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10u8kp2 | To keep this short and simple, i am always taking notes in class, no matter the subject. All the while, my "friends" are talking and talking and talking. Now, we have our computer exam tomorrow and my friend asked me for the notes of the lessons there in the exam. I lied and told her i hadn't taken any notes of those ... | AITA for not lending my notes? | NTA |
10ud01a | Hello Reddit, this is my first post here. I have heard a lot of these stories, but now I finally have my own story. This is DnD related, but I assumed I could post it here since it's me wanting to approach the DM outside of the game.So, let me start by saying this is a sea campaign. We are a crew of adventurers/merchan... | WIBTA if I approached my DM about possible Favoritism | NTA |
10u9867 | So I (16M) and I live with my sort of adopted dad who I consider my real dad now and is pretty much the best parent anyone ever had but im not sure if im being an ahole to him.I asked my bf but he said its family stuff and he doesn’t want to get involvedI dont live with my bio dad anymore because my stepmum and her dau... | AITA for bugging my dad about wanting to do everything I can to get back my dead mums things? | NTA |
10txxns | I work in a secured environment where there's Tier 1, Tier 2 and System Administrators that work there along with some supervisors and a boss. Last year I managed to catch a job announcement that was for a Tier 2 position and decided to apply for it. None of the other Tier 1s saw it because none of us got an email sayi... | AITA for telling my coworker I wouldn’t apply for the internal position but did anyways? | NTA |
10tmeie | My (30f) husband (33m) and I got married three years ago, we have a three year old daughter and a good relationship between us. However, his mother never liked me or even pretended to. At all my in-laws' family celebrations that I attended, she made a point of calling my husband's ex wife. They broke up 5 years ago, bu... | AITA for leaving my husband alone during his father's funeral? | NTA |
10t8gj6 | I 46f am a lesbian and have been with my wife for 20 years. We have 3 children together, ages 18Bree, 16m and 12m.Bree is in college and has recently started dating this girl Nala. They’ve been together about 2 months. Nala is a nice girl I met her once but Bree has never had any interest in woman. Her whole childhood ... | AITA for telling my daughter she wasn’t gay? | YTA |
10tznyq | Throwaway just in case.My(F25) fiance (M34) and I plan to get married this year. We've been together since 2021, we live together and are both sure the other is our person. The problem isn't an in relationship issue but on his family's side. He has 2 siblings M(33) and F(31). Fiance's brother lives in another state s... | WIBTA if my fiance and I marry in Sepetmber | NTA |
10u2628 | My mom and dad originally got divorced in 2013. She found a new man, which was my stepdad. We should call him Rob. Rob was very rude to me and my siblings, but I could tell the only reason he ever stayed with us was cause of my mom's body. He verbally and physically abused me many times and never really gave me anythin... | AITA for not attending my stepdads funeral? | NTA |
10u5tw8 | I (F26) bought a van in Dec, my friend (M35) had offered to help me with it as something we could do together. The option of just cleaning and fixing it up to sell was talked about from the very beginning as backup.We worked on it together. He would insist on buying parts I didn’t need or Intended to pay for myself. H... | AITA for changing my mind about a project van? | NTA |
10ts9i5 | I (25f) am the MOH of my best friend's (25f) upcoming wedding. I have spent almost a year & over $1000 doing things for her bachelorette/ wedding. I have not complained once about anything, I have gone above & beyond on gifts, decorations, & plans to make everything perfect for her. I have asked her for zer... | AITA for wanting to drop out of my "best friends" wedding? | NTA |
10tqyyc | I (21f) and my boyfriend (bf)(22m) have been together for 3 years now. We live in long distance. I come from a poor household with almost no family. Growing up I learned that I don't need much to be happy and I don't like useless 'stuff'. I also learned that when you don't have money people expect you to do whatever th... | AITA for not eating my MILs cake | NTA |
10ty2bu | I (30F) am taking a medication that’s making it hard for me to eat. I ended up in the hospital because I was super malnourished. My mom (56F) felt worried about me and invited me to dinner at her home. An hour or so before I’m to come over, she calls me and says she’s invited a bunch of my uncles and aunts and some oth... | AITA because I’m not going to my moms dinner party after coming home from the hospital? | NTA |
