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1108dkv | My fiancé (30M) and I (28F) got engaged 2 years ago and decided that we wanted to elope in France. It’s a special place for us (we both studied abroad there and have special memories together in the town we decided to elope to) and we were really excited to tell our families about our decision. My family was supportiv... | AITA for inviting my fiancé’s family to our wedding? | NTA |
10zz032 | I (32f) am one of 8 children, my youngest sibling, my sister (21f) is getting married to her fiance (21m) on Valentine’s Day. My sister is having a destination wedding and we arrived at the hotel yesterday. Our parents are insanely wealthy through a number of factors like inheritance and business, so they have covered ... | AITA for bringing up my sister's past bullying in front of her kids? | NTA |
1106axc | We got in a car accident today and my car is totaled. Ot was 100% my husbands fault. It was a fully paid off Nissan Rogue that was in good condition and should have lasted a few more years. But it is 9 years old and had over 100,000 miles on it so we will probably only get $4-5000 for it from the insurance, if that. S... | AITA for being upswt when my husband totaled my car? | NTA |
10zx1wd | first of all please no judging here, i am looking for genuine take on my stance in a situation i am really unsure about. Firstly, i am 19 and my bf is 21. we’ve been together for almost 3 years i’ve been living with him for over a year, we have a great and loving relationship. Yes, we do live with his parents since we ... | AITA for wanting the master bedroom over my bfs parents | YTA |
1105awx | For context I live in India and work as a free lance Image and Video editor mostly for foreign clientele.So basically one of my elder brother’s closest mates let’s call him X was getting married and he asked me to edit some of his wedding and pre-wedding pics for him. He even offered to pay me which I refused since I a... | AITA for refusing to re-edit my brother’s friend’s pre-wedding photos at the last minute? | NTA |
10zxnof | Writing from my phone, so sorry if the format is wrong. Also, English is not my first language.So, for a bit of context: I'm(24m) estranged from my family, have been since I turned 18. We talk maybe once a year, and that's it. I'm completely independent from them, and have now my own "chosen" family. Considering that, ... | AITA for getting married? | NTA |
110fhas | My (16F) mom (42F) was hosting a dinner party with her friends. Her friends have three kids that my brother (18M) and I have known since we were little. For the sake of this story we'll call them Amy (16F), Butch (18M), and Vincent (early/mid 20s? M).My brother had the idea of going to the gas station for snacks. I, Am... | WIBTA for telling my mom my brother scraped someone's car? | NTA |
1109sbr | Context, I 27M have had a friend 27M since college and we occasionally see each other once or twice a year. We’re friends who keep in touch but we don’t even see each other very often. His birthday was this week and he had a reservation for a hotpot restaurant in a location that was far from me. A month before it I agr... | AITA for not showing up to my friend’s birthday dinner? | NTA |
10zzewf | I (28M) am currently cohabitating with my ex GF/ BM (29). The breakup wasn’t terrible per se and I’ve been feeling relaxed because I am dealing wit less of her. She broke so she could date her new guy, it hurt in terms of pride not the softer emotions. After a month I’m feeling spiritually free, We are still cordial be... | AITA for not letting my ex GF’s boyfriend use my PS4. | NTA |
1105cr9 | Background info: my BIL (37M) - my husband’s brother - is single and childless. He has a lot of health issues meaning his sleep pattern is out of whack and he often takes medication that makes him fuzzy. He doesn’t get out much, doesn’t have a job or a social life. His only experience with children is with our kids (9 ... | AITA for telling my brother in law he shouldn’t take 7 kids out on his own? | NTA |
110dz43 | I (18f) got my drivers permit Friday. I had drove to my grandma’s house after I passed the test and she was so happy and proud of me. She made a whole post on Facebook about it and was bragging to my aunts about it. I have an aunt (19f) let’s call her Liv and she was acting excited about it on the phone so I didn’t thi... | AITA for getting my drivers permit first? | NTA |
1102430 | I (22F) and my baby sister (let's call her Sam, 15F) have always been close. Because we had such an age gap, we never had the stereotypical sibling squabbles, and even when I went away for university, we would regularly FaceTime and she would visit me at college sometimes. She's a really good kid -- super kind and so i... | AITA for not letting my baby sister (15F) go to a party? | YTA |
