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AITA? Friend owed me money, I called him out on it.
So superbowl Sunday, me and 2 friends went to a bar for a viewing party. It was £20 per person. That included 2 drinks and a meal, but whatever not the point. I booked for the 3 of us, paid for it on my card. Got the £20 back from both of them the next day. All is well. So Sunday rolls around and one of my friends sa...
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{ "description": "ruining my mother's relationship with her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ruining my mother's relationship with her boyfriend?
My mum's boyfriend's behaviour towards me is strange and make me feel uncomfortable. For example: \- At a restaurant he would pull out my chair for me even if i had already sat down at a different seat at the same table and insist that I sit at the seat he chose for me \- Reach across the table and brush my hair out ...
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{ "description": "leaving 3 months early from an apartment that was rented to me as a favor and I didn't have to sign a lease but more so on a good word", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA:For leaving 3 months early from an apartment that was rented to me as a favor and I didn't have to sign a lease but more so on a good word?
Okay a little back story I've been living here since October of last year this is in Serbia where things work a bit differently. People do things on people's word. So I was supposed to leave in 3 months because I'm done with my year at school and go home j til October and move into my newly built condo that I bought. ...
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{ "description": "withdrawing my offer of plane tickets from my parents", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for withdrawing my offer of plane tickets from my parents?
5 years ago moved to the other side of the world to be with the love of my life. I accept this was entirely my choice and I have no regrets. Since moving I've traveled to see my parents a few times. 2 years ago we extended the invite for them to come and see us, and we'd pay for the whole thing. It's cheaper for us to...
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{ "description": "telling my partner she breached my trust", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my partner she breached my trust?
My partner and I have had a little pregnancy scare lately. I have told her that I’m not comfortable with our current method of birth control (although until recently I hadn’t taken steps to change it beyond telling her I think we should, so I’m just as at fault for that), and she’s been a few days late starting her per...
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{ "description": "getting angry that my parents mix all our leftovers together", "pronormative_score": 71, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting angry that my parents mix all our leftovers together
For some reason, my mom and stepdad think that taking all of our leftovers, rice, mashed potatoes, noodles, vegetables, etc and mixing them all together into one glob of prison lunch is a good idea. They have been doing this for so long and I have indicated that I hate it many times. They do that, and then nobody wants...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay with my girlfriend if she is unwilling to get an abortion", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to stay with my girlfriend if she is unwilling to get an abortion?
Disclaimer: my girlfriend is not currently pregnant. ​ So, yesterday my girlfriend and I were talking when she brought up how her friend had gotten pregnant while also having an IUD. The conversation somehow led to the topic of what she would do if she got pregnant. Which apparently, is carry it to term. P...
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{ "description": "removing a teammate from my football team", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for removing a teammate from my football team
I am the captain of a six-a-side amateur soccer team. There are 19 players in our team. Before the season I wrote on a group chat that "anyone who simply isn't going to play may leave the chat or if their absences are going to occur due to other, important cause should they tell me in a private message and they can re...
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{ "description": "leaving my roommates", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Leaving My Roommates
So I'm a student currently living with four other people and I'm graduating soon, which means theres no reason for me to stay in my college town. My roommates have known for months that I'm leaving in March and that we need to find a subleaser. In the past I've arranged for a subleaser for one of my roommates and I've ...
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{ "description": "wanting to go offline", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go offline?
For a myriad of reasons, I've been wanting to go offline, delete my social media, messaging apps, and eventually cut my post-paid mobile line for a very long time. Plan: delete social media (done) > switch to feature phone and delete WhatsApp > switch postpaid mobile line to prepaid mobile line, giving the numbe...
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{ "description": "posting a pic after someone else did", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for posting a pic after someone else did
Okay so I was in a discord server. Someone posted a pic of their pet. I didn't look at the time they posted the pic of their pet, and posted a pic of my pet 2-3 hours later. The individual said that I was rude for posting the pic. I said that I was sorry and that I didn't look at the timestamp. Called me rude again and...
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{ "description": "calling out my gf for social media use", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for calling out my GF for social media use?
Here’s the situation in a nut shell. My girlfriend and I had a huge falling out about social media use in September. She’s easily jealous and has major issues with ANY female I associate with. In turn, I’ve had issues with how many of her male followers speak to her, especially on SnapChat. So we agreed to deactivate F...
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AITA Domestic between the ladies next door.
