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10uj9t2 | Recently I’ve been feeling a lot more negative, I have been having a lack of patience with people and things and have had a tough time with work feeling overburdened and overwhelmed with information. This all sounds very much like cry me a river.In the car, on our way home, I was being told I don’t do anything with my ... | AITA for blowing my top at my family and Gf | NTA |
10uovm6 | I (35M) and my partner (37M) do not have major arguments or disagreements but this incident yesterday is re-occurring and has been going on for years. First thing after eating my breakfast I was washing the dishes I dirtied when partner came over and went to dump his glass into the overflowing part of the sink that had... | AITA for only buying and cooking food that I will eat at home after an argument over basic chores? | NTA |
10uyo30 | This made me upset and anxious and apparently that is an issue. Is it wrong of me too expect too be talked about especially if they’re talking about family and kids I know myself I’m super proud of my partner and would be telling almost everyone I met about my family and partner not just my kids. | AITA Partner started a new job today and has told new boss and all co workers about herself and her kids but when I asked if id been mentioned or having a partner I was told that no one had asked that and that talking about my kids is important but talking about a partner isn’t. | NTA |
10umx0s | repost since I made too many errors the first time.I’ll spare all the nitty gritty, but I live with two girls, we’ll call them maria and kate.Maria, I hate. She’s filthy. For context, I regularly clean her pee, pubes, and period blood and she left her cat shit on the KITCHEN FLOOR for 3 MONTHS. (There’s too much more).... | AITA for asking roommate to take out trash? | NTA |
10uc3u4 | Me (24F) my mother (56F) and my sister (26F) are going on a weekend trip to Dublin soon. We'll be gone Thursday to Sunday are we're mostly going there to visit the grave and pay our respects to a family friend that unfortunately passed away during lockdown. We're traveling from another country in Europe.Our mother has ... | AITA for refusing to book a cheaper hotel room? | NTA |
10ums2j | AITA So my mom and I were doing our things, I had previously complained of the coffee that I had drunk was making me jittery and anxious. Mom decides to pick up the plates after eating lunch, and in the process, picks up my cold mug of coffee. I asked her to please bring back my coffee mug. She asked why. I told her t... | AITA mother daughter conflict | YTA |
10tnrz7 | This is a very uncomfortable situation to be honest. I'll try my best to not exceed the word limit and be as brief as I can.I (34F) never had the best relationship with my mother. It was not great when I was a kid but I managed. It went downhill after I came out when I was 20 and told her I had a girlfriend. I went on ... | AITA for donating my inheritance to charity instead of giving it to my siblings? | NTA |
10ug2wh | Today my best friend got mad at me for not asking if she was okay after she fell down the stairs. She texted that she fell down the stairs in a groupchat and I clicked on the chat but didn’t read it, because I had a guest over and I was concentrated on them. Later in PM’s when I told her about something exciting happen... | AITA for not having empathy for my friend in some situations? | NTA |
10twne2 | I come from a developing country where women should cook, raise kids, and essentially do the domestic tasks. My parents raised me that way but I never believed it. We were taught that men bring home the paycheck and women take care of the house. It's literally in our books for the 1st to 3rd grade (padre de pamilya/he... | AITA for teaching a guest how to cook? | NTA |
10ukq8z | Academically, I’ve always done better than my younger sister. When we compare her grades to mine, it’s not even close. Not to say I’m like super amazing at everything academic, but I still do well. I try to make her feel proud when she does get good grades, convince her good grades aren’t everything, and help her with ... | AITA for insulting my younger sister? | YTA |
10u04bs | So, my incredible wife Jenna, two weeks after having a C-section to deliver our son (our first child), had to have another surgery when her appendix almost ruptured. As stated by her doctor, Jenna needs to be doing more resting than mothering for the next few weeks.Before Jenna came home from the second time at the hos... | AITA for kicking my sister-in-law out over a joke, amongst other things? | NTA |
10uqafu | I just lit my husband up on not helping me when I woke up with a nasty cold this morning. He has a TBI to be fair, and he still works full time, but we’ve been married for four years and I’ve had this fight with him a million times where if I’m ill/having pms then I’d appreciate him picking up the slack a little on cho... | AITA for being mad or is it even his fault? | NTA |
