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10zsltb | My ex has been ignoring his parents ever since he broke off our engagement. They’ve come by multiple times and he always ignores them and tells me not to open the door. A few days ago, he was out when they came over. I opened the door because they usually don’t leave for a very long time and I didn’t want to listen to ... | AITA for letting my ex’s parents in when I knew he was ignoring them on purpose? | YTA |
10zni7j | This morning, my mom was upset with how dirty our bedrooms are and we didn't do our chores last night. She was yelling at my sisters and I to clean up and eventually turned on my dad. My dad does most of the cooking and when he uses pots and pans, he'll usually put water in them or clean them and put them back on the s... | AITA for repeating my dad's words back to him? | NTA |
10zpflm | I've (42f) had COVID for 8 days, and I've barely left our bedroom. My husband "Will" (37m) has been sleeping on the couch the whole time. He's been really awesome through the whole thing, bringing me food and cookies and Gatorade. I've had a rough go of it (despite being double boosted), so it's been really helpful. To... | AITA for kicking my husband out of bed after he threw my things on the ground. | NTA |
10zsyq1 | I (23F) work as a housekeeper in a small hotel my dad runs. My husband (23m) and two boys (1.5y&2 mo Boys)also live there until we can get on our feet.There is a couple in one of the rooms who is a long stay. Meaning they basically live here too. I met them my first few days working here. I usually see them on ... | AITA for being nice to a customer? | NTA |
10zqvso | I met a girl let’s call her Abby online about two years ago. We both went into similar things which made it pretty easy for us to connect. We talk to each other every day and put always play video games together. Along the way, we decided to make a server for not only my friends, but also hers and that way we could all... | AITA for helping my friends now ex-boyfriend | NTA |
10zqtm7 | I, (17 M) took a flight to a state. We arrived at about 12AM and my dad got a rental car for my siblings, my mom and IHe then woke me up at 6:30 to get on the road to College A. I fell asleep and he woke me about 15 minutes before we got there, and asked where we were supposed to park. I checked the confirmation email ... | AITA for leaving the car during an argument? | NTA |
10zoe8m | This happened not too long ago my brother(18), my mom(60), and I(23) were sitting at our dining table about to pray, but before we pray we always have a little chat of things that we did. At one point of the conversation I mentioned that my brother bought some pokemon cards and a card binder from online. That was a mis... | AITA Argument with my mom | NTA |
10zrl21 | English isn't my first language, so I'm sorry for any mistakes. It happened 3 years ago but it was recently brought up by some friends, so I'm wondering if I really was the AH as they said. I (19F, 16 at the time) was in my second year of High School (it's 3y here). I wasn't in a good place mentally, I did treatment fo... | AITA for calling my classmates incapable? | NTA |
10zriox | I (18F) a university student, have two friends from my home town Beth (18F) and Sarah (16F) that I haven't seen since we went on a trip in the beginning of December 2022. In the 2 months since I've seen them I have consistently been trying to facetime them to catch up on day to day stuff and also bigger things that hav... | WIBTA for cancelling a catchup with friends I haven't seen in 2 months | NTA |
10ztkxr | Short post.Kids recently got hoverboards, don’t worry we checked the ages and they’re appropriate + only used were safe, like our garden and with helmets.Kids are great on them, no accidents and they love them.Wife decided to try one out, insisted on our daughter (12) holding her hand - daughter did then snatched her h... | AITA for “giggling” after my wife fell over? | YTA |
10zqzr4 | I'll preface this with why I feel I might be TA. Dad has a history of abuse and neglect with his parents, and they tried everything in their book to keep him literally "enslaved." For the most part he had broken away from his family's toxicity, but when it came to me he was extra insecure and extremely overprotective w... | AITA for giving my dad silent treatment so that he couldn't coerce me into not attending the university of my choice? | NTA |
10zqnib | My niece (29F) is getting married this summer. Her fiance (age unknown, M) is from Massachusetts so the decided to get married in Cape Cod on a weekend this summer. I (62M) respect that. However, my wife is a retail pharmacist (58F) working for an independent pharmacy with all that entails (good pay but hours that are,... | AITA for not attending niece's wedding | NTA |
10zs46h | My husband has had a very difficult pandemic period. It made him very depressed and triggered alcohol addiction issues to make it simple. Now he is making a lot of effort and progress on that front, but we're still not back to where we were before it all happened.He hasn't seen my family in at least a year or two. He h... | AITA for being sad my husband never comes with me to my parents' or friends | NTA |