I live in a duplex and a couple lives next door. Let's give the couple names. "Lisa" - Lisa is level headed and a reasonable person. Lisa has a young boy (Ronnie) of about 10 years living there. "Tammy" - is a hot head and verbally abuses "Lisa often. I suspect there is physical abuse too but I have no proof. Ta...
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{ "description": "not going to my girlfriends work christmas party because I wanted to play Smash Bros", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for not going to my girlfriends work christmas party because I wanted to play Smash Bros?
Okay so this all happened in December but her and I broke up 2 weeks ago (not because of this) and I have always wanted to know if I was in the wrong or right here. The new smash bros came out on Friday December 7th, which happened to be the day directly after my last final for my fall term. I saw this about 2 months p...
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{ "description": "cutting off my boyfriend's friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off my boyfriend’s friends?
I (23F) have been dating my boyfriend (24M) for 5 years. We have a great relationship now, but we went through a lot of shit in college. He fell in with a group of guys who I believed to be scumbags. They took Xanax with alcohol every night, skipped class to smoke/sell weed all day, and would try and set him up with ot...
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{ "description": "offering to buy someone I only recently met a duvet set", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For offering to buy someone I only recently met a duvet set?
So, I've only known this guy for a few days and we found each other through an app. We talk on Snapchat a bunch but haven't met yet. Problem is, I've never met anyone in person through these apps before and I'm a very anxious person. He'd mentioned that he lost his duvet at a relatives and won't ever be getting it bac...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate's ((nice)) girlfriend around all the time", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my roommate's ((nice)) girlfriend around all the time?
She's a really nice girl - friendly, sweet, etc. And she's spending 5-6 nights a week at our apartment - maybe arrives around 5 PM each day, doesn't leave until 10 AM and comes back again at 5 PM. I'm having doubts about being resentful of her presence because she's not overtly getting in my way. My two roommates and I...
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{ "description": "thinking I made a girl self concious", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA i think i made a girl self concious
Ok so i really like this girl but when her friend asked if i like her i said no because i thought she didnt feel the same She wasnt there the next day and her friends kept asking "who would you future girlfriend be" i said "no one im ugly" and they kept saying "well if you do get one what personality traits would you ...
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{ "description": "not being okay with my boyfriend being alone in a house with two girls", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for not being okay with my boyfriend being alone in a house with two girls?
So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now. His parents are going to be out of the country for a month and I was looking forward to spending time with him alone at his place, until he revealed to me that a family friend and her best friend will be staying at the house for a week during spring break. ...
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AITA for me and my gf blocking a mutual friend over a lie?
So lets call my gf Sarah and Dave. Dave introduces me to Sarah at a party 4 yrs ago. Prior to that Dave and I were buds for 4-5 years but casually (like different colleges, went to HS together, he lived in Seattle for 2 years, but recently moved back home and we reconnected). 2 years pass - both Dave and I fancy Sarah...
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{ "description": "throwing away customers food", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing away customers food.
This story is a few years old, but it is one I always think back to because I really question if I had done the right thing. Summer of 2017, I took at a job at a local amusement park. I was a ride operator at our main water ride. It was a river rafting ride, so just think round boats and a pretty good shot at getting...
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{ "description": "refusing to install the lights for my parents", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to install the lights for my parents
Hello Guys, sorry English is Not my First Language and i am on mobile. A little Context, i don't live at home anymore and get 100 % Financial Support from my parents, because of that and just being their Son, i still do a lot of things at their place, like all kinds of maintance and garden work. My Mother wanted to bu...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to get me a birthday present", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to get me a birthday present?
We've been together for almost 2 years, this is my second birthday with him. We broke up on my last birthday so I never got a gift then which I didn't care about. We got back together about 2 months later. His birthday was 4 months ago. Now I'm not lying when I say I really really love this guy, he's amazing and he ma...
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{ "description": "not reminding my boss to pay the severance package for a woman she fired", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I didn't remind my boss to pay the severance package for a woman she fired?
This one I'll try to keep short. So my boss is already an older woman. Runs her own business. I basically assist with administrative stuff. She constantly tells me to do things which I do, but she forgets she told me so I get reprimanded. This has happened many times and I can't do anything about as she doesn't use em...
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{ "description": "being unwilling to change my toxic behavior", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being unwilling to change my toxic behavior?
Hey all, please bare in mind I have mild autism and I am kind of bad at communicating. Regardless, here is my story. About 1 1/3 years ago I joined a group of people online. They're folks who built a community of support, honesty, and acceptance. They were my *best* friends. They were also very liberal, and that's not...