10uy1dm | My grandma has 6 dogs. Not one of the dogs is trained in any way. They all poop/pee in the house. My grandma is generally a clean person except for one thing. When the dogs go on the floor, she just picks up the poop/pee. She doesn't deep clean where the feces was. Maybe she does it after I leave, but based on how nonc... | AITA for refusing to fully clean up dog poop of dogs im babysitting? | NTA |
10uxp1w | When I was in high school I played in the orchestra and the bassoon player who was a friend of mine was gay. I personally didn't care about that at all, but I couldn't help but find it funny because a lot of the sheet music we had was in Italian or German. It just so happens that the word of bassoon in Italian is "fago... | AITA for Laughing at the Fact that the Bassoon Player in my Orchestra was Gay | YTA |
10uegy5 | So I'm a student in middle school and every time a teacher is walking my direction I greet them.A few days back I was suppose to go and get my brother's report card since he was sick to his head teacher. My mother informed her I'll be there even though I really didn't want to go there she made me since she wanted to se... | AITA for not saying hello to a teacher? | NTA |
10uif3x | Okay so basically for background i am allergic to gluten, wheat and barley. Meaning that i can not eat most foods with flour like cake etc. I am grateful though that my family still manages to get me things that i can eat from the shop like biscuits etc. that are gluten free. However, its become a daily occurence (or i... | AITA for asking for something to eat like everyone else? | NTA |
10ujjd2 | AITA for flaking on plans due to a depressive episode?I had plans with friends to do a Christmas dinner and games day in December. We went out together the night before and when I woke up I felt hungover and very low. I wasn't in the mood to hang out and I know I should've texted them to let them know but I just couldn... | AITA for flaking on plans due to a depressive episode? | YTA |
10ux796 | So my boyfriend (20m)-i’ll call him jay- and I (20f) smoke cigarettes, vape, and the devils lettuce. My boyfriend smokes those 2 quite more than I do, which I don’t have a problem with. We feel like in a way vaping is worse than smoke cigs because you can sit inside all day and vape. Jay and I don’t smoke cigarettes in... | AITA for not giving my boyfriend a cigarette? | ESH |
10uedj8 | I have endometriosis, adenomyosis and painful bladder syndrome so I spend every day in alot of pain. Most days are worse but I do have the occasional good day (I will still be in pain, it's just a bit more bearable). We have two dogs as we recently got a puppy (this is relevant to the story) My husband wanted the puppy... | AITA for expecting my husband to help. | NTA |
10uornk | TA accountI (M17) have a friend named “Jamal” (M17.) we have been friends since seventh grade, and are now seniors in high school. A few months ago, I started dating someone. A few weeks into our relationship, Jamal came came up to me during lunch and said he was my gf kiss another boy. I didn’t believe him and told hi... | WIBTA If I reached out to my friend? | YTA |
10toc16 | My (30M) fiancé (let's call him Wade, fake name) proposed to me (27F) two years ago using a family heirloom ring from my family. For more detail, it belonged to my maternal grandmother and when she passed, my mum inherited it. It has always been a fact that she will give it to one of her daughters when we grow up. We a... | WIBTA if I don't give my late grandmother's engagement ring to my sister? | NTA |
10u8q9f | My mom bought me some ice cream because I bought her flowers, and she had been seeing how stressed I was lately. My mom, her boyfriend, my brother and I were sitting and eating at the table. My mom had asked before dinner that she wanted to try some ice cream, so after dinner I put ice cream in a bowl for her and left ... | AITA for not giving mom's boyfriend ice cream? | NTA |
10uisl0 | At this point, I don’t know if I’m just crazy or not. I (F/25) live with my boyfriend (M/28) and roommate (M/26). When my boyfriend and I decided to sign a lease with our roommate, who is a close friend to my boyfriend, he said that he wanted to grow up, and live in a nicer area of our city, so boyfriend and I were kee... | AITA for Telling my Roommate to flush the toilet? | NTA |
10u8xff | My Dad (56M) was ordering pizza on phone, he has a naturally very quiet voice, so, we ended up getting a vegetarian pizza when we ordered something completely different, at first, we just decided that we would eat it, after all, it was one pizza and just a harmless mistake.However, when we all sat down to eat it, my Mo... | AITA for calling my Mom annoying and making her cry | NTA |
10uo1mz | (Throwaway because he knows my Reddit.) My partner (25M) and I (25M) share a tiny apartment. I'm employed and am the primary breadwinner for the house; he is on benefits and spends most of the day on his computer. Usually, I'm the one who cooks, does laundry, and takes care of our pets. We recently agreed that he would... | AITA for not ensuring my pockets are empty before putting my clothes in the hamper? | YTA |
