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{ "description": "not allowing my bf's younger brother to come hang out out with us for the 3 days he gets to visit me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not allowing my (26f) bf's(24m) younger brother (19m) to come hang out out with us for the 3 days he gets to visit me?
So my bf and I were talking and I randomly mentioned "it would be nice to get to hang out with your brother while you're home". I said that, but knew it wouldn't work because of the distance issue. My boyfriend is coming home to visit for 7 days, most of his time will be visiting his family, but for 3 of those days, he...
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{ "description": "asking for money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking for money?
First off, sorry, no way this is not going to sound at least somewhat braggy (not my intention though). **Tl;dr:** My parents never complained about me spending/asking for money, so I started asking for more. AITA? I (M19) have absolutely no idea how much money my parents have or make, they never told me and they are...
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{ "description": "booking a new room on a group trip", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for booking a new room on a group trip
Hi all! Throw away so that I don’t accidentally dox myself, since this is a bit specific. My group of friends has been taking a ski trip annually for 6 years. Through those years, the group has grown to about 25 people. This year, between 22 and 25 people will be attending. One person in the group (we’ll call him ...
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{ "description": "abandoning my best friend and ex for dating each other", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for abandoning my best friend and ex for dating each other?
Throwaway for personal reasons. My ex just broke up with me. I asked him that if he finds someone else to please not date any of my friends. He does it anyway. Out of anger and jealousy, I've shunned him and my friend and haven't talked to either of them since. Am I right for feeling and acting this way or am I being a...
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{ "description": "expecting fair Quid Pro Quo with my Father", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting fair Quid Pro Quo with my Father?
**Background:** Currently I am a 19 year old living with my father as a full time college student attending a local community college to finish gen eds and a little bit of major classes before transferring off to the big University in the near by city. I have succeeded solely on self-motivation and have done pretty we...
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{ "description": "spereating myself from a friend because of Playstation drama", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spereating myself from a friend because of Playstation drama?
Sorry about formatting, I'm on mobile. I've tried to post this several times, but it's gone through weird To give you an idea of how much this is, my first attempt at writing this was about 7500 words. I'll keep it brief. I got into a fight with this guy on PlayStation. Everyone (in the party) agrees he has an ego pr...
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{ "description": "saying I dont know if we are friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying I dont know if we are friends?
I recently got a job and started to work with people I see everyday and one had asked me if I was their friend. So I told them well I don't know yet as I have not worked with you long enough to know who you are and they took it in the wrong way and got a little upset am I wrong for not telling them that we are friends?...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad to go to El Salvador to visit my 86 year old grandparents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my dad to go to El Salvador to visit my 86 year old grandparents?
So, my dad says he really wants to go to El Salvador soon because he wants to see his parents who because of their age may not have soon. My grandpa is doing fine right now but he has had brain surgery in the past and can't walk like he used to. My grandmother has a pacemaker and although she's still in good shape too ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my stepdad to go to a contract signing", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my stepdad to go to a contract signing?
I got an offer for an internship by a company through my school. They asked me to come down to sign the internship contract. My stepfather asks me to email them and ask for a soft copy of the contract to let him see it. The company declines. He is now beside me, following me to the company HQ. I really REALLY want to...
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{ "description": "hiding my eating disorder", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hiding my eating disorder?
I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. From the ages of 16-18. He knew I had body image issues and an eating disorder when I was a pre-teen, and at one point, my eating disorder came back. Full force. I was not taking care of myself, writing down calories, using a pro-ana website, abusing lax, a lot of stuff t...
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{ "description": "asking my dad to not invite his girlfriend on a trip we've been planning", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my dad to not invite his girlfriend on a trip we've been planning?
My dad's girlfriend is a great person to be around and I like her a lot, but my dad lives in Colorado and I, Iowa, so I don't get to see him often. We are planning a week-long fishing trip in Colorado this summer. Camping, fishing, drinking, what you would expect of a guys weekend. I just worry that my dad will invite ...
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{ "description": "me playing with a friend while waiting for my gf after telling her I'd play with her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for me [18M] playing with a friend while waiting for my gf [19F] after telling her I’d play with her
To start out I wanted to say that this may seem pretty immature, but it’s importsnt to me. My gf and I have been together for almost two years, and I love her dearly. We fight a lot, but usually it’s not a problem—until today. Last night we talked about playing League of Legends tomorrow, as tomorrow is the last day of...
