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AITA my mom is constantly passive aggressively bashing my aunt
I work a high stress 50-60 hr per week job and am required to travel. I have too sweet children that I love more than anything. They are 4 soon to be 5 and 6. My amdear sweet aunt who could never have children who helped raise me babysit my kids until I am home from work and has always been a tremendous help in my life...
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{ "description": "ordering stuff online", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ordering stuff online?
So recently I've received some student loans and have been using this money to buys stuff online, books usually. It's interest free and I don't need to pay it back until I earn a certain amount so what I buy really doesn't matter. I go through books really quickly and order new ones every couple days. My older brother ...
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{ "description": "thinking there would be communication between managers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking there would be communication between managers?
AITA, or more accurately is my friend the asshole, she needs to know if she’s the asshole for thinking there would be communication between managers? She’s currently working in a quick-service restaurant and recently she’s been dealing with some mental health issues. She had made her managers aware of the situat...
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{ "description": "suggesting my husband sleep on the couch if he's going to fart all night", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for suggesting my husband sleep on the couch if he's going to fart all night?
Just by the title alone I can imagine most people would say that I'm the asshole, but you have not smelled his farts. They are Chernobyl-levels of toxic clouds that no one should have to simmer in. So last night it was one fart after another and I was trying to sleep. Just when I felt myself drifting off, another wav...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my man because of his housemates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my man because of his housemates?
AITA for not wanting to visit my man because of his housemates? The guy I’ve been seeing for about a year and a half invited my roommate and I over to his house for game night with his roommates. He’s known these people for about 6 months and there are a total of 3 guys (including him) and 1 girl. They had never met m...
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{ "description": "kissing the friend of a girl who I had been talking to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kissing the friend of a girl who I had been talking to?
Some context- I'm a college student at a college where hookup culture is very prevalent. ​ I met two girls at a football game a couple weeks ago. I got one of their numbers - call her "A" - and we've been texting back and forth. However, we haven't hung out again. ​ A few days ago, I saw the o...
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{ "description": "squealing on my friend to his Parole Officer", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: Squealing on my Friend to his Parole Officer
TLDR: friend of mine and I got arrested because he had drugs, I'm getting punished, he is ignoring it and I have every intention of squealing on him. \----- ​ ​ I was driving his car across country, pulled over for speeding, he had drugs, but since I was driving, I got hit with felony possessi...
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{ "description": "making a joke about a place with a lot of crime", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a joke about a place with a lot of crime?
In class, we were discussing life expectancy. There is a place in South Africa (where I live) called Mbekweni. There's a lot of crime there. So I made a joke saying that tge life expectancy there is very low. I feel really bad after making that joke because someone in my class lives there. She doesn't seem to be offend...
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{ "description": "not being willing to change in my RP group", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being willing to change in my RP group?
(This will most likely be different than what you usually see but please bear with me) ​ So for some background, I've been roleplaying with this group (of eight) for about 3ish years now and the problem was indeed something that was going on for a while, but only with these past months have things gotten w...
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{ "description": "getting mad because no one ever seems to remember what I like and don't like", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for getting mad because no one ever seems to remember what I like and don't like?
This isn't anything new. I'm used to people never remembering what I like or don't like because it's been like that my whole life. I don't know why this is what made me react, but my sister ordered subway sandwiches for me, my brother, and my mom but she put things my brother likes on mine, even though I always tell t...
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{ "description": "not letting someone use my locker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting someone use my locker?
Sorry for the odd writing style, I just write better when I format it like a book. So I play soccer. We had a game one day, and Junior Varsity and Varsity use the same locker room. I’m on JV. I like to get there a little early so I have more time to warm up. I set my things in my usual locker, one that I use for pra...
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{ "description": "helping my brother financially, and not expect to get the money back", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for helping my brother financially, and not expect to get the money back?
Ok. So the title says it all but heres a little backstory, so bear with me. My brother is 6 years older than me (27M). I am currently working abroad and supporting my mother and little brother with what I am capable of. My brother has had it rough for a long time now, he got a divorce last year, and is barely making...
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{ "description": "telling a girl I won't date her because of her height", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a girl I won't date her because of her height
Bear with me please I am on mobile So I recently made a friend in university and she's really fun, but we are just that friends.. or so I thought. Lately she has been very flirty and very clingy (although I hate using this word), I never flirted back and generally replied late because I don't use my phone much...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend of two weeks", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend of two weeks.
