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{ "description": "dropping a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dropping a friend?
I've been friends with this guy, call him Harry, for a few years now. Over the years, me and all my friends began seeing his *unknowing inconsiderateness, his inefficiency, and unreliability.* However, he was still somehow a pleasure (or just fun/funny) to be around, and (I'm sure) had good intentions for all of us. A...
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{ "description": "dating my ex-girlfriend for 6 months", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dating my ex-girlfriend for 6 months?
We met while living in the same apartment community, which I happened to work for. Sarah made excuses to drop by while I was at work, which wasn't weird since my job was to attend to the apartment residents. We started actually talking beyond polite conversation last summer, and eventually I found myself on a date with...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to the same place for vacation as my wife", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA - I don't want to go to the same place for vacation as my wife
So, let me begin with obligatory statement acknowledging that I am a novice, and to excuse if my post is done incorrectly. Background first, I have been married just over 2 years and have a 1 year old. I work for the military and get paid well, but half of my income is from additional allowances for food, rent, etc. F...
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{ "description": "annoying my brother to clean his car", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for annoying my brother to clean his car?
My brother drive him and myself to school everyday because I don’t have a car, but his car is disgusting and smells terrible. The trunk it’s filled with trash to the point where you can not see the ground. The smell is horrendous. I badger him daily to please clean it up but he never does. AITA for annoying him?
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{ "description": "being a flake", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being a flake
Disclaimer for all who don't want a boring story. I'm just here to hear some opinions on this. So basically my cousins and I are pretty good friends and I always kind of enjoyed their company but since they got girlfriends they basically keep them around 24/7. Yesterday we agreed last minute on meeting today, hang out...
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{ "description": "playing my guitar during the daytime", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for playing my guitar during the daytime?
So I'm 18, broke and just moved in to my own apartment. Most of my life revolves around guitar and I try to get a good few hours in a day. Just to prefice, I haven't gotten any complaints in the month I've been living here and I'm the only guy in the basement level. I try to keep a decent volume, since headphones are g...
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{ "description": "not giving a stranger money to take the train", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not giving a stranger money to take the train?
Everyday, I take the train to school and I have a train ticket that lasts a month, so there is no need for me to buy a ticket every time I do go. However, today at the train station, a man walked up to me and said that he was supposed to meet his daughter in the city and was a few dollars short of the amount he needed ...
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{ "description": "getting upset over a stranger being involved with my medical information", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting upset over a stranger being involved with my medical information?
I’m currently traveling alone in Armenia and last week I became unwell. I’ll spare you the details but I had an issue that was rather embarrassing. A few days ago I had reason to go to go to the hospital at about 10pm. A lady who worked at my hostel (that I hardly knew) left her dinner with a friend and met me at the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with a coworker", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For not wanting to be friends with a coworker
TLDR at end I work in a small environment and there's only about 18 employees. We work at a sandwich shop and most of us have known each other for years I have one coworker who I cannot stand. He's lazy, we have few similar interests, he's a liar, and a chatty cathy (mostly about gossip between our coworkers that i...
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{ "description": "feeling upset that my dad didn't spend much time with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling upset that my dad didn't spend much time with me?
TL;DR at the bottom. It's Christmas & around 1, my dad asks if I want to come over for lunch. I love my dad & after everything we've been through as a family, I make it a priority to spend time with my family. My bf & I go & hang out in the backyard since I'm uncomfortable going in the house bc the...
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{ "description": "avoiding my grandparents and minimizing communication with my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for avoiding my grandparents and minimizing communication with my parents?
My parents & grandparents have put me in a difficult situation and forced me to struggle and continue to accrue college debt by not paying towards my loans. I was going to work two jobs in college, but my grandmother told me on about 7 or 8 occasions, up until I was looking at another job offer with more hours half...
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{ "description": "not liking my mums cookbook", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
aita for not liking my mums cookbook
so a few weeks ago I got a cookbook from my mum for my birthday. it's one of the teen survival cookbooks. it's pretty cool but it's not vegan. my mum has known I'm vegan for months now and when I got it I faked being happy and put it on my bookshelf. I assumed the issue was over. this is when the issue happened. ...
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AITA for the details of a date/hookup being broadcast through a restaurant?
So to preface and give a bit of context, I'm a guy in my mid 20's who doesn't date a ton, maybe every couple months I'll get the balls to ask someone out. On Tuesday I had a date with a girl I'd met almost a year ago but never got past talking to since she lives in a different nearby city, but I decided last week that...
