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{ "description": "telling my friend his mustache makes him look like a sex offender", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my friend his mustache makes him look like a sex offender?
Some context- my friend group and I have a very crude, nasty sense of humor. Basically we are 14 year olds in 24/25 year old bodies. We often joke about weird sex stuff, and we love to bust each others balls whenever we get the chance. Outsiders might think we have an "offensive" type of humor, and they might think we ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that my teammates think her male friend is gay", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that my teammates think her male friend is gay?
Currently a junior in high school on the soccer team. I generally try to be friendly with my teammates but I would not say I'm not in the same "friend group" of the majority of the team. Last week, I heard them talk in the locker room after practice about my girlfriend's friend and talking about how they thought he was...
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{ "description": "wanting my sister to start paying her half of the bills for the house we inherited", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my sister to start paying her half of the bills for the house we inherited?
My sister and I inherited my father's house about four years. Since his passing, the house has been vacant. I have been paying all of the bills (electricity, water, etc) including any repairs that have come up (fixed the deck, a/c). The bills are about \~200/month and the repairs have been \~3k. My sister and I h...
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{ "description": "asking a girl out, she rejects me, and I get upset about it", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA by asking a girl out, she rejects me, and I get upset about it
The title makes me look like an asshole but there is a little bit more context. I am a senior in high school and have liked This girl for a while, probably since grade 9. We never really had the chance to have anything in terms of a relationship because she was always dating another guy or someone new. When our senior ...
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{ "description": "being mad my aunt wouldn't lent me her car", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad my aunt wouldn't lent me her car?
This one was a good years ago and of course I am not mad anymore but here is the situation. I got my drivings license when I was just about finishing university, I couldn't afford a car, so my family didn't bother to incentivise me to get it sooner (smart of them). When I got into university most my friends drove of c...
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{ "description": "arguing with people, who believe in god", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA Arguing with people, who believe in god
This is a long string of comments from a YouTube Video: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yy6kaDaeDT8&lc=z23xvh4xpvvwwvjy304t1aokg2nfdgz3grnb5bsl4uvirk0h00410.1546260670606635](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yy6kaDaeDT8&lc=z23xvh4xpvvwwvjy304t1aokg2nfdgz3grnb5bsl4uvirk0h00410.1546260670606635) I commented und...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for not texting me during my trip with friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA (F20) for being mad at my boyfriend (M18) for not texting me during my trip with friends.
I'm split on my feelings right now. I feel like a shit person for getting mad at him but hear me out. I told my boyfriend 5 days before leaving that I would be going on a road trip with 3 friends (All female who he's already hung out with) to Flagstaff for 3 days 2 nights to see the Grand Canyon and explore any other...
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AITA for how I handled a surprise therapy session
The facts are these: \- I have been best friends with J for about 5 years, we're both currently in university. \- J suffers from pretty severe anxiety, and I do my best to help her and be supportive however I can \- I suffer from depression and have been suicidal for the past year, but I'm in treatment and and reg...
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{ "description": "selling out (for a nice load of money) a family member (non-nuclear family) to people who seek vengeance for beating an animal and burying it alive", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I sold out (for a nice load of money) a family member (non-nuclear family) to people who seek vengeance for beating an animal and burying it alive?
Not happened to me but heard that a famous person in my country is looking for someone who did such terrible thing to a dog. He pays a shitload of cash for pointing out the right person. It got me wondering if I am the one in the wrong thinking it would be right to give a family member away. Would I be the asshole? Tha...
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{ "description": "skipping school for 2 days to work on a project due over 5 months", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For skipping school for 2 days to work on a project due over 5 months?
I'm not going to get it done, but I want to turn in at least something. But my mom thinks I'm the biggest asshole in this situation for not working on it over the 5 months and she wants me to go to school and accept that I didn't do it.
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{ "description": "not showing up to my last doctor Appointment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Not Showing Up To My Last Doctor Appointment???
This is a froedart hospital btw which is a big name hospital. I have state insurance if that means anything. Better perspective I guess. My Mom,Moms Mom and My Great grandma have been seeing the same doctor. He was a nice doctor and would ask personal questions which I fidnt mind asking since I liked to talk about m...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with a guy who has feelings for her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with a guy who has feelings for her?
This seems pretty straightforward, but I’d like to give a little background so you can see things exactly as I see them. I’ve been friends with my now girlfriend for 8 years. We met when we were 11. We’ve always had a bit of a “Jim and Pam” dynamic but things never quite worked out. Well I finally had the chance to ...
