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{ "description": "walking in on my roommate with his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for walking in on my roommate with his girlfriend?
A little backstory, I go to college and me and my roommate share a room. Not very big, just enough to fit 2 beds, 2 dressers, 2 desks, and 2 closets. This morning I got a text from him saying he wants to get the room so he and his girlfriend want the room to themselves from 8:30-10, promising to not go any longer than ...
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{ "description": "refusing to show pictures of my Comic Con weekend at work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for refusing to show pictures of my Comic Con weekend at work?
Throwaway account because I openly share my reddit account everywhere. ​ Upcoming weekend I'm going to one of the biggest Comic Cons europe has to offer. I'm going with a couple of friends and we all cosplay. We got a lot planned this weekend, including group cosplays and some photoshoots. ​ I...
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{ "description": "bullying someone who bullied me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for bullying someone who bullied me?
Back in freshman year I was 5"7 and really fat, And this one kid used to always cup me in front of my friends or whenever he saw me but then the next year I had a growth spurt or something and I was 6"3 200 pounds and he tried to do it again but I grabbed his arm and twisted it really bad and everyone started to laugh ...
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{ "description": "watching Orange is the New Black with a 14 f even though I am 23 m", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for watching Orange is the New Black with a 14 F even though I am 23 M
So this happened a few months ago but my family (who I am living with) was housing (they paid for their food, and helped around the house but did not pay rent) a Spanish co-worker for a few months and his family for the final month, we were happy to do this. ​ I am 23 and their daughter was 14, we decide...
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{ "description": "asking my mom to put gas in the car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mom to put gas in the car?
So, tonight, my dad and I were out and we took my mom’s car. He asked me to take his for fuel when we returned home. We discovered my mom had taken it. Not a problem, they share the vehicles. I call my mom and nicely ask her to put gas in the car (has like a 1/16 of a tank). She replies “It has enough for your dad to g...
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{ "description": "being concerned about my best friend's relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being concerned about my best friend's relationship?
If you want the full story check out the post I made on [r/relationship\_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice) [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/b0l9ex/my_ex_best_friend_17f_cut_me_off_because_i_was/) *(recommended for full context)* My bestfriend, who's 17, cut me off becaus...
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{ "description": "asking my partner to not express his phobias in front our children", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my partner to not express his phobias in front our children?
We are getting married with my partner soon and we want to start a family. He has a very bad phobia of going to the doctor, getting tests done, being diagnosed etc. probably because of his traumatic experiences. Through high school/early college he had multiple lung surgeries that left him with many scars. Couple of da...
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AITA? My girlfriend thinks North Dakota might not exist
Alright, so at some point tonight North Dakota was mentioned. It might have been on Facebook, TV, maybe someone mentioned it, I honestly can’t remember. However, my girlfriend announces that she read something about how North Dakota was a conspiracy, and how it was just a big cover up for something. She couldn’t answer...
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{ "description": "changing play style", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for changing play style
A few things before the story because not everyone knows Ark: Tribe- clan Alpha- largest/strongest tribe that makes the rules A friend and I both started playing this game called Ark Survival Evolved on pc a little over 2 years ago or so. The objective of the game is to build up a base, tame dinosaurs, beat bosses bu...
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{ "description": "acting \"weird\" in front of my boyfriend's coworkers when they're making no effort to engage me and are generally ignoring my existence", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for acting "weird" in front of my boyfriend's coworkers when they're making no effort to engage me and are generally ignoring my existence
tl;dr my boyfriend works in the forestry sector and one of his co-workers is leaving, so today his company had a leaving meal. Afterwards two other co-workers came past my boyfriend and I's flat and I was invited to go out with a coffee with them. We go out to a coffee shop and I didn't end up having a very nice time...
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{ "description": "being upset that my wife is going to Italy w/out me", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being upset that my wife is going to Italy w/out me?
A few months ago my wife attended a school meeting for my will be middle school daughter to go on a 8-10 day trip to Italy as apart of a school group at the cost of ~5K USD. Cool, right...It's expensive for us but it's an experience we'd both like out daughter to have. Last week I started to ask about chaperone...
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{ "description": "refusing to go to church with my mom", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to go to church with my mom
I was raised in a Catholic family and have never felt a connection with the religion or any kind of religion. I am no longer religious now that I am older and self sufficient. I keep my views to myself and mind my own business. I live on my own in a different state from my family now. Whenever I go back to visit or w...
