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{ "description": "spilling the beans about my cousin's marriage", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I spilled the beans about my cousin's marriage?
My cousin and his girlfriend eloped over last weekend and are planning on telling my parents on Christmas with the whole family around. I am 90% certain my hothead father won't take this news well for various reasons and I want to tell him about it before then to avoid any extreme reactions. I understand it is not my ...
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{ "description": "postponing negative feedback to job applicants", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for postponing negative feedback to job applicants?
This came up yesterday during dinner with my SO. I am head of production in a medium sized company. When I am hiring I’ll get applications from HR and check them. At that point applicants have received a short standardized mail that we thank them for their interest and we Willens time to check the application. I usuall...
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{ "description": "arguing with my mother on how she feeds her animals", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing with my mother on how she feeds her animals?
My mother has three cats (8yrs, 2yrs, 1yr) and a black cockatoo (4yrs). When I finished uni and went on break, she asked me to move back home and, instead of paying rent, to help out with the animals and housework. This specifically meant entire responsibility over the cats, but not the bird. I was happy to move back i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to speak to my mom", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to speak to my mom?
Tl;Dr - my moms new husband called my dad and 15 year old brother sand n*****s and I havent spoken to my mom since.. Long story, but days before Thanksgiving this year my dad had my brother for the weekend (my mom sent him to boarding school without my dads permission while my dad was doing business in the middle east...
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{ "description": "not wanting kids because I want to retire early and enjoy my life without having to worry about extra expenses", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don’t want kids because I want to retire early and enjoy my life without having to worry about extra expenses?
I’m a 1 of 2 boys and I’m 30. My brother 28 found out he can’t have kids. My parents aren’t really urging me to have kids but always ask me if I plan on proposing to my girlfriend of 1.5 years. (I plan to this upcoming year). They’re lovely parents and I know they want grandchildren. It’ll make them so happy. But I ju...
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{ "description": "giving my friend advice on how to raise his dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving my friend advice on how to raise his dog?
My friend was complaining to me about how his dog pees all over his house and says he punishes his dog by rubbing his nose in it and putting him in a crate for hours for a “time out”. I told him that it was inhumane to do that and if you want results you need to constantly watch him and take him out regularly to avoid ...
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{ "description": "oversleeping on Thanksgiving & the ensuing shit-storm", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Oversleeping on Thanksgiving & the ensuing shit-storm?
To begin this Ill give a little backstory; I (19M) just recently (<1 month ago) moved into my first apartment with my other half. Younger brother rents other unit upstairs. Before this for about a year or so, I was living with her and her folks because my father and stepmom ended up giving me the boot over defending...
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{ "description": "kissing a lesbian", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kissing a lesbian?
Okay, so a bit of background story first: I am friends with these 2 girls who are/were in a relationship. One of them recently decided that she wants an open relationship because it wasn‘t working out that well back then. So she, having a bit of a broken heart, contacted me and my best friend and asked us if we wanted ...
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{ "description": "not paying half the costs", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying half the costs?
(No native speaker, sorry!) Me and 2 other guys work on a hobby project of ours. We do it for fun, but are trying to be a little more professional on the long run, so this weekend we decided to go to the biggest fair in our country to network a bit. One of the guys just moved to the city it is in, we other two had to ...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend use my equipment", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my friend use my equipment?
I'm a professional DJ and my friend who is also a DJ is performing at a music festival the beginning of next year. I have a DJ setup at my home that I use and often let people come over to practice because the equipment is expensive, so many performers don't own it. My friend called me and asked if she could co...
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{ "description": "not caring that my friend is failing college", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not caring that my friend is failing college?
Me and some of my friends started this early college program so we're all around 16 and taking highschool classes alongside college classes. We were all doing well at the beginning of the semester until one of my friends and her family went on a cruise for a week in the middle of the year. When she got back she missed ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my boyfriend constantly asking about his hair", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being annoyed at my boyfriend constantly asking about his hair?
Boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple years. His hair has gotten thinner over the years but absolutely nowhere near bald. Since the start of the relationship he has not stopped worrying about his hair. It \*\*absolutely\*\* consumes him. I fully respect this as an insecurity of his and have bought him Viviscal,...
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{ "description": "not accepting a last minute invite to a wedding with my new gf", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not accepting a last minute invite to a wedding with my new gf?
This happened yesterday, and we have just 4 weeks since we first met, she officially isn't my gf but we have been dating and we're in a point that is just a matter of days until it's official . So we didn't had any plans for yesterday night (Saturday) I only knew she had a wedding to go she mentioned that during a dat...
