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{ "description": "refusing to walk with my friend to a house party", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For refusing to walk with my friend to a house party?
There was this house party coming up and my friend wasn't invited to it for very fair reasons but he was still determined to go to the party despite not being wanted there so he arranged to meet up with me before hand. Me and another friend decided to arrange to meet up before hand and walk there without him because ...
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{ "description": "not letting my father see my newborn child if he doesn't get his whooping cough booster", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my father see my newborn child if he doesn't get his whooping cough booster?
I know Reddit loves to make fun of antivaxxers, but I'm legitimately wondering about this one. My father has really put up a stink about getting Tdap (Whooping Cough booster) because he doesn't want to put that "poison" into his body. We then told him that it's his choice, but it's also our choice to not let him se...
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{ "description": "(possibly) affecting my boyfriend's uni choices", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for (possibly) affecting my boyfriend’s uni choices?
Hear me out. My boyfriend has been talking about wanting to study in the Netherlands ever since we met. However, he had to retake his A-Levels exams and therefore missed many deadlines for uni applications, limiting his choices; not to mention he also didn’t score high enough to earn scholarships so many places were ...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend could falsely accuse another friend of rape", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking my friend could falsely accuse another friend of rape?
My boyfriend and his friends go away for a weekend and this year I am able to go. I was told the weekend was solely devoted to getting as drunk as possible and hanging around having fun. At the time I was invited, I was the only female going and asked them if it was okay if I could bring a friend of mine. The OK was g...
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{ "description": "expecting my girlfriend to do certain \"naughty\" things with me that she did with past lovers even though she says she's outgrown them? more info I can't fit in title", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for expecting my girlfriend to do certain "naughty" things with me that she did with past lovers even though she says she's outgrown them? More info I can't fit in title.
I'm 23, girlfriend is 27. This is my first real relationship while she was married and had quite a few sexual partners before me and she did things like threesomes and maybe even orgies. I have a lot of learning and I think I have some insecurities because she's very good looking and I'm kind of fat and not good lookin...
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{ "description": "stealing a pair of underwear from my favorite rock star's tour bus. Asshole or embarrassing and dumb fan girl", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for stealing a pair of underwear from my favorite rock star’s tour bus. Asshole or embarrassing and dumb fan girl?
I’ve been a massive fan of a certain rock group and especially thier lead singer since I was in middle school (I’m 23 now). My ex boyfriend is working as a tour manager and got me a literal behind the scenes tour of backstage when they stopped in our city. I didn’t get to meet the band but literally saw everything el...
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{ "description": "being resentful towards my best friend for not making it to my wedding in Vegas but driving 2 hours to meet a friend for her gender reveal", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being resentful towards my best friend for not making it to my wedding in Vegas but driving 2 hours to meet a friend for her gender reveal?
We live in Baltimore, MD for reference. Everyone in my guest list for my wedding (this was in June for timeline reference) had their airfare covered so it was at no cost to them. I begged her to go as she was the only friend I had on my side attending (we had a 15 person limit) she only had to pay for the $30 dress...
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{ "description": "treating customers with foreign sounding names different than others", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA if I treat customers with foreign sounding names different than others?
So, I work somewhere where I send a lot of e-mails throughout the day. Some of these e-mails require action to be taken by the recipient, and sometimes they can be a bit time sensitive. It’s nothing life or death, and in my line of work I deal in dollar amounts that rarely exceed $200, so it’s not like there’s big mone...
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{ "description": "choosing to say no to hang out with a friend on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to say no to hang out with a friend on her birthday?
(Using an alternative account) I’ve known this friend since high school (~5/6 years ago) and we were pretty close then. But as we went on to do different things/fields after and into different universities later on, we kind of drift apart. Totally normal in my opinion. A bit of (a long) backstory but you’ll understa...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distancing myself from my dad?
Ok so I'll give some context first. I suffer with anxiety and am currently attending college full time until the end of June in which I'll be finished there and I do love my dad and he loves me. Ever since I left school though my dad was really getting on to me about getting a part time job so he can stop paying my mu...
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AITA For tell my FWB that I didn’t want to be exclusive because I don’t think our personalities “mesh”?
So I have had a FWB for the last few months and recently she has gotten more attached to me to which I have responded sort of coldly. This is because at the beginning of our relationship I tried to be cuddly and relationship like and she responded negatively. She even made it very clear that she wanted our relationsh...
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{ "description": "not believing my best friend is pregnant and not congratulate her for it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not believing my best friend is pregnant and not congratulate her for it?
