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10zuj26 | Due to medical issues my husband and I have a temporary appointed cleaning lady, paid for by the city council, to help us clean our house. She comes once every two weeks, for 2 hours. The agreement was that she would help with the big stuff (kitchen, toilet, bathroom) and do other stuff when she has time to spare. She ... | WIBTA for telling my cleaning lady she doesn't do her work well? | NTA |
10zxwdy | Me (19M) and my bestfriend "Carlos" also 19M pretty much grew up together and now we room together in college. Carlos is gay and he and his family are really religious but tottally accepting and are part of an lgbtq affirming church/congregation. Carlos takes alot of the Bible to heart especially the " wait till marr... | AITA for laughing at and making fun of my bestfriend's beliefs and calling him a prude? | YTA |
110876a | I just got my first pair of glasses and to be fair, I am not the biggest fan of the feel of the glasses. It's weird because my vision looks the same with or without them, but I have astigmatism so I do get headaches later in the day if I don't wear them. My parents are adamant that I wear them all the time, they say it... | AITA for not wearing my glasses at all times during the day? | NAH |
10zttwp | Recently, I made a joke in my friends gc that read: “*Name* you need to work out. You’re looking kind of scrawny.” I made this joke in response to a jab to me, and it was supposed to be sarcasm because I’m the scrawniest person in my friend group. Another person in the gc got mad at me for saying this, and saying I suc... | AITA for not saying sorry after a joke? | YTA |
10zufr0 | Our son’s 2 year birthday is this weekend, and a majority of our immediate family will be out of town, so we are planning his big family and friend birthday party next month. While we were visiting my in laws in January, we invited them to come for our son’s real birthday on this Sunday in the afternoon, as my parents,... | AITA for not wanting my in laws to invite themselves over for my son’s birthday? | NTA |
10zviur | I (22M) made a friend (24F) a couple of months back. We started talking to each other and the beginning conversations were fun and I liked her as a person because she seemed understanding and kind. Eventually we started being vulnerable with each other and talked about our feelings etc. She confessed to me about the th... | AITA for ignoring my friend? | YTA |
1100ng1 | So, I'm an 18-year-old male (he/him) old full-time student at a local community college, and I've studied hard enough to earn myself a merit scholarship to a 4-year institution.In one of my classes, there's this older woman, I think in her 50s, who, unfortunately, isn't terribly bright. She has real difficulty keeping ... | AITA for refusing to help an older classmate? | NTA |
110790n | Recently I (27F) attended my sister (also 27F) and soon to be brother-in-law’s couples shower. We’re a few months out from their wedding, and the shower was hosted by my sister’s future mother in law, Jennifer, at the home of one of her good friends. I am the maid of honor so of course flew in to town for the occasion ... | AITA for leaving my sister’s bridal shower early? | NTA |
10zxh1h | So To Start Off My Friend (f15) And i (f15) have been friends for about 3years now. We met because our parents been friends since childhood. She was my only friend when we first moved again. And alot happened that i kinda became a shut out and was home schooled. My friend "M" ill call her. Moved closer, 5mins instead o... | AITA For Being Upset At My Friend And Her Bf? | NTA |
10zxffk | So 2 days ago my friend and his girlfriend asked if I wanted to go to a valentines day party with a ton of couples at it. Apparently it’s really hard for someone that’s single to get in for some reason but he had gotten me a spot. I declined but he persisted. I told him I wouldn't be comfortable being the one of the on... | AITA for declining a friends request to go to a party on valentines day? | NTA |
10zzbhf | Me (14f) and my semi friend (14f, we'll call her Emma) have had a huge falling out today. I say semi friend because I feel like she has always hated me. Today, I confronted her through text. She admitted to hating me, purposely telling one of my closest friends things about me (she decimated that friendship and that fr... | AITA for calling my semi-friend a bitch? | ESH |
10zxnd5 | So I am at a Sci Fi convention and last night someone decided to perform Elvis Presely’s An American Trilogy in a room that had I’d say had around 25% People of Color. No one caused a scene or anything. They collectively after the older gentleman started got up and left the room. After another performer or two had done... | AITA for trying to point out a bad decision. | NTA |
10zv9ya | So for my job I am on call every 3rd weekend. Most of my site are an hour south of me. My lady and our son is about 40 mins south of there I live also. I am on call this weekend and my lady is work today. Our son who is 11 is home by himself and I tried to work out with my job to take my work truck there and spend day ... | AITA On call for work | NTA |