10teltn | I (19yr/old F) have always been very close to my dads side of the family's grandparents. My grandparents and my dad and I have travelled across the country together and my dad and I visited at least once a week while growing up. My dad has an older brother and sister each with their own sets of children. I am my dads o... | AITA for receiving my grandmothers wedding rings and a paid tuition? | NTA |
10ujd61 | Whenever i find an interesting game, i would invite my friend.We like to play rank together but at some point i feel the need to take a break.He's very competitive in gaming and im not so he'd be left playing until he get 2 or 3 ranks higher than me.When i get the energy to play again, it's hard for me to keep up to th... | AITA for not wanting to play with my friend | NTA |
10tsykb | Did this on a throwaway for personal reasons, but figured I had to get this off my chest.I (22f) have a friend (23f) who is in a pretty rough situation here - she never does tell people the full story but she got laid off her job and has lost her home, long story short it's been tough shit for her.I did start letting h... | AITA for denying my friend access to my house? | NTA |
10ucklm | Me (14f) and my two friends (13f) are in the same class. They usually don't have any of the supplies when it comes to art class so they asked to borrow mine. I let them borrow my paint the last few classes since I had burnt my hand with hot oil and wasn't able to draw or paint anything. My hand has now gotten better an... | AITA for being mad that my friends ruined all of my paint? | NTA |
10tf7z6 | My friend had gotten us tickets for a concert and said the ticket price was around $300 and asked if I was down which I said “I am down to pay that price and go with you.” Then she started asking if I really wanted to go and I kept saying yes. She then started insinuating that she’d rather go with someone else until a ... | AITA! Friend uninvited me from concert! | NTA |
10uvokz | I have a few friends who did not attend Duke but root for Duke's men's college basketball program. (I went to a rival ACC school.) I tend to riff almost endlessly about Duke, Coach K, Duke "alum" (i.e. the players who went to Duke for a year of basketball and then went to the NBA), Coach K some more, and their retired ... | AITA for making endless jokes about Duke? | YTA |
10uvnif | About a week ago, a friend asked to keep her cats in my spare room for a couple hours while she moved. When she came back, presumably to pick them up, she told me the landlord didn’t show with the keys because he was stuck out of town on business for a few days. I said her and the cats could stay in the house until the... | AITA for being annoyed about a houseguests cats? | NTA |
10ty316 | So I am a 36(F) and my male best mate is getting married a the end of the year. He has asked me to be a grooms women which I was honored.Now recently it's been made clear that the bridesmaid, MOH, and myself need to pay our way. Which means we need to pay for our dress, hair and make up, our shoes and any alterations ... | AITAH for refusing to be a part of a wedding | NTA |
10uf9e9 | My (44f) parents live with me in my home for several various reasons. Since they have moved in there have been several issues. My mom tries to boss me around like I’m a kid living in HER house. Sometimes she yells at me too. If she cooks dinner and I eat her food she has me clean the kitchen. Fair enough. However I hav... | AITA for telling my mom to be nicer? | NTA |
10ue58m | Hi everyone, I (26 F) am coming here because I genuinely want to know what others think. My grandma is turning 80 and having a party, she lives in a different state. The party was planned in December and I did my part including saving up money and buying my ticket to come, I’m a recent college graduate so I’m still bro... | AITA for not going to my grandmas 80th birthday? | NTA |
10uiokg | I (F40s) teach at a large academy with more than a hundred other women. We are divided into 8 learning communities. This year our staff encouragement team fees were $25. I paid right away and felt I had contributed my part. Then the team decided we would start hosting bridal and baby showers. Paid fees won’t cover the ... | AITA for not participating in bridal/baby showers at work? | NTA |
10uh5wu | So, I (17F) graduate in a couple of months, and my school does this thing where you can submit personal photos of you and your friends to go in the yearbook.We all already have the standard photo of ourselves, but one of my friends is insisting that we pick out some other photos to send in.She sent a few to our group c... | AITA for not wanting to be in the school yearbook? | NTA |