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{ "description": "not wanting my wife to leave me alone with our kids 2-4 nights per week", "pronormative_score": 202, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for not wanting my wife to leave me alone with our kids 2-4 nights per week?
Let me start by saying that I do absolutely plan on talking to my wife about this, but I wanted a reality check first to see if my perspective on the issue is wrong. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have 2 kids, a 3 year old and a 6 month old. Ever since my wife was 5, she's danced as a hobby and eve...
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{ "description": "telling people they shouldn't walk their dogs off leash", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling people they shouldn't walk their dogs off leash?
I live in Harlem. It is a very busy area, there is a lot of traffic at all hours of the day. Often when I'm walking my dog - always on a leash - there are people out walking their dogs without leashes. Usually their dog will then run up to my dog and get right in her face. My dog doesn't bite, but she is a senior rescu...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at my metalhead co-worker", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being pissed off at my metalhead co-worker?
This last week I was working out of towm with another co-worker who is a metal head. We were staying in a work house together and this guy is really into metal music and felt the need to share it with everyone around him. It was spewing out of his room, you could hear it through out the house. When he took a shower in ...
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AITA in this situation of my best girl friend leaving me?
I'm a freshman in high school, very depressed and lonely freshman. I make music and smoke a lot of weed and shit. I'm a pretty disappointing person. First day of high school, I met "SM". SM was very nice to me and was just so innocent yet I really connected with her. Before I go to bed every night there's a few people ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she's the reason her relationships always fail", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my friend she’s the reason her relationships always fail?
So, I (20F) have been friends with C (20F) since we were little kids. She’s always had a very demanding attitude. She’s the definition of “It’s my way or the highway!” and she honestly is crazy when she’s in relationships. She used to date this guy, M, in high school. They broke up because she cheated on him with a gu...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my bf for unlocking a character on my copy of Smash Bros Ultimate", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for getting mad at my BF for unlocking a character on my copy of Smash Bros Ultimate?
So for Christmas, my brother got me a Nintendo Switch and Smash Ultimate, which I had been so excited to play! Since the switch was completely mine, unlike the wii that my brother and I shared, I was really excited to play through the game by myself. When we played brawl, I was too young and bad at the game to play the...
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{ "description": "getting excited when discussing plans to move away from his ex wifes, home state. hes divorced with kids", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA getting excited when discussing plans to move away from his ex wifes, home state. Hes divorced with kids
Hes divorced with kids. He loves them very very much. The divorce was only 6 months ago. I also ended a long term relationship at the same time. I do not have kids. We both discuss how we live in this small town with no opportunity for income growth. But our financial needs grow especially while his ex states she needs...
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{ "description": "being frustrated by my girlfriends bipolar", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated by my girlfriends bipolar
I love my girlfriend and she’s great, we have a brilliant relationship most of the time until her bipolar flares up. Today at 3.am she rung me up while I was sleeping, I woke up and answered and she proceeded to say I didn’t care about her and I wanted other girls than her, then she said she hated me and never wanted t...
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{ "description": "wanting girlfriend to block her friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting girlfriend to block her friend?
So my (18M) girlfriend(26F) and I are in a LDR and have been together for 11 months. We met in a game and will be meeting up in about a week actually. So my gf was playing a game became friends with this guy online, i have no problem with her having guy friends, i trust her. However, I want her to block this guy becaus...
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{ "description": "talking to a guy who asked out my sister", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to a guy who asked out my sister?
We're twins at 19. We're both on the spectrum and I've had very little experience with boys, she's had none at all whatsoever. She never liked him and rejected him and talks about how awkward it is that he asked her out. 3 days ago I saw him in town and he started talking to me. He didn't seem to have any ill feelings ...
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{ "description": "avoiding someone I was mildly scared of", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding someone I was mildly scared of?
I (M, 16) am currently in some deep shit. ​ About a year ago during lunch, I was in a debate with my friends about whether purple was a color or not. Don't ask what the argument was, because I could not tell you for the life of me. I had just gotten back from buying my lunch and sat down at the table with ...
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{ "description": "showing up for free food and leaving", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I show up for free food and leave?
Hey guys, standard broke college student here. So, the university offers free food for students that show up and listen to a presentation. Sometimes the presentation requires chatting in small groups / other participation, and it usually lasts an hour long. WIBTA if I show up for the free food and leave because...
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{ "description": "just snitching on my class for cheating", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA? I just snitched on my class for cheating?