So I am not sure if this breaks any rule, or if this will add to the now long list of "Obviously NTA" that are around here lately... But I am feeling really confused with this one. So first, context. I am from Mexico. Why does it matter? Because December 28 is the Mexican equal of the April's fool. So yeah, this happ...
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AITA call police on kid for driving too slow
Me and a friend were heading home after getting lunch and after we get off the freeway we are stuck behind a car going at most 25 mph in a 55 mph area we manage to get passed him no issue but his driving was causing issues in the traffic with people honking and such This dude lingers behind us for the next 3 or so m...
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{ "description": "not going to a gig with my friend after he bought us the tickets", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to a gig with my friend after he bought us the tickets?
This is going to be a long one because I feel like I need to include a fair bit of detail to explain it so there'll be a TLDR at the end. I (f20) and my friend (M20) (call him P) have been best friends for about 5 years, dated for over a year at the start of those 5 so we're super close. Last night me, P and a couple ...
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{ "description": "ending my friendship with a close friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending my friendship with a close friend?
My friend Abu and I have been close for 6 years; we had a long distance friendship, so everything I'm about to tell you happened over text/call. She used to be a very kind, supportive, and overall amazing friend, but in the last four months, she's been basically the opposite. For some information on her, she has depres...
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{ "description": "using up+b repeatedly", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for using up+B repeatedly (Smash Bros)?
I know it sounds so stupid but I'm just really bummed out. I don't play a lot of video games. I'm not good at them. I enjoy Zelda and other Mario games and usually I like them because they are a chance to bond with my siblings. However, my brother always complains about how I only choose Link when we play Smash Bros ...
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{ "description": "pointing out a double standard", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pointing out a double standard?
Ok, so story goes like this and I’m gonna cut out all unnecessary details. All that needs to be said is that my grandmother died yesterday, and my sister has severe depression, was going to practice a presentation for the family but backed out last minute.my parents get upset saying why did we get together if you’re no...
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{ "description": "not being as enthusiastic and turning down offers from one photographer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being as enthusiastic and turning down offers from one Photographer?
Last November I joined a meetup for hobby models and photographers to connect. I am a hobby photographer myself but do modeling jobs on TFP basis in my free time, especially underwater as I can hold my breath very long and you get some pretty cool pictures out of it. I am a full time student and work a student job as ...
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{ "description": "not telling my husband that an ex gave me an expensive jacket", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not telling my husband that an ex gave me an expensive jacket?
I (32F) have been married to my wonderful husband (28M) for two years. Since I am slightly older and more established than him, I was able to amass a good savings before meeting him. Now, I didn’t go to college, but I have always been very money focused in my early twenties. I dated a few older men that I met at my loc...
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{ "description": "consistently yelling and cursing at my parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for consistently yelling and cursing at my parents
First off, to provide some background, My parents are both excessive drinkers and pass out before 8:30 pm each night, I have dealt with this since their divorce 7 years ago. They claim to try to stop their habits, but show no signs about it. I know that addiction is a very hard thing to shake and deal with, but it is ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because she makes Fun of my friend a lot", "pronormative_score": 64, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Breaking up With My GF Because She Makes Fun of my Friend A Lot?
We're both 22, and been together 7 months and ever since I started bringing her around my group of friends she started to poke fun of one of my boys for being short. He's like 5'5 on a good day but we don't ever really make fun of him ever for it because its just a shitty thing to do. She did though and would say he's ...
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{ "description": "telling a random guy he was rude in the way he decided to give me his number", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling a random guy he was rude in the way he decided to give me his number?
I know the title sounds cringeworthy but here’s the situation.. (also on mobile so please excuse formatting) On Saturday evening my friend who is in a wheelchair and I went to dinner. She often needs help with some simple motor functions (taking off a jacket, opening a bottle of water, sometimes drops utensils/items,...
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{ "description": "bypassing my biological dad and communicating with my half-siblings", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for bypassing my biological dad and communicating with my half-siblings (who are adults)?
WIBTA? Without getting into a super long story: My mom got pregnant when she was 18, I was born, mom and biological dad never got married, I was adopted by my stepdad when I was 18 months. I had a great mom and dad growing up, never had anything to do with my biological dad. As I got older (26) I wanted to understa...
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{ "description": "threatening divorce if my wife insists on being a surrogate", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 77 }
WIBTA for threatening divorce if my wife insists on being a surrogate?