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{ "description": "going to prom alone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for going to prom alone?
This happened a few years ago, but I still feel bad about it, and wonder if I should have acted differently. I was a senior in high school, and prom was coming up. I was an awkward guy, never had a girlfriend, had a hard time talking to people. I had a massive crush on a girl, J. J and I were kinda friendly, she wo...
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{ "description": "giving my sister an empty cup", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my sister an empty cup?
This happened years ago but it haunts me to this day My family is all hanging out together and my older sister asks me to get a cup, I agree I get up grab a cup from the kitchen and i bring it to her When i hand her the empty cup she gives me the meanest stink eye and calls me stupid for not putting water in the cup...
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{ "description": "I asking my gf f if she still talks to a guy she slept with before we started dating", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I m(18) ask my gf f(20) if she still talks to a guy she slept with before we started dating?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 2 months. We met each other on tinder and things have been going pretty well so far. A while ago (maybe the first couple of weeks we started dating) we talked about people we have met on tinder. She didn’t really mention anything specific except for this one guy who sh...
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{ "description": "looking at porn with an ADULT woman just because my girlfriend think she looks \"too young\"", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for looking at porn with an ADULT woman just because my girlfriend think she looks "too young"?
So a couple of months back I discovered this really cute Ukrainian model, she only did like softcore photo shoots and stuff like that but I dont really mind that too much. I found a few galleries of her online and because those get taken down sometimes because of copyright and stuff I saved them on a USB stick. A few...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to multiple holiday celebrations with the same family members", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to multiple holiday celebrations with the same family members?
My immediate family, who all things considered are quite lovely, live 2 hours away and have coordinated a day (not Christmas) for folks to get together and celebrate when everyone is free. I was excited because this basically freed up my holiday week to have a sort of mini vacation without any schedule obligations. No...
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AITA Fooled around with a cocky alpha male without telling him I’m a crossdresser
I am pretty open about who I am. I don’t try to misrepresent myself. Outside of work and the gym I live me life en femme and have for six years (I am currently 28). I am 100% passable. Never get a funny look or a question. Men flirt with me daily everywhere I go. I'm petite and Asian and naturally feminine. I live i...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my gf even though her grandpa has cancer and I am her only support right now", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my GF even though her grandpa has cancer and i am her only support right now?
I have had these feelings for a while now that I don't feel happy anymore and I need some time to find myself before settling down for real. I love her but o honestly think we are better off as friends as most the time I feel annoyed or irritated when she pushes me to be more affectionate. She is very clingy which driv...
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{ "description": "telling my boss while he's on a work trip that I do not want to train his new employee", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I tell my boss while he's on a work trip that I do not want to train his new employee
When I started my job, I honestly loved it. Since then, my manager's boss got fired which caused a chain of events and led to a major management change. My manager no longer had any under him and our small team of 4 in a large company got broken into two smaller teams of 2 under different managers. My close co-worker a...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at the fact the my dad doesn't seem to appreciate all I do around the house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being annoyed at the fact the my dad doesn't seem to appreciate all I do around the house.
Now I know this is probably just going to sound like a teenager rambling about doing chores. While that is a part of it, that's not what annoys me. I (17M) have multiple chores around the house that my dad (46)", dad's GF, 3 dogs, and I live in. Those chores include taking care of dogs (feed, water, let out, etc.) ga...
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AITA - stay at home parent question.
So, for context. I have a 14 month old son. He just started walking, so he is getting into everything. Since november, i have been the stay at home parent whilst my wife has gone to school to be a nurse. So, this happened this morning, but its pretty much every day. I was sick yesterday and i ended up sleeping from 4p...
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AITA Mcdonalds crew member
So I come in two and a half hours early one of the openers didn't show up and all of the machines have something wrong with them. I'm yelling and cussing and generally complaining about it seeming like I care more than the owner. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "supporting lying to a suicidal person", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for supporting lying to a suicidal person?
Sort of a throwaway account that I mostly use to lurk. Oh boy. Where do I start? I met my (online) friend group 3 years ago. It was essentially a support system for us, since we all had some shit going on. At the time (and presumably to this day), the one with the most fucked up daily life was this (now ex friend) fri...
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{ "description": "trying to make my friend take my old gaming computer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to make my friend take my old gaming computer?