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{ "description": "being angry at my dad when he told me he is having another son", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at my dad when he told me he is having another son?
So my parents are divorced and i always knew that eventually they would find new partners and move on. I already know my dad has a girlfriend . The thing comes this day when we were having lunch together and i thought he was going to give me the news that her girlfriend was pregnant BUT the real suprise comes to my ...
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{ "description": "still talking to my ex wife", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for still talking to my ex wife?
I (35M) was married to my ex wife (33F) for 3 years and together for 4. I’ve been with my current wife (34F) for 8 years and I love her more than words can explain. We have a 4 year old daughter. I have no kids with my ex. My wife and I divorced because we eventually found that we were incompatible. I met my current ...
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{ "description": "not doing any work on a group assignment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not doing any work on a group assignment?
So for an assignment I got paired up with this girl, shes alright. We basically laid out a bunch of crap we had to do and agreed to just allocate yourself on what you want to do. ​ Anyways, come a week later when I decide to start working on the assignment, I found out she did EVERYTHING. She took all the ...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend less time with my girlfriends family", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to spend less time with my girlfriends family
My girlfriend and I live together and frequently see her family 2-3 times a week - each of these times being an all day event that I get feel guilted into going to by my girlfriend. It has just been too much for me. I'm happy to see them occasionally and do my duty so to speak, but it's just been too frequent for me. I...
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{ "description": "trying to get my neighbor kicked out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to get my neighbor kicked out?
I have this neighbor that’s kind of a cocksuker. Basically he spends most of his time in his apartment smoking weed and playing loud music. Normally this wouldn’t annoy me but we started to have an issue with him being aggressive and weird. In NYE I had a small family get together. It was my family and my BIL famil...
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{ "description": "not appreciating my BF's romantic gesture", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not appreciating my BF's romantic gesture?
A few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided to go on a break. I called it, and it wasn't for anything specific he had done wrong, I just needed some space to see if we should continue this relationship, as I haven't been happy but he thinks we're going to get married one day. We decided we would update each other about...
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{ "description": "feeling angry", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling angry?
Tl;dr at the bottom. Obligatory throwaway because my gf is on reddit and knows my primary. Me and my now gf are college sweethearts and have been together for almost 5 years now. After college ended, we both went to different cities for our careers. We've been in an LDR for 3 years now, though we do meet every 3 t...
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{ "description": "having feelings for my ex sometimes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I have feelings for my ex sometimes?
There’s a new movie coming out from a series that me and my ex got into together. The main characters reminded us of him and I. He used to be so sweet and weird and fun and kind and supportive. I loved him so much, and then he started being manipulative and jealous and drive all my friends away. I broke up with him aft...
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{ "description": "not skipping a family member's birthday party to see my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not skipping a family member’s birthday party to see my girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I have been together for six months. We both go to college, but we each go to a different school, located about two hours away from each other. Needless to say, it is difficult to maintain this long distance relationship. To combat this, we have vowed to see each other as often as possible. This began...
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{ "description": "taking up too much space on crowded public transportation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking up too much space on crowded public transportation?
I usually take the bus to and from school, since the public transport in my city is usually on time, and my family doesn't own a car. Today, I had more luggage than usual for a couple reasons. One, I had gym class and practice for my sport, so I had my gym bag with my clothes, sneakers, uniform, etc. Second, my backpac...
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{ "description": "having a contractor do the work that my apartment manager should be getting done", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: for having a contractor do the work that my apartment manager should be getting done?
Our apartment need some repairs. We have leaks in several rooms, the interior doors are falling apart and the exterior one was hung improperly which allows a powerful draft inside. The door frame is termite eaten. Our garbage disposal sprays water in the undersink cabinet. Generally the place needs work. We have put...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to plan a wedding party for us", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to plan a wedding party for us?
My fiance and I are quiet people and decided that we really don't want a big, fancy wedding and we wanted to keep things really simple. We have been long distance for a while now (different countries) and we also like to smoke weed (this is relevant later). We are planning on having an elopement style wedding in Color...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to pay for everything", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to pay for everything
This is probably going to sound weird to a lot of you, but here goes. My boyfriend (31M) and I (23F) have been together for 4 years and living together for more than 2. I've been finishing up school, while he has a very well-paying job and also substantial family money. He pays most of our day to day expenses, though...