Me (24m) moved out of my mothers home and into my girlfriends (22)f)moms/grandmothers home after we've been talking for almost a year. Neither of us work and well we've mostly kept to her room. Now this is what's been going on I guess you could say im sheltered and most common sense things go over my head and she's cle...
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{ "description": "expecting a graduation gift", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for expecting a graduation gift?
This May, I became a Doctor of Veterinary Medicine. For those of you who don’t know, that degree can cost up to 300K. I’m pretty much drowning in student loan debt, but it’s all mine, my parents did not help whatsoever. I became pregnant last year and took some time off to have my daughter. She’s the light of my life a...
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{ "description": "just breaking up with my long time gf and rebounding with a pycho chick on accident now she's claiming she's pregnant", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA I just broke up with my Long time gf and rebounded with a pycho chick on accident now She’s claiming she’s pregnant.
AITA? Welp I know one thing I fucked up big time. I hooked up with an old high-school friend a month after my break up. She became attached almost immediately which I had not planned on. Any way we had unprotected sex but I trusted her to take care of it which didn’t work out. I never came in her but pre-cum is a bitch...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work for the same company as my partner", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to work for the same company as my partner?
My SO is currently going through a disciplinary process at her current job for misuse of company property (using a company messenger platform to moan about other team members). She’s accepted her fate there may be dismissal and has started looking for other jobs. I’m currently a student at university I’m the presiden...
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{ "description": "publically calling out my ex-partner's abusive boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for publically calling out my ex-partner's abusive boyfriend?
I'm in my final year of high school, about three months away from graduation. In September I met a student now attending my school. We had a really, truly lovely relationship for a good long time. Unfortunately, I was manipulated into not being faithful with my partner and we eventually split. However, we remained ...
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{ "description": "not going to my grandparents remembrance mass/church remembrance", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA: For not going to my grandparents remembrance mass/church remembrance
Mass is what we call going to church here.. I just didn't really know how to word it. ​ Okay, so I'm 21, I'm not religious, I'm between agnostic and atheist.. in one way I just don't know and in another I don't think I would want to get into heaven on gods terms.. (supposing there was a heaven and a hell) ...
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{ "description": "continuing to be upset", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For continuing to be upset
Hey guys, first time OP here. So my SO (25f) had her Christmas party this past weekend. When she found out about it, she was excited and wanted me to go. I too was excited because I finally get to meet all the people shes always talking about and it's nice to get out and be social. Leading up to the Xmas party, her...
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{ "description": "criticizing my friends art", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I criticize my friends art?
Here’s some backstory on this: I(ME) and my close friend(CF) were friends with this girl(G). This happened last year. All of us like to draw, and not to brag but I thought I was the best of the class. CF was just a rookie and G was straight up copying from mangas. I’m also a people pleaser and I’m kinda sensitive. G al...
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{ "description": "telling my \"friend\" to stfu and stop sucking his own dick when playing a game", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my "friend" to stfu and stop sucking his own dick when playing a game
He is a mutual friend but always been a dick. We used to play League together back during Team Speak used to be the main form of communication and hell was he mean. Say anything or have a differing opinion of him, he'll ban or time you out from speaking. The moment Discord was gaining traction I quickly made a server...
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{ "description": "\"ruining\" a board game for my friend's family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for “ruining” a board game for my friend’s family?
So I have a friend who I go way back with. I’m at his house almost every week. Last time I was there, his mom mentioned that they got a new board game. Having played the game, I told them I’d love to play it with them, however I also mentioned that there was one flaw in the game that was overpowered for anyone who knew...
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AITA: Intrusive Family Friend Edition
Hey all. First timer here; was enjoying the posts and figured I’d throw my own. I’m an adult woman living at home w/ family because of the mutual benefits (I help with bills and have a nicer standard of living for what I pay than if I lived alone). My fam is pretty close and we all work FT + I’m in school so all thre...
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AITA?for not eating?
So I’ve been I was sick last Friday and I don’t wen to school and my dad decided to take my PS4 away,(more on this later) So it’s been a few day since my dad took my PS4 so I decided to ask my dad to give it back to me and he said not because apparently “you play too much video games you’re going to be sterilized for ...