10ujwj3 | My boyfriend and I got into an argument. I basically lost it because our daughter fell and hit her lip on a toy. The living room was messy with toys but I injured myself and am in a splint and on crutches. So it’s been hard to do all the cleaning tasks I do. He pretty much blamed me for it happening and I told him he n... | AITA for telling my boyfriend he’s selfish | NTA |
10u8ueu | I booked tickets to an event on behalf of my friends and I told them it was non-refundable. They all xferred me the $ and I made the booking. The booking process is tricky -- takes about an hour of stuffing about (I book these tickets often... the provider uses a very outdated and complicated system).One friend change... | AITA for not organising to refund a friend's ticket? | NTA |
10uglhu | My(26M) Friend(25M) is trying to make a living for himself online with YouTube, Music production, twitch etc. But it's not going as planned he is very talented with his style of music since he's been doing it since middle school. He's very tech savvy and well versed in online media and I know the general basics, we sha... | AITA for starting to feel burdened/annoyed by being my friends only social interaction? | NTA |
10ua3po | Basically, once a week me and my dad usually go for a drive early in the morning. I really enjoy it and looking at the sunrise makes me happy. Yesterday my younger sister asked if she could join us, that wasn't really a problem for me. A part of me wished she could find another way to connect with us but I wasn't going... | AITA for not wanting my sister to ride in the front seat? | NTA |
10ue8qk | So officially im (f/17) diagnosed with strong depression, binge eating disorder and strong adhd. I think there might be more but i dont want to self diagnose myselfTo graduate i have to do an internship, which means one week im at school and the other im working FULLTIME + learning. School alone was difficult enough an... | AITA for not helping in the houshold? | NTA |
10upd86 | I'm a female who's 6 years older than my brother (he's mid 20s and I'm late 20s in age).I earn quite well now and worked 20-30 hours per week throughout my 4 yrs at uni. I'm completely self reliant financially (as I live alone, I'm not married, and our parents are very poor so I'm always trying to save a good savings p... | AITA for not giving much to sibling on his birthday? | NTA |
10uhl1z | I’ll try to make this one short. I’ve had a friend of 12 years that I was very close with until recent years. Mainly because of his girlfriend, she’s manipulative, rude, condescending, and has a superiority complex. She has a PhD in material science and she somehow manages to bring it up in every conversation. Constant... | WIBTA for not inviting my friend of twelve years girlfriend to my wedding | NTA |
10uoxq7 | My girlfriend and I (24f, 27m) have been dating for over a year and I love her to death. She's great and I really couldn't be happier. She has some mental struggles so our relationship isn't always perfectly stable but I feel like I do a decent enough job handling it and she does a great job trying to get help and less... | AITA for telling my girlfriend to cut out friends from her life? | NTA |
10u6g32 | I (f 26) am pregnant with my second child. My first is is a year and a half, when I had him my mom ( F 57) couldn't come in because you were only allowed one support person at the time. This was my husband ( M 30) My first delivery was awful. So Many things went wrong. Which is a whole other story in itself. But the re... | AITA for chosing my friend over my mom to come into the delivery room. | NTA |
10uabwy | After my mom found out how much I’m making a month, she immediately started telling me to pay rent. I’m a 19 y/o (M), I pay for my truck, my gas, and my phone bill. I work 60-74 hour work weeks (12 hour work days, 6 days a week, 1 day off). I’m trying to save money for the next few years so I can buy a house for my fu... | AITA for not wanting to pay my mom rent so I can save money? | YTA |
10uoox3 | Would I be the AHole if I told the restaurant owner what the head chef and I used to do there? (What we did is 100% nsfw) and although I am at part for it, I no longer work there and will bare no responsibility. (This happened with my head chef, my manager) we were not official but A. Lived together and B. Were exclusi... | WIBTA if I told my former boss (the owner) what happened at his workplace? | YTA |
10tfrjw | I, 16 Year Old Male have had two consecutive birthdays ruined because of my mother and sisters. The night before my 15th birthday, I made it clear that I didn’t want my sister’s boyfriend to be at the celebratory dinner because he has repeatedly caused arguments between siblings and in the past, eaten snacks that I pai... | WIBTA for excluding my two Sisters and Mother from my 17th Birthday? | NTA |
10utu73 | So, A bit of backstory, I'm Bi and Non-Binary, but I was assigned female at birth. I don't ever want to come out to him, as I've heard what he's had to say on Village People and ABBA. I'm almost 19 and still living with my parents, it's taking a lot for me to adjust to the working world. My parents have always told me ... | AITA for making my father hate me? | NTA |
