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{ "description": "breaking it off with the girl I'm seeing for this reason", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for breaking it off with the girl I’m seeing for this reason?
So I met this girl from tinder a little over a month ago and we have hung out 3 times already being the last time on Valentine’s Day. We have fun together, the sex is great, and she’s pretty cool. Yesterday while browsing Facebook, I notice she’s friends with my ex on Facebook. For a little context, my ex in insane. ...
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{ "description": "not helping out my friend so I can help my brother after not helping out my brother so I could help out my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping out my friend so I can help my brother after not helping out my brother so I could help out my friend?
I'm 2 weeks away from being the asshole in someones eyes. My brother [20] and I [22] lived with our parents up until the end of 2018. For 6 months it was understood that he and I needed to move out for very fair reasoning by our parents. During those 6 months he was encouraged to get a job and save up to afford movin...
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep in the same bed as my fiancée", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA: For wanting to sleep in the same bed as my fiancée?
So my fiancée, K, and her best friend (female), M, and I were all hanging out at K's house last night (we don't live together), doing wedding planning things. For background, fiancee and I have been together for eighteen months, K met M in Preschool when they were only a few months old. M made a joke about it being h...
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{ "description": "not paying a guy back after we didn't work out", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying a guy back after we didn’t work out?
Throwaway account TLDR; Was casually seeing/talking to this guy, after an awkward date I wasn’t really sure it was going to work. He saw me with another guy at a bar and got mad because I didn’t run over to him when he walked in. He has now threatened twice I went out one weekend for a friends birthday and this guy a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to bake my mom the cake she wanted", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to bake my mom the cake she wanted?
I’ve recently started baking and I want to make it one of my main hobbies. So today, I decided to make my first cake from scratch. I had everything planned out, including the recipe I was going to use. I called my mom who was on her lunch break to ask if she could get me some ingredients I needed on her way home. When ...
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{ "description": "cutting things off with a girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for cutting things off with a girl?
She has a friend and co worker who she admitted at one point they have hooked up in the past. She wants to be able to grab a drink after work with him and he out to activities with him and maybe couple other people. She says it's just friends but I'm not comfortable with it considering the past. AITA for cutting thing...
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{ "description": "letting my dogs get into a fight", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For letting my dogs get into a fight?
Tl;dr I let my dogs fight off another dog after their owner took it off leash to "introduce" them without talking to me prior? I live in a small collection of townhomes. I share a front stoop, plus one unit on each of our sides, so 4 units split over a building. We are allowed to have two dogs and my fiance wanted ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that I don't want to talk about her sexual fantasies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I Told My Girlfriend that I Don’t Want to Talk About Her Sexual Fantasies?
Our sex life as a whole is quite lackluster. It’s not that the “sex” itself is particularly bad, it’s just not what either of us would like it to be. For starters, we don’t have penetrative sex purely because I have issues with that, and my SO has a lot of sexual interests she is really keen on trying out but is not ab...
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AITA for leaving?
Last year I(23f) was looking for a 1 bed apt for myself. My best friend (21f) asked to move out with me, I saw no problem. F and I were working at the same restaurant the time. 2 months before we moved in together she starts dating a new guy from from work(b). Kinda annoying and loud but an alright dude. Things were co...
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{ "description": "trying to forcefully share something with my brother", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for trying to forcefully share something with my brother?
Context: I really enjoy animated movies, even though I'm in my twenties. One of my favorite movies is The Book of Life, and I love sharing it with people (in general I love trying to share stuff that I love enjoyed with my friends and family. In case it's relevant, my brother is younger but also in his twenties. So I'...
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{ "description": "being mad at my MIL for thinking I have an eating disorder", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my MIL for thinking I have an eating disorder?
She’s technically not my mother in law but she is my SO’s mum, so I’m just going to call her MIL for simplicity. MIL and my SO don’t have the best relationship (I made a post in r/JustNoMIL if you want context, but it’s not really relevant here) but I’m trying to be civil as respectful around her. Recently MIL came...
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{ "description": "reneging on a commission", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for reneging on a commission?
Hello all! Second post here! So I have a friend who is an artist, we'll call her B. I recently wanted to commission something from her because she's damn good and she's been advertising. I tell her what I want, and she agrees to do it after we agree on a price. We don't talk for a week or two until one day I decide...
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{ "description": "being pissed off", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed off?