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{ "description": "ruining my friend's film", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ruining my friend's film?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. My best friend is an actor and he was working on this movie a few years ago. I happened to become really good friends with the director of the film and after exploring ideas together for some time we figured it'd be better to do something else than a movie to express what we felt. This ...
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{ "description": "quitting my job because I couldn't stand to work with my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for quitting my job because I couldn't stand to work with my friend?
Last year I had to move back home after failing to live on my own. Some non related things happened and I was pretty broken up about it for a long time. I had spent a couple months without a job living off of saved up money and a friend recommended I go work with him. I had originally started working for this company...
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{ "description": "making a chour calendar", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For making a chour calendar ( edited for grammar)
So I live with 4 not including myself. me and my girlfriend don't currently work other than baby sitting and another girl also doesn't work. I recently came back home from college ( the house we live is my fathers and my room mates other than my girlfriend is my cousin and his fiancé my step mom recently left leaving...
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{ "description": "calling out a kid for stealing music", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out a kid for stealing music?
There is freshman at my high school (I am a senior), who creates "remixes" of songs. He prides himself on creating one remix each day and posting it to YouTube. Me and my friends didn't believe this could be done, so we did a little digging and found out that all of "his" remixes are just remixes made by other artists ...
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{ "description": "thinking negatively of my housemate for not offering me gas money", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking negatively of my housemate for not offering me gas money?
My housemate's return flight was delayed for almost two hours. As a result, the person who was originally supposed to pick the housemate up from the airport could no longer make it. The housemate then contacted me and I agreed to pick him up. When I picked him up, the housemate thanked me and that was it. Previously, w...
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{ "description": "losing a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for losing a friend?
Katrina (I’ll call her; all names are fake) turned out to be the type of person who ignored me the minute she got a boyfriend. We were incredibly close before she started dating. Close to the point where she considered dating me, but we were long distance and I didn’t see her that way. Then she started dating Anthony, ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at GF for not coming to my meets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at GF for not coming to my meets
This is my first post so I’m sorry if its not written well. Anyway, so I’m in powerlifting for my highschool. it’s my passion and I absolutely love it, and my GF knows this. We have had around 6 meets and I always tell her the time and school and tell her “I want her to come but I dont want you to be bored.” she says ...
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{ "description": "not being more sensitive", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being more sensitive?
Im on mobile and also more importantly disclaimers bc I’m intoxicated bc it’s my 21st birthday!! So I genuinely am concerned whether AITA or not in this situation. So my closest friend took me out for my 21st birthday to get me drunk and she totally succeeded. So my dilemma is her mom who randomly showed up to drink...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move closer to my SO's cancer-stricken parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to move closer to my SO's cancer-stricken parents?
My SO and I have been together for nearly a decade. We are not married--we are both women and initially we couldn't legally marry. I proposed to her once and she rejected me. Later, she explained that she was worried her parents would be upset if we got married. That was probably 5-6 years ago. We moved to a city that...
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{ "description": "being angry at an old family friend for cancelling my son's third birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry at an old family friend for cancelling my son's third birthday?
Hi guys, my son is turning three tomorrow and his party has been "cancelled"...or at least the location is and now my family has to scramble to find a place in just two days. An old family friend of my mom's agreed to have the party at her house 6 weeks ago, today only two days before the party she calls it off. This i...
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{ "description": "making \"homophobic joke\" to my lgbt friends", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA when I made “homophobic joke” to my LGBT friends
I have, or had, I don’t know anymore, a group of friends that are in LGBT community, I’m kinda the only straight over there. I mean they accepted me and four of us somehow hang out and had fun together One time they posted a zootopia fan comic, the Judy abortion one, which I don’t quite like it since I’m a fans of zoot...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend the way I did", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend the way I did?
We’d been dating for about one and a half months, it was getting serious, we were both saying “I love you” and all that jazz. I started to have some intense doubts about whether or not i actually romantically liked her, despite knowing i liked her as a friend. I eventually made plans to break up with her on february 12...
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{ "description": "switching jobs, cashing out my old 401k and using it to pay off some debts", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for switching jobs, cashing out my old 401k and using it to pay off some debts?
Basically just as the title says. I recently switched jobs and I opted to cash out my old 401k rather than roll it into a new one. It’s not a ton of money, but I would be getting enough back to put a substantial amount towards debt. My wife is calling me selfish for doing that. My credit isn’t great right now so I’m ...
