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{ "description": "getting upset after my girlfriend blue balled me and then laughed at me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset after my girlfriend blue balled me and then laughed at me?
For context, we’ve been in a relationship for 6 months now. I’m a guy and she’s (obviously) a girl. I was on the phone with my girlfriend, and we were going to play a game of D&D soon. We were waiting for the DM to finish some homework so it was just me and her. She started talking dirty to me and as a result I go...
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{ "description": "pushing my boyfriend to decide", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for pushing my boyfriend to decide? [28F/36M]
I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He floats between the houses of different family members and is looking for a job after some health issues. I had to move for a job which he supported and I offered to pay for him to come with me but he has refused. Recently I grew frustrated with him saying "one day" to movi...
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{ "description": "telling my friend off", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend off?
Hi. This is the first time I'm posting on this thread. I really need your help with this. I am a very bad writer so please try to bear with me. I am a senior in high school. I am involved with basically all things music. I am in chorus and I am the lead role in our upcoming musical. I have this friend (I am uncomfort...
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{ "description": "not taking my girlfriend to her hair appointment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not taking my girlfriend to her hair appointment?
My girlfriend and I live in a ski town, well over an hour from any major city. She had made a hair appointment, months ago, with one of her friends, in the major city 100 miles away. A couple of days before the appointment, we both talked about how bad the weather forecast was looking for that weekend. The day of th...
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{ "description": "not having sex/ pleasuring my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not having sex/ pleasuring my boyfriend?
I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 22 and have been dating for 2 years. I started taking the anti-depressant/ anxiety medication escitalopram which killed my already low sex drive. My boyfriend and I are still virgins but when I still had desire, we would mess around and such. He asks me every day, several times a day to give ...
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{ "description": "not giving them money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not giving them money?
I tried to write this out yesterday but I guess I was too wordy lol. Alright long story short: Due to some issues last year me and SO were given the opportunity to crash at a friends to avoid being homeless. We did not pay rent as it wasn’t asked of us but we cleaned the whole house regularly, did their chores, an...
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{ "description": "telling my work friend his partner is cheating", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my work friend his partner is cheating?
My boss drunkenly admitted to me and my partner that he has been sleeping with our work friend’s partner. My partner and co-worker (WF) work in one department and I am in another, they do not report to my boss. My boss has half-truthed to WF that it happened one time, but admitted to my partner and I that it has been a...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my boyfriend for refusing to believe he physically hurt me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting upset at my boyfriend for refusing to believe he physically hurt me?
For context: I tend to run really warm. I can also be extremely sensitive to touch, especially when I'm sick, when just wearing clothes hurts. Last night after my boyfriend got home from work, when we were hanging out at the kitchen counter, he put his hands underneath my shirt and onto my sides. It was really cold, ...
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{ "description": "basically abandoning my best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for basically abandoning my best friend?
I had a friend since 6th grade named Josh, he was a really cool and fun guy and we became best friends all through middle school. Towards the end of 8th grade my mom was planning on moving out of our house. We did during the summer and I couldn't go to the high school all my friends including Josh was going to. During ...
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{ "description": "ratting out classmates who used teacher's login info to \"fix\" their attendance", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ratting out classmates who used teacher's login info to "fix" their attendance
This happened in high school. Some classmates had gotten hold of a teacher's username and password for the system where they registered attendance for class, and used this to improve their own and others' attendance score. A friend told me this in strict confidence (they were improving her attendance score too), and I ...
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{ "description": "teasing a friend about her sexuality", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for teasing a friend about her sexuality?
So I have this friend ive known for about a year in college on my course, she's super cool usually but when she's drunk keeps trying to touch us up and make out with us which is funny (We're all girls) so we tease her about it a lot joking that she's a lesbian (not that there would be anything wrong with that, our frie...
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{ "description": "wanting to use a tipi on my album cover", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to use a tipi on my album cover?
My very small band is putting out our first record, we went out to a beautiful campsite and took a ton of photos to get some shots for the album cover, promos, etc. The best picture we've gotten far and away is of a sunset with the skeleton of a tipi in the foreground. It's just a really awesome picture, but I'm afrai...