10u5a79 | Hello, I(33F) am a single mon to 2 kids (10m) and(9F). Both of them are special needs. Any way, a while ago, my mom decided she wanted to go and pursue her dreams and left my little sister who was 18 and still in high school at the time, in an apartment with her mentally Ill boyfriend and friend of hers. She never tau... | AITA For Not Supporting My Mom During A Difficult Time | NTA |
10tw7xp | 28M and I’m getting married in June. The backstory of my friend group is that I’ve had my best friends all since like 8th grade. We all went to highschool together and I even went to college with one of them. There’s 5 others in the group besides me. Naturally people drift a bit after college and going into adult lives... | WIBTA if I told my friend not to come to my wedding after hearing some of the things he’s saying? | NTA |
10txq37 | I 28f have a 1 year old daughter. My husband (30m) and I have had a rule with our extended family about posting photos of our child on social media. We ask that they get permission from one of us before posting any photos as we don't want their pictures floating around to people we do not actually know ourselves. We un... | AITA for asking my MIL to delete photos of my child of fb? | NTA |
10t6rpf | In 24f whos infertile and got a cat around 12 years ago and died last night. Today my sister visit and saw I was crying and then I told her the news and her reaction was it’s not as bad as losing a kid. My sister has three kids she never lost one and she also said that I had my other cat. The problem is my cats are the... | AITA For Crying Over My Cat | NTA |
10ua5w8 | Hi, I'm not sure how to start this but basically me and my group of friends had this gc where we chat. My friend who I'll refer to as "K" for now is queer, and him and I are friends with 2 other girls. We're all somewhat queer.One saturday we were chatting about normal stuff that happened in our day, i was telling them... | AITA for telling my friend he only makes gay jokes because he has no other personality? | NTA |
10ujlau | Okay, so a little body context; I have a friend with whom I have developed a "situationship". Let's call him N; N & I are not committed but we have casual fun & we have had a talk about what's on the table & what is not. Each time a new situation arises, I ask his opinion & thoughts on the matter & ... | AITA for getting pissed at my friend? | YTA |
10tewd4 | I recently gave the ICAI Foundation exam and found out its result today. I had attempted this exam last year too but failed.I have a college classmate who likes to go around asking everybody who gives any competitive exams if they passed or failed. We don't talk much in class just on texts and that too just work relate... | AITA for refusing to show my exam results to a classmate? | NTA |
10twnhu | I (23f) and my boyfriend(23m) have been together 4 years with no breaks, this year will be our 5th. His dream before we even met was to be someone of change. He couldn’t join the military for skin reasons, he’d need ointment all the time and they don’t allow that so he decided to become a police officer. The problem is... | AITA if I tell him I don’t like what he’s going for but I support it? | NTA |
10tlmzz | ​(I am using a throwaway because I don't want this in my main account)Hi everyone, I'm an 19-year-old guy who has a 11-year-old sister. My parents both work full-time and they usually ask me to babysit my sister on weekends. I've been doing this for a while now and I don't mind it most of the time, but this... | AITA for not wanting to babysit my sister and her friends this weekend? | NTA |
10tkkns | Obligatory long time reader, first time poster! And i'm on mobile so forgive any formatting issues.So I, 22M live with my partner, 25F and we're struggling for money until she gets paid in just under a week. I cooked her some chicken nuggets, she ate half in her room, and when leaving they slipped down the door, and we... | AITA for putting her food in the garbage | NTA |
10tyshw | I (37m) am a domestic abuse survivor. I ended up at this house because I had to escape and my friends showed up for me. I will always be grateful for that. The house is owned by (40m) and also rented out by (32f). For this we will refer to them as M and F.M is very seclusive and has half of the house to himself. As he ... | AITA for having my girlfriend over once a week? | NTA |
10tvo8q | I'm the IT guy for my department (HR), which is separate from the actual IT department. My position is something of a liaison where I assist with technical stuff in many ways, but some thing require special admins to do it, meaning I needed to make a trip to the upper floors to the IT department.Our IT department is ju... | AITA for interrupting my colleague's lunch? | NTA |
10t7qas | For background, my stepfather is a CPA and has tons of sensitive information on his computer, including my own SSN as well as all of his clients sensitve information. I (21F) told my stepfather (74) that he had fallen victim to a gift card scam after he informed my mom he had been buying gift cards and giving away code... | AITA for yelling at my stepfather after he got scammed and possibly hacked? | NTA |
