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"description": "making noise to get back at loud neighbors in university dorm",
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} | AITA for making noise to get back at loud neighbors in university dorm? | I live in a university dorm and have people who live below me who routinely are loud, even til 3am. I let them be until it affects my sleep (like 2am), but even when I bang on the floor to quiet them down, they yell back and bang on the ceiling.
I also use a jump rope in my room and I have heard the people below hate ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not sharing an ice lolly with my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for not sharing an ice lolly with my boyfriend | I've been very stressed with school, and after having a breakdown (which to be fair he did help calm me down from), I go to my freezer, and take out the last ice lolly because dammit, I'm sad and tired and dehydrated and I want chocolate. (worth noting, we don't live together, the ice cream is very much mine)
Bf asks ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "dumping my gf after feeling abandoned",
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} | AITA - Dumping my GF after feeling abandoned | Story goes like this: We had been dating for about half a year (Give or take) and my gf at the time was doing theater in Bern. I'm not a big fan of it myself, but I did like her singing, so I would make time to go see her whenever she had practice or a show.
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It was December, and I had caught a pretty bad... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "dobbing my Ex in for defrauding welfare benefits",
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} | WIBTA if I dobbed my Ex in for defrauding welfare benefits? | So my Ex and I broke up a while ago due to her cheating on me throughout the entire relationship. I devoted a huge portion of my life and money to her. We were even engaged to be married. It was a messy breakup. I ended up banging her sister after we broke up, who recently spilled the beans and resulted in a big drama ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "not allowing my friend's so to come on our trip",
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} | AITA for not allowing my friend’s SO to come on our trip? | My two longterm best friends (lets call them B and C) and I have been talking about doing a trip to Peru together as a last hoorah since B and I will be moving away in a couple months to start new jobs. We haven’t really done much actual planning yet but we know we’re gonna go.
C recently got into a new relationship ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "considering ghosting my \"friend\"",
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} | AITA for considering ghosting my “friend”? | So, buckle up for a long story.
I met my boyfriend 2 years ago, and honestly? We’ve had ups and downs. He was in a rough school, and being that he is pretty socially awkward, he ended up making the situation doubly difficult. I was pushing overtime in a job I hated as to support our relationship and my hobbies while ... | HISTORICAL | {
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I’ll start off saying I think that 9 maybe 10pm is a reasonable time to stop playing a loud ass instrument, but silly brother here often plays to almost midnight as long as it’s “quietly”. When he plays “quietly”, it’s still loud enough to wak... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "calling my girlfriend a bitch",
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} | AITA for Calling my Girlfriend a Bitch? | My girlfriend and I have a great relationship and have had no problem with swearing at each other in the past. We don't do it mean spiritedly, we do it lovingly.
If I have something to show he, I'll often say, "get over here bitch" or if we're watching a movie and she keeps talking I'll say "shut the fuck up I'm tryin... | HISTORICAL | {
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bAxGiLEwXVju9088xTmAjjz6Y1gT2eZV | aqd9zr | {
"description": "not wishing happy birthday to my ex",
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} | WIBTAH for not wishing happy birthday to my ex? | I broke up with him last January (over a year ago!) and it was... messy in a weird way. We still had to live together until April when I could move out - he was surprised at my final goodbye, thinking that I'd be back after handing in my keys and taking all my stuff for some reason (him?).
We then had issues getting ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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YnNpGu6q7KrlCuS3xPaD4qXWSpMNJUtF | a1alru | {
"description": "cutting ties with my friend",
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} | AITAH for cutting ties with my friend? | I’ve (M18) known this girl (F21) for almost three years. The first year I had a crush on her but after some realization decided that she’s better to me as a friend. She’s a very flirtatious person, which isn’t necessarily bad in my opinion but she’d go pretty far with it even if she was in a relationship. She once said... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "considering forcing my housemate to move out",
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} | AITA for considering forcing my housemate to move out? | Okay so this is a bit of a long one, there will be a tl;dr though.
I am a 17 year old female living with my parents, but in October a good friend of mine, we’ll call her S, was kicked out by her mom while she was sleeping over at my house. Her family is more than a little dysfunctional, mostly they’re just over dramat... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "accidentally breaking an NDA",
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} | AITA for accidentally breaking an NDA? | So mobile app developer here. New to the industry. Did an unpaid internship for 7 months then a low paying position with another startup for 9 months.
I've been struggling with finding a a better overall position and I finally passed the interview process elsewhere. They wanted to see some samples of my recent code so... | HISTORICAL | {
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fnz0fgZRHhTs2RoEf4n0JZmJBzwGHT1X | b1yux4 | {
"description": "not wanting froyo",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For not wanting froyo? | Yesterday, my SO asked me if I wanted to go get froyo. I knew we had a couple pints of ice cream in the freezer, and really was craving one, and mentioned that to see if that was preferable. She said no, she would rather go get froyo, which I was fine with so I agreed. About 5 min later, she asked if it would be ok to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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n9kxeIsKTZmTasuvJiWcJGRI6xh73ZmO | afsx6p | {
"description": "regularly hanging out with a male friend without telling my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for regularly hanging out with a male friend without telling my boyfriend | Hey, so for context I have been dating my boyfriend for ~2 years and we have a “closed” (monogamous) relationship. All the people involved in the post are college-aged but very childish (which will become clear after reading the post).
I’m actually very happy in the relationship and I think he is as well. He is defini... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | WRONG |
sVDulACtshfAgVbY633X3i7PA5hNqLEX | a2pcaj | {
"description": "hating my brothers girlfriend and wanting them to split up",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for hating my brothers girlfriend and wanting them to split up | Let me just preface this by saying, it’d take me fearing for his safety to actually sabotage the relationship.