Been married six years. Have one son together. Wife has a childhood friend/"brother" who was abandoned by his family after coming out and my wife's family took him in when he was 13 or so. He lived with them until he turned 20 and lives on his own now. My wife considers him her brother. Very, very close. I met him and ...
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{ "description": "moving my coworkers food", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving my coworkers food
A few times a week I go to the break room to heat up a breakfast sandwich before we open (I work at a bank). Several times in the the past few weeks I've gone to use the microwave and someone's food is sitting in there, done microwaving. The first couple of times I waited it out, but I am on a time constraint since I...
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AITA In this relationship
I was a junior in high school, I'm a senior now. While I was a junior, a senior was interested in me and she also happened to be the valedictorian and was very smart. She asked me out on a date and it went really well and we eventually started dating. We were a pretty intimate couple (you know how it goes with high sch...
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{ "description": "telling a girl she is too short to date", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a girl she is too short to date
Basically, a girl asked me how tall I am over text. Her response to my height was, "yeah that'll do". Slightly triggered at her going for the classic height thing I asd s her what her height was and I jokingly said "oh damm sorry thats way too short for me". Now she is pissed off at me, despite me saying it was a joke....
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{ "description": "saying happy Hanukkah", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying happy Hanukkah?
This came up last year and now that it's November, Christmas season has started in stores everywhere. This year, like last year, Hanukkah comes before Christmas (if you didn't know the Jewish calendar is lunar so our holidays fall on different days every year, sometimes Hanukkah is during christmas, sometimes during t...
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AITA Should I run my dog less to spend time with GF
AITA - Quick backstory is that my girlfriend of just under a year recently moved in with me ( We have been living alone for a few years so my dog is very close to me) but she spent a lot of time and nights at my house. So she knew my habits and schedule which is pretty much the same 6 days a week since I work 6 days a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive 45 minutes away to pick my girlfriend up unexpectedly", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drive 45 minutes away to pick my girlfriend up unexpectedly?
So tonight my (23M) girlfriend (21F) went out with friends, she called me 15 minutes ago to ask if I could drive 3 towns over to pick her up because her ride fell through. Being a night to myself I had a couple of friends over, we smoke and drank a bit, and planned on having a night to play some games and talk. Well, n...
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{ "description": "using my phone in the locker room", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for using my phone in the locker room?
Today in the gym locker room I was browsing reddit on my phone for about 20 minutes because my gym buddy was running late. The locker room has paper signs that says verbatim "Your cell phone has a camera. People will use this area to shower and get changed before and after workouts. For the comfort of members, cell pho...
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AITA -- My D&D friend invited his wife to play with us and now 1/3 of our jokes are deemed 'inappropriate'.
My friends and I are in our 30s and share a sense of humor that feels perfectly in line with most guys our age. We're a playfully juvenile bunch, known to toss in a masturbation reference, here and there, but our jokes wouldn't raise a single eyebrow on a site like this. Now, I acknowledge that's a purely subjective as...
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{ "description": "refusing to eat meals with my friend because he's an obnoxious vegan", "pronormative_score": 781, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for refusing to eat meals with my friend because he’s an obnoxious vegan?
AITA for refusing to eat with my friend because he’s vegan? Let me explain. I met my friend Alex in my second year of university when we were both cast in a play together. We hit it off with similar interests and decided to live together last year. A bit of background: Alex is a vegan - and I mean that as literall...
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{ "description": "wanting to do something fun on Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to do something fun on Valentine's day?
My fiance is very upset because I told him I didn't just want to go home and watch a movie like we do every night. I wanted to go do something fun, like bowling (I have $1 bowling tonight, it would've cost us $2 for an hour game). I told him and he immediately got upset and said that a night in should be enough for me....
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{ "description": "letting a student get away with some justified bullying", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for letting a student get away with some justified bullying?
Bad title, but hear me out. I'm a high school AP Euro teacher. I have a student, let's call him Josh. Josh is basically the 'bright but also kinda arrogant and disruptive' type, if you know what I mean. At least from what I've heard from other teachers and seen in class, he's considered the school's 'resident intelle...
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{ "description": "suggesting my roommate can't tell the difference between 64 and 62 degrees", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for suggesting my roommate can't tell the difference between 64 and 62 degrees?
So we live in New England. It's not warm right now. Highs around 40, lows around 0. Last night my girlfriend wakes me up because she thinks she can see her breath it's so cold. I just let my bare shoulder sneak out from under the cover to feel the air and WOAH she was right. It was fucking freezing in there. While ...