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{ "description": "backing out of an agreement to go to church", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for backing out of an agreement to go to church?
New user here, sorry if I'm doing anything wrong. A bit of info before I jump in, I'm seventeen, non-religious (was raised that way), but because my extended family members are religious, and because I attended a semi-private Catholic school for ten years, I don't really mind going to church, though really I'd rather ...
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{ "description": "humiliating my best friend in front of a group of friends as payback", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for humiliating my best friend in front of a group of friends as payback?
I have a long time friend who is a very shy loner and who I was his only friend. Beacause of that I have been bringing him around and or introducing him to my other friends and helping him break out of his shell in a way. We had gotten very into doing LAN parties at our apartments with said group of friends who we also...
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{ "description": "being mad at my future stepmom not letting me use her and my dads bathroom when I had a broken foot", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my future stepmom not letting me use her and my dads bathroom when I had a broken foot?
This happened years ago but I still have no idea if I was the asshole back then. When I was in the 5th grade I broke my foot during my sport. I had a boot and crutches and couldn't walk very well. My future stepmom at the time (they broke up.) and my dad moved into a house together. My bedroom was upstairs and across ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my gf?
I am 36M and she is 30F. We are dating in an exclusive relationship for 4 months and 3 weeks ago she spent 3 nights with her ex-bf different beds in same bedroom. She asked me if I was OK if she met with him, but she did not tell me that they were staying in the same room in a hotel. There are a lot of trust issues, e...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my travel points with my friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to share my travel points with my friends?
So my 4 friends and I were planning a multi-country trip to Europe for 2 weeks in June. I thought it would be a good idea for all of us to sign up for the Chase Sapphire Preferred Card for the sign up bonus since well have plenty of time before we actually go on our trip. The signup bonus is if you spend $4,000 in the ...
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{ "description": "not sharing stuff with my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sharing stuff with my mom?
Working hard to meet the character limit, so excuse the concision in this complicated matter. ​ The issue: whenever anything meaningful to me happens in my life, I choose to not mention it to my mom at all. Since quite some time she doesn't get to know what brought or brings me happiness or sadness, nor do...
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{ "description": "blocking my mother's internet access to online bingos", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for blocking my mother's internet access to online bingos?
I live with my mother, she's not tech savvy but knows enough to use a browser and pay online. I pay for the internet and give her a small rent. She doesn't work and there's always been constant financial problems, we've had our electricity cut off because she couldn't pay the bills more than once in the past. **So...
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{ "description": "locking my grandfather's wife out of the hospital room/refused to allow her to attend his funeral", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for locking my grandfather's wife out of the hospital room/refused to allow her to attend his funeral
TL;DR on the bottom Okay so some backstory: My grandpa was a Vietnam war veteran. He had severe PTSD, which led him to not trust the government. This also led him to not trust doctors and other professionals. His wife took advantage of that. She was incredibly horrible to our family, and horrible to my grandfather. Sh...
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{ "description": "ghosting my weed dealer", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting my weed dealer?
I have not purchased from him for the last 6-7 months. I did become friendly with him when I used to buy from him. But our relationship was strictly professional, I paid for exactly what I bought, but on occasions I would pay him in advance and on other occasions I would pay him later. He called me out of nowhere afte...
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{ "description": "skipping my two-person department's big event two years in a row", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for skipping my two-person department’s big event two years in a row?
I will try to stick to the basics in bold and then detail what the hell I’m talking about. **1. The teacher I assist is the nicest person ever and we are friends. ** I am a TA at an elementary school. I work with one PE teacher 90% of the time and assist on other areas of the campus around 10% of the time. I help t...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick a guy out of the friend group", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to kick a guy out of the friend group?
sorry if the formatting is weird or anything, this is my first post and i’m not really sure how reddit works yet!! some backstory- im in one of the “gay groups” at my school where a bunch of kids kind of drifted together because we’re all like “gay? gay. cool.” and kind of found a home with each other. it’s really coo...
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{ "description": "taking pictures of my coworkers messages and anonymously sending them to hr", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking pictures of my coworkers messages and anonymously sending them to HR.
So we got a new assistant manager at work and he is extremely rude and demanding. He’s a “my way or the highway” type of guy. Personally I get a long with him great(I have to try really hard to stay on his good side). However I do it to keep the peace at work. It’s not the same for my coworkers. He’s made two cowork...