But my brother, I’ll call him B, and his girlfriend, I’ll call her G have been together for a year and a half now. He’s just turned 21 and she’s 20. They live on the other side of the country and when I met G... | HISTORICAL | {
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M3SWvQ1U9MvPmvmuvFfv7Mj1J7D6oWEg | a0ivnf | {
"description": "yelling at my dad for bringing in more furniture",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for yelling at my dad for bringing in more furniture? | My dad has a history of collecting what I think is old junk. He frequently buys old, run down cars (we have 7 cars at home right now, not a single one was manufactured in the past 10 years, most of them are 1980-2000s cars, 3 of them don't run. We also have 2 cars in the back yard, and neither of them run.) and he freq... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
jo8MXpDJIMZKvQ0dbMmAqSFH1ERuyAp0 | ajgqfr | {
"description": "taking some random girl's clothes out of the dryer",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for taking some random girl's clothes out of the dryer? | Made some girl really mad.
My college dorm has 6 washers and only 4 dryers. Doing my laundry yesterday, I noticed after taking my clothes out of the washer that all of the dryers were taken. And there were mounds of other people's wet clothes all around the room... because of people like this chick. Had one item in a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 66,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 66
} | WRONG |
knf2evnGR4EeCGw2UhTWbiX7vjrJjZNw | at3ge7 | {
"description": "asking my sister to cover her self harm scars",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for asking my sister to cover her self harm scars | Ok so I know how this sounds but I have to know because it’s really getting to me.
So my sister is four years older than me and right now she is living at home having just left University and is looking for a job. When my sister was seventeen she was bullied really badly and due to this she would self harm for a reall... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 123,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 12,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 123
} | WRONG |
xnux4VAE3t3idXxy7jZyDNZfWsfCgLtj | a2hcts | {
"description": "eating Breakfast",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for eating Breakfast? | This happened probably a week ago now, but I can't stop thinking about it.
My family goes and picks out a tree every year for our grandparents house. This year we got done pretty early so we decide to go eat dinner. We ended up going to McDonalds because no one proposed a better idea.
I ended up getting two breakfast... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZMEsv9mD6EzQKo56WOF67YaKKKP4Eu5s | anrfbo | {
"description": "not wanting to pay bills that I do not use since I've moved out",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to pay bills that I do not use since I've moved out? | Let me preface this a little.
I graduated college a semester early and moved back home while job shadowing and waiting to get into grad schools. Since I have no money, my parents are actually paying for what I used at college (ie- rent, utilities). I have lived with my roommates for a couple years. Every summer, we a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
dmFQN9uh1Ybo862F56b1PQ48KvsXq356 | ap01ur | {
"description": "not saying I pushed someones baby",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA because I didn't say I pushed someones baby (Which I didn't) | Hello. First-time poster on this subreddit. Whole story first, then a TL;DR.
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A while ago my parents had the mother of one of my friends over. We're all pretty good friends, and talk as if we had been friends for a long time. My parents mainly invite them over for game night, but it's basically "Smoke, ch... | HISTORICAL | {
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yBvOaEoI4YvET5ESzy0tF20wSFrKCX23 | ah5p8s | {
"description": "regularly declining voluntary ot",
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} | AITA for regularly declining voluntary OT? | I work as a forklift operator at a warehouse, and I'm trained in virtually every operation that requires any type of forklift, because of this when we get busy my skills are in high demand. Usually a lead will ask me to work OT, but typically I decline because work-life balance is important ti me and I know mandatory O... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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RgNk3X7RkLkxdKkn3TscdkA3iaEJdO5q | b483g8 | {
"description": "not telling my friend about removing him from a group project",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not telling my friend about removing him from a group project? | Tldr at the bottom. First off a bit of context (also on mobile so I apologize in advance for formatting):
I'm in 10th grade and recently had to do a group project in one of my classes. Now in the past, I had a friend (I'll call him Carl) who used to be my best friend (since 2nd grade). I'd say we had a little too many... | HISTORICAL | {
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NSh6XYRxxjsjTBV6H1w9giZ25C7Uptj3 | ae3f5d | null | AITA in this disagreement about clashing audio from two games? | My SO and I are both playing games in our game room with our tvs right next to each other. They recently got the Persona rhythm game and I got Moonlighter. My hearing isn't great so I have my tv turned up a bit to hear the music and sounds in the game. They tell me to turn mine down so they can hear their game better a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
6g1p7ssGAESXBcpRgl1mFF1Tv8irQhCH | ar0bsw | {
"description": "getting Upset that my GF got me nothing for valentines",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For Getting Upset that my GF Got me Nothing For Valentines? | I'm M22, She's f20. Been together for about 6 months and she likes getting gifts so I knew she'd want something for V day plus dinner. I got her a charm from pandora for her bracelet and a ring from pandora, few roses, card, small teddy bear and a card and paid for dinner last night at a decent restaurant. She really l... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
2kPiKW2JChp1SZ7R9MNAt6iXXMADwQje | ay5l4u | {
"description": "not having my father at my wedding because he never invited me to his",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for not having my father at my wedding because he never invited me to his? | Typical story, parents got divorced when I was 12. They both got remarried.
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But when my father got remarried, they "eloped". I found out a few weeks later that they actually had my stepmother's kids present. I have held onto this grudge forever. It has affected my relationship with my father and my step ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
AnsmqAlTAMe2akE6tMaI3d1a6vYrJOxM | a3w959 | {
"description": "not wanting to put someone else's money into my account and deposit and give it to them",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to put someone else's money into my account and deposit and give it to them? | Title.
