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{ "description": "feeling shitty about 4 of my best friends dating", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling shitty about 4 of my best friends dating?
Long story short, F asked M out (1st couple) and M asked F out (2nd couple). I had a thing for my friend who got asked out, let’s call her Daisy. I’m still good friends with her and my friend asked me if I was ok with it and I said yes, but I’m worried that I didn’t make the right decision. Am I the asshole? P.S. sorr...
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{ "description": "not accepting soup from a hippie", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not accepting soup from a hippie?
There is a woman at my work who almost everyone likes but a few people can’t stand, including me. She is 50something hippie who is deep into new age woo-woo. She lays compliments on thick to people whether she knows them or not and gives them gifts, which are often not cheap. Of course, a lot of people are all over th...
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{ "description": "kissing someone while we were on a break", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kissing someone while we were on a break?
Some background: I’d been with my boyfriend for a few years and things hadn’t been going great. I wasn’t happy in the relationship and was started to feel like I should break it off. To complicate matters I’d developed a huge crush on my (female) housemate. I’d never really questioned whether I was straight or not til...
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{ "description": "not really being able to stand up for myself yet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For not really being able to stand up for myself yet?
I'm getting tired of my own behavior btw, so why not let other people judge it. This is gonna be very long and in depth i guess, just so you know. I wanted to find some reassuring words so I know what to focus on, so why not ask a couple strangers. Anyway, here goes nothing. I am too insecure to stand up for m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sell my home to my in-laws", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sell my home to my in-laws?
This is a little more complicated than just selling my home. For starters, my in-law's donated my wife and I some property. We didn't pay anything for it, it's legally ours(went through an attorney). We bought a double wide mobile home for $38,000. We used $12,000 of our money to move the home, set up, electrical, perm...
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{ "description": "beating my buddy in a seat-race so that I could get closer to a girl I like", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for beating my buddy in a seat-race so that I could get closer to a girl I like?
OK, so trying to explain this goofy situation in the least-jargony way possible: I'm currently rowing crew in college. It's a good bit of fun to get out on the river when the weather's nice, but I'm not incredibly into the whole competition part of it (meaning up to now I haven't much cared about being the best on th...
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{ "description": "telling my oldest sister that I don't want to go on a vacation with her again", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my oldest sister that I don't want to go on a vacation with her again?
I'm 22 and she's 28, we went to Thanksgiving to my father's side of the family in another state. Their a little hot headed but generally pretty fun. The trip to was fine so far but when we got their one of my annoying cousins (14) kept bother her. His father, my dad's brother, is basically a neglecting parent and you c...
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{ "description": "quiting my job when they wouldn't give me my raise", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quiting my job when they wouldn't give me my raise?
I worked at a plastics factory as a crew trainer. After 90 days I was supposed to get a 50 cent raise. I asked the plant manager about it and he said "we'll see". Everyone there has trouble getting their raises, theres three trainers and the other trainer above me didn't get her raise until after a year. I called in tw...
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{ "description": "being angry at my best friend when she asks if she can have my boyfriend if I die", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry at my best friend when she asks if she can have my boyfriend if I die?
Exactly as title says. Roads are icy and she gets worried. I say "I'll be fine." She replies with "Well if you die, can I have (SO's name)? I am correct in being mad, right? They've (SO & BFF) been good friends for a while but I still feel offended and hurt. Like "Hey, if you die I'm just going to take this person ...
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AITA for not this guy take my friend back to his place?
So here's the situation: We're all in college, and there's an avid night scene in our college town. I was out on Thirsty Thursdays, as many students are and as my friends and I are doing a bar crawl, I meet one of my friends. We'll call her A for short. So as I'm walking in, A is walking out with this guy. I stop to ta...
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{ "description": "believing all dogs can be rehabilitated", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for believing all dogs can be rehabilitated?
So I'll try to keep this short and sweet but basically this man on Facebook put up a post about rehoming this 6 month old puppy that bit his child. Now, I don't know the extent of the injuries, but it doesn't seem to be a big deal because he said in the post that he doesn't want the dog to go to a shelter and be euthan...
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{ "description": "accepting money from my parents", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accepting money from my parents?
I am in my early/mid twenties. I go to school and have a job on the side. I am an only child living in an appartment that my parents bought for me (not that uncommon where I am from). My parents like to buy me nice things and give me me money every month. Not gonna lie, I enjoy this and I am very grateful for my situa...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay rent after I move out", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for refusing to pay rent after I move out?