10zjj4h | im sorry for phone formatting but i really need go vent. anyways my best friend (16,M) and i (16,F) have known each other most our lives since we are family friends.recently he bought a spotify premium family acc and added me as a member, which i was incredibly grateful for. Yesterday, suddenly, i was removed by the “f... | AITA for asking my best friend if i’d done something wrong | NTA |
10zr9tm | Waiting to go out for the day with the baby in the car, I’m standing outside beside the car because I have to move my car first to let him out then park back in the garden. 2 minutes pass and I ask in at him is he ready, yes I’m coming now. 3 more minutes pass and he arrives. I ask what he was doing when we literally w... | AITA for asking him what he was doing? | ESH |
10ztp6p | Throw away bc my wife is on redditI (33m) am currently on a trip with my wife (32f) visiting my in laws and staying in their home. I am a huge vaper and have used it to quit cigarettes. For me the great thing about vaping is I can do it inside every once in a while. I've gotten really good at finding the right moment t... | AITA for vaping indoors? | YTA |
10ztg2v | My fiancé’s (F29) sister (F32) is an accountant. Very introverted, slightly awkward, but overall a nice person. As such, she doesn’t really have any friends but does have a long time boyfriend (M30). Their relationship is interesting. They mostly seem like close friends but they’re together and seem happy. Every year, ... | AITA for wanting my fiancé to cancel plans with her sister to attend a wedding with me? | YTA |
10ztatz | Short story long, last night I was in a bar with friends & colleagues, and as some of them were leaving, we made an innocent comment about someone we barely knew, who minutes before were complaining about some work-related shit. My friend told me they were behind me, so I asked her “do you think they heard us?”. Sh... | AITA for calling out my friend on a hurtful comment? | ESH |
10zt4c7 | This is kind of a long story so I’ll try to get as many of the details as I can. This all began in March of 2021 when I needed to have some repairs done to my car. I worked at a dealership but even w/ my employee discount it was going to be about $2000 worth of work. I spoke to a friend that i worked w/ and he said tha... | AITA? I had a friend “working” on repairs for my vehicle for the last two years | NTA |
10zswme | I'm an 18 year old F and my grandma, 60, is getting married soon. I have no idea who she's getting married to as I've never met the guy before. Both my mom and my aunt weren't invited for some reason, but me and my younger sister were. My grandma asked me if I could be a "junior bridesmaid" at her wedding and I had rep... | AITA for refusing to be a bridesmaid at my grandma's wedding? | NTA |
10zq3a9 | For Christmas I got my boyfriend Nike socks, adidas pants, 2 candles that he likes, & a ps5 game. I gave it to him on 12.20 since I’ll be away on Christmas. When I asked about mine he said he didn’t order it yet. Im like okay cool no worries. A week goes by. I ask again. Still didn’t order. Says he doesn’t have mon... | AITA for not accepting my bf Christmas gift? | NTA |
10zjjmo | I (20M) has several best friends. Kayla(20F), Jacob(20M) and Nina(20F). Both Kayla and Jacob has their own group of friends, while Nina is Jacob's girlfriend. At first, I would only hang with their group separately, but sometimes I would just invite both groups to hang together, with Nina even becoming fast friends wit... | AITA for not wanting my best friend to be left out during my birthday. | NTA |
10ztx4r | I have a 10 years old daughter with my ex husband. After our divorce his sister moved in with him to help him raise our daughter.My ex sil and I never got along. She can't have any kids and she was always jealous of me because she loves kids. Now she acts as if she is my daughter's mom. When my daughter was younger she... | AITA for trying to change things? | YTA |
10ztw6n | I (F20s) live with my dad and mom's house whilst I go to college. I pay rent but below market value.Basically my mom asked me to paint the back garden fence as it hasn't been painted in a while and she thinks it looks rundown and she "wanted to give me something to do".She didn't specify what colour she wanted the fenc... | AITA for painting the fence black? | NTA |
10zttop | So for some context on this, my ex step mom (35f), let’s call her D, and her mother (72f), let’s call her B, used to abuse me. I went through 10 years of child abuse from both of them. They were on drugs and always drunk at the time and are better now after going to rehabilitation centers as ordered by courts. But yest... | AITA for confronting my grandmother (67f) and mother (46f) for talking to my ex step-grandmother about me? | NTA |