110f65u | I'm (25F) still pregnant with our first child and my fiancé (26M) and FBIL (23M) are planning to go to their cousin's wedding abroad and our baby would be only 4 weeks old by then (if the baby decides to arrive on time). I have no problem with this, only the fact that they are planning to make the trip so long. If the ... | AITA for wanting my fiancé to not go 6 day trip and leave me alone with a newborn baby? | NTA |
10zuxwx | So me and my neighbor have been best friends for almost three years. I watch his cat all the time. When he’s out, he tells me all I have to do is spend time with her and make sure she’s safe but I go above and beyond cause that’s my best friend. Like when his cat had an ear infection, I gave it medication and cleaned a... | AITA for telling my best friend to fuck off after letting them cat sit for two weeks and coming home to my room covered in shit and toilet paper | NTA |
110dlzl | So my friend has this annoying habit of playing psychologist and psychoanalysing other people. At first, I just accepted it and thought it was a fun quirk of theirs, but then it got old and annoying pretty quickly. I had pulled them up on it twice before, and they denied they were playing psychologist then later accuse... | AITA for confronting my (20s F) friend (30s NB) about something they have been doing since the start of our friendship? | NTA |
110bfjq | I will keep this short and to the point.He always does this, change his travel plans without talking with me and expects me to cater to his plan change. He is currently in NV and was supposed to get back Monday night. I arranged for my friend to drive me there because I’m not a confident night driver, especially going ... | WIBTAH if I don’t pick up my bf from the airport? | NTA |
1101xiy | Recently this has been on my mind so let’s make the story clear:TLDR at the bottom:Recently me a Chinese person was getting mocked by an autistic kid named let’s call him John. John was being quite annoying over the last 2 months he’s in my classes and a few weeks ago I was told he was being racist about me by a few of... | AITA for telling a autistic classmate to stop what he’s doing. | NTA |
10zzwdj | I won a pretty little jackpot playing slots unexpectedly ($1300) and offered to take two of my friends out to a nice dinner with drinks and hibachi. I made it clear that I want to do it on a week night as it can get extremely crazy at the restaurant during the week. I also just like the vibe better on slower nights whe... | AITA for offering to buy my friends dinner, but choosing the time of the week myself? | NTA |
110fyj4 | Thanks for reading. I'm a long time lurker.I'm a 36 female and was a bridesmaid to my good friend's wedding, Anna 46. I was initially very honoured, until I went to the first bridesmaid's meeting at her house on Thursday.I realised Anna, hadn't chosen 8 of us, to be her bridesmaids because of our friendships with her, ... | AITA for stepping down as bridesmaid? | NTA |
110fja5 | I (54F) moved to a new city and have two vehicles. My friend's husband was willing to drive our truck while I drove our children in the minivan. Halfway there, we stopped to gas both vehicles. When I went to pull out of the gas station, I crept forward to ensure I was clear to proceed. However, her husband, who was dri... | AITA for expecting my friend to pay the insurance deductible | NTA |
110f32z | I’ve (M30) been with my partner (F29) for a year and we live together. Last night my friend who I’ve known for almost ten years threw a birthday party. My partner felt ill and was unsure if she wanted to come but came because she didn’t want to be alone for the evening. She said if she felt unwell she may leave early a... | AITA for staying at a party when my partner wanted to leave? | NTA |
110byhz | Throwaway account; I(25f) am a current college student renting an upstairs bedroom with an older couple and their adult kids. Everything has been okay, and we all keep to ourselves for the most part while saying hello when we cross paths. However, the husband (70m)‘s home office is below my room, where he will be makin... | WIBTA to tell my landlords to be quiet | NTA |
110aals | I (18F) am in nursing school, 3 hours away from home, and as a result I live in student dorms (this comes into play). For some some context, my boyfriend (18) was messing around with basal metabolism calculations, because he likes numbers and stuff and had been speaking about it in a nutrition class that he's partaking... | AITA for telling my boyfriend that he insulted me? | NTA |
1101lnz | I'm (f19) a bigger woman and I'm very self conscious about it. I'm trying my best to overcome it and sort things out but it's incredibly difficult. I also have a different taste in clothes, I mostly only wear the colour black and most of the clothes I have are alternative and punk. I feel a little self conscious about ... | AITA for not letting my mum use my clothes after she laughed at them | NTA |
110e62d | My (31) husband (31), we'll call him Mike, got a job last year at a really good place, he loved It, It was paid badly, no sick leaves, no pension found...but It was everything he'd ever want from a job, It was in the nature , funny coworkers, easygoing boss...This year he had to leave because he found a better paid job... | AITA for telling my husband to not be late at night? | NTA |