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{ "description": "being upset with my friend for lacking boundaries with my boyfriend? update", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my friend for lacking boundaries with my boyfriend? Update
Thank you so much for your comments Something I wanted to clear up, some people commented that my friend wanted to bone my boyfriend but I don’t believe that. She wants to save herself for marriage and sees her virginity as proof that she’s more pure than other women that have slept around. Others said my boyfriend s...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to bed and sleep at a reasonable time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go to bed and sleep at a reasonable time?
Wife won’t go to bed before 12 EVER. Tonight, I tried to encourage her to start getting ready at 11 because she takes a long-ass time to get ready for bed. She said I’m being controlling and so on. But when I go to bed first, she just wakes me up when she comes in. Moreover, she doesn’t even want to do anything useful ...
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{ "description": "asking a masseuse to cut the small talk", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking a masseuse to cut the small talk?
This is for my wife. We were talking about going to get massages and she brought up that she doesnt like when the masseuse starts with all the small talk during the massage. She wants to relax and just enjoy it. Basically, what she'd like to know is, is there a certain way she should approach the situation or WSBTA e...
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{ "description": "wanting to stop being friends with an autistic kid", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to stop being friends with an autistic kid
For clarification I don’t hate this guy or anything I just don’t want to be friends with him anymore I’m in high school and have a solid friend group that I joined at the start of this year but last year I had a much smaller friend group of around 5 people with this small but very outgoing autistic kid (AU). We were ...
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{ "description": "allowing my direct reports to text me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for allowing my direct reports to text me?
Hello all, I (30m) help run the family business. My wife (31f) has weird hours, in that she works 4 days on, 5 off. I try and structure my time at work, such that I can sorta be home when she is to maximize our time together (she suffers from depression and this helps her I think). We recently promoted someone to mana...
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{ "description": "confronting my gf about telling her 2 friends and 2 sisters about every major and minor event in her life", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for confronting my gf (28) about telling her 2 friends and 2 sisters about every major and minor event in her life?
So my gf and I(33) have a habit of checking each other's phones (whether this is right or wrong is another discussion) and i finally snapped and confronted her about this. She has a divorce finalizing and she told her sister (this I understand) and her 2 friends (of 3 years or so) about it. She has a court date next mo...
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{ "description": "getting together with my ex's friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting together with my ex's friend?
I dated this guy for a couple months, he had introduced me to some of his friends. Later we broke up, but I enjoyed hanging out with one of his friends. I went out with him for a few times, but with no romantic/sexual intentions whatsoever. I genuinely went out with him as platonic friends. My ex found out thay we had ...
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{ "description": "asking my so if she intentionally left the three dishes I used in the sink for me to clean", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my SO if she intentionally left the three dishes I used in the sink for me to clean?
A little backstory. I am the single earner in our home of 5. I work about 60 hours a week on top of a 1:40 commute each way. Today I took the day off to have some time for myself. I really miss seeing my family so I got up early and made breakfast. My wife didn’t want the breakfast I made so she made something els...
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{ "description": "expecting my wife to keep her job", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my wife to keep her job?
Precursor: My wife has been battling depression and anxiety, which is likely exacerbated by having a stressful job (nurse), and her inability to effectively cope with things not going precisely her way. A couple of years ago, she quit her job when she first spiraled into depression, for 6 months, she refused to seek a...
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{ "description": "standing my ground", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for standing my ground
So my boyfriend is not very into the idea of celebrating christmas with my family. The first year we were together we celebrated it with our own families because I was still in the closet, and the year after we did it at his parent's house. His brother and his wife alternates and so I assumed we would do it at my paren...
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{ "description": "being mad at my classmate for making empty promises and screwing me over because of it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my classmate for making empty promises and screwing me over because of it
I feel so justified, but my mom is telling me that I'm being an asshole for the way I'm handling the situation. I'm in school for music production, my 2nd degree, 1st was music performance , but the classmate in question (L) just finished highschool. It's an expensive school that spits out professionals ready to work...
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{ "description": "wanting the heat up in my house", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting the heat up in my house?
I'm sure almost everyone has had to deal with thermostat issues at some point in the office, at home, etc. I know it's a very fine line to walk and that's why I'm seeking advice here. Earlier this year, my roommates (7 total) and I agreed to keep the thermostat around 70-71 during the day and 68-69 at night. I agreed ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be someone's friend because they won't stop being negative about themselves", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be someone's friend because they won't stop being negative about themselves?
I have, well maybe had this friend who was always constantly negative about themselves. They never accepted any compliments, got bothered when people wouldn't continue complimenting them or wouldn't compliment them at all, and would constantly make me feel like shit because I wouldn't continue telling them how pretty t...