10ztqz7 | So this is my first time using reddit and this is a long one so bare with me. This story involves myself (27m) my parents and my 2 younger sisters (age:23 and 20). This all started when I was 16 when my parents separated, and my dad went to live with his new girlfriend. My mom spiraled out of control and her already ba... | AITA My mom insists on me having a wedding but offers very little help | NTA |
10ztf87 | So my friend recently started dating a new guy like 3 weeks ago. In those 3 weeks she broke up with him twice for him not meeting one of her standards. Last Saturday she broke it off because he wanted to see his friends over the weekend but she demands he see hee once every weekend. Then She calls me yesterday saying a... | AITA for not wanting to meet my friend's new bf? | NTA |
10zt83e | I love them- they're family- but they don't treat my mom well (their daughter). They criticize her, to her face, and nothing she does ever seems to be enough for them. There's always something that isn't up to their standards, and they make sure to tell her.​My uncle (their son) and aunt are expecting a girl... | WIBTA If I didn't visit my grandparents? | NTA |
10zhmiv | (Sorry if it's all over the place, English isn't my first language.) I 20f has been living with my grandparents and aunt, mostly because of some family drama and me moving just makes everyone happier. Here's the issue I usually get paid about three thousand-ish (south african rand) and would normally give my mom (used ... | WIBTA If I didn't give my mom a thousand rand since I don't live with her anymore | NTA |
10zswdk | So I (F28) am getting married this month and I did not invite my (M32) “bestfriend”. Yes, bestfriend with the quotes because I stopped talking to him for about 6 months. And to be honest, I didn’t feel like we were really be bestfriends.It’s just that I feel like most of our friendship he was using me. From buying gift... | AITA I stopped talking to my best friend and did not invite him to my wedding? | NTA |
10zs1w4 | dramatic title i know but bear with me. (i am using a throwaway) my best friend (24F) and i (21F) went out to get drinks. prior to arriving we had agreed we would be going to my apartment after and she would drive. we get there, i drink more than i would if i were driving. we leave and i let her know i’m in fact drunk,... | AITA for calling my best friend selfish and telling her it would be her fault if i crashed and died ? | NTA |
10zj2pk | So right after the pandemic I moved in with my aunt and her husband and their daughter and it’s been 2 years since then. No specific reason I moved other than the fact that they have a spare room and I wanted to live in the city. Both my uncle and my aunt have well paying jobs in the city as they work in tech, but my l... | AITA for asking my aunt for money after I moved in with her and her family during the pandemic? | YTA |
10zrsf1 | My cousin, let's call her Sarah, is always complaining about her job. She talks about how she's been in restaurant for decades and back in the day you had to work so much harder than us younger people etc. She's constantly saying these things that low-key belittle my work, and how much easier it is and how we "don't re... | AITA for telling my cousin that her crappy job is her problem? | NTA |
10ziv3d | Hello, first of all, English is not my first language and im on my phone so sorry for any of my mistakes. I (19, f) am living in Turkey. As you know, Turkey had one 7.8 and one 7.6 earthquake on 6th February and i live in one of the most affected cities, Adana. My mom is from Hatay, where is the most affected city. My ... | AITA For Getting Mad At My Friends Words? | NTA |
10zhmd2 | I (18M) have an older brother, Harry (21M). He has a new born son with his wife (23F) Maria.Harry and Maria have an awful relationship. They've been together for the past six years on and off and Maria is mentally abusive. She's insanely jealous to the point where she wouldn't let Harry hang out with our older sister, ... | AITA for letting my friend hold my nephew? | NTA |
10zpwv7 | My(19M) friend(19M) let me know about his relationship of about 6 months.I found out that he call her potato,and he seems fine with it.I didn't even know her name and i never tried to found about her or talked about her with my friend.Recently he posted her photo saying "best potato ever".The next day he made some dish... | AITA for making a joke about my friend's girlfriend? | YTA |
1108ee4 | I (30M) found out yesterday that a new phone line was added to my wireless account. When I logged on and checked, it showed that I added the line from my account's username and that it was a new number. I called the number from my phone and a girl answered, who I immediately recognized as "Marie" (not her real name). M... | AITA for disconnecting a phone line I didn't know about? | NTA |
110d5zl | I'm a 32 year old woman who lives alone in my own place that I own. Growing up I was never taught any typical home maintenance stuff, how to do basic repairs, what different tools are for etc because my dad is a bit of a chauvinist who thinks women don't need to know that, their husbands will.I learnt everything myself... | AITA for shaming my brother for renting? | NTA |