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{ "description": "losing my passport and ruining my girlfriend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for losing my passport and ruining my girlfriend's birthday?
My GF wanted to go to Japan for her birthday. I've always wanted to go there too. I booked the flights to Tokyo with a stop in New Delhi. After we landed in New Delhi, I realized I couldn't find my passport. They would not let me board the Tokyo plane without it. She couldn't go without me because the hotel reservatio...
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{ "description": "not saying thank you for being allowed to cross the street", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not saying thank you for being allowed to cross the street
Hey guys. The title is a bit clickbait as I didn’t cross a street, but I didn’t know what else to call it. So, I work at a medical office located in a strip mall. It’s a pretty big strip mall and we have a lot of places to eat located here, so I always go to one specific place to grab a snack in the morning. On my way ...
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{ "description": "not wanting any family included in my and my boyfriends civil ceremony", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting any family included in my (23F) and my boyfriends (24M) civil ceremony?
We have been together for 6 years and have been taking about getting married for about a year now. We have discussed how we’ve wanted to elope and have a ceremony at a national park but ultimately decided on going downtown to city hall for a quick ceremony(next month) with my best friend as our witness. We both have al...
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{ "description": "not co-operating with my mom when she refuses to help", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not co-operating with my Mom when she refuses to help?
On mobile, throwaway account, but English is my first language. So I woke up this morning and grabbed my phone to stall away time on my day off. After about 10 minutes I notice that my Note 5 is connected to the internet but is telling me "internet may not be available." Meaning I may as well not be connected to the i...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not doing the work I was supposed to over my spring break", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA I didn't do the work I was supposed to over my spring break
When my spring break came around my dad asked me to clean up some branches from the apple trees he pruned on the Sunday before my break started. We agreed that I would have it done by the end of the week. He pruned five trees and it left maybe 4 hours work. I had been slowly working on it because I wanted to enjoy my b...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend booked a flight without telling me for a week with a mutual (male) friend of ours", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset that my girlfriend booked a flight without telling me for a week with a mutual (male) friend of ours?
Some context: I am currently studying abroad very far from home, going to be back in about 2 weeks. The next 2 weeks also happens to be spring break where my girlfriend and I go to school. I recently was texting a friend from home and he told me how excited he was to be going on a trip to a legal state with my girlfrie...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at the guy sitting in front of me in class", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed at the guy sitting in front of me in class?
I started my second semester of school a couple of days ago and my first class of the day is a philosophy class. I sit down in the middle row of the classroom about halfway up an isle and a bit later a guy sits in front of me, no biggie, he’s not tall or anything so I don’t have to worry about not seeing the board or a...
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{ "description": "wanting to travel and live abroad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to travel and live abroad?
Hi. 30M here. Single, no kids. As a preface, I'm sorry if this is just a validation seeking post that sounds like a First World Problem. I want some opinions. Basically this is my current situation: * I make enough to maintain my household, in which I live with my parents (I pay rent and services, they do food) * We...
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{ "description": "not wanting any birthday presents from family and friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting any birthday presents from family and friends ?
So here is a deal, my birthdays don't really mean anything special to me. I won't throw a crazy party or feel special and demand something just because I was born 20 years ago. So yes, it is my 20th birthday but I don't find it special especially because I have an exam in 2 days and lots to study. One more thing before...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate(s) to change up the place", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my roommate(s) to change up the place?
So, this has now happened to me twice, so maybe now I'm thinking some people think this is normal, but I still don't, but I want to get some perspective, in case I am being an asshole. ​ ​ Situation 1: My old roommate(Who doesn't live with me anymore) bought a table and chairs, she did tell me...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my friends gas", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for my friends gas?
This is something that happens often with one friend and I'm worried that I'm being a major prick. We're both 18 and like to hang out a lot, we've been practically glued to each other since middle school. He's usually the one who drives because he insists on it. He drives a frankly badass Porsche from the 80's that he...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move house for my parents", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not wanting to move house for my parents?
My parents are in their early 50s, I'm 19. I am a first year university student and live in halls. I often spend my holidays with my family (the town's a bit shit then). Usually this works fine, but recently there's been a problem. They're moving house, so they've scheduled it based on my holiday so I'll be there to ...
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{ "description": "being upset/mad at my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset/mad at my dad?