1101k23 | My boyfriend and I have started meal prepping for weeks at a time, and have been taking turns cooking. We keep the budget around $50 and try to make as much food as possible, to eat and freeze. We don't eat the same thing day after day, we tend to rotate between several options we pre froze during the week, trying to e... | AITA for ordering catering when it was my turn to meal prep? My boyfriend always cooks at home when it's his turn | NTA |
1108zk6 | I (M16) have been friends with jake(M16) since second grade. He has always been pretty sensitive and I have helped him through many situations in the past. This most recent situation is what has caused the conflict. He had been talking to this girl(Jen) for about 3 months and recently Jen unadded him for what he thinks... | AITA calling my friend a little boy knowing he will be upset by it | NTA |
110b7jl | I was having dinner on a chilly patio with my partner under a heat lamp and we were about halfway into our meal. The patio was pretty full when we sat down, we were in a side section of the patio and I was facing a wall so did not have an idea of how many tables were full or available at the time of the conflict. We we... | AITA for being cold? | NTA |
110dt4t | Not really serious as the others and my friends say I'm not AITA but I'm gonna ask outside perspectives.Last week I(f17) went out with my friends and we were all chill, we decided to go out to eat and one of our friends decided to pay for all of our meals. I dont have the best financial situation but I still had the ca... | AITA for feeling to not wanting to pay someone back? | NTA |
10zzrn3 | Me (22) and my friend Jane (24) had an altercation. I used to date my friend Janes boyfriend 5 years ago when I was a senior in high school. We had a two year relationship that ended because he was a cheater back then ( I don’t know if he is now) and I have self respect for myself. We went our separate ways. I met my f... | AITA for not telling my friend I dated her boyfriend | NTA |
1103u9c | I am a university student sharing a hostel room with one roommate. We usually get along peacefully. We had been allotted one study table per person. Last month, my roommate got herself another desk , one which is now put in the common space between our beds and another which is put near her bed on her side of the room.... | WIBTA for asking my roommate to shift her desk out of our common space? | NTA |
11070ct | My(34f) BIL (32m) has stolen $8k+ in cash and an unknown amount of physical products from his last employer (major retail corporation) and an unknown (supposedly only $3k) amount of cash and products from another major retailer, his employer before that. My sister (32f) is constantly having to ask family for money fo... | WIBTA for turning in my bil for theft | YWBTA |
10zwcvm | This was from last weekI (32M) am dating a Nurse (32F) from Philippines, she has a 8 year old kid (I don't have any), for about a year.I am currently doing a degree in night school, and I had a large essay due, as I work as well I knew over the weekend I would be having crunch time. I have always shared this deadline, ... | AITA For refusing to Babysit and then getting annoyed when they where left here | NTA |
1107j9g | I (F 19) am in college and have been talking to this person (F 19) for about 4 months now. We live in the same dorm. She is a floor up from me. She cares deeply about her family and misses them a lot while we’re away. So I try to let her have her time with them. Sometimes they call when we're joking around or talkin... | AITA for asking the person I'm talking to to leave my room when on the phone | NTA |
110fcte | So to preface this, I(23f) broke up with my sons(5m) dad(24m) about 8 months ago and ended up homeless right after. I’ve been with my bf(28m) for just over 6 months now, and for 5 of those months I was couch surfing and living in hotels when I could afford it. I stayed with my bf and his mom for a month and stopped whe... | AITA for hanging out with my bf after work? | YTA |
10zyi6o | This happened yesterday. Leaving a bit of detail out for the word count. I understand I could’ve went about it differently before getting to this point but AITA? I went to the nail salon to get acrylic nails. Overall it was not a good experience. I kept requesting she correct mistakes but she got argumentative so I sto... | AITA for asking the nail salon to redo my nails? | NTA |
110at78 | I’m (20sF) currently living with my parents because times are tough. Same thing with my uncle. He recently moved in a few months ago.About 3 months ago I noticed he would just leave his dishes in the sink and never wash them. I always pick up after myself and clean up my dishes after eating. My mom tells him to wash hi... | AITA for throwing out my uncle’s dishes because he doesn’t wash them? | NTA |