1100h2y | I am a 38m. Daughter (Isa, fake name) is 17f. Stepdaughter (Ava, also fake name) is 9f.Isa's stepfather recently died. I felt terrible because I knew while they weren't super close, he'd been in her life since she was 5, so I knew it must've hit hard. My family was also invited to the funeral.The issue is, however, is ... | AITA for bringing an emotional support animal to a funeral despite my daughters wishes? | YTA |
110aj01 | Thanks for the support. To clear up parts of the story. I should have handled the situation differently(I NEVER said no to her).When Mark went on leave for the first time he was home for 2 weeks before he got shipped out. In those two weeks Alice was conceived. Mark is 100% Alice's bio dad.Disregarding Alice's feelings... | AITA Update Not wanting to "officially" adopt my daughter? | NAH |
1100pu4 | I 26M have been with my girlfriend for a bit over 2 yrs. We live separately but she's been spending most days at my house. I eventually gave her a key to my place. I'll come home from work and most of the time she'll be there. She basically lives there. Has a lot of her belongings there,showers, sleeps there,etc. She h... | AITA for not allowing my girlfriend's sister to sleep at my house ? | NTA |
1102zvq | I wasn't a great person in high school. My friends and I had our own little click and we weren't nice to some of our classmates. I tried going to college but it wasn't for me. I got a job at a car dealership and eventually started selling cars. I'm pretty good at it so I make a good living. My younger brother did ... | WIBTA for not wanting a woman I used to bully at my wedding. | YTA |
110b3gc | My mom has a daughter Amy (27f) with a man called Brian. He left her while she was pregnant but stayed in Amy's life. When my mom met my dad four years later Brian started causing trouble and turned Amy against my dad, and later against me and my younger sister. Amy was not kind to us over the years. Mom and Brian were... | AITA for admitting to my mom that I was glad my half sister wasn't at a party? | NTA |
1108lt1 | I (23m) was given a German Shepherd (4f) by a friend (21f) about half a year ago. She got the dog as a rescue, and told me she was having trouble with training her. She wasn't adapting to the new house, new owners, or other dogs. Along with this, it was just bad timing. Not having the money to take another dog in. I as... | AITA For not returning a dog a friend gave me | NTA |
1108f0y | My best friend (27f) and I (26f) have been friends for 20 years. Let's call her Lisa. Lisa is an amazing person, and I love her to death, but I feel as though she isn't growing. She is stuck in her partying phase that I got over years ago. I have a full time job, im planning a wedding, and im in the process of buying a... | AITA for telling my best friend that she needs to grow up and do something with her life? | ESH |
10zumny | Throwaway AccountI (35m) used to be married to my high school sweetheart "Kelly" (35f). We got married after undergrad and overall I would say that we were really happy. The biggest conflict that I would say we had was the topic of children. Not the idea of actually having them but when. I've always wanted to be a dad ... | AITA For Showing Up To A Party With My Pregnant Wife That My Ex Was At? | NTA |
1106rtu | My youngest daughter Vivian tells me that she hates school. Vivian doesn’t have any issues with bullies and enjoys socializing with people. But she hates waking up at 7:15, she hates listening to lectures in class, and she hates studying and homework, even for a subject that she’s interested in. And there’s frankly **N... | AITA For refusing to pay for my youngest daughter to attend college unless she goes to community college first and earns the grades to transfer, when I offered and paid for her siblings to go straight to four-year colleges? | NTA |
10ztcwp | Throwawy because my gf has reddit.My GF Lauren has a great relationship with her boss Chelsea, actuallyreally friendly outside of work. They go to dinner or lunch together and discuss both work stuff and real talk.Even though Lauren always looks very clean and put together, she also isn't a very professional dresser in... | AITA for dressing "casually" to a work dinner? | YTA |
1101y3f | I’ll try to keep this short as i can. I’m a RN and I work 12 hour shifts mostly. If you’re in the medical field you know how tiring it is when you just want to come home, take a shower and sleep because you probably have to do it all over again tomorrow. Well when i come home I can’t sleep because I have 2 kids i have ... | WIBTA for not cooking my husband dinner anymore | NTA |
10zw3k6 | I started a new job and was paired with a deaf personWe had hard time communicating, even through texting on the phone I brought this up with the boss and she said that it's difficult for deaf people to learn to read bla bla bla (which is true, the median reading grade for deaf high school graduates is fourth grade) Th... | AITA for refusing to learn sign language | NTA |