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{ "description": "wanting my license", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my license
Hey reddit, I’m almost 20 and I’ve been on my learner’s permit for 4 years now. There’s nothing particularly bad about my driving (my parallel parking leaves something to be desired, of course), but my mother’s reasoning is that I do not have a vehicle. Fine, fair enough. I got a job as soon as she allowed me and figur...
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{ "description": "selling my dead grandfather's house and evicting his widow", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for selling my dead grandfather's house and evicting his widow?
My grandfather died in early February and he left his house to me since i'm the eldest grandchild and all the belongings in the house to his children. However he gave his wife a life interest which means she can stay in the house as long as she wants to so i share the house with her. Bit of backstory, everyone HATES ...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "going off over a truck payment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going off over a truck payment?
My (26F) 30 year old boyfriend has been in and out of trouble a lot and is \*trying\* to get his life back on track. I got a truck in my name for him and he is VERY spotty with payments. I put 5k down for him, also made 3 payments now since last July). We have been talking about building some furniture for the office i...
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{ "description": "not being there for a suicidal \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being there for a suicidal "friend"?
Throwaway account. ​ I know this sounds bad, but hear me out. I'm sorry if there are unnecessary details in there, but I'm just trying to clarify my situation as much as possible. ​ There's this girl I know who goes to the same university I go to. We don't share any classes or anything, but sh...
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{ "description": "not wanting to socialize with my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to socialize with my family?
Before I start, I want to say that I'm using a throwaway account for this because I don't want to take any risks with my family, since I'm not entirely sure what platforms they all use. Let me start by saying that I'm a 19 year old full-time student going to a community college. I have around 3-4 classes a day, and I ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she needed to delete her coming out post", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my friend she needed to delete her coming out post?
I’m on mobile, so sorry for formatting. My friend recently came out as gay to us. We were nothing but supportive and accepting of her. She was worried we would think she had a crush on one of us and we told her not to worry about it because we are children and even if she did have a crush on one of us it wouldn’t ch...
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{ "description": "not giving back someone's games that *might* be theirs", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving back someone’s games that *might* be theirs?
So I broke up with a partner 8 years ago and we split up our things pretty evenly and fairly, including several video game systems, consoles, and games. Now (8 YEARS later) I am cleaning things out to move to a different city. I decided to sell some of my old gaming systems including an NES and some games. I listed th...
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{ "description": "not paying his ticket", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA? for not paying his ticket?
So when I was like 14 years old I had not really that much friends. My mother wanted me to have fun so she said to the son of her bestfriend if he goes to a movie with me she would pay his ticket. I knew that guy very well, he was one of my bestfriends when we were even younger then 14 but then we grew out each other. ...
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{ "description": "grabbing her shoulder", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 17 }
Aita for grabbing her shoulder?
Something that's been weighing heavy on me. Long story short. I fall super in love with this girl. But things are going on in her life so we stay friends for a couple months. I made it clear I wanted more than friends, but I was still helping her out around her house as just a friend. Always making it clear I wanted mo...
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{ "description": "not wanting to eat dinner with my parents and their friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to eat dinner with my parents and their friends?
I am 23 and just recently moved back home from college. I enjoy spending time with my family at times but am not particularly pleased with being forced or guilted into doing things I dont want to do. Recently my parents told me that they were going out for dinner and asked if I would join them I said sure and when I g...
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{ "description": "being upset with my husband for putting me on speakerphone", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my husband for putting me on speakerphone?
I called my husband today while we were both at work. Out of nowhere, less than a minute into the conversation, he asks "Do you hate Sarah?" I thought the question was odd so I ignored it. A few seconds later it dawned on me that he had me on speaker phone and that she was probably listening. She was. I don't like t...
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{ "description": "breaking up with girlfriend over dishonesty of Marijuana use/addiction", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with girlfriend over dishonesty of Marijuana use/addiction?
(I live in Canada and marijuana here is legal, but please keep in mind that I dislike it due to personal reasons) I had dated this girl for just over two months and on our first date I told her that I dislike drugs (including weed). I put it out there because I don't have the same views as everyone and I respect peopl...
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{ "description": "bailing on dinner due to cost", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bailing on dinner due to cost
College friend was in town for work, and there were chats about a meet up with a mutual college friend. I get these kind of meetups often don't work due to schedules, but... idk... One of the days there was a 'hey lets get dinner' suggestion which I was all for. Several restaurants were tossed out as ideas, all of whi...
