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"description": "calling animal control on my relatives",
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} | WIBTA For calling animal control on my relatives? | Apologizing in advance for any format issues, I'm on mobile.
Alrighty, so here's the info. I really love these relatives of mine, they're really good people, a nice couple, but there's just one problem. They're borderline animal hoarders. (I will be referring the Husband as X and the Wife as Y)
It almost feels like e... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
mvPYqUO5EuPjfOyhOXEesohKWisr48D2 | 9w51u8 | {
"description": "purposely crushing a lady's bread",
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} | AITA for purposely crushing a lady’s bread? | I work as a cashier at a grocery store. Yesterday was the closest I’ve ever come to walking out and quitting. Saturdays are usually our busiest days, and when you couple in the fact that Thanksgiving is coming up, we were incredibly busy. I’ve been at work for about 2 hours and we’ve been backed up for the whole time a... | HISTORICAL | {
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XiIualhcwyIYqT66LhrrFh48PbMd65Jx | acceyd | {
"description": "not paying for a meal",
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} | AITA for not paying for a meal? | A few days ago my brother and I went out to eat at a restaurant. We're Muslim, so we cant eat pork. We can't even eat things that have touched pork. While we we order we usually verify if something has pork and ask them to take it off. Usually this works, however this time it didnt. I opened up my burger to find bacon... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
jP6FBecE6ElKWFsFujoFkx8WOKD52OhS | b53225 | {
"description": "getting mad about my roommate feeding the dinner I made to the dogs",
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} | AITA for getting mad about my roommate feeding the dinner I made to the dogs? | I made butter chicken for dinner for me and my roommate and she did not like it.
First she commented that the rice wasn't cooked - I told her that that was the way it was supposed to be because it was brown rice, which was healthier.
I asked her if she wanted me to heat up pizza from last night for her or to make h... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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n1ckmw7Y3xSgGA1dd124OCS7vxQEQnx9 | aed0qd | {
"description": "wanting to move out",
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} | AITA For wanting to move out? | Little bit of background. My bio father passed away in 2011, but my mom and him had split before I was born. Ive lived with my Mom and Stepdad since I was four. I admit I'm not dead, so they have cared for me, and they bring that up constantly. I have hated my stepdad from day 1. He's always been abusive. Physically fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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1qk6bxzhvI9RjnvOix7hWI4idWAINeHq | b3cunz | {
"description": "flying across the country to steal my own dog back from my ex boyfriend",
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} | AITA for flying across the country to steal my own dog back from my ex boyfriend? | Hi everyone- throwaway for reasons.
My ex boyfriend and I have had joint custody over our dog for 2 years now here in California. I legally own her on paper , and have paid for all of her vaccinations. We did break up last year, but since we still lived so close to each other I figured why not let him keep seeing the... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
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"description": "refusing to pay a collection agency debt for damages to my old apartment caused by my roommates pets",
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} | WIBTA for refusing to pay a collection agency debt for damages to my old apartment caused by my roommates pets? | So a little more than a year ago i moved into an apartment with some friends of mine under the impression that anyone of us that owned pets would take care of pet deposits and such. All 4 of us signed the lease (two roommates in particular owning pets, I did not own any), and we moved in.
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Maybe a couple ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
U7IzLoawg69RJS6vBFeqdp4NtcuuVXlN | arqjxn | {
"description": "keeping my kids away from my mom",
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} | AITA For Keeping my Kids Away From My Mom | i'm horrible at english so Bare with me.
sorry this may be long and somewhat all over the place, this just happened last night and i'm still upset. TL:DR at the bottom.
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My Grandparents and Parents are Portuguese. they came from Portugal to Canada to give my brother and i a better life.
we... | HISTORICAL | {
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V8joHNJM1R57F493lZF0eiO21t1L5qoJ | 9vf4b5 | {
"description": "taking my tip back from a delivery driver",
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} | AITA For taking my tip back from a delivery driver? | I ordered pizza and since I was going to be paying with cash, I was going to give the driver a 20 dollar bill and let him keep the change as a tip (~13%). When I ordered the pizza, it was raining, so I decided I wouldn't take part of the tip off if he was a bit late, as I normally take a dollar off for every 5 minutes ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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3S1dW75sMDHODaoyeqR0JX1UFxeewuqG | b5plci | {
"description": "talking about marriage",
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} | AITA for talking about marriage | Okay here it goes, me (female) and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. We are both in our late twenties. I drunkenly said I want to marry him one night and he seemed super annoyed with me the next day. I told our roommate about it and he acted like I said the worst thing ever. Am I the asshole for tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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EXkbID0mG2hPipVdihViyr1ggP2rq82h | asdnq6 | {
"description": "not giving money to a \"Homeless Person\"",
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} | AITA For not giving money to a "Homeless Person" | This took place last night. For starters I live in a small city where there is a larger homeless population than avg. Me and my girlfriend were out getting ice cream after we finished our late night classes was around 9 pm. We were sitting at a table inside the restaurant and this "Homeless Man", going to call him... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
p84GebKcNE6lu9kodmPGNu81kPva1JRA | b9dkvi | {
"description": "wanting my housemate's girlfriend to leave – even though he's only just come back from abroad",
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} | AITA for wanting my housemate’s girlfriend to leave – even though he’s only just come back from abroad? |
Basically – I (f24) live with 1 guy and 2 girls, we’re all in our early-mid 20s. My guy housemate has been studying abroad for 3 months and has recently returned home. His girlfriend has been staying with us for two weeks, 1 week before he got back and I don’t think she plans on leaving any time soon.
I’ve known bot... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
CcAiYewbOFgBwG1qPfvKhJ4L4UolSHzW | a8uv63 | {
"description": "using my time as TA for volunteer hours",
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} | AITA for using my time as TA for volunteer hours? | This was during Senior year of high school. I was in National Honor Society along with some other people and as a part of NHS we are required to do volunteer hours in order to get the NHS gold tassel to wear at graduation our senior year. I have one friend (whom I'll refer to as Laura) That was also in NHS. She decided... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
lsq4fh0OLCz6ROfHyIFUPjHIUCuy4w3V | aopu02 | {
"description": "telling my best friend's boyfriend what she does behind his back",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my best friend's boyfriend what she does behind his back? | To preface: I've known Jess, my roommate/best friend for about 15 years. Jess and Chris have been dating for about a year and a half.
