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{ "description": "wanting to temporarily cut all contact with my best friend after his girlfriend based our friendship on lies", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to temporarily cut all contact with my best friend after his girlfriend based our friendship on lies?
He will probably see this but anyway, my best friends girlfriend for a year and I started talking and became really good friends last fall. He and she were the absolutly closest friends I've ever had. I've been batteling with depression for the last couple of years and I always felt that they made it better. I always m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay my 'pregnant' friends rent", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to pay my 'pregnant' friends rent?
* So I live in shared housing with 5 other people while I study at university and contract renewal for next year is due. The landlord only requires 3 people to sign for the house to be secured for next year and I was not one of those people as I was unsure what my plans were for next year. * Anyway over the summer o...
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{ "description": "watching a tv show without my so", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for watching a TV show without my SO?
My gf and I are huge Game of Thrones fans. In the past we’ve always watched the show together, invited over friends, I would provide the beer, and she would cook a bunch of food for everyone to eat since she loves cooking and trying new recipes. We both always had weekends off so this was never an issue before. But si...
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{ "description": "requesting my new roommates pay higher rent than us", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for requesting my new roommates pay higher rent than us?
I don't live in the USA, and I hid the actual numbers for privacy reasons. backstory: we are foreigners who don't live in our home country. Brother and I used to live with our parents. We decided to move out because we were getting emotionally abused. Our situation wasn't the best, but we managed to find a place after...
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{ "description": "expecting my brother to tell his kids to be quiet when we are conversing on phone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For expecting my brother to tell his kids to be quiet when we are conversing on phone.
I get along great with brother. But he doesn’t correct his little kids or ask them to be quiet when we talk in person or phone. Eventually I get frustrated because it is louder more obnoxious on my end. If I say something, he gets annoyed like, “well you called me.” AITA?
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{ "description": "not just getting my package from the store it was delivered to", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not just getting my package from the store it was delivered to
I live in an apartment above a store. There's two doors from the street; one to get into the store one that goes to my apartment (unit 2). My door is clearly marked with "unit 2" and the street address on it, not 10 ft from the store entrance which is clearly a store. Several months ago when I first moved in I got a p...
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{ "description": "showing up to a show with a guest after telling another friend (who is my ex) that I wasn't going in order to avoid his friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I showed up to a show with a guest after telling another friend (who is my ex) that I wasn't going in order to avoid his friends?
My ex and I get along incredibly well, he's actually one of my best friends. Let's call him Jon for now. We both support a band that some mutual acquaintances of ours play in and have gone to every single show together. Tonight the band is having a performance and he asked me if I was interested in going since it is so...
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{ "description": "being around my friends when I'm feeling super down", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being around my friends when I'm feeling super down
I've been struggling with anxiety/depression lately which has been exacerbated by stress from it being my last year in grad school, trying to find a job, just stopped seeing a guy I was causally seeing, a reoccuring eating disorder, & just generally not in a good head space. Quite a lot of those things escalated in...
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{ "description": "my friend changing his plans at the last minute on a mutually agreed and scheduled gaming session", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for my friend changing his plans at the last minute on a mutually agreed and scheduled gaming session?
So. I was taking a bus ride to home while chatting with my online friend. I asked him if he would like to play Stardew Valley at a specified time when I got home. We both agreed. When I messaged him about our plans, He then told me he wanted to read a visual novel and collect its CG artwork. At our specified time w...
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{ "description": "being a bad date with an awkward relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being a bad date with an awkward relationship?
I just recently ended a relationship that hadn’t really started but I still attended her sorority formal with her because she needed a date. I had a good deal of friends other than her at the event, and she had her own friends there as well. I mainly hung out with my friends but I did still eat dinner and chat with her...
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{ "description": "being pissed that my ex gf faked orgasms with me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being pissed that my ex gf faked orgasms with me?
We are both 21 and in college. We dated our freshman year and broke up, but we're still friends. Not best friends, but we are in the same group and hang out pretty regularly. Ultimately we weren't compatible as a couple but our sex life was never the problem, or at least that's what I thought. We had lots of sex and sh...
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{ "description": "scamming a scammer to get money back for a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for scamming a scammer to get money back for a friend
A couple days ago, my friend is out looking for some modded game accounts and finds a supposed seller. He approaches him and this guy throws every sign of a scam: asks for a wire transfer, can't remember PayPal login, tries to force the "limited time sale", then finally decides he will only take gift cards as payment. ...