10uec3f | Sometime during 2015 my grandmother was gifted a VW van and she spent a great deal of time telling me how I’d never be able to even touch it, all of her over idealized fantasies of camping in it, just really rubbing it in my face for some reason. I accepted it, I didn’t care and I already hated my home life so it was a... | AITA for now wanting to refuse a gift (a vehicle)? | NTA |
10ufc1g | HelloMy husband and I have been together for 4+ years but 2 have been long distance as he is a European citizen and I’m American (& hence can’t live in the states legally). We got married early 2022 and are waiting for immigration to approve a green card for him. But in the meanwhile we are living separately which ... | AITA? Husband has anxiety and says mean things | NTA |
10ufaei | On Friday January 27th, over Instagram, a new girl friend invited me out to watch a movie with her slated for Thursday February 2nd. We hadn't yet agreed on a time to meet. We then talked again 2 days later and I had left her a message that was unrelated to the date: she said "Maybe I'll send you the links to some YouT... | AITA for not following up with her after we decided to go watch a movie? | ESH |
10u626d | Almost four weeks ago, I (21), was kicked out of my parents house because I wasn't "humble" enough to say I "might have done it" (egg donors exact words) and instead denied doing it.This isn't much of a shock to me as we have been having issues since I was a child, with threats of homelessness since I was age 15.The is... | WIBTA if I posted the truth about my estranged familial relationship with my parents for the rest of the family to see? | NTA |
10th440 | I (25f) have a sister (37f) who has 4 kids with her husband (37m), 3 sons, ages 19, 13 and 11 and a 14 y/o daughter. My youngest nephew turned 11 last weekend and had a birthday party to celebrate. The party was held at a local arcade/restaurant, very similar to a Dave & Buster’s. I got there and we were getting re... | AITA for leaving my nephew’s birthday party? | NTA |
10tx9dz | I’m a mother to a 14 year old, who we’ll call Jay for legibility. Jay came out to me as non-binary a few months ago and since then I’ve been helping them express themself in any way possible; they chose a more gender-neutral name to go by, I let their teachers know about the name and pronoun change, we go on weekend sh... | AITA for letting my kid cut their hair against their dad's wishes? | NTA |
10u2b2v | I (27M) live on my own, and am able to provide for myself. My parents like to drive to my place to give me food, clean my apartment, do my laundry, etc. This is something I don't ask them to do, and don't want them to do. I've lived far from my parents the past 5 years after college and can 100% take care of myself.... | AITA for asking my parents to let me take care of myself? | NTA |
10trbtd | I am 21 F and my mom and her boyfriend are both in their 60s. I don't know her boyfriend's exact age.I was talking to my mom and her boyfriend about Netflix's new restrictions on password sharing, and how everyone was upset about it. They were both under the impression that this was a good business move. After talking ... | AITA for screaming at my mom's boyfriend for cutting me off 10 times. | NTA |
10udpk1 | It might be that this is my last day at this kitchen job and the rudeness of my colleagues (no manners, no thank you, no please etc) has taken a toll on me in the last few weeks but I really feel what I might call anger.I never witnessed someone so rude and selfish, but this might not have anything to do with it, it ad... | AITA for asking my colleagues to help me clean? | ESH |
10u7yap | TA since they may recognize my account. I'll be going to a concert with a group of 5 other people in the summer. It is a very popular artist that many people will be traveling to see, including us who will be attending in a state we don't live in. I met these 5 attendees through a friend, so I don't know them all well,... | WIBTA if I booked an airbnb out of my friend's price range? | NTA |
10u7o4d | I (16F) recently lost my mother, her father (my grandfather) has taken her passing as a way to finally get his highly offending opinions across.I had a brother (17F) when he was 14, he changed genders. I supported him through everything, thick and thin. My mother did too,however my grandfather is so old fashioned that... | AITA for snapping at my grandfather. | NTA |
10ucj3m | My (25M) sister (23F) often used to discuss about getting a dog and were always very excited about the proposition. We even looked at few websites to buy a pup we liked, but in my mind it was always window shopping like an act I would like to do but never actually do it. Soon after on her bday my sister got herself a p... | AITA for expecting my sister to come back and take care of the pet? | NTA |