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My cousin texted me asking me to deposit money her father sent her through PayPal into my account. Checking out the money at an ATM and giving it to her cash. She said she doesn't want it to go to her bank account because she already has automatic payments setup (???). I'm not familiar with PayPa... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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} | RIGHT |
1yMJuF9QQQNSWukXHiHlYODwhfE7tPOC | apo2jy | {
"description": "wanting to live with my mom instead of my dad",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to live with my mom instead of my dad? | I made a post on here earlier and following the events of that post I make this one, because I don’t think I can live with him anymore. I sent him a message saying that I don’t think it’s fair how much I have to do around the house (because I have to do a lot and I feel like I have to fill the position of “housewife” w... | HISTORICAL | {
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hTTPZzspMqR5VZd68KhwZAnDA5Gc7jKZ | amh7i1 | {
"description": "not wanting to quit smoking",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For Not Wanting to Quit Smoking? | A bit of backstory: I (16f) started smoking about a year and a half ago after an incident with an ex boyfriend left me with some pretty bad anxiety, especially at school. I picked up smoking as a coping mechanism, but dropped it for a while in favor of vaping. When I dated my current boyfriend for the first time (May-A... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
dSe0PHlh4T09pZrjz2fSotXQ4qu0NOuA | b0zfxc | {
"description": "not wanting my parents to constantly send things to my sister/cousin",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting my parents to constantly send things to my sister/cousin? | For clarity my youngest sister was adopted from my family because my uncle and his wife both cannot conceive children. My uncle has three children including my sister that he has adopted from our side and his in laws. Uncle owns his own computer retail and repair shop, so hes well off.
My younger sister has always bee... | HISTORICAL | {
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2WWwL7b04TUtAO8N9d29SyNmwdDm0wj9 | aqjvw4 | {
"description": "arguing with my mom on the phone",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA After arguing with my mom on the phone | This post is gonna grow off of this previous: [AITA Haven't spoken with my mother since Christmas after some fighting](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/agt1rm/aita_havent_spoken_with_my_mother_since_christmas/)
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I'm 17 m and the relationship between me and my mom for the past two months has... | HISTORICAL | {
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QUAWl90oAMuBlhcvHQyWiHlnvoOz90LY | a0rfx1 | {
"description": "making jokes about Paul Walker",
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} | AITA for making jokes about Paul Walker | I recently was playing rocket league online and made a joke about Paul Walker's death after my Fast and Furious Replica car was blown up. My teammates got offended by it and yelled at me for the rest of the match. I feel like enough time has passed for the joke to be okay now. AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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Xk30tlj498Gs7lEvPDJYlaTubwZVEJ4A | b5ptb0 | {
"description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for not going to prom with me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for not going to prom with me? | Some background here: She first approached me about going to prom and at the time I was pretty against it because I am not really one for school dances and such. She was pretty upset and said how she really wanted to go with me and such. About a week later I figured that I should go because that's what couples do and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
sLs7khCEdYDhspkO0u8Dt4EzxU6PUia1 | aexdvw | {
"description": "ditching my boyfriend on Valentine's day",
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} | WIBTA for ditching my boyfriend on Valentine’s Day? | Hello fellow proctologists, thank you for your time and your help in figuring this one out. I’ve thought through it from a few different angles and can’t seem to find a satisfactory approach.
Some backstory: A few years ago, on my birthday, I was targeted in a club and had my drink spiked. I was abducted by a pimp an... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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7IyPKbeIWR5vdwCvSKFrfbUn5xTKSKhr | att51n | {
"description": "\"isolating\" my significant other from her \"friends\"",
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A little backstory:
My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of years now, and for a great majority of that time, things have been wonderful.
Recently though, due to some issues related to trust, things have started to get a little rocky. For the last handful of months she's become obsessed with the ide... | HISTORICAL | {
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1taJM8wO8Q6qeDITYr6BX3KnvxZaRQPY | b53hks | {
"description": "siding with my nephew during dinner with my family",
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} | AITA for siding with my nephew during dinner with my family? | So basically my brother, his wife, his son (M 14), and his daughter came down to our place to visit us, me and my girlfriend. So over dinner we started talking about the gym, since my brother and his wife are trying to be a better and healthy family, and on the subject, my nephew started talking poorly about the gym's ... | HISTORICAL | {
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0SKfjGZ5WitSlwuICPXdOqZM3beNhqTB | aymtvo | {
"description": "being selfish",
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} | AITA for being selfish? | ( sorry for formatting I’m on mobile )
A little backstory: some weirdo is going around my school asking for girls info then threatenIng them. My gf was one of them and now her parents won’t let her out the house until she gets a drivers license.
Now, my gf texted me saying I’m very selfish. She refused to tell why a... | HISTORICAL | {
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U66cevpAnHWTZrh2dxCGhDREAqfPNvtT | a4linw | {
"description": "offering one of my roommates beers",
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} | AITA for offering one of my roommates beers? | I'd like to say I don't think it's generally ok to offer other peoples food or speak for someone else but I feel like the context of this scenario makes it justifiable. The roommate has in the past offered my drinks such as milk/soda to people and said that I wasn't being a "team player" for complaining about this desp... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZxOiTScHUTdtsNvh5HMHxJHVx41yREnH | b5kzyv | {
"description": "asking to break in line",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for asking to break in line? | I was recently in San Francisco for work and chose to stay at a hotel that was right next to my favorite cannabis dispensary. I've been to a bunch of places in the bay area, but this one is my favorite. The reason I like it so much is that the staff aren't super baked like a lot of the other places in the bay area, e... | HISTORICAL | {
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QA3CVXPzTBHnUrN0VNPKQocVqigzLoju | alsoc1 | {
"description": "recommending that a Family Member not go on a trip",
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} | AITA For Recommending That A Family Member Not Go On A Trip | So I'm going on a trip with my family, and we found out a year ago about this trip. During the initial planning we realized that there would be 3 free vouchers for these people to go for free. It was decided who would get these, and my brother was one of them.