10tscf5 | Me and my boyfriend of 11 years live in a decent inexpensive apartment with our 2 month old. My in laws sold their home due to financial issues and are living in a hotel, due to having a large dog they can’t find an apartment and plan to never get a home again. Right now it would be to much for all 5 of us to live in o... | AITAH for not wanting to live with my in laws. | NTA |
10tvlr9 | I (23F) live with my parents (50s) and brother (24M), and am about to celebrate my one year anniversary with my boyfriend (23M) next month.To make a long and annoying story short, my boyfriend is not allowed to sleep over at my house, even when my parents are out of town (which is quite often). He’s not even allowed in... | AITA for being upset that my parents wont let my boyfriend spend the night? | NTA |
10t0b7o | My wife & I have kids between 11-15 years old. Today I took her to the dentist because she broke a tooth. She had it pulled & a fitting placed (don’t know the exact term but it’s temporary until a full replacement). She’s very anxious about the dentist, so I was with her, reassuring her, handling the paperwork,... | AITA for telling my kids my wife went to the dentist? | NTA |
10tgctx | I live in an apartment complex that is strictly smoke-free. That means tobacco, tea, cloves, marijuana, even vaping is prohibited. If you want to smoke, it must be done at least 25 feet from any structure. Over the two & a half years we've lived here, one of our neighbors (not sure which) would smoke pot on their b... | AITA For Complaining About Pot Smoke In My Apartment? | NTA |
10ttgkc | So I (22F) have a boyfriend Kyle (23M) that i currently live with. He has 3 friends/housemates and I have been staying with them for about a month. The place I worked at closed for good and I couldn’t keep up with bills for my own apartment so my boyfriend and his friends allowed me to stay with them. I have been tryin... | AITA for cooking and doing chores for my boyfriends friends? | NTA |
10uued9 | So for context, I am a transgender (female to male) teenager in the southern region of the united states. My parents do not know and neither do most adults. I am in high school and am out to most (if not all) of the students in my grade. Since my parents don’t know, there are often times I have to dress feminine becaus... | AITA for confronting someone for calling me “fake trans” | ESH |
10u3bov | Sorry if this isn’t formatted correctly this is my first time posting My(18f) bf(19) recently got his N, before this id constantly can to his house which was around $20 one way. He told me when he got his N , I wouldn’t have to pay for cabs anymore. Also when he’d cab to my house which wasn’t as often as I’d go to his... | AITA for complaining about having to pay my boyfriend gas money. | NTA |
10ua4br | I am 19 years old . Woke up this morning to her yelling at me accusing me saying I broke her clock . It was chipped.She’s saying I must pay for it to be repaired . I refuse to do so . Got into a small argument , I called her some bad names .We already have a very toxic relationship . It wouldn’t surprise me if she’s th... | AITA for refusing to pay for my Mum’s clock? | NTA |
10u4ttg | We know a family from our church and the wife is letting her sister stay with her and her family while she is in university. They have a young son and the woman is expecting their second child soon. We have two children and the sister has been our go to babysitter for a year and a half now. She is great and the kid... | WIBTA if I don't allow my babysitter watch her nephew in my house. | YTA |
10sud8l | **ATIA for starting a bathroom remodel for my daughter COMPLETELY FREE and stopping and pulling materials after her husband slammed the door in my face?** My daughter was pregnant and wanted her bathroom redone. I have 2 contractors who are very close friends of mine. I offered to remodel her bathroom 5 months ago b... | AITA for starting a bathroom remodel for my daughter COMPLETELY FREE and stopping and pulling materials after her husband slammed the door in my face? | NTA |
10tz7rn | To preface this story it happened a few years ago but I still think about it from time to time and wonder could I have been wrong.I had a best friend who basically lived with me while we were in HS. We were inseparable. Like sisters. We had a lot of ups and downs but I’m going to focus on a specific event. My now ex be... | AITAH for basically telling my bestfriend to get over herself? | NTA |
10tvt7u | Background: my dad passed away 10 years ago. It wasn't until about 4 years ago when my mom told me about her interest in pursuing a friend's with benefits relationship with my FIL. She openly told me how she wanted to travel the world with him and have sex with him too. She was so nonchalant about it that she couldn't ... | AITA for not finding my mom's jokes funny about my FIL? | NTA |