Information: I'm 17, my parents are divorced and there was a time in my life where my dad wouldn't bother talking to me at all. He basically just ignored me for 4 years straight (because of his new wife back then who was just a real asshole who destroyed our whole family) , but since last year, he's trying to get in c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to someone who made effort to be better", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to someone who made effort to be better?
So I met this guy, who I will call Oliver (because it was apparently the most popular baby name in 2018 according to Google), on badoo. For those who don't know what badoo is, it's like Tinder except even more shady and sketchy and filled with weirdos. Anyway, I had connected with this dude like a full year before we s...
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AITA for the way I blew up on a socially awkward dude after his behavior around my friends
So a friend of mine was chilling over in my dorm room with a lady friend of his, (we’ll call them Jack and Jill) both of them were enjoying playing smash bros with a bit of laughing and flirting, I would’ve just let them be but a local dude from around the dorm (let’s call him Frank) decided to tag along with them (to ...
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{ "description": "being still friends with a potential predator because she's going to have a tv show", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA I am still friends with a potential predator because she’s going to have a TV show
AITA Context: S (the friend, in question) and I had been friends since middle school (we are now seniors in high school). We had a lot in common and were in the same theater company. But, over the years, she has become more and more creepy and inappropriate with me and some of other mutual friends. Particularly with...
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{ "description": "telling my wife she can't go back to school", "pronormative_score": 68, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I tell my wife she can’t go back to school?
When we moved into our current house we were both working and able to live some what comfortably. She became pregnant with our first. During her pregnancy she decided that she wanted to leave her job and be a stay a home mom. It definitely made finances tighter, but we managed. Our daughter is two now. Lately my...
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{ "description": "getting married (and not have a wedding) without telling my parents first", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting married (and not have a wedding) without telling my parents first?
On mobile, I apologize for the format. Growing up, I’ve witnessed many marriages fall apart and almost all my relatives, including my parents, are divorced. When I (F25) started talking about marriage with my partner (M26), we discussed what we did and did not want. One of the things we agreed on was to not have a we...
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{ "description": "this breakup happening", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for this breakup happening?
TL;DR gf of 3 years left me claiming I neglected her, but I think I was doing my best as a man with the presented situation, please help me realize what possibly went wrong, so I can finally set my emotions straight. I have ups and downs one day I think IATA and one day SITA. Apologies for long post but I have to get...
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{ "description": "refusing to perform at my mother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to perform at my mother's wedding?
My Mom and I have been close forever. She met my "stepdad" when I was very young, and he is a great father. Their 20 year anniversary is approaching, and due to my moms financial circumstances etc. They are only now marrying. I love them both very much and I'm glad to be there. My mom is VERY sentimental. Her favori...
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{ "description": "making some brownies last night", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA Because I Made Some Brownies Last Night?
TLDR; My wife started a meal plan last week, I made brownies last night. She can't partake until Sunday although I saved her some. (It was Tuesday). AITA ​ ​ So my wife has been on a health kick recently after our Dr. visit, and has been working out every day and has a strict meal plan she has ...
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{ "description": "chewing out my manager", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For chewing out my manager?
I work at mcdonalds because it pays the highest out of the jobs i can currently get since i’m still youngish. I close most of the time, which means i clean everyone’s mess at the end of the night. One kid during the day decided to not clean up his mess after doing grease traps (cleaning the grease that gets collected d...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a trip with my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go on a trip with my mom?
I'm 25 and living on my own and my mom is widowed (about seven years ago). My only sibling, my sister, has cut contact with our family out of the blue for a few months now and while we're not afraid that she'll hurt herself or start using drugs or stealing, there's a lot of unknowns in regards to that. That's all rel...
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{ "description": "ending a potential relationship because the guy in question is ignorant and cringe", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a potential relationship because the guy in question is ignorant and cringe?
I'm (17F) a senior in high school this year, and I never really put myself out there or tried getting into a relationship. Initially, it never really mattered to me, but because I'm graduating in just a few months, I kind of feel like I've missed out. I'm a little nervous that I'll look silly going into college a virgi...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I think it's weird that she still sits/cuddles on her father's lap when we visit each other", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for telling my wife I think it’s weird that she still sits/cuddles on her father’s lap when we visit each other?
My wife has two brothers who are several years older and I’ve always gotten the impression her parents still view her as the baby. She’s pretty spoiled by them (before she got married, they paid for school,cars, rent, clothes, and whatever else she wanted). That was fine because I knew what I was getting into with her...
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{ "description": "not crying when my friend told me her mom died", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not crying when my friend told me her mom died?