I am currently in the hardest class of my life, MKTG 3100. It shouldn’t be this hard but my professor belongs on a different subreddit. I have never worked so hard for a C in my life (I’ve never gotten a C until now either) I was consistently making scores in the bottom % of the class and kept trying to study harder to...
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AITA for tellibg my brother to tell his nurse he smoked weed
So some important context is I'm a regular stoner much to the dissapointed of my mother. She hasn't been happy about my smoking habits but recognizes she can't actually stop me. She refuses to believe any new studies that come out about weed and still believes a lot of lies spread from the war on drugs. She still is ho...
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{ "description": "thinking that my relationship with my girlfriend was over", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for thinking that my relationship with my girlfriend was over?
Alright so lemme get some context here. My girlfriend, soon to be ex, is a bitch and causes trouble for no good reason. I have an ex who still likes me but I don't feel the same way anymore. Girlfriend will be named Nash. So basically Nash always makes a big deal out of something that won't happen and we always argu...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend not to get gauges", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend not to get gauges?
My (25 F) boyfriend (26 M) currently has no body mods and neither do I. When we met, I made it very clear that I don't like them because I think they're trashy. I know some people like them, which is fine, but I personally do not. We've been dating for about three years and nothing much has changed since then until jus...
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{ "description": "accidentally taking a parking space", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for accidentally taking a parking space?
This happened yesterday and I’m still a bit shaken up over it. For some context, I’m 16, so I’m not the best driver. It was also a pretty crowded parking lot, I guess Trader Joe’s is the spot to be at 5pm on a Tuesday. I was looking for a parking spot with my friend so we could meet up with another friend to go grocer...
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{ "description": "not helping my coworkers out with every tiny bit of work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping my coworkers out with every tiny bit of work?
So I work in the german military. Its a simple office job. In the offices next to mine there are several coworkers but each one of us is working in different departments. Everyone of us is in the military for at least 10 years and more then 2 years in our department. Up to this day they still come to my office asking...
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{ "description": "asking my family to turn their phone notifications off when I'm around", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my family to turn their phone notifications off when I’m around?
(English isn’t my first language so excuse and grammar mistakes) So, a bit of backstory. I have a condition called Misophonia which translates to a ‘hatred of sound’. Basically, certain sounds that may sound normal to other people like the sound of typing on the computer, eating, and snapping your fingers trigger an e...
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{ "description": "collecting rent to in laws living in my house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for collecting rent to In laws living in my house??
Ok long story short, in February 2017 the father of my wife asks me to support them temporally because he had to move to the city (he has just got a government contract, and as he didn't know how long is was going to be. OK I agree to not be the asshole. Time past and they only pay for utilities (almost all of them...
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{ "description": "saying \"no\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying “no”?
I know this sounds dumb, but I genuinely want to know if you consider me the asshole in this situation: I was playing Clash of Clans (a mobile game). I was talking on the global chat, and this one Bangladeshi guy kept spamming “join join join”, so eventually I told him, “No”. Apparently, that was a mistake. A town ha...
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{ "description": "being upset about being uninvited to a party", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset about being uninvited to a party?
About a month ago, a girl in my friend group invited me and the other girls (six of them) to her birthday party that is tonight. I was super excited. I helped pay for this super expensive gift. I was gonna bring food. It was awesome. Well about a week ago the girl hosting the party texted me and said I wasn’t allow...
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{ "description": "creating a positive attitude to the point of dis-ingenuity", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for creating a positive attitude to the point of dis-ingenuity?
For context I'm 24M So I've been playing team sports for a year (basketball, volleyball etc.) with some friends at social competitions and I always strive to be the best player I can be. Recently in one of the games I did quite poorly and as a result I looked quite down/sad on the court which translated to a down/depr...
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Aita with my Roommate
So to start with some background Information, I live in a dorm style setting where I am forced to share a room with another person. We have the same job, and our schedules vary wildly from day to day, we could have to be at work at literally any time of the day. In many situations that would normally be common ...
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{ "description": "not watching my Mom's girlfriend grandchildren", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not watching my Mom's girlfriend grandchildren?
AITA for not watching my Mom's girlfriend grandchildren? ​ I live in a house with my mother, her girlfriend, my younger brother and sister, and my mother's girlfriend two kids. We're all over 18 and we all work while we attend school. My mother and I have two dogs from before she began a relationship with ...