Jess went on a trip with another friend in the beginning of their relationship, got ridiculously drunk, and went down on a random girl. Chris was livid when she came back because she ki... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
Doh9K9z6Ho5VUrs3jaHCOWTBqwclcS2U | amff7c | {
"description": "getting mad about the recurring \"when can we get a dog?\" conversation",
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} | AITA for getting mad about the recurring "when can we get a dog?" conversation? | I love dogs. I would really love to have a dog. But I live in an apartment in a big city, and I'm gone a minimum of 10hrs a day, sometimes more like 14. My wife is also gone anywhere from 10-14 hours a day.
I would do a dog Walker, but my wife wouldn't put up with that expense.
Yet, somehow, when she says "cant ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
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} | RIGHT |
TYHZ0551yOGzG5whhPYpmzxanN4gW3tE | amadul | {
"description": "making up an excuse to leave a hookup in the middle of hooking up",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for making up an excuse to leave a hookup in the middle of hooking up? | I went on a “date” with a guy from tinder. I went to his place to Netflix and chill. It was his first time meeting up with someone from tinder and he was a little nervous. We hung out and talked for a while before we actually did anything hookup-y, and I liked him and we got along well. I was on the fence about whether... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
zMsQhkcIOqRu0rWXXMo14C0b6WWCtMP9 | aaraet | {
"description": "tripping a classmate",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for tripping a classmate? | Hey guys!
TLDR: I tripped a guy in my grade that I strongly dislike after he pushed someone else and thought no one would do anything.
First off, this all happened about three months ago. There’s this kid in my grade who can really frustrate me. He’s not always annoying, but he is more than he isn’t. He has a very ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
h2CqXZosxPwf30kRN1QIPGKod3VLx9ai | acmxrg | {
"description": "not wanting to live with a good friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For not wanting to live with a good friend | So, I am currently in college right now and am currently living with 4 of my close friends. While I am friends with all of them, the relationships they have with each other is extremely toxic. Our lease is ending in august and all of use do not want to live here again for another year, however since my roommates relati... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
wdd3gmsbat5XIyxntvupKiqrlzZg6hiq | a6x2l4 | {
"description": "not liking a girls laugh",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA Not liking a girls laugh? | So not a both sides story. Just pondering if ITA for instantly losing my attraction to a girl because of her laugh?
So I work as a guard in the lobby of social services. I talk on occasion with people that come through. Near end of the day sometime last week, one girl comes through. We start talking music festivals... | HISTORICAL | {
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dXc0m6S9M7NWgbZeGkQKwBNo5G6k1EEG | anjr95 | {
"description": "staying out extra late on purpose to avoid my bf",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for staying out extra late on purpose to avoid my bf? | The title alone makes me sound like an asshole but here I go anyway;
Some prior knowledge to the situation:
My bf have been dating for roughly 1 1/2 years and have known each other for 4 total (all long distance), but have met before. When we first started dating, I had recently moved and lost contact with my friends... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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YQEEvLmATVGaUj2m3P9T93X0vSCbxEgo | 9taz73 | {
"description": "having a trump supporter fired",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for having a trump supporter fired? | So this story is a bit long, but I'll cut a few points out. So a few weeks ago a new guy was hired. He was quiet, but was nice and respectful at the time. So at the work Halloween party, we had a drink or so. And he got a bit drunk and brought up politics to me, knowing that I fully hate trump and his party. He told me... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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bxgsCExGk7ggCk0WSkdT124R51iSRGRD | atm85j | {
"description": "not wanting to go on vacation at my partner's workplace",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go on vacation at my partner's workplace? | I live in a resort town with my forever- partner, let's call them Ted. There are several resort locations within our area. There's quite literally something for everyone. None are quite as *upscale* and highly rated as THE resort.
Ted works front desk at THE all-inclusive resort. It's flashy, instagrammable, and Ted ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
DSqq5ERuzELJuEbfSz2KtzhsKSO17VGg | adp288 | {
"description": "not giving money to a kid that came up to my car bagging me while I was in the middle of ordering food at a drive through",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not giving money to a kid that came up to my car bagging me while I was in the middle of ordering food at a drive through? | Basically I (19/F) got off of work early and was trying to kill time before I had to go pick up my mom from her exercise class. I went to go get coffee from Tim Horton’s drive through and I was in the middle of ordering when I noticed someone as walking towards my car. I quickly rolled up my window and locked my car do... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
AjjwTMBVqj8Agy9CZaYX5ZuKAH2Z857E | avqd6y | {
"description": "serectly testing a girl that I was seeing",
"pronormative_score": 48,
"contranormative_score": 80
} | AITA For serectly testing a girl that i was seeing. | I was seeing this girl that had a history of running her mouth. She even told me about all her ex boyfriend's fetishes (like being into feet and other dudes etc) and that he was jealous that the two of us were hanging out. This worried me, and I told her that I wouldn't be comfortable with her airing out my dirty laund... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 48,
"WRONG": 80
} | WRONG |
TuYMBc2N8KmoJ4eY8l6opQ2cjnI31O6x | as2rfn | {
"description": "wanting to move away so I can marry soulmate and not staying to babysit my brother's kids",
"pronormative_score": 26,
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} | AITA For wanting to move away so I can marry soulmate and not staying to babysit my brother's kids? | Basically, I'm a woman in love with a woman, and we would like to get married. In the country we live in now, we can't. So, we're moving to somewhere where it's legal to marry.