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{ "description": "using a dating app", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for using a dating app?
Okay so basically, in an on and off again relationship (both at fault), but i saw on her phone (wasnt snooping: she has a car holder for her phone and she was checking her gps and when she left google maps it went to the homescreen and i just glimpsed the screen because i was still looking and i saw the tinder app). ...
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{ "description": "taking a 5 hour nap", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a 5 hour nap?
My girlfriend can get upset a little easily, most of the time I get it and I can take responsibility and brush passed it but I'm quite bothered tonight. I got home from an especially exhausting day at school and I was really sleepy. I told her I was going to try to stay awake but I'm sorry in advance if I fall asleep. ...
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{ "description": "wanting my puking neighbor to move", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my puking neighbor to move?
Background: I'm a PhD student. I live in graduate housing, and the buildings are ok but the bathroom walls are thin. I live in the second-to-last townhouse to the end. It is relatively quite, with some of the students having kids, but its nothing I can't deal with. A few months back, our old neighbors moved and new ne...
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{ "description": "not telling my so that I had changed dinner plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling my SO that I had changed dinner plans?
This happened literally today so the events are pretty fresh in my mind. My SO and I had just finished a class together (important detail: we came in separate cars) and it was dinner time so we both decided we were going to get Uber eats delivered. I wanted Vietnamese and she said earlier she would get a burger. We...
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{ "description": "cutting off some of my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off some of my friend?
This friend and I originally met online, and we became really close friends quite quickly. We talked all the time and played games together quite often, until at one point I felt like she just ended up ignoring me after we had met up in person for the first time. I told her that I felt that way, and we stoped talking f...
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{ "description": "not voting", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For not voting?
I'm in the mindset that a singular vote on an issue is pointless. I understand that a group of people can make or break an election, but i just don't see how one person can change the pace of an election. I see it as adding a pebble to a mountain. Its not going to change the size enough to be considered something diff...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that she is toxic", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my friend that she is toxic
I was hanging out with my friend after class today, let's just say her name is Jane. Out of the people that I hang out with, I hang out with Jane the most, but she is also the most toxic among my friends, making many "jokes" that are borderline bullying against me on a daily basis. After getting some food today, she i...
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{ "description": "reporting my ID client and his mom to DSS", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting my ID client and his mom to DSS?
Breakdown of the title if no one knows what I meant - my job is working 32 hrs a week with a client with intellectual disabilities (ID) and he and his mother have a horrifically gross house infested with roaches & carpet beetles and I recently discovered a series of bug bites that look like bed bug bites on my clie...
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{ "description": "arguing about sexuality unnecessarily", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for arguing about sexuality unnecessarily?
Basically, I identify as asexual (not sex-repulsed but zero interest whatsoever) One of my friends in particular has a highly active sex life, and as a part of our friendship we regularly joke about the topic of sex. We rarely have serious conversations about it, but lately I've been quite annoyed because he doesn't ...
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{ "description": "thinking that I am entitled to some or all of my mom's unpaid child support", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 81 }
AITA for thinking that I am entitled to some or all of my mom’s unpaid child support
Growing up, I lived with my mom and only got to see my dad every other weekend. My dad wanted to spend more time with us but my mom wouldn’t let him, so my dad cut off child support. My dad and I are much closer now. My dad’s dad recently died and left my dad a ton of money. Rather than letting my dad keep it or share...
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{ "description": "laughing at an autism joke", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for laughing at an autism joke?
Background: I work at an organization that focuses a majority of their efforts in caring for people that have mental health issues. Situation: There were 7 coworkers left at a long time coworkers going away party. 3 of which are part of the administrative team, 2 supervisors, a fairly new employee, and me. During one...
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AITA. Super bowl party or nieces first birthday.
I’m not good with stories but I’ll try. So I get told today (Friday) my wife forgot about her nieces birthday party on Sunday (Super Bowl). It’s 2 hours away and we they draw it out so we never leave till around 4. My question is am I a asshole for not wanting to go or is her sister the asshole for marking the party...
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{ "description": "being mad at BF for ignoring his friend was in love with him", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at BF for ignoring his friend was in love with him?