10u8ez0 | I’ve been walking a lot more on the treadmill lately and my mom doesn’t like it when I walk for longer than 3 miles, since I can walk 6-9 miles. I’d detail why she’s concerned, but I don’t want to divulge details about family matters. She also thinks I do it too late at night because when I finish and wash up at night,... | AITA for walking ‘too much’ on the treadmill? | NTA |
10trzhf | So for a bit of context, I am going away with my girlfriends family this summer. My mum works for British Airways so has helped them all get tickets at a cheaper rate. Despite this, I can get a staff ticket from my mum personally, which comes out to about £70 as opposed to £300 that they are all paying. For the past we... | AITA for not buying a seat next to my girlfriend? | NTA |
10twlyr | This may get a little long so sorry in advance, also on mobile. Little bit of background for context. I live in a converted house, 2 separate upstairs neighbours and I’m the only one with access to the garden (this part will be important). I have 2 children the eldest is at his dads luckily and the youngest is almost 5... | AITA May have got my neighbour arrested | NTA |
10t1ria | I (28 M) went to school for computer science and work in tech, where I make good money. In 2021, I decided to pursue my passion for writing, and enrolled in an MFA program. Because my house is relatively close to campus and I enjoy entertaining, I started hosting a casual get together for the cohort (it's small, only a... | WIBTA if I stopped inviting a poorer student to my parties | NTA |
10twsi9 | i (32m) and my partner Bill (30m) rented a house and threw a belated party/wedding reception for ourselves that lasted several days. we had a very small wedding due to funds, so this was a chance to properly celebrate.we agreed it would be for adults only because we were renting a house, providing alcohol, etc. it was ... | AITA for being upset about being lied to | YTA |
10tux5h | English is not my first language.I come from a old, wealthy family with a military tradition, so a lot of emphasis on a traditional depiction of masculinity, strength, duty, and so on.My dad's the head of said family, and he has two sons-- my brother \[25m\] and I \[24m\]. My dad's path was pretty classic-- university,... | AITA for telling my brother he should give up on being approved of? | YTA |
10u56yg | Long story short, I have been with my BF for over four years. When he first met me, I couldn’t boil water. Not even a huge exaggeration. He cooked for us for probably our first two years daily, and was so patient and kind with me.I had never wanted to learn how to cook, but I found myself asking him questions, offering... | AITA for stopping cooking dinner? | NAH |
10tnd5u | This morning I was getting ready to leave the house and head to class. I was planning to take the bus which leaves three blocks from my house and drops me two blocks from class. It’s one bus line and the fare is $2My roommate offered to give me a ride, and since it’s really cold here this weekend I accepted.Several min... | AITA for refusing to pay my roommate gas money | NTA |
10tv3kh | My(28F) friend(31F) got back into dating last year. She's always dated losers and this time around she asked myself, my husband, and our social circle if we knew any single guys who had themselves together. Our group was able to set her up on a number of dates and she always has the same two complaints. We offer advice... | AITA for hanging up on a friend when she started complaining about the same thing again? | NTA |
10ts9ag | A little background: I(m36) had oral surgery on Thursday, tooth pulled, some jaw repair, and bone graft. It was an outpatient procedure and I'm home with my kids (single parent with 3 kids). I'm in a decent amount of pain, and I don't take painkillers for a few reasons. My girlfriend (w33) got out of work early and mes... | AITA for not wanting to hang out after surgery? | NTA |
10tqbur | My parents and I got into a fight. I'm 24, parents are 50+ The phone I've had, I've had for over 2 years and it is fully paid off. I told my parents about a month ago that I was getting a new phone number for the phone and to cancel the one they had on their account. Even though we were all fighting, my parents did not... | AITA for not returning my phone | NTA |
10u1qql | first things first, i am writing this on behalf of my mom, who does not have reddit! My mom (39F) has been friends with Jane (29F) for over a decade. They became friends through church and have a very sister like relationship. My mom loves photography and makeup, and is by no means professional, but she is very good, a... | WIBTA for not getting my friend a wedding gift? | NTA |
10tlavf | I’m (33f) pregnant with our first child and this pregnancy hasn’t been easy. While pregnant I’ve gotten very sick three times. The first time, my husband didn’t even realize I was sick even though he was lying in bed right next to me playing his game. I was in so much pain and breathing so hard I thought I was doing to... | AITA for wanting and expecting my husband stays by my side when I’m sick? | NTA |
