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10usv6v | I live with my brother. I do all the grocery shopping and cook dinner every night. I’m under no obligation to do so, but he’s my brother and I love him and I love cooking and enjoy when other people like my meals. I average $300 every 2 weeks on groceries and I don’t complain about the cost. It’s food and it’s a necess... | AITA for asking for $20 chips and cookies? | YTA |
10uzyrv | Me and my best friend have known each other since elementary. I introduced her to my other best friend I known for 10 years. They hit it off pretty quick even though it was never intended to be romantic shes dated some of my guy friends before and I’ve fell out with them because of it. It got to the point when I liked ... | AITA for not telling my best friend I still hang out with her ex bsf/ex bf | NTA |
10uvmid | I (37F) have two kids. We will call the oldest one John and he is 15. The youngest one is just 3 and will be 4 this year. We will call him George. A year ago my son was diagnosed with a level 3 autism. I've tried hard to help him out since I'm the only one who knows how to handle him. I rarely take him around my mothe... | AITA for calling my kid a nickname? | YTA |
10tssg7 | I (f23) am a masters student, and privately tutor a few kids in maths as a side hustle.One of the kids I tutor, Zoe (f15), already had pretty decent grades before I started tutoring her. I normally tutor Zoe for around 3 hours a week in three 1 hour sessions after school at the library.Yesterday I was scheduled to tuto... | AITA for cancelling a private tutoring session without contacting the student's parents for their permission? | NTA |
10tkhvq | I (19F) just moved into an apartment with two other girls, Kayla and Maya (both 21F). Two days ago, I had my boyfriend Liam (20M) over, and we were hanging out between classes. We lost track of time while talking and realized that if we didn’t leave in the next couple of minutes that I’d be late for my afternoon class.... | AITA For Telling My Boyfriend To Use My Roommate’s Bathroom? | YTA |
10v38tw | I work in an extracurricular organization in university and was given some org funds to use on some things. I ended up getting everything done with the money that they gave me and had quite a bit left over. I'm not the Treasurer of the org so I tried to hand it over to the Treasurer, but they refused and said that I sh... | AITA for wanting my colleagues to pay for the money I lost? | YTA |
10v381r | So last night me (17m) and my brother (15m) were fucking about, as you do, when I decided to pretend to crack pepper in his hair which he laughed off. Little did I know that he decided to crack pepper in my bed. I found this out later when I was looking for my vape juice ( don't judge, using a vape to successfully quit... | AITA for wanting by brother to go to therapy before I talk to him | ESH |
10uzt3t | I (NB25) have had a tumultuous relationship with my father (56) since I was in high school. He used to have a pretty bad alcohol problem and did some pretty scary things when I was younger. He doesn't drink like that anymore, and so we've sort of rebuilt our relationship, mostly for the sake of my mom (56) who I am clo... | AITA for refusing to play music out loud in a public restaurant? | NTA |
10uskv3 | To keep it short but sweet.When my brother does anything that doesn’t involve the gym, he is incredibly lazy.I have had to put up with it my whole life. He keeps expecting people to DO stuff for him like figure out his homework that he procrastinates to the last second.And while you may think that doesn’t sound so bad…... | AITA for telling my(25M) brother(23M) I’m not his tutor and he needs to figure out his college hw himself? | NTA |
10umdca | Context: I (16 M) am a junior mechanic at a Porsche Specialist, it is pretty obvious that we work/service and repair Porsches only. One day last month, this woman drives in unexpectedly (you are supposed to book before showing up) in a 2006 Toyota MR2. Me and the rest of the ground staff were confused but me being on b... | AITA for refusing to work on a car that our shop doesn’t supply for? | NTA |
10v35d5 | I (17M) have a very strict teacher named Ms. Jones. I also have a weird bladder condition, not exactly sure what it is because I haven’t been to a doctor in 2-3 years, where my bladder seems to be a lot smaller as I constantly have to pee. Ms Jones doesn’t really like me constantly having to get up during almost every ... | AITA for peeing in my teachers trashcan after she wouldn’t let me use the bathroom during class? | NTA |
10um8q8 | AITA for wanting my boyfriend who works 65+ hours a week to help more around the house?My boyfriend (M, 37) is a truck driver. He works M-F and leaves for work anytime between 2-4 AM. He gets home between 6-8 PM. He works between 65-75 hours a week.I (F, 37) work from home in Sales Support as a supervisor M-F 8 AM-5 PM... | AITA for expecting my blue collar boyfriend to do more? | NAH |