I’m almost 20 years old, and have been presented with the opportunity to move out of my moms house. I’d be moving in with my boyfriend and a few of our mutual friends, rent is $300 per person, including utilities (a steal around where I live.) One of the main reasons I want to move out is because since my parents split...
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{ "description": "thinking the parent on parental leave should be the one getting up with the baby at night", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 46 }
AITA for thinking the parent on parental leave should be the one getting up with the baby at night?
I don’t understand splitting the over nights when one parent is getting up for work every morning and the other is off work for 6 weeks. AITA?
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{ "description": "being distant to my family", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being distant to my family
Ok so I have a few things that make me feel down and I often start feeling sad for these reasons. My mother wanted me to talk about it with her but I declined several times and was asked several times. After a while, she told me that I should at least talk to someone, and she felt sad because I was sad and my talking t...
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{ "description": "\"sexually assaulting\" my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for "sexually assaulting" my ex?
Okay this one is complicated and long, since I feel like I need to be as detailed as possible. Throwaway account for obvious reasons, all names changed. ​ So I met a girl a year or so ago on Tinder. Let's call her Anne. Anne comes from a conservative christian family, and I am her first boyfriend. She's 18...
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{ "description": "always leaving people on read", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for always leaving people on read?
So, maybe a bit silly, but I have a tendency to leave people on read a lot, since I don't like talking that much, and run out of things to say pretty quick. It's not a big issue, but some people have commented on it, and seem a bit annoyed. I don't do it on purpose, but when I scroll through my Snap it's about 90% thin...
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{ "description": "getting tired of people's BS quickly", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA because I get tired of people's BS quickly
Ok. This is all going to sound quite stupid to some people, but I need to figure out if I'm an asshole or what. I don't think I am.... but I also may be wrong. I have the tendency of sometimes getting fed up with people, and almost wanting to drop them from my life. I had a friend once who when I was helping her with ...
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{ "description": "not playing my mom a guitar song on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not playing my mom a guitar song on her birthday?
So basically last year on my mom's birthday I spent all the time I could with her. It was a school night but still from the time I got out of school to 10pm I spent with her. Even though I had a lot of homework to do and 3 tests the next day I still prioritized my mom. We went to the mall first where we spent some tim...
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{ "description": "not helping my friend find a place to live despite it not being my responsibility and him never actually asking for help", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my friend find a place to live despite it not being my responsibility and him never actually asking for help
tldr at the end i was meant to be graduating university in a few months but due to mental health reasons decided to take time off and resit my final year in september. because i was meant to be moving out, my friend (a first year student) was going to move into my room instead. but because i am now carrying on my st...
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{ "description": "strongly disliking children", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For strongly disliking children?
My whole life, even as a little kid, I hated kids. If I ever played house, I refused to pretend to be a mom and/or baby. Now that I'm older (19) I still cannot stand children. I honestly think I may have a problem. Being around children makes me incredibly anxious, I get depressed and teary eyed. It fucks me up. Aside ...
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{ "description": "not taking a joke", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not taking a joke?
So in my friend group there is me, person A, and person B. Person B is black and plays cricket and hockey. Person B is a u16 table tennis champion in our country. So we all have these inside jokes with each other - we joke about person B for not having a dad because he's black, but the thing is he does have a dad and h...
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{ "description": "ghosting a guy who bought something from me after he probably broke it and wanted his money back", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting a guy who bought something from me after he probably broke it and wanted his money back?
So I recently sold a couple computer components (cpu & mobo for those who know about this stuff) to a guy on the app 'offerup'. It's similar to craigslist, but more organized and with its own messaging system. I pulled these components from a working PC before I sold them to him for $110. A few days later he mess...
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{ "description": "doing workout videos after work", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for doing workout videos after work?
Background: I can’t workout in the mornings before work so once I get home I try to do a workout video like Insanity or Turbo Fire. I’m on the 3rd floor of my building and workout in my living room. I’m done by 8:30pm but the last few times my downstairs neighbor bangs on the ceiling indicating I’m making too much noi...
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{ "description": "telling my mom that she sounds childish for using people", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my mom that she sounds childish for using people?
It’s a long one, TL;DR at bottom. Hey everyone! So my mom has always been the type to use people for stuff that she needs. So she has always been horrible with money and needs to be bailed out. She’s been bailed out by my grandfather on her and my dad’s side of the family, and is always living paycheck to paycheck. F...
