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"description": "finding my autistic brother's meltdowns funny",
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} | AITA for finding my autistic brother's meltdowns funny? | I (14M) live with my autistic brother (17M). He's usually not that bad. He functions relatively normally but it's noticable that he's a little different. However sometimes he has these violent meltdowns. He usually just screams at the top of his lungs and flails around a lot. Sometimes he tries to destroy stuff or hurt... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not defending my friend",
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} | AITA for not defending my friend ? | I've diagnosed with Social Anxiety for quite some time now. This has made my life difficult in many ways, I have a hard time talking to people , especially if the situation is confrontational. I've also been good friends with a girl since the first grade, that we'll call her Amy. Many people find her annoying since she... | HISTORICAL | {
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C9MSiwlpirq3GaOBzFWdD3BjFE0iaYc7 | b5cj07 | {
"description": "refusing a dance based on wardrobe",
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} | WIBTA if I refused a dance based on wardrobe? | As a hobby, my GF and I regularly dance West Coast Swing (obligatory plug - it's a lot of fun and super awesome). The culture is very low-key and casual. Anybody can ask anybody to dance, and it's expected you not refuse unless there's a reason (i.e. I'm taking a break, or I'm about to leave, need to go to the bathroom... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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toqTtiRFkzMU2qFKgg25fLBoMjRkmq1u | b6rek8 | {
"description": "cutting my older sister out of my life",
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} | AITA for cutting my older sister out of my life? | I love her, I do. We have had fun times and she has given me great advise and guidness when I needed it.
However, she has been an addict since...well as long as I've known her. And it's only gotten worse and worse.
As of the past few years she only calls me; if she needs money or rides to places (sometimes tricking m... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZvnWleiQ63AKGVM9Pt5qsemeXdT7Nfgd | ahjeiu | {
"description": "not going on a field trip with my friend",
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} | AITA for not going on a field trip with my friend | This happened nearly a year ago but I am still suffering from repercussions hence I would like a bit of help.
We were final year college students and needed 30 hours of community service to get our degree. This is something everyone in our college had to do. Our college had some regulated services(teaching underprivil... | HISTORICAL | {
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aL6HbwfQstGto8JG4lioXotl8SjuKKfp | b8s5na | {
"description": "getting angry at a child for throwing things at my dog",
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} | AITA for getting angry at a child for throwing things at my dog? | My dog is a little tiny 13 year old chihuahua, and she’s a very sweet dog. She loves to cuddle and lay next to you and she has never hurt anyone or anything. One of our family friends stopped by for a second to say hi, and they sat down on the couch and then his mother started talking to me. In the middle of the conver... | HISTORICAL | {
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zoodWti3IiPABKc4oMiDSZcXOGfYJ1qn | 9x4oox | null | AITA - Used Womens Bathroom to change baby (I am a father) | Today I was shopping in a large department store with my infant daughter and she needed her diaper changed.
I first walked into the men’s room and as usual, no changing station.
I asked a store worker if there were any other bathrooms that might have one and they said no and perhaps to try a store down the road.
I r... | HISTORICAL | {
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WRKjyIzdFRqm3Bx56euaug8U3qvFOEav | aq0crq | {
"description": "choosing between two parents",
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} | AITA for choosing between two parents? | I’ve always had a closer bond with my mom, and I was trying to go to her house tonight as my parents have split custody of me. My dad said no and I got a lil upset (not mad or disrespectful just my mood). and he just started going off on me, saying I make him feel like I don’t love him and he hasn’t done anything (and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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DoRxKX24FlXo1p98lInO20vERVdr4Lmc | arl1nw | {
"description": "refusing to give my (ex)friend her stuff back",
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} | AITA for refusing to give my (ex)friend her stuff back? | Let's start at the very beginning.
A couple of months ago, I decided I was gonna wear a dress and heels to the Homecoming dance. So one of my super close friends lets me borrow a dress and a pair of shoes. I've known this friend literally my entire life. One of the jokes about me is that I act kinda dumb sometimes bec... | HISTORICAL | {
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krTlXF7VIbhPJSwMnSSarNv9NDqpRnF0 | a59vwl | null | AITA Old roommate wanted me to pay for utilities when he wasnt there. | This happened a few years ago in my sophomore year of college. Its an apartment with four rooms. Two of my roommates left for the summer, then expected me and the fourth to split utilities wholly between us. I had left for a month and never asked for that and paid my utilities. It became a big fight and we never spoke ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5LTBq8TCy7j7aLeyKG8qKwzAzShUrqXP | a7xb3w | {
"description": "asking my roommate to pay more rent",
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} | AITA for asking my roommate to pay more rent? | I’m a senior in college and I live with three roommates in an apartment. We’ve just finished the semester so normally all four of us would go home for winter break, and the apartment would sit empty. However, if one so chooses our college offers a winter term where you can pay to take sprint classes that last the durat... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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Yxl2wJAbFrNxeOUMBHA7l2kaGNq9Gcht | acvsgn | {
"description": "complaining about the free gifts provided by employer",
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} | AITA for complaining about the free gifts provided by employer | Occasionally, Home office (different state) will reward certain locations with miscellaneous gifts for good performance. Recently, my office was eligible for such a reward.
​
Yesterday I received $30.00 in gift cards for a specific movie theater branch. Excited, I went to see what's playing. Turns out the... | HISTORICAL | {
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bzSSklPyZaiw1hviViDRsyRb12skIogn | av9loo | {
"description": "not switching parts with my understudy on his birthday",
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} | WIBTA If I didn’t switch parts with my understudy on his birthday? | Not much else to add.
So, on our opening weekend for my school’s theater musical the Friday we open is my understudy’s birthday. He’s turning 18, and asked me about switching our performances so I would perform on our opening Saturday and he on our opening Friday.
Now, the understudy for my role’s best friend isn’t a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Or7vAKamx0hGYvm5524DlRpqosm0SBri | an5jiz | null | WIBTA Take back my console | Obligatory I'm on mobile, so beware of the poor formatting.