10uo7xh | I drive a 2009 Ford Focus that I bought from my older sister seven or eight years ago after I got my license. I only paid a little over $1,000 for it at the time, but it needed extensive repairs and maintenance to pass inspection, things like a new brake system and gas tank. I used to have a spare key, but at some poin... | AITA for not having a spare key? | NTA |
10tfn48 | Me (38) and my sister (32) were pregnant around the same time. Her baby was due a month after mine. Unfortunately, my sister and BIL were in a tragic accident a few months ago, and she lost the baby.My baby shower was last week. It was just at my house with a few friends and relatives. I did tell my sister I was having... | AITA for posting pictures of my baby shower on social media? | YTA |
10ukpo7 | So, I (17M) am the only friend in my friend group that isn't white (I am black). My friends make some racist jokes occasionally, but I don't mind it (usually just basketball-related jokes). I try to be a chill friend and not take the jokes too seriously. But then one day, one of my friends (17M) makes a joke about slav... | AITA for making jokes about my friend's dad? | NTA |
10uth1c | Few months ago, me, my gf and my mom are on line for Rise of the Resistance. We get through the part where you board the star destroyer and into the interrogation area where the staff member dressed up as an imperial officer separates you into parties/gives your seat assignments.In front of us is this plump, sixties s... | AITA for yelling at Augustus on line | YTA |
10uwxvv | My brother's girlfriend has been fuming about my birthday party for an entire week, but I feel I did nothing wrong. January 30th was my 27th birthday, and on the 29th we decided to celebrate by going to an escape room with just my family, and of course my brother's (25m) girlfriend. (38f) I had been planning this for t... | AITA birthday Edition | NTA |
10umdrd | Myself and a friend created a joint instagram account for reading and sharing our love of books back in the summer of 2021. We both used to post on it fairly regularly but then I got more busy with work and uni so started posting on it less. Also slowly drifted apart with said friend due to issues within the friendship... | AITA for changing a joint instagram accounts password? | ESH |
10uuwcl | I (27f) have always been an anxious driver after a traumatic car accident. With time and therapy it’s gotten better to the point where I can actually drive, but I still struggle when my partner (25NB) is in the car. That’s because they’re also anxious when I drive and tend to scream or yell “LOOK OUT” but not tell me w... | AITA for making my partner do all the driving? | NTA |
10uz9x7 | I (17F) am currently a senior in HS and I had recently gotten an honor roll award at my school for my last semester. I had a 3.6 gpa and I was pretty proud of it. Today, I'm relaxing in bed and looking over homework when my brother (20) comes in to say hi and he sees my honor roll certificate laying on my bed. At first... | AITA for telling my brother to get out of my room? | NTA |
10ut9p7 | I (19 F) have a cousin G (17 F) and our common bff (18F) M. It was M's birthday a few days back and we were just hanging out, G and M suggested to do a prank call to a guy who has a crush on G (see my last post for details) but the guy had both of their numbers so they decided i should be the one to talk to him using m... | AITA for trying clear up a messed up prank? | YTA |
10trzyi | I(23F) have been with my boyfriend “Mark”(24M) for nearly two years and we’re thinking in moving in together and currently in the process of discussing what that would look like for us. Now I’m a fairly messy person and I don’t need to have our place look like a model home, but Mark’s dog, “Rex”(2.5) is making me consi... | AITA for telling my boyfriend I won’t move in with him unless he rehomes his dog? | NTA |
10uqjhe | My (21) boyfriend (22) of two years doesn’t like my friends. A year ago, two of them picked me and him up from the airport after break. My boyfriend’s mom had just passed away suddenly of cancer, and he had buzzed his head for her. It was a noticeable change in haircut, and my friends complimented it when they picked u... | AITA for making my boyfriend be nicer to my friends? | NTA |
10uea95 | Warning English is not my first language so there could be mistakes. I (F18) got into an argument with my grandma and my aunt because I didn’t allow them to cut my hair. Today my aunt and cousin’s were here to visit me my parents and my grandma and to take my grandma back home because she doesn’t live in the country. ... | AITA for not allowing my aunt to cut my hair | NTA |
10uwiue | This happened in high school, but one day a classmate brought in treats for the class. I was infuriated because there was another event going on at the same time to memorialize the dead. It was personal for me because I lost a friend a year prior and it felt really disrespectful to me. The classmate ended up crying but... | AITA for scolding my classmate's actions and bringing it up again at graduation? | YTA |