10zxe6m | This year, I decided to get my girlfriend “Anna” some chocolates for Valentine’s day. About a week ago, I got one of those heart shaped chocolate boxes you can get at Target. I was really excited to gift them to my girlfriend until a few days ago, I got really hungry, and temptation got the better of me, and I ate a ... | AITA for “stealing from myself”? | YTA |
10zzttc | I (F, not a native-speaker) am at the begining of a new relationship where we are mostly trying to get to really know each other and communicate as much as possible. Few days ago, my BF has told me that he is concerned with my behaviour. According to him, there were some situations where I acted as if I had zero trust ... | AITA for acting as if I don't trust in my BF? | NTA |
10zumo4 | me and my friend made plans today. he said to come over, he will prepare food and we will play video games. I called 30min before I arrived at his place and he sounded sleepy, so I asked him if he was sleeping and he said yes. I told him I would be there in 30min and he said ok. When I was at his place, he was still sl... | AITA for thinking that my friend stood me up? | NTA |
10zyzv6 | I have met a girl online around 5 months ago. For last 5 months, we have been talking more than 3-4 hours per day. We decided to become partners but it is a long distance relationship for now.She has self confidence issues and I have tried to be very supportive about it. I think she is beautiful and I tell her that. Bu... | AITA for asking my partner to change her hair? | YTA |
10zumd3 | I let my good friend listen in on a conversation between me and my roommate because he keeps saying I’m trying to manipulate his feelings. I’m a female and he is male we are both straight and are good friends.First he likes to tell me what to do and get mad if I don’t do it. He comes in my room to tell me we are just f... | AITA for letting my friend listen on FaceTime a conversation with my roommate/other friend | NTA |
10zui0a | I (23F) am currently processing a traumatizing breakup. I'm the person that people in groupies escape to when they can't handle the crowd anymore and just want a more intimate conversation. Basically, I have no support system, but I'm at the ready for when people need to lean on me. I have this one friend (23M) who has... | AITA for sticking around a toxic friend for the social status? | NTA |
10zufeb | I don't know if I sound like a spoiled adult child, and if I do sorry. I don't feel bad but thought this would be perfect to ask on here. so basically we live with a family member right now ,and we'll hopefully move in about 2 week's, and I'll get a job and save and perhaps get my own place. any ways my parents get up... | AITA for always trying to hang with everyone? | YTA |
110lliy | I am currently 8 months pregnant, and because of that, I often get quite tired when I stand or walk for long periods of time. Yesterday afternoon, I was craving ice cream, so I drove to a nearby shopping center to visit my favorite ice cream shop. Unfortunately, the place was quite crowded, and all of the tables surrou... | AITA for not getting up from a massage chair when someone wanted to use it? | YTA |
110lz1f | I 23f am currently 8 months pregnant. We had been keeping it a secret and planned to tell people around this time, but a few months after my pregnancy my SIL26 found out she was pregnant, and then it just felt awkward to announce. We wanted to wait for the right time. I’ve been with married to my Husband for only 6 mon... | AITA for hiding my pregnancy and showing up to SIL babyshower | NTA |
110nz69 | I work as a lifeguard at a waterpark and part of my job includes managing the top of the waterslides. I’m to make sure no one does anything dangerous like going face first, cramming too many people on one innertube, etc. I’m also instructed to ask anyone who looks like they could be over the weight limit–250 pounds–to ... | AITA for making a teenage girl weigh herself at the top of a waterslide? | NTA |
110r17t | I am an art teacher at a school in a small town, recently I welcomed a new student to the class, he had previously been homeschooled but had begged his parents to let him go to normal school with his friends, he's a great kid, he has already fit right in with the class and he does really great work, my only issue with ... | WIBTA for requesting a child be removed from my class due to his parents? | NTA |
110sa1h | I (33m) share one child (6f) with my wife (36f). She has another daughter (13f) that lives with us full time, we also have custody of our niece (15f). The teens are each other’s best friends, they share a large bedroom which was done at their request. The dynamic here is pretty much mom and youngest against the teens, ... | AITA for giving my SAHM wife a written performance review with suggested areas needing improvement? | YTA |
