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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I'm not responsible for what she wants", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend I'm not responsible for what she wants?
Context. There is a Jon Bellion concert coming next year and the tickets just became available. We both love his work and would like to go but I make it clear that I'm there for her. Not entirely for the concert (I'm not big on live stage performances unless its Hamilton or Bo Burnham) So we have two options. $40 Gene...
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{ "description": "telling my husband that his dad can't babysit our kid", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my husband that his dad can't babysit our kid?
2 important things before I get started. 1. Me and my husband recently got pregnant. 2. My FILs wife is a truly repugnant person. Most people on her side of the family and my FIL side can't stand her. In fact I used to be a care giver for her mom (as a favor) so I would talk to her brother a fair amount. He once told...
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{ "description": "leg-sweeping my classmate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For leg-sweeping my classmate
I'm on mobile so sorry for bad formatting. I am a big guy (200pounds) and in 9th grade. My classmate (Let's call him Sid). He is like 130 pounds but he is taller than me. Sid thinks he can bully me so he kicked me from my behind. I was mad so I kicked him back. He then called me names and started pushing me and to...
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{ "description": "dumping a girl because I was still thinking of another girl", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dumping a girl because I was still thinking of another girl
There’s a girl who I’ve like for months, let’s call her A. I hang out with her almost 24/7 and I have never liked anyone more. Despite this, she didn’t feel the same way. Weeks go by and I continue to hang with A l, I enjoy every second of it but everything I drop her off I’m hurt that we can’t be more. She know...
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{ "description": "losing interest even after I request convos", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for losing interest even after I request convos?
I've made several posts on r/needafriend with different expectations every time. I state those expectations in my post and give some basic info about me (ASL, occupation, some hobbies). Basically, I just give enough info to start out a convo but leaving enough room for the people messaging me to get to know me and a...
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{ "description": "going back in my word to financially support my mum and don't move in with her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I go back in my word to financially support my mum and don't move in with her?
As always, it's much more in depth than the title suggests. At the end of June my partner and I plan on going travelling for 6 months, and because of this we're trying to save every penny we can. At the same time, my mum who is financially struggling and lives in rented accommodation has a spare room. I told her a fe...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend for not reading my mind", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being mad at my friend for not reading my mind?
So I have this friend who I'll call F and I consider her my best friend, not because of her personality, but because I talk to her the most. (I'm a girl by the way.) But I know she has better friends than me. (I don't really care.) There are many of AITA moments I have with her, too many, so maybe I'll write about the...
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{ "description": "getting cold feet before sex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting cold feet before sex
So this happened last night when I was at my girlfriends house, we were messing around after dinner and snuck up to her room when her parents took out the dog. We were having a laugh and started making out and after a couple of minutes she started to take her top off and mine too. I was a little uncomfortable but I ke...
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{ "description": "going out with my bullies crush", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if i go out with my bullies crush?
So, i have been bullied by those girls, actually both girls and guys in my class (except 2 guys) and a lot of kids in school. You know how those things start, one popular kid will keep on hating on you, calling you names and bully you and the rest will follow like bunch of sheeps. I only have one best friend, its ok at...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend?
I apologize in advance for any formatting issues, I'm on mobile. We are both in our last semester of senior year of high school, and we had started just shy of a year ago. I realized that I wasn't super attracted to her anymore, and I wasnt enjoying being around her as much. It got to the point where I was questioning...
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{ "description": "asking my stepmom not to force her politics and atheism onto my sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking my stepmom not to force her politics and atheism onto my sister?
I'm 17, my sister's 9. My stepmom, let's call her Jane, is extremely left-wing, and a self-described democratic socialist. My dad is fairly apolitical, and doesn't care. At first, Jane tried to force her views onto me by 'casually' buying me campaign merch and books about her ideology, plus trying to get me to go to pr...
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{ "description": "getting too flirty", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting too flirty
Background to this tale: Both myself and my girlfriend are bisexual and in our mid twenties and we've been dating four four months. Her last relationship wasn't great as she was with a manipulative serial cheater. So I've always pushed for transparency in our relationship, and have told her several times that I don't...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from dad because he chews with his mouth open", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for distancing myself (16M) from dad because he chews with his mouth open?