10tddte | This happened last weekend but I'm still having arguments over this with my friend so thought I'd come here to get some outside perspective and opinions. So last Saturday one of my coworkers and good friends was throwing a birthday party for her daughter and she invited me. I asked her what I should get her daughter an... | AITA for getting a 15yr old a gift she wanted instead of the one her mom wanted? | NTA |
10un8xc | I(38m) and my (53f)girlfriend just had to get our car repaired and it came out to 1800$. I have sent 500$ so far for a down payment and am working on getting more sent to her. However her mom and son both owe me money so I asked her if they could help cover it. She says I am an asshole for asking because her mom is... | AITA for asking my girlfriends family to help with car repairs? | NTA |
10uo2le | We've never had a close relationship for as long as I can remember. See, I'm a product of an unplanned teenage pregnancy and so I never really saw my mother around because of her aspirations to graduate highschool and then go onto college (she's a very smart woman academically). I can understand that she never had the ... | AITA for calling my mother controlling | NTA |
10uq1j0 | I'm 20 years old I currently live in Florida. I have an old friend I met in 7th grade will call him RJ, while we are not particularly super close or anything I've known him for years, we never really hung out or anything but we are cool no issues which each other, sometimes used to play cod zombies on ps4, and we talk ... | AITA My friend wants me to move to Seattle and be his roommate | NTA |
10unyq3 | TW for faking disorders and severe mental health. TLDR: Friend copied identity and faked disability so hard our entire friendship group cut them off.Just to be clear there is no case of “you don’t know what they were going through” here. I’ve known this person since we were both young teenagers. We are now in our 20’s.... | AITA For Kicking A Faker Out Of My Friendship Group? | NTA |
10uscl3 | Back here again with another AITA. So, long story short, my nana doesn't have much longer with us on earth. My cousin who owns her house promised my nana that she wouldn't be unfair to my cousin who lives there. Well, now my cousin is kicking him out with, what he though, nowhere to go. But my mother and I have decided... | AITA: made a public post | NTA |
10uyil1 | I very recently wrote another post which has a similar theme about using other people's things. I found it helpful to see other's opinions on things so I'm making another post.I bought a really shitty nail varnish that I used and wanted to take off so I asked to use my roommates nail varnish remover. I didn't take note... | AITA for replacing my roommates nail varnish | NTA |
10v22iw | I am a dentist currently working 10 to 4 (unpaid internship of 3 months)I have been living at my aunt's for a month now. My parents house is 2 hours from the city where my job is at. So my father and uncle discussed and decided that it would be best for me to live at their house for 3 months instead of getting a new PG... | AITA for not helping out in a house I (25M) am living for free(food included) ? | NAH |
10ujp7e | Let me elaborate here. I'm 21 and my sister is 19 turning 20 this year. Me and my friend Jay have been planning to move out together and we've been saving up money. We got a rough date of when we wanna move which will be the end of March. My parents have been planning go move to another city at the Start April, which i... | AITA for not wanting my sister to move out with me to help her finish school? | NTA |
10v1y1u | So, I (M18) had recently entered and left my first relationship (NB17). We dated for about two weeks before the relationship was cut off relatively suddenly, they had said they weren't ready for a relationship which while I was obviously upset by, I accepted the reasoning and was respectful about it. We were super clos... | AITA for "harassing" my ex? | NTA |
10v1vqv | I’d 40F been in a 18-month relationship with my ex 39M. I have 1 child 12F to his 3 22F, 18M and 16M. Since his divorce, he decided he didn’t want anyone to ever rely on him again.We’d had 3/4 near misses with contraception but agreed we didn’t want kids. Although he’s undiagnosed, we’re both relatively certain he’s on... | WIBTA if I seek child support from the father of my child after I agreed not to | NTA |
10uvkqu | I moved into a 3 bedroom apartment with a couple and a third woman. I thought it was a good setup, because the location is great. The roommates had jobs that would keep them out of the house for days at a time is how they sold me on it, (flight attendants) and I work remotely from home full time. They greatly overestim... | AITA for not hanging out with my roommates? | NTA |
