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{ "description": "not telling my cousin that part of our family once owned another part of his", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I don't tell my cousin that part of our family once owned another part of his?
I'm extremely into genealogy. I've put a lot of time and effort into researching my own over the past 6 years. I send out periodic updates to family members all over the country via emails maybe twice a year but definitely once at the end of the year. I almost never hear back from them on this particular issue. Basical...
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{ "description": "leaving my job in a time where my bosses really need me", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my job in a time where my bosses really need me?
Hi reddit, For context: We are a small company, there was only two people really experienced here. One of them left last December and I got a proposal from the same company to go with him. After much thought, I talked with my last remaning experienced colleague about the matter and she told me that it would be a bit ...
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{ "description": "pressuring my girlfriend overseas to move where I am, just because my professional career is entrenched here", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For pressuring my girlfriend overseas to move where I am, just because my professional career is entrenched here?
I work for a relatively large consulting firm and am comfortable with my job and the people I work with. It's pretty chill here compared to more competitive territories in the US or Asia Pacific. My gf lives in Japan, where we met a few years ago while I was on exchange. I absolutely love her to bits. We Skype regular...
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{ "description": "doing this, even though we were undefined", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for doing this, even though we were undefined?
Long story short, my ex boyfriend (C) broke up with me 2.5 months ago. We stopped talking and cut each other out of our lives and sort of moved on; he started sleeping with a random tinder girl, and I started hanging out with/sleeping with one of my work friends (J), who I’ve known for 2 years, actually a bit longer th...
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{ "description": "putting my neighbors laundry all over the laundry room", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for putting my neighbors laundry all over the laundry room?
So tonight I go downstairs to do my laundry and both the washer and the dryer are full of laundry, I live in a two apartment buildig. Would have let this go and just do it tommorrow, but it's midnight and I work at 8am. So I took their laundry out the washer and put it on top of the dryer, then I took the dry laundry a...
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{ "description": "being wishy-washy when it comes to my crush", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being wishy-washy when it comes to my crush
I'm 17 as if now, in my school we have a advanced class for English, math, and history. I'm in the advanced class for English (I got in from test scores, sorry if this post is not written correctly) and we started book clubs. My teacher assigned me to a group with my crush who is also been my friend since 7th grade, an...
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AITA: bestfriend hooked up w brother even tho it makes me uncomfortable and always talks about him.
I’m in need of some advice my best friend who I called my sister was staying at my house every weekend and when she comes over she hangs around my brother more than me she has even slept in his bed a few times, admitted to me she hooked up with him and gets angry when he mentions other girls around her so what I’m pre...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to a concert with another girl", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to go to a concert with another girl?
First ever post on Reddit in my 2+ years of lurking so forgive me if my formatting or anything else is not correct. For context im a 24 year old guy and my girlfriend is the same age. So last Saturday I went out with a couple of friends whilst my girlfriend stayed at home, one friend was there that I haven't seen i...
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{ "description": "not driving a disabled person to the train station", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not driving a disabled person to the train station
So we (me and my mom) are loading up our car with grocerys after shopping. Some random lady comes to us and asks if we can get her to the train station. Apparently she needed to be their in 10 minutes. As she is a complete stranger (seemed shady) and im with my mom we decline and suggest to ask some others as we ar...
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{ "description": "accepting gifts from a guy even though I am seeing someone else", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA For accepting gifts from a guy even though I am seeing someone else?
I'm 21f, he's 20m. One of my good friends from school bought me a nice handbag and wallet for my birthday, probably cost around like $350, this was last month. I was really happy he got me something and it was so sweet of him. About a week later he basically confessed his love for me and I had to turn him down because ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for yelling at my (22F) boyfriend (23M)
So the other night before bed my bf and I were scrolling through the TV channels. He stops on a fox news talk show, where they are talking about toxic masculinity. Of course the commentators are saying there is no such thing as toxic masculinity and saying it's ridiculous. For context, I am moderate-liberal, and my b...
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{ "description": "suggesting that our group use google translate to make it easier to talk with a foreign exchange student while working on a project", "pronormative_score": 68, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for suggesting that our group use google translate to make it easier to talk with a foreign exchange student while working on a project?
In my General Bio lab, we have a foreign exchange student from South Korea. Our professor had paired us all up and it was me, the foreign exchange student, and two girls. Our assignment was to build all the types of amino acids models with those little balls and rods and explain some stuff about them and we only had th...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend because he cancelled important plans", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend because he cancelled important plans?