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{ "description": "leaving my so while he is in prison", "pronormative_score": 181, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison?
A bit of context: I have been with my SO for 5 years. I am now 22 and he’s 25. We got engaged last year. Around the same time, he got sent to prison for getting involved with drugs. He can’t afford a good lawyer, so his sentence ended up to be 10+ years. I was devastated but I knew that I wanted to support him. I tol...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay and work on a house we are renting", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to pay and work on a house we are renting?
Two of my roommates have been complaining about it being cold in the house so they wanted to go buy weather stripping, foam sealant and some other stuff to keep the house warmer. I told them from the start I thought it was dumb to do this for a house we rent, and the fact we will 100% not be living in the same place w...
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{ "description": "ghosting all my old friends", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ghosting all my old friends?
Broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years about 9 or 10 months ago. She started dating one of my friends 3 months ago. I figured if either of them gave a shit about how I felt they wouldn't do that so I told my former friend I'm done with him and didn't wanna see him again. (Keep in mind he and the rest of my friends were...
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{ "description": "making my mom cry because she goes through my spending history", "pronormative_score": 134, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for making my mom cry because she goes through my spending history?
Since Ive had a bank account its been in a joint account with my mom. Growing up this was not a bad idea because if i needed money she could always just put money into my account no problem. Now im currently 25 and I moved out of the house and to the otherside of the country when I was 21(partially because of my cont...
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AITA Can a gift be TOO expensive to accept?
AITA ... I did something nice for a close family member. In return they bought me a $500 Michael Kors bag I have been eyeing. I probably should mention that the gifter can easily afford to give this gift without any financial hardship. BUT I also could afford to buy the purse myself (without and financial hardship) an...
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{ "description": "telling an old lady she shouldn't be driving & to fuck off after she tried to scold me and hit my car for being on my phone while parked", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling an old lady she shouldn’t be driving & to fuck off after she tried to scold me and hit my car for being on my phone while parked?
Today I drove my brother to the convenience store to pull out money, as I parked waiting for my brother I noticed an old lady get out of her vehicle beside me, holding a cane to walk as she went into the store. I started browsing my phone while waiting for my brother and the lady came out of the store before him, knock...
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{ "description": "flipping out at a coworker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flipping out at a coworker
Hey all, So today at work there was a bit of an incident. I was working with some coworkers on a project, when one of them who had previously left the room sneaked up behind me and attempted to make me lose balance by pushing in the back of my knees. I stumbled a bit as I was extremely startled, but once I regained my...
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{ "description": "telling my parents off", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for telling my parents off?
tl;dr My kid is sick and rather than being available to watch my other kid while we go to the doctor, my parents intend to watch my sister's kids while she puts down her horse and/or takes a recreational trip. ​ My wife and I have 2 kids, 1 and 3. The three year old had a cold and croupy cough over the la...
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{ "description": "yelling at my teacher for complaining about social media and young people", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at my teacher for complaining about social media and young people?
My teacher today during class was listening to a conversation I was having with my friend. We were talking about Instagram and who we follow and the teacher comes up and says that following people is douchy and stalkerish. My friend and I explain we follow people to look at posts we enjoy and to see what other people a...
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{ "description": "yelling at my older cousin because of his autistic son", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for yelling at my older cousin because of his autistic son?
So my older cousin has a SLIGHTLY (borderline debatably) autistic son who I’ve sort of grew up with and been around a majority of my life. This kid is obsessed with me. I used to be heavier (246) and for the past year and a half I’ve been dieting and promoting a more healthy lifestyle (down 75 pounds, go me!) And wha...
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WIBTA is I recorded the conversations I have with my manager?
The manager at my work is an asshole. He is incompetent, misuses his power, sit at his desk all day and is the person who acts friendly in your face but talks shit about you in the back. Although opinion widely shared throughout the company, it’s still my opinion. That have being said. One times a employee wants to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend time or talk to my best friend because of his dating habits", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to spend time or talk to my best friend because of his dating habits?
My best friend has seen me through so much and I’ve been there for him as much as he allows anyone to be. Except the difference being I’ve grown and matured through my experiences and am working on bettering myself. Im not where near done or perfect but I keep trying. He on the other hands keeps making the same mistake...
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{ "description": "getting pissed the neighbors allow their kids to play in my yard", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting pissed the neighbors allow their kids to play in my yard?