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AITA? Friend accused me of theft?
I met my best friend when we were in 4th grade. We didn't offically start hanging out until grade 6. Grade 6 we were inseperable and we would often call and text each other all day, go over to each other's houses, and have a lot of sleep overs. It got to the point where when her family went on vacation they invited me...
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{ "description": "wanting to split a speeding ticket", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for wanting to split a speeding ticket?
\-- TL/DR below; apologies for any spelling / grammatical errors -- This happened a couple of weeks ago. It was a Monday and there was going to be a family birthday party on Friday. My aunt (lets call her Carol) asked me if my sister and I were going to drive to said party separated from our parents, we sometimes do t...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my brother and then silently leaving my family dinner", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disagreeing with my brother and then silently leaving my family dinner?
So my brother often will pick something about me like that I don't really eat meat (for moral and environmental reasons) or that I wear my engineering ring (Canadian engineering thing related to a bridge that collapsed and that engineers need to remember the potential gravity of their actions) and personally attack me ...
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{ "description": "not saying \"I love you\" back", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Saying "I love you" Back?
My now ex girlfriend and I had been together for a total of 18 months. She was a pretty great girl in general and I liked her a lot. About 3 months after we started dating she told me that she loved me. Love is a very strong word, and I didn't love her at that point. So I responded with something along the lines of, "...
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AITA - dog ate out of compost pile and I couldnt tell my brother it wasnt the chicken bones.
So my brothers dog ate something and we dont know what it is. My dad is trying to start a compost pile to grow grass and some chicken bones were unaccounted for after I cleaned the fridge. I left them out per dads request. He apparently ate them, but I didnt know what he did with the bones. Chicken bones will kill a do...
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{ "description": "making my sister cry after yelling at her for bullying me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making my sister cry after yelling at her for bullying me
For the past few weeks my sister (23) has been putting down everything I say, making me (17) pissed after most of our interactions. This mostly happened at dinner where I would talk about something I believe I had a decent understanding of, or simply correcting another family member about something, and she would get p...
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{ "description": "telling my mom I'm not coming for thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom I'm not coming for thanksgiving?
I'm 16 and when I was 11 my mom went to Salisbury because she was an addict. I'm living with my grandparents 2 hours away and she's been living in Salisbury since and right now she's dating this manipulative asshole that I despise and hate. I was gonna go with my little sister to see her for thanks giving at her boyfri...
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{ "description": "telling a stranger his wife has a boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I told a stranger his wife has a boyfriend?
I do not directly know the woman but a close friend works with her. I have only interacted with her a handful of times (a customer service based job). My friend repeats a lot of the conversations she has with this woman (she is in no way her friend and the woman is clearly not interested in the fact that my friend do...
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{ "description": "not bringing cake to school tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I didn’t bring cake to school tomorrow?
So my school-day basically only consisted of presentations after a week of working with a project in groups. Towards the end of the last presentation, I hear my phone beeping twice from the back of the classroom, even though, fortunately, nobody else knew it was mine. The teacher reacts immediately though and rages ab...
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{ "description": "not being ready for marriage", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being ready for marriage?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and he keeps pushing marriage. I’m nowhere near ready. He’s of a different culture, and I need way more time to make sure we will work in the long run. Am I the asshole?? Should I be ready by now?
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{ "description": "telling my mom I don't need a ride home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because i told my mom I don’t need a ride home
I’m a bar tender and my wife left me and took the kids two days ago and we have one car. It’s cold in Michigan , and tomorrow night I close the bar. So I just walk home. She got mad when I told her I don’t want a ride and would rather walk...
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{ "description": "not offering to pay the diminished value of my son in laws truck I wrecked", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not offering to pay the diminished value of my son in laws truck I wrecked?
So my soon to be son in law was severely injured a week ago. He needed to go to the doctor for a follow up visit, and he just bought a brand new dually crew cab 4 wheel truck. No where to park his truck at the doctors office so he asked to use my car and said for me to take his truck. I have owned big trucks so driving...
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{ "description": "not removing a tattoo at the request of my husband", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for not removing a tattoo at the request of my husband?
Hello, I (31F) have been married to my husband (28M) for roughly two years, we dated for 1 year before that. In my past life before working at the church, I was a bartender at a popular bar. I made enough money to pay off my car and some credit card debt that never seemed to go away. Unfortunately, I had some issues wi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my friend's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my friend's girlfriend?