So my friend’s mom has been sick for a while, long before I even met my friend. She died a few days ago and when I saw her at school today she broke the news to me and my friends. I was sad for her of course and comforted her but I couldn’t cry. I’m not sure why. It made me feel like an emotionless asshole but I just d...
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{ "description": "not wanting to care for a disrespecting ungrateful family member", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to care for a disrespecting ungrateful family member
I take care of my grandfather it's never been easy because he's manipulative and has selective memory like you wouldn't believe. Few months ago I spotted something odd on his lip and tried to take him to the hospital for exam but he refused, adamantly. Finally turns into a lump on his neck and it ends up being cancer....
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{ "description": "declining to share my curriculum with someone I dislike", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I decline to share my curriculum with someone I dislike?
Just to give an age reference, I'm in my mid-30s and the guy I dislike is in his late-40s. ​ He's my wife's cousin's husband's friend so I see him fairly often at house parties as my wife is very close with her cousin and they love having people over. I dislike this guy because he frequently makes passive...
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{ "description": "working too much", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for working too much?
I just moved to an awesome little ski town with my SO. I went remote at my current marketing job to do so. It's a pretty high stress position. I have to work late almost every weekday, 9-10 hours. She has a good bit of money saved from her summer job and is currently working very little, and enjoying it. She often co...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to sever ties with a male friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting my gf to sever ties with a male friend?
We've been together almost 2 years. Recently a long term male friend of my gf started working with her. They've known each other for about 4 years and have no physical or emotional past beyond a solid friendship. He's hung out around our place and joined us for whatever activities our group is into. Last week they...
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{ "description": "breaking up after only 4 months, one week before her Bday", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking Up after only 4 months, one week before her Bday
I've been with this girl since december 2018. She's a great girl with a wonderful and chill personality. She is everything I want in a girlfriend. She is pretty, supportive, chill, not the jealous type, not clingy etc. However, recently I started to get feelings of breaking up. Here are my reasons why. Firstly, we hav...
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{ "description": "not being ready to let go of my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being ready to let go of my ex?
For a little background, I have been with my first & current partner for 17 years, married for 11 of those.  So until recently I had lots of experience with communication & compromise in a relationship, but none whatsoever with a relationship *ending.*  Then we opened our marriage to allow for other loving rela...
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{ "description": "wanting to disown/hating my sister", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to disown/hating my sister
Important Background: I've gone to 3 therapists all diagnosing me with severe depression and anxiety, to my main therapist my main issue is the need to please others and my inability to say no. Family; my younger sister (we'll call SB) is 1 1/2 years younger than I. She is: •Entitled •Hypocritical •So selfish So yeah...
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WIBTA? frenemy fundraiser
So I got a PM on Facebook a little while ago. It was a girl I went to school with. She wanted me to see a GoFundMe page and donate money to one of our former classmates. This former classmate was my bully. She pulled the typical mean girl stuff when we were kids. She told lies about me, got me into trouble, and go...
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{ "description": "hating my ex's new relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For hating my ex's new relationship
Disclaimer: Throwaway, vague story to avoid identification Ex and I broke up on mutual decision, some important aspects for the relationship didn't quite work. A week later, while I was still in the "maybe I just didn't try hard enough to work it out with him" phase, my Ex got together with someone else, one of the ne...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my mom about mold on cheese", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disagreeing with my mom about mold on cheese
she was wanting to just cut off the mold of a block of velveeta cheese, me and my brother disagreed and we wound up haveing a fight about it and throwing the cheese away, it calmed down as quickly as it started but should i have just let her?
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{ "description": "stopping people from re-sharing the same story with me for the x'th time", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for stopping people from re-sharing the same story with me for the x'th time?
Basically the title, I have some friends who have a habit of repeating the same story to me multiple times. I understand telling me a few times, but if it's every time I see them, I just feel like I can no longer genuinely react to the story considering I can recite it word for word. Am I the asshole for saying "you'...
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AITA for this
I will start off by saying that I suffer from depression and anxiety and paranoia, I mention this because it is important later, also sorry for the layout I'm on a phone. About 2 and a half years ago I started college where I met my ex best friend and my ex bf, when I started I dated a guy in my class for about a mont...
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{ "description": "not going with my parents to buy furniture", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going with my parents to buy furniture?