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{ "description": "calling my friend selfish after he got suicidal over airpods", "pronormative_score": 70, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my friend selfish after he got suicidal over airpods?
Okay, so my friend has been deppressed for quite a while now. I've been trying my best to support him and make him feel better, so much so that it's taxing me mentally. Today he brought up the subject of his upcoming birthday and I asked him what he wanted. I'm extremely, extremely low on money right now so I wasn't ...
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{ "description": "moving 6 states away and leaving my husband to pack up the house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving 6 states away and leaving my husband to pack up the house?
In November I got my dream job in my dream city. My husband and I have been trying to get back to New England for a year now, with no luck. He was more actively searching because of higher income, but no offers came through until mine. I moved in December, and he started applying for jobs like crazy and got one in Ja...
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{ "description": "telling her \"I love you and I want a future with you\"", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling her "I love you and I want a future with you"
(35M) With some issues due to my past. I suffer from a condition that has wrecked my life multiple times after building it up repeatedly. Basically my health goes south and I lose the license, the job, the girl, then become depressed. The last cycle ended about 4 years ago. 2 years ago I started a relationship with (2...
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{ "description": "giving my two friends who are girls souvenirs from my trip, even though my girlfriend disapproves of it", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my two friends who are girls souvenirs from my trip, even though my girlfriend disapproves of it.
I recently went to a foreign country and stayed there for a year. Now that I’m coming back home, I decided to buy my two friends some souvenirs because I saw some that really suits them, but my girlfriend is angry at the thought. I haven’t seen or talked to my friends during my stay and I was with my girlfriend the who...
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{ "description": "not crying after hearing bad news", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not crying after hearing bad news
From the title it is not very clear ,so let me explain. I have noticed that i never cry during a death of a loved one ,i dont mourn either , this post was actually inspired by my friend who called me a psychopath, however i cant control my emotions during those moments as they just simply dont exist . So AITA?
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{ "description": "distancing from a friend who suffers from Bipolar Disorder and recently attempted suicide", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I distanced from a friend who suffers from Bipolar Disorder and recently attempted suicide.
She's been an acquaintance for 2 years and recently became a good friend. She shared her diagnosis with me as well as her life story (raped, mom passed, dad isn't around and family treats her horribly). I feel responsible for her because she has no one. However, her mental illness can be exhausting for me. Especially ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take theater on my classes selection sheet", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I didnt want to take theater on my classes selection sheet
I am signing up for classes for next school year and I ask my dad what I should do. He says to do theater so I can memorize more stuff and be fluent in speaking. I said that I didnt want to do that because I am not a theater person and I also heard from a friend thats not what its about. He says I still need to sign up...
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister as a photographer at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my sister as a photographer at my wedding ?
First of, i'm not currently thinking about marrying. My sister is al amazing photographer. We were talking about bits and pieces, when she told me she'd do they shoot of my wedding for free. Ik told het she wouldn't. She got quit mad lowkey yelling that i'd rather spend couple thousand euro's on some random person...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend that I didn't like in the first place", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 14 }
Aita for breaking up with my girlfriend that I didn’t like in the first place
This is my first post on reddit on mobile so mind the mistakes. Here’s the story. So sometime last year I had this girlfriend that I didn’t like but for some reason I somehow gave my friends the idea that I liked her, so my friends and hers proceeded to brainwash me into thinking I liked her in while in reality I didn...
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{ "description": "never taking my kids to disney world, ever", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for never taking my kids to disney world, ever?
My kids are 8 and 5 and at a really great age for going places and enjoying family experiences. We love our zoo/museum/science center pass, last year we took some weekend trips to places like Oklahoma City's science museum, St. Louis for their city museum, KC for great wolf lodge. We've talked about going to Disney Wo...
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{ "description": "not giving an old begging Women my Red Bull + chips", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not giving an old begging Women my Red Bull + Chips
Sry for my poor Grammar im on mobile + English is not my first language. So today me and 2 friends decided to go visit the mall after school, after visiting Snipes (Shoes etc, idk if its only a German shop?) we decided to get some drinks and snacks I bought myself a Red Bull and a pack of Pringles and my friend bought...
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AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want to sleep in the same bed?