(Obligatory this is a throwaway account.) Everyone in this story is in their mid 20s. To cut right to the chase, my friend and my boyfriend's best friend ("James") started dating this girl ("Nicole") approximately 2 years ago. (Possibly relevant information: my boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 years now ...
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{ "description": "losing my cool with my so who has severe health anxiety", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for losing my cool with my SO who has severe health anxiety?
My SO (F30) gets extremely anxious about lots of things and it has a huge impact on our lives (her more than me, of course, but as we live together and have a little boy it tends to affect us all a lot - we don't get to do much as a family as she gets upset at things and I get very little 'down time' alone as she strug...
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{ "description": "throwing a group member under the bus, and being angry that the consequences they experienced were not as severe as I thought they deserved", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing a group member under the bus, and being angry that the consequences they experienced were not as severe as I thought they deserved?
This happened a few years ago while I was in college working on a group project for a clinical psych course. At the beginning of the project, the professor made it abundantly clear that after all was said and done we would be able to submit peer evaluations so that each member would be graded accordingly, in hopes to e...
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{ "description": "not having moved on from Abuse and Trauma", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Not Having Moved On From Abuse and Trauma
Hi everyone, new here and on mobile so let me off easy if I make any formatting mistakes, hah. And I will try to make it as neutral and understanding from my side as well as I can. Two sides to every story after all. (Also, sorry, this is going to be a long and very dark post that brings up abuse, mental disorders, and...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to not drink or smoke in front of me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to not drink or smoke in front of me?
Stuff is going like, great between me and the boyfriend. Except for one thing; he likes to smoke weed (often), and drink (rarely, doesn't get drunk), while I have PTSD tied to the stuff because of some childhood trauma. To explain the trauma, my mom was an abuser, who smoked cigarettes throughout my childhood and was ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my ex immediately after breaking up with someone", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with my ex immediately after breaking up with someone?
So, this actually happened a few years ago, but i still feel guilty about it. I dated this guy for 6 months. It was going really well, until depression kicked my butt hard. I decided to break up with him for both of our sakes. I couldn't handle a relationship at the time. I had an ex who I'd been in a LDR with several...
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{ "description": "asking my bf to distance himself from this female best friend he recently got at work because I suspect she doesn't like me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I ask my BF to distance himself from this female best friend he recently got at work because I suspect she doesn’t like me
(Reuploading this because I did not add any info, sorry new to this reddit thread) They’ve come close these past month. I see message notifications from her on his phone every day. My boyfriend is quite the handsome guy with a lovely personality and let’s just say people, and especially girls, do think that he could d...
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{ "description": "moving other people's laundry", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for moving other people's laundry?
I live in an apartment complex with a shared laundry room. There are two washers and two dryers. The machines are coin-operated. Every once in a while, though, both of the washers or dryers will be full with clothes, but the machine isn't in use. The cycle has finished, but the owner of the clothes hasn't taken them o...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at a girl who got back with the ex she told me to warn off", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed at a girl who got back with the ex she told me to warn off
girl i worked with/had good work friendship with was going through a bad breakup and her ex according to her was a real POS, played mind games, put her down, threw things, "everything but physical". i was glad that she broke up with him because i was honestly sick to my back teeth of her telling me these tales of what ...
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{ "description": "\"breaking\" this girls iPhone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for "breaking" this girls iPhone?
I met this girl almost a month ago and we have been going out since then. Eveerything seems good. However Yesterday i accidentally threw her iPhone out of her bed right into the floor. It doesn't turn on now. However i was hesitant about offering money because I've seen her treat her phone bad and carelessly dropping...
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{ "description": "refusing to go over the coupon limit for someone's disabled mom", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to go over the coupon limit for someone's disabled mom?
I work as a cashier and cashiers always get the blame for company policy. At the store I work at sends out text promotions occasionally to people who sign up with the text club. The deal on this day was 2 lobster tails for $5 with a limit of two. Lobster is super expensive so two for $5 is an amazing deal. Peopl...
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{ "description": "bailing on my family trip last minute and refusing to pay our part of the bill", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for bailing on my family trip last minute and refusing to pay our part of the bill?
For some context: My cousins are hosting an anniversary party. They live some 700kms away from the hometown where my family grew up and where many still live. I live a couple hundred kms North of that hometown. When we first heard about the party at thanksgiving (in October), the hometown family started floating th...
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{ "description": "telling a kid in our friend group to \"find new friends\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I told a kid in our friend group to “find new friends”?