My husband and I have an eight month old son, who has his first cold this weekend. My normally super easy baby was a little needier than normal- nothing terrible, just having a hard time going down for a nap/sleep and not wanting to be left alone for too long. This also happens to be a weekend where I have a major pr...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancé to not get a visible, cringey quote tattoo", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my fiancé to not get a visible, cringey quote tattoo?
AITA for asking my fiancé to not get a visible, cringey quote as her first tattoo? This weekend she plans to get her first tattoo, which will be "To not being dead" on her forearm. She has talked about getting a tattoo in the past and I've heard about a dozen she has "wanted for a long time" but this is the first I've ...
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{ "description": "calling my gf naïve", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 79 }
AITA for calling my gf naïve?
I’m 21M and my gf is 21 also. She was raised by abusive parents who stole from her and verbally abused her for her mental illnesses. They are also anti-vaxxers and are extremely conservative and religious people. They sent her to a Christian private school where she was force fed a lot of racist, homophobic, and sexist...
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{ "description": "considering my husband's hoa stuff a hobby", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for considering my husband's HOA stuff a hobby?
My husband and I both work full time jobs. We ended up moving into a new town home community when we got married that was more or less equidistant from our work in opposite directions(although my commute is slightly less and his is prone to accidents delaying him). I gave up a lot of my hobbies to move--something I rel...
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{ "description": "considering catfishing my ex's new bf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for considering catfishing my ex's new bf?
Tl:Dr at the end. Sorry for mobile format and English is not my maternal language. So, a few days ago I went for a coffee with my ex's sister and parents because we missed each other and I always considered them like my second family. I was with my ex for almost 6 years and lived at her family's house for around 1 ye...
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{ "description": "bringing up the obvious imbalance in who does the housework in my family home", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bringing up the obvious imbalance in who does the housework in my family home?
I am the oldest of 3 children (22f), with one brother and one sister (20 and 19). I'm a student in a city a four hour bus journey from my family home but it's expensive to travel so I go home maybe every second or third weekend. A couple of weekends ago I got into a fight with my mom because she felt I had a bad attit...
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{ "description": "not calling my mother more often", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not calling my mother more often?
I am 24F and an only child. I just got a new apartment with my sweetheart about a month ago and moved out of my parent's house where we stayed much longer than we would have liked. I had lived away from home when I was 19-21 and my mom used to talk to me everyday, it drove me nuts because if i'd try to go one day witho...
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{ "description": "my group being loud at a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for my group being loud at a restaurant?
It was my friends birthday, and we had booked a table for 12 at our favourite Japanese restaurant. We are an old group of friends that have known each other since high school, and had since spread all over the the UK for work or uni, so we hadn't seen each other for a long time. We were given a big table downstairs, i...
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{ "description": "not speaking to my friend when he Prank called me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Speaking To My Friend When He Prank Called Me.
Hey Guys, so I'm new here and have terrible spelling and language skills in general, so I apologize if anything is difficult to read. Stay in skool I have a very good friend of mine I've known for 14 years. We have a very good friendship overall. I'm an amateur filmmaker / rave dj and he's an aspiring actor/c...
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{ "description": "getting my name changed", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I got my name changed?
Title says it all and I'm glad I'm finally asking even if it is on a throw away account. I'd like to get my name changed for a total of 3 reasons that I've put together for convenience of explanation. 1. I do not like my name and really never have since childhood. I've gotten use to the first part of my name since the...
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{ "description": "trying to save my client from his wife's financial situation", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to save my client from his wife's financial situation?
I'm using a new account due to the fact that my main account is all fandom-related bullshit. I am an accountant in the US and our tax season is almost done (FINALLY), but it's still stressful. I have this client that I've been taking care of for a few years and he always got refunds every time he filed his return s...
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AITA for believe that physical attractiveness is a strong component in a successful relationship?
Had this debate with a friend who said that if you love someone you should love them regardless of how they look. While I agree on some level (ex. I obviously don't think if you're pregnant you need to get back into tip top shape any time soon). I believe that there needs to be some level of physical attraction between...
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{ "description": "wanting to lay down and rest after getting home from the hospital", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to lay down and rest after getting home from the hospital?
So I went to the hospital on Tuesday, with signs of possible strokes happening once a day. I was admitted at 11:45 that night. The next day I had 2 MRI'S, ultrasound of my neck, chest x-ray, head x-ray. Got blood drawn 4 times, and have a heart monitor hooked up and was checked on every two hours. I wasn't able to get...
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{ "description": "having an \"a list\" and \"b list\" for my wedding", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I had an "A list" and "B list" for my wedding?