First of all english isn't my first language so sorry in advance for bad grammar. The story goes like this. One of my best friends and I bought tickets for one of the biggests festivals in our country a month ago. They cost 150€ more or less, it's a five day festival and the place is pretty far from where we live, so ...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to get me a Christmas gift", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to get me a Christmas gift?
My bf and I have been together for 4 years now (this will be our 5th Christmas together) and he never gets me anything for Christmas. I love Christmas and I love buying gifts for people so I always get him a few little things. I could understand if we JUST got together or something, but we've been together for a super ...
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{ "description": "looking at my partners phone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For looking at my partners phone?
Backstory: about 3 years ago my wife (fiancee at the time) was acting very weird about her phone. She would hide the screen when it would light up, turn it upside down when around me and act very defensive over it. After confronting her about it, she had been snapchatting and texting a co-worker of hers (male) that she...
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{ "description": "not wanting my partner to host a friends stag party at our house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my partner to host a friends stag party at our house?
My SO's friend is getting married 2 weeks from now. My SO is best man so he's going to have a stag party for Friend this Saturday. Originally SO was going to take Friend out with a few mates to relive the same stupid things they did as single teenagers (drunk fishing, off-road driving, pub crawl etc). Then Friend tol...
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{ "description": "letting me S/o pay for our groceries in total", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for letting me S/O pay for our groceries in total?
Alright, I got another one that'll make me seem like a gold digging poo but hear me out. ​ My girlfriend of 4 years and I moved in together 9 months ago. Initially, we went grocery shopping together but for my own selfish (personal) reasons (that she understands but it still bothers me that I do this), I s...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that I probably couldn't live with her if she keeps doing 'nothing'", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that I probably couldn't live with her if she keeps doing 'nothing'
\[M20\] \[F19\] Ages may or may not be fake. We live with our parents, but have planned to rent something together. Hello, i'm a long time lurker, but decided to post with a throwaway anyway. My girlfriend is in college since 4 months, but she doesn't go. This has been going on for a month now. We ha...
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{ "description": "shutting down conversation about sex life", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for shutting down conversation about sex life?
My (M29) girlfriend (30) gets back from the pub last night, very happy, and we start chatting. She says that her friends were laughing because one of them had a sex dream about a foursome with us and also what underwear her friend's boyfriend likes her to wear. The conversation tanks when she says that she wouldn't dis...
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{ "description": "not wanting to call my dads step-mum Grandma", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to call my dads step-mum Grandma?
My dads mother died when he was really young but I’ve always felt connected to her (I’m her namesake). My grandpa has been remarried all of my life to a manipulative and bossy woman who’s just kind of an all round ass. Recently things have escalated in her relationship and my dad and I have worked out that the consta...
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{ "description": "not asking more about my friend coming out", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not asking more about my friend coming out?
Throwaway because I literally feel terrible and actually feel as if I have done wrong. I have known one of my friends for most of my life. I met him in preschool, when I we were 5, and we are now 23. We went through primary school, high school, and partially university together. He's not my best friend, but he's one of...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to Europe", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to go to Europe?
My boyfriend and I [F] have been together for about two years. We have a plan go to Europe together for a month when we graduate in the summer of 2020. I think he is planning on proposing then. My best friend [also F] just invited me to meet her in Prague for a conference she is going to this summer (2019), then tour a...
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{ "description": "not continuing to hang out with a girl who considered me a close friend because the relationship wasn't physical", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not continuing to hang out with a girl who considered me a close friend because the relationship wasn’t physical?
First day of college I meet a girl and we talk. She tells me earlier that week she met a guy on tinder and that she loves him. Ok sure, we have a nice conversation and I leave it at that. See her again a few weeks later, we talk and shoot the breeze for a minute or two then I have to get to class. Cool. Now I have a ...
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{ "description": "talking to my mom in the same rude tone she talks to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for talking to my mom in the same rude tone she talks to me?
I was asking my mom a simple question and she caught an attitude so i caught one back. she then proceeded to yell at me and say “since she’s my mom she can speak to me however she wants” i’m sorry but just because you’re my mom, i don’t think that gives you a right to speak to me however you want when i’ve done nothing...
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{ "description": "telling my father to delete half of his birthday well wishes on my fb-wall", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my father to delete half of his birthday well wishes on my FB-wall?
Pretty short, but I woke up today (birthday) and saw my dad had written birthday well wishes on my wall, which included: news of my graduation + final grade, new job as a nurse and a ring emoji to signal my "recent engagement" (2-3 months ago) that we havent told everyone about yet, just the nearest family and some fr...