Posting this on a throwaway. I’m a college freshman living in a dorm with my best friend of 16 years. Across the hall lives another childhood friend and his roommate, Jeff, who we went to high school with. Jeff was never in our friend group until this summer, when he started hanging out with us. He was kind of a loner...
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{ "description": "not approving of my friends age gap crushes", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not approving of my friends age gap crushes
Using my throwaway again, and on mobile so apologies for formatting. I'm friends/acquaintances with this guy who is 23, turning 24 in a few months. He hasnt had a lot of luck with girls and often comes to me when he has a new crush to gush about them. The past four girls he has developed feelings for have been 18 or 1...
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{ "description": "wanting to call the cops on my gfs brother for drunk driving", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to call the cops on my GFs brother for drunk driving?
so a little back story. me and my girlfriend live together. her brother just moved in from their parents after getting out of a 3 day rehab. now he's back and he's getting drunk all day everyday and driving as well. I have a HUGE problem with this. I've had 2 friends die from drunk drivers one of which had 3 tours in...
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{ "description": "teasing this guy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for teasing this guy?
So I’m on a dating site, and I started messaging this guy. We got along really well, so well that we exchanged numbers and started texting (instead of just messaging through the site). I’m the type of person that, if I’m teasing you, I can come across as a bit of a jerk. Just some ribbing, but playful. Anyway, he told ...
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{ "description": "keeping my door locked", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for keeping my door locked?
So I’m in college, but Im living at home with my parents till I graduate. My parents get frustrated with me for keeping my door locked when I’m in my room. The reason I do so is because I’m really introverted and I value my privacy. When I was in my more formative years I’d keep my door closed but not locked. They’d ...
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{ "description": "wanting to talk to my boyfriend even though he was tired", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for wanting to talk to my boyfriend even though he was tired
Last night my bf and I were playing a game and calling each other (we don’t live together). We had been playing for an hour and a half when he’s like “I don’t want to play anymore” and left the game. He told me we could still call and talk but he just didn’t want to play. At first I was like why not and tried to get hi...
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{ "description": "attempting to confront my wife's lover and trespassing in his home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for attempting to confront my wife's lover and trespassing in his home?
Throwaway, obv. Sorry for the poor formatting and long winded post. Thanks for reading: My wife told me 3 months ago that she had feelings for someone else, someone that she met through work. I took it hard, but it was also a wake-up call for me to be a better husband and a better person. After a few weeks she to...
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{ "description": "being Glad my stepmother will die before my dad", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for Being Glad My Stepmother Will Die Before My Dad?
Background: my stepmother came into my life when I was about 5 or 6. I am the youngest of five children but the oldest three went with my biological mother. I grew up at odds with my stepmother and sister who generally teamed up on me as my father was working on the road 8-10 months/year. Fast forward to last year: ...
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{ "description": "not giving vegetables to customer who doesn't eat it", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 64 }
AITA for not giving vegetables to customer who doesn't eat it?
So a little background: I'm a local shop owner, who sells different kinds of asian food. I have this customer coming in quite often already. He always orders the same dish, but every time he finished eating he always leave the vegetables untouched resulting in me throwing it away all the time. He pays normally and leav...
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AITA Customer gets mad over 35 cents.
Hi, first time poster in this subreddit but here we go. I started working for a larger truck stop company and am responsible for cleaning or working a cash register. This story starts when i was ringing out a customer with a few snack and a cup of ice. Our company wants us to charge for everything, as I am new i charge...
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{ "description": "leaving my boyfriend and sleeping with my fuckfriend the next day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA I left my boyfriend and slept with my fuckfriend the next day
Hi, I don't really know how to explain it so I will just say the facts and how I feel about them. ​ Important: Even if it doesn't seem like it in the story, I'm recognized to always say the truth, even when it's not in my favor. It sound silly said like that but my totem name is lune franche (I'm french, ...
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{ "description": "removing my mother from my life", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for removing my mother from my life?
AITA for removing my mother from my life? This happened in 2014. So, some background. I'm bipolar, as is my brother. My brother had an episode and ended up getting into some trouble and getting hospitalized. My mother said to me, "I just don't know anyone who is bipolar!" I was floored. I told at her how I was bip...
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{ "description": "not telling my parents about my long distance partner visiting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my parents about my long distance partner visiting?
Light background: I’m a minor, my relationship has been going on for about 2 years or so So basically, my parents are not very supportive of my LDR and didn’t acknowledge it as valid for over a year and half, and they still might not now. They haven’t been very supportive either, going to say things like “why can’t yo...