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{ "description": "leaving my gf because she become a friend with marauder", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my GF because she become a friend with marauder
It's my first post in this subreddit so dont blame me :D Im a university guy.Someone just told lies about me to a random gang.I just had my last 3 months in school like a hell.They chase me to my home,they tried to steal my phone,they tried to beat me and something like [this.](https://this.In) When school ended they ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my girlfriend for a day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ignoring my girlfriend for a day?
She’s been acting up and arguing with me so I went to bed. The next morning i ignored my girlfriends texts but my friend called me so I responded (male friend). Now she thinks I’m an asshole and a cheater. Am I the asshole for ignoring her when she was blatantly trying to start arguments in her texts?
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{ "description": "rejecting my boyfriend's proposal", "pronormative_score": 154, "contranormative_score": 133 }
AITA for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have been planning our engagement for a bit, and I had one big rule for the proposal and that was that he not involve anyone else in the proposal but us. I don't want to get too far into the backstory, but my ex husband essentially went behind my back to ask ...
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{ "description": "not caring about my ex's family tragedy", "pronormative_score": 511, "contranormative_score": 67 }
AITA for not caring about my ex’s family tragedy?
I dated my ex for 3 years and ended up finding out she was cheating for about half of that time. I broke up with her about 4 months ago and she moved out of my house. I ended up hearing from friends that she was painting me as the bad guy who drove her into the beds of all those guys she cheated with. No one believed h...
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{ "description": "moving all my stuff out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I move all my stuff out?
Obligatory I'm on mobile warning and a tl;dr at the bottom for those who don't want to read. I live in a rental house with a few other people and we are all miserable. Our lease is up in May thankfully and to help the move I've been packing the stuff from my bedroom that I'm not using and moving it into a storage uni...
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{ "description": "selling my otium headphones for more than I bought them", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I sell my otium headphones for more than I bought them?
So I'm a bit of a shopaholic, I don't trust myself with my debit card so when I have it on me, my friends make sure I want to spend my money (saves hundreds). Recently I lost my headphones and bought a replacement from Otium, I bought it from a small company for $9.00, the usual cost is around $20-30 and it took me a...
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{ "description": "yelling at another student in my PE class", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at another student in my PE class
Ok so I am a sophomore in high school and about a week ago some new kid came into the class, when we were playing football and basketball the first day I chose him to be on my team to be nice. I'm not sure if he has anger problems or if hes just not all there. He gets EXTREMELY pissed off for no reason, the first day h...
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{ "description": "asking my gf for money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I asked my gf for money?
I am 20F and she's 25F. She comes from a wealthy family who heavily supports ver even though she has a nice paying job. She helps her friends out with money a lot and has even offered to me even I needed it, but I refused. I really want to take a course but neither I or my family has the money for it, I want to ask her...
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{ "description": "cutting a girl off who I liked but then she got into a relationship slwith another guy and made me and my friends awkward", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for cutting a girl off who I liked but then she got into a relationship slwith another guy and made me and my friends awkward?
Ok so basically my freshman year of college is just starting, and I've already found a group of friends I enjoy hanging out with. In this group there is one girl in particular (We'll call her "E") that I am interested in. E and I are really good friends, and she tells me that she really wants to find a group of peopl...
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{ "description": "getting irritated at my friend for paying full price for someone else when she didn't for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting irritated at my friend for paying full price for someone else when she didn’t for me?
I do nails for a living and a couple times these friends have asked me to do their nails for them at my house. They’ve never asked me to do it for free but it’s pretty implied it was so they wouldn’t have to pay full price at the store. So I would carry all my supplies after working 12+ hours and do their nails until a...
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{ "description": "pushing my sister after eating a small spoonful of pumpkin pie that wasn't ready", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for pushing my sister after eating a small spoonful of pumpkin pie that wasn't ready?
My mom made a pumpkin pie today. I ate a small spoonful out of the edge of the pan. I come downstairs later and my sister asks me if it was me who made the holes in the middle and edge of the pie. I told her that I had eaten out of the edge, but not the middle. She shook her head and started to ignore me, which made me...
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{ "description": "not turning in a group project", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: For not turning in a group project
So a little lot of background. At this point in time I was moving between states (u.s.) with the new state I was moving to requiring a state test for each subject (only one test for a subject but it was spread out over three years). The school I recently went to had no such test so it's not like I was properly prepared...
