line
stringlengths
1
117
you will be programming yourself for a slower resting heart rate and providing your heart with
a longer rest period
As you listen through the stethoscope notice that the sound of each heartbeat coincides
with a faint feeling in your chest The stethoscope makes this invisible sensation apparent This
pairing constitutes a form of biofeedback that allows you to understand what your heartbeat
feels like so that you can recognize it in the future even without the auditory cues of the
stethoscope This will help you develop a sense of how fast it is beating Youll be able to
compare the magnitude of the stressors in your environment to the rate of your heart to
determine whether the two are commensurate You should find that your heart is beating in a
way that is out of proportion with most experiences Unless you are having lots of fun or getting
lots of exercise you can allow your heart to beat as slowly as possible
You can use breathholds like those in Exercise to accentuate the sensations coming
from your heart Studies show that meditative breath holding makes participants more aware
of their heartbeat and helps them calm the sympathetic nervous systems reaction to it by
activating the vagus nerve
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
The more time you spend listening the more you will ask yourself There is nothing here
for me to be afraid of so why does it hurt and why is it beating so fast This is the magic
question and if interrogated enough you will have an emotional epiphany that only this
experience can provide Repeatedly inhaling smoothly through several heartbeats in a row
then exhaling through several in a row teaches the heart and your psyche to let go of trauma
recommend performing diaphragmatic breathing for at least five minutes every night before
bed with your stethoscope on find this helps me fall into a deep restful sleep
To Overcome Rapid Heartbeat You Must Overcome Fear of Death
Think of the life you have lived until now as over and as a dead man see whats left as a bonus and live it
according to Nature Love the hand that fate deals you and play it as your own for what could be more fitting
Marcus Aurelius
Interoceptive exposure to your own heart can be dreadful In attending it you will come face to
face with your instinctual fear of death Fear of dying perpetuates much of your hearts
unnecessary exertion The way to escape this situation is to reach full peace with the idea of
dying Do it now Die before you die Then you will have already done it and wont have to
spend a lifetime in fear of it The pain in your heart warning you of impending death will no
longer be informative
Meditate on your mortality Take the time now and convince yourself that you have had a
good life that you have done many worthwhile things and if you were to have a fatal heart
attack this instant you would still feel whole complete and satisfied with your time on the
planet In Hinduism it is common to look forward to death and the liberation it brings is known
as moksha Death is thought to release us from our mundane mortal minds and introduce us to
our permanent essence Moksha and the concepts in the next activity helped me come to grips
with my own eventual demise
Interoception Activity Embrace Your Eternal Nature
have recently found some consolation in the idea of the eternal moment and hope you
can too Modern theoretical physicists as well as philosophers differentiate between
presentism and eternalism The adherents of presentism see the present moment as the only
time that is real They figure that if something happened in the past it is over now
nonexistent and generally unrecoverable Eternalists on the other hand believe that all
moments in time are equally real Eternalists believe that there is no objective present and
that our subjective sense that the past is gone and irretrievable is illusory prefer eternalism
Eternalism is sometimes referred to as the block universe theory because of its description
of spacetime as an unchanging fourdimensional block If you apply this to the human
condition it tells us that all existence in time is equally valid Therefore if you existed at all
you will always exist In other words time is a dimension that our experience is embedded
within but if you could move outside of time and look down on it you could see the entire
timeline and all of your human existence any second of which is just as legitimate as any
other So every one of the moments you ever experienced every decision and every
Chapter Listen to Your Heart and Gut
thought may be eternal happening right now and recorded somewhere in an immutable
temporal continuum This may all sound pretty abstract but why not let it give you some
comfort if not let it make you feel immortal
Allow me some poetic license for the next two paragraphs
We dont fear or mourn the billion years of nonexistence before our birth Why should we
fear the trillions of years that will come after our death We shouldnt especially because
we will continue on in a different form As denizens of planet Earth we are part of the
universe In a very real sense our conscious minds are manifestations of the universe
experiencing itself After we die the universe doesnt die And so we should recognize our
larger identity that we are not only intertwined with all of reality but we are all of reality
There will be an end to our human story and our mortal melodrama However death is not
final We are recycled back into the biosphere resubsumed by the cosmos The matter and
energy that was us will be and already has been transformed into other things Things that
will inevitably interact with the repercussions of the good deeds we performed while alive
Every atom that has ever been a part of you every molecule you have eaten drank or
inhaled belongs to a larger more beautiful system Even the nonmaterial information in your
brain body and DNA belongs to this system Your cerebral cortex will decompose But we
dont need the autobiographical memories inscribed in our brains neural networks to persist
meaningfully You are not merely the character that you have played in your short lifetime
Like a person reading an engrossing novel dont get so wrapped up in your lifes narrative
that you forget your larger role your more permanent selfhood We are much more than a
bag of bones flesh and ego Think of death as an expansion of your sense of being In playing
a part in the macrocosm we are it We are other people we are the birds bees and black
holes You wont fear death if youre aware of your larger eternal identity
was dragged around by a large Rottweiler as a fouryearold The dog grabbed me by the
hood of my jacket and pulled me around a backyard forcefully for a few minutes believe the
dog assaulted me because didnt act afraid of it While the dog was dragging me realized
that might die or be badly hurt felt that if surrendered it might let up Because was
cringing and my heart was racing my body language caused the dog to sense that submitted
and that it won It stopped shortly thereafter It is common for dogs to stop attacking people
that fully capitulate Frightful situations like this one impel an archetype deep in our nervous
system Full submission can save me from death
The ultimate source of submissiveness is that we feel the need to display fear of physical
attack so that our attacker will decide to be merciful We are afraid that if our heart stays slow
and calm our persecutor will kill us for our insolence This is because when our heart speeds
up we involuntarily choke up tremble and give numerous other nonverbal signals of submission
We must renounce the belief that submissive fear will buy us leniency To do so imagine
being viciously attacked by a stranger or a predator Neither panic nor submit Simply imagine
yourself swiftly but calmly taking the steps needed to extract yourself from the danger
Imagine someone or something trying to kill you while you retain total peace Your tormentor is
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
stabbing you and you speak to them plainly and honestly while forcefully grabbing the wrist
that holds the knife The beasts are taking bites from your body and you deftly deliver carefully
placed blows to their noses Your attitude need not be defiant or combative It must simply be