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{ "description": "not getting my sisters bags", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting my sisters bags
My sister(17) asked me(14) to grab her schoolbags from the car for her in the middle of the day, which I was fine doing. After I got the bags I spent the rest of my day on my computer and went to bed At around midnight she woke me up and told me I grabbed the wrong bag and to go get the right one. I told her that one...
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{ "description": "not texting my mom that we want her to come home", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not texting my mom that we want her to come home?
Here we go. ​ First some context: I'm 14. My mom is often gone for long periods of time because she like to chat. seriously. She gets to do whatever she wants, i get that she is the adult. This is the first time she has lashed out like this. At this point I'm not bugged about the fact that she is gone a lo...
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{ "description": "revealing my feelings to a coworker even though he has a gf", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for revealing my feelings to a coworker even though he has a gf?
I’ve been working at the same job for years, and over the time I’ve been here I’ve become really close friends with a coworker that sits at a desk near mine. Our boss is intolerable and the company isn’t the best, but having him here makes it worth it to keep going. I recently broke off a long engagement to another cow...
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{ "description": "beating my boyfriends friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for beating my boyfriends friend?
A few months ago I met one of my boyfriends friends at the gym we frequent (boyfriend, friend and I all go to the same gym). It was night (24h gym), so nobody else was around. We were training normally, but started talking a bit during the breaks. At some point we started talking about martial arts. He had been doing ...
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AITA — My wife and I are moving across the country to be closer to our families. Initially the plan was to fly two of our family members up so we would have 4 people to assist with the move. I would drive my car, she would drive hers, and the 2 other people would drive the moving truck...
The price of the flights got a little too pricey so I suggested we just rent a tow trailer to put one of our cars on it. This option would end up being cheaper and more convenient to our family members, as they wouldn’t have to take time off work, fly in, drive 12 hours back, etc. My wife had initially expressed her co...
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{ "description": "finding out my so was cheating by looking on their computer", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding out my SO was cheating by looking on their computer?
I was sensing something was off for weeks. I asked him what was wrong multiple times, asked if we were okay and if he was interested in other girls. I had a feeling but no proof at this point. He would get defensive and make me feel dumb for assuming he wasn't happy with me. ​ We share a laptop at the mom...
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{ "description": "breaking things off with a friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking things off with a friend?
Apologies for length and teenage drama. ​ When I was in high school, I became close friends with a girl (I am female as well), we’ll call her Jane. She was an eighth grader/freshman and I was a junior/senior. We met through being in the same instrument section in our high school band (which eighth graders ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friend to bring someone that no one knows with him while we go out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting my friend to bring someone that no one knows with him while we go out?
So me and some friends are going out today. I'll give some fake names first Euan Kaelan Darragh Finn Noah (me) Josh Tom Micheál (If people think these names are weird I'm from Ireland) So six of us were going out today. Yesterday Finn randomly says that he wants to bring his friend micheál. Literally none of us know ...
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{ "description": "selling concert tickets that I promised a friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA for selling concert tickets that I promised a friend?
Recently, a relatively large band that both me and my friend (let’s say Josh) really like has a series of very small shows running nearby to us.We agreed in advance that if I were to get tickets on our we would go together. Instead of paying me for his ticket, Josh and I agreed that we would write off £30 that I owed...
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{ "description": "getting angry about my girlfriend getting a ticket from a friend to see an artist both of us enjoy without me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting angry about my girlfriend getting a ticket from a friend to see an artist both of us enjoy without me?
So my girlfriend and I both really like this one singer that’s playing in our city this week. Both of us are big music lovers. None of us got tickets when they went on sale, which was a bummer but nothing special. Fast-forward to now, and a friend of hers messages her saying he’s got one spare ticket for the concert b...
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{ "description": "not believing my friends friend died", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not believing my friends friend died
Context: my friend/ex (were still friends after the break up) was being very mean and spreading rumors about me because I didn’t want to buy her a purse, in turn I asked a couple of my friends to help me make a diss on her (very childish of me and I messed up). Anyway she found out and got super pissed, she blocked me ...
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{ "description": "not trusting my brother who is recovering from an addiction", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not trusting my brother who is recovering from an addiction?
Some backstory: My brother came to live with me when he was 16 because he dropped out and left home. While with me he got his GED and babysat for me while me and my husband worked in exchange for room and board. This lasted until he started seeing this woman that he worked with and she introduced him an I...