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{ "description": "wanting my ex to move out because she won't seek an income", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my ex to move out because she won't seek an income?
Hi there! First time poster here so apologìes if I don't do this right. For clarification purposes; She's 18, I'm 22 I live in Australia, and Centrelink is basically a pension from the government for being an unemployed job seeker, disabled, carer of a child or some other such condition. We started out as a one night...
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{ "description": "stealing a seat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stealing a seat
Background: so we have a kid at our school he gets mad at the simplest things aka like getting mad for getting a C in a class that counts for 9% of our grade so you know where this is going. So it’s lunch time so I decide to visit a a friend that I haven’t talked to in a while. I do a thing any normal person would do...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to tell his ex-wife that he is in a long-term relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to tell his ex-wife that he is in a long-term relationship?
I have been in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend for 4 ½ years and we live together. He was previously married for about 6 years, and has been divorced for 11. His ex-wife does not live close by (she is about 700 miles away) and they do not have children. Their marriage ended on relatively amicable terms (th...
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{ "description": "saying 'black guy' when describing a video", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying ‘black guy’ when describing a video?
So, I was talking to my sister about music and music videos when I was trying to describe what turned out to be the song Never Forget You by someone, I don’t remember who. All I remembered from the video was there was the girl singing with a Where the Wild Things Are like monster, and a black guy on a beach. After sayi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do my wife's chores", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for not wanting to do my wife's chores?
My wife and I have been together for 8 years and moved in together when we were in college 6 years ago. Ever since we moved in together we've had the same chores. I take out the trash, vacuum and fold my laundry. This has worked out great for us. Now, my wife wants to change how things have always been and is asking me...
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{ "description": "reporting a man who was making lewd comments at a nude beach, but actually turned out to be an outburst of Tourette's", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for reporting a man who was making lewd comments at a nude beach, but actually turned out to be an outburst of Tourette’s?
I’ll try to keep this as short as possible! I’m a European transplant who’s been on assignment in Miami, USA for a year now. I love it here, and we have a pretty famous and well known nude beach that’s popular amongst local, visitors, and European tourists as well. I go to the beach a few times a month because 1) awes...
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{ "description": "not saying hello to my MIL", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying hello to my MIL?
Some background: been married 5+ years, together 10. My husband’s mother has been an issue in our relationship since day one. He is an only child. The first day I ever met her, she spent over an hour telling me about every girl he’d ever dated, making sure to point out one of his exes was a lawyer (I’m a teacher). She ...
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{ "description": "taking my daughter to get her hair dyed against my wifes wish", "pronormative_score": 106, "contranormative_score": 33 }
WIBTA if I took my daughter to get her hair dyed against my wifes wish?
So, my daugther will be turning 17 in a month and wished to dye her hair turqouise/blue for her birthday. I honestly don't see a problem with that, hair dye is temporary and she's old enough to decide what she wants to do with her hair. Well, my wife disagrees. She thinks it's a sign of teenage rebellion - I told her ...
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{ "description": "accepting casino cashier paying me extra $25 after warning her she gave me too much", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I accepted casino cashier paying me extra $25 after warning her she gave me too much?
Title pretty much says it all. Played some poker, was cashing out for $343 after a 1/2 session. Lady behind the counter counts it out to $368 (She must have thought I had 5 green $25 chips). I look down at the chips I gave her and do a quick count (there's 40 $5 red chips on a little rack I handed her, 4 green $25 chip...
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{ "description": "leaving my dysfunctional family behind", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving my dysfunctional family behind?
(I’m on mobile so sorry for poor formatting) Context: My family has a lot of issues. My sister is very entitled, and my mother and father should get divorced but stay together to keep up appearances. My sister ran away multiple times when she was younger, and I had severe depression and anxiety over her breakdowns. My ...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone until he broke up with me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting someone until he broke up with me?
When I was about 15, I got into an online relationship with someone (yes I was dumb) my age through a mutual skype group. We had the same sense of humor and interests and he seemed super cool. Eventually, I found out I had feelings for a friend IRL and he was entering his freshman year of highschool. I thought it woul...
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{ "description": "putting a toilet seat in our dishwasher", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for putting a toilet seat in our dishwasher?