My brother is against this. I think it's partly due to his own homophobia that he does his best to supress/hide for my sake, but his main exc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 26,
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} | RIGHT |
jWDZ4EJp4wRB1G0FXCEFPu0bpHnGpDbS | 9ttwhh | {
"description": "asking a Mcdonalds employee to remake my drink after they accidentally handed it to the car in front of me in the drive-through",
"pronormative_score": 35,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA Asking a Mcdonalds employee to remake my drink after they accidentally handed it to the car in front of me in the drive-through? | Idk I feel a bit shitty about this one because I've never done it before, but I'd prefer to get an opinion on this to alleviate my guilt or confirm that I'm the asshole I think I am.
So the guy accidentally gave my meal and drink to the car in front of me, believing that my order was for them. An honest mistake, all ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
hGI3GW0nYtlnJJ9vMyWqMGIGLTOkvuAU | awk7ag | {
"description": "getting upset at my gf for saying the n-word",
"pronormative_score": 43,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for getting upset at my gf for saying the n-word? | TDLR at bottom
So some context, me (white), my gf (white), and some friends (all white but one african) were watching tv; when my gf receives a text from her dorm mate that the entire floor smelled like weed and that police were looking around. Now, earlier that very day my gf had already been ticketed for having wee... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
3sdd1PcsqrfLJdzJ4ZhTvjm6iCyV10mY | b40dev | {
"description": "'letting' a blind man face plant a huge concrete column",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for 'letting' a blind man face plant a huge concrete column | So I was walking around my town centre with my boyfriend, I see a blind man waving his stick side to side, I'm watching him idk why but I see his stick isn't going to touch this huge fuck off column right in front of him cause he's swinging it too much to one side.
I go: 'ah shit he's going to walk into that column' ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
sVI4m3ex2Io4WS1JM190iIQxY93rFLgQ | b5bzla | {
"description": "expecting a date or an apology",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for expecting a date or an apology? | My(34f) husband (37M) said he was going to take me on an incredible date to Chicago were we would stay over and see a show, a play and have a good meal. This was supposed to be my birthday gift.
The main show cancelled and so the date was cancelled. I thought he might get me flowers or take me to see a movie but nothi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
oBWhnEvtkNHVftA4JnwzvyWgFQtm35Tt | ag2h25 | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my dad's house",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to my dad's house? | So here is some background. This is right before winter break. My mom and dad are divorced, and dad is supposed to get half of every break. The thing is, I hate going and never feel safe. Dad is a toxic person. Same situation with my little sister. She is 13 and I am 15. I need to mentally prepare myself for trips, as ... | HISTORICAL | {
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76SaDmhOgyOlEorCJJTPEeMgmPO7TUvk | a6cbsc | {
"description": "snapping at someone for getting into my face about not participating in a dance",
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} | AITA: for snapping at someone for getting into my face about not participating in a dance | Okay so I went to a dance type thing. It was fun. But I had to take lots of breaks because of my heart condition.(I get winded walking through my own house. And get tired hat standing up sometimes.) and I was standing in a circle wth some of my friends and I want dancing because I needed the break and this one girl I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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WVKeAZGA1eGAIPY3PHspyF7Yw8q8m9p1 | aj669p | {
"description": "not sharing a picture of my own hair",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not sharing a picture of my own hair? | So I got some flak for this from my family but does it really count? A while back I asked a family friend to twist long braids in for me as I haven't had them in a while and I love the low maintenance. After sitting for 7 hours getting the braids in and proceeding to thank said friend, my family told me to send a pictu... | HISTORICAL | {
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F4iQ0bYowlUgUgNwVXC523Kas9fgPRJM | a5zgu6 | {
"description": "wanting to cut my brother out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for wanting to cut my brother out of my life? | Me(21) my brother (24) both still live at home and go to school.
My brother has always had anger problems, mostly consists of quick but short snaps, unnecessary remarks, and seemingly never feeling sorry or admitting he was wrong. In all our years of arguing he never once said that he was sorry or the one in the wrong... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "declining birthday invites",
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} | AITA for declining birthday invites | So my brother invited me and my family to his and his sons birthday. He made it clear that my dog wasn't allowed to come (friendly/clean 7kg miniature schnauzer). They live in a large house in the suburbs, which they moved into recently. They have no allergies.
I told him we won't come if we're not allowed to bring o... | HISTORICAL | {
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ivKlW2hHsfJkCnkgwpsUChCOlvH24VUG | b4bhwj | {
"description": "taking one of the family birds to a better home",
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} | WIBTA if I take one of the family birds to a better home? | It's a bit weird but I have myself in a dilemma.
So my family has this bird, we have two and he's my favorite pet out of all of them. Don't get me wrong. He does nothing most of the time. But I love him to death for it. I've always wanted to take care of a pet while actually just co existing together. He was abused b... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Cjo7VRzHAHmIiV8a0L1DnASYho8bBIID | 9vnpx5 | {
"description": "saying my best friend's boyfriend has a drinking problem",
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} | AITA for saying my best friend’s boyfriend has a drinking problem? | "Linda" and I have been best friends for 21 years (we're both F34). She has always been hypercritical of my lifestyle choices; mostly she disapproves of the company I keep. I tend to make friends with or date people who are a little rough around the edges and/or need nurturing, because I’m a bleeding heart caretaker. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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p5b03pdUm0QxKANtqsEegU6milszcMRV | ag7jgo | {
"description": "saying no to dating my best friend",
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} | WIBTA if I said no to dating my best friend | Now all you guys are probably gonna be in the comments like “but u/TheXyloGuy, she’s your best friend that’s an opportunity you can’t pass up on” and you guys are right. However I have a few reasons as to why I’m stopping myself
The first reason is I wouldn’t wanna ruin my friendship with her
The second reason is... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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uasYwnIPBXdg3XSMvZr8razuzMnSda3D | b5j2u6 | {
"description": "not being interested in the Motley Crue biopic on Netflix",
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} | AITA for not being interested in the Motley Crue biopic on Netflix? | So me and my boyfriend had an argument tonight about this, he thinks I was being the asshole but I don't think I was, although I maybe could have handled things a little better.