Recently (about a year now), I realized he chews with his mouth open very noisily. It got on my nerves and at dinner, my mom noticed me stressed out and tells my dad to close his mouth, which he does. This happens almost every dinner now, where he just ends up saying, "sorry i wasn't thinking". Even after he's done eat...
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{ "description": "not caring about my incredibly ill father", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not caring about my incredibly ill father?
Heyo. So a long time ago, my parents divorced. I got to go with mom, while my dad didnt even get visitation after failing to appear in court. Dad never phoned, Dad never sent gifts, and even though I moved around a lot with mom, I kept in touch with Dad's side of the family and he still never made any effort to talk. ...
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{ "description": "wanting peace", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting peace?
My house is basically testosterone central, and I’m the only person not ruled by it. Ever since our oldest son started puberty 3-4 years ago, every minor misbehavior has been blown completely out of proportion by my husband. He also can’t have just get after the child, punish him, and move on....he needles and provok...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help do the mystery dishes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to help do the mystery dishes
First time posting here so sorry if the flow is a bit awkward. There has been a pile up of dishes in my apartment's kitchen for about the past week. I know nothing in the sink (except some of the silverware) is mine on account of me being sick all last week and eating exclusively in my room. I had been leaving the di...
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{ "description": "bugging my boyfriend to go to the movies when he doesn't want too", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for bugging my boyfriend to go to the movies when he doesn't want too?
I (29/F) have been with my BF (45/M) for 7 years. For the first few years of our relationship we spent a lot of time hanging around the house (watching TV, ordering in take out food, having drinks etc) and also did a lot of outdoor activity together (camping, hiking, fishing, going for drives, snowshoeing etc). Over...
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{ "description": "not returning the favor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I don’t return the favor?
Back in 2017, one of my friends had an extra ticket to the musical Hamilton that her dad bought. She invited me and she said sure and I asked her if I should pay her back but she said it wasn’t a big deal. I thanked her relentlessly because this was huge for me since I loved the musical and couldn’t afford to go. Fast...
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{ "description": "being upset with my roommate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with my roommate?
Me and my roommate have had our issues in the past with her health, but she seems to be doing a lot better and I’m happy for her. We live in a college dorm together and had made plans to live together next year. Expect, last night I got an email from housing saying she removed me as her roommate. I was devastated, but...
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{ "description": "feeling tense about the fact that me and my boyfriend haven't spent quality time lately", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling tense about the fact that me and my boyfriend haven’t spent quality time lately?
Lately me and my boyfriend haven’t gotten to see each other at all. I work at a coffee shop and his college is within walking distance, so the most I see of him a lot of days is when he decides to visit for an hour or two. Of course, I’m working, so we can’t do much besides talk on my 10 minute break. He has finals thi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive to my brothers place to hang out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drive to my brothers place to hang out?
My brother Jason(24) lives with me(17) and hangs out with our brother James(32) occassionally. We both have cars but Jason leaves without me knowing I want to go as well but tells me to drive seperately. He has no reason for this, he just wants me to drive seperately. I don't want to drive seperately because why use th...
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{ "description": "not letting a person go in front of me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting a person go in front of me
Today I went to a department store to make a return. There were two lines one for returns one for on line pickup. There were several people in the return line, me included, with only one person working in Customer Service. There was no one in the online pick up line. After waiting 20 minutes I was next and a woman cam...
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{ "description": "not cleaning my room properly", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not cleaning my room properly?
Hi. I know that this may seem like a post fishing for likes, but I'm genuinely unsure who is in the wrong here and I'd like to get other people's opinions. My mother and I don't have the most stable relationship; it's been getting better over the years but she's still more of a child than I am which makes everything v...
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AITA In this Roommate Disagreement?
**Set-Up and Dynamics** Well, it’s been a semester. So my housing is unique. I am a freshman/junior (came in with AA), who lives in campus housing with a freshman and a senior. All three of us have specialized housing as a part of a local program. We all qualified, as all three of us have a form of autism spectrum dis...
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{ "description": "being upset I found these messages between my partner and their ex about talking next week on the phone? she said she misses him and he agreed to talk to her. he used to shit talk me to her. he hasn't told me about these messages", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset I found these messages between my partner and their ex about talking next week on the phone? She said she misses him and he agreed to talk to her. He used to shit talk me to her. He hasn’t told me about these messages.
https://imgur.com/a/UKvf6QK
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{ "description": "arguing with my girlfriend alot because she isn't romantic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I argue with my girlfriend alot because she isn't romantic.
