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valorous and lionhearted Right now commit to dying fearlessly
Chronic accelerated heart rate is a state of vigilance guarding against impending death
But we generalize this to everyday life by resorting to high resting heart rates with our bosses
friends and family We are living as if we are about to die Using the stethoscope you are
feeling the very essence of your apologetic submissiveness Know that your racing heart is not
helping to keep you alive Rather it is keeping you in the land of no tomorrow Surrendering
your cardiac unrest will extract you from a world of death struggle for survival and animals
ravaging and annihilating each other
The next time you feel your heart beating out of your chest focus on it Accept it
befriend it love it It is not there to hurt you It is literally giving you energy and power Within a
few moments you can transform that throbbing feeling of impending doom into motivation
People with anxiety tend to be afraid of the sensations involved in stress Dont let adrenaline
scare you Desensitize yourself to the discomfort by not overreacting to it as you did in
Exercise Learn to delight in it and feel comfortable in uncomfortable physiological states
Rather than being afraid of the energy think about how you are going to channel it
Vigorous exercise can raise your heart rate to around its maximum But when you exercise
vigorously you dont feel crushed by panic Instead you feel vitalized It feels normal for your
heart to speed up during exercise But when your heart speeds up in the absence of exercise
you become afraid When this happens tell yourself that your body preparing for exercise is
nothing to fear The more you exercise the more comfortable you become with the sensations
involved in rapid heart rate Keep in mind that athletes have lower resting heart rates often as
low as to beats per minute Consistently training the heart muscle causes it to push more
blood out with each beat meaning that it does not need to beat as often The more exercise
you get the slower your heart will beat
Take the warrior approach to panic Luxuriate in the thumping Instead of causing you to
withdraw in resignation the beating should make you approach in ascendency As discussed in
the last chapter appraise it as rising to a challenge rather than descending to a threat
Afterward if you need to take a run around the neighborhood to burn up any remaining
negative energy
Vagal Tone is a Measure of Calm
This section and the next will introduce two more medical concepts vagal tone and HRV They
add detail to the present discussion and highlight the physiological benefits of paced breathing
Vagal tone is a measure of the activity of your vagus nerve the nerve responsible for
calming you The vagus nerve transmits a relaxing signal from the brainstems medulla
oblongata to much of your body This large diffuse cluster of nerves branches out from the
brainstem down to the bladder affecting several organ systems along the way It affects
the heart spleen bronchioles lungs stomach pancreas liver gall bladder intestines
ureters and more
The vagus nerve also connects the heaas brain with the guts brain and the hearts brain
It calms them Its name comes from the Latin word vagus meaning vagrant or wanderer
Chapter Listen to Your Heart and Gut
because it is so long and has so many branches The activity of this nerve calming multiple
organ systems is called vagal tone High vagal tone is associated with autonomic balance
emotional stability lowered inflammation and better cardiovascular health Low vagal tone
causes the opposite
Illustration Path of the vagus nerve from brain to intestines
Interoception Exercise Compressing the Internal Organs
Lay over a large firm ball and press it gently into your stomach A soccer ball volleyball or
basketball work well You can do this lying on the floor or in bed The easiest way is to stand
or kneel by the corner of a bed Place the basketball on that corner of the mattress and drape
the upper half of your body over it Either way you want to have good control of how deeply
you press the ball into your abdominal cavity It is important to be stable and comfortable
You should also try using your fingers to press into your abdomen Situate your hands as in
the illustration below Press your fingertips into your belly especially the area around the
belly button Anywhere that burns lightly should be massaged Compress release repeat
You do not want to do any damage to your internal organs You can use static compression or
active percussion but either way press carefully This is much slower firmer and deeper
than the abdominal percussion from Exercise
Many athletic coaches and trainers recommend a similar gut smash technique to mobilize
the abdominal muscles Some massage therapists call it visceral manipulation People are
using it safely However this technique like many of those in this book has not been tested
on large populations in medical studies A certain proportion of people may seriously injure
themselves using it Again as with all Program Peace exercises you should discontinue and
seek medical counsel if you have any discomfort after performing the exercise
The discomfort that this causes in your stomach may be intense at first Proceed gently and
focus on applying firm pressure to the abdomen from the bottom of the ribs to the pelvis
Pressure applied around the lower ribs will also help you manipulate the diaphragm You
should notice that the tension in your stomach will not give in to the massage unless you are
breathing slow smooth breaths When it does it should feel warm pleasurable and relieving
almost like voiding a full bladder Relax pace your breaths and use abdominal
compression to unwind the vice clenching your innards
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
Illustration Visceral massage gently reaches into and compresses internal organs
Mammals have a unique branch of the vagus nerve that supports social engagement
It connects with the larynx to modulate your tone of voice and with the head to make facial
expressions emotionally appropriate When active your vagus nerve makes your voice and face
friendly and approachable When it is at its most active your voice relaxes and you may notice
an improved ability to use melody and prosody When the vagus nerve is active we enjoy a
physiological state that supports spontaneous social engagement and intimacy We feel
outgoing rather than introverted and vibrant without being overly aroused As you might have
guessed the vagus nerve is a pivotal component of the parasympathetic system and is largely
responsible for lowering heart rate breathing rate and blood pressure Vagal tone decreases
heart rate by inhibiting the firing rate of the sinoatrial node the hearts pacemaker Vagal tone
also acts through the phrenic nerve to slow and smoothen the strokes of the diaphragm
When it is active you stop bracing stop feeling the need to send submissive displays and regain
your composure
Low vagal tone makes you feel irritated and restless Vagal tone is reduced when the
amygdala sounds its alarms Many people who live lonely lives also have shorter lives This may
be because loneliness is associated with chronic low vagal tone High vagal tone is the calm
pleasurable feeling you get when petting an animal taking care of small children or looking
after a loved one High vagal tone is correlated with purpose love friendliness compassion
affection and tenderness If you have felt these things before then you know exactly what
vagal tone feels like Imagine that you can feel this branching structure inside you descending
from your emotional brain down to your heart gut and diaphragm You want it to feel warm
and fuzzy as often as possible Allow this feeling to help you debrace
Vagal tone decreases with distressed breathing and increases with diaphragmatic
breathing Slow deep breathing is one of the best ways to stimulate the vagus A range of
biometric responses indicates this For instance diaphragmatic breathing elevates hand
temperature reduces electrodermal response reduces highfrequency beta brainwaves
and increases calming alpha brainwaves It also increases heart rate variability which is our