10zvkq4 | Recently, I (18f), had a PCL reconstruction surgery about 3 weeks ago. Recently my surgeon cleared me to drive since I was no longer on my pain meds and could get by comfortably with little pain driving and being active throughout the day. (My parents can’t drive me anymore because my stepmom is an anesthesiologist and... | WIBTA for reporting people parking “illegally” at my school? | YWNBTA |
10zwsyz | My husband and I have a dog and he’s pretty well behaved and trained. He’s going through puberty and has some small issues we need to work on. When he sees another dog he will lunge and bark and try to go play, and when people come over he jumps up at them. We have done all sorts of different training approaches, but ... | AITA for not wanting to be shocked? | NTA |
1107kd2 | A little backstory, tm *was* my coworker, N’s last day but she offered me $90 to work her shift. Fun fact: I *hate* working Sunday’s and only work them every once in a while, and the only reason I’m working tm is bc I’m getting $90 instead of the usual $60. My other coworker, R, found out and asked me “Since you’re pic... | AITA for telling my coworker I’d work a shift for her then changing my mind and telling her no? | NTA |
10zz4ow | I 28F have lived in this rental home for a year and maybe a couple months. I also have 2 kids that are very young. 2 days ago my boyfriend and I had a very heated argument. We did raise our voices at each other and my oldest child called my mom when my boyfriend and I argued. Well my boyfriend got arrested because my m... | AITA for refusing to move out of my home after a verbal eviction? | YTA |
10zzqth | So, my friends and I recently took a trip up to the mountain. We all agreed to split the cost of gas and food etc (4 ways including myself and partner), but when it came to the cost of snow chains, two of my friends said they didn't think they should have to pay. I argued that the chains were a necessary item for drivi... | AITA for expecting my friends to pitch in for the cost of snow chains on a recent trip to the mountain? | YTA |
11089cd | There’s a lot of backstory here, so please stick w/ me! I (F20) started dating my current partner (M22) 2 years ago. A few months into our relationship, one of his closest friends (M22, Trent) started going on dates with one of my closet friends (F20, Toni.) At some point, my partner said something to his friends along... | WIBTA If I Asked My Friend To Stop Seeing Someone | YWBTA |
11057l9 | I (21F) got injured back in October '22 by stepping off a bus wrong, and breaking my foot from such. I was in recovery for four months because of what I broke, and recently returned to work(as in, have only worked two shifts so far). Before returning to work, my mom (60F) started asking me if I'd take the bus to work.... | AITA for not wanting to take the bus yet? | NAH |
1102h3e | (For privacy reasons I'll call my sister Tracy)Tonight my sister (24F) and I (17NB) were in the bathroom and she asked me to hand her my cat, I questioned why and she just asked again, I stared at her and she came over to take Oreo from my arms (Oreo doesn't really like Tracy, only goes over to her when I'm not home an... | AITA for not wanting my sister annoying my cat? | NTA |
10zzeb8 | Edit3: I feel the need to put this up here, bc seems like not everyone is actually reading my question. My intention was NEVER to push the waitress/tell her how she should do HER job. I was only worried that she had to wait for my friends while they were chatting to one another and ignoring her. Still, I have understoo... | AITA for telling a waitress to "hurry up"? | YTA |
11051ad | I (21F) am a performer. In December 2021, I decided to become a drag king after meeting my mentor at a show. I wanted to come up with a fun stage name with word play that people would find entertaining. I came up with the name Ike Cometarson because it sounds like "I commit arson." I made an Instagram account to docume... | AITA for not changing my stage name for my brother? | YTA |
11049ho | I (16F) live with my mom. My mom made the announcement this morning that she doesn't want either me or my sister to be cooking, as we have a lot of leftovers from the week, and we should be using up those. I've been in the basement for most of the day (my room is down here) and really just trying to relax. A few hours ... | AITA for hiding in my room | NTA |
110577c | Myself and SO of 7 years had our car start shaking while parked and wouldn’t accelerate about a week ago we took it into mechanics they diagnosed the issue and fixed the problem, In doing so they suggested we fix some other problems with our car (I.e they said we had some oil leaks etc and that it would be about 5 gs t... | AITA for not listening to my MIL? | NTA |
110b1pn | I 22F used my boyfriend's car with permission while he is away traveling and accidentally scraped the side of it on a low wall.I am a student and need a car sometimes and I'm grateful he lets me use his.I took it to a shop which would do a good job and got a quote, and my mom is willing to lend me some money to fix it.... | WIBTA for not telling my boyfriend I crashed his car if I fixed it before he knew about it. | YTA |