Ok, the title might seem a bit odd, but I couldn't phrase it any other way. *For context, we are both females* My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year, and I really love her. I am infatuated with her, she is my everything. I don't think that I am that way to her, though. I tell her alot about how I thi...
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{ "description": "thinking my fiance isn't entitled to any of my tax return", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for thinking my fiance isn't entitled to any of my tax return?
My fiance and I live together with her two children from a previous marriage. I bought a house for us to live in. I get an extra bit of tax return because I get to claim the interest on the house. She pays roughly 70 percent of what I pay towards the mortgage meaning she pays less than I do. I calculated this based off...
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{ "description": "thinking my bf is addicted to porn", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for thinking my bf is addicted to porn?
Obviously like really all men do, I (22F) know my bf (22) watches porn. One time, maybe about a year ago; I found a list of his favorite pornstars when he was scrolling through notes on his phone and he pretended he didn't know what it was but I knew the names sounded like they were not real people, and ever since it'...
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{ "description": "giving my father attitude/being upset with him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for giving my father attitude/being upset with him.
So I've never really gotten along with my father, although I do try but he has attitude problems sometimes, or at least it seems like it. So for context this will sound like normal teen age behavior but as an example My father will come into my room without warning and tell me that he needs my help for a little bit, I ...
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{ "description": "not answering my phone to my mom during a sleepover", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
Aita For not answering my phone to my mom during a sleepover
3 months ago I was going to a sleepover with my friend when my mom told me to call her when I got there. I forget though so she called my friend's mom who told her I was there. I assumed that I wouldn't have to call after that and then I got a text from her saying I better call her. Me and my friend figured it was ju...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting someone?
Throwaway account because even though I blocked him on Reddit, he can still view my post. This started about 4 days ago when I made an on r/MakeNewFriendsHere in attempt to, ya know, make new friends. About 20 minutes after making the said post about 4 people PMed me. After a few minutes of talking to people, it narr...
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{ "description": "seeing other people", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for seeing other people?
(Throwaway for privacy purposes) Last semester, I was having a rough time emotionally, mainly due to stress and sleep deprivation. Towards the end of the semester, I started making some really strange and irrational decisions that I can’t really explain looking back. The biggest of these was confessing to my friend ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mom to stop blaming my brother for our lost dog", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for yelling at my mom to stop blaming my brother for our lost dog?
So for some background information: I have a dog, a short haired german pointer. He's the sweetest, but kind of hyperactive around other dogs. And that plus being really really strong doesn't make my life easy. Our family loves him so much, he s part of it. Especially my mom who spends most of the time with him because...
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{ "description": "asking out the girl both me and my best friend are interested in", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I ask out the girl both me and my best friend are interested in?
My best friend and I are both interested in my coworker. He has already told me that he intends to ask her out. So would I be the asshole if I ask her out as well?
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{ "description": "not writing a thank you note right away", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I don't write a thank you note right away?
I am a high school senior who has just completed the college application progress. My English teacher has given us guidelines for "how to write a thank you note" for our teachers who have given us letters of recommendation, and given us class time to write these notes. I have already thanked all of the people who have ...
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{ "description": "blowing up on a friend while I was in a bad mood", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for blowing up on a friend while i was in a bad mood?
To preface, this friend and I have dated and we are no longer together. Lately we've been considering getting back together but I keep backing out because I don't want to get hurt again. So today, I had one of those really bad days where you just go home, shove a pillow in your face, and cry. I talked to my mom brief...
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{ "description": "not wanting my bf to hang out with a girl who cheats in school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my bf to hang out with a girl who cheats in school
So, for context, me and my boyfriend are in high school, and met online. We live about an hour and a half apart from each other, and don't go to the same school. I've met many of his friends, but not this particular girl irl (lets call her Sarah). ​ Since we live fairly far away (especially for high school...
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{ "description": "calling my friend out for being rude to me for no reason", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Calling My Friend Out For Being Rude To Me For No Reason?
Last year, me and my best friend of a few years (who i will call James) drifted apart significantly. I wasn't particularly upset at all once I noticed; this had happened several times previously with other friends, and I understand that it is natural. A new person (who I will call Amy) joined our friend group. I introd...
