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"description": "being annoyed when someone says the are \"Bisexual\" but never dated with the same sex",
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} | AITA for being annoyed when someone says the are "Bisexual" but never dated with the same sex? | Basically I know several people who say the are "bisexual" but never dated the same sex and it annoys me to no end, because why not just say you are straight or lesbian. It just feels like you want to feel "special" or not considered "ordinary" or some bullshit like that.
A girl I know just got out of a 4 year relatio... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being choosy when it comes to models",
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} | AITA for being choosy when it comes to models? (I'm a TFP photographer for context) | A bit of background info, I've been a long term fan of anime and manga and recently got into the cosplay community. I've been kind of a closet photographer in the past, and decided to start a hobby as a cosplay photographer (shooting cosplayers). Cosplay photographers in my local community typically charge $60-80/h sho... | HISTORICAL | {
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tFpvM7tCH5RqCbDUqWTPVrMhGvLHLKz8 | b9p2l4 | {
"description": "having a total mental breakdown and flipping out on my friends",
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} | AITA for having a total mental breakdown and flipping out on my friends? | I (26f) had a car crash 4 years ago and it was pretty bad. Not my fault. Some people drove on the wrong side of the highway and slammed into me, head on. I've always been a bit of a depressive, so the near death experience had a big impact on me beyond all the injuries (superficial, I healed like wolverine thankfully).... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "calling a Jane Doe, \"whore\" because",
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} | AITA for calling a Jane Doe, "whore" because... | A little bit of information about me: I'm a lesbian 15y/o living in a Nordic country, attending a public school in 9th grade. I'm diagnosed with depression, autism and anxiety. I find it extremely hard to talk verbally, make eye contact, and so the list goes on. (in short: I'm really socially anxious).
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"description": "wanting to work and not hang out with my friends",
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} | AITA for wanting to work and not hang out with my friends. | So my friends are off playing pool today and Im working a 2pm to 10pm shift. This job is really relaxing and I can practically leave whenever, provided its not busy.
So one friend of mine asked if I wanted to hang out with them and I declined because Ive been more motivated to work and earn money for my goal (10k this... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "thinking my best friend needs to grow up",
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} | AITA for thinking my best friend needs to grow up? | So I have been friends with someone for about 6 years and we are really close. But sometimes I feel like I'm not talking to an adult (we are both almost 20).
My friend is on a diet in which one of the few things they can eat a lot of and not worry about the calories is vegetables. But they REFUSE to eat them saying t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "whipping out my phone to film angry man following us",
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} | AITA for whipping out my phone to film angry man following us | Hey there, long time lurker, first time poster. :) This is a long read for a relatively minor incident so be warned. :P
​
This is a story from yesterday about a minor road rage in Regina, Saskatchewan that spilled into a Toys’r’us. It isn’t so much the incident itself but an experience I had with an “off-d... | HISTORICAL | {
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9h5Cpwp4c04Tm2KyLYkx3Ok69o0Mz8ku | aw3p7k | {
"description": "casting someone out of the group",
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} | AITA for casting someone out of the group? | Dear Reddit,
​
Last semester I joined a clique of boys (I'm a girl). It's a really chill group, except for this one guy.
Since day one, this weeb has had a thing for me. Not that I mind that much, it's a confidence booster.
Everyday when I walk into the auditorium I see his head look for me. The guy bare... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to see a friend that is threatening to never speak to me again if I don't hangout with him",
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} | AITA for not wanting to see a friend that is threatening to never speak to me again if I don’t hangout with him? | There’s a lot I could say about this, but I know this isn’t an advice sub, so I’m going to keep it short. A friend that I used to be close to but haven’t hung out with in two years reconnected with me recently. We’ll call him Alex. I originally distanced myself from Alex because he has some mental health issues that he... | HISTORICAL | {
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ccBxKXnhn7BYI0vOLciuIaYYSJ1hzXtl | a13psx | null | AITA Had a bad breakup | Me and my girlfriend had been having some trouble lately. We had been together for over a year and a half, and it felt like the last six months we would fight, and get back together just to fight again. We had a bad one recently that I thought was her fault but three days of no talking and I was at the store buying her... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "presenting my girlfriend and ultimatum after months of trying to reason with her",
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} | AITA For presenting my girlfriend and ultimatum after months of trying to reason with her | So I’ve been with this girl since about October and we have some mutual friends, but she goes to a different school (you wouldn’t know her) and has some friends I hadn’t met. In December I met some of them and immediately there was one (we’ll call him Derek) who I couldn’t stand. He was all around pushy and always made... | HISTORICAL | {
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ThFPWmVUDlRpsYePjKBGOKpfqM9LkEdu | alzbx9 | {
"description": "ignoring my ex-best friends cry for help",
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} | AITA for ignoring my ex-best friends cry for help? | For some background, this girl and I had been best friends for around two years. We had been through everything together, and were always with each other. I even went to her al-anon and eventually NA meetings with her. We went down the addiction path together, eventually, but I did not try to get clean unlike her. I di... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ue4Tr9DCp4g710Kb48XdJnHjqrV2EHCh | atrlpr | {
"description": "not wanting to share my trauma when asking people to not do certain things",
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} | AITA for not wanting to share my trauma when asking people to not do certain things? | Okay, mobile, first time poster, etc.
So I live in a VERY funny situation. I live with a "foster" family after escaping my mother, who I will be telling stories about on r/raisedbynarcissists . I've lived here for about six months.
I have asked my foster dad to not make jokes about killing dogs. To make a long story ... | HISTORICAL | {
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CbwNNbW3E7pkn9Ihx8QTLszLd3zZvSke | b0rs33 | {
"description": "locking my cousin out after he did to me multiple times",
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} | AITA for locking my cousin out after he did to me multiple times? | So I was in China and I lived with my relatives for 2 months while visiting family.