110393t | Information is intentionally kept vague but feel free to ask clarifying questions.For context: my parents are divorced, and my father has been married twice since they split. In February 2020, his now-third wife moved to the East Coast (my family and I have lived on the West Coast my whole life) and my dad decided he w... | AITA for not wanting to visit my dad? | NTA |
10zzmpg | My (F32) and fiancé (M33) just had a row that resulted in me pouring his last beer down the sink. We were supposed to go out this evening for beer/ cocktails and dancing. However I have been very poorly this past few days and not really out of bed, I am on the mend now but still not enough energy to go out socialising.... | AITA for pouring his last beer down the sink? | NTA |
110cnws | I am an equipment operator at a workplace that manages a huge property from groundskeeping to maintenance work. We all do shifts driving the garbage truck on a weekly rotational schedule. It was my week driving last week and there is a stop at one of the workshops that always has the dumpster blocked by contractors van... | AITA for handling a workplace conflict one on one | NTA |
110585s | I (23F) have a roommate (23M) who I have gotten fed up with. He has never had to take care of his own living space before and it shows. For context, I have lived in the unit I currently live in for 2 years now, a year before my roommate moved in. He was OK in the beginning, but has now become lazy and disrespectful tow... | WIBTA if I banned my roommate from using the apartment furnishings? | NTA |
10zyynv | We've been together for almost 7 years and we moved in together almost 3 years ago. We have a now 9 month old son and only been to his parents house maybe 3-4 times since he was born. Some background, When we decided to move in together his dad made it clear that he wasn't fond of me. He helped my bf move his things in... | AITAH for not taking my son to his grandparents house (boyfriends parents)? | NTA |
110g863 | I(37F) moved approx. 6 hours away from where all my family lives about 4 years ago when I got married. Since I moved, I have ensured we visit every few months. When we do, we stay at my parent’s house (needed for context later).Since meeting my wife, I’ve stated taking my health more seriously (I have MS). So, I live a... | AITA for not eating the food my mother cooked? | NTA |
10zzu0v | I have worked and been the main person that does housework, cooking and looking after our children in the house. He used to mention regularly that something needs doing eg the washing up or the kids bedroom. However, because I would always get irritated because he doesn’t do as much as me domestically, he stopped menti... | AITA for getting annoyed when hubby mentions house work needs doing?! | NTA |
110g30o | My husband (Nico) has a best friend from middle school (Allen) who I've known as long as I've known my husband which is basically going on 11years now. We started as friends dated for 5 years been married for 2. Allen is my age but acts alot more like a frat boy. My husband is also alot silly especially when with his f... | AITA (28F) for being fed up with my husband's (31M)bestfriend? | NAH |
10zuxpc | For a little context. My father passed away some years ago, and I inherited the house. My parents weren't married and me and my husband didn't wanna kick her out of her own home, and there's space enough, so she lives with us.Now for the potial AH part.My mom and my husband often have spats, and a lot of these could ea... | AITA for refusing to be the mediator anymore? | NTA |
110fykd | Context: I (21F lesbian) plan to marry my fiance (20 Nonbinary) in about a year or so. My sister would be overjoyed to attend this wedding, but I'm not entirely comfortable inviting her. Me and my partner are both in the LGBT community, and my sister assures us over & over how much she supports us / the community, ... | AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding? | NTA |
110ftad | I (18 turning 19y female) am currently studying a degree in university, its a 3 year course and im doing full time. It’s been my dream for years to study in this course and naturally I enjoy it very much. I live with my parents and they’ve been really supportive with my uni, I do love them very much. Last year, during ... | AITA for not moving overseas with my mum? | NTA |
1102gjj | So it all begins with my father, I always get my brother when my father asks to pick him up unless I have plans or something then he has to, I don't really remember how the conversation started but we were talking about gas prices and how insane they are, well he decided to add "by the way if taking your brother around... | AITA for telling my parents they're crazy for asking me to get gas money from my younger brother? | NTA |