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{ "description": "wanting to walk out on a 3 week commitment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to walk out on a 3 week commitment
So backstory, I \[32m\] was asked to come along for 3 weeks for my friend's \[34f\] move to \[very cold northern state\] from where we lived. Reason for this being that she needs to do some training that would have involved her leaving her dog at pet hotel if I wasn't here. Since we left, I have been yelled at no less ...
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{ "description": "getting upset when people don't look at something I've shared with them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I get upset when people don't look at something I've shared with them?
Let's preface this first of all, I understand that some people shove phones in other people's faces and expect them to watch it/read it or whatever. Basically, I create a lot of things and I like to hear the feedback from it. So I share it usually with my parents. My step dad always helps me out but my mom, she's just...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to get himself \"ready\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my husband to get himself "ready"?
So long story as short as I can make it... My husband is on antidepressants which makes it hard for him to "finish". Not hard for him to get hard at all just finishing is a problem. I cannot and will not speak for anyone else but for me, I'm kind of a "quickie" person. No marathon sex situations for me, at least. I ju...
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{ "description": "not going to the St Patty's Day party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I don’t go to the St Patty’s Day party?
A friend of mine is having a St Patty’s day party. We have been friends for quite a while but she more or less ghosted me for four months. She recently got a new best friend who is really into makeup but not much else and whose husband is more or less a fascist. I’m pretty progressive and not super into makeup but I...
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{ "description": "cutting all ties with my brother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting all ties with my brother?
A bit of backstory about me, since it's relevant to the story, but I'll try to keep it short. I was diagnosed with clinical depression (and anxiety) in highschool, after a few suicide attempts. At the end of my third year especially I reached a lowest, and I basically turned into a shut-in. I became easily irritable an...
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{ "description": "refusing to hang out with my buddy and his girlfriend together", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to hang out with my buddy and his girlfriend together?
Backstory: One of my closest friends has a girlfriend who pretty much our entire circle of friends sees as highly toxic. We've all tried our best to give her a chance and welcomed her into our fold with open arms, including her in social functions and going our to meetups at restaurants and bars with them. He's an...
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{ "description": "threatening to take legal actions and terminate the lease with hostile roommates", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for threatening to take legal actions and terminate the lease with hostile roommates?
Obligatory excuse the grammar and stuff, etc. Long post so tl;dr at the bottom ​ So here's a bit of history first that's probably needed - I was in college away from home. I moved in with these two girls I sort of knew at the time, but they were still kind of new friends to me. It wasn't a great living si...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not spending time with my my girlfriend?
Not sure how to sum this up but I’ll try. I work a stressful job and I’m away from home a lot. I take medication for anxiety mainly due to my job. I love my job sometimes it can just throw a lot on my plate. Yesterday my girlfriend and I decided that we would wash her dog and watch Netflix while she finished her notes ...
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{ "description": "taking a slot for a sports competition instead of someone else", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I had taken a slot for a sports competition instead of someone else?
At my school we have an inter-house sports competition, in which I wanted to fence, as it's the only sport I'm any good at. However, there were only 2 slots, and after I signed up, I found out that the other two serious fencers in my house wanted to go. In the end, I let them replace me in the slot. ​ Howe...
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{ "description": "refusing to argue with my project partner", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I refuse to argue with my project partner
Since I did everything and he's done next to nothing I do see any way I am responsible for his personal failure. He is currently trying to make me the culprit for him being useless. Mostly I do too much and dont let him room for work ( which is untrue because I give him tasks every week that never get done so they hav...
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{ "description": "resenting my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for resenting my friends?
So backstory, four years ago, I was on exchange with two of my close friends, A and B, overseas in South Korea. They chose two schools that were close by each other and thus were able to room together in an external apartment while I had to room in my own school’s dormitory, which was about 30 minutes away by train. A ...
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{ "description": "asking my partner if she'd picked something up from the grocery store", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my partner if she'd picked something up from the grocery store?
Today my partner asked if I would meet her at the grocery store when she was done at school, then head home together. I declined as I was home not feeling well after a couple drinks out at her friend's birthday party last night. When she gets home I see that she'd stopped for a few things anyway and I said thanks for...