I had this cousin (M, 16) who would pretend to not hear me pounding on the door when I came home (we had one of those chain locking things that meant the door could only be opened from the inside when people were home) for up to 10-15... | HISTORICAL | {
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Rh1XfZLdTb0tHaIFjDD89JJnZYJDwKhy | abyn9r | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for my wife's past education",
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} | WIBTA for not wanting to pay for my wife’s past education. | When we got married, I had no student loans as I paid them off right away. My wife had about $25k in student loans when got married. At that time, I agreed to pay them off and we did it in about 5 years. We are about 10 years into our marriage and says that her parents paid for half of undergrad education. She would no... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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hHRjwuaW3078tdanVApQGCxhwOtH8XfE | 9u6enk | {
"description": "being frustrated with my friend",
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} | AITA for being frustrated with my friend. | So basically my friend who I've known for a few months invited me to a game of PUBG Mobile on the weekends. We started the game and there were a few issues with voice chat so I had to wait for him until the plane automatically kicked us out. While playing there were a few moments which just made my blood boil like when... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZS1LyGptij0gfc0PaGvfNuA0WCFkPjTG | acyphu | {
"description": "pouring hot coffee into the trash at Starbucks when I need more room for cream",
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} | AITA for pouring hot coffee into the trash at Starbucks when I need more room for cream? | I like a lot of cream in my coffee and sometimes I won't have enough room in my cup. I'll tip a little of it into the garbage when this happens. It's usually a pretty small amount but I always worry that I'm making taking out the garbage later into a pain in the ass by a. adding liquid and b. possibly melting the liner... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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UQyeUPVT9z6GMSlKlOXssML8YtbxWeom | akoydr | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend | So, some context, I [26M] met my now ex-girlfriend [25F] about a year ago. I met most of her friends and even her family before we got together. We became close and started dating a couple of months ago. We of course have been intimate in this time.
Now, over the course of this past year, the topic of transgenders ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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r6845GB9Iig7JjzSjWMe3WdhqeBhx3im | anlcyb | {
"description": "calling out my girlfriends double standards",
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} | AITA for calling out my girlfriends double standards | I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 years now and we've been living together in our house for about 18 months, we lived together for about 6 months or so before buying a house together. Therefore, this is a commmitted relationship.
On to the issue, I'm the tidy type in that I clean-up after myself, I put my thing... | HISTORICAL | {
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IrzbKherL94i0BmNNiR5Aek1whvjDiyw | 9vrwrc | {
"description": "wanting to play video games",
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} | AITA for wanting to play video games? | I (21F) just got into a fight with me (23F) boyfriend because I wanted to keep playing on the ps4. As I am currently in school and had nothing to do yesterday and today Ive been playing this game. I still did 3 loads of laundry, cooked dinner, folded clothes. He screamed at me for being "obsessed" with this game. Grant... | HISTORICAL | {
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nw3Ei5CSd5mrR11Rs4qdBrktzd5giwLI | awupfg | {
"description": "nagging my bf for having no drive",
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} | AITA for nagging my BF for having no drive? | Hey All,
So back story time. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 years. I broke off the relationship half way through for a few reasons, main one being that he had no job, no hobbies other than gaming and no intention of doing anything with his life. While we were apart, he seemed to get his act together. He got ... | HISTORICAL | {
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FCj9lIZ2BSLjBUxSfA6GuF06LHqLy7ZA | a53wfz | {
"description": "being sexist",
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} | AITA for being sexist? | So I want to give this some context, I [M21] have a girlfriend [F20] and her best friend [F20] who are all really pretty close. Now this friend of my girlfriend's is very open to lots of experiences. For example, her and my girlfriend had a threesome and she also is very hypersexual. Anyways, she decided one day to get... | HISTORICAL | {
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0FNiaTBN3CqKz9FRXzScu0jxesj5L3le | ba7ae6 | {
"description": "being mad at an optimist",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For Being Mad At An Optimist? | You ever meet someone who's so nice, so charming, so lovable, just gets a long with everyone, that you yourself are scared to point out a flaw with how they're acting, as it may hurt your status, and make people turn against you? Well as you may have guessed, that's the situation I am in right now.
I was elected presi... | HISTORICAL | {
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TdHngjmJmtPl89vwexUUGL81Vd8xKkCH | azko3u | null | AITA Girlfriends animal poops and smells when she is not home. | My girlfriend has a bearded dragon that poops once every 4 days all over his tank and requires deep cleaning it smells up the whole house. I hate it. The poop disgusts me and I'm not very fond of the animal. I refuse to clean it up because it's not mine and I never wanted one. Today I woke up to the smell of foul shit ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
mcZkwdPuxNU0ifttOrRamPdzWbCdGxya | argsgj | {
"description": "not wanting to be friends with someone who has no other friends",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone who has no other friends? | So I met this girl in one of my classes and she seems cool, but definitely shy. I've gotten to know her over the past couple semesters and I've noticed that she doesn't appear to have any friends apart from me. She never really goes out except for when we go out and she even told me herself that she doesn't talk to any... | HISTORICAL | {
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AqKfEucRrPuEVXDvcVDurz4bNTPvyJbV | aiogyb | {
"description": "refusing to go grab paper towels when asked",
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} | AITA for refusing to go grab paper towels when asked? | A few days ago, I was hanging out at a table of fellow students (wouldn't exactly call them friends) in our campus atrium. A girl asked me if I'd do her a favor and go grab her some paper towels from the bathroom, because the mens bathroom was about 20ft closer to us than the girl's bathroom. I would have done her the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BaZZ0MVxXSBTPjDDH3K4jwzUzfr52VgC | ax07ig | {
"description": "returning and exchanging my boyfriend's Valentine's Day gift to me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for returning and exchanging my boyfriend’s Valentine’s Day gift to me? | This is something I’ve been thinking about for awhile, and plus I just saw the post that says “AITA for returning my VDay gift to my boyfriend” so I’m inspired I guess.