110xuih | Edit: when I got home I did tell him I was tired and I asked if he could do it but he started saying that I had promised And he had plans with his friend already, so I agreed again afterwards and then I took a nap and overslept and when I woke up there was only an hour before the laundromat closed, so I could have stil... | AITA for screwing up my boyfriends interview by not doing his laundry on purpose? | ESH |
110tvop | To give a little context me and my gf were driving and to make the time pass quicker we were playing spelling bee. She would say a word and I would spell it out. After some time back and forth, we switched to me asking her how to do some maths questions. Namely calculating the price after a percentage discount has been... | AITA for saying counting on your fingers in the office would be embarrassing | YTA |
110mqtm | I have a 13 years old daughter with my ex wife. She also has 2 more kids who I think are 11 and 8.My daughter hates taking the bus to school because it takes longer and isn't much comfortable. This year my work schedule changed so now I'm free to take her to school and bring her back. We usually get breakfast on our wa... | AITA for not giving my ex wife's kids a ride? | NTA |
110ub19 | First-world problem here... but I'm being called an AH for it. A brief summary:I spent most of the pandemic turning my basement into a world-class home theatre. I designed it, I spent the money, I spent the time. It took a lot of effort. It's a work of art, with a 120-inch screen, laser projector, Dolby Atmos sound sys... | AITA for wanting to watch the Super Bowl in my home theatre? | NTA |
110v6yz | I (28f) was at work last week and I have a coworker (mid 20s, m) who is autistic. My dad died in a terrible accident when I was younger. As far as most people know, they're aware that he's passed but don't know the details. My autistic coworker came up to me the other day and started asking me personal questions. I don... | AITA because I sent an autistic guy into a panic attack by telling him exactly how my dad died because he kept asking me about it? | NTA |
110segr | My (50M) mother recently passed away and my brother (48M) and I inherited her house worth about 1.5 million. My brother has asked if I could give up my share of the inheritance so he could own and live in the house. His reasoning is that I’m already well off and already own and paid off my own house, and this was his o... | AITA for refusing to give up my share of the inheritance | NTA |
110qd88 | I’m 26 weeks pregnant and my clothes have become too tight. This is my second pregnancy and I bought a lot of maternity clothes during my first but I donated them to a friend who is also pregnant but was going through some financial hardships as she needed them more than I do. I was going to buy more maternity clothes ... | AITA for wearing my husband’s clothes instead of buying maternity clothes? | NTA |
110j7lz | I have tattoos. My fiancee, Valeria, has tattoos. Neither of us is a tattoo virgin. I do not control her or tell her what to do with her body. We just got back from three weeks in the Philippines. Valeria isn't talking to me. She decided that she really wanted a traditional Filipino tattoo. I believe it is called... | AITA for telling my fiancee her decision to get a tattoo was dumb. | NTA |
110itsv | I (25F) am about to get married to my fiance (28M) and we already got the wedding list down, however my sister (25F, Irish twin) just rejected my invitation cause apparently she doesn't believe she can be at my wedding without her "trauma" being triggered.Her husband died 6 years ago just 10 days after they got married... | AITA for thinking that my sister is selfish for wanting to skip my wedding cause of her "trauma" ? | YTA |
110vd79 | I (34f) am throwing Super Bowl get party at my house for my extended family today. My mother in law and my brother-in-law and his children were carpooling to my house.I told them my husband and I’s party was going to start at 6. This morning I texted them to ask what time they would be over here by. They didn’t respond... | AITA for not allowing my family into my house? | YTA |
110j37t | My husband was in an accident while he was visiting his family. My in-laws weren’t planning to tell me because we’ve been having issues for over a year that they know about but he kept asking for me so they finally did. He had already been discharged from the hospital by the time I got there so he was recovering at the... | AITA for saying that if my husband died, I would inherit their family home to my brother-in-law? | ESH |
110qlwy | I (16m) think that, overall, my school is an okay place. The staff members are all nice and everything, but one thing I noticed is that they definitely have a bias towards students with disabilities like autism. I know sometimes it's necessary to give certain kids extra help and stuff, but there's kids in my school tha... | AITA for saying that just because my classmate has autism doesn't mean he's not an asshole? | NTA |
110v1fr | My friend (51 F) says she's diagnosed with EDS. I offered to help her with her yard at her house, and I noticed she was asleep for most of the day. When she woke up I asked her why she wasn't helping me do some of the work and she said she still feels tired. I said ''how can you feel tired when you sleep all day?'' she... | AITA for questioning my friend's EDS | YTA |