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{ "description": "being mad at my gf for drastically changing her appearance just before our wedding", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being mad at my gf for drastically changing her appearance just before our wedding.
First things first. I firmly believe that everyone has a right to do anything they wish. I'm just mad for other reasons. I and my gf have been together for 7 years and we're getting married in a week. Once in a while she experiments with her appearance and I really enjoy it as much as she does. My family are conserv...
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{ "description": "leaving the room everytime my roommate has a coughing fit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving the room everytime my roommate has a coughing fit
My roommate and I rarely speak to one another. When we do it’s usually in one word sentences like, “sorry”, “hello,” and the like. Although, we have such a passive agressive relationship. Everytime I am present he starts to have this “coughing fits” and to respond I put on my headphones and play music to the loudest vo...
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{ "description": "not getting upset about my niece's death", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not getting upset about my niece's death?
Happened last year but only stumbled on this subreddit recently. My four year old niece passed away last year from an undiagnosed medical condition, and my mum was basically bawling for a week straight. She got super pissed off at me because I basically didn't have any reaction. For context, my extended family lives ...
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{ "description": "not trying to be close to my boyfriend's daughter", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not trying to be close to my boyfriend's daughter?
My boyfriend and I started dating almost 2 years ago. We do not live together. He has a 14 year old daughter from a previous girlfriend, who broke up with him for her now-husband shortly after said daughter was born. My boyfriend raised his daughter on his own for a a few years, but now she lives primarily with her mot...
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{ "description": "purposely misspelling peoples' names", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for purposely misspelling peoples' names?
I have a name with several common spellings. When emailing at work, people often use the wrong spelling, despite the fact that the correct form is right there in the address bar/book or in my signature. Typically when this happens, I will purposely misspell their name in my following reply. I think it's a decent way ...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to leave me alone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my sister to leave me alone
TLDR at the bottom. Going to be a long story. Backstory: Im (19f) the youngest in the family and I get treated as like it. Im not going to say a specific number but I have more than 3 sisters. I have a very overprotective narcissistic mother, whenever I argue against her, she will talk behind my back to my sisters o...
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{ "description": "ending a 3 year friendship with no explanation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a 3 year friendship with no explanation?
As the title says I ended a three year long friendship recently. For a bit of backstory, the girl I was friends with was in my 8th grade homeroom and thats how we became friends. We sat on the bus together and next to each other in homeroom. It was a slow culmination of things that led to this happening but the ball s...
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{ "description": "having not wanting my friend's gf to go on a long vacation with us", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having not wanting my friend’s GF to go on a long vacation with us?
Hello, everyone. I have a strong inkling ITA, but needed to confirm, so please lay it out honestly. For the past couple weeks, a few friends and I have been planning a 2 week vacation overseas later this year. The group originally included, myself, my gf, and my friends Don and Michael. The four of us have been good...
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{ "description": "throwing my friend into a mental breakdown", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing my friend into a mental breakdown?
So one of my close friends just found out that she has to work the day after Christmas because none of her other coworkers are working, even though they'll all be in town. She plans every year to see her grandparents out of town that week. She messaged me and immediately starts flipping out, insulting her coworkers, ra...
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{ "description": "not taking my wife to the doctors", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not taking my wife to the doctors
My wife informed me last night that she had blood in her ear. I was very concerned and told her that she needed to check it out. She had recently flown on a plane and it could be ruptured ear drum. I suggested that she call her doctor on Monday and schedule an appointment or, if she felt any discomfort to go to a 24 ho...
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{ "description": "pretending to like a gift my mom got me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pretending to like a gift my mom got me?
For clarity, I already know I'm an asshole. I just want other people's opinions and views. A band I've been listening to for a while is coming out with a new album. I'm extremely excited and told/made my mom listen to them. A couple weeks pass (still excited) when I get a text from my mom telling me to check my email....
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{ "description": "completely dismissing a coworker when they turn a productive discussion into a pity party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for completely dismissing a coworker when they turn a productive discussion into a pity party?
I have a coworker who whines, a lot. He is a project engineer and I am the project manager. I have to discuss project related things with him daily, but i hate doing it. As the PM, i need facts, dates, lead times and technical data... that's it. He will get me this information, but it takes 15 minutes or more to e...