My bf and I are in an LDR. THIS IS RELEVANT. We are 22M and 21F. I’m still in college, he graduated in December. This was our second Valentine’s Day... | HISTORICAL | {
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UxnPMiBhm4INCSfwd7kxIJPLcoZsoPWQ | b76qfm | {
"description": "fighting with my friend",
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} | AITA for fighting with my friend? | It’s kind of a long story but I had this friend I knew for years. He was my best friend for a while and we went from high school to college together. One day, my friend suddenly kept talking about this hot girl he saw in one of his clubs. Wouldn’t shut up about her. He seemed into her but wouldn’t ask her out because h... | HISTORICAL | {
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KhYM7tfYbItAH0qjU6EO8XvBBsofynQP | b39sw8 | {
"description": "cutting contact with a \"friend\"",
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} | AITA for cutting contact with a "friend" | I'm on mobile sorry for formatting.
Repost cuz other was deleted
So I was friends with this person a little bit back, lets call them TF for toxic friend, so, I was good friends with TF for a little bit, he was a cool guy at first, we played games together and he was good at drawing because he would post really amaz... | HISTORICAL | {
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WWl8fTVOHB9zJgtxSHkLHm9gcGjuOkcb | ba5u5t | {
"description": "asking for a refund on my daycare fees",
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} | AITA for asking for a refund on my daycare fees? | TLDR: Daycare provider cancelled care for personal reasons less than 24 hours after accepting payment for the month. Called out on Facebook for being hostile & “not understanding” after getting upset, apologizing & then requesting a refund.
Our care provider for our youngest son abruptly cancelled care for the... | HISTORICAL | {
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uJw6BI4n4YUFEc0VZpHbbMi8F4Wy2TqV | a5n7bw | {
"description": "not communicating something clearly",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not communicating something clearly? | This may seem small compared to some of the doozies I've read on here, but here goes:
I've been seeing this girl, we've been on like three dates and tonight we were going to do a group thing with some of her friends - and up to this point we've been meeting up at locations - But tonight she asked if I would pick her u... | HISTORICAL | {
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5VPhIqRgeULctOMfbghSvR7yBysBlV51 | addo0f | {
"description": "dumping my insecurities about meeting new people on a girl I just started talking to in dms after barely 10 minutes of interaction",
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} | AITA for dumping my insecurities about meeting new people on a girl I just started talking to in DMs after barely 10 minutes of interaction? | A little preface: I followed this individual on Twitter, and she followed me back. We share several mutual followers in the Marvel Cinematic Universe fandom on Twitter. We don't know each other in real life. Yeah, I know, it's kinda ridiculous, no need to tell me that.
Anyways, I decided to try and socialize/reach ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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EOrEtk29mADip9KYSHdzcy2UHdb4RMY9 | a6oe87 | {
"description": "wanting to propose to my gf, without a diamond ring",
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} | AITA for wanting to propose to my gf, without a diamond ring? | So, we are not made out of money. I do have an awesome job and my girlfriends job pays her bills pretty much (not much opportunity to save). We live in NY, Long Island to be more exact. The cost of living here is crazy, but we somehow make things work. We discussed marriage and actually looked at a possible venue yeste... | HISTORICAL | {
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AUtUGUlBYgS7MYVLNpDQpRuEnnfjHPIh | axb6uh | {
"description": "calling my girlfriend dramatic about a medical thing",
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} | AITA for calling my girlfriend dramatic about a medical thing? | My girlfriend got a bunch of yeast infections last year, like one every other month. Every time, she went to the doctor because she "doesn't like monistat." The doctor wasn't even testing her, just giving her a prescription every time, so I wasn't convinced every single time was an actual yeast infection and not just h... | HISTORICAL | {
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oJ7rHI3Gdg6n8UaLLzKZH20oaNjKuBtY | aoppd6 | {
"description": "revoking Internet Access to my roomate",
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} | AITA for revoking Internet Access to my Roomate | I'm on mobile, excuz da typos.
So I'm currently renting from my parents and have a couple buddies living with me. Rent is one lump sum, that includes utilities and internet. Honestly it's a good deal that in theory, should benefit everyone.
In short, he is three months behind. He lost his main job, but still had a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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2xVSx3xOJZPf67cG3ShtqBbBboAwjPfQ | ajiq12 | {
"description": "\"cutting the line/stealing\" someone's seat",
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} | AITA for “cutting the line/stealing” someone’s seat? | Okay so I’m still a High School student, and today at lunch me (and many others, keep this in mind) ran to the start of the line. Of course, me being the “teachers pet” wouldn’t do it without a reason, which was that I didn’t eat dinner or breakfast yesterday which basically made me feel like I was starving to death. A... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "trying to carry out my father's final wishes, over his parents' objections",
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} | AITA for trying to carry out my father's final wishes, over his parents' objections? | For privacy, I am using a throwaway account and obscuring some identifying details.
​
My father died a few years ago, in his fifties. He is survived by me (his only child), his ex-wife (my mother), his sister (my aunt), his estranged brother (my uncle), and his parents (my grandparents). This is the story ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking my Ex to pay her share of our son's Health care coverage",
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} | AITA? I asked my Ex to pay her share of our son’s Health care coverage | So a few weeks ago open enrollment started and my ex and I sat down to talk about coverage for my son. At the time we were going to get him health insurance and no dental. But as i thought about it I was like “it would be stupid to not get him dental insurance.” It’s pretty cheep and with all his mouth issues (he’s 9 ... | HISTORICAL | {
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pWvrbFRZV1Nmp1Z9OPHnuJNK7moocHWi | a6ydwl | {
"description": "kicking out an autistic kid from my movie theater",
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} | AITA for kicking out an autistic kid from my movie theater? | This one is a little interesting
A little backstory first.
I am a manager (m 19) at a movie theater, in a rougher part of a major Canadian city.