1109oaf | ​About six months ago I've made a new group of friends. Every other week we hang out to drink, go to BBQs, go to the movies, play videogames, etc. None of us is rich, we always split the bills, and we've never had a money problem between ourselves.Sometimes we go out all of us togheter, sometimes it's only a... | AITA for joking about my friend owing me a gift that I gave her? | YTA |
10zwrwx | I (18M) lost my mom in 2016 so im living now with my brother (32) and his wife (34). I’m a full-time high school [HS] student and part-time line cook. I have been using ovens, stoves, etc since i was like 10. Im also an aspiring chef and im going to be taking foods courses after graduation (that I will be paying for). ... | AITA for using the stove? | NTA |
110ba88 | My friend of 6 years I used to work with and I have always discussed work together and it helps alleviate a lot of stress.. we have always discussed this topic. At one point she got a boyfriend and stopped working, I stated to her that I know she won’t want to hear about me talking about work anymore and I was okay wit... | AITA for talking to a friend about my problems. | NTA |
110el5r | So… my boyfriend is the love of my life. I can’t imagine to be ever without him. He is kind, mostly understanding and would change the whole world for me.I love him so much. Sometimes we talk about physics or other stuff, when I need help in my studies. He is very very smart and a lot smarter than I ever could be. He l... | AITA for asking my boyfriend to translate instead of reading aloud a text in English? | NTA |
110078s | Hi,So me and my girlfriend are currently doing LDR, going strong, almost 1 year. In 2 months she is coming to visit me in my home city for 2 weeks, and I haven't seen her since mid-January. Her older brother, who lives in a country near me (she lives other side of the world) wants to come to visit her whilst she is in ... | AITA for being reluctant at letting my girlfriend's brother stay in my place? | ESH |
110ebf3 | I (19) was just getting some water from our electric water dispenser, then my mom called my dad, who was on his phone scrolling on Facebook, asked him to help her out with something, I went back to my room after getting my water, then all of a sudden, my dad called me to get out and help both my parents in putting asid... | WIBTA that I got offended when my dad bad mouthed me for no reason for not putting aside the clothes from our clothesline? | ESH |
1102qn2 | So I'm 24, and been living with my mother for all my life. My parents got separated when I was 2 years old, they never got in touch again and made their own lives by their own, but to the eyes of the law they are still married.They have been using me as a messenger for every cocern related to money or any studies expen... | AITA for telling my parents I don't want to negociate their divorce? | NTA |
10zufpe | Posted from a throwaway as I don’t want this linked to my normal account For context I (31F) have been with my partner (33M) for almost 5 years. My partner vaped when we first met but told me he was in the process of quitting by weaning to a lower concentration and frequency. Fast forward to 3 months ago and we are eng... | AITA for not considering my partners vape supplies a necessity | NTA |
110cv3m | So for contex: I (15F) have been diagnosed with severe scoliosis by the time I was two months old, there are a lot of things I can’t do to this day even normal stuff like carrying your backpack, playing certain sports, and a ton of other things I’ll probably never be able to do. I even had to wear a brace (I started we... | AITA for getting upset at my neighbors kid? | YTA |
1106t5t | i (22F) have a childhood best friend (24M) called nick, me and nick met through our parents as they were friends through high-school. nick and my brother (25M) Leo, don’t have such a good friendship. they haven’t liked each-other since they met. Leo met a new girl at his workplace (29F) and he introduced her to me, nic... | AITA for taking my best friends side over my brothers? | YTA |
110cdzl | AITA for not wanting to be corrected while doing chores?I (43m) share household chores with my wife (39f) and often when I do them she comes behind me and basically checks my work and feels the need to correct my “errors” and tell me how I can do a better job. A good example of this is when I do the dishes, she likes t... | AITA for not wanting to be corrected/critiqued when I do household chores? | NTA |
10zygnp | For context I am in my mid 20s and have a good relationship with my mother/family. My mother is doing well for herself and runs a sucessful buisness.Five years ago I paid off my mother's housing loan. It worked out quite well as she had around 5 years left to pay and the amount was around the same that I had in the ban... | AITA For expecting my mother to give me a loan after I gave her a loan? | YTA |
11063aq | (Sorry if the format is scrunkly, im writting on mobile)I (19f), live with my mom (40f) and currently dont live with my grandma (73f) anymore for some years, but i have lived with her for most of my life.in recent years ive noticed a lot of bad things she has done to me, on purpose or not.she has done wonderful things ... | AITA for not wanting to apeak to my grandma? | NTA |