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{ "description": "fighting my family reconciling with my relatives", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for fighting my family reconciling with my relatives
My family is having lunch with my aunt and uncle who have been estranged from us for two years now because the last time we saw them they called myself and my sister mentally disabled (in less kind words) and blamed my mother for us turning out that way needless to say i kicked them to the curb and haven't seen them si...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend and flipping her off", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ignoring my friend[13f] and flipping her off?
My[14] birthday was yesterday so last weekend me and two friends(A&B) got together to hang out eat. The day after that, we were at a meeting thing for an after school activity and B told me that as soon as he got home, his brother ate his leftovers. My other friend(C) asked about the leftovers, and I told her tha...
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{ "description": "getting mad over a drunken comment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad over a drunken comment?
My boyfriend has a very close-knit group of friends that I’ve also grown to love. One of the members, we’ll call her A, lives in another part of the country, so we don’t see her as often. This past weekend was the first time we went out after drinking as a group with A. She was belligerently drunk and behaved pretty ...
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{ "description": "telling my bfs ex that we're together", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my BFs ex that we're together
So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. He broke up with his ex two years ago, after he cheated on her with me (it was a one time thing, not a long-term affair). I know, asshole move from both of us. It sucked, they split. After about a year, BF and I reconnected and decided to start over and date....
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{ "description": "wanting to address my bosses bad habits", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For wanting to address my bosses bad habits
I work in a government office and have a director of the Department as well as a someone below her who has a senior level position above me. He brings great experience to the field and is a valued asset to the departnent. The issue is that he has some bad habits that really aren't bad but can be easily fixed. It's th...
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{ "description": "cutting my girlfriend off financially", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting my girlfriend off financially?
We (26M, 21F) met last year and fell in love/moved in together. She had ran away from home and was supporting herself financially but had stopped going to school. She hated her job and was always getting sick due to it. I asked her what she really wanted to do and she said she wanted to go back to school. So I told he...
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{ "description": "not going to my friend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not going to my friend's birthday?
It's her 29th birthday, she wants to go to a dinner, bar hopping and some clubbing. I'm not a drinker, hate crowds and can't dance. I didn't want to be rude, so I lied and said I was sick. Am I in the wrong?
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{ "description": "keeping arguing with my dad", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i kept arguing with my dad
I know more about youtube then my dad and we were talking about bikes and i said that someone said something about bikes on youtube (it was one of the more trusted youtubers with 1million subs) and my dad says that people can do what ever they want and i said no because of guidelines. He keeps arguing about it and he s...
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{ "description": "skiing or not skiing", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA To ski or not to ski?
Not sure how to feel about this... Single Dad, joint custody. My ex and I have a strained, but cordial relationship and try to put our two boys first. Simple fact is, she makes more money than I do. I’m in a new relationship now and everyone has met. Situation now: My girlfriend is over for dinner. Ex drops off boys ...
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{ "description": "misreading a '9' as a '6'", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for misreading a '9' as a '6'?
My wife and I needed to get some new shoes for my 3-year-old son, so she wanted to order some online. She asked me to check his size, so I picked up one of his shoes, looked inside, saw '6' printed on the insole, and so told her to order '7' so that he'd grow into it. The shoes arrive, and the '7' was too small. Turns...
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{ "description": "yelling at my parents and not saying goodbye when my dad was leaving", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at my parents and not saying goodbye when my dad was leaving???
A background: my parents have been in a long term relationship since I was 11, my dad lives in our native country and i had to move back in with my mom and sister here in the US. I hold a lot of resentment towards my dad because he was mostly absent and when he was around he would only “discipline” me. some of the wa...
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AITA cause my brother left?
I'm close to tears now, my older brother and my mother got into an argument causing him to get a backpack and walk out into the freezing cold. It all started because he asked mom where to put the water and I said "on the bottom shelf" this set him off to blow up at me saying "I wasn't fucking asking you was I?" My mom ...
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{ "description": "blocking a close sibling over a minor incident", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for blocking a close sibling over a minor incident?
This happened fairly recently. My sibling and I live together, and we live with our parents. Neither of us have house keys and my parents are very strict about locking the doors at night before going to sleep. We used to be pretty close before the incident, hanging out, playing together and ragging on and chatting with...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend pay all of his rent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA (21F) for wanting my boyfriend (21M) pay all of his rent?