10v1v5h | English is not my native language, please forgive grammar issues.I, (31F) have a daughter. (11F) She had played in a chess tournament last Saturday and won first place.Earlier yesterday afternoon, my Daughter received a message from one her chess coachs telling her she'll compete in another tournament. The catch is, th... | AITA for not letting my Daughter study chess with her phone? | YTA |
10urpsj | So lately I've been getting frustrated with a friend who I've known for a long time. We text and message each other almost every day, but whenever it comes to making plans, he never wants to do anything and acts like I'm making some kind of unreasonable imposition. For example, I'll ask, "Hey, do you want to go to xyz ... | AITA for giving my friend the silent treatment over this? | NTA |
10uy20u | I (19F) live with my sister (24F) and my dad. Every year for my mom’s birthday we go to her gravestone and celebrate her by doing her favorite things. My sister always is a control freak about everything and when i try to help she either tells me to forget it or just neglects it and doesn’t use it. I usually get really... | AITA for skipping my late mom’s birthday? | NTA |
10uxx9f | this should probably be would we be the asshole but anyways:i (f) am currently in high school, and our school trip is coming up in a few weeks. the room assignments arent set in stone, but here is the most likely scenario: me, n (f), a (f), and L (nb, he/they) will all be sharing a room. the issue lies with L’s girlfri... | WIBTA for asking my roommate not to bring his gf to our room? | NTA |
10tts53 | I’m 19(M) and I went out for dinner with my girlfriend (18F), her best friend (22F) and one of her friends (19M). Prior to this evening, me and my gf’s best friend never really got on but always kept it mostly civil. The evening seemed fine and everyone was enjoying themselves, we had pizza and different wines and cide... | AITA for ordering the bill when somebody was not finished? | NTA |
10ugnv9 | I (27F) live in Honolulu, HI. My friends & I spent the evening around the Ward Avenue area. We parked at Dave & Buster’s while there was still literally over 100 available stalls in just that one parking level. We started the night at D&B for food & drinks, then went a across the street to a rage room t... | AITA for taking a long time to get out of a hood stall? | NTA |
10v1n9v | So here's the story, back in high school there was this girl I had huge crush on since 6th grade whom I'll refer as "Emily". She was one of the most popular students in our batch as well all boys like her. But there was this guy I knew who happens to be her classmate and guy best friend whom I will refer as "Rhys" (PS... | AITA for getting mad at someone over high school crush? | YTA |
10uoqqr | So this may, I am supposed to be graduating with a double degree and my parents (along with my entire family) are pressuring me to walk. Now, I am the type of person that doesn't really like all of that. Personally, I would rather stay home and rest because Graduation is the day after my last final. I wanted to recoup ... | AITA for not wanting to walk at my graduation? | NTA |
10v1ldj | A good friend of mine (M/21) has been together with his girlfriend (F/20) for 4 years and moved in together 2 years ago. Since then she has cheated on him 2 times, and then always went to him and has "shown remorse", and he has forgiven her every time. I have long thought with a friend whether we should talk to him abo... | AITA: I (M/20) talked to my Friend (M/21) about his Toxic GF, now he is mad at me, AITA? | NTA |
10uopnk | This is a throwaway, just because my sibs follow me on Reddit. Every Sunday me and a some family get together at my parents house for dinner. I got Covid in late 2020 and developed acute smell distortion where most foods, esp veggies, taste and smell rotten. I’m a vegetarian with mostly a vegan diet so it’s a lot. For ... | AITA for not attending family dinners because of my diet restrictions? | NTA |
10upnqc | I (20F) have been with my fiancé (20M) for three years, his family don’t particularly like me, namely his dad. I’m not really sure why, I’ve tried my best to get them to like me, but it’s just never happened.My fiancé (I’ll call him Jack) proposed to me, with the promise we wouldn’t get married until we graduated unive... | AITA for planning a fake wedding? | NTA |
10v1eiy | Okay guys longggg backstory i( m18) went on a school trip with a group of people. One of which was my ex from two years ago. I didn’t not know she was going until we were already on the bus and informed my girlfriend thereafter. My ex tried to start an argument with me and I didn’t entertain it and walked away. We were... | AITA for staying in an argument | NAH |
10tsspl | Our daughter is turning 16 in about a month. I have been saving for a while and have about 12,500 to buy her a car. So not a great car but enough of a car that it will get her where she needs to go and not be in the shop every other month. This is basically everything she needs but maybe not all the wants. My hope is ... | AITA for refusing money from my ex on my daughters behalf? | NTA |
