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convinces the other monkeys that it is dominant but only for a few days Before long it will be |
tested exposed as a pretender and likely injured in the process |
Your mammalian brain does not release serotonin and other moodboosting chemicals |
dopamine oxytocin and endorphins whenever you want It uses them to reward you for |
accomplishing specific survival criteria It releases them in spurts when unconscious brain |
circuits perceive an improvement in survival and reproductive prospects Most people are |
frustrated by their inability to fulfill the stringent requirements used by their neurochemical |
guidance system Frustratingly the criteria for attaining happiness chemicals are usually held |
just beyond our reach making it nearly impossible to win and thus impossible to be happy |
This is why using our cortex to try to pry serotonin from our subcortex limbic system often |
leads to selfdestructive statusseeking |
Chapter Serotonin Optimism and Cooperation |
Illustration A One wolf left asserting dominance over another right with a threat display Note that |
the teeth are bared the ears are flattened forward and the hackles are raised The submissive wolf lowers |
its head presses its ears backward splays its legs and turns away to appease the dominant individual |
B Similar body language is seen in cats C Amother chimp protects her baby |
A signal that is constantly on has no informational value Consequently our serotonin |
levels have evolved to fluctuate dramatically and subside quickly Humans spend their entire |
day trying to boost their mood from a brain trying to ration the relevant chemicals for the |
proper circumstances To transcend this we need to choose to feel satisfied with precisely the |
amount of social power we already have By being fully content with whatever level of |
dominance you currently have you give your unconscious the same level of security that comes |
with being an alpha When other people see this healthy nondominating selfsatisfaction |
they will instantly respect you |
Changing your outlook on your wins and losses is essential Otherwise no number of |
victories will satisfy your serotonin system for long Take pleasure in past accomplishments |
no matter how old Think about all the hard work you have put in over your life and feel good |
about it Focus your attention on the small triumphs you have every day Once you learn to |
celebrate each win for a bit longer you will not find yourself hurried into the next risky scheme |
for serotonin Rather than focusing on the most shameful or embarrassing moments |
concentrate on the laurels that stick out in your mind We need to take responsibility for |
coaxing our brains happiness chemicals to change rather than waiting on the world to change |
Serotonin Abundance and Gratitude |
all things work together for good Romans |
Low serotonin promotes fear fleeing and submission in many animals from reptiles to insects |
Even crustaceans such as lobsters utilize serotonin to establish hierarchy We share a common |
ancestor with lobsters over million years ago This shows how ancient our status system is |
In fact it goes back to worms |
In the microscopic roundworm C elegans serotonin acts as a signal that follows the |
discovery of a new grazing area When the worm finds food serotonin acts to slow down its |
incessant burrowing and activates the muscles used for feeding Depletion of serotonin in these |
little guys makes them act as if they were in a lowfood environment and causes them to travel |
faster in their search for food It also suppresses mating and egglaying Across species |
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body |
depletion of serotonin convinces animals that they are experiencing food scarcity This action of |
serotonin caused scientists to reframe its purpose more broadly It is now conceptualized as an |
indicator of the availability of natural resources |
We have discussed how serotonin indicates social rank in primates but rank is just a special |
case of serotonins broader significance resources Highranking primates have high serotonin |
levels because they have priority over mating and food Just as with the worm serotonin |
convinces them that it is okay to relax and take advantage of the opportunities available to |
them In a sense primates are just hairy fourlegged worms whose social lives have grown |
more complex Selfsubordination is just the strategy of a worm that has become convinced |
that resource availability is low in the current environment |
This knowledge enables us to easily sidestep status as a means for attaining serotonin |
Instead we can go to the primordial root of serotonin release feeling like the resources in our |
life are abundant The magic button for increasing your serotonin and happiness does not lie in |
putting other people down It is found in cultivating gratitude by focusing on the resources |
available to you |
Scientists have found that gratitude stimulates the brains pathways involved in reward |
social bonding and positive appraisal It facilitates the recording and retrieval of positive |
memories Gratitude stimulates serotonin release the parasympathetic response and the |
actions of the vagus nerve Feeling thankful counteracts tendencies toward social comparison |
narcissism cynicism and materialism Lets accomplish all of this by expressing |
gratefulness daily |
Serotonin Activity Practice Feeling Grateful |
What can you feel glad about right now What about the last year yesterday or the present |
moment can you savor Fill any sense of scarcity or deficit by changing your mindset from |
one of deprivation and neediness to one of abundance fulfillment and plenty Reminisce |
about past achievements and cherish moments of joy and connectedness Treasure your |
friends and family Feel appreciative of everyone in your life Imagine that you are a content |
microscopic worm with all its needs met and not a worry in the world |
Common gratitudebuilding exercises include thinking of one thing to be grateful for every |
day writing a letter every week thanking someone who helped you or simply using the word |
grateful during conversation once a day Exercises like these are some of the most effective |
happiness enhancers known to psychology When you do this permit yourself to feel |
enthusiastic starryeyed and naively idealistic |
Keeping a gratitude journal has shown significant clinical benefits Simply writing down a |
few things that you are grateful for one to three times per week can raise serotonin increase |
life satisfaction and reduce depressive symptoms Gratitude journaling has been well |
researched and validated far beyond anecdotal selfhelp Numerous studies have shown that |
journaling for just a few weeks can create dramatic positive changes in brain activity that |
remain for months The clinical results have been shown to rival those of antidepressants |
The scientific justification for focusing on gratitude is so strong that it encouraged the |
Chapter Serotonin Optimism and Cooperation |
Program Peace Gratitude Journal which is available on the website But you certainly dont |
need that to get started |
Serotonin Exercise Make Entries in a Gratitude Journal |
Locate a journal find a pad of paper or create a new file on your computer Start making |
entries where you write about what you have to be grateful for Here are some questions to |
get you started |
What can you feel thankful for right now This could be an experience a conversation |
a meal or the weather |
Has someone done something nice for you recently List people you are grateful for |
and explain why |
What places are special to you |
What have you learned recently that you value |
What activities make your life better |
What fills you with wonder |
What do you have to be optimistic about |
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