Sorry I’m on mobile. My boyfriend and I live together and share the $1000 rent, half and half. We also share grocery expenses. All of this money goes into a shared bank account which he has the debit card for. Last month, the card was lost. I don’t blame him for this, it was an accident. So, we transferred the landl...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to get a job near our home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my husband to get a job near our home
Some back story: my husband works about an hour commute away, each way, while I now work 10 minutes from home. However, he typically stays awake until 1-2am playing video games, after getting home around 6. (He leaves for work between 7-8 am). With work/gym, I’m home around 7 (I leave between 6-7am). For reference, I g...
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{ "description": "not giving boyfriend my phone account password for him to pay my phone bill", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not giving boyfriend my phone account password for him to pay my phone bill
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about four months now. He’s wonderful, and I love him, and I hope this relationship continues the way it has been, until tonight. I recently switched jobs, and have gone about three weeks without pay (I have a job now, waiting for my first real paycheck Friday). I wasn’t in the ...
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{ "description": "wanting to rest in my room when I my sister wants me to sit downstairs with her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to rest in my room when I my sister wants me to sit downstairs with her
I just got home and I’m really sore from sports and I just overall had a pretty shit day. I am in the kitchen about to walk up stairs when my sister says “hey stay down here” I tell her that I’m in a lot of pain and I just need to lay down, to which she proceeds to whine and complain that I haven’t really seen her in 2...
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{ "description": "forgetting to keep up with housework", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for forgetting to keep up with housework
So I've (F/21) been neglecting or putting off doing housework when I get home. My boyfriend (M/29) and I share an apartment and we split everything 50/50 including housework which means taking turns doing different rooms in our place every week and ordering food. I bought a calendar for us to keep track of who is doi...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a friend after turning him down", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hooking up with a friend after turning him down?
Was friends with a guy for a few months there was always a lot of sexual tension but he was involved with someone else. He breaks up with his girlfriend and after a week confesses having feeling for me. I shoot him down and we act like it never happens. A week later I have a terrible day (going through psychosis) and ...
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AITA : Cousins mom “making” her go to Disney world instead of to big concert we already have tickets for
Ok this one is hard for me to even sort out. A little backstory: uncle and soon to be ex-aunt are in the middle of a nasty divorce(it’s been almost 2 years now) because she’s insane and manipulative. I’m not just saying that to make me look better, regardless of this situation she’s a nut bag. She hates everyone on our...
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{ "description": "making my roommate late for work due to no awareness", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my roommate late for work due to no awareness?
I pay 250 a month to cover up some agreements, to give me a ride to work and back until i can get my car. he got mad at me out of no where because i woke up on time for work, and not early as she had things to do, which he NEVER told me about. I got yelled at, and held my arguement back because i believe in peace and n...
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{ "description": "not helping my ex pay back our paypal credit debt", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my ex pay back our paypal credit debt?
So, backstory first: This was my (28M) first truly abusive relationship. She was manipulative, bi-polar, a liar, and I have reasonable proof that she was attempting to sleep with other guys while I was living with her, and at the least emotionally cheating by talking terribly about me to these men and how she needed a ...
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{ "description": "seeing a movie my friend really wants to see without her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for seeing a movie my friend really wants to see without her?
Shortly after movie pass shut down, my local theater chain came out with their own subscription. For $18 a month, you can see three movies at any time. Me and my two friends (who are sisters) all signed up with the idea that we could see movies together. ​ I cannot cancel the subscription until March and ...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancée and her family to invite my aunts to her bridal shower after they invited my mother, sister, and my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my fiancée and her family to invite my aunts to her bridal shower after they invited my mother, sister, and my grandmother?
So my fiancée is having her bridal shower at the end of the month, and invitations were sent out. My mom, sister, and grandma on my dad’s side received invitations (my other grandmother passed away a few years ago). I got a call later from my dad asking if his sister or sister-in-laws were expecting invitations as well...
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{ "description": "asking my partner not to go out with his work friends", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I ask my partner not to go out with his work friends?
Throwaway because of normal reasons. Some background for this first, my partner and I have been together for a while (like over 5 years). We live together, but the last few months have been tough. We've been having a few issues and we've both been working together to hopefully change our relationship for the better...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend not to smoke/vape/do drugs", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend not to smoke/vape/do drugs?