10upb26 | I have a good friend i stay with when I visit my home town (we’ll call her Tina). I actually still pay rent for that apartment that we applied for together before I transferred to a different city. I currently live across the country, in NY, in a relative’s house, and Tina now lives in our shared apartment alone. She’s... | AITA if I don’t respond to friend’s constant cries for pity? | NTA |
10ufnji | My siblings are over 20 years older than me. I used to draw and paint a lot as a child, I was creating realistic art since I was 5 and I won several prizes. Each time they came home, they would request a big drawing / painting, that I was working on, or that recently had won a prize. I always caved in, as I thought wha... | AITA for asking my siblings to give back my childhood drawings. | NTA |
10uqels | As young couple’s tend to be, we’re extremely broke. I’m trying to make ends meet by selling old stuff. One of these things is a decent quality pair of binoculars. There’s really no reason for her wanting these, they’re just taking up space. So would I be the asshole for telling her no? | AITA for wanting to sell my pair of binoculars my gf wants | INFO |
10ukpup | So I have Two friends that I have gotten close with. One friend (Kelly 27f)was single when we met and extremely desperate in a sense to get married and start a family. She talked about it non stop. She met a guy(bf 32m) April 22 on a dating app and by June they were wanting to get married. He still lived with his paren... | AITA for expressing my feelings about my friends fiance? | NTA |
10tl1zz | My fiancee and I are having a small intimate wedding at an exclusive location. The package we bought, which is pretty expensive but perfect for us, includes the bride & groom, maid of honor, best man and ten guests. There is a hard limit on ten guests. To have more than ten we must upgrade to the next tier of the p... | AITA for not inviting my brother's boyfriend to my wedding? | NTA |
10v4797 | Background-me (23f) and my best friend (26f) are best friends ever since I was born. You can see my previous post on how me and my best friend got into fights because she want me to break up with my boyfriend because she felt like she was being replaced and that he is no good.I messaged her after her not speaking to he... | AITA- for saying my bsf is toxic | NTA |
10um9gf | I have a good work-friend (and outside of work friend as well) who is getting married this fall. We both work in an elementary school. I got a random message from some of her not-work-friends (have never met them) that they are planning on throwing her a major bachelorette weekend a 2hr drive away from here on the week... | WIBTA if I told my work friend about a bachelorette party her other friends were planning on a very inconvenient weekend?? | YWBTA |
10v0qkj | I (F 28) got a job a couple of months ago working with neuro divergent children. At first the job was rewarding, but I find myself lately hating the job with a passion. The problem isn't the children, it''s how slow the work is. The job is one on one, teaching life skills and to me it's become so painfully slow that I ... | AITA for leaving job with neuro divergent kids because it's not stimulating enough? | NTA |
10u5m8k | I22 am from New York. I have a very strong New York accent, and I’m Italian, so I guess I speak loud, I don’t mean too and don’t notice. I was on my second date with this guy James24. James is very put together, a conservative, a grad student. He came from money. We went to a nice restaurant, and I ordered the lightest... | AITA for being “loud” during a nice dinner? | NTA |
10ulz0d | For context, I am a contract web developer and stay-at-home mom, who works from home and struggles with ADD & PMDD. My husband works full-time at an office business. He is the only one with a car and a license, as we live in a walkable neighborhood and I don't drive.Both of us make good money. He pays the rent, uti... | AITA for asking my husband to put his dishes into the dishwasher? | NTA |
10ultxh | I (f27) live with my partner in the UK. My parents (f58, m60) live in a different country. During covid, my father’s business was going downhill. He has been working his own business for nearly 20 years, so clearly he wasn’t ready to call it quit.Last year, he borrowed money from me twice. First time it was USD$6000 an... | WIBTA to tell my mum that my dad borrowed money from me? | NTA |
10ub1yo | My wife and I (47m, 46f) have three children (24f, 20m, 17f.) Without getting into a bunch of boring details my wife and I run a fairly successful business. However due to certain economic setbacks it hasn't been as fruitful lately as it was in years past.We were able to support our oldest daughter and let her live in ... | AITA for making my son pay rent before age 21 even though I didn't make his sister do the same? | YTA |