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{ "description": "not congratulating my \"friend\" for getting married when she 1. never told me I was engaged and 2. never personally invited me to the wedding? she's mad bc \"I should have known the news\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not congratulating my ”friend” for getting married when she 1. Never told me I was engaged and 2. Never personally invited me to the wedding? she’s mad bc “I should have known the news”
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with a persistent guy", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with a persistent guy?
So I met this guy once while I was overseas a year ago, and he's the son of my mom's friend. He was a nice kid, but we didn't talk much and that was that. About a month ago, mom said that he wanted my Instagram. I was alright with that, I mean he seemed okay. He started to dm me, and after a few messages he said he ha...
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{ "description": "considering not inviting my mom to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for considering not inviting my mom to my wedding?
To be clear, I seriously don’t know if I’m in the wrong here. I’m not here for YoUr WeDdInG iS yOuR dAy validation. My fiancé and I are looking to buy a house and make huge changes this summer. To help with this process, we got “paper married” on Friday. We still plan on having a full wedding in a year. We’re only te...
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{ "description": "telling my bf I love him when I absolutely did not", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For telling my (20F) BF (21M) I love him when I absolutely did not?
I’ll keep this short. My BF and I had been together for about 2.5 months when he told me he loved me at the top of a hill by the beach. It was all very romantic and intense, I lied and said I loved him back, when I very clearly knew I did not. I recently confessed that I only started loving him about 10 months into the...
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{ "description": "wanting to publicly out someone who screwed, not just me, but hundreds of people over", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to publicly out someone who screwed, not just me, but hundreds of people over?
TLDR; Made a significant investment in an acquaintance’s indigogo campaign a year and half ago and they haven’t fulfilled a single perk (not even the promised thank you notes) nor have they made any attempt to update or communicate with backers. I contacted him about it in June, but after making assurances and excuses,...
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{ "description": "not loving or caring about my brother", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not loving or caring about my brother?
Growing up, I had immense love for my brother. He was always a scumbag, always a weirdo. A lot of people have never liked him, and when he was 18+, he would prey upon young girls. Im talking middle school aged girls. I never defended him, but I also wasn’t angry because I grew up very sheltered and didn’t know/understa...
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{ "description": "not letting a client falsely wear a full military uniform", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not letting a client falsely wear a full military uniform?
So first things first, I work with the mentally disabled and this one client loves to play dress up and his favorite one is wearing full ACU's. I served in the military and I just don't like it when others wear the uniform without serving. He likes to play the "I'm an honorary member of my brothers unit" which he is, ...
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{ "description": "explaining mental health to my 10 y/o brother", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for explaining mental health to my 10 y/o brother?
Ok so, I have had anxiety and minor issues with mental health since i was about 8. im 18f now and i have only now gotten help and have been able to talk about it. also a bit of background, my mum and dad divorced before i could remember, my dad has a new wife and had two sons with her when i was 8, shes been around si...
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{ "description": "going to tell one of my best friends he's making a mistake marrying his gf", "pronormative_score": 67, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA I’m going to tell one of my best friends he’s making a mistake marrying his gf
I am friends with both M27 and F26. And I am pretty close with them. With F26, not so much anymore. They have been dating since Sophomore year of high school and have known them since. They are engaged for about a year now and getting married in 3 months. She is very manipulative and my friend is heavily influenced ...
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{ "description": "not grabbing the phone for my mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not grabbing the phone for my mom?
So half an hour ago, the home phone rang, and my mom said just let it ring. On the voicemail my dad was speaking, then he hung up. Although my mom had her cellphone in her hand, and i had my cellphone in my hand, she asked me to get up and go grab the home phone. When i asked why, she said it was because she didn’t wan...
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AITA refused to give money to guy at gas station
So I pulled in to a gas station to fill up yesterday and noticed a car pulled up close to another car that was parked at a pump. I observed the two parties talking and figured they were friends. As I was pumping gas I noticed the same car that I thought was a friend of the guy pumping gas, had made his way around the p...
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{ "description": "making my girlfriend have a mental breakdown", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my Girlfriend have a mental breakdown?
My girlfriend of around a year has depression and anxiety. She is taking medication for both of these and is seeing a therapist regularly. Next year she wants to go to university in the Netherlands, she currently lives in east Europe. I just started studying abroad and realised how difficult and expensive it really is ...