**The Context:** If you have ever planned a wedding, you will understand that deciding on the guest list is an unpleasant but necessary undertaking. My SO and I drafted a comprehensive list of who should be invited-- starting with immediate family, venturing into relatives, childhood and current friends, and finishi...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my friends for having personal conversations in our group chats", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with my friends for having personal conversations in our group chats?
Backstory, with our group of friends we have multiple group chats. We usually fuck around and send memes and stuff or whatever but when someone has a problem and they need help then we always, *always* stick up for each other and make their problems our problems. However, there is a pair of us who are together (not...
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{ "description": "not letting my teenage daughter sleep over in a house in a really bad neighborhood", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not letting my teenage daughter sleep over in a house in a really bad neighborhood?
My daughter is 13 and recently asked me and my husband if she could attend a sleepover this weekend at another girls house. I know this girl and I also know her family is not well off and live in a very dangerous part of town, tons of drug dealers, illegal workers, street prostitutes, etc. walk along that street at all...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off my ex and feeling creeped out he got me birthday presents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off my ex and feeling creeped out he got me birthday presents?
He bought me three small presents for my birthday that I never asked for nor wanted. Its really awkward and weird. 5 months ago, I broke up with my ex and he has taken it really hard. It was my first breakup and I was naive thinking that he would get over me quickly and we could be friends again. I texted him sayin...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my gf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being annoyed at my gf?
So today my girlfriend went to talk to a dude, he hugged her, and then they spoke for a few minutes. I've always gotten some kind of vibe from him that he's interested in my girlfriend, at least since we got together. But he's my friend so Ive just let it slide. His Snapchat name on her phone is even "big daddy king" s...
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{ "description": "wanting to admit my feelings to a girl with a boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA if I want to admit my feelings to a girl with a boyfriend?
Of course from just the title the obvious answer is YTA, but hear me out. I met this girl 4 years ago, when I was 19. I was still figuring myself out, since now I'm a confirmed demisexual type of person. I was never one to be with a random girl just for the deal of it, and can hardly even perform under those circumsta...
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{ "description": "being pissed that my girlfriend got a pet", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being pissed that my girlfriend got a pet?
Backstory: we’re both 20 year old college students and we live together in a tiny 650 square foot, one bedroom apartment She’s been wanting to get some kind of pet for a long time now and I’ve been against it the entire time. I feel that if I don’t want a pet, she shouldn’t be able to get one because we live in a tiny...
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{ "description": "ghosting a guy on a dating app that I had an intense rape dream about", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For ghosting a guy on a dating app that i had an intense rape dream about
This happened probably four or five years ago, I was about 18 years old and I had just started using dating apps like tinder and OkCupid. One of the very first guys I started talking to was this slightly nerdy, sweet guy that I was really enjoying talking to. We didn't have a whole lot in common, honestly I don't think...
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{ "description": "being incredibly angry with my mother for going to see my sick aunt without me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being incredibly angry with my mother for going to see my sick aunt without me?
Right, so a bit of context. I can't drive and my aunt lives around 3 hours away from me and most of my family. Neither me or my mum have seen her in about 3 years. I'm only 19 and I suffer from anxiety which makes it hard for me to go places by myself. My mum knows this. Around Christmas time, my mum called me to say ...
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{ "description": "setting a buddy back in an intro class because he would not help with the assignments", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for setting a buddy back in an intro class because he would not help with the assignments?
Background, I (F) am a sophomore in college, the friend (Tom, M, sophmore) are both Electrical Engineering (EE) students. One of the classes required for EE students is an intro class that is only homework based. To make it easier the class meets 2 days a week and on the second day they give you the answers to the hom...
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{ "description": "pestering my dealership to get the accessories my car was supposed to come with", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pestering my dealership to get the accessories my car was supposed to come with?
I hate buying cars from a dealer. But with the poor timing of having a sheet of black ice sentence my beloved Tacoma to a concrete wall, and an upcoming road trip in the next week, I had to get something reliable soon. I settled on a used 2013 Scion xB from the local Subaru dealership. I noticed the front tires were we...
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{ "description": "asking my bf about his religion", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my bf about his religion?
So some context, my boyfriend was raised catholic and I am agnostic. No big deal, we don’t argue about it, it hasn’t affected our relationship on any level. But yesterday out of the blue he confronted me and told me that he feels uncomfortable with how I speak about religion. Of course he is entitled to his feelings an...
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AITA with Anger Management Issues?