110uu9s | Fellow Redditors: I’ve been married for more than two decades, and for most of that time my wife and I have made similar money. Four years ago I started climbing the corporate ladder, and my income has steadily grown to around 1.7x what my wife makes.Coincidentally, my wife and I welcomed our 3rd child just before my i... | AITA for expecting my wife who makes less money than me to pay some of the bills? | NTA |
110hckz | My brother is having a destination wedding. I'm sure it will be very nice. I am a widowed, single mom with two young kids. I'm not destitute or even hard up. My husband had insurance. We live in a paid off house and we have investments that provide me with an excellent amount of backstop to my salary. I would w... | AITA for telling my brother that I will only attend his wedding if he pays. | NTA |
110re5m | My (F26) twin brother (M26) and I are super close. We went to the same college and I also became very close with his gf (F28). They've been dating for around six years and my brother has told me that they've discussed marriage and kids but were waiting for him to finish his master's degree.Around a year ago his gf call... | AITA for letting a secret slip leading to a break-up? | NTA |
110qs0s | I am a woman 30 years old I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend 28 years old for almost three years. We love each other and we have contemplated the future together. Our relationship is not perfect but we have worked around every issue. We live together, we rent an apartment and we split the expenses, I pay hal... | AITA FOR NOT WANTING TO ADD MY BOYFRIEND TO THE TITLE OF THE HOUSE I'M BUYING? | NTA |
110n9gu | [My previous thread.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10r4igm/aita_for_losing_my_cool_at_a_passerby_trying_to/)So, first off I just wanted to extend my thanks for everyone who weighed in on the matter. I have a lot of issues I battle with on the daily, and one of those without getting soapbox-y is h... | UPDATE: Regarding the elderly man feeding my dogs without my permission situation (actual closure for those who wanted a followup) | NTA |
110ypvp | My M 28 and F 29 friends have been on-off for a few years. They've been FWB for a while now. They used protection and she was on BC.Recently F was worried that she was late on her period. Waited for a few days, got the pregnancy test and turned out she was pregnant. Both of them freaked out and together decided to not ... | AITA for not supporting my friend who's not getting child support? | NTA |
110r09d | Earlier today I (21M) got out of the shower and didn’t put a shirt on. This isn’t usual for the morning time, but I forgot to bring a shirt with me to the bathroom to change into. I ran downstairs just to grab an apple to snack on.For context, I pay rent but my older brother (24M) is jobless so it’s my home to dress ho... | AITA for telling my older brother’s future MIL not to look in the mirror? | NTA |
110k2a9 | Hello! I am 45F, and I have a 20 years old son, Ron. He is deaf. He is high functioning (almost like a regular adult without a disability) and can speak and lip read, and is independent for most parts, and just relies on me for some stuff.Yesterday evening, I was watching Love on the Spectrum with my son. And I told my... | AITA for telling my son that Deaf is a special needs. | YTA |
110p64i | My wife's sister gave my son some clothing in December. One thing she gave him was a cute shirt. Today we were goofing off in the kitchen and his shirt got messy. I tried to get the stain out, but by the time I had cleaned my kitchen and my child the stain had already set, and the shirt is still wearable but no longer ... | AITA for letting a gift from my wife's family be ruined? | NTA |
110ug57 | My partner has recently started a new job where he will be working Monday to Friday on shifts. Our daughter has just turned 3 months old. She is our second, our first was stillborn at term just over two years ago and I am still struggling massively and feel as though I’m nothing like my former self. I don’t make an eff... | AITA for not wanting to watch my partners kid? | NTA |
110ryvw | My SIL has been living with us rent free for about half a year now so she can save her money. She found out a few months ago she's going to have a baby and made somewhat of a big deal about no one offering to do a gender reveal party for her when there was a gender reveal party for their other siblings. My wife and her... | AITA for not allowing my SIL to use our house and contribute to her baby shower after she refused to let my wife plan it? | NTA |
110jweg | Everyone involved is mid-late 20's. My sister's boyfriend recently lost his job and they are not going to be able to pay rent next month. My girlfriend, who I have been dating for a few years, heard about this and told her sister that we could help. For some context, I am the primary earner between me and my girlfriend... | AITA for not helping my gf's sister's rent? | NTA |