10zy8wm | I (M25) have a friend (F25) whom I often cook with. Nothing romantic, or even sexual between us. We just like to get together every once in a while. One think we do is a food prep once a month. And every single time I use chicken or a roast she insists on washing the meat. I have tried on multiple occasions to e... | AITA for making fun of my friend for not washing ground chicken. | NTA |
1106coh | My son is 10 and growing a bit. The clothes that were bought for him in September are already getting a bit tight. So me and him went to Old Navy and GAP to buy him new stuff. When he went to his mom's (we are exes and share 50/50), she asked for his old clothes so she could resale them online.I asked her that to give ... | AITA for keeping my son's clothes? | YTA |
1103s3c | My parents, brother and I constantly go on trips out of town, usually to the bigger cities outside of my small town. These are planned, all day things, including going to multiple stores, malls, restaurants, etc. I make sure to put in some extra hours at my job or do some freelance work to have a little extra bit of mo... | AITA for not wanting to go on trips anymore because I never get to do anything? | NTA |
1105iur | Wife (30F) and I (33M) had plans to go out to eat so before we went to a nearby brewery for a drink. . It served food but we didn't plan on eating there, just drinks. This was a place we had never been to. In my area dogs are allowed outside with a dog friendly patio permit, but not indoors where they serve food. ... | AITA for leaving a dog outside and unattended at a restaurant | NTA |
110aqt1 | TA account:I (23f) am a SAHP to a 18m girl. Since I have more flexible time (I make passive income) I babysit my niece “Kay” (8f) a lot for my sister “Pat” (35f). She has 4 kids but only Kay lives w her. She’s a single mom so when Kay needs to be picked up from school, or when Pat gets off late etc. I get her. I didn’t... | AITA for not wanting my niece at my house anymore? | NTA |
110drvo | I (29M) am a super social guy at work. We used to have a really cold, unwelcoming office and my team (4 of us altogether) we're brought on to improve morale so I'm not saying that to brag, it's literally part of my job description - organising events, fielding complaints and relationship dynamics, just generally making... | AITA for being "cold" to a newish coworker? | NTA |
1106suw | I (30ishF) have had a rocky relationship with my mom for pretty much as long as I can remember. I grew up being constantly criticized.My parents raised me in a church that became cult-like over time (women expected to be subservient; anyone who left was shunned; etc.). When I was 17, my parents left. I was in an arrang... | AITA for telling my mom to be the f****ing parent? | NTA |
110bxtb | Alright so I've always assumed I've had a good relationship with my *adopted* parents and siblings and haven't really had any problems with them until this. So I(F20) was told about my sister's birthday that was happening and my adopted parents asked if I was going to be attending. I told them that since it was after w... | AITA for insisting my family pay me? | NTA |
10zygjb | I've been in online classes for over 2 years but have finally reached the end of the semester and had my final presentation last week. Every class I've asked multiple times for people (my husband, kids, parents or visitors) to stay out of my room while I'm in class because due to the professional and graduate level of ... | AITA for locking the door and asking people to stay out of the room while I'm in zoom meetings? | NTA |
110ai6f | Me (17m) and my aunt (40f) have never had a good relationship. She didn’t want my mom to have me, after a lot of issues she did have me, long story short. She’s never liked me. She didn’t want me vaccinated, and my mom did anyways- because she’s my AUNT and not my mother- and it just added insult to injury. I got diagn... | AITA for acting… so…. autistic?? | NTA |
110azbl | I (21F) have been babysitting my nieces for absolutely ages, since the youngest was 2 and they’re 7 and 9 now.I’ve always babysat for free, although I’ve been told several times “it’s not babysitting it’s looking after your nieces”During secondary school I was pretty depressed, I didn’t do well in my GCSES and figured ... | WIBTA for refusing to babysit over a rumour? | NTA |
110b2sk | My SIL refused to attend our wedding because her religion means she does not “believe” in homosexuality. My wife and I have since had our beautiful son, with minimal involvement from my wife’s side of the family. My wife’s parents refuse to acknowledge him as their own.My SIL is getting married soon. She wants my son t... | AITA for refusing to participate in my SILs wedding | NTA |
