthday at work and possibly stopping the party’s all together?
I inherited a new role at work. The last person in the role used to buy cake for the folks who had birthday’s during the month and also have a birthday card signed. The exception was when the birthday person decided to leave for a birthday vacation or simply take the day off. No one at work wants to tell me their birt...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend only for the summer", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 16 }
WIBTA If I break up with my girlfriend only for the summer?
I live in a boarding school with her but over the summer, each one of the kids go back to their homeland. I want to go to partys and have fun and don't feel guilty about it and the same for her...
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{ "description": "freaking out because I didn't have a seatbelt on in a cab", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For freaking out because I didn't have a seatbelt on in a cab
I have always wondered about this, and admittedly I already do feel like the asshole, so I'll spare you no detail and I want a good honest read (sorry it's a bit lengthy) My boyfriend's friends had a get together at one of their places for his birthday and I met a lot of his friends and their girlfriends. After the ...
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{ "description": "judging people I don't know", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for judging people I don't know?
When I see relationship posts, one of my go-to responses (if it fits) is your SO is controlling/manipulative/emotionally abusive and you need to pack your bags and go. This past week, I found myself in one of these situations with my SO. The argument went three rounds over the span of about a week. If I saw the fir...
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{ "description": "cutting off an autistic guy for being too clingy", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off an autistic guy for being too clingy
We’ll call him Max for the sake of anonymity. I am in IGCSE 2 (equivalent of grade 11) and I’m 15. He is in A1 (grade 12) and is 19. When I first started speaking to him, it was because he would kind of just awkwardly hang around our friend group/sit next to me in math(he’s in my class) When we invited him to hang ou...
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{ "description": "not going to my friend's birthday dinner/party because I had to go see my boyfriend 4 hours away last minute", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my friend's birthday dinner/party because I had to go see my boyfriend 4 hours away last minute?
So this happened a few years back, but I'm curious. It was my close friend's 22 bday and she was planning to go to a dinner and a club. I didn't know anyone else she invited because they're all a group and I'm just her friend and I couldn't go to the club because I was under 21. The morning of I got a text from my ...
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{ "description": "not stopping my game so our family could eat dinner outside", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not stopping my game so our family could eat dinner outside?
This just happened so everything is crystal clear. I'm 14, I just finished swimming and decided to play some video games. It's about dinner time here in my country and so my parents decided to eat outside. I told my Mother this is my last round, then we will go. Like 5 mins later, my dad comes down and starts grumbling...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "getting kicked out over a parking brake", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA...Getting kicked out over a parking brake
AITA for putting the parking brake up on my roommates car? After driving her around so she could pass out her business card and hopefully drum up more business we go home, I park in the drive way and w/o putting a second thought into it, I pull up her parking brake. The driveway is on a slight hill, i didn't know if sh...
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{ "description": "lending my sister our car", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for lending my sister our car?
Wife is out of town for the week. I get a call from my sister (while I was at work) who is 8 months pregnant (and trying to save as much money as possible as they've had major house repairs recently and won't be working for a while). She is close by and as she dropped her car off for repairs. The repair centre normally...
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{ "description": "not inviting my friends immature fiancé to events I host", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I didn't invite my friends immature fiancé to events I host?
So my friends fiancé is a lot to handle, even on good days. To sum it up, he smokes and drinks like there's no tomorrow (and sometimes drives after). He's preachy about Catholicism (in irrelevant moments), dominates conversations, one ups, is veeeryy competitive, and isn't great on social queues. He's kind of like a ch...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my partner for play wrestling with her ex in front of me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my partner for play wrestling with her ex in front of me?
I’ll keep this short and sweet. My girlfriend and I (both mid twenties) have been dating for around a year. She’s still good friends with her ex as they have a lot of mutual friends and honestly it hasn’t been an issue at all until the other night. We were all hanging out after a mutual friends birthday and he happene...
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{ "description": "reporting a coworker who reported me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for reporting a coworker who reported me
Using a throwaway as several of my co-workers also use Reddit and know my account. To give some background on this story, I work for a government organisation in the UK part time around university. I have been working here for several years now and intend to leave when I graduate and get a job which should be within t...
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{ "description": "not inviting my childhood friends to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting my childhood friends to my wedding?
I grew up in a small community and everyone from community was tight. Right after highschool I moved away for 5 years. When I moved back slightly closer about 5 friends who all lived in different cities, but all grew up together, decided to get together at least once a year (usually xmas). The first three of these wer...
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{ "description": "using my homophobic friend to get a pc", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for using my homophobic friend to get a PC?
Background: I have this friend who has kinda turned into a dick over the years. Let's call him Mark. Mark is homophobic, racist, extremely transphobic to the point where he would misgender a trans individual because he thinks it's dumb. Now keep in mind I'm gay, but closeted. So Mark and his dad decided to give me a...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend after a Slip-up", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Blocking My Friend After A Slip-up?