I was just asked by my parents to go with them to Ikea. They wanted to return a piece of furniture and buy some other things. This trip would take a couple hours, and I would’ve agreed if they had asked ahead of time. Instead, they asked me right as they were getting ready to leave. I was tired, as I had gotten 4 hours...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to show they like being around me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my friend to show they like being around me?
I'm a 19yo (M) I have a friend who is 19yo (F), we have known each other since 5th grade, so like 7 years, and ever since then we spend almost every day at one or the others house hanging out. For the longest time I was the only friend she spent time with outside of school, until about 11th grade then both of us starte...
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{ "description": "canceling plans for a special date the day before", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for canceling plans for a special date the day before?
I’ve been seeing and chatting with a guy for about 3 weeks now. From the get-go, I made it clear that I wasn’t looking for anything serious nor was I ready to jump into a relationship, especially seeing I just got out of a really awful relationship 2 months ago. I tried to explain to him as explicitly as possible that ...
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{ "description": "ruining my roommate's party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for ruining my roommate's party?
This happened a while ago, but it's been weighing on my conscience ever since. Sorry it's a little long. Since September, I've shared a student apartment on campus with 3 randomly assigned roommates, all girls my age (18-20). Two of my roommates are really quiet and basically unnoticeable most of the time, but one of ...
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{ "description": "leaving trash in a movie theater", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for leaving trash in a movie theater?
This is a hypothetical question based on an experience I recently had. If that is not allowed mods feel free to delete my post. I love watching movies, however I’m a very cheap and frugal person so I rarely go because I think they are too expensive. My fiancé loves to go to the movies and get a big popcorn and icee. ...
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{ "description": "asking my wife if she's hiding something", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my wife if she's hiding something?
My wife and I have a pretty solid routine, and I think a really good relationship. We've never had any fights, nobody has cheated, etc. We've known each other about 8 years, been together for 5, married for 2. We have an 11mo old daughter. Tonight, we're doing the same thing we do every night, unwind on the couc...
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{ "description": "me not wanting to be with my girlfriend now she's being promoted to a new position", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for me (M19) not wanting to be with my girlfriend (F29) now she's being promoted to a new position?
To start things off we have been together just under a year and it is in the last few weeks I have started to feel like we live very different lives due to our age (previously it has been great). We work in a very similar environment, not in the exact same office but in a close building and we are known as a great coup...
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{ "description": "being upset that my best friend decided to cancel", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that My best friend decided to cancel?
We are both girls and my friend who I’ll call L can never really hangout and I don’t blame her. When we do it’s fun and what not. But two weeks ago she was telling me her mom wanted her out of the house the whole day two weeks from now on Wednesday. So we make a group chat with other friends and we all are excited to g...
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{ "description": "outing a coworker who was arrested for a crime", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for outing a coworker who was arrested for a crime?
I want to make it clear, please do not comment encouraging violence toward anyone. I just want a judgment on if I'd be TA or not... A few days ago, I was told a coworker of mine was arrested. I heard nothing more until later that night when I was told US Marshals called saying that he wouldn't be in to work for at le...
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{ "description": "getting a tattoo knowing my bf doesn't like tattoos", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I got a tattoo knowing my bf doesn't like tattoos?
Little background: me (25F) and him (29M) have been together for about five and a half years, living together for two years, we're generally doing great and we love eachother very much. So this isn't a huge issue, just something that came up yesterday and has been on my mind since. I've been entertaining the thought o...
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{ "description": "telling a lady she isn't parked in a handicap spot", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling a lady she isn't parked in a handicap spot?
I work for a grocery store. My department basically does shopping for customers who order online. We don't deliver, so customers come to pick up their orders in specials marked spots. Now, these spots suffer from a few design problems: 1) They sit right next to the spots for our walk-up pharmacy, so people often park i...
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{ "description": "telling my friend's so that he cheated", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my friend's SO that he cheated?
So a while ago, I heard a rumor that my friend (and college roommate) had cheated on his long-term SO with someone from our HS. I talked to a bunch of my friends who would know more about it, and they all confirmed that this had been going on for over a year. I even talked to the girl who he supposedly cheated with (af...
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{ "description": "wanting my Gf to not have side conversations while on the phone with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my Gf to not have side conversations while on the phone with me?
Most of the time when she’s with her friend(s) and I call her, we will be holding a conversation and then she starts having a full blown conversation with her friend next to her. I don’t mind the fact if it’s little chit chat here and there, but she stops our conversation to talk to her friend. And it lasts longer tha...
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{ "description": "not babying my mom anymore", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not babying my mom anymore?