We were outside smoking and he started talking to me about the biopic because he'd just watched it today, but I have no interest in it or in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GAgz4RgDrkJjlR295oOJWxMHTneCZ69p | azw75g | {
"description": "being half-arsed in a relationship where my partner is fully devoted",
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} | AITA for being half-arsed in a relationship where my partner is fully devoted? | It hasn't been long, only under 3 months. We are with in our early 20's and found each other off tinder.
I was just looking for a hookup, a lil something something to ease the edge off my sexual nonexistence. He was basically a virgin and has never dated anyone. I made it very clear in the beginning that I wasn't inte... | HISTORICAL | {
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49PY9YuzHQjmNHpDSHFvOJ4HKGVzf7IG | b9g5jy | {
"description": "not giving my friend his money back",
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} | AITA for not giving my friend his money back? | Recently my friends and I took a trip to Las Vegas for a bachelor party, which as the best man I planned. We don’t live close enough to drive so we flew. I told everyone to book their flight, but I collected money for the hotel rooms. One of the guys going, we’ll call John, said he’d pay for the room, but is driving du... | HISTORICAL | {
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bzKt7RkdOFgwhpGWv4HxuvGWuhAyhSCN | as3r37 | {
"description": "telling a manager someone wants to quit",
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} | AITA for telling a manager someone wants to quit? | We work at McDonald’s and lately my co-worker has been calling in a lot. So then she actually showed up to work on a Sunday, and asked if I was upset with her. I kinda of was but I was over it. She then continued to say, “I told my boyfriend I’ve been thinking about quitting.” So I was like really? Because honestly if ... | HISTORICAL | {
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r9QEEfY6UrEX9iPO1WSNykIVrevvGG2O | aikfkw | {
"description": "wanting to break up from a one sided relationship",
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} | AITA for wanting to break up from a one sided relationship? | Ok so I made an account on here just to post this, I'm a university student which means my weeks are pretty full, I am also an infantry soldier in the British army reserve which takes up most of my weekends and the odd week here and there, and to top it off I also work part time in a restaurant, so as you can tell my l... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "\"showing off\"",
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} | AITA For "Showing off" | As a bit of a background - both my wife and I are professionals, earning a good wage and have a two year old son. We've never been one to splash cash, or show off... and we have a variety of friends. Most of our friends however fall into the category of professionals and I'd assume household incomes in excess of £100... | HISTORICAL | {
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J0tM5y5z1apWsVHCoTDU91EdPacut44C | b701fe | {
"description": "refusing to open a jar of pickles for an old lady",
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} | AITA for refusing to open a jar of pickles for an old lady? | Happened last week, and i dont know what to think.
Went out for lunchbreak and headed to the local supermarket, i go there almost every day, so i was kind of running on auto pilot.
I was inside looking to get the usual stuff i always get, when suddenly a tiny old lady approaches me, holing a jar of pickles.
She asked... | HISTORICAL | {
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iMtpVfTdcJTVEnsEG9yQjajUS4mfllsv | 9woge8 | {
"description": "surrendering my dog after weeks of trying to train",
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} | WIBTA if I surrendered my dog after weeks of trying to train? | adopted a 6 year old dog about 7 months ago. He’s 60 lb hound mix. He was brought to shelter from another state when his owner got sick. In previous home, they knew owner was home a lot, had several dogs and found our dog as a stray a few years prior.
He was timid but loving. He is loyal, friendly dog 99% of the t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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qOMtaU9o1XyIuYCQEN7u0kOxIF8iU9CG | ahfaad | {
"description": "not being involved",
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} | AITAH for not being involved | After asking my ex to have an abortion she moved across the country to give birth without my objection, then proceeded to still give the baby my name even though there was no possible way for me to be on the birth certificate at the time.
They still live across the country and avoid me at all costs. So am I the assho... | HISTORICAL | {
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9n0ygT9BY6d6hQRrK2guBmXc7TIEps6I | b7wm0t | {
"description": "wanting to split a hotel bill fairly, even if one of the occupants is a kid",
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} | AITA for wanting to split a hotel bill fairly, even if one of the occupants is a kid? | I’ll try to keep this short even though there are a lot of details. My dad, uncle I’m not really close to, and his 16 year old son are all attending a family wedding over the weekend. I’m 30, close to the groom and have already sunk a lot of time and money into the various out of state parties leading up to this, so I’... | HISTORICAL | {
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zfxXU8hsNexYYErHy3y5ReddIseSDnR4 | an6a1s | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend to actually watch whenever we watch a movie",
"pronormative_score": 40,
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend to actually watch whenever we watch a movie? | Hey guys, so my girlfriend is pissed at me because I was annoying her when we were watching Harry Potter. We’re watching all of the movies right now because she wanted to, and every 5 seconds she looks down at her phone to like pictures on Instagram. She then is confused when something happens that she missed because s... | HISTORICAL | {
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B2M6sTxigNIzVWBVzFi4gY6vvCj0hTpZ | amiloi | {
"description": "refusing to leave the dog park and ruining a meet-up",
"pronormative_score": 305,
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} | AITA for refusing to leave the dog park and ruining a meet-up. | Ok, so I'm going to paint the picture. It's been frigid and unbearable outside the past few days and has given myself and dog a case of cabin fever. He's use to having a hour walk on the beach and a few small walks each day. So after 3 days of just small walks and being stuck in the house I wanted to let him stretch hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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cZpDZXwPFd0sAA8NU5nS34P9pzg8HNEq | b8dmxk | {
"description": "calling my brother-in-law and alcoholic if he is an alcoholic",
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} | AITA for calling my brother-in-law and alcoholic if he is an alcoholic? | April 1, 2019
My brother-in-law has another seizure from alcohol withdrawal(2nd in 6 months). He’s my brother-in-law and I hate his situation and feel bad that he’s going through so much.
I’m doing my best to support my wife by talking and offering suggestions but she says it comes across as judgemental and now she’s... | HISTORICAL | {
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CEqrPL1q6j4j5tKVjxDYmCCm5qvu3jNK | avmmf4 | {
"description": "taking my break during the end of a double shift",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for taking my break during the end of a double shift? | Outside of grad school I work at a fast casual restaurant. I'm the type of guy that doesn't mess around on the job. I don't have my phone out, and I try to ensure that the customers are happy.