So this situation happened nearly a year ago but was brought up during a recent conversation. I \[26M\] was with my gf \[24F\], one night where she had come round to my flat for some Netflix and chilling as usual. In between those fun times, we had ordered takeaway, but didn't exactly wait for it before continui...
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{ "description": "refusing to throw away perfectly good clothes because the brand is linked to European Neo-nazis", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to throw away perfectly good clothes because the brand is linked to European Neo-Nazis?
So, a couple of years ago, I happened to come across a high street clothing shop in London that sold good quality cargo pants, jackets etc. They were not cheap but the material and stitching was very good and they felt great on me so I bought quite a few items. Cargo pants, a jacket, a few t shirts etc. Been wearing t...
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{ "description": "calling out of work 2 (possibly 3) days in a row", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out of work 2 (possibly 3) days in a row?
So, some background. This past year, as it was for many, was fucking hell. It was just one of those years where everything happened at the last second— sickness, accidents, family emergencies. The biggest of which was I chose to take a lot of unscheduled time off to be on suicide watch for my roommate/best friend beca...
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{ "description": "starting an argument with my father with hearing problems over tv volume", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for starting an argument with my father with hearing problems over TV volume?
There is a long complex history here but I will do my best to explain while still not including identifying information. Throw away for obvious reasons. For my whole life my father has turned the volume up on whatever he is listening to. Not just a little, but to the point you can hear it outside the house sometimes. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my old friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to see my old friends anymore?
For context, I'm a man. I have a few friends whom I've known for a long time. We go back to our college days, and we were really best friends who had such great times. ​ Time has passed, and we are now all married, have jobs, etc. I noticed that whenever I see them, it must always be with their wives pres...
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{ "description": "getting angry about a friend posting an embarrassing video", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry about a friend posting an embarrassing video
So for a friend’s birthday, another friend decided to post an embarrassing video on social media as part of a “birthday post”. Said video unfortunately includes me making an ass out of myself. This video has been posted online before as a prank, and I made it clear last time to this friend that I did not find it funny....
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{ "description": "taking a parking spot I thought was mine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For taking a parking spot I thought was mine?
I was in a hospital parkade looking for a spot with ten cars ahead of me. I was in a rush as I was approaching the time of my appointment. I saw a guy walking to his car so I threw the signal on. Person ahead of me did the same. Problem was she was too far ahead to efficiently get in. So she pulls away to let him ou...
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{ "description": "not liking my dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not liking my dog?
I have 2 dogs. One is a very sweet mutt I got from a rescue for daughter 2 years ago. The other is a happy Chihuahua the kids' dad got them one year ago. We are divorced. He told me he was getting a dog for them. I told him I didn't want another dog. Ex assured me it would be at his house only. He got the dog, a puppy....
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{ "description": "not wanting my parents growing weed in our home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my parents growing weed in our home?
My mum and her boyfriend have been together for a year, neither of them smoked weed before so it was kinda unexpected but in the past month they've started smoking it. I really hate drugs and alcohol. But im not too fussed when otherd partake, its just not something i ever want to do. I also totally understand why peop...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my friend for getting high when she was suppose to give me a ride home", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset with my friend for getting high when she was suppose to give me a ride home?
So my friend (Sarah) and I went out to dinner downtown. During dinner Sarah and I discussed hanging out at Sarah’s friend’s dorm afterwards. I mentioned that I had to leave by 11:20 pm because my parents want me home by midnight and the commute is about 40 minutes. Sarah offered me a ride to the train station because i...
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{ "description": "breaking up on his bday", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up on his BDay
My boyfriend and I have been together >4 years. Last year he grown apart both physically and emotionally, although I feel I’ve done everything to keep us together. It all started because I want to get married and he doesn’t, or not with me. He isn’t clear about any discussion we have about the future. And he is pis...
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{ "description": "not telling my mother I knew that my father would be soon leaving her", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my mother I knew that my father would be soon leaving her?
Obligatory apology for mobile formatting. Now time for a little feedback. Sometime last year I found out that my father would be leaving my mother by complete accident, I was planning to ask my family for a loan to put towards a deposit on a home for my wife and I. Upon hearing this, my father took me to one side ou...
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{ "description": "thinking I might have got a guy fired for hitting my car", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA: I think I might have got a guy fired for hitting my car
Yesterday, a guy reversed into my car in his work pickup truck. I asked him for his insurance and he showed it to me for a second then pulled out $200 and told me to take it as the damage wasn’t that bad. He told me how he is an immigrant and he has 5 kids and implied to me that he would lose his job if he had “another...