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{ "description": "wanting to be an official partner in my husband's business", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to be an official partner in my husband’s business?
So my husband runs his own business and is very successful. I stay at home and have recently started working part time. He started this business before he met me, but it was a little half assed. He just did the work he needed to get by. When we got married and had a kid he decided to start it back up. We agreed to be l...
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{ "description": "expecting a better Christmas gift from my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting a better Christmas gift from my sister?
I realize Christmas is not just about getting things. It’s about love, family, and being with those you value you the most. That being said, I tend to put a lot of thought into my Christmas gifts because I love to see the looks on my family and friend’s faces when they see what I have gotten them. This year I got my si...
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{ "description": "thinking my little cousin should know the consequences of his actions", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For thinking my little cousin should know the consequences of his actions
This is gonna be pretty short so don’t expect anything too long. So It was my little brothers party for his confirmation and some of our relatives came along. One of them was my little cousin (8M) who probably took to much influence from the internet, he thinks he is a great singer and whenever his mum isn’t there or...
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{ "description": "dobbing in my neighbour for her prohibited pet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dobbing in my neighbour for her prohibited pet?
We live semi rural and I rent my house, as does my closest neighbour, from the same man. Today we had a routine inspection and I mentioned that the neighbour's chickens kept coming over and digging up my herbs, pooping everywhere and making a mess. I have asked my neighbour repeatedly to lock them up. I also said "her...
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{ "description": "being upset at a teammate for hurting the team", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset at a teammate for hurting the team
I was a really good at baseball at the time of the story, and my family was going thru some tough time after we had just moved to Idaho. I typically used another helmet since we didn't have one. However, this particular incident, I used this one guys helmet. Now for all the non-sports inclined, this is something you're...
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AITA? coworker ignores me.
A co-worker of mine tries to boss me around, and yelled at me when I said I wanted to see the supervisor first. It was an order from the supervisor (to move to a register), and I have ignored the co-worker once. She watches me like a hawk and always gives me orders like "you have to be organizing/standing in front of y...
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{ "description": "dictating what fish my sister should get", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dictating what fish my sister should get
Excuse my insecurities i have the curse of being a people pleaser So, i gave my sister the fishkeeping bug. Wed gone into petstock to buy a new collar for the dog, and she went to look at the fish and show her daughter the bettas. Ive been setting up a tank for about a week now (gonna be a blackwater just need the pea...
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{ "description": "ignoring side of family for personal reasons", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring side of family for personal reasons
Awesome sub here. I’ve been struggling with this one for the past year or so, could use some input. Throwaway account. A few years ago, my mom divorced my stepdad. Out of the blue. Now this is really unlike her. She got through business school while taking care of my and my bro and sis. She eventually bought a house...
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{ "description": "obscenely insulting a redditor", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for obscenely insulting a Redditor?
I just flamed a poster on r/unpopularopinions. Normally, I attack the argument, not the person. However, the Redditor was making a vulgar and personal attack and I... decided to do the same to him. OP deleted his posts and I'm left wondering if I'm the asshole or if I was just a dick (à la *Team America: World Police*)...
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{ "description": "not telling my wife", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling my wife
My wife and I work together at a decent size company. We work in the same department and have very similar jobs. I just learned, from our supervisor, that there will be a change in our department and some colleagues will be promoted, possibly altering the "who reports to who" structure. Based on past experiences, my ...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my friend who said I didn't have any right to mourn her bfs death", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting upset with my friend who said I didn't have any right to mourn her bfs death?
Some context ~ back in September one of my friends, S, took his own life. We hadn't had much contact other than homeroom a couple weeks before, so I found out a few days after it happened and took a day off of school, since I was upset about this and didn't think I would be able to go all day without crying. I knew him...
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{ "description": "dating my good friend's kind-of ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dating my good friend's kind-of ex?
Two of my very good friends had an on-again off-again "thing" for a couple years appx 5 years ago, when they were just transitioning from high school to undergrad. At the time, I was very close with my girl friend "Nora" and did not know the guy, "Jason," because Nora and Jason went to different colleges. I met Nora ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone?
So a few months ago, me and friends are gonna go out and grab pizza, they're all marketing students and they're all classmates and I was a bit of an oddball being a finance student. So they introduced me to this guy who was their classmate and said that he wanted to tag along. They said that we might have the same inte...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to sublet her room", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my roommate to sublet her room?