While cleaning a theater to prepare it for the next showing, a 16 year old looking kid came into the theater trying to find his hat. No problem, stuff gets lost all the tim... | HISTORICAL | {
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PcFXFFbW1650uYeMqdNHNAn2i8LIWzr9 | b55dmh | {
"description": "being super sad about being excluded",
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} | AITA for being super sad about being excluded? | My boyfriend and I both lost our jobs at the same time and got new ones. His is awesome, mine kinda sucks. His coworkers come across as a little condescending but I want to give them a chance. He has only had me come out with them one time because they don’t want outside people to hang, I guess. I thought I would final... | HISTORICAL | {
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oeepO5KCqf4MEVQl2LWhj6nobwWqDo5f | ay69wn | {
"description": "telling a kid with no friends to fuck off",
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} | AITA For telling a kid with no friends to fuck off | For the last couple of months, this person in class has been trying to talk to me and become my friend. I have always been nice to him since he doesn't really have any friends in school, but today I went off on him. I was sitting in class as usual, and for some reason, he decides to lay his head on my shoulder. It is v... | HISTORICAL | {
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z0IHxihK9TiGm4OES8T1Oj3CurmJTAot | 9zbge9 | {
"description": "not wanting to introduce my girlfriend to certain people straight off",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to introduce my girlfriend to certain people straight off? | So I was wanting to introduce my new girlfriend to my parents and my sister! Now I was going to make dinner for the 5 of us. My sister has a fiancé and he is something..(no filter,cocky, and a big baby) well i didn’t invite him over and he is upset and my sister is also. And he is starting to fight with her and my sist... | HISTORICAL | {
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lSaIqoe4KaZ2eLBkEoM8Bs1uZyDY2N8l | azjo5z | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to stand up for me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for wanting my boyfriend to stand up for me? | I went out to the bar with my boyfriend last night and there was a incident that has me questioning our entire relationship.
I accidentally bumped into a guy and spilled his drink on him. I apologized profusely. The guy was not happy with that though. He made fun of my appearance and called me a “drunken bitch”. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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FBR7Ukg6RQEKeTaUlkTghgsI0NKcJxyd | b78ii8 | {
"description": "asking a friend who has stayed at my place 24 days this month for a small rent payment",
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} | AITA for asking a friend who has stayed at my place 24 days this month for a small rent payment? | So, this friend is a friend of my 2 other roommates and myself. We all went to school together and what not, but he is more of a friend to one of my roommates than myself. Anyways, he has his own place one town over (about a 20 minute drive) and he lives with his sister there in a town home that they rent. But this ... | HISTORICAL | {
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0uGtWMVTjxiOxKa7s3zljMR62OK9EZ8l | aj24yp | {
"description": "cutting off a little girl in the middle of her story",
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} | AITA for cutting off a little girl in the middle of her story? | This is rather light compared to some of the super drama filled posts on this sub. If that’s what you’re here for, about face.
Few days ago I had to get some routine maintenance done on my vehicle. It’s a higher end dealership, so there’s a nice waiting room/lounge area with TVs, charging stations, beverages and snac... | HISTORICAL | {
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Yor9PKz3fQzYm845vEx18WjvVHbWVlsX | afurgy | {
"description": "threatening to kick my dad's ass after he threw the suit I wore to my brother's wedding on the ground",
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} | AITA for threatening to kick my dad's ass after he threw the suit I wore to my brother's wedding on the ground | Hi guys,
I'll try to keep backstory minimal and factual
My brother got married this past Saturday. I was a groomsman. I had a great time. I don't think my dad did. My dad and I had a fight the day after the wedding where he believed I got too drunk (I did) but I believed I was still having a great time and he was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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mc8bAzwjmugFyUTWem5w8fcSMu7rkAQE | b4czo3 | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my friend with her kids around",
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} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friend with her kids around | Hey guys. I’ve been pretty conflicted about lately and feel like a bad friend.
My friend and I are both in our 30s and have been teamed up since middle school. We’ve been through college, bad relationships, divorce and all that together and she’s my closest confidant. We mainly communicate by text (we’re not phone cal... | HISTORICAL | {
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cPhQDLoKmPVzGtAWoqDIARLrH2svUWUG | am2h2z | {
"description": "not wanting to give them another chance at being friends",
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} | AITA for not wanting to give them another chance at being friends? | Ok this is a long one, with many people involved, so thanks in advance to those who read through the whole thing. TL;DR at the bottom.
​
I (24f) and one of my closest friends, we'll call him Alex (24m), have been at something of an impasse about whether I should let a mutual of ours - we'll call them Erin ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9Qoz1ZEgG4JfhKS6eVPx76Bc1V5RON1R | b2pemq | {
"description": "leaving a penny as tip to the restaurant server for being overly political",
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} | AITA for leaving a penny as tip to the restaurant server for being overly political? | A group of my friends and I went out for brunch yesterday after a St Patrick’s day event. There were 7 of us and we had a server who was not shy about sharing his ultra right wing views about immigrants.
We told the server we were just trying to have a nice brunch and would rather not hear about his political beliefs... | HISTORICAL | {
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8WNKUgCGbYcuxO97eM3kdrb3LRWjnX4N | axxcdn | {
"description": "calling out friend ... and being put out by her comments",
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} | AITA for calling out friend ... and being put out by her comments | AITA One of my friends seems to go after men who are attached, I don’t know why but she just does. She is a few years younger than me and we have been friends for almost three years. She recently was telling us all about how this guy she’d been seeing had dropped her for his girlfriend and she should blow up his life.... | HISTORICAL | {
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baVB2XZFE7kbeiOfVXAKA1BAOnUZirL4 | b44er3 | {
"description": "not giving my bus seat to an elderly lady",
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} | AITA for not giving my bus seat to an elderly lady? | So I work a very very physically demanding job in the construction industry and at the end of the work day I get the bus home. I love sitting down and unwinding on the trip home as I'm on my feet most of the day and am always exhausted.