10u9351 | I saw a cute guys livestream on TikTok one day, and for fun I commented “it’s my birthday today” when it wasn’t really my birthday. He wished me happy birthday and I decided to tell the truth and say “I’m just kidding, it’s not actually my birthday” and he laughed and jokingly said “that’s messed up, you just lied to m... | AITA for joking about it being my birthday? | YTA |
10snxco | This happened this past weekend. My (M33) wife (F33) and I have a 6 month old kid. My wife and I planned a date night and we hired our baby sitter we've used half a dozen times. The baby sitter (F20) is a college student that lived in our neighborhood and came recommended by some friends that had kids. She came ove... | AITA for firing the baby sitter because she brought her dog to my house | NTA |
10u8ykq | My brother, cousin and I decided to go to a club outside of town. We get there and we’re dancing having a good time. My brother was pre gaming a little too hard so he was gone 30 min after we got there. I was looking out for him because he was starting fights with people there. My cousin ran into some “friends”. Keep i... | AITA for leaving my cousin? | NTA |
10u04ve | For some context, my ex and I broke up around the end of August and he has still been living with me. It’s not a “we’re living together” it’s a “he doesn’t pay any rent or utilities or anything and doesn’t work”. He is also not on my lease. He had a job for a month but was fired/quit because “i interfered” which transl... | AITA if I kick out my BD? | NTA |
10u66kv | Throwaway account hereBackstory: So I am a teen (almost YA) female and my mom is a adult. I got a coat over Christmas from an aunt and I have to say it’s probably really warm. My mom wanted to borrow it to go see ice sculptures and I said no. Story: My mom has a Canada Goose which is a bit warmer than the coat I got ... | AITA for not lending a coat to my mom? | NTA |
10u0pl7 | I’m currently in Southeast Asia with my (24m) gf (28). We’ve met up with a couple of her friends recently. I hadn’t met either of them prior. I really really don’t care for one of them. I’ll call her Vicky. Beyond Vicky and I having nothing in common, she’s directed numerous slights and passive aggressive remarks at me... | AITA for ditching my gf on vacation because I can’t stand her friend? | NTA |
10u4wbv | ETA: These treatments give me migraines/headaches, nausea, and sometimes vision problems. I go home immediately after to rest.So, throwaway obviously.I, a female have major depressive disorder and PMDD.I have treatment resistant depression and I’ve been doing treatments and they’ve literally changed my life.I have to d... | WIBTA if I told my supervisor I need to go to appointments and treatment due to ADA? | NTA |
10tygrn | A few days ago, my (27f) bf (25m) brought up the topic of having a joint bank account for our bill money to go into. Currently, I send him a specified amount of money each paycheck that goes to bills and necessities for our household. It hasn't been working too well and the money we use for bills ends up going elsewher... | AITA for refusing to do a direct deposit. | NTA |
10tzq6m | I owe/d my mother $3.99. She was going to a store where I needed to pick up some cool markers and I gave her what I thought was more than enough for the purchase, but came up a little short. We were out shopping today and she found something that was $8.00 and proposed I buy it and we split it to wipe away the debt. No... | AITA for considering a debt paid? | NTA |
10tvrha | My (19f) boyfriend (19m) is an amazing boyfriend in all respects. He treats me amazingly and gets along super well w my friend group who are for the most part women and gay guys, he genuinely likes them and even hangs out w them when I’m not there. However, lately he’s been calling me out for acting “fake” and not bein... | AITA for acting “fake” around my friends? | NTA |
10tlc38 | Context. I am a 21 year old female that is currently in grad school. I have had a boyfriend of four years. Recently, I was at a house party and did not have service. I was at this house party for about an hour (it was 8:30 at nigh), then one of my friends came to me a panic stating that my mother was going to call the ... | AITA for moving out of my mothers house | NTA |
10u1rux | I (26m) recently left my friends (21m) paid D&D group. He runs these games as a business to pay for his college courses. My character in this particular campaign had ended up dying and I had started working on a new character. I found out from my friend that the race I ended up picking wouldn't work in the setting ... | AITA for leaving a friends paid Dungeons and Dragons group because my character died and there weren't other races I wanted to play for a new character? | NTA |
10u065f | I (26f) bought a house over the summer and had two friends move in to the house with me as tenants. I had them both sign a lease for 12 months of fixed rent. In the lease, there is an option of finding a subleaser if they decide to move out. The subleaser must be approved by the Landlord (me). In October, one of these ... | WIBTA if I don’t want to sublease a room? | NTA |