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{ "description": "cutting off old close stoner friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off old close stoner friends?
Context: I used to be very close with a group of friends cos we were extremely similar in all of our hobbies and life aspirations, the only difference between me and the other friends was that I was trying to fix my life problems and get better while they just, well, sat around and smoked weed all day. They'd complain ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my boyfriend for considering a family vacation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend for considering a family vacation?
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we keep talking about going on a long vacation together. Now his job allows 2.5 weeks of vacation time a year, and I’m fortunate to have more time off than him. Over the past year, we discussed taking a long trip to Southeast Asia or India together, and he’s been sa...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to stay?
I am currently in this situation so I need serious help. I am with a friend on a vacation to Europe that we have planned for months. Its for the week of my birthday and we planned to go see some sights and have fun. From when we get to the airport to when we arrive at the hotel it's been 24 hours. We are both tired ...
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{ "description": "disappointing my mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disappointing my mom?
Okay, so this is a first for me. I really hate to talk about my emotions, but this time, im not sure if im right or wrong, so i have to ask someone other than me. Some important background: I love my parents, they were always there for me, until now, and i mostly relied on them for emotional support, i never talk about...
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AITA girl at school
i’m in 8th grade. in my art elective, it’s a small class, so i talk quite a bit. so much so that the teacher moved me away from the other 2 guys and the girl im in a friend group with, whomst’d i will call callie. a couple days later i ask my teacher if i can move back with my friends, to which she said yesyes^2. and i...
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{ "description": "using my gifted socks to help. my dog", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For using my gifted socks to help. my dog?
(posting this for my brother who doesn't have a Reddit account) Long story short, my mother gifted me some soft socks with different fun prints for Christmas this last year. My dog, who has a scrapped up paw pad has been crying and obsessively licking it on and off for the past month. The vet recommended that we try an...
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{ "description": "repeating the same mistake twice", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for repeating the same mistake twice?
Back in October of 2017, I decided to make a blog on Tumblr and I met... let's call them A. After a bit of interaction, I noticed there was some drama on A's blog and decided to try and comfort them. A became a very close friend of mine and after 3 months, we started dating. Any little thing could make A upset and I a...
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{ "description": "ending my friendship because my shy friend doesn't talk to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ending my friendship because my shy friend doesn't talk to me?
It sounds like I'm the asshole but hear me out. I became friends with this silent girl when I first started the university. Let's call her Susan. It was the first year, so we made different friends at the end of the year. However her friend failed the class and she started to sit near me in the classroom again. I intro...
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{ "description": "wanting to take niece to a concert without her parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to take niece to a concert without her parents?
Niece (my brothers daughter) is turning 9. For her birthday me and my Mom are hoping to take her to a concert nearby for a singer she loves. The paternal side of the family have hardly ever done anything with my niece without her parents, however the maternal side (my brothers wife’s side) have taken her to countless p...
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{ "description": "not wanting to listen to my friend's problems", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to listen to my friend's problems?
So I met a girl on internet around 3-4 years ago, she quickly became one of my best friends even though we've never met each other and we live pretty far away. We met when we were 15/16 years old and on a point of our lives where everything was bad, so we would rant and complain about our lives but make each other lau...
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{ "description": "eating lunch without my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for eating lunch without my girlfriend?
On Sunday, my girlfriend said she wanted to surprise me with a gift at noon for today. She wouldn't tell me what the gift is so I assumed it was something like a card she wrote for me (our anniversary is coming up and she loves arts and crafts). The next day, I accidentally spoiled a TV series for her that she was wat...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my dying grandmother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to see my dying grandmother?
In March of 2018, I lost my father to cancer. He was battling it for a little over a year and it was very severe. In December before he died, I flew to see him and we had a good couple of last days together (I live in the US, he lived in Israel). I didn't go to his funeral because I was at university and I knew he woul...
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{ "description": "not wanting my flatmate's FWB in the house after we slept together", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting my flatmate's FWB in the house after we slept together
So, this story all starts when me and a co-worker where placed abroad together, we get along most of the times, others not so much, this was our first big fight only after two months into living together. We'd just moved in with a third girl who had been living in the appartment for longer and we mostly got along, our...