For the past few years though my brother's been a flake... | HISTORICAL | {
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7Ezp5Uy5OJGPqb7tIP3zhEhQ5WQKgh2q | amqqgy | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my girlfriend? | I love my girlfriend to death, and between school and work we rarely get to hang out. Every other weekend we get to hangout, and for the most part I'm ecstatic when she gets to come over, as is her. But some days I just want to be alone, some days I dont entirely feel like being around anyone for that matter and that u... | HISTORICAL | {
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XxhHHdL2etNE8B1Mt8NLy8Cbhu4nwFHk | apdbf0 | {
"description": "refusing to do my brother's dishes",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for refusing to do my brother's dishes? | I’m confused at the moment. I just escaped an awkward, unfinished argument with my brother and his girlfriend. To preface this, my brother, his girlfriend, and I live in an apartment together and split the rent three ways. On the way home after being away with his girlfriend for three days, my brother texts me that I b... | HISTORICAL | {
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vVJOIb0nqP1Sgrvcpt8E91qWtshz4I7O | a3vqz5 | {
"description": "not giving a ride",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not giving a ride | I stopped by a gas station to get a drink, and was approached by a lady who was walking outside. She asked me to give her a ride, saying she had $2, for a few blocks down the street. I politely turned her down, despite her showing me her metal leg. She got very irritated and started yelling obscenities at me while exit... | HISTORICAL | {
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lPCngC4LaXcwLSBmJ7XUIH7CQ5W4em3c | axczn3 | {
"description": "not inviting future sister in law to our wedding",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA, we didn’t invite future sister in law to our wedding | Me [23f] and my fiancé [27m] are getting married in May. We did not invite my soon to be sister in law [23f] to the wedding. She just got out of prison. She was in there for a year, after years of drug addiction/legal issues.
She has reached out to my fiancé, saying she’s trying to live right and do better, which is g... | HISTORICAL | {
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pxFN2ipjUPd2URVRk7Y3iH6nu6Jw6gY5 | 9uf740 | {
"description": "asking to turn AirDrop off",
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} | AITA for asking to turn AirDrop off? | I work as Computer Support in a what should be secure environment. AirDrop is obviously not a very secure feature.
There were prior issues with it at a separate facility which I shut down real quick because I didn't want the hassle of individually removing files from each MacBook.
So as I entered into work on Thursda... | HISTORICAL | {
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75D7A8DKK5DnDyWrfiENkFf0s1zPNuNV | b8p1mi | {
"description": "telling people to take their hats off in a restaurant",
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} | WIBTA for telling people to take their hats off in a restaurant? | So this isn’t actually a scenario directed at me, but my girlfriend recently told me that her dad was really tempted to tell a group of strangers at a restaurant to take their hats off while they eat. He’s a very traditional type of guy, and so he was very angry to see that they (random strangers) were eating with thei... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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eKueGLIKFCaHr9aWEjYlYDPje0m7atq2 | b92u8x | {
"description": "planning my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA For Planning My Wedding? | At the beginning of this year my fiance and I started looking at wedding venues. My mother had expressed interest in the wedding planning so we included her in the process. Some backstory on my mom is that she is a bit of a helicopter parent. I graduated college back last May, have moved out of state, have a nice job, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zUyirh70XIoez0Qk69LwUBBV4hN6Nh8O | aisoza | {
"description": "not believing a student that threatened to shoot up my school can change",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not believing a student that threatened to shoot up my school can change? | Ok, so about a year ago someone threatened to shoot my school up, a student. I’m in 8th Grade. He had a list and everything, he was held in a correctional school until yesterday. He’s back to our school now. I never really talked to him, but I can’t shake the weird vibe around him. I look at him and he still has the lo... | HISTORICAL | {
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PmP7FqBazbC7QwnnNBRSRQDD1ZCjDFcI | awwu0e | {
"description": "going on a trip with a girl who is in love with me",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA if I went on a trip with a girl who is in love with me? | I have a girlfriend, Amy, who I’ve been with for 9 months. The girl who is mentioned in the title is Melissa my friend of 3 years. M is part of a group of 7 friends from college.
About 4 months ago, Melissa and I planned a trip for our college friend group to go to Hawaii in May. Melissa was in charge of coordinating... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HnRiDWmYLdpCglCa5FuFNpqgkFb8PbmK | aooh62 | {
"description": "taking my brother's Phone away Dor showing everybody I didn't want to show my grades",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For taking My Brother's Phone Away Dor Showing Everybody I Didn't Want To Show My Grades? | So to start things off, Im a high schooler and a while ago, I used my brothers phone to see my emails. Big mistake, right? So, then I logged off (or I assumed I did). Simple as that. Fast forward 2 months later, we're at my cousin's house. We're having a small family meeting, and for some reason, they have to brin... | HISTORICAL | {
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4oxnmm8UoUMWZT0jNQnr9nYvIaKisdHD | b8l4zo | {
"description": "not inviting my best friend's boyfriend of 3 years to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not inviting my best friend’s boyfriend of 3 years to my wedding? | Tl;dr at the bottom
My best friend of 8 years (we’ll call her Kate) and her bf (Roger) have been together for 3 years and have a house together. And they fight constantly. Not just your run of the mill arguments either, they are incredibly abusive to one another.