10twy98 | I (18F) am part of a friend group made up of 8 people aged 17-19 M & F. One the boys (I'll call him Orange 19M) had a birthday party recently, he invited us over to his house to sleep over, there was no alcohol involved and I checked this beforehand. I have a bad history with Alcohol and while it isn't a direct tri... | AITA For leaving an event after someone brought alcohol? | NTA |
10ty0ho | I(18M) recently got accepted into a volunteer fire department. And my family isn't happy about it so they told me to tell the Captain to define the offer. We got into an argument how far and windy the road to get there was on top of it being an unpaid fire department. I told them it was a rare opportunity to be a volun... | WIBTA For Finding Alternate Ways To Attend Fire Training? | NTA |
10tq3wc | The title might make me seem as the TA but please read to the end. I (F29) work at a pharmacy and I’m the senior in charge, I have a coworker who I truly like working with and she’s mostly hardworking and good at her job, I’ll call Jessica (F26) who happened to work on the evening shift today (I was on the morning shif... | AITA for embarrassing my coworker in front of a customer? | NTA |
10tz24y | Fair warning... I don't know how this message is to turn out as I am not 100% focused right now but work with what you got? For context, I (20f) and my partner (24m) have been in a relationship for a little over two years now. I have neurological issues, migraines, as well as having ASD. I get overstimulated quite easi... | AITA for telling my partners family member to keep the noise down? | NTA |
10txljy | This might be confusing because I mentioned a lot of people but stay with me lol. My dad (42M) is dating my stepmom (40f) who i'm gonna call Jessie after my mom (39F) walked out on us. Jessiehas 2 daughters, Kinsley(17f) and Betty (10f). When me (15f) and my brothers (19,21,24m) first met Jessie,Kinsley and Betty, it w... | AITA for yelling at my stepsister for spilling drink on my shoes? | NTA |
10u5b0t | So we have a big friend group of 9-12 people. We are around 19-22 yrs old and one 28 (who has family and lives abroad). We do a lot of stuff like vacations, go out eating, gaming, have a chat at the hookah. But aside from that we love to annoy each other and comment toxic things to the other. For example when I ask som... | AITA for roasting my friend with the thing everybody knows about? | YTA |
10tvth9 | I have a hard time sleeping. (I LOVE sleep, just not good at falling/staying asleep). I was up at 3a, normal for me, and was able to fall back asleep at 6a, until being woken at 8a by my partners alarm.I asked him to edit his alarm so it doesn’t ring on his days off. (We share Saturdays off and my alarm is set to 7a we... | AITA for requesting that my partner tell me when people are coming over | NTA |
10u20s1 | Throw away account and all.Relevant back story, I don't like gifts. It is a trigger (can't give the full details because of rules, but I'm not joking this is a legit issue.)Not everyone in my life knows, mainly because that's a lot to just lay on someone. Anyway, a friend gifted me a very expensive bag, and after the f... | WIBTA for selling a gift someone gave me? | NTA |
10u4ztr | My friend sent me a picture of her and her boyfriend using a camp stove inside their house. I responded with a facepalm emoji and said that there's literally no reason to use a camp stove instead of the stove in their kitchen, and it doesn't have adequate ventilation.She said they have a window open.So I told her that ... | AITA for telling my friend not to use a camp stove indoors? | NAH |
10t7lxj | Hello, I (28f) have a sister (21f) that is currently pregnant. I'm gonna start by saying that our relationship isn't very close, especially in the last couple of years. It's also a bit of a mess. I love her dearly but she's difficult. We've talked a bit during her pregnancy, mostly stuff to help through pregnancy sickn... | WIBTA if I confronted my sister about her potential baby name? | NTA |
10u9pj6 | My husband told us that he wants to take a week-long vacation to Italy so he can stock up on snack food and bring it back in bulk back to our home city of Chicago, claiming "It's a good thing to buy food in bulk... remember that time I bought your Sabrina (fake name for my sister) a bulk-buy of M&M's and Hershey's ... | AITA for telling husband spending a week in Italy just to buy snack food in bulk is odd and expensive? | NTA |
10tqr25 | I'm on my limit and told him that if we lose the house I will hold him accountable and will divorce him. He doesn't seem to acknowledge the importance of everything. And I am unable to do more than what I already do(1 full time and 3 part time). Am I the asshole here? He works a full time job , everyday, home office 9-... | AITA I'm working 4 jobs and at risk of losing my house (and my mind). Mother of three, I fear this possibility of being unable to pay the mortgage. keep asking my husband to find a second job but he doesn't. | NTA |