My boyfriend "M" has a female friend "P", who he previously had a thing with in October (while we were not together). Once we got back together, he stopped hooking up with P but never told her he was dating me; he would always avoid telling her when he was with me, telling her white lies and withholding the truth. So P...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my so who revealed they're trans", "pronormative_score": 558, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for breaking up with my SO who revealed they're trans
I'm not sure about pronouns and all that, apologies if I offend anyone. I'll be referring to my ex-SO as they cause I'm not sure how to use he/she in this context. For context, we're in high school. They are biologically female, and I've been dating them for close to a year. They'd been making pretty subtle comments ...
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{ "description": "taking my dishes and cookware from the kitchen a month before I move out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my dishes and cookware from the kitchen a month before I move out?
I live with a girl, let's call her Sarah in a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom apartment. ​ It seemed fine at first, but quickly small issues started becoming a problem. For starters, Sarah's girlfriend (they started dating right before move in) began living in the apartment right off the bat. Now like I said, its ...
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{ "description": "asking someone to move their car", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking someone to move their car?
Pulled into the carpark of a local shop on christmas eve. There were no spaces, and one car was taking up two spaces. Not just by a small margin where I could squeeze in, but half in each of the two spaces. I got out of my car and walked over gesturing for him to roll down the window (He was sitting waiting on someon...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut my dad out of my life and not was wanting his car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut my dad out of my life and not was wanting his car.
So I'm 15.5 and I have a car lined up for me. It would be my first car. Problem is it's my dads. My dad through most of my life hasn't been there for me. He was always out on the road and when he came home he would try and turn me into something I'm not. Then he went to prison for 5 years. During this time I loved to W...
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{ "description": "ordering a sandwich from a deli with the expectation that I can use their restroom", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for ordering a sandwich from a deli with the expectation that I can use their restroom?
So I order this sandwich and then ask to use the restroom. They tell me they do not have a restroom. I explain that I ordered the sandwich just so I could use it. I have to go really badly. They ask me to pay and I cancel the order and leave. They haven’t made the sandwich yet. They are super mad. AITA?
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{ "description": "ignoring my little sister for years", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for ignoring my little sister for years.
Quick bit of info that needs to be said first off: My sister has a different father than me, but I live in the same apartment as them. He and I don't get along, he was abusive to me when I was a child. Now he is too afraid to pull his shit on me because im bigger and stronger than him. He is a geniune asshole and very ...
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{ "description": "telling my supervisor \"I could.\"", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my supervisor "I could."
This happened yesterday... I was at work after a meeting talking to a few coworkers in a group. My supervisor came up to me and started talking. I could tell by his tone, body language, and the fact that he was getting kind of red that this wasn't necessarily a positive encounter. He says "I need you to do something...
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{ "description": "not tipping the bartender at the club", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not tipping the bartender at the club?
Last night I was out at the club with a bunch of friends, I don't go all that often so I'm not 100% on the etiquette. I was at work before I joined them so I was a little behind the pregame and decided to go up to the bar and ask for a shot. They pour my shot and tell me it'll be 5$. I hand them my 5$ bill and the ba...
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AITA for how I ended a relationship with my co-worker?
Okay, long post incoming. ​ I want to first establish that I have little to no experience in romance and dating/flirting. I know when someone is flirting with me (sometimes), but I never know how to respond (it usually ends up with me jokingly flirting back or ignoring people completely, not a great respon...
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{ "description": "wanting to stop talking to a I've met in person once but FaceTime every night", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to stop talking to a I've met in person once but FaceTime every night
We live in the same city she's 21 and I'm 23 I feel as if someone wanted to see you as badly as you do them it would be quite easy to hang out and It doesn't even have to be my house but anytime I ask what she's doing when she's off she says sleep she literally calls me on the phone whenever she gets off work but doesn...
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{ "description": "ignoring my dad when he's trying to help me with my grades", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for ignoring my dad when he’s trying to help me with my grades?
So I’m in high school. I’m failing a lot of my classes, but trying my best to make up for it. One day, my parents get my report card and my dad says he wants to talk to me about it, so that I can tell him how I think I’m doing in my classes and he can tell me how I’m actually doing and talk to me about how I can do b...
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{ "description": "not helping my mom carry her bag", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not helping my mom carry her bag?
We’re on vacation in Europe, 2nd last day there. We couldn’t place our luggage in the flat we rented the night before, so my sister wanted us to keep our luggage at the train station luggage storage. We got up quite early around 9 am to go to the train station to place our stuff, the walk from the flat to the train s...