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{ "description": "not telling my ex he has an STD", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my ex he has an STD
I won't go through the whole history of the relationship because I don't think it's entirely relevant. My ex and I dated for almost a year and it was kind of a whirlwind. It started out amazing and I was absolutely smitten, but we moved too fast and it quickly came crashing down. He because very emotionally and verball...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he needs to go see a doctor because he asked me to get blackout drunk so he could have sex with me while I'm passed out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend he needs to go see a doctor because he asked me to get blackout drunk so he could have sex with me while I'm passed out.
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years and we get along really well. However, his I've been concerned with his porn habits for a while. I've found porn he's bookmarked on his computer while using it and I've found hundreds of videos of things forced porn, girls being tied up and gangbanged and videos wh...
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{ "description": "technically causing friendship issues between my boyfriend and his long-term friend, and not accepting her apology", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for technically causing friendship issues between my boyfriend and his long-term friend, and not accepting her apology?
For context, I've had a history of difficulty with female friendships. I'm more relationship-focused and I think I get too attached in friendships, which can cause issues. I genuinely can't tell if I was toxic or the asshole in this situation, because I've been told before that I can be manipulative, overly-attached, a...
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{ "description": "being really disappointed that my family is going on a trip over my birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being really disappointed that my family is going on a trip over my birthday.
So I'm a bit on the younger side so bare with me. My close family is going on a trip over spring break and I don't want to go (they love traveling and I don't really) my birthday is over spring break so they'll be missing it. I told them it's ok because I know they're really looking forward to this but I feel really di...
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{ "description": "confronting a coworker about my name", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for confronting a coworker about my name?
My legal name is different than what I go by. I really don't care which one people use and I let people know that. Now I have this co-worker who constantly will call me my legal name, then "correct" herself to my nickname. I have told her probably 4 times now that I do not care, at all, which name she uses. But it's s...
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{ "description": "going on my partners dream holiday without her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going on my partners dream holiday without her?
So my partner has always spoke about going to New York with me on our 25th birthday (from the UK) to which i agreed as i would also love to go. However my best friend since birth has recently secured a job over there for 18 months and wants me to come visit. Growing up as teenagers me and my friend always spoke about...
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{ "description": "trying to get with someone who I thought was single", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to get with someone who I thought was single?
For the past couple of months I've gotten to know this girl through college, we worked on a lot of projects and therefore spent a lot of time together. Through that time I began to have feelings for her but never acted on them as I knew she was already with somebody else. Two weeks ago she texts me and tells me that sh...
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AITA While studying in a library, i'm sick so i'm coughing alot. Some 50yo guy sits near me and a while later tells me to move because my coughs are "giving him the shits"
I move one table over and start coughing more to really piss him off. Not really that major, just wanted to know. AITA?
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{ "description": "not visiting a toxic family member after they've had their 3rd mini stroke", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not visiting a toxic family member after they’ve had their 3rd mini stroke?
Just a little disclaimer: I never went to the doctor with... let’s call her E. So I don’t know exactly what kinds of strokes she’s had, I just know what she’s told the family. So sorry if I’m using the wrong terminology. E is the kind of person who decided to give a big toast at my wedding to talk about how she’s a v...
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{ "description": "wanting my brother to stop rapidly changing the subject without acknowledging what I previously said", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my brother to stop rapidly changing the subject without acknowledging what I previously said?
My brother has ADD, so half the time when I try talking to him he doesn’t hear me because he’s too focused on whatever else he’s doing. That’s understandable, because I also have ADD and am guilty of the same thing. BUT, there are other times where he DOES hear me, but will not look me in the eye and rapidly start ta...
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{ "description": "using a lane on the highway (in a car) until I was forced over to another lane by construction", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using a lane on the highway (in a car) until I was forced over to another lane by construction? (USA)
Happened last week while I was on a cross-country trip. I'll do my best to visually describe it. Picture 3 lanes, and construction is happening in the left lane, but a little ways up ahead, so I'm not even *in* the construction zone yet. However all 3 lanes are moving between very slow and dead stopped. Here in the US...
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{ "description": "not expecting someone to jaywalk in front of me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not expecting someone to jaywalk in front of me?
The scene: I was riding my bike on a two-lane road at rush hour in front of a school. There’s a row of parked cars at the curb and no painted bike lane, but the road’s wide enough for bikers to easily pass between traffic and the parked cars. It’s a neighborhood that gets heavy commuter bike traffic and there are at l...