I've been feeling a little bad about it but I just wanted to know your guys' thoughts. I'm soon to be building a new gaming computer and I wanted to give my current one to my friend. It's a middle of the pack computer(it's not bad is what I'm trying to say, would cost maybe $700 to build nowadays) and I don't really ...
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{ "description": "signing up for Tinder recently after a break up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA- signing up for Tinder recently after a break up.
Hey guys, broke up with my ex (mutually) about 3 weeks ago. Honestly in the month of October o personally felt I was done with it due to all the term oil. In November I was going through mental burnout and physical burnout and it caused some really shitty days. I am on the road to recovery now. Anywho! I signed up ...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to help pay for my car", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I asked my friend to help pay for my car
So what happened was me and my friend got out of class and I had another class on the other side of campus. I decided to drive over there and my friend was asking for a ride and after I said no he opened the door anyways and got in. I drove him to his car, it wasn't that out of the way. I was waiting for him to get off...
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{ "description": "not getting a hint", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting a hint?
About a couple of years, I started hanging out with a friend that I recently met. I had just started college in a different region of the country where people spoke a different language altogether, so it was slightly hard to adjust. Amidst all the chaos of semesters papers and other activities, we became good friends a...
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{ "description": "calling out a post on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If I called out a post on Facebook?
Yesterday, a former coworker I have added on Facebook, and who I am not particularly close with, made a post on Facebook. She and her husband had been staying in a hotel, and a man had collapsed and was laying unconscious in the parking lot. Her husband saw the man from their 4th floor window, and went down and checked...
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{ "description": "making my mom upset", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my mom upset?
My mother has been going through a lot lately. She lives with constant pain and she takes care of my grandmother with Alzheimers. She is also very depressed and has told me she wants to kill herself. Now I always worry about her and have tried to help her out with daily things more. Anyway...I had class today then I ...
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{ "description": "keeping a story fron my past a secret to my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For keeping a story fron my past a secret to my friends?
Alright, so we're group of 6 15 year olds (including me), basically your typical group of teenagers. Think of a less exaggerated, "relationship-less" version of the kids from That 70s Show. Three of these people I've known since the 7th grade (my school is both a middle school and a high school, that's why we're still ...
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{ "description": "not splitting gas/activites", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not splitting gas/activites?
Hi! So a long distance friend is in town, he's only ever usually around 1-2x a year. We typically try to meet up at least once and hang out. The past two times he's paid for whatever activity it is(I pay my own entry fee if applicable, and my own bill if it's food), and I haven't been helping to pay gas when we're out...
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{ "description": "talking to my ex-boyfriend against his mom's wishes", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for talking to my ex-boyfriend against his mom’s wishes?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. I am fourteen and in eighth grade and I had to break up with my boyfriend, let’s call him John, because his mom didn’t approve. She thought I was affecting his grades and somehow influencing his mental health. For context, I have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and I used t...
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{ "description": "dropping my choir's tour", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dropping my choir's tour?
This year, I joined the school choir. Our school has an annual tour for the choir where they usually visit places such as Europe, Spain, Latin America, etc. This has been a tradition for everyone the past 50ish years. However, due to complications, the usual director is gone this year and there have been 2 replacement ...
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{ "description": "not saying happy new year back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying happy new year back?
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{ "description": "telling my friends on again off again that she shouldn't get back together with him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friends on again off again that she shouldn’t get back together with him?
My friend (“Randy”)(18m) has been in an on again off again relationship with a girl (girl 1) (17f) and as my friend and I talk and hang out a lot and through other mutual friends I began to see his on again off again as a friend. After he broke up with her for the umpteenth time he came to me and disclosed that he was ...
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{ "description": "not making dinner", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making dinner??
Mom says there is chicken in the fridge- COOL, okay. I ask her, "Is there anything you want me to do with it?" She says, "No."- O K I E D O K I E P O K I E She goes out, comes back letting into me for not making anything- She says she's hungry and I'm not doing my job and I'm not prepared for the -realworld-, I'm inco...
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{ "description": "using the word \"lame\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using the word "lame"
Hey all. Recently one of my friends took exception to my use of the word "lame," citing its ableist origins. Honestly until she said that, I never made a mental connection between "lame" as a descriptor for something uncool and the word as a slur against a disabled person—I have never in my life heard someone use "lame...