This is an old argument, but my ex-wife brought it up today and I was wondering. Some backstory: We used to live in an old farmhouse and the first, FIRST thing I did was install dampened, quick release toilet seats in the two bathrooms to prevent slamming and ease cleaning. However, since we were on well water that ha...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to limit the amount of times she brings her bf to our dorm", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my roommate to limit the amount of times she brings her bf to our dorm
I currently reside in a dorm with two other girls, the room is quite small with each of us owning a small corner of the room. We all started on good terms with each other, but I've been having difficulties with my one roommate who keeps inviting her BF over. When ever I walk in the room he's always there with her, it's...
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{ "description": "snitching on my friend for throwing an iceball at my face", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snitching on my friend for throwing an iceball at my face
There's a library right outside my school, with a relatively large open field right next to it. Me and my friends would go there to have snowball fights every once and a while. ​ So, I am having a snowball fight with 3 other people here and it's all well and good until one of my friends grabs this footbal...
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{ "description": "not giving him my notes", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving him my notes?
There’s this one guy, who’s from my hometown so I kinda know him, who always asks to borrow my notes. I know he’s got some personal issues (his father is sick, his mother is unemployed) so I help him. Instead of paying attention to the lectures he plays Hearthstone on his phone; he refuses to go home too because his f...
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{ "description": "Ignoring Beggars of all kinds", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita For Ignoring Beggars of all kinds?
I used to be fairly understanding to beggars, and would usually give a dollar or two if they ask from me. However, last year I had an experience with two beggars where they asked me to buy McDonald for them and I did, but then ended up asking for much more than necessary (over $20 from like large milkshakes, chicken nu...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my girlfriend decided to ditch me for Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that my girlfriend decided to ditch me for Thanksgiving?
When we got our new place we told each other that we would have Thanksgiving together and finally be free of the over-the-top 6 hour family dinners. I have no family here, I moved up here from all across the US to be with my girlfriend. Yesterday, she told me that shes going to have dinner at her parents house, which m...
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{ "description": "expecting my dad to put gas in my car after borrowing it", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my dad to put gas in my car after borrowing it?
My dad recently borrowed my car while his was in the shop(this has happened often recently). The thing is 3 of the last 4 times he's borrowed my car he has returned it with an empty or nearly empty tank, no matter how full it was when he received the car. He plays the lottery 3-4 times a day at around $7 each time but ...
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{ "description": "not telling a suspicion about a girl cheating", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling a suspicion about a girl cheating?
So I [2x m] had a homie, Dan, [2x m] who was dating this crazy cat lady [2x f]. We were childhood friends and nobody was closer than we were. Our friendship ended shortly after his relationship with his girl for related reasons. After a solid month of them dating, she was posting some pics about her and another bro, ...
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{ "description": "getting irritated because of my parents' table manners", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting irritated because of my parents' table manners?
I don't want to sound rude. I have not told it to them on the face, because I am sure their reply will be something like "it's our way of enjoying food" or harmless,yet tiring remarks about me acting like an American because I have a couple of American friends. I am indian. So telling them is going to have a predictabl...
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{ "description": "being upset that my friend lied about her whereabouts", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my friend lied about her whereabouts?
Jessica and I (21F) were best friends in high school, but she now goes to university on the opposite side of the country. Nowadays, we only see each other 2-3 times a year. We're no longer as close as we used to be, but she still has a special place in my heart, and I've always assumed she felt the same way about me. ...
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{ "description": "being mad about friends planning our trip without telling me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad about friends planning our trip without telling me ?
We are a group of four friends in our final year of high school. We are planning to go to South Korea this summer after we graduate to visit one of our other friend, and we've been planning this trip for a while, but delaying buying plane tickets because we are still unsure of the dates on which we will go. Because i...
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{ "description": "yelling at someone else's kid", "pronormative_score": 63, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for yelling at someone else’s kid
Yesterday was Christmas and all of my family was in my parents house with their kids. A little background I have a 7yr son who has mild autism which makes it a little hard for him to fit in with the other kids. Ok back to the story, at one point in the day my cousin’s daughter 13yr was messing with my son by taking his...
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{ "description": "telling my date to give up on his dream of a major career in the music industry", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my date to give up on his dream of a major career in the music industry ?
I’ve been going out with a very nice guy for a while. When we first met he introduced himself as a «Musician/artist » and he told me all about his dreams of making it in the music industry. Not knowing much about him at the time, I was polite and I told him how great it was for him to firmly believe in his dreams. ...
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{ "description": "being an inconsiderate vaper", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for being an inconsiderate vaper?