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{ "description": "cutting my daughters hair", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting my daughters hair?
I co parent with her dad and she is 19 months. Admittedly she doesn’t have very much hair. But it has gotten longer in the bangs and for the last couple months it has been annoying her and getting in her eyes. Instead of forcing her to sit still for me to put a tiny ponytail on top of her head (which she hates but I ca...
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{ "description": "wanting contact with my dad and his new family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting contact with my dad and his new family?
Now this has to do a lot with my parents past. I (17m) life with my mother, my half brother (another father) and my full sister. My parents had me when they were in their very early 20s. After my mun was pregnant with me, my dad said he wanted to teach me piano (he was a music teacher at a local school). My mum agree...
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{ "description": "getting my neighbor arrested", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting my neighbor arrested?
So last night my upstairs neighbor was blasting music so loud I could hear it from down the street. I got home at about 9:30 from work and was ok with the music for a little bit because it was still kinda early so I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and was hoping itd get cut off soon. But the music never stopped an...
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{ "description": "not sharing job-hunting information with a friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sharing job-hunting information with a friend?
My very good friend and I currently have the same educational background, same current job, and are looking for similar positions for next school year. So we are basically in direct competition. She’s expecting her first baby any day now. I have gotten my resume redone and have started applying for jobs. One really g...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I'm sick of her saying she \"was going to\" do something once I start doing it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I told my girlfriend I'm sick of her saying she "was gonna" do something once I start doing it?
Me and my girlfriend live together. She works more than I do and that is what's keeping me from saying anything to her. ​ She has a bad habit of just throwing her clothes wherever and leaving dishes in the sink and just generally making the house a mess and not cleaning it up until it's effecting her. When...
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{ "description": "being sad my bf had to leave so soon", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being sad my bf had to leave so soon?
So I'm back again with another story about me and my boyfriend, it escalated quite a bit this time. If you saw my other post you will kinda understand how my boyfriend overreacts really quickly so keep that in mind. So tonight I was playing some Overwatch with my boyfriend, I was playing with him for about 4 hours an...
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{ "description": "falling asleep with my son in the car", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for falling asleep with my son in the car?
When my fiancee and I go shopping, I sometimes stay in the car with my son. He was asleep in his car seat, and she went into Walmart. Neither of us had slept much the night before, so I was feeling tired myself. I climbed into the back seat and rested my head on his lap. It's mid winter and he's bundled up in blankets,...
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AITA for how my friendship ended?
Whew, this is a long one. I apologize in advance. So I'm a female college student who is currently in her third year of school. My freshman year of college I met two girls who became my best friends. We were pretty much inseparable -- we were very close, talked in a group chat all the time, hung out constantly, you nam...
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{ "description": "having a door mat indoors", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having a door mat indoors?
We recently got hardwood floors installed in my house and, as a result, my shoes have started tracking pebbles/dirt/sand into my room. To combat this, I bought a doormat and left it in front of the door so I could wipe my feet. My mother insists that this is disrespectful because it implies that I am okay with tracking...
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AITA? Comment removed by r/vegan mods for what I feel like was due to a disagreement.
https://www.reddit.com/r/vegan/comments/aorros/comment/eg3aj4w?st=JRYI9X6H&sh=6542e606 Preface of OP’s claim: the majority of plastic that pollutes the ocean is from disposed fishing nets. Therefore, it is morally wrong to eat fish as it funds these businesses. The comment that I left was me disagreeing that cons...
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{ "description": "wishing this sub had less teen drama", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wishing this sub had less teen drama?
Those posts are exhausting because they often involve limited information and common miscommunications that simply need a face to face convo not strangers' judgment on the internet.
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{ "description": "leaving line to get random employee to ask for back-up to", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving line to get random employee to ask for back-up to?
@Michaels getting stuff to do Tye-Die(Tie-Dye?) and get to the line up front. There’s one older lady doing her best to move the line along for a sudden rush of 8-10 customers. She calls out for backup...no reply. I stand in the number 6 or 7 spot with my fiancée. She is working her butt off, and no one has come for...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my ex's little sister rides to places anymore", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my ex’s little sister rides to places anymore?
We use to be close and hangout, but we don’t anymore and the only time she texts me, is if she needs a ride. Sometimes she only has $5 or nothing at all and it’s getting old. But my ex has a new girlfriend and I always wonder why doesn’t she ask her? I should be the LAST RESORT if any. I know this seems silly, but i te...