AITA for getting pissed that my neighbors 2 doors down (we live in an unfenced townhouse complex) allow their toddler to play in my backyard while they are in theirs 2 doors down? To elaborate, I have 3 kids. Ages 2, 3 and 11. I also provide weekday care for 2 other kids. My yard has a ton of toys including ride ons, a...
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{ "description": "reporting my neighbors", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting my neighbors?
Parents, I want your opinion especially - I have lived in apartments pretty much my whole life and I was always taught to be respectful of downstairs neighbors. Mind you my dad wasn't the best example of parenting in the world, but he always told me to stop running or stomping or jumping or playing my music too loud i...
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{ "description": "yelling at my cheating mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for yelling at my cheating mom?
As a preface, my mother hasn't been the best parent for basically my entire life. My grandparents have had to step in to help and take care of us. A little over 10 years ago, she married a quiet guy with my sense of humor. Recently, I found out she's been cheating on him for a while from my grandma. We're a pretty reli...
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{ "description": "reporting my cousin and her husband for identity theft", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For reporting my cousin and her husband for identity theft
Over the last few years I have had a lot of family deaths and met a lot of family at funerals I haven't seen in a long time. One of them was my cousin. A college student recently married. The man she married is a person who came to the US on a visa to go to school, when he finished school he decided he didn't want to...
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{ "description": "telling my sister she shouldn't yell at my niece so much", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my sister she shouldn't yell at my niece so much?
So I was on the phone with my sister just a little bit ago talking about whatever and in the background I hear my niece who is \~2 years old. She's obviously playing and exploring like kids do, but I hear my sister scold her a few times for walking on furniture and being loud in general because she's a kid and they do ...
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{ "description": "asking to get paid", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking to get paid?
So recently the I posted here that my father and I had a pretty significant fight. We have since talked a lot and come to compromises. The issue here is he now wants me to come work with him. I wouldn't mind, but I'm working a full 19 credit hour schedule, and I'm planning on working 30 paid hours a week. The goal is ...
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{ "description": "dating 2 people at once without telling them", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I date 2 people at once without telling them?
My ‘boyfriend’ and I have had a turbulent relationship. When we first started dating, he told me he was broken up with his ex but still friends. Except he was so paranoid about her finding out about me which I found strange. We’ve been together for 4 years and throughout this time I’ve found out that he was in fact che...
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{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 11 }
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{ "description": "talking to asiatic people in english", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I talked to asiatic people in english?
A friend of mine is Vietnamese, and he complains that people tend talk to him in english (we're in a french/german speaking country) because he is asiatic. There seems to be a cliché that asiatic people are tourists and don't understand French or German. WIBTA if I used english by default with asiatic people?
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{ "description": "refusing to buy my friend a new ball", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to buy my friend a new ball?
This story is gonna sound pretty childish so let me give you guys some backstory. I have a friend, let's call him Chris. Okay so Chris and I are both sophomores in college attending our local community college in Northern California. (go Kings!) We have been friends since 8th grade and are both in a friend group that...
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{ "description": "asking for a prenup to protect my assets", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for a prenup to protect my assets
This was seversl years ago but brought up by friends because my ex is apparently still mentioning it to mutual friends. I was seriouscwith her to the point of talking marriage. No date was set but we were looking at keast 18 months to two years in the future. She wanted a big wedding and time to save money was neede...
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{ "description": "being not sure I can be friends with a girl I like anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - I’m not sure I can be friends with a girl I like anymore
This girl started working at the same place as me and for some reason we got very close very quickly, staying out until 7am together (we work in a bar so our work finishes at 5) just talking, eventually we start meeting out of work, she comes to my house and I go to hers, I sleep over a few times and we cuddle and watc...
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{ "description": "telling my sister that she'll regret going back to work", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 83 }
AITA for telling my sister that she'll regret going back to work
My little sister and I have been close for our entire lives, and I have tried to give her guidance and advice where I can. In this situation, I have 2 children that I stayed home with for the first year of each of their lives, and I'm grateful that I had a job that gave me the ability to do so. My sister and her husban...
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{ "description": "chewing out my friend/coworker for calling my work ethic into question", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For chewing out my friend/coworker for calling my work ethic into question?
Some History: So about a month ago, I was promoted to Night Shift Team Lead at a distributing company I work for. My coworker who I became good friends with while working here also interviewed for the position. He did *not* get the position, but I did. I NJ had voiced concern over there being hard feelings in a situa...