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AITA? Are we the assholes? Grandpa's birthday
AITA? Am I the Asshole? Are we the assholes? You all know its that annoying time of year where you spend an ungodly amount of money on buying shit nobody wants or needs but that you're socially obligated to go through with buying crappy toys that'll be forgotten in a few weeks for kids, and buckets of popcorn & hom...
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{ "description": "lying about my sexual history to girls", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for lying about my sexual history to girls?
I (20M) am at university. Started last September. For some reason lots of girls think I "must have slept with a lot of girls". I have no idea why, but the reality is that I really haven't. I've only slept with 2 girls before university. Maybe I am better looking than I think or I have some.personality trait, but girl...
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{ "description": "singling a coworker out for toxic behavior", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I singled a coworker out for toxic behavior?
I usually try to bring breakfast for my coworkers when I can (usually in the form of donuts or other pastries) and try to make it where there's two for each coworker. Lately I've had a few people approach me and thank me for the item (we'll say donut from now on to avoid confusion) but also ask why they only got one wh...
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{ "description": "making a point to tell my roommate he got me sick right before my trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I made a point to tell my roommate he got me sick right before my trip?
Basically the situation is that I have a huge trip that I'm leaving early next week, and people know how big of a deal this is to me. People also know I'm a bit paranoid about getting sick, but for good reason because I seem to catch colds really easily. Early this week my roommate started coughing and sneezing a lot,...
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{ "description": "not helping my friend even if I know he will fail without me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my friend even if I know he will fail without me?
OK here's my story, in my country (Greece) there's a pretty big exam to get into any university you want and both me and my friend gonna take it in a few months. The thing is my friend struggles a lot and proposed the idea to study together the last month, I didn't really say yes or no at that time but after thinking i...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with an openly suicidal friend who constantly brings it up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed with an openly suicidal friend who constantly brings it up?
First post on Reddit, no idea if I’m doing this right, so I’ll try to make to it short. I have a friend who I’ve been hanging around for a month or so, mostly at school, and I’ve noticed that she often says to teachers or other students “Sometimes people don’t understand how hard depression is” or “I don’t feel like ...
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{ "description": "getting Petty Revenge", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTAH For Getting Petty Revenge?
Sorry, but this one is a little bit long. I was gonna wait and post this in r/pettyrevenge but my co-worker told me it would be a dick move to do what I'm wanting to do, but I don't think it is. I work for Big Corporation (wouldn't be hard to find out but not gonna name it) as a lowly sales associate. I've worked for ...
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{ "description": "nor liking my 7 year old's friends at school", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for nor liking my 7 year old's friends at school?
She just started at this school and she's an only child so I am trying to keep my own snobbery in check, but the girls are loud, ill-mannered and not a good influence IMO. It's just second grade so I should just STFU, right?
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{ "description": "asking to be treated as normal fcking human being", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking to be treated as normal fcking human being?!...
In my company we have an inofficial teamleader who really, really has anger problems. She did go to a therapists about that multiple times in her life. While we were used to her being unfair and bitchy, about 1,5years ago she started to just make up lies and literally SCREAM us down over them... while they were straigh...
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{ "description": "dumping my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dumping my Girlfriend?
For context she was implying she was cheating on me and when I dumped her she said it was a joke. Here's the chat logs. http://imgur.com/gallery/MYH5t5q
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for going through my phone behind my back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for going through my phone behind my back? (Long AF)
Hello reddit. This is gonna be a VERY long story but I feel like I should give you as much detail as possible so I can get a fair judgement. I hope you can bear with me and my rant as I want you to see both points of view involved in this situation. First off, I am no angel and I'm aware of it. This all started ...
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{ "description": "wanting more sex with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting more sex with my girlfriend?
Sorry for the Wall of text but there’s a lot of detail to this story so let’s start off at the beginning. My girlfriend(21) and I(26) have hit a rough patch in our relationship after dating for two years and it’s about sex. We haven’t had sex for the past 6 weeks and it’s really started to build up sexual frustration ...
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{ "description": "holding a personal belief", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for holding a personal belief?
For some backstory, of a very close relationship with a girl I cared very much about ended a month ago (call her M). It wasn't romantic or sexual, and I never felt like it needed to go in that direction. We we're very honest about our feelings and ideals, and our main goal was to be honest and straight up with each oth...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mom for giving my baby a \"comfort\" bottle", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for yelling at my mom for giving my baby a ”comfort” bottle?