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{ "description": "making asian jokes to my asian friend. just because she kept sayin the n-word", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 37 }
AITA for making asian jokes to my asian friend. Just because she kept sayin the n-word.
Let me start of by saying I am black, I still withhold this opinion that only black people can say the N word, and I been told her I don’t like her saying it. It’s not a debate, go on one r/unpopularopinion for that shit Blah Blah! So she always said N-word too much and I’m pretty sure she knew I felt iffy about it. U...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship a month after he said sorry because his behaviour didn't change", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For ending a friendship a month after he said sorry because his behaviour didn't change?
A month ago it was a holiday and I decided to get drunk. I got drunk because I wanted to play and talk with my now ex-online best friend (call him Philip) since we rarely ever do that together. 30 mins after I started drinking I go to fetch more alcohol so I could get more drunk and 10 mins after that Philip says h...
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{ "description": "being straightforward with one of my closest friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being straightforward with one of my closest friends?
One of my closest friends just recently changed careers & entered the real estate market as a real estate agent. From what he has told me, he hasn't been able to make a sale yet. ​ I have a maternal uncle as well who's also a real estate & has been for almost 20 years at this point & was the on...
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{ "description": "saying a 4 year old russian girl can't fluently speak 7 languages", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying a 4 year old russian girl can't fluently speak 7 languages?
This happened around two years ago, but I just discovered this subreddit and I had an interesting argument with some roommates back in the day that I think is appropriate for discussion. ​ I (male) used to live with three women, one of which was my girlfriend, in a small three bedroom apartment. We got alo...
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{ "description": "telling my sister no for getting a tattoo", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for telling my sister no for getting a tattoo?
I'm not into them and I think people who have them are silly and I got sad when she told me. And so I kept telling her how I wouldn't support it and stuff.
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{ "description": "not wanting to \"adopt\" a special needs child", "pronormative_score": 207, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wanting to "adopt" a special needs child?
Husband [32M] and I [30M] are a same sex couple, children have always been on the planning and we have both agreed early on that if we decided to have children we'd choose to adopt, more specifically adopt a slightly older kid. My husband's sister (Emma, fake name) and her boyfriend are very problematic and will be lo...
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{ "description": "not getting in the car with my drunk dad", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting in the car with my drunk dad?
So here’s a bit of background. I just met my dad about 4 years ago. I’m 14, and he’s trying to get custody of me. He is an alcoholic, and I’m pretty sure he is racist and homophobic. Also misogynistic. But anyways, here’s what happened. So last month, for Thanksgiving break, my dad came to see me. We went to my boyfri...
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{ "description": "not wanting my preteen nephew to sleep in the bed with wife and I", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For not wanting my preteen nephew to sleep in the bed with wife and I?
First post ever and I’m wondering if I’m the asshole here. Nephew is 2 years shy of 13 and has been staying with my wife, of 15 years, and I for the past couple of months due to family medical issues. Staying with us for an extended period of time is ok - sharing our bed on the daily with him is a bit much at his age ...
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{ "description": "not letting my wife buy an expensive vacuum", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my wife buy an expensive vacuum?
TL;DR My wife said we would watch a demo for an expensive vacuum cleaner to help a friend with no intention of purpose. After seeing demo she now wants the vacuum, and I said no. She is now mad and calling me unreasonable for not being more open to the idea. ​ So this all started with a quick conversation ...
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{ "description": "asking a girl that has a crush on me to set me up with her friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for asking a girl that has a crush on me to set me up with her friend?
So this year, a new girl moved to my school, and I started crushing on her hard. Let's call her Gwen. I don't have any classes with her this semester, and I really want to find some way to hang out with her. Problem is, it seems luck isn't on my side: we don't have the same lunch, we don't have any of the same classe...
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{ "description": "losing respect for my friend because of his new girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for losing respect for my friend because of his new girlfriend?
Basically, my friend and a girl we knew started getting closer recently, and now they’re dating. The problem is, we found out a while ago (before they got close) that she had sent nude pics to my friend’s friend (the two of them didn’t have any relationship). I found myself losing respect for her because of this, and s...
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{ "description": "not getting my GF anything for her birthday", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA For Not Getting My GF Anything For Her Birthday?
It was my gf's 23rd birthday today, I'm M22 and we've been together for about 1 year now. I took her out to dinner which was around $60 so not bad for 2 people. And when we got home I went down on her for a long time so I think she had a pretty good birthday. I was gonna get her a card but I thought she wasn't really i...
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{ "description": "calling out my best friends for fighting over our guy friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my best friends for fighting over our guy friend?
