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{ "description": "wanting a breakup with my girlfriend because she is not religious", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 5 }
aita for wanting a breakup with my girlfriend because she is not religious?
So I recently got into a relationship with a girl I've known for about a year, and things have been going really well, we have so much in common, and we fit together really well. However, she is a rock hard atheist, and I am a Christian. I just found out about it when I brought it up to her, to find out what she bel...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend the day after Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend the day after Valentine’s Day?
We’ve been dating for a little more than 2 years and honestly my heart just isn’t in it. I love him but I know deep down that it’s just not going to work out, especially because I found myself having feelings for someone else. I’m always terrible at breakups and I draw out the process way too much. So I want to dump h...
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{ "description": "calling my friend emotionally manipulative", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my friend emotionally manipulative?
Sorry in advance if this is all over the place! I've been having issues with this guy I go to college with. To start off, I'm 17, he's nearly 19, and I'll give a brief rundown of stuff happened in the past that half relates to this: * He constantly self-deprecates, constantly mentions his mental issues, his alcoholis...
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{ "description": "confronting my husband about the porn I found", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I confronted my husband about the porn I found?
I made a thread about it a couple days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ae2mrt/found_out_my_29f_husband_29m_is_looking_at_some/?st=JQQSPEM4&sh=f23dbb20 I know I’m the asshole for snooping. But I’m just wondering if it’s any of my business, and if I’m being too sensitive? To sum it up, ...
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{ "description": "not calling", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not calling ?
Tuesday night I left work and was heading home around 6pm. I called my boyfriend who wanted me to come over (about an hour and thirty minute trip by subway and train). For a second I agreed, but then realized I had parked my car in a day lot near my apt and had to move it. Going home moving it and getting to my boyf...
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{ "description": "telling my sibling to GTFO of tinder before their divorce is finalized", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA Telling my sibling to GTFO of tinder before their divorce is finalized?
Long story short, after over a decade of marriage, my sibling's partner moved out "to figure things out," and then immediately started an affair, which they are not even bothering to hide. Heartbroken, my sibling, after trying to get them back for a couple months, eventually started the paperwork for their divorce. ...
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{ "description": "asking for a large soda instead of the winning item", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for a large soda instead of the winning item
McDonalds is having a promotion where you peel a label off an item and you can win a free item once in awhile. On this day my wife gave me 2 labels. One with a free medium fry and one with a free shake/frappe/cappachino thing. The free shake thing was worth $2 and I don't enjoy the shakes/frappes/whatever else they...
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{ "description": "jumping rope in my apartment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for jumping rope in my apartment?
I live in an apartment on the second floor. I've been working out more to lose some weight by doing body strengthening exercises at home, as I don't have a gym membership and I live in a city with poor air quality and limited, overcrowded green spaces. I recently purchased a jump rope and intersperse several minutes of...
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{ "description": "cutting out a drama starting friend from my life", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out a drama starting friend from my life?
This all began starting about 3 months ago. My friend (lets call him jerry) Sends me a message on discord asking to play video games. I have no reason to say no, so i start a voice call and jerrys mic is broken. I say: "I don't want to be in a call, your mic is broken and making weird noises" I then hang up. Jerry then...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to other people when I'm walking my dog", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to other people when I’m walking my dog?
I love walking my dog he’s a lovely soft golden retriever, I have a field nearby where other people walk. The issue is especially the closer we get to summer is more and more people come out and they just love being really chatty. Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind a hi and maybe a little lovely weather but when someone s...
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{ "description": "being upset at seeing my fiancée making out with my friend to \"say goodbye\"", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at seeing my fiancée making out with my friend to "say goodbye"?
Everyone at this party was ~24. New Year's at my friends was winding down and some couples started swinging. My friend's boyfriend went upstairs to have sex with the host. Friend became chummy with someone's husband, and were intimately snuggling on the couch. I was around to witness this because I was mopping the host...
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{ "description": "telling a woman and her disabled daughter to back off", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a woman and her disabled daughter to back off?
First off all, I apologise for my use of the term ‘disabled’. It’s brash, unspecific and general, but I’m afraid I have a severe lack of knowledge on different syndromes and disabilities and I am unable to specify which disorder her daughter lives with. It does not appear to be a physical disability. A bit of backgro...
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{ "description": "telling my brother and sister-in-law who just had a baby to pull their heads out of their asses", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I told my brother and sister-in-law who just had a baby to pull their heads out of their asses?