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{ "description": "meeting up with a girl from Tinder a month after my breakup", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for meeting up with a girl from Tinder a month after my breakup?
Hi So my girlfriend and I split a month ago but we’re still good friends (although she very much still wants me) and I care about her greatly. I recently got tinder and have been talking to a few girls, and am meeting up with one this week for more than just a drink. AITA? I’ve been hiding the fact I’m talking to other...
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{ "description": "giving a group of woman a heads up to an icy sidewalk", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving a group of woman a heads up to an icy sidewalk?
Pretty simple exchange really. Was walking down main Street by myself and some fresh snow had just fallen. I nearly took a digger on some black ice 5 minutes before too. I was seeing a group of women exit a bar up ahead and as we were about to pass by each other I said "Be careful it's really icy." One woman kind of sh...
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{ "description": "blocking all my sisters devices from the internet since she refuse to give me my room back", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for blocking all my sisters devices from the internet since she refuse to give me my room back?
Tl;dr first: i let my sister borrow my room for three months at our parents house, she's being a pain in the ass about giving it back so I blocked all there devices on my router. Ok so this started a couple months ago when my sister asked me is her and her now husband could borrow my room at our parents house for th...
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{ "description": "laughing at my girlfriend when she slipped on a banana peel", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for laughing at my girlfriend when she slipped on a banana peel
Sorry for any errors I’m on mobile. For background, I live downtown in a crowded popular US city known for tourists. So this just happened 20 minutes ago. We were walking from my apartment to go get some coffee on the most popular street in my city and as we’re walking and talking she suddenly falls to the ground. ...
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{ "description": "setting my friend up on a prom date in front of his ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For setting my friend up on a prom date in front of his ex
I have two friends both of whom needed prom dates the female, we will call Kay, said she would go with the male, who we will call Jay, if he wanted to go with her he has a history of not showing many emotions and she wanted to make sure he wouldn’t be going just to go he said he would go with her so I went to tell her ...
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{ "description": "expecting the parents of an 11 y.o. kid who hurled directly and squarely on our couch to help clean/pay to clean it or pay into getting a new one", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for expecting the parents of an 11 y.o. kid who HURLED directly and squarely on our couch to help clean/pay to clean it or pay into getting a new one? (especially after he showed my 6yo Mia Khalifas porn!?)
First time posting, sorry it’s so long. I have a 6 yo son who was “friends” with these 2 brothers, ages 6 and almost 11. Theyre neighborhood kids and the 6 yo is in my sons class. We’ve had issues with the younger one several times so here’s some back story... Last summer He smacked our siding with a shovel and damage...
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{ "description": "breaking up with BF after he wouldn't clean up his own vomit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for breaking up with BF after he wouldn't clean up his own vomit?
There was this night we had studied together at his place and I stayed the night. It was rather uncomfortable from the get-go because he was saying he wasn't feeling well, but he didn't have a fever and didn't think it was serious. Anyway he was very agitated in bed. I had finally fallen asleep, when I woke up and...
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{ "description": "going to a different girl", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to a different girl?
I'm on mobile so sorry for formatting issues. I'm 14 and in 9th grade now, but this happened about a year ago in the 8th grade. Not too long of a story but I'm getting hate for this again and I dont know if I'm the asshole or not. I was in 8th grade, really liked this girl and all that. My friend was over at my house...
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{ "description": "telling a girl I've been talking with to lose my contact", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a girl I've been talking with to lose my contact?
AITA here? I've been talking with this girl for about a month and a half. I find it difficult to find people both physically and emotionally attractive but it clicked for her. The last few weeks she's been really distant so I asked her "hey are you still interested, or is it time for me to move on? I'm not gonna be ups...
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{ "description": "being upset that I didn't get any dancing feedback until now", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that I didn't get any dancing feedback until now?
I (23F) dance West Coast Swing. I started dancing in September on 2018. It's my favorite social hobby. I want to continually improve in both following and leading; I accept any and all feedback at all times; no feedback for me is unsolicited. Today, my instructors had a dance gathering at their house, and about two hou...
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{ "description": "not going too my cousin's funeral", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going too my cousin's funeral?
My cousin killed himself a year or so ago. I didn't go to his funeral because I couldn't do it. Death makes me super weird...one moment I'm laughing then crying I know weird. I just didn't want too make it worse. I wasn't really worried about this untill a kid said "You should have been there for family." At the time...