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{ "description": "insisting that she get rid of a kitten she's already fell in love with", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for insisting that she get rid of a kitten she’s already fell in love with?
Gf and I live together in an apartment that on the lease explicitly states no pets. She knows this. Last week she brought home a kitten that someone was giving away without discussing it with me. There are people in our complex that have pets. We’ve seen a dog and few different cats in people’s windows. She’s alr...
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{ "description": "camping alone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA camping alone
Backstory: I have always loved camping and anything to do with the woods since I was small. I have never shown that I would be unable to handle myself should the situation arise. I live in Colorado and frequent many parks hardest rated trails. I am now 16 and decided to ask my parents (divorced) to go camping alone fo...
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{ "description": "letting the dog sleep inside when I was told not to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting the dog sleep inside when I was told not to?
Apologies on mobile Backstory I am 24 and live in a flat about 25km away from my parents place. My parents and sister went on a 10 day holiday overseas and asked me to house sit and look after the family dog, a husky. My Mum doesn't work and my Dad, a tradie only works when he wants to. They are home most of the day...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my dad", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for not wanting to talk to my dad?
So my dad is a very difficult person to talk to, if you disagree then he will talk around in circles till you give up, then act like your stupid, he always need an answer (his answer) to his question e.g. "So you have been very lazy recently, right OP, you have been getting out of bed late, and you haven't been taki...
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{ "description": "not helping my aunt", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my aunt?
Bla bla warning about being on mobile and this being the first post. For context, I am on the autism spectrum and I don’t really have the best grasp on social situations and when people are being serious or not. My aunt works at a hotel chain as the manager. She has some very disrespectful employees and I know that, ...
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{ "description": "saying that if I wouldn't want to deal with homeless people if I was a librarian", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying that if I wouldn’t want to deal with homeless people if I was a librarian?
I was talking with some people on Discord and they immediately flipped out (most of them had been homeless themselves). I said that I was talking about the creepy ones who linger and go out of their way to harass others and part of my reservation was coming from someone who had been assaulted by a homeless person. I a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be around my Dad's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA- For not wanting to be around my Dad’s girlfriend
So this could be an obvious answer, since a majority of the involved party are in agreement, but since I’m the most empathetic in the family, to their annoyance, I might as well ask for a second opinion. And there is a bit of backstory, so I may accidentally miss some things, ask away if there is some discrepancies tha...
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{ "description": "wanting to change my redeye flight", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to change my redeye flight
My husband and I have been planning to vacation to Hawaii this June and today he comes home from work and say he purchased the tickets. Its a red-eye and we are traveling with our soon to be 3 year old. Its 9 hours of travel time with a 3-hour layover ( at 4am) I sat down and started looking for other flights and he g...
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{ "description": "being included in an insensitive joke", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for being included in an insensitive joke?
So, I’ll try to make this as unbiased as I can. It all started at a debate competition my friend and I were at. It was a usual debate competition, where there were 5 rounds, and between each round there was about an hour long break. Anyway, our second round was about to begin, so my friend and I head up to the classro...
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{ "description": "making fun of my uncle that got cheated and forgive his wife", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making fun of my uncle that got cheated and forgive his wife?
So i got a uncle that made fun of me since i was a kid, he was always trying to prove that his kids was better than me, he always was calling me a fat kid and making fun of my way to do things. So i grew up, lost weight and got myself my first gf( i was a 15 yo), and it was really cool for 3 years, but then she chan...
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{ "description": "leaving early", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for leaving early?
I work in an office and literally have nothing to do right now. My direct boss isn't even here and I don't have much freedom to do anything she doesn't dump in my lap. Would it be shitty to go home now even though it's barely 2pm? There could possibly be someone who needs something from me in the next three hours but t...
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{ "description": "accidently \"bullying\" someone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accidently "bullying" someone?
So I just want to clarify from my perspective I can see why someone would class it as bullying but I don't personally see it as that ​ So i have a couple friends (I'll give them fake names) so the person getting "bullied" is PB friend 1 is F1 friend 2 is F2 so on so forth ​ So me and PB have b...
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{ "description": "making racist jokes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making racist jokes?
Disclaimer: I do not support any discrimination between races or support racist organizations, please don’t take it that way. So me and my table group were chatting. We have this Asian kid who’s racist, like really racist. He says the n-word with a hard r at least 50 times a day at my school. The Asian kid started mak...