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{ "description": "not using the concert tickets my parents got me for my birthday even if I'm willing to give them back the money they spent", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not using the concert tickets my parents got me for my birthday even if I’m willing to give them back the money they spent?
Okay there are multiple aspects I need to unpack here. Firstly, I got the tickets three months ago for my birthday and I’m pretty sure they were resale (extra pricey). I obviously thanked my parents and made plans with a friend to go together. Cut to a day before the concert and I remind said friend about our plans but...
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{ "description": "deleting my moms facebook posts", "pronormative_score": 338, "contranormative_score": 93 }
AITA for deleting my moms Facebook posts?
Okay so to start this off, I’m currently in recovery from multiple mental illnesses including anorexia. So when I was first diagnosed I was pretty much immediately sent to a residential hospital for a few months and I EXPLICITLY told my mom that I didn’t want her telling people besides close family friends and re...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my friend for not inviting me to a party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting pissed at my friend for not inviting me to a party?
First of all, a bunch of context. Jeff is a good guy mostly, we have been friends for 17 years and a good chunk of that I'd say even best friends. This past month we also became roommates for the first time ever. Last year I was incredibly depressed and I've finally got my shit sort of together both mentally and phy...
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{ "description": "siding with my wife over my mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For siding with my wife over my mom
Before I even begin to explain the situation, I am an Indian and Indian parents are a bit involved in their kids lives. Also, coming from India, there is this "notion" of traditions. Something I am vehemently against when certain traditions are biased and rooted in archaic principles. Coming to the story, me and my wi...
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{ "description": "drumming in my apartment", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for drumming in my apartment?
Ok so first off before anyone accuses me of being an asshole just from the title, it's an electronic drumset, not an acoustic one. I won't get an acoustic drumset until I have my own house. The electronic drumset still makes noise and transfers vibrations through the floor, though. I live in a second floor apartment, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my brother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my brother?
I went away to college for three years. I am the youngest of my siblings and none of them went away to school. My school was only 3 hours away, a pretty far drive but doable (I think). My siblings only visited me probably three times in three years. They came only on Family Day every year because there was “things to d...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work this week", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to work this week?
Hey guys, first time poster but quite a lurker around here. Context I'm (25f) having a work relationship with my mom (46) and because of economic reasons we decided it was better to move in together. There's no contract or legal obligations. We work in accounting and due dates are CRUCIAL, specially the 17th (in 2 da...
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{ "description": "blushing to another guy while I have a boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blushing to another guy while I have a boyfriend?
I am together with my boyfriend for quite a few years. Never have I cheated or being not loyal to him, and I never will. I recently hit the gym. Today something weird happened. I got into a conversation with this dude who looked really handsome, he wanted to grab dumbbells and I wanted the same so he said no you can ...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a girl on MDMA", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hooking up with a girl on MDMA?
So I was at a house party the other night, this girl I had met a few times before wouldn't leave me alone wanting to dance with me and stroking my hair a lot, I wasn't really into her that much but at the end of the night I decided to pick the easy fruit and hooked up with her, pretty standard cringey one night stand s...
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{ "description": "being angry with my fiancé for wanting a paternity test for our yet to be born son", "pronormative_score": 165, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for being angry with my fiancé for wanting a paternity test for our yet to be born son?
I’m 4 months pregnant and my fiancé said he wanted to have a serious talk with me yesterday morning. He said that he was going to ask for a paternity test when the baby is born. This made me angry and feel like he didn’t trust me. He said in response that lots of men trusted their significant others and ended up raisin...
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{ "description": "taking back what's mine", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For taking back what's mine?
(On mobile; formatting etc. etc.) I'm in gym class in school and we just completed our mile run. We need to mark down our times with pencils that are in a limited quantity. A classmate just finished marking down their time and they hold the pencil out for grabs. I take it and shortly after, a girl walks up to me and s...
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{ "description": "demanding that my husband showers before getting into bed", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for demanding that my husband showers before getting into bed.
He went to the gym this evening and his sweat has dried. Should he shower before getting in bed with his wife or wait until the morning like he prefers?
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my parents?
Typing on mobile so apologies in advance. About 2 years ago, I moved from BE to the UK to come live with my boyfriend (now fiance) that I met online. He and I had long discussions about who would make the move, and as he doesn't speak my maternal language and wants to stay close to his small family, we decided that I...