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{ "description": "banning someone with Asperger's from my group", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for banning someone with Asperger’s from my group?
I run a weekly group for people with, or have experienced, anxiety. Two months ago a guy joined. He seemed friendly enough but suspected he had a learning disability. One of my regulars told me that he had been messaging her and that it was strange. I saw the texts he sent her; kinda weird, not dirty or explicit, m...
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{ "description": "insinuating that a guy might be a rapist in the future", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for insinuating that a guy might be a rapist in the future
I've done some stupid things in the past and because of that I'm known as a slut to this specific groups of guys at my school. Guys ask me for nudes and it's ruined some pretty good friendships because of the guys being too horny to see me as a person and me realizing too late why they hung around me. So when a guy I...
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{ "description": "tossing my cigarette butt wherever I feel like it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 149 }
AITA for tossing my cigarette butt wherever I feel like it?
I was driving my vehicle, stopped at a stoplight, finishing up a cigarette. I dropped the butt out the window when I finished the cig. Light turns green and I proceed to my destination which was close by. As I'm exiting my vehicle a person approached me and asked if I could properly dispose of my cigarette next time. I...
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{ "description": "asking my bf to delete old pictures off his facebook", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my bf to delete old pictures off his facebook?
I have been with my boyfriend who I met online for roughly a year and a half or so now, and for numerous reasons my parents have not been made aware. I think they are suspicious due to offhand remarks they've made, but I don't think they've cared enough to actually ask. My bf and I are long-distance, and in the next mo...
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{ "description": "not giving a co-worker a ride", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a co-worker a ride?
So, a co-worker always needs a ride, and since it's over a very busy 8 lanes of traffic (US 19 in Florida) I always use to oblige bc I felt bad for her. Then I recently found out that she has a SUV, they pay $900 a month for. And her husband won't let her drive it. Also, he's there he just can't be bothered to take the...
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{ "description": "yelling back at a stranger who upset my gf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling back at a stranger who upset my GF?
Long time lurker, first time poster... this has been bugging me for a few days so I figured I'd share and see what you guys think, ​ Important background: my (27F) girlfriend (28F) has autism - she's high functioning, but she spends a huge amount of mental energy constantly worrying about how she acts/reac...
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{ "description": "not being excited about the surprise christma tree", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being excited about the surprise Christma tree
I moved in with my partner, from another continent after a while being long distance, just before last Christmas. For this reason we didn't get a tree last year and I was looking forward to get one this year. In my family home we never decorated for Christmas because my parents never cared, so I never really had the ch...
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{ "description": "not understanding why my boyfriend is upset", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not understanding why my boyfriend is upset?
Last night we got into a fight about chores, same old shit but waking up this morning we were okay. This morning, I woke up with a pain in my ring finger joint on my right (dominant) hand. I sometimes do get joint pain in this hand but not the fingers, so I tell my boyfriend who was getting ready for work. He stops wh...
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{ "description": "getting mwd at my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mwd at my friends?
There is a big party in a city about an hour's drive away from where I live. My friends also live near me. It's a girls birthday party, and she only invited a few of my friend group. I didn't think it was overly fair and only 2 people confirmed they were going. So I told the girl who's party it was that I couldn't atte...
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AITA for a trade
So o spoke to this guy about trading my vr headset ,camera, 2 motion remotes , doom and skyrim for a ps4 for his switch with 2 games, I tell him I'll be there in an hour cause I live far from him. After i get there and I show him the stuff and alls good I leave , then 5 min later I get a message asking where the ps4 is...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my mum", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my mum? (Read it to understand)
Ok Just from that title you think that I am definitely an asshole but hear me out. I am under the age of 18 and my parents are going through a very messy divorce. My mother was always slightly abusive to first my dad then my brother. My brother and I were brought into court to talk about who we want to live with (broth...
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{ "description": "ending a close friendship", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for ending a close friendship?
i’m a teenage girl in high school and i’ve been best friends with a guy since the beginning of middle school (6 years ago) for a really long time, our friendship was great, we bonded over comics and art, but i don’t think i can be friends with him anymore. he has a habit of making jokes about me being stupid and i’ve a...