110wkse | To start off, I’m the oldest of five kids: one six-year-old boy, a set of twins that are eight (1 F, 1 B), and a thirteen-year-old brother. I am a soon-to-be eighteen-year-old female, and I found out in the worst way possible that they are wanting another child. My parents and I were talking, and as things got heated, ... | AITA for not wanting another sibling? | NTA |
110tm9k | I (13F) live with my dad (43M) and brother (11M). I like my brother but and we used to play together when we were younger but sometimes he is mean to me and says he can't play with a girl.I recently started getting regular periods, I don't mind as I am not in pain like I was warned about and I still feel like I can do ... | AITA for asking my dad why he lets my younger brother do more things than me | NTA |
110ip40 | I (29F) just had my first child (10 months). Before she was born, my husband (30M) and I decided that we didn't want to put her name or face on social media. I have a decent sized following on Instagram, but I knew I didn't want to tell my followers much about her. The internet is a terrifying place and I want her to m... | AITA for not putting my kid on social media? | NTA |
110kbgn | Until a year ago I only had one niece. I call her my favorite niece. It's like a joke between us because she is my only niece so naturally she is my favorite. Then my brother remarried and his wife has a daughter who is the same age as my niece. I still call my niece my favorite niece because I'm just used to saying it... | AITA for calling her my favorite niece? | NTA |
110lxgv | I [f19] have an older brother [m28]. He has a wife Kate [f27].When Kate and my brother first got together 5 years ago, Kate always tried to make an effort to spend time with me. She's an only child and keeps saying about how she's always wanted a sister.I like Kate and I think she's lovely but recently I've found being... | AITA for avoiding my SIL and refusing to apologise to her? | NTA |
110yaa1 | I'm a regular at this store and I'll usually pick up snacks anytime after 11pm. The staff know me and the security know me, the cashier guy likes me whenever we interact he's always smiling and asking questions.A neckwarmer I wear over my nose, a beanie that goes over my forehead so you can only see my eyes, black carg... | AITA Man Tells Me To Take My Neckwarmer Down | NTA |
110h11p | My husband and I own a small flat at a nice location public transport wise. It's about 50 sq meters or 540 sq feet. It's a nice size for us as we don't have children yet.I have a little brother, Mark. He is looking to buy a flat for himself, but struggles to find one he likes. So he wants to buy ours and my mom is on h... | WIBTA if I didn't buy a bigger flat for myself so my little brother can buy my current one? | NTA |
110q4a5 | I am 26M and I am currently a PhD student at a Canadian university. Yesterday, I was staying on-campus late into the night, trying to get some important work done. It was half-past midnight, and just to relax a little bit, I went outside for a smoke. Admittedly, I was smoking right next to the doors of the building, wh... | AITA for accidentally blowing smoke into someone's face? | YTA |
110wobf | I (33F) am moving out of the apartment I've shared with my friend (32M) for about 3 1/2 yrs. There has never been any sort of romantic or sexual connection between us. Ever.Quick context: He is an emotionally stunted, codependent mess with a victim complex and only just recently started therapy for some pretty heavy tr... | AITA for not letting my roommate help me move because *I* don't want to help HIM move? | NTA |
110qpq5 | So basically I am related to a dictator. I won’t name which one but he is my great uncle. I also share his last name, which isn’t bad because it’s a somewhat common last name where I am from. So it’s not like people hear my name and react like my last name is Hitler or something. Sometimes I will get a “oh (last name) ... | AITA for yelling at my friend to stop telling people i’m related to a dictator? | NTA |
110yygf | Throwaway, we're all 24-28. I'm posting because I've got people telling me I was genuinely in the wrong hereSo last week me, my friends 'Alice' and 'Tara', as well as Tara's cousin 'Kate' were meant to go clubbing together. Tara was sick on the day so she couldn't make it, and the 3 of us went. I don't know Kate very w... | AITA for asking a guy for proof when he came to pick up someone at a club? | YTA |
110z14k | My closest friend is getting married in Taormina (Sicily) this August, less than 1 year's notice for the wedding and I was asked to be a bridesmaid. I am starting to feel unappreciated. They are very well off, she doesn't work currently. *I and a few other bridesmaids are coming from Canada and guests from all around t... | AITA My Friend Expects Us to Subsidize her 500K Destination Wedding in Sicily | NTA |