After 15 years of being a smoker I finally quit by transferring my smoking addiction across to vaping. During my breaks I like to stretch my legs (go for walks) and gratify my nicotine dependence. I work in the CBD, so the pathways I walk on are usually fairly crowded. Cigarettes do produce a bit a smoke, but nothing ...
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AITA I've been avoiding someone who helped me out when I really needed it because of the stress it's caused
This past summer, I needed a place to stay while some legal and family issues were cleared up. A friend let me stay on his couch, and a very complicated situation I'll try to explain without too much details ensued. Originally, I was only going to crash on Dave's couch for a few days. For context, he was in his early...
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{ "description": "not letting my cousin borrow something", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my cousin borrow something?
This is going to be kinda difficult to explain, but I’ll try my best. Also, I’m on mobile. Some backstory; I’ve had a rough relationship with my fathers side of the family. My aunt is really demanding and more often then not gets what she wants. My cousin is a few years younger than me, and I used to be really close ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my dad's new girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my dad's new girlfriend?
Throwaway because reasons. About a year and a half ago, my parents split under tough circumstances. In short, my dad had an affair and my mom found out. It was really shocking and hard on the whole family, as my dad had always been a really stand-up guy, and they divorced a few months after she discovered what was goi...
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{ "description": "picking up $10 I found on Campus", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Picking Up $10 I found on Campus?
The other day a friend of mine found a $10 bill on the ground of my university campus (about 15,000 students and staff). She sent a picture in a group chat and another friend told her not to pick it up because that is stealing. Last night when I talked to him about it he said that there's no way she could've known if ...
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{ "description": "not wanting a gay doctor to look at my genitals", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wanting a gay doctor to look at my genitals
Went to a local clinic recently to check if my dick was ok and was assigned to an openly gay doctor. I felt very uncomfortable and I asked for another doctor. My friend says I am homophobic and is very mad at me. Was I an asshole?
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{ "description": "insulting a friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For insulting a friend
Couple weeks back me and two my others friends got together. We are very close friends and have known each other for about 8-9 years. Friend A : FA Friend B : FB We planned on getting some drinks and having a good time. We decided to meet up at FA's house. FA was making a drink and he jokingly kept on pouring liquor...
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{ "description": "lying to my mom about my cats having fleas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I Lie To My Mom About My Cats Having Fleas?
I have two beautiful Persian cats with very long, thick fur. I live with my mom, it’s just the two of us and we love our cats very much. We live in a single family style house with a screened in patio in our backyard. We also have a pool inside of our patio that has no fencing/netting around it. My mom is a smoker so...
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{ "description": "blocking someone over a roleplay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking someone over a roleplay?
I feel like I was an over-sensitive asshole, yet at the same time I don't. (I'll be calling my ex-friend A) So, I met A on Roblox, and we hit it off pretty quick, we had a great roleplay, and our characters got along VERY well. We roleplayed a couple more nights on Roblox on the same game, and after a few days, A g...
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{ "description": "not being comfortable doing a scantly clad photo shoot with an entire family around", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being comfortable doing a scantly clad photo shoot with an entire family around?
So I do photography as a hobby. And one area of photography I want experience in is “boudoir” which is usually in lingerie or tastefully nude. It’s meant to celebrate the beauty of the human body. Not pornographic. I want to be clear about that. My friend that I’ll call Lily wants to be the subject of a boudoir shoot ...
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{ "description": "punching a guy who creeped out underage girls", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for punching a guy who creeped out underage girls?
I come from a rural area where everybody knows anybody and tonight I was out partying in a nearby town. I came to a scene where apparently two guys had kept a girl who I know(I also know her parents, if that matters) and two of her friends(all three are minors) from being brought home by the police by saying they were ...
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{ "description": "refusing to let homeless \"friend\" even visit my place", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to let homeless "friend" even visit my place?
So yeah. I have this not really friend, more like a friend of a friend. I barely know him, but sadly, he got dumped by his GF and is now homeless. The problem is I live with my parents and can't really make those decisions. Another problem is that he is like 23 and I´m barely 18. Now, had it been a really close friend,...
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{ "description": "kicking a kid who may have mild autism out of my table group", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking a kid who may have mild autism out of my table group
I'm in an art class in school and I sit next to about 3 close friends. There was this one kid who we believed had mild autism that would usually just sit by himself. One day, he comes over to our group and asks if he could sit with us, obviously, we let him sit with us since none of us had anything against him. This is...
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