Some context... She's one of my closest friends and we've lived together for over a year and she is the best roommate ever. She told me she was struggling with rent because it's a little high. Her parents live 45 min away and she was debating on moving back with them at the end of our lease. I have a friend who needs ...
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{ "description": "asking my dad for help in my relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my dad for help in my relationship?
Sorry for long post! TLDR at the bottom So first some backstory. This is during my senior year of high school. I was in a relationship with a guy I really liked. We had been friends for about five years prior so we knew a lot about each other. He didn’t like social media very much and I was very into it only because t...
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{ "description": "skipping my brother's birthday \"party\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For skipping my brother's birthday "party"?
My brother is out of the country more than he is home, and this year he is home for his birthday. His girlfriend has planned a surprise get-together the night of his birthday at a bar that he likes, around 8:00 PM. I love my brother, and my wife and I would normally be all about going, but my brother and my daughter ...
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{ "description": "telling her I don't like her as a person", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for telling her I don't like her as a person?
Me and this woman have known each other for a year. We toyed with getting together but it ended badly for everyone. This isn't about that though. I've noticed recently that I dont enjoy spending any time with her. I dont share the same interests as her anymore, little things she do annoy me, and overall I feel like shi...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf?
Hey guys soo, I've been pretty good with ending most relationships. I typically will let those emotions flow through me instead of holding onto them. So I(25M) ended up jumping into this relationship with this girl(20F). We both worked for the same company but we dont work directly together. It was one of those surre...
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{ "description": "going to my high school friend's wedding without inviting him to mine", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I went to my high school friend's wedding without inviting him to mine?
My friend from high school and I are both getting married this summer, about a month apart. My friend and I are reasonably close; we see each other once or twice a year and keep up through Facebook/text/email in between, and he's invited me and my fiancee to his wedding. The problem is, I'm not planning to invite him t...
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{ "description": "telling my friend he troubled me after he went through depression", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend he troubled me after he went through depression?
So right now I'm in a pretty shitty situation with someone whom I consider my best friend. I've known my friend for a whole chunk of my life (15+ years) but we only became close during the latter years of high school. A few months ago my friend went through a really tough time with his family. To spare the details, h...
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{ "description": "wanting to get paid for the work we do", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH For wanting to get paid for the work we do?
Background: were painting and renovating a condo for a fixed price, and placed weed fabric/ bark on two spots on the property. Before this, me and the landlord had came up with the argeement for payment of 650 dollars for weeding, removing grass and junipers, and dead plants. Doing weed fabric/ bark was not apart of th...
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{ "description": "wanting a kind and supportive friend to suffer", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting a kind and supportive friend to suffer?
Bit if context, I've known this guy for ages. He's phased in and out of "best friend" territory, but he's sort of one of a small group of guys I consider to be my best friends. 3 of them (4 including me) all met through me, and I always drove us around (first to get a license) and decided what we did back in high schoo...
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{ "description": "giving my wife a baby hamster after she miscarried two months ago", "pronormative_score": 377, "contranormative_score": 215 }
AITA For giving my wife a baby hamster after she miscarried two months ago?
Me and my wife have been married for almost two years. Its been our dream to have a big family. She is 21, i am 24. We are both healthy and have an active sex life, but she has a heart shaped uterus and has miscarried twice, the last time being two months ago. After losing two of my children i am also depressed but I ...
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{ "description": "feeling resentment towards my partner for progressing slower than me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling resentment towards my partner for progressing slower than me?
Just wanted to start off with that I understand the whole 'people move at their own pace' ideal - I feel like this could apply if they wasn't making silly mistakes that slows them down constantly. Am also writing on phone - sorry for any formatting & spelling errors in advance! I've been with my partner for almos...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend over a girl", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting mad at my friend over a girl?
Ok so this story is a lot more than just “I like her, he knows, he dates her.” This one goes far back so get ready. (Note: I am writing on mobile so...) In early December me and my friends came up with a challenge, something along the lines of a long paragraph and then the question being “wanna spite cranberry?” Or so...
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AITA because of my potentially dysfunctional communication?
Background: I've had issues with relationships since my early teens. I've always been some degree of socially anxious. In part, this started with what felt to me like my parents were prioritising my special needs brother and ignoring me. My parents are wonderful people and I can safely say that this is definitely not ...