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{ "description": "being angry about my ex becoming rich", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA when I am angry about my ex becoming rich
The first thing: I don't speak english very well, so sorry about any mistakes. I was with my ex for three years, and honestly cared for him. We didn't live together, but spent a lot of time with each other. I dumped him a year ago, cause he was full of BS - he didn't want to work, and lacked ambition. All the time he ...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my friend for bailing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at my friend for bailing
So my friend and I go to the movies together. Earlier this year we saw trailers for Bohemian Rhapsody and said we were going to see it opening night. About a month before it came out, I found out I had a meeting that day and wouldn't be able to make it. I let him know as soon as possible. We rescheduled to see it on ...
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{ "description": "walking away from a friendship because I could no longer support my friend with her emotionally and physically abusive boyfriend/baby daddy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking away from a friendship because I could no longer support my friend with her emotionally and physically abusive boyfriend/baby daddy?
My friend started dating a guy who was very controlling and selfish and then found out she was pregnant by him. During her whole pregnancy, he forced her to hide it because he still hadn’t completed his divorce yet from his wife whom he had been separated from before they met. It wasn’t until about 8 months when she wa...
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{ "description": "not having sex with boyfriend when he wants", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not having sex with boyfriend when he wants?
When we first got together in Highschool we had sex all the time fast forward to now I just don't want it as often as he does he wants it multiple times a week and honestly I'd be fine a couple of times a month, sometimes I'll give him a handjob. But he just wants it all day every day it feels like, and it doesn't ev...
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{ "description": "getting defensive when I refused to erase pictures of a car crash that someone asked that I delete from the group chat", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting defensive when I refused to erase pictures of a car crash that someone asked that I delete from the group chat?
There are screenshots for proof if anyone wants to translate themselves. (https://imgur.com/a/oTJ8XaQ) Anyway. Some photos of a very high profile car (Mercedes AMG, one of two in the country) started circulating on Whatsapp yesterday because it had crashed. So I sent them to an auto group chat I'm in. It was relevant ...
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{ "description": "making a sarcastic joke about plastic surgery", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a sarcastic joke about plastic surgery?
AMITA Preface: Been home for the holidays with my SO for the past couple days so tensions are running a little high (my family is pretty crazy, open, and talk about a lot of uncomfortable things that would make other people feel weird). Today at lunch I (F20) and my boyfriend (M20) were talking with my family about...
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{ "description": "saying my mom gets offended by everything", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying my mom gets offended by everything?
Me (14) and my mom had a fight today. The problem about this is that my mom insists on being right all the time. She will argue her point to no end even if she knows she’s wrong. So today we were doing scripture study for about 45 minutes and my brother complained about how long it took. My mom said that it wasn’t that...
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{ "description": "leaving £20 in my boyfriends car", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving £20 in my boyfriends car?
Earlier today my boyfriend asked me to drop off something he bought for a friend with said friend, and to pick up the money owed. My boyfriend was driving and I was the passenger so I quickly jumped out, dropped it off and came back to the car and we set off to a pub for lunch. I asked him where he wanted the money and...
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{ "description": "causing my mothers miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for causing my mothers miscarriage?
Hi all. To start this off, we need some context. I have a pet chicken that lives indoors. He is very well loved, spoiled rotten and goes outdoors very frequently. He has a coop build in my walk-in closet. I had to leave town for a week, and my mother was babysitting him. Which is basically feeding and water him, and m...
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{ "description": "defending myself", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for defending myself (verbally)
My boyfriend and I work in the same place, same amount of hours per day (except he works one more day than me). I switch between standing/sitting for seven hours and packing things in bags. He moves around most of the day picking orders, sorting out stock etc, maybe gets to sit for an hour at the most, but as i already...
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{ "description": "talking about a customer at work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for talking about a customer at work
I have a part time job at a major clothing retailer. A customer started chatting with me, and we realized we live in the same area. Cool! Let’s call her Rachel. As Rachel and I were talking, another customer—we’ll call her Sarah—entered the store in a hurried manner. I noticed her out of the corner of my eye, but befo...
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AITA visited my sister and her family. Left in the night while all were sleeping.
I have been visiting my sister and her family the last couple of days. I had a ticket to return home on Friday evening (today/tomorrow). My sisters husbands family came to visit yesterday (not planned, the brothers thought it would be a great idea). They were 4, two parents, one baby and the mothers sister. We were ...
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{ "description": "standing up to my bully by using his mom's disease", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for standing up to my bully by using his mom's disease?