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{ "description": "fake coughing at Disney", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for fake coughing at Disney?
Hey Reddit! So currently I’m on spring break at Disney! When riding a water ride a group of teenage girls got on. It was a big raft water ride at Animal Kingdom with plenty of seats. However, when the ride started one of the girls pulls out a juul. I am VERY against all forms of smoking since that’s how I lost my gran...
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{ "description": "wanting to schedule a date at least two days in advance", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: for wanting to schedule a date at least two days in advance?
I went on one date with a girl and I had good daily chats with her for a full month. 2-3 weeks later she asked to go on a date for the next day and I told her I'd like to know at least two days in advance before going on a date. She didn't like that but said whatever and that she had no opportunity for the next 5 or so...
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{ "description": "confronting this dog's owner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I confront this dog's owner?
I was on a walk with my dog and get to the end of the street, which is about 1 mile from my house. We get to basically the end of the road and a dog CHARGES from its driveway into the street, at my dog, and at this point they are both growling and barking at each other. My dog got scared and escaped from her collar, b...
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{ "description": "not buying Christmas presents for my christian relatives", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not buying Christmas presents for my Christian relatives?
Long story short, my family is ethnically Jewish but religiously Christian. For personal reasons, I went back to Judaism, but my parents are still Christian. We have never really exchanged Christmas presents in my family, and we just cook a nice dinner together instead (my parents pay for the groceries). However, I do ...
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{ "description": "snitching on my classmate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For snitching on my classmate?
First of all, I want to apologise for my English because it isn’t my first language, but I hope that you’ll understand because I want an opinion from someone who is unbiased. Today I was attending a knowledge competition. It is important to tell you that this was a highly rated competition and that if you win the regi...
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{ "description": "telling my parents it's wrong to push my dog on a sled", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents it's wrong to push my dog on a sled?
This just happened around a half an hour ago. I had gotten home from work to find my parents helping my six year old niece and my four year old nephew go sledding in our backyard. This was all good and well until I heard them mention sending my dog down the hill. My dog is an 11 year old extremely healthy daschund chih...
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{ "description": "emailing the Professor that no one is here for the test", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for emailing the Professor that no one is here for the test?
Greetings , so here it goes I am doing my postgraduate studies and for it we have a final group project for which I have worked really hard (technically I kept the group together and made sure everything was right and on time) so we had one last experiment we had to conduct which was a 7 hour test it consisted of weigh...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to stop talking always talking french with her family while I'm at the table", "pronormative_score": 120, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for asking my wife to stop talking always talking French with her family while I'm at the table?
First, I have no intention of making her speak any language and she and I both speak multiple languages so this isn't a post about "speak American". I recently had dinner with her parents and for the entire duration, except for introductions with me, they spent it speaking French, a language I do not know. I sat ther...
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{ "description": "not caring that my wife doesn't know what she wants to eat", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not caring that my wife doesn’t know what she wants to eat.
Hello again read it I’m bad with a slightly less sexual topic this time. I imagine this will might be split along gender lines for some reason but here we go. Am I the asshole for not caring that my wife doesn’t know what she wants to eat. Let me explain whenever my wife wants me to cook for dinner or take her out t...
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{ "description": "cutting a childhood friend out of my life", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For cutting a childhood friend out of my life?
So this happened a couple years ago but I'd like to hear what you all think about it. This guy (A) was one of my best friends for years but we lost contact after high-school, you know how it goes. A few years back I start a new job and A happens to work there so we start to hang out again. I'd heard he recently got m...
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{ "description": "getting back at my fwb", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting back at my fwb?
So I met this girl (let's call her Sarah) through bumble around 2 months back. We had a casual fling, but we both really enjoyed each other's company. We then made plans to hang out at least 3-4 times a week, not just purely for sex. So, around 2 weeks ago, I asked offhand if she's seen anyone else recently. She was qu...
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{ "description": "letting a friend go in too deep", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for letting a friend go in too deep?
Jesus the title sounds like a porno. Once upon a time, there was this chick I did not like. Why I didn't like her? Because she was loved. Was it jealousy? Maybe so. I came to grips with that. Was it zhe big titties? Maybe. But I do NOT gamble with maybes. Was it annoyance? Yes indeed. Fast forward two years, w...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because she won't spend the night", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she won’t spend the night?