My brother and sister-in-law just recently had a baby. She was born on January 24th and they are very great parents. My only problem is that neither one of them have a job. The "job" they had was a bullshit excuse for a company a friend of a friend made that made them COOs but didn't pay them for 6 MONTHS. They still h...
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AITA...sister is leaving for Disney the happiest place it the world and leaving me with our dying mother.
I'm beyond pissed. Sad. Hurt. Angry!! Our mother is on her 4th cancer. Bone cancer matasisized fron uterine wich is terminal. My sister,husband and i are her main caregivers. As the cancer has progressed her health has done a steady decline. What you would expect from terminal cancer It's been a long hard road. My...
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{ "description": "telling my \"step grandma\" to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 141, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling my “step grandma” to fuck off?
This happened a couple years ago but it was brought to my attention that the woman is still mad. My mom married a guy I hate when I was 17. His family lived in Indiana, and it is about 9 hours of driving to get there. My mom and stepdad insisted we go down there for a visit during the summer I turned 20. I am now 25....
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{ "description": "only wanting to celebrate my birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for only wanting to celebrate my birthday?
I invited my friends to brunch on the 23rd and while I assumed itd be clear it was for my birthday since it's on the 24th I didn't say so. My friend was excited and suggesting having a housewarming party too since her parents just bought a house. I said "what if we just go and celebrate my birthday?" And she said "why ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she wasn't sexually assaulted", "pronormative_score": 50, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Telling My Friend She Wasn't Sexually Assaulted?
Both of us are 22, been friends for years. She mentioned to me a few weeks ago that she was sexually assaulted in the summer and I was really devastated for her and it was just really shitty thing to happen to women I know. I asked her what happened and if she went to the police she said no and she'll tell me one day. ...
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{ "description": "putting athletic ice packs in my office freezer", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for putting athletic ice packs in my office freezer?
Some days I go for runs at work. As any runner knows, ice can help in restoring your legs and preventing injuries. I had decided to put the ice packs in the company freezer like any person would do at home. My coworker thinks I'm gross for, "putting things that're all over my body in the freezer." I said that I hope he...
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{ "description": "choosing not to work with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for choosing not to work with someone?
Basically this is how it goes: In Thai class (screw this shit) we have a project to work on that counts for a good percentage of our grade. Since this is a big grade, our teacher lets us choose who we’re with, and there’s a massive free for all. After a few minutes, it boils down to me (Siegerkranz) and this dude we’ll...
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{ "description": "leaving my emotionally abusive mother and cutting off all contact with her", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving my emotionally abusive mother and cutting off all contact with her?
So first thing's first, I'm a 16yo "gifted" high school student and I've lived with my mom all my life. Since I was a kid, my mom has always been highly critical of me. My weight, my grades, my shyness, everything. She loves comparing me to her when she was a kid, how she got straight A's all the time, how she was a mo...
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{ "description": "yelling at my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA I yelled at my grandmother
So to set the scene, we’re having dinner with my cousins, my dad sister and her husband, as well as my grandmother. The dinner was at my parents place. I was 15, my oldest cousin (a boy) is eight year older than me, and my younger cousin (a girl) is five years younger than me. My brother is three years younger than me...
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{ "description": "causing a sickly girl to drop out of college", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For causing a sickly girl to drop out of college?
I know the title makes it sound bad, but hopefully my side of the story will make sense once I explain it further. I am a student majoring in Video Game Production at a fancy tech college. This happened at the beginning of my junior semester there. I'm going to abbreviate her name to A for the sake of the story. Th...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that when her gay friend tried to kiss her he was maybe doing it out of curiosity", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that when her gay friend tried to kiss her he was maybe doing it out of curiosity?
We have been dating for a month, and we are sharing stories about our friends and stuff. She told me that she has a male gay friend, and once the friend said he wanted to kiss her. She laughed it off and didn't do it. This was way before we started dating, and a couple of months before the dude came out as gay. So I to...
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{ "description": "taking my ex to court for child support", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking my ex to court for child support?
A guy and I dated for a few months, I got pregnant, had the baby and he's seen her 3 or 4 times since she was born (she's 18 months now, the last time he saw her she was 2 months) and in the beginning he gave me maybe $200 to help with diapers and formula. He stopped seeing her completely, and we stopped talking comple...
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{ "description": "telling my Cousin's girlfriend she is no longer welcome in my home", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Telling My Cousin's Girlfriend She Is No Longer Welcome In My Home?