This post is a bit long and mentions suicide. I thought I'd put this warning here. About a year and half ago I met a guy, call him Luke. He was friends with my friends and we got on really well even though he would constantly flirt with me, but I didn't reciprocate as I was in a relationship at the time. So that summ...
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{ "description": "expecting a better gift", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting a better gift?
So this is pretty petty I guess but I need to know what people think. We decided to host a secret Santa, where we anonymously give gifts to each other. IMPORTANT: We decided on a price of around 15 dollars (converted for convenience) for a gift. So a week passes, I do my shopping and get this girl a pretty cool collect...
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{ "description": "wanting to order delivery in a blizzard", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for wanting to order delivery in a blizzard
I didn't, but only because my friends convinced me not to. No food at home, & I had a craving for fried rice.
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{ "description": "possibly leaving my ex with not much in the apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for possibly leaving my ex with not much in the apartment?
As all couples do, my girlfriend and I broke up semi-recently. We live together and now need to decide how things are separated, but the problem is she did not come with much whereas my parents helped us furnish our place and I brought some of my items. We already had an agreement on how the items were going to be sepa...
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{ "description": "questioning whether or not I should try to get into a relationship with someone based on their eyebrows", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for questioning whether or not I should try to get into a relationship with someone based on their eyebrows?
I feel like I already know the answer to this, but I'm asking it anyways. Please hear me out first though. Your eyes/eyebrows and mouth are basically what make up your expression at any given time. The expression that you put off will sort of reflect onto whoever you are around and can affect their mood as well. Well ...
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{ "description": "downvoting a post", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for downvoting a post?
Before you say yes, it was for a noble cause. It was so that the post had 69 upvotes. AITA for downvoting a post so it has 69 upvotes?
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{ "description": "telling the guy that was going to buy my phone to f-off", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I told the guy that was going to buy my phone to F-off
Basically my friend gave me a phone to sell off and a buyer answered my ad online. He said to meet him at 6pm at the local library. I told him to meet me at 11, to which he agreed. I got there at 10:45 and waited until 11:30, when I called him and he said he still thought we were meeting at 6pm. I thought he maybe forg...
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{ "description": "telling my teacher that he's wrong and he should not teach us incorrect things", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my teacher that he's wrong and he should not teach us incorrect things?
In my health class, my teacher showed my class this Netflix documentary called 'what the health', which I thought contained pseudoscience and incorrect. I told my teacher that the documentary is seemingly wrong and that he should not teach us incorrect things. He was respectful and told me that 'it's always good to a...
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{ "description": "not having sex with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not having sex with my boyfriend?
Throwaway, on mobile, TL:DR at bottom, etc. My boyfriend (20M) and I (19F) have been dating for about a year and a half. This is my first relationship, and his second We are very happy together, and we try to spend as much time together as possible. A few weeks back, the topic of becoming sexually active came up. ...
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{ "description": "jaywalking in front of a cop", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for jaywalking in front of a cop?
I work for a government agency that is adjacent to the city police department. I have a short lunch (30 min) and my department is rigid about it. After getting my lunch, I began cross the street before the light change. There was a police officer waiting for the light. I began crossing and he ran, shouting and caught u...
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{ "description": "commenting \"have an upvote\" on some post in a subreddit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for commenting “Have an upvote” on some post in a subreddit
A little backstory. About 1-2 days ago, I saw a user positing “Have an upvote (that’s my job)” So I decided to hop aboard the band wagon and started to post “Have an upvote” a lot (I think in 24 hours I posted it like 350 times) and maybe went a bit overboard at some points. My only intent was to let people know ...
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{ "description": "being this mad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being this mad?
So me and my sister both like watching anime, and we have a spare room in our basement that we have as an anime room, I guess. A few months ago I had a small party and had two people come early (P1 and P2), mainly so I could show them the anime room (they watch anime too, and I thought I could trust them). My sister, b...
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{ "description": "calling a mother out for cursing at me in front of her kid", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling a mother out for cursing at me in front of her kid?
Trying to not give away too much info - So I work in service and deal with guests a lot, mostly tourists so rude people are nothing new to me. I'm usually able to stay professional and keep my cool like nothing happened. As one would expect, I often catch guests doing things they aren't supposed to, like trying to ste...
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{ "description": "making my brother in law pay to replace our carpet", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for making my brother in law pay to replace our carpet?
My husband and I built our first house - literally - just over a year ago. We participated in a sweat equity program where we spent 30+ hours a week doing manual labor on our house to lower costs. We take great pride in our home and try to keep it clean. 3 months after we moved in, my husband's 22-year-old brother mov...
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{ "description": "not laughing at a comedy act during a comedy night", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not laughing at a comedy act during a comedy night?
Tl;Dr >!Didn't laugh at any of the MC's jokes, got called out for not laughing and fake laughed to shut him up!< I (31 M) went to a comedy night recently with some friends. It should be noted that because this was a gentleman's club, most of the people there were considerably older than us (I was one of the you...