110chns | I 21(M) have an acquaintance 21(F) who I go to school with, we have a couple of courses together and are doing group work for some of them and are also in a student club together so we see each other often on campus. We know each other for about a year now.We were working late together on campus on a robot for our stud... | AITA for not walking a school acquaintance to her car at night. | YTA |
110govr | My husband (35m) wants to bring his sister (52f) from a third world country to stay for an undisclosed amount of time and is insisting that because he is organising the visa that she needs to stay with us. Not only do I (30f) have 2 young children, one under a year old, but I've also only been out of the hospital for 2... | AITA for not wanting my sister in law to stay at my home | NTA |
110v8ae | I (28f) have been with my bf (32m) for close to 5 years now. During our time together, we have discussed going to visit Japan as it is both of our dream trips. We agreed to both save our own money to be able to go. The problem is he isn't good at saving, and I am, so he's convinced me to keep putting it off and putting... | WIBTA for going on bf's dream vacation without him? | NTA |
110y29n | Im (42f) a single mum of 4. I have full custody of my kids, but they recently stay more at their dad's place because their school is closer to his place. Due to this, they spend the weekends and any holidays with me, and that's when I wash/ do their hair. My 2nd daughter (17f) has much curlier than her sisters, so hers... | AITA for not doing my daughter's hair for school as a punishment? | NTA |
110k5en | I (22f) have schizophrenia and so I decided not to drink alcohol until I was 21. It’s a pretty high addiction risk statistically. I never went to a party. I got my first boyfriend when I was 21 because I had to work through some unhealthy attitudes about sexuality that I had from early childhood events. I also couldn’t... | AITA for accusing my family of favoritism and for infantilizing me because I’m disabled? | NTA |
110ncpr | Hello,I (29m) don't use my full name. Let's say I am "Tim". Even as a kid when I was in trouble my mom would call me "tim", I was almost never "timothy". As I have described it to everyone, calling my "Timothy" is like shouting out my social security number. Sure it technically applies to me, but it's more a government... | AITA for using government identifiers? | NTA |
110jdxj | My wife (39F) and I (49M) decided to replace our 20 year old fridge with a bigger one that was pricey at $1600. We have two young children so we needed the larger fridge. Once it was delivered we were happy with the stainless steel look and more space, our children were excited for it too!! Fast forward a two days late... | AITA for being VERY upset a family member damaged new expensive fridge? | YTA |
110p9ep | I met my friend at the bar yesterday to get a beer and catch up because I haven’t seen in her months. Shortly after we got our drinks a unknown man approached us. He said “hey ladies I hate to do this to you but I’ll have to kick you both out because I’m having my birthday party here and the party is starting now” I ... | AITA for not leaving the bar? | NTA |
110h0d0 | I am a mom of 3 and have 5 siblings. Every year, my husband, I and my siblings, and their spouses go on vacation together in late January-early February, this year was no different, we also go on vacation in July when the kids are on summer break. One of my siblings, my sister, Anna, has 2 boys, ages thirteen and ten.... | AITA for giving my sister an ultimatum? | NTA |
110w8c6 | Me (15 f) and my step mom (40 f) got in to a argument the other day I was getting worked up. So i went into another room and started rocking my self back and forth to calm myself down. She came after and kept yelling then all of a sudden said “if you really were autistic which you are not since I work with kids that ar... | AITA for yelling at my step mom after she said I don’t have autism | NTA |
110na5p | I (M22) Have been seeing my partner (M25) for almost a year. I've been reluctant to tell my family about my relationship because of my moms religion. For context, I was raised LDS (Mormon) until I was 18 where I ended up leaving and coming out to my family as gay. I got a pretty neutral reaction of "I'll always love yo... | AITA for not telling my mom about my relationship? | NTA |
1110f5a | My (M25) girlfriend’s (F24) new hobby is interrogating me about the most bizarre hypothetical situations before we go to sleep. I usually try to refuse but she keeps whining and bugging (poking, prodding, hitting) me until I answer. If my answer doesn’t satisfy her/is not romantic enough/is a joke she will be upset and... | AITA for refusing to tell my girlfriend what body part of her I would eat? | NTA |
110td60 | My husband and I have been together 20 years, and he has a daughter who recently turned 18 years old with someone else (that's a whole other story) and we have 3 kids together. He's always paid voluntary child support for his daughter and gone above and beyond when asked for anything. He simply never told her or his B... | AITA for telling my husband to stop giving his daughter money? | NTA |