This is a question I've been asking myself for almost a year now. The shortish version is that my cousin met his current girlfriend through my ex-partner. She lived out of state and came to visit my former partner a few times while my ex and I were a couple. She stayed with us in the house I owned and shared with my ex...
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{ "description": "not \"sharing\" equipment at the Gym", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Not "Sharing" Equipment At The Gym..?
I've only started to hit the gym recently, so I don't know much about gym culture (nor am I familoar with the terminology so please correct my mistakes). The other day, I was doing my usual routine of pullups with a 1minute break between sets, and this guy insist that we should "share" the machine. He gets to do his s...
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{ "description": "locking my room while on vacation", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for locking my room while on vacation?
So while on a 9 day vacation me and my SO locked a door the leads to our two rooms. Our 3 other roommates like to party a lot and invite guests that they may have met that day or night(sketchy people)without really knowing them. The thing is thats the only way to get to the garage for laundry other then going outside a...
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{ "description": "accidentally revealing private information to my boyfriend's roommate's ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accidentally revealing private information to my boyfriend’s roommate’s ex?
So I became friends with Sara through my bfJake. Jake and I have been dating basically since we started college a couple of years ago. He has a roommate named Dan who had been dating Sara since the beginning of the year. Dan is who I have my issue with. Dan used to be head over heels for another girl last year before ...
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{ "description": "making my friend terrified over a game", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making my friend terrified over a game?
Tl;Dr at the end This happened a few years ago, but it still bothers me to this day,so i kinda want to know if im the asshole here, (sorry about my spelling) for some backstory : It was Thursday and we were at class, we had finished all our lessons, so we had nothing to do, our teacher told us we can do whatever we ...
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{ "description": "cutting all ties with a friend because she cheated on people in the past", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I cut all ties with a friend because she cheated on people in the past
Ok so there’s this girl who’s my friend let’s call her Hannah. So Hannah is a great girl and has been in many relationships with both boys and girls and according to her they’ve all been perverts and that’s why they broke up. I kinda felt that was suspicious considering she said she’s been in at least 7 relationships b...
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{ "description": "hating my dad", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my dad?
My mom died ten years ago and I just feel like he made everything a thousand times worse. We had really horrible times that led to me leaving home a year later (I was 17). I feel that he strongly prioritized his new wife and her kids who he started dating 3 months after. My two sisters struggle with him too so it’s not...
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{ "description": "removing access to my xbox account from a childhood friend after a recent falling out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for removing access to my xbox account from a childhood friend after a recent falling out?
Through the use of xbox's "Home Console" feature, he had full access to my game library. Over the course of a year to two years "Dave" and I would alternate buying multiplayer games to play together on my account, saving money. About 5 weeks ago he made a comment, kind of a low effort, offensive statement to someone...
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{ "description": "letting my dislike of the owner influence me in donating for a dog's cancer treatment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for letting my dislike of the owner influence me in donating for a dog's cancer treatment?
The owner in question is an ex friend of an ex friend, so there really is no personal connection. We only met once, where he left left a rather bad impression on me. Earlier I saw that he uploaded a status saying, that he needs 600€ for surgery for his dog. A few minutes ago he messaged me saying, that his dog has ca...
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AITA my friend got mad that i didn’t come out to her earlier?
Since starting my junior year and realizing my sexuality, i made it a point to tell anyone who asked that i am bisexual. This led me to telling almost all of my newer friends, because sexuality often comes up in conversations. At this point i still hadn’t told one of my friends that I had known for a long time. The r...
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{ "description": "not wanting to leave the house on weekends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to leave the house on weekends?
I'm living with my brother and my dad. Both of them are quite the outgoing type and staying at home without anything to do is rather mind-numbing for them. On the other hand, I'm a super introverted person that has just been recently diagnosed with panic attacks and just general anxiety, especially in public places or ...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend after being asked to be her maid of honor", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my friend after being asked to be her maid of honor?
Hi guys! To give some backstory, I’ve been best friends with the same person since we were children. We always supported each other through our own hardships and emotional struggles throughout school, but after some serious outbursts she moved away for a few months. After returning (the month after we graduated high s...
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{ "description": "being upset when people bring their babies to work", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset when people bring their babies to work?
I work at a tech company so the employees are relatively young, like 90% are between 25 and 35 (I’m 30). Recently, a bunch of people have been having babies and going out on parental leave — all fine by me, no issues, to each their own, etc etc etc. Here’s where I want to know if I’m off-base: in the past few months, ...