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{ "description": "disliking my boyfriend's best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for disliking my boyfriend’s best friend?
Sorry for formatting im on mobile. My boyfriend (ill call him C) and I have known eachother for a few years and started dating a few months ago. When we first met, I wasn’t sure if I liked his best friend (ill call him B). He was kind of loud, obnoxious, and immature for his age and in comparison to my now boyfriend....
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{ "description": "wanting telling my coworker to show me some respect at work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting telling my coworker to show me some respect at work?
I work as a nurse in the UK and currently work in a team providing care for patients at home. I joined the team in February and mostly everyone was really nice and welcoming however for one woman my mere presence seems to fuck her off. I honestly can not recall what I ever did or said to cause such a reaction but it ma...
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{ "description": "wanting to know a rough time when my boyfriend will be home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to know a rough time when my boyfriend will be home?
My partner visited his parents on Sunday. He wanted to watch formula 1, and we don’t have sky channels, so he got over there very early to catch it, around 4.30am. He was going to do a few things, watch the race, service the car and go out for breakfast. I woke up at our house (we rent) at 9, and didn’t hear from him ...
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{ "description": "making a joke that sent a teen girl crying", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making a joke that sent a teen girl crying?
Saturday theatre practice for my high school. After practice was over, I was hanging out with some upperclassmen (all of whom I admire and want to become closer with). To preface, my school is very friendly and all grade levels roll with each other like there isn’t a difference. Anyway, I was talking to a group of...
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{ "description": "potentially breaking my two friends up because I don't think she deserves him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if i potentially break my two friends up because i don’t think she deserves him
We’re all seniors in high school. i have these two friends who i love with literally all my heart. i’ve known the girl since elementary and the guy since my sophomore year of high school. they both were there for me during some really traumatic stuff in my family. when i introduced them to each other, i always saw them...
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AITA Girls try to "expose" me for trying to say they were wrong on a project.
I have civics class with a group of girls I used to be friends with. Long story short on that I got booted for standing up for myself when I felt wronged and trying to help them better themselves. On to the story, we had an opinion poll project due and they did theirs on the USA PATRIOT Act I happened to to take one of...
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{ "description": "not caring about representation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not caring about representation?
first time post on mobile, bear with me here. so, i had gotten in an online group of d&d newbs, and we played a couple sessions over discord. all *seemed* well, but apparently one of the group members had a bone to pick. the group member (lets call em Jane) didnt actually participate in the games, and as such i d...
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{ "description": "thinking this lady is TA for making a guy put his sandwich away a on a flight", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for thinking this lady is TA for making a guy put his sandwich away a on a flight?
I was just an observer but I definitely thought this lady was TA. On a 2.5 hour flight, I’m two rows obliquely behind the action. This British guy sits in an aisle seat next to an American lady. Flight kicks off and he pulls out a smoked salmon baguette. Lady then turns to him and says ‘is that smoked salmon? Could...
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{ "description": "not caring about a cat dying", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not caring about a cat dying?
Some context here; my younger sister (21) recently came home from a 6 month work placement abroad. She has a lot of stories about her time there (understandable) but really talks about nothing else but that, at any given opportunity A few weeks ago we decided to watch a film altogether as a family. It was quite an em...
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{ "description": "admitting I find my partner's long moans about his work day dull", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for admitting I (24F) find my partner's (28M) long moans about his work day dull?
Long-ish!!! Apologies & huge thanks in advance for anyone who makes it through!! We've been together for \~3 years, live together, & are deeply in love, but this is an argument I am very conflicted about & I'd really appreciate an independent opinion. For context, he works Mon-Thu 9-5 at a stressful office...
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AITA. School bus seat.
The story goes, the school football team was in the final and some years were allowed to go for support. They won by the way. On the way home I had been sitting on the schoolbus with a vacant seat beside me. We stop at a petrol station where we could use the toilet and by some sweets to celebrate. When I got back onto...
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{ "description": "wanting to vape", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to vape?
I'm 33 and my 35 year old wife is adamant about me not vaping or just vaping with zero nicotine e-juice. ​ I've struggled with drugs the last 3 years and have been in and out of rehab 3 times during that time. I've been depressed and on anti-depressants before the drug use and my doctor has classified my d...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go out because I'm broke", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go out because I'm broke?