I always get asked to cover someone's weekend night shift and I don't mind doing so. I'm actually the oldest as everyone that w... | HISTORICAL | {
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U0wKfEUCs6agS14NFWRRFbrpIb9hoJK5 | b80h7f | {
"description": "wanting first choice of room in my father's student house",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for wanting first choice of room in my father's student house? | Hey, I'll keep this short and simple. Basically, me and 5 of my current flatmates are moving in to a house my father recently bought for us as our accommodation for uni. He will be giving them all discounted rent. Am I in the wrong for wanting first choice of room? My father wants me to have it, but when I bring it up ... | HISTORICAL | {
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scf2lbv5QUXCNT1gHr37hBVYN2GdWk8r | b2kbrw | {
"description": "calling someone out at a barbecue",
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} | AITA for calling someone out at a barbecue? | Yesterday I was at a barbecue at the park with about 8 of my friends (keep in mind all of us age from 19-21) and as everyone was packing up after just eating, I went to grab a napkin at the table and realized we were out of napkins. Okay, not a big issue, until the person beside me “puts” his hand on my shoulder (for o... | HISTORICAL | {
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qFdKfJfGVP35KV3jUekyYBNtUvulNq49 | b86sv5 | {
"description": "stopping talking to my friend because her boyfriend was a dick to me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA If I stopped talking to my friend because her boyfriend was a dick to me? | Long story short I never really liked him, he would usually poke around his nose in my business and he doesn't even know me. We never talked much because of it . I've already told her a lot of times that I don't enjoy his company and that I'm not comfortable to talk to him. So last night I was talking to her about a gi... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rl3iIC29BSdAd2QOj3ts2aOB8rfZzSma | amdnx1 | {
"description": "ignoring her",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA because I ignored her | So when I was 13 , I had a girlfriend. I was twice in a relationship with her, so the first time she broke up was because her father didn't like foreigner although I was born there. But we got back together because she changed her mind. So she didn't listen to her father.
For the record, before we were in our first r... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZEF9AMp5DERohlH3P7XRhkGflLzX58f9 | aikevr | {
"description": "sleeping with a mutual friend of my ex",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for sleeping with a mutual friend of my ex? | So for context, my ex and I are still best friends and we broke up because we were incompatible in the relationship. We're still really close and hang out but we aren't as close as we once were. This weekend we got in a fight because I didn't respond to her text as I was busy organizing my team as we were attending a t... | HISTORICAL | {
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3zpbFXK064SLZPCzHhg0WCXHqzySoA5V | ad3paj | {
"description": "encouraging people to report people who frequently make \"dark jokes\" to the authorities",
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} | WIBTA to encourage people to report people who frequently make “dark jokes” to the authorities? | Purely hypothetical (thankfully), but if someone kept jesting about, say, abuse and made dark jokes pertaining to it, would it be vigilant or overreactive to send a tip to the local authorities? It’s a very serious and real topic and most people don’t dare treat with levity for the sake of good taste. I would feel negl... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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2yuIzcR4IMom0CNqpebE5YuaCAgmAT5C | aslk4n | null | AITA - How much of an asshole was I? | BF and I had an argument last night.
I've been on him to make a doctors appointment for a couple months now for some issues he's been having since before we met (over a year now). He did have a few check-ups for the same issue last year (I was worried and convinced him to) and just like those doctors before, the one ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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CwlummfWlDmaVZPJsuiyMHGcxpRWzw5L | b4apvs | {
"description": "being jealous of my boyfriend's girl best friend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for being jealous of my boyfriend’s girl best friend? | So, me and my boyfriend have a kinda complicated relationship. We dated in 2016, and broke up after 7 months. Then, I ignored him for 2 years. But a few months ago, I reached out and started talking to him again. We soon got back together and have been dating for 4 months. But after we broke up in 2016, he became frien... | HISTORICAL | {
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FMDPsahI6R8slXfv00P50sY3Sunh51EM | b0th4a | {
"description": "returning my Ikea furniture because I don't need it anymore",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | WIBTA if I returned my Ikea furniture because I don't need it anymore? | I moved into my 1 bedroom apartments on April 1st 2018, and got all my furniture from IKEA on April 4th. I am moving to a smaller studio in a week, and have to downsize. IKEA has a 1 year return policy on everything. I don't need my dinner table & chairs, side table, dresser, and I also want to get rid of my curre... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 8
} | RIGHT |
R0ijJI4MMJcV2rb3dbMxtnF52qsBLFgb | az0fud | {
"description": "getting a dog without telling my gf",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for getting a dog without telling my gf | So tonight I had a heated argument with my gf of one year about my decision to adopt a dog. She was very angry about the fact that I hid this from her until tonight, and that I was "changing the plans of our relationship".
Apparently she had it set in her mind that we would move in together very shortly, and havin... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
hrR6Av5k8mAk4b0lOHUWG9mdGPcEYPIC | a13adz | {
"description": "not liking one of my friends during a relationship or being because of me being jealous",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA If I don't like one of my friends during a relationship or is because of me being jealous | disclaimer/background: This is my first post on Reddit and I have been going through this subreddit and it is one of favorite, as well as I, am terrible at language arts and will probably butcher this
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backstory: My friend who, I will now refer to as A is F(18) and me, I am M(18). We are decent friend no... | HISTORICAL | {
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mPsXbPFwl8vQ8L56bbtIsm9gvAw800BV | b7qn66 | {
"description": "sitting next to a couple in the movie theater",
"pronormative_score": 40,
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} | AITA sitting next to a couple in the movie theater? | Went to see "Us" by myself last night in a theater. (It was awesome, by the way.) Got in just as it was about to start. I see a single open seat in the middle of the theater, middle of the row, just next to the walking path to the other side... I hope that makes sense. There were a group of three ladies on one side, an... | HISTORICAL | {
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EEhYglPLS6YrMEpQaNV6tYLgqOl4wvj2 | avzkn9 | {
"description": "moving out with 2 day notice",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for moving out with 2 day notice? | Am I the asshole for moving out with 2 day notice?