So my girlfriend (26F) and I (27M) dated for three years. Let’s call her Jessie. We met on Xbox and I moved from one state to pretty much across the country to be with her. Jessie’s great, she’s sweet and smart but I never really fell in love with her. I broke up with her about 9 months ago because of her very control...
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{ "description": "spreading news about my cheating girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for spreading news about my cheating girlfriend?
So recently i broke up with my girlfriend because i found out she was cheating on me, and of course i told my buds about it. A school being a school, as usual, rumors fly fast. Soon enough the whole school knew about this. And she blames it on me for spreading 'lies' about her cheating on me. She was hanging out with ...
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AITA because my friend got seriously injured in an accident?
I live in a metropolitan city in Delhi. I own a motorcycle and I let my friend use it at times (friend was jobless at the time and I was letting him hang around till he get settled. I had a small studio-ish apartment and I happily shared it). Back to the story, I left for my parents place as I had got typhoid. Now I h...
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{ "description": "not talking to my best friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not talking to my best friend?
I have depression and anxiety and I regularly get really overwhelmed. when this happens I usually isolate myself from everyone until I feel better. I have told my best friend this countless times, she knows this, yet everytime I don't message her she texts me long emotional paragraphs talking about how she's sorry and ...
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{ "description": "not telling people I'm in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don't tell people I'm in a relationship?
This sounds bad, but I'll elaborate. I don't often tell people I am in a relationship **unless the conversation warrants it** (i.e. the discussion shifts to talking about our partners, etc.) In my perspective, this isn't necessarily "lying" per se, as much as it is the omission of irrelevant details. My primary rea...
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AITA girlfriend threatened me for being nice
I am a senior in high school to graduate I need anatomy. A tutor helped me pass so I want to repay her with just hanging out My girlfriend got mad at me for telling her this She the threatened to break up with me My message is "everything will work out honey" She responded with "If you go through with this it will not ...
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{ "description": "talking on the phone in a shared rideshare", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for talking on the phone in a shared rideshare?
So I'm trying to get a gauge on what the social norms are in this kind of situation. I called a rideshare carpool and got in the back -- my mom called so I picked up and was making small talk with her about her day. The driver picked up someone else and we continued on our way, and I continued chatting with my mom. A...
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{ "description": "telling my friends GF she is obsessive over my wedding", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends GF she is obsessive over my wedding
So, just some background information first; We've been planning this wedding for 2 years & my friend has never been on the guest list, & when we started planning she was single, we saw each other about once every other month & spoke sporadically. Once she met her girlfriend she started seeing me more as we ...
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{ "description": "doing something about this teacher", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA to do something about this teacher?
This just happened 15 minutes ago. I asked my sixth period Spanish teacher about a test grade. Now, I was out when the test was done and couldn't get it taken for 4 days after. It's been about a week and she still hasn't graded it yet. I asked her about it at the beginning of class here and, in front of 27 other stude...
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{ "description": "wanting to return a birthday gift from my father", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to return a birthday gift from my father
So my dad took us to the shopping centre, while we were there he went to scotch and soda to exchange some stuff, used the exchange money to buy my brother a set of clothes and he bought me a pair of jeans, the thing is i told him multiple times before that I didn't need any more clothes and he doesn't have to give me b...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ignoring my friend?
Kind of a long story, but I’ll try to make it as short as possible. We met online a few years ago. Talk everyday for a long time. We live in opposite sides of the country. He comes to visit this part of the country because he’s never been here and stays at my place. (Until there nothing happened.. we were just friends...
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{ "description": "rejecting a Girl that I wasn't into", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Rejecting a Girl that I wasn't into?
I met this girl through a mutual group of friends. I am really good friends with one of the people from the group, let's call him Ben. Because I would hangout with Ben I would see this girl often, over time it kind of seemed like this girl was flirting with me but I couldn't really tell. Eventually the flirting stopped...
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{ "description": "not paying my sisters car note while she's in school", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don’t pay my sisters car note while she’s in school
Sorry for formatting, grammar, etc. I’m on mobile, yada yada yada. So last night my sister got into a car wreck, (her fault, no one was hurt seriously besides bruises and being sore.) She was freaking out because the both of us work CNA jobs which don’t make very much, while also in school for medical professions. Sh...