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{ "description": "calling my brown girlfriend burnt", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my brown girlfriend burnt? [UPDATE]
I’ve read all of your comments and taken some time to think. In all honesty I’m ashamed of the way I acted, and looking back I can’t believe I tried to defend myself. I think growing up around a racist family has impacted me in ways that I didn’t realise. I spoke to her about the incident and I apologized. We both star...
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AITA? - Over a watch
My wife (nurse) of 18 years with two teens has always put the needs of others before her own family and I have patiently dealt with it over our entire marriage. Recently my wife asked me to sell an item she left for me in a brown paper bag on my desk - nothing else was said. When I opened the bag it wa...
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{ "description": "being annoyed when wife is chewing loud af", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed when wife is chewing loud af
Never ever noticed this before. But as I an writing this, we are watching TV and my wife is eating dinner...chomping away and every bite is loud af. For some reason, every bite my wife makes I want to punch something, even myself. I'm about to say something and theres no right/easy way to bring this up, but aita for l...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my brothers wedding", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my brothers wedding?
Having a really hard time landing on a decision with this, need some advice/perspective other than mine. My brother has his wedding planned for this spring at a very expensive all inclusive resort in the Caribbean. 6 months ago he informed my sisters and I that he was already married and had eloped at his city hall 6 ...
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{ "description": "telling my so not to let her mother borrow money from her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For telling my SO not to let her mother borrow money from her?
1st time poster. I’m nervous. Go easy on me. SO and I have been dating for 6 years (plan to get married, for a ring, proposing soon). I am currently employed, living fairly. Her mother is currently employed, living prolly the same level. Her stepfather owns a construction company, so work is contract and not always ar...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend is a lazy twat for not taking our project seriously", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my friend is a lazy twat for not taking our project seriously.
He had an idea to make a Christmas EP, So I agreed. Now, we have 11 days left until we finish it. So far, he has only shown me a loop of something. While I did have a bit of something (which I’ve already showed him) I told him many times that we could always postpone it for next year because so far, WE both haven’t g...
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{ "description": "accidentally kicking my friend during taekwondo training", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally kicking my friend during taekwondo training?
So me and my friend were talking and I just practiced some kicks and one of them unintentionally landed on his face near his eye and broke his glasses. He cried a bit and his mom got called here. I apologised and she was calm about it. I know I was too close to him and I'm going to pay for the glasses. So AITA?
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{ "description": "lying about being gay to reject date offers", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for lying about being gay to reject date offers?
16 M in high school. A lot of my friends are girls because my interests are a bit varied for a dude. I like video games and sports, but I also love Rom-Coms, photography, theater etc. I'm definitely straight, and I've had a lot of crushes over the years, but I feel like dating is a time investment. My parents are fairl...
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{ "description": "wanting to pay value price for a car from my parents, even though I really owe them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to pay value price for a car from my parents, even though I really owe them?
Okay, a bit of a multi-layered story but I’ll try to be brief. TL;DR below. In high school, I sold a 95 Mazda mx6 that my parents had gifted me at 15, and a Honda 500 bike that my dad and I had originally split. I used this money to pay off most of a Jetta, and my parents covered the rest for my graduation gift. fast...
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{ "description": "potentially driving a friend away", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for potentially driving a friend away?
First time posting here, and on Reddit in general, so apologies in advance in advance for any errors in formatting/posting. So, a bit of background on my friend (18M) and I (18M) have known each other for a few years. We used to be quite good friends but I developed a one-sided crush on them, needless to say things be...
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{ "description": "telling my friend his text message tone is annoying", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend his text message tone is annoying
I honestly don't even know how I can represent this as a serious conversation. If I've ever lost a friend over something dumber it's truly beyond me but here we go.... For those of you who are unfamiliar with Discord, it's a program pc gamers use for voice communication. But it can also be used for voice communication...
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{ "description": "opening a Chevy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For opening a Chevy?
I work as a cart pusher at Walmart, so I'm in the parking lot most of my day. One day this lady and her family show up in a truck. They also have a dog, which they leave in the truck. It was a cold day so I wasn't worried about the animal overheating. The lady's family got her a mobility scooter, and when she got on it...
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{ "description": "feeling uncomfortable seeing other people's self-harm scars", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling uncomfortable seeing other people's self-harm scars?
A few months ago, there was this girl that sat next to me in class. From the conversations I've had with her, she seems to be the type to say 'oh I'm crazy' and things like that. Now, it was around October, and since the weather wasn't too cold, she was wearing short sleeves. Now here's where the problem comes along:...