So basically I’m moving out this weekend and my roommate/landlady don’t know.
I moved in with some friends, one of which is the daughter (22) of the owner of the home. Since then, the owner has been sleeping on our couch at least one week per month. She takes up the... | HISTORICAL | {
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QT8hwmQbvAcYXejVPqAMBq2zKW4iCu01 | ba1pg6 | {
"description": "not wanting my friend to hangout with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for not wanting my friend to hangout with my ex? | Throw away account, mobile user, yada yada yada.
A bit of a background, My Ex and I, we dated for about 6 months last year. I was 17, and she was 16. I was pretty much her first love, and to me, I’m still not sure how I felt. It may have been love but let’s call it lust for now. Me and her still keep in contact regula... | HISTORICAL | {
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uiuevyef5DSX1F73RBCEDWC4meA9KCc9 | b4d5g2 | {
"description": "continuing to hold my ex to an agreement we had while dating",
"pronormative_score": 20,
"contranormative_score": 36
} | AITA for continuing to hold my ex to an agreement we had while dating | My ex and I had an agreement. I would work while he went to school and when he was finished and became employed, he would pay my way through school. I obviously don’t expect to live with him, but there’s nothing stopping him from living up to his word by paying my tuition costs.
He and I have been giving each oth... | HISTORICAL | {
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NO0FXIQkLCCNDVkOuYdyftT1FNgVwI5w | b3r66u | {
"description": "not throwing my daughter a birthday party",
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} | AITA for not throwing my daughter a birthday party? | Here’s the thing. My daughter will be turning 2 in a couple of weeks. Her first birthday we did the whole nine yards, decorating, special cake, smash cake, taco bar, etc etc. It was stressful and I found I didn’t enjoy the day with my daughter as much.
This year I wanted to take her out for pizza (her favorite), then... | HISTORICAL | {
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kuaeVjUSeo3drsOWugfwFJnIQz4kNyxa | a8e3xx | {
"description": "cutting off a friend who I wronged first",
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} | AITA for cutting off a friend who I wronged first? | So this is a doozy. I have a friend, we’ll call her Carla. We’ve been friends for many years. She’s the type that always has to be the funniest, and she usually is, but she’s very type A (we always have to do what she wants, you can do her favours but not vice versa, etc). So recently I got myself a boyfriend! Yay me, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rkikypRSgZ6OioDBX8XsbhRs98ParylP | aoa6b7 | {
"description": "thinking a depressed girl is a asshole",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for thinking a depressed girl is a asshole? | So my friend (lets call him O) is somewhat a soy boy(white knight, honestly i forgot what they are called), is really protective of girls. He always sticks to their sides even if they are clearly in the wrong. He is a really close friend of mine.
There is this girl who is really depressed (lets call her T), she is a... | HISTORICAL | {
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wbbR0y1J05Lyqc5wPb9D8v4OBe0e74IK | apu26z | {
"description": "not trying to fix my relationship with my ex",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not trying to fix my relationship with my ex | I've been with my ex for a total of 3 years. The first was everything ok since we were going to the same university and living in the same city. After graduation i moved to another country to continue my masters and try to find a good job for our future. Because if i stayed we could not have a decent life together and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Gx2licezcWD0HrJc02ekEhmR5EYzSpVm | aod1ll | {
"description": "scheduling my wedding date for the same day as my adult niece's birthday",
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} | WIBTA if i schedule my wedding date for the same day as my adult niece's birthday | I plan on having a beach wedding sometime in june of next year. I really want to do it on the 21st, but its my oldest niece's birthday which is why im hesitant to do.
I asked my mom what her opinion on it was and she doesn't care one way or the other because my niece is an adult. By the the time my wedding rolls around... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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JwjmKMIQVvaaRGxjW2htJ4jbatNgW9Ei | avh838 | {
"description": "refusing to have sex with my menstruating partner without a condom",
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} | AITA for refusing to have sex with my menstruating partner without a condom? | I don’t feel like I’m the asshole, but she’s overly upset about this to the point where she’s crying and refusing to talk to me.
No matter what I try to do she’s telling me that I make her feel gross and nasty, but I’m trying my best to assure her that’s not the case. I just don’t want blood all over. In the end, we ... | HISTORICAL | {
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yGekebo8VifvdePvHcYJtFkAWgZzlVEG | 9vodbi | {
"description": "getting a tattoo that's similar to one that my sister wants",
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} | WIBTA for getting a tattoo that’s similar to one that my sister wants? | I’m studying abroad and a local tattoo artist posted a flash sheet of flower tattoos. I’ve always thought they were pretty and was thinking of getting one to commemorate my time here. When I told my sister, she said it wasn’t cool because she wanted something like that as well. This isn’t news to me, I knew she also wa... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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E255hXo54xQ3oxrCQcPFgjfWdsW1Av1n | ar9aks | {
"description": "not returning my adopted dog when the family asked for it back",
"pronormative_score": 97,
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} | AITA for not returning my adopted dog when the family asked for it back | TL;DR Last night I adopted a dog from a family and this morning they’re asking for it back
I have invested a lot of time and energy into the situation. I had to take a train to a remote location and rent a car to come back, take time off work, and puppy proof my entire home over the past few days. I even took more tim... | HISTORICAL | {
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271UeT0tlTbf9LOm26PkGQdEUeIeIZeh | apdny9 | {
"description": "telling my dog 'no car ride' right after getting him hyped up by saying 'go for a car ride?'",
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} | AITA for telling my dog 'no car ride' right after getting him hyped up by saying 'go for a car ride?' | It's late at night and I wanted to go out to Timmies for a coffee. I figured I'd take my dog with me for something for him to do so I told him we were going for a car ride. He got really excited and sat in front of the door waiting for me to take him outside to the car.