110cngr | I have been married to Mira for 3 years and we just had our son together a few weeks ago. Around this time my ILs, but even Mira to a point, have become very interested in me reconciling with my mom and having my sister and I be closer (we still talk, just not a lot).BG: When I was 16 I caught my mom cheating on my dad... | AITA for telling my ILs that they have no right to interfere in my life? | NTA |
10zzg2x | So my husband and I started working on getting debt free a few months ago. The debt is not extreme and we expect to fully pay it by the end of this year. We keep a pretty much comfortable lifestyle but we have to manage our finances more wisely.Yesterday, my husband tripped over a power cord and knocked a glass of wate... | AITA for telling my husband we can't buy a new laptop until we are debt free? | NTA |
11024c8 | I’m in College Chemistry I this semester, and it’s a lot harder for me than I expected. I also have ADHD that I manage pretty well, such as sitting up front to help me pay attention, avoiding distractions, etc. There are a couple of girls who like to whisper during lecture, but I’ve learned to tune them out. Yesterday,... | AITA for getting up and moving in the middle of class? | NTA |
110bqvg | i was living with my brother. his girlfriend moved in a couple of years ago. together they have just bought a house and i'm staying with them for the time being.now, at the apartment her mom would stop by once a week for an hour or so. no big deal. since we've moved into the house her mom has been here every day for lo... | AITA if i don't want my brother's girlfriend's mom over all the time? | YTA |
1102odc | So my daughter dropped a phone into the toilet and my wife immediately took the phone out of the case and put it in rice.In the past I told her the rice hack is a myth, but she believes and now I don't bring it up anymore. However when I saw she put the phone into our pantry rice I asked why she needed so much for a ph... | AITA for not wanting to eat toilet rice? | NTA |
110dyp8 | My mum started making her own bread at the start of lockdown. Its not good; crust is chewy, bread is dense, tastes dense somehow, falls apart both when trying to slice, and when consuming. She started doing it because its "healthier and cheaper". My mum stopped buying bread, and I have had to effectively cut bread out ... | AITA for telling my mum to stop making stuff. | NTA |
10zxqa2 | I’ve been a long time follower of this sub, but this is my first post. Some background: I (38m) am from a European country. We have three levels of High school and college. They essentially come down to: Junior college, Community college and University. If you do well in community college and pass all your courses in ... | WIBTA for buying my sisters ‘dream house’? | NTA |
1103hhi | We recently moved to the city and the public school there is awful, so we sent our two daughters (Apricity and Garnet) to a private school. Garnet is in 6th grade. There is a uniform and the school is strict about it. You can wear 4 different variations, uniform one (long skirt and blouse thing) uniform two (romper wi... | AITA for forcing my daughter to wear the "male" uniform | YTA |
110bpea | Throwaway for obvious reasons, I'm on mobile so ignore mistakes please. I (20F) have been working at a small start up my dad owns since I was 17, there are two separate departments of about 6 people each. My boss (38M who i will call Lary) got hired 6 months ago to manage my department that mostly handles customer serv... | AITA for calling my manger a pathetic power-hungry pervert in front of the whole office? | NTA |
10zwlrs | My (35M) wife and I took our kids for dinner at the local pub/restaurant tonight with another family. I took my son (3) to the toilet around 6:45 to deal with a bit of a poo emergency.While my son and I were in the cubicle two guys (20s, a little bit drunk but not out of control) came in and were waiting to use the toi... | AITA for getting two guys thrown out of the pub after they wouldn’t leave me alone in the toilet | NTA |
110bqiv | Our family was at a mini golf place enjoying ourselves. It was my husband and myself, plus our two young kids - 5 and 2. It wasn’t a particularly busy night but there were a few parties spread out throughout the various holes on the course. We noticed there was a large group that seemed to be creating some commotion ne... | AITA for yelling at the parents of kids who were being disruptive at mini golf? | NTA |
1101hzx | My wife is pregnant, due end of Feb. My mom lives in another state (FL), we told her very early so she had ample time to plan. A month ago she drops the info that she’s scheduled visitors to her house for 90% of the month of March and can only come 3/1-3/4, when my wife will still be in hospital or just coming home. At... | AITA for not sucking up to my mom | NTA |
110efqe | I'm 33F and since getting my first pay cheque at 18, have always given a large chunk of it to my mum. She's a single mum who doesn't work and although I haven't always been consistent with giving her money it has been a regular thing throughout these years. The problem starts now because I'm living abroad and am at th... | AITA for not wanting to give any more money to my mum? | NTA |