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{ "description": "asking people to pay a portion ($5 or less) for my birthday party at a laser tag arena", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked people to pay a portion ($5 or less) for my birthday party at a laser tag arena?
Throwaway. I want to have a birthday party and we can get an all day group discount, so would I be the asshole for asking people to pay a small portion for their admission? I would be paying the vast majority of it. Presents will not be required, and I am paying for the food.
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{ "description": "leaving my wife for the weekend while a snowstorm will hit our area", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA leaving my wife for the weekend while a snowstorm will hit our area?
I've had plans for a month+ now to get together with friends this weekend. However, due to recent weather changes, there is a snowstorm that is coming through our area this weekend and I was still planning on leaving for the weekend as originally planned, but I feel guilty for leaving my wife alone in the snowstorm by ...
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{ "description": "saying this phrase to my so", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for saying this phrase to my SO?
Background information: Long distance relationship of 3 years. I am male 30s, she is female mid 20s (Blue circle messages). The phrase "You're a CS student and ... " was said by me very early in the relationship about 2.5 years ago. The censored word was a foreign language word, which translates to "My love". The two p...
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{ "description": "telling me wife she was either not listening to me or lying to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA the asshole for telling me wife she was either not listening to me or lying to me?
Long story short, my wife and I had an argument. It's not important what the argument was about, but to her it was something small and meaningless, while to me it was something a lot more important, which I felt incredibly strongly about, and she knew this. To be fair and to try and give an honest retelling, it's defin...
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{ "description": "driving off from McDonalds after my brother was rude to the cashier", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for driving off from McDonalds after my brother was rude to the cashier?
AITA for driving off from McDonalds after my brother was rude to the cashier? ​ This happened last night. ​ So a little backstory, my older brother wanted to tag along to somewhere I was going and I said I was going to pick up McDonald's for dinner and asked if he wanted anything. He said no ...
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{ "description": "yelling \"fuck off\" to my friend in class", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling "Fuck off" to my friend in class?
So ok this is my last post for today. I at high school and i was in class when my friend eric just wouldnt leave me alone. We were doing history and while this was happening he was behind me trying to speak to me, Launch paper balls at me, And kick my seat. a few minutes during class and it keeps going on. And on. ...
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{ "description": "blaring my alarm really loud in the morning to make my flatmate as sleep deprived as me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I blared my alarm really loud in the morning to make my flatmate as sleep deprived as me?
I have this flatmate - let's call him Jim. I live with Jim and two others in a shared apartment. Jim and I have two separate bedrooms next to each other on one side of the apartment, while the other two have their own bedrooms on the other side. So it's only me who hears anything from Jim's room at night. Jim has the ...
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{ "description": "expecting my husband to not walk away every time we have a minor disagreement", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting my husband to not walk away every time we have a minor disagreement
This is something that makes me very mad. Every time we start having a heated conversation, instead of talking about it he just decides the conversation is going to be done and walks away. It really bothers me because I feel like it’s disrespectful and it’s equivalent to saying that he doesn’t give a shit about what I...
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{ "description": "not going to a party with my so", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I don't go to a party with my SO
I saved up $5k for our trip to his home country for xmas break. Some of his friends speak a tiny bit of English. I was looking forward to this trip for ages, but now that I'm here I am feeling homesick and I'm also physically sick with a cold/migraines. He wants me to go to a party with him tonight. H hates going to...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go skiing with my family twice a week", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go skiing with my family twice a week?
My mom just decided that we are going to go skiing twice a week, me, my sister, my step dad, and my mom. I dont enjoy skiing, I am good at it but I dont enjoy it. I have told her several times now that im introverted and she will not listen for the life of her. Im not very active and I prefer to stay in my room because...
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{ "description": "ostracizing one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ostracizing one of my friends
For some context, I am a senior in high school and I have broken off all contacts with a previous friend. We used to be great friends from when we were Young, but because of certain actions she's taken I now avoid her. First off when we were still on good terms we would talk and joke about many things, however she wou...
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{ "description": "being a new driver and just breaking a right of way law I was mistaken about", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: I’m a new driver and i might have just broken a right of way law I was mistaken about?
In Washington state if that’s relevant. I was driving behind a Subaru to a four way stop sign. Across from there was a Dodge truck, who clearly got to the stop sign after me and the Subaru. But by the time the Subaru had stopped and gone, the Dodge just stopped at the sign. At this point, I went forward, because I a...