10uk0vj | 1 We were at a café a year ago. I gave my son (1) a biscuit. The wife threw a hissy fit about sugar, biscuits and what not. Stormed off. FIL lambasted me for "pressing her buttons" and that I should "man up". I said this is between me and your daughter, butt out.2 My sons cousin, 4 years old, is spoiled rotten. Just to... | AITA, wife TA, ESH or FIL TA? | ESH |
10ujvko | I (F32) and my husband (M29) both have mental health issues. For context: I have a full time job (remote) and I'm in college full time (also remote). My spouse is the SAH person who does all of the driving around and errand running, as well as most of the household chores.The problem: Some weekend days he chooses to sl... | AITA for letting my spouse sleep all day? | NTA |
10uecpj | I am planning a trip with a friend and am the designated "planner". I am using a travel agent and prior to meeting with the agent I met with my friend and we agreed on all when, where, etc. So I simply relayed this information to the agent who then sent a quote. Now she nitpicking details of the quote like the specifi... | WIBTA For not wanting to keep making changes to the travel plans | YTA |
10u6vcs | I moved to a new apartment lately and my friends and colleagues were helping me, so I promised them pizza.We wanted to work in two groups, on packing the transporter at the old place and one unpacking at the new place, we wanted to go back and forth maybe three times.After we packed the first time, the transporter had ... | WIBTA for not inviting everyone for pizza who helped moving | YWBTA |
10ts63f | I (40 f) have been married to my husband (44 m) for 5 years. We have a 1 year old together. I make low 6 figures annually. He makes under 30k, working part-time nights and watches our child during the day 4 days a week. Grandparents watch our child the other day a week. Bi-weekly I have 20% of my check going to a retir... | AITA for putting money in a "private" account? | NTA |
10umsqx | so I (13M) was talking to my 4 other friends (all 13F) in a group chat and just randomly two of them we'll call Jessica and Martha who are very close where just being complete assholes to my one friend who we'll call Sarah. she was literally just talking about some random thing and they just started saying shit like "d... | AITA for talking shit about my friends for being mean? | ESH |
10umldn | To give some more information. I have been goi g to the gym and exercising very regularly for over 5 years, and also love investigating and reading about new research and staff like that in fitness. I joined this new CrossFit gym last year, and I had never done CrossFit before so it was new to me and also exciting. At ... | AITA for correcting fitness instructor in the class? | NTA |
10uj62x | I'm laying here waiting unable to get up while my girlfriend Becca (not real name) sleeps so might as well throw this out, I could use an outside opinion for when we talk later so my Becca is low contact with most of her family for reasons related to the circumstances of us getting together, which admittedly were less ... | AITA Not trusting GF's good friend at my birthday? | YTA |
10tvhja | My friend invited himself over to watch a show together, saying he'd bring pizza. In the past he's come over with pizza, given myself and my girlfriend each a slice, then eaten THE ENTIRE REST OF THE PIZZA. Ya, sure, it's his, but when I offer him food I always expect he'll eat a full portion and he always does if not ... | AITA For Insisting My Friend Bring Food For Everyone? | NTA |
10um8c0 | I recently broke it off with my best friend of 4 years. Alot of things contributed to this parting including her making a very toxic best friend and just me feeling left out of this friendship. Remember, the new girl was influencing her personality in a very negative way. After a constant back and forth between me and ... | AITA for stealing my ex-best friend's best friend? | NTA |
10u6uax | Where I work when we have an in store purchase while working we are checked out by a manager and our items are placed in a clear bag and double knotted. (Loss prevention purposes) we keep our purchase items in that double knotted form and in sight in the breakroom until you leave for the day. My store was having a sale... | AITA for getting mad someone in my house stole from my friend? | NTA |
10tmzs9 | I (15F) took a jewelry making class at school where we got to make projects based on prompts and after the class ended, we got to take them home. My mother decided to display some of my creations in the living room.Today, I walked in on my mom and my sister, Erin (19F), talking about them. Erin was saying that the jewe... | AITA for bringing up my grandmother who abused my mother in an argument? | NTA |
10tsbiq | This is driving me crazy so I might rant. When I go out, if I am having a conversation, with my partner especially--(I do this, too, with my friends, but my partner is the person who has the biggest problem with it)--and a waitress or a store employee wanders over to take our order or offer assistance, I STOP TALKING.I... | AITA for refusing to speak in front of service personnel? | NTA |