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{ "description": "getting on my mom's case for working till it kills her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting on my mom’s case for working till it kills her?
My mom has serious blood pressure issues and takes medication to help it. It’s been this way for decades, and even she admits that it’ll probably be her blood pressure which kills her one day. Within the last week she saw a spike in her resting BP levels while on her meds, just low enough to not go to the hospital so l...
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{ "description": "asking my aunt to stop sending me unsolicited weight loss articles/tips", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my aunt to stop sending me unsolicited weight loss articles/tips?
A bit of background, I have weight issues and have had my entire life. My weight has fluctuated a lot and it is something I need to work on constantly. I have food issues and I am under no illusions regarding my health/weight, my aunt knows this. About once a month my aunt will forward me an article or something she h...
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{ "description": "being upset with my friends for hanging out with someone that threatened me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my friends for hanging out with someone that threatened me?
Ok, this one requires a little back story so bare with me... A few years ago my ex and I had broken up. I admit that I was to blame, I made a lot of mistakes & it was just hard for us to work through them. I hadn't even moved my stuff out of my ex's apartment and we were still talking frequently. Out of nowhere, I...
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{ "description": "not wishing her a happy birthday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wishing her a happy birthday
My sister had his friend a while ago who used to always get into trouble. The friend was banned from so many peoples houses so that was my first red flag. We didn't blame her for the stuff she did because her parents didn't take care of her and she didn't have a positive role model. She then got expelled from school wh...
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{ "description": "not getting my kids cellphones", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For Not Getting My Kids Cellphones?
I'll try to make this brief. I have 3 bio kids (10,12 and 13) and 2 step kids (9 and 11). My husband and I agreed a long time ago that we did not want to get cellphones (specifically smart phones) for our kids. We decided this for multiple reasons but mainly financial/we saw it as an unnecessary and potentially dangero...
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{ "description": "keeping my fwb from talking to his friend all night", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for keeping my FwB from talking to his friend all night?
So this all happened on Saturday night but i (24f)got called out with this last night. First of all my FwB (29m), well call him Matt, and his friend (29m), we’ll call him joe. They live together and have been best friends for years. More often then not Matt invites him to almost everything we do. Which is fine but we ...
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AITA(27)for making boyfriend(39)feel bad about missing babies doctors appointment?
So our baby had he 4 month check up this morning (7:00 am) and she was getting her follow up vaccinations from her 2 month check up. My boyfriend and I don’t currently live together. He got off work at 11 last night. This morning he didn’t show up for the doctors appointment. When I called him about it he said “I got...
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{ "description": "hating a school because they bullied me from 1st to 5th grade", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Hating a school because they bullied me from 1st to 5th grade?
Ok, so for the last 5 or so years i haven't gone to this school, but my brother still goes there. While I was in 1st and 2nd grade I did some pretty stupid stuff and got into a lot of trouble. But after 3rd grade I fixed my act and didn't do anything wrong. My peers however continued to exclude me from any and all acti...
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{ "description": "not wanting my bf to get into a fight with my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my bf to get into a fight with my ex?
So, yesterday my ex bf texted me a few nasty things, calling me names and so on, because someone told him i cheated on him (we broke up 1,5 year ago) which is not true. It's actually the second time he did this. The first time was two months ago when the rumors started to spread and my bf didn't seem to be interested s...
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{ "description": "not letting my fiance's dog sleep with us", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not letting my fiance's dog sleep with us?
So, to start off, my fiance has a Chihuahua, which I hate small dogs in the first place because of bad experiences with my Grandma's dogs. However this dog of his is especially bad in my opinion. Fiance has had this dog ever since he was 12. He's very attached to Dog, obviously. Dog has been sleeping in his bed that ...
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{ "description": "going on vacation with dads ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going on vacation with dads ex?
Sorry this goes on for so long, I feel like a lot of the details help understand the entire situation. TLDR at bottom. My dad was engaged to this woman and she was a huge part of my life (from about age 7-17 or so). It was kinda a long distance thing, she lived an hour away so we would visit her on the weekends. The ...
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WIBTA if I posted CCTV to facebook showing the person and their dog who has been pooping in peoples gardens?