My mom is retired and watches my daughter (18 months) for me while I’m at work. I do appreciate it a lot and she never wants money. The thing is, I don’t always feel like she fully takes me seriously as a parent. I’m single and I struggled a bit in the beginning and I’m not sure my mom ever fully let that go. Here’s ...
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{ "description": "calling my brother a dick", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my brother a dick?
So, sorry for the second post so soon. I haven't ever actually participated in this sub and didn't think about it until the events of my first post here. A few months back, I was sitting in the living room and made some joke about my brother needing to push the buttons harder to win the game he was playing. He's 10 an...
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{ "description": "getting a little upset every time my best friend and his girlfriend hang out with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I get a little upset every time my best friend and his girlfriend hang out with me?
I’ll call them Gina and Tyler. I love my best friend Tyler and his girlfriend Gina, both are very dear friends to me. I met her first in middle school and she was my first best friend and then Tyler once they got together in high school. I hang out with Gina almost everyday at college and I love hanging out with her, s...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to stop hanging out with one of her friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to stop hanging out with one of her friends? (NSFW)
So myself (21M as of the past weekend) and girlfriend (18F) have been together for 2.5 years. We have a really understanding relationship in the sense that we have the occasional 3 way (4 in total). We have agreed that it will never involve another guy just girls because im not comfortable having some other guy inside ...
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{ "description": "asking for a refund on a phone that was claimed to be unlocked", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for a refund on a phone that was claimed to be unlocked? (UPDATE)
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/akthfy/aita_for_asking_for_a_refund_on_a_phone_that_was ^Original Post^ So I had told her that I would like a refund, she read my message on Facebook, and didn't answer my message on mercari until this afternoon. this is what she said: " https://imgur.com/gallery/kMgKkG...
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{ "description": "being upset at a vacation my close friend is taking", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset at a vacation my close friend is taking?
Throwaway because my friends use Reddit/will be changing identifying details to be safe Last year I had a chance to study abroad in the country I’ve always wanted to visit, fully funded. The trip was very suddenly cancelled and it quite literally ruined my year—i had already bought travel items and was beyond excited....
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{ "description": "not voting", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not voting?
​ The last time I voted was 2008. The reason I voted was because Obama is black. I’m not trying to be edgy or anything. I literally voted for the president of the United States because I thought it would be cool to be around for the first black president. I didn’t understand his policies, his plan, or anyth...
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{ "description": "deciding to change career paths", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I decided to change career paths?
There will be a TL;DR at the end. The background: I was in the Marines and decided it wasn't for me, about 2 years prior to me getting out my wife and I talked about what career field I should go into. We decided I should try and be a Veterinarian since I love animals and love helping people. Since then I have been wo...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad that my father was in a car accident", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not feeling bad that my father was in a car accident?
So today I received a call from my mom that my father had been in a car accident. My mom and father have been divorced since I was about 6 or 7, currently 26. My mom remarried when I was 8, then we moved to a different state. My father also moved to a different state so I would only see him every other summer, sometime...
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{ "description": "caring too much about a miscalculated split bill", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for caring too much about a miscalculated split bill?
Me, my girlfriend, my friend, and his wife had dinner at a restaurant.The bill came up to 150$ (incl. tip). I had a 200$ bill so my friend said I should pay, take the change and he'll give me his part of the bill. He calculated 60$ and gave me the money, I didn't think much of it until recently, when I thought about ...
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AITA my libido is much higher than my partners
Hers is very low, sex isn’t a massive thing for her at all For me, I am a very very very horny person. Very. I understand that it isn’t going to be the way I want it but it’s getting to the point where I’m starting to question whether it’s me. I’m taking it quite personally now even though I shouldn’t and I try not ...
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{ "description": "grabbing my wife's wrist", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for grabbing my wife's wrist?
This happened in January of last year and has haunted me ever since. ​ I'd never touched my wife aggressively before. We were having a big argument about something that I don't even remember anymore. She had a piece of paper (I think from our son's school), and I asked to see it, but she said that she want...
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WIBTA if my friends and I went through with this highschool prank?
Context: My friends and I (all seniors in highschool) know two other seniors (both guys) that are openly homophobic and racist. Let's call them C and H. Around valentine's day, our school has a charity event where students can buy "Valentine's Grams" to have dedicated singers sing a love song, in class, to whomever ...