So I (23F) have been dating this guy (26M) for a couple of weeks, it’s going good, he’s really sweet and a good guy. Sex is really good. But last night, I was super tired, worked a 9 hour shift and coached soccer for 2 hours, and I’m laying in bed trying to sleep. He starts watching videos on his phone, saying random t...
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{ "description": "experimineting with drugs despite my girlfriend's feelings", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for experimineting with drugs despite my girlfriend's feelings?
My girlfriend and I met when we were teens. 11 years later, I love her more with each day. She's the cutest, most awesome ball of sunshine and I make sure she knows it. I've always been interested in different states of consciousness, and I feel my experiments have been a net positive in my life. I tried weed as a te...
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{ "description": "wanting a creepy girl out of my friendship group", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting a creepy girl out of my friendship group?
Warning for petty teen drama. I have a small group of very close friends that I’ve known for years. We’re all the same age (18-19) and we’ve been through a lot together. It’s a really tight-knit group, but we’ve recently got a new addition, D. I met D during Freshers Week at uni a few months ago. A group of people ...
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AITA for not wanting my (23F) family to stay with me? I feel like my mom (58F) is doing this to torture me.
TLDR: I’m graduating with my MA next month and I do not want my 4 family members staying in my one bedroom, one bathroom apartment for the weekend. I’ve been telling my mom since last summer to get a hotel and now there aren’t any rooms left in the small town my school is located. It’s a 6 hr drive from my home, but ...
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{ "description": "lying to my dad about where I met someone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for lying to my dad about where I met someone?
So next Sunday, my father is meeting this guy that I’m interested in dating. Guys always meet my dad early on, it’s one of my dealbreakers. So my dad was asking me about this guy and where I met him. I met him on OkCupid. My dad has a stigma about dating websites though so I didn’t tell him. I told him we met on the St...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to get over a ex friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend to get over a ex friend
A little backstory: Around 3 years ago my friend pretended to have a horrible life ie. being hospitalized after a suicide attempt and having to work on a farm because her parents were too poor. She’s a changed person from who she was. Over time most people forgave her because she was a genuinely nice person just going ...
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{ "description": "leaving my struggling girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I leave my (20m) struggling girlfriend (27f)
Mobile formating apologies in advance. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 1.5 years and we currently live together. She is mostly blind but has enough sight to get around without aid and can read with very strong magnification. I was told about all of this pre relationship and I have taken her t...
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{ "description": "not updating/texting my husband for 3 and a half hours when I was out", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not updating/texting my husband for 3 and a half hours when I was out?
I let him know that our 1 month old daughter, me, and my mum (visiting us in the city for a day) were gonna go out to the city today and buy new bras for me (haha boobs grew big during pregnancy) At first I was texting him during our outing and sending pics and stuff but then I got busy and didnt text him for a few h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my room to a guest", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my room to a guest?
My partner and I are renting a three bedroom unit. Since we both sleep in the largest room, I have set up my stuff in the second largest. One of our mutual friends needs a place to stay for anywhere from a fortnight to a month or longer. No problem. I went to set up our third bedroom which is the smallest but I've li...
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{ "description": "wanting to buy a ps4 while still living with my parents", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to buy a ps4 while still living with my parents?
Now hear me out,im a 20 year old guy who lives with both his parents.I have a job and my parents told me that i will have to give them a fixed amount of cash from each pay to which i agree and do.Im not very materialistic,i only have 2 pairs of shoes and not that much clothes in general (out of choice).As long as its c...
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{ "description": "being afraid of a deaf woman", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being afraid of a deaf woman?
AITA for being afraid of my HoH landlady? I know that sounds bad, but let me explain. I'm renting part of the house from a family friend, who has always been a loud, brash person. Her manner of speaking makes it sound like she's always angry and yelling. After living here for a month or so it became clear that my landl...
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{ "description": "not telling a friend that I was dating a mutual friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling a friend that I was dating a mutual friend?
While the issues I'm gonna tell you about have been resolved, I'm unsure if I was in the wrong here and this situation is still messing with me. I have trouble judging what's socially acceptable sometimes, so if you decide to comment, please explain things so that even a robot could understand. So there I was in my ea...
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{ "description": "putting myself before my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting myself before my friend?
TLDR; my friend tells me that my ex boyfriend so I had broken up with two days before grabbed her ass two years ago, gets mad when I say I’m not ready to talk about that and turns my other friend on me for saying that So a year ago I was going through a REALLY rough breakup when I found out my boyfriend of a year was...