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{ "description": "wanting my mom to delete an audio recording she took of me coming out", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my mom to delete an audio recording she took of me coming out?
Long time lurker. First time posting. I'll try not to turn this into a wall of text. I (F19) have been sort of going over in my head whether or not I should tell my mom about the fact that I like girls. She grew up in a very cult like setting where they were pretty much against anything and everything fun because some...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for talking to an ex who recently confessed his love for her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting mad at my GF for talking to an ex who recently confessed his love for her?
A few months ago, my GF of 1 1/2 years told me that her ex reached out to her and wanted to catch up. I had no problem with it at the time so I just said she could talk to him if she wanted to. My masculinity is not so fragile that my GF can't talk to a dude 1000km away. They chatted on and off since then, mostly casua...
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{ "description": "not going with my gf to another thanksgiving dinner", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going with my gf to another thanksgiving dinner?
Okay, so she asked me a few days before to go with her to both of her grandmother's dinners, I didn't really wanna go because her grandma she lives with doesn't seem to like me too much, and the other had a bunch of people there (her family) and I don't really feel like I fit in with either of those groups of people bu...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he can't play video games all night", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I told my boyfriend he can’t play video games all night?
My boyfriend’s pc is in the bedroom. He doesn’t come to bed with me at night because he’s not tired. Instead he plays video games all night and wakes me up in the middle of the night. I get that he wants to play games but like can’t he play during the day and not wake me up in the middle of the night? Is it too much to...
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{ "description": "telling my mom I'm not like her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom I'm not like her?
Throwaway for reasons. Okay, so this happened about eight or nine months ago, but I'm still wondering if I was the asshole, so you guys get to decide. For context, I come from a family of means. I don't know how much because we didn't really discuss money, but I know that my parents own a multi-million dollar home, a...
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WIBTA if i end a friendship with an obese friend i only hang out with out of pity?
So, a little bit of backstory, this person has always been mordibly obese for their age and got bullied for it, which affected their personalith and they became a violent, quite awful, jealous and toxic person.We dont hang out outside of school, but we are pretty good friends in the perimeters of the building.When we w...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to waive her parental rights", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my sister to waive her parental rights?
Some backstory: My sister has three children. She is 31 years old. Her oldest son is turning 10 this year, her middle son is 4, and her daughter is 2. She does not have any form of custody of her children. My sister has relapsed, again. She is an addict. She smoked weed and cigarettes the entirety of her first pregnan...
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{ "description": "not wanting my significant other to take his antidepressants", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For Not Wanting My Significant Other To Take His Antidepressants?
Disclaimer: On mobile, also I know I sound like the asshole but just listen.. So for context, my SO suffers from depression and is prescribed Antidepressants but because of some personal side effects that affected both of us he stopped taking them about 6 months ago. Lately, his depression has gotten really bad. He'...
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{ "description": "be annoying when a friend calls himself a veteran", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA to be annoyed when a friend calls himself a Veteran?
My buddy served in the Navy for 6 years. On his first trip out on a boat, they hit rough water and he got horribly seasick. He was too frightened to go back out and was put on desk duty before being medically discharged 5 years later, essentially for getting too out of shape to pass a physical. He constantly describe...
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{ "description": "going to my sisters softball game with my mom and not my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to my sisters softball game with my mom and not my dad?
Some context before I tell explain the situation i'm in. My parents are divorced and both get jealous when either me or my sister seem to pick a side with the other parent. So a couple of days ago my Dad comes home and ask if I would like to attend my sister's softball game. Granted I had not attended one game all se...
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{ "description": "submitting a complaint on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I submitted a complaint on Facebook
AITA? Forgive any formatting or other errors, I'm old and it's past my bedtime. I take a bus home from work. NBD in general except that since summer there's been a security guard company truck parked in the bus stand every day. I've NEVER seen the guard in all this time. It's getting dark by the time the bus comes a...
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{ "description": "leaving my gf's house to meet her at the dog park without taking a key", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for leaving my gf’s house to meet her at the dog park without taking a key?
I’m at my girlfriend’s place. She was out walking the dog. I needed to buy cigarettes. Called her, decided we’ll meet at the park. Once there, she realized I didn’t bring a key and that we’re now locked out of her apartment. She thinks ITA as I was the last to leave the house. I think she’s the asshole, because who le...
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{ "description": "wanting to get rid of a gift", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to get rid of a gift?