So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now and a while ago we both agreed that neither of us would do drugs or smoke (that includes vaping). I have personal reasons for specifically hating drugs and smoking so I followed this rule easily but she however did not. We got into a fight the other day ...
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{ "description": "making my dad mad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my dad mad?
A little background info, I moved to the U.S when I was 10 about 15 years ago. If you ask me, my mom and dad don’t really know/speak English well, so they go to me for anything English language related. They make me call places to deal with issues for them. This has been going on my entire life ever since I learned the...
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{ "description": "refusing to leave the gym", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I refuse to leave the gym?
TL;DR at bottom So I'm a big basketball person, and I decided recently that I'd try to get back into playing shape. I renewed my membership at the local sports center and today was my first day back. Now, the multi-purpose room, which is essentially just an indoor basketball courts with dumbbell racks and a badminton ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend my 18th birthday with any friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend my 18th Birthday with any friends?
I’ll get straight to the point - I have [Aspergers Syndrome ](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome), because of this I dislike being surrounded by people, and I really don’t like being the centre of attention. My 18th Birthday is in March, and I don’t plan on doing anything special, It’ll probably be jus...
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{ "description": "almost starting a fight at my friend's workplace", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for almost starting a fight at my friend’s workplace?
Last night I visited a friend of mine (who we’ll call FF) at her workplace (where I used to work, as well) I’m standing with FF and talking when two boys (who we will refer to as B1 and B2). They were 14 and 15, so a few years younger than my coworker (18). These two boys had been around before and were sexually haras...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend's guy friend to respect boundaries", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend's guy friend to respect boundaries?
We went out a few nights ago to a bar. We were there with mostly her family and a group of her friends show up. Later on the evening we start leaving the bar and go next door to an outdoor pizza place, as we are waiting for some people to get their food, her guy friend (i use friend loosely since they dont ever hang ou...
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{ "description": "being rude to my addicted brother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being rude to my addicted brother?
He is not addicted to drugs but rather videogames. He is 20, I am 13. I am male as well. The problems started far too long ago to say, but it has escalated as of late. He is selfish. He has almost no friends. He doesn't care about others and babies our dog that needs training. We share a Nintendo Switch. He is in commu...
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{ "description": "only wanting sex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For only wanting Sex?
Is a Summer "friends with benefits" okay? So my ex and I used to date over the period of a summer. We weren't arguing 24/7 or anything but it was a fairly normal relationship except we mightve gotten a bit attached. We were pretty intoxicated by each other and began to have frequent "sleep overs" it was pretty much whe...
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AITA? Made joke and friends blew up over it
ok.. hi.. this only happened a couple mins ago and the tears still won't stop. This happened all on discord and I only have a summary of what happened in the group since I left before taking any screenshots to remind me of convos. So, this starts with a joke. My two friends who we will be calling River and Edge, were ...
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{ "description": "not tipping the attendant at my monthly parking garage", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not tipping the attendant at my monthly parking garage?
I live in a big city and am paying $200 for a monthly parking spot in a garage. It works like a valet, so a guy gets my car and pulls it to the entrance, then parks it when I return it. I've tipped valets in the past at restaurants and hotels, but I feel like it's different with this. I'm paying a significant amount ...
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{ "description": "setting my water on some car", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for setting my water on some car
So I work at a bar and grill type place and I usually get off before it gets super crazy. I don't live that far away, so I usually walk home most nights when it's warm enough. Last night though, when I was walking home, I stopped to get my earbuds out of my pocket, I usually listen to music on the short walk. I had a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move to another state in a house my girlfriend bought without my input", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to move to another state in a house my girlfriend bought without my input?
For context, I am a mid 20’s male who went to school late so hasn’t graduated yet, and I live with my parents. She is in her mid 20’s, is about to finish up get bachelors, has a 10 year old boy, and lives with her mom. We had dated in 2013 for a year before falling out of contact and reconnecting in 2017. We fell in ...
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{ "description": "calling my ex out because I thought she was lying about her friends killing themselves", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my ex out because I thought she was lying about her friends killing themselves
Not even joking. At least once a week or every two weeks one of her friends would “kill themselves” she’d message me saying another one of her friends had committed suicide and she didn’t even seem that all bothered about it. She’d make jokes about it too. Obviously it’s a taboo subject but it got to the point where si...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my ps4 controllers with my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my ps4 controllers with my brother?