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AITA - pressured into charity donation at work
For the past few years, my company has done a money/items drive to benefit mothers and babies in our area who are in need. Every year the company seems to struggle to get people to fully support it, myself included. This year my manager is expecting everyone in my area to provide a combined $300, which would come down ...
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AITA my boyfriend told me this was the worst birthday because of me
AITA// Today is my boyfriends birthday. We have a thing going on where we give gifts a few days before our birthdays because we’re so excited, so i gave him my gifts to him this past weekend. I love birthdays and I love to buy presents, so I had fun shopping and picking things out that he would like and things he nee...
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{ "description": "leaving notes on people's cars", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for leaving notes on people's cars?
I live in an apartment in MD with limited street parking and a 5-story garage where you get one space free and you can pay a monthly fee for a second space. My wife has her car in the free space on the ground floor, just like our apartment, and I pay for the other spot - but it's on the 5th floor and open to the air. I...
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{ "description": "dating/trying to get with 3 women casually? I haven't lied to anyone but I'm not super experienced on when something is exclusive or not", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for dating/trying to get with 3 women casually? I haven't lied to anyone but I'm not super experienced on when something is exclusive or not.
Throwaway So I'm 24 years old and I'm a virgin. I've never even kissed a girl on the lips so I don't really have a lot of experience as to how dating/hooking up works. I recently have been trying tinder and bumble to try and get some experience or find someone to be with, (I'm not really sure I'm kinda just winging ...
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{ "description": "blocking communication with my ex", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking communication with my ex?
So, context severely needed: My ex and I dated for a good 2-3 months before she broke up with me. The way she did it is kind of important to the story. She invited me out to a school football game (which is not free), made me pay. I accepted. She broke up with me during halftime. She kept trying to contact me afterwar...
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{ "description": "being upset whenever my wife talks to her ex-boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset whenever my wife talks to her ex-boyfriend?
From time to time my wife will chat with her ex-boyfriend (the big one). To the best of my knowledge, the conversations are harmless, but the fact that she even wants to maintain a relationship with this person really throws me off. She has said before how terrible their relationship was and how badly he treated h...
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{ "description": "having my dad pay for my college, but then ghosting him for the rest of my life", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having my dad pay for my college, but then ghosting him for the rest of my life?
I'm in nursing school right now, and my dad is putting me through it. I am very gracious for this, and I know that this makes me more privileged than others. Although, I don't think this excuses what he has done (and is still doing) to my family. I'm going to attempt to make a long story short. I'm originally from Spa...
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{ "description": "not warning a girl about my abuser", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Warning A Girl About My Abuser?
Okay, to make a long story short. I (22F) dated someone (M23) I've known my entire life, off on, for four years from 13 to 17, and he stuck around until I was 19 before I finally cut him off. I won't get into it, but he was emotionally, verbally, and sexually abusive and tried to rape me at one point. He's also a com...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend to stop talking to a girl who \"liked\" him less than a year ago", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend to stop talking to a girl who “liked” him less than a year ago?
So, my bf and I are in a somewhat open relationship in that we have threesomes with people. Nothing happens without the other’s knowledge and consent. It’s basically just a sex or friends with benefits thing. Well, about 6 months ago we broke up for a short time (turns out, it was because we were both sexually bored ...
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{ "description": "wanting little to do with my nephew and his mother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting little to do with my nephew and his mother.
My older brother knocked up a girl several years ago. I’m not sure where my brother is right now, quite possibly prison. I don’t have much contact with him. So I have this 6 year old nephew who is a miniature version of my brother, acts like him, is crazy like him, maybe even has bipolar like him. I’ve been trying to...
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{ "description": "telling my mom how much I hate being a girl everyday", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom how much I hate being a girl everyday?
So I'm 15. Yeah, pretty rocky start, eh? Teenage hormones and stuff. So I think I might have gender dysphoria. It hits extremely hard sometimes, to the point where I start hyperventilating and crying and shutting down. I don't have any mirrors in my room anymore, and I try not to be in any pictures. It just pains me e...
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{ "description": "not picking up a hitchhiker", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not picking up a hitchhiker?
I was driving along in Utah (from Moki Dugway towards Hanksville) and if anyone hasn’t driven there, it’s basically an endless road and nothing else for 2-3 hours. I didn’t even see any other cars which was eerie, and while the red rock hills around make for a stunning scenic drive, as I was alone I was kind of getting...
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