10ud9q9 | My dad and I both have tickets for our local football club. They‘re not tickets you use once but ones that allow you to enter the stadium every game during the entire season. We go every other week. My dad paid for mine and got his for free.Today he started an argument with me. He asked whether I was home tomorrow to a... | AITA for not going to a football match with my dad? | NTA |
10u3cvf | I [16F] was talking to a group of people in a group chat, and someone posted a video meme of Millie Bobby Brown where she asked what BTS was. This girl got super super mad and started saying how Millie Bobby Brown was uneducated and ignorant for not knowing what BTS was. The video was pretty old too and not recent so i... | AITA for not listening to K-POP? | NTA |
10ug2i8 | I (22M) got upset with my close friend (22F) when she asked me to come for shopping/ exploring for her sisters birthday because I felt she was being ungrateful.So my close friend today asked me to take her to a place for shopping which is 60 Kms back and forth from her home and for which I would have to come and drive ... | AITA for getting upset and not willing to go shopping with my close friend? | NTA |
10u5hy0 | AITA for calling out a friend (F) in a group chat for flaking 3 hours prior on a agreed upon get together dinner. Background: F is a person that flakes more than then the standard individual, every time we organise something the outliers is always them. Also (where I’m from most restaurants take cc info in case we don’... | AITA Calling out friend for flaking 3 hours prior to an agreed group dinner | NTA |
10udv2r | I am a 18 f and I work as a cashier at a grocery store. I’m relatively introverted, but I’ve been working there for a few months, and I’m getting more comfortable talking to my other coworkers and having friendly conversations with them. However, one of my coworkers recently has started acting rude to me, and I’m not s... | WIBTA for going to my boss about a coworker? | NTA |
10tnre5 | This is gonna be long so please bear with me. For context, my [F 20] mom [F 50] is a licensed doula, going for her doctorate in health sciences, has numerous degrees, is a professor in different areas of biology, etc. so she’s definitely smart but we don’t see eye to eye on most of the decisions she makes. She’s kind o... | AITA for not wanting someone to give birth in my room? | NTA |
10u78vp | I recently wished my best friend from college a happy 26th birthday via text instead of calling her. She felt hurt and asked if it was difficult for me to call, which made me realize that my actions may have come across as insensitive. I responded by saying I had my reasons but couldn't explain, which only made her fee... | AITA for sending a birthday text to my former best friend instead of calling her | NTA |
10uesif | it's summer in my country (Brazil), so my family has a little "ritual": every Saturday when I leave therapy I buy ice cream for the weekend for me and my parents. Last week, I was informed that this Saturday (Feb 4th) I wouldn't have therapy, so I told my mom "I can still go out and buy it Saturday, no problem". but SH... | AITA for buying ice cream? | ESH |
10u38jb | obligatory on mobile/ first time posterI (24f) finally found a tattoo artist that I feel comfortable with/ “gets my style”, after my appointment today we began talking about any other tattoos I want and I brought up a tattoo idea for my sternum which we both thought was cool and we’re both excited for. I was happy I wa... | WIBTA for letting my male tattoo artist tattoo my sternum | NTA |
10ubnd4 | Myself (m24) and one of my best friends (m24) have gotten in an argument. Basically I met a girl, we will say Jess, a few weeks ago while myself and him were in the bar together, I hit it off with her and we went back to a party together and chatted all night, then went for breakfast together the next day, we said we w... | AITA for getting mad at my friend | NTA |
10u6d33 | This is a throwaway accout and I'm not a native english speaker, sorry for mistakes.So I (24F) have a habit of sleeping while hugging something and my fiance (24M) doesn't like it because it's not him I'm hugging.I've pretty much always needed something soft to hug while I'm sleeping. It just calms me down. When I was ... | AITA for making my fiance jealous of a pillow? | NTA |
10t9d4d | My husband is a horrible gift giver. It's gotten to the point that I dread my birthday because I know I am going to be let down. This Christmas was the final straw for me. I got him a bunch of things that were personal that I knew he would like. He got me a tray for the microwave so I could heat up our two kids plates ... | WIBTA if I told my husband that we should stop trading gifts? | NTA |
10uajps | Was at a party last night. Those guys knew I had a problem, and I told them at the beginning that I didn’t was to drink. After some time, they began to pressure me heavily to drink, and I tried to resist, but I eventually relented. I ended up getting way too drunk and caused a problem (not a serious one though), and no... | AITA for getting too drunk (as an alcoholic) at a party where my friends pressured me to drink? | ESH |