So I (M14) have a Xbox 360 I've owned for quite a while. I loved the thing but recently I got disinterested to the point where I hadn't played it in months. In my house's living room my uncle had a PS3 set up that me and my cousin's (F15 & F8) played on. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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kvXSw1DsYyrfnV6LUrkKHpIqTxTzFZhS | 9w88on | {
"description": "yelling at my autistic friend",
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} | AITA for yelling at my autistic friend? | I have a friend (though, more of an acquaintance) in my group that has relatively high-functioning autism. He can be fun company most of the time, but he has this fixation with height. He's very proud of his own height (6'1) and loves to jokingly bring it up a lot - like pointing out how much taller he is than other pe... | HISTORICAL | {
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Zizio2wOujTYXkMkFVahcPFARpwDGFVU | ap2flj | {
"description": "swearing at my Aunt",
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} | AITA For swearing at my Aunt ? | (Backstory) It all started 6 months ago. My aunt moved into my house because her father passed away. She didn't wanna be alone for that and it helped alot for her to be around family. During this time period I had to give up my bed for her and sleep on a matress. This is were the first fight happened. She started to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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XHUl1RxDjGtm7O5URsEkSmr7IS0AM2Vd | aqy9pz | {
"description": "being mad at my friends for playing a game without me",
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} | AITA For being mad at my friends for playing a game without me | Im a college student and games are my main source of entertainment. I usually play single player games but I enjoy playing with others too. I usually play on my PC and PS4, but my friends C and H play on Xbox and have been telling me to get one to play with them for the longest, so I splurged on Christmas and got one t... | HISTORICAL | {
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F8svXy21ge7sA6KeBvHM6YfpZlqGsjFj | 9t4zun | {
"description": "not talking to ex-best friend / roommate and kicking him out of the next lease",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA, for not talking to ex-best friend / roommate and kicking him out of the next lease? | I became friends with D, through a mutual friend from our hometown, right before we left for college. We became best friends over freshman year, and decided to live in a house with 6 other people for our sophomore year.
Our first few months living together was great, but D started getting into selling psychedelics an... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
FxPNDAtXjgb2BgAnfIcitQViy3X8lXid | a3w284 | {
"description": "attempting to dissuade a good friend from getting married to a girl he has dated for 4 months",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for attempting to dissuade a good friend (20) from getting married to a girl (28) he has dated for 4 months? | Hey guys, I'm apparently the only one of his friends that feels this way, but he's really insistent on marrying this girl. He hasn't known her for long, and he's complained to me about issues in their relationship more frequently in the last couple months. However, he's the type of guy to make rash decisions and is a "... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
o93L1J7QGXvWTzkpYHwVtLaSIR3ewmrp | a4l4wd | {
"description": "asking a direct report to turn down their music",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for asking a direct report to turn down their music? | AITA for asking a direct report to turn down their music?
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So, I realize this is probably not worth posting, but it's been bothering me for months whether I overstepped... This is my first year supervising a team of 3-4 people, in an open office, white collar setting (think cubicles for days) for a fairly... | HISTORICAL | {
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cltY0I5oAEWozTetOokTcqroiaLYCBGh | alhdhg | {
"description": "telling my wife she has to quit her job",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for Telling My Wife She Has to Quit Her Job? | Throwaway because I don't want this anywhere near my regular account and this is going to require some backstory that will probably be recognizable to anyone that knows me. Buckle up kids, this is a rollercoaster.
My wife and I have been together for over two years, dating for about as long before that. About two and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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"WRONG": 32
} | WRONG |
YiexpQNsIJhf7B2zp7Z9vaycPtfle8WI | antg9q | {
"description": "wanting to end things with a girl who doesn't want to have sex",
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} | AITA for wanting to end things with a girl who doesn’t want to have sex | Before you make any judgement, let me explain. Met this girl on tinder, first time we hookup she says she doesn’t want to have sex. I get it and respect that not all girls want to have sex the first time they meet someone. We hookup again and when I try to move down she stops me saying she doesn’t like penetration. Wei... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
usy6Q9Fly6y5jG1Hmiu3u0yJdlOnJ6vg | al74ft | {
"description": "not hanging out with my friends purely because I'm extremely lazy and don't want to go outside",
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} | AITA for not hanging out with my friends purely because I'm extremely lazy and don't want to go outside? | I live in Australia, and I have a lot of days where depression hits me where I don't wanna leave my house. But that's not why. I don't want to go outside because it's too fucking hot.
These Summer holidays, I've been going outside a lot more than I wanted to, because I've been seeing people I haven't kept in touch wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
74NSIOX3nAjb2cOP9te0jvFgO045364Y | a8a5ch | {
"description": "wanting assholes to actually come forward here instead of people seeking validation",
"pronormative_score": 46,
"contranormative_score": 33
} | AITA For wanting assholes to actually come forward here instead of people seeking validation? | Most of these posts are just obviously NTA scenarios at the moment. | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 45,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 46,
"WRONG": 33
} | RIGHT |
Xx8wV2UkUyw84IAfrJdiyL6twfmrMc2D | aqm9qe | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend I need some time to fix my Head",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for Telling My Girlfriend I Need Some Time to Fix My Head? |
Well, possibly bit of a long post, so beware. TL;DR at the bottom.
I suffer from tinnitus along with some other symptoms that have been getting worse lately. It's been about two years for tinnitus, but other symptoms have crept up in the past little while. One of those is what doctors are telling me is deperson... | HISTORICAL | {
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IYwz76TqoN742KGq4ydNbIfSOsd3PLCV | b7k8cn | {
"description": "denying co-signing my brothers car loan",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for denying co-signing my brothers car loan | Sorry for format on my phone.
Little back story, My brother was on track for a great life fiancé high paying job and then things fell apart for him. His anxiety got the best of him and was left by his fiancé and he had a breakdown and quit his job and got addicted to anti depressants. Around this time my parents becam... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
vWTwxHMiSy7ewqyA1gUXpnXGhUQ7s7Lw | afz0hj | null | AITA: In-Laws overstayed | We bought a house last year, and for the first time, we hosted. Wife is the oldest in the family, and we are the first one with a house.