Basically, it was recently my birthday and my friend shipped me some explicit comics from Japan as a gift. I do appreciate the gift but I'm not comfortable having physical copies of those comics and is extremely paranoid about it especially in terms moving it around since I'm studying abroad right now and eventually ne...
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{ "description": "being a tattletail", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being a tattletail
I am a person who tries to follow the rules as best I can, though I am not perfect, but my brothers would not. My brothers would break the rules all the time such as playing their phone in the car. At first my parents would get after them, but then told me to mind my own business. It eventually came to the point where...
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{ "description": "telling my friend hes fat", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend hes fat?
This happened awhile back but Ive been thinking on it lately. Ive always been obese, even as a kid. But in the past year or 2 I really knuckled down and lost weight. Im still on my journey and not where I want to be due to plenty of ups and down (curse you side effects of medicine) but its a topic that came up in co...
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{ "description": "thinking my roommate shouldn't have yelled at me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Thinking My Roommate Shouldn't Have Yelled At Me?
I live in a college suite (kind of like an apartment) with 5 others girls, one of them being "J". There are 3 bedrooms and one shared living room. The last couple weeks, I had been bringing my boyfriend over to hang out 2-3 times a week (never to sleep over, just for 2-4 hours), around 6 times total. 3 of these times w...
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{ "description": "getting my neighbour a parking fine", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting my neighbour a parking fine?
So our new neighbours are taking advantage of our shared driveway. They constantly block it, despite our mutual conversations about idiots who decide to park across it, and subsequently make it impossible for us to get out of the driveway. As mentioned, we have both discussed how annoying it is when people do this bu...
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{ "description": "asking my friend for money back in front of everyone", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for asking my friend for money back in front of everyone?
Yesterday I had borrowed two dollars from my friend to buy a snack, and today while hanging out with our friends she got really upset with me because I forgot to bring the money to pay her back. She kept complaining about me to everyone so I snapped and asked her when she was going to pay me back for the $100 she borro...
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{ "description": "\"making my mom wait 45 minutes\" for me after school", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for “making my mom wait 45 minutes” for me after school
First time poster but I’ve been looking in this sub for a little while also on mobile so sorry for any spelling mistakes A little backstory I’m in high school and I get out at 2:40 my mom has work and gets off at 3:00 and she works pretty close to my school so she can get me pretty quickly afterwards around 3:03 so a...
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{ "description": "kicking a guy out of my store after his wallet had been stolen", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking a guy out of my store after his wallet had been stolen?
I (22M) work the closing shifts at a copy/print shop in downtown Toronto. Among other things, we have copy machines and computer terminals for people to use. A few nights ago a guy, roughly in his mid fifties, used one of the computers for a few hours, then got off right around closing time, 11pm. He argued with me ov...
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{ "description": "not banning a symphatizing member of the alt right", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not banning a symphatizing member of the alt right ?
I'm a mod of a small discord server for fans of an internet music reviewer. All we do is talk music. ​ One day a member joins and immediately starts calling out an inactive member (he used to edit for the music reviewer the server is based on) for being a nazi. He links tweets that are VERY borderline isl...
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{ "description": "feeling like I don't need to apologize", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for feeling like I don't need to apologize?
One of my best friends has a new girlfriend of about 6 months. Before I met her, I was told that she had some chronic pain problems. I was unsure about how bad and even asked if walking around a lot (our double date required a lot of walking) was going to be OK. I was told sure, no problem. During the date, I’m being n...
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{ "description": "daring my friend to ask his sister for a blowjob", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for daring my friend to ask his sister for a blowjob?
A friend of mine and I have been doing this thing for a few weeks--basically escalating dares. Every few days or so one of us dares the other to do something, and then the next time vice versa. We staked $100 on it, and the first one who caved and refused to go through with it had to pay up. It's been getting tougher...
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{ "description": "telling my neighbor her roofers left trash all over our property", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my neighbor her roofers left trash all over our property?
I live in a townhouse next to a woman who is known to be very particular about her property. When we first moved in, I had a charity come pick up a piece of furniture and they were blocking her driveway. (They had to block either her driveway or my other neighbor’s driveway so they could walk the item down my driveway ...
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{ "description": "not letting my dad claim my son on his taxes", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my dad claim my son on his taxes
My dad asked if he could claim my baby on his taxes, but I claimed him. My dad and mom are good people and they help me out when I need it. I already told my mom I am going to give them a decent chunk of my return, and he indicated that he wouldn't give me anything if he claimed my son, though I don't know if he wa...
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{ "description": "feeling uncomfortable about my gf following this guy in instagram", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for feeling uncomfortable about my gf following this guy in instagram?