English isn't my native language, so, you know. This all happened when I was in highschool. Long story short, new kid shows up at the beggining of the year, dude spends the year just constantly emotionally bullying me. He had more money than me, so he had the habit of making fun of me because I was "poor", constantly ...
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{ "description": "not having more sympathy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not having more sympathy?
I met this girl who asked me out infront of all of our mates who were staring so I said yes even though I didn't really like her in that way. But she was attractive and I thought some people are slow burners so I thought why not. I went on a date and it was fine, but I was still unsure, and she invited me over the next...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend's boyfriend she was cheating on him with his son", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not telling my friend's boyfriend she was cheating on him with his son?
Names: Hayley = cheating friend, Gary = her partner at the time, Zack = the partner's son, and Katy = the other friend in this story. This happened around 2-3 years ago. I had gotten back in contact with Hayley after a few years of us not seeing each other, and she started telling me about her new boyfriend Gary. Hay...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut contact with a friend who has a mental illness", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut contact with a friend who has a mental illness
So I’m a guy and I’ve have had a great group of friends who live on my road. A couple of years ago I was introduced to a girl by a mutual friend and we were good friends at first. After a while she started to hit on me but I rejected her advances. I found out from her that she’s clinically depressed, has anxiety and s...
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{ "description": "clogging a pool lane by walking to rehab my knee", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for clogging a pool lane by walking to rehab my knee?
I just got ACL surgery about 6 weeks ago (tore it playing soccer, during the first 30 seconds of the season but that’s another story) and I’ve been way ahead of schedule with my recovery as I’ve tried to be super loyal to the PT regimen since I’m trying to get back for my senior year baseball season (17 M btw). About...
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{ "description": "postponing a trip with a friend but still going on vacation with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for postponing a trip with a friend but still going on vacation with my boyfriend?
This happened almost four years ago and ended this friendship. She got in touch with me last night and we both still think the other is wrong. Allow me to set the stage- it’s 2015 and my friend, L and I decide that the upcoming fall we are gonna hike the Appalachian trail together. L and I grew up together and had be...
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{ "description": "dating my ex's sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dating my ex’s sister?
They’re twins, and we kind of rushed into our relationship, one day, she stopped talking to me, and I tried to talk to her a few times but just got shut down, I decided to wait for her to be ready to talk to me, assuming she’d say something when she was. This went on for weeks and during this time, her twin sister (als...
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{ "description": "possibly leading a guy on", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for possibly leading a guy on
Okay so I know what the title says, but I would like to clarify that I know that leading someone on is a dick move. I’m more confused as to whether or not what I’m doing can be considered as leading someone on. Basically, I met this guy in a club in December and we made out in the club and exchanged numbers. We’ve been...
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{ "description": "making my fiancé pay for a hotel herself because she refuses to stay with my parents on Christmas", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 54 }
AITA for making my fiancé pay for a hotel herself because she refuses to stay with my parents on Christmas?
So this Christmas the plan is for my fiancé and I to fly out and visit my parents. We’ve done this before and we stayed at their house, which I thought was fine. This year she wants to get a hotel for two nights instead of staying with them. I asked why and she complained that there’s no privacy at my parents’ (Which i...
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{ "description": "throwing trash in my roommates room and losing my cool", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For throwing trash in my roommates room and losing my cool?
Ok so, I'm pretty sure I'm \[24f\] the asshole here. This just happened, and I am really trying to calm down and get my head straight. Please rip me a new one here if I deserve it. ​ I came back to the house this morning with trash overflowing in the garbage can and a bad smell. I took out the trash and t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hand out religious themed Christmas cards at work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to hand out religious themed Christmas cards at work?
So my girlfriend went out and bought a load of christmas cards to hand out to neighbors, co-workers, friends etc. This isn't really a problem and I'm honestly happy to do so, however when I looked at the cards she had gotten they were biblical scenes, jesus on the cross all that weird stuff. I explained that I don't f...
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{ "description": "hating my parents for giving birth to me", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my parents for giving birth to me?
Throwaway because some friends know my real account. I am currently in high-school and as a child I got diagnosed with asthma and several muscular conditions. My parents KNEW they had those conditions and the problems that could occur with these conditions but my parents had me anyways since they apparently thought th...
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{ "description": "telling my trainer she screwed up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my trainer she screwed up?
Started a new job about a month ago. Good job, but it's the kind where mistake are very easy to make. My trainer and I are basically splitting the duties of a single role, we each take half, with her watching and always available to help. Anyways, today a found a case that had several errors on it. A page was missing...