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{ "description": "being to talk to my supervisor about a colleague's bad behavior after talking to him about it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I were to talk to my supervisor about a colleague's bad behavior after talking to him about it
Context: I'm a Level 1 tech working in a IT Helpdesk dedicated to our company as well as a few external clients; I'm fairly new as I've only been working there for about 5 months. One of my colleagues, who shall be known as Steve for the point of censoring, has been working for about 2 months, doing exactly the same j...
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{ "description": "refusing to clean up after my disgusting housemates", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to clean up after my disgusting housemates?
So I'm a university student who has been sharing a house with four other people since last September. ​ ​ ​ The only communal space in the house is the kitchen. It's only a small space but so long as anyone has friends over, that's where they chill out. Most weekends I'll make the ...
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{ "description": "telling friends and family they couldn't sleep over after drinking at my house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I told friends and family they couldn’t sleep over after drinking at my house?
My fiancé and I host a lot of dinners and parties. We love hosting, it’s a hobby we share together. Our parties are pretty standard. Lots of food and alcohol, games and conversation and sports. My closest friends don’t live in our city, they are my childhood friends and most live about an hour away. I love them and I i...
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{ "description": "seeking comfort from gay men", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for seeking comfort from gay men?
I'm a decent looking guy but, as most guys I've spoken to seem to also experience, have exceptional trouble with online dating. Girls want to take things slow, mysterious, play games, idk. I love women, I really do but it gets very frustrating when my friends advice is: "Take it slow but not too slow, overt but not too...
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{ "description": "not breaking things off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not breaking things off?
Throwaway account just in case. About four months ago, I (M18) asked another guy (M19) out. For the sake of simplicity, we'll call him Sean. I'm openly bisexual (my parents were very loving and accepting despite their southern beliefs; don't stereotype, kids!) and I had a crush on him for about two months before worki...
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{ "description": "parking like this", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for parking like this?
I thought I parked a little off a few nights ago but was too lazy to check and see. Does me not looking make me an asshole? Image: https://imgur.com/gallery/8yh6gIs
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to stop discussing our intimate life outside our relationship", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 448 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop discussing our intimate life outside our relationship?
My girlfriend started going to therapy for anxiety and such. I usually ask what they talked about when we talk about our days, and she told me she told her therapist about the ins and outs of our relationship, including sex and intimacy. I asked her not to do that anymore because that should be private, and she accused...
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{ "description": "telling someone they should really use headphones in the gym", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told someone they should really use headphones in the gym?
So the gym in my apartment complex is pretty small. I guess you could say it’s a “semi private” gym because it’s only open to residents of the complex. It’s one room and has about 4 cardio machines, and 1 weightlifting machine. The entire room I can estimate to be about 25 ft long and 25 ft wide, so being such a small...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to my friend?
So first, some context. One of my friends recently started dating a guy who is nothing but trouble. Within the first month of their relationship he had cheated on her, been busted for possession (I believe it was meth), and attempted to assault the officer who arrested him. She has since pretty much stopped talking to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be involved in raising a child from a one night stand", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to be involved in raising a child from a one night stand
20m and i'm In college with a 18f. I hooked up with this girl one time 7 months ago, used a condom and she said she was on birth control and 7 months later I get a call last week saying that she's pregnant and that it's up to me if I want to be involved in this child's life. She's not pursuing money (her family is filt...
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{ "description": "not giving my dads girlfriends little brother a meatball", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my dads girlfriends little brother a meatball?
Title. Me=me, GF=My dads girlfriend, Dad=D, Her little brother= LB So some background, I (14M) met my dads (45M) girlfriend (26F, I know it’s weird) about a year ago. She’s a typical 20 something girl, for example she’s basically given everything to her when asked and also connected to Internet and instagram 24/7. S...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my wife for going to a \"friends\" house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting upset with my wife for going to a "friends" house
Bit of a longer one. I'm a recovering alcoholic for starters. And I realize I have a lot to fix but my wife has a friend that absolutely hates me. Has on occasion tried to get her to divorce me, talks badly behind my back about me. 1st we were all friends and all was well until my alcoholism took control months and mon...
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AITA: Indirectly broke a dryer at a laundromat then gave a fake name and number to the owner
Cross-posted (verbatim) with permission from original poster u/basura67. Original can be found in r/confession Last night was doing laundry at the local laundromat. I had 3 washers going at once. Now normally, you fill the wash, add detergent, add quarters and select the cycle. When I pressed the cycle button normall...