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{ "description": "talking to my friend's ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for talking to my friend's ex?
I guess I should redefine by saying I haven't talked to the ex yet, so would I be the asshole if I did? The girl and I aren't exactly friends. She doesn't go to my school anymore, but we occasionally text. We make "plans" every few months saying we should hangout and never do. One of those friends. Thought she does c...
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{ "description": "not giving a kid on my bus my discord username", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a kid on my bus my discord username
For some background, me and the other kid, who I'll just call K, are 15 and 16 respectively. K is disabled, and is in special needs classes. So every Thursday, I ride the bus with K. The bus is a special needs bus, and the only reason I ride it is because my sister, who is disabled, needs someone to be there wit...
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AITA
So I 17M had a best friend 18M from when we were both in 8th grade. She and I were so close, and she was the second person I ever came out to. Last year she started to change. She became negative and hateful towards everyone I mentioned and never said anything good about anyone. She also started to constantly comment o...
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{ "description": "getting tired of listening to my friend's problems", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting tired of listening to my friend's problems
There is this friend of mine who has some problems in her life. Now, she finds a good support in me as I am actually a good listener but lately, I have started become tired. I don't want to hear the same cribbing each day and how her life sucks. At one point I started even getting irritated whenever she speaks as it w...
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AITA [m25] for living a "second life" behind the back of my ex-GF [f25] (No sex involved)
It happens a few years ago, after been in the relationship going for 2 years, in which she show herself like a high jealous person, like, "Who you talking with on the phone?" (everytime i got a message) "How has been your day, how many people have you seen, and who were those people? What you talked about?" (almost eve...
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{ "description": "wanting to take a trip my wife can't", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting to take a trip my wife can’t?
Background About 11 months ago, I booked an 11 day trip for my wife and I, using points, to Bali and Singapore. It’s first class all the way, literally, first class airline seats and the hotels are 5 star. It took me about a two years to earn the points and it was meant to be my 5th anniversary gift to her. We had a d...
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to stop tracking my location", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my parents to stop tracking my location?
I am a third-year college student (20F) who goes to a college about 1 hour from my parents. Because I have family in the city my college is in, I stay with them over the school year and visit my parents during breaks. It is worth noting that the three family members I stay with are elderly -- one is mentally ill (schiz...
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{ "description": "asking for more gas money to see a dying friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for asking for more gas money to see a dying friend?
The damage is done and I've already ask but I'm really conflicted honestly I'm going to see a friend in hospice, it's about a 4 hour trip and I plan on going round trip in one day. Upon telling a mutual friend of mine and my dying friend, she asked me to come pick her up about halfway (but I would have to go out of my...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to apologize", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to apologize
Me[22] F[23] Clearly english isn't my first language so sorry in advance Well , its exactly as the title says she would never apologize for anything , usually she'll comeback and pretend that nothing have happened and start joking . But when i stand my grounds She'll try to put the blame on me for anything like this t...
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{ "description": "having thoughts of leaving my relationship even if nothing really is wrong right now", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having thoughts of leaving my relationship even if nothing really is wrong right now?
So I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and during those years some shitty things happened. She full on cheated on me 3 years ago but I pardoned her for that. Our relationship obviously continued but last year it happened again, she got too close to a guy and "he kissed her, touched lips" (or so is what she said)....
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{ "description": "telling my ex's parents about her drug use", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my ex's parents about her drug use
So recently me and my long term long distance girlfriend broke up. Long story short she cheated on me with my best friend of 12 years. When I got back home for a holiday I met up with her, and noticed how damaged and sad she was. During a night out, she turned to me and told me she thinks she needs help. She had sta...
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{ "description": "not wearing my hearing aids", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don't wear my hearing aids?
I have hearing aids. Have for three years. I can't hear all that well without them, but it's equally a pain in the ass to hear with them. If I am at a restaurant, for example, I have two options, don't wear them, and risk "ignoring" someone because I don't hear them, or, wear them, and hear every conversation in that r...
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{ "description": "asking where my dad got his news from", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for asking where my dad got his news from?
I still love my dad but sometimes I feel like he gets pissed whenever he's put in a spot that makes him nervous or uncertain. My friends, colleges and even mother, don't mind exchanging ideas and validating each other. But knowing my father, if he's wrong about something there's a chance he'll fuse it with the person ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend \"well, you didn't check on me either, why is it that only I should do the checking\" when she complained I didn't say even a simple 'hi' almost the entire day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend "well, you didn't check on me either, why is it that only I should do the checking" when she complained I didn't say even a simple 'hi' almost the entire day?