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{ "description": "talking shit about someones birthday gift to me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For talking shit about someones birthday gift to me?
So, it was my birthday last month and I normally don't let anyone know when my birthday is (apart from close friends) as I don't like the attention. Anyway, a dude from my class found out when it was a few weeks prior and kept saying he was gonna get me something, like every time he spoke to me. I told him several time...
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{ "description": "not being proud of my wife for only being 7 minutes late to work rather than 15", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not being proud of my wife for only being 7 minutes late to work rather than 15?
So, my wife just told me that she made it to work at 8:07 today and she was really happy about it. She's supposed to be in at 8 and hasn't been in on time in...well I don't know how long. She works for a giant corporation and doesn't like to get up early. I told her I refuse to encourage being "only slightly less late"...
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{ "description": "canceling plans with my friends after they invited someone I disagree with", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for canceling plans with my friends after they invited someone I disagree with
Title probably sounds like I am the asshole, but allow me to elaborate a bit. So me and some friends (We're all in our early 20s) have had plans for a few weeks to go out and party tonight (We're all still in college). I found out the other day that one of my friends was inviting a graduate friend of his, who despite ...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner to disregard her family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my partner to disregard her family? [Long]
Bit of a clickbaity title but I'm not sure what else to call it. My girlfriend and I have had issues with her family for some time, usually due to my frustration at how she would bend to their will without a second thought. At the start of the relationship (the first year was very difficult) it was really bad. With...
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{ "description": "being sad that Stan Lee died simply because he cant make any more cameos", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being sad that Stan Lee died simply because he cant make any more cameos?
I woke up this morning, and while having breakfast found out that Stan Lee died. It sucked. He made great superheroes that have become more than he expected at first but hey.. at least he got to see them grow right. Then while in class I thought "Oh shit, if Stan's dead than who's gonna make cameos" Got home and typed ...
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{ "description": "coming to work sick", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I came to work sick
on mobile, so excuse the format. I'm a borderline part-timer(few more hours and I would be full time, but not exactly related) at a place in the food court in a dead mall. I say borderline because I get a lot of hours, and in all honesty, I could be assistant manager if I wanted(I choose not to, because I want to leav...
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{ "description": "pulling away from a struggling, ex-military friend/roommate that's really hard to live with", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pulling away from a struggling, ex-military friend/roommate that’s really hard to live with?
Title says it all. Basically my roommate is isolated, lonely, seems super depressed. But he’s messy around the house, defensive, breaks shit all the time and it’s an upwards battle to change him and he seems really resentful. He has little other support networks than us housemates and I’m beginning to pull away from ...
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AITA for this comment?
I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. I think there is too much hate in this world and the Christian myth has truth within it that people do not recognize. That being said, I sometimes don't know when I should talk about it. AITA for this comment: OC: >Seems like his base is legitimately finally eroding. Tha...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with family over past events", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting ties with family over past events
I have decided to move several states away from my family, and some of them are angry for "abandoning them" \-My parents use to own a very successful business where from a very young age(around 8) i would be pretty much forced to give up many of my afternoons, most of my weekends to work at my parents business. It was...
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{ "description": "requiring my next door neighbor to purchase my mobile home with certified funds", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I require my next door neighbor to purchase my mobile home with certified funds?
My husband and I lived in a mobile home/RV park for 3 years. We recently bought a house about 2 hours up the road. The neighbor, who live in an RV next to us, wants to buy our RV and pay with personal check. We are so ready to get rid of that thing because lot rent, utilities, and homeowners insurance is eating us al...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend over conspiracy theories", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a friend over conspiracy theories?
I had a friend from high school who I stayed in touch with for a few years after graduation. Everything was fine for a while, it was mostly a long distance friendship maintained through text messaging, but suddenly things started feeling really different. She started almost exclusively texting me about government consp...
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{ "description": "being angry my roommate doesn't communicate with me instead of me just knowing when she's annoyed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being angry my roommate doesn't communicate with me instead of me just knowing when she's annoyed?
TL;DR at the bottom, I'll try to make this as short as possible, but there's a bunch of details that are important to this. ​ Background: I am a college freshman in your average dorm room setting. My roommate and I get along well, we've never had a fight or argument and we have good conversations a lot of ...
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{ "description": "yelling at a dental receptionist for canceling my appointment after waiting for so long", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for yelling at a dental receptionist for canceling my appointment after waiting for so long?