I quit my job and getting a new one has taken longer than i expected. Basically long story short I only have enough money to pay rent next month and a couple hundred after that to get by until i find a job. My girlfriend doesnt quite know how little I have right now and is constantly suggesting we go out to eat or to ...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend about another person's problems", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my best friend about another person's problems?
I am considered the psychiatrist of my group of friends. Most of them will come to me with what it troubling them and I do my best to give them honest and helpful advice. However, there's one friend in my group, lets call her Claire, with way more baggage than I can handle. Claire has a problem where she keeps getting ...
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate to be kinder", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my roommate to be kinder?
Sup guys. Obligatory first post here, on mobile. So I've been living with my roommate (call her Jackie) for almost two years now. We work together, and she's probably the person I'm closest to in this city. However, most of the time she makes me feel like she doesn't really care about my feelings or the impact her w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get a \"real\" part-time job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to get a “real” part-time job?
Sorry in advance for the essay, but here goes. So for some context, I am a second-year university student in what most would call an intensive and exclusive major program (3% of applicants get in). I live at home - because dorming is an expense neither me nor my mother want to take on, and my mom works in administ...
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{ "description": "(reluctantly) asking to take my brother to formal", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for (reluctantly) asking to take my brother to formal?
Hi! Using a throwaway. So, I'm a teenager, living at home. My brother(in middle school) has a formal later today, and my mom called me and asked me to take him(by getting in an Uber with him.) I ask, why can't she do it(she told my brother she would)?, and she just keeps saying "Because I said so". I keep asking h...
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{ "description": "beginning to remove myself from my uncle's funeral after his kids have taken reign of the situation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for beginning to remove myself from my uncle’s funeral after his kids have taken reign of the situation?
My uncle was in a car accident last week. I was the first on the scene, spoke to police and paramedics. I was first to the hospital and dealed with speaking to doctors and nurses, and relaying that information to his family. Once immediate family arrived, I left and let them take of the situation. He passed away at 3...
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{ "description": "not sympathising with my ex-girlfriend when she broke up with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not sympathising with my ex-girlfriend when she broke up with me?
so, this girl and i were on and off for around five years. we tried dating in the middle of it, which resulted in a difficult break up, but tried again around six months ago. as you can tell from the title of this post, that did not go well. i now know the reason why you don't go back to exes. that bit of backstory as...
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{ "description": "going for a late night walk", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for going for a late night walk
Last night I just couldn't sleep, so I got up and decided I'd leave the appartment without waking up my gf. I didn't even go very far, I left around 11:30pm and went a little ways down the street to a late night diner place that's open as late as the city allows. I got back around 3am and my gf was freaking out about...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom for not letting me spend the weekend with my gf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my mom for not letting me spend the weekend with my GF
My gf and I are both heading to colleges that are in different parts of the states in fall and we wanted to take a short vacation to our favorite spot up north for the weekend. We are both 18 (me being almost 19), but yet my mom says I’m not allowed to go and will not let me. Now her parents are completely fine with i...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a roommate's ex after my own breakup", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with a roommate's ex after my own breakup?
The players: -Me: me, 27M -Jon: Old roommate, 20M -Kel: Roommate's ex, 21F I lived in an apartment with Jon for a few years, but never knew him before. For most of that time I was dating someone, and eventually Jon started dating Kel. They quickly moved in together, and just as quickly began having problems. Kel and I...
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{ "description": "making an honest mistake", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making an honest mistake?
This post is mainly because I want to vent, and I have a lot of frustrations right now. My friends and I planned to have a get together and drink some beers at \*Jack's house. One of my friends, I'll call him \*Rico, asks if I can take him to the Jack's house when I decide to go. I agreed to it. Rico calls me around no...
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{ "description": "almost killing my friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for almost killing my friends
That's dramatic. It needs a little back story or you guys won't understand. Basically, I have a shit ton of issues. When I take too many of my anxiety pills/antidepressants, I start having horrible symptoms like hallucinations, disphoria, dizziness, and a lot more (It's only a specific one, not all of them). I don't ...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stop talking to someone
Ok so this is posted on a throwaway since the person in particular knows about my main account. Anyways so I met this person in a sub and they asked for someone to talk to so I decided to message them in the comments to which they messaged me in private,so we start talking and I’m guessing they liked what I talked abo...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom for not being able to buy a microphone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting mad at my mom for not being able to buy a microphone?