So my girlfriend is complaining when I don't check on her and now I feel like it's a man's duty in such relationships to always be first to say hi and all. This is actually bagging me, and without thinking hard around it beginning to use it as a measure of love. I mean that she won't spontaneously keep in touch until I...
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{ "description": "not taking my sister to Keith Flints (Prodigy frontmans) funeral", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for not taking my sister to Keith Flints (Prodigy frontmans) funeral?
My sister is a huge Prodigy fan and in particular loves Keith Flint. She messaged me today to say she's found out his funeral is being held relatively close by and is apparently open for fans to also attend, and asked if I could take her (she doesn't drive). I'm not really into that music so don't have much desire to ...
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{ "description": "telling my parents to stop making jokes about me and my bf", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my parents to stop making jokes about me and my bf.
Sorry for the spelling and formatting typing while having a mental breakdown and on my phone. So some info, I'm a teen in highschool who after 8 years of isolation from peers finally got friends, a loving boyfriend and am happy in my school life. Up to this year I've never gone out with friends, been invited to small ...
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{ "description": "going into a restaurant with a large group two hours before they close", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going into a restaurant with a large group two hours before they close?
A group of 8 of my friends went to a semi fancy restaurant after a school competition. We arrived a little over two hours before they close and said that we were too large of a group to take at the moment. After this we asked if we they would be able to serve us if we went into two groups of 4 instead. They said they w...
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AITA for wanitng to break up with someone who loves me?
I’ve been in a relationship with someone I love. He wasn’t planning to marry me so I broke up with him, after a week he begged me to marry him but after he rejected my request I started to realize that marrying him was not the right decision - I still love him but we will face many difficulties-. He cried a lot - he ne...
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{ "description": "not visiting my dad over the weekend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not visiting my dad over the weekend
I study at a college about 500km from where my dad lives. My friend is driving to his city today and my dad asked me to come for the weekend. I have 2 assignments due on Monday and so there is workload. It's my friend's birthday on saturday I also don't want to miss. I told my dad I can't come and he's almost forcing ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be with my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be with my ex?
AITA for not wanting to be with my ex? Back story time, me and my ex were together for about 8 months but we broke up due to her cheating a couple of times and me finally realizing she's not going to change, but now that's in the past and I don't care that she cheated anymore I'm over it. Now me and her still talk and...
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{ "description": "not getting my son baptized", "pronormative_score": 63, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for not getting my son baptized?
I have a 1 year old son, but I’m not with the father anymore. His dad is wants to get him baptized in a Catholic Church, and I disagree. First off, I’m not religious whatsoever. I went to church when I was younger and I always had a hard time believing in God and religion as a whole. I find it really cool that people ...
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{ "description": "not being this angry at my so", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being this angry at my SO
My SO (54M) took our only truck this morning, even though he knew I was taking the afternoon off to ride my horse. He’s been working on fixing up a fishing boat he bought. He is self employed and can take time off whenever he likes. He’s spent at least 20 hours on that boat this week. I work for a corporation and have ...
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{ "description": "butting heads with a new co-worker", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA butting heads with a new co-worker
I am a 25 year old female working as a lab analyst for a yogurt factory on 3rd shift. I am currently training a woman 20+years my senior who was just hired. I am doing my best to explain to her all the facets of the job and all i get from her is huffieness. She also talks over me, and then blames me when she doesnt un...
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{ "description": "refusing to do the work of a coworker who is picking up lunch for the office", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For refusing to do the work of a coworker who is picking up lunch for the office?
Okay, so this happened awhile back but I was recently reminded of it and my rage boiled to the surface. I need some clarity or im gonna be bothered by this forever. A little background. I had a coworker who, despite having the easiest job on planet earth, was a lazy fuck. Always showing up late for work, always bitchi...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk about previous relationships", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - Refusing to talk about previous relationships
Recently, my fiancee, A, left after cheating on me. About a week ago I met B online and we've really been hitting it off, including having a successful date together. I share poetry on my snapchat story, just for \~ a e s t h e t i c \~, and much of it is poetry I've written about A in the past or I wrote about the bre...
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{ "description": "my girlfriend telling me that her friend spent the night", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for my girlfriend telling me that her friend spent the night?