This happened last week. I waited since 8:15 am to go to my dentist appointment that was scheduled at 8:30 am. I needed to get my filling done. I had the day off so I didn't mind waiting but when I looked at the clock and it was 9:20 am I got irritated. I went up to the receptionist and asked her how much longer and...
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AITA?
I'm a lesbian. I'm also very inexperienced with the world of dating, both men and women. When I started work, I was around a lot of homophobic people, so I pretended I was straight. I got set up with a guy who worked there super part time - talking like 3 hours a week, as he worked around various of the companies sites...
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{ "description": "stopping or reducing having sex with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 77, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If i stopped or reduced having sex with my girlfriend.
Hello all, So for context me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year now and whenever we have sex we don’t use protection of any kind apart from the pull out method. I’ve insisted we use condoms before because we are both young (20) and living with our parents and I really am not in a place to have childr...
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{ "description": "buying something expensive with my own money", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for buying something expensive with my own money?
Recently I opened up a bank account for personal spending, I had saved up ~280$ of entirely my own money from working, gifts, etc... and I was waiting for my next paycheck because I wanted to buy a Nintendo switch which I have been saving up for. I have an arrangement where I put 1/2 of any paychecks I get into savings...
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{ "description": "yelling at a neighborhood kid", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For yelling at a neighborhood kid
There's a 12 year old boy who lives across the street from me. His sister and my daughter, both 8, are best friends. We've lived here for nearly 4 years now, and this kid has been nothing but a bully to my daughter. Mostly just teasing and name calling, but there has been the occasional violent threat. I've spoken with...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take part in the office Yankee Swap", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not wanting to take part in the office Yankee Swap?
I despise nearly everyone I work with. Am I the asshole?!
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{ "description": "not driving my brother and mother in law to the hospital", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not driving my brother and mother in law to the hospital?
Hi Reddit, english is not my native language so have mercy. My girlfriend has a huge familiy. She has 7 "real" silbings and 2 halfbrothers. The mother lives with one of her daughters and her two sons from her second husband alone. My girlfriend, my daughter and i live pretty close to them. Only 10 min drive. The area...
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{ "description": "blocking a guy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a guy?
There was a guy that had the same interests as me so we started talking as friends. Eventually after hanging out with other friends he randomly texted asking me on a date and I told him I wasn’t interested because I don’t have an interest in being with men at all. He said it was cool and started trying to set up 1 on 1...
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AITA:Failed Mentorship
AITA: Someone i was good friends with and helped her improve her drinking and hooking up habits literally hooks up wasted in front of me. Am i the asshole for angrily texting her about her actions? Full story below: I became good friends with this girl via a mutual friend. We became close and I was sort of an older br...
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{ "description": "not attending my kids' sports games", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not attending my kids' sports games?
To be quite honest, I do not think that my kids care if I attend their sports games or not, because when I was a child I did not think care if my parents attended mine or not. I attended for the exercise and involvement and the structure that motivated me to exercise. I think that too many parents care more about about...
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{ "description": "being a slob of a roommate", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for being a slob of a roommate?
So I’m a freshman in college and atm im staying in the dorms. Last semester I had a roommate, and since I made my decision on what college I wanted to go to super late, I had to be with just some random guy for a roommate, I’ll call him Dave. The first day when I moved in, I found my room and realized that Dave had be...
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{ "description": "wanting my cat to sleep inside the bedroom at night", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my cat to sleep inside the bedroom at night
So my boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years all has been well but now he is asking me to lock my cat out of the bedroom at night. His reasoning is that he is a light sleeper and doesn’t sleep well when the cat is purring and sleeping/walking on me. He also has slight allergy against cat fur that would s...
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{ "description": "not going overseas after my gf's mum passed away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going overseas after my gf's mum passed away?
Pretext: So this is possibly different from the usual AITA ones and I'm genuinely looking for insight as to whether I am an asshole or not, not any validation. Sorry but I don't think I can make a TL:DR for this. Context My girlfriend's mum passed away after struggling with cancer for 8 months in the new year. Very s...
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{ "description": "wanting to go on holiday with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to go on holiday with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend (M20) and I (F19) have been together for 4 years and have never been on holiday together. I have wanted to go every year, he has expressed enthusiasm, I have planned it, given him loads of options, but he will just make excuse after excuse after excuse (can't afford it (even though he could easily), doesn'...
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{ "description": "reacting angrily towards my ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for reacting angrily towards my ex?