I grabbed him by the collar and walked him out,... | HISTORICAL | {
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EVp2kxzmfH4qghwhFsS8VQbMsZFQ0QSP | a6johi | {
"description": "not replacing my roommates items with upgraded versions",
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} | AITA for not replacing my roommates items with upgraded versions? - | So, for backstory, our roommate has very rarely been here since the first few weeks of August. During those first few weeks she adopted a cat from someone a few hours away who was abusing him. When he arrived at our house he was covered in mats and terrified. In this same week, RM's boyfriend got a house and she sudden... | HISTORICAL | {
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5ZCtimRv5dmSBcvkLOWq7j0EOSgIQQeO | affd4z | {
"description": "kicking out my girlfriend",
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} | WIBTA for kicking out my girlfriend? | So my girlfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for nearly three years. We met in grad school (studying classical music) and have both since graduated. I’m from the US and she’s from an Asian country. We’re living together in a major US city. As my GF isn’t from the US she’s been here on a student visa (which is abou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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OI8tACrGclOmxpfNWe99D3dDTN2nGlRi | an85rv | {
"description": "telling my husband we should divorce if I didn't mean it",
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} | AITA for telling my husband we should divorce if I didn’t mean it? | I have 9 month old twins who I love dearly. I have a husband who I love very much.
BACKGROUND: (sorry this ended up being super long)
I have a large sex drive, with some light fetishes. My husband has always been much more vanilla than me, but that’s fine, I could deal because the quality and quantity. When we first... | HISTORICAL | {
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EqsIftbCnBKqWFMi8h2YGQnHSHcRUEAc | a9xtsl | {
"description": "wanting an active sexual relationship",
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} | AITA for wanting an active sexual relationship? | My [M 25] wife [F 30] hasn't had sex with me since the start of the year, and even then if was terrible sex and I could tell she wasn't into it.
We used to have an amazing sex life and were heavy into the BDSM scene, and would have play sessions once or twice a week.
But our relationship hit a rough patch in 2017, st... | HISTORICAL | {
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BBzPZaQQ5XCgsSp6xS4h5YPaorx9EsKD | abmdwi | null | WIBTA if I cut it off with this girl I kinda led on? | A few months ago, I started my first semester of college. Naturally, I wanted to meet new people and branch out of my high school circle. So for extra help in my quest to find new friends, I downloaded Tinder and matched with a girl who just so happened to live on the same dormitory hall as me. We hit it off nicely, ho... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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BuJeJb4jC0lOyw1B4yXIZAniQPdwOjXT | ak7fdy | {
"description": "leaving my best friends house after they tell me their ex is coming",
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} | AITA For leaving my best friends house after they tell me their ex is coming | Just some background me(M20) and her(F21) Ill call her L. We've been best friends for 2 years to the point that we hung out everyday, we both suffer from demons as Ive struggled with treatment resistant depression and anxiety my whole life and shes struggled with Anorexia,PTSD, Bipolar disorder, depression, and anxiety... | HISTORICAL | {
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jBajvp8kfPeNwzvMSVCMK94kfmuPukZ1 | a905g8 | {
"description": "having all these guys ticketed but not actually doing anything",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for having all these guys ticketed but not actually doing anything? | I live in a rapidly growing neighbourhood in my town, and while it's not the nicest, it's safe and I've lived here all my life. Recently, however, everyone's been at their wit's end about some apartment construction nearby. It's taken months, but it seems like the only work being done is the production of noise polluti... | HISTORICAL | {
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6PfkVnD9ABeVbcc7u5Svdh3FRaiGutSu | b8oi4k | {
"description": "responding with \"Lol\" and \"Nice\" to some of my girlfriend's text messages",
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} | AITA for responding with “Lol” and “Nice” to SOME of my girlfriend’s text messages? | I work a pretty demanding job. I’m not usually able to text at work, and so I’ll respond/read all of my texts once I’m done. The thing is, I’m usually pretty tired after work and don’t feel like having long texting conversations. I’ll usually send a couple of “Lol” and “Nice” text messages so that everyone knows I rece... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
xhvBYXzvzR87M7XFZacMwx0SB35oSGd5 | avt6l8 | {
"description": "not lifting things for women as a man",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for not lifting things for women as a man? | I know, I know, similar to another post today, but this is slightly different.
​
My whole life I've felt weird about helping anyone if my help isn't being solicited. I don't have a problem helping if I'm asked and will even offer to help someone if I see them struggling with something because I recognize ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YaFp378iPw9lkjDvKYrW6tROxpEPwt07 | axjg5c | {
"description": "wanting to know about my SO's sexual past and judging him about it",
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} | AITA for wanting to know about my SO's sexual past and judging him about it? | Not really sure how to start this. A lot of words coming, I apologize if it's incoherent. But if only one single person can read through this mess and tell me if ITA that's all I need.
Right now I am in a relationship I always dreamed about.
We love, trust, appreciate each other really deeply and the sex is a very imp... | HISTORICAL | {
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64l3ErIHlfpa8xghx9F3eIaQW3hrsxse | arf14j | {
"description": "paying for my birthday dinner",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA : Paying for my birthday dinner | A little one that's bugged me for a while.
I usually celebrate my birthday with volunteering.
A coworker I was romantically involved with for a short while wanted to know if I wanted to get together for my birthday a few years so, while we worked together still. We had been broken up for about 8 months. She and I b... | HISTORICAL | {
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P8jOMThXB9jeO408y93gQxN9ueSbf6sK | ba03wa | {
"description": "being pissed about my girlfriend coming home absolutely wasted",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for being pissed about my girlfriend coming home absolutely wasted? | I had work tonight, but my girlfriend and I had plans to spend some time together when I got home. I work weekends and she doesn’t, so it’s normal for us to take any time together that we can.