**Background:** I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for a little over 3 years. For the last year and a half, we have been long distance due to my work and her going to college. I generally think of her as being faithful and I value our relationship highly. So my girlfriend told me that her new ...
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{ "description": "refusing to laugh at comments that aren't funny", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to laugh at comments that aren’t funny?
I know someone who likes to laugh after making normal, unfunny observations. I wish I could just refuse to be around her but there are professional reasons I have to see her daily. Other people tend to laugh along with her observations (I assume out f politeness) and I used to too but lately I’ve started just going ...
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{ "description": "not being able to accept I am having a step sibling and strongly disliking my stepmom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to accept I am having a step sibling and strongly disliking my stepmom?
Sorry if this is too long but I wanted to give a background to my feelings My mom and dad got divorced when I was pretty young however I handled that well and I was fine with the idea of loving them both differently. I mostly lived with my mom and went to my dad for the weekends and honestly that was also fine by me....
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{ "description": "not really wanting to see my mom anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really wanting to see my mom anymore?
So I moved to the east coast a few years ago and my family still lives in the Midwest. The place I moved isn't really a big city or anything but i'm close the beach and there is still much to do. Now, every time she plans to come see me, instead of just staying at my house for a long weekend shed rather spend hundreds ...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my gf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for wanting to leave my GF
Background: I go to school full time during the week and work weekends. 4 months ago I got on tinder as a way to meet people in a casual setting because my social life is awful and I wanted a way to de-stress a little from graduate work. It was great for a bit and then I met who would be my current girlfriend. I've...
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{ "description": "not going to a concert with my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to a concert with my family?
People in my family wanted to go to a concert and we talked about buying tickets for it. I immediately said: "No I'm not gonna come, don't buy tickets for me" Fast forward to now and I found out they had still bought tickets for me. I still did not go as I said before. They started saying that I was the bad guy for was...
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{ "description": "wiping up my the bathroom counter with my gf's towel", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA if I wipe up my the bathroom counter with my gf’s towel
My gf is a disaster in the bathroom. She washes her face like she’s auditioning for a Neutrogena face wash commercial, she leaves her hair stuck to the mirror and around the sink, and there is toothpaste spit everywhere. I’m pretty tidy, and it drives me insane that she never wipes up after making the bathroom a tota...
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{ "description": "not driving my friend to the train station", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not driving my friend to the train station?
I live in Chicago and attend a university here. My friend from out of state goes to school with me and is staying with me over spring break since he got a job downtown and has to stay here to work. He's staying at my house for no charge of any sort, of course. He has to leave every morning at 10:30AM to get to the tr...
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{ "description": "freaking out on my roommate for recording the squeaking bed noise from my girlfriend and having sex", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I freaked out on my roommate for recording the squeaking bed noise from my girlfriend and I having sex?
So my girlfriend came up to visit for the weekend up at my college. My roommate(one of my girlfriends and I’s best friends) and another mutual friend said they were leaving to get Burger King. My girlfriend and I were trying to do the deed one last time before she left to head back to her school today. As soon as he le...
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{ "description": "cutting myself for my gf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for cutting myself for my gf?
This happened a few days ago, but our relationship has been rough since January 6th because she started treating me like trash. We got into a pretty big discussion a couple of days ago when I confronted her for the way she started treating me lately and she told me she had started cheating on me (like everyone haha) an...
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{ "description": "getting my co-worker fired because she was pretending she was dating me to her family", "pronormative_score": 218, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for getting my co-worker fired because she was pretending she was dating me to her family?
I'm using a new account because this still hasn't leaked at work I was the one who did this and my reddit is known to my coworkers. ​ So, This last week I got a coworker of mine fired for misconduct. I don't feel bad but my coworkers are now up in arms saying who ever did this is an asshole. &#x200B...
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{ "description": "not telling my boss he overpaid me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 15 }
WIBTA if I don’t tell my boss he overpaid me?
I work a part time job at a front desk, mainly to help out, I don’t get paid much, basically the last week I maybe worked 7 hours, my boss continues to call me off of work. My boss really doesn’t like me, not sure why, other then he’s in a lot of stress and I was hired by his old GM and he had to fire that GM for numer...
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{ "description": "giving someone my number and then secretly deleting it off their phone later", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for giving someone my number and then secretly deleting it off their phone later?
Throwaway. I met a girl at an event I was helping out with, and we had a pretty good conversation (surprising for me, since I'm normally an awkward gal.) It was all going so well and I thought I'd made a new friend, but then not even an hour into the conversation she asks me if I'd like to join a 'motivational course'...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my bf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my BF?