I held in my feelings about Roger for a long time un... | HISTORICAL | {
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hKKMRqVstLczKSL1aSgSAFCr3EVG1qZy | apxnge | {
"description": "helping ban cheaters from CS:go",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for helping ban cheaters from CS:GO | So shortly after I started playing CS:GO I met my first cheater in the game. Later he ACTUALLY contacted me and called me an asshole for ruining his fun. I know this post is BS but, I think most players will agree I'm on the bright side. | HISTORICAL | {
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iQowitXFIUSG3DYB1mP1ERXCCo3aMzaG | awldh8 | {
"description": "not wanting to go on a trip with my friend and his wife",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go on a trip with my friend and his wife? | First off, I hate the thought of being a third wheel but this friend of mine is my best friend so I tolerate it for him. We had been planning to go to an event in California during spring break but whenever anything about the subject is brought up, he just expects me to have the info ready for them. From the Air bnb, t... | HISTORICAL | {
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s7Vjv239VtNIVVZyldavkq3wC16v5mGR | ai58we | {
"description": "not being sappy enough",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not being sappy enough? | My girlfriend is currently At work and is always messaging me "wyd", or, "hello? Are you there?". Every ten minutes while I'm with two of my friends at my house playing Smash Bros or something else. I always tell her the same thing when she asks these. "I'm with Blank and Blank playing Smash at my house. We haven't m... | HISTORICAL | {
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A4Zxd5r0I8yMrvIRI1HCLNKac6XoW6LI | atxbo9 | {
"description": "not sharing money with my immediate family",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not sharing money with my immediate family? | I've recently come across a large sum of money. News spread out and a bunch of people, including friends and relatives I haven't talked to in years, have come out of the woodworks trying to get friendly with me. Obviously I don't care about them, but there are others, like my parents that had me under their roof until ... | HISTORICAL | {
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MVEf5nD68jDCnZyTup5uqRFXnB6B418G | 9w8khy | {
"description": "ghosting my Family",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA If I Ghosted My Family? | I really just want my whole family to fuck off. I'm 15, so I know my opinion will change on this with time, but right now I really don't want to be near anyone in my family.
My mom has beaten me, cursed at me, threatened my life and livelihood, but still expects me to want to talk to her. A year and a half ago, I cam... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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sgy6XEwItqTEuW6oIM2hsFPo9AL1HrBt | arn1go | {
"description": "refusing to play the piano for my family",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for refusing to play the piano for my family? | Excuse any spelling/grammar errors since I’m using mobile.
Tl;dr Parents want me to play piano for their friends, I refuse feeling that I was being used.
Backstory: I have been playing the piano for upwards of 17 years now. I wouldn’t call myself a prodigy or even a professional but I’d still think I’m pretty good. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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hj0UPh2MHEyVCdNSA2wYWqUF8Jwv2fD7 | awukit | {
"description": "not wearing a charity shirt given to me for a race",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I didn’t wear a charity shirt given to me for a race. | I’m running the NYC Half Marathon in a few weeks under a charity. The race has 20,000+ runners but sells out pretty quickly and once it’s sold out the other way to gain entry is through fundraising for a charity. I chose a charity I’m genuinely passionate about and hit my fundraising goal. The charity mailed out some s... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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DgPxXlKZs0Xi3EuhcfjjvD59vXfDSqow | ayxsrc | {
"description": "wanting to pay when my friend's family did not want us to pay",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA (my parents/me) for wanting to pay when my friend's family did not want us to pay? | This is a pretty light and funny situation, so don't think anyone in this thread is a bad person, but its technically a moral dilemma so yeah. Basically, my friend invited me over on a trip to Arizona with his family in June, which I thought was very fun. He told me all my costs would be covered, and I said I just ne... | HISTORICAL | {
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OdPEwPzrPxGT8jZr6h5Vem0Wja0Vdj6A | 9vwj9y | {
"description": "thinking I'm not a racist",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for thinking I’m not a Racist? | Please don’t delete mod..
To begin I think an Am I Racist sub would be a good thing and how is racist jokes a sub????
What is YOUR definition of racism?
So I think I might be racist. Could you please tell me if I am?
I believe that blacks in general are better at basketball and football than all other whites. I’m... | HISTORICAL | {
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BbDm5NJBl9bCtA1DbW17ni8PahVk2YHr | ayr2cn | {
"description": "not wanting my boyfriends family to buy us furniture",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting my boyfriends family to buy us furniture? | My boyfriend and I just got our first apartment together. We move in one week and are only missing a couch, some dressers, and a bed. Our plan was to save for things we absolutely want and furnish our apartment gradually as we go along.
His mom offered to buy us a couch and his grandmother is persistent on us getting... | HISTORICAL | {
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vN2LcKBmLpKh4rUuJC1Gp5HPuqoWRfad | ar0j18 | {
"description": "not letting my housemate watch her regular tv show",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not letting my housemate watch her regular TV show? | I live in a house share with 3 other people. Our shared kitchen/dining area/TV lounge are all in one room, so when the TV is on, it pretty much takes over the entire area.
My housemate, let’s call her Jane, is constantly watching TV, she gets home after work, and from 6pm to 10pm, is pretty much on the couch watching.... | HISTORICAL | {
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1zCg8pF5uXx4Z20ObUVWLLpKDDsQGMXx | acvsir | {
"description": "calling my wife out on her snappy/rude behaviour during her period",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for calling my wife out on her snappy/rude behaviour during her period? | Essentially I called my wife out for her constant snapping when on her period, not just to me but our toddlers, even when I am clearly going out of my way to pick up the household burden so she can rest.