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{ "description": "being made at my crush for Dating", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being made at my crush for Dating?
I’ve been afraid to post this and it’s a bit different since it’s me who thinks that I’m the asshole in this situation as others say (including my crush" that I wasn't the asshole Context, this was about a month ago during a me spending winter recess with my mom, I was talking to my we’ll call “Turtle”, and Turtle kne...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to turn her volume down", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my mom to turn her volume down?
We're in the car and mom parks in a fast food place and pulls out her phone to watch a video. Immediately I'm hit with blaring squeakiness and screaming at top volume from the video she's watching. 15 seconds pass and she doesn't turn it down, and it's about as irritating to me as a dog listening to fireworks. So I te...
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AITA told a fat kid to leave because he was annoying my entire group
My school has these circular tables that we have to sit at if we want to sit outside. inside is too loud for us and pretty crowded. plus it's cold in there. these tables were intended to fit 8 people, 4 connected seats with room for 2 on each. our group has about 10 people so we had to cram some in, and since some w...
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{ "description": "wanting to take a break from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to take a break from my best friend
Me(17m) and my best friend(18f) of 2 years are going to the same school. We are in our third year We always secretly liked eachother but nothing happened untill about a month ago when she kissed me. She had a boyfriend at the time( still does) and told me she wanted to break up with him for a long time and im the one ...
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{ "description": "deriding my dad when he made fun of a bus driver", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for deriding my dad when he made fun of a bus driver?
So I was in this shuttle bus with my dad when he’s getting into a tizzy with the driver because our parking location was a specific address the driver didn’t know but was familiar with the area. When the bus driver said something to the effect of “I don’t really know the street numbers, I just know the areas” my dad re...
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{ "description": "being angry at my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry at my sister?
I (17f) told my sister(18f) that I had a crush on my guy friend a long time ago. Today while shopping our oldest sister(26f) said “Oh, don’t you have a crush on that kid?” I hadn’t told her about it so I asked how she knew. She said “(Our sister) told me you did.” So I got mad and I talked to my sister. I told her no...
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{ "description": "shooting down inconsistencies of an idea", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For shooting down inconsistencies of an idea?
This just happened about 10 minutes ago. Dinner had just finished and as a ritual in many Irish households, tea is served straight after. My parents had just came back from America and my mother proposed an app idea. That hasn't yet been done here. The idea is a fairly simple and if correctly implemented and would pr...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to give me my money and him refusing to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my friend to give me my money and him refusing to
Me and my friend were playing on a minecraft server that let you vote on voting sites daily that give you vote keys for voting which you can open chests with and get items from. I found a glitch on one of the sites that lets you vote a unlimited amount of times and I made alot of money off of it. Eventually everyone in...
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{ "description": "punching a guy after he slapped me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for punching a guy after he slapped me.
Me and some friends went and rented a cabin in the mountains to get really drunk. One of our friends who is much older than everybody else gets really crazy when he is drunk and turns into a rampaging bully slapping people in the face and goes geberally insane and that has happened to everyone except me until the night...
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{ "description": "criticizing this thieves robber", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for criticizing this thieves robber?
Some of my friends and I had a lot of money with the resources and we decided to get down at the same time. We do not have the right to say that we can survive. But he was upset and cried out for us and forgot us. What is tomorrow? I would like to miss this situation! I've been scared if he's upset. AITA for self-defen...
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{ "description": "ghosting a family member", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting a family member?
Years ago, my cousin and I were basically childhood friends (I’ll call him Dave for privacy sake). We’d always celebrate birthdays and holidays together until he, unfortunately, moved away to a different state. We were still kids at the time so we’d only be able to communicate with each other here and there if our pare...
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{ "description": "sorting by new and downvoting every other post", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sorting by new and downvoting every other post?
I downvote every meme I see that is made with some internet meme maker like imgflip.com, or if the meme uses impact font unironically. Then I go drop a comment calling them out on the low effort meme and 10 minutes later the post is deleted because OP can't take my roast or judgement. I like the feeling of being in cha...
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{ "description": "allowing a close guy friend to do favors for me when I know he likes me, but I'm not attracted to him", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for allowing a close guy friend [23M] to do favors for me when I know he likes me [21F], but I’m not attracted to him?