Pretty much this - there’s a residents group on Facebook and a few complaints over the last few weeks. Came back from work and there is now some in my front garden directly under a camera.....
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AITA These assholes at my school were my best friends and they completely shunned me
The reason is that; the one we'll call him E was being a complete ass to me one day so the whole story starts in math class. I was trying to explain to him how to solve a problem(I was right). I was telling him how you had to subtract the one then divide. But, he was telling me that you had to just divide right away th...
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{ "description": "not helping my friend/roomate look for his dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not helping my friend/roomate look for his dog?
I live with my good friend. I was in the middle of helping another friend install a hard drive to his laptop over Discord and guiding him through the process. During the install process my roomate has to leave and go to his mom's apartment (about 15 minutes away) because their family dog got loose and needed to help lo...
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AITA More like is he an asshole, group member did all the work in a project without asking any of us for help, even though we didn't ask him to, and taking all the credit
So recently I remembered back to a project I had to do for one of my CS classes about 2 years ago. The project was worth 25% of our grade and it was a group of 5 people who had to work on it including myself. While me and everyone tried to help and do our part on the project, we had one member, who knew the subject bet...
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{ "description": "doing acid with my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for doing acid with my friends
So a couple weeks ago I did acid with some of my friends in a very controlled environment do see what it was like. Everything went great but I am receiving a ton of hate from people I know about it. This girl I was seeing and I discussed it and she voiced her concerns, as in she was very much against it, but I told her...
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AITA | Am I satan or a saviour ?
When I see a person taking 4 seats alone I take the seat right next to them and put my luagge in thier footspace.
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{ "description": "not giving my dad a birthday present", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my dad a birthday present?
Throwaway and this happened several years ago. My parents divorced when I was about 12 and my dad had to take over the company they shared together. For several years we didn't see him because he had to work so hard to keep this company running to pay for our and his bills since my mom had a burnout. When we did see ...
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AITA:No longer wanting to help my bf advance his career.
AITA: For no longer caring or wanting to help my bf advance his career? I'll try to be as succinct as possible while giving enough details. My bf has hit a roadblock in his job and has remained stagnant in a position that is going nowhere. He has the knowledge, skill, and potential to go very far in his career but he...
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{ "description": "poking fun at someones performance", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for poking fun at someones performance?
Ok, so for some context I am in my schools wind ensemble and we have a holiday concert where all the musical departments play together and we had a rehearsal today. the orchestra featured a singer in it along with some strings playng along. Basically what happened is that she was performing and she started singing in...
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{ "description": "taking a coworkers phone for filming inappropriately", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For taking a coworkers phone for filming inappropriately?
We were at an after office (Still in the office) and we had smoked pot (not a legal state btw) and got back inside. Some of my coworkers are not "chill" smokers, its really obvious that they smoked and even some of them were screaming on how high they were. At this point this guy takes out his phone and starts filmin...
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{ "description": "ending a relationship with no explanation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I end a relationship with no explanation
On mobile sorry for formatting but I will do my best. So, I'm currently going through a rough and lengthy divorce that just won't seem to end (long story I can try to explain if necessary but it's not really relevant to this), and have been seeing one of my closest friends romantically for 6 months now. We have both h...
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{ "description": "making excuses to not borrow my friend money", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making excuses to not borrow my friend money?
I’ve recently reconnected with this friend (“S”) we were friends in college, drifted then started speaking again in April last year. When we started speaking again we used to go out/hang out a lot, however in recent months I’ve been feeling like the “spare” friend, who she only contacts or wants to hang with when no on...
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{ "description": "avoiding my BFs kids when they are sick", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for avoiding my BFs kids when they are sick?
Hello. Throw away because my BF uses reddit. My BF has two kids, 2 year old son and 11 year old daughter. He has partial custody of both. I moved in with him in November. During the months of Novmeber and December, I missed so much work due to illnesses I got from his kids that it became a work performance issue whe...
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{ "description": "not going to my sister in law's wedding", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I didn’t go to my sister in law’s wedding?
I posted earlier about leaving my sister in law’s wedding early, as I have a nursing infant at home and didn’t want to have to pump to stay through the whole thing. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a1ihbj/wibta_if_i_left_my_sisterinlaws_wedding_early/ We found out tonight that she actually already got ...
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{ "description": "destroying my life because I can't get laid", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for destroying my life because I can't get laid?