Before we get started, let me just say sorry for grammatical errors and bad formatting, i’m on mobile. So Im 15 and I’ve been wanting to buy this 50 dollar microphone (blue yeti snowball) and my birthday is coming up. I decided i didn’t want my parents buying it for me, so i felt like paying for it. i have 100 doll...
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{ "description": "hanging out with other girls", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for hanging out with other girls?
Hi All. ​ First real post here on Reddit, so please bear with me :) ​ Okay. So I (21M) have been dating my girlfriend (let's call her Sarah) for about four months now. We get along really well and are pretty similar with just enough differences for it to be interesting. We were both also chea...
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{ "description": "making noise in my room late at night", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA: Making noise in my room late at night.
I am in my first year of university and am living in ‘halls’, the way the housing is set out is a house of twelve people over three floors with four people on each floor. I live on the top floor, generally quite quiet, about three times a week there will be noise from people when it’s a night where people go out. My ro...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad & brother to pay for part of my cousins trip to Europe", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my dad & brother to pay for part of my cousins trip to Europe?
So I (20 F) have been wanting to travel all over Europe as long as I can remember but never really had the means to do so & plus always had work & school. My parents are supportive but always talked me out of it because of money issues. I‘m finally able to go for about a month & a half & asked a few of...
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{ "description": "trying to defend my friend to my girlfriend and defend him to his", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For trying to defend my friend to my girlfriend and defend him to his?
A couple weeks ago, my friend invited me, my girlfriend and his girlfriend to a bar with some of his co- workers. Once my girlfriend and his got there (they're cousins and got a lift together) his co- workers decided to go to a different place, a club and it was decided we go to the other place. The other place was an ...
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{ "description": "being in a serious relationship but getting turned on when my friend sends me pictures of her feet because I have a foot fetish", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being in a serious relationship but getting turned on when my friend sends me pictures of her feet because I have a foot fetish?
I've always had a foot fetish and I think girls' feet are so cute. My girlfriend knows about it but isn't really into it and she said she doesn't mind if I indulge in it. So there's a girl I've been good friends with for years and she has really cute feet, she knows I like them so she sends me pics and videos of her fe...
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{ "description": "wanting to have sex with my boyfriend on my period even though he doesn't", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to have sex with my boyfriend on my period even though he doesn't?
AITA for wanting to have sex with my boyfriend on my period even though he doesn't enjoy the idea of it at all? New to this sub. Been thinking about this for a long time. I apologize in advance for my English, I'm not a native speaker. Just a little background info: 95% of the time I am on my period, it has been like...
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{ "description": "betting on Fifa games with my roommate when he is not as good as me and winning a lot of his money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for betting on Fifa games with my roommate when he is not as good as me and winning a lot of his money.
I am a senior in College now living with a few roommates. One of the roommates and I hang out a decent amount and I know he likes to gamble, and is possibly addicted. Yesterday, he came into my room and asked If i wanted to play Fifa and bet on it with him; I agreed. Ive played him before and I know i am a lot better t...
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{ "description": "reporting my boss", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for reporting my boss.
last year I took up a new job at a restaurant working in the eveningsTo give you an idea of the place, it was a small restaurant of about 12 tables plus we take phone orders, online orders and do delivery. The front of house is expected to open the shop, tske bookings, seat tables, put through the online orders, answe...
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UPDATE - AITA for demanding that my mom delete a post?
Original post : https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/akfbxj/aita_for_demanding_that_my_mom_delete_a_post/?utm_source=reddit-android The post has currently not been deleted, in contrast to what i had said before in my original post. I had genuinely thought that mother would respect my wishes to not post, but...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do my own taxes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to do my own taxes?
Context: I’ve lived with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. He’s wonderful and so far living together has been some of the best times of my life. He’s 27 and I’m 25. We don’t really have arguments but one of the only things that seems to really bother him in our relationship is the fact that I don’t do my own ta...
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{ "description": "getting mad at boyfriend for not cooking me breakfaat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for getting mad at boyfriend for not cooking me breakfaat?