1102us1 | I went to a birthday party with my most recent ex partner, who is also my friend. I went outside and joked about running away from them when they came outside, which made them upset. However, instead of telling me, they sat outside sobbing, and then they yelled at me for not knowing it would upset them. I got angry bec... | AITA for not forgiving my friend? | ESH |
10zylj3 | This April will be my 25th birthday and my family has already started planning a big party. By big I mean about 20-30 people family and family friends. And my brother will take me to a basketball game earlier. I have told everyone repeatedly for the past 12 years I don't want a party for my birthday. I never enjoyed pa... | AITA for bailing on plans for my birthday? | NTA |
110bpu6 | Me and my mother talking about yesterday’s incident where my aunt was scolding us in front of other relatives, like we are some 8 yr old kids, one of my cousins walked out because she was mad. Although they admitted that she was at fault at that time and I added a comment the she (my cousin who walked out) do really ho... | AITA for not taking my mother’s side? | NTA |
10zvnxg | So, I (M14) went to the store today in order to buy some potatoes, and I asked my mom if I may as well could buy some snacks, and she said yes, so I went to the store and I bought the stuff, after coming home I put the stuff in the kitchen, left it there and decided to do some other stuff while she was making food, eve... | AITA for asking my mom to let me buy a snack I was saving for later because she ate it | NTA |
10zx3nh | This is something that I am truly confused by and I cannot come up with an answer by myself.​So my friend came to visit a week ago and has been staying here for a week. He leaves in like 2 days. He is taking a road trip around the country. My friend does drugs but I have never really cared. The stuff he does... | AITA for not caring that my friend brought drugs into my home and not telling my roommate? | YTA |
10zxi1x | I (37f) and bestie (34f) met when we did some local modelling. We clicked right away.Fast forward- I moved to Mexico with my kids. Bestie messages- she's going through some things and is coming to visit! My landlord drove me 1hr to pick her up, She saw us when she got out, waved, but stops at the bar mid-way, drops he... | AITA for kicking my bestie out of my home and "stealing" her clothes in Mexico? | NTA |
10zvbe8 | I’m gonna try make this very short Basically I’m very big advocate for PDA of course there is good PDA and bad PDA but my feelings towards it doesn’t make me interfere with anyone honestly.I’m okay with a kiss, a hug, holding hands and the couples being in love and happy in public (I find it soo incredibly adorable) b... | AITA for walking away from my friends when they kiss | NTA |
10zvwdd | Yo, so I (16M) am working this Tuesday, Valentine’s Day, and my girlfriend (17F) wants me to take it off and hang out with her. She’s making Valentine’s Day a big deal and honestly, I don’t like the holiday because of the materialism associated with it, I’m a Buddhist and I believe you don’t need to give material thing... | WIBTA if I didn’t want to spend Valentine’s Day with my girlfriend? | NAH |
1100j93 | I'm sorry if this is long but am I the AH? My sister has been staying off the weed for about last year off and on, and she is a major cleaner who likes a clean house. (Not neat freak clean) but she left the house on Wednesday, and came back yesterday. Anyway she was distraught that the house was a mess and no one had c... | WIBTA talking back to my sister who is quitting smoking. | ESH |
1101wtv | Hii, I’m 14F and my parents are 39F and 36M. My siblings are 11F, 10F and 4F if that’s important tooThis happened a while ago, I was around 12 I think. I still feel a bit guilty about it to this day so I’m just gonna get right into the story or something. Important: I’m overweight and tend to binge eat sometimesSo I ha... | AITA for eating before dinner? | NTA |
10zv28x | I am due in about 4 weeks and my In-Laws live an hour away. My in-laws never want to drive to the city my husband and I live in. We always have to go to them. Small background My in laws are very controlling. I don’t have a relationship with them at all. My husband is getting distant with his parents. His mom whined an... | AITA for noting wanting to bring my newborn to my in-laws if they can’t control their dogs? | NTA |
10zuzdh | So here’s what happened: So my mom (71) (biologically my grandma) just had a heart attack in December and she was on a bed rest for two weeks. Doctors say she’s fine now and can drive on her own and stay by herself, but she is dependent on me driving her everywhere and she gets mad if I don’t drive her. So because of t... | AITA for going to my boyfriend for a few days | NTA |
1101kgr | Who is in the wrong in this situation? We decided to ride our bikes to a Sports Store to pick up some skates. Before we left, I looked at the store website to see which brands/type of skates they carried. I confirmed the two options that I would want to look at. Then I looked up the store’s phone number to give them a ... | AITA for not checking inventory on the sports store website? | NTA |