20 year old guy, at university. In first year I was very overweight and ugly, and a virgin. I had been fat for many years so girls never paid me any attention. After losing weight and even paying for some plastic surgery (yes I went to such lengths), I finally became 'attractive' just before the start of my second yea...
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{ "description": "kicking my (now ex) bf out of our hotel room", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kicking my (now ex) bf (39M) out of our hotel room?
Hello, sorry for my english. Td;er I went on a trip with my bf but broke up during a flight, so after a while of receiving an undeserving treatment from his part I decided to tell him to find a new hotel for himself. AITA for kicking my ex bf out of the hotel room? So we have had a very rocky relationship for over a ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend every second with my concussed girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not Wanting to Spend Every Second with my Concussed Girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I were recently home from university for Christmas break. We do not go to the same university and do not see each other very often. A few days into the break her friend opened a door and it smashed her head giving her a very serious concussion. Due to this she can do pretty much nothing except lie i...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my gf for not being able to see her for 2 weeks", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed at my gf for not being able to see her for 2 weeks (and maybe longer)?
Me and my gf both work night shift and its been nearly 3 weeks we havent seen each other (the first week she was ill) Well live a 15 minute walk away and shes cancelled a few dates in a past 2 weeks including Valentines day. She has just started being able to see her little sister after a while of not being able to see...
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{ "description": "flirting instead of taking my brother for a walk", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for flirting instead of taking my brother for a walk?
I'm on spring break. Yesterday, I was in my room doing some homework. I have a lot of work to get done (essay for ap lit, test right when we get back to school in Calc, latin exam I missed and have to make up, etc). My mom calls me downstairs and asks me to take my brother on a walk. Now, I really don't want to, and to...
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{ "description": "not supporting my partner's new job prospect", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not supporting my partner’s new job prospect?
I have lived with my partner for a year, we’ve been together for over three. We have a small, one bed room in NJ that we would not be able to afford independently of each other. My partner works a job that she has slowly grown to hate, and is in the process of applying elsewhere. Recently, a company she loves reached...
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AITA-Roommate Doesn't Share in Chores?
Last June I moved into a new place with two friends, Felicity & Angela (all three early 30sF). Angela and I had previously lived in a different house and a big reason we wanted to leave the last place was because our old roommates were apparently averse to cleaning. (They had a dog, never vacuumed, etc). We all wo...
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{ "description": "reading while my boyfriend and I are eating dinner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For reading while my boyfriend and I are eating dinner?
We normally eat dinner in front of the TV so it's not like we're actually having a sit down dinner at the dinner table. I like to read while I'm eating and will sometimes scroll through Reddit or read a book on my phone but my boyfriend thinks it's rude and gets upset but I think he's being silly. I would totally thi...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend lie on their college applications", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my friend lie on their college applications?
Some background: I'm a high schooler working (paid) in a position at a small office essentially overseeing unpaid interns. I got this job because I had been an intern for a long time previously, and was promoted when the previous manager left. I was an intern alongside my friend when I got promoted. As a manager I not...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my mom money", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Give My Mom Money?
I was promised my whole life that as long as I went to college I wouldn't have to pay any kind of rent, just my phone payment and car payment. I currently just got a job full time making about 12.90 an hour while I'm also going to college full time, I'm trying to save enough money so that I can afford to go to school a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hear the details about a bachelorette party my wife went to", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to hear the details about a bachelorette party my wife went to
Throwaway because reasons. My wife went to her cousin's bachelorette party and took my niece with her (she's 18 freshman in college). She offered my niece if she wanted to go with her and I was fine with it so long as my niece could be open with her mom. I was happy for my wife because I understand she's happy for her ...
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{ "description": "eating my friends pop tart", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for eating my friends pop tart
HE was really getting on my nerves and kept bragging about how good he was at Mario kart. so when he left to go to the washroom I ate his pop tart. I fell bad now.
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{ "description": "calling my anti semitic teacher a motherf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling my anti semitic teacher a motherf*****?
I am in the 12th grade. I have a PE tacher who is a huge anti semite (even though no Jews live in my country). I have some Jewish friends online (gaming bros) and I could not tolerate his anti semitic comments and ended up calling him a motherf***** during my PE class. Thankfully, the dean took no serious action and ...
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