I pointed out that such behaviour would be inexcusable in our wider society and if anyone spoke to a colleague or ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NxuVbkXpcqZFaZBwMDBwxprGSj0ravqL | afcoyz | {
"description": "not wanting to stay with family on my holiday",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting to stay with family on my holiday? | I have planned a holiday later this year, which I had entirely planned to be going by myself. I had informed my family (I still live at home) of this around August last year, just go give them a heads-up. A little while after this, my mum tells me out of the blue that she and my younger brother will also be going on ho... | HISTORICAL | {
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OjNlv9NfQBKs7a1VlcsVoDCFQqvvQqlk | aw6mew | {
"description": "telling my mom to find somewhere else to live",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my mom to find somewhere else to live. | Some background information is needed. My parents are divorced and have been since I was about 10 years old (I’m 21 and I’m the youngest of my family). I have an older half-brother (from my moms side) and two older sisters. When my parents got a divorce my brother went with my mother. I’m not sure the reason because I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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kHh2OxKdUJmaf361KPyCzYGXCZry9q9l | ax05i8 | {
"description": "ending a friendship because he wouldn't just let me vent and listen",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for ending a friendship because he wouldn’t just let me vent and listen? | I have/had a friend(F) and we share a mutual friend(MF) MF and I had an argument over something trivial that we both escalated to a ridiculous level. MF is my roommate and say he’s just leaving for the night. Now I’m upset and alone and I wanted to talk about it. So I texted F what happened and he responds with, “why a... | HISTORICAL | {
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713URZ0edQglaaay9b0Nbwf7Oxd80qLp | axhdd5 | {
"description": "calling my friends gf a coke addict after being told she did cocaine",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for calling my friends gf a coke addict after being told she did cocaine | Alright here goes,
I’m in high school, recently one of my good friends (Jack, 16) started dating a new girl (Karen, 15) who he then added to a group text with 11 other mutual friends.
They immediately start talking about drug use, initially just vaping and smoking weed which isn’t a foreign concept to any of us. Ev... | HISTORICAL | {
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xMLC3FvBEWvuBXywSAqAMuJoHNuExSaj | b2w4mm | {
"description": "getting tired of driving my friends home after going out",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for getting tired of driving my friends home after going out? | I live the furthest from town out of all my friends so generally like to drive myself around to get to places as public transport takes twice as long. Going the fastest route will get me home after a night out in about 40 mins.
Now, a lot of my friends kind of live on the way home....only if I drive another route and... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
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} | RIGHT |
0yrNeJh6ynaqBEx7d1DbJIIGGg3Nhpgj | 9v4k00 | {
"description": "yelling at autistic girl to stop touching me",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for yelling at autistic girl to stop touching me | I have an autistic girl in my school who is kind of my friend but not quite. She sits near me at lunch and next to me in one of my classes.
I wouldn’t say I’m extremely nice to her but I wouldn’t say I’m straight up mean to her.
She doesn’t have many other friends and a lot of people give her dirty looks.
She is alw... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
zNfnUkKcjpwV5AQ3Qu7iI37uvT9dHKez | a4j9ky | {
"description": "wanting sexual attention from my long distance girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting sexual attention from my long distance girlfriend? | Backstory for context: My girlfriend and I met in college, and she is slightly older than me and has already graduated a year and a half ago, I’m still in college. She had to move a couple of hours away for work, and we agreed to try long distance. Cut to today, and we’ve been dating over two years. We see eachother ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
4blJZyQpGIvp12swkI8ig4m1SRjpUfoN | ayq444 | {
"description": "breaking up over a lack of a sex life",
"pronormative_score": 25,
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} | WIBTA for breaking up over a lack of a sex life | Im not sure how to talk about this so imma just jump in. So my GF (21) and I (23) have been dating for 2+ years now. Im am her first long term relationship. After about 6 months of being abstinent, we attempted to have sex for the first time. Long story short she couldn't get comfortable and we just went to bed. She we... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 3
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 25,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
TQ2vrVbG2dmX5617pXAKEbnHM1VFuOEo | 9xecic | {
"description": "not wanting my best friend to get a motocycle",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting my best friend to get a motocycle? | So my best friend wants to buy a motocycle. According to him, he wants to get one to "live his life". It would make him cool, he would get to go on joyrides, ect.
I don't like motorcycles. Ever since we took a full day in driver's ed to talk about motocycle safety and knowing a family friend who's son got seriously... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
MSmLStmeRW8T3vt79UDZLUks8kDqRthn | awzuvd | {
"description": "photoshopping the hair of one of my wife's bridesmaids to a natural color...from the iridescent blue that she decided to RANDOMLY show up with for our wedding",
"pronormative_score": 35,
"contranormative_score": 21
} | AITA for photoshopping the hair of one of my wife’s bridesmaids to a natural color...from the iridescent blue that she decided to RANDOMLY show up with for our wedding? | Over 600 pics...it was fun. 🤦🏻♂️ | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 31,
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"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 35,
"WRONG": 21
} | RIGHT |
j2fzrMlfi4aoTKKTeho8dO6OzdCY5M8x | a1ikvn | {
"description": "throwing away my roommate's orange",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for throwing away my roommate's orange? | Okay, I know that sounds really dumb but hear me out.
So, my roommate thinks she's funny, but honestly, she's just fucking weird. A few weeks ago, she thought that it was an incredibly funny thing to paint a face on an orange and name him Shrek. She built him a little house out of a cardboard box and set him up in the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
hNo8mnmnSIHKJF0wkZXrYSdRF7UyDH7H | b0a2qh | null | AITA-Husband hates his job, but unwilling to leave due to fear of being let go from another one. | My husband hates his job, but he’s the most experienced out of anyone there. He is a supervisor over a small team of 3 and he believes he is the fastest and best out of all of them, but one part timer is getting paid more than him and he’s upset about that. He’s also upset he hasn’t been heard about getting a raise by ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
DdHRkKA7rqB1CEbxl77a1xjF821Z9Kno | ap3pt8 | {
"description": "wanting a Sunday off my gf",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AItA for wanting a Sunday off my GF? | Hi guys, I am a lurker here from a couple of months and I would have never thought of writing here. Long story coming.