10zxq4c | When I first met my stepchildren, I fell in love and devoted all my time, energy and money to them. We had them every weekend and we built a great relationship, or so I thought. I never tried to be a parent, never disciplined or told them what to do and left all that to Dad. They became involved in my family events, I ... | AITA for going on holiday without my stepchildren? | NTA |
110eg7b | My girlfriend (30F) and I (40M) have lived together about one year. I am introverted and keep my interests to myself, while she is excitable and talkative, and likes to gush about her interests. I listen politely, but I just don't care about most of the topics, and the chatter cuts into my quiet time. If I cut her off,... | AITA for teasing my GF for talking about her hobbies? | YTA |
110e3lr | EDIT: I don’t think I emphasized the level of noise properly. It’s not a normal amount of apartment noise (I also have a condo in the US and I am both the upstairs and downstairs neighbor. My upstairs neighbor has kids and a dog - no problems there) After asking the dad this morning, it was noticeably quieter and calme... | AITA for asking neighbors to be quieter in the morning? | NTA |
11098vd | I (25F) have a difficult relationship with my father. My mother passed away a couple of year ago and our relationship has only gotten worse. My father was always absent growing up, constantly at work. He didn’t spend a lot of time with me and when he did, he just talked about how I disappoint him. This is a bit odd sin... | AITA for returning my father's gift | NTA |
1100rlm | TLDR: I’ve a broken leg and I’m on crutches and my husband keeps soaking the downstairs bathroom floor. I’ve asked him to use our upstairs bathroom until I’ve recovered. And now he’s so angry at me I can’t believe I’m posting thisIt’s so ridiculous. So I (F40s) currently have a broken leg, and I’m in a leg cast and on... | AITA for asking my husband to use the upstairs bathroom? | NTA |
11057nl | Last night after going out with her friends, my (20m) girlfriend (20f) called me asking if I could come pick her up because she was too drunk. Since I was already there she asked me if I could give her friends a ride home too. I thought it was only fair if they reimburse me for gas money because it was a far ride there... | AITA for asking my girlfriend to ask her friends to pay me for driving them home | YTA |
1107bil | So, a backstory leading up to this: a few days ago my kids, 3&6 had a snow day. My husband also got the day off work due to the snow. He spent nearly the entire day on his laptop watching shows while the kids and I played. I was upset because I thought it could have been a great day to connect and make memories wit... | AITA for being out with the kids when my husband got home from work? | NTA |
10zy0lr | Me (29F) and my fianće "J" (26M) recently welcomed our first child "V"(F). Last weekend we were invited to a family gathering from my future In- Laws ( His Dad, StrepMom and basically all of Js paternal family) for celebrating "the first child of the oldest son of the head of the family". If it matters, Js paternal fa... | AITA for embarassing my fianće in front of his family | NTA |
10zvecw | I (M28) recently got married to my now wife (F26). We had about 40 people there, and It was lovely.Now, the reason I didn't invite my sister Is mostly because of her attitude. She loves being better than people and berating others. Last time we were at a wedding for my cousin, she wore a white dress with white pearly ... | AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding? | NTA |
10zz7yn | I 23f have been dating let’s call him John for 3 months now and I also have a sister 21f let’s call her Emily.John and Emily have only met once, but that’s because she doesn’t like him and she is away at college but only 2 states out so we see her every month or so. Emily says he feels scared around him. At this point ... | AITA for choosing my boyfriend over my sister | YTA |
110cx9m | For the past six months, my partner (39m) has been exciting himself with the dangling carrot of going travelling at the end of the year (he likes the idea of backpacking around Asia and Eastern Europe. He never got to do much travelling when he was younger and first starting out in the finance industry. Now he’s a free... | WIBTA for taking time off of work to visit my mum, rather than going away with my partner? | NTA |
110cj5f | I (27M) met this girl named Kat (27F) online in July of 2022. Everything started off great we would talk everyday. We even sent each other good morning and good night messages. The problem started around thanksgiving. Every year around thanksgiving my job (private airport) gets really busy until after the new year. So ... | AITA for wanting to not be on my phone all the time. | NTA |