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{ "description": "not being in town to celebrate Valentine's day with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being in town to celebrate Valentine's day with my girlfriend?
Sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile. Every year, for the past 6 years my family has gone on a ski trip on family Day weekend in February. Not every year, but often this means I'm away for Valentine's Day. I have never had a girlfriend to worry about leaving, until this year. We have been together for three months and...
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{ "description": "not thinking poop is funny", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not thinking poop is funny
Wall-o-text here. But don't worry, Tl:Dr at bottom. So last night I come in the front door from work and I immediately smell dog poop. My wife is sitting on the floor spraying febreeze on the rug.(she had already cleaned up the poop) I take a couple steps and feel something squish. Apparently she stepped in the poop w...
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{ "description": "ignoring my music director's advice", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my music director’s advice?
My music director plays the trumpet and I play a stringed instrument. He will constantly critique my playing, not because he has valid criticism, but because he thinks he can. For example, if I play a long piece and mess up a note in the middle, when I’m done, the first thing he says is, “You messed up a note in the mi...
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{ "description": "ditching my friend after he called me a homophobic slur", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for ditching my friend after he called me a homophobic slur?
A while back I had this friend who I met about almost 5+ years ago. And eventually I came out to him as bi. He seemed really supportive and nice about it and I thought there was nothing to worry about. I can’t quite remember why but I think the topic of slurs came up and specifically if white people should be able to s...
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{ "description": "not repaying back gifted money when I said once that I would", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not repaying back gifted money when I said once that I would? (long post with TL;DR)
So this a story about my (M25) ex-gf (F22-23). TL;DR at the end Additional context can be found in my post history Long story short, I went out with a local girl from my area for around 5 months, one of which I was away on several conference trips. I'm a busy PhD student in their final year of study (known as the ...
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{ "description": "being indecisive about wanting to see my gf for New Years Eve", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being indecisive about wanting to see my GF for New Years Eve?
Background: I’m (21F) and a college student that’s currently on winter break. I haven’t seen my family since the beginning of last semester which was about a few months ago. My girlfriend (26F) graduated college two semesters ago and is now working. We’ve been together for about 10 months. So my girlfriend doesn’t re...
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{ "description": "feeling relief at my brother's husband's death", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling relief at my brother’s husband’s death
My brother married his husband 5 years ago. Both my brother and his husband were addicts. They fueled each other’s addiction and even they said that neither of them would be able to get better with other around. Brother’s husband also constantly started fights with my family and alienated himself and my brother so th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk on the phone to my fiance", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITAH for not wanting to talk on the phone to my fiance?
I (M 25) don't know how often this kind of thing happens I assume it's probably not that uncommon but my fiance (F 20) calls me almost every time she gets in her car to drive somewhere because she's bored, most of the time she doesn't talk about anything specific and will just sit with me on the phone and doesn't want ...
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{ "description": "cancelling my Uber because he was vaping", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for cancelling my Uber because he was vaping
I'm 15, and I had to order an Uber but my phone wasn't working. My dad ordered the Uber for me. When he got there, I clearly saw that he was vaping a *lot.* It was an actual vape, not a Juul. He had been waiting outside for maybe ten+ minutes. I told him that I was probably the wrong person and went back inside. My dad...
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{ "description": "moving out from my Ex that I'm currently living with", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for moving out from my Ex that I'm currently living with?
Bit of context, my Ex broke up with me 3 months ago due to us being unsatisfied with our lives and unable to achieve the level of happiness we need. I brought up the fact I was unsatisfied with our relationship one evening, which gave my ex the queue to pull the plug on us without giving me a chance to negotiate our ne...
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{ "description": "being vegetarian and not telling people", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being vegetarian and not telling people?
At home I am fully vegetarian and have been for about a year, but when someone else is cooking or I'm at a restaurant with other people I eat meat since I don't want to hassle anyone or make them have to change plans or anything. Also I do like meat so like having it occasionally. I never really talk about it with any...
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{ "description": "inviting my aunts to Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA by inviting my aunts to Thanksgiving
I(38m) managed to upset my mom's sisters and my cousins by inviting them all to thanksgiving at my house. My mom has hosted Thanksgiving dinner for around 30 years with her two sisters and thier families.  Since my wife's family is local as well we always have to coordinate around the holidays. In the past we have do...