I have a GF, both of us are 25 yo, usually we see each other 3 evenings during the week, saturday evening we sleep together and all the day during the Sunday. She basically does not have any interest... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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mlbH6X7vKctAYU91lIGRquwuoviJXfKt | ba7ud3 | {
"description": "expecting my daughter to be the best at something",
"pronormative_score": 25,
"contranormative_score": 79
} | AITA for expecting my daughter to be the best at something? | My daughter, let's call her Ellie, is 15. And it bothers me and my wife that she really isn't *into* anything. Her grades are average, and on top of that she does nothing at home aside from watching Netflix and being on her phone. She's not involved in anything, inside or outside school: no sports, clubs, art, music, a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 77,
"OTHER": 18,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 7,
"INFO": 5
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 25,
"WRONG": 79
} | WRONG |
E6SIfmL1mJ54EpHXJxRe65Izgfu3hjvB | a2xfk7 | {
"description": "asking my 12-year-old daughter to cover herself up more when she's in the house",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 43
} | AITA for asking my 12-year-old daughter to cover herself up more when she’s in the house? | As I said my daughter is 12, which means puberty. Her body is changing. Had to do the bra shopping and all of that.
Anyway, we keep our house really warm. She has a habit of walking around in just a tank top and underwear. Sometimes she just hangs around in a towel for hours after showering instead of getting dressed... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 41,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 43
} | WRONG |
b5xL7VK3BPYnIVxXrKjeoEL6oNddDdi8 | a75yk7 | {
"description": "ending a long friendship over possibly taking advantage of me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ending a long friendship over possibly taking advantage of me? | I've been friends with X since I was in highschool, and now we're both well into our twenties. We've always had some common ground with video games, computers and smoking weed together. X always did have an appetite for weed, smoking whatever you put in front of them and always yearning for more.
In the past few year... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
ABLtzUv1oWejFaCiAM66EtKZcAjlskAK | b36iv2 | {
"description": "riding my bicycle around and blasting music",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 21
} | AITA for riding my bicycle around and blasting music? | So every once in a while (2-3 times a week) i like to ride my bike around my neighborhood. It is not a gated community or anything just a normal neighborhood. When i do this i always bring my backpack and put my JBL Flip 4 speaker into the little cup holder thingy on the side of the backpack. I then turn it all the way... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 20,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 21
} | WRONG |
O6TKLPRjyIC3Z5Sbaq2fn4STAMJfEr8j | 9t5nhh | {
"description": "turning away restaurant guests after closing",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for turning away restaurant guests after closing? | I work as a host at a restaurant in an area affected by Hurricane Michael. There’s a curfew on the area, which causes businesses to close early so that their employees can get home before the curfew goes into effect.
About an hour ago, someone called to ask if we were still open. We were actually just about to close... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
yYcCEjLeMXPa6vyJTtv5ey0oYE9hrJQV | b4pquc | {
"description": "making the debt collection office go after my friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I make the debt collection office go after my friends? | Two months back I bought something for my friends because we used it together. We agreed (I have it on paper) to split equally. Most of them paid on time (I gave 20 days), but now I'm still missing 3\*65$ after repeatedly telling them to pay. They always say they want to pay in cash, but according to my countries law i... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
WE3TKbJLVD8VtftCi0dCtyebgMvr4uxD | aw21r5 | {
"description": "fat shaming a girl who called me ugly",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for fat shaming a girl who called me ugly? | m a 14yo girl and i live in the UK. I'm in year 10 at school (grade 9?) and im going to a school i just moved to at the start of the year.
When i first came to school for the first day around 6 months ago i met this girl - lets call her Jess - and she was my first "friend" at school. I say "friend" because like most f... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
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"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
VhTkR12JjyVf12YCpHpNOsq2SDAiBEHp | ai94iq | {
"description": "not working for less than 50 usd for a logo for a corner shop restaurant",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not working for less than 50 USD for a logo for a corner shop restaurant? | My Friend forwarded me this guy, lets call him "DeLorean" to help him with a logo design. And this is the convo that took place. (DeLorean is in white speech bubbles)
https://imgur.com/a/QC7zzVb
AITA here or is this an example of a choosing beggar? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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nqd82lOnyx9vFXbKGb04GT6YJGTRhQxr | a70yyp | {
"description": "dropping a like on my female friend's fb photo in which she was in a bikini",
"pronormative_score": 48,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for dropping a like on my female friend's fb photo in which she was in a bikini | My girfriend called this act "minor cheating"
​
Some background info:
I have a female friend who I know since a long time, and we meet occasionally (like once every 1,5 months). We are good friends, and we never had any attraction towards each other, we literally told one another that we don't want anythi... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 47,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 48,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
jfhFEAtoDaVtKxOuG24sSApxu4PaJTQ3 | b11l1w | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to be less dependent on me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I asked my girlfriend to be less dependent on me? | I wouldn't actually word it that way.
My girlfriend is anxious about her undergraduate dissertation and her body. Ive helped her a lot with editing her diss, but every day shell text me 5-10 times how stressed she is about it, and every time I ask how I can help she says 'I dont know.' Every time she says shes stresse... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
fZThdOF7izUlVUL9ak8a8uaE0hL7qr8G | b7ca0u | {
"description": "not visiting my long distance girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not visiting my long distance Girlfriend? | My GF (20F) and I (22M) have been together for about 3 years. We have been playing the long distance game for about a year now, as she moved about 3 hours drive to the city to be with her family, while I stayed due mainly to work as well as my family being here.