TLDR: I (24f) confronted my two best friends (23f, 23f) (since high school) for both being into + excessively flirting with our other best friend (23m) despite the fact that we have all been best friends for years. Am I the asshole? I have been best friends with the same friend group for over 10 years now- since high ...
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{ "description": "not standing my aunt", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i can't stand my aunt
ok so i (f,17) don't like my aunt; i used to like her when i was a child but i feel like lately (especially after she had 2 kids) she has become very manipulating and opportunistic. Everytime i'm planning to do something (like going out or on a brief vacation) she always tries to butt in so that i can look after her ki...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my boyfriend with his VR world building project", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to help my boyfriend with his VR world building project?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two and a half years now. We’re both pretty big nerds; his interests are mainly science and biotech, mine are history and philosophy, which I have a degree in. He’s really gotten into the idea of immersive, full dive VR and is doing a world building exercise where...
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{ "description": "staying out after dark when visiting injured friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For staying out after dark when visiting injured friend?
Friend of mine ive known for years fell and seriously hurt herself recently. So I decided I was gonna get her some things and take them out to her house. She lives kinda in the middle of nowhere. Told I was gonna come over at some point and just kinda let myself in. We both do this all the e time and want an issue. We ...
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{ "description": "not buying my girlfriend flowers on Valentines day", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not buying my girlfriend flowers on Valentines day
Last year I picked up a single long stem rose for my girlfriend on my way home from University on Valentines day despite me not really celebrating or endorsing the day. We've discussed at length that I don't really care much for valentine's day (I always make sure to celebrate her birthday and our anniversary). I just...
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{ "description": "snapping at my parents to stop when they've asked me the same question for the past few years", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snapping at my parents to stop when they've asked me the same question for the past few years
My parents have been pushing me to learn a new language faster which is beneficial for me and yes I have been doing my best to learn and practice with other speakers. All in all I'm happy to be picking it up. The problem arises when nearly every other day I get a "Have you been talking to your local friends more?" "You...
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{ "description": "asking for house owners to pay for all of my broken computer", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking for house owners to pay for all of my broken computer?
TL; DR at the bottom. So a little backstory, I'm a DJ. I produce music both for myself and others, and I also do live shows. Usually I charge between $150-250 a show. There is a house of guys across the street from where I live, so whenever they throw a party, I DJ. I've done around five shows, but since these guys ar...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend that I used to date her best friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend that I used to date her best friend?
I'm gonna get right into it, basically, a few years ago, I dated this girl. We dated for about 3 months before she broke up with me because she had to move away to another state. We stayed friends, and occasionally we would Skype. About 4 years after we broke up, I met a girl. She was funny, she was smart, just about e...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with a person who's depressed and need emotional support", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with a person who's depressed and need emotional support?
This is a very long story, but I tried my best to make it as short as possible! Also, English is not my first language, so this will have a lot of grammar mistakes... Emma: The girl who we don't want to be friends with anymore So 9 years ago Emma, me and my twin became kinda friends since we were classmates. We only ...
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{ "description": "farting at a gas station", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for farting at a gas station
So, this just happened a few minutes ago. I jumped out of the van with my family in it, and promptly passed some especially stinky gas. I looked over at one of the other pumps nearby, and there's an older lady there, sitting in the car with her door open. I'm sure she could smell my rank air pollution. I definitely di...
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AITA got called and asked if i could come into work
Obviously from my other post my car is with my girlfriend at her job so I don't have a car here, I got a call from the manager asking if I could come in today because a co workers S/O was taken to the ER. Would not finding a way into work make me a asshole? It's 23° I really don't feel like taking my motorcycle.
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{ "description": "wanting sex in a Dead Bedroom relationship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Wanting Sex In a Dead Bedroom Relationship?
So to preface this, my GFs been going through some stuff, as a while ago she was in an abusive relationship and will be going to trials against him, etc. We've been together since the beginning of last November, and at first things were great, but we've had problems since last February/March, and haven't had sex sinc...
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AITA
Okay so this is a question about traffic in general I guess, but a specific situation. On my commute home, I take an exit from the highway, then make a left onto the county road from there. Under normal circumstances, there are two lanes which turn left. However the bridge over the highway has been under construction...
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{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend didn't eat with me at my birthday Dinner", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Being Upset That My Girlfriend Didn't Eat With Me at My Birthday Dinner?