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{ "description": "dumping my boyfriend for doing the same thing I did to him and right before he uproota his whole life for me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping my boyfriend for doing the same thing I did to him and right before he uproota his whole life for me?
My (ex) boyfriend and I dated for over a year but were long distance the last 6 months of it. We fought incessantly even before I moved. Like screaming at each other fighting, but we always managed to calm down and work it out, but I did try to break up with him on one prior occasion about two months after the move,...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancée to stop degrading herself because it's impacting the way I see her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my fiancée to stop degrading herself because it's impacting the way I see her?
We've been together a long time and she's always had image issues. For years, she'll say things like "I'm fat", "I'm disgusting", "I'm ugly", etc. I understand how hard it is to not like the way you look, and have always responded with "I think you're beautiful" or similar. I've always thought she had a perfect body, ...
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{ "description": "being \"weirded out\" that my roommate copies everything about me", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being "weirded out" that my roommate copies everything about me?
I'm already beating myself up because even the title sounds childish, but please hear me out. My roommate copies every little thing about me. She copies my perfume and body wash to get the same "scent" as me, same piercings with the same jewelry that she goes out of her way to find, recently, she cut her hair the sam...
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{ "description": "\"stealing\" my girlfriend from her best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for "stealing" my girlfriend from her best friend?
Important information to start: my gf and I are both lesbians, her best friend is a straight girl. My gf and I have been together for about 3 months, and had been "talking" for about 4 months before that. We are all college students, I am 22 years old, my gf "Katie" is 21, and her best friend/roommate "Ashley" is 20. T...
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{ "description": "saying that my little brother's basketball isn't good after a game", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for saying that my little brother’s basketball isn’t good after a game?
He’s on the 7/8 grade team, and is on the A-Team (the school has A-D teams based on skill). He has the same head coach as last season (he also has a son on the team, but his son is really good). Both last season and so far this season, we have been losing game after game. Not because our players are bad, but a lack of ...
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{ "description": "not helping my brother with his vet bills", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not helping my brother with his vet bills?
(This is on mobile.) So a little info. My family currently has two dogs. They are the puppies of my old dog Zoey. She was my first pet and i loved her to death. I had her for two year, and then she got pregnant. See she was a pit/lab mix and the dad is a lab/retriever mix. We called around and found people to take all...
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{ "description": "picking Anti-Feminism as my Speech topic in an English Assessment causing my feminist teacher to become bias", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for picking Anti-Feminism as my Speech topic in an English Assessment causing my Feminist teacher to become bias.
This teacher in my school has been constantly giving me hell due to my views on feminism which I expressed in her English speech assessment. I’m a 15 yr old Male and when I did this speech I was 14. Ever since I did this speech my English teacher, who’s a feminist, has been clearly making my grades worse, been telling ...
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AITA 3-year relationship on the ropes due to porn
Hi, ​ My SO (20F) and I (22M) have been going strong for 3 years now, even though we have quite different views/opinions about basically everything; attitude, politics, religion, philosophy. ​ One of the hot topics we have discussed a lot is religion. I do not have a strong leaning to either s...
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{ "description": "ignoring my neighbor who thinks I'm being too loud", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for ignoring my neighbor who thinks I'm being too loud?
I moved into my apartment 6 years ago when my daughter was 1. I live on the second floor and the people who lived below me for the majority of my time here moved out about six months ago. New tenants moved in, four 21 year olds who just got out of college and moved to my city. My landlord lives above me. I have share...
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{ "description": "joining a discord server with an old link", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for joining a discord server with an old link?
I had a really close-knit group of internet friends about two years ago, and due to life events I gradually grew apart from them. No bad blood at all, just the flow of time and me losing interest in our shared hobby. Lately I've been thinking about them a lot because I picked up our shared hobby again and I stumble...
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AITA, Veteran Publicity Stunt
AITA? Sorry for the text wall. So fourth of July rolls around and I'm tagged in a Facebook post by a friend for one of those "like, tag, share raffles." A man that owns an electrical company was offering a Veteran $1,500 worth of electrical work. Well, I am a vet and so was my late husband and it happens I won! Tw...
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AITA Mom wants to give away my honey wine without asking me.
AITA? My mother texted me and told me she wants to give her coworker a bottle of my Mead that I make at home. She said "don't you want to show off your skills?" I don't know this coworker, and I find it rude that she wanted me to text her all the different varieties of Mead I've made so he can "choose the one he likes ...
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{ "description": "asking for a few extra days to consider a job offer", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking for a few extra days to consider a job offer?
Two weeks ago I applied for a job. The interview went great, and I even had a second interview in which I worked for a little and was able to interact with the team. I had another offer on the table from someone I am close with that I kept pushing back at the time so when the company told me they would get back to me t...
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