My boyfriend is 24M and I'm 25F. I really did (still do?) have feelings for him. The word "love" was even used... it has been about 2 years. It's just that he's a total mess... he drinks so much that a friend has to pick him up when taxis refuse him service because he is vomiting everywhere... that was one thing that m...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend not to chew around me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend not to chew around me?
For some background, I have a terrible relationship with my father. Because of some of the things he’s done, we speak very rarely and it’s always strained. A lot of my memories growing up revolve around him lying and my very early memories of his lies stem from him telling me he’d quit chewing tobacco, only for me to f...
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{ "description": "pointing out that a ladies night out is sexist", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for pointing out that a ladies night out is sexist?
I work as a waiter, and most of the out front staff is women, whilst most of the cooks are guys. I am one of four male front of house staff, and I found the girls discussing a night out to a stage show and dinner. When I asked when it was I was told it was for women only, I said that I found it a bit crap that the girl...
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{ "description": "wanting to quit my job", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to quit my job
I have a good, stable job. My colleagues treat me really well and my boss is a top notch guy, who regularly invites me to his home for dinner and such. The problem is that i see no future there, im relatively young with little education, so i know i cant expect too many job offers, i make enough money to pay for rent/...
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{ "description": "cussing out my sisters so for something that my sister did", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cussing out my sisters SO for something that my sister did?
I know, I know. Without any context it sounds like a very dickish move, but hear me out. My sister had been dating this guy, let’s call him Rodrick, for about 3 months. He was a cool guy, but I always liked fucking with him despite him being 3 years older than me (he’s a freshman in college, my sister is a senior, an...
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{ "description": "not wanting a kitty to get adopted", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a kitty to get adopted?
I volunteer every Thursday at an animal shelter. last week, I totally bonded with a sweet cat named Priscilla. She immediately started cuddling with me, purring, snuggling, etc. It was great. But when I came back today, Priscilla was gone! I learned that she was adopted by an elderly woman, and I almost burst into tear...
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{ "description": "sending a video of a bus driver running a stop sign", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I send a video of a bus driver running a stop sign?
Yesterday on my way home, I was following behind a school bus that had a sign in the back of his (or her, not sure of the gender) window saying “no kids on board”. The bus swerved a little bit out of the lane and then continued along just fine. It approached a T shaped intersection with 3 stop signs. The bus and I are ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my bf when he says something that's not interesting", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ignoring my BF when he says something that's not interesting?
Hiya. We're both 19. I come from UK, him from Ireland, and sometimes when I say something relatively serious he'll respond with a joke, which are usually funny but also often exhausting when I just want to have a conversation. We've talked about it, it's fine really, he knows it's not the most satisfying thing for him ...
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{ "description": "turning in a call center worker for contacting me via facebook", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For turning in a call center worker for contacting me via facebook?
So i made a call to a new phone service this morning. I was taken care of by a nice lady who took all of my information for me and mailed me a sim card to activate once it arrived. She told me that even though it was her day off she would come into work to activate it for me. So she told me she would call me in two day...
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{ "description": "being mad at my sister for saying me and my friends names on an online game", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my sister for saying me and my friends names on an online game? (tl;dr at bottom)
Alright so I was playing a game with my sister, let's call her Adi. My friend, let's call him Mason, joined the game and Adi yelled "Mason!!!" for absolutely no reason, she barely knows the guy. So I told her, "Hey don't say peoples real names online, it makes them uncomfortable" and she said, "No, as long as I didn't ...
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{ "description": "ignoring a homeless man", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ignoring a homeless man?
This happened months ago but I just remembered it now. I'm not from a big city at all and you wouldn't encounter many homeless beggers in my town so I wasn't sure how to react when this happened. I was in London to see a game and just see the city again, I'd been there before but not in a few years. My friends and I we...
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AITA because they asked for my card over the phone and I asked for a manager?
So long post and on mobile so please excuse all the spelling/formatting. My wife and I are expecting and she wants a rocker to go in the nursery. We end up at Bassett with a sales person who was nice and not pushy. We found a chair we liked but weren't completely sold on the fabric (especially for the price) until the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to fund raise for my daughters for-profit daycare", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to fund raise for my daughters for-profit daycare?
Our toddler daughter is in day care a few days a week at a day care. It’s a ‘normal’ business. By that I mean it’s not at someone’s house, not at a church, not run by a non-profit organization. It’s just a business with probably 5-10 adult staff on-hand at any time. They’ve opened up a second location recently and...