10u8rjs | So it's my birthday next week, I've been trying to organise something for the last month as people would have plenty of notice if anyone was working the weekend. So I invited my friends, my GF and a couple of family members around the same age (we all in our early to mid 20s) however, most if not all the people I invit... | AITA For Cancelling My Original Birthday Party? | YTA |
10uo9p1 | Typing on mobile so not grammatically or structurally correct. I (18 F) am currently enrolled in college. I have two roommates (both 18 F). Today, we had a dispute over chores. We all promised to do our own dishes. I have but sometimes the dishes weren’t clean enough and instead of telling me to wash them again they to... | AITA for the dispute with my roommates. | ESH |
10uo7ec | Hello people of redditMy cousins dad and my aunt have recently gotten an divorce. And i was wondering wibta if i unfriend him on various platforms as he does alot of post that are annoying to look at. The thing is i think my counssin could get quaigt (how the f do you spell that) angry at me for it so pls help what sho... | WIBTA if i unfriend my cousins dad | NTA |
10svtv3 | Myself (43M) and my wife (41F) have lived on our street for years with our two boys, James (12M) and Sam (6M). Every Saturday morning Sam and I have a ritual, he calls them our dude walks. We look for spiders, dig in the mud, and stop at our neighborhood park to play. It's sort of a standing meetup for a bunch of paren... | AITA for letting my son avoid a special needs child? | NTA |
10tzklr | My husband (30m) and I (29f) both work in public service. We are both underpaid (but pretty evenly) which is typical in our area for our professions. We were talking about money the other night and he mentioned me picking up a second job. I got really mad. I’m a full time working mom to a 14 month old. The time that I ... | AITA for telling my husband he needs to get a different job? | NTA |
10tx197 | 4 months ago my (f21) boyfriend(m23)s mom told him that I was very good at soccer when I was a teenager and his grandpa had recruited me and found me a scholarship to play club. My mother declined because she didn’t want the commitment. His mom asked him not to tell me this. I found out from him today because his mom s... | AITA for being hurt my boyfriend didn’t tell me my mother declined a soccer scholarship for me when I was a teenager. | NTA |
10tgsnn | I (F25) grew up without a dad. He was in the picture until I was about 6-7 years old, after that MIA for the next 10 years. I grew up with my mom (mentally unstable but doesn’t admit it). I had pretty hard childhood, sometimes nothing to eat, sometimes we even lived without electricity. When I turned 16 I left home, go... | AITA for not saying “I love you” to my 8y/o sister? | NTA |
10sr0wi | I 23 am the oldest of five siblings and I am a full time student. I also have a part time job in my field but when I complete my after degree my employer will take me on full time. I make enough from part time to pay for school and put money aside. My siblings range from 20-10. Both of our parents work full time. I ... | AITA for moving out when my parents asked me to pay rent. | NTA |
10tsk1q | I [24F] wear semi-permeant hair extensions that are fused to your own hair by a specialist, and the cost of the hair and install is pricey. Hair alone usually runs me about $1200, and getting them installed is another $400. I also am tattooed, and my regular artist was away traveling but I was itching for a new tattoo.... | AITA for making my tattoo artist "pay" for my hair extensions? | NTA |
10ttqxs | My husband and I have been renting a house for a few years now and recently our landlord has decided to sell. In an unusual move they asked if we would be interested in buying, we agreed we would, if the price was right. Fast forward a little while and I get a message from the landlord saying they have a price and are ... | AITA for not wanting to buy the house we rent? | NTA |
10um0ff | I (F19) came to college and became really close with T(F19). We are in a huge friend group. We are all now sophomores and T and I had some problems that ultimately ended our friendship. She was very inconsiderate and would do things to her own benefit. In certain situations, she didn't think about how her actions hurt ... | WIBTA If I Canceled My Mediation With Someone In My Friend Group? | NTA |
10ubb9g | My siblings (16m and 14f) and I(15f) were stay at my grand parents house due to a big problem in ours, by the end of it my grandparents had enough of it so we went to stay at our uncles house, my uncle said we should cook our grandparents dinner so we did at least me and my brother anyway, we first had to do shopping w... | AITA For telling my sister she's a free loader and probably wont make it dar because of that | NTA |
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