We have 4 controllers, 2 are mine, 1 is his and the other is the one that comes with the console, we've had the console for 2 years now and my 2 controllers are the newest, 1 is 1 year old and the other some months old. Since the start of this year the shared controller has started to have a big problem with it's lef...
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{ "description": "throwing away the backpack that my ex had me purchase online for her", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for throwing away the backpack that my ex had me purchase online for her?
A few months ago my girlfriend asked me to buy a backpack for her mom online, as she doesn't want to use her credit card on the internet. She gave me the cash and I purchased it for her via Paypal. Since then, she decided to end our relationship and I received said bag one month after the end of her relationship. I to...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my long distance boyfriend of a year, because of him controlling what I do and being too anxious of me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my long distance boyfriend of a year, because of him controlling what i do and being too anxious of me.
I've been friends with him for 11 years now. We first met on the xbox 360 in 2007 and had a group of me, him, and another friend. after i built my computer in 2016 the friend we would talk to would start to slowly talk less and less with my ex boyfriend. and now he completely stopped talking to him because everytime ...
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{ "description": "not being sad during my school farewell", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being sad during my school farewell?
well to begin with , i am a 16 yo kid who studies in grade 10 from a CBSE board. well in india the grades 10 and 12 are very crucial as they allow you to choose a stream{ science , commerce , art and so on } the papers got over on the 29 of march and it had been 2 or more months i didn't meet my friends , our school de...
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{ "description": "smoking weed when my roommate hates the smell", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA (26F) for smoking weed when my roommate (29M) hates the smell?
Living together for 5 months, friends for over a year. Separate rooms. I bought pot a week ago and self medicate. (Please, let’s not drug shame. It’s legal, this isn’t my first time, I know how to handle it, yes it’s necessary.) The first day I had my small piece out in the kitchen. Roommate comes home, sees the weed ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to participate in my close friend's baby shower", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to participate in my (27F) close friend’s (27F) baby shower?
Hi guys, I’m looking for some outside perspective on this.This post is probably going to be long but it is important I don’t leave any important details out. Let me start off by giving you a little bit of background: Me and my close friend Camila met in our freshman year of high school and ever since then we’ve been g...
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{ "description": "trashing my employee's wife on my company Twitter page", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for trashing my employee's wife on my company Twitter page?
I have an employee who I will call Kevin. He's great! He really gets my management style and works with me all hours of the day, weekends, to help keep this boat sailing. His wife, not so much. She recently posted an unflattering picture of me on her Twitter page and said I was exploitative and selfish. Since she calle...
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{ "description": "not telling my cousin his wife wanted to have sex with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my cousin his wife wanted to have sex with me
Not much of a plot to this one but here we go all the same. I have 2 cousins.One works abroad and the other recently finished college with flying colors. My family decided to go to his ceremony for a couple of days except me and his brother's wife.My excuse was that i needed to study for the entrance exams but in rea...
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{ "description": "being mad I was woken up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad I was woken up?
Hey Everyone. This is going to have typo's, since I'm very sleep deprived. But it's short an sweet. ​ AITA? so I have pretty significant insomnia, this is self induced from when I was younger and was dependent on pot for a bit. So this morning my bf lost his phone, and couldn't find it. So naturally, he cl...
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{ "description": "standing up for myself", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for standing up for myself?
Sorry this is going to be a long one. So my friend let’s call him Noah has a YouTube Chanel and one day on Minecraft introduces to me his friend let’s call him Bobby. After some gameplay he goes on about how annoying Bobby and I are and says that I stole his stuff even though I found everything and when I asked for it ...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to call me later so I can hang out with my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I ask my boyfriend to call me later so I can hang out with my friend?
My boyfriend and I are long distance, and we're both busy a lot of the time, so I usually can't talk to him until 4pm or so, and it's even later on days I have classes (I go Mondays and Wednesdays). Besides him, I really don't have anyone to talk to. Sure, I have friends, but I don't really talk to them on a regular ba...
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{ "description": "not wanting a Snow Day due to a phobia despite the fact that my brothers are practically praying for one", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting a Snow Day due to a phobia despite the fact that my brothers are practically PRAYING for one?