Mother in Law, Father in Law, Sister in Law, Sister in Law- with Boyfriend (who lives in apartment but only stopped by a few times) , and Brother in Law with Girlfriend all came over... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
NywmwvKkChYe0KwBISNKj28g8AMYPVMv | b5yqzb | {
"description": "not moving Family event",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA - Not moving Family event | Last year we had our daughters 3rd Birthday (bout a year ago). We decided to do it on a Sunday night (6pm) at a local restaurant. I was called by my mother a week or so prior and was told that she wasn't going to be able to attend as she worked the next day and with the drive (90 mins) it was a bit late for her. I told... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
yXUXTy4MLw4VYWTbcd9VwYkMF7JBneCc | axykti | {
"description": "hating wheelchair guy",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | Aita for hating wheelchair guy? | Aita for hating this guy in a wheelchair?
Here's circumstance.
We have 4 offices, 10 cubicles, and 26 tables. Yo7 get to keep your space for the quarter. Gary is in a wheelchair and threw a fit and threatens to quit id he doesnt get an office. They are awarded by sales volume. I earned 4th office but am not getting i... | HISTORICAL | {
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qKlxUKnGr9UEPE3lAjmtDra1t5xaevtj | azrypj | {
"description": "making my friend feel like shit after he told me I would be his \"ideal girlfriend\" but then in the same breath telling he's not attracted to girls who don't work out",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 45
} | AITA for making my friend feel like shit after he told me I would be his "ideal girlfriend" but then in the same breath telling he's not attracted to girls who don't work out (I.e code for fat girls)? | Background: I have been friends with this guy Aaron for a few months. I'd say we are more than friends because it's very flirty, we go on what I would consider "dates," we sleep in the same bed after going out and on and on. In fact in light of what just happened, I'd say he led me on big time.
So just had a conversat... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
JcKVLt209zjU0auoZAyzrJhl1BWdYMOn | ac5sx6 | {
"description": "lying to my girlfriend about my brothers debt",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA: for lying to my girlfriend about my brothers Debt |
TL: DR - Given my brother some money to transferee to my girlfriend. And know I am considering giving him money behind her back, in order to get more “Alone” time with him.
Backstory:
My girlfriend (F24) and I (M24) have been together for 5 years and have more or less shared economy.
I am the youngest of 4.... | HISTORICAL | {
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SsNmlPm5CeP1LTt4gIc8tUFnrGxEcFjS | 9ymiim | {
"description": "thinking purposefully seeking out someone's account that they want to stay anonymous is a breach of privacy",
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} | AITA for thinking purposefully seeking out someone's account that they want to stay anonymous is a breach of privacy | Sorry for the long title. Also, this is not necessarily am I the asshole
more like am I in the wrong because even if I were in the wrong I don't really think it would be assholish. A while ago my friends found my old Reddit account and went through my post history despite me telling them I wanted it to stay anonymous a... | HISTORICAL | {
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FsRW4nxi9rbHGaunI7ZmoqRt0WcScHjJ | 9z8ivm | {
"description": "not immediately washing my stinky feet after work",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not immediately washing my stinky feet after work? | So I work a job where I walk a lot. I'm also a cheap bastard that buys cheap shoes at Walmart. I wear these shoes everyday to work and also when exercising. As you could guess, they leave quite a stench when I get home, pop them off, and relax. I can smell them stinking up the room right now but I really don't mind i... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
a28cweYDy8X4u3BlwR9MJ2x1Ejv8Kg2n | b7u1d8 | {
"description": "assuming I was stood up",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for assuming I was stood up | So there’s this girl I’ve been talking to for a couple of weeks and I finally asked her out on a date. She said yes and we were planning to get ice cream. Day of we’re texting all day, she spends the morning at a local event while I’m at work. About an hour before the date I drive home from work and I send her a text a... | HISTORICAL | {
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4zGhbw3L4uhp8le00jhceiU5Q7nWlL86 | aylkan | {
"description": "not wanting my roommate to move out",
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} | AITA for not wanting my roommate to move out? | I have been living with my roommates Karen and Natalie in a three bedroom place for the last 6 months without much of any conflict. Our lease continues through August and we had already planned on living in our current place through August of 2020. We live in a college town which means property management companies sta... | HISTORICAL | {
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A8oFEYtwndDra8QjDHKsF2it2JfCV1bw | 9z9edf | {
"description": "thinking my friend is being dramatic about her mental health",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for thinking my friend is being dramatic about her mental health? | To clarify, I'm currently in high school with diagnosed anxiety, depression and BPD. I am aware that everyone deals with their mental health in different ways and that people express their difficulties differently.
But I have one particular girl in my immediate group of friends who to me seems very clueless about how... | HISTORICAL | {
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NnVGOmRwPyUIJzA4LsHx3KNGV51UgKAs | a2q4cu | {
"description": "knocking on my roommates door at night?l and getting his meds changed",
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} | AITA for knocking on my roommates door at night?l and getting his meds changed? | I have a schizophrenic roomate who takes a lot of medicine to help with the symptoms. Hes a cool guy, hes a great artist, but hes a 34 year old who is kind of creepy. He doesnt know how to repress lost and makes creepy comments about girls he sees. I know that he was basically locked in a foster home for decades so he ... | HISTORICAL | {
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wVKlk0DPdT1fooVWQvwI7MvIokxKeHkO | b46ubz | {
"description": "letting my gf's mom think her dog ran away after I found her inside",
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} | AITA for letting my gf's mom think her dog ran away after I found her inside. | So my girlfriend's mom is one of those neurotic, paranoid panicky kind of people. Anytime there's something that she doesn't know or doesn't go exactly to plan it's because the worst possible thing happened to cause it. This includes if a door to outside is left even slightly ajar and she doesn't see her dog sitting at... | HISTORICAL | {
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e4AIGScBOBBGWwPRKJsB3gEnf90uWGAi | ab67c0 | {
"description": "not letting my ex spend time with our autistic kid in my apartment",
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} | AITA I will not let my ex spend time with our autistic kid in my apartment | Some background. My son is severly affected with autism. He is 12 and has a mind of a 2 year old. He is compleatly non verbal, reacts only to simple one-word commands, and only recently I managed to get him to use the toilet. On top of that he is going through puberty and became very agressive.