Throughout my life I’ve had a few close guy friends, who I knew had crushes on me, do what I would consider “out of their way” favors for me. Just things where they would offer to pay for something, walk me somewhere, give me a ride home or to get food, help me with a project, or give me something for free that normall...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my theatre group for wanting to slack", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my theatre group for wanting to slack?
We have a Sunday rehearsal, tomorrow. This happens to land on Mothers Day in England and lots of people are saying how they won’t turn up because it’s unfair. I totally get it, I have my issues about turning up aswell however they KNEW weeks beforehand that this rehearsal was on Mother’s Day, so they shouldn’t really b...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boss's kid at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my boss's kid at work?
A little background on my job: I started back in May, pretty sure I got the job because I was in a similar situation as my boss, we both have young children, mine are 13 and 7, boss has one 6 y.o. I told her family is number one for me and she was like same, my job was only advertised as 20-25 hours per week and she ...
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{ "description": "telling my new coworker to stop slurping their coffee", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my new coworker to stop slurping their coffee
Recently my office rearranged where a lot of people sit. We are all in cubicles and the person that moved in adjacent to me is a slurper. Every morning for around two hours "Terry" will drink coffee and slurp Every. single. Sip. I absolutely hate it when people slurp beverages because it makes my skin crawl and it is c...
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{ "description": "making \"freeway buddies\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making "freeway buddies" ?
Let me make one thing especially clear: I am *not* a slow driver. More often than not, when I look at a freeway, I don't see cars, I see a slalom course. I see just about everybody else moving around me at about five miles per hour too slow. Mind you, I try not to be overtly aggressive -- I avoid tailgating, or mak...
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AITA if my mother-in-law (60 y.o.) lives across the street from us and I refuse to plow the snow off of her driveway?
We live across the street from her and last week it snowed almost a foot so I spent 1.5 hours clearing my driveway with a snowblower. Her driveway is 3x bigger than mine so I didn’t clear it. She parks in her garage so she just gets in and out of her car, never stepping in snow and she doesn’t really walk across the st...
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{ "description": "wanting to end a friendship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to end a friendship
I’m (17M) friends with a nice guy (17M), we’ve been friends for around 6 years. We have an incredibly strong relationship, and we’ve been through a lot together. When I met him he was a shy, insecure and lonely boy, I have always been a relatively happy and confident, verging on cocky. I don’t and never have believed a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to clean and cook all the time", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to clean and cook all the time?
I'm an 18 year old boy currently at college, and I share a small apartment with my friend Sarah. She's a couple years older than me, but I've known her my whole life and she's honestly like a sister to me, it's all platonic. Anyway, about two months ago I stopped working to focus on school, and this brought my income ...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend questions to which she thinks the answers should be obvious", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend questions to which she thinks the answers should be obvious?
Sometimes when I’m talking to my (very long distance) girlfriend she takes my followup questions the wrong way and tells me that I would know the answer if I was listening to her. For example: Some period of time ago her roommate, Z, moved out of the apartment leaving an empty bed frame, nothing on the walls, and emp...
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{ "description": "constantly insulting my friend's crush", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for constantly insulting my friend's crush?
Now, hear me out. Context is important. ​ One of my closest friends, lets call him "W", dated a girl for around 6 months. In high school, this is a fairly lengthy relationship. He broke up with her due to loss of feelings. For a while after the breakup, she mad multiple attempts at turning our friend grou...
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{ "description": "not bringing alcohol to a party if I will not be drinking some", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not bringing alcohol to a party if I will not be drinking some?
I have been invited to a birthday party for tonight. For several reasons (party location, personnal health choices, ...) I do not intend to drink alcohol tonight. We've all been asked to bring a bottle in so we can have fun. As I do not intend to drink alcohol from anyone, does it seems "unfair" if I don't bring al...
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{ "description": "asking my biological father about family rituals/ceremony customs while he's relaxing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my biological father about family rituals/ceremony customs while he's relaxing?
First of all, this is extra, extra long. I apologize in advance. TL;DR is at the bottom, but honestly reading the entire post is kind of a requirement to truly understand what's happening. This is being typed and posted from mobile so formatting may be incorrect, I'll fix what I can. Background: My Japanese grandfat...
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{ "description": "getting a different roommate after I told one girl being her roommate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I get a different roommate after I told one girl I would be her roommate?
Basically I told one girl that I would be her roommate but she’s a little spotty with money and falls back on her parents a lot. There’s another girl I’m friends with that would be better to room with. She’s better with money, more reliable and we have similar living styles. Would I be the asshole if I told her I was ...