The other day a woman who must have been in her mid-late 70s got on the bus and st... | HISTORICAL | {
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o51kGhLfTJxWerGZaom73nIw5cTuegJJ | azgj36 | {
"description": "asking for my money back from my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 94,
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} | AITA for asking for my money back from my girlfriend | To start this out my girlfriend and her two kids live with me. I don't have a problem with paying for things here and there. I do make a lot more money than her. But im not rich and i have plans for the money like bills and retirement funds. she doesn't make a lot through out the year so taxes are a huge windfall for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5AzqCftjFK7e9rSTvuBjaN2kIgkyBqWZ | 9u45cp | {
"description": "asking a woman to put her phone down while recording at a concert",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for asking a woman to put her phone down while recording at a concert? | Went to a concert yesterday at a small, but definitely not sold out venue with a friend of mine. We're in our early 20s. As we're both quite tall, my friend and I did not want to stand right in front, so others who aren't as tall could still see something, so we're in the middle of the crowd. As the show wasn't sold ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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tlTwVQSvvvUpN5pIsiEKU2b2pikFcNuO | a81jpq | {
"description": "telling my roommate I'm uncomfortable with the amount of women he has over",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA for telling my roommate I'm uncomfortable with the amount of women he has over? | Been friends with roommate for 8+ years.
This has been going on for a while now, but it's only recently become an issue to me.
When he moved in this time last year, him and his gf had just broken up, and my bf moved in with us at the same time.
He's been meeting girls on tinder and having them over since then, and ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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lRhTbTbU2oWh26pXLYxNpmkxTgc7naKw | a9mr6e | {
"description": "not wanting to spend time with my family",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to spend time with my family? | I’m a middle child (one of two middle children), so this must be a pretty common feeling. I just hate spending time with my family. We get along fine, we love each other and they’re not assholes, I just don’t enjoy actually hanging out with them.
When my older brother comes to visit with his fiancée and son, I’m alway... | HISTORICAL | {
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u5ue3d0iGopdzTdonKpCLHeecGk4EHFY | ao8qnc | {
"description": "arguing with a senior citizen",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for arguing with a senior citizen | Here is my situation. We have an AMC theater that my son (22) and I (51) go to. For those not familiar with AMC they have a rewards program that if you pay for the premium (which I do) enables you to enter express lines for buying tickets and refreshments. Well, one day the two of us go to the theater and they only hav... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
BUOa9wH5624maGBhne1rAkUIXKzKnGVc | acegfm | {
"description": "thinking it's unfair that my so is telling me that I need to stop crying over little things",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for thinking it’s unfair that my SO is telling me that I need to stop crying over little things? | I’ve always cried at things I find sad. Sad movies, books, TV shows, social media posts, etc.
My boyfriend knows and hates it. He always gets mad at me for crying and tells me that I’m being ridiculous. He doesn’t like seeing me upset when he can’t fix it. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t tell him what’s wrong b... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
vZQ170MkFgmok3Gpq3xQneEOfTUpM2DI | ao6eox | {
"description": "not acting enthusiastic about someone else's pregnancy",
"pronormative_score": 75,
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} | AITA for not acting enthusiastic about someone else's pregnancy? | Throwaway for obvious reasons.
My coworker is currently pregnant and everyone is gushing over her constantly. All I hear all day long is pregnancy jokes, comments, or baby talk. Especially now as her due date is around the corner.
I am happy for her, but I have had 3 miscarriages within the past 13 months. The last o... | HISTORICAL | {
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freI0fyoKDYRtsLBcAa1RpnKFMLjPlaz | atuyob | {
"description": "casually farting on my sisters head when she refused to leave my room multiple times",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA For casually farting on my sisters head when she refused to leave my room multiple times? | Im 17, my sister is 15 and very annoying.
I had my friend come over to play his xbox one x and watch movies on it. She entered my room to look at it but then refused to leave.
She has a habit of entering my room and refusing to leave until my parents make her because she knows it pisses me off. My parents weren't hom... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
g139ty7rL64qwuDOH5bWNX4Eb9BofOX9 | afiffe | {
"description": "checking up on my ex boyfriend at the request of his sister against my current boyfriend's wishes in the middle of the night",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For checking up on my ex boyfriend at the request of his sister against my current boyfriend’s wishes in the middle of the night? | Alright, so this just happened. I share a house with my current boyfriend, A, who I’ve been dating for about three months. We have a pretty solid relationship. We’re both very forthcoming with feelings or gripes we might have with each other. I’d even go as far as saying that we have 10/10 communication skills.
My ex... | HISTORICAL | {
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ByFOK2FejaZbeWpSaj9ZVgG7V25XDzEN | am1bka | {
"description": "being jealous that my siblings get what I ask for and I don't",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for being jealous that my siblings get what I ask for and I don't? | Hello reddit, I'm writing this because a situation just happened with my little brother that I think is absolutely ridiculous. Back in July, my family and I were vacationing in France, I asked for an XBoX controller for my games. My little brothers both had controllers, I initially asked for an Elite controller which i... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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925TKd16oecegxxCsICkC8Ao4sWzBC7C | a0i8rb | {
"description": "hanging with my ex who I left? he asked me to hangout and we had a great time and enjoyed spending time together as friends but we had sex",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for hanging with my ex who I left? He asked me to hangout and we had a great time and enjoyed spending time together as friends but we had sex. | We fucked and had a fantastic night and he called me sweetie and boo and texted me the next day for a bit.
He is a 29/M and I’m a 26/F. I left my boyfriend of a few months because he wasn’t attentive and did not seem that interested.