My wife left me half yea... | HISTORICAL | {
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VUvy9YYuoXar44ouK0SF2bQMIsqCeWY9 | asi20o | {
"description": "not letting my cousin play with my things",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not letting my cousin play with my things? | So, my mom's family is pretty small, just her, my grandma and my uncle who has a wife and a kid. I've always been pretty close to my uncle mostly due to our love to gaming and action figures.
When I was young I used to go to his house (it was 1 house away from mine) to play on his beefy computer with the latest part... | HISTORICAL | {
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heSmMHbEnh6Ef7is35vMQUrROohnNtuq | b74v1x | {
"description": "\"stealing\" an university course from someone else",
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} | AITA for "stealing" an university course from someone else? | My uni has an elective course that isn't related to the main courses (basically you study law/biology/history or whatever the fuck you want and get to take some CS on top of that). The course is limited to a certain number of students. I didn't apply at first because I already completed a CS program (unrelated to unive... | HISTORICAL | {
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DHQ1AGoLRYINIzaaOQ8vWmBV9XkUMZJC | asqkur | {
"description": "reporting an acquaintance to a guidance counselor or a professor for showing me pornography",
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} | WIBTA if I reported an acquaintance to a guidance counselor or a professor for showing me pornography (NSFW) | I don’t know how to flag NSFW, I’m sorry if I mess up
So I am a university student 18 (F), I frequently hang out in a lounge for students that an acquaintance of mine 19 (F). I like her but sometimes she has troubling behavior and doesn’t listen when you tell her to stop doing something. The lounge is a pretty public ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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tNYIRJ6eCfbcrRoPBLHCJZo9euoCm5Yo | b0burl | {
"description": "thinking my girlfriends relationship with her dad is weird",
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} | AITA For thinking my girlfriends relationship with her dad is weird? | Hey,
Thanks for reading, I'm using a throwaway account because this isn't a great thing to be wondering and in all honesty I'm hoping to be the asshole in this scenario.
Anyway brief backstory, my girlfriend and I have been together a while now and have a child together, I'm early thirties and she's mid twenties.
She ... | HISTORICAL | {
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kJtN74YnwVL7kwNqLX8ENFY6iqUujZNQ | amzep0 | {
"description": "not wanting to live in a gated community",
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} | AITA for not wanting to live in a gated community | Preface: My dad recently got a job in Puerto Rico and just me and my youngest older brother are moving there while the other siblings stay at our mainland house, so this isn't a forever home.
​
So my brother and I have opposite personality types, he's extroverted and likes more, what he considered normal (... | HISTORICAL | {
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KKGgk91tmBUBOyUABOXzq7qC2BC5Hjrj | b6zafe | {
"description": "dumping a friend for being a mistress",
"pronormative_score": 39,
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} | AITA for dumping a friend for being a mistress? | A friend met a married guy about 3 years ago. She dumped her boyfried and started dating this guy. I initially thought he would divorce his wife and they could continue their relationship like a official couple. The thing is, he didn't.
My friend absulutely hates the wife, is calling her names and makes fun of her be... | HISTORICAL | {
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qkMKOzL4IB2CsCUtHhGI0BDhNNaoiwAf | aca7m9 | {
"description": "wanting space from my boyfriend's family, even though we all live together in his family's building",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for wanting space from my boyfriend's family, even though we all live together in his family's building? | For context - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and moved in with him a year ago. His parents own the building we are living in, which is a house that has completely separate apartments on each floor (common in our city). We live in the top apartment and BF's parents and younger brother live in the bottom a... | HISTORICAL | {
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OzBDdtD5ISp39RHVkUURpAC7MPo4jpGW | a04kyo | {
"description": "posting an updated version of my Christmas wish list to my families facebook group",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for posting an updated version of my Christmas wish list to my families Facebook group? | I have a lot of brothers and we all have significant others, so for Christmas we do a Secret Santa that way you don’t have to buy a present for every single person. We have a family Facebook group where we all post our amazon wish list and we use that to shop for whoever we got. I posted mine back in October and have s... | HISTORICAL | {
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uLlIvQe38Z7AgwAJvOTOOoV4wC6N2rx8 | aqlfta | {
"description": "wanting to move out but would leave my friend in a hard spot to get to school",
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} | AITA for wanting to move out but would leave my friend in a hard spot to get to school? | I'm a girl studying engineering in college and I want to move out to one friend's 3B house that just became available if possible, but I drive my housemate in my current 5B house to school everyday. Otherwise it would be a 40 min walk one way to school for him because he doesn't have a car. That would leave him with l... | HISTORICAL | {
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e37RHrGjxAXWkog9Zkgqq9OejUDVSS4x | amssur | {
"description": "\"excluding\" a non-member of the group",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for "excluding" a non-member of the group? | Okay, so, backstory: I volunteer with a youth organization. This weekend, we conducted a physical fitness test to help the youth in the unit I mentor complete a requirement. There were several siblings (non-members) present, along with parents, most of whom either stayed out of the way or just followed along off to the... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ne0rLLuxRLTgyiBeSFZyIQQfJxTmiHdD | b46v1q | {
"description": "walking out of a restaurant without my order",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA for walking out of a restaurant without my order? | So we have a pretty popular restaurant that lots of people order take out from. Actually about 15 years ago when they first opened they had no seating, so it was all take out. Anyways as they became more popular and more people were coming it started getting really busy and crowded at times, they started letting people... | HISTORICAL | {
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qsGIBXsnqCOgJgBiZICfdxl4QTLiV57z | avw2rk | {
"description": "not feeling heavily emotional about my friend's death",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For not feeling heavily emotional about my friend's death? | I had a friend from Kindergarten to 4th grade whom I just recently discovered had passed away. I've never experienced something like that before but what scares me is that when the news was broken to me, I wasn't insanely upset. I mean, yes, I was sad. Still am. He was my best friend for the longest time. But after 4th... | HISTORICAL | {
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zFRjPEhLydnR2205O2tlu1big3Cm7WNd | avsjea | {
"description": "not helping a girl with a disability",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not helping a girl with a disability? | So I am a senior in high school, and at the lunch table sits my now ex girlfriend, her friend, a girl with cerebral palsy in her feet in hands, and me. Let’s call the girl with cerebral palsy Jordan. Jordan would go through the line everyday and get her things and all that she needed and sit down. Shes 19 years old and... | HISTORICAL | {
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nfv4CcV0FmgQc7NkFsrXIfXtB6FxYCGv | b56xej | {
"description": "wanting more of a 1 year celebration for my relationship",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting more of a 1 year celebration for my relationship? | It’s happening in some days, my gf doesn’t see feel it’s important. We have a trip unrelated with our relationship in which we may or may not end up together. She believes this should count because we may spend the trip together. Originally I had the plan to drive her around a few memorable places but then the trip cam... | HISTORICAL | {
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vMNgthUWnZKVzS8wzxSBDtWoOs7QpfdU | aqflu4 | {
"description": "breaking off a friendship",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for breaking off a friendship? | I have a history of sexual abuse and along with that some mental health history. I have been working really hard in therapy and was finally getting out of the woods. I'd like to start by saying I do not drink. I can have an addictive personality and drinking doesn't really seem to be a great pair.