So as a bit of a preface this happened back in November, and we're past it; however, I'm still wondering if I was in the wrong here. For my birthday, my girlfriend was taking me out to dinner. We were originally going to go to a local pizza place, but we discovered they were closed the night we had planned to go out,...
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{ "description": "not telling my best friend that I accidentally outed him to four people", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I didn't tell my best friend that I accidentally outed him to four people?
Basically, I know I'm an asshole for betraying his trust in the first place by telling one person. I feel really bad about it already, but I wanted to know if I would be the asshole if I didn't tell him that the one person I told went and told three of his friends. Here's the context to the story: I was fighting with...
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AITA. My mum is “drugging me”
So ever since I was diagnosed with adhd I had to take my tablets to stop it. But every single pill I have ever taken I have openly stated I hate so eventually my mum and dad gave up and let me go to school without taking them. But my mum decided to start making me breakfast in bed and apparently she would put the conte...
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{ "description": "being ungrateful to my mother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being ungrateful to my mother?
My (17f) mother constantly makes fun of me in terms of how I look ever since I was a small kid, for example "You are getting so fat.", "Your eyes are so small.", and "Your skin looks so dark." etc. (I am asian but she has big eyes and lighter skin) I would get a bit upset but she will just laugh and thinks it's very fu...
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{ "description": "accusing my sister of theft", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accusing my sister of theft?
Throwaway because my brother reddits. A couple months ago my little sister (16) came home from school with a brand new pair of AirPods. She said one of her friends gave them to her for free because he had an extra pair, and felt bad that she didn't have a pair (she is allowed to listen to music in school as a special a...
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{ "description": "reaching out to a friend I confessed feelings for", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for reaching out to a friend I confessed feelings for?
Ok - long story short: in October, I made a friend at work with whom I became infatuated. She is married and there is no possibility of anything happening between us, but that didn't stop me from swooning over her every text message. I did not tell her about these feelings or make any kind of advance since I had no rea...
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{ "description": "cutting my girlfriend's hair after she asked me to", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting my girlfriend’s hair after she asked me to?
Long story short, my girlfriend asked me to cut the damaged part of her hair off after some bleaching some months ago. She had some bad split ends and I chopped those and the bleached bit off and now she’s mad at me for destroying her hair. I let her know I had no idea what I was doing and she still wanted me to cut it...
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{ "description": "being genuinely unhappy about adults drinking around children", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being genuinely unhappy about adults drinking around children?
We're Americans. We love our beer, our cocktails, our wine, our parties and our children. But can we keep them separate? Every year I am confronted with dozens of adults who join us for extended weekends on our houseboat, with our children and their children. It's hot, I mean it. 103 - 110 degrees. Adults drink, k...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting annoyed?
My roommates have people coming over a lot. It doesn’t bother me though. I enjoy meeting new people. Their girlfriends walk-in unannounced all the time and whatever, doesn’t bother me. What bothers me is that sometimes complete strangers walk-in unannounced (no knocking or doorbell ringing). They don’t acknowledge my e...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my MIL after she donates a kidney", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to help my MIL after she donates a kidney?
Background: my MIL has never been a huge part of our lives. She didn't come to our wedding (which was literally just immediate family), she doesn't invite us to holidays, and never asks to see her grandkids. My husband doesn't have a great relationship with his mom or his sisters. We do see his dad's side often and lov...
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{ "description": "not telling a secret", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling a secret
Background: One of the extracurriculars I'm in has a party at the end of the year where the underclassmen prepare a theme and plan everything for the seniors, since they're leaving. However, the theme is very top-secret hush hush. As an underclassman, I know it but I'm not supposed to tell anyone. Which brings us to t...
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WIBTA if I push for more information about a medical document I found?
Throwaway account for privacy reasons. My husband and I were cleaning the house for a delivery that was to be made this week. I was cleaning under a bookshelf when I pulled out a piece of paper. It clearly wasn’t mine, but was what looked like a medical results page for an exam of some sort. Radiology, I saw on the he...
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{ "description": "telling my GF's sister not to touch my newborn son because she insulted him, me, and my gf", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my GF's sister not to touch my newborn son because she insulted him, me, and my GF
A bit of backstory; me and my GF have been together for 3 years and a year ago we found out she was pregnant. I'll admit at the beginning I was not supportive, its my biggest regret. I did a 180 when she was about 4 months along and since he was born he is the best thing in my world. My GF and her sister have always be...
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{ "description": "allowing my friend to padlock a disabled person", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for allowing my friend to padlock a disabled person?