He reached out to me and asked to be friends. We broke up civilly and it was a gre... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ti1iMPzJXBJ1iybL6NpBPa0FO5or6Y18 | amkpcb | {
"description": "not wanting visitors I won't even see in the waiting room while I'm in labor",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not wanting visitors I won't even see in the waiting room while I'm in labor? | I'm currently 8 months pregnant with our first kid. I don't want anyone at the hospital until the baby is born and we've had a little time to hang out with the baby alone & get situated. We've agreed that we won't have any visitors in OUR room until the baby is out. But my husband wants to have his parents stop by ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
mnGm4aVFgOsewsKI9ZtVPWOewI6angPO | 9xtxs6 | {
"description": "not tipping a poor pregnant waitress",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not tipping a poor pregnant waitress? | A couple of days ago I went to this dine in place and got served by this lovely young waitress. She was very nice to me and quite attentive to me when I whistled for her attention. Anyway I noticed that she was a bit fat around the stomach. I didn't really want to say anything, but she caught me staring and said that s... | HISTORICAL | {
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bjEpMXifoOKynRwAeTSTa8SY7b0aBRkq | b907fz | {
"description": "not letting my physics partner copy my stuff after I've turned it in",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not letting my physics partner copy my stuff after I’ve turned it in | Ok so for context I’m a high school student and am in honors physics. My physics partner, let’s call her Rose, is probably the laziest person in the world. Every time we have any assignment I do all of the work, and she either talks about her personal drama or naps. Then expects me to give her all the answers, even whe... | HISTORICAL | {
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VbE5jdwdddSKGDLxqPxv737EpC9JKiRg | b957u5 | {
"description": "not feeling bad for a girl who is bullied for cheating on her boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not feeling bad for a girl who is bullied for cheating on her boyfriend? | So there's this girl at my school, let's call her Claire. Claire has cheated on guys she's been in a relationship with 4 times now. Her social status is weird- she's hot, I guess, and pretty social, but was only ever really popular because her boyfriends were. She cheated on all of them, and all of them turned against ... | HISTORICAL | {
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XwRPrssgx3sa231rs3IHKAWb0A7COJzH | b3ydir | {
"description": "walking out on my job",
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} | AITA for walking out on my job? | Little backstory here, I'm 19 y/o and I've been working to save a little cash up before I head off to uni later this year. About 2 months ago I was hired at a new job, and the other day I resigned on the spot and walked out, to not set foot in there again. I gave no notice.
Context as to why I walked - my immediate ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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AncnPADPyD9fDY1fBpyhyHBDdQSDGtRR | b096lo | {
"description": "leaving my bf when it's not really his fault but the situation we're in",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA for leaving my bf when it’s not really his fault but the situation we're in? | I am 32F, my bf is 32. He has a 10 year old boy from a previous marriage. His ex is extremely manipulative and was abusive to my boyfriend while they were together. She manipulated him into having a child and getting married within a few months of being together. He left her when their son was 3 years old. He had no re... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
DrPHnjdamLCCO6SMTdLTC9ieoGoBZmNM | alnc9l | {
"description": "not wanting to delete my old Skype",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to delete my old Skype | We started talking on this account just over a year ago now, and up until this point it was the one I had used for all my previous shenanigans. I thought I deleted most of my old contacts after the relationship got serious, but I can be quite negligent and so I wouldn't be surprised if that wasn't the case.
But within... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kr6oHnAV6FPKHz1RGl3yaMaYPh4tq4ZG | b7fqqc | {
"description": "contacting my ex-boss with a photo of the employee handbooking stating why she wrongfully fired me",
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} | WIBTA if I contacted my ex-boss with a photo of the employee handbook stating why she wrongfully fired me? | When I say “wrongfully fired,” I mean it only in the company guidelines. I accept I was definitely the asshole in the beginning. Basically what happened was that I requested time off to visit family when I first got this job. I didn’t get the seven days I requested but I did get five days off. I ended up having to pay ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
YMvkOLxQLbUxcvMPC0WGdulPgKKbh767 | b1dh7o | {
"description": "being upset that my girlfriend finds it difficult to see me and hasn't told her parents about us after being together for 14 months",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset that my girlfriend finds it difficult to see me and hasn’t told her parents about us after being together for 14 months? | Long story but I’ll be brief.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for 14 months now and she still hasn’t told her parents about us. She’s 25 and works as a doctor so her schedule is pretty hectic and she finds it hard to make time for me. Any free time she has she usually spends it with her family or her flatmate. Sometimes... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
f1OS9DbOiigTDrgYDBJS6aGjrJdxoZoy | ael6bd | {
"description": "criticizing gf",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for criticizing gf? | (Throwaway account cuz internet)
My gf got accepted to this internship, but they placed her in a bad neighborhood which she doesnt want. So she emailed them back. Using phrases like “ this location is a bit inconvenient for me” and “ i hope you can make this work”. I told her that if i got this email i would get trigg... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
ppoyA8saImSYYmGEzc7B1CvHEZr6C8XM | b0zyc7 | {
"description": "not taking my sister's side in her break up",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not taking my sister’s side in her break up? | My sister has been dating this guy for a year. He’s a really good friend of mine since school and I’m currently in a relationship with his cousin so we’re all pretty close.
My sister lives in a different town and they’ve been in a long distance relationship from the start. I had noticed an imbalance in the relationsh... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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dZ297N4cQRBEiKcklObZvtNS9ot6SMT5 | aqv3v2 | {
"description": "not stopping a game for my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for not stopping a game for my girlfriend (F17)? | AITA for not stopping a game for my girlfriend (F17)?
​
So basically what happened is yesterday was obviously valentines day, and as I do not live close to my girlfriend I decided to get some flowers and chocolate delivered to her house.
I noticed that she was a bit bummed out throughout the day which was... | HISTORICAL | {
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wtrBWKUeuG4gDeSfsFM4xk6pEDUpqvIT | abs90v | {
"description": "being fascinated with mentally handicapped/disabled, foremost the ones that stick their tongues in the bottom lip and make the nnurrr noise",
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} | AITA for being fascinated with mentally handicapped/disabled, foremost the ones that stick their tongues in the bottom lip and make the nnurrr noise. | Throwaway account because peeps know the real me. Anyway yeah for a long time I’ve been fascinated with those who have a mental disability and make the constant murmurs and facial expressions, most notably the tongue in the bottom of the lip.