11061ea | My grandma came to visit in November. She was rather absent in my life and was slammed onto me when I was 18. Like- that is the biggest part that I detest mostly. Suddenly I'm expected to treat her with the affection that you give a grandma, the way that I give my mom's mom? No, I don't have it in me to do that. Especi... | AITA because I don't want to apologize? | YTA |
110613i | So, for context, I (15f) have 1 friend (16m), I'll call him Steve. Me and Steve have been friends for about 3 years now. Often times, he'll talk about his friends up state. That, or I help him through his problems. However, lately he's been ignoring me. I'm afraid he doesn't care about me anymore. I don't mean to make ... | AITA for being upset that my friend won't talk to me? | NAH |
1103hrk | Recently, my friend has been hanging out with one of our mutual friends. No invite for our other friends in the group.I used to play games with her a lot alone which is why I feel like she’s one of my closer friends. This mutual friend of ours has a work schedule and so he has limited time to play, and I’ve noticed my ... | WIBTA if I told my friend I’m unavailable at night to play games | NTA |
1101j4l | So I (22f) was in a relationship (25m) for 4 months. He's been spending every weekend at my family's home since New years eve. It's just been a thing, anyways I was venting to him, while driving him home. And he told me I handled the situation well, but getting emotional about it was letting them win. (I agree to a poi... | AITA? I made him walk half way home. | NTA |
1109qfo | I 25y F have been married to my husband 28 for going on 4 years now. We have two daughter a 2yr old and a 2m old. Us 4 are very close and do everything together. MY parents have been very helpful with my 2yr old daughter since she was born and are the only ones who I’ve let babysit ever.. my in laws have always done th... | AITA FOR NOT TRUSTING MY MIL | YTA |
10zy7mv | First post ever, so here goes. My husband (M39) and I (F37) got home last night around 11pm, and our apartment building was dark. The hall lights and entry way lights were off, and the entry buzzer was not working. Not a big deal, we had our keys, and I used my phone’s flashlight to see going up the stairs. We were may... | AITA for joking around when letting in a neighbor who I have never met? | NTA |
10zxzox | Short backstory: I've been no contact with the woman that birthed me (mother) for maybe 15 years now for many reasons. Aunt 1 is also no contact with mother. A few years ago granny was in hospital. Aunt 1 has been caring for her single handedly with zero help from mother, Aunt 2, or any of us cousins at all. Whilst gra... | AITA for being offended? | NTA |
10zvnu0 | I've had my housemate since August. When she moved in, she let me know that she was bringing her cat (I'm highly allergic). We agreed upon leaving the cat in her room. Eventually, she asked if we could let him out for small periods of time like twice a day and that she'd buy me allergy meds. I appreciated the gesture a... | AITA for getting upset with my housemate | NTA |
10zxpau | Sorry about the title not making sense. I admit I have some mild OCD. My husband and I fight a lot about seemingly little things like how he needs to use soap to wash his hands rather than just leave them under the water for 3 seconds, etc.I try to be patient but I find myself taking on all of some of the household cho... | AITA for doing laundry the same way my husband did that made me mad? | ESH |
10zxkas | For context, I'm getting married in less than a week.Atm I'm working elsewhere but will be flying back to my hometown for the wedding. My fiance & I haven't been apart for too long since he came with me to help me settle but now that he is gone I'm alone with my thoughts. I feel like no one cares about me. I'm less... | WIBTA If I tell everyone how I feel? | NTA |
10zx0fn | For background: my (f17) sister (f14) is continuously verbally abusive to my family at home, and she’s been making our home life hell for almost two years now. My parents have called social workers on her before but nothing drastic has come from it. There has been discussion of sending her involuntarily to a mental ins... | WIBTA if I tell my parents that I caught my sister shoplifting, despite having shoplifted before and having never been caught? | YWBTA |
10zy5sq | Ok I will try to make this short while providing details.At 5 am this morning on my husbands way to work, he told me he wanted to go visit a friend in a state we live in that is having a rough time of it. Now by a rough time, I don't mean anyone died, or he lost his house, or got divorced or anything. He lost his j... | AITA for not wanting my husband to take a trip, when we will both be taking the same trip in 6 months. | YTA |
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