You know how some people in wheelchairs are lovely people who go out of their way to help others and rise above their disability? Well this girl in our class wasn’t. She was a petty nasty bully. So one afternoon my friend told me his plan for getting revenge. He had a common but strong padlock and while the girl wasn’t...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend not to take ecstasy", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend not to take ecstasy?
I used to be open about all sorts of drugs, but for the past two years, I’ve been losing most of my close friends to addiction. Now, I don’t touch anything because I’m scared to get addicted to drugs. I’ve had weed and acid with my boyfriend before. I told him my fears about losing other people to drugs again, and ha...
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{ "description": "not voting", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for not voting?
I am not anti America in any way, but I hate everything about our voting process. I hate the constant disparaging ads. I hate the fact that I get 5-10 texts per day from candidates telling my to vote for them. I hate that I feel that republicans and democrats are the same people, working for the same big money corporat...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend?
There was a time in your car when I pleaded for him to let me out, but he wouldn’t. He made me go to his house and spend time with him even though I couldn’t go. It freaked me out, and I thought he might hurt me. He constantly ask me on dates, though he knows I don’t have the money or a job, so I had to pester my pare...
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AITA | Girls Say I’m An Ass, Guys say Different
Here is some background. I am a male senior in high school who goes to a liberal arts school. I’m 17 and the girls in this are 16 and are juniors. (I have mostly junior friends) I suck with emotions more than the average because I was bullied when I was younger which led to me shutting myself out socially from everyone...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend $20", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my friend $20?
So out of all my friends, I have these two friends who I hang out with a lot, who I'm going to be referring as Friend A and Friend B. We usually hang out at Friend A's house, because he has all the fun stuff, and we usually do stuff like play video games and board games. One day I was busy so I couldn't hang out, so F...
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{ "description": "reporting a manager to hr", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting a manager to HR?
Today I reported a senior manager to HR, knowing full well that with my company’s policy on discrimination she will get into a lot of trouble. As the day went on I’m no less angry about what she said to me, but I’m also feeling a guilt bubbling in my stomach about getting her in trouble. I’ve known this woman for a l...
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{ "description": "not going to my grandmas birthday dinner because of my social anxiety and depression", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not going to my grandmas birthday dinner because of my social anxiety and depression?
A little backstory: my mom has been married to her wife for about 7 years. And my stepmom has been one of the biggest causes of my anxiety and depression for years. She throws a tantrum whenever she doesnt get her way, so we have to do whatever to please her. So last night my family (Mom, step-mom, sister, grandma,...
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{ "description": "taking a pizza slice from a homeless man", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking a pizza slice from a homeless man
Context : It was around midnight in Paris. I was high and very hungry, walking home. I saw a homeless person with a pizza hut box with Half a pizza remaining. The guy was getting ready to sleep so I assumed that he had eaten enough already. I asked him if I could have a slice and he said "yes help yourself". I didn't h...
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{ "description": "hitting on my crush's best friend after she rejected me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hitting on my crush’s best friend after she rejected me
I’m on mobile so please excuse the formatting. A little backstory, when I was still talking to my crush, we’ll call her Lily, I was getting close to her friend group and her best friend. Me and this friend hit it off really well, we had a lot in common and if we met under different circumstances I think I would’ve we...
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{ "description": "suggesting breaking up with my so who's depressed", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suggesting breaking up with my SO who’s depressed?
I did not bring up breaking up with him because he is in a bad spot right now, he just hasn’t been talking to me at all as of recently. We’re in a long distance relationship, so online communication is really important to me, but he never reciprocates. It’s gotten to the point where he replies to texts about 3 times a ...
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{ "description": "eating at a buffet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for eating at a buffet?
This happened a couple days ago. Also on mobile so excuse the formatting mess. So me and a couple friends of mine are looking to get into a pro wrestling school around where I am, but we come to the realization after sitting in on a class and talking to the trainers that our cardio is “worse than Hogan’s in that sex ta...
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{ "description": "wanting accomodations for my auto-immune disease", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting accomodations for my auto-immune disease? (Long)
I've been out of work 7 yrs because of undiagnosed illness, parents've covered food and given me housing. Celiac diagnosed last year when it'd gotten so bad I threw up every time I ate, was bedridden. I eat even a breadcrumb now, I basically have 3 days food poisoning Characters: Me: Mom in car wreck last June, got br...
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{ "description": "getting upset about other family members completing a jigsaw puzzle", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset about other family members completing a jigsaw puzzle?