10ur8rp | Me and my mother had always bumped heads because she thinks I spend too much time in the bathroom, and I admit it's sometimes true, I do enjoy an occasional long shower or bath, sometimes I have to shave, do my skincare, or make up, and in those instances, if I know it will take a while I gladly let her go ahead of me.... | AITA for telling my mom she can wait for her turn to use the bathroom? | NTA |
10uknoe | To keep long story short.I had a grandma that I genuinely did not respect neither did she, though she stated otherwise. As far as I remember she was big toxic person and all of the visits to her was a nightmare for me. I am going to vacation tommorow (planned almost 4 months ago) and it seems that the funeral will be o... | AITA (25f) since I dont want to attend my grandma funeral | NTA |
10tvob4 | So. My fiancee has a bad fear of flying. Whenever we fly together she takes one of two options: 1. She drinks before the flight so she's tipsy and less scared2. She takes the local equivalent of a Xanax which basically means she sleeps most of the flightAs we are going on a transatlantic flight (11H) she went for optio... | AITA for not sitting with my fiancee during a transatlantic flight? | NTA |
10v3puk | → Yesterday at 11:33 PM\-Quiet down a little plsYesterday at 11:46 PM\-DudeZelex 2day at 2:08 AMYe dude. u do the same shit later. When ur dad has work. Up 2 2-3 pm sometimes that I can hear through my headset despite being pretty deaf. If u need me 2 be quieter early let me know ahead of time I rarely get the chance 2... | AITA Roommate stuff. | YTA |
10v0aqb | I (25f) have two sisters, K (35f) & L (28f). Our mother (77f) has various age-related health issues, & I live alone w/ her as her primary caretaker, & have done so for many years. K helps out occasionally as well, bc she lives nearby, but L lives pretty far away in neighboring state so only comes to visit o... | AITA for not telling my sister about our Mom’s appt results? | NTA |
10t709m | My son (17m) has apparently been in the closet for the past 7 months. So, my son is fairly masculine/straight acting if that makes sense, however he's very obviously had a boyfriend (18m) for the past 7 months. He sometimes baby talks to this boy, hugs him all the time, has called him handsome, share clothes, sits away... | AITA for telling my son that he is obviously gay? | NTA |
10v5vea | I wanted to go out drinking Friday night with my "friends" even though my wife told me she needed me. For context her father is in the ICU on life support and the power has been out at home all week from a winter storm and she was stuck there taking care of the kids. She said she would rather me come home because she w... | AITA for going to "play pool"? | YTA |
10tjehi | So after reading through the comments, I thought I'd give an update. First, thank you everyone that commented. This has been a sore spot for me for a while now. I got married 3 weeks ago and I'm the happiest I've ever been. The ceremony was beautiful and we had an amazing time. My brother was not in it, nor did he atte... | Update: WIBTA For Booting my Brother From My Wedding? | NTA |
10ugip1 | My husband & I have been married for 27 years. 3 years ago I was diagnosed with a chronic illness that limits what and how much I can do. We both work full time. House cleaning has become a constant issue between us. He gets mad and argues with me because he feels he is doing all the cleaning. I have good day... | AITA for setting boundaries about chores around the house? | NTA |
10tgvfa | So a couple of weeks ago a psychologist came to my school to present to my senior class a PowerPoint about how our nervous system works and how to keep ourselves calm during exam season. I, being a very curious guy asked the psychologist what the difference was between the sympathetic and the parasympathetic nervous sy... | AITA for asking questions during a psychology presentation? | YTA |
10v3emd | My husband told me last nite he'd got me an early birthday present, 3 months early. I asked him what it was, and he then went on to explain how it took a month of negotiations.I'm from North Carolina, he's a Brooklynite living here in Charlotte, NC. He's still got the Brooklyn accent.He said he'd negotiated to get me o... | AITA for being shocked by my husband's surprise? | NTA |
10ufez1 | My sister had asked me and my husband if we'd want to go somewhere with our 11 month old daughter. We looked up how far the place was and it's an hour and a half away. I said no because I don't want the baby in the car seat that long and if we were to take breaks, it would take us two hours to get there. Plus, she is s... | AITA for saying no to hanging out with my sister? | NTA |
10uj5yl | Long time lurker, first time poster in here. Quick context for reference. My spouse has been in and out of mental health/rehab facilities for the last 14 months. For a total of 9 months being gone. I work full time, and we have a nearly 3 year old child. So, as you could imagine, I’ve been pretty much a single parent d... | WIBTAH for taking my kid to a theme park without my spouse? | NTA |