At this point let me make it clear that I have absolutely nothing against th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
MxLTeBHRB1wletqHSRz18edREbTBtTw1 | anzn46 | {
"description": "hating a kid who is \"better\" than everyone",
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} | AITA for hating a kid who is "better" than everyone | (Sorry for any mistakes and formating im new to Reddit and using a phone)
So this kid (who we will call John, its not his name) has thought he is better than everyone ever since grade school and if he's not, he strives to be better than them and call them dumb for not knowing. My friends and I sit at a table at school... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
IODFxYxtcyeAZESNO7TNv58eGzPMSKiJ | a7jvr7 | {
"description": "sleeping with a girl (I've been with a few times before) when she's been snapchatting my friend in between",
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} | AITA for sleeping with a girl (I've been with a few times before) when she's been snapchatting my friend in between? | In the past year I've been with this girl a few times at the end of a big night of drinking. It's been a friends with benifits thing, nothing serious. But between the last time I was with her (maybe 6 months max?) she and my friend have been snapchatting/msging each other. So I know there was something goin on.
Anyway... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | INFO | {
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MLC2Y6nuTAxgZBGIPUiDQDQ4mJsXbYW9 | adc03y | {
"description": "not supporting my cousins impending marriage",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for not supporting my cousins impending marriage | Yesterday my cousin, who is barely over 19 and a freshman in college got engaged.
Of course the family is thrilled, she’s the first to get engaged in about 10 years.
I’m not thrilled, in fact I voiced my disappointment to my grandmother who feigned shock I would be upset.
I’m 23, therefore I’m not aching to get m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | WRONG |
AXRft3UnEhmXP59MBIWXTrjVNvh9yB8A | a7xx7d | {
"description": "wanting to visit my grandma on Christmas",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for wanting to visit my grandma on Christmas? | I (M17) am only able to visit my grandma once a year on Christmas with my mother and brother, she lives 4 hours away and we usually dont have time to go visit her, because of school, work etc. So it became a tradition to at least visit her every year for Christmas, All my other grandparents are already dead and she was... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
sywqZswr2l8sDZnbLhnzo0t0BzyCxz9c | acmd6d | {
"description": "wanting to kick seven shades of shit out of my brother in law for creating a YouTube channel for my 6&7 year old daughters",
"pronormative_score": 56,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for wanting to kick seven shades of shit out of my brother in law for creating a YouTube channel for my 6&7 year old daughters? | My 6&7yo daughter's are starstruck with YouTube personalities and want to imitate their idols (JoJo Siwa, Tiana etc). The last year or so have been a battle of wits, the kids begging for their own YouTube channel so they can imitate their idols, myself and partners constantly trying to find creative ways to tell th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 53,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 56,
"WRONG": 9
} | RIGHT |
Ar401wGHm2N104RfGOBevyxO1PfZgnQY | a8k9yy | {
"description": "breaking all contact with my in-laws",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for breaking all contact with my in-laws? | This is something I've thought about a lot over the last few years, and I'd like to get some outside perspective. I'll fully grant that I'm not objective here, but I'm not embellishing anything that I mention here.
My wife's parents aren't good people. They do a lot of things which I very much agree with, including es... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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YYfQzv2n4aPkcjZNt7nWXMq2iso3Upix | aqkrlw | {
"description": "not getting my s/o a Valentine's Day Gift",
"pronormative_score": 20,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For not getting my S/O a Valentine’s Day Gift? | Today is Valentine’s Day and my 10-month anniversary with my S/O. On February 7th my mother passed away after a two-year battle with cancer. We buried her on Monday (February 11th) on the days following I’ve been grieving and getting her financials in order. Contacting creditors and closing accounts. Yesterday, my S/O ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 20,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
08AsOStRVx2iu2hr4RlOdhhA1oI3L0yF | ba1wa8 | {
"description": "not wanting children with autism",
"pronormative_score": 19,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not wanting children with autism? | Me (25f) and my fiancé (26m) we’re talking about having kids. I told him that, because of the heavy line of autism in my family (2 of my sisters, my mom, grandma, nephew, and cousin have high functioning autism) I don’t want to have kids with my genes, I’m okay with adoption or trying to figure out a surrogate type sit... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 14,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
KX5fQiTlFCE602FCGy2ysXCEykU3j4Fd | avg0yl | {
"description": "fighting against a guy requesting vacation",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for fighting against a guy requesting vacation? | Sorry for formating issues on mobile. So here is the set up. We work for a company that let's us request days off and if those days are requested off by more than one employee the employee with seniority gets the days. But all days must be requested before March 1st for seniority to count anything after that is first ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 1
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8V9EiFQLs70R9iTV4szasXJ3ndwl4M53 | auixlo | null | AITA fir not wanting to get the same haircut as my daughter to make her feel better. | So, my 14yo daughter's hair was very damaged. This was a result of her not taking proper care of her hair. On top of that she even has lice from somewhere.
So I had no other option but to get her hair cut short into a short pixie cut. I know it sucks and she hates it but there is nothing much I can do about that. But... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 13,
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 22
} | WRONG |
PecgZT4cIqGpfF4wn53InmbcjLrIsthn | b0vaiu | {
"description": "lifting my sister out of my room",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for lifting my sister out of my room | So I had just got back from the gym and was playing some overwatch and I had just finished some comp and was about to wash up and go to sleep when my older sister comes in the doorway visibly angry and tells me to go take out the trash. I calmly reply and say give me 2 seconds(I was trying to say goodbye and shut every... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
JASKryvTZIpWje0uySxRC1uv6R8fyUSk | ajse5g | {
"description": "not checking up on grieving friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not checking up on grieving friend? | A friend of mine recently lost her mother and when they first announced their death I sent them a message apologising for hearing the news and saying I'm always there for them if they need a talk.