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{ "description": "being upset that my husband likes to spend all his money gambling", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my husband likes to spend all his money gambling?
I am not sure if this is where this goes but as the title says. AITA for thinking it’s wrong that every cent he has goes to gambling? (It goes into the hundreds of dollars per paycheck). No matter what financial situation we are in and also no matter what we may need for children, household, bills etc? Although he d...
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{ "description": "telling a guy I like him a lot and then start talking to another guy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling a guy I like him a lot and then start talking to another guy
So I'm in high school and i don't really date around much. I ended up talking to this guy I went to middle school with, and when highschool came, he moved to another school in the area. One night we were talking and out of no where I told him I kinda like. it's been about three months now and we're still in the "talkin...
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{ "description": "saying no to living with a stranger for 2 months", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying no to living with a stranger for 2 months?
I work at a big accounting firm in auditing, so my job involves a bit of travelling. This means hotels, and we are responsible for booking them so long as the price is within company policy which is fine. ​ However, I was told on Monday I would be going to a city over 1,000 miles away for 2 months. Not id...
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{ "description": "being mad at my aunt", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my aunt?
Back in January I got hired at a local Chick-fil-A, but got let go after about 10 days. My initial contract stated that during my first 30 days I could be let go at any time if they felt I wasn't the right "fit". Probably worth mentioning that I have Asperger's, so while I picked up on the technical skills like the PO...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate not to pick his nose", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my roommate not to pick his nose?
I’m a university freshman and my roommate picks his nose, about half the time he throws whatever he picks out in the trash and half the time (when he thinks I’m not looking) just flicks it away. But he never washes his hands after. I asked him if he could use a tissue, or at the very least wash his hands when he was d...
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{ "description": "having my 13 year old brother sell merchandise for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I had my 13 year old brother sell merchandise for me?
I run a YouTube channel with a couple thousand subscribers, and I decided to start making shirts and other merchandise. My little brother loves the channel, and apparently so do his friends. I was already planning on employing my friend to sell shirts in person with commision. My brother wants in too. I set up all the ...
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{ "description": "refusing to be adopted by my stepfather", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I refuse to be adopted by my stepfather?
I am the 19 year old only child of a single mother, who was very young when she got pregnant. She has never been specially interested or caring about me, and left me with my grandparents (her parents) so that they would rise me. My father never really cared about me. However, he must pay child support (because of a l...
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{ "description": "kicking people out of my life out of nowhere", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For kicking people out of my life out of nowhere?
So, long story short: Lately I've been cutting contact completely with a lot of people, friends, close friends, etc. I keep questioning myself if I am being a bad person but sadly it's been a long time since I was this happy. It's like I am in the middle of a period of time where I keep on reflecting about my life and ...
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{ "description": "continuing a friendship with whom I dislike, even though they believe we're close", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for continuing a friendship with whom I dislike, even though they believe we’re close
So we’ve known each other for around 3 years, and we only started talking because of mutual friends. She gets quite annoyed when she sees arguments around her and quite often adds fuel to the fire, cries, and then proceeds to storms off (a wee hypocritical); at the start I would go after her, comfort her etc. because I...
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{ "description": "wanting to go abroad alone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to go abroad alone
First of I made a throw away Reddit account for this post as my partner checks my social media ( not in a creepy possessive way but because some times I upload picture of my pet that I don't send to her because she likes to see how cute he is, as they call it Reddit exclusive posts) I'm M 24 they're F 21 and we have b...
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{ "description": "not forgiving some of my daughter's debt", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 58 }
AITA for not forgiving some of my daughter's debt?
My daughter and her husband have two kids that are in a parochial school. He is an electrician and she was in medical. She was laid off and they decided to take the kids out of parochial school and put them into public. I didn't want to see that happen so I loaned them over $10,000 for tuition, book, lunch,etc so the k...
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{ "description": "hooking up with my friends best friend when he told me it would feel ''weird''", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for hooking up with my friends best friend when he told me it would feel ''weird''?
Yes this is very odd but let me give you guys a little background on this. So my friend, let's just call him ''Dave'' and I went on barely two dates 5 years ago. We never had sex and we barely got intimate at all, we kissed twice on the second date and after that he cut off the contact with me for basically not being...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend not to let a guy walk her", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend not to let a guy walk her?
So, there's this guy, let's call him Alex. Let's call my girlfriend Jacky Let's start with some backstory: So I started dating Jacky 5 months ago during the summer; we were close friends before we were dating. During the summer we would work together at a program, it's how I got so close to her. School starts, ...