110iyv2 | My (25F) parents (55M and and 55F) started going through the divorce process several months ago. They weren't getting along for many years, but my mom presented my dad with divorce papers last year and they are still battling some things out. However, my mom began a relationship with someone else very soon (like within... | AITA for ordering flowers for my dad for Valentine's Day? | NTA |
110saw4 | This situation is between me (31 M) and my sis (Jan, fake name. 35 F). In my opinion, Jan is a burnout narcissist. Never held a job down for more than a year, dropped out of college three times, and is a single mom to 3 kids. She is a leech. My parents and grandma pay for her 3 bedroom apartment because none of them wa... | AITA for blowing up at my sister while grandma was in the hospital, and getting grandma to reconsider her will? | NTA |
110y1rc | So this happened a few months ago so you’ll have to bear with me.Two days before I had my son, my husband and I had to go grocery shopping so we stopped at Walmart. Now with me coming to the end of my pregnancy I had put on quite a bit of weight and my baby was sitting on my spine; due to that I couldn’t walk very far ... | AITA for using an electric scooter in Walmart? | NTA |
110w9in | I, <34> female, have a very complicated relationship with my nephew's father, 34 male. A little background, he was with my sister for many years, on again off again before my sister got pregnant with my nephew. My nephew's dad, lets call him Jay, didnt want my sister to keep the baby and insisted she abort him.... | AITA for telling my nephew's dad to hand over custody of his son. | NTA |
110ogzb | My youngest sister(YS) is looking into going to college with the goals of becoming a high school history teacher. My brother in law(BiL) and sister(OS) are trying to convince her to go to the same private religious college he went too. This college is going to end up around $145k for a 4 year degree. He went to this co... | AITA for stepping in on my sisters college plans? | NTA |
110shnn | Two of my friends (let's call them Connor and Alice) and I are getting together tonight and having pizza for dinner. Alice eats more than anyone I know (she is an athlete with an insane metabolism and eats a lot in one sitting). Whenever we have shared pizza in the past, Alice ends up eating what is probably more than ... | AITA for insisting that my friend--who is a big eater--pay for more food than everyone else? | NTA |
110zxse | My BF (M25) and I (F23) have been living together for about 3 years now. We are both messy people, him more so than me. Recently, I've been trying to change that and have been making an effort to clean the house more often. I do most of the housework and cook, all I ask him to do is the dishes, take out the trash, and ... | AITA for "blackmailing" my boyfriend? | NTA |
110saf3 | Normally in my home it is me (F41), hubby (M38) and daughter (24) who is attending school for her masters degree. He have a super chill and quiet home. My hubby and I have been together for 17 years and I love his family very much and we get together usually at our home (we are centrally located for all) as much as pos... | AITA for telling my hubby his family can’t come over regularly? | NTA |
110pbfh | I am not sure if i am the asshole in this situation or not. I had surgery with general anastesia on Dec 19 and the expected full recovery time was 6 weeks.The first week i was extremely weak. I could barely put my clothes in the washingmachine and i got super tired and it hurt. I could not get out of bed/the couch for ... | AITA for confronting my family for not helping me | NTA |
110x8u2 | I was married to my ex wife for 12 years and we had 4 kids together. She decided to pursue another relationship completely turning our world upside down. She lied the whole time and was not a good mom. After the divorce, I got the kids and she takes the minimum visits with them. Fast forward to now, I am remarried and ... | AITA for being mad at my parents for their continuing to be friendly with my ex? | NTA |
110r8g1 | I've had this doll now 23 years, in the box untouched millennium edition barbie doll that's now worth several hundred dollars. It was left on top of a bookshelf her kids climbed despite being told multiple times to not touch it, proceeded to open it, rip the hair out, shred the dress and shatter the ornament that came ... | AITA for asking my sister in law to replace a collector's doll? | NTA |
110nuwy | Long story short, I grew up with a single mom who was mentally abusive and unsupportive. I used to have dreams of attending university and she'd dismiss me and tell me to just work at McDonalds.Cut to now, I'm an adult that has somehow managed to build a portfolio of work extensive and good enough that when I decided t... | AITA for cutting off all communications with my mom and telling her I hate her? | NTA |
1110wnn | So I(23f), recently got together with some of my best friends after one of my friends passed away. We all hung out after not seeing each other after for awhile and since I am the only one who has a big enough space for everyone, I offered to have everyone over and we could order in food. My husband and I aren’t rich by... | AITA for not paying for my share for food? | YTA |