10tyke2 | I (21 F)Have had a rocky relationship with my fathers side of the family and this situation might have made it worse.Last week my father and I had a conversation. He started talking about how he wanted to have another child because me and my siblings do not really like him. He said that having another child he could do... | AITA For being realistic about the possibility of having another sister? | NTA |
10stskr | I (M16) live with my dad. He is not a bad guy but if you give him a chance he will eat everything in sight. I try my best to do my share around the house. He works pretty hard so I do most of the housework. It is just the two of us. I work part time at a kebab place. And sometimes I bring home kebabs for us from... | AITA for only buying food my father cannot eat with my money. | NTA |
10tlwii | Hi I recently rescued a stray and although it’s only been a few weeks I’ve become really attached to this pet. My partner however does not agree with me keeping it. We have gotten into arguments about it with them feeling as though I never take into consideration their opinion in anything and that I am not responsible ... | AITA For Getting a Pet? | NTA |
10sorq8 | I’m early 20sF and last year started working at a major company. I entered this job through a scheme for disadvantaged young people. Despite this, the interview process was still incredibly tough and I’m proud to have made it this far. When I’m not with my team I hang out with the other girls I’ve met and befriended th... | AITA for telling my colleague he only has his job because his uncle is the CEO? | YTA |
10u63ns | Ive just gotten home from this event. Me and a couple friends- more like 3- had all agreed to go to one of my friend’s house. I’ll call her Monica. Monica is sort of a reckless friend, and had often teased me about being an introvert. She told me and another friend, - Susie- that we would be hanging out at her’s for on... | AITA for ruining what was a "good "party for my friend? | ESH |
10t123n | My daughter will turn 4 this weekend, we have three children under 4 and our youngest is a very clingy 5 month-old who even refuses nap away from my arms so I don't have a lot of time to myself let alone to clean the house and make the meals, I manage but things are not perfect far from it. My mother ( who happens to b... | AITA for refusing to host my daughter's birthday party | NTA |
10tk05x | My brother is upset with me and my sister because we didn’t call our nephew to wish him a happy 5th birthday. So my brother and sister are in a group chat cause we are in a friendly Wordle competition so we speak to each other everyday. My brother stopped sharing his Wordles for a couple of days so on the third day h... | AITA My brother is upset with me and my sister because we didn’t call our nephew to wish him a happy 5th birthday | NTA |
10tvjmo | Me and my mother (60F) have flown out to Jamaica to visit my dad and my Jamaican side of the family. It’s both of our first time coming to the island or visiting any of my family on this side, we put almost £2000 into this holiday. We intended on staying for 2 weeks but we are looking to shorten the holiday and come ho... | WIBTA if I (21 M) booked a flight home early from visiting my father (61M)? | NTA |
10ud1cv | I am unsure how to process these feelings, so I guess I'm turning to here.I used to be very close to someone I would consider my best friend. We have known each other for almost 10 years, but have found that we've drifted apart, even further knowing she started a new relationship. I am very happy for her that she has f... | WIBTA if I refuse to give a mattress to my HS best friend? | NTA |
10tltli | I am very perplex on this one and feel like maybe I am in the wrong. I (20F) and my fiancé (24M) are both students and muslim. I wear the hijab (the scarf muslim women wear) and study health while living with my parents and he studies computer science at the international and lives with 4 roommates. I started working r... | AITA for asking to live alone with my husband | NTA |
10ucq2x | So I work in a big team I have only been there a year now. It’s been hard making friends.I’m really shy and it’s taken me a while.My old job I completely fine.Anyway I’ve made a few friends and one girl in particular let’s say Sandy 38 Y I’ve got to know and have gone out for food etc.I can only describe her as quite b... | AITA for thinking this has been blow way out of proportion? | NTA |
10tv1wn | I, 23m, have been renting an apartment with my former friend & current coworker, 23f, since last March when I took over her old roommates lease.In July we signed a new lease. Just after we signed the new lease, my relationship with my girlfriend got more serious so I stopped hanging out with my roommate out of resp... | AITA for giving my roommate proper notice of me moving out? | NTA |