She recently was at a family birthday party for the deceased and I didnt send a message checking up on them and its really... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 3,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
fk9OInqcgaVM5DB281EwquXk1BavO77k | awd5jl | {
"description": "calling cps on my friend's father",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for calling CPS on my friend’s father? | AITA? So a friend of mine opened up to me about abuse she suffered while living with her father. To be as delicate as I can talking about this issue, I will simply say He repeatedly offended and groomed her her whole life and ended up hurting her badly many times. she graduated early just to get out of his home.My frie... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
6BshDAsGzvysYa96bE1R2FgLpGBJdLR4 | ax4tbt | {
"description": "wanting to break up with my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA if i wanna break up with my boyfriend? | I've (29f) been with him (32m) for 10 years since college. And because of a misunderstanding he thought I'm a spoiled shallow brat. We talked it over and I guess it's fine now. But I just can't believe he would think that way after so many years. Am I the jerk for wanting to leave him? | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 5
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
2ey4yxxOtyYbzxisupOcQdvuHrh4zXwv | aiw4bp | {
"description": "disagreeing with my gf's view on differences between men and women in athletics",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for disagreeing with my gf's view on differences between men and women in athletics | So for some context, this disagreement started probably about 6 months ago. We were talking about fist fights because we had just seen a video on Facebook of a pretty brutal fight. I tell her about how I am pretty decent at fighting since my older brother and I used to have a lot of them when we were younger for variou... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
QyCtEqAWllHd2BIw4dvHMmmTlxYs68Ux | b8j1nd | null | AITA Is it wrong to eat the snacks even if i always replace it? | This is not really a serious thing so not sure if it belongs here but here goes.
My brothers and i love the same snacks/chips and we live next to a corner shop selling the precious. Because of this as well as loving (and no fucks giving) parents we have had a continuous supply of junk food all our lives. Now remember ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 3,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
6AedXvyjW6Ydt20a6aMjtGvkBna3Znmv | aq3icg | {
"description": "\"exposing\" my Manipulative Ex GF after a Huge falling out",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for “Exposing” my Manipulative Ex GF After a Huge Falling Out | Hey guys, this is my first post on this subreddit and my first post in this style so please excuse any format errors. I’ll put a TL;DR but it!s better to read the whole thing as it gives you every bit of Information. Sorry it’s really long but it’s all relevant.
TL;DR: On and off GF leads me on and uses me for two ye... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 4
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egLRXuh5Z7FMcaEoURTWOudRbA4G4duu | a7vy6c | {
"description": "cutting this person off",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for cutting this person off? | In short, I am a cisgendered woman and although my childhood was nothing short of traditional, I had the opportunity to have a non-traditional education and met tons of non-traditional people. I've been able to venture out past the redundancy of my ethnic enclave and it's been monumental in shaping my own personal vie... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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GBLFJfBtOtjI2ykuTVdUFYUIArnsqKGt | ar5mbf | {
"description": "checking my girlfriend's phone while she was out with no ill intent but stumbling upon several text threads with other men planning nights out to cheat on me",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for checking my girlfriend's phone while she was out with no ill intent but stumbling upon several text threads with other men planning nights out to cheat on me? | Long story short. I come home and my live-in gf is gone. But her phone is on the bed, so I assume she went on a run. Nothing out of the ordinary. I have *never* done this before but something struck me to unlock her phone with her passcode (we use each other's phones all the time). I admit I crossed a line with mutual ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 17,
"EVERYBODY": 13,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 15
} | RIGHT |
LnXVwsPy2mMKcAan0g3L1pbFTvyIhmvt | b20ery | {
"description": "saying health issues aren't an excuse to be fat",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 22
} | AITA for saying health issues aren’t an excuse to be fat? | I have a friend who is very overweight, who has another friend who is also very overweight.
We were talking about weight and I expressed the dissatisfaction I’m experiencing after dealing with multiple ongoing health issues over the past few years. My friends friend (let’s call her “Jane”) jumped down my throat about ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 14,
"EVERYBODY": 15,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 22
} | WRONG |
mSdG0BlBgaw5dYcVhnfJ9aHrbalZxBuo | b8f7gw | {
"description": "not wanting my aunt at my hs graduation",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting my aunt at my HS graduation? | This might be a long one, guys...
So, September 2018, my mother was involved in a fatal car accident. My father (Who never married my mother and had custody of me) and I were the first people called, as my aunt and older brother were unavailable. My aunt and I never were really close, I would only see her when she, he... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
dat3HQbXNkjrM0nk3aHZCPcBlCHnK7Y3 | b03aqp | {
"description": "sleeping with a (much older) male friend I've previously come out as gay to? there is also a kinda-girlfriend in the picture",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I slept with a (much older) male friend I've previously come out as gay to? There is also a kinda-girlfriend in the picture (mine not his). | ME: 23, no sexual encounters to date, something like 90% sure I'm a lesbian, because all instances of sexual desire have to date been for... well, women. Not out to most of my family. Very sheltered very conservative-Christian upbringing, moving around the world a lot, bit weird, probably autistic, very naive but aware... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
6VBoRYV5WNIVNUXFfXYXyFj6FaxMWfiO | b83kf1 | {
"description": "getting on the bus awkwardly",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA getting on the bus awkwardly | I wasn’t sure how else to word it without explaining. I have autism, and my sensory issues means standing in large crowds is a rather unpleasant experience. I also hate catching buses. The bus was crowded today, with a huge line at the stop. Everyone was getting on the bus one way, so I stood beside the line slightly a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
LFhDEIIJkClGTcovMD2pn0SLMfPAqKNU | b6yboy | {
"description": "going to prom with another girl",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for going to prom with another girl? | I’ve asked my girlfriend multiple times if she’d like to go to prom. But she’s seems to not want to go. Okay that’s fine with me, so now I’m thinking of just asking a friend to go with me. Am I the asshole ? | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 6
} | INFO | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
yUzmwhbifmMUQRRak9bEChzFbbkMFHCV | ahhb5x | {
"description": "being upset with my husband for not wanting more children",
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} | AITA for being upset with my husband for not wanting more children | I've been with my husband for 5 years. I have two children 8 & 10 from a previous marriage, and he has three children 13, 11, 9. I am 33 and he is 37, and we have a pretty good relationship.
When we first started dating we both had said that we were happy with the kids we had, but no concrete opinions were ever... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 12
} | WRONG |
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