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{ "description": "taking the neighbours laundry out of the washing machine so I can use it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking the neighbours laundry out of the washing machine so I can use it.
For context we live in an apartment block with a shared laundry that has one machine. I needed to wash my clothes for work so I removed their clothes from the machine after waiting and checking if they where still sitting in the machine washed for the proceeding hour. I hung them outside in the sun. A friend suggested ...
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{ "description": "not hounding my cousin about plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't hound my cousin about plans?
Throwaway because my cousin knows my reddit. My cousin and I are close; she's a few years older than I and we live in the same city and have similar hobbies. My bf (who she is also close with) and I invited her to a concert tomorrow for a band we all LOVE about four or five months ago. My cousin is known for bein...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to not disclose her seizure disorder to her boss unless she has one at work", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to not disclose her seizure disorder to her boss unless she has one at work?
My gf has a variety of medical issues, notably bipolar and a seizure disorder (not sure which one). She works part time at a doggie daycare. She had a seizure on the 20th. Her work is now informing her she cannot return to work until she is 3 months seizure free, or at the end of June. AITA for encouraging her not to...
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{ "description": "being open about how I feel in our friendship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being open about how I feel in our friendship?
I(17M) am in study hall with my best friend(16F) and we start talking about her story she is writing). She started the conversation, and it goes on for 30 mins. I try having a different conversation with her and she either says shut up or I dont care(This has happened on different occasions, but its somewhat apart of ...
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{ "description": "requesting a different server at the bar for weekly trivia", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA to request a different server at the bar for weekly trivia?
Every Wednesday a group of friends and I go the bar for trivia night. The same two servers always work trivia night. One is a great server and the other is absolutely miserable. Regularly gives wrong drinks to wrong people, gets orders wrong, you've got to ask for a water three times before it comes etc etc. This past ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my dad for not getting a new job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my dad for not getting a new job?
My dad got laid off before Christmas last year and ever since he hasn't even looked for a new job. His company said he would help him get a new job and he gets unemployment but it's not enough as my mom has to work a shitton to make ends meet now. All my dad really does now is watch tv all day. I can see my dads point...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get married until my SO starts contributing to a retirement savings", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to get married until my SO starts contributing to a retirement savings?
Been dating my SO (25F) for five years and it has been awesome. Both her and our families have been starting to hint at marriage happening soon, especially since she is turning 26 in a year and will be kicked off her parent's health insurance. My biggest hesitation is that she isn't financially future planning. I (25...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "wanting to move away from my good-hearted, but not great housemates", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move away from my good-hearted, but not great housemates?
I'm a college student and live with four other housemates. I moved in with friends and they come from difficult backgrounds. I'm conflicted because they're actually good, ambitious, hardworking people and care about me, but I want to be around people who are, I guess in my terms, better. I'm uncomfortable with how the ...
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{ "description": "emailing my principal about a teacher", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for emailing my principal about a teacher
Few things for context before story: 1. I am a new student at a rural Michigan school and I moved from Thousand Oaks, California 2. This teacher is very polarizing amongst students due to style of teaching, personality, favoritism, etc. 3. The class is AP Environmental Science (I'll avoid unnecessary science vocabulary...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "refusing therapy", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing therapy?
I literally hate myself so much lol even as I type this I know it’s impulsive and I’ll probably regret it bc I don’t want any police officers coming to my house or anything but I don’t want to go to therapy but my parents really do. I know how much money and heart they spend on me so it makes me feel really bad for th...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "refusing to help my friend with this thing she signed up for and I purposefully avoided signing up for", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for refusing to help my friend with this thing she signed up for and I purposefully avoided signing up for?
Background: I’m a senior at a relatively large American high school. There’s a student-run tradition at my school towards the end of the school year called Senior Assassin. Basically, everyone who wants to participate pitches in a small amount of money. Then each participant is randomly assigned another participant to ...
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{ "description": "not lending my friend money", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not lending my friend money?
He said he needed $150 because he recently organised a trip and was a bit short because of other expenses etc. I have just over $1000 saved up in emergency funds, so it wouldnt be an issue but I have never lent him a big amount of money before. Ive known him for 4 years and he always drops me to and from work, free o...
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AITA, or rather, are my siblings the assholes, for lying to our dad?