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{ "description": "refusing to hire a vegan chef when most of our dishes are meat based", "pronormative_score": 268, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for refusing to hire a vegan chef when most of our dishes are meat based?
So I have been working in my parent's bar and grill/cafe for as long as I can remember. There is an emphasis on steak, hamburgers, tacos, fish, etc, along with a lot of other meaty bar foods and sandwiches. We have practically zero vegan/ vegetarian dishes. We have exactly one now that I think about it, a simple veggie...
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{ "description": "calling my pregnant friend a \"Fatfuck\"", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my pregnant friend a "Fatfuck"?
So a little backstory, me and my friend have known each other since we were kids and we always had this relationship where we would insult each other to make us laugh. And recently she got married, moved state and got pregnant so I haven't seen her in a few months, but we still keep up. And then she invited me to her b...
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AITA?
Hubby and I have been married for 8 years. For the past 2 years, he has been gone for 1.5 of it for work, but he has input in selecting the missions that keep him away. When I express frustration for him leaving AGAIN, it is, "well, it was best for the team." Last year, he got a really cushy gig, and the power went to ...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend for always being broke", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being angry at my friend for always being broke?
I've been friends with this person, let's call her Taylor, for around 4 years. She's never really had money, but she used to just bring it up if I asked her to go to something expensive (say, a $35 trip to a museum). She's also always smoked weed, but it used to be around a few times a week. I've never smoked regularly...
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{ "description": "constantly arguing with my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for constantly arguing with my dad
Wait Ik just from the title it sounds like an automatic YTA but there’s more to it. You see it’s about my gf, we’re an interracial couple (Black and Hispanic) and my dad seems to have a problem with that. He constantly repeats that she doesn’t love me (this girl has bought me a game, been there for my failures, etc) no...
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{ "description": "not picking up my dogs poop", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 53 }
AITA for not picking up my dogs poop
Now don't jump to conclusions 99% of the time my dogs poo is in the bin, but every 1 in a hundred poops from my dog is so vile it makes me throw up when I pick it up. I've done it before i.e thrown up while picking up one of these poops. I feel like leaving vomit in the park is worse than dog poop. Some people got mad ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "liking other girls attractive photos on instagram while in a serious relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for liking other girls attractive photos on instagram while in a serious relationship?
We’ve been dating for a year, and i’ve always done this. we’re both 25. she got really mad at me the other day and told me it’s inappropriate that i like “sexy” pictures of other girls. she is pissed more about the girls we both know cuz she thinks it’s embarrassing for her and i’m a pig. but she also said it’s weird i...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "not being super receptive to emotion right now", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being super receptive to emotion right now?
I'm in a rut. I've made this abundantly clear (by saying that I'm in a rut, not through passive aggressive bullshit) but my boyfriend keeps acting like everything I say is offending him. He says it's because of the tone of my voice. I just worked a ten hour shift feeling like nothing matters, I might be a little monoto...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mother to take my tax return money", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mother to take my tax return money
TLDR: So, it's tax refund season... Yippee! ...or if you're like me, you're only a cosigner on your Parent Plus Loan and you won't be seeing any of that money come back to you. Background: My parents have always had issues with money and not being able to afford to live. My mother's father recently passed and they cam...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf to move on with job offer that's taking forever", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my BF to move on with job offer that's taking forever?
Hi Reddit, using a throwaway and this will be a x-post to r/offmychest. My BF (27M) and I (25F) have been together for 3.5 years. We moved in together last summer. We have always wanted to get married and feel the time is coming soon. He said he wants to be married before he's 30. We're also at the life stage where ma...
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{ "description": "not tipping when the waitress made me pay for an item she left off my bill", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for not tipping when the waitress made me pay for an item she left off my bill
I was at the pub and I ordered 2 pounds of wings and a 7up. Over the course of the night, I should note that, the person waiting our table changed twice. One took our order, another brought our food, and a third took care of us for the rest of the night. There were 7 of us and 4 of us got our bills while the other t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive my sister home", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to drive my sister home?
My sister and I decided to visit my parents in San Francisco for Thanksgiving. My sister got a ride from her friend Jess, from San Diego to my home in LA (2 hours away). The plan was for her to ride back to SD with Jess. However, she decides she wants to bring her snowboarding equipment, and doesn't want to ride with J...
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{ "description": "sending my sister a list of reasons not to adopt a pit bull", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 54 }
AITA for sending my sister a list of reasons not to adopt a pit bull.