So sometime ago we were watching her instagram and we found a pic about a guy, everything is ok. Then she said "this gut tried to flirt with me". By some reason, I feel strange. I do not doubt of her and he doesn't suppose any danger for the relationship, she would never have anything with him even if single. But I ...
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{ "description": "selling my monitor I let my girlfriends brother use", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for selling my monitor I let my girlfriends brother use
I had an extra monitor I wasn’t using and my girlfriend let him use it and while he was at school today I sold it because I needed the extra money should I feel bad or AITA
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AITA Because Didn't Give an Ex-friend a Chance? (And Ruining Her Friendships Later On?)
In the summer about 2 years ago, I went to a summer camp and met an AMAZING person at the time. I'm going to call her Ellie. Ellie and I hit it off, we were like two peas in a pod, really just best friends. I was fascinated with her overall, and loved her, would do anything for her and honestly would take a bullet for ...
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{ "description": "being a \"males rights activist\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for being a "males rights activist"
In a Facebook chat, I talked about how men shouldnt have to pay full child support if a woman wants the child even if the man doesn't. That is literally the only sociopolitical thing I've ever said in that group chat and all of a sudden I'm "cringey" and a "males rights activist." I then call them white knights becaus...
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AITA – Son’s Girlfriend Didn’t Like Her Christmas Presents?
My 18 year old son, a senior in high school, is dating a 19 year old college sophomore for almost a year and a half. They are in love, plan on getting married and are dealing with the differences in their cultures. She is Pakistani/Muslim (supposedly non-practicing) while he is about as White Privileged Male as one can...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my so because I want to have more sexual experience", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my SO because i want to have more sexual experience?
Been dating for over 2 years now. I truly love my SO and she is my first girlfriend. Never cheated on her and never will. But the thing is, I think I'm still atracted to other girls. And honestly, sometimes I think I miss being single, going out and having casual sex with different people. It's not that I'm unhappy bei...
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{ "description": "ignoring an old lady who lives next door", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ignored an old lady who lives next door?
Disclaimer: I'm from Russia, English is not my first language, sorry for weird phrasing. TL;DR at the bottom of the post Me and my bf rent a studio apartment in an apartment building. Our next door neighbor is a really old lady. She barely walks and is practically deaf. Every other day she comes to our apartment do...
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{ "description": "telling my boss to fire my homophobic coworker", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I tell my boss to fire my homophobic coworker?
Throwaway because he knows my account. My boss and I have been close friends for years. I'm gay and he's fine with that. A week ago a new employee was hired and as I got to know him, he began spewing homophobic bullshit about how marriage is between a man and a woman only and no son of his is gonna grow up gay. He doe...
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{ "description": "not wanting to speak to or even look at my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to speak to or even look at my Dad?
Some background: Mom and dad been together about 25 years in a horrible marriage. Dad had been emotionally abusive to her, me and my brother all our lives. About 8 years ago, my mom decided she had enough and refused to take anymore shit from him. Decided to leave once the kids (us) were older. Since I was a kid, my da...
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AITA Gun to your head...
So, I used the term "if there was a gun to your head / pointed at you" when trying to get my fiance's 9 year old to choose between whether or not he wanted / liked something. He was very much on the fence and we were both struggling to get a solid answer out of him. We've been together for 3.5 years and I have taken ...
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{ "description": "basing my work ethic off the way customers treat my crew and I", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for basing my work ethic off the way customers treat my crew and I?
I work for a company that provides services for people who need cleaning/restoration services done in their homes (HVAC cleaning, flood remediation, etc.) When I show up to a customers house I always base my work off how the customer treats me and my crew throughout the day. If they’re nice and respect all of us I alwa...
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{ "description": "not dealing with her crap and just ignoring her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not dealing with her crap and just ignoring her.
Sorry in advance, I know this will get long just so I can paint the picture. Meet Janet, she's 35 with the brains of a 12 year old. Not really but we all agree she's missing screws in her head. About 18 years ago she meet uncle Joe after he returned to Colombia from Europe, and had a crush on him. She lived down the r...
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{ "description": "thinking my SO eats out too much", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my SO eats out too much
Hi Reddit. I’m on my mobile, this is a throw away, yadda yadda yadda. Am I (23f) the asshole because I think my boyfriend (25m) should eat healthier? He’s constantly ordering in food, picking up food, going through drive thru’s as well as going to restaurants whenever he wants something to eat. He NEVER eats at home...
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