During the holidays we (me, my partner and his 15 year old daughter) usually have a communal jigsaw puzzle on the go in our house for anyone to take part in when we have some down time. A few days ago I started a new 1000-piece puzzle. No one else seemed interested so over several hours on the first day I put togethe...
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{ "description": "commenting on facebook to see if my dad was pretending I don't exist", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for commenting on facebook to see if my dad was pretending I don't exist?
Sorry for the Jeremy Kyle style title but I really didn't know how else to put it. Also sorry if the format is bad I'm on mobile Background info: my dad has never been around much. He was until I was 6 but then he got a new wife and a new kid (F) and I basically saw him once a month, then once every few months. I...
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{ "description": "calling the police on my suicidal friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the police on my suicidal friend?
This was a few weeks ago. We’ll call my friends Jake and Candice. So around 11pm Jake snapchats Candice telling her how depressed he is with school (we all go to the same university) and that he thinks the people in his life would be better off without him. Candice panics and texts me telling me what Jake said. W...
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{ "description": "abruptly leaving the room during group conversations", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for abruptly leaving the room during group conversations?
My SO is an immigrant, and English is not his first language (his first language is relatively obscure so I won't list it here). I do not speak his first language - I have been learning a bit so can understand some, but the pronunciation and grammar are very difficult for me (due to the different language roots, and my...
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{ "description": "not accepting the \"Friend Zone\" and lashing out after coming to my senses and realizing I've been an ass to myself for letting myself be lead on", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not accepting the "Friend Zone" and lashing out after coming to my senses and realizing I've been an ass to myself for letting myself be lead on? (Long Rant)
I'm pretty sure I have my own asshole-ness to bear in this tale, and I imagine the title condemns me already. This happened a while ago, but my anxious mind can't let go of it, and it's turned into bitter obsessive thoughts I can't get over and it's. Sometimes you wish you could just purge your mind, you know? They say...
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{ "description": "rejecting my ex bf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting my ex BF?
So English is not my first language so I will try and explain this as best I can. Sorry in advance if I Don't make sense So in 2018 I (19M) dated, let's call him Dave(18M), for 5 months till Feb last year. We decided to remain friends but that didn't work out as I thought for he just ignored me right of the bat and a...
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{ "description": "worrying about not finding my Wife Attractive Post-gastric Bypass Surgery", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Worrying About Not Finding My Wife Attractive Post-Gastric Bypass Surgery?
My wife and I have been married 19 years and for all of that time she has been overweight. She has been anywhere from 215 to nearly 310 pounds. She has decided to have gastric bypass surgery next month. I fully support her in this decision. I’ve always been attracted to thicker, curvier women. However, I am worried tha...
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{ "description": "letting my dogs chase rabbits and defending why I let them chase rabbits", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - For letting my dogs chase rabbits and defending why I let them chase rabbits.
I was walking my dogs and one of my dog ran off a... https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/9xvdkx/what_is_the_worst_thing_youve_ever_seen/e9wuiw0?utm_source=reddit-android I posted this response to an ask reddit question about the worst thing I saw. A few years ago I had found the decomposing corpse of a perso...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a girl I have no interest in dating", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sleeping with a girl I have no interest in dating?
Background: 25 year old male, working professional in a major city. I've been on and off the dating apps and have met some women through friends, but no one I've met has struck me as a potential girlfriend (personality wise). However, going without sex for months on end can be incredibly frustrating and bad for self c...
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{ "description": "not forgiving my friend right away", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not forgiving my friend right away?
Okay so background context is: I've known this girl since we were in fourth grade, we're now 23, so we have a long history together. Part of that history includes her getting with my boyfriends after I've been with them with the exception of one guy I 'dated' for two days then we broke up (never did anything with the g...
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{ "description": "not wanting my cats anymore", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for not wanting my cats anymore?
So, I have three cats. Two of them are 12 years old, the third one is about 8. I got the two oldest ones when I just moved out of the house and I actually don't know why I got the third one...I really enjoyed having them for most of the time. The cats moved houses with me, and experienced the different boyfriends I had...
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{ "description": "not cleaning up anymore", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not cleaning up anymore?
I’m a junior student at university who lives in campus housing with 3 friends. We share common areas (kitchen, living room) but have our own individual rooms and two separate bathrooms (roommate A shares a bathroom with roommate B, and roommates C and D share a bathroom). I keep my individual room somewhat clean. It g...
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