10ukzuh | Me (22f) and my bf (23m) have been together for over 8 years.Yesterday we went out with his friends to a party and I did not know anyone. At one point he said him and a couple friends had to go to the car to get something real quick. I said okay but to try to hurry back. He ended up leaving me for 30 minutes. While he ... | AITA for accusing my bf of lying? | NTA |
10u4lfm | I effectively evicted my daughter and her new husband (they got married in Sept 2022) in January 2023.Why? I bailed them out of an entire year's rent & utilities from their prior landlord in a city where my daughter was SUPPOSED to going college (but did not attend single day)! Unfortunately, I was a co-signator fo... | AITA for evicting my daughter? | NTA |
10uzqxx | My husband is a ghostwriter and a stay-at-home parent of 2 kids (ages 6 and 9). while I am the working parent. My work can be very exhausting. I work from 9 to 6. So most of the time, my husband is the go-to parent when they need something or want to do something. My husband is very outdoorsy and active, so he always t... | AITA for handling the sleepover planning? | YTA |
10tx1aw | New throwaway account as my family is on here also written on a phone, sorry. I (30f) having been battling my weight my whole life. It's gotten worse since the pandemic due to thyroid issues, a layoff that led to depression and severe eating my feelings. I was already about 60 pounds over weight. I gained an additional... | AITA for not eating a meal my mom made for me? | NTA |
10u0dsx | I (F49) have three daughters, Maggie (F20), Miranda (F18) and Michelle (F15). My eldest moved out last year to transfer to a different college farther from home, about a 6 hour drive. We have an old house (it was built in the 1910s) and I needed some renovations done in my office because of some issues with the wiring,... | AITA for moving all of my daughter’s stuff into the basement? | YTA |
10ub0vw | Me (30F), my childhood friend (30F) and another childhood friend’s boyfriend (30M) started a bet to see who could lose the most weight by a certain date. The winner will get $250 from each loser.I worked hard at the gym for months and won the bet. However, seeing as these people are my long-time friends, I offered to n... | AITA for asking money for a bet I won? | NTA |
10ug8v2 | (Sorry for my English, it’s not my first language)Me ( 13F ) and my family had some sort of a family meeting a few days ago. One of my cousins (28M) talked about his mental health and how hard is it for him. My father (43M) then started talking about how that it’s nothing and he should just get over it. He said that h... | AITA for telling my dad that he is selfish? | NTA |
10tp9ps | Me (35M) and my husband (34M) adopted a girl(11F) 9 years ago. My husband is Italian and I am Brazilian, but we communicate in English as it is our common language. I always wanted my daughter to get to know my culture from an early age, so I invested in Portuguese classes so that one day she could travel to my country... | AITA for saying that my husband is jealous of my relationship with our daughter? | NTA |
10uhi30 | I apologize for any errors as english is not my first language.I’m feeling extremely conflicted about this situation and since last time this place helped a lot I’m hoping to get new perspectives. So essentially, one of my friends invited my wife (f24) and I(m27) on a skii trip this upcoming week. He’s booking an enti... | WIBTA for leaving without my wife? | YTA |
10tjdwf | My son (15) has a friend who is currently in inpatient mental health treatment. Even though the patients are underage, visitors under 18 aren't allowed, for whatever reason. My son asked me to go visit for him and give his friend some comics, a letter and a pizza. Apparently the food there is bad, but you can bring out... | AITA for not wanting to go to a mental health ward? | NTA |
10uk0w5 | Not native english speakerM21 here. I was bullied in the past a lot and I am often emotionally unstable plus I have social anxiety. This gets very ugly when I feel threatened, mocked or very inseccure. Also I am introvert and I like to be alone. Today I felt very sleepy after flying my Air 2s and I wanted to go to slee... | AITA for being angry? | YTA |
10uuwyn | AITA for not doing the dishes?So on Monday I was hospitalized for a migrane. I'm okay now, at the time my doctor thought it was a stroke as I couldn't speak or walk properly.For the past week I've been out of school and resting, spending most of the day in my room. But on Friday I was started in my new med, which has s... | AITA for not doing the dishes? | NTA |
10urul9 | So background I drive semi's after 10 yrs in army was raised to be honest. I'm otr so me and gf wanted to have early Valentines day sinner at hibachi restaurant and this happened. I had been waiting in line for 10 minutes to get to the frozen bar to pick my food for the chef to cook when out of nowhere the lady behind... | AITA for making a lady be told to leave restaurant | NTA |