10txjai | So I (20f) have lived with my friend (20f) in student accommodation for the past two years while in university. 6 closest friend had to move out because of personal problems, and she's understandably upset by this and feels isolated.I live in the flat beside her and it is always extremely loud from about 11pm-3am durin... | AITA for abandoning my friend and making her cry? | NTA |
10swrqr | I think the title is self-explanatory. My girlfriend's family are quite upset with me but let me give you a bit of background information. I (25F) am currently a resident. My speciality is a particularly demanding one. I have 24-hour shifts every other day, and I get to go on 72-hour shifts at the hospital with only a ... | AITA for sleeping the whole evening away when my GF's family came to visit? | NTA |
10tz678 | Before this starts I’m 19. So this happened like 2 or 3 hours ago. Me my mom and dad were getting ready to head to dinner. I don’t get cold easily so I usually just go places in a t shirt and bring my hoodie with me. So I’m about to go out and my mom says put a hoodie on. I say I don’t want to. We go back and forth get... | AITA for not applogizing to my mom? | NTA |
10u042f | Last year i started to live in my Boyfriend’s (24 years old) house because it was closer to my school, I am 20 years old. My boyfriend still lives with his parents so i always felt grateful to be there.After a while living in their home, some months passed by, their house was robbed. Even though i was innocent and had ... | AITA for not feeling comfortable around my mother-in-law? | NTA |
10tt7mx | So I'm 15, and I was given a phone for free. The only cost to my mom in this scenario is any startup fees and a protective screen. It's not even a deal that was worked out, it's no strings attached. I was given the phone today. My uncle had me texting my mom through his phone (I type quicker and he generally dislikes t... | AITA for not wanting my mom to "spy on my shit"? | NTA |
10tplsk | AITA for not checking to see if my husband has two passports?Recently I did all the paperwork for renewing my family's passports. When I went to check my husband's passport's expiration date, I grabbed the first unmarked passport of his (we have some expired ones in the same drawer that are all hole-punched or the corn... | AITA for not checking to see if my husband has two passports? | NTA |
10u6i1l | Alice(26f) and I (19f) became really good friends at our job, and we kept it going even after she got fired. I think she resented me for still working there even though I ended up getting fired a month later for unrelated reasons.Recently A introduced me to Taylor and tells me that they're best friends. also end up mee... | AITA for "taking over" her friends? | NTA |
10txq0i | So it's my (32f) and BFs (31m) first anniversary tomorrow (been friends for over 10 years). We went to a gokart place he wanted to about 90 mins away, then 30 mins from that (closer to home) we went to a sculpture place. Leaving the gokart place on the way to the sculpture place we got in a small...disagreement. it ... | AITA for saying something when my boyfriend got too close to a sculpture? | NTA |
10tw4c6 | I left because of prior commitments to friends coming up from SC. She was aware of them before we left for the gathering. We spent 4 hours there, saw all of them 3 months ago, had dinner, played games, watched Purdue vs. IN ( Go Hoosiers!) And talked about good ol drama. I reminded her of the plans, and that I'd miss t... | AITA for leaving my wife's family get together? | NTA |
10tzk5y | My boyfriend (now ex) (28M) and I (23F) were together for three years. Our sex life wasn’t great anymore and the contributing element was that he was almost 30, without a degree or a job, living in his mom’s basement. He kept promising he was going to do great things, and I stayed for three years supporting him and bel... | AITA for calling my friend “desperate” | YTA |
10tuib4 | I was in the process of hiring a long-distance moving company that specializes in moving a certain type of heavy item. I asked insurance questions, was told they've never been more insulted, and they canceled the move.Here's a summary of the emails:Me: Hi, how much does it cost to move *item*. Here's *pertinent moving ... | AITA for asking questions about a moving company's insurance policy? | YTA |
10tlsz8 | I (27f) lost my mom 11 months ago. It was so unexpected and out of the blue. I will say that she was unwell but it wasn’t anything to do with her passing. The morning I got the call I had spoken to her an hour before and everything seemed fine. She was shopping in town and was planning her evening (she was going to hav... | AITAH for not being with my mom when she passed away? | NTA |
10tnb9s | I (25M) usually cook all the meals for me and my girlfriend (25F) throughout the week I'm just the better cook, but on weekends she normally makes breakfast. Today and like the past month or so she tried to make bacon, but it was burnt to an absolute crisp like black all over with maybe a smidgen of non burnt in the mi... | AITA for being upset about burnt bacon? | NTA |
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