I am the oldest child of four and I am fed up with babying my mother. My mother is a single mother and has had truly a rough time in her life, but was impatient with us (her kids) growing up because she worked multiple jobs and was exhausted, short-tempered, and could be downright cruel when pushed (ie. corporal punish...
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{ "description": "not unfollowing a female friend of mine on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not unfollowing a female friend of mine on Instagram?
Throwaway, because some of my friends know my main account. ​ My girlfriend is currently mad at me and not picking up her phone, so I decided to make a post on here, just to check if I am morally justified in my actions. Here´s what happened: We (my girlfriend and I) were just hanging out on our ph...
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AITA for not wanted to babysit my colleague's baby?
I am a resident in a medical fellowship, which is extremely demanding on my time and energy, and my resident mates suffer the same exhausting schedule as I do. Two of my resident mates are actually married, and had a baby last year. I was both impressed and a little apprehensive about the fact that they wanted to have ...
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{ "description": "not \"supporting\" my bf when he plays basketball", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA because I don't "support" my bf when he plays basketball?
My boyfriend (30) plays basketball. He has games almost every weekend. He complains that all his teammates girlfriends and families come to cheer them on. He says he loves it when someone watches him play, especially me, and that it means a lot to him that I go. I HAAATE watching sports. I have gone and watched him pl...
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{ "description": "not apologizing to my friend's boyfriend for sending a picture of my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I don’t apologize to my friend’s boyfriend for sending a picture of my friend
I know the title is weird but here it goes. So today my friend asked to borrow my phone so she could text her friend on messenger but he was taking a minute to respond so I took my phone back but when I did I got the stupid idea to send her boyfriend a picture of her (it’s not uncommon for me to send pictures of my fri...
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{ "description": "trying to avoid my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to avoid my mom
Me and my mom havent had the best relationship over the years. Its gotten a lot better but were still not very close. She usually tries to watch tv with me and I always say no. Its always awkwards when its just me and her. I really want to try but were not that close.
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{ "description": "wanting to cuff my daughter to her bed", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting to cuff my daughter to her bed?
So my 5 year old daughter sleepwalks. In an effort to thwart this I suggested to my wife "Why not just get one of those like padded medical cuffs?" And she LOST it. Calling me everything under the sun: asshole, prick, even said it was child abuse. Now I tried to suggest a few details; nothing that locks, nothing pain...
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{ "description": "making excuses to spend time with a very busy someone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making excuses to spend time with a very busy someone?
(First off, throwaway because a lot of people here know my reddit) So, I'm a (male) student at a university in New England, which is pretty well known for its fast pace and constant workload. Towards the beginning of the year, I learned that one of the girls on my floor was in the same Running Club as me (We'd meet an...
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{ "description": "objecting to 'girls day'", "pronormative_score": 416, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for objecting to 'girls day'?
I'm a 28 y/o male and in my immediate family I have all women, mostly this is because I was raised by my mother and have no contact with my father's side of the family due to a messy divorce when I was young. My two sisters (early 30s), my three aunts (two who are my mother's sisters and one married in to the family an...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend who ruined my first birthday party", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a friend who ruined my first birthday party?
For some context, I grew up in an abusive household where instead of gifts and love for birthdays and Christmas, I got religious sermons and beatings for not being simplistic and humble. I've only recently left that household after 23 years of abuse, and am now on my own. So. My birthday was two days ago (December 15t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date someone because they are allergic to dogs", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to date someone because they are allergic to dogs?
So I have a first date in a few hours. We have been chatting via text for a few days but have not met in person. I texted her today to confirm our date details, we are going to a cool little bar/restaurant that just so happens to be dog friendly. That’s when she drops the, “I know it’s dog friendly but FYI I’m allerg...
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{ "description": "telling my friends me and my other friend feeling excluded", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my friends me and my other friend feeling excluded?
Sorry, this is my first post, so I apologize if the format is weird or what not. So, my friends are somewhat exclusive, and even though they've told us we can sit at their table, sometimes ignore us. Friend 1, G, Friend 2, K, and Friend 3, M, have known each other for a while, but I (C) have only known them for a year...
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{ "description": "abandoning my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for abandoning my friend?
I have two really close friends that recently had some drama. Henceforth FA (friend A) and FB (friend B). FA had been in a relationship with this Absolute trash human being for around a year. The guy was extremely emotionally manipulative. The ATHB had said he wanted a break.The Catch: He was a cheater. He would tell...
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