So just some context, whenever we had trouble, needed advice, or wanted to talk, we always went to our mother. She was one of the sweetest people we knew, and she always gave good advice. Yes, at times of high stress, she would blow up at us, but that was the outlier, the exception. Unfortunately, she passed quite some...
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{ "description": "asking my wife not to use my drinking glass and bath towel", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my wife not to use my drinking glass and bath towel?
Context. Been married for 11 years, known for 4 years before that, met in high school. This request of mine has pretty much been a thing forever. Whatever drinking glass I use I put in the same place on the window sill above our kitchen sink. I always leave my towel on the towel bar after I shower. I like to know that...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "playing company of heroes with my friend. he says I play pussy game", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I play company of heroes with my friend. He says I play pussy game
Me and my friend played 1v1 on coh2 (company of heroes), and he picked German Wermacht. I counter played him with Soviet Union. He had panzers and bunkers, only way to counter it was mortars and anti-tank artillery. I spammed some of those at early game for taking advantage than pushed him to his base. I barraged him w...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner to get fit but not to fit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting my partner to get fit but not to fit?
TL;DR: I'm sick and my boyfriend is a healthnut since Tuesday. Tuesday this week I got me and my SO contracts at our local fitness studio. That was my Idea that he only reluctantly agreed to. We both were in shape when we met and got fat together. Now we want to change that. Especially I have formed a very negative s...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend for going to Thailand without me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry at my friend for going to Thailand without me?
A friend of my boyfriend's older brother is working in Thailand at the moment and offered, that we could stay at her place. My bf (18) is just doing different internships, cause heute doesn't know what He wants to do and I(19) am working and don't have vacation until august. I suggested, we could go there together when...
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{ "description": "finding a new hobby after my friends grandmother dies", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding a new hobby after my friends grandmother dies
So my friend and I met years ago online and we roleplay, like basically write stories together and we have years worth of original works together and that’s what sparked our friendship and holds it together, it’s like our thing in common and what we do. I have a very very one track mind. I can’t do multiple hobbies at ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share a post that says \"share if cancer sucks\"", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share a post that says “share if cancer sucks”
I’ve been seeing [This post](https://www.instagram.com/prettylou11/p/BvAIwJGgPHX/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=7chppkl31ua) floating around on people’s instagram stories. It’s mostly kids I go to school with. To me they obviously have their heart in the right place and what they’re doing is no harm to anyone. B...
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{ "description": "calling this guy in my group a dick after he threw a tantrum", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling this guy in my group a dick after he threw a tantrum?
Little bit of context for ya; I went on this camp with about 40 people in our troop, all about 12-15, and in each troop there is 6 patrols. Now I was the leader of one of the patrols and we had this guy in our group, (lets call him E). I had already met E and he was about 13, and I knew beforehand that he had anger is...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "agreeing with Reddit", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for agreeing with Reddit?
So yesterday mods banned r/watchpeopledie and r/gore, which I think was a long time coming. People keep calling it censorship, but it’s not like the mods went around hand picking opinions they didn’t like and took those out, they simply got rid of some of the darker shit on the site. I’ve always thought those subs were...
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{ "description": "cutting off an online friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off an online friend?
This post might be unnecessary but just wanna make sure. So i met this girl online and we start chatting and everything seemed fine like every normal convo should go, but after a month or so she starts getting more flirty and more sexual, and asked me if i was interested in dating her. I just wanna say that im not on...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "screaming a Trans persons legal name in a crowd", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for screaming a Trans persons legal name in a crowd?
So for some context I work security at a casino, you must be 18 to gamble so I have to ID people. Now to the story. I just get done ID'ing this group of 5 guys when I see this women that looks like she is trying to sneak onto the floor so I run to catch up to her, say "Ma'am I need to see your I.D." She looks up at me...
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{ "RIGHT": 30, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "being mad at my coworkers", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being mad at my coworkers?
Ok. So, I work at a certain big box hardware chain as a plumbing/kitchen/bath associate. I've been working in this department for almost 9 months now, and preform to the best of my abilities. During many of my shifts, I am on the sales floor with my department manager. She oftentimes leaves me alone with a confusing/...
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{ "description": "not always wanting to deal with my SO's emotions", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not always wanting to deal with my SO's emotions?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years. We both struggle with anxiety and depression, though when we first started dating I was not getting help/treatment, but he was. I have gotten help and with medication and therapy, I'm at a pretty great place mentally now, I think. He still has struggles; he stoppe...
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OTHER
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