She’s got this habit of not knowing when enough alcohol is enough. She ends up sick, stumbling around, passing out on the bat... | HISTORICAL | {
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78VkatAJtx3QDZhD7bPpM9xWQp0ISKdK | a8f269 | {
"description": "making my sister cry",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for making my sister cry? | A bit of context, a few months ago my sister gave me around 90€ to buy a ticket for a concert with the promise that I would give her these 90€ back in vouchers for books. Thing is the vouchers are electronical and you need a code that is sent to my phone each time which requires to be logged in with my card's credentia... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
cF3bpDvcFtJOgArc5X2rCKDwourFoUKA | avmafv | {
"description": "not speaking to my father and his fiancée",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not speaking to my (20F) father (40M) and his fiancée (35F)? | My father and I have always had a strained relationship. I am the only child and my parents split when I was little, so it was normal for me to have two homes. I lived with my mum majority of the time and saw my father every second weekend.
It’s been going on for a while where I would plead with mum to not take me to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GZFuW7b6YMDQYSGrsQOH08SFI60iEN4O | b6autj | {
"description": "wanting my tip back",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting my tip back? | I get my dog groomed every two months. I'll always specify what I want done as they charge by the service. Sometimes I'll cut her hair myself but want them to do her nails, sometimes I want them to do both, and sometimes just a haircut. The pricing is something like $35 for a cut, $10 for a nail clip, $5 for a wash, pr... | HISTORICAL | {
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CALqgeJg3c3DH47cWafpIKf5cZ5CT4Bw | ar57m8 | {
"description": "breaking up with this guy and still being angry",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for breaking up with this guy and still being angry? | this was awhile ago, but i can't help still feeling kinda bad about the way we broke things off. yes, they were manipulative to me for the short duration of our relationship (3 weeks on the dot), but i also actively avoided spending time with them. i was in a really rough spot and shouldn't have gotten into the relatio... | HISTORICAL | {
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S1CJ0B7SKwhNQLRZE57wsG08LbMi4Qgj | b8si44 | {
"description": "ignoring an e-mail apology from the girl who's been hitting on my partner in front of me",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I ignore an e-mail apology from the girl who's been hitting on my partner in front of me? | If anyone wants the (also long) prologue to this post, it is the only other post I have made with this account. FWIW everyone in this situation is 30+.
Long story short, an acquaintance of my partner's and mine I'll call "Brittany" had been overtly hitting on him, even in front of me.
I expressed my reservations abou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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FqGdYvNkBBFqp9nRm8Z6krt4R4p7yRZa | b7l0ul | null | AITA: Death threats at eachother | First post, sorry. Bit of background on me: I'm 12 M go to a K-12 school in Canada. 5'9 (yes I know I'm tall), and think of myself as at least a decent person.
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This one I think I'm in the right. It's a Friday on the bus home. Some kids that had been bothering me (who we'll call Blake (Grade 4 student) a... | HISTORICAL | {
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hDZpblvplSWnXQOz8cJNTnyRDQuGiF3u | abb9u3 | {
"description": "trying to see my niece behind my brother's back",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I tried to see my niece behind my brother's back? | WIBTA if I tried to see my niece behind my brother's back?
I am worried that brother may lose custody of his daughter. My relationship with her mother is good enough that I may still be able to see my niece, but I am afraid that will require me to exclude my brother. WIBTA if I took the opportunity?
My brother left ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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WkavDdUdWzq5EBApmdE0QDi1JnuL3LF8 | aew2kj | {
"description": "disobeying my stepfather",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | WIBTA for disobeying my stepfather? | My mom is going on a trip tomorrow.
She had a row with my stepfather just last night.
Stepfather is kind of a control freak and because they aren’t speaking, he tells me to weasel out information about my mother’s trip including the name and contact of her friends, the tour guide, where she is staying etc.
He didn’... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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x0PXVibL7ypHtDSC2YBIWCUK9Y2EQnoh | aedr4r | {
"description": "bringing my (ex?) girlfriends friend a gift",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for bringing my (ex?) girlfriends friend a gift? | My girlfriend (Girl, 20)had recently asked for space so she can figure out her life. So we broke up with the full intention of getting back together. We still talk very often and see each other at least one week.
Recently a friend (Friend) of hers that had become a very good friend of mine got surgery. She has helped... | HISTORICAL | {
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ObqD9Ng7anlVoxv0hIrAJmnAg3Tk0R0Q | at9j30 | {
"description": "telling the former owners of my house that I'm going to start charging them to hold their packages/mail",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for telling the former owners of my house that I'm going to start charging them to hold their packages/mail? | My wife and I bought our first house back in July. We did the walk-throughs, the inspections, etc etc with no signs of any real problems. The previous owners did have about a dozen cats and the smell was... interesting.. Like cats and lavender air fresheners. We attributed it to just having that many fucking cats. We a... | HISTORICAL | {
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n0h8Rm9WrPfVlAc2w7tumatHAhVGJ7nE | 9zaww2 | {
"description": "feeling upset that my friend seems to have suddenly abandoned me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for feeling upset that my friend seems to have suddenly abandoned me? | For context, I'm a 20 yo male and he's a 26 yo male. We'll call him Kyle. Due to family reasons, I don't work or go to school, so I have a lot of time on my hands for now.
I feel angry at Kyle and I also feel guilty for feeling that way. We used to chat all the time. On Discord and Whatsapp. Then he went back to schoo... | HISTORICAL | {
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way3UCeumiDqiNCVr6dOBHxSWYeVZo84 | azf6nw | null | AITA - Ex-wife makes kids buy their own furniture | I’m divorced and gave 10 and 9 yr old kids. I have about 50% custody of the kids and pay my ex close to $2,000 per month in child support.
My son asked me today if he can take his savings from my house to buy a desk for his room at his mothers house.
I’m pissed that she gets the child support but still wants them to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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RlU0PrA1jfnYeQK0MucmR6VQovh1Huqw | b63jqz | {
"description": "telling my friend she can't wear her Harley Quinn inspired dress to a concert",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for telling my friend she can’t wear her Harley Quinn inspired dress to a concert? | I (24f) bought VIP tickets to see my all time favorite band with a different friend. I paid for the tickets if he drove. The show is four hours away.
He bailed last min so I had to scramble to find someone to go with me. Recently my friend was laid off so i knew she would have the time. She (30f) agreed.
She hasn’t h... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 64
} | WRONG |
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