Anyway, after an unb... | HISTORICAL | {
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VYNNKeD0vnw1j6VXCL6An6qFV5h9emN3 | aqhzc0 | {
"description": "caring about my vehicle",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For Caring About my Vehicle? | Hey all, throwaway and first real post. Don't know why I'm using a throwaway, because anyone that knows me is gonna recognize the situation from a mile away. Also on mobile so bear with me on the formatting. TL;DR at bottom.
Background
Basically, my parents had a car several years ago and I was told that when I starte... | HISTORICAL | {
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RPjMZvFiF8vYV6dw3JZJpjOcBcin9fqv | az0xo8 | {
"description": "messaging with an ex",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for messaging with an ex? | Well hmmm. My girlfriend of 6 months and I are on a weekend trip from Seattle to the Oregon coast, we're still in the car. My ex messaged me through Facebook asking about the dog we shared when we were together and we had a small chat about dogs, nothing about our current personal lives, just about the dogs we shared. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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8Oevcsz2zTFgsKeWLxDAMoZfmYrJOMef | apk4vz | {
"description": "cutting contact with my brother",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | WIBTA if I cut contact with my brother | My brother is 7 years younger than me. He's 22. I'm 29. He didn't go to University, he works as a waiter right now. I went to University, I went to Law School, I work in Private Equity. I have offered to pay for my brother's University but he declined, he's a "mature student" so schools would not take his high school i... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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CDgIRrLDgjwdKiSpxpAgphoGKnARhv44 | apiwrd | {
"description": "kicking a girl off my Airsoft team because she refused to comply with our rules",
"pronormative_score": 47,
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} | AITA for kicking a girl off my Airsoft team because she refused to comply with our rules? | I am team leader of an Airsoft team. We have an official statewide ranking and there's a core of us who travel to play in national tournaments. I get that some people will think it's super dorky but it's my passion and it keeps me outside, in shape and with my friends.
We have a very strict "military-realistic" poli... | HISTORICAL | {
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SF0jMeU5rGl53xnN8hVsuDDHa7QHXSFb | ba8jid | {
"description": "changing my mind about driving my gf to work but offering to get her an Uber there instead",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for changing my mind about driving my gf to work but offering to get her an Uber there instead? | My girlfriend [28F] asked me [27M] this morning if I would drive her to work this evening, about an hour drive each way so 2 hours total for my trip.
Normally she takes transit to work during the week since I’m not around and she can’t drive, but since it’s the weekend I’m available. Initially I said yes but now it’s ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nity258waa98dEIh5IinltEgLOu5OJMj | 9wusfp | {
"description": "telling a friend/coworker to take responsibility for her failed relationships",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling a friend/coworker to take responsibility for her failed relationships? | My coworker is constantly complaining about her flings and relationships to myself and another female coworker. She will randomly spurt out things like “he’s probably found someone else” or “he’s definitely with another girl” if he doesn’t answer her texts. In addition, she always complains about not being able to trus... | HISTORICAL | {
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YCfEiI6gJD7bwK4b2b38S30tiitGCG3S | a8fvkr | {
"description": "keeping my wife from bringing our dog to the vet until morning to save",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA For keeping my wife from bringing our dog to the vet until morning to save $$ | There is something wrong with the dog but she does not seem to be in pain. Threw up several times this-morning, lethargic, won't eat dinner, acting weird and overly affectionate.