10timnr | My 6 year old daughter takes MMA and Judo classes at a local dojo. We like the dojo a lot, except the woman (let’s call her Megan) at the front desk has gotten a bit…unhinged. I believe she is married to the owner but I’m not 100% sure. I have always allowed my daughter to choose how much she wants to bundle up when it... | WIBTA if I told this woman to knock it off? | NTA |
10uiqsa | My family are choosing to go on vacation in April, and my exams start in May. I said I didn’t want to go because I wanted to focus on my exams as I need quite high grades to get into the university I want. They said they’re only going for a week and I can spend the rest of the break working instead. Usually I would agr... | AITA For refusing to go on vacation with my family during exam time? | NTA |
10urk0y | I had gotten a text last night about 9:30 pm. This was the first time I heard of anything from my brother (24) and mom (dementia) about doing laundry until the last minute which was 9 pm. As a grown adult with my own responsibilities and things I would like to do on the weekends. I was not home since Friday after I got... | AITA: Am I The Asshole | INFO |
10ufov1 | I don’t like it when most people fuss over me so when my sister-in-law asked me if I needed anything I said no and that I was fine. The only person I’m okay with fussing over me is my husband so when he asked me 20 minutes later if I was okay and if I wanted something to eat or drink, I asked him if he could make me a ... | AITA for asking my husband to make me a cup of tea 20 minutes after I told my sister-in-law I didn’t need anything? | NTA |
10taopr | Backstory:My parents got divorced when I was around 11. Around the same time my mom was in a car accident and had won a fairly large settlement on top of my grandpa passing away right in the middle of it. So she was left with a fairly large chunk of money.During their divorce, my mom constantly kept me and my siblings ... | WIBTA If I sued my mom over my stolen college fund? | NTA |
10tlmql | I (24F) recently got a corporate job at a very prestigious company. I worked very hard to get where I am now, and I'm very proud of myself to be honest.My boyfriend of 3 years (I'll name him James - 28M) is my boss' ( Let's call her Nora - 36F) cousin (he has a completely different line of work). I haven't seen Nora ou... | AITA for defending my boss in front of her family? | NTA |
10uyxbn | My last post of the night, I've become addicted to the clarity others are giving me and the release I get when letting this all out.The title is very much the entire story and it sounds crazy but I promise it's true. My one of my hall mates was trying to get the same single room I was gunning for (we have had legitimat... | AITA for laughing at my friends misfortune | NTA |
10uhlzm | Rewind to September 2022, I had told my family that I was planning on going on a 1 month trip with my 2 friends for the month of January 2023.At the time I was feeling very lonely and was also planning to move out of my family’s house for the month of February 2023. It just so happened that a friend of a friend had pup... | AITA I feel like my mom neglected my dog while I was on a trip | YTA |
10uywc0 | In my opinion i did a diplomatic thing but i would like to hear what other people think because I think I might be in the wrong for doing this.We made a stop at the food shop , my Mum asked me and my brother what we wanted but it had to be healthy , I said I wanted a chicken and lettuce rap , she accepted that my bro... | AITA for convincing my mum to get my brother a sausage roll | NTA |
10uyuz3 | My boyfriend was watching Shameless by himself for 4 seasons of the show. I joined him occasionally in watching the show but really got hooked. We are long distance and both work full-time. Sometimes we watch TV for 30 minutes at night together, and we started watching the show together at some point. So we were on the... | AITA for watching TV without my boyfriend | YTA |
10tuukg | My (15f) half brother (16m) is half white and we go to a predominantly black school, so everyone makes jokes about it. For example, like someone told him that black history month ends for him on the 14th because he’s only half black. Another time when the teacher asked who was the only person in the room that would’ve ... | AITA for laughing when people joke about my brother being half white | YTA |
10tkccg | So my BF has been living in my condo for about 2.5-3 years on/off.My BF has only been helping me consistently with bills for about the last 6 months.The previous 2.5 years he'd help financially sporadically, like maybe a couple times a year.I'm appreciative of his help around the house but I told him I need more help f... | AITA for not selling my condo | NTA |
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