Back in 2017, I (M, 17 at the time) met an Albanian woman (also 17) on Quora, a Q&A website. We hooked up and had an online relationship for about 5 months until she told me that she fell in love with another man in her area. I cried a lot and told her that we should take a break from texting for a while. After a m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take care of my dad who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to take care of my dad who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's?
So, the news came by that my dad got diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease...and my entire family wants me to take care of him. I am an abroad animation student at Canada, I am almost done with my studies and have been busting my ass to achieve my dream of producing animated films, I am already here and almost done, I am ...
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{ "description": "insulting my bully", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For insulting my bully?
So in school there is this girl who's life mission is to make me annoyed (which fun fact is REALLY easy) so whenever she does annoy me I ask her to stop (she does not) which eventually ends up with me insulting her some way or another. Sonetimes I must admit I go little over board my telling her to die (which is bad en...
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{ "description": "complimenting a black girl on her hair", "pronormative_score": 312, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for complimenting a black girl on her hair?
I was in line for food with a friend of mine at our college dining hall (i’m white, he’s black- just clarification) when I saw a girl with a super pretty afro in line in front of us. i’m a very beauty conscious girl, and i think women complimenting women is cool as long as it’s appropriate, so I said to her “your hair...
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{ "description": "knocking on my ceiling/my neighbor's floor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for knocking on my ceiling/my neighbor's floor (after trying to address neighbor directly)?
**Background:** I live in a big city, but in a residential neighborhood on a quiet street. I've been in my apartment for two years as of this month, and I've lived in this city for 10 years, so I have a good idea of what constitutes as normal neighbor noise. For the past year, I've been working from home Monday-Friday,...
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{ "description": "reporting my ex for admiting to abusing our kids", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for reporting my ex for admiting to abusing our kids?
My mother seems to think so. She says we should have talked and made a safety plan. But with my sons occupational therapist noticing his behavior changes and red flags I really had no choice. Not that it mattered I was going to report him anyway. It just doesn't make sense to me. How can she act like this isn't an is...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my boyfriend for being late", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at my boyfriend for being late?
Much needed context : as an older teen and young adult my dad's late best friend touched m inappropriately, but innocently enough to always make me question it. I was also physically abused by a boyfriend and it amkes me jumpy around angry men. Today, my boyfriend agreed to meet me at 12 at my work and apartment where...
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{ "description": "getting a tattoo my wife doesn't like", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I got a tattoo my wife doesn't like?
So I'm going to make this as short and sweet as possible. I came up with a (admittedly childish) tattoo idea that ive kinda grown fond of. Growing up, Scooby-Doo and Batman were always my two favorite cartoons. Well in 2019, Scooby turns 50 and Batman turns 80. I thought it would be a neat little tattoo idea to have sc...
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{ "description": "expecting more from my so", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting more from my SO?
My SO (24 F) and I (22 M) have been together for about three years and have been living together for about half of that time. Over the course of our relationship I have been working on a degree at university while waiting tables full time. Given that I make a good amount of money at my job (a result of working my tail ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help train my roommates territorial dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help train my roommates territorial dog?
First off, I’d like to make it known that in this current time of my life, I do not want the responsibility of a dog. I live in an apartment, am moving up fairly rapidly in my career/ work 50 ish hours a week, and I’d rather not have to arrange my schedule around a dog. With that being said, I grew up with 7 dogs as my...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend days before valentine's day and our second aniversary", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I break up with my girlfriend days before valentine's day and our second aniversary?
Our second aniversary is on February 17th, and sincerley I really loved her until I realised that the relation (and her) was getting toxic. She only wants to be with me and she doesn't like to have a conversation with other people nor being with other people when I'm with her, she completely isolate from the world and ...
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{ "description": "asking ex why she apologized", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking ex why she apologized?
Hey all. Wanted to get some perspective from others. Backstory: 5 year relationship broken off by ex-gf 3 months ago (Lived together, had 5 animals, very unexpected breakup), we met up a couple of times where I tried to fix things (3 times) but she kept saying "I will think about it" but I stopped when I found out sh...
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{ "description": "being stressed over a dog I did not want", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being stressed over a dog I did not want?
My sisters friends grandmom was moving and needed a place for her dog roxxy half pit half boxer. I live with my mom so I understand I do not have final say on this but they asked me last like it was up to me. I said absolutely not. I dont hate dogs im just not a dog person. Love em their cute all that but its like havi...