My wife wants to take her to the 24hr animal hospital. I'm not spending $300 just to find confirm an 11 yro dog is sick. I'm sure good 'ole ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GYrQ7j6ngAknGgp7erjrcRBUh1e9G9Np | awa8mo | {
"description": "messing around with a Girl my friend liked",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For Messing Around With A Girl My Friend Liked? | I have a class with a friend and we both met an attractive classmate, let's call her Dana. I thought she was cute but didn't think much of it, meanwhile my friend falls head over heels for any girl that even remotely sparks his interest. He goes on and on about her after class, (which really annoyed me because he does ... | HISTORICAL | {
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bYMeYZmMjR0K3oa6QIwMeSMwhZI1OtZp | azfhje | {
"description": "theoretically refusing to date a guy shorter than me",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for theoretically refusing to date a guy shorter than me? | My friends and I, were having a discussion about turn-ons and turn-offs. (Side note: I am a women and I'm 7'5). When asked about turn-offs I said that I didn't like dating guys who was significantly shorter than me (a little short is fine). Well one of my friends took offend at this and started going off about how I wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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ep8TXNr9U3Ig9OiNwPDLEEUiSSonqq8i | aybfms | {
"description": "making my own plans even though I carpool with a colleague",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | WIBTA for making my own plans even though I carpool with a colleague? | So I’m (21m) currently in pharmacy school and for the past year or so I’ve been commuting (about 30-45 mins one way) to school from my place by myself. Colleague/friend (30m) who lived very close to campus ran into some financial troubles and had to move back home about 10 mins from where i live. He doesn’t have a lice... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ZiHpUDFbyvGzYzjyBT9iKcYinGTMt3L5 | b214sc | {
"description": "getting a puppy from a breeder and not adopting",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for getting a puppy from a breeder and not adopting? | I’ve been trying to adopt a dog for a few months now. I follow all the rescues in my region and have been denied repeatedly. Mostly because I live in an apartment. I’m in a big city that’s very dog friendly. I have a private backyard. I live right next to a dog park, but they don’t care. The second I say I live in an a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
GHmb2aObRDBTAm8iT4o7sNn0FOKe1thf | axqvk4 | {
"description": "getting upset my boyfriend would rather not have sex until I can get birth control, then use a condom",
"pronormative_score": 33,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for getting upset my boyfriend would rather not have sex until I can get birth control, then use a condom? | I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months (29 and 38 respectively). We don't use condoms as I'm on the implant but it expired. I went to have it changed but the nurse wasn't confident and referred me to a doctor so they could ultrasound. This is in a couple of weeks.
I mentioned condoms to my boyfriend, he just said h... | HISTORICAL | {
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zb6zYon0H1akeRj3xTtHzzPR7L0efXP4 | aqsrz5 | {
"description": "saying I love my cats more than my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for saying I love my cats more than my boyfriend. | My boyfriend is pissed and upset with me because he said I love my cats more than him. and I jokingly said I do. And then he said that makes him very upset that I love my pets more than my own boyfriend. I got annoyed and said "you're jealous over my pets?" and he said he's not but it upsets him a lot.
​
... | HISTORICAL | {
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G3EkcK5arzCCRSK9YxFhavSttCbhWzJD | 9u115d | {
"description": "getting into an argument with my internet video game buddy of 6 years, because he didnt feel like voting next week, and effectively ending our relationship because I no longer felt it was healthy",
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} | AITA because I got into an argument with my internet video game buddy of 6 years, because he didnt feel like voting next week, and I effectively ended our relationship because I no longer felt it was healthy? | Basically could not express to my friend the importance of voting in america. I expressed the importance as his friend who had served in the military, who now works as a contractor for the government etc,etc.
I honestly could not comprehend how I personally found value in someone who is that apathetic about their o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
mx2PgISVQlaYN1Sun3sCFyXk4JheDMUC | abp0p4 | {
"description": "not going to my Grandma's retirement dinner",
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} | AITA for not going to my Grandma's retirement dinner? | Hey Reddit,
I’m fully prepared to be the asshole here, but I wanted to get some outside opinions.
Some context: I currently live with my grandmother and her boyfriend. They have been together for around 15 years. I am a University student, in graduate school for a master’s degree (2-3 courses at a time, each semest... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
hx2VaOa3LO2qKVRPEfu7uEogHlnLXZs3 | aozs97 | {
"description": "being a dialysis patient and rejecting a potential doner costing my Dad a large portion of his family",
"pronormative_score": 30,
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} | AITA - I am a dialysis patient and rejecting a potential doner has cost my Dad a large portion of his family | So, like the title says, I am a dialysis patient. For the last 1.5 years I've been doing dialysis to keep myself alive. As a young man of 19 years of age, having my cousin offer to be a doner was huge for me however things haven't quite worked out that well.
For context, my cousin is is a few years older than me, she'... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 30,
"WRONG": 17
} | RIGHT |
WZwjHzyF9hkuigrbaTvFjp0UsL9MPac5 | aarmiq | {
"description": "calling out my friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for calling out my friend | It all started when my best friend posted a screenshot of an instagram post, and my other friend called Him out that he is a cunt for taking a screenshot of someone's post, so I called her out and said that she literally does the same thing. She right away said that it's a joke, but I knew it wasn't, because this isn't... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
wfPXqDOZ29EPAJpgAvO9PZGxAb7BjmCQ | b3g9ju | {
"description": "disowning my pregnant sister after our mom died",
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} | AITA for disowning my pregnant sister after our mom died |
My sister(25F) had a baby last year and I(29F) have not been in contact with her since she announced her pregnancy. Around the time our mother passed away she got pregnant, but her BF(28M) was in jail and she decided to get an abortion. I helped her through the process but never pressured her decision to get the ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
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SsEIoGRhqUTXbccjMqXxhSRzxq12ikyS | 9xxrqv | {
"description": "not going into work this morning",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not going into work this morning? | I work at a small pizza shop mainly doing deliveries and dishes. I also help out with prep work when I have time. Now when I say small don't confuse that for slow. Yesterday broke a record for the shop; from 11am-10pm we did over 500 orders. On a busy Friday we typically only do 300-400. Understandably we ran out of a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 2,
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UpzPqP449knzo7KJIgSfNRadVS8jgBXV | a2j2xj | {
"description": "going to a party late that my mother knew about",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for going to a party late that my mother knew about? | So I know a lot of these leave out information and are called out for such, so I’ll try and leave nothing out and answer any questions. So I’m 16, and yesterday my friend turned 17. He texted me in the morning to invite me out to the mall and the Dave and busters attached to it from 7-10 for his birthday. I asked my mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | RIGHT |
LGw6wP8eKIUYuIKERwyD4IhbK7Euuaxc | aryj0y | {
"description": "stopping my friend from getting laid",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for stopping my friend from getting laid? | So, before I get into this, I have to give some background.
Last year, he hooked up with a friend of his that we all knew. It was only a BJ, but he deeply regrets what happened and said he would never do it again. Everyone, including the “new” girl, knew about the exchange.