So basically I asked my boyfriend to cook me breakfast just because I was hungover and he puts the eggs and bacon in the pan and tells me I can finish it because "I did 80% of the work" We start arguing, I'm not pissed that I didn't get what I want I'm pissed because what he said is so idiotic and idk how it makes...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend should have checked in on me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Thinking My Friend Should Have Checked in on Me?
Background; my friend, one other person, and I are in a group chat where we talk rather consistently every day. The friend in question and I have been friends for around three years, and have talked pretty much every day for around two. She is, however, recently went totally silent in the chat for around a week and a h...
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{ "description": "cockblocking a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cockblocking a friend
Okay so.... First off, this is an adult account... I dunno if he uses reddit... So one of my friends was going to meet a random person to have sex for the first time... And... I just got some really bad vibes from the situation... I mean he doesn't know anything about the person he was going to meet.... Not even a pic...
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{ "description": "telling my gf not to like guys photos", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my gf not to like guys photos
As the title says... In the past I have liked girls photos on Instagram - friends and some celebrities, admittedly I had an ex on there too and may have been with a few of the friends many many years ago. My girlfriend ALWAYS had a huge argument with me about it and I told her I would stop if it hurt her that much (I ...
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AITA For don't make her my GF when i could.
I meet this girl in High School when i was 16 and she was the girl i ever wanted to know,beautiful face,beautiful body and beautiful feelings for me but i was the typical fuckboy and hurt her so bad,after a couple years she get tired of me and get a bf,it was until that point that i realize that she was everythig i alw...
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{ "description": "meeting up with someone who might be into me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I meet up with someone who might be into me?
Everyone in this story is late teens/early 20s. So I've recently been going out with a guy and things are going really well. It's our first real relationship for either of us so I'm a bit apprehensive of doing something to mess it up. We're not exactly GF/BF as of yet but it's heading that way, so semi serious I guess?...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend at a Party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for Leaving my Girlfriend at a Party?
Throwaway account, of course. This happened on new years of last year, so January 1st 2018, and ever since I've gotten mixed opinions from others on whether or not ITA. Me and my girlfriend had been on and off for a couple weeks, and planned to go to a New Years Eve Party. I hate parties, I'm super introverted and ge...
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{ "description": "asking mu boyfriend about Valentine's gifts/ plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking mu boyfriend about Valentine's gifts/ plans?
My boyfriend isn't so great at gift giving. I try really hard not to care, he's incredibly caring and wonderful in every other way, but he just does not give gifts well. He will either spend months handmaking something beautiful for me, which is amazing and I love every thing he makes, or he wont have time and just get...
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{ "description": "sending a text to BF's mom asking for her to not make jabs at our diets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sending a text to BF's Mom asking for her to not make jabs at our diets?
My boyfriend’s (let's call him C) Mom and I recently had a little fight. We have differing views on health and nutrition and since my doctor told me to go on a special diet, my boyfriend and I dropped sugar and started working out. For reference, we both look and feel great now. His Mom is an avid gym-goer and takes...
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{ "description": "not contacting someone who explicitly said I don't need to keep in touch", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not contacting someone who explicitly said I don't need to keep in touch?
The dude said he'll be fine by himself (in the isolative sense) but just a few days after this exchange I got several calls past midnight from him and now I'm not sure how I'm supposed to react. He always claims that I shouldn't bother being his friend, and I understand his self doubt when it comes to feeling worth one...
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{ "description": "making my partner return his new computer", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making my partner return his new computer?
TLDR: My (30F) live-in partner (40M) of 6 years told me he was dreaming about a brand-new high-end gaming computer. He has no savings, and he already has plenty of entertainment options, so I wanted him to wait. But I also said I couldn't dictate what he should spend his money on - especially since I've been relying on...
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{ "description": "not hating my family for being involved in organized crime", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For not hating my family for being involved in organized crime.
Throwaway because i dont want hate. Recently on this sub there was a post that is now locked about a poster who had a father in the mob who killed people. Like 99% of the comments buried the op and said that the dad was a pos who deserved to burn in hell. I couldnt comment because the thread was locked. So my father ...
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{ "description": "cursing in front of my father when he asked me not to", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for cursing in front of my father when he asked me not to?
A little context: My dad and I have been on some very thin ice for the last few years because of emotional abuse, gaslighting, lying, and substance abuse. This past year I did not speak to him for six months (we live across the country so this is easier to achieve) because I finally could not handle it anymore after I ...
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