At the moment she is searching for work after being ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
qc3OQrY34o8gnpOkIIikOCdncFoKep7Q | a6oass | {
"description": "not messaging the dog sitter",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not messaging the dog sitter | Long back story
My puppy Attila is a 6 month old is a great Dane x bull mastiff x ridge back. 25 kg at the moment. We live in an apartment but he is taken to the dog park twice a day for at least an hour and after that just likes to sleep and cuddle. If he isn't taken out then he starts chewing things, being a puppy ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
Yt3KfShNCeW5LQXYcfXS2ZugcM6qlNaR | arw4rs | null | AITA Step-mom tries to "help" me | Before telling this story a little background:
​
My dad and mom separated when I was 10 or so and I'm now 23 and in this time both of my parents have had several boyfriends and girlfriends throughout the years. I've never cared or really gave my opinion unless asked of said bfs and gfs unless asked and eve... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
owp6qMubcQz510rhO7FoxxMk9v9nx9U6 | aeqeg1 | {
"description": "not wanting to wash the dishes",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not wanting to wash the dishes? | A bit of context:
Im 17, last year of high school, i live with my mother and sister. My father isnt really around, normally hes gone because of work.
My sister is 13 and in the the last year of middle school.
The chores in our house are separated between me and my sister. My mother doesn't really do much(cooks once... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
L45VMZGxfjeXs4XdBTUut3xUPW72DmDS | b2kq6e | {
"description": "playing the word \"bitch\" in words with friends",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for playing the word “bitch” in words with friends? | My (22m) girlfriend (22f) and I just started playing words with friends. We had 2 games going. Last night in game #1 I played “retailed” which used all 7 letters and I was pretty excited about. I played it and messaged her “FUCK me the fuck up. 7 letters bam” she replied with an eye roll. So the next turn I see I can p... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
AAC5fMZ6uUDzyUfPbz3NZkoVnsHx3Ufb | alfw9t | {
"description": "getting mad at my brother when he does dumb stuff and my parents turn a blind eye",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting mad at my brother when he does dumb stuff and my parents turn a blind eye? | A little bit of information before we go: I live in a house with three younger brothers, the only female. I do have a bit of anger issues and the changes in my medication can make it worse. I also have depression. They’re not at all an excuse for my behaviour, I just want to provide a little bit of what it’s like to be... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
tO9ZstMfgzx47huaIeRjDdDGOtEEDPMM | atr55v | {
"description": "ending my friendship",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ending my friendship? | My close friends consists of four of us. There’s my best friend and I (both 23F) who have known each other since 8th grade then there’s Jessi(26F) and Daniel(25F). We met Jessi and Daniel when Jessi moved in with my best friend.
We all got close. I was very close to Jessi. She knows everything about. However, she’s s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
tIScFUmWqJOzYAAaOxvQIPUMH7cAKGYR | a6cuyd | null | AITA Cousin making comment to me | My uncle took me in when my dad left (he got on drugs) he helped raise me with my mom and his wife. I was really close to my uncle, he was retired when i was born, but gave up travelling to help raise me. I thought of him as my father and he told me he thought of me as his daughter.
At his funeral the other day, I s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
eXwYFJd2ajr2Oaa6hB7xSDbqloXZVDfd | aweisj | {
"description": "getting mad at my mom for making my neighbors pay me less for dog sitting",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For getting mad at my mom for making my neighbors pay me less for dog sitting? | TL;DR My mom asked my neighbors to pay me $50 less for dog sitting/house sitting for them for 5 days. This was after she tried to get a family friend to not pay me at all for babysitting her mentally handicapped daughter. AIMTA for getting mad at my mom?
Some background: My neighbors are lovely people and they have th... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
4Xr67p1UqiG9N1rSvTZwzNkuGB74PpoX | axooeu | {
"description": "calling someone a depressed bitch when the person I said it to started it",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for calling someone a depressed bitch when the person I said it to started it? | Okay, so this happened on r/LGBTteens, I recently made a post asking why does the majority of the subreddit complain about a multitude of things yet make no strive to change or fix the problem.
Everything was going pretty well, I was answering and conversating with other redditors etc. This was this one user who just ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
ZmFa92BwBTN5OukjS0PgaFwE1rNQBff3 | b4zel2 | {
"description": "being vocal about my partners boss leaking information in regards to a murder",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being vocal about my partners boss leaking information in regards to a murder? | So my partner's boss volunteers as a pcso, about a month ago a woman was murdered in a small town nearby. No information besides location and the victims name was made public. It turned out it was a long standing member of staff for where I work, her husband who is also employed there.
​
So my partner tell... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
own8iPadmbFoBUiHszuwuKQYOAUruCjy | b51bqv | {
"description": "being mad that my wife went through my phone and found text messages about her to my family",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA for being mad that my wife went through my phone and found text messages about her to my family? | A little back story.....
Currently on vacation with the family and my wife needed to take our daughter upstairs to the hotel while I stayed with our three boys at the pool. While in our room she couldn't find her phone so she used mine to call herself.
She explained to me that she was unsure how exactly my phone wor... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 8,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 14
} | WRONG |
t2fUA5Af6xuXHOa5v481fbAqZJuUdhwp | b8ngkx | {
"description": "not wanting to get my wife's DOB tattooed on me along with our daughters and my parents",
"pronormative_score": 70,
"contranormative_score": 35
} | AITA For not wanting to get my wife’s DOB tattooed on me along with our daughters and my parents? | The idea behind the tattoo is that it would show my lineage. My Parents > Me> My Daughter in Roman numerals stacked oldest to youngest, bottom to top.
For some reason my wife thought that her DOB would be included in this tattoo and was shocked and upset her DOB was not included. To make the situation worse,... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 34,
"OTHER": 54,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 16,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 70,
"WRONG": 35
} | RIGHT |
alHsQWBEHB5rvxMN4HwJPK7RVF98m5pg | 9zjn0g | {
"description": "starting a dumpster fire at sister in laws house",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for starting a dumpster fire at sister in laws house? | My sister in law is a known a-hole in her family. Everyone excuses it as it's just her personality. So today my husband and I went to her house for dinner. I didn't want to go.
She made a few comments this summer about me being white, not good enough for her brother, and about us being too comfortable. I haven't ta... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
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