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{ "description": "ditching a taxi with the agreed upon fare", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ditching a taxi with the agreed upon fare?
This happened a few years ago and a friend recently told me I was an asshole for doing it so I wanted to check on here. Me and a friend had been at the mall and we didnt have a ride, so we decided to go home in a cab. We asked the taxi driver how much it would cost to go to our neighborhood and he told us it would be...
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{ "description": "confronting a coworker over her shit talking behind my back", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITAH for confronting a coworker over her shit talking behind my back?
For reference, we are both RN’s working on different units as Charge Nurses. I’ll call her Mattie. For the past few weeks, we have had an issue with our 3-11 aides disappearing, leaving the unit and just overall not doing their jobs on her unit. On Super Bowl weekend, my aide brought Mattie’s patient from the TV room w...
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{ "description": "expecting dealership to honor agreement", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting dealership to honor agreement?
My wife's car started making a loud squealing noise coming from the brake booster, so I called the local dealership to get a quote on the repair. The told me that it was covered under warranty, and to bring it in. I even have 2 emails from them confirming the appointment, and the warranty coverage. We dropped the car o...
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{ "description": "reporting a guy who sexually assaulted the girl who has a crush on him to our school's administration", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I reported a guy who sexually assaulted the girl who has a crush on him to our school's administration?
Background: I (17M) go to a fairly nontraditional public high school because of unique circumstances surrounding my life, but most of the other male students are there do to serious behavioral issues. Recently, I was sitting with my SO (let's call her K) at school, and one of her friends (A), who I don't know very w...
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{ "description": "wanting to sell the house or giving a six month time period to buy me out", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to sell the house or giving a six month time period to buy me out.
i bought a house with my brother and his wife 10ish years ago when i was 20. i've mentioned multiple times in the past couple years that i want to sell the house and or move out and get on with my life. would i be the asshole for telling them that we need to get the house ready to sell within the next 6 months or we ne...
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{ "description": "sending a request to play 8-ball after she confessed her feelings for me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sending a request to play 8-Ball after she confessed her feelings for me?
This girl came out of ghosting after 6 months to apologize to me for hurting me and said she can’t get over me and blah blah blah, you already know. It was a long chain of messages and it reminded me of a funny meme I saw somewhere, so I just responded with a request to play 8-Ball. She declined the request and blocked...
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{ "description": "not calling an employer back because I thought I had another job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not calling an employer back because I thought I had another job?
So.... I don’t really know if this is a common occurrence or just something that happens with jobs as I haven’t had much luck with them over the years but I’ll just try and summarise it the best I can. I applied for a part time position in a call centre and about 2 hours later I got an email saying I’d passed the firs...
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{ "description": "wanting my friends to lose weight", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting my friends to lose weight?
Backstory: Me and my best friend since elementary school have recently become good friends with a group of people at the college we attended. They’re all really genuine people and have helped me through some tough times, essentially I think they’re great. Story: However, my best friend is very close to them and star...
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{ "description": "choosing to \"ghost\" someone rather than explain why I felt uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for choosing to "ghost" someone rather than explain why I felt uncomfortable?
I started having text conversations with this married guy. I met him once, back in college. Since then we've just admired each other from afar on social media. Until one day we struck up a convo and I decided to give him my phone number, thinking hey, why not, I could use more friends in my life. On and off since this...
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AITA Dish dispute
I live in a house with a lot of people, there are 12 of us, one of those people is my Nephews best friend let's call him Jay he's 18. Jay's lived with us long enough that he is expected to do chores which he doesn't complain about. One of Jays chores is doing the dishes. It can be a lot of work because dishes pile up ...
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{ "description": "being rude/angry with my mother without intention", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being rude/angry with my mother without intention?
Get ready for a therapy session, cause here we go: My mom has had alcohol addiction problems almost my entire life. Growing up I had almost no friends and so she was my deepest confidant. Then I got old enough (mid to late high school) and realized that she had been drunk essentially my entire childhood. She had been ...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to be happy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Wanting My Friend to Be Happy?
Ok, so the title may automatically make me NOT sound like the asshole, but allow me to explain. My friend, we'll call her A, has divorced parents. She is usually with her father, but of course still visits her mother sometimes. A loves her Dad more than you can imagine. They have a lot in common, and they can always m...
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