For as long as I can remember my sister has wished for a puppy. But for several reasons wasn't allowed. Both me and my mom aren't huge fans of dogs, she grew up with a Dachshund which she nicknamed "Devil's Sausage" for reasons that should be obvious, and I when was 6 years old and playing on the curb a barking dog ran...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my ex-girlfriend a month after having cheated", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For cutting contact with my ex-girlfriend a month after having cheated?
I know the widespread opinion on unfaithfulness but try to hear me out first. ​ First off this isn't an AITA for having cheated, that's clear and not up for debate. I've long accepted full responsibility for it in person, 2 days after it occurred. I then explained that I was unhappy with our relationship a...
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{ "description": "not being \"poked fun at\" by my sister", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being "poked fun at" by my sister?
So, a few minutes ago, I'm sitting in the car with my little brother and older sister. I've had a shitty day overall. My sister starts making gay jokes toward me. She won't stop, even though I am obviously not happy about it. She keeps going, and then I tell her something along the lines of she doesn't know when to sto...
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{ "description": "taking all of our presents away", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for taking all of our presents away?
So I go into my 11 yr old's bedroom to remind her that she needed to clean her room. There was something on her floor that I had never seen before. Picked it up and see there is a small piece of wrapping paper attached. Given the colors, and from what I could make out of the design, it was the paper that my presents we...
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{ "description": "leaving my flatmate before he left me with the lease to myself", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my flatmate before he left me with the lease to myself
So I thought that my flatmate and I are like family. I do heaps of chores for him like cooking meals and unpaid babysitting for his son. Actually his son is lovely and I spend untold amount of time with him. When my flatmate had been sick or hung over or hospitalized, I've always been good to take the kid for a day for...
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{ "description": "'gaslighting' people as pranks", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA For 'gaslighting' people as pranks?
So this is weird. I was reading a comment section on a news website that said a certain politician was 'gaslighting'. Curious, i googled it. Apparently this is when manipulative sociopaths try to make people doubt their sanity by telling them false things happened, or by telling them true things didnt happen, correct?...
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{ "description": "taking one of the employees off the schedule", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking one of the employees off the schedule?
Backstory, my “fast dining” restaurant that is “Mexican themed” just lost its general manager so it is just the shift supervisors there. I am now making the schedule, one is in charge of ordering inventory, one is doing catering worksheets, and the other is day-to-day business. Recently, we had our main night cook put ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend about her ex's affair", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend about her ex's affair (also my friend)?
Ok, so I (M 22) find myself in this weird situation. Kind of immoral I guess. I got two friends, one girl and one guy. They recently broke up (they had a hard time with each other for a couple of months). Let's call the girl Jane and the boy Joe, both aged 21-23. The situation: Joe had an affair with another girl fo...
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{ "description": "breaking up with her for lying about her age", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for breaking up with her for lying about her age?
I’m in a newish relationship. It was very long ago that we decided to be exclusive. I’m 27 and she told me she was 29. After we decided to become exclusive she told me she had something silly to tell me. That she was actually 36. I honestly couldn’t tell and she looks great for her age, but it’s not really silly t...
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{ "description": "insinuating my mom is ignorant", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for insinuating my mom is ignorant?
Just happened in the car now. My mom is Muslim, Black, and immigrated to the US around 27 years ago. She reads a lot of fake stuff on facebook and we’re we’re talking about the tragic New Zealand terrorist attack. She said something that sounded fake about the attack and I asked her where she got her info, “CNN?” Sh...
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{ "description": "fantasizing about another man while married", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for fantasizing about another man while married?
I grew up in a very rural conservative area, went to an equally conservative college then married a nice Christian boy. My life has been the perfect American dream. I stay home, cook and clean. My contribution to our relationship is being a homemaker. I can’t say that I dreamed for much more than this, I am quite happy...
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{ "description": "\"fact checking\" my so and his friend", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for "fact checking" my SO and his friend?
Disclaimer: I haven't used the internet to fact check them in over a year as it's not worth the argument. I don't think my SO or his friend are dumb, just definitely misinformed on many things. They both confronted me lately about how I'm basically an insufferable "know it all" and they feel humiliated by my fact chec...
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{ "description": "not participating in all family activities like going to the movies or going out for a meal", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not participating in all family activities like going to the movies or going out for a meal?
I’m the father of four kids and in the last year I’ve realized that I’m much happier if I say no sometimes. To clarify I’m a good husband and Father who does my share of the cooking, cleaning, driving, and parenting. Sometimes though I just like to relax instead of squeezing in one more thing, and because of this my wi...
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