110elj0 | Hi! Firstly sorry for any grammar mistakes, English is not my first language! Some background: so me (f19) and my friend (f23) live about 7 hours away from each other and are both collectors of albums (this will be important information for the whole situation) Around beginning of December my friend asked me what I was... | AITA for snapping at my friend after she lied to me of where her money came from? | NTA |
110e9dg | I have been struggling with severe health anxiety off and on for nearly two years now. I've been making a lot of progress over the last few months, but these past two weeks, I've been extremely anxious and have fallen back into some of my old compulsive behaviors (checking my heart rate and blood pressure, asking for r... | AITA for calling 911? | YTA |
110e73m | SO… mil bought a dress that’s grey on the skirt but the top is literally like a wedding dress. Imagine the upper half of a classic white lacy wedding dress. She calls her other two sons and their partners (partners are writing this post) for opinions and we’re kind but honest about the fact that A) you can’t wear white... | AITA for telling my mil her mother of the groom dress looked like a wedding dress | NTA |
1100gca | I am a middle school teacher and I have been at my school for 13 years. My grade level colleagues are a great group and work smoothly together. This year a math teacher quit and we got a new one at the start of the new semester. From the start she rubs people the wrong way. She has a student also attending our school ... | AITA for asking another teacher to stop doing something in front of the class? | NTA |
110fz13 | Hi, using throwaway for privacy. So this incident has divided my friend group and I'm very confused, so looking for impartial judgement. I, 21f, recently went on a blind date that a friend set up for me. For some background, I work full time, have a very stable income and enjoy finer things in life. Ofc if I'm out with... | AITA for rejecting someone because he didn't have a job? | NTA |
1109s7b | I am 30F, my husband is 40M. We have a 9 month old daughter, and two huskies. I work a full-time hybrid job (60/40 remote/in person). I do all the cooking and preparing meals for our baby. He is a stay at home dad, takes care of our garden, and our 6 chickens. My husband says I need to do more to keep the house clean. ... | AITA for not doing more around the house? | NTA |
11050rs | My parents were living in a condo, and the owner was being a jerk. Back in September, my husband (33 M) and a close friend of ours (24 M) went over during their free time to help load the moving truck and pack. I stayed home to watch my two young children (both under 5) because they would under foot. My parents stayed... | AITA for telling my dad that he is being shitty? | NTA |
110eigc | So I went round my friends house yesterday for a sleepover and there was one girl there who i knew but i hadnt seen for a year and we were never close, let call her Mia. We got to the point where we started having deep conversations and one of my friends was oversharing a bit so Mia told them to calm down as they may r... | AITA for making someone cry | NAH |
110aipc | My girlfriend (30) and I (23 f) have just moved about 2 and a half hours away from where we met each other and our family and friends reside. We started dating about 6 months ago and moved in obviously a bit early. Everything is pretty great and we have been settling in fine but I have noticed a pattern of her clinging... | AITA for asking my gf to disinvite a friend from our housewarming? | ESH |
1109qt4 | *****Editing to add that my advice to leave him is NOT unsolicited. I DO listen to her, I DO remind her that she is loved. She usually asks for my opinion/advice, I just don’t know what else to say anymore besides “leave him”. I(26f) feel like an asshole because this has been a never ending cycle and I’m starting to wo... | AITA for telling my best friend she needs to leave her boyfriend | NTA |
110fr3x | My roommate was off from work one day last week and had been with my dog at home. She wasn’t asked to take care of the dog or watch him at all, they were both just there. I get home and she proudly states that she fed him a chicken bone. I asked some questions and she said he ate it in little pieces, then by my reactio... | WIBTA if I let my roommate pay my dog’s vet bill when she fed him a chicken bone? | NTA |
110fcx7 | Throwaway So I (28f) work as a lead generation specialist and since i am one of the oldest employees here, i also manage the office. My co-worker, let's call her Max (22f) is the second oldest employee. She works as our in-house website and graphic designer. She's the only designer we had until a couple months ago when... | AITA for embarrassing my co-worker? | YTA |
10zu9ok | I’m (20sF) moved to Mexico from Texas to be closer to family two years ago. I got a job at an office, where I made my first friend here, Luz (20sF). Luz and I were the youngest at work and we bonded over our shared love of sports, some fandoms, and because we both love Tom Hiddleston.For Christmas last year, Lupe mad... | AITA for not taking down my work calendar? Boyfriend hates it. | NTA |
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