I want to get this out of the way. I have a phobia of snow, specifically icy roads. This is because of an incident last year when our neighbourhood froze over and my mum's car got stuck in the ice when she was lifting me and my brothers from school. Our car was 11 years old with worn down tires and my mum nearly broke ...
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{ "description": "stoping inviting a friend to hangout with our friend group", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for stoping inviting a friend to hangout with our friend group.
I’m on mobile(sorry for the bad formatting). Friend constantly tries to exclude people and get people to leave when they were there first. Then when that doesn’t work he starts berating them with insults. I stop inviting him because of this and he is now insulting me behind my back.
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AITA for defending this family?
AITA? I saw this post on Facebook and since I'm also trans I know how hard this time can be for defending a trans family, I might have jumped the gun a little bit so I'm just trying to find out if i am indeed the asshole. ​ here's a rundown on what happened, I was browsing Facebook as I normally do when I ...
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AITA for not doing a great job on an assignment for a friend that caused her to lose an A?
So I’m close friends with this girl. We’re both university students. But because she’s not that good in English but is studying in English, she usually sends me pages of her text books for me to paraphrase them for her in our language (write the translated thing in a document and send her to read). She also gives me he...
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{ "description": "cutting off family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off family?
A little background: I'm mixed race and culture. I grew up in the States, first of my family on one side to be born here, my house while I was a child was the landing point for dozens of immigrating family. Upon finding out I was pregnant, Baby's Father (white American. I love him, he is fantastic) and I didn't know an...
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{ "description": "not confronting trust fail", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not confronting trust fail
tldr;Trusted relative with personal information with agreement that it was between us; She broke deal;Probably should confront, but would rather just distance myself. ​ I recently found myself in a spot where I had to share some very personal information with an older relative. I was very clear that this...
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{ "description": "being annoyed my friends changed their plans", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed my friends changed their plans
So this has just happened and I’m feeling pretty annoyed about the whole situation. My close friends and I said we were going to go for a meal together this evening with the plan being to leave at 6, which would give me enough time to go and then get back for an appointment that I CANNOT be late for at 8. We invited ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex she should stop seeing a guy with sociopathic tendencies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my ex she should stop seeing a guy with sociopathic tendencies?
My ex dumped me a while back. I was heartbroken, but we ended on mostly good terms and we remained close afterwards. I started dating again a week after she started dropping hints that she was moving on/not looking to reconcile. She was aware of this because, again, we remained close and we have a lot of mutual friends...
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{ "description": "commenting to a friend about charging me for a drink", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for commenting to a friend about charging me for a drink?
I visited one of my haunts, and the bartender and I have been friends for at least five years now (prior to ever being a patron of hers while she’s working). During my visit, she asked if I wanted to do a shot with her; I obliged (naturally). Upon receiving the check, I was a bit taken aback to see she charged me for...
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AITA: Tried to stick up for friends and decorum at friend's art "thing"
I am curious if I was the asshole or my friends blew it out of proportion to avoid confrontation. ​ I have a very good friend who is a hair stylist. There was this art thing that was hosted, and he did all the models' hair. It was really well done for our medium sized town. ​ Of course they w...
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AITA for not givin up my seat for an autistic boy when there were plenty of available seats
It was like 2014 and my class was coming back from our eigth grade trip in New York City, which was about 40 minutes from our school. So after a long day of walking around and doing some sort of scavenger hunt to make the field trip somewhat educational, we all make our way back to the bus. I am one of the first people...
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{ "description": "wanting a foreign exchange student to not participate in the group project", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA to want a foreign exchange student to not participate in the group project?
I know it's ironic but: Forgive my poor English. It's not my native language. I'm having a group project in my college with four other students. One of them is a foreign exchange student who's not that fluent in the language of my country. Let me call her Y here. Y hasn't contributed at all since the beginning of ...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my boyfriend because of his questionable porn stash", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for calling the cops on my boyfriend because of his questionable porn stash?
Using a throwaway for obvious reasons. This morning I needed to print something out and my iPad was freezing up on me so I called my boyfriend and asked him for his password. He reluctantly gave it to me, scrutinizing why I needed it. I logged in and printed what I needed to but then I wondered like why TF is he so ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit my \"first time skier\" friend on an expensive trip to Vermont", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA if I don't want to babysit my "first time skier" friend on an expensive trip to Vermont?