110v41g | I 17m brought some donut holes home at my mothers request. I got a box of 25 and ate 2 and gave one to my mother. I left the box of donuts on the counter when I got home and called my sister 12f to inform her we got donuts. I headed downstairs for 2 hours, but when I came back up I noticed the box of donuts in the tras... | AITA for calling my sister a land whale. | YTA |
110vwr1 | This is on the low-stakes of the asshole chain. I live at an apartment complex that has a dog park (really it’s a fenced in 15x15 patch of dirt). There is some weird unwritten social rule that only one resident uses the dog park at a time. I have lived here for three years, and I’ve never seen two people use it at the ... | AITA for telling someone that it’s rude for him and his family to stand outside the dog park gate and stare at people until they leave? | NTA |
1111r2n | So one of my(25F) best friends since college(27F) let’s call her “Alexis” had been dating a guy(28M) “Jack” for about 6 years now. Initially all seemed well and they were on the same page about marriage and kids. They initially both wanted those things and mutually agreed to get married and start trying for a family o... | AITA for “making” my friend breakup with her BF of 6 years? | NTA |
110szfl | So I live with my boyfriend and his family. I pay $650 a month for the room, plus electricity for the house and I pay the gardener. We also make dinner for the house as a rotation. My boyfriends brother and his girlfriend also live with us so they’re apart of the rotation. The four of us and his dad will make dinner Mo... | AITA for making easy meals for my boyfriends family? | NTA |
110zqss | i really gotta know because i’m getting a lot of stick for this right now from my friend group and my older sister. fake names! context: my group and i went out to eat two weeks ago and after that we went clubbing, Ana (the cheater) disappeared from the group for about 15 minutes. we were concerned but not surprised be... | AITA for telling my friend’s boyfriend she cheated? | NTA |
1112iji | My boyfriend (29 m) and I (28 f) are struggling trying to conceive a child. We are starting IVF protocol.Last week, we were eating with my in-laws and started talking about a cousin who just had twins thank to IVF. My mother-in-law said that "I don't understand why people who can’t have children, go through these unnat... | AITA for refusing to make amend with MIL unless she apologies | NTA |
110wz7j | Me (30’s F) and my brother (32M) are close in age, full-blooded siblings. We are drastically different in personality and outlook on life. My brother has never paid for anyone’s meal. In his life. Except maybe the women he has dated, but he has asked me before when he should and shouldn’t pay for their meals. He borrow... | AITA for not inviting brother to my child’s birthday? | NTA |
110z9lj | **In 2020, my sister bought a house so we can all live together during the pandemic to save money.** Contractor Downgrayedd (fake name) was hired to add a bathroom to the den and fix our main bathroom shower. Construction past the due date. My sister asked me to show up for the inspection to see what was holding up. *... | AITA for not wanting to take down my videos even after being sued for harassment (2.5 million usd)? | NTA |
110um77 | For context my dad and mom have been divorced for 10 years now. My half sister(24) always took my moms side because my dad would discipline her and my mom would let her do whatever and jumped on my dad for trying to discipline her because "shes not your daughter". Well flash forward to today and my dads going through ... | AITAfor talking to my dad about my sister | NTA |
110wbhs | My gf(26F) and I (28M) live together and she owns a car and I don't. I take the subway to work as it is easier. Her car is a 3 year old Mercedes and it cost her a lot but she makes good money.My gf by her own admission does not find periods painful but gets a lot of PMS and becomes irritable. She tries to hide it by ac... | WIBTA for offering to drive for my gf when she is on her period | YWBTA |
1110txa | My (28f) friend (28f) is a certified personal trainer and has been for the last six years. She’s great at her job—she works at an amazing gym and is no doubt knowledgeable in what she does. I’m someone trying to get back into shape and recently went back to the gym. I have very little health/exercise knowledge outside ... | AITA for losing my personal trainer friend a client? | NTA |
1111gke | I (30s F) and Max (40s M) have already had a couple of dates. He's a single dad, overall a nice person, and we get on. Because we live in different countries, this hasn't been a regular thing. That said, he is in my city for work every few weeks, and travelling is no obstacle for me, so distance isn't a big issue if we... | WIBTA to cancel a date I already agreed to? | NTA |
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