Last night we went to one of our “new” frie... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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gsdzUFaLYqY4V3eg8vhcUsJGriekLuzh | ago8hu | {
"description": "not holding the door open for two girls",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not holding the door open for two girls? | So, some context. This happened a couple nights ago at a convenience store. I walked in for just one thing. There's a homeless dude outside in a wheel chair that tends to yell at me when I see him. Bout a 100,000 people town but downtown you see a lot of the same people. I don't think I'm being targeted but yeah.
&... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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kJ0Uyk2wrIBLH4ZfmiLgaw0vAEMq3A7o | b6fvgr | {
"description": "taking my \"friend's\" WiFi bill out of my name",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I take my “friend’s” WiFi bill out of my name? | I’ve known Mike for about 8 years. During those years we’ve tried to make things work romantically, but things never seemed to go the way we’ve expected them to.
Distance has always been a major factor. Right now we’re on opposite ends of the country. It takes me three days to drive to where he lives.
He asked me to... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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VOg47BftHF1JyLNZI5j1rZwkvNZmZn5w | ayv9nx | {
"description": "bringing spicy lunches to work",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for bringing spicy lunches to work? | I really love spicy food, and a lot of my day-to-day meals have some sort of spice to it. It's just what I'm used to and prefer. I'm also aware that my spice tolerance is typically on the relatively high/extreme end.
Anyway, my "meal-prepped" weekday lunches (not necessarily healthy but enough to last a full week) are... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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enhbxfjkitedgP5PcZaxYB3xwUBVRzwa | aenf0d | {
"description": "distancing myself from my friend going through depression",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for distancing myself from my friend going through depression? | So I've been close friends with a girl I met at university.
This semester was interesting because she started acting weird (disappeared from a party without notice and leaving me and my friends frantically worried about her not replying to our texts). She later confided in us that she was diagnosed with low grade dep... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
K88nx8MYjfSg3Zl1ebJ6COeTh8yCbncJ | aycfxw | {
"description": "telling someone she had something on her forehead and hinting to wipe it off",
"pronormative_score": 124,
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} | AITA For telling someone she had something on her forehead and hinting to wipe it off? | It was fucking ash wed. I'm not religious do I didn't know. She got so mad at me. I didn't even know lady. So am I the asshole if I offend someone's religious thing on accident? | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 4
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 124,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
rlQtUCokwA8SsL6RxMFxMPLNeqwPSVfj | b5xbjr | {
"description": "telling a girl Im seeing I didnt like her being on twitter",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling a girl im seeing i didnt like her being on twitter | Ok so title sounds striaght up but doesnt give the full story. Ive been on 4 "dates" now with this girl. First date was dinner then basically ended up just snuggling up watching movies for the rest. We have had constant contact litterally every day morning until night. Last night we cancelled our plans because i was ve... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 12
} | WRONG |
GP81jw4bPtIMHWlbd5LTlY470mDGeiPx | b962qj | {
"description": "blocking insensitive aunt out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for blocking insensitive aunt out of my life | So to start off this is my first Reddit post and I'm only 13 so go easy on my grammar. So little backstory I lost my mom to health issues that I wasn't told about, and I never show my emotions so I was just a walking piece of sadness. I wasn't obviously sad but if you're around me enough you would be able to tell I'm h... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
MoxoNO4yVkNPVlhLcsUSRXZaY9m7ho1M | atesex | {
"description": "being mad at my brother for destroying a Confederate flag my sister inherited",
"pronormative_score": 51,
"contranormative_score": 21
} | AITA for being mad at my brother for destroying a Confederate flag my sister inherited? | For context my brother D is the oldest child, my sister H is the second and I am the third. My brother is an overall pretty hard to get along with person, he has a way of turning any event miserable. But when he isn't being grumpy he's pretty nice to be around and have conversation with.
My brother and I both moved aw... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 51,
"WRONG": 21
} | RIGHT |
9mlmrCGArCCcptZYOykgeySztW2QHqqB | anx2uz | {
"description": "refusing to apologize to my co-worker when he lost his own property",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for refusing to apologize to my co-worker when he lost his own property? | First, I apologize for how long this will be.
So, I work in the auto repossession industry in a spotter car. I work day shift and the co-worker in this story works nights. We share a vehicle and both engage in common sense ways to help the other: make sure the tank is full at the end of our shift, report any damage... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
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Dq80FWJjPStZDvwT8aqrxoOyuNAK5m1O | aqwyim | {
"description": "not making coffee for the office",
"pronormative_score": 27,
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} | AITA because I don't make coffee for the office? | Okay, this is going to be pretty tame/lame compared to some of the other posts here, but it's been bothering me and my mind for awhile.
In my office we have about 15 workers and out of that maybe 13 of them drink coffee/espresso/etc. We have a bunch of coffee makers, espresso machines, all the stuff a coffee shop wou... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 27,
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URC7difZ7FOKyUGJG5hO7e3noA6YCV3e | azyk40 | {
"description": "letting my mom come to stay with my Wife and I after having a child",
"pronormative_score": 48,
"contranormative_score": 42
} | AITA for letting my mom come to stay with my Wife and I after having a child? | My Wife and I had our first baby, a boy, four months ago. It's been great, if not exhausting. My Wife and I have a great relationship, the only real problem we've ever had is housework. At best in the time I've know her it's been a 65/35 split with me doing the 65, most of the time it's been 80/20. This was something I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 11,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 48,
"WRONG": 42
} | RIGHT |
7YwSeCYyAZHpsZ9r2UOZb38cIsDs1ITZ | awv8qr | {
"description": "getting mad at my mum that her 3 year old daughter broke my laptop",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for getting mad at my mum that her 3 year old daughter broke my laptop? | Sorry for poor formatting and/or any spelling mistakes in advance.