So every year my friends and I plan a destination ski trip. Most of us are experienced skiers / snowboarders and can ride the entire mountain. All of us only get to go a few times a year so we like to go pretty hard. I didn't invite my one friend (call her Lucy) because she has never skied before in her life. Lucy ove...
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{ "description": "not playing Destiny 2 alone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not playing Destiny 2 alone?
Myself and my girlfriend recently got into a rather harsh verbal debate last night. She had bought me destiny 2 and the DLCs for it, and wanted to play it with me, so I do. Whenever she's online, I play it with her. The problem is, she's not always online; when she isn't, I play other multiplayer games. Destiny 2 isn...
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{ "description": "not accepting an apology for a gross breech of privacy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not accepting an apology for a gross breech of privacy?
I'm currently living with an ex (we're basically now in an open relationship as we've figured out that we do not meet each other's needs n a committed monogamous relationship) and his mother. I have recently bought a house and am working on it to get it move in ready, I will be in by the new year. While I have lived th...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate she jacks off too loudly", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my roommate she jacks off too loudly? (NSFW)
I live in a college dorm with two other girls; there’s only our small bedroom which we all share, and a connected private bathroom. One of my roommates is maintaining a long distance, long term relationship. At least once a week, she goes into our tiny bathroom with unbelievably thin walls and has phone sex with her bo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone at work?
So there's this guy at work who's pushy about being friends and always wants to throw get-togethers outside of work. He invites everyone and then expects them to show up and gets upset if you don't, taking it really personally. If I see him in the office he expects me to stop for 5 minutes and talk regardless of how b...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I liked kissing another in my dream and telling my gf about it", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend I liked kissing another in my dream and telling my GF about it?
Last night I had a dreamt I kissed a girl I went to high school with. IRL we've went on a couple dates and I HAD feelings for her but that's as far as it went. In the dream I really enjoyed the kiss in the moment but very quickly that turned in to guilt and discomfort and then woke up after that. I told her exactly how...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my uncles funeral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my uncles funeral?
So, my uncle recently died at age 58 after battling with some disseases (not sure which). And now they are planning a funeral and I don't feel like going, as I have never felt like he was my uncle, he was just some random guy that was in my family to me, he was also depicted as a leech to me (lent money from my grandm...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a birthday dinner early and leave early because my bf is so tired from night shift", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to go to a birthday dinner early and leave early because my bf is so tired from night shift?
So this may seem like a small thing but it feels like a big deal, and it’s not the first time we’ve had this argument. I’d love for us to be able to work this out better. His POV, as best as I can understand and represent it: he works in a hospital in a stressful role and does night shift once a week. He absolutely ...
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{ "description": "not talking to my roommate anymore", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I don't talk to my roommate anymore?
So I'm a freshman in college right now. When I came here, I wanted to room with someone for the traditional college feel. We met in the summer by going to lunch with our moms. She seemed pretty cool to me at first. I was still nervous that we'd end up not being friends. We moved in for a summer camp in August but spent...
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{ "description": "friendzoning my coworker", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for friendzoning my coworker
Hi so there’s this girl at work let’s name her v. She’s 21. She’s a pretty new hire at work and I’ve been talking to her a lot and actually really liked her till I founding out she has a boyfriend. All my coworkers say just steal her but I felt bad. I turned 18 last week and she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend ...
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{ "description": "blowing up at neighbor for not preventing our child from going missing", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for blowing up at neighbor for not preventing our child from going missing?
Yesterday our 3 year old went on a little adventure. My husband came home from doing some errands, we chatted for a bit in our kitchen, leaving our son to play on his own like we always do in an adjacent-but-not-in-eyesight room. He usually watches TV for a bit after his snack, it's been the routine for a year now. Col...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friends family for changing their plans last minute", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my friends family for changing their plans last minute?
Context- So my friend (we’ll call him M) is one of my closest friends, we’ve been friends all our life even thought he moved to a town 5 hours away. I see him every time he come to town and recently I got the word that he’ll be down for the next few days. His mom is my moms friend that’s how I knew. Story - So I he...
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{ "description": "calling people out on exaggerated stories", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Calling People Out on Exaggerated Stories?
Ive always been one to think that a person should stay true to their experience when telling a story. If you have to go out of your way to exaggerate or lie about parts of the story, then the story clearly wasnt interesting enough to tell. So, in a recent instant where my gf was telling a story, it made me cringe...
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