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{ "description": "insulting my Cousin", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insulting my Cousin?
Please note I wrote this on a hurry and english is not my mother language, hence the crappy grammar. Well her we go: Lets call her F. She is older than me I think by 6 or 7 years, im 17. So this started because she insulted and physically tried to assault my mother. A couple of years ago my mother's brother, F's f...
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{ "description": "telling my bf to stop bringing up his last minute opinion over our partnered school work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my bf to stop bringing up his last minute opinion over our partnered school work
For context, I get incredibly anxious doing anything presentation related. This isn't a secret. So that puts me, my bf five minutes from doing our presentation. I was super stressed out about it, and my bf knew full well about that. Then he makes a comment about the music I picked didn't really match up well with cert...
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{ "description": "pretty much ruining my sisters dream and accidentally inferring she's ugly because I don't want her to turn down a more viable opportunity", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for pretty much ruining my sisters dream and accidentally inferring she's ugly because I don't want her to turn down a more viable opportunity?
This is a really complicated situation but i'll break it down the best I can ​ So my sister is a high-school senor who has dreams of being a model. My parents have put a lot of time and money into helping her achieve this since she entered into high school. Coached, classes, makeup, etc. Here's the issue t...
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{ "description": "leaving a note on someone's illegally-parked car, apologising for hitting their car - when I hadn't actually hit their car", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for leaving a note on someone's illegally-parked car, apologising for hitting their car - when I hadn't actually hit their car?
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{ "description": "dropping dog shit in front of my neighbours' driveways", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for dropping dog shit in front of my neighbours' driveways?
I live in a quiet, chill neighbourhood. It's a lot of "my grandmother lives 2 houses down and my brother lives 1 block away" etc. Very much a "this is the way things are around here" kind of neighbourhood. Everyone knows everyone else's dog and whatnot. I am one of the only houses on the block that doesn't have a dog...
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{ "description": "not completing my model boataida", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not completing my model boatAIDA
First time posting here. Im not entirely sure if this belongs here. (please tell if it does not). ​ About a year ago i was obsessed with models of planes and boats. I was just a beginner when my birthday arrived. On that birthday i recieved a large model boat to construct. I was ecstatic. I sat down a week...
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AITA-Do I deserve to be paid or am I being entitled?
I posted on here a few weeks ago. I was pet sitting for this family and I fucked up the dates, so instead of sitting from Friday to Wednesday, I was only able to Friday to Tuesday morning. She was understandably upset and I apologized sincerely quite a few times. We agreed upon $75 a day. When she came home though, sh...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to apologize before I speak to her again", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to apologize before I speak to her again?
So basically, my girlfriend, G, and I were making lunch. Her older sister, S, (that my girlfriend doesn’t really get along with) got mad at something G said. The two sisters started having a yelling match until eventually G said “you know what, I’m don’t even want to eat lunch any more” and stormed off. Seeing as I’v...
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{ "description": "looking up my Cherokee ancestor", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for looking up my Cherokee ancestor?
Me, on a forum for researching Cherokee genealogy (summarized), with actual quotes in quotation marks. I provide background on an ancestor with questionable heritage, and link to a series of 8 800-page reports by the Commission of Indian Affairs over 12 years containing entries on their handling of a civil dispute my ...
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{ "description": "looking through my girlfriends phone after she lied to me about talking to her ex all day", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for looking through my girlfriends phone after she lied to me about talking to her ex all day
So basically I stayed the night at my girlfriends house last night, she works early in the morning and her phone was on that do not disturb mode. She asked me to help her fix it and as I was attempting her ex sent her a message on instagram. I guess on christmas he messaged her saying merry christmas or something and s...
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{ "description": "asking my friend if something is wrong", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend if something is wrong?
A week ago, I moved out of the place we both lived in. He helped me move. Everything seemed cool the day of the move, but the couple of weeks leading up to it had felt off between us. The day I was leaving I realized I didn't have anywhere to put my mini fridge until I unpacked some things. He offered to bring it to me...
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{ "description": "asking cab driver to move vehicle a bit forward so I can park, he did not, said I had more than enough space to park. I told him off", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking cab driver to move vehicle a bit forward so I can park, he did not, said I had more than enough space to park. I told him off.