I'm 16M. I have exams coming up and have assignments due which I used my laptop for. I used my laptop for writing these up, researching where needed and when I wasn't doing any of my school work I was either on Discord with friends or watching Netflix.... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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bESFm71ftPo6WmnSY1zQjbSoIUEbb8bU | alei5k | {
"description": "saying something about my roommate that I think she overheard",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for saying something about my roommate that I think she overheard | So, my SO and I have a roommate. I charge her only $500 all inclusive, meaning her portion of the light bill and everything else + rent is all in one. We live in a nice 3bed/2bath house, approx. 1500 SF. All things considered, she is a great roommate. Takes care of our dogs while we're gone or at work and she's home, c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
3D4d0LHLBxJKH2iySnJCSsd0FZifFe1f | a732nm | {
"description": "putting a dog poop bag sidewalk and picking it up on my way home",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA For putting a dog poop bag sidewalk and picking it up on my way home? | When I walk my dog in our suburban neighborhood, if she poops close to home I pick it up in a bag and set the bag next to the sidewalk. We walk back the same way, between 30-45 minutes later. I pick up the bag and dispose of it at home. If she poops farther way or if we aren't walking back the same way, I carry it w... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 7,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
bAeUt5Wps1tadAntATOLWHXPfjBtOlaW | akhpe8 | {
"description": "not going to my friends parents tattoo parlor",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not going to my friends parents tattoo parlor. | So here is the story,
One of my friends parents are tattoo artist. And she had been telling me go to her parents place and check it out. I heard not to good thing about their place by many people. And when I checked it out I didn’t like their work. And I told her that. So I decided to a place to get my tattoo that I li... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
dxIY64VeoYEH9a8LEkeIWb4NOKpmxn84 | ailj85 | {
"description": "wanting better customer service",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for wanting better customer service | During two months, I could barely use my phone plan at all. Texts wouldn't arrive until hours later, calls would drop within a minute or not go through at all, data just straight up refused to work because it would load so slowly, it would time out continuously. I was shown as having *some* usage, but in reality my pla... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
42jKDxSCtLHsb5vp20pw1LxUKtSmf6Me | b9y9pd | {
"description": "working on personal projects at work",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | Aita for working on personal projects at work? | I got caught working on personal projects during work hours yikes! But hear me out
Im a graphic designer for a digital marketing agency and i run my own art business on the side. So on my day to day i have a few tasks that i need to accomplish plus all the other stuff that my coworkers request from me. That is my role,... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 12,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 12
} | RIGHT |
3YhOLbb2i64NYIsh7qqKBjN7Ha2pDedp | a2v3sd | {
"description": "pausing my little brothers connection to WiFi as punishment",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for pausing my little brothers connection to WiFi as punishment? | In my household I’ve recently got internet service and has been paying the bills ever since. I’m 18 and my little brother is 14. Whenever he’s ever giving an attitude or not doing chores I’d punish him by cutting off the WiFi connection usually for 30 mins and sometimes a whole day if it’s really bad.
This morning I s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
E5xOYrVpwIHPg86aQv3BUok7TVAI8POb | b4me8a | {
"description": "taking my grandfather's cigarettes away",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 10
} | WIBTA for taking my grandfather's cigarettes away? | He has severe lung damage and keeps ending up in the hospital. The doctors say he can't smoke anymore or he'll die. He has these electrical cigarettes that cause less damage but he can't light them very well.
He can't move well so he rarely buys cigarettes since he needs someone to go with him, and before my mother did... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 10,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
fwBNGXFDhzr6OlQLqbN0ciCkXce7l0e9 | b9k3ji | {
"description": "wortying about my best friend being sexually irresponsible",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wortying about my best friend being sexually irresponsible? | I (19F) have been worried about my best friend and future roommate (18M) for a while. He, I, and our other best friend (18F) are all college "gifted kid burnouts". We were all very accomplished in high school (before we knew each other), but also all miserable and without social lives or romantic/sexual experience. My ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
9FtU5hHrT1GUmeh2MywdiEYHRCEwdtb9 | alzcfu | {
"description": "getting upset at my bf's Instagram habits",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting upset at my bf’s Instagram habits? | First Reddit post whew and it’s a long one so buckle in! TL;DR at the bottom. So my bf [21M] and I [20F] have been together for two years. About 6 months ago a friend pointed out to me that my bf’s been almost religiously liking a lot of stereotypical thirst trap Instagram posts (they noticed thanks to the activity tab... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
0ddb7PxibiXOPM2kAH2J4fn1bZg4mgoM | aqfj9h | {
"description": "pretending to be friends with a guy who might ruin my life if I cut him off",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for pretending to be friends with a guy who might ruin my life if i cut him off? | So, about a year ago i became friends with this gay dude. Found out a short time later that he had a crush on me. I let him know that i wasn't interested but that we could remain friends. He was a fun person to be around and i had a lot of free time then so we hung out a lot. His family was also very nice to me and... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
45SkW5UEAWnQBnDlXSTA4dkT2uZDwFTX | apdo0k | {
"description": "yelling at my mom for telling people about how she got pregnant with me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for yelling at my mom for telling people about how she got pregnant with me? | So this is an argument that comes up whenever my mom (50)talks about how she found out she was pregnant with me (M 22). The way she tells the story is that one night she got super drunk and the next morning she forgot to take her birth control because of how hungover she was. Now she says that she would’ve eventually m... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 9,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
TeOGhm3nAgkBapn4rHbN3zlPQWrK2no5 | ao3sjx | {
"description": "refusing to babysit for distant relatives, because they don't allow me to discipline their kids",
"pronormative_score": 79,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for refusing to babysit for distant relatives, because they don't allow me to discipline their kids? (Majority of my extended family seems to think so) | I first posted this on r/relationships, but the mods removed it and told me to ask here, so here it is.
Last year I got to babysit my three little cousins aged 4, 7 and 9 years old a few times. The first 2-3 times they were well behaved, because I was new, but then they really showed what little brats they can be. Le... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 79,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 79,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
cgbCxUQ39n4DSDVftlzWZTeDla3qyHzg | b21wu1 | {
"description": "not sending my boyfriend pictures",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not sending my boyfriend pictures? | My boyfriend keeps asking me for pictures of me. Not nudes but other “sensual” stuff like my thighs etc. The thing is that I suffer from social anxiety so sending someone pictures of me makes me really uncomfortable (especially since I gained some weight which I’m currently trying to get rid of). We’re in a long distan... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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