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{ "description": "wanting support when our baby arrives", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 67 }
AITA for wanting support when our baby arrives
My girlfriend is great usually however she has been a nightmare since she got pregnant. Her latest is asking her mom to come over and stay about 2 weeks before she is due until about a month after. While I have no problem with her mother. I'm upset she didn't ask me as we share this home. When I asked her about it she ...
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{ "description": "being dramatic and sad when my girlfriend hangout with her friends and not me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being dramatic and sad when my girlfriend hangout with her friends and not me.
Hello guys, My girlfriend and I have been dating for few months. We are in the same class in our college but mostly we spend time sitting together in class rather than spending time outside as our friend groups are different and we both want to give our time to respective friends. From the past week, we didn't talk ...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a girl when me and my girlfriend were on a break", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for hooking up with a girl when me and my girlfriend were on a break
Me and my girlfriend of 3 years (she's 21, I'm 20) decided to go on a break 1 month ago. I won't go into detail but we both agreed that it would be for the best to take a break. We decided to let things cool off for some time and then give it another try. We went no contact for the first 2 weeks and after that we messa...
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{ "description": "wanting to give up on an out-of-job-role project after being told my employment is being terminated", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to give up on an out-of-job-role project after being told my employment is being terminated?
I was hired two months ago at a job to work as a receptionist and was postured to take on a role in purchasing shortly after I figured out the basics of the company. Less than two weeks ago I discussed with my employer, the need to update their website and especially their logo. I told them I would be interested in w...
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{ "description": "maintaining my place in line", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for maintaining my place in line?
This happened in the drive thru of a fast food place during a rush. This place has two menus to order from, but not much room otherwise. There was a single line of cars backed up to the road that split in to two lanes to order, then joined back up zipper-style to pay and get food. There was a white van behind me in the...
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{ "description": "reporting a friend for attempted cheating at my university", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA For reporting a friend for attempted cheating at my university?
He is a nice guy who took a class with me a few years ago. We ended up taking the same class this semester. We exchanged our phone numbers to help each other on homework. He took it way too far. One day he texts me that he overslept and needed the answers for a problem set due in just a few hours. I basically just said...
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{ "description": "taking a day of fake sick leave when I could still reasonably work", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a day of fake sick leave when I could still reasonably work?
I work as a repair technician at a large commercial heavy vehicle plant up in Australia's North, I do enjoy my job and (subjectively) I'm fairly good at my job. But this week has been an absolute shitshow and I've been beaten right into the ground, plus its been very hot so far and its hotter tomorrow, and I'm not han...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay in touch with a group of old friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to stay in touch with a group of old friends anymore?
Last year I graduated high school and I'm attending college now. A few classmates from high school - who I have known for years - want to stay in touch with each other and me. We watch movies with each other every so often during the weekends. However, I don't want to hang out with them anymore, because it's always awk...
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{ "description": "not tipping the delivery guy", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for not tipping the delivery guy?
So I am a student, I dont have a lot of money and I barely order food I usually make it myself. Sometimes though I would like to order food. The place I order from take a delivery fee and I end up paying a lot for not too much food. AITA for not tipping the delivery guy if I paid for everything with my card? I don't k...
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{ "description": "telling a joke my friend didn't want me to", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a joke my friend didn't want me to?
So this story started about a year ago, you, me and my friend, who i'll call Matt, love games. We really like playing them together and we enjoy making fun of each other for being bad at them. Eventually we started this stupid inside joke where wee'd call each other a "posh commoner" if we sucked at a game. It was dumb...
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{ "description": "refusing to forgive my drug abusing and animal animal abusing mom for disowning me and telling me that a was a mistake even though she apologized and tried to make amends later", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to forgive my drug abusing and animal animal abusing mom for disowning me and telling me that a was a mistake even though she apologized and tried to make amends later
So a couple of months ago my former mom came over to my grandpas (who was not there at the moment) house after a short stint in a mental institution after a drug overdose she barges into my room and starts yelling at me stating that i was a mistake, that she should have never given birth to me, and other hurtful things...
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{ "description": "asking a former co worker on a date", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a former co worker on a date (I think she's afraid of me now)?
I think this is going to be a bit of a long post, so sorry for that, I just want to provide as much context as possible. Throughout my undergrad/highschool I never had the confidence to ask women on dates, however I have had a girlfriend and have been with a few other women, I had just never made the first move (girls...
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