So here's the scenario. There's a couple of spots available next to my workplace where me and my colleagues park. This morning, when I arrived there was a cab parked with the driver inside the vehicle. I don't have a rear camera, so its difficult for me to reverse park, and there was a vehicle behind me. I honked a c...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my girlfriend's policies on \"drinking and driving?\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for disagreeing with my girlfriend's policies on "drinking and driving?"
My girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) have been together for around 5 months now. We go to the same college and live <10 minutes by car from one other, so we have many opportunities to stay at each other's houses and go on dates. My girlfriend has a strict no drinking and driving policy, and I understand where she is com...
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{ "description": "wanting to volunteer at a hockey game rather than be with my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to volunteer at a hockey game rather than be with my mom?
I (M17) am in this thing called the fire explorers, it’s where you basically learn what it’s like to be a firefighter and I absolutely love it. This weekend there is going to be a hockey game, my city’s police station vs the fire station, and one of the firefighters asked if I would be able to help with minor activitie...
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{ "description": "wanting to calm down before hanging out with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to calm down before hanging out with my girlfriend?
I work for a moving company, and it's a lot of physical work with inconsistent hours. When I get home, I like to relax, cause my body hurts a lot. Last night I got home and my girlfriend and I discussed dinner plans, went and got supplies, and had dinner together. I had plans to play a game with my friend at 8. Girlf...
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{ "description": "wiping my hands clean from my mom and sisters", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Wibta if I wiped my hands clean from my mom and sisters?
I know the title may be too harsh for the situation, and I only mean it to some extent. They’re my family and I’ll always love and support them when and if I can. Hear me out though. For the past 4 years my mom has been a single mother. I’ve been helping raise and basically be a second parent to my younger half siste...
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{ "description": "lying/testing someone for a reaction? see post", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying/testing someone for a reaction? See post:
Parents are out of town for four days. Have two friends over one day, two friends on another day. Just kicking it, playing music, video games, etc. Few days later, the same day my parents return. I get a text from my parents telling me to come home right away, given the fact I had just arrived at my destination I was...
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{ "description": "not wanting to buy air freshener for my dorm room", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to buy air freshener for my dorm room?
My college roommate is very particular about almost everything, but I'm pretty easy-going so I usually go along with whatever she wants to do with our room. She has noticed a particular odor in our room that, for whatever reason, I usually can't smell. I believe that she smells something, I just can't. This smell ...
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{ "description": "giving a student a zero for not doing work in class", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for giving a student a zero for not doing work in class?
I'm a high school teacher. The class in question is a college-level course. A few days ago, I gave a brief lecture putting a bow on a topic we'd started the previous class, then assigned a short assignment. My memory gets a little hazy here about what I said, but someone asked when it was due and I said something to...
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{ "description": "being relentless over a design", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being relentless over a design?
My class needed a class tee-shirt design for this year and the chairmans were complaining about only getting 1 design submission so i decided to design 2, one themed space and one themed science. Originally, i only wanted to design the space one because that was the theme for class decorations and i wanted it to match...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex best friend's texts", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
aita for ignoring my ex best friend’s texts
I had a roommate who I got very close to and was best friends with for like 4 months. our friendship ended because of a lot of complicated drama involving her accusing my partner of abusing me, her not paying rent for several months, me moving out because I couldn’t afford to pay my rent and hers too, and me eventually...
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{ "description": "ignoring girlfriend (ex now?) that went on dating app", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ignoring girlfriend (ex now?) that went on dating app
Me (33 Male) has been dating my girlfriend (34 Female) for 8 months. We were going through some tough times and have been seeing a counselor. ​ A week ago after a bit of an argument, she insisted on coming over to get some of her clothes. I was planning to leave to go to the gym, and told her not to come ...
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{ "description": "being frustrated about lunchboxes in work fridge", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being frustrated about lunchboxes in work fridge?
It seems almost everyone at my work will put their entire lunchbox (or bag) into the fridge instead of taking the contents out. I always take out the things that need to be kept cool from my bag and put them in the fridge, or bring an ice pack for my lunch box and keep it at my desk. I always go to grab my lunch and ha...
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{ "description": "cleaning out everything from my roommates' fridge", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I clean out everything from my roommates' fridge?
I live in a house with a dozen roommates. We have three full sized fridges for us to share. Since I have been here (about 6 months), the fridges have been completely dysfunctional. No rules, no set spaces. People just throw what they want in there, wherever there is space. Things are rotting in all three fridges. Half ...
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