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{ "description": "backing out of an interview that I already agreed to", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for backing out of an interview that I already agreed to?
I recently had a phone interview with a company for a data scientist position. In my opinion, it went very badly (I had given my resume to a previous coworker who works at the company currently. Even though I am a masters student and haven’t had research experience since Aug 2016, the company wanted me to apply to thei...
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{ "description": "not liking my brother's Facebook page", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not liking my brother's Facebook page
So, my brother is running for city council, and wants me to like his Facebook page, for publicity. The point is, I don't even use Facebook, only use it to talk to my family, so nobody else from the city will be able to see it. Plus, I'm always telling people I know and live in the area that he's running. There is no po...
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{ "description": "being grumpy at my mil", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being grumpy at my MiL
I get the feeling I am being an entitled child. Dated my husband for a few years then got married. My parents were abusive so I kinda moved in to their place shortly after. It wasn’t official but they were extremely welcoming and I was extremely unintrusive. (I never left the room except for work, I would even wait to...
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{ "description": "expecting my friend to care about me bleeding in her parents car and crying", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for expecting my friend to care about me bleeding in her parents car and crying?
So, today, I was walk with 2 friends to the place where one of their parents were collecting us from school. When we got there I tripped in a pot hole , twisted my foot and scratched up my knee pretty bad. I lash out when I get hurt physically and when one of them asked if I'm ok I said, kinda meanly "Do I look ok?!" I...
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{ "description": "not wanting to keep messaging this girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don’t want to keep messaging this girl
Some backstory - she used to have a thing for me. I didn’t have mutual feelings but we agreed to stay friends. We used to text a fair bit but the last few months I don’t text anywhere near as much as I used to. Partly because I find it tedious but also because I’m genuinely busy with social and uni life. If I do text ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I don't feel appreciated", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend I don't feel appreciated
Bit of backround: I work part time while going to school and my girlfriend pay for groceries and gas on my own, while me and my girlfriend split the rent. For chores, I cook supper every night (lunch when we're home), clean both our dishes everyday, and clean the kitchen and the dining table and do the trash by myself ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at someone for not helping out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at someone for not helping out
Today during my science class we were doing a science experiment. It took a while to set up, and get everything ready. When we started to do the experiment, she left and began talking to another group that had to read something. She was gone the entire time and made us do the work/clean everything up. We could have use...
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{ "description": "cutting my last friend outta my life", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting my last friend outta my life
(sorry if none of this makes sense, I'm quite tired, and I'm typing this on my phone which has a messed up keyboard or something) So I made this account just to make this post. I need some outside opinions (people that haven't met this person because they all agree with me). And this one's gonna be quite long, sorry. ...
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{ "description": "not attending the prize distribution after participating for an event", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not attending the prize distribution after participating for an event?
I recently participated in a business idea presentation event organised by my college. It was end of semester, and I really did not want to miss any lectures, so I completely planned out my schedule that day, to make the most of my time. I had a really important lecture to attend right after my presentation. So, the m...
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{ "description": "not doing business with Armenians", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not doing business with Armenians?
I'm an operations manager at a mid-sized manufacturing company. Part of my job is to hash out details, specifications, and price with customers/clients. Over the years that I've been here, we've had close to 20 clients that have refused to pay the final balance and all of them have been Armenian. And taking them to cou...
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{ "description": "not talking to my mentally disabled uncle", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to my mentally disabled uncle?
Hello r/AmItheAsshole, I'm a huge lurker on the sub and I have a situation that has been bothering me and wanted some judgement. My uncle is around 50 years old now and has the mental capacity of a kid nowadays. It wasn't always like this. At an early age (maybe 10 or 12?), he was an extreme alcoholic. He would steal ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to speak to family the stole thousands from me and got away with it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to speak to family the stole thousands from me and got away with it.
My father was given my grandmothers house. My father put my aunt on the house too as he felt bad she was not included in the will. Aunt passed away and because her name was half on the house it paid off the mortgage(a very small one for repairs). House then had her 2 daughters named added. My dad lived in the house...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my so for coming home steaming drunk on a Monday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my SO for coming home steaming drunk on a Monday?
Tonight he texts me to say he’s going for a drink with a friend and will be back around 9. We have 0 food in the house so I ask him if he’s passing a shop on the way back, if not I’ll just go out and get my groceries myself. He says he’ll grab them for me. 9,10,11 passes and he’s not back yet and not much response fr...
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