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{ "description": "disliking my mom's online \"boyfriend\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disliking my mom's online "boyfriend"?
Okay, so about 2 years ago my parents got divorced. Although my siblings were taking it pretty rough, I’m pretty much an emotionless shell by this point, and also I’d seen it coming from miles away, so it didn’t phase me too much. We set up a system where my mom has us for half the week, and my dad has us for the othe...
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{ "description": "reporting a tv Noise Complaint", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For Reporting A TV Noise Complaint?
A few months ago, one of my (32M) neighbors Jim with whom I share a bedroom wall with got a nice new TV for his bedroom. Since then, he has it going almost every night all night, from 10-11 PM to 6-7 AM. It sounds like it's directly up against that wall we share, which has minimal noise insulation to begin with. I meas...
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{ "description": "being mad at my sister for telling mom I was \"stealing\" things from her house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my sister for telling mom I was “stealing” things from her house
(Sorry for bad English) So my mom and I are neighbors. We often come over and borrow things without asking, but return them fast(we leave a note) So I was sitting her house while she was on vacation. My sister was at my place while I made dinner. I noticed I was low on tomato sauce, so I just went next door and took...
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{ "description": "telling my mother I don't love her", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mother I don't love her
I [21F] have always had a rocky relationship with my mother [late 40s]. Ever since I can remember, her behavior towards me can suddenly switch from caring to abusive and negligent. (Straight-out ignoring me, attacking me physically and/or verbally as a way of '*parenting',* using sensitive/personal information I pr...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends to team against me in board games", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my friends to team against me in board games
I'm pretty good at the board/card/tabletop games my friends and I play. Mostly Dnd, munchkin, four souls, and Monopoly. As a result of this my friends have taken to pseudoteaming against me in order to beat me. Am I the asshole for thinking this is unfair and unfun for me and wanting them to just play the game normally...
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{ "description": "pushing my friend to make the mother of his child take better care of herself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pushing my friend to make the mother of his child take better care of herself?
i just want to start by saying this is a very stupid situation and exactly why children shouldn’t have children. my friend, we’ll call him T, (21) knocked up one of his friends bc there was a possibility she couldn’t have children in the future. about a month or two ago, (she’s about finished with her pregnancy now) ...
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{ "description": "not paying a friend back who decided not to come to my bachelor party", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not paying a friend back who decided not to come to my bachelor party
This is very current and still playing out... but here are the details. I am gettin married in August and having a July Bachelor party in one of my favorite places... Colorado. My best man and I have been planning the party for months. Getting reservations at restaurants, finding airfare, doing research on things t...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she doesnt get to tell me what to do", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesnt get to tell me what to do?
Recently I bought a new computer desk for myself. I also have plans to move in with my girlfriend in about 5 months. This morning however she texted me saying "Don't buy anymore furniture until we move in together" I had no plans to buy anymore furniture and this is the first time I've bought new furniture since she an...
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AITA If a girl asks me to be in a relationship and I don't respond.
So for context one day I get a friend request on Facebook, I am bad remembering names so this one girl sends me a request on Facebook. I check that she is friends with some people I know at the place I do my piano practice so I accept. She starts talking to me on messenger and I ask what class she is taking at the mus...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date my Special Ed classmate, then telling him off for asking me out", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wanting to date my Special Ed classmate, then telling him off for asking me out?
First post, and on mobile, so sorry about that! Also this story is long, but I'll try to keep it short. To sum up the 'special Ed" part, this guy's been in special education class for most of his life and was put into normal classes only recently. He has trouble controlling his anger and doesn't always understand the ...
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{ "description": "not going into work because I couldn't reach anyone in scheduling", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going into work because I couldn’t reach anyone in scheduling?
AITA for not going into work today? So, I just started a new job at a store a couple of weeks ago. They post a schedule outside of the office weekly and it runs from Thursdays to Wednesdays. Well, I worked yesterday and took a picture of the schedule really quick on the way out to check later and see what time I wor...
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{ "description": "killing my friends roommate tarantula", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for killing my friends roommate tarantula?
Okay, so I went over to my friends house to help him build some small planting boxes. It was fast and so we had a few beers and rolled a few nice joints. We were just chilling with his roommate smoking watching a baking show (yes, really) and for some reason they had bugs in the cake. Anyway, my friends roommate mentio...
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